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TABLE OF CONTENTS CAMPUS

Elementary education major says degree teaches her lessons for life

Joseph Smith actor visits BYUH to promote teen outdoor therapy program

Student workers voted as “spreading the aloha spirit” share how they convey cheer

Terrorism professor gives convocation on the Perils of Extremism

Kaneohe-based Muslim leader reaches out to Ke Alaka‘i to condemn Islamic extremism

Author of President Monson’s biography shares stories at women’s luncheon

New club catches, feeds, and neuters stray cats in Laie

Polynesian-influenced pavilion under construction near science classes

Student parents of babies say balancing family life while going to school is worth it

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Petition to save banyan tree from being cut down receives more than 1,400 signatures

Residents say student efforts to get to know community could build better relations

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Spencer Grubbe comes back to church through help of BYUH friends

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THURSDAY-SATURDAY Fall Play: “The Honorable Urashima Taro” in the McKay Auditorium at 7:30 p.m.

Carolina Cruz starts clothing company to empower women in Mexico

42 Local boy Paul Muti battles cancerous brain

Swimming with dolphins on West Side can disrupt the animals’ sleep cycles

48 Study shows people are happier when they pay for experiences rather than things

Elder Ballard’s talk on get-rich-quick schemes sparks debate on MLMs

CULTURE

Planning out talking points can help avoid awkward conversations at holiday dinners

Mongolian students explain family meaning behind names

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SATURDAY Food Fest at the Flag Circle from 5 to 10 p.m.

tumors, hopes to attend BYUH

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THURSDAY Great Ideas Competition. Presentations from 8:3011:30 a.m. at Hawaii Journey Theater. Awards ceremony at 3:45 p.m. in HGB 273.

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FRIDAY-SATURDAY Broadway Revue concert in the McKay Auditorium at 7:30 p.m.

WEDNESDAY Evening of Concertos in the McKay Auditorium at 7:30 p.m.

WEDNESDAY Christmas lighting at CAC 150 at 6 p.m.

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BYU-Hawaii students said planning what, when and where to shop will help Black Friday shopping be more successful B Y E M M AL E E SM I TH

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She said there are aggressive people on Black Friday. To avoid confrontation and arguing, she said, “Plan on exactly what you want and look up alternative parking places in case it’s so crowded you can’t find a place to park.”

“Go to Waikele mall, because it’s already a cheap outlet store and [during Black Friday] it’s even cheaper.” Pearlridge mall is another good place to go, he said. “Go with a group of people and don’t get stressed out.” He said Christmas shop early before prices go up.

“Pick one big item and base everything off of that.” He said if you pick multiple items, you’re more likely to get things you don’t need. He said, “Go early to get in line.” Also, keep track of time stamps in case Walmart or somewhere is releasing things on hourly marks.

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“Make a list of what you need and rank everything.” On her Christmas shopping list is buying nice shoes. “If you’re like, ‘Ohh, I’m not sure about that price?’ then buy it on Black Friday. But stay away from Walmart. It’s crazy. That’s where all the crazy people are and I stay away from crazy people.”

She advised to go early and first to the stores that say while supplies last and go to the others during the day so you’re not worrying about an item being sold out. “Be careful and be really, really nice to the workers. They’re suffering. But don’t spend too much because Cyber Monday is right around the corner.”

“If you don’t like to stay in line, wait for Monday.” Schwenke said he buys things he doesn’t normally buy the rest of the year. “I buy shoes, especially Italian leather shoes and sports shoes.” He said the Italian leather shoes go for over $100 normally, but he can find them on Black Friday for around $50.

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in this section A day in the life of elementary education major Melisa Tobono Actor Nate Mitchell promotes outdoor therapy program at BYUH Student workers explain how they spread the aloha spirit on the clock Terrorism professor says extremism comes from isolation and refusing criticism

Kaneohe-based Muslim leader says extremist groups are not representative of true Islam

Student parents say having a baby is worth the struggle while in school

Author of Thomas S. Monsonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s bio shares stories of the prophet

Petition arises to save banyan tree from being cut down to make space for new cafeteria

New club catches, feeds, and neuters stray cats; puts kittens up for adoption

Polynesian-influenced pavilion being constructed in McKay complex

Residents say student efforts to get to know community could build better relations

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Melisa Tobon

Elementary education B Y B RO O K LYN RE D D Melisa Tobon says she chose to be an elementary education major so she could inspire kids to love learning. Photo by Alvin Dy

Melisa Tobon, a senior majoring in elementary education from Colombia, said the program has not only taught her how to teach children, but also “teaches you. There are a lot of things you get to keep for yourself. If I don’t teach, because I’ll become a mother, I know I have grown a lot and learned things that will help me personally.” 8

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What made you decide to study this major? Growing up, Tobon said her parents raised her to love school and learning. However, some of her fellow classmates did not have people who helped motivate them, so they ended up not going to school or doing their homework and had a more difficult life. “I had a lot of really good teachers growing up and saw them believe in their students. That made a big difference in their lives. I want to be an elementary teacher because I know I can believe in the students, and I want to be the one who can encourage them so they can realize they can do anything.”

What makes your major unique? “It is not doing the same thing over and over again. One day you may teach about photosynthesis and then the next day you may teach about rainbows, multiplication, or times tables. “I think it is a very selfless major. It is not one where you think so much about yourself but you are thinking about others. “When you learn how to teach you learn how to express yourself, manage your time, and listen. These skills may not be developed as much in other majors.”

What do you want to do with it? “I always thought about being an international teacher. Not many people know about Colombia, and I feel as a teacher I could be a good influence. There are a lot of kids in a lot of different parts of the world that don’t get to meet someone from Colombia… I feel I can give them an opportunity to know about the world and what’s out there.” She speaks Spanish, English, Portuguese, and American Sign Language and is currently learning Japanese. She wants to be able to speak as many language as possible so she can help different students.

Number of people in the major According to the Education Program Lead Ammon Wilcken, there are 110 students enrolled in the major.

Describe a typical day “There is a lot of preparation before coming to class because you want to participate and learn how to be in a classroom and be ready to ask questions... The assignments always relate to the class. For example, if you learn about water density, you go to class and have an experiment of things floating and sinking. Then after class, you have an assignment on a reflection of what you learned or something to prepare you for the next class.”

Time spent in a day Tobon said she spends 1-2 hours doing homework each day. Weekly, she spend 4-6 hours preparing to teach a lesson and 11 hours observing teachers at Hauula Elementary as part of her observation and practicals (OP).

Pros “I became very creative.You want to make things fun for the students, and you have to really think outside of the box. If I am not going to teach, I have gained that skill in making things fun, interesting, and different. “Another thing is I would work in the morning. I could call it a family-friendly job. It helps your planning skills and time management with having to figure out how to plan a lesson. It teaches you about listening and caring about others.”

cons “You do more than you have to do and that is why people say teachers don’t get paid as much as they should. Being creative also takes a lot of time and some of the materials comes out of your own pocket.You do it all for the students and not yourself.”

Favorite class “Some of the classes I have really enjoyed have definitely been the method classes....You learn how to teach specific subjects and not so much how you would teach. For example, I am taking the math methods class right now and we are learning about fractions.We learn to not just stand up in front of the board and tell them everything, but you actually want them to try it out, problem solve, and experiment so they can learn the material themselves.”

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Anasazi:

An opportunity for leadership and growth Nathan and Amy Mitchell seek out BYU-Hawaii students to be ‘TrailWalkers’ BY J E S S I CA G O N Z AL E Z L E O N A N D CO U RT N E Y B O W N I E L S E N

athan Mitchell, who is best known for his role as Joseph Smith in the LDS film “The Restoration,” and his wife, Amy, visited BYU-Hawaii’s campus to open the doors for BYUH students to be a part of the Anasazi program, a licensed and nationally accredited outdoor behavioral healthcare provider for troubled teens located in Mesa, Arizona. Nathan Mitchell, the co-executive director for Anasazi, said Anasazi’s mission is to help prepare parents and children to turn their hearts towards one another and to walk in harmony in the wilderness of the world. He said, “Anasazi is like my ministry. I don’t preach any religion, but I do teach people principles of truth, so the program is a spiritual walking.”

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Mitchell explained phrases and names used within the program. Mentors are called “TrailWalkers” and the young people ages 1317 involved in the program are referred to as “Young Walkers.” He and his wife also explained why they’re seeking out BYUH students as trailwalkers within the program. “BYU-Hawaii is unique in their peacebuilding program and I feel like that’s an ability to resolve conflict,” said Amy Mitchell. “That’s a huge strength and they do trainings with their staff at the Polynesian Cultural Center. So, we just keep finding more and more connections while we’re here.” TrailWalkers must be at least 21 years old, single, and are asked to commit to the program for at least four months at a time.

Three letters of recommendation are also required. Gabriela Corbett, a junior from Washington, D.C., studying intercultural peacebuilding, has worked as a TrailWalker and said, “I will compare the Anasazi program as a mission because it was really hard but very rewarding at the same time.You can see the impact, people’s hearts changing. You feel so much love. I made really good friends there.” The Mitchells explained how BYUH students are ideal for the roles as mentors in the program because of their high moral standards and adherence to the Honor Code. “The folks who come to work in Anasazi are going places in their lives,” Nathan Mitchell said. “They just graduated from college or

Nathan Mitchell shows how teens are encouraged to learn about conflict resolution in the Anasazi program through wilderness survival tactics. Photos by Courtney Nielsen

they’re in between semesters so they have some direction and some ambition in their life, and we want that energy to be infused into the Young Walkers. All of the participants, the Young Walkers, are going to be looking up to the TrailWalkers. They’re going to be mentors to them.” Amy Mitchell added, “It does feel like what we call ‘a belonging place.’ So it is a place that they come home to very often.” Réka Bordás-Simon, a senior from Hungary majoring in peacebuilding and psychology, said, “I really liked the internship forum about Anasazi. I think this is one of the best internships psychology, peacebuilding or social work majors can do. Wilderness therapy is an amazing thing.You can change lives with it

and it will change your life too. I recommend everyone to check out what Anasazi does and apply to be a TrailWalker.” Nathan Mitchell advised students interested in the program to become more familiar with the foundation and read “The Anatomy of Peace” by The Arbinger Institute. “That book was written about our program,” he said. “The names have been changed and everything, but all of the stories in there are Anasazi stories, and so, if you’re familiar with that book and if you’ve read it, then you’ll be a step ahead.” TO LEARN

For more information visit www.anasazi.org

“Anasazi is like my ministry. I don’t preach any religion, but I do teach people principles of truth…. and so, the program is a spiritual walking.”

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Aloha

spirit workers Eight on-campus student employees, who were nominated through a post on the Facebook page “I LOVE BYU HAWAII,” share how they spread positivity on the clock B Y GO SU K E KAWAN O

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A senior from Arizona majoring in history education:

A senior from South Jordan, Utah, majoring in international cultural studies:

A sophomore from Hong Kong majoring in international cultural studies:

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He said his work ethic includes being happy and honest, which is something his parents taught him.

“I say the morning-prayer and pray for a good attitude. I try to be happier and optimistic and hope to uplift people.”

“I work the best I can and always smile.”

Goal at the workplace

“As long as there is work to be done, get it done.”

“Making people feel welcomed and comfortable”

Professionalism

“Don’t get worked up over things. Keep a cool head, be polite and respectful.”

“Showing up and being pleasant wherever you are…Present and pleasant.”

What would you like students to know about you

What do you want students to know about you

“I’m comfortable having conversations, debates, I like to talk about stuff, ideas, movies and anything.” He encourages students to take a look at the inter library loan where they can search resources for assignments.

“I just hope people would feel comfortable talking to me.”

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Goal at the workplace

He said he would like to help his coworkers have great experiences learning about the workplace. Professionalism

“To do all you can and provide the best service you can and go extra mile.” What would you like students to know about you

He wants to be the kind of person who can give a sense of happiness to those who work and also stop by his office.

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A junior from Florida majoring in interdisciplinary studies:

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BYUH alumna from South Carolina: Effort

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“Doing what I need to do and also adding to the fun.” Goal at the workplace

“Take on leadership aspects. If I were able to so, I could figure out how I could lead [others] in order to help them become more. Not only to be able to know what they are going to do, but also to be able to teach them how to have fun with the job and customers and bring customer back.”

“This last year I have been into podcasts, wanting to learn everything possible about business, marketing, psychology, and consumer behavior. I’m learning a new language thanks to the library program Mango. I have studied the Lead Like the Savior Program. I write down weekly what I thought I did well and where I can improve. Attending the temple is at the core of being a good worker to me, because it makes me feel balanced and the best version of myself.” Goal at the workplace

Professionalism

She said knowing the difference between goofing off and having fun is the key to becoming a professional. What would you like STUDENTS to know about you

“I want to bring fun and happiness to the Seasider.”

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“I bought a calendar, and I have mini goals for each day, and bigger monthly, quarterly, and yearly goals. I color code everything. Pomelo Travel was established three years ago, and we are working towards this being our biggest year yet. Our biggest goal is to be able to help more people travel affordably.”

What would you like students to know about you

“I’m caring and I follow two philosophies every day that has helped me every step of the way: One from President Hinckley: ‘Our lives, given to us by God our Father, are to be used in the service of others. If we will give such service, our days will be filled with joy and gladness.’ The other is from Ghandi: ‘A customer is the most important visitor on our premises. He is not dependent on us. We are dependent on him. He is not an interruption in our work. He is the purpose of it. He is not an outsider in our business. He is a part of it. We are not doing him a favor by serving him. He is doing us a favor by giving us an opportunity to do so.’”

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AEHYUN JUNG

Student Cook (Seasider)

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A sophomore from Utah majoring in marketing:

A sophomore from Hong Kong majoring in marketing:

A senior from South Korea majoring in psychology:

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Capitan learned customer service skills by “You need to love your job. If you love it, providing a “good first impression” from you would put in your efforts to do it.” his previous job as a salesman. Goal at the workplace

“Lead by example so that workers here can have a positive attitude.”

Goal at the workplace

“I just want to be friends with everyone. If I [were] at the information desk and grumpy, I don’t think anyone would come here to get information.”

He would like to make the quality of the Seasider food better.

Goal at the workplace

“Be friendly to everyone.” Professionalism

Professionalism

“Good ethics and a good attitude.”

“To become a master of something.” As a chef, he said he needs to know a lot about food and its safety.

Professionalism

“To be able to come up with flexible solutions.”

What would you like students to know about you

“Don’t be shy. I’m very outgoing, which makes me easier to talk to. I’m here to be your friend.”

What would you like students to know about you

“If you’re sick of the cafeteria, just come to Seasider and get something.”

What would you like students to know about you

“I think I can make people feel comfortable. If they can come for complaints, I think I can listen to their complaints.”

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Terrorism professor says extremism is when a person isolates themselves Panel Discussion from differing viewpoints and refuses constructive criticism

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xtremism is something everybody can experience, which is why it’s important to look for it in themselves and speak out against it when they see it, said Political Science Professor Brian Houghton at the BYU-Hawaii 2017 Convocation on Sept. 28. Houghton, who is an expert on terrorism, began by talking about a terrorist attack that happened while he was living in Germany. A woman terrorist had killed a soldier and then taken his military ID to plant a car bomb. The bomb exploded and killed two people, injured others, and caused destruction of the surrounding vehicles and buildings. He said he asked himself, “Why would someone do this?” He analyzed terrorist situations and concluded that extremism was the explanation. Houghton said extremism was like a situation when a mother, after hearing the negative and positive views on vaccination, focuses on the negative and eventually becomes so against vaccinations she starts to show intolerance for others who do not share her view. She no longer does it for her children, but for herself, he said, and she is no longer open to the other side’s information or reasoning. Kali Fermantez, associate professor of Hawaiian Studies, was on the discussion panel for the convocation held later in the day. He questioned the definition of the term extremism and if an individual who does not conform to “my normal” makes them an extremist. He gave the example of Mormons and how they could be seen as extremists because they don’t conform to society and have different views than modern cultures. Houghton replied, “[Extremism] is not just about turning away from the mainstream. The key point is not tolerating other viewpoints.” He added showing violence and hatred while not being open to other sides is how extremists act. Houghton answered one question about if Martin Luther King, Jr. was an extremist, “He did seem like an extremist at the time, but the difference is that he had extreme views – he was not an extreme person.” One peril of extremism, he explained, is isolation. Isolation is something that can happen when people start focusing on one side and eventually get so deep into that side they no longer associate or communicate with

“When people start to listen to the lies during times of uncertainty, extensive violence is just a step away.” others of a differing side or opinion. This can isolate people from friends, family, he said, and even God. Houghton said, “We are stronger together with diversity.” Another peril of extremism is the inability to be given constructive criticism and be part of rational conversations. It is important to be able to have a conversation with others and listen to what they have to say instead of just who they are or who they represent. Elvin Laceda, a sophomore studying biology from the Philippines, said, “This is a very timely discussion because of converging opinions of what is wrong and what is right.” He said he likes to look at different views and is outspoken about them on social media. Laceda said one time the Philippine government saw one of his posts and canceled his flight and speech he was to present about his business RiceUp. He said the president and government are so one sided that discussion of other views is not permissible. Houghton explained situations like Laceda’s as an example of a “black and white” view - where a person puts people into a stereotype and nothing people say or do can change that person’s view. This also causes dehumanization. Houghton told a story from post-World War I when Germany was struggling from not

only the taxation of war but also the humiliation of losing it. During this period, some Germans made illustrations of Jews coveting money and giving children candy with bad intentions. In the illustrations, the children figure out the plot and report it to the police who then arrest the Jews. He explained the Germans created the illustrations to deflect some of their difficulties and put the blame of the situation on others. This was just one step towards dehumanization, which led to millions of deaths. Houghton said extremism is a big problem when it becomes mainstream. “When people start to listen to the lies during times of uncertainty, extensive violence is just a step away.” He said one way of staying clear of these perils is staying humble. He said people must exit their echo chambers and seek honest counsel. An echo chamber, he explained, is only listening to your views and those who have your save views. Instead, he advised looking at all the views and various options on subjects. Another way is to speak up. He quoted Martin Niemöller, who was outspoken against the Nazi Germany reign and was imprisoned for it: “First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Socialist. Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Trade Unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.” Houghton said, “Truth does not suffer.You must have courage to act.” This doesn’t always mean protest, he said, but some things must not go unchecked. “Do not tolerate the intolerant.” Xayesi Pastores, a junior TESOL major from the Philippines, said Houghton’s words were thought-provoking. She said she found herself looking back on what she’s done and what she thinks she needs to be doing now to stand up for truth. It’s also important to help those who suffer from extremism, Houghton said. He talked about the LDS program called “I Was Once a Stranger,” which was made to help refugees. “Even though there are no refugees here in Laie, there are still ways in which to help them,” Houghton said. • NOVEMB ER

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True Islam is peace Kaneohe-based Muslim Imam says extremist groups are not following the religion’s ideals or practices B Y CO U RT N E Y B O W N I E L SE N & JE SSI CA GO N ZAL E Z L E O N

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atiullah Joyia, Imam (leader) of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community in Hawaii, reached out to the Ke Alaka‘i after the recent terrorist attack in New York City to make a statement on behalf of the Muslim community in hopes to broaden people’s understanding of the religion. “I would like to express our deepest condolences to the family and friends of the victims of these eight and others as well,” Joyia said. “We have always condemned these acts of horror and brutality.” Joyia said there are misconceptions in the media concerning the Muslim faith while explaining how hurtful it can be to the hundreds of Muslim communities when ignorant remarks are made grouping all Muslims together. “Our main purpose is just to create awareness and also try to tell people that whatever is going on unfortunately in the Muslim world is not what Islam is all about,” he said. “Just to label the 1.5 billion people who make up 25 percent of the human race with just these extremist is not fair,” Joyia said. “The extremist are totally wrong. There’s no reason for them to be doing these things. They are very small in number compared to the whole [number of Muslims in the world] when you take the ratio. “The extremists are using or manipulating some of the verses in the Quran for their political agenda, and with almost all the religions, and unfortunately a lot of people don’t like being religious because of this fact that religion has been manipulated. In the Quran there are certain verses if one does not Continues on Page 20

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know the background of the stories and did not read what is before those verses or after those verses, they can be misleading.” Joyia said there are different denominations of the Muslim faith throughout the world. These groups are established in every continent. Traditions and practices vary from country to country and place to place just like Christianity. “There are more than a dozen Muslim countries and every country is totally different,” he said. “Unfortunately, a lot of people look at one Middle Eastern country and they think this is what Islam is. That’s wrong. That’s what we’re trying to tell people. Please don’t judge everybody because of what’s happening in that conflicted area.” Joyia is the Imam of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community, which is one of the dozens of denominations within the Muslim faith. “We are very similar to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day saints in many ways,” Joyia explained. “We’re called the Mormons of Muslims.You guys are called the Ahmadiyya of the Christians.” Joyia explained how their founder, Mirza Ghulam Ahmad was a prophet born in 1835 that Muhammad prophesied would come in the latter days. He was a reformer towards the end of the 19th century and is referred to as the “divinely guided one” or “Madi.” “We claim our version of Islam is the real version of Islam that was brought by the prophet Muhammad,” he said. “Which is a peaceful and tolerant and harmonious religion” The Ahmadiyya Muslim Community is now found in 210 countries of the world. Their motto is “love for all, hatred for none.” “So our community is actually lead by our international leader we call him the Khalifah of Islam or the Khalif of Islam,” Joyia said. “His name is Mirza Masroor Ahmad and he lives in London, and we have tens of millions of followers. So we all pledge our allegiance to him.” When asked what people outside of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community can do to better educate themselves concerning their faith, Joyia suggested to go to the two main sources that are the Quran and its official website. 20

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“I will recommend them to go to trueislam.com in which lists 11 points that a true Muslim believes in,” Joyia explained. “They can actually even go and endorse themselves for those 11 points Islam believes in equality and rejects aggression.” He went on to talk about the teachings found within the Quran. “I’ll say the best thing is to go to the original source and read the Quran. I distribute

free copies of the Quran. It mentions love and compassion hundreds of times. It shows how we should treat everybody around us. It has teachings for our family members, our neighbors, the sick, the poor, the rich; it has a teaching for everyone.” According to the Associated Press, eight people were allegedly killed by a 29-year-old Uzbekistan immigrant on a bike path just blocks away from the World Trade Center. •

Police and firefighters work along the west side bike path in lower Manhattan, New York, Wednesday, Nov. 1, 2017. Photo from AP

Lessons of service Heidi Swinton, author of President Thomas S. Monson’s biography, share her personal experiences with President Monson B Y PATRI CK CAM P B E L L

Director of the La’ie Temple Visitors Center, Elder Jeffrey Swinton and Sister Heidi Swinton take a photo after her talk at the BYU-Hawaii Women’s Organization luncheon in October. Photo by Olivia Tsan

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ister Heidi Swinton shared stories from her experience of writing President Thomas S. Monson’s biography, which reminded others to listen to the spiritual promptings to serve, said Emily Plicka, president of the BYUH Women’s Organization. Swinton said, “If there’s anything I learned from President Monson, it’s that I could be better about responding to the promptings of the Spirit, which is the Lord saying, ‘Do this for me, and do it right now.’” Swinton spoke to the members of the BYU-Hawaii Women’s Organization at their monthly luncheon held in the BYUH ballroom in October. Plicka said she had been looking forward to this luncheon because of President Monson’s absence at General Conference. The opportunity allowed her to get to know the president of the church on a more personal level. Plicka also said she felt a personal desire to serve more. “People sometimes forget [the organization’s] main purpose is to provide service, not just to be a social club. Friendship is part of our mission but service is the most important. “When you feel like you can do something good for someone, don’t hold back. I was thinking of someone in my life, a friend that I needed to get in touch with, and I’ve been busy.” Plicka added, “How many promptings am I getting that I’m not following through on?” Organization member, Darlene Morris said, “I loved it. [Sister Swinton’s] message was inspiring to me. “It was inspiring to me, because she told her story of President Monson coming to her rescue and it was beautifully symbolic of her whole book, ‘To the Rescue.’”

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Swinton began her message by recounting when President Monson first called her to ask if she would accept the assignment to write his biography. At the time, she said she was in the mission home in England with her husband who was serving as a mission president. “I couldn’t imagine why the president of the church would be calling me, and then he just chatted with me as if he had taken a chair out from the kitchen table.

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She said when President Monson asked how she was doing, the important thing was he actually wanted to know. “President Monson loves people. He loves what the lord has placed on this earth in terms of associations and relationships and interaction we have one with another. He’s all about people.” After she and her husband completed their assignment, she was able to return to Utah where she was finally able to begin looking at President Monson’s journals and records.

She explained what she was expecting were details about church administration and events including his travels around the world and the development and work done on the standard works. Instead, she said they talked about people. President Monson wrote what he learned from others and what he talked about with them and how he could help, according to Swinton. “There is something in everyone of our lives that pulls together for us what this is all about and what the Lord would have us do.”

Emily Plicka, president of the BYUH Women’s Organization says the aim of the luncheon is to allow women to enjoy a nice meal, listen to uplifting messages, and serve. Photos by Olivia Tsan

She shared President Monson’s moment of realization occurred while he was a young bishop. He felt prompted to visit a man in the hospital but pushed the prompting aside because he was in a church meeting. When he finally arrived, the nurses told then Bishop Monson the man had been calling for him right before he passed away. “President Monson has a phrase he likes to use whenever he describes how the Lord teaches him, ‘That lesson was not lost on me.’” Swinton said the members of President

Monson’s congregation loved him because, “He was then what he is now. The man that pulls out the chair from the kitchen table. Sits down and asks, ‘How are you?’ and he really wants to know.” She shared a comment she remembered from Elder Richard G. Scott in an interview. He said, “The Lord made President Monson big because of the size of his heart.” She told another story where President Monson asked his driver to stop randomly at a house in Salt Lake City. He walked to the door

and the women who answered was amazed he had remembered it was her birthday, relating to him that no one else had remembered. After singing “Happy Birthday” and about 30 minutes of chatting, he left. His driver asked how he remembered her birthday. President Monson responded he didn’t, but the Lord did. Swinton emphasized how the Spirit had not told him it was her birthday or any other details. He simply felt he needed to stop there and did it. She said, “That’s often what we ask of the Spirit. ‘Make it worth my time.’ It’s always worth your time. Whenever the Spirit prompts us to do something, the Lord is saying, ‘Go on this errand for me.’ What could be more important?” Swinton recounted President Monson would often say, “The sweetest experience of mortality is to know the Lord can call on you and you will go.” She said he has not only always listened but also was always ready to act. She asked the women if they put the Lord’s errands at the top of their to do list. She shared President Monson’s favorite scripture, Doctrine and Covenants 84:88. It reads, “And whoso receiveth you, there I will be also, for I will go before your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left, and my Spirit shall be in your hearts, and mine angels round about you, to bear you up.” When Swinton asked President Monson once what was the biggest difference being president of the church compared to his past assignments, she said, “He looked at me and said, ‘It’s very lonely.’ “Then he brightened up. He has what we call the happy gene, and he said, ‘But you know the Lord is with me. He’s always on my right hand and on my left.” Swinton encouraged the women to ask, “What have we been learning from President Monson that changes who we are today? How do we do things differently?” Swinton shared a personal experience when she was having difficulty with what she called, “the weight of her assignment,” to write his biography. She said, she was near his office working and he stopped and asked her three separate times, “How are you today?” Continues on Page 24 NOVEMB ER

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Each time, she said she responded she was fine and he would leave her to her work. Later he asked her to come to his office. She reached for her recorder and he told her, “Don’t bring that.” She explained, “There is a peace and a calm in his presence and I’m convinced it’s because of who he is and what he knows and how he approaches life. That he has turned his life over to the Lord and he knows that the Lord can make more of it than he can.” She said as she saw him sitting behind his desk, she could see a light and strength from him. “I could see that commitment to our Father in Heaven.” She then recounted this conversation. He asked her, “Are you going to tell me how you’re really doing?” She said her first thought was, “I’ve lied to the prophet of God four times. This is not good.” He asked her, “How can I help?” She wanted to say, “Call Elijah and have his chariot of fire bring me the book,” but instead she just looked at him and shook her head. He responded, “Well here’s what I can do. Every morning when I get up, I’m going to kneel down by the side of my bed and I’m going to pray for you by name and I’m going to ask for the Lord to be on your right hand and on your left. Do you have the faith that will happen?” Swinton responded, “I do.” He enthusiastically responded, “Well, we’ll get this book done. Now what’s next on your list?”

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Swinton then said to the women in the audience, “Do we recognize that the calling down of the powers of heaven on someone we know well or people we don’t know very well at all says to the Lord, ‘I’m right here and I’ll do my part? This is the beginning.’” She continued, “President Monson has done that all his life.” She said if you were in a room and asked the question, ‘Who has an experience where President Monson changed their life?” the hands go up. “I can say for myself, President Monson that day changed my life.” Later when the book was almost completed, she and President Monson met to discuss a title. They went through pages of names and were struggling to find a good fit. After making it through the list, he suggested they go through it another time. He said, “Maybe it will jump out at us.” As they started reading down the list ,Swinton said, “Into my mind and into my heart came the words, ‘The name of the book is “To The Rescue.’” “I just blurted out, ‘The name of the book is “To the Rescue.”’ We both looked at each other and went, ‘Yes!’” She said, “The significance of that was I knew where it came from, and I knew I was on the Lord’s errand, and I knew the Lord was helping me.” She said, “President Monson likes to say, ‘When you are on the Lord’s errand, you are entitled to the Lord’s help.’” She concluded, “When we respond to a prompting, we are standing up before the

When Swinton asked President Monson what was the biggest difference being president of the church compared to his past assignments, she said, “He looked at me and said,‘It’s very lonely.’ “Then he brightened up. He has what we call the happy gene, and he said,‘But you know the Lord is with me. He’s always on my right hand and on my left.”

FUTURE LUNCHEONS December 7, 2017 11:30 - 1 PM January 11, 2018 11:30 - 1 PM Heidi Swinton said following up on promptings from the Lord shows him people are willing to be stand up in front of the world and do God’s work. Photo by Olivia Tsan

world, before Him and saying, ‘The Lord is on my right hand and on my left, and I’m on his errand.’” LUNCHEONS: A RESPITE FOR WOMEN

The luncheons are held to raise donations for the BYUH Women’s Organizations Student Textbook Scholarship Fund, according to Pilcka. She said, the donations help “students in deep financial needs.” Each luncheon the women, “invite students who have been our Textbook Scholarship Fund to speak to us and share their stories,” said Plicka. Member Pria Hester said, “I work in the bookstore, and it’s so nice to see students come in with their scholarships.” “They’re so happy,” she said as she imitated a student holding books with a big smile. In a video presented during the luncheon, the highlighted student, a woman from the Philippines majoring in psychology, said the scholarship was helping her pursue her dream to assist those suffering from depression and mental disorders in her home country. Plicka added the luncheons also “provides a space for intellectual and spiritual uplift, friendship, and service opportunities.” “For a lot of women, they feel isolated maybe because they’re at a stage in life where they’re in intensive child care, because they have a lot of children at home, or maybe they’re new to our community.” While the donations are a great service Plicka emphasized, “It’s really important for

women to sit down and have a nice meal and visit with other women and get to listen to an uplifting message. It recharges your battery and it helps you go back to whatever you’re doing in your life.” Plicka said the luncheons could be a respite in the middle of the month for some of the women. “In our culture, women give so much, but sometimes women aren’t as good at taking time for self care,” said Plicka. “These luncheons provide an opportunity for these women to practice some self care so then they feel better and they can do the things they want to do. They can give more.” Plicka recounted what she called the ‘‘Bucket Analogy.’’ She said, “If your buckets are empty, you can’t keep pouring into other people’s buckets. “[The luncheon] is a chance to fill up your bucket a little bit. And in ways the church does that. But this is different. It fulfills other needs while the church is more focused on the spiritual.” Plicka said if students want to contribute, they can contact them through the organization’s Facebook or Instagram accounts. They also need volunteer babysitters each month to watch the children of the women who attend the luncheon. Plicka added, “One of the things I love about the luncheons is at every luncheon I walk away feeling uplifted and inspired.” •

February 1, 2018 11:30 - 1 PM March 1, 2018 11:30 - 1 PM April 12, 2018 11:30 - 1 PM May 3, 2018 11:30 - 1 PM Aloha Center Ballroom Babysitting available $2 per child

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A collage of all the cats who have been adopted or helped by the new BYUH Cat Club. Photo by Courtney Bow Nielsen

he BYU-Hawaii Cat Club is seeking students to help control the cat population on campus. The Cat Club catches, feeds, and neuters cats to reduce the cat surplus on campus, said club officials. BYUH Cat Club Vice President Cyra Olsen, a senior from Texas majoring in international cultural studies, explained how Hawaii is the No. 1 state for cat overpopulation, and BYUHawaii is no exception to that problem. According to BYUH Cat Club Advisor Tatyana Lukov, the cat population on campus has never been controlled because cats were being caught and killed, which didn’t fix the problem. Olsen said, “We want to help moderate the cat population, and fix the adult cats that already have territory 26

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on campus so that more don’t come in and make the cycle continue. We also get kittens fixed and adopted out.” Lukov said, “Very often, not only students, but also people are just annoyed and they say, ‘Stop feeding the cats,’ but if you don’t feed them, then they’ll go to more fertile places where they can find food and won’t stay here. We want them to stay here, because they’re already fixed and they will not allow other cats to come. They keep their territory.” According to the BYUH Cat Club President Lilly Otbontuya Tumursuki, a freshman from Mongolia studying molecular biology, the club was founded this year and had 44 members sign up at World Fest. She explained how the club needs student’s help in fund raising and feeding the cats on campus.

“Cat food is expensive, and we need to feed the cats because it’s helping the school,” Tumursuki said. “We want to raise the funds to help.” She explained how fund raisers would provide help to pay for cat food, medical expenses and traps. Lukov said she has been paying the costs out of her own pocket. Since February, she has trapped 42 cats and kittens on her own and taken them to the Poi Dogs and Popoki clinic to be fixed. She also explained how the younger kittens are put up for adoption, while the older ones are put back on campus to keep other cats out. “All kittens, except two older ones, have been adopted. She said she drives around every single night and feeds the cats, and because of this, she has developed a relationship with the cats on campus. “We are currently feeding 14 on the main campus. Only one is not fixed,” she continued. “But, I’m sure there are many more I don’t know of. That’s why I need help from students who are on campus.” The Cat Club was created to continue what Lukov said she has been doing since February. She explained how time

consuming it can be by herself and how club members can help lighten her load. “It’s really difficult and sometimes I get so discouraged and I feel like there’s no end like I can’t do it anymore,” Lukov said. “It’ll be really helpful to have more people. It’s not a oneperson job. It’s seriously not. It’s overwhelming.” The presidency members said they hope the club will grow and more students will become involved in feeding the cats every night. “We also want to expand and hopefully do more complex activities in the future,” said Olsen. “But right now, we are just trying to establish ourselves as a club and promote our cause to help take care of this beautiful campus and all the creatures that live here as well.” •

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Visit the club’s Facebook Page Campus Cats at BYU-Hawaii or sign up for the Cat Club on Orgsync

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The Polynesian Cultural Center carving crew displays their pavilion project. Photo by Olivia Tsan

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new pavilion is in the process of being built near the math and science building. Randy Sharp, who is the director of the Facility Management Department of BYU-Hawaii, explained his vision of the pavilion as a new comfortable, attractive place for students to relax, study, and eat, while cooperating designs inspired by the Polynesian culture. Sharp said, “The purpose of this project is we want to make the campus more good looking and environment friendly for students so they can have a place with comfortable sitting,

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talking, studying, and relaxing between classes. It is a leisure place for them.” He said he is hoping to continue redesigning four other areas that are ]vacant so students have a place to rest near the McKay building. “The landscape project in the McKay building courtyard has taken place for about 10 months. Based on the progress right now, only three more weeks are needed to finish it. Clean up and benches are the only things left.” In the process of the project, Sharp said he is trying to get an idea of what students prefer in terms of design for each courtyard. “We

are doing the experiment. We would see if the students prefer courtyards, open with sunshine or shade. If the students prefer the courtyard with pavilions providing shade, we would make the rest of the courtyards like this.” Kyle Raney, who works under the Auto CAD and Engineering department for the Polynesian Cultural Center, coordinated the people who were involved in the carvings and designs for the pavilion. “Our part is to follow up with landscaping and the structure of the courtyard. I think the courtyards look beautiful,” said Rainey. “I

think the students would really appreciate how it looks. It would be a great space for them to relax or hang out together.” Sharp said, “The Polynesian Cultural Center volunteered to help, providing missionaries and student helpers who did all of the carvings of the pavilion’s pillars in the courtyard. “Some materials of the project were donated. We also have the help from the missionaries to do the concrete part. The labor part is pretty much free.” People interviewed, mentioned some technical issues and a delay in finishing the project. Raney said, “Drainage issues were being addressed in the space underground. We had to take out the trees so dirt was left. Concrete leftovers were still on the pathway. When we first started, no structures were there. “Miscommunication between BYUH and PCC occurred during the project. The missionaries from PCC came and dug out the holes in order to pour the concrete the next day.”

“But some of the contractor workers from BYUH thought the holes were supposed to be covered up, so they filled them in.” Raney said due to the miscommunication, their design had to be changed and modified. Elder Craig Ames, a missionary who works as an architect for the PCC, said, “The students were involved in the McKay project because they worked in the carving department for the PCC. “The carver department was invited to provide carvings to represent different Polynesian cultures for the pavilion. Ames said there were 10 different cultures being represented, some including Samoa, Tahiti, Hawaii, New Zealand, and Tonga.“The courtyard turned out quite well mostly because of the carving features, which makes it really unique.” Douglas Christy, who is a carver working for the PCC ,said, “I was assigned to do the Fiji pole. The main theme of the pole is flowers as

the Fiji culture has a lot of flowers.” Olive Yee Yee Mon, a senior from Myanmar majoring in social work, said she is working as a carver for the PCC. “I did the New Zealand and Hawaii poles. It was hard to come up with the design at the beginning, but our supervisor has helped us a lot.” The pavilion will not only has poles displaying the diversity of Polynesian culture, but plants will also be cultivated to put into the courtyard. Phil Bruner, a biology professor, added, “In the courtyard, there are two native Hawaiian plants - Kokia and also Nanu, which is an endangered species. Plants from Europe and Asia like taro can be found here.” Sharp said, “I hope the students or the clubs would use the courtyard when the project is done. If there are [at least] 10 students who love it, it is all worth it.” •

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Jun Hee Kim studies while taking care of his 11-month-old daughter. Photo by Olivia Tsan

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arried students with babies shared their struggles to balance school and work while raising a child, but also the blessings and the joy of having a child can bring them. Munkh-Od Altansuk, a senior from Mongolia majoring in information technology and his wife, Bayarsaikhan Amarjargal, another senior from Mongolia majoring in accounting, said they have been married for four years. They came to study at BYUH as a married couple and now have a 6-monthold girl. Altansuk said, “You can imagine how much sleep we get through the night. We took turns taking care of the baby at midnight. When one was tired, another one took the whole night shift. When the baby was hungry, she would get up and we feed her, burp her, and put her back to sleep. The process took an hour and then we slept for two hours…then it was morning already.” The couple shared how they were inspired by church leaders to have a baby, and how it was a difficult decision at first. “We were thinking of having a baby after graduation. My wife used to play volleyball for BYUH. We thought it was good for her to keep playing, and she was supposed to play for one more season. However, as we were constantly praying and watching general conference, President Monson said, ‘Choose the harder right.’ Starting a family is the right thing. It is definitely hard, but it is the right thing to do.” Amarjargal said, “The overall experience was difficult, but definitely worth having. Even though I was tired, when I looked at my baby, I just forgot my pain and how tiring it was.” Altansuk continued, “I just keep reminding myself why we are doing it. We are doing it for our baby. That is the motivation. That is all I can say. “Sometimes you want to go out and have fun with your friends.” He said one of the challenges is sacrificing your own hobbies to take care of your child. “That is your natural man telling you about your selfish side,” he said. “As you think about what matters the most, you would realize that you are actually doing much more important things, not just pursuing your hobby and meeting your temporal needs. That is building up your relationship with your spouse and family in the long run as you are strengthening yourself toward the future. It is all your family and your spouse.

“The words of my friend stuck in my mind when my baby was crying at 4 in the morning and I was really tired. [They said], ‘To be a good dad is really hard, but you have to try.’ I am not the best dad at this moment but I am trying to be… It is not easy at all but definitely worth it.” Delta Ho, a senior from Hong Kong majoring in TESOL, said she has been married for a year and hasn’t had a baby yet. “I have been asked a thousand times about that and our answer was obvious - absolutely not. I answered that without any hesitation. Both of our families supported our decision.” Ho said she has heard stories about students in Temple View Apartments who got pregnant but had miscarriages “due to the pressure caused by a tremendous workload from school and work during pregnancy. It is tough to have so many responsibilities at the same time: take care of babies, cook, work, school… I also have to take good care of my body before I give birth to a baby. “That would be a harmful influence on the development of babies if they are raised in a problematic family with chaos. Parents cannot handle their duties well and thus conflicts arise.” Nikki Credo Soloa’i, a senior majoring in graphic design from the Philippines, said she has been married for a year and nine months and has a 7-month-old son. She commented on what it’s like to have a baby while studying. “It is fine. “When the baby comes, let it be. We didn’t plan for that, but the baby came. I have seen couples who have three to four children while studying. They can still manage it.” She said she didn’t understand until after she had a baby how difficult it was, but she said she figured out how to manage. “I was still confident enough to multi-task. I didn’t have a choice. I really had to deal with it and I just had to try my best. I set a list and finish the things on the list one at a time. I realized that if I always tell myself I can’t do it, I am just going to lay down there, not doing anything.” Soloa’i shared how her husband’s love and support has helped her in being able to continue to raise their son while attending school and working part time at the BYUH Bookstore. “Having my husband to take care of the baby helped me a lot. In the face of the struggles when we had the baby, at least we still had each other. What kept me going was everyday when I went home, I saw my baby. My stress was released.” •

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he banyan tree located next to the Club Dining Services and barbecue pit is scheduled to be removed to provide space for the expansion of the cafeteria. More than 1,000 students and faculty have signed a petition to save the banyan tree to show their love for BYU-Hawaii and the environment. Elaine McArthur, adjunct instructor in Spanish and a member of the university advisory committee, started the petition. “The tree just can’t get cut down without somebody saying something. I’m pretty sure there’s a design that hasn’t been considered yet. I hope it will be dialogued [to] find a creative solution to keep the tree.” As of Oct. 30, the petition, which is on Change.org, has 1,464 signatures. It says, “We, concerned members of our university ohana, seek to promote designs for the cafeteria, that includes the safeguarding and conserving of the special old tree of ours as a central feature of our beautiful campus. McArthur said she believes there’s a way to design the new cafeteria around the tree. She explained, “The idea is to preserve the tree... We just seek to promote a design for the cafeteria that includes the tree; work with the space they have and rethink it.” The petition seeks to promote some alternatives to keep the beautiful feature of the tree, she added. “It is not logical to think that the only place to build the cafeteria is by cutting down the tree... Buildings come and go, but you can’t recreate trees.” Dixie Johnson, a senior studying international cultural studies from Idaho who digitized the petition, said the banyan tree holds a lot of memories because it has been planted as long as the campus has been around. She said the tree gives the campus character and beauty that cannot be immediately replaced. “On our petition, there are people who talked about the tree when they were little kids. They played around the tree and people would also come and have picnics under the tree,” Johnson added. McArthur shared, “In my 22 years here, I’ve walked around it almost every day, and our kids played under it. I talked to community members about the tree, and the kids said, ‘Oh, The broccoli tree!’ The tree is distinctive. It has a name.”

“The idea is to preserve the tree. I feel like it’s a design problem we haven’t solved yet.We just seek to promote a design for the cafeteria that includes the tree.” Elaine McArthur One comment from someone who signed the petition says, “If Waikiki can build malls around old, majestic banyan trees, then BYUH can figure out a way to work the cafeteria around this beautiful piece of history.” Phillip Bruner, an associate professor of biology, said he signed the petition even though he thinks the fate of the tree won’t change. “The thing is we don’t have the power to change things, but we can at least be heard. People have the right to voice out their opinion on what’s going on around here.” Bruner suggested the cafeteria be built next to the road instead. “Besides the historical value of the tree, I’m also concerned on the shade people could get from it. If they start cutting down trees, then what do we have for shade?” Johnson said, “We’re keeping it up. It’s not over. We just want people to be open minded about other possibilities of expanding the cafeteria without sacrificing the tree.”

Not all of the BYUH community supports keeping the tree. John Tippetts, a senior information systems major from Nevada, said he would be sad to see the tree removed but is fine with its removal. “I don’t really understand why the student body is up in arms about its removal. I pass by this tree all the time, and it’s not like it’s a focal point on campus. Nor is it a place where people hang out. It’s tucked away in a corner that is not really used.” Tippetts pointed out the banyan tree isn’t native to Hawaii but was introduced in the late 1870s. “Also, the root systems of the banyan tree are huge and can cause significant damage to the foundations of the buildings nearby.” Some are indifferent towards it being cut down. Dr. Russel Carlson, professor of Mathematics, said he feels it isn’t an old or endangered tree. “It’s not even native to Hawaii. It doesn’t have special cultural significance to BYUH, as far as I know. “I don’t like cutting down trees in general, but I don’t see any special reason to save that particular tree.” Tippets said his support for the removal comes from his support for the school’s mission. “Our school is growing and is updating the facilities here on campus, which means that it will be able to continue to offer an incredible education to people from all over the world for many years to come. I think it is important to preserve nature when and where it can be preserved reasonably, but I think that in this case money could be better spent in other areas.” Tippetts offered a possible alternative where the school uses the wood from the tree to make benches and tables for the campus, or commemorative plaques and pens students and alumni could purchase. If the petition had asked for donations to raise funds, Tippets thinks it would be more credible because the tree requires lots of money to maintain. “I think that if they can raise the money to save it, that would be awesome.” In regards to possible solutions regarding the tree, Johnson suggested there are lots of people to get in contact with. She said, “Sister McArthur knows an arborist, and he found a way to protect trees along the highway. They were going to destroy the roads and cut down the trees, but he found a way to preserve both the road and trees.” •

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Locals and members of the campus ohana said getting to know each other better will help build unity in Laie. Photo by Monica Rubalcava

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he need for BYU-Hawaii students to make an effort to get to know and understand members of the community, said a peacebuilding instructor, was brought up again after a post titled, “Example of BYUH student” on the Facebook page “Sell your stuff @ BYU-Hawaii,” caused friction between the campus and locals. Posted on the page was a picture of a young female riding on her skateboard while holding a rope connected to a jeep, with comments posted below it from community members critizing students. However, the staff at the Office of Honor said they were unable to identify the girl as a student. Similarly, a community member from Laie, Tofamamao Taulogo, said, “Everyone can’t be sure if they were actually BYUH students and we shouldn’t be attacking each other. We need to find the root of the problem and the solution. Whether they were students or not, we should handle it a better way.”

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Taulogo added, “We were here before BYUH. We would love [the students] to stay, but it’s our home and [we] will protect it.” Camron Stockford, a middle school teacher at Wheeler Intermediate and BYUH alumni, commented on withholding judgment on the person who posted on Facebook as well. “Meanwhile, don’t assume the one who posted the picture is a terrible person. I feel like some people who commented were bagging on the university and the students.” Stockford urged people to “learn to ask questions” and gather information before jumping to conclusions. BYUH student and Community Field Director Viliame Talanoa, who is in charge of organizing service projects for the community, said the relationship between BYUH and the community is good. “We have held many service projects in the past, such as feeding the homeless, helping the food bank, and cleaning the cemetery.” However, to prevent future conflict, Peacebuilding Instructor David Whippy

said students should remember “people remember bad things more than good things. It’s human nature. One bad case could make the community feel all students are like that. So, even if we do a lot of service projects and help others, when [the community] sees a different side of the students, it can change their perception.” Whippy said students should learn to respect the land and home of Laie. “We are on a quest to go and learn about the community, and understand each other’s perspective and culture.” Taulogo added, “Get to know the community. Find out what is important to them and know their culture. Know who they are.” Stockford said students and the community should work together. “We have the consistent amount of students who come in without cultural sensitivity. [Students] need to realize it’s a different place and not assume it will be like being back home, and at the same time, the community should be patient with them.” •

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Study shows people are happier when they spend money on experiences rather than things

General Conference talk on get-rich-quick schemes opens debate about validity of MLMs

Friends and faculty at BYUH help Spencer Grubbe become active in LDS Church

Mexican clothing company empowers women through employment and authentic branding Local boy Paul Muti shines as an example to his family after battling cancerous brain tumors

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Spencer Grubbe says the No. 1 reason he returned to the LDS Church was because the gospel is inclusive and teaches others to be kind. Photo by Alvin Dy

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pencer Grubbe, a senior from Oregon studying music, shared his experiences on why he came back to the LDS Church after he fell way from the church at the age of 17. Born as a second child of five to his parents, the Grubbe family was active in the church. Both his parents had callings, and his father was in the bishopric. They all attended ward activities and knew almost everyone since they moved to different wards within the city. Grubbe said when he was in the eighth grade, his parents decided to end their marriage, which led his dad to become less active to the point where he decided to take his name off the church records. Grubbe said he and his brothers began to be less active even though their mom stayed active in the church after the divorce. When he was 17 years old, he thought, “Maybe, the church is not for me.” He said he thought about how the church split his family apart and how his other relatives, who are not a part of the church, were fine. Grubbe said after his decision, he started distancing himself from the beliefs, and his church friends. When Grubbe first came to BYU-Hawaii he considered himself a non-Mormon with his disbelief of church doctrine. He said he didn’t attend church. But after his arrival to BYUH, he said wonderful friends welcomed him. Reflecting on the experience, he said, “I was really lucky to find really good group of awesome friends.” He said his friends and he were “all connected well,” and they hung out all the time. Makyla Goudie, a junior from Utah majoring in hospitality and tourism management and business, said, “Spencer is a fun, very intelligent guy. We automatically became best friends because he was so friendly and sociable.” Although Goudie had fun with Grubbe, she began to notice he was always “looking for more.” She said, “He constantly

is looking for the deeper meaning behind everything, and I think that included spirituality and the gospel.” Grubbe said he felt a good influence through the interaction with his LDS friends, which paved the way for him to rediscover the meaning of what he was seeking in his life. “After I hung out with my close friends, I understood they wanted to keep being with me, regardless of what my beliefs were. I believe they learned that from the church. The gospel is very inclusive and it teaches that we must be kind to others.” He acknowledged this as the No. 1 reason for returning to the church. Goudie said, “I remember the day [Grubbe] called me and told me about the prayers he had started up again and how it felt all so different this time. I know that Spencer was feeling the Holy Ghost and that the void he runs into occasionally was being fulfilled on his journey coming back to church.” Grubbe said, “They were perfect examples of loving people unconditionally even though they thought I was not a Mormon. They just thought that doesn’t matter. It’s all about loving people and doing what you can to make them feel included. So that was really cool.” Isaia Mafi, a sophomore psychology major from Colorado, said Grubbe and he were roommates and used to hang out every day. “He was really respectful of the church. Even though he didn’t claim himself as Mormon, it was obvious he knew a lot. I accepted that, but he was always willing to go to church. He even made sure I went too. “I remember the night he told me that he was actually a member, and I think it was something he had been pondering a lot. I was of course happy to hear that he wanted to become closer to the church again, and I can see that today still. “I will see him at church, and other meetings on his own accord because now he knows how he feels about it. He is the type of guy you would want as a Young Men’s leader. He’s fun, understanding, and generally just a good guy.” Continues on Page 38

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“...my biggest piece of advice is to stick to what you believe. If you do that, you will know what is right for you and you will know what you have to do to live a good life.” Since Grubbe came to BYUH, he said he has been a part of the Concert Choir and has been a beneficiary of other social and spiritual influences through the music he was involved in. Grubbe said the spirit he felt while singing various religious songs as a part of the choir was “undeniable.” “[Having] been in the choir and seeing the amazing effects the music has on people’s lives spiritually, I think that was a really big factor, feeling the Spirit.” He added, “Choir Director Brother Belnap is the coolest guy ever. He was another example of loving people and just being awesome.” Reflecting on his experiences on coming back to church, he shared advice on those who are not Mormons or have fallen away from the church.

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He said, “To those who are not Mormons, believe what you want to believe. I’m not going tell you what to do. If you’re interested in the church, sure, learn about it.” “For people who may be falling away,” he said, “[The] gospel is perfect, but people in the church are not necessarily. So that experience can stink, and maybe you have had a few bad experiences that really turned you away from the church. “If you decided that you don’t want to participate in the church, I mean that is your choice, and that’s totally fine. But I guess for everyone, even people who have fallen away or still active in the church, my biggest piece of advice is to stick to what you believe. “If you do that, you will know what is right for you and you will know what you have to do to live a good life.” After going through these experiences and counting the blessings he has received from coming back to church, he said, “I’m a strong believer in integrity. People in my life have been the greatest example of that, sticking to what they believe. I think the strongest example of that has come from people in the church, and I think it’s a big part of what we believe. “If you’re ever in doubt, you can go to the Book of Mormon or pray, and [there are] other things you can do to search for that. I like that there [are] a lot of resources and people you can talk to. That’s something I really like about the church.” •

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arolina Cruz, a freshman from Mexico studying business, said she is using her passion for designing dresses to start up a fashion business to help women in Mexico feel authentic, empowered and unique. The company’s name is Beristain clothing and it has a Facebook page where people can order its products, and an email (berisclothes@ gmail.com) for inquiries. “We’re building a website where we will put a short description about our products like dresses, blouses, shoes, and wallets,” said Cruz. Cruz said her first exposure to design was when she worked with a group of women in Mexico. She said they liked her style of putting flowers together and how she studied and incorporated her culture. “I told them I wanted to come to BYU-Hawaii because I wanted to fulfill the school’s mission - ‘Enter to learn, go forth to serve.’” The reason behind her desire to create her own business started when Cruz was in middle school. She said, “Since I was a child, I always wanted to help people. And even though I didn’t have the opportunity to serve a mission, I’ve wanted to help people. I think [a business] is the best way to do that.” Despite the many opportunities Mexico has, she said the government doesn’t spend much money on education. “We have a great land. I saw a lot of people who live in rural areas and they don’t have many opportunities. Most women have a lot of talents and I wanted to do something with it,” said Cruz. Cruz discussed her trip to Mexico where she visited women who make the dresses. She said the women eventually became independent and they believe in themselves now. “We went to one of the oldest towns in Mexico, and women are the head of the family. They work, they have a little fruit store, and they stay with their kids. But sometimes they don’t see how strong they are. That’s why we aim to empower them through recognizing their work and talents.” James Astle, a BYUH alumnus from California, helps Cruz with branding and market-

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ing. Astle commented on the mission if Cruz’s business. “[It] is perfect because she’s helping them with what they already do and expand their skills. They get more exposure so they can go ahead and make more money off what they’re naturally talented at.” Incorporating the Mexican culture was important to Cruz. She emphasized, “I really like my culture. I always wanted to share that with everyone and the best way to do it is through fashion.” She said she decided to put together a business that combined traditional and modern fashion. “Each of the clothes is handmade, but it’s not just a simple dress. If you wear this dress, you represent women from Mexico who have worked so hard. “I love my country. I want to give Mexicans the opportunity they can have here in the United States without having to leave Mexico.” Cruz explained they’re not only selling dresses, they also care about the people, and each dress has its own story. “We just don’t focus on producing clothes. We can find big companies who can do it faster, but I maintain a relationship with my workers. We want to increase the awareness of people that they’re not only buying clothes but also dreams and hopes of women in Mexico.” Cruz said she wants to help women realize their great potential through designing. “I want to let consumers know that when they buy a dress, they’re helping someone. Also, my business makes a connection to the families of my workers. One grandmother taught her daughters to do embroidery.” Astle said he likes Cruz’s business idea of not just designing clothes but incorporating Mexico’s authentic and indigenous culture, which he could relate to. “I myself like to design clothes and I’ve always been interested in indigenous culture and clothing. Carolina’s business has tons of potential here in the states because there’s a story behind each dress she designs.” Cruz said her fashion business is different and lets women feel empowered and good

“I love my country, I want to give Mexicans the opportunity they can have here in the United States without having to leave Mexico.”

Cruz says her business lets women in Mexico share their authentic designs. Photo by Dorothy Ng

because no one else will own it. “Here in the United States they have big fashion companies, like Forever 21, that are very popular. I was observing how everyone is wearing the same thing. I wanted to be unique.” One of Cruz’s models, Abby Boswell, a sophomore studying physics education from Canada, said, “I think the [business] suits the school motto, ‘Enter to learn, go forth to serve.’ Women in Mexico don’t realize the talent they have and Carolina is helping them reach their potential through her designs where she’s able to help them practice and expand their talents and skills. “The project gives women a sense of autonomy and independency saying that they have a skill and knowledge that can turn to an opportunity [for] themselves.” Boswell said she feels honored to model for Beristain clothing. “The fact that she’s step-

ping out of her way, putting extra time, and coordinating the people and resources without getting anything for herself inspires me.” Cruz said her inspiration is her desire to connect women all around the world. “Behind the dresses is a history, and it is to help women have a better lifestyle. It’s not just for Mexicans, but everyone.” Astle said it is an advantage for Cruz to be able to communicate in English and Spanish. “[Bringing] the authentic culture of the indigenous culture of Mexico here is awesome.” Cruz said she wanted to accumulate money little by little in order to have more experience with small businesses. Cruz and her brother started a restaurant called Pink and Blue where they sold hotdogs and sandwiches. Cruz said she knows she’ll experience ups and downs as part of starting up a business. “You learn from your mistakes. The most

important thing is I have a great partner, my brother. “Because of my desire to start up a business, I kept my idea and everything I did from the beginning. I’ve been working so hard for this many years ago and I don’t want to mess up things. I didn’t want to ask my parents for money. I wanted to do it on my own.” Although the dresses are expensive, Cruz said they are worth it because it takes a lot of time and effort to make one. “It’s all handmade. Also, I want [the clothing] to feel comfortable.” Boswell said, “I don’t know what the fabric is made out of, but it’s super flowy and soft, and it’s not sticky on your skin. It’s perfect to wear around Hawaii, and the embroidery is beautiful.” • TO LEARN

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Laie’s small spiritual giant Resident Paul Muti has been going through cancer treatment with a genuine smile and positive outlook BY G O S U K E KAWAN O

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aul Muti, born and raised from “really good parents” with much love in Laie, was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor when he was only 6 years old and has been going through multiple treatments to get to where he is now. Despite his medical condition, Muti has his eyes set on attending BYUHawaii and getting involved in school life soon. Tia Muti, Paul Muti’s mother, recalled as soon as Paul was diagnosed with the cancerous tumor he had to undergo the surgery. She said, “For him being so young, it was a really scary challenge.” She said after Paul came out of the hospital he had to go through chemotherapy, radiation and a lot of other treatments, which affected things like his vision and balance. Paul said, “My dad really helped me because he was there for me all of the time when I was in the hospital. He was helping me with the things that I couldn’t do, like get some food.” In order to walk again and control his vision to an extent, Tia Muti said he had to go through several therapy sessions to regain his strength. Paul Muti said, “Before I had the brain tumor, I could see clearly and function everything properly. After the procedure, I had to go through [therapy] because my vision got pretty bad.” He said this prevented him from going back to school and he was given lessons at home instead. As time passed, he said he improved and he was able to go back to school. However, not long after his return to school, the doctor told his family they found two tumors in his brain. He had to undergo surgery again in order to treat the new diagnosis. Tia Muti said, “They told us that he wouldn’t live pass 17, but he’s 27. He had to go through the same process again.”

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After having been through a second surgery and more treatments, Paul was again informed about a year ago had he two huge tumors in his head, one in the back and one in the front. He said he was given two options: undergo surgery and cope with the long recovery process, or forgo the surgery and deal with the repercussions. Paul Muti chose the latter. He said, “I really feel like not going to the surgery because right now I don’t feel anything, but I know the effect of it that is going to come. So I’m aware of it. I just strive to hold on and keep surviving.” Tia Muti said, “This time, you always take the chance of changing the person’s life, wheth-

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er you change them to become vegetable or whether you lose them. So this time, we opted not to do the surgery because they told us he is doing great right now, and it might make things worse [if we decided to do surgery].” As of right now, Paul Muti goes to the hospital when he feels pain or if his body gets swollen. Regarding his trials, he said, “I just knew I have to have faith to proceed with the pain and the things I was feeling.” In his situation, he said, others are always reaching out to him. But he said he is always thinking about how he can return the favor and help others, which he said he has learned from relatives who have passed away. “I kind of look beyond stuff and [see] the future,” he said.

I kind of look beyond stuff and [see] the future ...It just made me realize how lucky I am actually.” Paul Muti

He said as he pondered the support he has received from his family, friends and community members, “It just made me realize how lucky I am actually.” When it comes to the gospel, he said, “I feel like it changed my life because of my belief in God and how I applied it.” He said he is always looking for opportunities to give to others by fulfilling church callings and getting involved in service projects to help him “feel good” and be selfless. Paul Muti mentioned an excerpt from the 2017 October General Conference, “Bearers of Heavenly Light,” given by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf where he said he was trying to stay in the light place despite all of his health complications.

Tia Muti said her son radiates this light throughout their home. “He is our home security. He takes care of everybody and things at home. He wished he could have gone to school, but that’s why he is where he is at. He loves his home ward. He’s working at the temple. He loves whatever church assignments are given to him,” she said. She said he takes advantage of all of the opportunities around him. “He loves choir.He loves to sing. He loves to dance. He loves to participate in things of the church and BYUH, and all the new students and friends he meets. They really make his life full,” she stated. Paul has a desire to attend BYUH, and he hopes to “find an eternal companion and get a good education to help [him] be successful.”

Calling his parents great examples in his life, Paul said he would like to become like them by “working at the Polynesian Cultural Center and becoming a music composer.” He said, “I completely understand. I just know that [god’s] plan will be successful in our lives as we live it.” He said he is grateful for the life he lives because he loves the Lord and the how he “made us how we are.” He concluded with his testimony: “I know that the gospel that we are in is true. It really blessed my life to know that Heavenly Father, my family and Laie cares. It really pushes me to learn harder and try to help one another through different things and other stuff. Just simple acts of kindness help me to be more and do more. •

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Enjoying nature within limits Disrupting dolphins during early mornings can negatively impact their sleep time, says conservationist B Y JO RDAN CO RTE Z

wimming with the dolphins on the West Side of Oahu leaves BYUHawaii students in awe, but a lack of respect for the dolphins and their habitat could push them to leave, said Michelle Bennett, a marine biology alumna. According to Bennett, who works with shark conservation group One Ocean Diving, the dolphins come to shore for good reason. “Dolphins are nocturnal hunters, and it’s believed they come into shallow, sandy bays to sleep. This reduces the risk of predation. “Since dolphins need to be conscious in order to breathe, they are only able to rest half of their brain at a time to keep themselves from drowning. Continual rest during the whole day is vital to allowing these animals to sleep.” For this reason, Bennett advised students to be respectful and unobtrusive to the dolphins. “The ocean is their home and you are just a visitor. Learn how to swim without splashing and kicking above the surface. If you dive down, do not dive down directly at the pod. It will disrupt their resting and swimming pattern. I’ve seen many cases of it happening.” Erica Greer, president of the Scuba Diving Association and a junior studying exercise science from Washington D.C., said, “If you see a boat coming, that means the dolphins are there. These huge tourists groups come, and if you see a boat, that means they’ve seen the dolphins.” From Greer’s experience, she noticed the best spot to swim with the dolphins is on the West Side of Oahu, just past Electric Beach. “There is parking all along both sides of the road.You’ll get out and the sand is right there. Just put on your snorkel gear and go out immediately into the water.”

Greer stated that she usually leaves Laie around 5 or 5:30 a.m. to catch the dolphins at the best time. “It is about an hour and a half drive. The dolphins come every morning between 7 and 8 a.m.” When asked about how long the dolphins stay, Greer replied, “At around 8:30 or 9 a.m. they are going to leave. They do not stay too long.” Sophie Acedo, a junior studying communications from Arizona, said she went to see the dolphins around 7 a.m. at Makaha Beach. “The dolphins stay between Makaha, where we were, and Electric Beach. They swim up and down the shore.” Acedo added she was in awe when she saw the dolphins. “I saw two or three at first and they were beautiful animals and were so graceful but playful at the same time. I was seeing them in the wild doing their own thing. “I am almost positive they knew we were there, but they did not care. They kept being playful with no restraints - totally free. They eventually swam away. Then another pod of 25 or 30 came and it was amazing.” When preparing for a first-time swim with the dolphins, Greer and Acedo both advise bringing flippers and snorkeling gear. They also suggested weaker swimmers bring a boogie board too. Greer said not to bring too many items however, since the dolphins are constantly moving and people will need to keep up. Bennett added if people want to continue having dolphins around these areas, not harassing the dolphins is a necessity. She said if people harass dolphins, she would not be surprised if they left and found a new spot to rest. Acedo and Bennett both agreed people should not attempt to touch the dolphins or

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chase them in the wild. They said if the dolphins want to, they will come up to people. Seeing them for the first time, Acedo said she was tempted to touch one but realized “they were in their element and touching them would ruin it.” When Greer compared seeing dolphins in the wild to man-made aquatic attractions, she stated the following, “You can go to Sea Life Park and do it for $200 in a little aquatic tank, or you can go to one of the natural beaches for free and swim with them in nature.” Acedo shared her feelings about being with the dolphins. “The dolphins weren’t told or trained to do anything they did in front of me that day. That was all them - total instinct. What I had seen in Sea World didn’t feel real after experiencing what I did here. My memory of swimming with these dolphins will be with me forever.” • NOVEMB ER

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study done by Dr. Thomas Gilovich, a psychology professor at Cornell University, had concluded people’s happiness comes more from experiences rather than material things. BYU-Hawaii students and faculty also agreed. Zachary Beckstead, a psychology professor at BYUH, said he has encountered situations where he had to choose between spending money on experiences or material things - especially with his family. For example, one time “we have extra money, like a tax return. We could either buy a new TV or some cool gadget, [but] we chose to travel as a family... We wanted to spend our money on the things that are more valuable because of those amazing experiences we have.” As he recalled the memories of travel with his family, he said, “When we look at the pictures with our kids, there is something that connects us. I asked my kids if they would rather have toys. They answered, ‘We would rather go see family back in Utah.’” Beckstead said by choosing to spend time as a family, it has helped them stay close and have bonding experiences. “There is something the experiences do, which is our relationships that are built upon history. “It can also go to another direction where you can have hurt feelings.You can have something you can refer to later on in this life. At some point of your life, you could ask friends or family, ‘Do you remember you did this or you did that?’” In Gilvoch’s experiment, he asked people to report their happiness between when they bought something or experienced it. The results showed people’s satisfaction with the things they bought went down over time whereas their satisfaction with experiences they spent money on went up. He explained in an interview with Fast Company, “You’ll get more happiness spending money on experiences like going to art exhibits, doing outdoor activities, learning a new skill, or traveling.” Kenny Boone Haynie, a freshman from Texas majoring in exercise science, said he was 16 when he realized the importance of saving his money to go on a mission for the LDS Church rather than spending money on a basketball, new shoes, or T-shirts. Haynie said he appreciated the experience he had on his mission, and what made the experience more special was the money he had saved for it. He said if it was not for his mission experience, he would have never learned important things from his mission president. “My mission president has changed my life for the better. He invited me to lose myself in the scriptures and feast upon the words of God.

“As I took his counsel, it changed my whole course of my mission and my life... It was a little incredible experience that has had a huge impact on me.” Haynie shared how his experiences have been more memorable to him than buying things. “Growing up, I have played a lot of sports, but rock climbing is probably the one that is the most expensive. My friends like to buy shoes and clothes. I like that too, but I would also invite them to do rock climbing. “I know it costs a lot more money, but thinking of the memories, it is worth it. I feel like I remember the experiences of rock climbing a lot more than I remember shopping… That’s how you can differentiate between buying a thing or experience.” Beckstead said according to research in social psychology, most people regret their decision after buying something. “People are in fear of missing out, and have the mindset of, ‘I could have bought something better.’ It leads to the sense of emptiness. It doesn’t allow us to have the social need that we have as a human being. “In the perspective of a psychologist, it is fundamental to know that we are very social, and positive experiences drive us outside of ourselves to beauty, nature, and other human beings. “You are always wanting more when you have something nice. It is not just an experience that you have alone.You share it with somebody. That is the qualifier- experiencing with your precious ones.” Lorraine Leung, a senior from Hong Kong majoring in TESOL, said she also would choose to spend money on experiences rather than things. “This is my last semester at BYUH. I have been planning to challenge myself to go skydiving with my family and friends upon my graduation. There is no skydiving in Hong Kong, and it is definitely something exciting and memorable.” Leung said she was struggling to decide to go skydiving or not because of the extremely expensive cost. “I could spend that amount of money on other things. However, I am still doing it. I think it is worth it. I cannot do it anymore when I am back in Hong Kong.” Leung said she believes people who travel are the perfect example of those who understand the impact of an experience compared to buying something. Explaining her thoughts with a Chinese proverb, she quoted, “He that travels far knows much.” “You just have to try something crazy in your life… People who love traveling would understand why. The happiness brought by purchasing things is not the same as gaining a brand new experience that you haven’t had before. The satisfaction cannot be obtained from shopping, which I also really enjoy.” •

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lder M. Russell Ballard, in his most recent General Conference address, warned LDS members of speculation in get-rich quick schemes. “Do not listen to those who entice you with get-rich-quick schemes,” said Ballard. He lamented, “Our members have lost far too much money, so be careful.” BYU-Hawaii Willes Center faculty and community members disagreed whether or not multi-level marketing is a scheme. “I’m just so glad Elder Ballard said this. I think students need to be aware of these things,” said Director of the Willes Center for International Entrepreneurship, Dr. Jason Earl. Earl said he believes Ballard was referring to MLMs or network marketing companies, which he said are popular in Utah. “Even on this campus it’s a major problem. We even have some of these companies coming to our campus to recruit students,” said Earl. “If you look at the level of fraud, whether it’s through MLMs or Ponzi schemes, Utah is off the charts. They are No. 1 by far and there’s a number of reasons why that’s the case, but it’s a big problem and they’re finally addressing it.” Community member Alohi Clah is a Wellness Advocate for doTERRA, a network marketing company specializing in health and wellness through essential oils. Clah was quick to distinguish that MLMs are different from pyramid or Ponzi schemes. “People should consider the definition of a pyramid scheme, which is there is no actual product being sold. I don’t feel doTERRA is a get-rich-quick scheme.You do have to do a lot of work to be one of the top distributors.” She said the reason she loves her association with doTERRA is she saw the product work for her family before she entered the business side. “There have been a lot of people who have been bamboozled, my father being one of them. He was in a [MLM] company selling food storage. They opened the cans and there was sand in them. That was a really bad experience.” She added he was living in Utah at the time.

“I know Utah is considered one of the best start up places for small businesses,” said Clah. “There are a few reasons for that. There are so many languages spoken there and there are so many people who are trained in a way of selling. Return missionaries know how to sell and they’re really good at it.” Earl said the blend of sales skills along with church cultural norms of trusting and obeying authority, and wanting to be successful makes Utah, “a ground zero for MLMs.” “The reason this is so prevalent in the church is people trust each other. We listen to authority. If someone of position says something, we believe them. We trust them and we can get ourselves into a bad situation.” Clah said, “I see a lot of products out there with people who keep making [health] claims. People need to be more cautious with who they hitch their wagon to. There are a lot of people with health concerns, and they’re looking for anything that will work and people just keep telling them this might work.You could go through a lot of money doing that.” Earl said the drive to be successful causes some church members to participate in business practices that he says are dishonest. “In the church, we’ve been told so many things we can’t do. The one area we’ve not been told not to do something is make a ton of money and make it quick. In fact, there is a weird correlation that we see between prosperity and righteousness. In a conscious or unconscious way, members often seem to think, “Oh, they have a nice house or a nice car – they must be really righteous!” Earl emphasized he is not against people making money. He said he is, “against get-rich-quick schemes, such as “How to Make 6 Figures in 6 Months”, which encourage people to use their missionary skills in order to sell a product.” “We want students to be successful and we want them to make money. We think making money is great and we’ll teach you how to do it, but there is the right way and then there is the dark side to this.You need to be honest.”

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Clah, who has been a Wellness Advocate since 2012, said working in network marketing has benefited through additional income with a flexible schedule. “I like network marketing,” said Clah. “It’s a good niche for me, [because] I’m a stay-at-home mom and I like to make friends and network with people.” Clah, a mother of seven, said she was first introduced to doTERRA as a customer, and it was her experience with the products that interested her in the business side. “The [health] benefits and the results had been so overwhelmingly positive that I was sharing it with a lot of people, and they were having the same benefits, and I thought this is a good way for a stay-at-home mom to bring in a little more income.” Clah said her siblings were skeptical at first, primarily because of the experience her father had with the food storage MLM, but said even her father continued to invest in network marketing companies after he was scammed. Clah recounted how she attended other MLM meetings in the past. The people in charge would rave about the product and then at the end she would have to ask what they were selling. “One thing I like is doTERRA pushes the product not the business. And the product is beneficial. It’s not useless.” Clah clearly stated she is not an expert and is careful about making claims. She said, “doTERRA doesn’t claim their products heal. We don’t diagnose, treat or heal any ailments. That’s always been at the forefront. I understand there are some people that have made claims that got them into trouble with the FDA.” According to Deseret News, in 2014 the FDA warned doTERRA to change its marketing after distributors were reported to be making claims that certain doTERRA oils and products could cure or prevent the Ebola virus. “My training has always been we don’t make those claims,” said Clah. “There are people in any company who will lie and cheat their way to make more money.”

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Earl questioned why companies would need network marketing to distribute their product, rather than selling straight to consumers. Clah explained, “ The main reason I’ve heard for doTERRA is they wanted to make sure people were educated on how to use the oils. They didn’t just want people to buy them and then just have them sit on a shelf. “ Clah said she tries not to overload her friends and family with information about doTERRA. She said she is not afraid to tell people what she does. Clah sells her essential oils at the Farmers Markets held on campus as well as to friends. “I’m sure there are people who have been put off by me selling doTERRA. That’s part of life. I’m not hurt by that,” said Clah. Although many of the people she has approached are not interested in her more holistic solutions, Clah said she believes things are changing in the United States specifically. “Americans are kind of behind on integrative health care. In China and Europe you can go to a pharmacy and see holistic and pharmaceutical [products] right in the same store.” Clah believes more people are turning to holistic products and integrative health solutions because of the price of medicine and health insurance, but she said she believes it has more to do with user’s dissatisfaction with pharmaceutical products. “I think in general there are people who just aren’t happy with the results their getting from pharmaceuticals. If people were getting the results they were expecting without side effects, then people wouldn’t be looking to holistic solutions.” CJ Stermetz, a former doTERRA corporate employee majoring in finance at BYU in Provo, said doTERRA is a great company to work for on the corporate side. “They pay really well and they even have benefits,” said Stermetz, who worked as an account manager, working with distributors to maximize their commissions. “There are so many MLMs that are bad, especially the finance ones, but doTERRA isn’t one of them,” said Stermetz.

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Earl said students should look at companies’ legitimacy and sells tactics before signing up with a MLM company and should evaluate the financial risk of an investment when speculating. “I can justify some of these [MLM] companies because it’s a real company, and they pay their employees. They provide a real service,” “Generally you can go anywhere in the world and people will want to look good, and they want to make a lot of money.” Assistant Professor David Waite with the Willes Center added, “If we focus on those two things, it takes our eyes off the most important things. Our end goal still needs to be our Savior.” Earl said students who find themselves in an MLM and want to quit it but are afraid should “get out as quick as possible.” “If you know it’s wrong, stop doing it. The better MLM companies will allow you [to] return the inventory and get some of your money back,” continued Earl. “Then I would sit down and write a whole bunch of apology cards. To all of the people you’ve sucked into this, I would just say, ‘I’m not doing this anymore and here are the reasons why.’” Earl continued, “ To get beaten up so much over the last 10 years for pointing out the evils of get-rich-quick schemes and then to finally have an apostle say, ‘This is bad,’ I’m just grateful.” “I think it could be like that great conference talk that President Hinckley said about multiple earrings. There are stories of women there in the conference meeting taking out their second pair of earrings.You don’t need time to think about this and rationalize. If we are getting direction this is a bad idea and to get out, I would just get out.” •

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ith the holiday season right around the corner, BYU-Hawaii students discussed ways they keep the conversation going while connecting with family on a deeper level. For some students, it requires preparation of knowing what is coming their way. Ally Pack, a freshman from Idaho studying business management, said she is determined to avoid the awkward silence often times associated with family get-togethers. According to an article from Bruce Feiler in The New York Times, “Good conversation is as central to a successful dinner party as good food…yet, it’s the area that gets the least planning and thought.”

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Pack said she often resorts to having pre-planned questions in her preparation for the holiday events. “It’s quite simple. There’s websites all over the place that have PDFs of just questions,” she said. Olivia Szendre, a freshman from Washington studying exercise science, said she tries to avoid the question: “What boys are you dating?” Szendre said she avoids lengthy conversations about this topic by saying, “I’m just figuring it out.” Ethan Magalei, a freshman from Laie with an undeclared major, said he avoids dating questions by saying, “Oh, I’m planning on going on a mission so I don’t want any distractions right now.” For those who have already served missions and still struggle to avoid family discussions about being single, Magalei advised, “Make up someone.” HAVE STORIES TO SHARE

Pack suggested changing the subject and talking about events that matter. She stated, “I think family members are

more likely to care when talking about unique events that have happened to you.” Magalei said it’s always acceptable to talk about school. He said he thinks talking about school is a great way to understand where everyone is at in life since his family is “in a million different places.” LISTENING IS AS IMPORTANT AS TALKING

Despite Pack’s use of pre-planned questions, she said, “You have to actually listen and not think of pre-planned answers to their responses. I’d be more willing to share … if my family would listen to what I was talking about … instead of just trying to relate it back to themselves.” Feiler concluded in his article, “A successful conversation requires multiple parties— a shifting alliance of talkers and listeners, performers and audience members, alphas and betas. If you’ve spent more than one course playing only one of these roles, odds are you’re upsetting the harmony.” Pack suggested, “Care about the person you want to hear from because it goes a long way when you actually listen. “Politics, religion, [and] your definition of love can create friction. It’s best to understand your audience. Make jokes to lighten the mood.”

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Szendre said she looks forward to connecting and reuniting with her family over the holidays. She said, “If I haven’t seen my family in a long time, I’d want to make sure [they’re] happy [and] are pleased with the life they’re living [and] make sure everything is going good. “I always feel worried about my siblings. I think it’s good to ask, ‘Are you happy with what you’re doing? Is this worth the time and effort you’re putting into it?’” •

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ongolian names are structured very differently from other cultures because they do not have surnames and are personal to each individual, said BYUHawaii Mongolian students. Sergelenbaatar Oyungerel, a senior from Mongolia studying accounting, said because Mongolians do not have a family name, the father’s first name will be used as the child’s last name for official documents. He explained how the “Oyungerel” in his name was his father’s first name and his first name “Sergelenbaatar” will be inherited by his son as the last name. “Even for the married couple,the husband and wife both remain to carry their fathers’ first names as their last names.” Ganbold Tsendayush, an accounting alumni from Mongolia, said this culture regarding Mongolian names has made it hard for him to do geneology. “For my genealogy, I can only trace back to two or three generations.” Ulziijargal Sukhbaatar, a senior from Mongolia studying anthropology, said she has found up to fifth generations back, which is considered successful in Mongolia. “It is hard to trace back to past generations because we do not have a consistent last name system.” Tsendayush added, “We were under the control of the Manchurian and because of the wars, the records of our ancestors have been lost.” He said church leaders in Mongolia encourage members to do geneology work by asking for information from parents and the elderly. “That’s all we can do for now.”

Sukhbaatar shared why she wouldn’t choose an Americanized English name. “Some people will choose an English name that is easier to pronounce for foreigners, but names are something I value. I love my name. It has a deep meaning for me. A name defines who you are, where you come from, and helps us to remember our roots. Nobody can take it away from you.” Oyungerel mentioned situations with friends who have married foriegners and how the couples have determined their last names. “My Mongolian friend got married to an American girl, so his wife took his first name as her last name. A Mongolian female friend of mine got married to an American guy and she took her husband’s last name as her last name, but her father wasn’t happy about it. It’s a cultural difference.” Another interesting thing about Mongolian names is that each Mongolian’s name has a special meaning behind it. For instance, Sukhbaatar’s first name is “Ulziijargal.” She said the first part “Ulzii” means eternal and the second part “Jargal” means happiness. “So the whole name means never-ending happiness,” said Sukhbaatar. Oyungerel said his first name is Sergelenbaatar. He explained how “Sergelen” is his birth place, and “Baatar” means hero. “My dad wanted me to honor my birth place.” Tsendayush said, “I don’t think our names are unique. It’s very common for us to have long names. It might be hard for the foreigners to pronounce, but it’s easy for us.” •

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think all Americans are addicted to peanut butter. They always eat peanut butter and they bring it everywhere,” said Yuri Hamano, a senior from Japan studying hotel and tourism management. She even explained that her mission companions from America would eat peanut butter and swore it was a quick remedy for hiccups. She made sure to say, “I don’t believe in peanut butter.” Adam Jonsson, a freshman studying business management from Sweden, said, “Peanut butter is a big thing over here. One of my best friends is obsessed with it. I am pretty sure he has it in his milk. I think he is like most Americans. It’s all about the peanut butter and jelly.” Yuesuke Hirata, a junior from Japan studying business management, said he was shocked at the currency when he went to the store for the first time in America. He said when the cashier gave him his change, he had no idea how to count them or what they were worth. “I was so confused how to count the currency. The dimes and nickels are different sizes. Usually, in Japan, if you see coins worth more, they are bigger sizes. But in America, nickels have less worth than dimes, but the nickel is bigger than the dime. I was frustrated when I was counting the coins.” When asked about some of the stranger things he has found since being in America, Pattica San, a freshman studying political science from Cambodia, said, “Americans kiss in public. That is disgusting. In Cambodia, you might go to jail for Scan this QR something like that. I think it is gross.” code to view our San explained in Cambodia they believe public display of affection video featuring arouses the feelings of others, international especially children and teenagers, student’s and encourages them to act opinions about American Culture inappropriately. “You can kiss on the cheek and stuff like that, but not on the lips.” Since kissing is not big in Cambodia, San said he likes to joke with his other friends from similar cultures and say, “What does it taste like?” For him, “It is just strange.” Jonsson said one of the strangest things about American culture is the love for bigger things.

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“America has a lot of big things. The cars are going to be big. They always have huge tires, like bigger than the car. Everyone also loves trucks. In Sweden, it’s all about having a nice, convenient car you can park anywhere.” Also, the food is much bigger in Jonsson’s opinion. “You get medium here, and it’s like an XXL compared to Sweden. It’s actually kind of great. I love it, but there are also a lot of big people here too.” Olivia Chen, a TESOL major from Taiwan, said she has noticed a few strange things about American culture, especially when it comes to food. “Diets were more balanced when I was in Taiwan. Here, I do not see a lot of people eating cooked veggies. In our culture, if we go and get a meal, that means rice, meat and veggies are always provided. In America, it’s just meat and rice. “I am really confused. They say salad is so healthy and has a lot less calories, but then they just add a whole lot of dressing on it and make it super fat.” Chen also told her experience with traffic in America. She said every time she would go to cross the road in Taiwan, she had to wait until the traffic light turned red and all the cars were forced to stop. “When I came here, I was standing, waiting for the cars to pass by. It was weird because they just stopped and waited for me to cross. It took me awhile to get use to crossing the street first.” Another difference Jonsson said he has noticed between America and Sweden is the measurements Americans use. “The metric system makes a lot of sense. Here, you have inches, then you have 12 inches in a foot, then 3 feet in a yard and I don’t even know how many yards are in mile. And that just doesn’t make sense.” He stated he thinks Americans do it to confuse their children just for fun. Complimenting people so much was also an adjustment for Hamano. She said this is because in Japan, “We do not really give compliments to each other.” For that, she said, “I love Americans. They are so nice.” •

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