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From the Editor The Social Gathering WHAT'S NEWS CHECK THIS OUT: New, fun and funky things FEATURE: Invisible differences:

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THE ‘P’ FILES: Bridging generations: Grandparents CALENDAR OF EVENTS: Find out what’s happening on the

The chronic conditions that set children apart

Coast during October and November 20 EDUCATION: Starting Prep: Do age and maturity matter? 24 EDUCATION: Gender and education

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BABIES ON THE COAST: A detached look at attachment parenting ONLY NATURAL: The loaf lowdown - power your way through the

bread maze 36 A CONVERSATION WITH: Georgia Brizuela "Find the Delight" 38 LET’S CELEBRATE: Halloween with an Aussie twist 40 Christmas Gift Guide 42 REVIEWS

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T hesocialgathering Which is your favourite park and why?

Reader Gill: I love the park at the Broadwater at Southport. There is almost always something on and so much to do!

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kidsonthecoast I don’t think I ever truly realised how much having children would change my perspective on life. The things that I now do on a regular basis, words that come out of my mouth (or even thoughts that cross my mind), I would have promised you pre-kids would never have occurred. I am forever changed and funnily enough will be forever grateful for that.

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How do you know when your child is ready for school? This is a question that I have discussed with friends, we have pondered in the office and of course is one that has become even more relevant with the changes to the kindergarten program throughout Queensland. In this edition we explore what your options are and whether age or maturity really matter when it comes to starting school, as well as challenging the gender stereotypes in the classroom.

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Our spring edition also explores attachment parenting, gives you the lowdown on what to look for in breads and discusses the importance of Grandparents.

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Why am I offering you this insight? Our feature article this month looks at chronic conditions that are invisible to the eye. This was a particularly important topic for me, as my daughter has type 1 diabetes and we have shared our experience with you in the article. There were so many other conditions and illnesses that we wanted to cover and would love to hear and share your stories and experiences too.

Have you missed an issue of Kids on the Coast magazine? All of our articles are online and you can comment and discuss the topics on our website or Facebook page. We add topical news stories regularly as well as blogs, new articles and product, app and book reviews. Please feel free to contact me via Facebook.com/kidsonthecoast, our website or email. And of course, keep an eye out for the stories, reviews, news and competitions that are added almost daily to our website!

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Photography by Jennifer Oliphant Photography. Special thankyou to Mia. Flower headpiece by Twig and Grace, Cooroy (07) 5442 5440. Find Twig and Grace on Instagram & Facebook.

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The Stage 3 students at Lindisfarne Anglican Grammar School are amongst the first students in Australia to adopt the model of a 1:1 ‘Bring Your Own Device’ iPad program. The iPad program is Stage 3’s natural progression from the successful introduction of MacBooks in 2010. This strong emphasis on the application of Apple technologies to support and extend learning has been evidenced through digital storytelling, student podcasting, student-created animations and movies. Lindisfarne Anglican Grammar School see the iPad as another step forward – an opportunity to revisit and challenge our views or curriculum and make learning even more relevant and engaging.

Stage 3 Coordinator Mr Tim Waugh said “Literacy and Numeracy remain our main focus areas of great importance. The iPad is a tool we use to enhance the outcomes in these critical areas.” Mr Waugh went on to say “The students are not just consuming information, they are being creative and are being given the opportunity to personalise and differentiate their learning.” Year 6 students Blake Mills and Sophie Ryder agreed that “The benefit of the iPad Program is that it makes learning so much fun.” The students and staff at Lindisfarne Grammar are looking forward to the next phase of this exciting, technological journey. Lindisfarne Grammar is a Preschool – Year 12 co-educational Anglican Christian school, located in Tweed Heads and caters for students living in the southern end of the Gold Coast and greater Tweed Coast regions.

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PARENTING, EATING AND ACTIVITY FOR CHILD HEALTH:

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Parents are about to be taught how to fight the food war in a new, free, ground-breaking program rolling out this month across Queensland. QUT has started offering families places in a $5 million program called PEACH (Parenting, Eating and Activity for Child Health). It will be available to families with a child 5-11 years who is above a healthy weight for their age, and will be the largest obesity intervention program to date in Queensland. The PEACH program is funded by Queensland Health under the National Partnership Agreement on Preventive Health - Healthy Children. PEACH will initially be offered to 75 families in Brisbane, Caboolture, Logan and Rockhampton, followed by a state-wide roll out to a further 1325 families from 2014. Families will attend 10 sessions over six months, with additional support in the form of three phone calls. The sessions, run by trained facilitators, see parents learn and problem solve in a group environment about nutrition and activity while their children enjoy active play. For more information visit: www.peachqld.com.au

CALLING FOR OUR "UNSUNG HEROES" The quiet achievers of the Gold Coast could soon be recognised with nominations now open for the annual Australia Day awards. Acting Mayor Councillor Donna Gates said it was important to celebrate our “unsung heroes” and recognise their effort. "If you know someone locally that inspires others through sport, has a passion for the environment, builds community spirit, or fosters our creative culture, I urge you to nominate them," she said. "Nominating someone is even easier

this year as details can be completed on the City of Gold Coast website." The awards are offered in six categories and recognise individuals and groups who have made an outstanding contribution to the community, and for exceptional achievement in sporting, environmental or cultural endeavours. Nominations are open until 15 November 2013. For more information on the nomination criteria or to apply online, visit Gold Coast Council Australia Day Awards page.

THE GARAGE SALE TRAIL Whether you’re looking for some retro bargains, want to de-clutter, or just to get to know the neighbours, Garage Sale Trail is for you. Four years after starting in and around Bondi Beach, Garage Sale Trail is now a national Australian event. Garage Sale Trail organises communities around Australia to hold Garage Sales on the same day, this year Saturday October 26th. They are into sustainability, by redistributing great stuff and saving it from landfill. They are into

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community, by making a great occasion for you to connect with people in your neighbourhood. They are into you making some money from stuff you would otherwise have thrown away, for you or your favourite charity. So far Garage Sale has redistributed one million items from potential landfill, helped raise $3 million in local fundraising, and helped 800,000 people to meet their neighbours in Australia. For more information visit www.garagesaletrail.com.au

NATIONAL ROAD TRIP TO PROMOTE CHILD SAFETY Parents of abducted and murdered school boy Daniel Morcombe are taking child safety messages to all Australia and promoting Day for Daniel. Bruce and Denise Morcombe embarked upon a ‘66’ day National Tour in late August, to promote and encourage people to take action, by participating in child safety educational activities on Day for Daniel on October 25th. Driving 17,000 kilometres through every State in Australia over 66 days, does not faze Bruce and Denise Morcombe in their bid to educate kids and empower communities across the country. Day for Daniel is a National Day of Action that has grown to include over one thousand schools and more than a million Australians annually, conducting education and awareness activities in their own communities. For more information visit www.dayfordaniel.com.au

RAISING AWARENESS October is Down syndrome awareness month. Down syndrome (DS) is the most common chromosomal abnormality. Around 1 in 800 children are born with DS. The DS community on the Gold Coast is a strong one, knitted together by a Facebook page where families network, compare notes and support each other. The Down syndrome Association of Queensland (DSAQ) supports families on the Gold Coast by providing music therapy, dancing and swimming activities every week. Pictured are three 4 year olds, Malachi, Riley and Sarah, who love to hang out together every week with their music therapist Hamish. Sarah’s Mum comments, “Sarah just loves coming to music therapy and socialising with the other kids every week. The repetition of doing an activity on a weekly basis is what makes music therapy so valuable. It’s wonderful that the DSAQ fund this activity for the kids. They provide excellent support to families who are struggling to find their way with a child with a disability”. You can find out more about DS and the DSAQ at www.dsaq.org.au

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THE CHRONIC CONDITIONS THAT SET CHILDREN APART WHEN CHILDREN HAVE A CHRONIC CONDITION THAT’S LARGELY HIDDEN, IT’S AN INVISIBLE DIFFERENCE THAT SETS THEM APART FROM THEIR PEERS. By Sandra Smith

hese chronic conditions can disrupt the normal growth and development processes of children, and affect their social and emotional development. There may be a fear of stigma, frequent school absences and an inability to participate in age-appropriate activities. Invisible chronic conditions include autism spectrum disorder, ADHD, asthma, dyspraxia, diabetes, dyslexia and epilepsy. There may be no obvious physical signs of the condition, but the symptoms can be limiting and distressing. These children need encouragement, support and advocacy, so that they can live as normal a life as possible.

GETTING A DIAGNOSIS Coast Paediatrics specialist paediatrician Dr Anthony Morosini says that when there is early intervention and access to appropriate services, the hidden disability or chronic disease can be

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well-managed and the long-term outcomes are improved. With an early diagnosis and treatment, children are more able to achieve to their best, or have programs in place so that they can catch up. The first port of call for parents is the community child health clinic, which provides free parenting advice and support for Queensland families of children aged 0–12. The Raising Children’s Network (www.raisingchildren.net.au) also has reliable information about child development, from newborns through to early teens. However, if there are concerns, visit a GP for a medical diagnosis or a referral to more specialised health care. Every child grows at his or her own pace and there’s a “range of normal,” explains Dr Morosini. Some children who develop more slowly will catch up with time; other children may have an underlying problem that causes delayed development. Dr Morosini advises that parents or teachers

should not attempt to make a diagnosis, as that is the role of the medical practitioner or psychologist. He says teachers can usually identify which children in their classroom are struggling, and they would normally discuss their concerns with the parents. “If it’s felt by the teachers, the parents or people within the schooling system that it is more than the usual or that there are significant issues or concerns, that’s when they would normally be referred on to doctors, psychologists, therapists,” he says. Behaviour can have a range of causes, including possible ADHD, autism spectrum disorder (ASD) or anxiety. Dr Morosini says if children are having ongoing difficulty despite normal behaviour management strategies, then it’s worthwhile seeking further advice.

AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDER Autism is an invisible difference because there are no outward physical characteristics, however, children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) typically have difficulties with communication, problem-solving and social relationships. Autistic disorder, Asperger’s disorder and Pervasive continued on next page... www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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Development Disorder all come under the umbrella of ASD. Coast mum Nicole* says it wasn’t easy to pinpoint what was wrong with her son, Connor, at first, but she was relieved when he was diagnosed with Asperger’s disorder at the age of five. The diagnosis was made through a series of questionnaires and a health care plan was subsequently put in place. “He was our first child and we thought we were doing something wrong. Connor couldn't interact or play with other children; nine times out of ten he would hurt the other child,” she says. “ASD is a very broad spectrum and it can be difficult to separate typical behaviour of young children and ASD traits. We all have quirky behaviours.”

COPING AS A FAMILY Growing up with a hidden lifelong condition can be a huge challenge for both the children and their families. Nicole says everything is much more complicated, and even getting ready to go somewhere is stressful. “If he doesn’t have the right clothes or shoes at the ready, it can throw a huge spanner in the works,” she says. “He will have a meltdown and there is a domino effect on the rest of the family. Sometimes it’s not even worth going. I am sure we have stopped getting invited to things because of this.” Connor’s meltdowns are confronting for his younger brother and sister, and Nicole says his behaviour towards his two siblings can be “unrelenting.” “If the other two are busy with an activity, he almost goes out of his way to disrupt or upset them, simply because he might just want to join in or he might be jealous that he can’t seem to be able to join in,” she says.

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Dr Morosini explains that a child with a hidden disability or chronic illness can be a “significant burden” for the family. That child may require a lot of support and have high needs, which impacts on the family as a whole. “If the child with that medical, chronic disease has lots of appointments, parents are involved with doing lots of therapy, or giving medication, then sometimes other siblings can feel left out,” he says. “It’s important for the parents to become aware of that and to try and spend quality time with the other children.” Nicole says she and her husband often feel stressed, but the family sticks together and tries to stay strong. Their outlets are through sports, including surf lifesaving, running and swimming. She advises other parents not to take the stress out on each other, but if they do, to acknowledge that. “Patience, patience and more patience,” she says. “Ask for help from friends and family, and don’t worry about being judged. If they could walk a mile in our shoes!” In 2009, over 42,000 Australian children aged 0-14 had been diagnosed with autism, according to the Raising Children’s Network. Despite the prevalence of ASD, there is often misunderstanding in the wider community, as people assume a child’s behaviour is caused by poor parenting or other factors. Nicole has become accustomed to dealing with this public perception that her son is out of control and badly behaved. “I have been on the brunt of many ‘looks’ and have been abused more than once by ignorant people. I have toughened up and really don’t care anymore about funny looks or frowning bystanders,” Nicole says. “The other thing that I guess I find frustrating is the opposite—well-meaning people that think they may be able to do a better job and have all sorts of suggestions for me, from

changing toothpastes to diet.” Dr Morosini advises misconceptions about certain chronic conditions can be overcome by education of the wider public, through support groups, medical services, and Queensland Health.

WALKING TO A DIFFERENT DRUM Most children with autism who attend school have difficulty with communication, learning and fitting in socially, so they often need a high level of support. Nicole says 11-year-old Connor is wellsupported at school, however, he is “the different one.” “Kids can be cruel. He can also be difficult. Connor is really not afraid of authority or anything, really. This can be frustrating, but I guess it can be a positive thing as well,” she says. “Nothing fazes him; he walks to the beat of his own drum. He can be amazing and infuriating.” Unfortunately, Connor was removed from his last therapy group because he put other children at risk. Nicole would like to have access to respite care, but she says this is not currently available on the Coast, however, Connor’s grandmother helps out, providing an “oasis” for him and giving the family much-needed breaks. Asperger’s disorder is a lifelong condition and Nicole worries about Connor’s future, which is uncertain. She hopes he will be able to have a job, and perhaps even attend university and get a degree. He has the intelligence to do so, but Nicole says it will be a long hard slog for him. “We are waiting for him to find his passion; other than computer games, nothing much else interests him,” she says. * Names have been changed. continued on next page...

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TYPE 1 DIABETES Another hidden illness affecting thousands of Australian children is type 1 diabetes, a chronic condition that is caused by the immune system mistakenly turning on itself, destroying beta cells within the pancreas and removing the body's ability to produce insulin. Insulin allows the body to process sugar to create energy, without insulin, the body literally starves as it cannot process food. Type 1 diabetes is a lifelong autoimmune disease that usually arises in childhood and requires daily insulin therapy for survival. It is unable to be prevented and there is no cure. In 2008, there were an estimated 5,700 children aged 0-14 years with Type 1 diabetes in Australia, according to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (AIHW). Type 2 diabetes usually occurs in people aged over 40, however, the AIHW reports that it is increasing in childhood due to higher levels of obesity and physical inactivity. This form of diabetes can often be managed with diet and lifestyle changes, though insulin is sometimes required. Coast mum Jackie says her daughter, Freya, was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes when she became acutely ill at the age of 11 months. Freya was rushed to hospital with symptoms of extreme drowsiness and rapid breathing. After an anxious wait in the emergency room, Freya was finally diagnosed with juvenile (type 1) diabetes. “I remember sitting there on the chair in emer-

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gency promising Freya that I would do everything to keep her safe,” Jackie says. “I didn’t care that she had diabetes; I just wanted her to live.” The next few hours were critical for Freya, as she was going into a diabetic coma. She had diabetic ketone acidosis (DKA), a life-threatening condition for anyone with diabetes. “At that point it was touch and go,” Jackie remembers. “The head of the emergency department was very kind, but explained that it was now a waiting game as they slowly hydrated her tiny body with fluid and introduced small amounts of insulin to remove the ketones from her blood and start to reduce her blood glucose level.” Later that afternoon, Freya was transferred by ambulance to the Royal Children’s Hospital in Brisbane and it wasn’t until around 3am that the ICU team were confident that Freya would pull through. After this initial diagnosis, the next nine days were a steep learning curve as Jackie and her husband learnt how to do the three-hourly blood tests and give her the required five needles a day, as well as learning how to count carbohydrates and calculate an approximate glycaemic index in foods. “It took a few months of daily and then weekly phone calls with our diabetes team at the Royal Children’s Hospital for us to be confident enough to start making our own decisions with how much insulin she required at continued on next page...

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Feature each meal,” Jackie explains. Now there are three-monthly checkups at the Royal Children’s Hospital, where the family is offered a range of medical and support services. Of course there are the tough days for Jackie, especially knowing that there is no cure, but she takes one day at a time. Type 1 diabetes can be controlled with careful management, however, Jackie has to be vigilant due to the unpredictable and potentially lifethreatening nature of the disease. When she is out and about, she tests Freya in plain sight of anyone who looks their way. “If Freya tells me she is feeling low, which can become very dangerous, very quickly, we will stop wherever we are to test,” she says. “It may be in the middle of the supermarket or in a queue for the movies. Sometimes people ask what we are doing and they are almost always polite. I am very happy to explain what we are doing and why.”

They told us that our child should never be denied opportunities simply because of her illness and we’re eternally grateful for that

THE COST OF CHRONIC ILLNESS Mothers of children with Type 1 diabetes consistently report lost wages as a result of time spent caring for their child, according to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF). Jackie declined a job offer the day after Freya was diagnosed, as the specialist recommended that she stay at home with her daughter for as long as possible. As well as having to cope with a reduced income, Jackie says there are huge outof-pocket expenses each year for simple things like the lancets for the three-hourly blood tests, which are not subsidised by the government. As a result, Jackie’s husband decided to take a fly in, fly out role. This has brought a stable income for the family, but with her husband away for two weeks out of four, Jackie has the added burden of doing all the overnight testing on her own. “Unfortunately I have become very attached to strong, espresso coffee and have way too many every day,” she says.

BECOMING AN ADVOCATE Type 1, which affects 10%–15% of people with diabetes, is often confused with Type 2, the most common form of diabetes in Australia. Jackie remembers being frustrated by this when Freya was first diagnosed, but she now sees the interaction with others as an opportunity to educate them about Type 1 diabetes, which is a genetic disease. “We do occasionally have to counter the perception that Freya’s illness is somehow our fault because we gave her too many lollies or fed her a poor diet,” she says. “It probably bothered us

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a lot more in the beginning than it does now, to be honest. Some people will always be quick to judge.” A strong believer in being positive and trying to make the best of any situation, Jackie has thrown herself into fundraising for additional research to find a cure. She is also very active with charity organisations that work to raise awareness of the disease, and is involved with an online support group. Type 1 diabetes is an invisible illness to a large degree, so most people who meet Freya don’t realise she has a chronic condition. She looks just like any other child, but the difference is that she requires three-hourly blood tests and at least five insulin injections a day just to stay alive. Jackie tries to make life as normal as possible for Freya, who now attends child care for three days a week and will start Prep next year. The child care centre staff have gone out of their way to learn how to do blood tests and insulin injections, she says.

“They told us that our child should never be denied opportunities simply because of her illness and we’re eternally grateful for that,” she says. Jackie is fortunate to have ongoing support from her husband, her mother and trusted friends. She says some of her closest friends are starting to learn about diabetes, so they can help her. As the primary carer, she does, however, make the big decisions about her daughter’s care. After the initial life-changing acute illness and diagnosis, life has settled down for Jackie and her family. Although they have to deal with the financial costs and extra care needed to manage Freya’s diabetes, Jackie believes the family is coping well. Freya is now a happy, healthy, active four-year-old living a very normal life. “Type 1 diabetes is hard work for the parents and the child; however there is no reason that your child can’t do most things that they want to do with a little more planning,” Jackie says.

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Bridging generations: Grandparents By Jackie Goldston

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share special time with my Pop and my own girls now. He treats them like princesses too.” Rebecca’s mum, Janine lives interstate, so doesn’t see her grandchildren all that often. “We speak weekly and try to chat with the grandkids over the phone which is sometime successful and other times not so great,” she explains, however that doesn’t mean she doesn’t feel that she isn’t important in their lives. “It’s really important that we are a part or our grandchildren’s lives. As it gives balance to the family relationship.” Rebecca’s kids agree, sharing stories of the many things they have learned from their grandparents, as 7 year old Tori explains, “My Nanny and Poppy have taught me to always be polite at the dinner table. My nanny taught me that you do not need a packet to make a cake. Poppy taught me how to ride my bike without training wheels. I help my nanny in the garden!” FAMILY BONDS AND GROWTH Anne McLeish, Director of Grandparents Australia agrees that grandparents can play an important role in encouraging connections and bonds in families, “We are always encouraging more family unity, whether it is the grandparents being involved or simply spending time together. Any opportunity you can take to bind families together and to give children a sense of belonging to a family unit is important. “As far as sharing skills and understanding, I think that Grandparents have much to offer their grandchildren. I think that Grandparents understanding of relationship building and the sort of wisdom and the sense of history they bring about www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

their family is really important. They are like the custodians of family history. Sharing these stories and skills are really important ones that kids don’t see in close quarters anymore. Just the ability to sit down and talk, over a cup of tea and have a quiet moment, talk about family stories is a lost art.” Grandmother Janine has seen a change in her relationships with her kids since they became parents and she a grandparent, “We all became closer, as our kids gained a better perspective of the difficulties of being a parent and better understood the decisions we made whilst raising them… We have loved being able to play with all these gorgeous babies and then give them back to their parents. You get a better appreciation for the time you have with your grandchildren as you didn’t have the quality time with your own due to work etc.” There is extensive research to support that developing a relationship with older generations has a positive impact on the development of children – where the relationship is healthy and embraced. In fact, the Growing Up in Australia Study found that the relationships children have with significant adults, including their grandparents, are the foundation of their development. OTHER OPTIONS So what do you do when, for whatever reason, there is no connection available for your children? In 2012, Cate Kloos launched Find-A-Grandparent, an online service that matches Australian families in need with "surrogate grandparents" – as she herself was in need of the service for

her two children. The website is still growing and she cannot believe the demand. "We have heaps of families registered but we could have heaps more if there were more grandparents to go around," she said. Anne from Grandparents Australia also recommends reaching out to your extended family. Older aunts or uncles who can bridge some of the generation gap for young children. She cannot stress enough the importance of developing an understanding between the older and younger generations. “It is crucial that we do more to get the older generations and younger generations together. There is a bit of a disconnection now. Because families don’t necessarily live close together now, many young people don’t have much experience of dealing with older people and that is a problem. “We have had people report to us, from smaller communities, that there is a breakdown, sort of a barrier, between older people and younger people. And because Australia’s population is aging, there are going to be a lot of older people in our community and we really need younger people to be able to connect with them in their working lives.” So if you are lucky enough to have grandparents involved in your children’s lives, think about the advice from the organisers of Grandparents Day, “Grandparents are custodians of the values, stories and histories of our families and our communities. Invest in the memory bank of your grandparents… Share memories and family traditions and more importantly – create new ones by spending the day with your grandparents!” OCTOBER / NOVEMBER 2013 – Kids on the Coast

CALENDAR October 1 – 7 October

DINOSAUR ADVENTURES Where: Pacific Fair Shopping Centre When: Mon to Sat 10am - 4pm & Sun 11am - 3pm Kids will be enthralled by the Dinosaur Adventures Exhibition, Dinosaur Dig Workshop and heaps more fun for all. Cost: Spend $60 in-centre for 2 x FREE Dinosaur Adventure Passes (Parents & Guardians are free) or $12.50 cash passes available. Details: pacificfair.com.au

5 & 6 October

PET & ANIMAL EXPO Where: Central Park Oval and Varsity Lakes Sports and Arts Centre Central Park Drive, Varsity Lakes When: Sat 10am - 6pm. Sun 10am - 3pm. Step out of your backyard and into our interactive backyard or go wild with the wildlife. There is something for all animal lovers.Pets are welcome! Cost: FREE admission. Details: www.goldcoastpetexpo.com.au

9, 16, 23, 30, October & 13 November

YOGA STORYTIME Where: Elanora Library When: 10:15am - 10:45am An interactive storytime session including gentle yoga postures appropriate for toddlers walking to three years of age. Bookings essential. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

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A calendar of regular weekly events is available online. For details of playgroups, library activities, weekly sporting events, craft classes, Australian Breastfeeding Association meeting times and much more, visit www.kidsonthecoast.com.au 3 October

CULTURAL WALK THROUGH TIME

Where: David Fleay Wildlife Park, West Burleigh Road When: 11am - 12:30pm Join local indigenous rangers for a guided walk and discover medicinal plants and learn about the customs of the Kombumerri people that lived in the area. Cost: May apply. Bookings required. Details: www.nprsr.qld.gov.au/experiences/ connect-with-nature/index.html P: 5576 2411

6 October

FAMILY OPEN DAY GOLD COAST MODEL RAILWAY CLUB

3 & 4 October

RAPT IN REPTILES SHOW Where: The Pines Shopping Centre When: 10am & 11:30am There will be reptiles galore! See and learn about some wonderful Australian species with a stage show by rangers from Queensland Parks and Wildlife Service. Cost: FREE. No booking required. Details: P: 5576 2411 E: Jessica.Rosewell@nprsr.qld.gov.au W: www.nprsr.qld.gov.au/experiences/ connect-with-nature/index.html

6 October & 3 November

STAND -UP PADDLING AT SURFERS PARADISE

Where: 18 Kendor Street, Arundel When:10am - 4pm See four different scale model layouts, try your hand on the shunting track, run a train and find out how to get started in model railways. Cost: $2 entry or $5 for a family Details: www.goldcoastmodelrailwayclub. com

Where: Budds Beach River Dr, Surfers Paradise When: Two sessions - 9am & 10am By the end of this workshop you will know how to stand-up paddle and be well on your way to learning new techniques for paddling and turning. No previous experience needed and children are welcome. Cost: $10. Bookings required. Details: P: Adventure Outlet Southport: 5571 2929 W: gcparks.com.au

10, 24 October & 7, 21 November

10 October & 14 November

PJ STORYTIME Where: Robina Library When: 6pm - 6:30pm Perfect for busy parents, pop the children in their pjs and join in on these special evening storytime sessions. Suitable for children newborn to five years. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/ libraryconnect-with-nature/index.html P: 5576 2411

MULTICULTURAL BABY RHYME TIME

5 October

4 October

HAPPY TAILS DAY Organisation: RSPCA If you have a pet, or just love animals, the RSPCA invites you to donate money or buy their merchandise to keep them fighting for animal rights. Details: www.rspca.org.au/happy-tails-day

6 October

CREATIVE CAPERS Where: Glenmore Park, Ashmore When: 10am - 1am Create a spiral rainbow tie-dye masterpiece and your own take home wooden craft item and then join the free games and music. Cost: From $3 per item. Games and music FREE. Details: P Sparky Do Dah: 0411 699 928 W: gcparks.com.au

6 October

DRAGON BOAT FESTIVAL Where: Broadwater Parklands When: 8am - 4pm Dragon boat regatta on the Broadwater plus Chinese cultural performances, food, displays and activities in the park. Cost: FREE Details: P: 5581 1671 W: gcparks.com.au

11 October

WORD HUNTERS

STAND-UP PADDLING AT PALM BEACH Where: Palm Beach Parklands When: Two sessions - 8am & 9:30am By the end of this workshop you will know how to stand-up paddle and be well on your way to learning new techniques for paddling and turning. No previous experience needed and children are welcome. Cost: $10. Bookings essential. Details: W: gcparks.com.au P: 5607 0998

Where: Upper Coomera When: 10am - 10:30am French and Italian rhymes for babies newborn to two years. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library Details: pacificfair.com.au

Where: Upper Coomera Library 1:30pm 2:30pm & Elanora Library 4:30pm - 5:30pm Enjoy literacy adventures and hunt wild and wonderful words with the author and illustrator of War of the Word Hunters trilogy. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

19 October

Where: Discovery Park, Helensvale When: 10am - 2pm Get fit and healthy as you attempt to climb a rock climbing tower. All levels catered for. Minimum age six, enclosed shoes are compulsory. Cost: Free. No bookings required. Details: www.vertecadventure.com.au

MOONLIGHT MOVIES BY THE BEACH

Where: Helensvale Library When 1:30pm - 3pm Have fun with this interactive circus skills workshop. Ages six to 12 years. Bookings essential. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

Where: Surfers Paradise Beach When: 7pm – 9pm Bring a picnic blanket and enjoy a night of free family entertainment under the stars with Disney Pixar’s movie Cars playing on the Surfers Paradise Beach Cinema. Cost: FREE Details: www.surfersparadise.com P: 5584 3700

20 October

ROCK CLIMBING

Organisation: Canteen Help young people living with cancer by buying and wearing Canteen bandannas. Details: www.canteen.org.au

20 - 28 October

CHILDREN'S WEEK Children's Week celebrates the right of children to enjoy childhood. It is also a time for children to demonstrate their talents, skills

23 September – 4 October 23 October

KAYAKING

Where: Helensvale Library When: 4pm - 4:45pm Enjoy a showcase screening of short films made by our very own Wink, Blink, Think kids. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

Where: Palm Beach Parklands When: 9am - noon Come and try kayaking with instructors guiding the experience and helping with your paddling technique. All equipment supplied. Minimum age 12 years, or six years if accompanied by an adult. Cost: FREE Details: bookings@vertecadventure.com.au

Where: Paradise Point Parklands When: 10am - 1pm Activities offered include kayaking, sailing, inflatable power boats, beach volleyball and sand art. All necessary equipment is provided. Cost: $10 Details: 0405 468 344 or 0420 811 080

13 October

18 October

NATIONAL BANDANNA DAY

BIG SCREEN

SAILING & KAYAKING AT PARADISE POINT

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26 & 27 October

QLD MODEL RAILWAY SHOW Where: The Workshops Rail Museum When: 9:30am - 5pm daily See real life scenes in small intricate detail, get busy in the Construction or Creation Station and take a ride on a miniature live steam train (charges apply). Cost: Museum entry Details: www.theworkshops.qm.qld.gov.au P: 3432 5100

28 October

PINK RIBBON DAY

Nearly 3000 Queensland women are diagnosed with breast cancer each year and tragically over 460 women will lose their lives to this terrible disease each year. This is why all Queenslanders will come together on Pink Ribbon Day, Monday 28 October, to show their support for the one in eight Queensland women who will be diagnosed with breast cancer by the age of 85 years. Details: www.pinkribbonday.com.au

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2 November

1 - 30 November

MOVEMBER

NIPPERS AT BROADBEACH

Organisation: Movember Foundation Grow a Mo and raise awareness of men's health issues, specifically prostate cancer and depression in men. W: au.movember.com/

Where: Margaret Ave, Broadbeach When: 8:30am - 10am Join in surfing and beach activities for all ages. Learn how to identify a rip and what to do if you are caught in one, get involved with beach flags, wade races and body board rescue. Designed for families with children over the age of six years, children under the age of six can participate with the assistance of a parent. Cost: $5. (Parents and children under six years are free). Bookings required. Details: W: www.surfcoach.net.au E: trudy@surfcoach.net.au

2 November

SAILING & KAYAKING AT PARADISE POINT

3 November

2 November FARM YARD FRIENDS AT SAILING & KAYAKING CURRUMBIN VALLEYAT PARADISE POINT Where: Currumbin Farm Campus

Where:When: Paradise Point Parklands 10am - noon 10am - 1pm Get up closeWhen: and personal with farm yard ActivitiesPrepare offered the include kayaking, sailing, animals. animal food, herd the inflatable power volleyball and sheep into their boats, grazingbeach paddock and feed sand All necessary is provided. theart. miniature horse,equipment cow, pigs, chickens Cost: $10 and more! Details: P: 0405 344 orrequired 0420 811 080 Cost: FREE.468 Bookings Details: W: www.currumbinfarmschool. eq.edu.au P: 5533 0312

7 November

Where: Nerang When: 10am - 11am Musical instruments, drumming, stories, songs and finger plays are all part of this storytime designed especially for kids with special needs. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

Where: Upper Coomera When: 10am - 10:30am French and Italian stories, songs and activities for children aged three to five years. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

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KIRRA KITE FESTIVAL FAMILY FUN DAY

Where: Roughton Park, Kirra When: 10am - 6pm The Family Fun Day features live entertainment, kids activities and workshops, delicious multicultural cuisine, markets and rides. Cost: FREE entry Details: http://kirrakitefestival.com

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ROCK CLIMBING

Where: Queen Elizabeth Park, Coolangatta When: 10am - 2pm Get fit and healthy as you attempt to climb a rock climbing tower. All levels catered for. Minimum age six, enclosed shoes are compulsory. Cost: FREE. No bookings required. Details: www.vertecadventure.com.au

24 November

17 November

16 & 17 November

Where: The Workshops Rail Museum When: 9:30am - 5pm daily Bring your best fuzzy friend along for a fun day out with stories and songs, a Teddy Bear Parade and Teddy Bear Hunt. Cost: Museum entry Details: www.theworkshops.qm.qld.gov.au P: 3432 5100

9 November

7 November

MULTICULTURAL STORYTIME

DANCE & CIRCUS PARTY IN THE PARK

Where: Pratten Park, Broadbeach When: 10am - 1pm Learn old favourites like Nut Bush to today's newest moves Party Rock Anthem and Gangnam Style. Have a go at the circus workshop, try your hand at hula hooping, spinning plates and more. All ages welcome. Cost: FREE Details: W: totaltalent.com.au P: 07 5559 0318

Where: Upper Coomera Community Centre When: 10am - 1pm Includes a variety of performers, games, music and interactive arts based activity stations for the whole family to enjoy. Cost: $15. (Adults and babies are free). Details: www.SparkyDoDah.com.au

16 November

9 November

SPECIAL NEEDS STORYTIME

3 November

SPARKY'S CARNIVAL

THE GOLD COAST YOUTH ORCHESTRA ANNUAL GALA CONCERT Where: The Arts Centre, Gold Coast When: 6:30pm 230 young musicians aged eight to 23 years will perform in five different orchestras and bands. Everyone welcome! Cost: Adult $30, Child (16 & under) $20 Details: Bookings P: 5588 4000 W: www.theartscentregc.com.au

NIPPERS AT MIAMI

Where: Santa Monica Road, Miami When: 8:30am - 10am Join in surfing and beach activities for all ages. Learn how to identify a rip and what to do if you are caught in one, get involved with beach flags, wade races and body board rescue. Designed for families with children over the age of six years, children under the age of six can participate with the assistance of a parent. Cost: $5. (Parents and children under six years are free). Bookings required. Details: W: www.surfcoach.net.au E: trudy@surfcoach.net.au

24 November

BOND UNIVERSITY'S LAKESIDE FESTIVAL

30 November

Where: Bond University, 14 University Drive, Robina When: Noon - 5:30pm Enjoy a Sunday afternoon of fabulous free music, cuisine, art, photography, literature, dancing, roving performers, children's entertainment and more. Cost: FREE Details: W: www.bond.edu.au/live-at-bond P: 0420 859 350

WETLAND FROGS

Where: Coombabah When: 7pm - 8pm Learn about the differences between native frogs and the cane toad, what frogs eat and where they live and hear a range of frog calls. Bring a torch. Suitable for children eight and over. Cost: FREE Details: P: 1300 69 4222

REGULAR EVENTS

TICKETS

Where: Mudgeeraba Memorial Hall, Railway St, Mudgeeraba When: 2- 6pm With a strong focus on quality, the Mamma’s market offers beautiful things for home and family. Details: www.mammasmarket.com

Where: Various libraries When: Mornings - times vary, check website for details Share a fun and interactive time, rhyming, singing and talking with your baby. For parents and babies, newborn to two years. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

OCTOBER 1 - 5 Playhouse, QPAC, Brisbane www.qpac.com.au

• THE UPPER MARKET OCT 6 & NOV 3

• READ & GROW STORYTIME EVERY WEEK

• MAMMA'S MARKETS OCT 5

• BABY RHYME TIME EVERY WEEK

Where: Upper Coomera State College, Reserve Road, Upper Coomera When: 8:30am - 1:30pm A boutique style market that showcases homegrown small businesses and offers quality handmade items, ranging from skincare to children’s clothing. Details: http://theuppermarket.com.au

Where: Various libraries When: Mornings - times vary, check website for details Interactive storytimes that stimulate young minds. For parents and children aged three to five years. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

• THE VILLAGE MARKET OCT 6, 20 & NOV 3, 17

Where: Upper Coomera Library When: Mondays 10am - Noon A literacy program run by The Smith Family that promotes reading with children from birth. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

Where: Burleigh Heads State School When: 8am - 1pm Showcases up to 100 fashion, arts and creative stalls as well as live local music and delicious gourmet food. Details: http://thevillagemarketsgc.com.au

• BABY & KIDS MARKET OCT 20 Where: Carrara Indoor Stadium, Nerang-Broadbeach Road, Carrara When: 9am - noon This market provides excellent quality pre-loved goods by great brands at bargain prices. Details: http://babykidsmarket.com.au

• THE MUMMY TREE MARKETS NOV 9

• LET'S READ EVERY WEEK

OCTOBER 13 Carindale Recreation Reserve, Brisbane http://parents.nickjr.com.au

CHITTY CHITY BANG BANG

• STARDUST ASTRONOMY CLUB FIRST THURSDAY OF EACH MONTH

JUSTIN BIEBER

Where: Runaway Bay Library When: 4pm - 5pm Learn about the amazing universe you live in. For six to 12 year olds. Bookings essential. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

NOVEMBER 26 Brisbane Entertainment Centre http://premier.ticketek.com.au

• DRAX4KIDS EVERY SATURDAY

Where: Masthead Way, Sanctuary Cove When: 2pm - 6pm A must for the hip and stylish family looking for something a little different. Details: www.themummytreemarkets.com.au

• ZERO 2 FIVE MARKETS NOV 10

• WINK, BLINK, THINK EVERY WEEK

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DORA'S BALLET ADVENTURE LIVE STAGE SHOW

FROM NOVEMBER 19, Lyric Theatre, QPAC, Brisbane www.qpac.com.au

Where: Draculas, Broadbeach When: Midday Drax4Kids proudly presents their new show Zombies in Paradise! An unforgettable mind blowing experience, designed just for little vampires. Cost: Apply, bookings required. Details: https://www.draculas.com.au/queensland/drax-4-kids

Where: Upper Coomera State College, 137 Reserve Road When: 9am - 12pm The ultimate market for your children’s needs. Buy or sell quality pre-loved and new products such as clothing, toys, books, prams, car seats and nursery furniture. Details: www.zero2five.com.au

THE CAT IN THE HAT

Where: Elanora, Helensvale, Nerang and Upper Coomera Libraries When: Various- check website After school games and activities for children aged six to 12 years old. Cost: FREE Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au/library

THE WIGGLES DECEMBER 23 Brisbane Entertainment Centre http://premier.ticketek.com.au/

DISNEY LIVE! PRESENTS MICKEY'S MAGIC SHOW JANUARY 4 Gold Coast Convention and Exhibition Centre http://premier.ticketek.com.au/

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Education

Do age and maturity matter? By Maxine Arthur

Many changes are occurring in kindergartens and schools to make them more responsive to individual children’s needs and to provide innovative teaching approaches.

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ueensland children may now access approved kindergarten programs in the year before Prep, delivered by a qualified early childhood teacher for at least 15 hours per week, 40 weeks per year. Kindergarten programs can be delivered in a range of settings, including kindergarten and long day care services. (Education Queensland) In 2007-2008 Queensland schools came more into line with the rest of the country, increasing the age of compulsory schooling by six months and introducing a Prep year. Children now must be enrolled in school in the year they will turn six by 30 June. Prep was introduced after an independent review found the Prep Year program was “highly successful in promoting children’s social-emotional development and their communication, numeracy, literacy and motor skills” (Education Queensland). Prep is offered in primary schools and is a full-time program with normal school hours. However, neither kindergarten nor Prep is compulsory and parents may choose to send their child to an alternative early education pro-

gram or keep them at home until compulsory school entry age (6 years and 6 months). READY OR NOT? AN EXPERT’S VIEW Parents are better informed about early childhood education issues than ever before. The benefits of kindergarten programs are apparent to most parents, but some become concerned about the transition from kindergarten to primary school. Kathy Walker, Melbourne education consultant and early childhood expert, has written several books on early childhood education. Kathy believes that skills such as reading, writing and counting are not priorities for school readiness. Social and emotional maturity is the most important factor to consider in deciding when to start a child in school. “The learning journey is 13 years of school and the Prep year is actually just that: a preparatory year for all of those years and that is what schools do best. What is most needed to thrive and enjoy and make the most of learning is how you travel. Skills such as adaptability, self regulacontinued on next page... tion, independence, www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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initiative and concentration - these types of attributes are much more important. Maturity helps with this enormously.” Kathy cautions parents about rushing children into school if there are concerns about their readiness. “Many children will benefit in relation to their general well being, self esteem, attitudes toward school and belief about themselves as a learner if they move into school without the question mark, without just coping or not just coping, but being able to have a solid and rich childhood of play as a foundation for moving into school with more life experience, maturity and early learning.” “If parents have concerns they need to consult with the early childhood educator for suggestions and ask if they qualify for funding for an additional year (in kindergarten), although this is becoming increasingly difficult. Funding options for kindergartens are extremely limited and often the safeguard, if you think your child may not be ready, is to delay the four year old kinder year so the child has an extra year of maturity in the first place.” A TEACHER’S VIEW OF THE PREP YEAR Ida is an experienced Prep teacher based at a Brisbane Catholic school. Her school first offered Prep in 2007. “We undertake an enrolment process which involves an interview, walk around the school facilities and a visit to the Prep classrooms. The children come for an orientation day in November, where they meet other Prep friends, giving them an opportunity to further become familiar with the Prep environment. There will be additional opportunities for the children who attend our school Kindergarten program, to come over for plays in Term 4, to help the transitioning process.” All Queensland primary schools follow a curriculum based on well-researched guidelines. Teachers strive for a balance that uses the knowledge, skills and prior experiences the children bring to school to make connections to what they need to learn using a mix of formal learning and active engagement methods. “Our teaching approaches are based on the principles of Queensland Studies Authority's (QSA) Early Years Guidelines; which is based on active learning, including inquiry and play; and the Australian Curriculum (ACARA). Inquiry based learning through play in Prep provides opportunities for the children to learn how to problem solve, to self direct their own learning, and make connections to the world around them, which is a foundation for all learning.” Ida sees many advantages for students

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who complete a Prep year. “The Prep year allows students to settle into the school environment, giving them opportunities to become familiar with the school routine and expectations. Having students start school in Year 1 without a foundation Prep year experience, disadvantages the children as they not only have to establish friendships and learn the curriculum, but they also have to learn the 'hidden' curriculum of routines and expectations which they would have otherwise become familiar with in Prep.” Teachers are aware that students present with differing needs. Ida explains how her school manages this. “The enrolment process is an open and transparent process which enables a working partnership between home and school, to support the engagement and readiness for formal learning. In some cases where the student is not socially or academically ready for Prep, it may be suggested that another year in a kindergarten environment may be beneficial. The Catholic Education Enrolment Application also allows opportunities to identify and implement support processes that may be necessary for those requiring additional assistance, allowing a smooth transition into Prep. “Since the implementation of the Prep enrolment age of turning 5 by the 30th June, we are seeing children being more mature and ready to learn, writing independently and being confident in the recognition and reproduction of letter sounds by the middle of the Prep year, giving them an experience of success and a wanting to learn more and do more. Before the implementation of Prep, we were seeing this development at the end of the Preschool year and then the children had school holidays, missing out on the opportunity to extend and develop what they had learnt.” A PARENT’S VIEW OF PREP Nicky and Jay, from the Coast, moved from Victoria a few years ago with their three children. Nicky said that the two older children enjoyed a Prep year in Victoria that laid a solid foundation for their later schooling. “It was great to see how much and how quickly they learned from their Prep teachers. There is only so much you can teach them at home. Social activity is what I found to be the most beneficial in Prep. It is amazing how much more they can learn in a social environment with children within the same age group.” The youngest child, Yindi, is now four and a half years and attending kindergarten. “We decided to put Yindi through Kindy as being a mum who works from home I found there was only so much I could do with her. I needed to get work done so she was continued on next page... www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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The college that Yindi will be going to runs a similar playbased program to her Kindy but with a bit more structure. I believe this is important as it is getting her prepared for Grade 1. NICKY, YINDI'S MUM

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spending a lot of her time in front of the television. Yindi was learning heaps from children's programs but I didn't find that socially healthy. She demanded my time constantly because she was bored. Yindi created a whole new personality after starting Kindy. She was constantly talking about the activities she was doing with her little friends. Her favourite activities were cooking, building a veggie and herb garden, looking after animals and looking for bugs with a magnifying glass. It amazed me how much such a little person could learn. Not only was she learning but she was having fun going to Kindy.” Yindi is enrolled to start Prep at a private Lutheran College in 2014. “It is important to us to instill the high moral and ethical values that are part of most religious education systems. We also wanted Yindi to go to a school that was close to our home so she could play with her friends after school hours. We have no problems with state school education: we just

felt the Lutheran College suited our needs as a family better.” Nicky and Jay researched Prep options carefully before reaching their decision. “The college that Yindi will be going to runs a similar play-based program to her Kindy but with a bit more structure. I believe this is important as it is getting her prepared for Grade 1. Yindi is ready for school. It is something she talks about all the time. The Kindy teachers talk about school to the children and are getting them prepared.” Nicky anticipates a ‘settling in’ period and has planned for this. “Yindi is very excited about starting Prep as well as very nervous. She is nervous because her best friend from Kindy is not going to the same school and even more nervous about not knowing where the toilets are. All this is normal for a 4-5 year old child. We have taken her to the school to show her where the toilets are and where her classroom will continued on next page... www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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be. Excitement is now overriding the nerves. I plan on being a ‘hands-on’ helper mum in the classroom as much as I can. I do work full-time but will be taking a step back a little just until I know that she is settled.” SOME CHILDREN NEED MORE TIME If you have concerns about whether your child is ready to start a kindergarten program or Prep, it is too big a decision to make alone. You should discuss those concerns with your local kindergarten program provider and school. It is possible to start kindergarten later (delayed entry) or to repeat the kindergarten year (delayed exit). Early childhood educators suggest a delayed entry to kindergarten is preferable to repeating either kindergarten or Prep. There are no waiting lists for enrolment in Prep at state schools though parents are encouraged to contact their chosen school in the year prior to commencement. Enrolments in Catholic or Independent schools are usually taken by application up to two years prior to commencement. WORKING TOGETHER Schools do not expect that all children will be 100 % ready on all aspects of the various ‘readi-

ness’ checklists that are readily available. Educators are continually refining their ideas about children’s readiness for formal schooling and looking for better ways to engage children in the process. By focusing attention on ‘readiness’, parents have become aware that children’s development is nourished in the play and exploration of their daily lives from birth. The emphasis on good beginnings also encourages schools to create learning environments that take account of children’s diverse needs and nurture them through their school years. RESOURCES: Top tips for preparing for Prep – www.earlylife. com.au website has excellent practical tips for preparing a child for school, listed under Parenting Factsheets. Further reading: Ready, Set, Go by Kathy Walker (How to tell if your child's ready for school and prepare them for the best start) and What's the Hurry? by Kathy Walker (The importance of giving children a childhood). www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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Like Primary Infertility, there can be many causes for Secondary Infertility although some of the most common explanations include delayed motherhood and lifestyle factors. More women are having their first child later with second pregnancies in their late 30’s and early 40’s. In women, egg quality can deteriorate and other health issues such as endometriosis can become a factor. Lifestyle factors such as alcohol consumption, stress, weight gain/loss can all play a part in fertility - and these are all areas which may have altered since the birth of the first child. Initial reactions in realising there could be a fertility problem can range from disbelief or denial, especially if there was no difficulty conceiving or carrying a pregnancy previously. Dr Flynn and his team would recommend if you have been trying to conceive for number two for six months or more, you should ask your GP for a referral sooner rather than later. Treatment will be determined by the cause of the infertility but the initial investigations would explore four main areas: Sexual Function; Ovulation; Sperm Function and Tubal Function. Many of your questions will be answered at your very first appointment with Dr Flynn. If you have concerns about becoming pregnant Dr Flynn’s registered Nurse is available to discuss any issues you might have. You can call her on (07) 55648011 or visit our website www.drmichaelflynn.com.au to make an appointment and find out more.

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Attachment Parenting By Belinda Hopper DID YOU SEE THE MAY 21, 2012 TIME MAGAZINE COVER PHOTOGRAPH OF A YOUNG MOTHER, STANDING, HER TOP PULLED DOWN TO THE SIDE, WHILE SHE BREASTFED HER FOUR-YEAROLD SON STANDING ON A CHAIR NEXT TO HER? THE HEADLINE PROVOKED: ‘ARE YOU MOM ENOUGH?’ ...AND PROVOKE IT DID!

ince then, Attachment Parenting (AP) has been debated and critiqued regularly. 60 Minutes did a story, calling it Extreme Parenting, saying it “challenges all conventional notions about parenting”. Baby expert, Pinky McKay, was in the news for an expletive-ridden blog rant against those she calls Baby Tamers, who implement Controlled Crying, or Parent-Directive Feeding with their babies. All in defense of Baby Cuddlers, who feed On Demand, central to AP philosophy. It seems emotions run high when it comes to Attachment Parenting. And Child Psychologist, Dr. Heather Harrison, reckons this is partly due to the label: “If there is a type of parenting called Attachment Parenting then it logically follows that all other types of parenting are by definition Non-

attachment Parenting. And who wants to practice parenting that isn’t attached? You look cold and heartless… The name itself doesn’t allow parents to look at it objectively.” So let’s put the name aside for a moment and take an objective look at how the philosophy came about, the theories and science behind it, what it looks like in practice and what the critics say. BACKGROUND: Many cultures have, for thousands of years, practiced breastfeeding well into the toddler years, co-sleeping with their children and carrying their infants in slings for much of the day. But Pediatrician Dr. William Sears is largely responsible for reintroducing this instinctive-parenting style into the

mix of modern western parenting philosophies, through the first of his thirty-plus parenting books, The Baby Book (1993). THE PHILOSOPHY: There are three main tenets to Dr. Sears’ AP theory: AP mothers breastfeed their babies whenever the baby demands it and for as long as the baby wants it, often into toddlerhood and beyond. It is the baby who decides when it is time to wean, not the mother. AP mothers tend to their babies’ every need so that they are never left to cry unattended. This means having their baby physically attached to them during the day, in a sling or pouch. Dr. Sears claims that babies left to cry for extended periods have elevated levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which can lead to brain damage. AP babies co-sleep with their parents every night, sometimes for years. Dr. Sears claims that babies left to sleep in separate beds or rooms from their parents grow depressed and feel abandoned by their parents. THE CLAIMS: Contrary to claims that the physical demands of AP makes parenting more onerous, the Association of Attachment Parenting Australia, claims that AP makes parenting easier and more enjoyable continued on next page...

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because of the strong bond of trust it nurtures between parent and child. They say this creates a secure child who is also empathic and responsive to others. In fact, Dr. Sears claims that he has never known of an AP child who has ended up a bully! He claims that bullies are children of detached parenting, who have built up resentment and anger at not having their immediate needs met by their parents. THE SCIENCE: A May 2012 report in TIME’s Health & Science section questions whether Dr. Sears’ claims are based on sound scientific research. The focus is particularly on his article “Science Says: Excessive Crying Could Be Harmful” and his claims that babies left to cry develop antisocial behavior, poor school performance and a tenfold increase in the risk of ADHD, with experts countering, “Our findings provide evidence that the quality of maternal behavior appears to be unrelated to this effect”. IN PRACTICE: Mother of two, Fiona, was introduced to the AP method through speaking with other parents and through her midwives. She was given Dr. Sears’ The Baby Book whilst pregnant and found the more she read, the more the philosophy made sense: “I think AP is really what comes naturally to most parents. Wanting to nurture, love and be attentive without being permissive and indulgent.” Asked how they found AP in practice, Fiona says she and her husband co-slept with their firstborn, Estelle, until she was 7 months old, “… at which time I decided none of us were actually sleeping well because being that close to the breast she just wanted to nurse all night, or at least use me as a pacifier.” But she did breastfeed on demand until Estelle was 14 months old, “…she weaned herself, mainly because my milk went back to colostrum as I entered the second trimester of my second pregnancy, otherwise I would have continued to nurse her up to 18-24 months.” Fiona’s second child, Sadie, did not like co-sleeping at all, “…so from birth she slept in her own bed, right beside me, until she was 13 months. I still fed on demand and wore her everywhere until about 7 months - once she was mobile she wanted to be down and chasing her big sister. She weaned herself around 13 months as well. She just lost interest in nursing.” Fiona particularly likes the nurturing aspect of AP: “…being responsive to my babies’ needs created a sense of intimacy between us. I felt like we could really communicate, I knew exactly what they needed.” She also enjoyed wearing her babies in the sling, “…I could do whatever I needed to: cook, clean, play with the older sibling, and the

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baby was content and often asleep. As she became more aware she also enjoyed being close and involved in whatever I was doing.” Asked whether she found a downside to the practice, Fiona said she wonders whether being attached to her at all other times made it hard for Estelle to be strapped into her car seat as a baby: “…she did not like to be in the car seat and so if we needed to go longer distances she would be unhappy because she wanted to be held and so would scream for the whole car ride.” But Fiona believes the practice and benefits of AP reach well beyond babyhood, “AP never really ends, it just changes focus as the child grows. Being available and attached to your child is a workin-progress. What one child needs from you is not necessarily what a sibling needs. Being able to adapt to each child's personality, and help them feel safe and secure, is the ongoing challenge, but AP has given me confidence in my parenting.” THE CRITICISMS: One of the loudest criticisms of AP is that it is antifeminist. Just as women earned the right to have a baby and pursue a career outside of the home, thanks to the advent of baby formula and the establishment of child care centres and paid parental leave, a string of parenting experts tells them that to be a good parent they need to be present to meet their child’s every need—on demand. And not every family can afford to live on one salary while the mother stays home. As economic reporter, Helaine Olen, says; “Whatever one thinks of the pros and cons of Attachment Parenting … it doesn’t come cheap, especially since there aren’t many (if any) employers out there waiting for an employee who turns up with multiple children in slings and otherwise clinging to her body." To these criticisms Dr. Sears responds; “Women are the greatest multi-taskers in the world. AP, modified to the parents’ work schedule, helps busy parents reconnect with their child, which actually makes working and parenting easier. It’s attachment moms that forged the long overdue workplace-friendly breastfeeding-pumping stations and laws which respect and value the ability of a working mother to continue part-time breastfeeding.” But TIME reporter, Kate Pickert, argues that it’s just not practical to both work and be an APstyle parent, “In practice AP can be exhausting because of the lack of sleep. And there’s no evidence that wearing a baby in a sling or sleeping with them will affect how they will turn out as adults.” The risk of suffocation from co-sleeping with parents is the most alarming criticism of AP. According to the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) there is an increased risk

of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), especially when a baby is less than 11 weeks, if either parent smokes, is very tired, has drunk alcohol recently or is on medication or drugs that make them sleep heavily. This is because, in your bed as opposed to a cot or crib, your baby could: • Get trapped between the bed and the headboard • Fall out • Get dangerously overheated under a duvet next to two hot adult bodies • Get accidentally suffocated if you unknowingly roll on them. But Dr. Sears argues that babies learn to arouse themselves through co-sleeping, by following the sleeping rhythms of their parents. He says, “research has shown that in most cases, SIDS is caused by a baby's inability to arouse himself from sleep. Normally, when something occurs that threatens your baby's well being, such as difficulty breathing, he will automatically wake up. For reasons that are still unknown, in some babies, this protective mechanism does not go off, and so these babies are more at risk for SIDS.” Psychotherapist, Dr. Robi Ludwig, is concerned about the impact of AP on a child’s development and whether it creates an unhealthy level of dependence in the child upon their parents, or even whether it creates spoilt children, “When you give a child the feeling that the whole world revolves around them, it’s not good training for the real world,” she says. “The whole world doesn’t revolve around anybody.” THE REALITY No one would argue against ‘breast is best’, even though according to Australia’s most recent statistics from Growing Up in Australia: The Longitudinal Study of Australian Children (LSAC), not many of us breastfeed our babies for an extended period. The statistics showed 92 per cent of children were breastfed at birth, but that figure fell steadily from month to month with only 14 per cent of babies still being breastfed by 12 months. Yet no parent let their child starve! And what if you have a back or neck injury that prevents you from using a sling? Or you have twins and can’t physically function with two children slung across your body? Or you have four children and you were all in the bed and the little one said, “roll over”? What would Dr. Sears say? He says Attachment Parenting is really about “…opening your mind and heart to the individual needs of your baby, and eventually you will develop the wisdom on how to make on-the-spot decisions on what works best for both you and your baby.” www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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read’s worth some thought, it forms a substantial part of our diet, we munch on average about four slices a day and it often plays an important role in a child’s lunchbox. Luckily, a loaf’s look and weight, speak volumes and it’s not so tricky to track down decent bread. GOODIES IN WHOLE GRAIN Rich in vitamins and minerals, whole grains are also a key source of dietary fibre, and recent revised Australian dietary guidelines emphasise the need for us to eat a greater variety of them. Three separate areas of the grain hold various goodies. The grain kernel’s outside layer, the bran, holds the most fibre. Wholegrain and wholemeal breads include the ‘bran’, albeit in varying forms. The bulk of the kernel, the endosperm, has the lion’s share of protein, carbohydrates, iron and major B-vitamins. White flour is made only from the endosperm, while wholegrain and wholemeal flour include all three parts of the grain. The germ, the grain’s ‘heart’, is the most nutrient-rich part of the grain. Wholegrain and wholemeal breads include the germ in all sorts of ways. DIG OUT THE INGREDIENTS Bypass the name, bread may call itself whatever it pleases, and sniff out the ingredient list. After all, it’s mandatory for manufacturers to state the

percentage of ingredients and to list them in descending order. The first ingredient listed makes up the largest percentage, so if ‘whole grains’ or ‘kibbled grains’ appear first – bingo. But if ‘wheat flour’ takes pride of place, the bread’s mostly white flour. Further along the list you’ll see other additives, including the iodine, vitamin B (thiamin and folic acid) and folate that all Australian-made breads are required to be fortified with. Sodium should be the last ingredient listed. Bread’s a key source of hidden salt in our diet and bread’s sodium content varies widely, from a mega 760mg in one brand to others with a rewarding 110mg per 100g. Bread manufacturers have agreed to reduce sodium to 400 mg per 100g (or less) by the end of 2013, so keep an eye on the nutrition information panel (NIP). What about bakery products’ ingredients? Some baker’s chains give nutrient details on their website, otherwise you need to ask. Default option: look for the good signs - a coarse texture, lots of ‘bits’ and seeds and a chewy texture. The longer it takes you to chomp, the better! Goodies other than grain help boost nutrient and fibre content too, we’ll take a look at some. OTHER GOODIES - OILS, NUTS AND SEEDS Seeds and nuts are a super source of dietary continued on next page...

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fibre and essential nutrients and can be ground into flour or added to the mix. They don’t have to cost more - some home brand soy and linseed breads have a huge seven grams of fibre per 100 grams. Chia is the newcomer that packs a punch. This Central American seed, related to mint, is a great source of omega-3 fats, calcium and vitamin B. And it contains more iron than spinach! What about Omega 3? The type of Omega 3 most likely lacking in our diet is from fish and there’s scant ‘fish oil’ Omega 3-enriched-breads out there. But for any type of Omega 3 enriched bread, you’d need to gobble several loaves a day to fulfil the recommended omega 3 intake! Let’s peek at common bread types now. LOAF TYPES, NUTRITION AND FIBRE White bread’s made from milled wheat - the grain’s outer (dark) bran layers, fibre and nutrients are removed so the bread’s soft and has less flavour to compete with fillings. It lacks wholegrain’s fibre, but still has the endosperm’s protein and carbs. Fibre - about 1g per slice*. High-fibre white bread has added-in legume fibre, but still lacks the vitamin and mineral range of wholemeal. Fibre: about 2g per slice. Wholemeal bread that is made from ground whole grains has more fibre, vitamins and minerals than white bread. It’s on par with wholegrain bread nutritionally but it’s digested faster so has a higher GI than wholegrain. But most packaged wholemeal bread’s made by recombining white flour with the bran and wheatgerm removed during milling. This creates a longer-lasting flour but offers less nutritional value. Even so, this ‘version’ of wholemeal flour contains the bran and germ (albeit added-back-in) while white flour doesn’t. Fibre: about 2g per slice. Multigrain breads are made from white flour with grains added or with a mixture of wholemeal and white flours – and these mixes are not-soclear on labels. “We’re developing a taste for multigrain breads, because they have more flavour and texture than most white or wholemeal varieties, and manufacturers tell us they are healthier,” Choice notes. The supermarket’s own multigrain is usually the cheapest and made with refined white flour which is nutritionally poorer and contain significantly less dietary fibre and wholegrains, Choice states. “For the healthiest multigrain bread, look for plenty of whole grains, without too much salt.” Fibre: varies depending on grain added – about 1.9 per slice Whole grain bread isn’t just visibly ‘grainy’ and ‘seedy’, it also contains the invisible nutritious parts - the bran and germ. Wholegrain breads, including rye and sourdough, have up to four times white bread’s fibre, so they help us feel full longer – they’re one of the healthiest choices. Seeds and

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grains take longer to digest, so this makes wholegrain breads low GI, which is great for lunchbox sandwiches’ slow release of energy. Wholegrain rye bread’s heavier texture and lower-gluten content keep you feeling full longer and wholegrain rye with added grains is top-of-the-heap for fibre and vitamin content. Wholegrain sourdough’s long-rising (up to 18 hours) provides more flavour and a low GI - it wins across the board nutritionally. But cheaper sourdough breads may’ve missed the slow-rising step. The texture’s a giveaway – cheaper versions are melt-in-the-mouth, traditional sourdough is chewy. Fibre: wholegrain varieties vary from 1.5 - 4.5g per slice. Here’s a curly one though. The term ‘wholegrain’ on Australian food labels implies the grain is whole. But, a bread made from finely-milled flour still qualifies as wholegrain provided it contains the same amounts of the bran, germ and endosperm as the original unrefined grain. Don’t rely on the term wholegrain alone, sniff out the products with the most grainy bits and the wording ‘kibbled’ (grain that’s broken into small pieces, not finely milled) or specified ground whole grains, on the ingredient list. The higher the percentage of the combined total of kibbled grain, nuts and seeds, the better. Flatbreads, wraps and more… There’s a huge array of flour types in these flat breads and wraps, and their health-rating and fibre depends on the flour used and the weight of the piece. Exciting and nutritious breads include pumpernickel, spelt, buckwheat, quinoa and feekeh grain breads. Again, it comes down to the health-rating of their flour. When we’re looking for breads high in fibre, regular whole grain breads that contain more than 6 grams of fibre per 100 grams fit the bill (One slice of bread weighs from 26grams to as high as 35 grams per slice). But keep fibre in perspective. If your family consume lots of fruit, vegetables and

other whole grains, opting for a whole grain bread with less fibre is just fine. HOME-BAKED CHOICES Mmm! The aroma of bread baking. Just like any home baking, great homemade bread morphs from quality ingredients and deft measuring. And the better the flour, the better the bread. Bread mix’s are fairly foolproof; they’re a blend of everything (except yeast and water) in the right amounts. Never mind any fandangled equipment. Our fairly-aged breadmaker churns out delicious crusty loaves, we just must watch one ingredient – water! A single tablespoon draws the fine line between a great loaf and a ‘rock’, but my kids sort this out by checking on the churning dough. The downside to some commercial mixes is the additives that make them resistant to mould and suitable for high-speed bakery kneading. What about baking from scratch? Bread flour needs ingredients like salt, sugar and bread improvers, yeast and water added, so careful measuring is essential. But the beauty of this is you have a ‘blank canvas’ to blend flours, include rye meal, seeds, grain, fruit, flavours, whatever takes your fancy! Bread making by hand does take sound technique, acquired with practise, but I’m told once you’re in, you’ll be hooked. GRAINY, SEEDY, COARSE, CHEWY, HEAVY….. In the end, our best-bet bread is a ‘lovely lumpy loaf’ - the heaviest whole grain bread we can find - packed with fibre, whole grains and seeds. It may take a little help from a magnifying glass, but if the ingredients stack up in order with kibble or ground whole grains first, you’re almost there. But don’t knock ’em out with the grainiest, seediest, heaviest bread first up – you might like to try a slow build up… Once you hunt down a great loaf that passes the family taste-test, tell us about it so we can share it with our other readers!

SOURCES/FIND OUT MORE: www.nutritionaustralia.org Nutrition Australia offers extensive dietary advice including lunch box ideas and recipes including their nutritional value. www.csiro.au CSIRO presents a Wellbeing Plan for Kids and simple bread making recipes for kids which explain the chemical reactions along the way. www.choice.com.au Choice reviews the nutritional value, fibre, taste and texture of 56 multigrain breads. www.bbcgoodfood.com BBC good food has great grainy and seed-flours (like quinoa) bread making recipes.

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Find the Delight

MEET GEORGIA BRIZUELA By Jackie Goldston

ot many people can say the birth of their child has been viewed by over 100,000 people! Georgia Brizuela is passionate about capturing precious moments and is unafraid of sharing them with the world. She has tens of thousands of followers of her blog, Documenting Delight, and even more on her Facebook page. When the KITC team first met Georgia a few years ago, she had just finished her initial project documenting precious moments in her children’s lives. She had been inspired by her sister, Hailey, who undertook a 365 project; taking a Polaroid photo of something she was grateful for every day for a year. Georgia shared in 2011, “It changed her life and spread rapidly around the world. Thousands of people started doing her ‘Grateful 365’. I was so inspired by how it impacted her, on the morning of January 1, 2010 I picked up my camera and declared I was starting a 365 project with our daughter.” Being heavily pregnant with her son at the time and an unmotivated procrastinator at heart, Georgia suspected it would turn out to be a ‘365 missing 360’ project. She had no idea how addictive her project would become. She now says it’s one of the best ideas she’s ever had, as it led her to start her blog. Georgia says of her project, “it has taught me how precious my role as a mother is, how fleeting these moments are and how utterly grateful I am to be exactly here – with my babies.”

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The Brisbane family of four, is soon to become five. Georgia’s husband Errol works in the railway and she runs a photography & film business and her blog while they raise their daughter Priya (5 years old) and son Theo (3 years old). Their third child, a boy, is expected in September. Given Georgia has been documenting her family for a few years now, I was curious as to what she had learnt from this experience. She explains, “I have been actively ‘documenting delight’ for our family – searching for and capturing the moments that make my heart sing. I have learnt through this that time and time again - you will find what you look for – life is delightful when you’re looking for it to be. “My blog has grown progressively over the last few years and I have been so surprised that people would want to read along with our journey in parenting. I have been overwhelmed by the open-hearted response to our blog from so many people over the years who have let me know that my images and words resonate with them and their experience parenting. It has been special to feel like I’ve created myself a worldwide community of support.” DEFINING MOMENTS Georgia has an interesting approach to assessing her life. When I asked what has been her most life defining moment so far, she shares, “I was going to say that it was the birth of each of our children but I wouldn’t have had the honour to be their

mother without first meeting my husband. So I was going to say that it was meeting my husband but I wouldn’t have known to search for him had I not been blessed with such a wonderful example of a father. So I’ll have to say it was being born into the family I was – of all the families I could have been born into I am so thankful to have been raised in one that taught me to value family, creativity and chasing dreams not money.” FAMILY ADVICE Georgia and her family are close. “When my husband and I were dating, my mother sat us down and told us that we could either build each other or break each other with our words. I remember clearly when she said to me that what I said about Errol, to him, to my friends, in my mind would be what he became. Since then my husband has spoken life into me, told me I am incredible, told me I am beautiful and breathed those things into me, made me really feel them. In turn my husband has been all the things I've said about him, gentle, devoted and loving. I am the luckiest that we started our marriage with such wisdom in our pockets. “My mother has taught me more than I can credit her for. Not only did she give me life, but she gave me life in parenting me (and my siblings) in an offbeat way, homeschooling us and encouraging us to be creative and think critically. I think my mother also gave me an incredible example of drive and determination, watching her growing up I truly believed I could accomplish anything. www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

"My oldest sister Hailey had her first daughter when I was 12 and I feel that watching her mothering journey throughout my teens helped shift a lot of my ideas about mothering. Hailey has always embodied a lot of the kind of mother I want to be. In those years where I felt embarrassed or awkward to see a woman breastfeeding, she slowly made it seem like the most normal thing in the world. It was Hailey who first introduced me to the idea that children could sleep in their parents bed or, that there was no such thing as 'spoiling' a baby, she wore her daughter in a sling and went to her every time she cried. The proof is always in the pudding they say and watching her parent her children in an attached and gentle way and see the benefits in her daughters made me feel that this is how I would like to mother my children too.” LIFE LEARNING So what life message does she most want her children to learn? “That they will find what they look for. Be it love, be it adventure, be it an accomplishment. Circumstances and relationships will come and go but how they see the world and how they interact with it is up to them and them alone. They are in control of their happiness and their story and I want them to feel truly capable to accomplish whatever they set their mind and heart on.” Like her mother, Georgia plans to homeschool her children. “Our philosophy is that our children's education is more than being graded in subjects or levels. We believe that creativity, happiness and an entrepreneurial nature are equally as important as doing well in math or science. We also want to follow our children's innate ability to learn naturally and not force a structured educational system on them. We will register as homeschool-

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That they will find what they look for. Be it l ve, be it adventure, be it an accomplishment ers next year when our daughter is eligible, following a relaxed curriculum and our children's own interests. Both Errol and I feel so freed and lucky to be able to make this decision, feeling like we are really able to enjoy our children's childhood with them at a relaxed pace.” SOCIAL MEDIA Social media is a huge part of many of our lives these days. Being so heavily involved in social media, Georgia recognises that it has influenced the way she parents and guides her children. “Social media has been an incredible resource for me as a parent to learn from a network worldwide of mothers. I sometimes wonder how my mum raised five kids without being able to jump online and connect with other wiser women whenever she had doubts. I have often felt encouraged and lifted from interactions online when I may have otherwise found parenting to be quite isolating in this age of separation from extended family. The internet and the relationships I’ve built online have become my ‘tribe’ - the aunties and sisters and grandmothers of generations before ours that have helped to guide and support me in this bewildering and rewarding journey.”

BALANCING ACT Family life balance is a challenge in many homes and it is also the case for Georgia and Errol. She reveals that like a lot of parents she doesn’t always manage the balance as well as she would like. “I feel like I can have MOST things balanced but there will always be one ball dropped (most often it’s a growing pile of laundry accumulating in our room). My husband says I should always answer this question (because I get asked it a lot via my blog) with "my husband is amazing" and while he suggested that jokingly - it's the truth. I could not balance it all without him being there to support me and do all our housework”, she explains laughing. It is easy to get caught up in the passion that Georgia has for life and for her family. Her inspiring motto gives you an insight into how she approaches her family and being a parent. She shares, “Find the delight. It's easy to get caught up in the snotty noises and the resisting of bed time and the endless piles of washing but taking the time to find, to acknowledge and to celebrate the delightfulness - that fleeting, magical wonder of life with little people makes it feel like an honour to be here.”

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By Lisa Williment, Partee Petite. www.parteepetite.com.au HALLOWEEN IN AUSTRALIA IS AN OCCASION APPROACHED WITH MUCH SUSPICION. IS IT YET ANOTHER ‘AMERICANISM’ WE CAN DO WITHOUT? IS IT A CREEPY GATHERING OF EVIL WITCHES AND BLOOD SPLATTERED MUMMY’S? OR SHOULD WE APPROACH IT WITH TRUE AUSSIE SPIRIT: ANY EXCUSE FOR A PARTY?!

raditionally known as All Hallows Eve’, Halloween is said to have originated as far back as Roman times, over 2000 years ago. Samhain (pronounced sow-in) was an ancient roman festival celebrating the end of the harvest and the beginning of the new Celtic year. It is believed when Christianity spread throughout the Celtic world, All Saints Day, the Christian celebration in honour of the Saints, was combined with the pagan Samhain and All Hallows Mass was the result. It is believed on the eve of All Hallows Mass, the spirits of the dead walk the earth. Whether you follow this belief, or whether you choose to celebrate just for the fun of it, Halloween is an occasion that is becoming increasingly popular in Australia and particularly amongst children. If you are being met with pleas to participate in Halloween, yet are reluctant, perhaps you could take a positive approach to the theme: aim for a fun celebration without too much of the gore and darkness. Here are some great tips to make Halloween a more ‘Australian’ event, without spending a small fortune on store bought items:

INVITATIONS Start with some simple red back spider invitations: cut out one larger circle of black cardboard then a smaller circle of red (for the spot). Attach with glue. Use either a white, gold or silver marker to hand write your message, or even cut out letters from papers or magazines for a scarier look. Use black pipe cleaners or black wool for the legs. Add some glitter to the red spot, for a touch

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of 'bling'. Ask guests to dress up ‘Halloween with an Australian twist’ …children’s imaginations will surprise you! Ask only five or six friends…a manageable number avoiding an all out production.

DECORATIONS Set up a small area with table and chairs. Cover a table with black fabric and make a table runner in contrasting orange crepe paper for the centre. From a sheet of black cardboard, cut out bats, red back spiders…even print out pictures of Tasmanian devils (from the Internet) and glue onto cardboard! Decorate with glitter for some colour. These can be scattered down the centre of the table and/or attached to a tree branch with black wool. (A wattle, bottle brush or eucalypt would look great). Perhaps spray the branch gold or black and place in a vase wrapped in toilet paper, in the centre of the table. You may also like to entwine fairy lights throughout the branch and run along the centre of the table for some ‘mood’ lighting. You can purchase red or black plates, cups and napkins and make spider napkin rings from pipe cleaners. Have fun and go wild! If you really are keen and have the time, grab a pumpkin, a sharp knife and create a jack-o-lantern.

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and do! It is believed the first to achieve this will go on to be the first one to marry, which some children may find frightening in itself! ‘Trick or treating’ is the much talked about activity of Halloween. However it can be met with resistance from householders wishing for an uninterrupted night in. Perhaps a safer and more certain way for ‘treaters’ to not be disappointed is to have a trick or treat treasure hunt. For a simple version; place lollies, pipe cleaner spiders, jelly cups, vegetables such as broccoli (as a trick!) and some chocolate biscuits/brownies, around your garden. Appoint one child to be the leader and arm them with a torch. They then lead the others through the darkness to find the treasure. It’s sure to deliver shrieks and cheers. Creating a ‘potion’ is simple and fun. Start with a large bucket or bowl: tell the children they all need to find leaves, rocks or flowers in the garden to place in the potion. Provide food colouring, bi-carbonate soda and white vinegar and let them go for it: stirring their potion with sticks. The bi-carb and vinegar should create a foaming effect. They could even make up a simple spell: something with a positive overtone like, “Stars of the Northern Sky, grant me wisdom and tolerance”. This is guaranteed fun. It doesn’t matter how involved you become in the celebration of Halloween, if you choose a small gathering of close friends, dress up and have innocent fun, surely there can’t be too much harm in it? www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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REVIEWS The 39-Story Treehouse,

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by Andy Griffiths & Terry Denton, Pan Macmillan Australia, RRP $12.99 Join Andy and Terry in their astonishing 39-storey treehouse! Jump on the world's highest trampoline, toast marshmallows in an active volcano, swim in the chocolate waterfall, pat baby dinosaurs, go head-to-trunk with the Trunkinator, break out your best moves on the dance floor, fly in a jet-propelled swivel chair, ride a terrifying rollercoaster and meet Professor Stupido, the world's greatest UN-inventor. Well, what are you waiting for? Come on up! Ages 7 – 11

The Very Brave Bear by Nick Bland, Scholastic Press, RRP $16.99 The Very Cranky Bear is back in his fourth book, and this time he's facing Boris Buffalo in a battle of bravery! But will something surprising send them both fleeing through the jungle? Bright and engaging illustrations with a cheeky and charming story make the book fun for reading aloud as well as for developing readers. Ages 1 - 6

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MOVIES: FOR KIDS THE SMURFS 2 (3D) In Cinemas September 12 Rated: G In this sequel the evil Gargamel creates a couple of mischievous Smurf-like characters called the Naughties that he hopes will let him harness the allpowerful, magical Smurf-essence. But when he discovers that only a real Smurf can give him what he wants and only a secret spell that Smurfette knows can turn the Naughties into real Smurfs - Gargamel kidnaps Smurfette. www.TheSmurfs2.com.au

Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 2 In Cinemas December 5 Rated: TBA It's always been Flint's dream to be recognised as a great inventor, but everything changes when he discovers that his most infamous machine (which turns water into food) is still operating and is now creating food-animal hybrids – “foodimals”! With the fate of humanity in his hands, Chester sends Flint and his friends on a dangerously delicious mission to save the world again!

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($1.99 iPad & iPhone) Clever graphics encourage youngsters to figure out how to build different items… but it’s not as easy as it seems. Drag and drop the parts to their right spot and watch the invention go! A secret waits to be unlocked for those who manages to complete everything. A fun and pedagogic app that teaches logic and stimulates creativity for children of all ages. For ages 4 to adult.

Clay Jam (Free, Andriod and Apple) This is a game pure and simple… it is fun and has no particular educational value. Guide Fat Pebble as he rolls down five weird and wonderful hills in a world made entirely from clay! Squash monsters on the way, and he'll grow and grow and GROW! Get all the way to the bottom of the hill and meet the nasty Bully Beasts. The app uses fantastic animation and cute sounds! For ages 2 +.

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