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It is time to finish writing my NEXT book.

It is with sadness (and a little trepidation) therefore, that I bid farewell to my role as editor of Kids on the Coast. What a wonderful couple of years this has been!

I have enjoyed sharing your stories and a few of my own. I have enjoyed learning from inspirational people from all walks of life and being a small part of a wonderful team of dedicated women.

I won’t be gone completely… I hope you will be seeing my name on an article every now and again... so, it’s not goodbye… but just adieu!

Sarah Pye, Editor www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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Like many of us, when I reflect on my past I can identify many crossroads.

The decision chosen while standing at those junctions has shaped the person I have subsequently become. I find myself at one of those junctures right now: publishing my first guidebook was the realisation of a dream, and building on its success (while giving the magazine the time it deserves) is stretching the 24 hour clock beyond recognition.

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27 BABIES ON THE COAST Planning your family

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70,000 KIDS TAKE ON READING CHALLENGE More than 70,000 students from more than 600 Queensland schools read more than one million books as part of this year’s successful Premier’s Reading Challenge, held from May 10 to August 27. All Prep to Year 7 students from state and non-state Queensland schools were invited to take part with activities such as listening to stories, shared reading or reading picture books for younger students. Each student was required to read 15 to 20 books each over a 16-week period, in an effort to boost literacy skills and support learning. Let’s keep opening those books and encouraging the love of reading from an early age. Well done, bookworms!

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PREMMIE TWINS FACE BRIGHT FUTURE Gold Coast bubs, Jackson and Keira Burgermeister are the picture of health after a rocky start to life. The twins were born four months premature last December, weighing little more than a tub of butter (550g and 810g). The all clear has come as a huge relief for the family, whose tiny tots have struggled to overcome many diseases and challenges. During their 102 day stay at Brisbane’s Mater Hospital, the extremely premature twins battled diseases such as brain tissue bleeding, chronic lung disease and problems with their hearts, lungs and ears.

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by Maxine Arthur If you like to see the sparks fly occasionally, ask the parents around the table (though not in front of the children) who is their favourite child.

It’s an uncomfortable topic for some. Be prepared for an adamant denial of any family favouritism, followed by a chorus of “I treat all my children equally”. While horrified friends are still looking at you as if you have betrayed a basic tenet of parenthood, ask if their parents had a favourite child. You will likely be met with a different response. Most will identify the favourite sibling, perhaps themselves, and most can tell you why they were favoured.

Golden child or black sheep?

Melbourne clinical psychologist and hypnotherapist Dr Janet Hall is the author of six books on parenting including Fight-free Families (Finch 2001). She describes a ‘family favourite’ as “The child who is seen as the golden one – the family sees their good points and exaggerates them and doesn’t see their bad points. They are favoured with positive attention, quality time and indulged in economically and given special opportunities.”

Unpalatable as the idea is to parents, Australian and American research indicates that a majority of children can name the family favourite or the family ‘black sheep’.

Macquarie University associate professor of psychology Dr Julie Fitness surveyed 70 university students on the topic of family favourites.

“In line with the findings from other, larger-scale studies, nearly 69% of respondents reported there was a family favourite, with 48% reporting it was themselves, 35% reporting a brother, and 17% reporting a sister,” she says.

“The most frequently reported reasons for favouritism were birth order (33% first or last born, never the middle); sex (23% being the only boy or girl in the family); goodness (21% talent, attractiveness, likeability) and similarity to a parent (19%).”

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On the other hand, 80% of respondents could also identify the family ‘black sheep’, sometimes in the extended family. Students who identified themselves in this category believed it was because they were different to the rest of the family – in looks, personality, talents or interests. They felt they did not belong.

The first born child Single dad Andrew Thomas says his family is his world. He has two daughters aged 13 and 11 and a new partner who shares in the girls’ upbringing. Andrew frankly admits that his older daughter is his favourite because they just seem to get along better.

“We just have a better rapport. She is a self-reliant kid,” he says.

“She goes out of her way to help other people. She has earned my respect and I give it. She knows what she wants and knows how to get it.

“She’s a very good organiser. We don’t make many plans in our family without her having a say.”

Unlike many parents who have a favourite who is similar in many ways to themselves, Andrew says his younger child is more like him. He tends to push her hard to achieve because he feels he didn’t strive hard enough as he was growing up. Andrew tries hard not to show favouritism, but he suspects both daughters know who the favourite is.

However, he believes they communicate well and can talk through any perceived ‘unfairness’. Andrew says his mum spoils the older girl sometimes with expensive presents, saying that she is more responsible and has earned it. Andrew then tries to make up the difference by giving the younger daughter a similar gift when she reaches the same age.

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immediately launch into denial. It was a joke with a kernel of truth from adult children who felt comfortable acknowledging the fact. She loved us equally but treated us differently.

And now, as a mum, I understand her problem with the word ‘favourite’. My two girls have my unconditional love and support but they are two very different individuals. If I have avoided the pitfalls of rampant favouritism, I have certainly had times when one of them was least favoured because of her behaviour. The two-year-old who turned into a terrorist when the new baby arrived didn’t win any brownie points, but she did when she turned into a kid who never had to be nagged about homework.

The chronically messy one still isn’t my favourite when I am in housekeeping mode, but she is when she makes us all laugh at the dinner table.

Is it wrong to have a favourite?

Washington DC clinical psychologist Dr Ellen Libby wrote The Favorite Child.

She believes that most parents favour one child over another and that in itself is not a bad thing. It is just a fact.

“Each child is an individual and so is each parent,” she says.

“It is perfectly natural that a given child and a given parent have a special resonance; sometimes it is brief and sometimes it is more permanent.”

There are positives and negatives to being the favoured child. Favourites can develop more confidence, determination and effectiveness, and achieve well in their careers. But Dr Libby warns of the downside.

“There are dangers inherent in being the favourite child,” she says.

“Unbridled confidence can be accompanied by feelings of entitlement and little, if any, realisation that there are consequences for actions. For example, Tiger Woods, an only child (and therefore automatically the favourite child) said in a recent press conference commenting on his affairs, ‘I played by a different set of rules’. The rules

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more attention, and another allowed a privilege at a certain age, children may well accept that it is fair. With no explanation, children may believe it is because they are unworthy or unloved.

Dr Libby also points to the possibility that the favoured child may live their lives trying to maintain favoured status and, ultimately, come to resent it. They may crack under the pressure of living up to parental expectations.

Dr Libby says children can appreciate and accept special bonds in the family.

“As children grow-up, a major task to be accomplished, necessary for their healthy functioning, is to learn to feel secure in the world without requiring ongoing parental affirmation,” she says.

Parental favouritism may have negative consequences for the siblings of the favoured child.

“Children who have never felt this affirmation …often live their lives looking for this validation. They look to others to choose them as they had hoped their parents would,” Dr Libby says.

“They easily accept that the athletic parent and sibling have a unique bond; or the specialness that may exist between a parent and difficult sibling,” she says.

“When the favourite child status is rotated among children, all children are likely to feel the security of their parents’ love and not feel damaging resentment when other siblings are favoured.”

So favouritism may be a transient thing. Mum may favour the teenage daughter because they enjoy shopping together. Dad clicks with the ten-year-old soccer player and the daughter who is a computer whiz like him.

“Since no one can fill the void created by parental neglect or oversight, these unfavoured children often grow up insecure and not believing themselves lovable.”

Minnesota mother of three Sue Wilson hit upon an idea that worked for her young family. She started a ‘Child of the Day’ rotation when her kids were in preschool.

She found it stopped every argument over who gets the best seat, the last sweet, the first turn. She simply asked, “Who is Child of the Day?”

Making every child feel special

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Of course, parental favouritism is only a problem when one child receives preferential treatment consistently to the detriment of other children in the family.

Most parents, quite rightly, don’t want to play favourites. They don’t want to show partiality. But they don’t necessarily treat all their children the same. Each child has a different personality and different needs, therefore different responses from their parents are called for. If parents explain the reasons why a new-born is receiving

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Of course, unguarded favouritism in the form of unflattering comparisons, hurtful remarks and put downs are cruel and damaging to self-esteem.

For the sake of your child, a calm but firm line needs to be taken.

But let’s assume that the relative loves all your children and would not intentionally hurt any of them. They may just enjoy the company of one over the other, feel more comfortable with a particular age group, or see a ‘carbon copy’ of a much-loved son or daughter. They may be unaware that others feel neglected or not have considered the possibility of spoiling the favoured child.

If you are generally on good terms, and feel you can remain calm and positive, you may wish to talk to them about the issue. Ask why they have developed a special bond with the child. Point out the positive things you see in this relationship.

Then ask if they have noticed that the others are feeling a bit left out. Encourage them to talk about ways to improve the situation. Try to find opportunities for the grandparents to get to know the other children better. Agree on some guidelines for presents and maybe even suggest time spent doing something together like cooking with gran, or working in the garden with pop as an alternative to buying presents. Encourage your children to make things for their grandparents and talk to them on the phone, so the giving is not all one way.

If you feel a child is suffering and the situation does not improve despite your efforts it may be time to consider the professional help of a psychologist or family therapist.

Dr Libby sees no problem in having favourites – just make sure each child is made to feel special often. “If all children believed they were the favourite, we’d have a nation of confident, successful people,” she says.

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Budget well and plan ahead Try to work together as a team, rather than aim to be the ‘Masterchef’ yourself Have realistic expectations of yourself and of others Find time each day to ‘chill out’ Spread your family visits out over a few days Practice forgiveness – it will make you feel better Limit your intake of alcohol – behaviour can get out of hand Listen and show respect Agree to disagree on issues Say thank you often

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By clinical psychologist Ellen Weber Libby Dr Libby explores why parents, consciously or unconsciously, choose a favourite child as well as the long-term pros and cons of being the golden child. She also discusses how parents can make each of their children feel favoured and maintain a healthy emotional balance for all family members.

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THE ‘P’ Files

One step at a time

Negotiating a step-parenting relationship

by Sandra Smith

You’ve met a special someone, and you’re getting along like a house on fire. You commit to the dream relationship, but as the initial rosy glow fades, you are faced with the stepchildren. They may be noisy toddlers or they may be angst-ridden teenagers. They may be angry or sad, scared or confused. They’re not emotionally connected to you, and in fact, you may struggle to connect with them on any level.

You discover that television’s cute blended family, the Brady Bunch, is a fantasy.

Surprised, you find that the myth of the wicked stepmother and the villainous stepfather lives on, and you begin to feel stigmatised, insecure and isolated. So how do you learn to cope with the role of step-parent, and how do you ensure that the stepfamily evolves into a warm, caring and secure household?

A time of transition One in every five Australian families is now a stepfamily, as the traditional nuclear family changes and, for some, becoming a step-parent is a transition that evolves naturally after a new relationship begins. Queensland stepmum Julie says she started out as a friend to her new partner’s two children, aged four and six, and her relationship with the children gradually evolved over time.

“I have a special, different, other relationship with them,” she says. “I am not their parent and I am not their friend. I am somewhere in between, and that’s a really nice place to be.”

It hasn’t all been plain sailing for Julie’s family, and special occasions like Christmas have been challenging, but she says they have created new family traditions that don’t focus on traditional celebrations.

They now enjoy an annual family camping trip at Easter when there is less pressure and expectation than Christmas (and therefore less likelihood of disappointment on other special occasions).

“We’ve found that just by being flexible and taking turns, it’s worked out okay,” she says.

“I was easily accepted because I was someone fun to be around and we had a good time together,” she says.

Having different parenting styles can create conflict, and Julie relies on her husband to be the “conduit of communication” between her and the kids’ biological mum, so they can “work things out”.

However, after Julie and her new partner had biological children of their own, she says the family dynamics changed and she had to “find a place for the stepchildren in that picture”.

“I’ve always been really careful to not overstep my boundaries and to never, ever offer parenting advice or criticise them in any way,” she says.

“Like any family when a new sibling is born, you have all those issues around rivalry and jealousy, and the risk of over-indulging one over the other,” she explains. “It’s just constantly evolving.”

Julie says her family is far from perfect, but she believes that their issues are all very normal. Life is good for Julie and she embraces her large stepfamily and the chaos that it brings.

Julie admits that she doesn’t have the same bond with her stepchildren as she does with her three biological children, though she does love and respect them.

“With five kids and all the craziness and noise and mayhem and all the exciting stories and dramas that unfold, there’s never a dull moment,” she laughs.

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THE ‘P’ Files When stepfamilies fall apart When stepfamily relationships break down, vulnerable children are often caught in the middle of the conflict.

Queensland dad Simon says his parents divorced when he was two years old and he grew up with multiple step-parents, step-siblings and half-siblings.

“I had a lot of step-parents to juggle and changes in my life that I had no control over,” he says. “As a child you may appear to be coping with that, but it leaves a big mark that doesn’t go away.”

Simon acknowledges that some people do a great job of step-parenting, but his own childhood was a battlefield and he recalls that he had to grow up too fast.

“Managing all those relationships did become very complex,” he remembers.

“My experiences as a stepchild have coloured my world view.”

Although he was never physically or emotionally abused, Simon felt that he became a pawn in the adult relationships, as their issues were projected onto him.

“They had a lot of growing up to do themselves,” he says. “Stepkids can become symbolic of other problems in the relationship, and it’s very easy for the people to get hung up on stepkid issues because they make a great scapegoat.”

He says that adults believe their children’s resilience will protect them, but he warns that residual problems don’t just “go away” and children are affected for many years in the future.

“It’s really, really easy for parents to look at their kids’ outward appearances and assume that because those things all look okay, everything is okay,” he says. “The cracks in the relationships didn’t appear when we were little, it was more as we got older.”

Now happily married with children, Simon says his unstable childhood has motivated him to work hard on his own marriage, so it will stand the test of time.

“It makes you realise at a very early age that adults can be fallible and relationships are hard work and complex,” he says. “My wife has seen, through me, the damage that it causes. It certainly helps us to stay very committed in our relationship, so hopefully it’s not being dragged through another generation.”

Getting it right The step-parent role comes without a job description, and there is often a melting pot of emotions and complex family relationships to deal with. So, how can stepparents get it right? The first step is to seek out information and develop a set of guidelines that will work for you and your stepfamily.

Nurture relationships Relationship dynamics are complex for most stepfamilies, as they navigate a confusing array of ex-partners and new partners, biological children and stepchildren, and extended families. This places a lot of stress on step-parents, and often leaves children feeling overwhelmed and stressed.

Try to accommodate and communicate with all members of each household, and show respect for everyone. Remember that a close, loving relationship with your stepchildren may not happen for many years.

Steve Martin, executive officer of Stepfamilies Australia, says that developing healthy relationships takes time, so new stepsiblings should receive support and understanding, not pressure to feel as though they have to love or like each other.

Be flexible Christmas and special occasions can be a stressful time for stepfamilies, because problems are compounded by divided loyalties, competition and emotional upheaval. Add in extra complications like ex-spouses, custody agreements, multiple grandparents and financial strain, and it makes for a turbulent time, with children all too often caught in the middle.

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Find support Ask for help along the way when you need it, from your partner, trusted friends and support networks. Learn more about stepfamilies by reading books, visiting websites and talking to other step-parents. Attend workshops and find out how other people have travelled this road.

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• Establish clear, open family boundaries

• Push children into new family relationships – give them time and space

• Work as a team and make joint decisions with your new partner

• Assume everyone will get along well in the new stepfamily

Step-parents often don’t reach out for help, due to a fear of failure and family unit breakdown. They find that the dilemmas they face are difficult for friends and family to understand, and this can lead to lowered self-confidence and high levels of depression and anxiety.

• Create physical space for children, even if they are part-time members of the household

Families Relationship Services Australia (FRSA) executive director Samantha Page says that stepfamilies can experience strong and sometimes unexpected emotions.

• Make separate time for original family members

• Try to do it alone – seek out counselling and support when you need it

• Be prepared to share your new partner with his or her biological children

• Disengage or lose contact with your biological children when difficulties arise

• Plan rather than ‘let things happen’

• Resent the biological parent’s disciplinary style

“Some family members may be struggling to work out strategies, rules and roles for getting along together,” she says. “Others may be resisting the change and struggling with feelings of dislocation.”

• Show sensitivity to all the children and their differing needs

Stepchildren may also need support, as emotions that occurred during a marriage breakdown or the loss of a parent often resurface. Samantha says children’s feelings of dislocation or sadness may not be readily expressed and adults can be slower to recognise or respond to them.

• Take a long-term view and accept that solutions will evolve over time

“Children need space to talk about their feelings, concerns, fears and hopes,” she says. “Sometimes they might feel comfortable talking to their parents and step-parents, and other times they need to access other supports.”

• Have a big supply of goodwill to weather storms in the early years

• Show respect, gratitude and appreciation for all family members

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THE ‘P’ Files Evolving as a family Despite the challenges, many stepfamilies survive and evolve into strong, nurturing families where the children thrive. Over time, the initial confusion and fear of change is replaced by stability, acceptance and commitment, as each family member grows and adapts in his or her own unique way to the stepfamily dynamics.

Forming bonds with the stepchildren and finding new ways to parent won’t happen overnight, but the good news is that within five years many stepfamilies have resolved their early problems and have settled into a constructive rhythm.

Sources: Stepfamilies Australia, Family Relationship Services Australia, and Margaret Howden’s Stepfamilies: Understanding and responding effectively a briefing paper developed for the Australian Family Relationships Clearing House.

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The ultimate market for your children’s needs! A huge range of pre-loved baby, maternity and kids’ goods are on sale, from prams to cots and toys & books to clothes and shoes. There will be something fun for the kids too, like a jumping castle or face painting.

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Where/when: Central Park, Lakes Street Varsity Lakes from 5-8pm This event will see a variety of performers entertaining the crowds, as well as fireworks and attractions for children and a visit from Santa Claus.

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Where/when: The Gold Coast Arts Centre,135 Bundall Rd, Surfers Paradise from 9am-2pm The Butterfly Tree is a unique boutique market for families with children aged from newborn to teen years. It offers an impressive collection of specially selected vendors with stunning handcrafted pieces including clothing, toys, bedding, decorator items and accessories. Find one-of-a-kind stylish items for the kids in a spacious family-friendly indoor venue.

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An evening of cinema under the stars at the Palm Beach Parklands featuring such movies as The Lion King, The Sound of Music and High School Musical. There will be plenty of food available at the café and remember to bring a picnic blanket!

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Where/when: Bearded Dragon Tavern, Junction of Beaudesert, Beenleigh Rd and Waterford Tamborine Rd, Tamborine on Mondays, Wednesdays and Sundays.

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Where/when: Gold Coast In the weeks leading up to Christmas, the Gold Coast comes alive with a dazzling array of Christmas lights. The Gold Coast City Council has teamed up with Murrays Coaches to provide bus tours of the most impressive displays. Viewing lists will be available in the Gold Coast Bulletin to help plan your visit.

Cost: Bus Tours: Adults $15, children $10, children under one free.

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Where/when: Brisbane Entertainment Centre, Melaleuca Drive, Boondall The Wiggles Greatest Hits is coming home to Australia this December and for the first time ever, you get to pick the songs they sing! Join Jeff, Anthony, Murray and Sam as well as Dorothy the Dinosaur, Captain Feathersword, Wags the Dog and Henry the Octopus for this spectacular production.

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Where/when: Marine Village, Sanctuary Cove, 5pm Co-hosted by Mat Rogers & Chloe Maxwell, the community concert will feature performances by special guest artist Guy Sebastian, Casey Barnes, Special Olympic Dancers, 14-piece Big Band and an array of local youth talent. Santa Claus will also pay a visit.

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A calendar of regular weekly events is available online. For details of playgroups, library activities, weekly sporting events, craft classes, Australian Breastfeeding Association meeting times and much more, visit www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

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December 24

Carrara Markets

Where/when: Carrara Markets, Corner Gooding Drive and Manchester Road, Carrara. 7am-4pm Come and do all your last minute shopping at Carrara Markets.

Freshest produce direct from local growers as well as the weekend market where you can be sure to get bargains, variety, fun, food and fresh produce. Santa will even be there to see the kids!

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Where/when: The Workshops Rail Museum, North Street, North Ipswich.

All aboard! Meet Thomas the Tank Engine, The Fat Controller & their friends from the Island of Sodor. Day out with Thomas 2011 brings to life the popular Thomas & Friends book & television series with entertainment, interactive games & activities.

Cost: Free with admission to the museum Details: www.theworkshop.qm.qld.gov.au

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December 31

New Year’s Eve Fireworks

Where/when: Various Gold Coast locations Say goodbye to 2010 and enjoy the celebrations and entertainment being provided in a number of locations in the Gold Coast including Coolangatta, Surfers Paradise, and Paradise Point.

Be sure to check the Gold Coast City Council website for a full list of locations.

Cost: Costs may apply Details: www.goldcoast.qld.gov.au

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January 23

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Where/when: Gerda Pinter Pavilion, Macintosh Island Park, Gold Coast Highway. Call for times The Queensland Theatre of Puppetry is turning 40 in January and would like to invite readers to celebrate this milestone at the January show. Colourful and interactive, this show leads the audience on a journey to find the secret treasure.

Children are encouraged to come dressed in their favourite pirate costume.

Cost: $5 per person Details: www.qtop.org.au

Where/when: RNA Showgrounds 285 Gregory Terrace, Brisbane from 9am-4pm One huge day of kids’ live shows in the very first ever kids’ music festival featuring Yo Gabba Gabba, Hi-5, Ben 10, Angelina Ballerina and so much more.

Cost: $35 Details: www.rhymesfestival.com.au

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Where/when: 10am-9pm.

Wet’n’Wild Water World, Oxenford 2010 is coming to an end and to celebrate, Wet’n’Wild will be hosting the Biggest’n’Best family New Year’s Eve Party on the Gold Coast. This event offers a host of complementary entertainment and activities in addition to the world class slides and attractions, ending in a fireworks display at 9pm.

Cost: General Admission costs apply Details: www.wetnwild.myfun.com.au

Where/when: Gold Coast Convention and Exhibition Centre from 11am-12.30pm Time-honored stories of Snow White and The Seven Dwarfs, Cinderella and Beauty and the Beast will spring from the storybooks and onto the stage these summer holidays. Along the way you are invited to join the fun by solving clues, dancing, clapping along and singing songs as the stories unfold before your eyes.

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Where/when: Carrara Markets, Corner Gooding Dr & Manchester Road, Carrara.

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The Animal Farm will be sure to keep the kids entertained. Face painting fairy, flying witches, snake handler, buskers & many unique and interesting stalls.

Cost: Free entry Details: www.carraramarkets.com.au

Where/when: Evandale Parklands, 135 Bundall Road, Surfers Paradise 10am-5pm Rodeo thrills and spills, Big Top Precinct, all nations food court, wood chopping and the Dairy Farmer’s Billy Lids Playground.

Cost: Free entry. $3 carnival rides.

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by Kim Robins and Katharine Bogard

The task of choosing a school for your child can be quite time consuming and overwhelming, not to mention nerve-racking. Even the most calm and relaxed parents out there have been known to worry and lose sleep over choosing the ‘right’ school for their kids.

Most parents tend to use their own experiences as a starting point when making a decision about their child’s education and schooling. For many though, the process can very quickly become involved, stressful and exhausting! By arming yourself with a little knowledge and a basic plan you can prevent the exercise from being an awful experience.

When do I actually start sending my child to school?

The first time parents are faced with choosing a school is when their little one is due to enrol in Prep or an early childhood education program.

Kindergarten, also known as Kindy or Pre-Prep, isn’t an official part of school education and it’s not compulsory. Kindy is only part-time and is available for children who turn four by June 30 the year they enrol. Early Childhood Management Services’ Cathy Tighe explains that Kindy is a play-based program and can help to stimulate children’s social, intellectual, physical and emotional development which helps prepare them for school.

If you are unsure whether this is right for your child, Education Queensland’s website offers advice on the process, locations and benefits.

If you forego Kindy, Education Queensland explains the preparatory year (prep) is the first year of school for children in Queensland.

Although prep is non-compulsory, children are legally required to attend school when they are six years and six months old, so they should be enrolled in grade one when they reach this age. In the year that the child is enrolled for grade one, they must turn six by June 30. The enrolment dates at various schools differ.

their younger years and as they approach their adult life. Kids spend a large majority of their waking hours in the school environment so it’s understandable that you would like them to be attending a school where the influences are positive and the aspirations you have for your child are mirrored through school curriculum and policies.

Considerations for your child…

No-one knows your child better than you, so when you are choosing a school for them consider their particular needs and abilities and whether the school has the appropriate support available.

Independent Schools Queensland executive director David Robertson says factors “…such as a school’s curriculum, its discipline policies, its facilities, what extracurricular offerings are available, class sizes and pastoral care support” are important considerations.

Mother of two Raelene Eves agrees that (for primary school children) other factors are more important than the curriculum.

“Predominantly, I wanted to ensure the school I chose was interested in my child,” she says.

Tammy Mitchell was previously a secondary public school teacher, and has recently made the decision to send her child to a private school to begin prep next year.

“A lucky thing for us was that the private schools interview a lot earlier than the public schools start recruiting... so I hadn’t put all my eggs in the one basket,” Tammy says.

“The school I have chosen (about 220 children) has a good curriculum and good policies, including a mentoring program to help new children adjust.

Where to start…

Education Queensland says other issues or considerations you may want to pursue are school size, assessment and reporting procedures, student and parental involvement, homework and assignment expectations, teaching methods and classroom environment, as well as out-of-school-hours care, fees and levies and appropriate class placement for your child.

Thinking about, and making a list of, your specific needs and the needs of your child is a good way to eliminate options that don’t fit the family’s ‘mould’. It can also save you time and energy.

When it comes to choosing a school for your child you are basically deciding not only who will educate them but, just as importantly, who will be the best influence during

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“With the smaller numbers of children, the principal, teachers and staff know my child and me personally, and I believe that this helps stop my child getting ‘lost in the system’.”

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use guidelines and/or syllabuses set out by the Queensland Studies Authority to develop their own objectives, curriculum and school charter. Outside of the basic subjects, specialist subjects are considered based on the school’s philosophy, its community, whether it has a strong sports ethic, strengths in art or music, religion or a purely academic focus.

However, in some cases it’s the teaching philosophy that’s different. Montessori International principal Chiray Fitton says the Montessori system focuses on developing the character and personality of the child rather than academia.

“Everything is interrelated so Montessori tries not to fragment education into separate maths or science lessons,” she says.

What are my options?

Knowing your options is a key factor in helping to decide on the best education environment for your child. Queensland has 1,760 schools comprising 1,300 public primary and high schools, 286 Catholic schools and 174 independent (or private) schools. Approximately 70% of students use the public system and 30% attend non-government or private schools. Home schooling is also an option that is slowly becoming more popular.

Types of schools State Education Queensland is responsible for providing education to all Queensland kids. Although the Department of Education and Training says school principals and parents and citizens associations may charge fees or ask for donations to fund resources, state school are generally regarded as free to Australian citizens.

Catholic The National Catholic Education Commission (NCEC) explains that Catholic schools provide education for Australian students with a religious foundation.

“Like all Australian schools, Catholic schools are accountable to governments and their local communities for meeting all the teaching and learning requirements of the state,” NCEC says.

“They also have distinctive goals and features which derive from a core of philosophical and theological truths.”

Independent Independent Schools Queensland (ISQ) explains that nongovernment schools are also called independent schools. “Independent schools in receipt of Commonwealth and state funding are incorporated non-profit organisations,” ISQ explains.

Where am I? Queensland public schools have zoning restrictions which means if you live outside the school’s catchment area you are usually put on a waiting list in order of application. Particular criteria such as whether siblings attend the school and whether there is a child protection order in place are two of the main factors used to consider admissions.

Zoning rules do not apply to independent schools but Independent Schools Queensland executive director David Robertson says it’s important to contact the school and find out about enrolment procedures. Like public schools, independent schools often give preference “…to siblings of enrolled children, children who live in the local area and children who attend the local affiliated church if it’s a religious school.”

Research…

Once you have considered your specific needs it’s time to look at your options.

“By researching school options and seeking as much information as possible parents can be more confident they will enrol their child in a school that best meets their needs,” David Robertson says.

Research doesn’t necessarily mean countless boring hours scouring through piles of thick school prospectuses, brochures and reports (although they do have heaps of valuable and helpful information). Researching a school for your child can be interesting and fun. Websites are a fantastic source of information and you can even get a ‘feel’ for the school simply by browsing the different pages within their site.

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Questions you may want to ask…

• How available are teachers and staff to parents?

• What’s the staff/student ratio?

The Australian Curriculum, Assessment and Reporting Authority (ACARA) has developed the My School website to enable parents to browse both private and public school profiles.

My School provides information about the socio-economic status of the student body, student attendance rates, staff numbers, national literacy and numeracy testing results and contrasts these results with other schools.

Open days and interviews…

Open days are fantastic because you can walk around the school, look at the facilities and meet the staff and other parents. You can observe the students and how they interact with each other, whether they appear happy and whether they act appropriately towards visitors and teachers.

Coast mum Sharlene Latcham was faced with having to choose a new school for her son recently. “I attended several schools to look at the grounds and to meet teachers and staff so I could get a feel for how each school would suit our needs,” she says.

“I was also really impressed with the interview process. This allowed us to meet the head of Middle School personally and questions were directed to both of us so my son felt he had a say…the research was definitely worth the effort,” she says.

Mum Kim Timms also met with the school before making the decision to enrol her son.

“The deputy principal who interviewed me volunteered heaps of information on their teachers... their commitment to building infrastructure, their commitment to all curriculum subjects, additional projects, and their sustainability projects. We also discussed fees and levies and explained how the levies get distributed across the many projects they had going and will be starting,” Kim says.

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• What are the behaviour management policies?

• How is bullying handled?

• What is the homework policy?

• How many children per class?

• How does the school support students with specific learning, language and/or cultural needs?

• What are the schools reporting and assessment policies?

Other things to consider…

• Does the school offer scholarships or bursaries?

• Is the school single sex or coeducational?

• Are there special arrangements to help you pay fees?

• Do you want a separate primary school, secondary school or combined?

• What is the school’s reputation?

• What are the school’s values?

• Does the school have a sense of community?

• Were you made to feel welcome?

• Are the staff and students happy?

• Is the school well maintained?

• Does it have air conditioning?

• Are there plenty of undercover areas for play?

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Ask your friends…

Word of mouth can also be helpful. If you have trusted friends and family who send their children to a particular school, ask them why they are happy with the school and their opinion on other aspects such as the curriculum, the teachers, communication with parents. Ask if they have had any negative experiences, and how they were handled by the school administration. Kim Timms did just that.

“Reputation was key to my decision,” she says. “I spoke to a lot of local people to gain a feeling about the school.

“I asked what they had heard and… if they believed it was a good school.”

Last but not least…

Once you’ve got things a little clearer in your head, where practical, it’s a good idea to include your child in the decision-making process. Talk to them about your ideas and ask for their opinion and input. Listen to their concerns and you will almost certainly find they will be more accepting of the change and more likely to embrace the new environment when they get there.

It may be time consuming initially but the hard work and research pays off. Not only will you feel confident in your decision but, when they bound through the door after the first day, throw their bag on the floor and announce that they’re ‘starving’, you will know they are happy too!

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Thankfully, there are several methods of contraception that are not only effective, but are also considered safe for both mum and baby.

Continuous breastfeeding, or the Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM), is a popular choice for new mums who want to avoid pregnancy in the immediate months following childbirth. This is mainly because it’s convenient, natural, free, has no side effects and allows for greater sexual spontaneity.

The tricky or important thing to remember is there is an actual method and criteria to fulfil if you want to use breastfeeding as a form of birth control – it’s not, as many have believed, a matter of simply breastfeeding. Continuous and frequent feeding is the key to the likelihood of success.

What does this mean?

For LAM to be successful it’s important to exclusively breastfeed your baby on demand both day and night. This usually means a minimum of six long feeds every 24 hours and not leaving a gap of more than four hours during the day or six hours at night between feeds.

How effective is LAM? The Australian Breastfeeding Association (ABA) says that exclusive breastfeeding is 98-99.5% effective in preventing pregnancy as long as the following conditions are met: • Your baby is less than six months old • Your menstrual periods have not yet returned • Baby is breastfeeding on cue (both day and night), and gets nothing but breast milk or only token amounts of other food

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Coast Mum Jenny’s second child was four months old she discovered she was pregnant with number three, and although she wouldn’t change the circumstances it was definitely a shock to her and her husband.

“I think I was under a misconception because when my first was born, I didn’t take a mini pill and relied on breastfeeding as contraception…I didn’t fall pregnant with number two until later,” Jenny says.

“Not falling pregnant so soon after my first I just assumed I wouldn’t conceive number three while I was breastfeeding.”

Although breastfeeding, or LAM, can be an excellent natural method of birth control when implemented correctly, fertility times for women vary greatly.

The baby’s feeding pattern and how sensitive mum’s body is to the hormones involved in lactation can impact on how effective LAM can be. The ABA recommends if you wish to avoid pregnancy in the first six months, or if menstruation has recommenced, it’s advisable to use some additional form of contraception.

If you like the idea of using your body’s natural rhythms and cycles to prevent pregnancy, another option is the Natural Family Planning (NFP) method. In this method, you track and record your body’s monthly cycle to determine when you are most fertile and when intercourse should be avoided.

Family Planning Queensland (FPQ) explains that NFP methods require a woman to calculate and record their fertile days by “counting cycle length over a period of time or observing signs that ovulation (egg release) is about to or has occurred”.

“During the fertile days a couple need to abstain from sexual intercourse or use a barrier method,” the organisation says.

“Depending on the individual, sex may need to be avoided for 7-14 days during each menstrual cycle.”

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How effective is NFP? FPQ goes on to say that the effectiveness of NFP relies on motivation, length of time using the method and the type of method used to prevent a pregnancy.

“If used correctly every time, these methods are 75-99% effective,” it says.

“This means if 100 women used these methods, between 1 and 25 could become pregnant in a year. It is more successful for couples who have undertaken training with NFP educators.”

Knowing your body and understanding when you are most fertile can be used to both prevent and achieve a pregnancy.

Coast mum Kristy Guest says she has used NFP in the past to achieve pregnancy rather than avoid it, but now that she knows her cycles and is confident when her most fertile times are she feels she can use the same method to prevent another pregnancy.

“Once I got the hang of it, it was quite simple and worked really well for us,” she says.

“But now, (after baby number five!) I can confidently use the method to prevent another pregnancy…for now. It also means I don’t have to take any medication which is great.”

Other choices…

If the LAM or NFP methods don’t appeal to you there are still other options available. Some methods are more effective than others depending on your personal circumstances and health.

If you are considering any hormone based methods of contraception you need to be aware that some hormones will pass into the breast milk. Although the amount is minute, Queensland Health recommends that you discuss the risks and benefits with your doctor prior to implantation. The methods to consider are: The contraceptive pill…

The combined contraceptive pill (contains both oestrogen and progestin) isn’t usually recommended to breastfeeding mums because it can decrease milk supply.

However progesterone-only pills or mini pills are usually safe to use.

Condoms and diaphragms…

Are safe regardless of whether or not you are breastfeeding. They both act as barriers to prevent sperm from entering the cervix. An intra-uterine device (IUD) is another possibility but requires a minor procedure and works by changing the intra-uterine environment and prevents eggs from implanting.

Depo Provera injection…

Is an intramuscular injection that lasts for three months. It is recommended you receive this injection six weeks post delivery to reduce bleeding.

Implanon…

Is a progesterone only implant and is about the size of a matchstick. It’s usually inserted into the inner upper arm and works by slowly releasing progesterone for up to three years, and can be removed sooner if required.

For a more permanent option…

If this was your last planned baby, you may wish to consider a more permanent solution. You can have a tubal ligation (or commonly known as having your ‘tubes tied’) or your partner can opt for a vasectomy.

If you are unsure about the right choice for you and would like to know more about any method of contraception be sure to seek advice from your regular doctor or qualified health professional.

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Snack Avoid the junk food

by Katharine Bogard

for success

Kids love to eat snack food in the afternoon. The problem for parents is finding healthy options that will not exceed their child’s daily energy requirements. Queensland Health’s chief health officer’s report says consistently consuming more than their necessary energy intake potentially leads to future health problems. “Poor diet is estimated to have a major effect on the health of Queenslanders, similar to that of cancer... and about double that of smoking,” it says.

Just as an example, the 2007 Australian National Children’s Nutrition and Physical Activity Survey found 47% of four-year-old boys are exceeding their estimated energy requirements (EER). In contrast, 6% of four-year-old girls are eating less than their EER.

Increasing dairy consumption A survey by the Commonwealth Scientific and Industrial Research Organisation (CSIRO) found children across all ages are not eating enough dairy foods. It reports that calcium is the only nutrient for which the majority of children, across all age groups, are not meeting the EER. Wesley Weight Management Clinic’s accredited practising dietician Catherine Fallon agrees that children have not been consuming the recommended levels of dairy foods, and this has been the basis of advertisements for calcium-rich snacks for kids.

“The recent media attention surrounding calcium in the afternoon as a snack arose in response to recent research that found that up to 84% of school-aged children were not getting the recommended daily serves of dairy,” she says.“Protein-rich foods do provide a number of key nutrients for children, including calcium, iron and magnesium.

“If incorporating dairy-based snacks, low-fat options are the healthier choice.”

A Queensland Health dietician/nutritionists’ consensus document suggests considering breakfast cereal with milk as a snack at any time. Queensland Health suggests kids between 1-8 eat 3-6 dried apricots for afternoon tea, and kids 9-13 consume a banana. Both these fruits provide 20mg of their daily calcium intake.

For children 14 years and above, a banana smoothie in the afternoon can provide more than 20% of their recommended daily calcium.

The Dieticians Association of Australia (DAA) says calcium ensures children grow to have strong bones and teeth.

“Children need three serves of dairy foods each day, with a cup of milk being one serve,” the association explains. “Reduced fat milks are not suitable for young children under two years of age, because of their high energy needs. However reduced fat varieties should be encouraged for older children and adolescents.”

Queensland Health says if cow’s milk is not your preference, a 200ml glass of soy milk will contribute the same amount of calcium. Eating snacks as a source of calcium doesn’t have to be boring either… Catherine points out that two scoops of low fat ice cream are just as beneficial as milk.

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The way kids snack The CSIRO regards snacks as part of a structured diet and reminds parents to remember these little extras. The DAA agrees. “Children are very good at responding to their appetites and therefore may eat most of their food as snacks rather than at meal-times.”

“Aim for your family to eat breakfast, lunch and dinner with scheduled morning and afternoon snacks... Without a meal structure it is easy to eat for the wrong reasons, like boredom, or when you are in a hurry. These situations can lead to unhealthy food choices and over-eating.

“Children need to eat appropriately sized main meals and may also have a healthy between-meal snack. The between-meal snack needs to be eaten at about the same time every day to avoid children ‘grazing’ ...”

Catherine agrees that snacks are part of a child’s diet and schedule. “Snacks are an important part of a child’s day... The key to ensuring appetites are not spoilt in children in particular, is to eat snacks at least two hours before main meals,” she says.

“There’s no single ‘magic’ snack that every child should be eating.

“The best snacks are foods that satisfy hunger and provide lots of nutrients – choosing nutrient-rich snacks and avoiding energy-dense, nutrient-poor snacks is key. Portion sizes are fundamental. Fresh foods that are a source of whole grains, fibre, fruit, vegetables or calcium (dairy) are better choices.

“Sometimes however, we may need to have that packaged snack on hand for convenience,” Catherine says.

Hidden surprises in packaged goods The DAA advises checking the labels when buying packaged snack foods, to ensure they are low in saturated fat, salt and kilojoules. www.kidsonthecoast.com.au

Catherine says ideally a snack should be less than 600kJ. “Check for added sugars by looking at the ingredients list,” she explains. “Some sugars are naturally occurring (those found in milk and fruit) but a food is likely to be high in added sugar if sugar is one of the first two ingredients listed.

“More important than the amount of fat is the type of fat a food contains – aim for less than 2g saturated fat per serve… and target less than 100mg sodium (salt) per serve.”

Healthy and sweet The CSIRO survey found that as children get older, their intake of cereal products and cereal-based products increases considerably.

“In Australian children, a fifth of their fat consumption comes from foods like sweet biscuits, cakes and pastries... These factors lead to high kilojoule intake, which can cause unhealthy weight gain,” it says.

Vegetables and fruit as the perfect snack While children 14-16 eat the least amount of fruit, the survey found kids 2-3 commonly eat the most. However, older kids consume about double the portion of vegetables that younger children do. “After-school snacks are a great opportunity to increase fruit and vegetable intake,” says Catherine.

The DAA has found many people incorrectly think drinking juice is healthy.

Unfortunately, too much juice can diminish kids’ appetites and increase kilojoule intake considerably, posing a health risk. Fresh fruit is preferred.

“Fresh fruit provides a range of vitamins and minerals and adds fibre to the diet.

Children are much more likely to eat small pieces of fruit or fruit that is cut into C pieces,” the DAA explains.

Further Information For more snack ideas visit www.4ingredients.com.au Use the Healthy Eating Self-Assessment tool to determine how your daily food intake compares with the Australian Dietary Guidelines. Visit www.daa.asn.au

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by Fran Maguire

pRimaRY It’s an exciting milestone and yet it doesn’t seem so long ago your proud Year 7 graduate was nervously preparing for their first day at school.

them. Make sure you record the event with photos or videos. Why not have fun ‘little kids’ party food’ and a graduation cake decorated in their primary school colours?

Behind the excitement, your child is sure to be feeling a little trepidation. When they enter high school, not only will they become the ‘little’ kid again, but they are facing a new routine and environment, most likely with more students. There are new friends to make and maybe old friends going on to different high schools or moving away.

For the summer break between schools, why not make the family holiday or day trips part of your child’s transition and take them a step closer to independence?

Ask them to plan the trip, choosing somewhere they really want to visit and aim to do something special there.

The graduation ceremony is a way to mark this milestone, as are the break-up events and swapping keepsakes with friends. It’s a time that will not come again, so how can you make it extra-special for your child and give them a lasting memory they can look back on in years to come?

Christmas is a great opportunity to create a family heirloom to celebrate the momentous occasion that you can bring out each year. Maybe a Christmas plate (your child could design it) or a tree decoration proudly supporting their year of graduation.

A fun-filled party at the start of the holidays can be a special get-together before your child’s friends scatter for the summer. Plan it around a favourite activity: maybe a swim or old-fashioned games at the local park before they think they’re too old for

A piece of jewellery, such as a charm bracelet, can of course become a treasure which gathers importance as it gathers charms. If they don’t have one already, start it off with a special charm that’s a graduation reminder: Maybe an animal or symbol that represents their primary school or an achievement such as a sporting or academic success.

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You may already have treasure boxes or scrapbooks in your family, but if not, it’s a great time to start one to store memories of their time at primary school. It could become a holiday project – pulling together photos, keepsakes, special primary school work and collating them beautifully between two covers. (This is also a great opportunity to plough your way, together, through all of those digital photos, reliving and recording primary school memories before they’re forgotten.)

Friends may be moving to different schools or away, so recording memories with them before they go is especially important. A photo collage can be a wonderful way to cement their friendship. Purchase a large canvas then gather you child’s friends together for a ‘play date’. Give them plenty of floor space and toss a stack of magazines and school images between them. Together they can choose images that encapsulate their experience and stick them on the canvas. Make sure they all sign it and you hang it on your child’s bedroom wall together!

The ‘tween’ and teen years are often a time when social awareness grows and this stepping stone might be a good time for your child to count their blessings. Making a graduation gift through an organisation such as World Vision or The Smith Family not only helps a disadvantaged child but draws attention to the greater community your child is entering.

For animal lovers, the adoption program at Australia Zoo gives the opportunity to make a favourite animal part of the family and funds from adoptions go towards breeding and vital rehabilitation programs. Alma Park Zoo also runs an adoption scheme where fees go towards keeping the chosen animal (including veterinary costs, habitat upgrades, food and enrichment programs). If your child prefers an animal in the wild they can adopt a Mary River turtle, a dolphin or whale.

Whatever your and your child’s choice, what is certain is it is a very special moment in their life, and a precious memento or a lasting celebration of their primary years will be treasured as they find their way through high school and into adult life.

1O ways to help your child prepare for high school 1 Be enthusiastic about their move

2 Attend high school orientation day to help prepare for the transition

3 Make sure travel arrangements to and from school are organised well ahead

4 Talk together about feelings your child might experience 5 Organise the new uniform well before the first day of school

6 Learn about school routines and timetables 7 Help your child to develop good study habits 8 Rearrange their bedroom if they need more space, a desk and bookcases

9 Practise organisational skills in preparation for more independence

10 Discuss emergency and safety issues well ahead

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SANTA Lapland awaits for your dream family holiday

by Wendy Buckley, Travel With Kidz, www.travelwithkidz.com.au

Can you image celebrating Christmas with your family at Santa’s hometown of Rovaniemi in Finland? Wake to snow on the ground, have the real Santa give your children a present, decorate a Christmas tree with Santa’s helpers and enjoy a husky-sleigh-ride over the snow. Does this sound like a Disney movie? This is not just for kids!

Australians wake on Christmas Day to heat and humidity with the kids up early looking anxiously under the Christmas tree. Aussie Christmas Day traditions include a roast in the oven, fresh prawns or a barbecue and to cool off we jump in the pool or visit the local beach. Yet many of us long for the white Christmas we see in the movies.

Your family will think all their Christmases have come at once on this unforgettable experience set in the blue twilight of the Arctic Circle where starry skies and the colourful dance of the Northern Lights create an enchanting atmosphere.

On Christmas Eve, children will visit Santa’s secret forest hideaway down a winding trail where fresh sledge trails and the occasional ‘spilt’ gift indicate the

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magical presence of the man himself. In a little decorated hut, children will enjoy a Christmas Eve snack of chicken paella, dessert rice pudding with berry juice soup and hot drinks with gingerbread cookies. A personal letter from Santa promises them that if they help feed his forest friends of birds and other animals, he will pay them a special visit in the evening.

Other highlights include joining Santa’s helpers searching for and decorating Christmas trees, obtaining an ‘International Reindeer Driver’s Licence’ and partaking in a special Lapp ceremony of crossing the Arctic Circle. During the tour children will also meet Santa and receive a present as well as visit the Snowfun site for awesome activities such as mini-snowmobiles, four-wheeled forest scooters, kick sledges, tobogganing, ice fishing, ice golf, snow hockey and more – all washed down with hot drinks served by the campfire throughout the day.

Experience the wonders of snow and ice at Lake Lehtojärvi, Rovaniemi!

Arctic SnowHotel offers you an exotic opportunity to spend a night sheltered by snow and surrounded by picturesque and placid Lappish nature.

The SnowHotel (as the name suggests) is made of snow and ice. You can sleep in a warm sleeping bag safe from the cold and dark winter night. Frost will not spoil the enchanting peace and quiet of the rooms because the temperature always stays between 0 and −5ºC, even in extremely cold weather. Live the dream with your family before they grow up, and have a white Christmas in Santa’s hometown.

Kid-friendly activities in SANTA’S hometown SANTA CLAUS VILLAGE There are many souvenir shops, cafés and restaurants here as well as Santa’s Main Post Office where all the mail is sorted. And of course, Santa is there too, in his chamber every day of the year.

CHRISTMAS EXHIBITION – CHRISTMAS HOUSE This exhibition covers today’s Christmas customs as well as centuries-old Finnish and foreign Christmas traditions.

SANTAPARK Santa Claus’s Office is in a mysterious grotto in the depths of the earth. Meet Santa’s little elf helpers at work, study at the Elf School or decorate gingerbread figures with Mrs Claus.

ARCTIC CIRCLE HUSKYPARK Huskies just love to run, and the sensation of gliding through this winter wonderland behind a team of eager huskies is a highlight for young and old. Children ride sitting with a parent, whilst grown-ups can all take a turn at actually ‘driving’ their own sled on this thrilling 15-minute adventure.

JOULUKKA ADVENTURE FOREST This reindeer sleigh ride is an ideal way to move around the area, and you can hop on and off as needed within the park.

JOULUKKA ELF SCHOOL Warm up with a fun lesson at the Joulukka Elf School, where children can join in a session of learning all about elfin tricks, songs and traditions. They also get to decorate their own tasty gingerbread.

ARCTICE – WINTER WONDERLAND The icy ambience of Arctice’s large igloo literally reaches from the floor to the ceiling. The art gallery is filled with animal figures and story characters that are carved out of ice in stunning detail. The ice bar and café serve kids with raspberry red beverages and adults with icy clear drinks – and the drinking glasses are made out of ice, of course!

100% SLIDE This fierce but safe ride is one of the greatest achievements of the art and science of slide-making. The speedy ride will tickle your toes and tug at the bottom of your belly. Settle into the snowtube – and brace yourself! A large slide has been built for grown-ups, while kids can race down a slightly smaller one.

RANUA WILDLIFE PARK There are about 60 species of arctic and northern wild animals at Ranua Zoo, including the only polar bears in Finland, lynx, wolf, wolverine, moose and many, many more.

SEARCH FOR SANTA The highlight of the day is setting off by snowmobile-sled on your family’s own search for Santa! Tucked away in the woods you will find his little log-cabin home, and meet Santa Claus himself in an exclusive, private family meeting, with his helpers on hand to ensure there is magic in the air.

ARKTIKUM Arktikum is a science centre and a museum. The exhibition of the Arktikum leads you through Arctic and Finnish Lapland’s human and natural history.

Find out about the life of the moose and bear in the wild, take a glimpse at city birds and learn about the pearl industry.

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Cedar Glen has been in the Stephen’s family since 1882. Located at the foot of World Heritage Lamington National Park, this spectacular 1050 acre property is home to beef cattle, Arabian horses, milking cows, sheep, pigs and poultry. With private swimming holes, shady 100-year-old trees and cool summer breezes, Spring and Summer are great times to visit. Imagine the kids’ excitement as they get to feed the animals twice daily, or try their hand at milking the house cow each morning.

A real highlight of Cedar Glen is the activities they have to offer. Don’t miss the opportunity to embark on a horse ride through some of South East Qld’s most spectacular country – riders of all ages and experience are catered for.

You can also learn how to throw a returning boomerang and crack the Australian stock whip while enjoying a cup of billy tea and freshly made damper.

Guests can stay in the stately 1901 homestead, or choose one of three historic cottages which have been renovated to maintain the charm and authenticity of a bygone era. All buildings are surrounded by wide breezy verandas perfect for a summer siesta. Mums in particular will love the optional fully catered holiday.

Imagine leaving even the cooking behind!

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S W e i REV BOOK TRUE BLUE SANTA

By Anne Mangan If you are after a truly Aussie Christmas book, then this may be the one. Hannah and Jack decide that they need the help of Santa to make Christmas festivities more Australian and so the story unfolds.

Fun and charming pictures illustrate this magical story.

Suitable for ages 3-6. A very reasonable price for a hardback at $15.

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CHRISTMAS AROUND THE WORLD

By Chuck Fischer This is a charming pop-up book depicting scenes from various countries at Christmas. There are also pull-outs and booklets to help describe the differences between cultures. There are scenes such as a snowy German village and even a 3-D sleigh to pull-out and erect. Suitable for all ages. RRP: $40.

SOMETIMES LIFE SUCKS

By Molly Carlisle This is a very significant book for teenagers dealing with the pain of loss. It includes practical tips and stories to assist in coming to terms with death and the struggles it brings. This book is written with sensitivity and expertise. Suitable for ages over 13. RRP: $20.

MR BANDICOOT AND OTHER TALES

By Anne Lawson When Anne’s kids were small she used to make up songs for them.

Years later, she has collaborated with illustrators Hugo Moline and Heidi Axelsen, and singer Kate Rowe to create this delightful collection of songs and accompanying CD. The style is charmingly old-fashioned. This would make a lovely Christmas gift for a new parent and is suitable for preschool children. Available at www.ribandicoot. com. RRP $40 which includes postage.

THE ABC BOOK OF GREAT AUSSIE STORIES FOR YOUNG PEOPLE

By Bill ‘Swampy’ Marsh A sometimes far-fetched, but always entertaining collection of yarns from the bush. There are stories about shearers, railways, flying doctors and drovers.

A good experience for those more familiar with cities and the coast than the Australian outback. Suitable for ages over 13. RRP: $15.

THE VEGETABLE ARK THE SONG OF THE WINNS: THE GERANDER TRILOGY. BOOK 1

By Frances Watts This is the first book in a really wellwritten adventure. It follows a group of brave mice who need to overcome prejudice and peril while unravelling a mystery. Along the way they meet all sorts of interesting characters, some more pleasant than others. Suitable for ages 8-12. RRP: $15.

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By Kim Kane This quirky picture book tells the tale of Noah and his very different brother, Neil.

While Noah does very well at everything, Neil is a bit of a loner who doesn’t do so well at school. As they grow, Noah becomes a rather large and wealthy show-off and Neil becomes a peaceful hippie with a vegetable garden. When the rain comes, the story unfolds and they both have their own means of survival. Suitable for ages 4-6 with very interesting illustrations. RRP: $30.

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Rating: PG Release date: December 2 Lucy and Edmund return to Narnia with their cousin Eustace where they meet up with King Caspian for a trip across the sea aboard the royal ship The Dawn Treader. Along the way they encounter dragons, dwarves, merfolk, and a band of lost warriors before reaching the edge of the world. Starring Ben Barnes, Skandar Keynes, Georgie Henley and Will Poulter.

Rating: G Release date: December 26 Yogi’s exploits take place in Jellystone Park, where he and Boo Boo get into good-natured mischief and must elude their nemesis, Ranger Smith. Features the voices of Dan Aykroyd, Justin Timberlake and Anna Faris.

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Gulliver’s Travels 3D Rating: PG Release date: December 26 In a contemporary re-imagining of the classic tale, Jack Black stars as Gulliver, a big-talking mailroom clerk.

After he’s mistakenly assigned a travel piece on the Bermuda Triangle, Gulliver finds himself a giant among men when he washes ashore on the hidden island of Lilliput, home to a population of very tiny people.

At first he is enslaved by the diminutive and industrious Lilliputians, but later declared their hero, Gulliver comes to learn that it’s how big you are on the inside that counts.

Starring Jason Segal, Jack Black, Amanda Peet, Emily Blunt and Billy Connolly.

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