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{ SHIFT+CONTROL{ LADY “O” } } YOU ARE ENOUGH. YOUR PASTOR IS AN UNDEVELOPED BABY

BY NICOLE HEROUX WILLIAMS I PHOTOS BY NSP STUDIO BY OMENESA ORUMA AKOMOLAFE

Note: Not all Pastors. But MANY!!! One day I’m going to preach a sermon on THE PRIDE IN THE PASTOR, and how the world is fooled by the external and beauty of ugliness. This is a very ugly animal. Many just can’t see it. I see this animal and I see some Pastors. Don’t shoot me. One’s examples or references are predominantly used from One’s experiences.

Tooooo many Pastors, Ministers, Gospel Singers have UGLY spirits they contend with. Some don’t even contend, they are comfortable with it. Jealousy, Competition, Insecurity, Inadequacies, egotism, PRIDE!!!

Pride comes from fear. Fear of admitting INNATE traumas(Childhood Wounds Mostly, Hurts, Gaps in Childhood & Adulthood, Skipped Progression, etc) Pride is a security blanket. A blanket is used to PREVENT & PROTECT a threat.

So when you see someone with pride, ego, cocky, eratic, double standard, recalcitrant , unreachable, unteachable, don’t be alarmed. You’re only staring at a very scared boy or girl, though they are chronically grown with titles. They are still undeveloped babies. They are crying very loudly on the inside. If you look closely, you can see it. You can hear it. Some of them are practically SCREAMING for help.

That’s why once a teacher notices such traits in a student, she notifies the social worker in school, and they begin to investigate if “ EVERYTHING is okay at home,” The child seems STUBBORN AND UNRULY. But when they adult is stubborn, we find IT MACHO but not unruly?

These are signs of deep rooted FAMILIAL/ CHILDHOOD JUNK!!! BLEEDING WOUNDS!

They are humans with painful realities.

Seeking Revenge Aborting Babies Killing People(Oh Yes) Stealing From People Beating & Neglecting Their Spouses

Don’t get me wrong. This is not a judgement call. I was raised in the church. I have been a victor of ministry, and a victim of unattended wounds. There is sadly a relationship with the two.

I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. This is why the world CANNOT and WILL NOT take some of us SERIOUSLY!!! This is why MANY organizations have an embargo on religious and political sharing.

This is a call to those who use their titles to hide their pain and to fool themselves and their congregation. The world claps and gives them more reasons to be puffed up, which causes them to hide more, hence more pride, more fear. The worse thing you can give a proud person is MORE!!! That’s why there are some denominations that will force a man or woman to SIT STILL until they’ve come of age in their INNER MAN.

If you are a Pastor, a Minister , and you are tired of deceiving yourself, you’re tired of hurting, please seek PROFESSIONAL Counseling. Some insurances cover it. A LICENSED OR CERTIFIED THERAPIST OR/& PSYCHIATRIST. Jesus had Luke as a Team Member. Smart Guy. You can’t contine to walk around with hidden wounds. You are bleeding on your parishioners. You are bleeding on your family members. This blood is infected, it ain’t even clean. Please STOP!!!

Pride is ugly, and it’s okay to be ugly, but it is not okay to make it seem beautiful. I’ll let it rest here #OMENESA

Suggested Therapists/Coaches HOT LINES

Marriage Dr Nephetina Serrano (Philadelphia)

Love Ambassador Denise Turner Headd (Cleveland)

Licensed Psychiatrist Dr Tola T’Sarumi (Boston)

Behavioral Therapist Dr James Komolafe (Abuja)

Prayer Warrior: Anita N Maurice (Cleveland)

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“They are crying very loudly on the inside. If you look closely, you can see it. You can hear it.”