Kids in the City Magazine | Brisbane - Issue 42. Sept/Oct 2020

ISSUE 42 September/October 2020 BRISBANE

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CHOOSING THE RIGHT HOME FOR FINANCIAL GROWTH TEACHING KIDS TO BE MONEY SAVVY TIPS TO GET YOUR FAMILY BUDGET ON TRACK

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ime for a confession.

I’m h-o-p-e-l-e-s-s with money.

I try to save, I like to spend, and the thought of putting together a budget makes my head spin. Plus, home learning recently proved how terrible my maths skills are! (Year 6 maths and I are NOT friends!)

With so many Brisbane families and small businesses worrying about making ends meet this year, I’ve been reminded that having a financial plan is imperative.

So, dust off your calculator, because this is our Family Finances issue!

We’ve called in the experts from Your First Home Co. to explain the many ways families can buy their first home and grow their financial security through property.

Yup, even for those who think it’s an impossible dream.

We have tips from Evolve Accounting & Advice on how to set up a family budget without losing your mind in the process.

And the clever peeps at Financial Basics share the essential rules to teach your teens about money.

With Father’s Day this month, we chat with the dad behind the growing grassroots movement ‘Grab Life By The Balls’, to find out about men’s mental health, mateship and the power of a barbecue. And we also drop by King’s Christian College’s new Logan campus to find out about their early learning program that is giving little learners a start full of promise.

Feeling stressed and ready to shout?

After such a challenging year for parents, our friends at Parentline have some great advice for finding a little calm in our parenting.

Plus, with kids’ activities happily coming out of lockdown (yay!) and the smell of spring in the air, we also have the region’s best family friendly events for September and October. And, as always, the issue is packed with Brisbane’s latest news, reviews and more.

Have a fabulous spring!

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FAMILY FINANCES: Is the Aussie dream of owning your own home still possible for everyday families?

BUDGETING: Feel like having a family budget is just waaaay too hard? The experts are here to help you budget like a pro.

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Ever wondered what it would be like to spend a night in Boggo Road Gaol, what Kangaroo Point has to do with kangaroos, or what went on at your Nan’s place during the Second World War? Find out at Museum of Brisbane’s latest major exhibition, The Storytellers, which uncovers Brisbane’s histories, myths and tales through fact, fiction, interpretation and creative narrative.

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THROUGHOUT SCHOOL HOLIDAYS Urban Xtreme, Hendra | urban-xtreme.com.au

With 10 awesome activities under one roof, and something for all ages and abilities, Urban Xtreme is full of active fun. Kids can challenge themselves on the Ninja and Parkour course, play laser tag, try rockclimbing, and play dodgeball. The supervised School Holiday Program is for kids aged 6-14 years.

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ST RITA’S COLLEGE OPEN TOURS Discover how the College’s innovative new Trinity Centre is optimising learning. See students in their learning environments and engage with faculty and cocurricular staff to explore the extensive academic, vocational and co-curricular subjects offered at St Rita’s.

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onstruction has commenced at Sunkids Children’s Centre’s newest, state-of-the-art childcare facility being built within the Brisbane Technology Park. Opening early 2021, the new childcare facility will cater for 101 children from 6 weeks to school age and will consist of six fully serviced rooms designed specifically for each age group, a large undercover semi-outdoor play area, alfresco dining piazza, atelier art studio, and a one-of-a-kind, second-level Zen garden featuring a bamboo forest, quiet reading sanctuary, water features and hanging greenery.

Sunkids’ General Manager, Reyhaan Omar, said the choice to open a new

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hrough such a tumultuous year, it so happily engaged in our beautiful natural has never been more important to play environment, I am really proud of our provide children with a safe, healthy team and our centre,” said Ilsa. “Lots of and emotionally supportive environment. outdoor play, fresh air and sunshine “Emotional connection is essential for are helping keep our children healthy supporting children during these difficult and strong. And our home-cooked meals, times,” said Ilsa Sophios, Centre Manager at packed with nutrition, further boost our Little Village Early Learning, children’s wellbeing.”

“LOTS OF OUTDOOR Bridgeman Downs. “As The 10,000m2 site on PLAY, FRESH AIR families, we try and protect Ridley Road, Bridgeman our children, but they may Downs provides a unique AND SUNSHINE ARE be experiencing changes in early learning environment HELPING KEEP OUR family life, such as not seeing while protecting a nature CHILDREN HEALTHY loved ones like grandparents.” reserve for wildlife, flora AND STRONG” “At Little Village we and fauna. understand this and are here to support “We have most of our families returned our children and our families by providing to care now and are welcoming new a sense of belonging – and loads of fun families each week. Our team is developing each day.” new programs such as our Artelier (art Though Little Village Early Learning studio) and nature play within our bush only opened six months ago, they quickly kindy space.” established a strong team and solid practices Some vacancies are still available in that have supported them during recent Junior and Senior Pods and waitlist is now challenges. open for 2021.

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fter hearing stories of families who had lost everything to the bushfire crisis that ravaged Australia in January, Sophie Clements from St Rita’s College knew she had to take action.

“I came up with the idea of building a house for someone as it felt more personal than donating money,” Sophie said.

Sophie reached out via Facebook to Cooroibah family Holly and David Kemp, who were in the midst of renovating their home before it was destroyed in November.

She then recruited the help of her father, builder Scott Clements (Scott Clements Construction), who told Sophie he would help her make her idea a reality if she could provide him with a feasibility plan.

“The name ‘Properties for Promise’ came about because we are promising hope to those who need it the most,” she said.

“We have now reached out to over 50 businesses Australia-wide and have a team full of trades providing their services at cost price.

“We’re flattening the land and laying the slab at the moment.”

Needless to say, Holly and David Kemp are overwhelmed by the support of Sophie and the involved businesses and tradespeople, which has saved them around $150,000 in building costs.

“After everything that’s been happening in the world throughout the year, it’s pretty amazing to think I’m just one person but I am capable of making a massive difference in this family’s life,” Sophie said.

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FINANCIAL GROWTH AUSTRALIAN D R E A M

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he Aussie dream of owning your own home has been steadily slipping away for many modern families.

With the cost of living, rising property prices AND the juggle of raising a family, adding a mortgage into the mix could be cray-cray, right? But with the array of first home buyer incentives available at the moment and the right property guidance, that dream might be feasible once more.

“Money is cheaper than ever,” says Troy Sussman from Your First Home Co. “In Southeast Queensland we have a growing property market, plus there are some amazing government and building incentives available to help get you in market. Though it might seem like an unattainable dream, for many, buying a property is not as impossible as it seems.”

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GETTING YOUR FINANCES IN PLACE

Troy believes that a major part of getting your finances in place is about education.

“Nine out of ten people are in a far better position than they think,” Troy says. “With the help of budgeting and tips on how to save, it’s amazing how many families can get their finances in place to purchase a property.”

“We can sit down with you to find out your money and property goals, and we can also connect you with a trusted mortgage broker to assess how much you can borrow.”

Once you have a plan and know what you can afford, you can get a much better idea of what type of home you can buy and where you can live.

“There are many different ways of doing

things that people don’t know about, you just have to know the ins and outs of property,” says Troy. “Through tips and tricks, the right guidance and using the grants in your favour, there are plenty of options available.”

CHOOSING THE RIGHT PROPERTY

When choosing your first home, consider what is most important to you now and over the next five years. Are you looking to be within a short commute to work, or do you want outdoor space? Do you have kids or are you planning to start a family? All of these things, in addition to your budget, will influence where and what you buy.

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right property for the right reason,” explains with the extra costs that a renovation Troy. “Most people move every seven to nine inevitably brings, and you get a brand new years, and many refinance yearly to ensure house with a warranty on the construction they are always getting the best and appliances. And most “For most deals, so the idea of a forever importantly, the house is finished home isn’t as relevant today,” when you move in – there’s no young families, Troy says. “Therefore, your first living in a building site whilst you building a property purchase is usually a try and renovate around your new house is stepping stone to help secure already busy life.” much more you financially.”

“Also, if it’s an investment, you appealing than To achieve this security, can also claim depreciation and a renovation” choosing the right property that negative gearing, so there are lots will deliver capital growth is of advantages to buying brand critical, and this comes down to research. new that an existing house doesn’t offer.”

“Units might be gaining good capital That’s not to say there aren’t pitfalls in growth in one suburb, yet townhouses are building either. Choosing the right developer doing better elsewhere. So it’s imperative to and ensuring you have a fixed price contract research what will be the best property for to avoid late stage variations can be vital. the best return.”

“Because the building process can be so For many, their first property purchase daunting, we hold a family’s hand from start turns into an investment property. This to finish,” Troy explains. “Our in-house team allows buyers to continue to live and rent in will project manage the entire build. From the suburb they want to be in, whilst owning finding the right property, communicating an investment property in a suburb of with a conveyancer, through the build and significant capital growth. inspections to handing over the keys.”

“We have an in-house customer research “A brand new build also means you are system that constantly monitors suburb eligible for the many government grants demographics, capital growth and price trends over the last ten years across the region,” explains Troy. “We also track existing and planned infrastructure such as Can our first home public transport, schools and shopping look like this, centres. If property values in one suburb Daddy? have really taken off in the past five years, we find out why and will research to find out whether neighbouring areas have similar potential. This invaluable research tool helps us to recommend the right property for you and your budget.”

available at the moment,” Troy continues.

“The jargon can be pretty confusing, so we also help all customers decipher which grants are available to them and help them complete the paperwork.”

YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW

There’s so much advice out there about buying your first home it can quickly become overwhelming. And, this abundance of information is not always presented in a way that the everyday purchaser can understand.

“The property market has shown time again that it is the single best wealth creating tool around, but even if you do a lot of research on your own, you may miss out on a key detail,” Troy says. “Our team breaks down what you need to know to make great choices.”

And, with the right planning and support, he believes owning your own home is possible for many of us. “A family paying around $400 per week in rent could purchase a property, and their repayments wouldn’t be much different.”

“All you have to do is tap into a specialist and surround yourself with the right people.”

SHOULD I BUILD O R R E N O VAT E ?

Though everyone dreams of a spectacular home, the reality is that most families can’t afford their dream home first time around.

Those handy at DIY might consider renovating an older-style home.

“When budgeting for a renovation, always allow at least 15 per cent on top of your budget for variables, as you often discover many hidden extras when you start pulling the property apart.”

Building a new home means you avoid being hit with additional costs, as the design and complete cost for the build will be established up-front.

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BUDGETINGLIKE A Feel like having a family budget is just waaaay too hard?

We chat to Cameron Klupfel from Evolve Accounting & Advice to get his expert advice on setting up a family budget AND sticking to it!

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WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO HAVE A BUDGET? A budget is the cornerstone of getting the family’s finances on track.

It ensures that your precious income is being spent in the most appropriate places and not being wasted. It also sets out a visible path to follow, providing financial discipline for everyone involved.

HOW DO YOU SET UP A BUDGET? The easiest way to set up a family budget is to break it into achievable chunks or ‘pots’.

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WHAT ABOUT SAVING FOR THE FUTURE?

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• Put a budget in place as soon as you can • Be honest about your objectives and realistic about your budget • Put savings away at the start of each pay cycle • Hold regular family meetings to set budgets across the household • Review your budget regularly • Be proud of the savings you grow • Teach kids how to budget and save • Seek advice if you need it

First, identify your fixed costs. These are the everyday essentials you need to live such as rent, bills and groceries.

Then make a list of discretionary costs. These are the non-essentials such as eating out, coffee, clothes and entertainment.

Thirdly, have an amount for savings and rainy day needs. This pot covers those unexpected bills such as repairs, emergency funds and saving for the future.

WHAT ARE YOUR TIPS FOR ENSURING YOU STICK TO YOUR BUDGET? Sit down with your partner and be honest about your objectives and what you are trying to achieve – is it for saving, paying off debt, accomodating school fees?

Be realistic. Don’t say you won’t eat out when you will because regular budget blowouts will just deter you from continuing.

Once you have a budget in place, you both need to agree to it to ensure everyone is on the same page and happy to commit.

Review it regularly to see where you could cut costs. If you are having budget blowouts, look at where the extra spend is going and adjust accordingly.

Be proud of the savings you grow – seeing that pot accumulate is always a great reminder to stay on track.

Seek advice. The experts can guide you through the budget process and help you set goals. So, don’t go it alone, particularly if you are looking to save or invest. You will have more success with the right advice and foundation.

WHEN SHOULD YOU SET A BUDGET UP? As soon as you can! The sooner you put these practices in place, the sooner it becomes habit. We don’t learn these skills at school, so it’s important to establish them as part of life as soon as you can.

Starting early also means the savings are compounded, ensuring you will get further ahead.

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Though it’s hard to imagine retirement when you are in the thick of nappies and school runs, having enough to retire on is a critical part of your life planning.

To ensure you will be set up when it’s time to slow down, decide on your retirement goal – i.e. how much you need to retire – and work back from there.

If you are finding it hard to save, commit to saving a certain amount by setting up a direct debit into a separate account (one that you can’t instantly touch!) that debits at the start of each pay cycle.

Tap & Go is terrible for frittering away money, so put the savings somewhere that is invisible and you’ll forget it’s there.

HOW DO WE KEEP IT CONSISTENT ACROSS THE WHOLE FAMILY? Family meetings are a great way of setting budgets across the household. This way you can clarify what every family member wants and work that into your budgeting. It also sets in motion educating the kids about money.

Give the kids extra jobs to do around the house beyond their everyday chores that allow them to earn money.

Help them to set up their own three ‘pots’.

The first is for spending right now – after all, they’ve worked for their money so it’s nice for them to go and buy something small to feel that reward.

The second is for saving for long-term goals. Teach them to go without, see the money accumulate and experience the reward of gradually working towards a long-term goal.

The third is for giving. This really helps them to understand how society works and that giving is a part of what we do. It might be a Christmas present for the Wishing Tree, sponsoring an animal, or planting a tree.

Use physical money with the kids. This way they really understand what it means to pay for things (handing the money over), saving (seeing the money accumulate), and donating (feeling the significance of giving and the empathy for those receiving).

ANY FINANCIAL PARENTING TIPS? It’s really important that you keep it consistent. If the kids do the jobs each week, pay them every week. If it loses consistency, it loses impact.

Model the behaviour you expect. You can’t expect the kids to do something if you don’t do it yourself!

Also, explain consumer credit early. Cards seem like an endless money tree to kids, so it’s important that they understand how credit cards work and the financial impact they carry.

This way, once they are out on their own, they understand the downsides of credit and the value of delayed gratification on items they really want, if it means avoiding the financial hardship of debt.

These basic things aren’t taught at school, so educating your kids about finances from an early age is critical.

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5 ESSENTIAL FINANCE RULES Research shows that money conversations between parents and their children lead to increased financial capability and wellbeing. Why not get the conversation started by introducing these financial rules of thumb to your children?

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e know it’s difficult to explain a financial concept to teenagers but demonstrating it with real life behaviours can really help them understand it better. These five simple financial rules of thumb build financial capability by focusing on simple and practical behaviours around planning for the use of money.

1. PAY YOURSELF FIRST This rule focuses on the importance of paying yourself first and saving a fixed amount of all income before paying for expenses. Don’t save what’s left over after spending. Spend what’s left over after saving.

Practise this rule by setting a savings goal and always saving a percentage of all income.

5. SLEEP ON IT

This rule focuses on restrained spending and taking the time to think about spending money on something that wasn’t budgeted for.

Practise this rule before every purchase and, before you know it, you’ll start to distinguish between needs and wants, which will help you make better purchasing/ spending decisions.

Financial Basics Foundation has partnered with Suncorp to design a toolkit of practical family activities to help put the financial rules of thumb into practice: www.suncorp.com.au/ learn-about/finance-for-kids Teachers and schools can access the suite of free resources, including the ESSI Money game, which brings the financial rules of thumb to life, by registering at: www.financialbasics.org.au

The Financial Basics Foundation is an independent charity that provides free financial literacy teaching resources for Australian secondary schools.

2. SPEND LESS THAN YOU EARN This rule focuses on living within your means by setting a budget. It’s easy to be swept up in consumerism – to want every gadget or fashion item. Unfortunately, it’s also easy to access credit, including buy now, pay later schemes, which can lead to unmanageable debt.

Practise this rule by setting a budget, automating savings and establishing a plan to avoid financial stress.

3. SHOP AROUND This rule focuses on teaching teenagers to be critical consumers by taking the time to shop around for the best price, as well as building the skills for negotiating the best price on purchases.

Practise this rule on small purchases to begin with and you’ll build the confidence and skills to get the best deal on large purchases, financial products and utilities.

4. TIME IS MONEY This rule focuses on the importance of time and the impact of compound interest when it comes to saving money.

Practise this rule early in life and continue to save over the long term and you’ll maximise savings.

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We are all looking for a family friendly place to raise our little ones.

But what is it that makes a community truly family friendly?

sk any new parents, and top of their list when deciding where to settle is family friendly living. After all, the 18 years (and then some!) that follow a baby’s arrival are dominated by the many demands of raising a child.

But what is it that makes a community family friendly? Is it a quality school, great parks, friendly neighbours? And do we inevitably have to sacrifice one of these things when restricted by affordability?

As the Sunshine Coast’s fastest growing community, Stockland’s Aura development is one city that has been masterplanned with the family in mind. And because of this, families are now flocking to Aura - from the Sunshine Coast and beyond.

EDUCATION One of the most important choices you make as a parent is the school your kids will go to.

“Baringa Primary is very proud to be Queensland’s first Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics (STEM) School of Excellence,” said Principal Noel Baggs. “Our primary school is an innovative and exciting learning environment, providing students with a world-class education.”

Aura’s first high school, Baringa State Secondary College is due to open for school year 2021 for Years 7 and 8.

It was also recently announced that Aura’s

second state primary school in the suburb of Nirmba will be opening for school year 2022. As well as the state schools, Stockland and Brisbane Catholic Education (BCE) have announced plans for a new Prep to Year 12 Catholic college to open in Aura in 2023.

P L AY A family friendly suburb must have the space and amenities to play.

“We have designed the community to have a park within 400 metres of every home,” said Josh Sondergeld, Project Director at Stockland. “We now have 10 parks, each with a range of facilities such as play equipment, barbecues, shaded tables and amenities.”

Older kids are also catered for with an impressive skate park, basketball and netball hoops, and plenty of bike tracks and green space.

“The Aura connected cycleway means that our primary school has 30 per cent more kids riding to school than other Queensland primary schools,” Mr Sondergeld said. “Once finished, the cycleway will connect across the entire city of Aura, so families can safely ride their bikes everywhere.”

COMMUNITY The second stage of the Baringa retail centre is due to open in early 2021, which will include a family medical centre, dentist and a John

Wallace swim school. The current offering includes multiple cafes, including the recently opened Mummy’s Cafe. With great coffee and a fabulous kids’ play area, it’s already proving popular for mother’s groups and family catch ups.

“There are also regular events happening around the city for new families to develop community connections, such as free fitness classes, seasonal celebrations and regular family friendly events,” said Mr Sondergeld.

Local mother of three Amber has really embraced all that this community has to offer. “It’s a really great community,” she says.

“I go to Spirit Pilates, which is right next to the IGA. There are new community walking groups, there are night markets and family movie nights on the grass. We take a blanket and some snacks and wine to share with the other mums! There are food stalls sometimes.

The kids love it.”

AFFORDABILITY “Having a family doesn’t mean having to give up the idea of owning your own home”, said Mr Sondergeld. “Aura offers a range of affordable living options, we have 3-bed 2-bath house and land packages for under $385,000*. Therefore families can happily settle here in a place they can afford without having to make any compromises on family friendly living.” *Price correct as at 1/9/2020

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A start full of promise at

KING’S EARLY LEARNING

Blending 40 years of quality education with an innovative curriculum, King’s Early Learning Logan Village is providing Logan’s littlest learners with a bright start.

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ne school in three locations, King’s Christian College boasts 40 years of quality education in Southeast Queensland.

Their latest campus in Logan Village has already welcomed many local families into the King’s community.

“Our Reedy Creek campus celebrates its fortieth birthday and our Pimpama campus turns five this year,” said Tracey Verreynne, Head of Early Learning at King's Christian College. “At our new Anzac Avenue Logan Village campus, we can draw on these many years of experience, success and innovative teaching methods to ensure that our King's kids at all locations are given the best

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opportunities for success.”

Opening in October 2019, the Early Learning Centre was the first facility to open at the King’s Logan campus. Prep to Year 3 opened in January 2020, and Year 4 will start in January 2021. An additional year level will then be added each year, with high school (Year 7) commencing in 2024.

“We welcome children from the age of two and a half years to start their journey with us in our Early Learning Centre, Noah’s Ark – the pathway to the future of their lives,” said Tracey. “Children attending King's Early Learning will usually progress into Prep at King's Christian College, providing a seamless transition to ‘big school’.”

Children are encouraged to explore the world around them

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SCHOOL PROFILE

"King’s Early Learning children learn through play.

By providing a fun, engaging environment, children are encouraged to think deeper, to ask questions and to explore".

Even those children too young to start at the early learning centre are welcome to join the King’s community through the centre’s Playtime mornings.

“Our Playtime mornings provide families with the opportunity to meet each other and the children to play and socialise with others of a similar age. Many of our Playtime families become King’s families once they experience the welcoming community for themselves.”

The early years are a critical part of a child’s formative years in education, fostering a love for learning, and giving a child opportunities to make meaning as they begin to establish their identity and belonging.

“Our Bachelor qualified teachers and highly qualified Early Childhood educators are passionate about each child’s development and work hard to encourage every child to explore the world around them,” said Tracey. “And we work closely with our Prep teachers to ensure that each child is given the best transition to school.”

Outdoor play is an essential part of every day

The preschoolers become familiar with the greater King's environment through regular excursions around the campus to explore various areas of the College.

"Counting school buses, playing on the large ovals, visiting primary classes, joining in Primary lessons or having older students reading with us – these all add value to the programme that we offer to prepare our preschoolers for their first year of school,” Tracey said.

The curriculum at Noah’s Ark is based around the foundational values of King’s Christian College, ‘Live, Love, Learn and Lead’, which are extended as students move into Prep and beyond.

“We balance a child-initiated environment with teacher-directed learning experiences,” explained Tracey.

“Children are given opportunities to engage in many different learning experiences, both independently and collaboratively with their peers.”

“King’s Early Learning children learn through play. By providing a fun, engaging environment, children are encouraged to think deeper, to ask questions and to explore.”

More Info KING’S CHRISTIAN COLLEGE www.kingscollege.qld.edu.au 07 5587 7680 enrolanzac@kingscollege.qld.edu.au

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THINGS TO DO

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STRAWBERRY PICKING THIS WEEKEND

ooking for something healthy, affordable, outdoors, and fun to do with the kids? PYO strawberries at Strawberry Fields, Palmview is one of our FAVOURITE family friendly activities in the region. Here’s why…

YOU GET THE FINAL DECISION ON QUALITY Ever wondered how old the strawberries at the supermarket are? By the time they are picked, packed and transported it can be two to six days before they hit the shelves.

Picking your own strawberries means that you choose which berries you get and you know they are all 100% fresh (as you’ve just picked them!).

STRAWBERRIES ARE PACKED WITH NUTRIENTS As well as being a rich source of Vitamin C (in fact, they have slightly more than a standard orange), strawberries are also packed with antioxidants, plant compounds,

manganese, folate (Vitamin B9) and potassium. Healthy and delicious!

social pages for dates and details). And if that’s not enough, head over the Strawberry Fields shop, where you’ll find jams, relishes, soaps and more.

A L E S S O N O N PA D D O C K TO P L AT E Picking your own strawberries is a simple yet fun and hands-on BERRY way to teach the kids about where TIPS our food comes from.

THERE’S HEAPS OF FA M I LY F U N As well as PYO strawberries, Strawberry Fields has a bunch of family-friendly activities that makes it a great day out with the kids. There is a children’s playground and a large open grassed area for the kids to enjoy.

There is also a fab cafe with a yummy range of strawberry treats including ice cream, scones with strawberries and cream, and tarts. There is often live music on the weekend too (check their

HOW TO PICK THE PERFECT STRAWBERRY

The redder the sweeter, so go for ones with the most colour. Size makes no difference to taste.

LOVE STRAWBERRY SMOOTHIES?

Freeze a stack of strawberries before the end of the season and have farm-fresh strawberry smoothies all-year round.

IT’S OUTDOOR AND SCREEN FREE After a long COVID-19 lockdown, there’s no better way to dust off those cobwebs than putting down the iPad, getting outdoors in the sunshine and fresh air, and doing something fun together.

SHOP LOCAL It’s been a tough year for everyone, and doing something as simple as picking your own strawberries from a local farmer can be a wonderful way to shop local, live local, and support our local community.

Best of all, it’s free! Just pay for your strawberries!

MORE INFO: WHERE: STRAWBERRY FIELDS, 133 LAXTON ROAD, PALMVIEW, SUNSHINE COAST QLD 4553 | PHONE: (07) 5494 5146 FACEBOOK: @STRAWBERRYFIELDSAUSTRALIA | INSTAGRAM: @STRAWBERRYFIELDSPYO | WEBSITE: WWW.STRAWBERRYFIELDS.COM.AU

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in the Heritage City TAKE A DRIVE OR FLIGHT OUT TO THE COUNTRY Book a Floating Images Hot Air Balloon Flight and float majestically over the Ipswich countryside. Bookings are being taken for family groups and individuals up to eight per flight.

Get up close to llamas at The Llama Farm in Pine Mountain, take one for a walk or book into one of their farm tours.

You can feed and pet a range of cute animals at the Haigslea Ewe Nique Hobby Farm. Grab a coffee or morning tea while you’re there and see some of the 20 newborn lambs they’re expecting this season.

Check out Animal Encounters at the Ipswich Nature Centre, with native Australian and some cute farm animals.

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Head over to the Summer Land Camel Farm to see the friendly camels, you can even book a camel ride while you’re there and pick up some camel milk produce.

Take a drive out to the country town of Marburg.

Stop by The Soul Nook Collective a new eclectic shop and cafe set inside an old church. Don’t miss Scotland Yard Antiques, The Black Museum and Special Branch Collective coffee shop while you’re in town.

Keep driving a little further to Tallavalley Farm B&B for the night, it’s a farm stay where you can meet the resident cows and chooks and dogs are welcome!

! Floating Images Hot Air Balloon Flights

! The Llama Farm

Another farm stay option is available in Mutdapilly – Keira Farm is a working cattle and sheep farm with a two bedroom cottage available for rent and ample space. The drawcard is an outdoor spa and plenty of wildlife.

Explore over 100km of hiking and biking trails at Hidden Vale Adventure Park.

The park is located at Grandchester right near Spicers Hidden Vale. There are bikes for hire and a shuttle service to help you get into the property.

If you’re after something more low key, pack a picnic and enjoy it at the beautiful Queens Park, on the green lawns at Kholo Gardens or by the river at Colleges Crossing.

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OTHER THINGS TO DO The Christmas themed room at Seraphim Escape Rooms is perfect for kids. This non-threatening escape room is great for a family adventure. They also have two scary rooms available, for older kids and horror fans.

Take in a movie at Limelight Cinemas.

The Ipswich Art Gallery and the Children’s Gallery space is also open for pre-booked visits seven days a week.

! The Workshops Rail Museum

And get creative with kids art classes thanks to Sip ‘n’ Dip Ipswich and Jules Art studio in Dinmore.

GET BUSY EXPLORING HISTORY AND HERITAGE

FAMILY FRIENDLY PLACES TO STAY

The Workshops Rail Museum is perfect for family adventures! The museum is located at the birthplace of rail in Queensland and while there’s a lot of history on offer, there’s also a Sciencentre with plenty of exhibits for busy hands and minds to tackle.

Make the fun last longer with an overnight stay at Quest Ipswich, book now and enjoy a complimentary upgrade, early check in and late check out upon availability.

There’s also an onsite café with great coffee and good food.

Take a self-guided walk down the Top of Town to see many beautifully preserved heritage buildings that are now home to restaurants and boutique shops.

There’s also heritage trails featuring the many churches in Ipswich and historic buildings. Pick up a brochure from the Ipswich Visitor Information Centre.

Spicers Hidden Vale is encouraging you to take a Midweekend! Enjoy a sleep in, a late breakfast and an afternoon nap on the couch during the week – when you’re supposed to be at work. The weekend starts on Wednesday with the Spicers Midweekend.

! Ipswich Art Gallery, Children’s Gallery space

! Quest Ipswich Quest Springfield are offering a 20% discount with a two night weekend stay.

Head to the Oaks Ipswich Aspire Suites website to view their special rates under the deals section.

For more to see and do visit DiscoverIpswich.com.au

! Old Flour Mill, Top of Town

! Queens Park

! The Soul Nook Collective

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LOCAL LIFE

Providing a much-needed environment for dads to chat and connect with other dads, the grassroots movement Grab Life by the Balls is rapidly growing across the East Coast. We chat to founder Sam Parker about barbecues, mateship, and men’s mental health.

WHAT PROMPTED YOU TO START THE MEET-UP GROUP ‘GRAB LIFE

BY THE BALLS’?

It was accidental. There was a night in November 2017 when my mates and I were all free, so we had a burger night. It was an enjoyable break from life’s hardships, so I began organising official events and invited everyone to come along. From there I recognised the need and purpose of Grab Life by the Balls and mateship. Since then, we’ve grown to 12 locations from our little burger night on the Sunshine Coast.

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HOW MANY MEET–UPS DO YOU NOW HOLD EACH WEEK? There’s at least two weekly events on the Sunshine Coast, and there’s 12 other weekly events at other locations.

WHY DO YOU THINK THERE IS SUCH A NEED FOR THESE MEET-UPS FOR DADS? There’s a need because men seem to be reluctant to start conversations surrounding mental health. There’s a stigma about men having mental pressure – that we don’t ask

for help. From a dad’s point of view, it feels like the current system doesn’t speak to Aussie men. We focus on mateship. We understand how to speak with the Aussie guy.

H AV E YO U R E A C H E D B E YO N D THE SUNSHINE COAST YET? Yes, we’ve expanded outside of the Sunshine Coast. We’re in Brisbane, Warrnambool, we have three locations in Sydney (Sydney Northern beaches, West and South), also Newcastle, Port Stephens, Port Macquarie, NSW Central Coast, and Mission Beach.

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W H AT F E E D B A C K H AV E YO U H A D pressure to always check in with others FROM DADS FOLLOWING THE before themselves. Grab Life by the Balls MEET-UPS? has found that creating a space for men to Guys really appreciate the laid back hang out with other blokes, have a laugh environment and the “vibe”, if you like. and create meaningful connections, has I’ve found that a lot of times, the guys had a lot of positive benefits. Research says hardships happening in their that mateship and connections lives and coming to these are important to positive events actually helped them mental health.

Creating a space through those rough times. It’s not always about talking – for men to hang H O W WA S Y O U R O W N sometimes, it’s just about EXPERIENCE OF out with other hanging out with other blokes BECOMING A DAD? blokes, have a going through similar stuff.

It was bloody hard! There’s

laugh and create added pressure and expectation WHY DO YOU THINK that comes with becoming a meaningful THAT MEN’S MENTAL dad. You recognise where you connections, has should be, both in life and in H E A LT H I S I N D EC L I N E, a lot of positive terms of your mental health, AND WHAT CAN WE DO TO REVERSE THAT and where you actually are, and benefits.

TREND? for me those things just I think there’s a bit of an weren’t aligned. identity crisis for men right now. Men are receiving a lot of mixed WHAT’S NEXT FOR YOU AND messages – whether it’s to show more or GRAB LIFE BY THE BALLS? less emotion, to provide for their families We want Grab Life by the Balls to have a or take care of themselves first – it can be national presence with our grassroots confusing. For dads, especially, there’s a weekly catch ups. We’re also hoping to K I D S O N T H E C O A S T.C O M . A U • K I D S I N T H E C I T Y.C O M . A U

Becoming a dad was ‘bloody hard!’, says Sam Parker, founder of Grab Life By The Balls.

expand on an international level, primarily to New Zealand and Canada. But this year, we’re focusing on emphasising the importance of mateship and connection with our annual Bloody Big BBQ from this year onward. All in all, we want this movement to celebrate mateship as a step towards reversing men’s mental health stats in Australia.

ANYTHING ELSE YOU’D LIKE TO SHARE WITH OUR READERS? Men always have something going on in their lives. We might not always talk about it, but it’s important to acknowledge that fact. Mateship is a really good tool for positive mental health, and it’s easy and fun.

FIND OUT MORE AT

www.grablifebytheballs.com.au If you are experiencing any mental health concerns, reach out for help at: Parentline: 1300 30 1300 BeyondBlue: 1300 22 4636 MensLine: 1300 78 9978

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STRESSED OUT & READY TO SHOUT?

o you ever notice that some days you, as a parent, can take it all in your stride? Little man refuses to go to bed? That’s ok, you have the patience of the Dalai Lama tonight. You can sit with him. Calm him and soothe him back down. But, other nights, you just can’t. You are already at breaking point. You just need him to sleep and you raise your voice, despite knowing that will cause the opposite outcome to what you both need.

YOU ARE HUMAN

So many things will affect our ability to be what we want to be for our children. Stress is a big one. Stress from multiple areas in our lives, such as money worries, our relationships and jobs, will empty our patience and capacity to be present.

AND HERE IS THE KICKER

When we start to be less present for our children, due to external (and completely understandable) reasons, it can make them want or need us more. This, in turn, can just add to the stress. It is an unfortunate but completely normal cycle.

SO WHAT CAN WE DO?

We need to sit down and take a moment to look at all the things that may be individually affecting our capacity at this current moment in time. Take five minutes, make a cup of tea and actually think about all

the things that you as a parent/worker/partner have going on that may be draining our unseen cup of capacity. We need to check in regularly because, as an adult, we will always have a list of demands of us. Some days it will be more complicated than other days but we will always have some sort of list. We will see that, for the days that the list is much more complicated, it may be harder to be what we need and want to be for our children. This will probably also correlate to the days that our children act out and show us that they need us.

We need to understand what is draining our unseen cup of capacity because it is very easy to blame whatever we see on the surface during this time. It is easy to think you are feeling this way because of a bedtime battle or because your tween girl sassed her brother at the dinner table. We need to know what is blowing up our balloon of stress, not focus on the pin that pops it.

We need to be kind to ourselves and pick our battles. We should look to connect with our kids, rather than direct them. These are the days when it doesn’t matter if our little man sleeps in our bed. That is being kind to him and you. By doing this, we fill up our unseen cup. We fill up theirs. We eat toast for dinner and we put on a movie. We snuggle up on the couch. And then we do it all again tomorrow with, hopefully, a little more in our cup.

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Call daily between 8am & 10pm on 1300 30 1300, visit Parentline.com.au or WebChat between 8am and 9pm every day.

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We now also do led pony rides!

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As Food Disappears…

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4 x Everyday Snack Plates to revolutionise the practice of Sight Words! With our little people and planet’s health in mind, our plates are made from PLA (Cornstarch) and Bamboo Fibre with no nasty toxins or binding resins. So, once your child has outgrown their plates you can bury the plates in the garden!

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REVIEWS

THE POWER OF POSITIVE PRANKING

By Philip Bunting

A symphony of alarm clocks at assembly?

A stampede of fluffy guinea pigs?

For Casey, Cookie and Zeke, pranks are about more than just fun. They are determined to make a difference. And when the adults won’t listen, the kids will find a way to be heard – as long as they can stay out of detention!

The outrageous story of three best friends, one greedy mayor and a whole lot of pranking.

Perfect for inquisitive kids, Philip Bunting’s latest book is an insightful and humorous look at identity and what makes us who we are. We are all from the same place, and made of the same stuff, but we each see ourselves as individuals.

A journey into deepest inner space for anyone who has ever paused to wonder exactly who is wondering. Philip Bunting’s other titles include The Wonderful wisdom of ants, Koalas eat gumleaves, Kookaburas love to laugh, Mopoke, and Sandcastle.

By Nat Amoore

WHO AM I?

THE ODD 1S OUT: THE FIRST SEQUEL

By James Rallison

In this second instalment in the Odd 1s Out series, James Rallison returns with characters, stories and opinions on topics such as: The upside of a robot uprising, questionable pizza toppings, strange but completely reasonable fears, and invitations that don’t exist but should. Offering advice on accepting your quirks and growing up in the internet age, his fan-favourite comics are proving a hit with kids across the world.

TROLLS WORLD TOUR

In cinemas 17 September (CTC)

The Happiest Movie Ever will land in cinemas right in time for the September school holidays! Crowd favourites Poppy and Branch are back to discover their world is about to get a lot bigger and a whole lot louder with six different musical Trolls tribes. Starring Justin Timberlake and Anna Kendrick.

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