River Region Parents "Fall Festival Issue" (October 2024)

Bill Blagg: Family Magic Sunday, October 6 • 3 p.m. The Magic School Bus Lost in the Solar System Sunday, October 20 • 3 p.m. Omnium Circus: I’m Possible

March 2 • 3 p.m.

Trick-or-Treating Tips

Parents, foilow this plan for more Halloween magic and fewer meltdowns.

Pilgrimage to the

Patch

Ideas for making the

Our guide shares what’s going on around town and nearby. Make plans to enjoy these events!

Teens and Screens

The importance of micro-moments in your child’s life.

On The Cover

Tenesha and Greg Carter are pictured with their children, Greyson (13) and Hayden (9). Greyson is in 7th grade at Floyd Middle Magnet, and Hayden attends Bear Exploration Center, where she is in 4th grade. During the fall season, the Carters enjoy visiting with family for gatherings, having bonfires and making s’mores in their backyard.

Editor’sNote

At what age did your parents make you stop trick-or-treating? I remember my last hoorah, going house to house through Carol Villa in search of candy, around age 13. As I got older, my and my friend’s costumes became more and more basic because Halloween was not much more than an excuse to fill a pillowcase with candy bars, sweet tarts, and bubble gum. But who can blame a kid, really?

And so, yes, we will be letting our youngest, our 13-year-old, trick or treat again this year. Fortunately, our neighborhood embraces the young tweens and teens dressing up and walking the streets to ask for treats. The sentiment seems to be: “They could be getting into trouble, so why not let them dress up and be kids?” I agree! And, bonus, Jason and I get to pick through the bag for the Almond Joys, Nerds and 100 Grands. It’s always way too much candy, so I’ve even been known to stash some away and recycle it during the holiday season.

Our Halloween night will be a relaxing, casual event with chili by the fire and a stroll around the neighborhood to visit with friends. That’s how it works with older kids because they go off independently, but for parents with littles, the night can be slightly more chaotic without proper planning. Check out Christina Katz’s article, More Magic and Fewer Meltdowns, where she offers advice like making sure the kids have had some protein before they head out, bringing a backpack along for discarded pieces of their costumes, and more!

Visiting a pumpkin patch is another wonderful family tradition, and Cheryl Maguire shares tips for making the most of it in Pilgrimage to the Pumpkin Patch. Following her article is our Fall Festivities and Halloween Fun Guide, where you will find not only pumpkin patches in the River Region and nearby but also other festivities that usher in the autumn and upcoming holiday season!

October is a beautiful month to head outdoors with your family, deepen connections with one another, and make memories. Enjoy!

Parents

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The Art of Quiet Parenting

I recently spent a large amount of time with one of my favorite people on earth, my 95-year-old grandmother. In her thirties, she had a tumor removed from her thyroid, and the doctor accidentally cut a nerve, which led to a tracheostomy. I have watched her place her pointer finger over her trach and speak in a quiet voice my entire life. However, it was not until a week ago that I thought about how that impacted her 30-year teaching career.

When I asked, her response was not about her; it was words of wisdom for all adults, “I immediately learned that we speak too much.” She shared that she had a little microphone and would tap on it with her finger when she needed to speak; all the children would stop and listen while she whispered out as few words as necessary. She said she started using a lot of pointing, tapping on shoulders,

visual aids, prepared activities, etc. My grandmother also noticed that when she stopped talking, the students spoke more. They were more involved and shared more information. It hurts my grandmother to talk, so she mastered the art of choosing her words carefully. I think this is the reason she is my favorite. When I was a child and teenager, she always listened to me go on and on without jumping in to tell me that my dreams or ideas were unrealistic. I learned the most about myself in my conversations with her because I often realized how ridiculous I sounded. This conversation reminded me of the book, “Quiet” by Susan Cain and how we can apply the insights and knowledge from both women to assist in parenting.

2. Use visual aids. Do more than just talk. Help your children with visuals (family calendars, chore charts, etc).

3. Be prepared. Think through how to help your children learn something with more than just your words. If you want to work on kindness, take them to do kind things. Talk is cheap and easy to forget. Taking the time to do intentional lessons with your children is time-consuming but life-changing.

Dr. Beth Long received her education in Counseling Psychology from Chapman University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Beth has worked in six unique clinical environments across the country and currently owns Works of Wonder Therapy in Montgomery. Beth utilizes the knowledge from a variety of different disciplines to give her patients the best care possible. To learn more visit www.worksofwondertherapy.com. by

1. Talk less, move more. Do not just tell your child to do something; go and do it with them. They do not need you to lecture or repeat yourself. They need your help and presence.

4. Invite everyone to come to the family meeting prepared. In “Quiet”, Cain explained that research does not support the efficacy of all group meetings. Group meetings are only successful when you ask people to come prepared with solutions to a problem. For example, “We all are spending too much time on electronics. We will meet on Thursday at 5 pm, and everyone needs to come up with some ideas to help us all set healthy limits.”

5. We do not all do well with the same level of noise and stimulation. Some children, just like some adults, need time and quiet to think clearly. Your child may truly not be able to answer the questions you are asking them. Try asking the questions and then setting a time to meet with them again for the answers.

Trust Again Tour

Lysa TerKeurst & Natalie Grant

October 20 * 7pm Vaughn Forest Church

Glassner Autumn Bike Challenge

October 19 * 5:30am-9am Alabama State University

Are you ready to join us for the 2024 Backroads “Capital City” Cycling Safety Party Ride in Montgomery? We will have all of the fun and excitement you have come to expect from the Montgomery Bicycle Club celebrating again for 2024. This is the 22nd annual century ride held in memory of Dr. Jim Glassner. Visit https://www. mgmbikeclub.org/glassner.html.

2024 Walk of Life for Breast Cancer

October 19 * 8:30am Historic Downtown Montgomery Celebrating 20+ years and over 100,000 mammograms! Join us for our annual Walk of Life 5K and Riverfront Celebration in downtown Montgomery. Bring the family and enjoy a day of serious FUN as we come together in a BIGGER way to fight breast cancer in Alabama. Tickets at https://joytolife-walkoflife2024. funraise.org/page/walk-of-life-tickets.

Broken trust complicates every bit of the parts of love that should be comforting. A family member betrayed you. A spouse cheated on you. A leader deceived you. And now you’re wondering, if God let all of this happen, can He even be trusted? You are not alone in these struggles. Lysa TerKeurst has been in your shoes and deeply understands. Lysa, along with Natalie Grant, offer powerful worship, Biblical wisdom and practical takeaways as you experience a revival in your heart, mind and soul, teaching you to trust God like never before. Get tickets at https://www.ticketweb.com.

Zoo Brews and Food Festival

October 19 * 9am-5pm Montgomery Zoo

Join us for day of tailgating fun and follies: a yummy assortment of food trucks, beer and wine vendors, live bands and entertainment, large lawn games to play, and much more. Visit https://www.montgomeryzoo. com for more information.

31st Annual Alabama Cotton Festival

October 12

8am-2pm

Eclectic, AL

Over 250 vendors will line Main Street with a wide variety of delectable food and unique wares. A kids activity zone will also be available. The festival also features a variety of events and contests, including a dog show, classic car show, photography and art contests, Cornhole Tournament, and more. Visit www.townofeclectic.com for more information.

Junior League Holiday Market

October 10-12

Multiplex at Cramton Bowl

You will find beautiful Clothing, Incredible Jewelry, Gifts, Children’s Items, Art, Gourmet Food, Bath Products, Home & Holiday Decor, Handmade, and Oneof-a-Kind Items that you won’t find at a mall, Gifts for Men, and so much more! Bring the Family, Friends, and the camera for pictures by the Christmas Tree. www.jlmontgomery.org/ fundraisers/holidaymarket/

CASA Superhero 5K & Fun Run

November 2 * 7:30am * Downtown Montgomery by Riverwalk Stadium

Unleash your inner hero at the Superhero Run on November 2, 2024, in Downtown Montgomery by Riverwalk Stadium! Whether you sprint, jog, or cheer, come suited up in your most super garb and support the CASA of the River Region.Kickstart the day with free coffee at 7:30 AM, dash through the Fun Run at 8:30 AM, or take on the 5K at 9:15 AM. Celebrate victories at the Awards Ceremony at 10:15 AM, and soak in the superhero extravaganza with inflatables, food, and vendors. Join as a team to vie for the coveted CASA TEAM TROPHY— because every child deserves a hero, and today, that hero is you! https://www.letsdothis. com/us/e/casa-superhero-5k-fun-run-226660

MANE’s Raise the Roof 30th Anniversary Celebration/Fundraiser

October 10th * MANE’s Poarch Creek Arena

You can provide life-changing opportunities for MANE’s students! Through MANE’s “Catch a Miracle” Scholarship Program, approximately 80% of enrolled students are able to benefit from therapeutic horseback riding and equine assisted activities with no cost or financial stress to their families. Visit https://maneweb.org/events/ to purchase tickets or become a sponsor. Enjoy live music, great food, dancing and more, all while supporting a great cause!

Dear Evan Hansen

October 25 and 26 * Gogue Performing Arts Center, Auburn, AL Declared “one of the most remarkable shows in musical theater history” by the Washington Post, Dear Evan Hansen takes a groundbreaking look at our complex, interconnected and social mediafilled lives. Purchase tickets at goguecenter.auburn.edu/dear-evan-hansen/.

2nd Annual Art in the Bottom Park

October 19 * 10am-4pm Cloverdale Bottom Park

We are so excited to be hosting the 2nd Annual Art in the Bottom Park presented by Sandra Nickel Hat Team, Realtors! Join us for a day in the park filled with local artists, music, and lunch with Funky Forte Food Truck from 11-2.

November 6 * 6pm * MPAC

At Sesame Street Live! Say Hello, sing, dance, and play alongside your favorite furry friends, all while you follow Elmo’s puppy, Tango, in a fun game of hide & seek. So put on your dancing shoes and make your way to where the air is sweet for this all-new celebration on Sesame Street! https://mpaconline.org/sesame-street-live/

NOV. 9

Angela Lawson Pike Road Junior High School

Angela Lawson began her teaching career in 2001. Since 2020, Mrs. Lawson has been using her innovative teaching strategies at Pike Road Junior High as the head of the math department, 8th-grade math teacher, and Robotics Coach. Obtaining a degree from Auburn University with a BS in Mathematics Education and the University of Alabama with an MS in Differentiated Instruction, her teaching career has allowed her to give back to the community and share her passion by educating young minds and future leaders.

She shares, “Kids are very different now. When I see their evolution and how education has transformed, it is amazing. I’m always learning new, more innovative ways to reach the children that we have today. It’s an awesome process, learning new ways to teach concepts, incorporating new technology, and mixing that with things I’ve learned through the years.”

Each year, Mrs. Lawson enters her classroom with prayer. She prays over every

desk, child, teacher, faculty, and staff member. “The challenges we face now are monumental, but this is a ministry. To minister means to serve. We are here for the children. I’m a part of a group of teachers at PRS who have a prayer group that meets every Friday morning. We pray over our school, our students, and for each other.”

In her classroom, Mrs. Lawson enjoys seeing faces light up when they understand a concept they thought was unreachable. Since math can be a challenging subject for many children, she enjoys making it accessible to everyone. She often tells her students that you don’t have to be a math person to do math. She’s teaching them the capacity to learn, not just to do math, but knowing how to do anything. She shares, “I tell them if Mrs. Lawson can learn how to build and program a robot, you can learn how to solve a multi-step equation.”

Angela Lawson has been married to Joel Lawson for 24 years. They were college sweethearts and met in the Auburn University marching band. They have three boys: Joel Jr. (16), William (11), and Andrew (6).

Serving this district as Superintendent has been one of the greatest honors of my career. From the moment I stepped into this role, the dedication of our educators has inspired me, as has the enthusiasm of our students and the unwavering support of our families and community. Together, we have achieved very impressive milestones, and I am immensely proud of our progress toward truly fostering an environment of academic excellence and personal growth.

It is important that our community knows we worked hard to increase student performance across all grade levels. As I’ve shared before, our standardized test scores increased by an average of 15% and we experienced a 12% increase in graduation rate in our first year of work, demonstrating our commitment to academic excellence. I must

also add that we’ve seen nearly a 400% increase in dual enrollment, and I expect that number to increase as MPS moves forward.

With the support of our staff and community, we successfully renewed our 3% county tax that will support not only academic resources but capital improvement projects across the district. In partnership with Mr. Arthur Watts, our outgoing Chief School Financial Officer, we also have grown our cash balance to over $70 million allowing for flexibility in programming, resource attainment, and infrastructure upgrades.

Our district leaders will continue to work closely with our community leaders and push through any adversity and challenges. I know we experienced a few challenges that seemed daunting at the time, but together, we kept the success of our children as our priority, and we prevailed. The partnership between our district’s administration, staff, and community has been the cornerstone of our success, which I will cherish deeply. Our commitment to the education and well-being of our children has been a driving force behind every initiative and decision we have made.

It’s not easy for me to prepare to step down, however, I am confident that the district is in a strong position, with a talented team of educators and leaders ready to continue the vital work we have begun. I be lieve the incoming leadership will uphold our shared values and build upon the foundation we have laid together.

In the coming weeks, I will work closely with the Board of Education and district leadership to facilitate this process. My priority remains the continued success and well-being of our students, and I am commit ted to providing all necessary support during this time.

Again, I thank you everyone for your support, understanding, and dedication to our school district. It has been an honor and a privilege to serve as your Superintendent.

Melvin J. Brown, Ed.D., is the superintendent of Montgomery Public Schools and previously served as superintendent of Reynoldsburg City Schools in Ohio. He has 24 years of school administrative experience.

Three Generations of Educators at Montgomery Catholic

As Sarah Rose Burden began her first year as an elementary teacher with Montgomery Catholic Preparatory School, she was not overly nervous as most brand new educators might be about embarking on a brand new career. Miss Burden grew up learning from her mother and her grandfather, who are both teachers and former administrators at the school, and she always dreamed of one day joining the teaching profession.

Mrs. Ellie Burden, Sarah Rose’s mother, is a 31-year veteran elementary teacher who began her 19th year with Montgomery Catholic in August. Mr. Gerry Shook, Sarah Rose Burden’s grandfather, served as the principal at Montgomery Catholic’s St. Bede Elementary Campus in the 1990s prior to his retirement as an educator. When Sarah Rose graduated from Auburn University in May 2024, she knew there was only one place she wanted to begin her teaching career and that was returning to her alma mater only four years after her high school graduation in 2020. Miss Burden is a first grade teacher at Montgomery Catholic’s Holy Spirit Elementary Campus alongside her mother, who is a K3/K4 teacher just down the hall. Miss Burden is also the Montgomery Catholic Varsity Cheerleading Coach. Montgomery Catholic Preparatory School is proud to have a legacy of alumni and friends who continue the mission of our school founded by the Sisters of Loretto over 150 years ago.

Montgomery Academy Senior Named National Merit Semifinalist

Congratulations to Montgomery Academy senior Nathan Applegate on being named a Semifinalist in the 70th annual National Merit Scholarship Program! Nathan will continue in the competition for some 6,870 National Merit Scholarships worth nearly $26 million that will be offered next spring. The nationwide pool of Semifinalists, representing less than one percent of U.S. high school seniors, includes the highest-scoring entrants in each state. To qualify as a Semifinalist, a student must have an outstanding academic record throughout high school, be endorsed and recommended by a high school official, write an essay, and earn SAT® or ACT® scores that confirm the student’s earlier performance on the qualifying test.

Saint James Holds Annual Kindergarten Buddy Reveal

On September 9th, the Saint James School senior class and Kindergarten class had their Buddy Reveal event! The Kindergarten Buddy program has been a favorite program at Saint James for over 25 years, beginning in the fall of 1997. During the morning’s event, the seniors placed one shoe in a large pile. Each senior’s shoe has a Kindergartner’s name on it. Once the Kint4rgarten student locates the shoe with his/her nametag, then he/she must locate the matching shoe being worn by a senior. Smiles were seen on all the faces as the students paired up and got to know each other.

Our cherished Kindergarten Buddy Program helps build our school community and cultivates special relationships. The buddies participate in fun activities both on and off campus through the year.

ACA Lower School Hosts 9/11 Patriots Day Program

On September 11th, Alabama Christian Academy’s Lower School held a heartfelt Patriots Day program, honoring the brave men and women who have served as first responders and military personnel. The event, which took place on the school’s campus, brought together students, faculty, and special guests for an afternoon of remembrance and patriotism. The program began with the students, proudly carrying American flags, welcoming the honored guests. Local first responders and military personnel, invited to the ceremony, were recognized for their courage and service to the nation. Their presence underscored the importance of unity and sacrifice, themes at the heart of Patriots Day.

Throughout the event, the school’s band and students performed a series of patriotic songs, lifting spirits and reminding everyone of the values that the American flag represents. One of the most moving moments came when the significance of “Taps,” a military bugle call traditionally played at funerals and memorials, was explained by Richard and Harper Gallacher to the audience. The playing of “Taps” afterward was a solemn tribute to the lives lost on 9/11 and those who continue to protect and serve.

This Patriots Day program provided a meaningful opportunity for the students to connect with the legacy of 9/11 and to express their gratitude to the heroes in their community.

Macon

East Knights Softball Team Receive State Championship Rings

The 2024 Macon East Academy Varsity Softball team ended the year as the AISA AAA State Champions. A ring ceremony was held recently for the Lady Knights at the annual Night with the Knights kick-off event to the season. Coach Glynn Lott’s softball team secured their 11th state championship at the AISA AAA state tournament, held at the Lagoon Park Softball Complex. Their victory over Clarke Prep School not only added another championship trophy to their collection but also highlighted the exceptional talent within the team.

Trinity’s 2024 Homecoming Court

Congratulations to the 2024 Trinity Homecoming Court. The attendants were Camila Fahel (7th), Adams Jackson (7th), Alonna Welch (8th), Rebi McLemore (9th), Morgan French (10th), Kenzie McClelland (11th), Francie Morris, Mary Townsend Sanders, and Delaney Stanley (12th). Francie Morris was crowned Homecoming Queen by last year’s Queen, Erin Mitchell.

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Montgomery Catholic Puts Science Into Motion

Fourth grade students at Montgomery Catholic Preparatory School learned about Newton’s Second Law of Motion while having a little fun on the links. Following the invitation to participate in the Guardian Championship 2024 Junior Clinic, Montgomery Catholic’s Dean of Academics Dr. Elizabeth Parker, along with fourth grade teachers Mrs. Sarah Wilson and Miss Kelly O’Donnell, taught lessons on distance and time while relating them to “the greater the force, the greater the distance” law. While at the Junior Clinic, the fourth grade students learned golf tips and tricks from Epson Tour golf professionals and SQDx Sports Golf Academy staff while putting Newton’s Second Law of Motion into practice at the RTJ Golf Trail at Capitol Hill.

Once back on campus, Dr. Parker worked with the fourth grade classes to test hitting golf balls with various forces and then measuring the distances with which the balls traveled, bringing science to life through real-world application. A special thanks to Guardian Credit Union, the Epson Tour, SQDx Golf Academy, and the Robert Trent Golf Trail at Capitol Hill for the opportunity to participate in the Guardian Championship 2024 Junior Clinic.

Pictured: Montgomery Catholic fourth grader Aitana Fonseca at the Guardian Championship Junior Clinic held on the Robert Trent Jones Golf Trail at Capitol Hill. (Photo by Mary Kelley)

CLOVERDALE

Bear Participates in Chalk Walk

Bear Exploration Center participated in the Montgomery Museum of Fine Arts Chalk Walk event. Fifth grade students used chalk to get creative and create two amazing works of art. Aveeana, Bradford, William, and Aubrey were on the first team and they created a scene from the Wizard of Oz titled, There’s No Place Like Bear. Kennedi, Audrey, Matthew, and Nolan were on the second team and their design had a castle rising out of a story book which was titled, StoryLand. Pictured are the artists with Mrs. Bonikowski, their visual arts teacher.

Forest Avenue Peer Helpers

Forest Avenue Peer Helpers had the opportunity train with other Peer Helpers in MPS. Students learned important skills for helping others, such as connecting, listening, understanding, coping, and referring. They are now ready to get started helping their peers at FAAM. We can’t wait to see them make a difference.

Resurrection Catholic Receives Donation from Walmart

Recently, Resurrection Catholic School received a major donation of school supplies from Walmart Super Center Chantilly. The students and faculty are so thankful for this gift!

Montgomery Academy Speech & Debate Team Competes at MSU

MA’s Speech & Debate Team traveled to Mississippi State University in September to compete in the John C. Stennis Novice Tournament. Schools from Mississippi and Alabama competed in the opening tournament for the 2024-2025 season. Individual honors went to... Duncan McInnes: 1st, Congressional Debate Karan Daryanani: Finalist, Congressional Debate Shree Patel & Karan Daryanani: 5th place, Public Forum Debate

MA Partnering with Respite Ministry

Each year, MA partners with a local organization to learn more about the unique challenges & needs in our community and to seek opportunities for students to serve. Our students are not only committed to service but to uniting and motivating others to make a difference in someone’s life. This year we are excited to work alongside the Respite Ministry, an initiative first envisioned by MA parent, Daphne Johnston, “to provide a place of love, fellowship and stimulating activities for people living with various memory loss diseases, such as Alzheimer’s, dementia, Parkinson’s, or stroke.” During our Public Service Assembly, Respite Ministry Director Tammy Center reminded students how something as simple as singing side by side with our Respite friends can bring joy to those who may struggle to remember even yesterday’s activities.

Through service, MA seeks to improve the quality of life for those in need, whether it is preparing weekend meal bags for the Food For Kids Backpack program, organizing a toy drive for Brantwood Children’s Home, or making a regular commitment to spending time with participants at Respite. We believe it is our responsibility to help strengthen communities through service and to make a positive difference in the world.

Macon East Senior Shines at DYW of Bullock County

Macon East Academy Senior Tiffany Marshall excelled at the Distinguished Young Women of Bullock County event. Tiffany not only won the “Be Your Best Self” essay award and the scholastics award, but she also earned first runner-up. We are incredibly proud of her accomplishments and thrilled that she came home with several thousand dollars in scholarship money.

Saint James Student

National Merit Semifinalist

Saint James School is proud to announce that Woochan Kim has been awarded the distinction of National Merit Semifinalist for 2025. This prestigious honor is awarded to approximately 16,000 students nationwide, from over 1.3 million entrants. Woochan and his Semifinalist peers represent less than one percent of U.S. high school seniors.

National Merit Semifinalists are recognized for the exceptional academic promise shown by their outstanding performance on the 2023 preliminary PSAT tests, as well as their academic record, leadership abilities, honors received, and participation in school and community activities. Identifying these academically talented high school seniors across the nation provides them the opportunity to continue in the scholarship competition vying for one of 6,870 National Merit Scholarships that will be offered in the spring. To be considered for a Merit Scholarship award, Semifinalists must fulfill several requirements to advance to the Finalist level of the competition. Woochan is the son of Sehoon Kim and Hyejung Lee. Woochan feels that Saint James has provided him the opportunities to improve as a student and as a person. He says,” I am truly grateful to my teachers and peers who have helped me become who I am today.” Woochan plans to apply to Princeton University, the University of Michigan, Auburn University, and Yonsei University in Korea.

National Merit Scholarship Corporation (NMSC), a not-for-profit organization that operates without government assistance, was established in 1955 specifically to conduct the annual National Merit Scholarship Program. Scholarships are underwritten by NMSC with its own funds and by approximately 400 business organizations and higher education institutions that share NMSC’s goals of honoring the nation’s scholastic champions and encouraging the pursuit of academic excellence. Saint James School’s Mission states, “We are committed to challenging and assisting students in realizing their individual potential and preparing them for lives of responsibility, service, and achievement.” Saint James School celebrates the hard work and dedication that Woochan has shown throughout his time at Saint James School and is thrilled that he has been recognized by the National Merit Scholarship Corporation.

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Talent Education & Art: Preparing Students for Life

ACA Launches WINGS PTA Program to Support Teachers

The lack of being prepared for college and career can have negative effects in a person’s life. TEA Christian Academy, Inc. takes pride in going the extra mile to prepare students beyond high school life. In an effort to strengthen students’ ongoing efforts for life after high school, various opportunities are given to students as early as the seventh grade. Students are given the opportunity to take leadership classes, effective communication classes, and serve as administrative assistants, as well as enroll in dual college classes where they will earn college credit. Career Skills Job Shadowing Program is another component of strengthening and self-empowering students for life.

TEA Christian Academy, Inc. presently has several students who were awarded full college scholarships and also serve as members of the Student Government Association (SGA). Former student and graduate of 2024, Savian Ross, has a scholarship at Trenholm State Community College, where he also serves on the (SGA). We are so proud of your milestone, Mr. Ross, and as TEA’s slogan says. . . “Taking An Extra Step Towards Educational Excellence...Because You Matter!”

This year, ACA proudly introduced the WINGS PTA program, a new initiative designed to uplift and support the dedicated teachers who play a vital role in shaping our students’ futures. WINGS, which stands for *Working and Investing to Nurture Growth and Success*, aims to not only show appreciation but also provide resources and encouragement for teachers to pursue ideas and dreams that may fall outside their typical classroom budgets. Since its inception, WINGS has already hosted several “surprise and delight” events to boost teacher morale and show appreciation for their hard work and dedication. These events have become a fun and meaningful way for the ACA community to come together and express gratitude for the teachers who continuously go above and beyond for their students.

Through WINGS, ACA seeks to foster a supportive environment where educators feel empowered to innovate, dream big, and continue nurturing the growth and success of the entire school community. This program is not only about appreciation but about investing in the long-term success of both teachers and students.

Saint James Celebrates Military Appreciation Night

On Friday, September 13th, Saint James School celebrated Military Appreciation Night as part of the school’s matchup against Handley. Saint James School is honored to have more than 90 military families, representing both the United States and its international allies, as part of the Trojan family this year. The evening’s festivities began with a tailgate specifically for military members and their families at the Community Garden. Military families were also treated to free game tickets. Pre-game activities began as all U. S. and International Military families who are a part of the Saint James family were recognized on the field. Saint James 8th grader, Aditi Shyam, performed “America the Beautiful” and senior Campbell Wright (daughter of Retired Col. Jason Wright) lead the invocation. Air Force ROTC Detachment 19 from Alabama State University presented the colors as the Marching Trojans performed the national anthem. Maj. Gen. Parker Wright, dad of senior football player Will, and Lt. Col. Billy Mendel, dad of senior volleyball player Alex, served as honorary captains for the coin toss. In further recognition of the sacrifices and dedication of our military families, the Saint James football team players added an American flag decal on their helmets. The student section, The War Zone, was dressed out in red, white, and blue.

FAAM Robotics Team Prepares for Competition

Congratulations to the 2024-2025 Forest Avenue Wildcats Robotics Team! We’re thrilled to introduce the dedicated students who will represent our school this year in the VEX Robotics competition! This talented group of innovators showed exceptional teamwork, problem-solving skills, and creativity during tryouts, and we couldn’t be more excited to see what they will accomplish. Stay tuned for updates as they design, build, and compete in challenges throughout the season! Go Wildcats!

ACA Upperclassmen Feed First Responders on 9/11

On September 11, 2024, Alabama Christian Academy’s upperclassmen stepped up to show their appreciation for Montgomery’s first responders. In a heartfelt act of gratitude, the students cooked, packaged, and delivered meals to eight

different Montgomery Fire & Rescue Stations. This initiative was a meaningful way for the students to honor the bravery and dedication of those who work tirelessly to protect the community.

The students not only gained hands-on experience in preparing and organizing meals, but they also had the opportunity to personally express their gratitude to the firefighters. The project, carried out in observance of 9/11, served as a reminder of the importance of community and the vital role first responders play in keeping others safe.

In reflecting on the event, both students and firefighters shared a sense of unity and appreciation. This gesture reinforced the enduring respect and admiration for the sacrifices made by first responders, particularly on a day of national remembrance like 9/11.

MA Lower School’s First Eagle Talk of the New School Year

The Lower School ended their first week back to school with an Eagle Talk! This monthly assembly program creates a sense of connectedness in our school and teaches students important values. This month’s value is “community,” and students spent time in Eagle Talk learning about The Three Sisters--corn, squash, and beans-- and the way that each plant’s growth and unique characteristics support the growth of the other two. Our youngest eagles will be using these lessons from Native American lore as they embark on an aMAzing year together!

Montgomery Academy Volleyball Sweeps Mayor’s Cup Tournament

In early September, Montgomery Academy’s Middle School, Junior Varsity, and Varsity Volleyball teams were champions in the Mayor’s Cup tournaments at the Cramton Bowl Multiplex and at home in MA’s Sidhu Gym! Our JV Team went undefeated on the weekend, and both Middle School and Varsity squads brought home championship honors.

Merge of G.W. Carver and Sidney Lanier High Schools

With the recent merge of two west side high schools, G.W. Carver High School and Sidney Lanier High School, the football team has shown great efforts in modeling what unity looks like. The student-athletes have come together on and off the field leading by example. The home games, filled with cheering fans, serve as a reminder of how communities have come together during this historical time.

Resurrection Catholic Starts First Chess Club

Resurrection Catholic School starts our first ever Chess Club under the direction of Jay Mal, Founder and CEO of Get It Off Your Chess. Students listed are Conner Kirkland and TaCorie Richardson.

Trinity Senior Named National Merit Semifinalist

Congratulations to Trinity senior John Morris for being named a Semifinalist in the 70th annual National Merit Scholarship Program! John is now in the running for nearly $26 million in scholarships to be awarded next spring. Semifinalists represent the top one percent of U.S. seniors, selected for their academic excellence, school endorsement, essay, and strong SAT® or ACT® scores.

Grandparents Day at Bear Exploration Center

Bear Exploration Center hosted a luncheon celebrating Grandparents Day. Grandparents and even great grandparents came to have lunch with their Bear students together.

Macon East SGA Attends AISA

Macon East Academy SGA officers attended the AISA Fall workshop in Montgomery to learn more about the state project- Camille Place. Their mission is to provide refuge and restoration to female minors who are survivors of human trafficking, empowering them through the renewal of spirit, soul, and body.

Pictured are: Colton Lunn (Content Creator), Alexis Davis (Secretary), Livi Robinson (Chaplain), Mattie Pugh (Treasurer), Mary Taylor May (Vice President), and Bryant Morrison (President).

Homecoming Fun at Trinity

Homecoming week at Trinity Presbyterian School was a blast! The game board-themed festivities brought the campus to life with fun activities like Guess Who, Candyland, Scrabble, and Twister. The competition heated up with the always-exciting powderpuff volleyball and football games. The excitement peaked with a big win over Slocomb and the return of alumni for their reunions, making the week even more special.

Studying Energy at River Region Academy

Upper elementary students in Mrs. Payton’s science class at River Region Academy created marble runs as part of their study on kinetic and potential energies. Their objective was to create downhill paths for the marbles, with twists and turns along the way. Students worked together using problem-solving skills and discovered that the

Sneaker Ball at Bear Exploration

Bear Exploration Center students welcomed the new school year with a Back to School Sneaker Ball hosted by the Bear PTA. The students danced, enjoyed snacks, and had lots of fun!

See You at the Pole at Trinity

Trinity’s Middle and Upper School students join us for the annual See You At The Pole event. This student-led event is a global day of prayer where students from schools all around the world gather at their school’s flagpole to pray for their friends, families, teachers, and communities.

FAAM Students

“Caught Being Good”

Forest Avenue Academic Magnet is honoring their first set of “Caught Being Good” friends. Our August winners are Demetri Colvin, Kingston Lawson, Jordan Jefferson, Adelyn Henderson, Liam Keith, and Luke (not pictured). Congratulations to all of these people, along with everyone else who received these golden tickets this month!

Science at RR Academy

Students in Mrs. Lawley’s middle school science class at River Region Academy made edible plant and animal cells, using Graham crackers (for plant cells), sugar cookies (for animal cells), vanilla frosting, Twizzlers, M&M’s, marshmallows, and sprinkles to represent the various parts. It is great fun to eat what you learn and create!

Teachers Rock Chucks and Pearls

at Resurrection Catholic

Staff left to right: Miss Vaughn, Miss Thomas, Miss Carter, Miss Daniels, Miss Gibbs, Dr. Pessoa, Miss Jones, Miss Sichel, Miss Graham, and Miss Gadson.

ACA’s Senior Buddy Meeting

At Alabama Christian Academy, one of the most heartwarming traditions is the annual Senior Buddy Meeting. Every year, our graduating seniors are paired with kindergarten students for a night of connection, laughter, and shared joy. This special event allows seniors to mentor and bond with the younger members of our school, creating memo ries that last far beyond graduation day. On this night, seniors and kindergartners meet for the first time, exchanging sweet gifts and spending quality time together. Whether it’s decorating picture frames, exchanging gifts, or simply chatting, the interactions are filled with smiles and joy. The seniors serve as role models, and the younger students look up to them with admiration, while the older students find a sense of nostalgia and renewed responsibility through these relationships. This bond often endures long after this night, with seniors fondly remembering their kindergarten buddies as they move

As we step into October, it’s hard to believe the first quarter of the school year is already coming to a close. With the seasons changing, our students, teachers, and families continue to shine in both academics and extracurricular activities. This time of year brings many exciting opportunities to reflect on our progress and celebrate all that our schools have accomplished so far.

One of the key highlights this month is our annual “State of the Schools” event, where we’ll take a closer look at the great work happening across our district and share plans for the future. I encourage you to attend the event on October 21 to learn more about how we’re working together to

October also marks National School Bus Safety Week, a time to remind ourselves of the important role school transportation plays in keeping our students safe. I want to thank our transportation staff for their hard work and dedication to ensuring our students arrive at school and return home safely each day. Parents and community members can help by practicing safety around school buses.

As we focus on student safety, October is also National Bullying Prevention Month. This is an important reminder of our responsibility to create a positive, inclusive, and respectful environment for all students. I encourage everyone—students, staff, and parents—to work together to foster kindness and stand against bullying.

In addition, October is National Principals Month, and I want to take a moment to recognize the incredible leadership of our principals, Mrs. Maness, Mrs. Wright, Dr. Sullivan, and Ms. Whiten. Their dedication to our students, staff, and families is evident

ive, challenging, and engaging environment. I appreciate all you do for our PRS families. In the coming weeks, we’ll see our student-athletes wrapping up their seasons in football, volleyball, and cross-country, while the winter sports start gearing up for their first games and matches. Although October is busy for athletics, and academics, this time of year brings Fall Festivals and a Fall Break, which will give us all time to relax and recharge.

Thank you for your continuous support of Pike Road Schools. Together, we will continue to foster a strong, caring, and successful community for our students. I look forward to the exciting months ahead as we work together to make this school year the best it can be. Go Patriots!

Superintendent, Dr. Keith Lankford has a wealth of experience in public education in Alabama. Before earning his Bachelor’s, Master’s, Education Specialist, and Doctorate, Dr. Lankford served several years in the Army and the National Guard. He has worked at almost

Macon East Alumnus Rides with MSU

We are proud to announce that Pressley Graham, an alumnus of the Class of 2024 from Macon East Academy, is now a member of the Mississippi State University Rodeo Team. This remarkable club offers students the opportunity to delve into various aspects of rodeo, all while competing in the National Intercollegiate Rodeo Association college rodeos.

Mayor Gordon Stone Visits Pike Road High FCCLA

The Pike Road High School Family, Career, and Community Leaders of America (FCCLA) invited Mayor Gordon Stone to speak to their class about the rewards and challenges of

Pike Road National Merit Semifinalist

Pike Road senior, Annabelle Lipscomb, is now a part of an exceptional group of high schoolers chosen as Semifinalists in the 2025 National Merit Scholarship Program! When she received the email from her school counselor, she said, “I was really surprised, because I barely remember taking the test since it was

National Constitution Week at Macon East

Macon East Academy’s 5th and 6th graders had a fantastic time celebrating National Constitution Week! Students engaged in an interactive learning experience by rotating through various stations, each designed to highlight key aspects of our Constitution. From fun activities to hands-on projects, the kids enjoyed discovering the importance of this foundational document in an engaging way. It was inspiring to see their enthusiasm for learning about the rights and responsibilities that shape our nation.

Family Reunion at PRIS

Kimberly Spain gave her son, Domani Jenkins, the surprise of a lifetime when she returned home after serving overseas for the past five months. When his mom walked in, 5th-grader Domani was enjoying a snack with his classmates in the auditorium. Taken by surprise, he exclaimed, “That’s my mom!” It was a wonderful moment for his class to witness!

Pike Road Patriots of the Month

We are excited to introduce a new recognition program at the Georgia Washington campus, “Patriots of the Month,” to honor our outstanding students and teachers. Each month, two students from each grade level (7-12) will be nominated by their teachers and selected by the administration for this special recognition. Our student winners enjoy a special lunch with school administrators, including Dr. Lankford, and receive a yard sign to display at home for the month. In addition, teachers nominated by the school administration will also be recognized for their dedication and hard work.

We are proud of our Patriots and look forward to honoring more students and teachers in the months to come!

The last few weeks have been a whirlwind since officially kicking off the ad valorem school tax referendum with a joint press conference. While we’ve been working on this project for quite some time now, it feels good to finally be able to showcase all the hard work of so many behind the scenes and get the opportunity to share with our stakeholders about the financial cliff that we are facing very soon under the district’s current model. Autauga County Schools ranks 128 out of 138 school systems in the state when totaling all funding: federal, state, and local monies.

It’s time. It’s time to tell our students, faculty and staff, and families that we fully support them. It’s time to stop wearing the “look at how much we do with what little we have” badge of honor that we’ve been known for over the last several decades. It’s well past

time to invest in our students’ futures with a long-term financial model that focuses on student success. We are planning to do just that beginning on November 6 - the day following the general election. Our model will change either way the voters of Autauga County cast their ballots, but our resolve to continue educating future community and business leaders will remain the same under either model chosen by the people of our community.

We are working diligently to inform every registered voter of the facts related to this campaign. It clearly explains what we can do with a yes vote and what may be at stake with a no vote. Some believe we are promoting scare tactics, but the reality is that everything on the no side is partially funded with local dollars, and anything locally funded is at risk of being affected in some way. Local funding is the only source of funding that isn’t largely earmarked, so they are the only dollars we have the flexibility to move where needed to make the budget work.

Over the last year, we’ve been fortunate to renovate many buildings, overhaul fine art and athletic supplements, add some teach-

ing units, and expand class offerings at all schools because we received an unexpected $10 million from the state. These additional funds have allowed us to take care of items that have been on a wishlist for many years, but they are not guaranteed from year to year. If we knew we would receive this money annually, we would not request an ad valorem school tax referendum.

I encourage you to do the research, attend the school community meetings, ask your questions, and advocate for what you believe is best for our system. Your voice matters in this democratic process! As we plan for the future of Autauga County Schools, your input matters. Please read more at ACBOE. net/advalorem and share it with others as we work to ensure that every voter has access to this information to make an informed choice.

Lyman Woodfin is a 18-year veteran of the school system having served as a classroom teacher, coach, and school administrator. He is married to Staci and they have five children who attend school in the district.

Literacy Day at Pine Level

At Pine Level Elementary School, Miss Pack’s kindergarten class is getting geared up for Literacy Day. After reading “Beautiful Oops,” students were given a blob of paint and had to create something beautiful out of it. They used their imagination to create something and be able to tell a story. Tomorrow we will add faces, stickers, crayons, markers to the objects they have created.

Daniel Pratt Visits STARBASE

Fifth graders from Daniel Pratt Elementary School have been enjoying hands-on STEM learning at STARBASE this month. STARBASE Maxwell is a unique and innovative Department of Defense (DoD) STEM awareness and outreach program that creates a bridge between DoD and civilian communities while sharing their expertise in the fields of science, technology, engineering, and math.

PIS Hosts House Mania

Prattville Intermediate School hosted an exciting evening of HOUSE MANIA! Families learned about the Ron Clark House System and how it has been implemented at PIS. Students had a chance to showcase their HOUSE pride with their energetic chants and awesome HOUSE attire. We are very excited about how our HOUSES will positively impact our students and our school this year!

WSFA’s Josh Johnson

Visits Daniel Pratt

DPES 4th graders got a special visit from WSFA’s chief meteorologist, Josh Johnson, as they begin hurricane tracking lesson. These students are learning more about geographical terms, weather patterns, and how experts in the field identify and predict storms.

Girls on the Run at PIS

Prattville Intermediate School’s fall season of Girls on the Run began Wednesday, September 4th. Each season, 16 girls participate in the national program that inspires girls to find their inner strength and increase their physical activity. The girls will put their news skills to the test at their end of season Celebratory 5k on November 9th at Cloverdale Park.

PIS Participates in PHS Homecoming Parade

Students from Prattville Intermediate had a great time participating in Prattville High School’s Homecoming Parade! Each year, PIS sixth-graders vote for a Homecoming King, Queen and Court. These students float their way through downtown Prattville, displaying their HOUSE colors and showing both their Cougar and Lion Spirit!

Our students and staff have settled into their routines and fall sports are in full swing with many football and volleyball games, as well as cross country track meets already in the books! Fall is always an exciting time of year as we look forward to cooler weather and enjoy supporting our students in all their endeavors.

October is a busy month! October 14-18 is School Lunch Week. The theme for the week is “Find Your Treasure.” Our Child Nutrition program will incorporate some special menu items and activities along with special guests to serve meals during that week. Our child nutrition staff works hard to prepare nutritious meals for our students throughout the year, and we anticipate some surprises from them during this week!

School Bus Safety Week is October 2125. Your child’s bus driver is the first school

system employee to see your child in the morning and the last one to see them in the afternoon. Bus drivers have additional training beyond the standard commercial driver’s license to become qualified to transport up to 72 students daily. Encourage your child(ren) to do their part by following their bus driver’s instructions, staying seated while the bus is moving, and adhering to all safety rules as outlined in our Elmore County Student Handbook and Code of Conduct. Please express your appreciation to your child’s bus driver for safely transporting your child(ren) each day.

October 23-31 is Red Ribbon Week. The Red Ribbon Campaign is the oldest and largest drug prevention program in the nation, reaching millions of young people across the country each year. This year’s theme is “Life is a Movie, Film Drug Free™”. The theme is a reminder that ordinary Americans nationwide contribute significantly to their communities every day by embracing a drug-free lifestyle. Each school plans engaging activities for students centered around drug awareness and prevention. Please encourage your child(ren)

to participate, but most importantly, talk with them about staying healthy and drug-free. October is also National Bullying Preven tion Month. In conjunction with Red Ribbon Week, our schools incorporate activities for students that focus on bullying prevention, re porting bullying, and appropriate interpersonal interactions.

Our top priority is for every student and employee to feel safe at school. We have addressed this through secured perimeters, limited entry points, School Resource Officers on every campus, mental health resources, social media monitoring, drills, policies to com bat bullying, and a focus on positive student/ teacher relationships. We continually monitor and evaluate our policies and procedures to ensure a safe environment where every student is empowered and every student succeeds!

Richard Dennis is the Superintendent of Education for El more County Schools. He is a 1983 graduate of Holtville High School. He served 21 years as a high school princi pal at Holtville High, Wetumpka High and most recently, Prattville High. He and wife, Leslie (also an educator) have three sons and a daughter.

Macon East Fourth Graders Enjoy Field Trip

Macon East Students Participate in AISA All-Star Football

ECTC Welcomes Congressman Barry Moore

Recently, Congressman Barry Moore met with the Superintendent Richard Dennis at the Elmore County Technical Center. The Tech Center Director Emilie Johnson gave Congressman Moore a tour of each department and gave him an opportunity to meet the Staff and Students. The Tech Center programs are on the cutting edge of technology to help prepare our students to go enter the workforce or further their education. The Superintendent also had time to share some challenges and issues that our School system is facing. It is very refreshing to have Congressman Moore take the time to see what is going on in Elmore County and help make a difference.

Culinary Program Serves Charcuterie at ECTC

Students from the Culinary Arts and Hospitality & Tourism programs at ECTC provided a charcuterie board as refreshments for visiting dignitaries on campus.

Ms. Johnson’s fourth grade class enjoyed an educational field trip this past Friday that goes along with their study of Alabama State History. The students were able to tour Alabama’s historic Capitol. They were able to view the beautiful rotunda, the spiral staircase, the Avenue of Flags, and the portraits of the former governors. The students also enjoyed touring The First White House of the Confederacy and The Alabama Department of Archives and History. Their special treat added to an already fun-filled day was eating lunch at Chris’ Famous Hot Dogs. Special thanks to Mrs. Custard and her daughter for taking time to guide us and give their expertise at all these historic places.

Eight Macon East student-athletes were honored to participate in the 2022 AISA All-Star Football game held December 2 at Cramton Bowl. Deonte Powell, Sanders Manning, Gabe Spencer and Hunter Tillman all represented Macon East for the East team. Gabe Spencer was honored as Most Outstanding Offensive Back for the East team. Madison May, Ar’monni Payne, Hannah Kate Hodges and Mikalah Belser cheered the East team on from the sidelines as part of the all-star cheerleading squad. The participants enjoyed a few days of practice with their fellow AISA teammates. The East team beat the West team this year 36-22.

DJ Warren! Mr. Warren joined the ECTC staff in 2015 at the inception of the Automotive Service program which has grown in the last few years to include dual enrollment through Trenholm State Community College.

Our Leo club did a great job collecting toys to help make Christmas merry and bright for lots of children!

ECTC Students Attend College + Career Day

Seniors from across Elmore County visited with more than 60 different college, military, and business representatives at the annual College + Career Day event on September 4 at the Wetumpka Civic Center.

WHS JROTC Moves to ECTC Campus

Wetumpka High School’s

JROTC moved to the ECTC campus this year where it also serves students from Elmore County High and Holtville High. Students have been practicing proper flag etiquette

Club Fair at Elmore County Technical Center

Students across multiple high schools in Elmore County participated in club fairs on their campuses where ECTC was set up to share about our programs, CTSOs, and cooperative education.

Blisters abound, sugar levels soar, dehydration ensues, and next thing you know, what started as a fun, festive night feels more like a ghoulish nightmare. Before you turn into a witch or a warlock, remember, the key to enjoying the night is as simple as rallying the troops in advance, going over expectations, and getting prepared for anything that might go amiss.

Here are some tips from a mom who has literally been around the block a few times:

Split into age groups. Have one parent take one age group and the other parent take the other age group. Tweens like to run in packs and they move fast, so wear sneakers if you plan on keeping up with them. Toddlers and preschoolers may dawdle or tire quickly, so choose the more patient parent to accompany them. Or consider taking two shifts, one earlier in the evening for younger kids and another later in the evening for older kids, trading off who stays home to hand out candy.

Wear a backpack. Maybe it seems extreme to gear up as though you are going for an overnight hike just to walk a few blocks around the neighborhood. But the weather is fickle this time of year, and once you grab everything you need for a pleasant evening, you will be amazed by how much stuff you have to tote. And don’t be surprised if your kids shed pieces of their costumes as the excitement heats up. A shoulder bag may feel fine for the first fifteen minutes of the night, but after two-hours, you will likely wish you had brought the backpack.

Be prepared. Plastic and paper bags for treats are out. They are the most likely to rip or tear. Pillowcases are better, but these too may split open when stuffed. So whatever you do, don’t let the kids use your good set. Whatever they carry, stuff a few extra bags in your

backpack in case you need replacements. Also carry band-aids for blisters and water for hydration.

Eat a high-protein dinner.

‘Tis the season for over-indulging in sugar, which means it’s more important than any other time of year to emphasize three healthy high-protein meals a day. Be sure to give your kids limits on how much sugar they may consume between meals. Take their candy away and dole it out if they don’t comply with your limits or can’t seem to wean themselves off the sugar roller coaster.

Practice their refrains. Commit to making the night pleasant for all. “Trick-or-treat!” and “Thank you!” are the only things young children need to be able to say their first couple of years out. But encourage older children to be more cordial especially to the older folks in the neighborhood, who will likely opt out altogether if they are offended by enough poorly behaved kids. How about making a chorus of “Happy Halloween!” or “Have a great night!” mandatory before the kids run off to the next house?

Aim for the middle. If you are driving to another neighborhood to walk with a friend or friends, consider parking your vehicle in the middle of the neighborhood instead of on the edge or back at the friend’s house. This way, if you need to make an early exit for any reason, you’ll be that much closer to your escape car. When bringing along very young children with older children, consider a stroller or wagon. Even if the kids insist they don’t need one, they might want one later after exhaustion sets in.

Use social sense. No one likes to feel left out, so encourage your kids to invite new or shy kids who might not already be part of a group to join you. Or, if you know that you will all have a better time if it’s just you and your kids, don’t feel bad about breaking off from a group. Halloween is a great opportunity to teach kids about doing what works best for your family rather than always going along with the crowd. On the other hand, if there is a crowd you need to keep up with, now you will be ready. Happy Halloween!

Christina Katz’ favorite Halloween costume was the Tin Man from the Wizard of Oz. She is proud to share that she made the costume herself.

Tell us about your grandchildren: John Thomas (2), Brooks (10 mths), and Lucie Jane (newborn).

by Kim Spivey

Do your grandchilden live nearby?

All three of my girls live near Pike Road. I appreciate my children for giving me so much time with my grandchildren. I realize not all families are as close as ours. I’m very thankful.

Steve and I have three daughters, so we were ecstatic to find out our first grandchild was a boy, John Thomas Young. There is nothing like the first grandchild. His younger brother, Brooks, is very loveable and so curious. He watches everything JT does! We just received the blessing of our first granddaughter on 9-11-24, and we love having a little girl join the cousin crew.

How have your grandchildren changed or strengthened your connection with your own children, their parents?

Through my daughters becoming mothers, they are better able to recognize and understand my decisions as a mother. I love seeing them be aunts to each other’s children. It’s like the grands have three mamas!

What are your favorite things to do with your grandchildren?

Steve and I keep John Thomas and Brooks three days a week. It’s hard work, but we would not have it any other way. When he comes to Chief and CarCar’s, John Thomas loves to ride the tractor and backhoe. We love riding the golf cart and looking for deer. Brooks is getting old enough to watch JT and wants to do whatever Big Brother does.

What’s one of the funniest or most heartwarming things your grandchildren have ever said or done?

John Thomas has a strong vocabulary, so it’s been fun actually having conversations with a two-year-old little boy. He will say, “I pick you up,” when he wants to be carried. He is so loving, yet

strong willed. I love to hear him call me CarCar and Steve Chief.

What traditions has your family enjoyed that you hope will continue down through the generations?

Every year, we take a family beach trip. It’s not easy to get four families together at the same time, but we are fortunate that our kids are able and want to make it happen. One other family tradition that my Mom started when I was a child was to buy Christmas PJs for a Christmas Eve gift, so I continued that with my three girls. Now, I also get the grands matching PJs. I love seeing them in their pajamas at my house on Christmas Eve.

They say that becoming a grandparent is the only thing that lives up to the hype. Would you agree?

I remember hearing that grandparenting was the best gig ever. I had a hard time relating because I loved raising my girls and spending time together as a family of five. But let me tell you, there’s nothing like it. We get to play, laugh, and sing to our heart’s desire, without all the worry and stress of the day-to-day details. We love every minute of it.

What is the best grandparent advice you can share?

My advice is to relax and have fun. Don’t take life so seriously around the grands. They need some place to release, relax and enjoy. Why not be that for them? Play, get on the floor, and roll cars around. Sit at the tiny table for a tea party. You won’t regret it!

Kimberley Carter Spivey is a freelance writer, blogger, author, and entrepreneur. Her debut book Bloom: How to Get from Good Enough to a Life You Love can be purchased on Amazon and girlyouwrite.com.

Bio: Carlyn Russell and her husband, Steve, have three married daughters: Josie, Stevie, and Sadie, and three grandchildren.

Make It An Annual

TRADITION

By Christina Katz

Every year, weeks before Halloween, we take a half-day pilgrimage to the pumpkin patch. Our local pumpkin patch is so festive that we usually go twice each season, once as a family and again with friends.

Pumpkins are bright globes of cheer against the muted shades and foreboding weather of autumn. And kids from toddlers to teens never tire of annual visits to pumpkin patches. While some keep things as simple as a roadside patch and pay station, others go all out and create a full harvest festival with animals, rides, bakeries and shops.No matter how fancy, a visit to the pumpkin patch is good for the soul. It’s an opportunity to slow down and enjoy time in nature, take in the wide-open views, and enjoy the crisp fall air in fields dotted with pumpkins in all shapes and sizes.

Here’s how to make the most of each and every trip:

Plan Ahead. Check our Fall Festivities

any. Expect these patches to get increasingly busy as Halloween draws near, and plan accordingly. If you must go on peak days, arrive early to beat crowds and get the best parking. Leave strollers, pets and food at home and bring plenty of cash to purchase delicious seasonal snacks like kettle corn, caramel apples and fresh doughnuts.

Bring friends. Spread your love by bringing friends to the pumpkin patch. What’s great about going back year after year is that you get to watch your children become old enough to try things they’ve looked forward to doing, like braving the haunted hay maze or driving the pedal carts. You might leave some activities behind as the years go by, like the petting zoo or the kiddy playground, and that’s okay. Just be sure to choose a patch that has age-appropriate activities for your kids and their guests. You can always visit more than one throughout the weeks long harvest season.

hayrides, face painting, food and entertainment are all possibilities. If your children are different ages, parents can split up to find age-appropriate activities and then meet up later for a bite to eat or to hit the pumpkin patch.

Grab photos. You are unlikely to find as many photo ops anywhere as you will find at the pumpkin patch. Try getting down low in the patch and shooting upwards. Also try standing on something and shooting downward. Take shots yourself or hand your camera to a friendly passerby to capture your happy group. You are after fun shots, not perfect shots. And don’t forget candids. You can click three times per pose and edit out the duds later. If you know kids will tire out, get photos early on and then put the camera away and enjoy the day.

10 Tips for Picking a Pumpkin

2) Grab a wheelbarrow or a wagon if they are provided. This is no time for pride, which will evaporate once you get halfway out into the field.

3) If you have a wagon or wheelbarrow, pick any size pumpkins you like. But if each child will carry their pumpkin, help them select a manageable size.

4) Choose a carving pumpkin that feels firm and heavy for its size when you pick it up.

5) Choose a pumpkin that is uniformly orange and not at all green with a nice, thick stem.

6) A green stem indicates a freshly harvested pumpkin. Stems can be fragile, so do not lift or carry pumpkins by them.

7) Avoid any pumpkins with soft spots, brown spots, holes, cracks, splits, wrinkles or mold. The pumpkin shell should be uniformly hard to the touch all the way around the pumpkin. Be sure to check the bottom and the side that was on the ground.

8) Round or oval-shaped pumpkins are easier to carve and are full of seeds you can scoop out and roast.

9) Put your pumpkins on a flat surface before you bring them home to make sure they will sit pretty without rolling over. Haul in a few extra pumpkins from the patch just in case you have some rejects.

10) Newer varieties of decorative pumpkins have a range of colors, shapes and warts. When unsure about quality, have a salesperson inspect your selections before you pay.

Perfect Roasted Pumpkin Seeds

As everyone is carving pumpkins, offer a large bowl or pot for pumpkin pulp. When the bowl is half full, loosen the seeds with your hands and fill pot to the three-quarters mark with water. The seeds will rise to the top. Squeeze them through your fingers to remove any clinging pulp as you transfer them to a colander to rinse again. Then spread them on paper towels and pat dry.

Set your oven for 325 degrees and transfer seeds to cookie sheets in single layers. Sprinkle each pan of seeds with a tablespoon of olive oil and a few shakes of salt. Turn seeds with spatula every eight minutes until crispy on the outside and golden on the inside. Estimated roasting time is 20-30 minutes but do not let seeds turn brown. Remove roasted seeds from oven, cool and enjoy. Store leftovers in an airtight container at room temperature for up to two months.

Author, journalist and writing coach Christina Katz cannot get enough of trips to the farm. Hot apple cider, warm doughnuts and caramel apples are her favorite fall treats.

Art & Crafts / Festivals

Newtopia Fun Park

Fall Festival

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TBA 3731 Malcolm Drive Montgomery, AL 36116

Please call for pricing. Includes face painting, balloon animals, spooky jungle gym, cotton candy, candy apples, giveaways and more! (334) 356.4518 newtopiafunpark.com

2024 National Peanut Festival

November 1-10 5622 U.S. Hwy. 231 S Dothan, AL 36301

Headliners Tucker Wetmore, Ashley McBryde, Ian Munsick, plus more. Livestock exhibits, competitions, demolition derby, crafts, food preservation, recipe contests, entertainment, carnival rides, sea lion show, and much more! (334) 793.4323 nationalpeanutfestival.com

31st Annual Alabama Cotton Festival

October 12 Main Street Eclectic, AL 36024

8:00am-2:00pm. Eclectic, Al. ; Arts and crafts, flea market items, concession- booth spaces are free. 5K Cotton Run, Alabama Rook Tournament, local talent contest, children’s activities, antique cars and tractors, performances and more. (334) 541.3581 townofeclectic.com

33rd Annual Christmas

Made in the South

November 1-3 Columbus Convention & Trade Center, 801 Front Avenue Columbus, GA 31901

Amazing craftspeople, outstanding art, unique gourmet food, and diverse entertainment to whet and satisfy every demanding appetite. Handmade, one-of-a-kind designs populate the booths that fill the festival: silk wearables to fabric bags, glass jewelry to close-up photography of nature’s funniest and fiercest creatures all await and more! (704) 847.9480 madeinthesouthshows.com

44th Annual Oktoberfest

October 12 Charles E. Bailey, Sr. Sportplex, 1842 Sportplex Blvd. Alexander City, AL 35010

8 a.m.-3 p.m. Day-long celebration features local arts and crafts, great food, entertainment, Kid-Fest children’s activities, sports programs, antique car show and much more.

(256) 329.6736 alexandercityalgov

46th Annual Alabama Tale Tellin’ Festival Presented by ArtsRevive

October 12 Arts Revive Carneal Building, 3 Church St. Selma, AL 36702

The performers this year are Dallar County Blue grass Study Group and BBQ Enseble. (334) 410.2302 artsrevive.com

51st National Shrimp Festival

October 10-13 101 Gulf Shores Pkwy, Intersection of Hwy 59 & East Beach Blvd. Gulf Shores, AL

Over 300 vendors that offer fine art, arts and crafts, a retail marketplace and of course, SHRIMP!! (251) 968.7200 myshrimpfest.com

53rd Annual Harvest Day Festival

October 11-12 City Square, Downtown, 25 Grove St. Headland, AL 36345 Friday, 6-10 p.m. and Saturday, 9am-3pm. This fun-filled event takes place downtown in and around the beautiful city square. Friday night features Street Dance. The day features arts and crafts, a car show, children’s games and rides, a variety of food vendors, and live entertainment throughout the day. Local shops and restaurants will also have special offers and sales. (334) 693.3303 headlandal.org

61st Annual Bluff Park Art Show

October 5 Bluff Park Community Park, 517 Cloudland Drive Hoover, AL 35226 9:00am-5:00pm. Sponsored by the Bluff Park Art Association and includes more than 130 local and national artists displaying fine art for sale. Bring the kids to enjoy some hands on art fun. (334) 822.0078 bluffparkartassociation.org

Alabama Frontier Days

November 6-9 Fort Toulouse/Fort Jackson, Wetumpka, AL

9 a.m. - 3 p.m. This event demonstrates life in the South in the 18th and early 19th Century. (334) 567.3002 forttoulousejackson.org

Alabama Gourd Festival

October 18-19 Sparkman Civic Center, 406 Nance Ford Road Harstelle, AL 35640 Annual festival features gourd arts and crafts, such as birdhouses, musical instruments and decorated gourds. gourdzilla@aol.com alabamagourdsociety.org

Alabama Safari Park Spooky Safari

October 19, 20, 26 & 27 Alabama Safari Park, 1664 Venable Way Hope Hull, AL 36043 9-5 p.m. Trick or Treat with the animals! Designed for a younger audience, families can enjoy a day of fun for children and the young at heart.

(334) 288.2105 alabamasafaripark.com

Boll Weevil Festival

October 19 Downtown Enterprise, AL 36330

11 a.m. until 4 p.m. Arts and crafts vendors, variety of music, food, children’s costume contest and activities, farmers market, car show, family entertainment.

(334) 347.1211 enterprisealabama.com

Boo Festival

October 26 Village Green, Millbrook, AL 36054

10 a.m. Free Community Fall Festival with some Halloween mixed in. Join us for Fall Farmers Market, costume contest, Bike-R-Treat, hayride, pumpkin patch, hay mountain, food trucks, DJ, loads of candy, games & much more (334) 312-2866 cityofmillbrook.org

Charis Crafters

“Home for the Holiday” Craft Show

November8-9 Wetumpka Civic Center, 410 South Main Street Wetumpka, AL 36092 Wetumpka Civic Center Tickets are available in

advance and at the door. One ticket is good for all three-show days! Door prizes will be given away every hour. The Craft Show features a variety of handmade items as well as homemade delight available for purchase. These pieces are perfect for gift giving, home decor and Holiday decorating! (334) 201.1817 delm713@wowway.com

Christmas Village Festival

November 6-10 BJCC, 2100 Richard Arrington Jr. Blvd N Birmingham, AL 35210

The largest indoor arts, crafts, and gifts show in the south, this show draws exhibitors from over 30 states with products like clothing, jewelry, food, decorations and much, much more. (205) 836.7178 christmasvillagefestival.com

City Market presents Harvest Market

October 12 Town Creek Park, 1150 S Gay Street Auburn, AL 36832

8 a.m. to Noon. Growers, makers, bakers and artists will be selling fresh fall produce, baked goods, meats, flowers, hand crafted items and more. (334) 501-2930 auburnalabama.org

Cotton Pickin’ County Fair

October 5-6 18830 Hwy 85 Gay, GA 30218

Return to 1910 where the Farmhouse, the Cotton Gin, and the Cotton Warehouse form a unique backdrop for a great day of 21st century fun. Amidst skilled artisans and antique specialists, the Fair shares remnants of farm life in days gone by. New talent keeps the festival fresh and interesting while returning artists welcome loyal customers seeking to add to individual collections. (706) 538.6814 cpfair.org

Fall Farm Day & Festival

Harvest Hoe Down

TBA Downtown City Park, 3636 Whitehouse Parkway Warm Springs, GA 31830

10 a.m. until 5 p.m. Enjoy this fall celebration with arts, crafts, good food, entertainment and more!

(706) 655.3322 festival.net

Helena’s Buck Creek Festival

October 11-12

Amphitheater Park, 4151 Helena Road Helena , AL 35080

October 11 at 6 pm and October 12 at 10 am. HBCF is a two day festival that includes live

a-kind holiday gift in our artists’ marketplace, where world-renowned Native artists and crafters demonstrate their skills and offer items for purchase.

(800) 401.2407 stonemountainpark.com

Main Street Fall Festival

October 26 21 Main St Alexander City, AL 35010

10-2 P.M. Fall Fest, Bounce House, Pumpkin Decorating, Field Games, Picture Op, Face painting, vendors. With Trick or Treating from 11 to 1!

(256) 329-6717 alexandercityalgov

October 19 Landmark Park, Dothan, AL 36303 10-4 P.M. Learn how peanuts were harvested in the Wiregrass a half-century ago. Enjoy the sights, sounds and smells of cane grinding, syrup making, butter churning, basket weaving, soap making and other traditional farm activities. Plus, food, music and antique tractors and farm equipment. (334) 794.3452 landmarkparkdothan.com

Harvest Festival

October 12 Oak Mountain State Park, 200 Terrace Dr Pelham, AL 35124 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Join us on Saturday, October 14th for our Annual Harvest Festival at Oak Mountain State Park! Help us celebrate Fall and welcome the beautiful Autumn colors that grace our Oaks each year! Hay Rides! Inflatables! Shopping with LOCAL Artists! Food Trucks! Pony Rides! Pet Friendly! Regular Entrance Fees Apply: Age 3 and under are free, Age 4-11 are $2 each, Age 12-61 are $5 each, and Age 62+ are $2 each *Military and Veterans FREE* (Annual Passes are Valid) (205) 620-2520 alapark.com

bands, arts, crafts and retail vendors, kids play area, beer tent, food trucks and the iconic rubber duck race. This is a family friendly event. (205) 615-1741 helenasbuckcreekfestival.com

Hummingbird Festival

October 19-20 Downtown, 400 E. Main Street Hogansville, GA 30230

10-5 PM. Main Street will be bustling with food, crafts, antiques, music, local artists, open storefronts, rides, and activities for the whole family.

(706) 333.2520 hummingbirdfestival.com

Indian Festival & Pow-Wow

October 31 -November 3 1000 Robert E. Lee Blvd Stone Mountain Park, GA 30083

Experience Native American culture through dance & drum competitions, music, authentic craft demonstrations, cooking samples and storytelling activities. Learn about primitive skills such as flint-napping, bow making, fire starting, open fire cooking and pottery. Find that one-of-

Peanut Butter Festival

October 26 475 Dickert Circle Brundidge, AL 36010

A harvest and heritage celebration honoring the town’s proud heritage in the peanut butter industry. The free for all festival features a 5-K Peanut Butter Run, non-stop entertainment, contests, games, exhibits, recipe contest, Peanut Butter Kids Contest and the Nutter Butter Parade and food galore including everything peanut butter.

(334) 685.5524 piddle.org

Pioneer Day “Syrup Soppin Day”

October 26 6500 Stage Rd

Loachapoka, AL 36865

8:00am-3:00pm. The same great sausage, biscuits, syrup, music, mules, arts, crafts, etc. that has been offered for the last 40 years will continue to be the same. The Plantation Heirs will sing at noon. Creek Indians demonstrations in heritage crafts and good food. Many vendors are returning along with new vendors. (334) 887-3007 leecountyhistoricalsociety.org

Russell Lands Fall Family Festival

October 26 Russell Crossroads, 17 Russell Farms Road Alexander City, AL 35010

10 a.m. until 1 p.m. Join friends and neighbors for pumpkin painting, a costume contest, wagon rides and more, courtesy of Russell Lands on Lake Martin. (256) 397.1019 russelllandsonlakemartin.com

Russell Lands Holiday Bazaar

November 29 Russell Crossroads, 17 Russell Farms Road Alexander City, AL 35010 9 a.m.-4 p.m. The Holiday Bazaar, in conjunction with Christmas at Crossroads, will be held Friday, November 26th on the Town Green. Artisans and patrons from all over gather for this vast annual display of handmade goods. Artisans feature everything from jewelry, soaps, paintings, pottery, woodwork, lotions, furniture, and much more! (256) 397.1019 russelllandsonlakemartin.com

Spinners “Pumpkin Patch” Arts & Crafts Show

October 26-27 Spinners Park, 390 West Sixth Street Prattville, AL 36067

Exhibitors of original art and crafts from throughout the southeast will display their wares. Food vendors, live entertainment, games, a coloring contest and many other activities for children and youth. Door prizes will be given at intervals during the show. Other events include The Great Pumpkin Race, a 5K/8K Race and a one mile Run/Walk, a motorcycle show, jack-o-lantern contest and more. Free admission and free parking.

Sweet Creek Pumpkin Fall Festival Arts & Crafts

October 19-20 85 Meriwether Road Pike Road, AL 36064

10 am-5 pm. *** Stay tuned for BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS*** Many many surprises! (334) 280.3276

Church Events

First Baptist Church

Montgomery FamilyFest

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October 27 305 S. Perry Street Montgomery, AL 36104

4 to 6 pm Free Games, Fun Fellowship, Fantastic Prizes. Wear a fun, happy costume! Food available to purchase. (334) 834.6310 montgomeryfbc.org

First

Methodist

Wetumpka

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October 26 306 W. Tuskeena Street Wetumpka, AL 36092

5-7 p.m. Contest, games, and treats for all ages. Parents are encouraged to attend with child. (334) 567.7865 wetumpkafirst.com

Angel Fest

October 19 St. Michael and All angels Church, 5941 Main Street Millbrook, AL 36054

9 a.m. until 2 p.m. Enjoy entertainment while you browse the booths of renowned local artisans, bid on amazing items for an unbeatable price at the Silent Auction, as the children enjoy the Kids’ Carnival. Don’t miss out on all the great food… Grab a tasty lunch of mouthwatering homemade goods at the Bake Sale, freshly cooked Boston Butts and more. Put the date on your calendar and come be part of this classic Millbrook festival! (334) 285.3905 stmichaelsallangels@gmail.com stmichaelsandallangels.com

Dalraida Baptist Church Fall Festival

October 27 3838 Wares Ferry Road Montgomery, AL 36109

4:30 until 6:30 p.m. Candy and booths. (334) 272-2412 thedalraidabaptist.com

Dalraida Global Methodist Fall Festival

TBA 3817 Atlanta Hwy. Montgomery, AL 36109 Please call for more information. (334) 272.2190 dalraidagmc.tv

East Memorial Baptist Church Fall Festival

October 30 East Memorial Baptist Church, 1320 Old Ridge Road Prattville, AL 36066

5-7 p.m. Free admission! Car trunks and Truck bed will be decorated with various themes/stories and filled with lots of candy and treats, concessions, inflatables and more. Children of all ages are welcome. (334) 365.7500 www.eastmemorial.org

Eastmont Baptist Trunk or Treat

October 27 4505 Atlanta Highway Montgomery, AL 36109

3-5 p..m. Begins in the front parking lot of Eastmont Baptist Church. Bring your little super heroes, princesses, pirates and cowgirls for a FREE, fun and safe alternative to trick-or-treating. (334) 277-6300 eastmont.org

FUMC Montgomery Fall Bazaar

November 6 2416 W. Cloverdale Park Montgomery, AL 36106

Luncheon | 12:00-1:00 p.m. Fellowship Hall Shopping & Silent Auction 1:00-7:00 p.m. Wesley Hall; Baked Goods, Frozen Foods, Garden Treasures, Gifts & Crafts, Kid’s Closet (334) 834-8990 fumcmontgomery.org

Messiah Lutheran Church

Oktoberfest 2024

October 12 Messiah Lutheran Church, 6670 Vaughn Road Millbrook, AL 36116

11 am. German and American Food & Beer Garden, Bouncy House & Kids Hands-on Activities, Community Marketplace with vendors and non-profit organizations, Live Entertainment, Used Book Sale, Treasure Room, and More! Free Admission; Free Parking; Open to the Public (334) 277-4213 messiahlutheranmgm.org

Millbrook Baptist Fall Festival

October 31 Millbrook Baptist Church, 3431 Browns Road Millbrook, AL 36054

6 p.m. Come join us for a safe and fun evening filled with Games, Candy, and Fun for the entire family. (334) 285-4731 millbrookbaptist.com

Mulder Church Fall Festivities

October 27 3454 Firetower Road Wetumpka, AL 36093

4-6 p.m. Fun for the whole family. Free hot dog supper, hayrides, inflatables, games with prizes, candy and face painting. (334) 567.4225 mulderchurch.com

Saint James Church Annual Fall Festival

October 27 9045 Vaughn Rd Montgomery, AL 36117

4 until 5:30 p.m.

Bring your family for games, food, prizes, a bake auction, and trunk or treat. Remember to wear your costumes (nothing scary) and bring your buckets for the amazing goodies. (334) 277.3037 sjlife.com

Taylor Road Baptist Church

Treats the Town featuring “Bible Storyland”

October 27 1685 Taylor Rd Montgomery, AL 36117

Gates open at 5 p.m. Come out for a night of fun. We will have games, a cake walk, photo booth, inflatables, and food truck.

We will also have Trunk or Treat with lots of candy. (334) 271.3363 taylorroad.org

Thorington Road Baptist & Grace Pointe Fall Festival

October 20-21 Thorington Road, 450 Ray Thorington Road Montgomery, AL 36117

3-5 p.m. Partnering with Gracepointe Church. Come join us for inflatables, games, and fun for the entire family. Free! Rain or shine! (334) 396.9376 trbaptist.org

Fall Farms

Choctafaula Pumpkin Patch

October 1-27 929 Lee Rd 14 Auburn, AL 36830 Open Saturdays 10:00am-4:00pm and Sundays 12:00-4:00pm in October. Fall attractions include animal attractions, pumpkin patch, pony rides, corn crib, haybale maze, fun farm photo areas and petting zoo. Have a hands-on animal encounter with bison, camels, zebras, wildebeest, and our other farm animals. Amenities: gourmet cafe, adult refreshments, children’s playground area, family games and activities, face painting and corn hole. Available week days for private events, corporate events, and educational school field trips. (334) 209.1777 visitchoctafaula.com

Corn Dodgers Farm

October 1-27 168 Sweetwater Drive Headland, AL 36345

Corn field maze, pumpkin barn (pick your own), cow train ride, corn cannon, pony rides, corn box,

sunflower path, hay rides, pipe maze, farm-sized tic-tac-toe, and more (334) 726.1485 corndodgersfarm.com

Cornfield County Farms

Pumpkin Patch

September 28-October 27 Elmore County community of Redland at the intersection of Redland Road & Willow Springs Road Wetumpka, AL 36093 Pumpkin Patch, Corn Maze, Sunflower Maze and more. Also booking Bonfires and Birthday Parties. Church groups welcome! Weekdays and groups by appointment only. (334) 850.7084 cornfieldcountyfarms.com

Farmer in the Dell Pumpkin Patch

October 1-31 Lee County Road 61 Auburn, AL 36830

Located 6 miles west of Toomer’s Corner off of Hwy 14 near Loachapoka School. Pumpkin patch-pick in the field, pumpkin patch- already gathered from the field, corn maze, child-sized hay bale maze, tractor-pulled hay rides and more. (334) 750.3792 auburnpumpkinpatch.com

Penton Farms

October 1-November 2 3595 Cty Road 59 Verbena, AL 36091

Enjoy wagon rides, corn maze, animal barn, cow train, playground, concessions, super slides. (205) 351.1480 pentonfarms.com

Sleepy Hollow Haunted Farm

October 1-31 929 Lee County Road 14 Auburn, AL 36830

Friday and Saturdays in October. The farm features a haunted house, haunted hayride and haunted maze. A free petting zoo is available nightly for family enjoyment. Tickets and additional information are available online.

(334) 750.2591 sleepyhollowauburn.com

Halloween Events

Ausome Amphibians & Reptiles

November 1 Louise Kreher Forest Ecology Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College Street Auburn, AL 36830

AUsome Amphibians, a well-established gameday tradition at Auburn, is back (334) 844.8091 aub.ie/ausomeamphibians

Candy Coosa Crawl

October 28 Wetumpka Sports Complex (directly behind the stadium), Wetumpka, AL 36092

4 p.m. Get ready for a spooktacular time at the Coosa Candy Crawl in Wetumpka! Dress your kiddos in their favorite costume and join in the fun. Bounce houses, face painting and more. (334) 478-3926 mainstreetwetumpka.org

Creatures of the Night at Alabama Nature Center

October 19 AWF, 3050 Lanark Road Millbrook, AL 36054

Beginning at 3 p.m. Bring the family and join us for a Halloween-themed evening under the stars, hosted by the ANC and Reality Connection. Activities will include a slithering snake encounter, black lighting for insects, ewwy gooey touch table, flashlight spider search and night hike, and a movie under the stars! While you are here make sure you meet our baby Alligator! Free hotdog, chips and drink. All ages, but recommended for ages 5 and up. 1(800) 822.9453 alabamawildlife.org

Creatures of the Night: Family Fun Night

October 25 Montgomery Zoo 2301 Coliseum Pkwy. Montgomery, AL 36110 5:30-8:30 pm. A night featuring a live animal presentation of creepy creatures and a flashlight tour of the Mann Museum, games, live animal presentations, and a whole lots more fun! (334) 625.4900 montgomeryzoo.com

Halloween Enchanted Forest

October 17-19 Louise Kreher Forest Ecology Preserve & Nature Center, Auburn, AL 36830 Halloween Enchanted Forest- 5:30-7:30 pm; Enjoy a fun family-friendly Halloween event hiking the Kreher Preserve trails and visiting some costumed

characters who will entertain you on how they “trick or treat” other animals in the forest. Children are invited to wear their costumes and enjoy some early Halloween fun! Pumpkin bowling, campfire, fortune telling and face painting will be available! S’mores kits and drinks will be available for purchase. Registration is required. Check online for more details. (334) 844.8091 aub.ie/enchantedforest

Haunted Auburn Walking Tour

October 4-5, 11-12, 18-19 and 25-26 102 South College Street Auburn, AL Every Friday and Saturday in October. Join your hosts Stoker and Poe as they lead you around to Auburns most haunted locations. Hear the tales,

daytime Halloween festival of events at your Zoo! Wear your costumes and trick-or-treat around the Candy Trail, join the DJ for a Monster Mash dance party on Henley Lawn, take a ride on the Red Diamond Express Train and Protective Life Carousel, Climb on up our Full Moon BBQ Spider Climber Adventure Tower, meet animals of all shapes and sizes, and play yard games on Henley Lawn!

205) 879-0409 birminghamzoo.com

Interactive Ghost Hunt

October 17 The Prattaugan Museum, 102 E. Main Street Prattville, AL 36067

6:30-9:30 PM. Join the tv personalities The Southern Ghost Girls Tours as they host an

urban ledges, first hand accounts and true life facts about these locations. Two tours each night first at 6pm the other at 8pm weather permitting. Dress accordingly. Fun for all (may not be suitable for children under 12). Meet at the 2 Eagles by the Toomer Oaks. Admission is FREE!! We will be adding Opelika to our tour. Please call for details. (334) 444.1422

Haunting on the Harriott II

Halloween Costume Party Cruise

October 26 Riverwalk, Montgomery, AL 36104

Boarding at 8:00pm, Cruises time 9 pm. Live entertainment, Cash Bar, Costume Contest with prizes and more!

(334) 625-2100 funinmontgomery.com

Hoots and Howls: A Daytime Halloween Event

October 12-13, 19-20 and 26-27 Birmingham Zoo, 2630 Cahaba Rd Birmingham, AL 35223

Calling all ghouls and goblins, it’s time to trickor-treat around the Zoo at our annual Hoots & Howls events! Join us for the Hoots & Howls

interactive Halloween season ghost hunt at The Prattaugan Museum House in Prattville, Al. This is a one of a kind event and opportunity that you will not want to miss. The team will lead you on the interactive ghost hunt using state of the art paranormal investigation equipment just like you see on all of the paranormal television shows.

(205) 823.3818 southernghostgirls.com

Mall-O-Ween

TBA Eastdale Mall, 1000 Eastdale Mall Montgomery, AL 36117

4-8 p.m. Trick or treat store to store (334) 277-7380 shopeastdalemall.com

Nature Nightmares

October 25-26 Louise Kreher Forest Ecology Preserve & Nature Center, 2222 North College Street Auburn, AL 36830

Now in it’s 3rd year, Nature Nightmares, a haunted hike through the pitch-black forest, gets better (and scarier) each year!

(334) 844.8091 aub.ie/naturenightmares

Parade of Pumpkins

October 18-31 Historic Downtown Prattville, Prattville, AL 36067

Grab a pumpkin, get in the spirit, and share your creativity at the Parade of Pumpkins hosted by the City of Prattville! Stroll through Historic Downtown Prattville and explore a pumpkin wonderland featuring carved and decorated pumpkins, festive storefronts and seasonal displays. This familyfriendly event is free and open for anyone to participate.

(334) 595.0100 prattvilleal.gov

Other Fall Fun

Pumpkin Junction at Heart of Dixie

Railroad Museum

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October 5th-6th, 12th-13th, and 19th-20th. 1919 9th Street Calera, AL 35040

Our big ‘backyard’ at Pumpkin Junction! More than a place to purchase a pumpkin, the Junction is a place for outdoor family fun, crafts, inflatables, food vendors, a hayride and more! An adults-only wine tasting may be available, compliments of Ozan Winery & Distillery. Saturday Departure Times: 10:00 a.m., 1:00 p.m. and 3:00 p.m. (Central) Sunday Departure Times: 1:00 p.m. and 3:00 p.m. (Central) https://www.hodrrm.org/

3rd Annual Pumpkin Run

October 12 Cloverdale Bottom Park, 3100 Cloverdale Road Millbrook, Al 36106

The 5K Pumpkin Run and Lots’O’Fun Run starts and finishes at Cloverdale Bottom Park (Cloverdale Road) in Montgomery’s historic Idlewild Community and will have fun and games for the whole family. Tentative eventsalong with the 5K and Fun Run - for the 2023 Pumpkin Run include face-painting, a Smoocha-Pooch Photo Booth, cornhole and horseshoes, bouncehouse and a pumpkin patch.

(800) 467-0422 alagames.com

66th Annual Central Alabama Fair

October 28-November 2 Lion’s Fair Park, 2401 W. Dallas Ave Selma, AL 36701

Fun-filled event offering a midway with rides, entertainment,agricultural exhibits, livestock judging and a competition for local arts, crafts, canning, sewing, and more!

(334) 872.6717 selmalionsclub.com

70th Annual Cullman County Fair

October 3-12 1551 Sportsman Lake Road NW Cullman, AL 35055

Thrilling rides, amazing exhibits, and the best in local and regional entertainment. (256) 734.0661 cullmanfair.org

71st Alabama National Fair

October 4-14 Garret Coliseum, 1555 Federal Drive Montgomery, AL 36107

Midway rides, main stage entertainment, food,

information and commercial booths, kids area, livestock and other competition, family faith day, and more!

(334) 272.6831 alnationalfair.org

Alabama Nature Center Fall Family Campout

October 26-27 Alabama Nature Center, 3050 Lanark Road Millbrook, AL 36054 Fall is in the air and it is a perfect time to come to the ANC for a great camping experience! Enjoy a night with family under the starts with activities that include roasting marshmallows, spider search, a night hike, fishing and more! The kids will even get to make their own glow stick lantern to take home! Please visit website for more information. (706) 653.4472 alabamawildlife.org

Autauga County Fair

October 8-12 Mac Grey Park, 1050 Martin Luther King Drive Prattville, AL 36067

Join us for a night of praise and worship at this year’s Autauga County Fair in Prattville, Alabama! We’ll be playing from 6p - 8p on the main stage and we cannot wait to see you out there! (334) 365-6459 autaugacountyfair.com

Broomsticks & Brews

October 10 Downtown Wetumpka, AL 5-8 PM. Wander through the charming streets of Downtown Wetumpka, where participating shops

& restaurants will extend their hours to offer sips, exclusive deals, discounts, and one-of-a-kind treasures.

Great Grits Cookoff and Festival plus Nitty Gritty 5K

October 19 Prattville YMCA Bradford Branch, Prattville, AL

8 to 11 AM. Enjoy vendors, live music, giveaways, kids zone, cookoff and more. (334) 358.9622

Montgomery Junior League Holiday Market

October 10-12 The Multiplex at Cramton Bowl, 220 Hall Street Montgomery, AL 36104

Start the Winter Holiday Season off right with shopping the Jr. League’s Market, Virtual Show. Each year, holiday themed booths set up for a great, one-stop-shop for all your Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years items. (334) 288.8816 jlmontgomery.com

Pioneer Days at Pioneer Museum of Alabama

October 11-12 Pioneer Museum of Alabama, 248 Highway 231 N Troy, AL 36081 10:00am-4:00pm. Horse and wagon rides, trips on the Pioneer Express, Native American camps with demonstrations of candle making, spinning,

weaving, quilt making, blacksmithing, drum, dance, etc. Friday is School Day. (334) 887.3007 pioneer-museum.org

River Walk Wine Festival

October 11 Union Station Train Shed, 300 Water Street Montgomery, AL 36104

6-9 p.m. Includes wine tasting from 10 different distributors representing over 100 wineries. Admission is $30 per person and will include: Etched commemorative wine glass, discounted wine purchases from participating local wine shoppes, food vendors, live music, picnic baskets and coolers are welcome, and more! (334) 354.6021 montgomeryal.gov

Shoot a Zombie-The Ultimate Paintball Experience

October 5, 11-13, , 19-20, 25-27, 31

Wetumpka Zombie Experience, 699 Shady Trails Wetumpka, AL 36092

Hayrides are fun, but the woods are scarier!! Could you handle a zombie apocalypse? Come find out! Walk our 1/4 mile trail with one of our custom paintball guns and shoot all the zombies you want! Come test your apocalyptic skills! If you dare! Open every weekend in October! Friday & Saturday from dark until midnight. Sunday from dark until 10pm. (334) 402-0149 wetumpazombieexperienc.com

The Adams Family Spooky Movie Night

October 11 Pratt Park, 460 Doster Road

Prattville, AL 36067

Come watch the Adams Family, on a 40-ft screen, under the stars in Pratt Park. Wear your costumes, bring your lawn chairs, blankets, and grab dinner or snacks from one of the food trucks in the park.

(334)365-0251 prattvilleal.gov

Out of Town/State Fun

Annual Pumpkin Festival

September 14-November 3 Stone Mountain Park, Stone Mountain Park, GA 30083

Play by day as you enjoy family-friendly park attractions and special fall entertainment featuring our Pumpkin Laser Show, Nighttime Party Parade, Glow In the Dark Experience and some of your favorite classic storybook characters! Then, after the sun goes down, you’ll glow by night in a whole new light with the all Dino Glow Experience and plenty of other not-so-spooky outdoor experiences! (800) 401.2407 stonemountainpark.com

BOO 24 Halloween Party

‘Skulls and Roses”

October 25 B&A Warehouse, 1531 1st Avenue

South Birmingham, AL

8:00pm . Live music, costume contest and more. Open to adults 21 yrs. and older. (205) 326.4220 boohalloweenparty.com

Ghost Tours at Port Columbus

October3-6 National Civil War Naval Museum, 1002 Victory Drie Columbus, GA 31901

Guided walk through the museum with paranormal investigator and author Faith Serafin. Tour the National Civil War Naval Museum with author and paranormal investigator Faith Serafin. The tour highlights findings from previous investigations. Experience the mysterious and exciting stories that you will hear nowhere else! (706) 327-9798 portcolumbus.org

Halloween Fairyland

October 26 Tannehill State Park, 12632 Confederate Parkway McCalla, AL 35111

The Tannehill Halloween Festival, a nonscary fun-filled holiday event focused on the campgrounds, annually attracts over 6,000 visitors, most of them children. Begun in 1992, the event features park-sponsored programs during the afternoon and traditional Halloween candy “trick or treat” stops at more than 200 campsites during the evening. Park events include a moon walk, clowns, face painting, pony rides and sand art. A special tradition is the festival’s annual Halloween Festival tee shirt. (205) 477.5711 tannehillstatepark.org

Old Cahawba Haunted History Tours

October 19 & 26 Old Cahawba Archaeological Park, 9518 Cahaba Rd Orrville (near Selma), AL 7:00-10:30 p.m. Alabama’s most famous ghost

town is rarely open to nighttime visitors, but on these dates, a few lucky people will experience Old Cahawba after dark. Advance tickets are required. This is a deluxe wagon tour but some walking is necessary. Recommended for ages 12 and up. Fee: $25 per person. No refunds. (334) 872-8058 selmaalabama.com

with illuminating experiences like an Enchanted Forest, glow-in-the-dark mini golf, and a towering Pumpkin Tree!

(844) 512.3826 callwaygardens.com

Stone Mountain Highland Games

Pope’s Haunted Farm

October 5, 11-12, 18-19, 25-26 450 Lee Rd 724 Salem, AL 36874

October weekends. Pope’s Haunted Farm has three different events to experience and scare you. The Haunted Barn: Taken, the Haunted Hayride that many have claimed to see the infamous evil specter Jasper, and lastly you can experience the Haunted Forest that’s an unguided tour that includes a graveyard deep in the woods. (706) 566-7766 popeshayride.com

Pumpkins

at Callaway Gardens

October 1-29 Callaway Gardens, 17800 US Hwy 27 Pine Mountain , GA 31822

Explore gardens by day and watch them glow by night with a brand-new family-friendly festival: Pumpkins at Callaway! As the weather cools, our 2,500-acre gardens transform into a harvest haven with pumpkin sculptures, topiaries, and magnificent mums in brilliant autumnal hues. Stay after dark to watch the grounds come to life

October 19-20 Stone Mountain Park, 1000 Robert E. Lee Blvd Stone Mountain Park, GA 30083

One of the premier Scottish festivals in the US, Stone Mountain Highland Games will feature colorful pipe bands, Scottish Athletics, Piping and Drumming competitions, Highland dancers competing before judges of worldwide renown, Country Dancing, Scottish Harping and Fiddling. Scottish foods and drink, clan tents and vendors selling lovely goods imported from the British Isles, and Celtic performers are also a part of this traditional gathering. (800) 401.2407 stonemountainpark.com

School Festivals

Alabama Christian Academy Fall Festival

November 7 4700 Waresferry Road Montgomery, AL 36109

Inflatables, Pony rides, games and more. They will have a silent auction and Country Kitchen and chili cook off. Each class sponsors games for children of all ages. Concessions will be available. Admission (334) 277.1985 alabamachristian.org

Edgewood Academy Fall Festival

October 29 5475 Elmore Road

Wetumpka, AL 36025

5:30 PM. Carnival, games, cake walk, hayride, inflatables, and much more. Costume contest divided by age group. Ticket prices at the door. (334) 567.5102 edgewoodacademy.org

Hooper Academy Fall Festival

October 29 380 Fischer Road

Hope Hull , AL 36043

5-7 PM There will be a cake contest, inflatables, cake walk, toy walk, costume contest and more. Admission ages K-6th grade. (334) 288.5980 hooperacademy.org

Rewarding Success

Q. My wife and I are trying hard to get out of debt and start controlling our finances. We’ve always given our kids allowances in the past, but we’ve been considering putting their allowances on hold until we pay off our debt and get in better shape financially. What do you think about this idea?

A. I’m glad you two are making smart changes in your lives, but I wouldn’t stop what you’ve been doing where your kids are concerned. It can be a series of great teachable moments for them. I would, however, stop calling it an allowance. In my mind, there’s a victim mentality attached to word “allowance,” and that’s not something you want taking root in their minds.

mission” instead of an allowance. Why? Because in situations like these shouldn’t be viewed as “allowing” them something. It should be looked at—by you and by them—as rewarding success.

Kids should learn at an early age that money is connected to work. Even a kid who’s in kindergarten is old enough to begin doing some age-appropriate chores around the house. So, let’s start calling it a “com-

My wife and I did this very thing with our kids as they were growing up. Each of them had a list of chores that were expected of them each day. If they did their jobs, they got paid at the end of the week. If they didn’t, they didn’t get any money.

Some people may look at this method and call it “tough love.” But it’s really not. It’s just love. It’s something you do when you’re trying to teach your children, and guide them toward becoming independent, responsible adults.

Planning Ahead

Q. I was wondering if you recommend including future purchases, especially major purchases, into your monthly budget. If so, how far in advance should you do this?

A. When you wait until things go wrong or something breaks down, you’ll find yourself in a mess and the victim of your own poor planning. That’s why I’d start putting money aside in my budget as soon as I saw signs there would be a need for whatever item it may be.

Let’s say you’re pretty sure you’ll need a newer vehicle in a couple of years. Go ahead and start putting the money aside now. Decide on a reasonable, affordable ballpark price, then do the math to see how much you’ll have to save every month to make it happen. And if you can make it happen faster than two years? Great! And remember, this kind of stuff is a whole lot easier when you don’t have things like car loans and credit card payments hanging around your neck!

I feel like I never see my 17-yearold twin teens anymore. School, sports, activities, work, and friends all call them away from home. I try to convince myself that their packed schedules help ease me into the transition of them going to college next year, but the truth remains — I miss spending time with them.

According to Maria Sanders, LSW, a clinical social worker and certified parent coach, my situation is, well, ordinary.

“Doing your own thing is normal and healthy in those teen years, but it is really difficult for us parents.”

She’s right. It is difficult. For me, and for many parents.

Ken Ginsburg, MD, the founding director of The Center for Parent and Teen Communication in Philadelphia and author of Congrats...You’re Having a Teen!: Strengthen Your Family and Raise a Good Person, says that “the major difference between the teen years and the tween years is the extra experiences that young people have. They’ve learned to stretch their wings and to succeed.” But he also says, “In addition to that, they have the ability to think differently.” In other words, as our children mature into adulthood, they form their own thoughts and opinions, which may not align with our ideas and make it more difficult for us to connect with our teens.

We want a deeper connection with our teens, but...

1) Our teens don’t have much time for us.

2) We worry that our teenagers are taking unnecessary risks.

3) Our teens pick a lot of fights with us.

Despite those challenges, experts

as much as they did when they were younger. Here are some ways experts suggest we support teens.

Breathe.

It can be really hard to stay centered and calm when our teens are determined to criticize us at every turn. Our first instinct might be to respond with anger, but Sanders says this will only cause more problems.

“There’s a phrase called ‘no action in reaction.’ If we are having a reaction to something our kids did, let’s say your child comes home late, then that’s not the time to act, because you are in a reactive mode. Don’t take any action. Instead, take a deep breath, a big pause, maybe sleep on it, and discuss it when there is a good time and you’re calmer,” Sanders says.

Be curious.

If your teenager is having trouble with following limits, like not coming home in time for curfew or letting the car run out of gas, Sanders recommends using Dr. Ross Green’s method of collaborative problem solving, where parents and kids work together to solve problems

Sanders offers an example of how this might work when your teen is struggling with coming home on time for a curfew:

Parent: “It seems like you’ve had a difficult time getting home at curfew. Help me understand what’s going on.”

Teenager: “Nobody starts to hang out until nine o’clock. So if I have to be home at 10 o’clock, I only get an hour with my friends.”

Parent: “Okay, that’s good information. What’s important to me is that you do get home because I’m concerned about your safety. After 10 p.m., things start to get sketchy. So I’m wondering what ideas you have so you can still hang out with your friends and make it home on time.”

Sanders explains, “It’s not just the parent dictating what the consequences are. It’s the parent and the child having their concerns put out on the table and figuring out a solution that works for everybody.”

Ginsburg agrees with Sanders. “Your ultimate goal with your teenager is to have a relationship that lasts for decades after they’ve left your house. If they are struggling to become independent and you become very controlling, they will push you away.”

He also stresses the importance of communicating that we respect them. “When we tell kids what to do based on our experience, kids are hearing the message, ‘I don’t think you’re capable of figuring this out on your own.’” Ginsburg suggests, instead, that we be curious and ask questions about how they can solve problems on their own. He reminds us, “When we ask them what they’re experiencing, and ask them what they think

is going to happen, then we give them the opportunity to think things through.”

Create rituals and routines.

Rituals and routines are a great way to connect with a teenager who is often not able to spend as much time with their parents and siblings. For example, even though my teenagers didn’t need me to walk them to the bus stop in the morning, I created a new morning routine so that I could have extra time to connect with them.

“It’s important to find those family traditions that can be carried through to when they are older so we’re able to have that connection,” Sanders says. She offers the example of her family’s annual summer camping trip, where they go screen-free because quality time together without their screens is good for developing adolescent brains and for family dynamics.

Know that you still matter to your teen.

The teen years are full of incremental moves to separate from parents. For both parties, it’s an exciting time for personal growth; yet, those moves toward separation can also be scary and stressful.

Ginsburg reminds us, “There are a lot of myths out there about adolescence. One suggests that adolescents don’t care what adults think and don’t particularly like their parents. Know that definitively and without question: You Matter to Your Teen.”

Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, and many other publications. rrp

The Importance of Micro-Moments in Your Child’s Life

Many years ago, I learned about micronutrients and macronutrients. The key difference lies in the amount required by the body. Macronutrients are needed in large quantities for energy and structure, while micronutrients are necessary in smaller amounts for various biochemical functions and overall health. I was a personal trainer, and I needed to be able to teach my clients the difference between these building blocks. Both play an essential role in helping people feel their best and be the healthiest version of themselves. I’m no longer a personal trainer, but I have come to recognize the immense importance of micro-moments with our children.

Much like micronutrients, these micromoments play a vital role in helping kids as they grow. Allow me to explain. If we take a look at our daily lives, they are made up of what I call micromoments. Micro-moments are brief instances throughout the day that can significantly impact a person’s emotional state, productivity, and overall well-being. A quick conversation with a friend,

bending over to pet your dog before you leave for work, leaving a note for a loved one, a quick text… these are all micromoments. Our kid’s lives are inundated with these moments, as well, many of them happening via a screen. These moments can encourage our children to be present and mindful, helping them to appreciate the small joys in life, or they can be damaging. For social media and increased time in this space, I want to explore how they can be damaging.

Teens are spending an average of five hours on devices a day. Research shows that they check their phones AT LEAST 100 times a day. This almost sounds unbelievable, but if you break it down into ten checks an hour, they reach 100 in 10 hours. And 10 “checks” an hour seems like nothing to a kid with Snapchat. If we break these numbers down even further, it would be disturbing. Out of the average of 100 checks, at least half of those are something that is negative or harmful. It may be issues with friends through a quick snap. It may

be a disturbing video through TikTok. However, around half of these micro-moments on social media are not positive in nature. That is like saying, I am going to tell you 50 good things today, but only if I can also tell you 50 “bad” things. We would never sign up for that. But our kids do. Everyday.

I call these micro-moments because they are embedded in our children’s lives in short-form videos and quick snaps. They are not long conversations but rather quick, random bursts of information. Physiologically, our bodies hold onto this information, and we have an incredibly hard time processing the “bad” or negative micro information. I believe it is one of the reasons anxiety is so high among our youth.

To combat this issue, I highly recommend having your own micro-moments with your children. Quality conversations. A bit of time together, device-free. A 10-second hug before their day starts. And, of course, guidelines should be set for their social media intake. It is my belief that all of our micro-moments indeed have macro consequences.

Kristi Bush serves as a national education consultant and social media safety advocate. She is a licensed social worker with greater than 15 years of clinical practice and health care experience. She attended Troy and Auburn University where she studied social work and counseling. Kristi travels nationally and has spoken with thousands of children, parents, professionals and organizations about the benefits and threats associated with social media. You may reach Kristi through her website at www.knbcommunications.com.

Grading Family Movies: Streaming, Online Rentals, and Theatrical Releases

Beetlejuice Beetlejuice

You Gotta Believe

Astrid has never believed in her mother ’s abilities to see the dead and she doesn ’t take seriously her pleas not to repeat the name she reads on a pamphlet about a bioexorcist: Beetlejuice. After three repetitions, the Juice is on the loose and it will take cunning and effort to get him out of the land of the living. This is a totally unnecessary sequel, but, thanks to Michael Keaton, it ’s fun in a manic kind of way That said, the plot is over-stuffed, the pacing lags, and the negative content includes creepy violence, sexual innuendo, profanity, and social drinking.

It’s 2002 and the Fort Worth Westside youth baseball team is thrilled to have a shot at the Little League World Series, but they’ve got big challenges. First, they are in last place in their area and have two weeks to up their game. Second, their coach (the father of one of the players) has just been diagnosed with cancer. Based on a heartwarming true story, this movie follows all the beats of an underdog sports flick. The script is sometimes unfocused, characters are a bit thin, but overall , this is a sweet, family-friendly film with minimal negative content Photo ©Well Go USA

After getting the marketing contract for a new Artifical Intelligence product named Aia, Curtis brings it home to test it out in the real world. In itial results are positive: cooperative kids and a well organized house. But then, things get scary….The idea of an evil smart home assistant has promise, but this script fails to deliver. Bad pacing and patchy writing are a drawback, and violence and a subplot involving teen sexting will concern most parents Photo

Few people are neutral on the subject of Ronald Wilson Reagan, 40 th President of the USA. Reagan attempts to offer a sweeping portrait of the Gipper ’s life and career, focusing primarily on his attempts to defeat Communism. Unfortunately, the movie suffers from a clumsy frame narrative involving KGB officers, rushed storytelling, and constant grimaces from lead actor Dennis Quaid. Reagan ’s life is too complex for 135 minutes and the filmmakers would have been well advised to focus on a smaller slice of his life and do it well

Tally lives in a world obsessed with beauty – so obsessed, in fact, that at age 16, everyone undergoes cosmetic surgery to become a “Pretty”. But Tally makes a friend who tells her about The Smoke, a place where people refuse surgery and live off the land. Now Tally has to decide what she really wants. Based on a YA book series, this adaptation discards complex moral themes, replacing them with watered down, shallow bromides. Negative content is fairly minor but that ’s not a good enough reason to watch the film. Read the books instead. Photo ©Netflix

Photo ©Warner Bros

Please use your inside voice. Eat your broccoli. It’s bedtime. Wear your jacket.

As a parent, you have probably said at least one of these statements more than a hundred times to your child. Adults are always telling kids how to behave. But there are times when kids do things better than us.

Here are 5 behaviors adults can learn from kids:

1. Just Say No

Most toddlers favorite word is no. A child will cross their arms and stand their ground shouting no until they turn blue and pass out. Adults do not have the same ease of using the word.

Why is saying no hard for adults? According to an article in Psychology Today there are many reasons adults struggle with using the word no. Often people want to belong to a group so they may say yes to receive approval from others. Another reason a person may resist using the word no is fear of upsetting another person. Lastly, a person may want to be helpful and feel valued so they reframe from saying no.

How can adults just say no? Psychology Today says the word no should feel empowering. By practicing and remaining diplomatic most people will improve their ability to say no to others. Envisioning how easy it is for a child to say no may also help you realize you can do it as well.

2. Ability to Negotiate

If you tell your child their bedtime is 8 pm, often they will ask how about 8:30 pm? Or if you suggest they eat five more bites of their dinner they respond with, “Can I only eat three bites?” Children have little fear or resistance to negotiating with adults or other kids.

Why is negotiating hard for adults? An article on Salary.com states, “our research found nearly one-fifth of workers never negotiate after they’re offered a job.” After interviewing 2,000 people about why they don’t like to negotiate Salary.com found the biggest reason was fear of losing their job.

In a Money Watch article by Jeff Haden, he states, “I hate negotiating, mostly because a negotiation often feels confrontational.” Heidi Grant Halvorson Ph.D. shares this viewpoint by stating, “A negotiation is an experience that is rife with conflicting motivations.”

your childhood memories of play to reconnect with the idea. You can also play with your child or invite them to do a creative activity with you.

4. How to Succeed

If you have witnessed a child learning to walk or learning to ride a bike, you will see that despite falling down, they continue to get up until they master the skill. Children don’t allow failure to hinder them from trying again until they succeed.

Most success is the result of many failed attempts such as mastering a new skill. How can adults succeed? Guy Winch, Ph.D. suggests the best way to overcome failure is to focus on the aspects you can control. After you are able to figure out what isn’t in your control, try to improve it by taking a class or preparing and practicing for the next time you attempt the skill.

How can adults negotiate better? Negotiating is an important skill since it enables you to earn a higher salary or pay less for a car or house. This skill can help you in both your personal and business relationships. Similar to saying no, you will feel empowered when you are able to negotiate effectively.

3. Play Creatively

If a child sees a basket of dolls or Legos, they have the ability to play creatively for hours. Sometimes a cardboard box is enough inspiration for a child to pretend to be in a car, train or plane. As people age, they no longer use pretend play. Why is creative play challenging for adults? In her article on Psych Central, Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S. discusses why adults struggle with creative play. She states, “Play for adults is perceived as unproductive, petty or even a guilty pleasure.” This leaves adults feeling as if the creative play is unnecessary, yet she found play helps people to feel happy.

How can adults play creatively? Tartakovsky suggests you can add play into your life by changing how you think about it and giving yourself permission to play. She recommends using

5. Finding Humor in Everything

Children laugh at almost anything. If an adult speaks in high pitched voice, stumbles over a shoe or mispronounces a word, a child will erupt into a fit of laughter. It is easy to make a child laugh. If you ask any comedian, they will probably tell you it’s not as easy to elicit laughter from an adult.

Why is difficult for adults to laugh? People may hold back with laughing due to a fear of offending others. Robert Provine, Ph.D., author of the book Laughter, states that adults laugh less than children due to the fact they play less.

How can adults laugh more? Provine found people are more likely to laugh when they are with other people as opposed to being alone. You can also read humorous books, watch funny TV shows or spend time with your child since laughter can be contagious.

Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and is the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, Upworthy, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Count Your Blessing and Your Teen Magazine. You can find her at Twitter @CherylMaguire05.

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Thursday, October 3

Midland: The Get Lucky Tour w/ Elvie Shane + Carter Faith

6:30 PM - 10:00 PM, Avondale Brewing Company, 201 41st Street S, Birmingham, A

All tickets are standing general admission. For this show, there are two options. Preferred Pit - barricaded area at the front of the venue - limited availability. General Admission - located behind the barricaded area. https://www.avondalebrewing.com/calendar-tickets/ midland-oct3

October 4-14

Alabama National Fair

Get ready for the Alabama National Fair! Mark your calendars for October 4-14 and join us for 11 days of fun, entertainment, and excitement. Follow us to stay updated on events, contests, and more!

https://alnationalfair.org/

Saturday, October 5

Howler Arts and Literary Festival

9:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Union Station Train Shed, Downtown Montgomery

Come out to the Union Station Train Shed in downtown Montgomery and experience over 70 of the best authors, artists, and bakers the River Region has to offer! And hang around for lunch with the variety of food trucks that will be on site!

https://hilltophowlers.org/howler-art-%26-lit-festival

Sunday, October 6

Fall Art Show- Prattauga Art Guild

1:00 PM Prattville Creative Arts Center 342 S Chestnut St, Prattville, AL

The Prattauga Art Guild will host its annual Fall Art Show in October at the Prattville Creative Arts Center and Gallery on Chestnut Street in Historic Downtown Prattville. There will be a joint opening and reception on Sunday, October 6 at 1:00 p.m. This annual exhibit features works by visual artists from throughout Prattville and the River Region. There will be works from a myriad of art media, including painting, drawing, photography, mixed media, sculpture, fiber, and more. https://prattvilleal.gov

Jeepers Creepers Car Show 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM, Historic downtown Prattville The City of Prattville and the Downtown Merchants are excited to present “Jeepers Creepers” cruise in car show in Historic Downtown Prattville every October. This car show will feature Jeeps of all ages and types. While Jeeps will be featured, there also will be other makes and models of cars, trucks, and other vehicles. https://prattvilleal.gov

Monday, October 7

Eagles Fore Easterseals (Starts at $150 for individual players.) 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Arrowhead Country Club, 2185 Normandie Dr. Eagles Fore Easterseals is a Golf Tourney & Life Auction benefiting Easterseals Central Alabama. www.eastersealsca.org

Thursday, October 10

Junior League Holiday Market

Multiplex at Cramton Bowl, Montgomery You will find beautiful Clothing, Incredible Jewelry, Gifts, Children’s Items, Art, Gourmet Food, Bath Products, Home & Holiday Decor, Handmade, and One-of-a-Kind Items that you won’t find at a mall, Gifts for Men, and so much more! Bring the Family, Friends, and the camera for pictures by the Christmas Tree. www.jlmontgomery.org/fundraisers/holidaymarket/

Broomsticks & Brews - Sip, Shop, Stroll

5:00 PM - 8:00 PM, Main Street Wetumpka Witch way to downtown Wetumpka? Grab your friends and fly downtown for a spooktacular sip, shop, and stroll event!

https://mainstreetwetumpka.org/events

MANE’s Raise the Roof 30th Anniversary Celebration/Fundraiser

MANE’s Poarch Creek Arena You can provide lifechanging opportunities for MANE’s students! Through MANE’s “Catch a Miracle” Scholarship Program, approximately 80% of enrolled students are able to benefit from therapeutic horseback riding and equine assisted activities with no cost or financial stress to their families. Enjoy live music, great food, dancing and more, all while supporting a great cause! https://maneweb.org/events for tickets.

An Evening of Wine and Jazz

(Individual Ticket: $50.00; Couples Ticket: $90.00)

6:30 PM The Sanctuary, 432 S Goldthwaite Street Join us for wine, jazz and a silent auction! Gift of Adoption provides grants to complete the adoptions of children in vulnerable circumstances – giving them permanent families and the chance to thrive. 100% of the funds raised by Gift of Adoption will help unite children with their forever families across Alabama. Tickets/Sponsor: giftofadoption.org/wineandjazz

Noises Off

7:00 PM The Cloverdale Playhouse, 960 Cloverdale Road Called “the funniest farce ever written,” Noises Off presents a manic menagerie of itinerant actors rehearsing a flop called Nothing’s On. Doors slamming, on and offstage intrigue, and an errant herring all figure in the plot of this hilarious and classically comic play.

https://www.eventbrite.com

Friday, October 11

Annual Riverwalk Wine Festival

6:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Union Station, 300 Water Street

Now in its 14th year, the Riverwalk Wine Festival has become the premier wine event for central and south Alabama. Featuring the state’s top wine importers and distributors and offering up a great selection of wines for sampling, this event has quickly become a hit with wine novices and connoisseurs alike. With live music provided by local and regional artists, and food vendors, this event is limited to 1,000 participants and draws wine enthusiasts across the South. Tickets required.

https://www.montgomeryal.gov

Chris D’Elia: Straight Outta the Multiverse Tour

8:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Center Chris D’Elia has become one of the most in-demand performers in comedy. His highly successful podcast CONGRATULATIONS WITH CHRIS D’ELIA has been a

mainstay on iTunes’ comedy podcast charts since its debut in February 2017.

https://www.ticketmaster.com

Saturday, October 12

Montgomery Regional Airport Runway 5K

6:00 AM - 8:30 AM, Montgomery Regional Airport

The Montgomery Regional Airport is excited to host its first Runway 5K. The MGM Runway 5K will be located on a closed course on the airfield with roughly four miles of runway. Racers will run on Taxiway Bravo, Delta, Echo, and Runway 3-21 south, which are all located beside our active Runway 3-28. Runners will have a chance to run beside aircraft and get a closeup view of aircraft landing and taking off. The uniqueness of this event allows runners to experience the airport grounds, amazing views of the MGM terminal and participate in a 5K race like no other! https://flymgm.com/mgm5k/

31st Annual Alabama Cotton Festival

8:00 AM - 2:00 PM, Eclectic, AL The Alabama Cotton Festival is a family event held every year on the second Saturday in October. Over 250 vendors will line Main Street with a wide variety of delectable food and unique wares. A kids activity zone will also be available. The festival also features a variety of events and contests, including a dog show, classic car show, photography and art contests, Cornhole Tournament, the Alabama Wildlife Federation, and much more. https://alabama.travel/upcoming-events/28th-annualalabama-cotton-festival-2020

This is Halloween!

7:00 PM - 12:00 AM, The Sanctuary, 432 S Goldthwaite St It’s Showtime! Join us for a Tim Burton themed Halloween party! There will be music, art vendors, and a photo booth by Early Riser Films. Costume contest for best Tim Burton themed character and best all around costume will awarded so come dressed in your strange and unusual! https://allevents.in

Girls on Top of the World

9:00 AM Alabama State Capitol Steps

Say Cheese! Round up every girl you know ages 3 to 18 years old for a historical “Girl Empowerment and Awareness” Movement. On this International Day of the Girl Child, let us amplify girls’ voices and recommit to working together to build a world where every girl can lead and thrive. The global community comes together to celebrate the power of girls and highlight challenges girls may face globally. We come together to look at those challenges and explore how we can make a difference. This event is hosted by Pink and Pearls for Girls Incorporated. Sign up today to receive additional information. 334-561-5091 pinkandpearlgirls@gmail.com

Sunday, October 13

Build Your Own Boat Competition

($50 PER TEAM TO ENTER | FREE TO WATCH THE FUN! ) 1:00 PM - 5:00

PM, Montgomery Whitewater Participants will design, build, and navigate their custom boats through the rapids on our Competition Channel. Whether you’re a seasoned adventurer or a first-time paddler, this event promises creativity, teamwork, and a whole lot of fun—no experience necessary!

https://montgomerywhitewater.com/events/buildyour-own-boat-registration/

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Asleep at the Wheel

6:30 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, 201 Tallapoosa Street Founded in 1970, Asleep At The Wheel has been part of the American roots music landscape for more than 50 years. Although the band got its start on a farm in Paw Paw, West Virginia, Asleep At The Wheel became a cornerstone of the Austin, Texas scene upon its arrival in 1973. Inspired by Western swing and honky-tonk country, the band has accrued 10 Grammy Awards. In the Fall, a career retrospective recorded with the current lineup — and a few special guests — will carry the band back onto the road, where they’ve remained a staple for decades.

https://mpaconline.org/asleep-at-the-wheel/

Friday, October 18

Danae Hays 8:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, 201 Tallapoosa Street Alabama-bred and Nashville-based, comedian, actress, and content creator, Danae Hays represents a fresh, new female voice in the comedy, acting, and music worlds. Her cast of zany southern characters and parody country music songs have pushed her to the top of the Spotify and Apple Music charts, earning her a cumulative following of 3.6M+ followers and nearly 2 billion views.

https://mpaconline.org/danae-hays/

Saturday, October 19

Glassner Autumn Challenge

5:30 AM - 9:00 AM, Alabama State University Are you ready to join us for the 2024 Backroads “Capital City” Cycling Safety Party Ride in Montgomery? We will have all of the fun and excitement you have come to expect from the Montgomery Bicycle Club celebrating again for 2024. This is the 22nd annual century ride held in memory of Dr. Jim Glassner, a longtime friend and supporter of cycling in central Alabama. An MBC Member, Jim was killed in a cycling accident on December 16, 2001. We renamed our century event (which we have been running since the 80’s) in his honor. He was an avid cyclist and the Autumn Challenge is dedicated to his love of cycling. https://www.mgmbikeclub.org/glassner.html

2024 Walk of Life for Breast Cancer

8:30 AM Historic Downtown Montgomery We’re CELEBRATING 20+ years & OVER 100,000 mammograms! Join us for our annual Walk of Life 5K and Riverfront Celebration in downtown Montgomery! Bring the family and enjoy a day of serious FUN as we come together in a BIGGER way to fight breast cancer in Alabama.

https://joytolife-walkoflife2024.funraise.org/page/ walk-of-life-tickets

Zoo Brews and Food Festival

9:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Montgomery Zoo, 2301 Coliseum Pkwy, Montgomery, AL 36110 Join us for day of tailgating fun and follies: a yummy assortment of food trucks, beer and wine vendors, live bands and entertainment, large lawn games to play, and much more. https://www.montgomeryzoo.com/

2nd Annual Art in the Bottom Park

10:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Cloverdale Bottom Park We are so excited to be hosting the 2nd Annual Art in the Bottom Park presented by Sandra Nickel Hat Team, Realtors! Join us for a day in the park filled with local

artists, music, and lunch with Funky Forte Food Truck from 11-2.

https://www.facebook.com/events

Auburn’s Oktoberfest 2024

3:00 PM AG Heritage Park at Auburn University, 600 S Donahue Dr, Auburn, AL Our annual Auburn’s Oktoberfest will take place on Saturday, October 19th from 3 PM until 7 PM and feature live music throughout the festival from Kidd Blue and The War Damn Polka Band. More than 70 breweries and wineries represented, a dozen homebrewers, educational tents from Auburn University’s AU BREW and a HOP Presentation by Auburn’s Horticulture Department. Entertainment and activities will include Mr. & Mrs. Oktoberfest, Stein Hoisting, Weiner Dog Racing, Barrel Racing, Chicken Dance Competition and much more. Games and activities will be set up throughout the festival along with several large TV’s highlighting the days football games.

https://auoktoberfest.com/

October 19-20

Arts and Crafts Festivals

10:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Sweet Creek Farm Market Join us Saturday and Sunday for the SweetCreek Arts & Crafts Festival . Entry is FREE. There will be hayrides, live music, and amazing food. https://shoppikeroad.com/event/sweet-creek-artsand-crafts-festival/

Sunday, October 20

Trust Again Tour- Lysa TerKeurst & Natalie Grant

7:00 PM Vaughn Forest Church Broken trust complicates every bit of the parts of love that should be comforting. Maybe a friend constantly lets you down. A family member betrayed you. A spouse cheated on you. A leader deceived you. And now you’re wondering, if God let all of this happen, can He even be trusted? You are not alone in these struggles. Lysa TerKeurst has been in your shoes and deeply understands. That’s why she’s creating special one night events during the month of October 2024 on the Trust Again Tour with worship leader, Natalie Grant. Each night will be filled with powerful worship, Biblical wisdom & practical takeaways as you experience a revival in your heart, mind and soul, teaching you to trust God like never before. Get tickets at https://www.ticketweb.com

Monday, October 21

Bartender of the Year Regional Competition

5:00 PM Ravello Ristorante A competition for professional bartenders in Alabama, with regional competitions and a state grand prize of $1,500. Come Watch! Taste and Vote for your favorite! https://allevents.in

Friday, October 25

City Events Creatures of the Night / Family Fun Night Mann Museum Flashlight Tour

5:30 PM - 8:30 PM, Montgomery Zoo and Mann Wildlife Museum , 2301 Coliseum Parkway Night and Mann Museum Flashlight Tour Education Program and Family Fun Night. Peer through the darkness and discover walls lined with animal pelts of the past, see several deer species nose to nose, and if you can bear it, just around that corner may be 10 foot Polar bear just waiting to meet you. Creatures of the Night /

Mann Museum Flashlight Tour is an educational program and family fun night with hands-on experience, all sorts of adventure, and lots of fun. It is geared for boys and girls aged 5-12 years old, and their parents. Yes, parents, you are invited to join the fun too. www.montgomeryzoo.com

October 25 - 26

Dear Evan Hansen- Live in Auburn Gogue Performing Arts Center, Auburn, AL Declared “one of the most remarkable shows in musical theater history” by the Washington Post, Dear Evan Hansen is the first musical to take a groundbreaking look—from the point of view of both the parents and young people—at our complex, interconnected and social media-filled lives. https://goguecenter.auburn.edu/dear-evan-hansen/

Saturday, October 26

The Greatest Showman Tribute by Vienna Light Orchestra

6:30 PM Davis Theatre, 251 Montgomery St This immersive tribute concert series is coming to the Davis Theatre for the Performing Arts on October 26th for a grand performance to be held at 6:30 pm - a stunning venue of purpose and elegance located in the heart of Montgomery, AL. The original cinematic musical released in 2017 is based upon the story and life of P.T. Barnum who was a famous Showman and Entertainer. The unforgettable music centers around his creation of the Barnum & Bailey Circus and of course—the lives of its star attractions.

viennalightorchestra.com/1026-montgomeryal-showman

Tuesday, October 29

Bainbridge Block Party

11:00 AM - 2:00 PM, South Bainbridge Street in Montgomery Join us and our friends from the Alabama Poultry & Egg Association, the Alabama Forestry Association and Sweet Grown Alabama as we host an afternoon block party filled with food and fun on Bainbridge Street! This event will feature a Sweet Grown Alabama farmer’s market, tours of The MOOseum, burgers and chicken wings and a host of agricultural vendors!

https://allevents.in

Saturday, November 2

CASA Superhero 5K & Fun Run

7:30 AM Downtown Montgomery by Riverwalk Stadium Unleash your inner hero at the Superhero Run on November 2, 2024, in Downtown Montgomery by Riverwalk Stadium! Whether you sprint, jog, or cheer, come suited up in your most super garb and support the CASA of the River Region.Kickstart the day with free coffee at 7:30 AM, dash through the Fun Run at 8:30 AM, or take on the 5K at 9:15 AM. Celebrate victories at the Awards Ceremony at 10:15 AM, and soak in the superhero extravaganza with inflatables, food, and vendors. Join as a team to vie for the coveted CASA TEAM TROPHY—because every child deserves a hero, and today, that hero is you!

https://www.letsdothis.com

Wednesday, November 6

Sesame Street Live!

6:00 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, 201 Tallapoosa St, Montgomery, AL 36104 Elmo, Abby Cadabby, Cookie Monster, and their friends from Sesame Street are coming to your neighborhood to

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say hello! At Sesame Street Live! Say Hello, sing, dance, and play alongside your favorite furry friends, all while you follow Elmo’s puppy, Tango, in a fun game of hide & seek. So put on your dancing shoes and make your way to where the air is sweet for this all-new celebration on Sesame Street!

https://mpaconline.org/sesame-street-live/

Saturday, November 9

East Family YMCA’s 8th Annual Wing Festival

11:00 AM - 12:30 PM, East YMCA Join us as we put our local chefs to the test! Enjoy great chicken wings from our local competitors, refreshments, and a day of family fun with activities for children. You can come to eat or come to cook! Funds raised go towards East Family YMCA Annual Campaign.

https://ymcamontgomery.org/event/east-family-ymcawing-festival/

Saturday, November 16

Taco and Margarita Food Festival

11:00 AM - 5:00 PM, Garrett Coliseum You asked, they listened and are working to bring a day of fun to the Garrett Coliseum. This event still accepts vendors and food trucks and will have lots of fun. Tickets are required for entry, and you can purchase food from

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https://mpaconline.org/amy-grant/

Tuesday, November 19

A Magical Cirque Christmas

7:15 PM Montgomery Performing Arts Centre, 201 Tallapoosa St, Montgomery, AL 36104 Embrace the holiday spirit with A MAGICAL CIRQUE CHRISTMAS, a variety show full of nostalgia, charm, and aweinspiring performances for all ages. Get ready to be dazzled, enchanted, and filled with holiday cheer as you witness the incredible talents of world-class entertainers performing to your favorite holiday music. Celebrate the magic of the season with the entire family at A MAGICAL CIRQUE CHRISTMAS.

https://mpaconline.org/a-magical-cirque-christmas/

Through October 13

Pike Road Theatre Presents: Into the Woods 5346 Atlanta Highway Montgomery, AL 36109 Join us for a journey into the woods, where fairy tales collide and teach us lessons about life, responsibility, and growing up. With its witty and poignant storytelling, breathtaking score, and complex characters, “Into the Woods” is a musical experience you won’t want to miss.

www.pikeroadtheatrecompany.org

Through October 20

Art Connects Exhibition Montgomery

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https://mmfa.org/exhibition/art-connects-2/

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October 29

The Get Down Fall Concert Series

3:00 PM Montgomery Whitewater, 1100 Maxwell Boulevard The Get Down Fall Concert Series starts Sunday, September 8th at 3pm. Join us each Sunday until October 27th.

https://montgomerywhitewater.com

Weekly on Saturdays until December 28

Montgomery Whitewater | College Football Tailgate Saturday’s

11:00 AM - 8:00 PM, Eddy’s at Montgomery Whitewa ter Fall vibes are rolling into Montgomery Whitewater at Eddy’s Restaurant with our College Football Tailgate series brought to you by Alabama Power and CocaCola Bottling Company UNITED, Inc. Every Saturday during college football season, we’re firing up the grill, pouring out beer specials, and blasting college football on our new big screens starting at 11am. https://montgomerywhitewater.com/upcomingevents/college-football-tailgate/

Weekly on Sundays until February 9, 2025

Montgomery Whitewater | Sunday Brunch & DJ Sets

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“Battling cancer while pregnant. Thriving with my family today.”

Katie—Inflammatory Breast Cancer Survivor

Learning you have cancer is frightening at any time, but combining that with being pregnant as you start chemotherapy, seemed unbearably daunting. My biggest fear was that the treatment would harm my unborn baby. Dr. Davidson crafted a precise, personalized plan and reassured me that my baby would be safe. A second opinion from MD Anderson confirmed the plan. God could not have put me in a better place for this journey, and I feel blessed to have been in the care of Montgomery Cancer Center’s exceptional team, who seemed like angels guiding me through it all. Nine years later, I’m cancer-free and grateful to be watching my youngest daughter—my own little angel—grow up into a beautiful young girl.

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Tenesha Carter

RRP: How do you balance being a 12-year business owner for Aqualime Skincare and being a busy mom?

TC: To be very transparent, it’s hard, and something I’m still working on daily, but staying organized and making a dedicated to-do list for myself and the family works best. Giving yourself grace is the key. Life gets busy and finding that balance not only helps me but helps my family, too.

RRP: How do you foster a strong relationship with your children?

TC: From an early age, I learned that kids understand and are aware of more than you think. Therefore, I encourage an open communication environment with my kids, so they feel free to ask questions and share opinions and feelings. My kids are important, and I want them to feel comfortable talking to me at any age.

RRP: What led you to become a PTA board member, a cheer coach, and a troop leader for Girl Scouts?

TC: I honestly love being a part of what my kids are involved in. This is my second year on the PTA Board, and I have learned many ways schools and the community could use our help. Volunteering is a passion of mine and brings me such joy. I’ve built great relationships doing volunteer work and truly enjoy connecting with youth. My daughter is passionate about Girl Scouts and loves learning new skills, going on fun adventures, and being a little entrepreneur. It’s hard not wanting to be a part of that with her. I love sharing her passion!

RRP: How do you encourage your children to participate in extracurricular activities?

TC: My kids have many different interests, and I encourage them to be open-minded and try something new even if it scares them. You never know the things you are good at until you try. It also teaches them discipline, responsibility, and the ability to stay dedicated to something they enjoy doing. I love seeing them happy while thriving as a kid and living a healthy and active lifestyle.

RRP: How would you describe your parenting style?

TC: I’m a fun and spontaneous parent, and I love taking the kids on surprise day trip adventures. They love them, too. Spending time together away establishes a bond, creates lasting memories, and allows them to relax and reset their intentions. It’s a time that I cherish as they get older and change.

RRP: What are ways that you actively practice self-care?

TC: I’ve recently rediscovered my love of gardening. It’s my time with my thoughts while enjoying something that boosts my mood and reduces anxiety and stress. It’s good for my mental health and brings me joy. This summer, I grew a little pumpkin patch. It was nice to see my fruits of labor come to fruition.

RRP: What did you learn about parenting from watching your mom?

TC: My mom is the strongest person I know. Her strength has taught me things about life and how to persevere through parenting. There’s no guide for parenting, and sometimes, we all must learn as we go. But I hope that I make the best decisions for my kids. Watching her raise three kids and seeing the sacrifices she made taught me what it truly means to be a great parent. Raising kids is no easy feat, however, it’s one of the most remarkable things I’ve accomplished thus far.

RRP: What is an important lesson you have learned as a mother?

TC: To meet kids where they are. As kids grow up, they will face different challenges in life. They will learn different things at different times. As they face the world, the lessons they learn will shape them into stronger and more resilient people. I want them to embrace the moments in life. They are fleeting and go by quickly.

Rapid Fire Questions

Favorite place to vacation? Anywhere beachside

What brings nostalgia from your childhood? Sitting on the porch Night out exploring the city or Netflix at home? Exploring the city

Favorite self-care ritual? Relaxing bath with candles and music Best way to spend a Saturday? Day trips to nearby cities to check out local events and markets.

Tenesha Carter recently celebrated 14 years of marriage with husband, Greg. Both Tenesha and Greg own their own businesses. Tenesha is the founder of Aqualime Skincare and Greg owns a Comic Shop and Car Fabrication Shop. The Carter family resides in Montgomery.

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