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GNI mag EDITOR’S LETTER We hope you love it as much as we do.
There’s one saying I’ve always loved.
Frequently misquoted as “The most dangerous phrase in the
With a complete redesign from the ground up courtesy of
English language…” to quote it in full, “Humans are allergic to
much TLC and no small amount of sobbing, we bid farewell to
That was pioneering computer scientist Dr Grace Hopper
sware) and usher in a bevvy of new and wonderful people. I can
change. They love to say, ‘We’ve always done it this way.’”
speaking in 1987. I can only imagine the changes this truly
brilliant woman witnessed in her lifetime. From the Million Man March in her native America, to the rise of feminist activism,
a number of previous contributors (we haven’t killed them, we think of no better issue to start another chapter of our history
than this, our Pride issue, and our seventeenth issue to date. Over the three years since it was first published we have had a number of facelifts, and no doubt as we near our milestone 20th issue
and the horrors the AIDs epidemic before treatments became
we will preen and prune closer to perfection still. Change is our
available, Grace Hopper lived through the most astonishing
friend. Change is to be desired. We positively adore it.
period of change in recent history.
If you were to believe then Prime Minister Harold Macmillan,
The reason why that quote has stuck with me this long is
because there has never been a significant change in human
“Most of our people have never had it so good.” That was 1957,
(be it grassroots or otherwise). It is understandable, really, the fear
ruled by the Tories and public sector strikes were rife. Thankfully
fortunes that was not preceded by a long and hard-fought battle
of the unknown, that if-it-ain’t-broke school of thought that says why risk a Brave New World when the one we have is ticking
an unimaginably bleak period of British history when the UK was we have moved on from those dark times. Of course, we would
never ask you to believe anything the Conservatives say, but the
fact abides that for the majority of the gay community around the
along tolerably well? Well, to hell with that.
world things have only changed for the better.
Sometimes changes can be small, a single step among many,
After a long battle the people of Ireland finally have marriage
like a judicial ruling to remind us us that discrimination
against any group is morally repugnant and punishable by law.
equality. Writer and broadcaster Scott De Buitléir was there. (You
the lives of literally thousands of people, like affording couples
civil rights movement, we still have a long way to go. The battle
Sometimes the changes we see are on a national scale, affecting the right to love and honour their partners in the same way that those who deny them their rights love their partners.
Of course, change is happening all of the time. The magazine
you hold in your hands is not the magazine it was before. Regular readers will notice a number of changes to the look and feel of
can read his report on this enormous win on page 55.) Like any
for marriage equality in Northern Ireland, the last remaining part of the UK where it is currently illegal, is about to begin. This is
a battle we will win. If history has taught us anything, change is inevitable.
the first to welcome you to my own first issue as editor to the new, improved, and spiffily retitled GNI MAG.
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CONLETH KANE Originally from Lurgan, Conleth now lives and works in London. No stranger to the limelight, he has appeared in hit shows like Casualty and RTE’s Fame: The Musical. He has campaigned diligently for LGBT rights. He is currently starring in ‘Rent Boy’ in London’s Above the Stag Theatre. He tweets at @conlethkane
SCOTT De BUITLÉIR Scott De Buitléir is the founder of EILE Magazine, a writer, and a radio broadcaster. He is based in both Dublin and Nottingham. In this issue he takes a first-person look at Ireland’s hugely successful Marriage Equality Referendum. He tweets at @scottdebuitleir
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MOVIES > STAR WARS: EPISODE VII
Is it December yet? Our geeky little hearts can scarcely contain the excitement and antici... pation for The Force Awakens. Another internet breaking trailer should be due any day now. Until then we will have to make do with these glorious shots. Thanks Vanity Fair! (Harrison Ford is still hot, we don’t care what anyone says.)
MOVIES > BATMAN VS SUPERMAN
When the first trailer for this long awaited team up landed in April, our newsfeeds like our pants - lit up. Set in the immediate aftermath of Kal-El’s and General Zod’s final battle which left most of Metropolis in pixelly ruins, in steps a certain Bruce Wayne to kick some perfectly CGI’d Kryptonian arse. Featuring an all new cast from Chris Nolan’s previous three efforts, new director Zach Snyder will pit Ben Afleck (Bats) versus Henry Cavill (Supes). Along for the ride is Fast & Furious glamourpus Gal Gadot as everybody’s favourite Amazonian, Wonder Woman.
TV > THE WICKED + THE DIVINE
This Eisner award winning series, about twelve gods who incarnate as humans every ninety years, is getting adapted for the small-screen. We cannae wait, pet!
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VIP LIST MOVIES TO THEATRE, FASHION & HOT TRENDS, GNI MAG PICKS THE BEST OF THE BEST.
TV > LONDON SPY
GNI MAG’s imaginary boyfriend Ben Whishaw is set to star in new spook drama London Spy, a fivepart series from Auntie Beeb. When his boyfriend Alex disappears, Danny (SWOON!) must take on the complex and codified world of the British Secret Services to uncover the truth. Due for release this autumn, London Spy looks set to be a cross between Spooks and Cucumber. (And please, honestly, try to contain yourself better than we are doing.)
FASHION > ADIDAS
To celebrate Pride Month Adidas has redesigned its signature sneakers - dubbing the collection the “Pride Pack” - in a lovingly crafted range of rainbow colours. According to Instagram, “The Superstar was also released the year [of the Stonewall Riots, and] is now redesigned to remember all those who fought for equality.” Aww. Isn’t that nice? We’ll take a pair of size 9s. #Please #Shamelessplug #Poorhacks
TV > ORANGE IS THE NEW BLACK, SEASON 3
Last year, OITNB concluded its second season in a triumphant blaze of glory. Season 3 changes the show’s format in one extremely drastic way (we shant spoil how). All 14 new eps will be landing on Netflix on June 12. For marathon watchers, it might be a good idea to get the kettle boiling now. A pint of coffee for us, thanks.
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READY? Two or three tries should be enough. It isn’t rocket science. If you’re aren’t happy the next step is... RETOUCHING 36% of people admitted to retouching their selfies in a recent survey. The only thing I do is colouring! I love Vsco Cam because their filters are more up my street. I also use Squaready which allows me to make portrait photos into squares for instagram so you don’t lose half your photo.
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TRIED AND TESTED | MUSIC
Jamie XX / In Colour / Released June 1 In Colour is the debut full-length solo album from record producer, DJ and The xx member Jamie Smith, aka Jamie xx. Composed over a five-year period, In Colour shows none of the creative difficulties that prompted the delay. Featuring guest appearances from Popcaan, Young Thug, as well as xx bandmates Romy Croft and Oliver Sim, the admittedly modest forty-two minute play-time leaves us feeling distinctly assured that Smith & Co are firmly in charge of what’s currently hot in the world of electronic and house music. From the old school drum and bass rhythms of Gosh (check out the video on this one, it blew us away) to the more traditionally xx sounds of Loud Places, In Colour has already cemented itself as one of the best albums of 2015 (and one of the best dance albums in recent memory), a glorious celebration of one of the most exciting new musicians London has to offer. Thankfully, dear readers, the critical consensus agrees: from almost thirty reviews Metacritic scored In Colour as 87/100. You can’t go much better than that. Says Jamie, “Before the first xx record, I pretty much exclusively listened to electronica. Now, I listen to anything. I think the most inspiring thing is just learning more about more and more different kinds of music and becoming a fan of so many different types and so many different genres.” Fun fact: In Colour was streamed pre-release on iTunes featuring album-spanning visuals that ‘reacted’ to each sound. In Colour is now available for download from the iTunes store
Florence + The Machine How Big, How Blue, How Beautiful
Will Young 85% Proof
Lucie Silvas Lucie Silvas EP
This highly anticipated third album from Florence & Co will be met with the undeniable expectation that rousing tracks from previous albums have set. The good news is that it doesn’t disappoint. With characteristic vocals from Welch, these eleven tracks easily rival those gems fron previous albums. Opening on Ship To Wreck we are thrown straight in with warming guitar-work alongside Welch’s narrative vocals, offering an upbeat and fast-paced intro. In a brave but characteristic move, we are then presented with What Kind Of Man whose solemn opening jars into focus with polarising contrast. Pleasingly, moments later our attention is rewarded with an explosion of hard hitting bass and a well paced build into an engaging change of melody. What Kind Of Man sets the tone for what follows: an album which offers the soul-tingling mix of ethereal murmurs and rich, mood-lifting rhythms that we have come to expect from Welch and Co. The winning formula of flair and exuberance has won over many fans since 2009’s Lungs. How Big, How Blue, How Beautiful shows no sign of Difficult Third Album bloat.
For those fans who have followed Will Young’s transition from his success as the original TV singing contest winner to beared impressario, 85% Proof is another dose of the earnest vocals and pleasingly catchy melodies to which they are accustomed. Young is clearly well aware of the expectations of fans who have impatiently waited his return since previous effort Echoes in 2011. In something of a departure, perhaps an indicator of the creative freedom bestowed by a new record label, the album has an anthemic quality we’ve not yet heard from the 36 year-old Berkshire boy. The brash beat of Love Revolution (sampling Tomcraft’s 2002 hit Loneliness) loans his voice an energy that makes listening a real pleasure. Sombre offerings like Like A River have an edge unrecognisable from earlier classics if it weren’t for those distinctive vocal harmonies. The weight of nearly a decade of success and popularity, with a four-year absence from the UK music scene, must weigh heavily on Young’s shoulders. Luckily for the Pop Idol winner, 85% Proof should make loyal fans of the new and uninitiated alike. Review by Jake Fraser (@jakekfraser)
With her latest self-titled EP, the Nashville influence on London born singer-songwriter Silvas is audible in every track. From the first note of Letters to Ghosts to the very last on Roots, the sound is refreshing and yet edgy. Her vocal ability is undeniable, while her self-penned tracks leave us with a gritty, authentic sound that lead us to the conclusion: It was worth the wait. There are goosebump moments and glimpses of Jagged Little Pill inspiration. How to Lose it All takes an even more pop/country direction, with definite shades of Taylor Swift. One for driving in the sun with the rooftop down, then. Personal favorite Unbreakable Us offers more of the sound that made us all fall in love her in the first place. From the Bohemian Rhapsody inspired accapella chorals of Roots, to the atmospheric ballad of a lover unready to lose their other half, this extended play album leaves us craving more of the same. Review by Conleth Kane (@ConlethKane)
Review by Jake Fraser (@jakekfraser)
Will Young announces “The Love Revolution” Tour * GNI MAG favourites The War On Drugs and The Black Keys to be featured in Guitar Hero Live * Season 7 Drag Race runner up Pearl to release her first album * Iggy Azalea cancels her “Great Escape” tour * Foo Fighters, Florence + The Machine, Kanye West, George Ezra, Mark Ronson, The Vaccines, Clean Bandit & FKA TWIGS to headline Glastonbury 2015 GNIMAG.COM | 18
TRIED AND TESTED | MOVIES
Jurassic World Chris Pratt, Bryce Dallas Howard, Ty Simpkins / Released June 11
Twenty years have been and gone since Hollywood behemoth Stephen Spielberg gave us Jurassic Park. This time around (with next-big-thing director Colin Trevorrow at the helm) a heartless conglomerate who clearly have no idea how these movies usually work have realised John Hammond’s dream to resurrect extinct monsters and charge punters a fortune to gawp at them. In a bid to boost flagging visitor numbers, park boffins cook up a whole new attraction to traumatise yet another generation of schoolchildren. Bigger than a T Rex, clever as you like, with the the amazingly well thought out ability to fucking camouflage itself, Indominus Rex is a genetically modified nightmare of pants-shitting proportions. And what better time, really, for Park exec Claire Dearing (Bryce Dallas Howard) to have her two young nephews visit the island. Needless to say Indominus Rex escapes, runs amok, literally eats people like a cheeky Nandos buffet. (And yes we know Nandos don’t have a buffet. Please don’t write in to complain. We are upset too.) It’s the job of velociraptor wrangler Chris Pratt to step in and save the day. Moments of genuine geeky wonder abound here. Far from the nostalgic cash grab we feared it might be, Jurassic World leaves a T Rex shaped footprint on this summer’s lesser blockbuster fare.
Amy > New Release Released July 3 The history of music is, as we know, littered with many’s a tragic life and far too untimely deaths. But there are few losses so keenly felt (and not only to the gay community) as Amy Winehouse. From a troubled adolescence in Southgate, north London, through her bright but all-too-brief career, to her untimely death in 2011 aged just 27, Amy charts an intimate look at the life and times of the iconic singer. Fresh from the critical plaudits of his recently released Kurt Cobain documentary Montage of Heck, director Asif Kapadia (Senna) shows us the troubled star as she was rarely seen. Assembled from a host of home videos and mobile phone footage, as well as interviews both past and present, “Amy” is a candid and heartbreaking reflection on what might have been. We miss you Amy.
Chappie > Blu Ray Sharlto Copley, Hugh Jackman Released July 13 Created on a whim, Chappie (voiced and mocapped beautifully by Sharlto Copley) is the world’s first true artificial intelligence. Kidnapped from his creator (Dev Patel) and hunted by a bemulleted one-note villain in Hugh Jackman’s least endearing role to date, Chappie is taken in by a dysfunctional street gang played by Afrikaans rap outfit Die Antwoord. Pixelly hijinks ensue. Chappie is the latest attempt by writer/ director Neill Blomkamp to capture the magic of his first big movie, District 9. Often called the next big thing in syfy, the one thing keeping Blomkamp from true greatness is the fact he continues to make shit films. Not quite so unwatchable as Elysium, not even the final, glorious shot can make up for the 115 minutes of convoluted nonsense that precede it.
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When Love Hurts… Dealing with Domestic Abuse in Your Relationship Despite what many people think, abuse from a partner is not limited to physical harm – a whole range of controlling and abusive behaviour can constitute domestic violence including threatening behaviour and psychological, sexual, financial and emotional control. Whilst research shows that domestic violence is most commonly experienced by women and perpetrated by men, it is by no means selective – anyone can be affected by domestic abuse in a relationship, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race or ethnicity. Indeed, within the LGBT community, domestic abuse is a serious issue and can often go unreported due to fears the victim may have of exposing the abuse or revealing the nature of their relationship with the perpetrator.
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If you are suffering domestic abuse in your relationship, you are not alone. The good news is that there is protection available from the Courts which can go some way to help you break free from your abusive relationship. The Courts have the power to grant a ‘Non-Molestation Order’ against your partner prohibiting your partner from molesting, harassing, pestering or threatening you in any way. It is a criminal offence to breach these Orders. The police treat domestic violence very seriously and have dedicated domestic abuse teams to deal with these matters. The Orders can be made by the Court on an emergency basis to provide you with instant protection. Your partner will be given the opportunity to attend at Court on a later date to defend themselves if they wish to do so. It is therefore important to have a skilled and specialised lawyer working with you to ensure that you get protection as quickly as possible and also to represent you if the proceedings become contested. At Francis Hanna & Co we have a dedicated team who are widely experienced in providing advice and making emergency applications to the Court for such Orders. Legal Aid is available in all cases, when applying for these Orders For further information or for a free, no obligation discussion on any aspect of relationship breakdown, please contact Claire on cedgar@�anna.co.uk or call 90243901. Francis Hanna & Co would like to wish all their LGBT clients a happy and safe Pride 2015.
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COMMENT | HARRY M.
“Am I beach body ready?”
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Harry M. “Are you beach body ready?” That was the question by Protein World that garnered 80,000 signatures on Change. org and outraged an angry public tired by yet more mainstream body shaming. Every year, as soon as the temperature starts to rise, we see the same old marketing techniques rolled out. Whether it’s for Protein world or Special K, the focus is on getting your body ready for summer. Campaigns like this one hit home the fear of not being attractive enough to brave the beach this summer, making anyone with a few more inches of fat than they would like feeling unprepared for the coming months. And here I am, standing in front of the mirror on a Sunday afternoon, with a holiday to Ayia Napa almost here, examining my own body and feeling distinctively un-beach body ready. Why? Simply because I’m a Trans guy. Everyone has the right to enjoy the sun without being made to feel ashamed about their bodies. What’s clear is that the public aren’t afraid to make a stand and tell women of all shapes and sizes to love themselves for who they are. But what about Trans guys? For guys like me the list of body hang-ups goes way beyond the female fear of being too fat to wear a bathing suit at the beach. It spans a whole range of mental and physical issues that we as a community need to overcome. Self-loathing and body dysphoria can affect us more than we know. It’s the same shame that keeps us locked indoors on sunny days praying for the comfort of layering that winter brings. Long summer days and school holidays can bring out their fair share of commentators. In an attempt to stay cool it means making yourself vulnerable. Before going on testosterone, if anyone had said something about my appearance I would have focussed on it until it destroyed me. The thing about those people is that you never have to see them again. And even if you do, they’re the ones with the problem. So if you overhear some stupid remark - fuck it. Hold your head high and walk on.
So as I stand rubbing Bio-Oil into my scars for the thousandth time, grabbing the excess fat I don’t like, and trying to stand as tall as possible, what I’d like is for this article to be a reminder to all of the Trans guys reading it to love yourselves and don’t be ashamed. That is something I try to tell myself on a daily basis. Yes, I have scars on my chest. And yes, my hips are a bit curvier than the standard man of my build. What we have to realise is that guys come in all shapes and sizes, and since Trans guys fall within that category we shouldn’t be surprised if every one of us is different too. Not every guy you pass in the street is going to be the stereotypical Adonis from the cover of Men’s Health. If you look closely you’ll see most guys have a belly, or are on the short side, or have a receding hairline. Everyone has their hang ups. Differences ought to be celebrated, not rejected. On holiday last year, four months after my top surgery, only one stranger asked me about my scars. Amazingly he didn’t even recognise them for what they were. Sadly, the majority of people you’ll come across will have no idea how a trans guy’s chest looks, and the ones that do will recognise it for what it is and respectfully keep their thoughts to themselves. So for those guys who worry about not having hairy enough legs, about how flat their chest looks, or worrying if people will notice anything lacking down there, trust me when I say: People don’t pay attention. It’s human nature to obsess about your own appearance and worry what others will think. They are far too self obsessed to waste any time judging others. Love yourself and don’t be ashamed because really, and I mean this, you have nothing to be ashamed about. Society’s views are only changing for the better. The only thing I intend on worrying about this summer is where to find my passport. Other people’s issues are none of my concern; don’t let them be yours. Any questions? Send me a mail.
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Oh, swoon! Not content with breaking our hearts in last year’s AIDs drama The Normal Heart, cuddly man bear Mark Ruffalo has used his Tumblr page to dish a Hulk-sized slice of shade to anti-feminists. The Avengers star shared blogger Libby Anne Bruce’s post about the “I don’t need feminism because…” bullshit meme that clogged our newsfeeds last year. “You’re insulting every woman who was forcibly restrained in a jail cell with a feeding tube down her throat for the right to vote,” she wrote. “You’re spitting on the legacy of every woman who fought for women to be allowed to own property. For the abolition of slavery and the rise of the labor union. For the right to divorce. For women to be allowed to have access to birth control.” SLAY KWEEN! etc. Although the post wasn’t written by Ruffalo, the most beautiful man in existence is also vocally pro-choice and advocates for access to clean water through his charity Water Defense. Go Mark!
COMMENT | HCW
On emojis, self-actualisation, and getting his bum out
Harry Clayton-Wright It is with great honour that I write my very
February so that was rather wonderful.
most valuable thing I could have done and
come! Take my hand. Maintain eye contact.
duce and perform in my own work. Plus I
uniquely brilliant experiences. Fabulous isn’t
first column for GNI MAG. Hi, hello, welAre you lubricated enough? Don’t worry, I’ll ease myself in gently.
I suppose I’d better tell you a bit about
myself and then we can get this awkward introduction out of the way. My name is
Harry Clayton-Wright, I’m twenty six years
old and it’s an absolute pleasure to meet you. Imagine me curtsying as I shake your hand right now.
I have been performing professionally
for nearly eight years. Comedy, cabaret,
live art; you name it, I’ll defy a genre. From being dressed as a half-dead woman and
running around in the dark on a ghost train, to jumping into the splits while wearing
very little in gay clubs across London. I have performed in France, Edinburgh, Austria, Blackpool, at Glastonbury and even in
Australia. My regular current performing
role is as Harriet, a glamorous assistant in a tremendously exciting show called Miss
Behave’s Gameshow. This is an anarchic and ridiculous world, created by Olivier Award
Alongside working on the Gameshow, I proget my butt out a lot, too. Does that explain enough? Well, I know you’ll learn more as
we go along. And there’s always Google and YouTube and Tumblr if you’d like to see
what I do for yourself. Just make sure you’re not at work. You have been warned.
For this, my maiden voyage, I thought
I’d smash a bottle of champagne against
the good ship GNI and talk about Pride. What have you done today to make you
feel proud? Good question, Heather Small, thanks for asking. As I sit here typing this column, tapping away at my laptop with
baby pink coloured nails having just com-
pleted a hilarious shoot in London wearing
nothing but lingerie and a blonde wig, I realise what makes me feel an enormous sense of pride is that I’ve followed my instincts,
the victor. There are no rules and nothing
means anything. It’s a whole lot fun and we
just had a blast with performing Gameshow down under. Also, I got to wear shorts in
You call that an ending? Three seaons and THAT is how you end it? 0/10.
mind, owning your flaws, turning them into strengths, being a beacon of good for those
around you, doing what’s right and being the best you that you can possibly be. These are just my own personal struggles and it isn’t
all sunshine, lollipops and rainbows - I work hard to maintain happiness - but what also
makes me feel especially proud is the collective strength of our community. We all go
through so much and when it comes down
to it, as a united force, we have this amazing power embedded within us to make real
change. And that makes me feel exceptionally proud.
I’m looking forward to sharing my
We can stay up late and talk about boys and
humanly possibly.
In high school, like so many of us, I
a long time I felt totally confused as to my
arbitrary points for your team and becoming
- but it’s about an acutely aware state of
alisation that I can become as fabulous as
Others - in games that involve you using
anything necessary in the quest of winning
the best emoji next to the eggplant, of course
stories and photos with you while taking you
focused positive energy on the self-actu-
felt rather different and completely out of
your phone, your brain, or doing absolutely
all about pink nail varnish - although that is
been true to myself, and have continually
winner Miss Behave, where two teams
compete against each other - iPhones versus
now I get to travel with work and enjoy such
place. A bit of a weirdo, in all honesty. For
place in the world and I stumbled into my formative years dodging jibes from people
with me on some of my ridiculous travels.
practice french kissing and plait each others
hair. I’ll admit, I was nervous about popping the cherry on my first column. But we got through it without any bleeding, so that’s
the main thing. Until next time, be fabulous and proud.
who misunderstood my character or felt
threatened by someone so different to them. Luckily, after a troubled start to my late
teens/early twenties, I found that channeling these feelings into creativity has been the
Not cool, guys. That’s right, football in a gay mag! WHAT’S NEXT?!
No album in four years? STRAIGHT TO NUMBER ONE. We love you Flo!
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COMMENT | BLIAIN FITZPATRICK
A gay’s guide to surviving in the city.
Bliain Fitzpatrick When you are single and living in Belfast there are
Romance is a good thing.
Roll with the punches
Some guys may think of these as an art form, but I have
bold romantic gesture out there in the big
I’m assuming we are smart enough to have
certain life skills you must master pretty quickly. come to know them as essential rules for survival in a
never changing world of a Hot Bod’s, mixed signals, and Paco Raban One Million. Here my eight top steps to survive being A Gay in the City. Never bottom on a first date
No, really. In the straight world having sex on a first
date is frowned upon, but in gay universe you will be forever branded as “the bottom” in your relationship and that is one label that is NOT easy to shake off. It’s okay to be keen
One thing I’ve realised whilst dating is that there are too many signals that make very little sense. If a guy
smiles at you we are taught to pout, roll our eyes and
look the other way. First of all, what happened to manners? Secondly, when did it become a gay man’s rite
of passage to be a complete bitch any time someone
shows the slightest bit of interest? In an age where the majority of guys dream of nothing more than working within visually appealing industries (personal train-
ers, make up artists, photographers, models) we have
gone from being semi-shallow to drowning in a sea of narcissism.
I recently had a conversation with an exceptionally
good-looking guy who happened to be single but was clearly unhappy about his situation. I questioned him
about the reason why. I was surprised that someone so
attractive could be single for any other reason than his
When your average straight guy attempts a bad non-gay world it’s usually embraced and encouraged. In the gay universe not only
are the lines often blurred as to who should be the instigator of said romance, but too
much too soon can make anyone - no matter how hot - look psychotic and downright
of Simon Cowell. Some specimen, I hear you say?
Perhaps, but nowhere did personality become a factor in the discussion, which is why when we focus our
bicep/bulge tracking goggles we can often overlook
the most important thing. Dare I say it: personality.
back up and keep on walking. (He could be right round the corner!)
are single are glued to your side because
much as we love free stickers in our fancy
gay mags. So let go of the stigma and enjoy the romance.
“Go out for dinner. Watch a movie. Have a cheeky Nandos. Just don’t pigeonhole your nights out. You might be pleasantly surprised” Personal hygiene is everything
And I mean EVERYTHING! Let’s just
leave it at that, shall we? (Cough Poundland babywipes cough)
of camp greatness but there are also gay
Beckham’s face, Olly Murs’ cock, and the bank balance
results. So when you fall down, get right
deep down we all love romance about as
came apparent: his requirements for a partner are 95% exist, would be a Frankenstein’s monster with David
are all fuelled by hope. And consistency gets
Don’t forget your friends
intolerant? For some of guys, maybe so. But
Step outside the scene
physical and 5% financial. His perfect guy, should he
figured that out by now. That being said, we
desperate. Have we become romantically
choice to be single.
Throughout our drunken discussion the answer be-
Real life is much harder than the movies.
Gay bars are great and provide many nights
We all have that one friend who when they you are the best craic ever, obviously. Either
that or you attract the best people when you are out together. So why is that when our
friends romantically couple off do they cease to exist? Just remember, some relationships
work, some don’t. It’s your friends and fam-
ily who catch you when you fall. Treat them well.
Be grateful
Finally, being single is hard, especially in a
society that paints relationships as a one-way ticket to the Promised Land. Remember, if you are lucky enough to find someone that
makes your heart beat that little bit faster, be grateful and say thank you but don’t forget
that you made it along just fine on your own before you coupled off. If it goes wrong you
can do it all again! As Mama Ru likes to say, “If you don’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?”
individuals among us (myself included) that prefer more mainstream establishments. A
bar doesn’t have to be gay to be welcoming. Go out for dinner. Watch a movie. Have a cheeky Nandos. Just don’t pigeonhole
your nights out. You might be pleasantly surprised.
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/bliain
@bliainers
COMMENT | GARETH CARSON
“Why does there continue to be so much fear & shame around HIV?”
Gareth Carson Hi! My name is Gareth, and I’m HIV+. As I’m sure you know, HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is a virus that attacks the bodies’ immune system. I wish I could tell you that I contracted HIV following a single error of judgement - which is all it takes to put yourself at risk - but the truth is that until I was diagnosed, I’d played Russian roulette with my sexual health. As a member of the HIV community I thought I’d start by challenging a few misconceptions… “HIV doesn’t exist in Northern Ireland” The unfortunate fact is that it very much does exist in NI. According to the most recent report by the Public Health Agency, “Northern Ireland had the largest proportional increase in new HIV diagnoses between 2000 and 2013” compared to the rest of the UK. Whilst the negotiation of safe (or safer) sex practices can be difficult, if you don’t protect yourself how can you expect someone else to protect you? If you can’t be 100% certain of your status how can you be sure your partner isn’t in the same position? “HIV is a gay man’s disease” There’s a widespread belief that those most likely to be HIV+ are gay men. But according to the same report; “Of the new diagnoses of HIV in NI in 2013, 58% occurred in men who have sex with men.” The MSM group includes men who identify as gay, bisexual, and men who don’t identify as either category. What’s more, since 2003 transmission of HIV between heterosexual couples has accounted for 42% of
new diagnoses. Whilst more than 35,000,000 are HIV+ worldwide, transmission rates are on the decline. “HIV can be caught via non-sexual contact” HIV cannot be contracted by non-sexual contact like hugs, shaking hands, using the same toilet as an HIV+ person, or via kissing. HIV is transmitted by the exchange of bodily fluids such as blood, sperm and seminal fluid, vaginal fluids, and rectal secretions, most commonly during unprotected sex. If you come into contact with any of those fluids it’s important you seek immediate medical attention. If there is a chance you have been exposed to HIV your doctor can put you on a course of treatments called PEP to stop the virus from taking hold. The risk of HIV transmission can be mitigated by using safer sexual practices such as condoms and dental dams, getting tested regularly, being aware of your sexual health status and, if you are HIV+, your viral load level (which is the term used to describe the amount of the virus in your bloodstream). If you are already HIV+ contraceptives are essential to avoid becoming infected with further strains of HIV and other STIs. “HIV is a death sentence” My first thought after learning my HIV diagnosis was that I was going to get sick and die. I did not believe I could go on to live as long and healthy a life as anyone else. Anyone old enough to remember will recall the infamous ‘tombstone ads’ of the early 1980’s. That was thirty years ago and yet the media
continue to focus on AIDS-torn third world countries in Africa like Botswana and Nigeria. In these places HIV is endemic. Parents and their children born with HIV routinely die because of a lack support and access to the vital medication they need to prevent them from going on to develop the more serious AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome). But HIV is not AIDS, and when properly treated with anti-retroviral medication, HIV has become a manageable (albeit chronic) condition. Yet even so there continues to be a great deal of fear, shame and guilt surrounding a HIV diagnosis. Finding self-acceptance can be a difficult task. Rejection and stigmatisation from others remains an unfortunate yet all-too common occurrence. However, peer mentoring and support are now widespread, information is readily available, and the drugs used to fight the infection are now much less toxic compared to the treatments that went before. With the adoption of safer sex practices and the willingness of HIV consultants to prescribe anti-retroviral medication earlier, it has never been easier to manage a HIV diagnosis. For help and support contact: www.rainbow-project.org www.positivelifeni.com To arrange a free and full sexual health screening, contact James Copeland at: james@rainbow-project.org (028) 9031 9030
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IN CONVERSATION WITH... | MICHELLE VISAGE
MICHELLE VISAGE FROM THE MEAN STREETS OF nyc, to the judge’s seat of rupaul’s drag race, gni mag catches up with EVERYBODY’S FAVOURITE FEMALE IMPERSONATOR, michelle visage. gentlemen, start your engines!
IN CONVERSATION WITH... | MICHELLE VISAGE
Michelle Visage, welcome to Belfast!
Charming! So what’s your favourite rule in the book?
the UK - and I love the UK - but they always focus on England and
is basically the moral. “Don’t do what I did. You do not have to feel this
I love Belfast! This is my home away from home! People always talk about London, and I have such a soft spot for Belfast. I’m from New York, and
New York City is made up of boroughs. There’s Manhattan, there’s Queens, there’s the Bronx... And then there’s Staten Island. New Yorkers always joke that Staten Island is the forgotten borough. I feel like that’s what Northern Ireland is to the UK, it’s the forgotten borough.
We couldn’t agree more. So you’re a mother, Drag Race Supreme, an LGBT activist, and now an author. How do you do it?
God’s honest truth. You know, for
all the kids out there that think they
can’t achieve things, I am here to tell them it’s just down to focus.
I didn’t come from a family that was in the business or that had a lot of
money. Really what it comes down
to is your work ethic. Focus, dedication and hard work. That’s why
pain!” And that’s why it’s important for me that the kids read it. Boys, girls, it doesn’t matter, it’s all about refining your strength. And it’s not as easy as me telling you. You have to go and start your journey and do the work. One of chapters is “Be a chameleon”. You have to be a chameleon. You
have to stay strong to who you are. When the kids on Drag Race come
in they are indignant, they refuse to change, they don’t want to move and
they’re digging their heels in. If you do that then in the end it’s going to do you a disservice. You have to be open to everything that comes your way. Trying something different does
Cocaine. No, just kidding, I’ve never touched a drug in my life. That’s the
There are so many rules! At the end of each chapter there’s the Tee, which
“Homophobia makes about as much sense as racism. But they’re both still very real and very sad. Black lives matter, but so do black c*cks. I have an equal opportunities vagina.”
your eyes, but in a year or two you’ll never hear from them again. And that comes down to work ethic. And talent, of course.
Your book “The Diva Rules” is released in November. Can we tempt you into giving us a little preview?
I didn’t want to write an autobiography with this book. I didn’t want to be
a TOWIE girl and be like “OMG! My life’s been soooo hard, but I did it!” But I think, at this point of my career, an autobiography would be quite
presumptuous. People like Joan Rivers or Joan Collins deserve autobiographies, not me. I mean, I’ve had an amazing career. Yet somehow I have always missed the opportunity of super stardom.
In writing it I revisited those times and the things that tried to take me
down. And every time I’ve picked myself up and carried on. And that’s re-
ally what life is about. I get these kids who say to me “Please tell me it gets better, please tell me it’s not going to be like this forever.”
That’s what this book is about, I wrote it for them. You know we get out of
often does Madonna change? We’ve watched her entire career. Before
we had the internet, we’d wait to see her on TV, we’d wait to see a Vanity Fair exclusive, we’d wait to see a
Rolling Stone cover, to see the next look she was going to unveil. She
would go from complete opposites and never lost herself. And that’s what I’m talking about.
you’ll see a lot of those people who
do come from the right families get a break, and they may be famous in
not mean giving up your soul. How
You’re not afraid to speak your mind. Is that why you and Katie Hopkins clashed in the Celeb Big Brother house?
Katie was smart enough to know that if she fought with me she wouldn’t win. So she got on my good side. But I didn’t really care. In the house
it’s all about survival of the fittest. If Katie were to win she would have changed her attitude totally. But because she lost she went completely
overboard the other way. She’s crossed the line. You can’t sit in that house and say to someone like me “I want to be a gay icon” and then defend
Dolce and Gabbana for what they said about gay parents and then claim it’s free speech. Abso-fucking-lutely not. You can’t make homophobic
comments and then say you want to be a gay icon. The gays don’t love you, baby, you have to work your way into the gays hearts. You can’t do one
fucking appearance at G-A-Y and think the gays love you. I work with
queens who are the most offensive, disgusting people on the planet, but they do it from a place of love. What Katie Hopkins is doing is evil.
school and we have stars in our eyes of what we want to achieve. But then
Besides being a professional super woman, you have always been an amazing
through life feeling miserable. We forget that sparkle. And then we die,
I met my first gay in high-school. He was being bullied. The word “bully”
life gets in the way. We don’t nurture our Inner Diva anymore. We coast miserable.
LGBT ally. What drives that urge?
is almost kind of of abused these days. It’s a very powerful, very real word.
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IN CONVERSATION WITH... | MICHELLE VISAGE
And now everybody wants to use for every little shady go-about. But
clauses? Honey, please. You can’t have these people with the right to refuse
picking on this kid because he had a little gay lisp. He was very quiet, he
hard enough whether you’re gay or straight. We are all human beings.
this kid was getting bullied in class. So I stood up to the jocks who were
didn’t really talk to anybody. He didn’t even talk to me. We weren’t friends, but I felt the need to do something because of this brother-sister affec-
tion because I was a misfit as well, except I had the balls to say: “Fuck you. Who the fuck do you think you are sitting there in a flannel shirt and
serving gay people. They’re trying to reinstate segregation. This world is
Why are we discriminating against people for who they love? Love is love is love. Just because a man loves another man or a woman loves another
woman doesn’t make them a bad person. It’s the same love. It’s just as pure.
work-boots and jeans… Who gives you the power? You are nobody. So you
Are LGBT rights under attack?
you.” And at that moment I knew there was a connection between us.
“equality”, until the day we stop saying “gay marriage”, we are under attack.
better shut the fuck up or it’s done for you.” Afterwards he just said “Thank
What was it like growing up in New Jersey in 1986?
In central New Jersey in 1986 there were no gays. Gay wasn’t even gay in 1986. When I moved to New York City at the age of seventeen I had no family, no friends, nobody. I went there to go to school. My mother said
“You need to go out there and make friends, and the only way you’re going to do it is by going to the nightclubs”. Because we didn’t have Scruff. We
didn’t have Grindr. My mother got me my first fake ID. She said “Go” so I
went. The first boy that came up to me was this beautiful Peurto Rican boy, and the first thing he said to me was “Oh my Gawd, what’s your name?” I
was like [little girl voice] “Michelle?” He brought me over to this group of the weirdest, freakiest looking people and I knew, immediately, that this was my new family. I was home. And I never left!
It was a nightclub in New York called the Underground. That’s where I
Of course they’re under attack. Until the day when we don’t have to say
We need to be out on the streets and standing up for ourselves and being
vocal. There are kids living on the street because their parents threw them
out because they’re gay. There are so many kids who can’t get jobs because they’re gay so they trick for a living, or who have to take drugs make it
bearable to trick for a living. They’re having unprotected sex without realising that HIV is on the rise. They think because of drugs like PreP that
they don’t need to wear condoms anymore. These are the things we need to teach our young people about. To not be vocal about it is a huge disservice to them. As far as the search for HIV cures have come, we’re now going
backwards because kids aren’t getting tested and protecting themselves. For me homophobia makes about as much sense as racism. But they’re both
still very real and very sad. I’ve had a black fiancé. Black lives matter, but so do black cocks. I have an equal opportunities vagina.
first met RuPaul. The first time I laid eyes on him I thought to myself.
Let’s talk politics: Queens aren’t elected, they are born. Our election is over
Six four in flats, but with hair, heels and attitude he’s through the roof. You
getting started. Is Michelle from New Jersey team Hillary?
“What IS that?” It was seeing someone over seven foot tall and so radiant.
could not take your eyes of off him. And when I met him he said the same thing about me. We were destined to be!
and now the Tories are back in power. But you guys in the US are just now I am completely team Hilary. I get so much fucking flak for it. Team
Hilary 2016 all the way! She’s going to be our president. It’s time we had a woman. Oh my gosh she’s going to be our Evita!
Speaking of Mama Ru, is Drag Race UK finally happening?
I don’t know when, I don’t know how, but it’s going to happen. Seasons one
Michelle Visage for president…
launch. Will I be coming too? Sure. I can happily fly myself over to Belfast
a fabulous country though! Glitter, rainbows, pink. It would be like Anna
through six were picked up by truTV so Ru is coming over to promote the and look at myself in the middle of Primark and go “Okay, now what?”
Get out! Oh my God. I could not handle that pressure, never! It would be Nicole Smith takes the Whitehouse!
These days we see more and more conflict between religious people and the gay community. What do you make of that?
“The Diva Rules: Ditch
my world, God is an all loving god. Some people are born gay and you are
Strength, and Sparkle
take any rights away from you. What rights are we taking from you by our
is released November
I think spirituality is really important, whatever that means for you. In
the Drama, Find Your
born gay for a reason. If you disagree then gay marriage is not going to
Your Way to the Top”
right to get married? If anything we are adding to a more loving world.
10, 2015.
Religion is only as important as you want to make it. And conscience
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FEATURE | PRIDE
Belfast Pride is Ireland’s largest lesbian, gay, bisexual and
transgender festival and ranks in
the top ten largest pride parades in the UK! Belfast’s celebration
of diversity includes a week
long celebration at the end of July, featuring a programme
BELFAST August 1
of events which we are sure
appeals to even the most diverse range of tastes. From July 25 to August 2 Belfast Pride will be
putting the struggle for equality at the centre of Pride, with
Pride celebrations at the heart
of the city.
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FEATURE | PRIDE
2015 is a momentous year in Irish history. The
and Mark Kelly, Director of the Irish Council
by a week of fun-filled events for all ages,
took an enormous leap forward for civil rights
their outstanding contribution to the 2015
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success of the Marriage Equality Referendum
throughout the island. Dublin Pride organisers have moved to celebrate this historic year
by announcing the 2015 festival theme as
#TheFutureisEqual. In keeping with this one of a kind year, organiserse have announced that the big day is set to have not one but three Grand Marshals to lead festivities:
Grainne Healy, Chairperson of Marriage
Equality; Brian Sheehan, Director of GLEN;
for Civil Liberties. All three were chosen for #YesEquality campaign.
Healy, Sheehan and Kelly will officially launch the Dublin Pride Festival Programme, which kicks off on Friday June 19. They will also
lead #TheFutureisEqual Dublin Pride Parade, taking place from June 27. This year the
festival is set to be the biggest celebration yet. Festivities kicks off on June 19 with a launch party at The George. This will be followed
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culminating in cult-favourite Dyke Night. (See The festival then culminates with
#TheFutureisEqual themed Pride Parade,
taking place from 12 noon on Saturday 27.
As well as the visual feast of the parade, there will be tons of celebrity acts and plenty of goodiebags to giveaways.
For full listings visit dublinpride.ie
FEATURE | PRIDE
DUBLIN June 27
Dublin Pride Week Highlights •
Tuesday 23: The Ruby Session - 9pm, Doyle’s of College
•
Friday 26: Dyke Night, 9pm in The Academy. A visual spec-
Street
tacular of live music, entertainment and cabaret. Featuring
International Pride stars Harmonee, Dj Glamo and a host of others. All 3 Stages of the Academy will be positively brim• •
ming with pride.
Fri 26: Kylie Tribute with DJ AGGIE - 9pm, Oscars Christchurch.
Saturday 27: The parade begins at 1pm at the Garden of
Remembrance, marches down O’Connell Street, and culminates at Merrion Square at the Pride Village. Events on the
main stage (featuring a host of performers) kicks off at 2pm.
Street Party at Nealons at 4pm. Lady GaGa tribute at Oscars Christchurch at 9pm.
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FEATURE | PRIDE
LONDON JUNE 27
Pride in London is the biggest Pride celebration in the UK (and one of the biggest in
the world!) This year’s theme is #PrideHeroes, celebrating those who have contributed
to LGBT rights over the years, heroes like Alan Turing, Chelsea Manning, and Stephen
Fry. Closing off the entirety of London’s iconic Oxford Street, the parade will leave Baker
Street and snake through the Capital, passing Oxford Street, Selfridges, Bond Street,
Oxford Circus, Piccadilly Circus, and Pall Mall. Confirmed acts this year include singer/
song-writer Rebecca Ferguson, Britain’s Got Talent winners Collabro, and boyband Blue.
Over 30 acts will entertain the 10,000 strong audience in Trafalgar Square throughout. prideinlondon.org
DUNDALK PRIDE
NEWRY PRIDE
CORK PRIDE
AUGUST 29
JULY 18
AUGUST 22
AUGUST 2
Foyle Pride is a spectacular and
Dundalk Pride started in 2009
This year’s “Bigger and Better”
This will be the 10th annual parade
the Dundalk Outcomers decided
powerful, colourful, energetic and
aims to promote and engage in edu-
FOYLE PRIDE
colourful event. Its carnival
atmosphere ensures a fantastic
day out for all of the family on the
August bank holiday weekend. The
Parade will leave Waterside Station for the Guildhall at 2pm.
when a group of volunteers from that it was time for Dundalk to have its very own LGBT Pride event.
Pride in Newry again promises a
vibrant spectacle to showcase the diversity of people, communi-
ties and cultures in Newry and Mourne.
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for Cork LGBT pride. Cork Pride cational, civic and cultural activi-
ties in order to enrich the lives of
LGBT people and the community as a whole.
FEATURE | PRIDE
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PRIDE CYMRU - AUGUST 15
BRIGHTON PRIDE - AUGUST 1-2
The largest annual celebration of its kind in Wales, Pride Cymru is
2015 sees Brighton Pride celebrate its 25th birthday. Loved locally and
than ever before, this year’s festivities are bringing together 30 years of
is great about the city and its vibrant LGBT community. To mark this
returning to Coopers Field, Cardiff, for Pride 2015. Louder and prouder Welsh activism. At a cost of over £250,000 to organise, organisers are
expecting 12,000 partygoers to attend. With plans to close off Kingsway,
within Cooper’s field will be a collection of zones each offering something different for everyone including a wide collection of local and national
artists to entertain throughout the day. Organisers are keeping tight lipped
about this year’s lineup, but 2014 highlights included X Factor fave Misha B, and Collabro. (Busy boys, them!) pridecymru.co.uk
acclaimed nationally, Brighton & Hove Pride is a celebration of all that huge milestone, the theme for this year’s Pride is “Carnival of Diversity”. The parade is the spectacle of the year and a chance to join others in the
liveliest, most colourful, and empowering visual showcase in the city. The
parade will culminate at Preston Park where the main party is taking place. No word as yet on who is performing but organisers have promised an
array of world renowned performers, musicians, and artists, as well as a funfair complete with that trademark Brighton charm. brighton-pride.org
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FEATURE | PRIDE
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PRIDE AROUND THEwords WORLD by MARTIN
fledgling American gay rights movement to the national
stage. On the morning of June 28th, the Stonewall Inn was raided by police, a then regular occurrence at the Green-
wich Village bar that had become the centre of New York City’s gay community. But this time its members, tired of
the ongoing raids, fought back. The weeks of civil disobedience that followed became known as The Stonewall Riots. (“Know your History,” page 92).
A year after the riots the first Gay Pride march was held
SPAIN In the 1960s underground gay scenes flourished in Barcelona, Ibiza and Sitges, despite the fact that
homosexuality was criminalised under the dictator-
ship of Francisco Franco. Under Franco, anti-gay laws were vigorously enforced. Gay men were routinely
imprisoned, and Franco’s civil guard used the law as an excuse to imprision political dissenters.
Today Spain is one of Europe’s most socially tolerant societies. Same-sex marriage is legal and an over-
whelming 88% of the population view homosexuality in a positive light. Madrid hosts the largest Gay
UNITED STATES The Stonewall riots in the summer of 1969 catapulted the
MULHOLLAND
Pride parade in Europe. Held at the end of June, and
20 COUNTRIES WHERE GAY MARRIAGE IS NOW LEGAL
by the Christopher Street Liberation Day Committee to
attended by more than two million people, Madrid
Pride is known to the locals as the Fiesta del Orgullo. In 2007 Europride, the European Pride Parade, took place in Madrid. Two-and-a-half million people at-
tended more than 300 events over a week to celebrate Spain’s victory as the leading country with most de-
veloped LGBT rights in the world. Madrid’s bustling gay district Chueca is the biggest gay district of its kind in Europe and was the centre of the celebra-
tions. Barcelona, Valencia and Seville hold hold Pride parades of their own.
commemorate their victory. Pride committees were formed in other major cities throughout the US to commemorate Stonewall and continue to fight for Gay Lib. One of the first major successes of this movement came when the
American Psychiatric Association removed homosexual-
ity from The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. In 1979, following the ten-year anniversary of Stonewall and the assassination of Harvey Milk, thou-
sands took to the streets for the first National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights. For ten years
the struggle had been a collection of local ones, but here
for the first time it garnered major national attention. By 1993, more than two decades after Stonewall, and with a
full decade of AIDs awareness behind it, the Christopher Street Festival was renamed NYC Pride.
In 2011 lawmakers voted to make New York the sixth state
to legally recognise same-sex marriages. Today that number stands at thirty-seven. What started as a small celebratory party at the Stonewall Inn is now attended by over one million people.
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FEATURE | PRIDE
UGANDA Homosexuality remains illegal in Uganda, punishable by a
jail sentence. In a country where American-style evangelical
Christianity is increasingly popular, homophobia is endemic,
where gay men and women face frequent harassment violence. However, it is no longer illegal to promote homosexuality
and Ugandans are no longer obliged to denounce people they suspect of being gay to authorities.
In the summer of 2014, Uganda held their first gay pride rally after a draconian (and worryingly popular among Ugandans)
anti-homosexuality law was overturned. The law, condemned as “abominable” by Human Rights groups, could have seen those
convicted as homosexuals jailed for life. The constitutional court
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rejected the law on a technicality six months after it took effect.
RUSSIA
The government swiftly filed an appeal. Unfortunately, MPs have recently signed a petition for a new vote on the bill.
Ugandan LGBT activists openly celebrated the decision in
rally held in Entebbe, 35km from the capital Kampala, at an invitation-only “Uganda Pride” event. More than a hundred people turned up to celebrate this first Gay Pride. One pair
of activists waved a rainbow flag with a slogan appealing for
people to “join hands” to end the “genocide” of homosexuals. President Yoweri Museveni signed the law to win domestic
support ahead of the 2016 presidential election. The decision
was met by a hostile international community,with millions of
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Homosexuality was decriminalised in Russia
in 1993 after the fall of the Soviet Union, and
yet to this day Russia remains one of the most socially conservative countries in the world.
Recent polls suggest that the majority of Rus-
sians actively support legislation that discriminates against gay and trans people. In 2014, the Human Rights Watch released a report
documenting the rise in homophobic rhetoric
and violence in Russia. It blamed a law passed in 2013 banning the promotion of “non-
dollars of governmental aid diverted for the flagrant violation
traditional lifestyles” among minors which was
of human rights.
signed by then President Vladimir Putin. Since this law was enacted, LGBT groups through-
out Russia have reported a surge of homopho-
bic violence. The “anti-propaganda law” is most often used as justification for the attacks.
Although larger cities such as Moscow and
Saint Petersburg have thriving underground LGBT communities, traditionally there has been an historic resistance to Gay Pride
throughout the Russian Federation. The first Rebecca Vassie/AP/Press Association Images
Gay Pride demonstration was held in 2006.
This parade, and those that followed in 2007 and 2008, were marred by scenes of extreme
homophobic attacks. In June 2012 the Moscow City Government enacted a hundred-year ban on Gay Pride celebrations citing a risk of vio-
lence against participants as the reason. Despite being fined by the European Court of Human Rights discrimination, the city of Moscow has
refused permission to hold Moscow Pride until the year 2112.
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COMMENT | SJ WILSON
Let’s say “straight pride” was a thing. How would that work?
SJ Wilson A very special issue this is, isn’t it? Pride
This is something I’ve noticed over the
to defend the rights. It’s not about religious
seemingly exclusive Show-Your-Gay-Card
people just like you and me to love whoever
season is upon us AGAIN. It’s hard to
years of celebrating Pride. What was once a
dancing to Amelia Lily at the street party.
event has evolved into something much
believe. It feels like only yesterday I was
Gay Pride, Trans Pride, Lesbian Pride,
Bear Pride, Disability Pride, no matter what you are celebrating Pride remains a positive experience and a inclusive celebration of
diversity. And yet not a year goes by when I don’t hear some muppet say something along the lines off “But why isn’t there a straight pride?”
Alright, I’ll bite. For arguments sake let’s
say “Straight Pride” was a real thing. How would it work? How would you celebrate
straight pride and, more importantly, why
would you want to? Can you imagine how the floats would look? I’m trying not to, I
really am. An open top bus full of strippers and a load of hairy lairy blokes rubbing
themselves against them? No thank you. It’s important to remember that the
Pride we know and love wasn’t always the
weeklong festival it is today. What started off as a hundred-strong march through
the city centre to rally for equal rights has
grander. An event that once had more pro-
testers than supporters has become a united movement, a celebration of diversity and a
challenge to prejudice. But more than that,
what was once little more than an excuse to
“What started as a hundred people strong march through the city to rally for equal rights has evolved into one of the biggest events in the social calendar, attended by thousands” get absolutely rat arsed is now more family friendly than ever.
Every year I notice more and more
evolved into one of the biggest events on
people – parents and grandparents, mums
people every year. And rightly so.
why shouldn’t they? Contrary to popular
the social calendar attended by thousands of So why is “Straight Pride” a ridicu-
lous concept? Just because you are straight doesn’t mean you are entitled to a day to celebrate it, not when heterosexuality is
the dominant voice culturally, socially and
politically, when you don’t have to consider yourself in terms of your sexuality because,
as a straight person, you don’t have to. Like
most straight guys I’ve never had any issues talking about my love life. I didn’t struggle
to come to terms with preferring fanny over
and dads - bringing little kids to Pride. And
afraid to be his true self for most of his life, to the mother of three who was in a hetro
relationship her whole life but was forced to pretend she wasn’t a gay woman.
Of course, with it being the biggest
gayest day out ever naturally it’s going to in-
clude the most flamboyant parade you’ll ever witness. Bright, bold and brilliant; not the
celebration that those on the fringes would
have you believe. It’s the one parade that the entirety of Belfast can get behind and come together to support.
It goes without saying that Pride is a
celebration of pride. So be proud of who you are. Be proud to love who you love. Don’t
retreat into a corner and be shamed by those whose narrow definition of what constitutes
love does not meet your definition. Whether
you are a mother, or a father, a son or daughter, an aunt, an uncle, a grandparent, there is
no greater love than the love of family. That’s why Pride is for everyone, straight people included.
see anyone walking around in S&M gear
with dog leashes attached to their partners. Nobody is giving out free whippings and there are definitely no public displays of
sexual acts. This isn’t the Folsom Street Fair.
The only people to give that idea any serious consideration are those who either have a vendetta against the community or who have never been to Pride in their lives.
In the unlikely event that person is
you, let me tell you Pride is about love, not
a straight man. I can’t imagine the fear and
heterosexuality. It’s about the LGBT com-
courage it takes to do something like that.
they want, be it the gay man who was too
belief Pride is not a seedy event. You won’t
cock. I didn’t have to worry about what my
friends and family would think about me as
or political identities. It’s about the right of
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IN CONVERSATION WITH... | SHAYNE WARD
SHAYNE WARD
IN CONVERSATION WITH... | SHAYNE WARD
He’s the hottest thing to come out of Manchester since Harrington jackets and Canal Street. Ten years since his X Factor win and Shayne Ward is busier than ever. With a third album under his belt, the ‘No Promises’ singer is about to swop the recording studio for the cobbles of Weatherfield
As a Manchester lad, how do you think
eos I’ve done over the years, there has
challenge but I loved it. It definitely
Rovers Return?
Wanting to act has always been there.
Coronation Street. I love the adrenalin
it will feel to be having a pint in the
When I heard I’d been offered the part I was in total disbelief. It still hasn’t
sunk it. “Shayne Ward, the lad from Manchester, given a role on such an iconic show.” It’s an absolute dream
come true. I’m excited to walk down
those famous cobbles. My family and
friends know how much this means to me and I cannot wait to do them all
proud. 2015 has been a great year for
me so far and I look forward to joining
been elements of acting involved too. I’ve done the West End, so now that I’ve got Coronation Street too I can
While we’re on the subject, how would
The music is still there, it will always
we first met you?
It’s not so difficult balancing the two. will be there. We are actually planning a couple of live shows at the minute. I’m keeping them side by side, the
acting and the singing. I’m still young, there’s life in me yet!
What would you say has been your
far. It’s like going next door!
The parts I’ve played in The War of the
Your character, Aidan Connor, is a distant cousin of Michelle Connor played
by the lovely Kym Marsh. What else can you tell us about him?
He’s a little bit of a goodie, a little
bit of a baddie. The thing about the
Connor’s is that they’re a really lovely
family. But then I’ll be coming in with a little bit of charm, a little bit cheeky, to shake things up a bit. At the same time, one thing you don’t do is cross
the Connor family. They stick together. With the Connors it’s go big, or go
home. You’ll find out more about him as the series goes on, that’s all I’m al-
lowed to say. The character is Mancu-
toughest role so far?
Worlds and Rock of Ages are so dif-
ferent. In Rock of Ages, playing Stacee Jaxx, I was an 80’s American rockstar that everybody loved. All the girls
wanted him, all the guys wanted to be him. I was singing songs from White
Snake. My own big number was “Dead Or Alive” by Bon Jovi. You can’t get better than that.
“Now that I’m doing Coronation Street I can consider myself a proper actor”
nian-Irish, which is exactly what I am, so we’re pretty similar in a lot of ways.
Whereas when I played the Artil-
You’ve acted before but you’re best
the Worlds I was playing this soldier
laryman in Jeff Wayne’s The War of
yourself as more of a singer or more of an actor?
Don’t get me wrong, I’m 100% a singer. But at the same time, with all the vid-
your say your music has evolved since
I have a lot more freedom now. When you’re with a record label you want
to try things but obviously the record label have plans for you too. The first album was more or less ballads. The
second album I recorded in Sweden,
and the guys I recorded it with wanted it to be a bit more pop music-y, a
bit more R’n’B, you know? The third
album was a lot more indie based, so
a lot more guitar, anthem-driven stuff.
But with my new album, Closer, which came out in April, we’ve gone back to
basics. I think, gone are the days when someone can ask me, “What style are
you now?” It’s got to the point where, if you sound great on a dance track,
you release a dance track. If you sound great on a pop track, you release that. You go where the music takes you. I play to my strengths.
You aren’t gay but you’re widely considered to be a gay icon. What’s that like? That’s absolutely fine! [Laughs] Am I a gay icon? I love it! I’ve had great
support from the gay community for
It’s a cool part to play.
known for your music. Do you see
of different crowds every night.
consider myself a proper actor.
the Coronation Street family. The great thing is that I don’t have to travel too
helped me when I was auditioning for
who was very complex with all of his
emotions, trying to convince the main character that they can create a whole new world after the last one has been
destroyed by aliens. It was an amazing
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years. Even going back to the days
when I was on the X Factor, you went from performing on the show to
performing live at G-A-Y that night. Even when I won the show I per-
formed at G-A-Y the same night. I’ve
done a lot of Prides festivals. This year I’m doing Blackpool Pride, and the
Kremlin Street Party at Belfast Pride,
IN CONVERSATION WITH... | SHAYNE WARD
so that’s really exciting. To be honest, there’s not much difference in the reception I get
from my gay fans. I love people being who
and no doubt my new track which is “The
Way You Were”. It’s going to be pretty cool.
they want to be. Some of my best friends
Is it tough balancing all of your commitments
what counts. The only thing I worry about
It’s really good to give up as much time as
are gay. They’re real to themselves and that’s performing at Pride is the weather. It always helps when a bit of sunshine comes through. When you’re performing at Pride will we be hearing any new music?
Oh God yeah! You’ll be hearing a mix of the last three albums, as well as my new album,
with your charity work?
you can to help these things. I do do a lot
for charity. I do a lot with charity football.
I’m a patron for Hearts and Minds, which a charity set up to help people with Autism.
The money they raise funds a family support service to offer legal aid and other informa-
tion to people touched by autism. I’m doing a charity horse ride
SHAYNE WARD (2006)
for them, 150 miles
across Spain, which is amazing. I’ve got five
days off filming Cor-
rie to do it, so when I get back I’ll be walking like John Wayne. I always loved the
idea of being Clint Eastwood.
You’ve signed a year long contract with
BREATHLESS (2007)
Corrie. When the
time comes for you to
leave how do you like to bow out?
I would never get
myself killed! It’s too early to say. Let me
get started first! Tell
you what, let’s do this interview again in a
year and I’ll tell you how I’d like to go.
We’ll see what the fans have to say!
Shayne Ward’s new album, Obsession is available in stores and for download on iTunes.
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CLOSER (2015)
INTERVIEW| ANDY BELL
He was 21 years old and working in a shop when he answered Vince Clarke’s ad for a vocalist. Erasure’s debut album, Wonderland, catapulted Andy Bell to worldwide audience. Here he talks the perils of fame, plastic surgery, and coming out...
What was your childhood like? We didn’t have many luxuries, but we were a close family, and very loving. I’m the eldest of four girls and one boy. My brother was still a baby when I left home! I remember having lots of laughs, but definitely a few fights too. They could stick up for themselves. I was very close to my mum. I was able to talk to her about anything I only told her I was gay after I’d left home. I think it was tough on her because I’m the oldest boy and she’s from quite a traditional family. Were you ever bullied for being gay? As I was going to and from school groups of boys would usually call me names or pick on me. At first I didn’t really understand why they were doing it. Later on people told me it was because I walked like a girl. I only ever fought back twice. I would have turned the other cheek but they pushed me too far. It made me realise that groups of people are like sheep. They follow the leader. In 2004 you told the world you had been HIV positive for six years. What prompted that decision? I don’t like secrets hanging over my head. I wanted to get it off of my chest. You raised some eyebrows when you said you wanted to become delibertately infected. Obviously you didn’t mean that. Have you learned to become comfortable with your status? I know it’s a bit of a cliché but it takes a while to love yourself. It’s an ongoing process. Acceptance of my status is a huge part of that but at the time I was very angry and scared and I lashed out.
What do you make of rising infection rates amongst young men? Do you think apps like Grindr and the availability of saunas have a lot to answer for? I think it’s something that still remains very private. I know I only discuss it with very close friends and colleagues. Men are men and will always be horny but they need to be reminded of the safe sex message constantly because it does get through. As they say, “A standing prick has no conscience.” How does being HIV affect your life? HIV doesn’t make you a monster or unclean. Don’t kid yourself that having unsafe sex with a ‘negative’ person is safe, because you never really know. I constantly remind myself of how far we’ve come as a community and what we’ve been through. To judge someone for their HIV status is ignorant beyond belief. You’ve been open about your plastic surgery. Personally we think you look great! Is it a struggle being an older gay man in a culture that puts a very high price on youth and beauty? Eventually you become comfortable in your own skin. I think a few wrinkles are sexy. It’s tougher on women but a few freshen ups certainly make you feel and look better. It’s been thirty years since Erasure. Does your success still feel a little surreal? It’s hard to imagine my life any other way. I know I’m in quite a privileged position and that comes with responsibilities. The suffering in the world is sometimes unbearable to think of.
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You were one of the first pop stars to be open about their sexuality. What was it like being so open at the height of your career? It was fine, really. Jimmy (Somerville) and I got a bit pissed off at the time that guys like George Michael and Boy George were in the closet when everyone else knew, but on reflection it’s their own personal choice. Do you think modern popstars stay in the closet out of fear of rejection? What do you make of someone so recognisable as Tom Daley coming out at such a young age? I think Tom is an absolute legend for coming out so young, especially for being a sportsman. Of course it helps when you are young and dishy and wearing skimpy swimwear! Record companies are still very old fashioned. Even now all they think about is putting profit before people. You’ve also been open about your drug use in the past. What was your lowest moment and how did you turn things around? Like everything drugs become boring. Your body isn’t going to be filled by it. You have to find spiritual nourishment. What’s the future for Erasure? Are you excited to be returning to Torsten the Bareback Saint? Can you tell us a little more about that project? I’m sure Erasure will be recording and touring soon. Torsten the Libertine is almost complete and will be performed and released in October. I am very proud of it.
IN CONVERSATION WITH... | WHIGFIELD
Dee dee, na na na! Can you feel the air getting hot? It’s Whigfield! Where did the name Whigfield originate? When I was a kid in Denmark I had a lot of different music classes. Most of my family are musicians. I wanted to play the drums actually but my mum said I had to play the piano. My dad said there was no one in the family who sings so that’s what I did. My music teacher’s name was Emma Whigfield, that’s where it came from. Tell us a bit more about you? I’m really boring! When I’m not making music I like to go to the gym. I live a very normal life, I never go out. I’m like one of the guys, I’m pretty boyish. I’ve always got along more with the guys than the girls because I didn’t really enjoy sitting talking about makeup. And I think that’s part of why I enjoy music; it’s always men that I’m working with. I’ve got two huge dogs so I play with them. Were you ready for the phenomenon that was Saturday Night? You get used to it pretty fast because you have to have to do so many things. I was basically living on Top of the Pops. I introduced Oasis with their first number one, and acts like Skunk Anansie and Björk. You only
have like ten seconds and you have to remember what to say. I got so drunk on my first night! You’re still a huge hit with the gay community? How come? The more true you can be to yourself the happier you will be. Be honest with yourself and do what makes you happy. Even if people think you’re nuts or whatever, this is the only way you can be happy in life. The day I stopped doing what people wanted me to do I became a happy person. Wake up every morning and give yourself time to appreciate happy thoughts, straight away. Positive thinking, or antidepressants. I’m very ironic – I think that’s part of the Danish humor. Your home country was the first country in the world to recognize same sex unions and have since legalized same sex marriage… Why shouldn’t they? Everybody should be free to do whatever they want. In Denmark we have female priests, they can have families. I really respect people that go to church and do what makes them happy, but people should have the freedom to marry whoever they want. They aren’t hurting anyone else!
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IN CONVERSATION WITH... | BUCKS FIZZ
Thirty years after their Eurovision triumph, Buck’s Fizz are back touring the UK with new member Bobby McVay. GNI MAG catches up with the 80’s legends
Back together after three decade, and now a UK tour. How does it feel? Jay: It’s great! This has been our best year in many, many years. Mike: It is great, actually. Cheryl: We got back together as a three-piece in 2004, and we brought Bobby in about a year ago. It just feels right. It feels better than it ever did, even going right back to the original line-up. Bobby: When Song for Europe started it was really the grandaddy for shows like X-Factor and Pop Idol. It was the only chance that unknown people like ourselves could get a break. If you won it was overnight success. You were straight out of the BBC and into a recording studio the next day. Did watching Eurovision last week bring back any memories? C: We were working at G-A-Y. They had a huge TV screen just for us so we sat watching it. I thought it was fantastic. Eurovision gets better every year. J: The quality of the songs this year was fantastic. Europe get the best artists and the best songwriters, I wish we could do the same! C: I love how the fans can go and support it, and they’re all there waving their flags. But I think when you’re eliminated in the preliminaries you should also be eliminated from voting, because it goes on so ridiculously long.
M: It’s very political now. And it’s a shame because it used to be a song contest. Obviously Bucks Fizz were winners, but the UK doesn’t have a great history of winning. Why do you think that is? M: I’ll tell you why. It’s because no-one picks the songs. These days the public has no say, but when we did it they had juries all around the country to pick the song. J: They did that for a while. But when people voted they ended up voting for acts that were just as bad as the others. C: The only way we’re going to win is by putting in a decent song with a decent singer and we haven’t done that. This year I expected us to do a lot better. Because it was different. But when you compared it to the winning song, the winning song was just fantastic. J: And the visuals were brilliant. C: The Russian song was great. There were so many good songs. But then you think, “You know what, we probably got the votes that we deserved because we weren’t good enough. You’ve got to appeal to Europe, and Europe always go for a big song with a big singer. Whether it’s a ballad or not it’s got to be spectacular, Electro Velvet were probably too twee for them. J: The contest has moved so far ahead of what the British public think a Eurovision winner should be.
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C: Gay people should choose the entry! M: Of course they should. It’s the biggest gay music festival in the world. Speaking of the gays, it was looking a little scary when Russia took an early lead. Do you think Eurovision could ever be staged in Russia? J: I think it’s a shame Russia didn’t win. The singer did a fantastic performance. If I had have put money on I would have backed Sweden to win. But even though it was such a good song, because Russia is so unpopular, Europe wouldn’t have voted them to win. C: It was so sad to see her booed. Graham Norton had the right idea when he said, “Leave the politics out of music.” B: I couldn’t picture Eurovision taking place in Russia. It very nearly did though! L: It should become the world song contest. M: Yeah and have it on for six hours… [Laughs] What one thing could a potential UK entry do to win next year? M: Ripping skirts off. C: Bribery?
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“ Young people should be taught the importance of respect and healthy relationships and to understand the role of the family – in all its forms.” Shadow Education Secretary Tristram Hunt
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From a daily barrage of sexual imagery to schools that promote abstinence only policies, in the first of our featured investigations GNI MAG examines the state of sex education in our schools Words by Kieran Clarke & Tom Vonier
F
or generations of schoolchildren there are
participants cited the media (both mainstream or
ucation than putting condoms on cucum-
tion. First sexual partners and friends were the
few things more synonymous with sex ed-
bers and adolescent tittering at the back of the
classroom. But what about those gay, lesbian,
pornographic) as their main source of informasecond and third most common sources.
Age-appropriate education on same-sex rela-
and trans young people for whom an education
tionships, contraception, and sexually transmitted
Cailean is 17 and attends a grammar school
Curriculum. As we know, the reality is far differ-
in the basics of heterosexual sex isn’t enough?
in North Belfast. “Sex education for me was very
limited,” he said. “As a class we were taught about safe sex and how to reduce the spread of STIs but
only within straight relationships. The only other
insights we had was a pretty disturbing video on pregnancy and childbirth.”
If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. In
2007 the UK Youth Parliament undertook a survey of more than 20,000 young people under the
age of 18; 40% of participants, equivalent to 8000 respondents, rated their sex and relationship education as either “poor” or “very poor.”
Because the majority of sex education lessons
address the needs of heterosexual students alone,
infections should form a core part of the National ent. If you have followed the Daily Mail’s latest
moral crusade (“Children as young as TEN caught ‘sexting’”, “Sexting and online bullying fuelling teenage depression”) the results of a recent YouGov poll
which found that one in three school-age children in the UK has turned to friends and the internet
for sexual enlightenment should come as no sur-
prise. In an era dominated by tech savvy kids, with almost 40% of young people having sent a naked
picture of themselves via smartphone, should we be really be surprised if increasing numbers of school children are looking beyond the classroom for their sexual educations?
Tid is 19 and attended a high-school in the
LGBT young people are leaving school un-
south-east of England. “There wasn’t really any
themselves safe.
video of someone giving birth and got told that
equipped with the information they need to keep
Under current guidelines, it is compulsory for
schools to teach the biological aspects of puberty, reproduction and the spread of viruses. These top-
ics are compulsory as part of National Curriculum
in Science which is taught to all pupils of primary and secondary age. However, according to a sur-
vey by the charity Youth Chances, approximately three quarters of LGBT young people surveyed
reported learning nothing about same-sex relationships. 89% reported learning nothing about bisexuality, while 94% reported learning nothing
sex ed in my school,” he said. “We watched a it is probably best to avoid sex if you can. Oh,
and there was the usual, “Girls, don’t get raped,” not, “Boys, don’t rape,” thing. The only time in
my schooling that sex and gender was properly explored was in Psychology A-Levels, and even
then we had a devout Christian teacher who
‘knew’ that ‘the gays’ chose their sexualities. I actually ended up teaching the sex and gender module to my friends because I was the only person who knew enough about it.”
Government guidance on Sex and Relationship
about transgender issues.
Education clearly states that “teachers should be
the mechanics of sex, but that we neglect teach-
orientation, answer appropriate questions and
We often hear that young people are taught
ing them almost anything of the emotional side
of things. According to a recent paper published in the British medical journal BMJ Open which
compared how the sources used by young people
to find information on sex has changed, half of all
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able to deal honestly and sensitively with sexual offer support.” And yet in a hard-hitting report
published in February, the Commons Education Select Committee sided with campaigners who
have fought hard for SRE to be made mandatory across all schools. Currently, academies and free
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schools (which account for about half of all schools) are not bound by the
and gender identity to be fully mainstreamed throughout the statutory cur-
Graham Stuart, the chair of the committee who produced the report,
people at all stages of learning. We have been very clear that the first time a
national curriculum, and therefore chose how to teach SRE.
said there was an overwhelming demand from teachers, parents, and young
people for SRE to become compulsory. However, the committee went on to
riculum, so that all young people have opportunities to learn about LGBT child learns about LGBT people should not be in a sex education classes.”
While the Department for Education does not explicitly framework
conclude as part of its recommendations that parents be allowed the right
LGBT issues, the independent education inspectorate Ofsted provides clear
formation about reproduction, safer sex, LGBT issues, contraception and
they find them. Inspectors analyse and report “whether the school’s bullying
to withdraw their children from classes if they object to them receiving inabortion. “Parents have rights, too.” said Mr Stuart. “They must be consulted by schools on the provision of SRE and must keep the right
to withdraw their children if they are unhappy with what the school provides.”
Gay rights campaigner Peter Tatchell attacked that de-
cision, saying this parental veto “side steps” the most important issue. “Why should parents be able to deny their
children the right to information to debunk ignorance and prejudice and to ensure they have happy, healthy sexual and emotional lives? I thought school was about preparing young people for adult life. Love, sex and relationships
are some of the most important aspects of most people’s lives. Yet millions of young people grow up sexually and
emotionally illiterate. This is the shocking price we pay for half-baked SRE and the right of parents to pull their kids out of SRE classes.”
In February of this year Shadow Education Secretary
Tristram Hunt announced Labour’s plans to make SRE compulsory in all state schools. “Children and young people should be taught the importance of respect and healthy relationships,” he said, “and to understand the role of the
instructions to school inspectors on recognising systematic failures where
and safeguarding policies and equality objectives address gender identity
“Millions of young people grow up sexually and emotionally illiterate. This is the shocking price we pay for halfbaked Sex Education”
family – in all its forms. That is why Labour will make age-
appropriate sex and relationship education compulsory in all state schools.”
and sexuality. [And furthermore] whether the school has
taken any action to ensure that provision meets the needs of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender pupils, for exam-
ple in sex and relationships education and other aspects
of PSHE, including providing age-appropriate advice and guidance.”
What is clear is that the most pressing issues facing
young people today are the moral bias of their teachers, the appropriateness of the sex education provider, and the absence of recognition of different sexualities. In order to
address these problems, a number of reform are clearly needed. Firstly, PSHE should form part of the statutory curriculum and not be strictly limited to schools run by
Local Education Authorities. Secondly, sex education programmes ought to be delivered in a non-judgemental way by the appropriate people, preferably by independent bodies with vested interests in ensuring that sex education
be delivered in an age appropriate manner within existing equality guidelines. And thirdly, when it comes to infor-
mation, that heterosexuality should not be given disproportionate emphasis.
The Coalition government repeatedly ruled out making PSHE compul-
Joe Hayman, chief executive of the PSHE Association welcomed the
sory for primary schools, with Elizabeth Truss, then Parliamentary Under-
would be a huge step forward and is a move supported by 87% of parents,
“non-statutory subject”. With a majority Conservative government now in
Commons Education Committee’s report. “Statutory status for [SRE] 88% of teachers, 85% of business leaders, five Royal Medical Colleges, two
royal societies and over one hundred expert organisations. We were particularly pleased that the Committee listened to young people when taking evidence: hundreds of thousands of young people have voted to make ‘a
Curriculum which prepares us for Life’ a UK Youth Parliament campaign priority for two years in a row.”
Secretary of State for Education, saying in March 2013 it should remain a
power, Prime Minister David Cameron has said, “I strongly agree with the
importance of high-quality PSHE education in schools. I believe that all schools should teach PSHE, drawing on good practice, and we have outlined this expectation the introduction to framework to the new National Curriculum.”
Gavin Boyd, Policy Manager for The Rainbow Project, has welcomed this
broader trend of more diverse educational policies. “The Rainbow Project have had some positive engagements with the Education Minister and the
All Party Group on Sexual Health. We have advocated for sexual orientation
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STONEWALL CEO RUTH HUNT Stonewall has been a vocal supporters of teaching young children about gay
up, the down or something in between. And not all of this discrimination
Stonewall’s Education for All programme aims to enable teachers and
Stonewall will not stop until this discrimination has stopped, whether it’s
relationships. Can you tell us a bit more about that commitment?
local authorities to teach young people about difference, and prevent and tackle bullying. No one should be discriminated against for their sexual
is even visible or vocal.
on the street, in a school, within a workplace or on the terraces.
orientation or gender identity. In order to help prevent that, it’s essential
How supportive were the coalition government in supporting Stonewall’s
As well producing research on attitudes in schools and amongst teachers,
We’ve seen huge advances in legal equality over the last 25 years for
that people begin to learn about difference at the earliest stage possible. Stonewall produces resources. As well as posters, stickers and postcards
this includes ‘FREE’ and ‘FIT’, two films about difference that Stonewall produced for primary and secondary schools.
As well as teacher training, Stonewall’s School Champions and Education Champions help schools and local authorities celebrate difference and empower their young people to challenge prejudice.
What has Stonewall done to combat the pejorative “gay” in schools?
Homophobic, biphobic and transphobic language is endemic in schools.
aims? What hope do you have of the Prime Minister continuing that fight? lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people in Britain. In fact, lesbian, gay and bisexual people in Britain are now equal in law.
Looking ahead, Stonewall is concerned with reforming laws that affect
trans people, and their right to be themselves without compromise. And whilst it was great to see more openly lesbian, gay and bisexual MPs
elected to Westminster than ever before – however the absence of any
openly trans MPs concerns us. We’ll be working with the new government to ensure that these laws are addressed.
Stonewall research shows that 99% of gay young people hear phrases
What battles do you still see yourself as having yet to win? What battles
teachers have received no training on how to tackle it.
Complacency is a huge issue that can affect any civil rights move-
such as “that’s so gay” at school, whilst 90% of primary and secondary To address this, Stonewall launched an anti-homophobic language campaign, made up of posters emblazoned with hard-hitting slogans such as
“Gay. Let’s Get The Meaning Straight”. These posters are displayed in schools,
colleges and local authorities across the country. Alongside that, Stonewall has
produced a short guide for teachers on how to deal with this language, which can be downloaded for free online. Do you think same-sex families are increasingly under attack? Or are
its adherents simply becoming more vocal?
Discrimination against same-sex families, and the lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans community in general can come from
any direction, be it the right, the left, the
haven’t yet been fought?
ment. Often it’s hard to see how much work there is left to do
if that work doesn’t directly and completely affect you as
an individual. Stonewall’s one and only concern is
complete equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people.
That battle did not end with equal marriage.
And it won’t end with trans law reform. And
in fact, that battle doesn’t end in Britain. Until all lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people
are accepted without exception, Stonewall’s
work will continue. And at this point in time,
that’s a lot of work we’ve got left to do.
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COMMENT | ELAINE O’SHEA
It’s a girl thing: The long road to victory.
Elaine O’Shea After the positive verdict from the Ashers
years old and I have never once casually,
how crucial it can be. But in these dif-
tive sigh of relief. And who can blame them
lover in public. I don’t know how many of
the people we love is under attack, when
bakery case the community let out a collecfor celebrating a huge milestone for LGBT equality when such victories are few and
far between? (It’s a sore loser who accuses
their opponent of “gloating”.) I hate to say
it but - when it comes to equality - doesn’t
it sometimes feel that whenever we take one
comfortably, carelessly held hands with a
you can even imagine what that might be like because, of course, it’s a small thing
holding hands with a lover in public. And
it’s not that nobody wanted to, it’s just that we didn’t feel comfortable to do that.”
Which is of course why we don’t celebrate
step forward we have to take two steps back?
Straight Pride: because heterosexual people
debate was at times difficult to watch, not
Good on you not needing a day of your own.
In the South, the #YESEQUALITY
because of the hugely inspirational efforts of people from every walk of life up and
down the country to make it a possibility,
but because of the depths its opponents were willing to sink to attack our very existence. The worst were those who tried to use
children as a pawn to discredit our so-called agenda. Those most vocal opponents of gay rights would have you believe that the only
are the dominant voice in any public sphere. Enjoy holding your partner’s hand in public
The sad truth is that there are few straight
people who have any idea how it feels to be gay, or to be lesbian, or bisexual, or trans.
They might support what we do. They might fight for the same things we fight for. But they can never truly know. As Panti Bliss
herself (Ireland’s foremost “gender discom-
bobulist”) said in her touching and insightful TEDxDublin speech: “I am forty-five
discrimination on the basis of perceived
sexual identity, when American Presidential
candidate Ted Cruz can say “ISIS is execut-
ing homosexuals and you want to talk about
gay rights?” and mean every word, thats why we need Pride.
The sad fact is that there will always be
who you love then it becomes a different
can appreciate the significance of having such a small gesture as holding hands in
public with someone you love taken away from you, you can never truly know.
No straight person starts a new job and
been ashamed for hesitating. What exactly
It all comes down to a lack of education.
MLAs are doing their best to legislate for
same rights you take for granted. Until you
villainous homosexual cabal. They are also, nonsense about “straight pride”.
workplace discrimination, when our elected
someone who disagrees with your point of
Don’t mind us while we fight to enjoy the
has to worry about out outing themselves.
coincidentally, the ones most likely to spout
our trans brothers and sisters face horrific
while enjoying your heterosexual privilege.
reason we celebrate Pride is to flaunt our
lifestyle and recruit new members into our
ficult times when our basic right to marry
The worst part is that hot guilty feeling of
are we ashamed for? It’s society that puts us
in this bubble, not ourselves. It’s society that creates this “them and us” dichotomy that
view. But when it comes to disagreeing over matter entirely, it comes a matter of human rights. (How two gay men or gay women
who want to get married would denigrate
your marriage is anyone’s guess.) So for this Pride season be proud and comfortable in
your own skin. The day is coming when kids having two mummies or two daddies will
be every bit as common as one mummy and one daddy. It will be a long road to victory, but we will get there in the end.
pits us against people who differ from us
only very slightly. Being ashamed won’t help us win that fight, but when a person faces ridicule and even violence for expressing
who they really are, no one can blame you for feeling ashamed.
I admit that in my younger years I saw
Pride as little more than an excuse to dress up, drink, and go wild. I never considered
@celticbard86
“It all comes down to a lack of education. The sad truth is that there are few straight people who have any idea how it feels to be gay, or to be lesbian, or bisexual, or trans. They might support what we do. They might fight for the same things we fight for. But they can never truly know” GNIMAG.COM | 53
FEATURE | IRISH MARRIAGE REFERENDUM
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FEATURE | MARRIAGE REFERENDUM
I was in Dublin for the Gay Marriage Referendum
Scott De Buitléir The weeks of constant debate, commentary and
relaxed, laughed, chatted and returned – briefly –
boring at best and irritating at worst. Seeing the
our part in the “Yes” campaign.
arguments online and in the media had become
“Vote No” posters for the first time, however, was
to being a normal family after months of playing
The following day was spent in a constant air of
an unforgettable moment, because it was the first
disbelief. I awoke late on the Saturday morning as
a strange feeling, leaving me stripped of confi-
a landslide victory for the “Yes” side. The sun shone
time in years I was aware of homophobia. That was dence, just like my school years before I came out. It was an intentional tactic from the “No” side,
however; put gays and lesbians back in their place as tolerated, but not equal. Certainly not equal to ideal, good, Catholic couples. (Where these
the news began to break that early tallies predicted brightly across Dublin, and the smile across my
face stayed with me all that day. As each polling
box was opened across the Republic the result was
even more celebratory, incredulous, and wonderful. 60% Yes.
couples exist, I’ll never know).
85% Yes.
Thankfully, the “No” campaigners’ head start for
posters around the country was short lived. The
The support I felt the previous day was no longer
“Yes” side quickly made their presence seen and
just palpable. It was now proven.
wave of comfort, knowing that a good team of
have chosen to be anywhere else other than Dub-
the naysayers retain their visible monopoly.
atmosphere and the city itself glowed with pride,
heard everywhere. That came as a much-needed volunteers had our backs, and weren’t going to let Eventually, though, the big day finally arrived. As
I recently moved out of the constituency in which
I’m registered, my plan was to go to work and then travel across Dublin to vote. That evening I walked from Stephens Green to O’Connell Street, and I genuinely can’t remember the last time I’ve held
The entire country celebrated, but I would not
lin city centre that Saturday night. The crowds, the and the world was welcome to the party. I cel-
ebrated with my partner, my best friend and some of my best mates not too far from Dublin Castle,
where the national result had been announced to a massive crowd only hours before.
Earlier this year, I wrote about how I’d never
my head so high. The air of hope and positivity
forget the day we would vote on marriage equal-
who were wearing the “Yes Equality” badges and
because it was a night that everyone on this island
in the city was palpable. I passed so many people stickers. Even I had my “Tá” sticker on me, and it made me feel immune to hatred, especially as the sole “No” campaigner I passed on Grafton Street
noticed the sticker and knew better than to try and Brian Lawless/PA Wire/Press Association Images
70% Yes.
ity in Ireland. I proved myself completely right,
will know where they were, how they felt and what they did. Thankfully, most of them were happy. And I cannot stop smiling because of that.
hand me a leaflet. I knew the majority of people
supported me, accepted me and wished me well, without even knowing me. I couldn’t have been happier, and I hadn’t even cast my vote yet.
@scottdebuitleir
Back in my home constituency, I cast my vote
with a mixture of pride, anxiety and relief. The
die had been cast, and now all I had to do – along with the rest of the world – was wait.
I celebrated the day we had all been waiting for
with my parents, who were relieved as I was that
we no longer had to campaign for our rights. We
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62.1% VOTED YES 37.9% VOTED NO
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of shows that cater to all tastes, so for those travellers on a tighter budgets a smaller or even off Broadway show can be just as much of a delight. If you find yourself in need of a suggestion, Something Rotten is a Tony
Award winning comedy set in the 1600s. It tells the story of Nick Bottom, a struggling playwright who is increasingly frustrated living under the
shadow of William Shakespeare. In order to beat his rival once and for all, Bottom seeks out the advice of fortune-teller Thomas Nostradamus (the
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to beating Shakespeare is to write a musical. We couldn’t stop laughing the whole way through.
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TRAVEL FEATURE | NEW YORK CITY
Nobody comes to New York City expecting it to be free. The good news
Ferry station don’t be tempted to join the queue of irate tourists waiting to
charge a fee but the majority of the city’s eighty-three are free to the public
the Staten Island ferry. The ferry is free of charge and passes directly under
is that it doesn’t have to break the bank. The more popular attractions will
(albeit with a heavily suggested donation). Whilst it’s always a good idea to support the arts, paying $22 for entry into The Natural History Museum can sting. Fortunately it can be enjoyed entirely for free if your dollars
are running low. If you chose to dine in the the more expensive areas like
Times Square or the Financial district of Lower Manhattan expect to pay nose-bleed princes. Little Italy in Soho has (unsurprisingly) the largest
concentrations of Italian restaurants anywhere in the city, where you can enjoy traditional calzones and pasta dishes without fear of breaking the
bank. Alternatively, you can take a picnic to Central Park. While the park appears entirely natural, the 843 acre site slap bang in the middle of the busiest metropolis in the world is entirely landscaped. The park features
extensive walking tracks, bridle paths, two ice-skating rinks (one of which converts to a swimming pool in the summer months), the Central Park
Zoo, an outdoor amphitheater which hosts the Shakespeare in the Park
festival, and the historic Central Park Carousel. Another suggestion is to take a walk along the High Line in the Chelsea District. The High Line
is an old industrial train line now used as a public park where tourists and locals alike are treated to some of the loveliest views in the city.
When you think of New York City chances are the first thing to
spring to mind is the iconic Statue of Liberty. When you leave the South
board a ferry for a paid tour of the island. Instead, take the short walk to the statue itself for those all important snaps of Lady Liberty. The ferry ride there and back takes less than hour, leaving you free to explore the
sights of Lower Manhattan, like Wall Street (sadly sans Michael Douglas), One World Trade Centre, and the National September 11th Museum.
One local custom you might not expect is the ability to to walk
down the broad avenues of NYC without without being touted for trade at every available opportunity. Don’t feel the need to be too polite. If you
accept a flyer it is seen as an open invitation to be subjected to the hard sell from every hawker this side of the East River. You will also be asked for donations throughout your trip, be it in the street, in the park, or on the
subway. Resist the temptation to help every person who asks or else you
will soon find yourself very short on cash. Following advice from my New
York friends I learned very quickly to say “no.” You’ll have a few expletives thrown your way but you’ll thank yourself later.
As the travel destination of a lifetime there are few cities quite
like New York. The east-coast birthplace of gay lib, it offers everything
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musical theatre. If that doesn’t appeal, the bar
who are fans of country music. Even if that isn’t
started the the gay rights movement, the Stone-
Marie’s crisis is perfect for New York’s fans of is worth a visit for the atmosphere and sense of
community alone. Punters are treated to some of their favourite show tunes, culminating in one
big group sing along around the piano. After a
few drinks you’ll find it hard to resist doing your best jazz hands or Liza Minnelli impressions.
This Hell’s Kitchen haunt is for those socialites you, Flaming Saddles is not one to be missed. The theme is Wild West, albeit a Disney-fied
variety. If standing at the bar be sure to hold on
to your drinks as the friendly staff are prone to a little bit of traditional dancing on the bar.
Famed as the site of the 1969 riots that kick-
wall Inn is located at 53 Christopher Street in the Chelsea district. At the time of writing a weekly drag show is hosted by Logan Hard-
core. Logan’s Thursday Night Throw-down is a
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DATING | EAMON McAULEY / KITSCH BITCH
Kitsch Bitch
Hey KB! My ex keeps catfishing me on Grindr! Help! Well hello, my little Grindr slut! One of my favourite sayings is “You’ll find ‘er on Grindr!” (along with crazies and psycho killers). A good rule is to only share pictures that can only be sent there and then i.e. “Send me a pic of you with 3 fingers up!” That will sort out those cacatfishing exes. This hot guy keeps asking to spot me on the weigh machines at the gym. Is he just after the D? Oh the gym you say? How lovely! I love a man with more guns than a paramilitary! I’d say he’s not just looking the D he probably wants the whole alphabet so get lifting bitch. And remember if he thinks he’s stronger than you ya get extra points or at least a blowie. Dear KB. My sugar daddy wants to marry me. If I say yes will he cut me off!? A sugar daddy is looking a mommy? We all know that’s one of the toughest jobs there is! But if you love him who am I to stand in the path of love! PS Of course he’ll cut you off. But in the words of Ivanna trump, “Don’t get angry, get everything!” If you want Kitsch Bitch to tackle your dating mishaps, email gni@lambpromotions.com
Dating expert Eamon is here to help.
Eamon McAuley I’m married to a woman but we’re unhappy in our marriage. I’m gay and I’m having an affair with a hot guy but I don’t have the courage to end my marriage. What should I do? This problem won’t go away overnight. You say you and your wife are unhappy. If your affair has been going on for a while then in all likelihood your wife probably feels there is something wrong in your relationship too. She may even have an inkling that you are gay. Find the courage to sit down and talk to your wife. The most important thing is that you tell what is going on. She is probably blaming herself for this unhappiness and that isn’t fair. Be honest and upfront. If you still love each other there is a chance your marriage can be saved. Have you tried couples therapy? If you can’t resolve things then it will be better for you both if it comes to an end. You both deserve a happy and loving relationship without having to live a lie. My fiancé and I have been together for three years. We love each other but I can’t bear his nasty, interfering mother and sister. My fiancé won’t stand up to them. What should I do? No one has the right to be nasty to you or your fiancé or to interfere in your relationship. If your fiancé won’t stand up to his mother and sister after three years he very likely never will stand up to them. So to stop them causing anymore more problems in your relationship I suggest you speak up for the two of you. Give them an ultimatum and stick to it. You shouldn’t have to put up with their nonsense. Good luck. I have fallen for a guy who has HIV. Is it safe to have a sexual relationship with him? When two people with a mixed HIV status get together this is referred to as a serodiscordant relationship. The good news is that it’s perfectly safe to have a sexual relationship with someone who has HIV so long as you’re use protection like condoms and dental dams properly. If your new beau is taking his medication he can expect to live a normal, happy life. There’s no reason why you can’t have that with him and remain HIV negative. I would suggest that the pair of you go along to a HIV support group to have a chat with an expert to discuss your options surrounding safe sex and how to minimise risks. I’m in love with two different men. Help! This is perfectly natural and happens to many people, straight or gay. But if you’ve been hav-
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ing an affair you need to be open and honest about it with both men. Choose the one who you see yourself having a future with and stop playing the two of them. If you’ve been having unprotected sex with one or both of them then all three of you will need to get tested. I’ve been single for three years – how do I get back into the dating game? After being single for three years you have probably lost some of your confidence and edge. If you feel this way then a mini makeover is for you. You’ll feel more attractive and people will see that. Replace your wardrobe, change your hair, whatever is comfortable for you. You’ll feel better and look amazing. I would also suggest that you think about joining a professional dating site, such as Unique Dating Agency. You could also ask some friends to set you up on a few dates. Even if they are rubbish you’ll be out doing new things around the city and that can only be a good thing. Don’t feel the need to rush into things all at once. Take your time getting back into the dating game and in no time at all you’ll find yourself naturally becoming more outgoing, confident and happy. I’ve been dating someone for over a year but they won’t say I’m their boyfriend. Is it so bad for him to acknowledge me as his partner? If you’ve have been dating someone for a year and they don’t want to say they’re your boyfriend then there is a reason behind this. Possibly he already has a partner and he’s using you for sex. It could also be that he is playing the field and doesn’t want to settle with one person. It may be that he has commitment issues and can’t or won’t commit to you. This might explain why he won’t acknowledge your relationship. Has he said he loves you? After a year you should really know where the relationship is going and you have every right to know if he does or doesn’t love you. Confront this issue ASAP and decide if there is a viable future for the both of you. Life is too short to waste on someone who won’t commit. If he won’t take the plunge then it’s time to move on and find somebody who will. If you want to be featured on this page, email dating@lambpromotions.com www.uniquedatingagency.com
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Michael from Hybrid Fitness, Belfast, takes us through the Pistol Squat.
PISTOL SQUAT The pistol squat is the king of all squatting movements. In fact, the pistol squat is the lower body exercise par excellence. It increases athleticism, strengthens the spine, quads and abs, and greatly improves mobility in the hips, knees and ankle joints. FIRST POSITION With your foot flat on the ground, your shin vertical, your heel planted, and your free leg nearly straight in front, descend under complete control until your hamstring touches your calf. Sounds easy, right? Wait until you try it. SECOND POSITION Start in a narrow stance squat with your feet together. Use a weight as a counter balance to stop you from falling back, and squat as normal. Once this becomes easy you can try to hold the bottom of the squat and extend one leg out at a time. Don’t try to descend on one leg just yet. First you will need to practice the box pistol. Descend onto a chair or box and gradually lower the height of the position as you improve your strength. Once you are confident that you’ve built up enough strength only then should you try to descend on a single leg. Again, use a weight to stop you from falling back. Before attempting any pistol variation, speak to a qualified personal trainer who can advise you on what to do.
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Food, glorious food! Who doesn’t love crowding around a friends’ barbecue and watch them become increasingly more annoyed as you comment endlessly on their technique. Besides being deliberately burned by irate hosts, cases of food poisoning double during the summer months. Food poisoning is usually mild but unpleasant, and most people get better within a week. But sometimes it can be more severe, even deadly, so it’s important to take the risks seriously. (Only very poor hosts end up killing their guests.) These are our top tips for keeping safe this summer.
ONE Marks & Spencer Bucket Barbecue £19.50
If you are cooking on a barbecue the two main risk factors are undercooked meat, and spreading germs from raw meat onto food that’s already been prepared. Raw or undercooked meat contain germs that cause
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FEATURE | THE BIG DAY: George & Kenny
It’s a classic case of love at first sight. But when George and Kenny met, sparks flew. Here they share their big day story... George Before Kenny and I met I’d been single for almost a year. Because I was hoping to find someone who wasn’t after one thing I thought I would give a dating website a try. As a dad of two, getting back into the dating game meant a new set of challenges. After about four weeks of chatting and auditioning people I decided internet dating just wasn’t for me. One evening when I logged into the site to delete my account a notification popped up at the very last minute. I’d found a match! He was very handsome. Considering that I’m a father of two and ten years his senior I was quite surprised when he agreed to a date… I was early to the restaurant so I picked a table that would give me full view of the entrance. When he walked in to view I swear the smile on both of our faces must have been visible from space! It was hard
to not fall in love with him there and then. He looked incredible! In those few seconds I thought, “He is way out of my league!” When he stretched out his hand to shake mine I jumped up and pulled him into a big hug. Within seconds we were laughing and joking as if we’d been best friends our whole lives. Kenny The conversation didn’t stop all evening. I’d never been on a date before which left me in pain from laughing so much. To be honest I’d never really met anyone like him before. I knew instantly that he was the one. I know it sounds silly, but it’s true. George For a first date it went amazingly well. In fact it probably went a little too well because we could barely eat for laughing. We had so much in common, we even ended up ordering the same meal (which we still do quite a lot, actually). Even though we had such a great time together part of me worried that if the date ended there then there
might not be a second, so when we left the restaurant a few hours later I asked him to go for a walk. Before I knew it we were back at his car. Too cruel! Until that point I’d never been big into public displays of affection, but just then I didn’t care. It felt right. So when the moment came I thought, “Feck it…” So I pulled him into a kiss. My kids met him the very next day, any my family and friends not much later. Everyone fell in love with him. After that first date we spent almost every day together. Not much later I overheard him mention that a friend of his was a silversmith. As crazy as it sounds, less than a month after we met I found myself making plans for that friend to design our wedding bands. I wanted them ready for the holiday to Orlando that we booked in week one. When we finally met she let slip that Kenny had approached her only a few days before about the very same thing. So I knew (or at least hoped!) there was a chance he would say “Yes” if I proposed. I had the rings a few weeks later,
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but with Orlando feeling a million miles away the two of them were starting to burn a hole in my pocket. The wait was killing me. One night when he was staying over I hid the rings beneath my pillow. The lights were out and we were both half asleep when I decided the time had come. I reached for his hand and slipped the wedding band onto his ring finger. “That’s better,” I said. The moment I did it he jumped out of bed and said “What’s this?” so I asked him there and then to marry me. The mix of silence and panic that followed was hilarious. He almost cracked a tooth when he bit the ring to check it was real! Kenny My family weren’t that interested at the time, partially because gay marriage still doesn’t exist in Northern Ireland, but also because George and I hadn’t known each other all that long. I didn’t let it bother me too much because I knew as time went by they would come to realise we were making the right decision. Although we were engaged very
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quickly, nearly a full year passed before we actually got around to organising a date for the wedding. We settled on August 9th, two years to the day after our first date. By this time my mum and dad had come round to the idea, which was a great help. We really wanted to get married but with Northern Ireland being what it is our first thought was to get married abroad. George Initially we planned to tie the knot in Norway. In our first year as a couple we went there three or four times and completely fell in love with it. What stopped us was finding out that when we returned home our status as an officially married couple would be downgraded to a civil partnership. We were gutted. So we made alternate plans to have a civil partnership in a little place called Derrylin, in Fermanagh, in
a beautiful boutique hotel called Knockninny House. With its huge lawn that stretched down to the lakeside it was as close to Norway as we could want. Kenny We kept the wedding small, just forty-five guests. The most difficult part was to try and decide how best to accommodate everyone we loved who wanted to be there. George A number of our friends wanted to get involved by making things like our table centres. The most beautiful of the lot were the beautiful jars made by our friend Trisha McQueen who spent months putting them together. These became flower holders and candle burners on the big day. Kenny and I designed the table menus and the service cards which we jokingly titled “Wedding
Day Survival Guides.” Our favours to the guests were miniature glass bottles that had a piece of driftwood tied to them with twine. The jars had our guest’s names written on them so they doubled as place cards. Inside, on long strips of paper, we wrote each of our guests a personal message.
“The service was a 3pm. By 2.55 we hadn’t even changed out of our jeans.“ We made seating plans in the form of movie posters and placed them on the entrance table for all our guests to see. On each poster the cast were replaced with one of our guests according to their seat. The joke was that we used as many gay movies as we could. The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Producers, Tootsie, Priscilla
Queen Of The Desert… It’s a silly idea, I know, but they went down a treat. On a second table we placed big oldfashioned trunk which we filled with four large glass bottles full of pens and paper for our guests to write us a message. Each of these bottles represented an important date to us and would only be opened at those times. The first was the honeymoon bottle. The second was for our first anniversary. The third bottle for our tenth anniversary, and the fourth we will save for our twentieth year together. Our cake was being made by a family friend which meant we had as much input into the design as we liked. Kenny George and I both wore white trousers from H&M, blue blazers with rainbow trim and matching buttons on the cuff. A pair of Converse All Stars completed the look. We were able to match George’s son Leo (then aged 10) with a shirt and bow-tie that matched with our colours and style. We wanted Tobyn (then aged 8) to wear a white flower-girl dress. It was too difficult to find anything that wasn’t really old fashioned, so we took a chance and ordered one custom-made in China. I needn’t have worried, it looked beautiful on her. George As our guests began to arrive we rushed up to our hotel room to make the final preparations. It was all about the four of us now: my family and I. As Kenny did Tobyn’s hair, I fixed Leo up. The service was a 3pm, and 2.55 we hadn’t even changed out of our jeans. Eventually we made it down to the ceremony room on time. With Tobyn as our flower girl and Leo behind carrying the rings we walked up the aisle between our teary eyed friends and family. We hired an amazing harpist who had only learned our song two nights before, and as we walked up the aisle she played our song. It was a really beautiful moment.
FEATURE | THE BIG DAY : George & Kenny
Kenny Walking up the isle I felt incredibly nervous and emotional. We had written our own vows on little scrolls which Tobyn carried in her flower petal basket. However when I saw George unravel his scroll it shocked me. It was like Santa’s naughty list. It almost touched the floor while my vows fitted comfortably on an A5 page! George After the ceremony we headed out-
side with our guests for a celebratory drink. Curiously, right above our heads there was a double rainbow, a symbol of good luck. We took it as a good sign. There was a quick mingle with the guests before my husband, myself and my two kids were whisked away for a photo-shoot on the lake shore. Between the location, the weather and the smiles, we couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day. After that it was time for food and speeches. There were kind words to be had
from everyone, including Kenny and myself, and thankfully without too much embarrassment. One of my good friends swapped her speech for a beautiful rendition of I can’t Help Falling in Love with You. Says it all really, doesn’t it? With so few guests to cater for the entire menu was almost entirely planned to suit our guest’s tastes. We had an amazing three course meal that consisted of a chicken Caesar salad, sirloin steak with all trimmings, and a chocolate tart with summer ber-
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ries for dessert. We saved the cake for a late night snack. Kenny A few days after our wedding we flew to Spain to enjoy eight relaxing days in the sun. We were so busy on the big day that it didn’t really sink in that we were married until about the fourth day of our honeymoon. We wanted to find a gay-friendly spot for our honeymoon so that we didn’t have to worry about anything other than relaxing. We ended up
FEATURE | THE BIG DAY - George & Kenny
spending eight nights in an incredibly beautiful five star B&B in the Andalusian mountains of Malaga, Spain, called Dos Iberos. It was amazing. Being married doesn’t feel much different, but there is a definite sense of unity that I think only those who have experienced being married can understand. We are very happy and enjoying our first year as a married couple. We can look back on our wedding with fond memories and great pride. I personally always felt growing up that I would never have a wedding day, or a family of my own, and that I would just be the cool uncle who maybe has a boyfriend. But now I’ve had my perfect wedding. And with George’s two wonderful children I get to be a step dad. For that I feel truly blessed. Now that LGBT couples can adopt children in Northern Ireland I would love if same-sex marriage was similarly allowed. Only then can all children regardless of sexual orientation dream of one day having a perfect wedding of their own when they grow up.
George Married life has been great. There are a few things we do separately. He loves Disney movies, rom-coms and Eurovision. I love kung fu movies and zombies. We might have a few different interests but really we function quite well together. As dads we have to. Kenny took a lot on when he came in to my children’s lives. He makes as great a dad as he goes a great husband. I wouldn’t change it for the world.
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FEATURE | COMING OUT: Neil’s Story
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FEATURE | COMING OUT: Neil’s Story
Neil Davis is a Senior Operations Manager for a Belfast-based accountancy firm. In his coming out story, he takes on bullies, coming out to his mum, and the future of gay rights...
When did you first realise you were gay?
leave myself open to more abuse, so I used this
Lineker and Philip Schofield were handsome.
through a phase. I then got to the stage where I
I was about five or six when I realised that Gary But I was confused because, as a guy, I didn’t
think I should be able to see that. As I got older I wondered about it more and more. I was 18 when I knew for sure.
to try and convince myself that I was just going just knew and couldn’t lie to myself anymore. How did your family react?
A lot of my friends are surprised to learn that some of my family were shocked when I told
Tell us about your coming out experience?
them! While I didn’t know what to expect,
At first I wasn’t sure if I was gay. Secretly I
hoped my feelings were just a phase. Because I wasn’t sure, I went to the school counsellor and she found me some support to help me work
things out. I didn’t want to say anything at home
until I was certain so I told my best friend. Once I was sure, I decided to forget about it and wait
I knew I wouldn’t get hit or thrown out. My
parents are amazing and have always been loving and supportive to me and my five siblings. At first, my parents were concerned for me and
what difficulties I might but for the most part
they just wanted me to be happy. They still do.
until my A-levels were finished before telling
Has anyone’s opinion changed of you since you
I told my mum and dad before I told anyone
Not that I’m aware of – I think most people
my parents. It was four or five months after
else. After telling my siblings and a few friends I stopped “coming out”. I didn’t hide anything
came out?
knew before I did!
and openly discussed if I’d been to gay bars or
Have you experienced any negativity since com-
discussed these things.
I was aware of a few comments made behind my
who I fancied in the same way that everyone else
ing out?
back but it’s been nineteen years since I came out. I don’t need to think about those times
Who did you first tell, and how did they react? The school counsellor, Mrs Smyth. She was
great and she’ll never know the difference her
support still makes to me today. She listened to
me, supported me, and got me the help I needed. Was coming out a big deal for you, or did it feel natural?
While it was scary at times, I never considered
anymore.
Where do you live? How accepting are people there of LGBT people?
I live in Belfast. I can’t believe how different the
attitudes are compared to when I came out. The progress in the last five years has been huge!
staying in the closet.
How do you see LGBT rights changing in North-
Did you find it difficult to accept your sexuality?
Changes in the rest of the UK and Ireland are
A bit. I was bullied from age 7 to about 15, getting called ‘fruit’, ‘faggot’, ‘poofter’ and every-
thing else. I didn’t want to prove them right or
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Do you have a life motto?
I really want to say something funny, or pro-
found, or deeply spiritual here, but the truth is I don’t have a motto!
What are the most important things in your life? My friends and family. I am very lucky to have the best bunch of people in my life. I don’t see some of them as often as I’d like but I know
where to find them if I need them. And they know where to find me.
What do you do for a living? What is your dream job?
I’m a Senior Operations
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COMMENT | TONY DAY
The gay dad at the school gates
Tony Day So, I’m a 37 year old gay guy with a past.
up as normal, but when I’m getting dressed
of. All of his friends know that his dad has
from a very early age that I was attracted to
I look straight enough to go to the school?
snigger and don’t fully get it, there’s never
No big surprise there, eh? I was very aware
blokes, but I never thought that living a life with a guy would ever be an option for me.
It was the 90s and I was from Lisburn, and although I had a great close-knit family I
just didn’t have the confidence to tell anyone I was gay. To make a long story short, I married when I was twenty I had two
amazing kids with my ex-wife. Parker, my
son is 7, and my daughter India is 14. I don’t
exaggerate when I say they are they centre of my world.
You could maybe say I’m one of the
luckier gays guys because I have kids even though some might consider us to be an unconventional family (my two kids, my
partner, my ex-wife and me). Schools and
school related activities with the kids are the thorniest issues for us, and I’ll explain why. Picture the scene: A letter arrives home
from the school to say there is a parents
meeting/sports day/school play/choir recital/
I take longer staring at my wardrobe. Will Neither of my kids are shy about talking
about their family situation so you can be sure that the teachers know that Daddy
Day is gay. So immediately I feel I’m being judged. Are they expecting something
from Pricilla Queen of the Dessert to walk through the classroom door? So digging to the back of the wardrobe I usually pull out a pair of bootcut jeans and an Alfie Moon
style shirt, finished off with a pair of pointytoed shit shoes. That’s what straight dads wear, right?
“Some might consider us to be an unconventional family; my two kids, my partner, my ex-wife and me”
delete as appropriate. Either way it is a
reason to go to the school. I’m very much involved in my children’s lives so I make
Playgrounds and school gates are two
places I hate. Back in the day when I was
the letter and if we are both able to go then
was leaving the kids at the gates or picking
the date is set. But here’s the first problem: what about my partner, Darren? If it’s a
sports day or a school play should he not
be there? The quick answer is yes. Darren is an integral part of my children’s day to
day lives. He does the school runs. He helps
of school functions.
Then we get to the day of the event. I wake
loves our family as it is. When she started
big school I was nervous she would end up having bother on my behalf, so I asked her
if there were any problems. As blasé as you
like she retorted that a mate of hers had an aunt who was a lesbian. It was almost as if
she couldn’t understand why I thought there would be a problem.
It’s the same old story, really. Today’s
generation are far more accepting and tolerant (I hate that word, “tolerant”, it makes it sound like we are an
inconvenience). It’s the parents who make us uncomfortable. We know they are watching
us, waiting for us to give them something to talk about or judge us on. Their kids aren’t
the issues, to them we are simply Parker and gives me hope.
Knowing they’re nudging their friends,
passing on that “that’s him, you know, the gay guy.”
And then what about my kids in school?
Parker has never known life without Darren
starts. So, unfortunately, Darren gets left out
the house, but she’s very laid back and she
know I’m getting side eyed by other parents.
family situation it’s going to be obvious who when the heads turn and the whispering
so she remembers life with mum and dad in
them up. But now, although I still love it, I
Do they get any grief for having a dad
Darren is if the three of us turn up. That’s
India was about 9 when Darren came along
married one of my biggest pleasures in life
with homeworks. We all go on holiday
together. But because most people know my
been a problem with bullying. My daughter
India’s mum, dad and step-dad. And that
sure I attend as many school related events
as I can. My ex-wife and I discuss what’s on
a boyfriend, and although I’m sure they
who is different from the other kid’s dads? and is completely adjusted to having two
dads and a mum. There was an issue in his
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GAY HISTORY | THE STONEWALL RIOTS
STAND FOR NOTHING FALL FOR EVERYTHING You can be forgiven for thinking the gay
there and we were told to all get in lines
police forcefully pushed or kicked some
rights movement started at the Stonewall
and to have our identification ready to be
patrons out of the bar, some customers
Inn. While the roots of the movement
led out of the bar.”
released by the police performed for the
stretch far deeper than Stonewall, the riots
The raid did not go as planned. Standard
crowd by posing and saluting the police
there in the summer of 1969 catapulted the
procedure was to line up the patrons, check
in an exaggerated fashion. The crowd’s
movement onto national headlines.
their IDs, and have female police officers
applause encouraged them further. “Wrists
In 1969, there weren’t many places to be
take customers dressed as women to the
were limp, hair was primped, and reactions
openly gay in New York City. There were
bathroom to verify their sex, upon which
to the applause were classic.”
laws prohibiting overt displays of homo-
any men dressed as women would be ar-
sexuality in public places, and gay friendly
rested. Those dressed as women that night
who had grown angry by constant police
establishments - especially bars - were
refused to go with the officers. Men in line
harassment took a stand against the unfair
regularly raided. In the 1950’s and 1960’s,
began to refuse to produce their identifica-
treatment. The police, having lost control of
few establishments openly welcomed their
tion. The police decided to take everyone
the situation, attracted a crowd of onlookers
gay patrons. At the time of the riots the
to the police station, after separating those
who were incited to riot. As news of the riot
Stonewall Inn was operated by the Mafia,
cross-dressing in a room behind the bar.
spread, the patrons of the Stonewall Inn
and was known to be haunt of drag queens, prostitutes, and young homeless men.
Those who were not arrested were
It was then that a group of gay customers
were joined by other gay men and women
released from the front door, but they did
who started throwing objects at the police-
not leave quickly as usual. Instead, they
men. “It was at that moment that the scene
clothes detectives and a uniformed officer
stopped outside and a crowd began to grow
became explosive.”
entered the Stonewall Inn on Christopher
and watch. Within minutes, between 100
street, in Greenwich Village, Manhattan.
and 150 people had congregated outside,
ing the crowd under control, but the very
One eyewitness remembered, “Things
some after they were released from inside
next night the crowd returned, even larger
happened so fast you kind of got caught not
the Stonewall, and some after noticing the
than before, with more than a thousand
knowing. All of a sudden there were police
police cars and the crowd. Although the
people taking to the barricades. For hours,
Early on of June 28, 1969, seven plain-
Police reinforcements succeeded in bring-
GAY HISTORY | THE STONEWALL RIOTS
THE STONEWALL RIOTS protesters rioted outside the Stonewall Inn
freedom. We weren’t going to be walking
in U.S. history took place in Los Angeles,
until the police sent a riot-control squad to
meekly in the night and letting them shove
Chicago, San Francisco, and New York City
disperse the crowd. For days demonstra-
us around - it’s like standing your ground
The riots inspired LGBT people throughout
tions took place throughout the city.
for the first time and in a really strong
the country to organise in support of gay
Another eyewitness recalled, “We all had
way, and that’s what caught the police by
rights, and within two years after the riots,
a collective feeling like we’d had enough of
surprise. There was something in the air,
gay rights groups had been started in nearly
this kind of shit. It wasn’t anything tangible
freedom a long time overdue, and we’re
every major city in the United States.
anybody said to anyone else, it was just
going to fight for it. It took different forms,
kind of like everything over the years had
but the bottom line was, we
come to a head on that one particular night
weren’t going to go away.
in the one particular place, and it was not
And we didn’t.”
an organised demonstration… Everyone
In the wake of the riots,
in the crowd felt that we were never going
intense discussions about
to go back. It was like the last straw. It was
civil rights were held
time to reclaim something that had always
among New York’s LGBT
been taken from us… All kinds of people,
people. This led to the for-
all different reasons, but mostly it was
mation of various advocacy
total outrage, anger, sorrow, everything
groups such as the short-
combined, and everything just kind of
lived Gay Liberation Front,
ran its course. It was the police who were
which was the first group
doing most of the destruction. We were
to use the word “gay” in its
really trying to get back in and break free.
name. On the first anniver-
And we felt that we had freedom at last, or
sary of the Stonewall Riots,
freedom to at least show that we demanded
the first gay pride parades
GAY ICON: MARLON BRANDO In 1953 The Wild One starred a young Marlon Brando as the leader of the Black Rebels Motorcycle Club. In his Perfecto jacket, Rebel cap, white tee and biker boots, Brando’s portrayal of gang leader Johnny Strebler was iconic. In the fifties and sixties, Brando was the quintessential American sex symbol. He bedded Marilyn Monroe, Marlene Dietrich, Grace Kelly and Jackie Kennedy. Although he never fully open about his sexuality, in 1976 he confessed, “Homosexuality is so much in fashion it no longer makes news. Like a large number of men, I too have had homosexual experiences and I am not ashamed.” His list of alleged lovers included Hollywood legends like Cary Grant, James Dean, and Laurence Olivier. The Wild One was largely marketed towards female audiences. But with a poster that featured a close-up of Brando’s face with the tagline “That ’Streetcar’ Man has a new Desire!” Brando’s performance resonated far more deeply with gay men who coopted his ultra-masculine character as a prototypical leatherman icon Touko Laaksonen, best known by his pseudonym Tom of Finland, adopted Brando’s The Wild One look for his Kake comic series. Kake – the confident, ever horny hero of Laaksonen’s stories – featured such archetypes such as lumberjacks, policemen, sailors, and bikers. After seeing The Wild One black leather dominated Laaksonen’s art. Brando earned a bad boy reputation for his public antics. But it was his work in films such as A Streetcar named Desire and The Wild One that cemented him as a queer icon. GNIMAG.COM | 93
FIVE MINUTES WITH | GEORGIE ALDOUS
In May, YouTube star Georgie Aldous posted a video to tell the world he’s gay. But Georgie is no regular YouTuber. His five minutes start... now!
Tell us about your coming out video? I came out in school two years ago but I didn’t get a very good reaction. So when I talked to my best friend about doing something for my channelversary she said, “Why don’t you make a video to tell people about what happened to you at school?” So I did. I was too nervous to record it by myself so I made my friend come round and she sat here with me while I made it. Are you glad you came out? I am glad I did because there’s not as much pressure on me now. The reason I say that is because news of me coming out was spread around my school so I had to come out in the end. I wish I could have done it on my own terms. Do you have a boyfriend? Not right now, no! It’s so hard because I’m such a self-conscious person even though I do love myself and I’m always telling others to love themselves. I made a video about how to gain confidence, and I said “This is what I do. I wake up. I look at myself in the mirror. I tell myself I look nice, because you know I take a lot of care of myself, I
get my eyebrows done. I can’t go a day without washing my face, I don’t know how some people can! [Laughs.] So I take care of myself but I’m still really self-conscious. I have boys who do talk to me but then I just kind of shoo them away. If you could pick one fellow YouTube to date who would you pick? Oh my God! That’s really difficult! If I think about it there are some really hot YouTubers. If I had to chose between someone who is a YouTuber versus someone who isn’t a YouTuber I think it would be better if they were. Because then we could both make a channel together. What advice do you have for anyone in school who is too scared to come out? If I was standing right in front of them, I’d say “If you want to come out in school make sure you are 100% comfortable with yourself.” Because once you’ve done it there’s going back. Before you do come out you have to make sure you’re strong enough to deal with getting hated on. I’d also say, “Don’t fret if you only have
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two friends.” It’s better to have two loyal friends than sixty fake friends. Make sure you’re 100% comfortable, make sure you have friends and teachers who can support you, and when people hate on you don’t hate back because fighting fire with fire doesn’t resolve anything. I tried it and it just doesn’t work. Is being a YouTube celebrity something you’d like to do for a career? Is there something you want to do that’s not related to YouTube? Well I have a job now. I work for a big beauty store. It’s really nice there. It really helps my confidence as well because I get to meet new people day. But my channel grows every single day too. I’m hoping something does come of it. I’’d love to do it full time but I wouldn’t ever rely on it. I’m thinking about going back to school. I’m just not sure what I’d do. I want to explore, I want to see things and find things that people haven’t seen before. I want to travel, to live and to one day tell an amazing story.
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THE WHAT’S ON GUIDE | BELFAST
Monday Union Street – The Trudy Show
Maverick – Motor Mouth Mondays, Comedy Night with Gemma Hutton. Free entry
party with DJ Ricky C. All drinks £2
8.30pm
5.30pm, Sunflower Folk Club 8pm
Boombox – Sunday Service, drag spectacular
Sunflower – Manouche Gypsy Swing The Pipeworks Gay Men’s Leisure Complex
Sunflower – Open Mic Nights, 7pm, Free
– Now open until 4am
The Pipeworks Gay Men’s Leisure Complex
Friday
– KJB Massage 2pm – 5pm
Kremlin – Karnival Weekly Themed Nights,
Tuesday
Union Street – The Friday Set Acoustic
bottle of beer for every performer
Kremlin – Klub 180, All drinks £1.80 all night, 10pm – 2.30am
Union Street – Grannie’s Fun Factory 9pm, All drinks £2
Maverick – Lipsync for your Drink, with Rusty Hinges and Roxy Tumbledryer
Sunflower – The Dandy Horses Unplugged, 7.30pm
The Pipeworks Gay Men’s Leisure Complex – Now open until 4am Wednesday
Open until 3am
Hawkes from 9pm
Bubu @ The Shoe Factory - First Friday of
Boombox – Downtown with DJ Jordan,
HOtel MOtel last Friday every month. All drinks £2.50
Sunflower – Boxing Hare Wood Fired Pizza Traditional Session 8pm
The Pipeworks Gay Men’s Leisure Complex – KJB Massage 2pm – 5pm
Cherrie On Top. Free entry
Grannie’s Time Tunnel 9pm – Late
Union Street – Okie Dokie Karaoke hosted by Trudy Scrumptious and Robert Brown
Maverick – HIJINKS with Lady Portia Di’Monte from 6pm
Boombox – BOOMBOX Saturdays DJ
Ciaran Boylan, Sassie Longshaft and Paulette Stiletta 10pm – 3am
Sunflower – Boxing Hare Wood Fired Pizza 5pm – 11pm in the Sunflower Garden, Appalachian Session 8pm
Maverick – Contdown with Contessa Von
Sunday
Boombox – Now You’re Talkin’! Weekly pop
Union Street – The Sunday Bingo Show
Tramp. Free entry
sions & under 26 years old
month
Union Street – Tina’s T’Okie 5pm – 8pm,
Kremlin – Deuce, £2 entry, £2 drinks
– Hard Up Sundays, free buffet & conces-
Rewind @ Kremlin – First Friday of every
Kremlin – Revolution, 9pm – 3am
Thursday
The Pipeworks Gay Men’s Leisure Complex
Maverick – VAGABOND with DJ Marion
Maverick – Open Mic Wednesdays with
– Now open until 4am
Gramophone Club from 8pm
evening with Glitzy Glamour from 9pm
Shoe Factory - Flux Wednesdays
The Pipeworks Gay Men’s Leisure Complex
Sunflower – Traditional Session 7pm, Sunday
Regular Nights
Saturday
Roxy Tumbledryer, & DJ Kenny. 10pm – 3am
with Gemma Hutton & DJ Lady Luck
Sessions with Ash Smith 5pm – 7pm, An
Union Street – Tina’s Stop the Clock
Boombox – Bitch Please! with Rusty Hinges,
Maverick – R&R with Rusty and Roxy 5pm
Kremlin – Industry 10pm, Admission free
every month (men only)
MOTN @ Queens Cafe Bar – Last Friday of every month (men only)
The White Mansions @ The Sunflower First Friday of every month
Pub Quiz @ The Sunflower – First Tuesday of every month
Duke Special’s Gramophone Club @ Sunflower – Last Friday of every month
Passion @ Bellinis (Newry) - First Saturday of every month
Hotel Motel Residency @ Boombox – Last Friday of every month
Room Service @ Boombox – Bi-monthly The Pipeworks Gay Men’s Leisure Com-
plex – First Friday of every month – Bubu Afterparty
THE WHAT’S ON GUIDE | BELFAST
out in...
Belfast
1 - Union Street/Shoe Factory
6 - Queens Cafe Bar
A - Grand Opera House
E - Ulster Hall
3 - Maverick
8 - Boombox
C - City Hall
G - Albert Clock
2 - Kremlin
4 - Sunflower Bar 5 - Kelly’s Cellars
7 - El Divino
9 - The Pipeworks
10 - Whites Tavern
B - The MAC D - The Fish
F - The Waterfront
THE WHAT’S ON GUIDE | DUBLIN
Monday
The Front Lounge – 2 for 1 cocktails
Pantibar – The Panti Show from 10pm.
The George – Win, Lose or Drag with Phil T.
Pantibar – Joystick, DJ Dr Beat plays quality
Cruisin’, Music, Dancin’, Chattin’
Gorgeous and Bunny from 8.30pm.
80s music
Copper Alley – Mother, the home of synth
Admission free all night with drinks!
4 Dame Lane – PrHomo (Second Coming)
pop and electro
Pantibar – Pints and chats
Break for the Border – Meat Street with Friday
international guest hosts, DJs and live acts,
Tuesday
The George – Glitterbomb with DJs Ger and
from 11pm
The George – Bassline with DJ Karen, Ad-
Mo, hosted by David D-Pole and his Glit-
mission free
terati Dancers, Drinks promos, Free shots,
Sunday
The Front Lounge – Davina Devine’s Cast-
Admission free before 10pm, €5 from 10 til
The George – Bingo with Shirley Templebar,
ing Couch, Karaoke from 10pm
midnight, €8 after
from 9.30pm. Admission free before 10pm,
The Front Lounge – DJ Conor Behan play-
€5 entry after
ing dance floor fillers from 10pm
The Front Lounge – The big Gay Brunch
Wednesday
Pantibar – DJ Steobar and Our Perfectly
Club from 12pm
The George – Space N Veda with Veda
Preposterous Drinks Specials
Pantibar – Panti’s Tea Dance
Beaux. Cabaret, Drag and Live Music
The Hub – SweatBox, Classic House
Pantibar – Pints and chats
Regular Nights
Pantibar – Pints and chats Saturday
Pop Rox Indie Night @ The Dive Bar (Turk’s
Thursday
The George – SaturGays with DJ Sean John,
Head) – Fortnightly Saturdays, €5
The George – Davina Devine hosts Thursty
Davina, Veda & guests with Beauty Spot
Crush Girlclub @ Lafayette Club – Check
Thursdays until 2.30am
Karaoke from 10pm. €10 after 11pm
listings for events
The Front Lounge – Brunch with DJ Terry from 10pm
Map Key 1 - Panti Bar
7 - The Hub
A - Parliament Square
E - Gaiety Theatre
3 - The Front Lounge
9 - The Dive Bar (Turk’s Head)
C - Dublin Castle
G - Olympia Theatre
2 - Nealons
4 - Copper Alley 5 - The George
6 - Lafayette Club
8 - The Boilerhouse
10 - Break for the Border 11 - 4 Dame Lane
B - Temple Bar
D - The Needle
F - Grafton Street
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