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What Parents are Talking About

Active Kids are

Healthy Kids

Finding a Baby Sitter Just got Easier!

The Return of the

All Boys School

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Contents Departments

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Ice Cream!

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Have you ever thought about the history of ice cream? It’s not just a summer treat!

Learn what you can do to maximize your child’s growth?

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The Return of the All Boys School

PREGNANCY

Building Solid Foundations for a Lifetime

BABY

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Features 20

Finding a Baby Sitter, Just got Easier!

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Active Kids are Healthy Kids

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Winter Wonderland

Explore the Royal Naval Dockyard this Holiday season.

LITTLE ONES

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Finding a Baby Sitter, Just Got Easier

Jobber.bm is taking some of the stress out of finding a sitter.

HEALTH & WELLNESS

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Organizing Your Tween’s Home Life 5 Simple and Effective Tips.

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Don’t Get Caught Out This Cold & Flu Season

11 Tips to stay healthy over winter.

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Awesome Mom

Brendalee White, a single parent, who pulled out all the stops for her children.

FAMILY FINANCES

Simple ways to implement an active lifestyle for the whole family.

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Education: to Pay or Not to Pay

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Mind the [Pension] Gap

Active Kids are Healthy Kids Today and for a Lifetime

BIG KIDS

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On the Cover

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Photo By: BNK Images

TWEENS & TEENS

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The Return of the All Boys School

Jelani Butterfield & Rae Butterfield-Russell

Chatmore Preparatory a unique answer for educating boys.

How to Get Your Child To Practice

An age old problem with more alternatives than you would think.

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Top Tips to Save on the Light Bill This Holiday Is education a priority for you and your child?

Why its never too early to be thinking about pensions and retirements.

In Every Issue

Giving Pets as Gifts

Think about these tips and benefits before giving a pet as a gift.

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editor’s note

an you believe it’s almost the end of the year already?

So much has happened in 2014 from our Spring issue that focused solely on Child Sexual Abuse to our special directory style edition called ‘Go, Play, See’ that provided a comprehensive listing of activities for your child and family to get involved in. If you’ve missed any of our issues, visit our website to read them online.

As I was reading through the articles in this issue I got excited about the overarching theme of Building Solid Foundations ‘in our Family’ for a Lifetime (read p 10). Starting with a recipe for Snowman Marshmallow Pops that will bring you and the kids together and is sure to be a hit. Also, Awesome Mom on page 50, how Brendalee White, a single parent, sacrificed and made a way for her three children to be able to pursue their dreams through to university.

We know that this season is about giving, but be sure you Don’t Get Caught Out this Cold and Flu Season (p 48), Alicia Resnik shares eleven tips to building a resilient immune system for you and your kids.

Earlier this year I ran the Appleby May 24th Half Marathon Derby with my husband. We consistently ran every Sunday starting from November 2013 to prepare, while getting my parents to babysit. Once the race was over we stopped running. Months later my husband started running again, my five year old asked to join him, although it was short lived (he preferred to play football), I saw the benefit of maintaining an active lifestyle so that they would follow in our footsteps. So, I was excited to read Michelle Jackson’s article on Active Kids are Healthy Kids for Today and a Lifetime (p 22) which renewed me to start exercising around our kids and now both kids are mimicking our exercises.

Another must read is Mind the [Pension] Gap (p 58), don’t get caught thinking you can wait to plan for your retirement, have a good think about what Lisa Lewis has to say on this topic.

Wishing You Happy Holidays and the Very Best in 2015, from the Bermuda Parent Team.

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CELEBRATE YOUR CHILD’S BIRTHDAY! Riana & Ra’mya & Ryan Robinson October 5 & December 11 & September 9

Happy Birthday to my two princesses and special birthday wishes for a very special boy! XO Mom & Daddy.

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Happy 4th Birthday to mommy’s little princess!!! Ke’alah you are the most beautiful, intelligent, funny and outgoing little girl I know. I am so grateful to have you in my life.

Have a beautiful day baby love Mommy & baby Brother Ke’Nahri!!!!

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The purpose of our neurodevelopmental program is to help parents maximize the critical periods of brain development during the first years of life.

Brain development continues throughout life, depending on the environmental stimuli.

From conception, nature has provided a natural, predictable, sequential development for everyone.

BSMART’s neurodevelopmental stimulation program builds the connections between brain cells so that your baby will reach each milestone in sequence and be well on their way to reach their development potential.

The activities presented are sequentially arranged and are important for developing the foundations needed for successful learning. Each child’s rate of development differs.

Ideally all children will pass through these normal, sequential, predictable stages.

You can nurture your child’s development by providing opportunities for your child to enjoy and participate in our stimulating environment.

At SMART Start Playgroup your baby will: Have fun playing Enjoy being with other babies Explore a new world with new experiences Develop a weekly routine Play with different toys Relate to other adults Learn and develop new skills At BSMART’s SMART Start Playgroup you will: Get out of the house Chat with other parents Make new friends Share experiences Learn about what you can do to help your little one on the path towards their optimal developmental and life time success!

Physically active pre-school children perform better in kindergarten and grade school. With age appropriate exercises and group activities, our SMART Start provides a different context for learning.

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BY DUNCAN HALL

Finding a

Baby Sitter,

Just Got Easier!

A new online service that seeks to match parents with willing and qualified babysitters is promising to help parents put some ‘couple time’ back into their busy lives.

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aunched in April, jobber. bm is an online, interactive job market where people needing help with various tasks can post jobs – and those looking for cash-in-hand work can bid for them.

In August, child care/ babysitting was added to the range of work categories.

“When a couple has two trusted babysitters, their social life revolves around the availability of those two people,” says website founder Stafford Lowe. “It doesn’t have to be that way. There are other qualified people out there, and jobber.bm will help you to find them.”

Before launching the new service, Lowe convened a focus group of six mothers to determine what they would look for in an online service to identify babysitters. “Two of the biggest things to come out of the focus group were a need to see some sort of CPR qualification, and also an awareness of child sexual abuse,” he says.

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Soon thereafter, Lowe and his wife, Laura, took a course offered by SCARS (Saving Children and Revealing Secrets), a Bermuda registered charity that was formed to create greater awareness of the devastation that child sexual abuse can cause in the life of an innocent child, their affected family and community.

They now recommend the course to friends – and to parents seeking

babysitters, as well as babysitters seeking work.

Helpfully, the Bermuda Red Cross offers a babysitting course for boys and girls ages 12-16, teaching the skills required to be an effective babysitter. The 16-hour course also qualifies the person in adult, infant and child CPR and basic first aid. The CPR/ first aid qualification is valid for two years.

As a precaution, potential babysitters on jobber.bm must provide at least one (and preferably two) references before they are allowed to bid on a job. Jobber.bm allows its users to become “verified” which means that they must provide some form of identification - a driver’s license or the photo page from a passport. Potential babysitters are strongly advised to provide this identification and parents posting babysitting jobs are strongly advised to request that a bidder gets verified by the website during the pre-vetting process.

When someone posts a babysitting job on the website, they receive a message that includes a checklist of recommendations compiled by jobber.bm with the assistance of SCARS and the Red Cross.

Posters are advised to check all references and if possible arrange to meet the potential babysitter to check their photo ID and certificates. They are advised to ask the “jobber” to become ‘verified’ on the website, and to ask if they have taken the aforementioned courses offered by the Red Cross and SCARS – and can produce the certificates issued by those organisations upon completion of the courses. They are also advised that they can ask questions of potential ‘jobbers’ while retaining their anonymity through the website.

“By listing those recommendations, we help the babysitter to know how to give themselves the best chance of getting the job – and, for parents, we teach them how to vet people who are new to them by saying ‘here are the certifications and accreditations to look out for’,” Lowe says.

“The website also allows people to rate those who have done work for them so if you are looking for a babysitter you will be able to see what other parents have written. But even if all of those things check out, we strongly recommend meeting with a potential babysitter before you leave your children in their care. If you are

planning on going out on a Friday, post the job on Monday or Tuesday. The bids will come in very quickly, so that gives you the time to actually decide which bids to take a look at, time to check out their references and time to meet people beforehand.”

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BY MICHELLE JACKSON, Executive Vice President, Group Insurance, The Argus Group

Active Kids

are Healthy Kids – Today and for a Lifetime

Obesity, congenital heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure, sleep problems and cancer; this sounds like a list of health concerns for an older person in poor health but, sadly, these illnesses are now being seen in today’s youth.

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Health Survey of Adults and Children in Bermuda 2006, commissioned by the Department of Health, showed 36 per cent of children aged five- to 10-years old were overweight or obese. This is causing health problems at alarming rates.

Lifestyle choices are a leading cause of disease, so we need to consider how we can raise healthy, active children.

Thankfully, children naturally want to jump, run, dance and climb. In fact,

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it is recommended that children should only be inactive for an hour at a time, aside from when they’re sleeping. Unfortunately this isn’t happening, which is part of the problem. Children are not getting the exercise they need because neither are many parents. Children look to adults to teach them how to talk, socialise, read and write. But adults also pass on attitudes and behaviours that will remain with children for life. If children don’t see their parents being

active on a regular basis, they won’t consider being active as a priority for themselves.

With today’s busy lifestyles, many families find it difficult to include exercise in their daily routine. As a society, we need to encourage our kids to be active for optimal health. Health care organisations, educators, government and caregivers are focusing on active children but the best place to start is at home.

At a minimum, children should get 60 minutes of moderate to vigorous exercise every day. For young toddlers, exercise can include supervised, unstructured play that allows them to follow their curiosity and learn about the world around them. Preschoolers with slightly longer attention spans might enjoy short games, such as finding things hidden around the house, mixed in with play time. Elementary-aged kids and those in their teens can participate in organised sports that require more coordination and a greater attention span.

However, these are simply guidelines, and it is important to find activities that your child enjoys and that fit their skills and interests. Not everyone functions well in a team environment.

Some kids may be afraid of a ball, so pressuring them to participate in related activities – and expecting them to enjoy it and stick with it – is not reasonable. For other children, inde-

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pendent activities such as bike riding or swimming will suit them best. Keeping your kids’ – and your own – interests in mind, there are fun and easy ways to be active. It’s also a great way to spend time together as a family. The key is to keep it fun and simple so that everyone will happily join in.

If parents can help their children find an enjoyable activity, this hobby will likely become a lifelong habit for healthy living – a wonderful gift that parents can give their children.

Fun Ideas for Active Families

A current fitness craze is the 30-day challenge. Why not design your own challenge by putting together a month of daily fit activities. You could work together as a family to come up with 30 fun and unique ideas such as dancing to every family member’s favourite song, hop around the garden or pretend to shoot hoops and dribble a ball in the living room.

Work exercise into regular activities. If you’re watching TV, do three sets of 10 sit-ups during every commercial break. Stop and do 10 squats every five minutes while waiting for dinner to cook. Or choose a commonly used word in your house and make it a rule that everyone has to do 10 jumping jacks every time it is said. Encourage a competitive spirit and make it a contest to see who can do the most exercise in a day.

Hit the beach. Walking on sand

burns more than twice the energy of what you burn walking on flat, hard surfaces. While there, build a huge sand castle and burn an extra 100 to 200 calories an hour. Or just give the kids a bucket of chalk and a driveway and they will draw, while moving, squatting, jumping and running. It’s all about encouraging your children to move.

If you realise you have not had enough activity for the day, go for a walk. Walk around the block, choose your favourite corner of the Island to explore or visit the Wellness Resources on the Argus website at www.argus.bm for a list of walking routes. As a family, walking together can help everyone reconnect without the interruptions of phone calls, emails and other daily distractions. Plus, getting outside has the added benefit of being amongst neighbours, seeing the scenery – promoting a sense of mental and social well-being, important for a holistic health regimen.

Getting started is the hardest part.

Once your family develops a habit of exercising every day, everyone will feel stronger and happier. Physical activity not only helps to prevent many diseases, but it also builds strong bones and muscles, improves sleep, improves social lives, helps with weight control and helps create an overall positive outlook on life. It’s an investment in your health and happiness.

Michelle Jackson, is Executive Vice President, Group Insurance at the Argus Group, with the responsibility of overseeing the Group Insurance department which includes Health Insurance, Group Life and Disability as well as Worker’s Compensation. Michelle joined the company in 2004. She is a YouthNet mentor and a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated. www.argus.bm

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notice

Dogs and Horses on Public Beaches

The Department of Parks is informing the general public that as of the 1st November 2013, the 1988 Bermuda National Park Regulations have changed regarding dogs and horses on the public beaches, under the jurisdiction of the 1986 Bermuda National Parks Act.

Notice

Dogs are permitted to be on the public beaches until the 31st March 2015.

Dogs and Horses on Public Beaches The dogs must be on a leash at all times.

During this period until the 30th April 2015 horses are NOT permitted on the following beaches at any time:

1. John Smith’s Bay Park

The Department of Parks is informing the general public 2. Elbow Beach Park that as of the 1st November 2012, the 1988 Bermuda 3. Horseshoe Bay Beach ( South Shore Park )dogs National Park Regulations have changed regarding Thehorses cooperation dog kennel operators, owners of and on theofpublic beaches, underand the the jurisdiction in abiding by theNational regulations, is greatly ofdogs, the 1986 Bermuda Parks Act. appreciated.

Dogs are permitted to be on the public beaches until the 31st March 2013.

The dogs must be on a leash at all times.

During this period until the 30th April 2013 horses are NOT permitted on the following beaches at any time: 1.

John Smith’s Bay Park

2.

Elbow Beach Park

3.

Horseshoe Bay Beach ( South Shore Park )

The cooperation of dog kennel operators, and the owners of dogs, in abiding by the regulations, is greatly appreciated.

Bermuda National Park Regulations 1988 6.Bermuda No person shall, being the owner of,or in control of, a dog – National Park Regulations 1988

Bermuda National Park Regulations 1988

Special provision

1. (1) Subject to paragraph (2), no person shall, in any protected area relating to horses. (a) take a horse other than on designated roadways or trails; (b) ride a horse in a manner likely to cause danger to any person therein;

Bermuda National Park Regulations 1988

(c) ride a horse at a speed greater than fifteen kilometers per hour; 1. (1) Subject to paragraph (2), no person shall, in any (d) being inprotected control ofarea a horse leave the horse unattended when it is not properly tied to some suitable object, other than a tree or shrub; (a) take a horse other than on designated roadways or trails; (e) lead from horse-back a riderless horse which is not appropriately bridled;(b) ride a horse in a manner likely to cause danger to any person therein; (f ) lunge or break in any horse; (c) ride a horse at a speed greater than fifteen kilometers (g) ride a horse in excess of a slow walk when passing in the vicinity per hour; of other members of the public using the area. (d) being in control of a horse leave the horse unattended when it is not properly tied to some suitable object, other than a BERMUDA NATIONAL PARKS AMENDMENT REGULATIONS 1994 tree or shrub; In exercise of the powers conferred upon the Minister by section 25 (e) lead from horse-back riderless which is not of the Bermuda National parks Acta 1986, thehorse following regulations appropriately bridled; are hereby made: (f) lunge or break in any horse; Amendment of BR 49/1988

(g) ride a horse 5 (2) During the periodin– excess of a slow walk when passing in the vicinity of other members of the public using the area. (a) 1st November to 30th April in any year no person shall take BERMUDA PARKS AMENDMENT REGULATIONS area; or on to any public beach in a protected area during or ride NATIONAL a horse on Horseshoe Bay, John Smith’s Bay and 1994 (b)protected bring such dog Elbow Beach but may take or ride a horse on all other public the period from the 1st April to the 31st October in any year; or In exercise of the powers conferred upon the Minister by section (b) bring such dog on to any public beach in a protected area during beaches below theNational high water mark at any time; 25 of the Bermuda parks Act 1986, the following regulations the period from the 1st April to the 31st October in any year; or (c) subject to paragraph (b), bring such dog on to any protected area are May hereby (b) 1st tomade: 31st October in any year no person shall take a leash greater than threesuch meters length, (c)using subject to paragraph (b), bring doginon to anyor protected area or ride a horse on Horseshoe Bay, Johns Smith’s Bay, Elbow Amendment of BR 49/1988 a leash greater thansuch threedog meters in length, or (d)using cause, permit or suffer to annoy or disturb any person Beach and Shelly Bay but may take or ride a horse on all 5 (2) During the period – any protected (d)incause, permit orarea. suffer such dog to annoy or disturb any person in other public beaches below the high water mark between any protected area.

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How To Get Your Child To Practice…

An Age-Old Problem

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*”When I was your age I would have given anything to be able to take music lessons.” *”If you don’t practice, we’ll have to stop lessons.” *”Just wait until you grow up. You’ll be sorry that you didn’t practice.” *”I wish my mother had made me practice when I was young!”

have often been asked by parents, “How do you get your children to practice?” I find that many parents perceive only two alternatives: Either grit your teeth and coerce the child to the bitter end or give up and spare everyone the daily battle.

Some parents give up because they believe it is not fair

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to force their own wishes on the child, all the while knowing that the child has talent, which ought to be developed.

Others give up when the child’s interest wanes, and they accept it as a sign of lack of talent, which justifies quitting lessons. Some parents are simply at their wits end to find a way to motivate the child and are tired of all the nagging.

None of these alternatives need be the case.

People are motivated only if they choose to be. All that parents and teachers can do is create an environment which sparks an interest in music and an inner desire to learn. What motivates one person may not motivate another. A child who is involved in the study of music draws motivation from various sources. As an individual gains experience in something, the reasons he or she has for doing it may change.

Beginning with the lowest maturity levels and working upward toward self-propulsion, an individual may find all kinds of reasons to practice:

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With music, unlike academic or scientific fields of endeavor, it is too late to wait until a child matures to start practicing. It must begin in the early years of childhood when the motivators must come from outside sources.

There is much work involved in getting a child to the blossoming stage of *Rewards and Consequences musical development, but the rewards “I practice because my Mom pays me 50 cents are endless. every day that I do.” *selected excerpts written by Cynthia V. Richards “I practice because I can’t play until I do.”

This article was presented by the Bermuda School of Music. A registered *Human Relationships Bermuda charity #483, the Bermuda “I practice because my folks say I have to.”

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hildren and pets go together like macaroni and cheese. They bring certain advantages to each other’s lives and can lead to happy, confident and well-adjusted children and pets. There are a few basic things to keep in mind when you’re thinking about adding a pet to your family. A pet is a big responsibility and will require your time, attention and money. Please do your homework and research the particular pet you are thinking about getting. Call the SPCA, Bermuda Feline Association Bureau or the Animal Hospital before committinis promising to help parents put some ‘couple time’ back into their busy lives.

If you already have a pet and you will be bringing a new baby home, please remember that this can be a stressful time for your pet and the introductions should be done slowly and appropriately. Your cat or dog was most likely your first ‘baby’ and should not just be forgotten about once you have a baby. There are steps you can take before bringing the baby home to ensure your pet is prepared for the new arrival.

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you have a new baby in the house.

If your pet is used to spending a lot of time with you, try to lessen that attachment as soon as you find out your expecting. This isn’t to say go from doing everything with your pet to doing nothing, just slowly get your pet used to spending a little less time with you every week. This will decrease separation anxiety once the baby arrives and your time is more in demand.

Use baby powder, baby soaps and baby lotion on yourself before the baby comes home. This will get the pet used to the smells.

Do not force your pet to automatically bond with the baby. If everyone is calm and the introductions are always done with adult supervision, the child and the pet will bond when they both feel comfortable enough.

There are many advantages to owning a pet when you have children. They range from social to physical and even include emotional and cognitive advantages.

Social • A pet is a friend and will become a confidant for your child.

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Children who do not like to read out loud to others will almost always prefer to read to a pet.

Physical • Children with pets go outside more.

They go for walks or just run around with their pets.

• Children raised with pets are less likely to develop allergies or asthma.

• Pets have been proven to lower blood pressure and stress levels.

• Cat purrs have been proven to increase the speed of healing of broken bones.

Emotional • Pets boost self-esteem and self-confidence.

• Pets teach children empathy and compassion.

• Pets are also great teachers of responsibility.

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Remember that you, the parents, will be responsible for the pet for its entire life so make sure you really want a pet.

Examine your lifestyle and travel habits before you get a pet. If you know you travel frequently or spend a lot of time away from your house, you may not have the best environment for a pet. Make sure you are able to give your pet everything they need as far as spaying or neutering, annual vaccinations, flea and worm preventative and emergency care if the need arises.

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“I scream you scream we all scream for ice-cream!” The joy of ice cream

doesn’t have to end with summer, there’s nothing more wonderful than the cool taste of vanilla melting on your tongue or, the delicious feeling of chocolate tantalizing your taste-buds. Who invented this wonderful dessert and what is the history of “iced-cream?”

Dating as far back as the 4th and 5th century BC, people around the world have enjoyed iced delicacies. The Roman Emperor Nero, ordered snow and ice to be brought down from the mountains and mixed with fruit. The Greeks made an iced treat by mixing ice with honey and fruit. The Persians enjoyed a sweet delicacy of vermicelli and iced rosewater which they mixed with fruits and saffron. The Mughal Emperors in the 16th century used horsemen to bring ice from Hindu Kush to Delhi to make fruit sorbets. Historians tell us

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that Charles I of England offered a lifetime pension to his “iced-cream” maker on the condition that he keep the formula for making the treat a secret! The American Presidents George Washington and Thomas Jefferson served ice cream to their guests. George Washington loved the dessert so much he had ice cream coolers installed in his house!

If you lived in the 1800’s, you better have strong arm muscles! Ice cream had to be made manually - in large bowls that were packed with ice and salt. Ice was hard to come by and this made ice cream a rare and expensive treat. Fortunately, by the 1830’s, ice-making machines were invented and ice cream became more readily available. And in 1851 the first commercial ice cream factory opened in Baltimore, Maryland. Ice cream was now sold in stores for everyone to enjoy!

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Chatmore Preparatory The Return of the All

Boys School!

Our school officially opened in September 2012 and evolved from a need to provide boys in Bermuda with an inclusive learning environment that also addressed their language, social-emotional development and individual learning styles particularly between the ages of 5-14 years of age. In January 2014, we became the first school in Bermuda to be Members of The Council of British Schools making us Bermuda’s only British International School.

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e implement the International Primary Curriculum (IPC) and the International Middle Years Curriculum (IMYC) as it offers a thematic reflective and transformative learning approach that allows our students the time and opportunity to absorb Knowledge, practice Skills and reflect on their personal and joint Understanding of the information – at 40

their own pace - while assimilating their specific experiences to those of others in the group. This does not mean that students are not challenged to achieve high standards – it means that within their group they are able to achieve high standards relevant to their individual pace of learning.

As a whole school we also intentionally practice the Responsive Classroom approach which is a social emotional learning programme associated with greater teacher effectiveness, higher student achievement, and improved school climate. Teachers work with students to produce competent workers, civic and global-minded citizens, creative thinkers, bold innovators, collaborative team players and innovative leaders. During the first six weeks of school, as a group, the boys work together and learn how to develop cooperative skills and with their teacher’s support the goal is to incorporate their social-emotional development into their academic learning.

Like our curriculum, the Responsive Classroom approach is transformative learning and requires the support of parents, teachers and the entire school community in order to be effective.

Our relationship with Windreach, Bermuda is also deliberate in its approach. Windreach offers the benefit of site-based therapeutic services (sensory room, petting zoo, animal care, therapeutic riding and sustainable development). The facility is purpose-built to assist with the needs of individuals who may require a more hands-on or therapeutic approach to learning. It also exposes our students daily to an inclusive and supportive mindset that prepares them for global interaction and cognitive adaptability from very early in their development.

What are the benefits to attending an all-boys school?

We believe strongly in the benefits of an all-boys education. As the International Boys’ Schools Coalition (IBSC) so eloquently states, students at all-boys’

schools gain confidence in their ability to learn without being compared to girls who mature more quickly.

Although experience clearly affects the development and wiring of the brain, growing evidence suggests that gender also seems to be a contributing factor in brain development. In general, researchers agree that • Boys have a higher physical activity level and develop self-control later than girls.

• Girls seem to show stronger verbal skills and demonstrate empathy more readily than boys.

This means that there are probably more boys who are more active more often in the classroom and more girls who more often show strengths in using words verbally and in writing. (http:// www.ascd.org/ascd-express/vol5/512newvoices.aspx) All-boys schools encourage boys to participate in all activities including the arts, athletics and community service, and they promote self-expression and a respect for the many different paths to manhood.

If any what are the disadvantages to attending an all-boy school?

In our decision as parent to choose the best school environment for our children, where appropriate, we typically identify advantages and disadvantages and our final choice is usually based on a combination of personal experiences, beliefs and standards. According to the New York Times (Lewin, 2011) the strongest argument against single gender education is that is reduces boys and girls opportunities to work together and other purported disadvantages include the possibility that students will not learn to tolerate the idiosyncrasies of opposite gender and be unable to relate to the opposite gender as adults (Novotney, APA, Monitor on Psychology, February 2011). At the moment there is no long term research to support this notion and of course the data would have to apply to all girls’ school continued on page 47

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Set up a home office or study space. Create a designated area where your tween or teen can do his or her school work as well as store binders and exercise books.

This area should also have all the supplies they need.

From colorful markers to correction tape and binder paper, give your teen the ultimate stationery cabinet! Everything should be centralized so it can be easily located and used immediately when needed. This is particularly helpful for students who have weak executive functioning skills. Multiple sources spread throughout the house; for instance, only creates confusion and sadly, frustrates students whereby they become easily distracted and unable to stay-on-task.

With the first term of school near completion, many parents and students should by now have found their rhythm or routine.

On the contrary, others may be feeling overwhelmed; while another percentage may be looking forward to the next school break. I wish I could promise an easy, fun experience for everyone, but unfortunately, I cannot. The middle and high school years

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From shoe boxes to towel rolls, you’ll be amazed how these items can be transformed into mini filing cabinets or pen/pencil holders. Check out the Dollar Store or the Barn for cups, baskets, or other cool items to store school supplies. The next time you decide to throw out an item, ask yourself if it can be recycled. Trust me, a little creativity may save you from spending hundreds of dollars.

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as well. To date there appears to be no conclusive research to support any major disadvantages to an all-boys school.

What is your response to “We live in a coed world, shouldn’t education reflect that through coed education?

I think that many people believe that a focus on exclusively boys education means that there will be less attention to girls. With all the hard work placed on bringing women to the fore of our local and global communities, the concern can be considered a valid and important one.

It is a common position of groups opposed to single gender education to propose the following: “Students in single-sex classrooms will one day live and work side-by-side with members of the opposite sex.

Educating students in single-sex schools limits their opportunity to work cooperatively and co-exist successfully with members of the opposite sex.” (http:// www.greatschools.org/find-a-school/definingyour-ideal/1139-single-sex-education-thepros-and-cons.)

We live in a co-ed world where the human sex ratio is reported to be 1:1 male to female, (https://www.cia. gov/library/publications/the-worldfactbook/fields/2018.html) therefore unless boys are being isolated from other family members, friends or social activities; it may be very difficult for them to escape prolonged interaction with females. If your child attends a single-sex class or school, you might balance his social life with opportunities to interact with peers of the opposite sex.

Co-ed sports, community groups and extra-curricular activities are all good avenues for mixing it up.

Being educated in a single gender learning environment does not limit an individual’s ability to interact with the opposite gender – generally, research seems to indicate that individuals educated in single gender environments that focus on the development of the specific student, actually creates greater

self-awareness and confidence in the individual – this disclosure may impress on a “co-ed world” the significance of developing individual genders separately.

Is an all-boys school for every boy? Why or when should parents consider an all-boys school?

The simple and most obvious answer is “yes”. A boy’s school is for boys. Is every boy going to be successful in an all-boys school? Probably no more or less than any student might be in a co-ed school.

It is the parents’ responsibility to determine the school that is best for their child. There may be multiple personal, traditional and/or cultural considerations involved within a single family. In some cases, the school chosen at Primary may no longer be a “fit” for the child or the family as they develop and mature to Middle and Senior levels so parents may choose certain schools for certain stages of a child’s development. Considering the choices that parents make for their children when they are toddlers or primary age, the individual needs of the child and family should always be considered when choosing the most appropriate school.

At certain ages, some boys just need “more” or “different”. That said, Michael Reichert’s international study (2013) in several boys’ schools, clearly identifies the importance of the relationships between teachers and boys.

The boys and teachers in the study make it very clear that good teaching for boys involves close supportive relationships with teachers who really care about them and the subjects they teach.

Parents should consider the relationships that teachers have with their male students and the value that they place on their learning.

If parents want their sons to be educated in a single gender learning environment then they should, like other educational decisions, carefully consider the options and determine which is best for their son.

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Viruses most commonly enter the body through our eyes, nose and mouth.

Make sure your children wash their hands frequently. Tell them to scrub with soap and water for 20 seconds – about as long as it takes to sing “Happy Birthday” twice. Remind children to always wash their hands before eating, after using the restroom and after being in a public place.

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Keep household surfaces clean!

Disinfect heavily touched items like doorknobs, remote controls, computers and phones. Put a bottle of hand sanitizer in every room – one with at least 60% alcohol. Get everyone to use a squirt when they pass by.

Watch-out for coughs and sneezes!

Germs can spread through the droplets that enter the air when someone coughs or sneezes. If a family member is sick, remind them to cover their mouth, and cough or sneeze into a tissue or their elbow.

If possible, stay away from crowds during the peak months of cold and flu season. Germs spread more easily

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in warm places where people are gathered.

Talk to your doctor about getting the flu shot. No one likes getting an injection but it can help cut down on flu misery. Fever, chills, body aches and pains are a lot less fun than one quick shot!

Despite our best efforts, children get sick. When this happens, keep them home until they’re feeling better.

While there isn’t a medicine to “cure the cold” we can treat their symptoms so they feel more comfortable.

Make sure your child gets extra rest and plenty of fluids. Stock your kitchen with favorite foods for waning appetites. Sooth sore throats

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When someone is sick, avoid sharing germs at home by temporarily switching to paper goods. Use paper towels instead of cloth ones for drying hands in the bathroom.

Switch glasses for paper cups, and never share utensils with one another.

Don’t let your child return to school before they’re fully recovered. This may spread the virus to others and it may expose your child’s weakened immune system to whatever else might be “going around.”

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“My mom has worked so hard for the past twenty three years; working during the day then coming home to make dinner and put us to bed before going to a second and third job. She was at every dance recital, tennis match, track & field event and school concert. I used to think she was superhuman but now I know if you truly love someone you will lose sleep, not eat and work yourself- doing anything to make sure they have a wonderful life. Her unwavering selflessness is something I can never repay. She established the solid foundation that nothing is impossible and all things are worthwhile with hard work and dedication.” Kornelia White..

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rendalee White may not describe herself as

an “awesome mom” but her children definitely do. As the parent of three successful children, Ms. White didn’t let being a “single mom” hold her back. Not shy of hard work, she once held down four jobs to make ends meet. “I don’t know how I did it. The Lord was on my side. He knew what needed to be done and gave me the strength,” she says.

Born in Bermuda, Ms. White left when she was 16 to attend “Grade 13” at Georgina College in Barrie, Ontario. From there she continued her education in the University of Toronto’s dental hygiene program.

Ms. White worked as an assistant dental hygienist for 10

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“Brendalee is one of the most amazing, beautiful, strong women I have ever met. She has done things for me that other people couldn’t do by themselves. I love her so much. I don’t know how I can repay her.” —William White. years at the Cambrian Medical Center in New York. “In between”, she says she came home, working for Dr. J.B. Dickinson, helping with his mobile dentistry practice.

Ms. White married and moved to Houston Texas. In 1994, separated from her husband, she returned home with daughters Kornelia and Kascia. At the time, she was pregnant, with her son, William. When William was 4 years old he required open heart surgery. “So I packed up my family and we went to Philadelphia for the surgery.”

Supporting her children financially has been challenging says Ms. White. “It was important to me to have dinner together, homework, and quality time. This is why I got into security. I’d work from 9 or 10pm until 3 or 4am, get home, get the kids up and off to school and myself off to my full-time job. I was tired!”

Currently working for the Department of Immigration as a Senior Inspector in the Compliance section, Ms. White has also worked for the Police Department as a Traffic Warden and in the Forensics Department as a Finger Print Officer. Other jobs have included working

Kascia Kornelia William as an Inspector for the Reserve Police, a Security Officer, catering with the M.E.F Group, working at E.R Aubrey Jewelers, assisting with Security in night clubs, private parties and soccer games.

Ms. White says her children are a credit to her. “It was never easy raising three children on my own. It took a lot of time management and forward planning.” From the time they were born, she made sure her children had a home cooked meal. “We had dinner for breakfast. I cooked. I baked. I couldn’t afford cookies and carrots in shapes. I never gave a whole apple – I would cut it in fours. I saved by doing small things.”

Ms. White says her children were breast fed for a year and never wore Huggies.

“My children wore cloth diapers. They never had (jarred) baby food. I made fresh and put it in cubes. And, they were potty trained early!”

Kornelia (now 24), Kascia (23) and William (18) all graduated from the Bermuda Institute. “I never had teenage troubles. They were involved in so much and I shared it with them,” says Ms. White. All have gone on to higher education. Kornelia, a graduate of Oakwood University, is currently attending the University of Alabama in Birmingham. She’s studying to become a certified Clinical Laboratory Scientist.

Kascia, is an honors thesis undergraduate majoring in Biology at Saint Mary’s University in Halifax Nova Scotia.

William recently graduated from St. Andrew’s College in Aurora Canada. He’s now attending Sewanee, the University

of the South in Tennessee.

To do it all Ms. White says you have to be organized - make a list and be realistic. “It’s better to start early in the morning with a goal of what you want to accomplish. And never give yourself anything that’s too hard to get to. Make it as simple as possible.” She says not to be ashamed of making that list and ticking things off. “My kids call me OCD

about my lists. But my family always knew Brendalee was coming - with my packed cooler!”

“If I had to describe in a few words all that my mother has been able to provide, it’s nothing short of a miracle. My mother is the strongest woman I know. Her ability to selflessly sacrifice her own well-being for the good of us is phenomenal. What she’s done as a single parent of three is incredible. She put three children through private school and now university. Working day and night to give us what we need and also what we want. She’s gone over and beyond her parental duties. My mom’s my role model and my hero. She provided me with an incredible foundation and a firm set of morals so I can be a well-equipped woman in today’s society. Her unconditional love and support have brought me through every trouble. She’s our biggest fan. With her behind me, no dream’s too big. I love my mom with all my heart. Working hard and making her proud is the least I can do to repay her.” —Kascia White.

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Decorate with LEDs. timers, and use them indoors and out. Use LED candles and light strings to add warmth to your home safely, and LED strings to decorate your tree. LED holiday bulbs are now available in many colours. As well

with relatively little energy. They’re great for cooking vegetables and can reheat items at the last minute. If you’re cooking for a crowd, use as many energy-saving appliances as you can – the microwave,

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strings to decorate your tree and LED candles to add warmth to your home safely. You can use LED lights both indoors and out, but be sure to either put them on timers or unplug them when you go to bed.

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Best wishes

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sets for frayed wires, damaged sockets, or cracked insulation.

If you find any defects, replace the entire set.

When buying light sets, make sure you buy the right ones for indoor, outdoor use, or both – and don’t overload your electrical circuits.

at once is more efficient than opening and closing it several times.

Trim back appliance usage to save.

Use dishwashers, washing machines and dryers only when they are full, and use the shortest, coolest or most energy-efficient settings.

Share the holiday spirit and the energy-saving responsibility.

Holiday trips could result in energy savings.

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everything that you can. If appliances or electronics are

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holidays, energy use can climb.

with built-in clocks even draw small amounts of energy.

If you’re going away for the holidays, unplug or turn off

Encourage everyone to join in and use energy efficiently.

Get the kids involved.

Play energy-saving games with your kids. Get them to spot areas in the home where energy is being wasted and where lights, switches or appliances have been left on.

Enjoy more time with loved ones.

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The holiday season brings family and friends together at home - to share food, exchange gifts and enjoy each others’ company. During the holidays, most households will spend more time cooking, cleaning, entertaining, celebrating and decorating. This year, make the most of the holidays by using energy efficiently and safely, while finding simple ways to enjoy family and friends. Bermuda Electric Light Company Limited (BELCO) is pleased to provide these simple holiday tips.

Brighten the Holidays Safely

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To prevent fires with artificial trees, follow the manufacturer’s decorating instructions precisely

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Never use candles near fabric, wood or other flammable materials, and always extinguish candle or fireplace flames, if you will not be nearby to observe them; also, make sure your fireplace chimney is clean

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Never leave portable heaters running when you are not in the room, as they can cause fires; and use them sparingly, as they consume a lot of electricity Make sure smoke and heat detectors and alarms are working; have a fire extinguisher in the house and make sure everyone knows how to use it

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Don’t let children play with lights, and be vigilant with all holiday decorations, cooking and heating appliances, fireplaces and candles

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Never run electrical cords under carpets or around draperies or other flammable materials

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Use LED lights, which are cool to the touch, so less likely to cause fires or burns

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Turn off all electrical decorations before going to bed or leaving the house

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When preparing decorations, remember: don’t use light-duty flat extension cords (usually white or brown), instead use heavy-gauge UL round extension cords; never plug more than 3 sets of lights into an extension cord; check for damaged sockets, plugs, cords and replace anything that looks defective

Decorate with Care •

Outdoors, use only lights marked for ‘outdoor use’, and don’t use ladders or lights near power lines; fasten outdoor lighting securely to prevent wind damage and use only insulated staples or plastic attachments, not metal nails or tacks

Switch to strings of LED lights, which use about 90% less energy than traditional incandescent lights, and last longer, too; turn holiday lights on at dusk and off before you go to bed and use timers to help make this easier

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Consider fiber optic trees and decorations, as most use a single bulb in the base to light the entire decoration efficiently and brightly

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Invest in rechargeable tea lights, battery-operated taper candles and even remote control candles to use year after year

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Live Christmas trees are flammable; keep trees watered, so they don’t dry out and use lights or electrical ornaments cautiously

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Instead of using lights and electrical decorations, consider using handmade decorations and art objects, or natural decorations, like seashells; decorate with simple, festive items like plants, baskets and colorful cloths

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Outdoors, use color floodlights or efficient gobo projectors that use little wattage, rather than putting up strings of lights and decorations with electric motors, such as inflatable snow globes

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Enjoy traditional foods, but don’t cook more than you really need; overindulging is bad for your health, as well as for your energy bill and the health of the environment Don’t open the oven door to check on cooking progress, use the window and turn on the light; opening the door can lower temperature by 25 degrees or more, necessitating additional heating

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Cook more than one item in the oven at the same time

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On the stovetop, save energy by matching the size of the pan to the heating element, keeping lids on pots, and keeping stovetop burners and reflectors clean

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To use less energy, use the smallest possible appliance to do the job, for example, the microwave, slow cooker or toaster oven, and if the weather is nice, use the outdoor barbeque grill

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Refrigerator doors should be kept closed as much as possible, so that cold air doesn’t escape; when you open the doors, take out everything you need at the same time

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Don’t cram the refrigerator full, as cold air needs some space to circulate

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When using dishwashers or washing machines to save water and energy only do full loads, and use the energy-saving settings; use the clothes dryer effectively by doing one load right after another to take advantage of the heat and don’t over-stuff the dryer because air needs to circulate through the tumbling items

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Help friends and loved ones on your list to save money by giving them energy efficient LED bulbs, timers, on/off power strips, as well as Energy Star-rated electronic products

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If you buy electronic toys or other electronic gifts, give rechargeable batteries

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Improve your household with new, energy efficient appliances, as well as home office and entertainment products and lighting; always look for the Energy Star rating and buy the most efficient products; today’s products are much more energy efficient than products were 10 years ago

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Buy food and gifts locally to support Bermuda’s economy

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Give gifts from the heart, including gifts that you cook, sew, knit, paint, plant and grow, write, photograph, create, as well as books, scrapbooks, paper dolls and games to enjoy together, or the simple gift of your time and attention

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Remember to reduce, reuse, recycle

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Education:

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To Pay or Not To Pay

Paying for education is a priority for parents The majority of parents (67%) around the world understand why people would pay for their child’s education, according to the latest report from HSBC, The Value of Education: Springboard for success. This figure rises to 75% of parents in the USA, 77% in Brazil and

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Indonesia, and 80% in China. lobally, more than half (58%) of parents say that paying for a child’s education is the best investment you can make. This view is most strongly held in Brazil (79%) and China (77%). Interestingly, more parents (69%) with a child already in paidfor education agree that paying for a child’s education is the best investment you can make, compared with 51% of parents who do not have a child in paidfor education, suggesting that this view is more than borne out in practice.

The report, which surveyed over 4,500 parents in 15 countries, found that paying for education is a high priority for parents, who on average would ideally allocate 42% of their future child financial support funds to education, well ahead of long-term investment funds (11%) or a deposit for a house (10%).

Public versus Private Schooling Around the world, opinion is divided on whether private schools are better than public schools, with 40% of parents saying that public schools provide an education that is as good as private schools, compared to 32% who disagree.

Parents see the main benefits of private schools as better facilities or more equipment (45%), and smaller class sizes (34%) while the biggest concern is that private schools are too elitist (38%).

When to Pay? Just 18% of parents around the world would consider paying for their child’s primary school education. For secondary school, this figure rises to 33% and to 62% for university.

Support for private education is strongest in the developing world and in Asia, where 41% of parents in Indonesia would consider private primary education, as well as around a quarter of parents in Brazil (25%), India (24%), Mexico (23%) and Singapore (23%).

At secondary school, around half of parents in Indonesia (55%), India (48%) and China (45%) would consider private education for their child.

Only 6% of UK parents would consider private education at primary school and only 17% at secondary school.

Simon Williams, Group Head of Wealth Management, HSBC, commented: “It’s clear from this report that parents around the world are prioritising their child’s education over other forms of investment. With most parents suggesting they would fund the cost themselves, there is clearly a lot of pressure to plan their finances early.”

Of the parents surveyed who currently pay for their child’s education, 91% said that they fund the cost themselves. When planning, most parents who intend to pay for their child’s education assume that funding will come from their savings or their current income (both 64%).

While only 8% of parents globally with a child in paid-for education expect their child to contribute to funding their own education - for example by taking a part-time job this figure is much higher in Taiwan (28%), the USA (25%), the UK (19%) and Canada (18%).

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Gap Mind the [Pension]

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BY LISA LEWIS

I didn’t start thinking about my pension and retirement until I turned the big ‘4-0’. Until then if someone asked me how much I had saved – it was a guess at best. And I don’t think I’m alone.

Saving for retirement isn’t necessarily a priority in your 20’s, 30’s and even 40’s. We already have so much going on, but thinking about retirement early will benefit you tremendously in the long-term.

Educational Consider this conversation Savings Plan with a 65 year old. It might help you prioritize.

What are your biggest expenses now that you’re 65 and retired?

It used to be education for my children and my mortgage, but now it is healthcare - without a doubt. FutureCare (Government healthcare available to seniors) currently costs $450 a month and does not provide major medical coverage like the private insurers, which is a big concern – even with the new hospital wing. If I opt to take out private insurance, it could cost me double or more.

How much did you have in your pension balance when you retired?

About $100,000 – which represents 10% of $70,000 - my average salary since the pension act became law in 2000. I thought this was a reasonable amount, but it will only provide me with about $575 a month for the rest of my life. I don’t have access to a lump sum payment and already my biggest expense (healthcare) uses over 80% of this income.

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Now that I’m 65, I’m now eligible to collect between $800 and $1400/month for the rest of my life. The total amount depends on how long I’ve worked, and whether my previous employers are up to date with their payments for me.

So in total, I may receive up to $1950 a month from pension contributions.

Without any additional savings or assets that I can cash in, it will prove very difficult – in particular with rising healthcare costs and inflation of goods and services.

So how can you, readers, – at the age of 20, 30, 40, and even 50 – mitigate this illustrative but common problem? How can you maximize your pension now to reap the benefits when you turn 65? There are three easy ways: • Add to the pot: Make voluntary contributions above the mandated 5% of your salary. If you are 35, and you contribute an additional $500 a month, you will have access to a lump sum of over $400,000, assuming a 5% return and 2% rate of inflation.

• Diversify your assets: If you leave one job to start another, you have the option of rolling your accumulated pension balance into your new employer’s plan or opening your own pension account with a licensed insurer. Avoid ‘putting all of your eggs in one basket’ and open up your own prescribed pension account. This will give you more control over your investments as well as provide the added benefit of being able to diversify – perhaps choosing a more aggressive (or more conservative) investment profile than your pension plan with your new employer.

• Take advantage of the living benefit of life insurance: Most people, when they think of life insurance, think only of the death benefit; if they die, their beneficiary will receive a lump sum payout. But there are life insurance products (Whole and Universal Life) that provide a guaranteed cash value –

a living benefit to the insured– that can be accessed at any time from an active policy. Buying young is the key to maximizing the returns for a low premium.

As a 35 year old, female non-smoker, who purchased $400,000 of Whole Life insurance today, you would have access to approximately $285,000 if you surrendered the policy at age 65.

Lisa Lewis, BSc, is a financial professional of BF&M. With over 14 years in the re/insurance industry, she helps advise individuals and families of how to relieve the burden of unexpected and long-term risks. Lisa can be contacted on 2980229 or llewis@bfm.bm.

The Magic Number So what will be the number you’ll need to save in order to retire with dignity?

Let’s look at a 35 year old in 2014, who is earning an “average” wage as per the Bermuda Labour Force Survey of 2013.

Age

35

Current Salary (average for permanent residents)

$82,000

Retirement age

65

Income replacement at retirement (Generally individuals need about 80% of their pre-retirement income)

$65,600

Annual Social Insurance Contributions (assuming receives maximum benefit of $1400/month)

$16,800

Balance of annual retirement income required:

$48,800

Number of years of retirement income (until 90):

25

“YOUR NUMBER”

$2,373,667

Contributions from mandatory pension (assuming salary increases 2% each year of working and earns 5% compound annual return)

$1,279,215

Pension gap

$1,094,452

Given the above numbers, are you prepared to address your pension gap, so that at the age of 65 you can stop living at work and start working on living the way that you’re accustomed? Or will you be one of the many who has to continue to work into their 70’s in order to cover expenses? You can reduce this risk by making a plan now. Talk to a qualified financial planner today to discuss your options.

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