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Keriah M Exposed & Xrated
Men and women look for different things when it comes to sex. Women are more like goldilocks, we don’t want one that is too small or too big but just the right size. Yeah yeah I know you heard of some women who say I like it big come on now lets be real. If there ever was a man who could bring it the way these women talked, they would run as far from that as they could go, if they are too shocked to run, their V.G would dry up and vacate the premises and never return until she was reasonable. The requirements for VG entrance is perfect size and dimension. Which means that it must hit all the right places and fill any empty space, oh and the operator must know how to maneuver his way around or else this dick is worthless even with all the right requirements. Men now they want ACTION, they want a woman who is active in bed who does everything and is willing to do everything. They most certainly do not want a woman who just lies there while they do all the work. They want them to work just as hard and make them feel as good as they are making you feel. And they will work hard to make you feel good or hurt you in the process. But what is pleasure without a little pain? (not for me, well not yet). So now that we know who wants what how do we get together to make it Grade A sex and not when is this over sex? Let’s examine women and how it all works for us and what doesn’t work for us and why we sometimes have to fake it. Then I’ll tell you how to prevent that from happening this is going to be fun but you have to take an oath. This is for you only, adapt, change it a little and graduate do not try the same thing over and over. You don’t want to get predictable. Now women have a high sex drive, higher than men. Yeah ok men may think about sex a lot or all the time but thinking about it isn’t what drives us. When women want sex, really want it, we feel it we get hot literally. If you were to stand near a woman who was feeling it, you would feel the heat coming off her. If you have a girl and you feel this heat take advantage now don’t wait, do it now go go go go. This is the time we do everything, whatever you want, you get a yes. We were probably thinking about it before you mentioned it anyway. Just because we are all hot and ready doesn’t mean you are to be lazy, work your ass too, later you can do it again, if you are the kind of man who has that kind of energy. Some men are under the impression that we like to do it all night long. Well ladies that is your fault they think that way because you talk so much trash. Do we really want it all night long? Yes and no. We want you to take your time and do it right yes, we don’t want you to ram the hell out of us all night long no. So, when a man comes under the assumption that we want it long and hard we are not having any fun after awhile and the only way to make you stop is to fake it
. We know that is what you are working so hard for so why wait, some of us have work in the morning and that way you can hurry up and get off. We all know that the first thing a man is thinking is that he doesn’t want to cum first, there seems to be a rumor going around that we don’t take that lightly. So, the man will go on an on until we do, he loses the point of the whole experience, that it is not about getting off all the time, it is about all the stuff between it. All hail an experienced lover because men take a lot of trash from women. We can talk some serious shit about them, making it hard for them to know what to do or what we want, thus confusing them and leaving ourselves very unsatisfied. Women also assume that a man knows what we want and how to accomplish this. No no no, we are all unique in our own way and so are men. There is no way he could possibly know what you like and don’t like unless you say so. That goes for men also, but naturally we don’t want to say what we want we just want to sulk and complain about it. Don’t worry boys I understand your battle, so let’s get to the root of the situation, we are going to get a little graphic now, so if you have a wicked imagination be prepared and if you are not use to this just stop here. Everyone should know that there are three memberships to our bedroom gym. There is Sex, Fucking and Making Love. Let’s examine these categories closely. Sex is something you have with a friend, someone you know and whom you don’t have any pressing emotions for but respect enough not to treat them the way you would when you fuck someone. Fucking is something you do to someone you plan never to see again, no emotion whatsoever just the raw deal and bounce. Making Love is not about the penetration but about the communication that is going on between you. It is a deeper connection to the person you are in bed with. It is something you don’t want to take for granted. Now that we got that out of the way I will start off by telling you some of the experiences I have had and what I liked or disliked about it. First, I would like to say that sex is so much better when your intoxicated. Ok hold on let me explain. When you have a drink with your partner, and I don’t mean seven drinks one or two will do, it relaxes you. You lower your guard and are more likely to accept everything that is about to happen with skills you never knew you had. Most of you should know that if you don’t, well you are missing out. Don’t just go and get drunk and then have sex, no, you have to be feeling for it first. You know, when you want it bad then go out have fun get a few drinks then come home and tear it up. It is even more exciting if you are fucking someone you care about because then all those feelings are put into all the actions and that is amazing. I know this for a fact because I have been there done that with someone I was involved with. One day I was sick I must have taken something for it and I was all drugged up and horny. I went over to his place with sex on my mind and when I got it, dear god it was like everything he did was intensified by 100%. Let’s just say I slept really well that day.
Your opinion of sex will determine what kind of sex you have. For me sex is just not sex it is an art, something that should be mastered to the point where no one can ever say it wasn’t good. They leave practically speechless and that’s how I perform. I devote all my attention to who I am in bed with make sure that I didn’t leave anything out, studying where his spots are and manipulating them to my favor. If you know what you are doing and can do it well you are a dangerous person to sleep with. You must use your body to your advantage and turn it against them make them feel what you feel but more intensely. Don’t rush if you don’t have to but don’t be methodical either variety is the best invention ever. Over the years I have developed my own style, I have perfected it so much that there is nothing I can’t handle or move. I can hold a man inside to a point where he has to try to get out, that is a skill you have to work on for a long ass time. Does this cause problems? Yes! because when the relationship is over, they don’t want to leave they still want to fuck and most of all they don’t want any one else to sleep with me. I’m not going to lie, I like that, it tells me I have done it right. I remember one of my ex’s, we were wild he was rough, he wanted to run me red and worked hard at it. But he couldn’t because I would match his every move. At the time, it was like he was testing me to see what I can and can’t do, how far I would go and could go and how much I could take. Because of that I learned how to ride hard and rough by the time I was done I controlled it. One day I took control and when I was done with him he was speechless, when he tried to call a cab home he forgot what his name was and where he lived. I had to call for him, right there at that moment he created someone that is dangerous to man. It was the beginning of skill I had yet to develop. The thing I liked about his sex was that he had control even when he was being hard he didn’t miss a beat it was like one motion all the time. Now that is not what I want, I grew and developed a different taste that is a bit slower, not that I don’t enjoy rough, but only when I am in the mood. So, lets talk about that slow shit. I have had two of the best slow winners here. I had nothing but drama with the women who knew what I was getting. What I absolutely loved about the first one was that he had magic fingers. I hate to be fingered but man he knew how to use them so fucking well that he could make me cum just by touching it. That drove me nuts and he used everything he had, meaning his hands mouth everything, it was like going up and down all the time on a roller coaster. Sometimes I didn’t know how to feel, it was crazy.
I could tell he has had a lot of experience in how to please a woman, hence the angry women on my phone. He paid attention to what made me hot and what didn’t. He took control of my emotions and used them to his advantage teasing me every step of the way. I liked it and this was all before he even went inside and that ladies is a totally different experience. I can’t even talk about it without getting all fired up. Anyway, when he went inside he didn’t just go in, he took his sweet ass time and watched me very carefully, fuck I was going to kill him if he didn’t hurry up. It was like butter hitting hot bread, that shit was so smooth it was crazy. The way he moved I can’t even describe it but it had purpose, that was communication I tell you. He knew how to get in deep touch places I didn’t even know was there, that is what we call a stroke, a man with a good stroke is like nothing you could ever describe that could even match. I don’t think he anticipated what it would be like to fuck me but he was in for a ride. It wasn’t always slow and easy with this one either, sometimes when the mood struck us we were ruthless, we had such a strong sexual connection that just being around each other was difficult enough. We would argue and still feel to have sex with each other after, it was like all that didn’t matter and we needed to remind each other why we are the way we are. Now let’s move on here, role playing is something that can be so much fun. Not everyone is into that kind of thing and you have to have a special kind of man that will play the role with you. I have never met one who wasn’t willing to be seduced by me. I even got one of my exes to pretend he was a virgin and I was going to take advantage of him. He even let me handcuff him and take over without him being able to touch me. Of course, after awhile he wanted to touch me but I thought wow he trusts me. Most guys won’t let you tie them up, maybe blind fold but that’s it. He was a trooper, I still have those handcuffs by the way. Location is another thing, now you’ll probably think it is crazy but at the time it was exciting. I have had sex in the park, elevator, on a exercise bench, table, outside of a warehouse, beach on the sand, theater, car, hallway of an apartment building and a swingers club (don’t ask). I don’t think I ever seen a bed till later on in deeper relationships. Some people like the rush they get from having sex in places they know they are not supposed to, makes it more exciting. For me I was just being greedy, and besides when the opportunity presented itself we took it. The kind of men I had were just always ready like nurses on call. All I had to do was say the word and it was on. I know most of us don’t enjoy sex, I could never be one of those people only because of how I sex, but I can see how some wouldn’t.
First, foreplay, that is so important it is not even funny. If you don’t get your partner hot to the point they are begging you for release it is not as fun and all they want to do is get it over with. I found sometimes the guy is so into what he is doing to get off he forgets about us. When we get foreplay before sex don’t think that, that feeling just stays with us through the whole thing no no no. While you are in there you can still be doing other things that will keep the mood going and don’t say, “awww that sounds like too much work” because then you’re just fucking lazy as hell and shouldn’t get any. Same goes for the women too, men have spots just like we do some places they don’t even know they have, I know this because I found them from endless exploring and watching. I know where they all are, am I going to tell you no! do your own research, pay attention to what you are doing. This should be a learning experience for the both of you, you will enjoy if more that way if you discover it yourself. There is a moment for everything, don’t think that you have be a certain way all the time. For example, there is a time to be romantic to take your time plan and make a night memorable. There is also a time where you make love making sure that you please your partner making them the most important and only person you are with. Then there is the time for STRAIGHT FUCKING. Where there are no rules no boundaries no talking just the two of you working it out. I am talking about that rough I am going to deal with your case kind of sex, the kind that doesn’t cater to feelings. Now that is good exercise! Aggression can be a big turn on but only when the mood strikes it and the two of you have to be in that kind of mood or there can be trouble. I have had my share of that kind of sex, and sometimes that is all I want just to rough up a man take over and guys love that shit, when a woman takes control tries to hurt them. You would be surprised what a man will let you do. So now that I’ve got you worked up you can come back tomorrow and read the rest. I know some of you will be making phone calls. I’d like to touch on a different aspect of sex that I feel is very important, the kiss. If you can’t kiss you’re in trouble. The chances of getting any ass is very slim. I know I will not fuck or consider fucking someone who can’t kiss me. That is a big part of the communication, just from the kiss you can tell how they will treat you. Therefore, I don’t kiss just anyone, I have been told that I am a natural meaning they love how I kiss, I never had to practice kissing nor have I ever had a complaint (wink). I think it is because I am in tune with what’s going on. Everything I do has sensuality and passion in it. I put emotions in my actions, so you are not getting half a deal your getting the works. It also helps if you have lips to kiss with, I’m just saying. I have had bad kisses before but they were easily corrected, I had to train them how to kiss me the way I want, that is not an easy thing to do. The only reason why I even went through the trouble was because I liked them but believe me they got none from me till they learned how
In the beginning of a relationship the kiss is the most anticipated thing, it is the one thing you will remember forever, that and bad sex. It is where all the heat and emotion start, so if the kiss isn’t there, you don’t have that connection. There is nothing wrong with expressing your sexuality, experimenting with different things and idea’s, you should choose carefully who you share those things with and make sure that it is something that will benefit the both of you in the end. Try to learn off each other gain experience. Some people are afraid to try things or even admit that they are “freaks” there is nothing wrong with that. Being a freak is not a bad thing it only sounds bad when someone uses it in a negative way. But really and truly it just means you developed a freedom in yourself and you don’t limit your mind or body. I am sure there are more of us out there who have these thoughts in our heads and would like to try them but are afraid of what people might think. HELLO! who cares what they think, they don’t pay your bills nor feed you or even determine who you are or who you will become in life! So, fuck em. This is about you and then it will be about your partner, what you two accomplish together to make the relationship the most it could be both physically, mentally and emotionally. Everyone has a specialty mine is dancing, the nasty grind of my hips, I use that to my advantage. When I want to get freaky with my man I put on the most sexual song I have in my many other sexual music library and start dancing for him. Teasing him without touching, I make sure I take a long time to take anything off, but I never get a chance because they are usually too turned on to wait and end up taking my clothes off for me. Some people like food, food is good such as strawberries, fresh (I don’t know why I should even say it) sorry private joke. If he is reading this he knows why. Chocolate syrup, ice and if you don’t know what to do with the ice so sorry ask an adventurous man. If you like to act, role playing is your thing dress up go at it. I do something different for each lover I have, something special that I won’t do for anyone else. That way they have something of me to carry with them if the relationship dissolves. I like to keep a connection to them because we learned from each other and if it weren’t for them I may not be the specialist I am today.
I am sure there is more I could learn and I would never say I know everything because you couldn’t know everything since you don’t know everyone. That does not stop me from learning, in fact I plan on learning as much as I possibly can while I still can. Another important thing is to give yourself some space. Some guys don’t like to hear this especially when you are on that time of the month, but you got to stand your ground. Give yourself a period of time where you are not going to have sex. I usually take 4 weeks (that number dropped a bit) that way my body can adjust itself, women know what I am saying. Boys you’re just going to have to take that and cool it. It is important that both of you make sure you have your regular check up. I do it before I start a new relationship and during the relationship. With that said have fun relax make it an experience that you can grow and learn from don’t let the opinion of the public stop you from making your mark. Guys don’t be lazy be open let yourself go, give in sometimes, take the time to learn about her watch her take her to the limit and then further. Oh, and by the way sex IS a weapon, it is the deadliest of all weapons when you have THAT kind of sex. You can hold any man at your beck and call and when a man has THAT kind of sex, he knows you are not going anywhere and no matter what he does he knows how to make you forget about it and give in to him totally. And that right there people, is dangerous, because it is hard to separate yourself from that person. Why? Because somewhere in your head you have convinced yourself it is not the sex that is keeping you but the fact that you have some kind of strong emotion towards that person. Don’t get it wrong, if you can’t think of any other reason why you are with that person, then you got a problem and don’t make up anything either. There is another type of effect someone can have on you that has nothing to do with love, that is called Whip Appeal, a woman or man with whip appeal can confuse you. I have been accused of having such a thing and am also a victim of it. Therefore, what I am telling you is not a guess. Whip Appeal is an energy someone has, it brings out an emotion in a person that they cannot explain, it is something that has nothing to do with love but just raw emotion and attraction. It makes you want to do things to the person you wouldn’t think of doing on a regular basis. It can be very overwhelming and powerful it may take up some serious space in your thoughts. There is no cure for this emotion, you will just have to deal with it the best you can and hope it doesn’t drive you to do crazy things watch out for this. That is all you are going to get out of me for now. Keep in mind I am still creating new experiences and am currently learning new things about myself and a certain someone who I will say is, interesting. So, until next time enjoy.
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