MEDIATION It's OFFERING A RELATIONAL APPROACH FOR FAMILIES IN CONFLICT
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Stop, Breathe, Stay in Control Stop think and assess the conflict you are facing. The Sossi law firm offers parents the opportunity to meet one another in a neutral setting with Matt Sossi your mediator. Being present at the mediation will mean being in the room to listen, understand and respond to one another.
Its Your Day You have solved problems during your marriage before so why not now?
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Marriage Counseling is over ..... You worked hard on saving your marriage. Unfortunately marriage counseling has opened the door to the divorce process. You are angry, sad and frustrated. The question is where do you go now? You feel a loss of control. You question how you can ever trust the person you once wanted to spend the rest of your life with. Stop for a second. Up to this point you have chosen to work together to resolve the problems you face. Getting lawyers involved and stepping into litigation will change the way you interact with one another. Is that what you want? A face to face mediation will allow you to stay in control going into the divorce process. Understand what your ex is saying. Listen and respond appropriately. You got through every other problem you faced before, why not now? Matt Sossi offers a relational approach to the problems you feel confront you on mediation day. Its Your Day so make the most out of it.
Pre-Mediation meeting The One Rule
The only rule I have is that you be present during the mediation process. You are here because you want to involved in the process. Its Your Day Mediations put you in control of the mediation process. Your interaction is vital to the process.
Throw Your Positions Away
I guarantee you that little will be accomplished if you walk into mediation with a list of positions that you want. Its Your Day Mediations asks participants to simply talk. Talk through the issues of the day. Talk through your problems. What do you want to say?
Establish Your Expectations Define expectations how the mediation process is to proceed.
Expectations can include..... Want to be treated with respect.
Want your spouse to be honest about things. Want to find a way to co-parent.
Don't want a divorce like your parents had.
Remember: What you want to accomplish at mediation is up to you. Its Your Day
Educate Yourself Prior to the Mediation Part of the pre-mediation process is to help educate you on the basics of the parenting plan, defining terms such as joint managing conservators and going through statutory presumptions regarding rights and duties. Its Your Day Allows you the Opportunity to create a parenting agreement that will best fit the needs of your child. The better educated you are the better your ability to create a co-parenting agreement.
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How Else Do I Prepare? I'll be asking you to provide me with a list of bank statements, credit reports and a list of assets and debts. Suggested Reading:
Parent disputes are by definition, relational. "Being relational" is a book written by Louise and William Senft.
Emotional Intelligence 2.0 talks about EQ, or emotional intelligence. EQ is a key factor in turning one's dispute from conflict to collaboration.
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"My mediation practice provides parents the freedom to decide how they will work through the problems of the day." Matt Sossi
Matt Sossi Attorney at Law Family Law Mediator 16607 Blanco #1306 San Antonio, Texas 78232 www.sossilaw.com
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Stop and Think The choices you make in a divorce or custody dispute will follow you for decades to come. Should you mediate or litigate? What are the costs to the plan your putting in place to resolve the dispute at hand.
Four Cs of Mediation
f you haven't considered your options, stop and think before you act.
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the get go, Matt secured our trust and ensured us that the mediation process did not have to be as painful as we were imagining. He assured us that we would be in control of the process and he would be there to provide options along the way."
"Matt gave us the opportunity to quickly work through mediation and come to an agreement that both parties were comfortable with."
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THE LAW OFFICE OF MATT SOSSI 16607 BLANCO #1306 SAN ANTONIO, TEXAS 78232 210-224-1667