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WELCOME

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to Kids on the Coast For a parenting magazine there are two very important days each year: Mother’s Day and Father’s Day.

5 FEATURE Teaching your children the gift of values

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10 THE “P” FILES Adjusting to single parenthood

14 WHAT’S ON CALENDAR The Kids on the Coast guide to August/September

17 EDUCATION How can you tell if your child is gifted?

Before I became a parent, days like these were a time to buy my mum a bunch of flowers or take my dad out for lunch. BC (before children) I seldom took the time to ponder how parenting might have changed my own parent’s lives: what dreams may have been put aside and what luxuries were forfeited as they supported me through my growing years.

Of course, it wasn’t long after I gave birth that it became apparent how much work parenting could be and I confess I spoil my own parents more than I used to. What my daughter doesn’t know (and I didn’t understand at her age) is I’d do it all again in a heartbeat. Giving is like that: usually you get more than you give and our feature looks at ways families can volunteer together.

As Father’s Day draws closer we have compiled a list of unusual ways to celebrate – from free activities to jaw-dropping treats. We acknowledge those single parent families out there (both those without a father figure, and those where dad is the centre of the universe) with advice on adjusting to single parenting, and ideas for single parent family holidays.

So dads, drop a few hints then put your feet up and enjoy YOUR day!

20 BABIES ON THE COAST Are you prepared if your baby is unwell?

23 HEALTH INSURANCE P rivate insurance versus Medicare… do you need it?

25 REVIEWS AND COMPETITIONS

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28 HAPPY HOLIDAYS Holidays for single parents

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BREASTFEEDING CAMPAIGN ENCOURAGES 12 MONTHS The message behind Queensland Health’s new breastfeeding campaign is 12 months or more on the breast is “normal, natural and healthy for mums and babies”. National health guidelines recommend exclusive breastfeeding for the first six months, introduction of solids at around six months, and breastfeeding to at least 12 months. However, research shows that while 95% of Queensland mothers initiate breastfeeding, only 13% exclusively breastfeed for the first six months.

To help support mums to breastfeed longer, a new guide will be given to all new mums at public antenatal clinics and is available from www.health.qld.gov.au/ breastfeeding. Women's Forum Australia spokeswoman Katrina George said while any campaign to support breastfeeding as a choice was positive, the use of the word 'normal' in the campaign slogan is ill-considered, as it may imply women who do not breastfeed for 12 months or more may have failed their babies.

FAMILY DINNERS: TRADITION, TEARS AND TV The latest Voice of Aussie Mums survey of over 16,500 mothers reported 76% of mums believe sit-down meals strengthened their family's communication. However, more than 40% reported dinner time as an unpleasant experience often ending in an argument! Asked what they normally did during dinner, mums said their families discussed the day's events or talked about topical issues (26%), quietly watched TV (15%) or told stories (8%). The most popular place to have dinner was the dining table (62%), followed by eating in front of the TV (17%) or at the kitchen bench (15%). When asked where their kids usually had dinner, the numbers eating at the dinner table dropped dramatically to 11%, while nearly 19% said dinner was gobbled down while playing computer games or watching TV. A further 36% of mums said their children usually ate at their friends' homes and 29% said children ate on the run.

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A report by the Residential Development Council which projects the country's population growth up to 2027 has put the Gold Coast at number four on its list of the top 20 biggest growth areas. The Gold Coast's population currently sits at 568,330 - but it is projected to reach 873,198 by 2027 (an increase of 304,868). This means the Gold Coast must build 4,372 houses and 4,001 attached dwellings each year before 2014 or face the realities of people having nowhere to live.

Some say Australian women really are too posh to push, with a national report on the hospital system showing private patients are much more likely to have a caesarean than public patients. Across Australia, 42% of pregnant women who go private have a caesarean, compared with 27% of women in public hospitals. Australian Department of Health and Ageing said more than 86,000 women had caesareans across both systems in 2007-08.

CENTRELINK, MEDICARE AND CHILD SUPPORT CHANGES NOW IN FORCE Millions of people around Australia will be affected by changes occurring across Centrelink, the Child Support Agency and Medicare from July. Key changes include: • Same sex couples are now recognised as a de facto couple • The upper income thresholds for Family Tax Benefits and the Baby Bonus will remain stable for three years • Salary-sacrificed superannuation contributions and net losses from financial investments will be added to a parent’s adjusted taxable income for child support.

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HIGH SPEED BIRTH A Coomera mother will smile every time she travels the Smith Street overpass, after giving birth to her second child on the busy road in July this year. The 32-year-old was bound for the Gold Coast Hospital after being picked up by ambulance crews at 3.27am, but less than 30 minutes later she delivered a healthy baby boy, much to her surprise. The baby was born at 3.56am, and the pair were taken to hospital.

FAST FOOD GIANTS SIGN CHILDREN'S CODE Australia’s fast food industry has agreed to a voluntary code to govern how it markets products to children. The code (which takes effect in August) sets new nutrition standards for food featured in television advertisements, internet sites and computer games targeting under 14’s. Seven fast food chains (including McDonald's and KFC) have signed up to the initiative, which will improve nutrition information for parents and dictate how they can interact with schools. All foods marketed to children must meet new sugar, salt and fat limits drafted in consultation with dieticians and marketing must promote a healthy lifestyle and physical activity.

SOUTHPORT HIGH: OPEN FOR BUSINESS Students from Southport High School now have the opportunity to get real life experience running a small business, thanks to the official opening of a ultramodern $2.6 million ‘enterprise centre’. Guided by their teachers and the local business community, students will market the centre's business activities on behalf of the school, operate the coffee shop and function centre, coordinate workshops and hire the centre out to community organisations and businesses. Jointly funded by the Australian and Queensland governments and the schools P&C, the centre aims to give students greater employability and teach them the benefits of entrepreneurship.

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In our hearts we know happiness can’t be found in money or ‘things’. Our lives have meaning when we help others and give without expecting something in return. Each of us has something to give, and together we can help make the world we live in a better place. When our children are very young, we need to teach them by example, by modeling good behavior and relationships. Giving back to the community is a way of setting a good example for our kids, and many local families are doing just that. Volunteering gives children a greater awareness of the world around them and a growing sense of social responsibility.

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FEATURE She says parents, children and other family members create shared memories as they spend time together contributing. Volunteering also connects and strengthens communities, reduces feelings of social isolation, and fosters respect for different people and conditions. It empowers children and they gain an increased sense of worth and self-esteem, as they see how their contribution can help make a difference.

Monique considers family volunteering a great way for parents to act as positive role models and to show kids how to help others in need. “Children learn far more from parents’ examples than they do from advice, judgment, blaming or shaming,” Monique says. “When children see their parents actively organising their time to help others and are involved in the process, they will see it as a normal part of life, not just potential, or something they’d like to do one day.”

Children can get involved in giving back to the community at any age. “The younger the child, the more likely they will see the contribution as a regular family activity,” Monique explains. “Of course, as they get older their capacity to contribute as well as their interests will change and so their role may change also.”

There are many ways to make a difference, whether it’s fighting global poverty, raising funds to feed and clothe needy children, or helping neglected or injured animals.

Fighting global poverty Gold Coast teenager Naomi Dickson has been helping others less fortunate than herself since, at the age of nine, she participated in her very first 40 Hour Famine.

Recently, as World Vision’s Queensland Youth Ambassador, Naomi experienced hardship in third world communities first-hand during a trip to Cambodia.

“I met kids who were really starving, I met kids who were homeless, I met kids who had lost both their parents to HIV/AIDS, and I saw a lot of suffering,” Naomi says.

“However, there is hope, because these kids are now being supported through World Vision.”

Naomi says the upcoming 40 Hour Famine in August is an easy way to get involved and help address the global food crisis. The event is one of Australia’s largest youth fundraisers, with about 350,000 young people expected to participate this year.

“You don’t have to give up food, you can give up technology … and for kids of primary age, it’s only eight hours,” Naomi explains.

Naomi hasn’t always been a globe-trotting activist. She first started sponsoring an African child when she was in Year 9, using earnings from her part-time job. Her family sponsors a total of nine children through World Vision, and they have made personal connections with the sponsored children, having visited most of them over the years.

“Our dream is to one day visit them all, as we see first-hand what a difference it makes,” Naomi’s mum Lenore Dickson, says.

A mother of three, Lenore says family volunteering teaches children that they live in a global community and that helping others is rewarding. She believes volunteering brings children a greater understanding and awareness of what’s happening in the world. “There’d be a lot less wars and conflict if everybody cared for one another,” Lenore says.

Lenore believes community work and volunteering begin at home, and children look to their parents for guidance. If they see mum and dad being supportive of causes, and having a voice against the injustices of the world, children will follow that example.

“Children model what they see in their own home and you can talk your head off, but it’s not going to make any difference,” she says.

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“If parents can give up their time to support any community outreach, their children will then model that.”

Lenore says schools and community organisations are “a wonderful support” for family volunteering. Schools encourage children to participate in a range of activities, develop skills and get involved with the community, while organisations like Guides, Scouts and surf lifesaving clubs build up skills in volunteering because they have an ethos of service.

Human rights and social responsibility have always been important to 18-year-old Naomi, who plans to study law and international relations at university, so she can continue to help make a difference. She is determined to continue with her work “giving back to the community that gives me so much every day”.

Caring for animals The RSPCA helps all kinds of animals and they couldn’t do it without the help of foster families who care for more than 3,000 animals in Queensland each year.

Sharn and Trevor Gardner, and their two boys Jackson and Lachlan, provide foster care for horses on their property on the Gold Coast hinterland. Mum Sharn Gardner says caring for horses was the perfect choice for her family, because they live on acreage and she has a lot of experience with horses.

Some of the horses that come to stay with the Gardner family are obviously mistreated and Sharn says some of them are “skin and bone” and it’s vital that horses are monitored closely so they can have the care and hands-on attention that they need to recover. “Rehabilitation is really important for these animals,” Sharn says. “Some are frightened by people and they need lots of hands-on work, others are just malnourished and need monitoring of their feeds.”

Sharn believes animal foster care is a great way for her children to learn how to give back to the community without expecting anything in return. “We thought it was a good way to show our children that you can actually do something and not have to get

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Sharn says there is an unbelievable wealth of information that comes from caring for the animals and the children learn about boundaries, respect and responsibility.”

The boys have a strong sense of right and wrong,” Sharn says. “They know from this experience that if a wrong has been done, in this case to the horses, we can go a long way to making it right.”

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With supervision and support from their parents, both Lachlan, aged six, and Jackson, aged eight, help with the care and rehabilitation of the horses. Their jobs include checking on the water and throwing hay over the fence. “I help with the feeds and water and give them pats,” Jackson says.

The boys learn that a mistreated horse will slowly build up trust with them over time. “They can see the correlation between that and their relationships with people as well,” Sharn says. “If you treat some-one with respect and you treat them with dignity, then they’ll respond accordingly.”

Part of fostering animals is learning how to let go and say goodbye to the animals at the end of the rehabilitation period. Sharn says the boys get attached to the animals, but she feels it’s important for them to learn to let go. “We’ve done what we can to care for them,” Sharn says. “It’s time for them to move on.”

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It is acknowledged that there is a “benefit to the child of having a meaningful relationship with both parents, equal shared parental responsibility, substantial and significant time with each parent and time with significant others”. The Act now favours compulsory family dispute resolution and improved court processes.

On the surface, the shift towards shared parenting arrangements seems a good one aimed at ensuring both parents are involved in key aspects of the child’s life and share responsibility for the child along with time. However, when two people who don’t get along are involved, it comes with enormous challenges.

Lifeline Sunshine Coast families program manager Rosalin Primrose cautions that “when the financial side of separation is addressed, the process can easily become about the money when parents really need to keep the focus on the kids in order to balance what they need”. Rosalin believes that parenting arrangements that share equal time between parents can work well in families where there is good communication and enough support for each parent to manage. Unfortunately those ex-couples that make it to court are seldom those who have good communication. Both James and Rosalin agree that shared parenting arrangements are challenging, and often more difficult for the children in situations where high levels of ongoing conflict between parents is present.

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Family Dispute Resolution Refocussing anger and frustration and Parenting Plans While all this parenting negotiation takes place, separating parents are trying to juggle negative, and sometimes overwhelming, emotions. One mum sees the changes as “confronting, challenging and also frightening at times. There is a level of anxiety and panic.”

“There is a certain amount of wanting to hold on to the past and wondering how love was not strong enough to get your family through?” she says, “In some ways it is a death of the relationship that needs to be grieved.”

Family Relationship Centres provide information and support to separating families and individuals. Services include family dispute resolution and referral to other appropriate services such as relationship counselling and legal advice services.

A regular information session called ‘It’s for the Kids’ is held at the Sunshine Coast Family Relationship Centre and each member of the separating couple is encouraged to attend on different evenings. I sat in on one of these sessions recently and was struck by how it repeatedly and gently redirects parents from the common pitfalls of separation such as anger, conflict, blame and financial matters to focus on the priority – the children. Information is provided on the typical issues which arise and how things such as passing messages to the other parent through the child, blaming the other parent for lack of money, or refusing to acknowledge the other parent can affect the children. Parents are also provided with information about the stages they may go through following separation and the many different emotions they may experience. Family Relationship Centres in different areas offer similar programs and location specific information can be found at www.familyrelationships.gov.au

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Coming to an agreement with someone you may no longer trust is often a leap of faith, and some don’t manage to do this. However, the Family Relationship Centre believes it is worth a try. The resulting agreement is not legally enforceable but James says the completed parenting plan can be taken to court and formulated into a consent order which is then legally binding. “In a lot of cases a parenting plan, whilst not being a legal document itself, can be quite durable and have the capacity to work well for a lot of families in setting out how the arrangements around the children will work,” he says.

As a separating parent, it is important to acknowledge that this is a time of change and transition for you as well as your children. Even if you initiated the separation, the process is likely to bring up difficult or unexpected feelings. Small things may suddenly seem incredibly difficult or you may find yourself feeling irritable, angry or easily upset. It is important to remember that a new life is beginning and this may feel strange and unsettling. Try to maintain awareness of your feelings and allow some time for yourself as you adjust to the changes. Don’t be afraid to seek help if you are struggling. For more information visit www.familyrelationships.gov.au

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• Develop a parenting plan and remember to include the needs of all family members.

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Family dispute resolution is the process of mediation where both partners (either together or separately) meet with a family dispute resolution practitioner to talk about and negotiate arrangements. Generally it starts with an individual premediation session and the aim of the negotiation is to take individual needs into account and to assist both parents to come to an arrangement which will work for them. Once both parents have voiced their needs, a parenting plan can be formulated to reflect the agreements reached.

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Special Events Calendar A calendar of regular weekly events is available online. For details of playgroups, library activities, weekly sporting events, craft classes, Australian Breastfeeding Association meeting times and much more, visit www.kidsonthecoast.com.au.

August 2

NATIONAL TREE DAY

This annual community event, co-founded by Olivia Newton-John and Planet Ark, gives Australians the chance to plant native plants and shrubs in their community.

Do your part for the environment and take the family along to your nearest tree planting site. Planting tools and equipment will be provided.

When/where: 9am-11am, Griffith Centre for Coastal Management, 27th Ave, Palm Beach 9am-11am, Friends of Gold Coast Regional Botanic Gardens, 232 Ashmore Road, Benowa 9:30am-1:30pm Logan City Council, Eagleby Wetlands, Logan Street, Eagleby 9:30am- 12noon Woodlands Community Inc, Goldsbourough Parade, Waterford Details: www.treeday.planetark.org

August 6-15

THE EKKA BRISBANE SHOW When/where: RNA Showgrounds Brisbane.

From 9am most days.

This years Ekka will be bigger and better. For 10 days Brisbane’s RNA Showgrounds will be bursting with fun and entertainment for all ages. There will be fireworks, exhibitions, prize-winning animals, concerts, fashion parades and, of course, rides and show bags.

Cost: Cost varies, under 5 free Details: www.ekka.com.au

To win one of three family passes courtesy of the EKKA visit www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

August 6

BOOKBITES READING CLUB

When/where: 4pm-5pm. Nerang Library If you enjoy reading, join a book club and share some of your favourite books. This club is suitable for kids from 6-12.

Cost: Free Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au

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August 21-23

When/where: Begins in William Street, Beaudesert.

Finishes at James Overell Park, Righton Parade, Southport.

In an annual walking pilgrimage through the traditional lands of the Yugambeh Aboriginal people, walkers traverse farms, rainforests and bushland from Beaudesert to Southport. Guided by Drumley’s descendents and relatives, learn about history and indigenous culture. Finish with the Yugambeh Corroboree at Southport. The walk takes place over four days and walkers can choose to do one or all sections. Children are welcome, but good shoes are a must!

Cost: Costs apply Details: www.thedrumleywalk.com

When/where: Begins 8pm Friday August 21, ends 12 noon Sunday August 23 Support World Vision in the fight against poverty, hunger and the global food crisis. Give up food or something valuable to you for 40 hours and experience what it is really like to go without. Money raised will go to those living in poverty overseas.

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August 17

CUPCAKE DAY FOR THE RSPCA

When/where: register on website Put your aprons on and bake up a storm to help raise money for the RSPCA. Become a RSPCA cook and sell your scrumptious home-made cupcakes to your local community or simply spend the day as a cupcake eater.

Prizes will be rewarded for the ‘most creative cupcake’, extreme cupcake eating’ and ‘most money raised’.

Cost: Registration free Details: www.rspcacupcakeday.com.au

August 20

WINK, BLINK, THINK

When/where: 3.30pm-4.30pm. Nerang public library.

There’s plenty of fun at the library with after school games for children from 6-12. No bookings are necessary – just show up.

Cost: Free Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au

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August 22-28

CBCA CHILDREN’S BOOK WEEK

When/where: Check website for event venues and times The Children’s Book Council of Australia’s annual children’s festival is aimed at promoting the enjoyments and benefits of reading. Schools and public libraries throughout Australia will spend the week celebrating Australian books, authors and illustrators. The theme for 2009 is ‘Book Safari’. Activities, competitions and story readings will be held throughout various locations.

Cost: Free Details: www.cbca.org.au

August 23

ZAC POWER

When/where: 2pm-3.30pm. Robina Library To celebrate Children’s Book Week, H.I. Larry’s associate Hillary Badger visits the library to talk about how Zac’s missions are created and show some of his cool gadgets.

She also talks about how kids can create their own stories.

Prizes for the best spy look and gadget. Bookings essential.

Cost: Free Details: Phone 5581 1600 or visit eventscalendarqld.realviewtechnologies.com

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When/where: Australia Fair Join other mums at this monthly morning tea. Guest speaker will be Kerre Burley from Giggles Swim School who will share her experience on water safety.

Cost: Join on website Details: www.australiafair.com.au

When/where: All day Footy Colour’s Day is a national fund-raising event for the Fight Cancer Foundation. Wear your favourite AFL, NRL, Rugby Union or Soccer team’s colours for the day and know that the money you raise will make a difference to the lives of young children fighting cancer.

Cost: Donations only Details: www.footycoloursday.com.au

When/where: Pacific Parade, Currumbin Two young mums, who felt uncomfortable taking their kids to art galleries, have created this outdoor coastal art exhibition. Up to 50 sculptures are displayed along Currumbin Beach ocean walkway over ten days. Twilight sculpture walks, artist talks, sculpture workshops (including Swell Kids workshops), musical entertainment and sand sculpting add to the fun.

Cost: Free Details: www.swellsculpture.com.au

When/where: 9am-4:30pm, Gold Coast Parklands, Cnr Smith Street and Parklands Drive, Southport New parents or parents-to-be will get all the advice they need at this expo. Equip yourself with vital information needed for pregnancy, birth and parenting.

Cost: Free Details: www.parklandsgoldcoast.com

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August 28-30

THE GOLD COAST SHOW

When/where: From 9am daily Be part of the largest community event on the Gold Coast. Shows are fun for all ages and this one combines traditional elements with thoroughly modern additions.

See the animal pavilion, the dog show and the horse events, then watch extreme sports for a change of pace.

Kids will flock to the free circus!

Cost: under 14 free Details: www.goldcoastshow.com.au TO win one of five family passes to the Gold Coast Show visit www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

September 1-30

FOOTY COLOURS DAY

September 4-5

BEAUDESERT SHOW

When/where: All day. Albert Street Showgrounds, Beaudesert.

For great family entertainment it is hard to beat a country show. The kids can get up close to animals they may rarely see. Everyone likes to see the prize-winning exhibits of their favourite cakes and jams and the largest pumpkin. Enjoy top quality live entertainment on Friday and Saturday nights.

Cost: Entry costs apply Details: www.beaudesertshow org.au

September 6

Don’t forget to spoil dad today!!

When/where: Your place!

Socialise, shop, party, re-vamp your wardrobe and raise money for global poverty and injustice all in one go.

Oxfam are inviting women to host an ‘exchange for change’ party at any time in September. Invite friends, colleagues or family to your party and swap items of clothing that you no longer wear, need or love.

Cost: Cost varies Details: www.oxfam.org.au

September 16

MUMZ WITH BUBZ CLUB

When/where: Australia Fair Join other mums at this monthly morning tea. Guest speaker will be Ben Squires from Animal Antics who will talk about babies and dog safety.

Cost: Join on website Details: www.australiafair.com.au

THE BIRTH, BABY AND BEYOND EXPO

September 21

CURRUMBIN-PALM BEACH SPRINGFEST When/where: 10:30am-4:30pm. Rotary Park, Sarawak Avenue, Palm Beach.

Pick your favourite float as the grand parade winds through the streets. There are a variety of rides for the kids, farm animals to get to know, a quiz show and lots more.

Cost: Free Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au

September 19

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September 9-12

CIRCUS OZ – BARELY CONTAINED

When/where: All day!

“Ahoy there me hearties!” Join the Childhood Cancer Support crew and spend the day talking and acting like a pirate. Childhood Cancer Support assists the families of children undergoing cancer treatment. Why not organise a pirate-themed event for friends, family, or your children to raise money for kids with cancer?

Cost: Donations only Details: www.talklikeapirateday.org

September 25-26

COAST ACOUSTICS MUSIC FESTIVAL When/where: QPAC When/where: Polly’s Country Kitchen, MudgereebaThis new show includes daring performers, irreverent Springbrook Rd. characters and barely controlled chaos and acrobatics Enjoy the soulful harmonies and talented performances that will have you on the edge of your seat. Featured presented by the Gold Coast Acoustic Music Club. The acts include rubber limbed bumbling, due juggling, chair whole family will enjoy the, bands, open mic, workshops, balancing and amazing aerial rope performances.

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Most parents want their kids to do well at school but for gifted children going to school can take all the fun out of learning. A child who starts school already reading may quickly realise they are ‘different’ and stop reading to fit in - even ending up in the remedial reading group. Being gifted is not always easy. Nor is it easy to define.

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education Giftedness can take on many forms. We often think of a gifted child as being one who is profoundly gifted and plays Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony faultlessly on the piano from age three. Some gifted children start school reading, writing and multiplying although many do not. What they do have in common is a propensity to learn rapidly, increased sensitivity and empathy and an awareness and quality of thinking beyond their years when compared with their same age peers.

Intelligence has historically been seen as a single, inherent entity. You either had it or you didn’t. In 1983, cognitive psychologist Howard Gardner published his theories of multiple intelligences. Instead of just one, Gardner found seven distinct intelligences: linguistic, logical-mathematical, musical, spatial, bodily-kinesthetic, interpersonal and intrapersonal. Today his theory is widely accepted and has changed approaches in education, particularly the approaches for education of gifted children.

The types of gifted students High achiever - well-liked, dependent learners who do not take risks Challenger - usually highly creative, can be prone to rebel if not well supported Underground student - tries to hide gift in order to be accepted, often anxious and insecure Drop out – de-motivated with long history of underachievement Double labelled - may have physical, emotional or learning difficulty that receives attention while the gifted potential is ignored Autonomous learner - independent and self-directed

A gifted child may demonstrate exceptional ability in just one area of skill or across a range of areas. To be identified as gifted, children are generally ranked in the top 10% of their age-related ability and usually work at a level two years above their chronological age. Gifted children can come from all cultural and socio-economic groups and no two children will exhibit the same gifts or behaviours - each is unique.

Gifted children can also have disabilities and are known as Gifted Learning Disabled.

The great misconception about gifted children is that because of their high ability they will ‘be all right’ whatever their circumstances. In fact, schooling for a gifted or talented child can be a minefield. If they are in an educational program that does not challenge them or allow them to develop their specific talents they suffer low self esteem and lose interest. Without proper encouragement and support, many gifted children become de-motivated and, tragically, underachieve. Classed as average students they simply drift along or become labelled as lazy, disruptive and uncooperative because they lack challenge and stimulation. Sometimes underachieving gifted and talented children are wrongly diagnosed as ADHD. Parents who suspect they have a gifted child should keep examples and records of the child’s activities (art, crafts, writing) and note behaviours, achievements and milestones. Gifted children generally reach milestones significantly earlier than their peers. They show a greater awareness of their surroundings and behaviour at an early age.

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Bev has a gifted son who started prep reading at Year 2 level and able to complete maths tasks closer to Year 3. Their experience of gifted education was frustrating and disappointing. “On the second day of prep the teacher asked us to fill her in on how long he had been reading and writing,” she says.

“She had identified Lachlan as ahead of the year level but told us the best course of action was to leave him to continue work with the year cohort. Very quickly Lachlan began to come home angry and agitated saying he hated school, which we couldn’t understand because he had been so keen to start school.”

12 characteristics of a gifted child 1. Exceptional memory /rapid pace of learning 2. Ability to ask reflective and probing questions

Bev wondered how Lachlan could get on with children his age if they were reading Thomas the Tank Engine and he was reading Harry Potter.

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“We had to push and push for them to give him an individual learning plan, which they reluctantly did. He went up for reading for one hour in the morning and then went back to his class. It didn’t have much of an effect because he was gifted for the whole day, not just from 9 to 10am,” she says.

5. Ability to empathise with the feelings of others

“We eventually changed schools and the new school is trying its best to cater for him. They have assessed his case and agree he needs to be in Year 3, but cannot move him because there are no places.”

Queensland Association for Gifted and Talented Children (QAGTC) president Amanda Joske sees the implementation of the EQ Framework as a positive step.

“We are beginning to see things happening in both state and private schools, from dedicated full-time gifted classes and extra workshops for gifted kids to a general acceptance of strategies such as acceleration which have often been received with hostility or ambivalence,” she says.

“The framework has meant the creation of Gifted Education Mentors (known as GEMs) who are receiving professional development training in gifted education needs and who will then go out and train other educators in their area. “ Recognising young children with above average abilities takes careful observation.

You can’t teach a child to be gifted but you can give him/her a range of experiences that will help to discover the innate gifts within.

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BABIES ON

by Sandra Smith

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Childhood illnesses and mishaps are a regular occurrence, and learning basic health care and first aid gives you the confidence and skills to handle most situations. This knowledge, combined with a well-stocked first aid kit, regular health checks and an immunisation plan, provide the tools you need to manage your baby’s health care effectively.

Bites and Stings

Keep babies safe from bites and stings by using mosquito nets and protective clothing. Pharmacy Self Care principal advisor John Bell says insect repellents should not be used at all on children under 12 months of age, and he recommends only a non-DEET insect repellent for older children. Most bites and stings are harmless, but the child must be monitored closely for swelling or breathing difficulties. If the child suffers a severe allergic reaction, practice CPR and seek urgent medical help.

Bumps and Bruises

Bumping into furniture and walls, and falling on hard surfaces often results in bruising and swelling. Apply a cold compress to the affected area for a few minutes, and seek medical help for any significant falls. Bumps and bruises to the head and eyes require medical attention, in case of a skull fracture or eye damage.

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You’ve survived the birth and now you have a young baby at home. But it’s not all plain sailing. There are times when you are not quite sure why your baby is crying and what to do about it.

When babies start to explore, they often fall and graze their elbows, knees and ankles.

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Burns

Burns and scalds are a major source of injury for children. They are often caused by ordinary household items like a cup of misplaced coffee and under-four’s are most at risk. Prevent burns and scalds by keeping hot drinks and pot handles out of reach of children and reducing the temperature of your hot water. Treat burns by cooling the skin under running water for 20 minutes. Urgency is paramount here, so if it takes jumping into a cold shower together, don’t hesitate. Seek urgent medical help for all second and third degree burns, where the skin is damaged, red and blistered.

Burns have a high risk of infection and serious burns require medical care.

Colds and Flu

Symptoms of the common cold include a runny nose, sore throat, loss of appetite, cough and headache. Babies will feel distressed and irritable, and have problems feeding due to nasal congestion. A cold usually clears naturally after three or four days, but take your child to the doctor if there is no improvement after 48 hours.

Flu symptoms last up to a week and can include fever, sore throats, aches and pains.

If you have traveled interstate recently, in our present Swine Flu environment, it’s a good idea to visit your doctor with any flu symptoms. Fever is the body’s natural response to infection, and a child with fever will feel hot and look flushed. See your doctor if your baby’s temperature is over 38° C, if your baby is breathing abnormally or is drowsy and unwilling to feed.

Pharmacy advisor John Bell says cold and flu symptoms in children up to the age of two years can be treated with paracetamol, saline nose drops or spray, or steam inhalation, depending on the symptoms. He warns that decongestants, antihistamine mixtures and cough medicines are not recommended for under-two’s.

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Colic

A young baby with colic cries frequently in the afternoons and cannot be soothed. The baby will often draw up its legs and arch its back, as it suffers abdominal pain. Although the symptoms are distressing, colic usually clears up by the time your baby is three months old. Avoid overfeeding and burp your baby after feeds. John says colic caused by wind can be relieved by drops containing simethicone. He adds that there is no evidence that herbal medicines help colic.

Constipation

Constipation is characterised by straining to pass stools that may be hard in consistency. Relieve constipation in babies by increasing fluids and make sure toddlers and older children have plenty of fluid and a healthy balanced diet.

John recommends Coloxyl oral drops or glycerol infant suppositories for babies, and chocolate-flavoured paraffin for children aged over 12 months. Seek medical help if the child’s constipation persists or there is swelling and pain in the abdomen.

Poisons

It’s not until you become a parent that you realise how many products in your home are poisonous. Children aged one to three are most at risk of poisoning because (as I am sure you are aware) they will put ANYTHING in their mouths.

Most poisonings occur when the child is at home and an everyday substance is left unattended, so make sure all household products, from dishwashing powder through to cosmetics and medicines, are stored safely and securely. If you suspect your child has ingested a poison, call the 24-hour Poison Information Centre on 131 126, and if your child has severe symptoms call 000 immediately.

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Reflux occurs when the valve at the top of the stomach opens and the baby regurgitates the feed. Most babies grow out of it in their first year. Reflux can often be treated by holding your baby upright for 20 minutes after a feed, and by giving smaller, more frequent feeds. See a doctor if your baby is failing to gain weight and the reflux is not improving. “Non-prescription medicine (Gaviscon Infant) is available to help prevent reflux,” John says. “If the problem persists, the doctor can prescribe a more potent product.”

There’s a lot of controversy surrounding immunisation, but without it we would still face deaths from things like rubella, measles and polio. Immunisation starts at birth, with regular vaccines through the first year and early childhood. Vaccines have been thoroughly tested and are considered safe and effective in preventing many diseases. Most vaccines have mild, adverse effects, such as low-grade fever, pain or redness at the site. Fever symptoms can be managed with a recommended dose of paracetamol and extra fluid. Serious adverse effects are rare, but parents are advised to keep a close eye on children after immunisation, and to seek immediate medical help if they have concerns.

Vomiting and diarrhoea

Vomiting is common in babies and young children, and it can be harmless or it can indicate a more serious illness, such as a bowel obstruction or gastroenteritis. Babies often regurgitate a little milk after a feed and if your baby is otherwise well, you don’t need to worry.

Diarrhoea is often caused by gastroenteritis. The first signs may be tummy rumbling and vomiting, and there may be cramping and abdominal pain. Ensure everyone in your family washes their hands frequently to prevent the spread of gastro. John recommends oral rehydration solutions such as Gastrolyte or Hydralyte, and he says to avoid juice, cordial or soft drinks, as they can sometimes aggravate the condition.

Dehydration may occur when vomiting and diarrhoea are severe. Signs of dehydration include a dry mouth and tongue, sunken eyes and decreased urination.

Babies under six months can become ill very quickly and must be carefully monitored if they are vomiting or have diarrhoea. Take your baby to a doctor or the

First Aid and CPR courses An understanding of first aid and CPR gives parents important emergency care skills that can save lives. Some organisations have specialised first aid courses that train parents and carers in managing medical emergencies for babies and children. Organisations that conduct nationally accredited first aid and CPR courses in South East Queensland include: Australian Red Cross

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Your contribution to Medicare depends on your income, and is made through taxes, and the Medicare levy. Upon sighting your Medicare card, some doctors bulk bill but if your doctor does not you will pay a fee, some of which is reimbursed. Eye tests are bulk billed but not glasses; specialists might cost you money but all x-rays, MRIs, and pathology tests are eligible for a rebate, some dental procedures are covered.

Enrolling in Medicare involves completing an application form and parents of new babies will receive forms in hospital to add their offspring. Babies enrolled in Medicare are also registered on the Australian Childhood Immunisation Register. A Medicare safety net is designed for people who have regular high medical costs but families and couples need to register as each family member needs to be identified.

Child and Adolescent Oral Health Services This program offers Queensland children from Prep to Grade 10 publicly funded dental care. The program operates from fixed and mobile dental clinics which visit schools. You will be notified by the clinics when they will be at your child’s school, but don’t be afraid to ask. Your children will be given permission forms for you to sign before the dentists examine their teeth and if your children need dental work you will be notified before the work is carried out. Oral health staff includes dentists, oral health therapists, dental therapists, and dental assistants. Specialist services are means tested, and prioritised on severity criteria. For further information visit www.qld.gov.au/health

Why choose private health insurance?

Private health insurance, like any insurance cover, is aimed at giving you reassurance that if things go wrong you will have access to your choice of doctors, and hospital care. Waiting lists for patients at public hospitals are often very long, and patients are usually unsure when they will actually be going into hospital. It can be very difficult

There are many different health funds to choose from, and each offers different benefits, so it is advisable to decide what’s important to you, and then select the fund that most meets your needs. Do you want: Choice of doctor; Choice of hospital; Physiotherapy; Orthodontic treatment; School accident treatment; Naturopathy; Optical items; Pharmaceutical prescriptions; General dental; Speech therapy?

MBF Health: For 60 years MBF has been providing health insurance. Over 1.5 million people take advantage of its insurance schemes. To be able to benefit from MBF you must be an Australian resident eligible for full Medicare benefits. It is possible to choose from a number of different levels of cover, both hospital and extras, depending on your family situation, and need for medical attention. For more information visit www.mbf.com.au Medibank Private: Medibank private is the largest health insurer in Australia with over three million members. Medibank Private has special packages to suit all family groups, offering basic, intermediate, and comprehensive cover. It also has extras, and bonuses for its members. Just like MBF, there are basic and not so basic options. For more information phone 132 331 or visit online www.medibank.com.au

Is health insurance the answer?

Suffice to say, it’s a good idea to decide what’s important before you look, so you don’t get completely confused, and shop around. Like any other insurance, make sure you read the fine print. Will it cover you overseas? How long do you have to be a member before you can claim? Are your premiums going to go up if you claim? Do benefits vary in different states? It’s a minefield at times, and many families stick with the national health system out of convenience. The good news is, Australians are covered and won’t be turned away when they need help. Aren’t we lucky to have the safety net!

For further information: If you have just arrived in Australia and wish to find out your eligibility for Medicare, call: 132 011 or visit: www.medicareaustralia.gov.au

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Dr Samantha Seymour How can a parent help a child who feels sad, shy, worried or angry? Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Seymour has created a storybook resource for parents to read with their young children (aged 2-7) to help both parent and child discuss these difficult emotions. The book contains simple stories and photos of children, and each story contains ideas for how a child might deal with overwhelming emotions.

Denise Vanderlugt This beautifully crafted, self published book was written and illustrated using small hand-stitched quilts (even the words are stitched!). The award-winning book tells the story of Denise’s magical rainbow baskets where rainbows live (when they are not making the sky look beautiful). It is one of those books guaranteed to become a family heirloom. Available in Brisbane at the Queensland Art Gallery, The State Library or Folio Books, Albert Street. Or email the author at vanderlugt@dodo.com.au

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Parents may like to check donations being pledged by children. A suitable site for primary school children.

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Get ready to dance and sing along with the Smart Cookie gang – a group of delightful Aussie puppets. There’s Flossy the Emu, JJ the Kangaroo, Squeak the Echidna and Ted the Koala. Not only can your preschoolers sing along, there’s a karaoke section to test their memories. Perhaps one of the best features is Aussie accents! This series of four is a guaranteed hit. It is available at www.smartcookiekids.com or select retailers.

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Dimmie Drum and the Beanstalk is the first DVD book in a planned series. It is based on the old “Jack” story retold in comic book style and comes with the book and animation DVD mini movie. This is the latest endeavour for the Hello Music Studio which created a show of the same name that aired on pay TV and won an award as the best children’s TV show. A live show followed. The book and DVD package will be available in late July in major bookstores and throughout the country soon after. Pocket size, the book makes a good travel companion – especially if you have a DVD player in the car because the DVD will read the story to your preschoolers while they follow along.

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by Christine Hobba Believe it or not, the Australian Bureau of Statistics estimated in 2006/07, there were 4,569,000 men in Australia aged 18 years and over who reported having one or more natural children living either with them or elsewhere. That’s a lot of dads who will be celebrating on September 6! Talk to most dads and what they really want for their special day is to spend time with family. Gifts are secondary but, never-the-less, it’s sometimes hard to decide on something to mark the occasion and, as the mum, it often comes down to you to make things happen. From free to luxurious, we have compiled a few ideas to make it a memorable day – for your partner or your own dad!

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• Wake him up with a hug, lots of kisses and breakfast in bed • Grab the picnic basket, cricket ball and bat, head off to your favourite beach or park for a lazy day in the sun • Head to the hills and take a walk at Binna Burra • Kids - draw a picture of doing something with dad then cut out you heads from a picture taken recently and glue the heads onto the drawing.(This one works well for granddads too!)

• Kids – write a story about a special time you had with your dad and give it to him • Hook up the bait and go fishing together at Hinze Dam

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• Moonpig personalised cards ($5.95) allow you to create a completely unique card.

Place your order by 2pm and your card will be posted by 5pm the same day. They also offer an overseas service. Visit www.moonpig.com.au/ for more details • Frame one of the kid’s masterpieces • Oxfam Unwrapped from $12. Purchase from the Oxfam Unwrapped catalogue and you will be helping to save people around the world from poverty. With every item you purchase, you will receive a card that explains the role the gift plays in fighting poverty. Visit www.oxfamunwrapped.com.au for details

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• Laser Target Alarm Clock $39.95– this is for the dad who takes a while to get going in the morning. To turn the alarm off you actually have to aim and fire a laser at a target to switch it off. Visit www.coolthings.com.au • Growing Gifts by Miller & Brown from $39.95. Growing Gifts offer a number of unique eco-friendly plant & tree gifts which can even be posted to selected destinations in Australia. Visit www.growinggifts.com.au

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Single parenthood is a challenge at the best of times. Juggling work, home, friends, family and kids can be difficult and no-one deserves a break more than a single parent. The challenges don’t disappear on holiday but with a little forward thinking, and by working together with your kids, you can create a memorable holiday experience for the entire family.

The Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) found that 15% of all children in 1992 were living in single parent families, and that number was growing. During the 10 year period between 1986-1996 “the number of one parent families in Australia increased by almost 50% from 311,800 to 467,200”.

“Over this period, one parent families as a proportion of all families with dependent children increased from 14% to 19%,” it reports.

Although the balance between money and time is always tenuous, when it comes to single parent family holidays, getting the right mix is crucial. The ABS says single parent families are statistically surviving on much lower incomes which means your holiday budget might be tight. It may be difficult to juggle between getting time off work, squeezing your vacation into half the school holidays and coordinating

with the other parent. Throw in travel logistics and it’s no wonder that many single parents find it all too hard and opt to stay at home.

Unfortunately, as the number of single parent families increases, the travel industry struggles to keep up with most family holiday packages based on ‘twin share’ rooms and are designed to meet the needs of two parents travelling with two children. Just look at the majority of family entrance fees at attractions and you will see how they lean towards the traditional family unit. Holidays with Kids says the most common mistake made by the travel industry is assuming that the travel needs and desires of single parents are exactly the same as those of two parent families. “Single parents often seek different agendas and must be twice as organised, twice as patient, and twice as creative to have a successful and fun trip with their kids,” it says.

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family is the level of social interaction required. Taking the kids to a Fijian resort may sound fine and dandy, but if you end up glued to your room after 8pm bedtime, and the bar is full of honeymoon couples, you may regret the decision. Kids, also, may need a little space. Remember, they don’t often spend 24 hours a day with you and, even though you love time with them, it might be good to plan a little time apart at a kid’s club or make sure there’s in-room entertainment available.

side effect too – your kids feel more responsible for the holiday and you might just find they are willing to carry bags, read maps or even help cook meals in your self contained holiday apartment.

Single dad, Greg Brennan recently signed up for one of the few packaged single parent family holidays available (to Fiji with BYO Kids) “I wanted to go on holiday where there was a chance for social interaction for me and the kids,” he says “and since I have a hectic lifestyle, I chose a holiday where it was organised for me.”

Organised packages are a wonderful way to meet the social needs of both single parents and children but Greg was dubious at first. “There were only two men and six women,” he says, “I was concerned that perhaps single parents would get together and complain about their situation but they were a great bunch of guys and I really recommend it. “I think those people who go on these type of holidays are those who are moving on with their lives.”

Drive a campervan around New Zealand – distances are short and your home is self contained Learn to ski together – lodge packages are all inclusive and you’ll meet other skiers

Making a single parent holiday work starts with good planning and organisation.

Do your research. Get on the web and find out about your intended destination, talk to travel agents dedicated to family travel and, if your kids are older, enlist them in surfing the web. Find out what is important to your kids. Do they want time by a pool? Do they want to be really active? Do they want time by themselves, or prefer more quality time with you? Do they like cold climates or hot ones? Would they like to join with others or go it alone? By getting the kids involved you become a team and the end result is more likely to meet all your needs. There’s another positive

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Organising single parent family travel can be challenging yet we could all use a break from time to time, and creating quality memories with your kids might be just what you need. Where there’s a will (and a little forward planning) there’s a way!

BYO Kids top holiday picks for single parent families

You don’t have to sign up for a package holiday to interact with others. Go on holiday with the grandparents, visit other relatives, enlist another family or, if you only have one child, take along one of their school friends. Two kids are far more easily entertained than one, but make sure you discuss the division of holiday costs with the parents of the other child first.

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It’s easy to get carried away with the excitement of planning a holiday and forget the legal logistics. If you have a family court order, make sure your plans fit within its requirements. If you are planning to go overseas for the first time, the kids will need a passport, which needs to be ordered well in advance because Australian Law requires both parents to sign the passport application. Leah Squires is the director of BYO Kids and has dealt with many disappointed parents. “Unfortunately we have had to cancel quite a few holidays at the last minute when the other parent refuses to let the kids go,” she says.

Cruise the South Pacific – many cruise ships charge a price per cabin not per person Club Med inclusive holidays have 168 locations to choose from and fun family activities Cabins in holiday parks where you can interact with other campers For teens, learn to dive together in the Whitsundays or sail on a live-aboard boat Join a cycling tour in Europe together For more advice on single parent travel options phone BYO Kids on 1300 296 543 or visit www.byokids.com.au

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