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Weddings this book is for you

the gni weddings book is full of tips, ideas, inspiration and same-sex wedding suppliers

Over the years GNI MAG has been at the forefront of keeping you in the loop about local wedding suppliers who offer their services without discrimination or prejudice.

After planning my own wedding last year, I realised first hand how important it was not only to make sure that I was parting with my hard-earnedcash to suppliers who welcomed my partner and myself just as they would a heterosexual couple, but also I wanted to contact suppliers without fear of rejection or ridicule. In the year 2016 this may seem ridiculous, but it was a fear I had, and I know plenty of friends who’ve felt the same when organising their big day.

What you have in your hand (or maybe on your screen) is the culmination of literally hundreds and hundreds of phone calls to businesses across the island. We hope you find this guide useful, we’ve personally spoken to each of the businesses in the directory, so remember to let them know you found them in the GNI WEDDINGS book. Enjoy reading the stories of our big day weddings in this book, maybe you’ll get some inspiration.

Tony

CONTENTS Hints and Tips

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getting engaged

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your big day timeline

when’s right, how do you do it, and how long for?

Your guide to help you plan your big day.

wedding Etiquette With so many different people in one room, what’s expected?

THEIR BIG DAYS

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Kenny & George

14

dearbhaile & Gabrielle

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COLIN & DAVID

A waterside family occasion

A beautiful city centre wedding

They even got a message from the Queen

DIRECTORY

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catering / entertainment favors / grooming jewellery / menswear photography / room decor transport / venues wedding dresses

Weddings THE ENGAGMENT

How do you know when the time is right to get engaged. I’ve spoken to couples who done it within the first year of meeting, others waited longer, some even decades. Getting engaged is both a very personal and a very public declaration of the love you share for each other.

The

him for five years now and you

engagement and the lead up to it can be a really

didn’t ask me if you could do that”. Again, it’s your choice whether to partake in this

exciting time. As with your big

tradition.

day, it’s entirely up to yourself how you go about the proposal.

A lot of couples I’ve spoken

In days gone by it would have

to in the preparation of this

been custom for the man to

piece have told me that their

ask permission from his future

proposal or engagement wasn’t

brides father. This is still the

so much of a surprise, but

case for many couples, but can

rather a joint decision at a time

be a bit more tricky if it’s a same

when they felt they needed to

sex couple.

let each other and their friends and family know how deep

If you are planning a surprise

their commitment was.

proposal and you have a desire to keep it more formal,

Where to do the

you may want to still go and

proposal

ask permission to marry your

throws

partner from their father

up

(whether your partner be male or female). I recently recall a conversation with a friend where he had done just

more questions. Many folk

this. He’d asked his

like to go to a place that’s

fellas father if

special to them as a couple.

he could

Maybe it’s the place you first

marry

met, sometimes it’s the place

his

you had your first picnic son.

The retort from the father was unexpected, going

something along the lines of: “you’ve been sleeping with

together, or maybe you want to arrange a party and do it with family and friends present. It doesn’t need to be a “down on one knee” job either, friends of mine simply went to a restaurant they both like and

one of them simply produced

their wedding ring - agian the

have been engaged forever

the ring box and slid it across

choices are all yours to make.

and don’t seem to have any

the table saying nothing.

For the ladies things can be

intention of actually get

kept much more traditional

married. Most of us though

The ring itself needs a bit of

if required with a lovely

want it to happen within a

thought, whether it’s for a guy

diamond engagement ring that

year or two though. From

or a girl, or even if you are both

will be complimented by the

personal experience, we based

going to wear engagement

wedding ring on the day.

our time scale on our ability

rings or just the “proposee”. For

to pay for the wedding. We

guys it’s worth considering

Once the proposal has been

were sure we wanted to have

whether it’ll be a ring you’ll

made and accepted that’s

our wedding paid for before it

want to wear along with a

your chance to tell the world

happened, without the need

wedding ring as would be

and maybe arrange a party to

to get a loan - we didn’t want

tradition. If this is the case

celebrate. Invite close friends

to be looking at the happy

then a lot of guys wont want

and family. You’ll probably be

looking wedding pictures on

surprised and delighted at the

the wall a year or two after

gifts you get at an engagement

the wedding, knowing that

party. As with any party, you

we were still paying off the

must be the hosts with the

loan that paid for them. For

most, make sure to take time to

lots of us this won’t be an

go and speak to each guest.

option, and lets be honest life

anything too bulky. Some guys I’ve spoken too spent

always throws other things at When the dust settles from the engagement

maybe borrowing money to

you should start to

pay for your big day is your

think about time a lot of time and money

us to spend our money on. So

scales for the

only way to make it happen when you want it to.

big day itself.

The length

Like the whole wedding

choosing the

of your

process, take time to sit back

engagement ring as

engagement

and smell the coffee, enjoy it, it

they wanted it to take

depends

could be the only time in your

the place of a wedding ring

entirely on

life you experience it. Enjoy

when the time came, and

yourself.

telling people that the guy or

some guys chose a beautiful

We all

girl on your arm is your fiance.

engagement ring, but don’t wear it once they get

know those couples who

Weddings BIG DAY!

It’s a classic case of love at first sight.

But when George and Kenny met, sparks flew. Here they share their big day story...

George Before Kenny and I met I’d been single for almost a year. Because I was hoping to find someone who wasn’t after one thing I thought I would give a dating website a try. As a dad of two, getting back into the dating game meant a new set of challenges. After about four weeks of chatting and auditioning people I decided internet dating just wasn’t for me.

One evening when I logged into the site to delete my account a notification popped up at the very last minute. I’d found a match! He was very handsome.

Considering that I’m a father of two and ten years his senior I was quite surprised when he agreed to a date…

I was early to the restaurant so I picked a table that would give me full view of the entrance. When he walked in to view I swear the smile on both of our faces must have been visible from space! It was hard to not fall in love with him there and then. He looked incredible! In those few seconds I thought, “He is way out of my league!” When he stretched out his hand to shake mine I jumped up and pulled him into a big hug.

Within seconds we were laughing and joking as if we’d been best friends our whole lives.

Kenny The conversation didn’t stop all evening. I’d never been on a date before which left me in pain from laughing so much. To be honest I’d never really met anyone like him before. I knew instantly that

he was the one. I know it sounds silly, but it’s true.

George For a first date it went amazingly well. In fact it probably went a little too well because we could barely eat for laughing. We had so much in common, we even ended up ordering the same meal (which we still do quite a lot, actually). Even though we had such a great time together part of me worried that if the date ended there then there might not be a second, so when we left the restaurant a few hours later I asked him to go for a walk. Before I knew it we were back at his car. Too cruel! Until that point I’d never been big into public displays of affection, but just then I didn’t care. It felt right. So when the moment came I thought, “Feck it…” So I pulled him into a kiss.

My kids met him the very next day, any my family and friends not much later. Everyone fell in love with him. After that first date we spent almost every day together. Not much later I overheard him mention that a friend of his was a silversmith. As crazy as it sounds, less than a month after we met I found myself making plans for that friend to design our wedding bands. I wanted them ready for the holiday to Orlando that we booked in week one. When we finally met she let slip that Kenny had approached her only a few days before about the very same thing. So I knew (or at least hoped!) there was a

chance he would say “Yes” if I proposed.

I had the rings a few weeks later, but with Orlando feeling a million miles away the two of them were starting to burn a hole in my pocket. The wait was killing me. One night when he was staying over I hid the rings beneath my pillow. The lights were out and we were both half asleep when I decided the time had come. I reached for his hand and slipped the wedding band onto his ring finger.

“That’s better,” I said.

The moment I did it he jumped out of bed and said “What’s this?” so I asked him there and then to marry me. The mix of silence and panic that followed was hilarious. He almost cracked a tooth when he bit the ring to check it was real!

Kenny My family weren’t that interested at the time, partially because gay marriage still doesn’t

exist in Northern Ireland, but also because George and I hadn’t known each other all that long. I didn’t let it bother me too much because I knew as time went by they would come to realise we were making the right decision. Although we were engaged very quickly, nearly a full year passed before we actually got around to organising a date for the wedding.

We settled on August 9th, two years to the day after our first date. By this time my mum and dad had come round to the idea, which was a great help. We really wanted to get married but with Northern Ireland being what it is our first thought was to get married abroad.

when we returned home our status as an officially married couple would be downgraded to a civil partnership. We were gutted. So we made alternate plans to have a civil partnership in a little place called Derrylin, in Fermanagh, in a beautiful boutique hotel called Knockninny House. With its huge lawn that stretched down to the lakeside it was as close to Norway as we could want.

George Initially we planned to tie the knot in Norway. In our first year as a couple we went there three or four times and completely fell in love with it. What stopped us was finding out that

George A number of our friends wanted to get involved by making things like our table centres.

The most beautiful of the lot were the beautiful jars made by our friend Trisha McQueen

Kenny We kept the wedding small, just forty-five guests. The most difficult part was to try and decide how best to accommodate everyone we loved who wanted to be there.

who spent months putting them together. These became flower holders and candle burners on the big day. Kenny and I designed the table menus and the service cards which we jokingly titled “Wedding Day Survival Guides.”

Our favours to the guests were miniature glass bottles that had a piece of driftwood tied to them with twine. The jars had our guest’s names written on them so they doubled as place cards. Inside, on long strips of paper, we wrote each of our guests a personal message.

We made seating plans in the form of movie posters and placed them on the entrance table for all our guests to see.

On each poster the cast were replaced with one of our guests according to their seat. The joke was that we used as many gay movies as we could. The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Producers, Tootsie, Priscilla Queen

Of The Desert… It’s a silly idea, I know, but they went down a treat.

On a second table we placed big old-fashioned trunk which we filled with four large glass bottles full of pens and paper for our guests to write us a message. Each of these bottles represented an important date to us and would only be opened at those times. The first was the honeymoon bottle. The second was for our first anniversary.

The third bottle for our tenth anniversary, and the fourth we will save for our twentieth year together. Our cake was being made by a family friend which meant we had as much input into the design as we liked.

Kenny George and I both wore white trousers from H&M, blue blazers with rainbow trim and matching buttons on the cuff. A pair of Converse All Stars completed

the look. We were able to match George’s son Leo (then aged 10) with a shirt and bow-tie that matched with our colours and style. We wanted Tobyn (then aged 8) to wear a white flowergirl dress. It was too difficult to find anything that wasn’t really old fashioned, so we took a chance and ordered one custom-made in China. I needn’t have worried, it looked beautiful on her.

George As our guests began to arrive we rushed up to our hotel room to make the final preparations.

It was all about the four of us now: my family and I. As Kenny did Tobyn’s hair, I fixed Leo up. The service was a 3pm, and 2.55 we hadn’t even changed out of our jeans. Eventually we made it down to the ceremony room on time. With Tobyn as our flower girl and Leo behind carrying the rings we walked up

the aisle between our teary eyed friends and family. We hired an amazing harpist who had only learned our song two nights before, and as we walked up the aisle she played our song. It was a really beautiful moment.

Kenny Walking up the isle I felt incredibly nervous and emotional. We had written our own vows on little scrolls which Tobyn carried in her flower petal basket. However when I saw George unravel his scroll it shocked me. It was like Santa’s naughty list. It almost touched the floor while my vows fitted comfortably on an A5 page!

George After the ceremony we headed outside with our guests for a celebratory drink. Curiously, right above our heads there was a double rainbow, a symbol of good luck. We took it as a good sign. There was a quick mingle with the guests before my hus-

band, myself and my two kids were whisked away for a photoshoot on the lake shore. Between the location, the weather and the smiles, we couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day. After that it was time for food and speeches. There were kind words to be had from everyone, including Kenny and myself, and thankfully without too much embarrassment. One of my good friends swapped her speech for a beautiful rendition of I can’t Help Falling in Love with You. Says it all really, doesn’t it? With so few guests to cater for the entire menu was almost entirely planned to suit our guest’s tastes.

We had an amazing three course meal that consisted of a chicken Caesar salad, sirloin steak with all trimmings, and a chocolate tart with summer berries for dessert. We saved the cake for a late night snack.

Kenny A few days after our wedding we

flew to Spain to enjoy eight relaxing days in the sun. We were so busy on the big day that it didn’t really sink in that we were married until about the fourth day of our honeymoon. We wanted to find a gay-friendly spot for our honeymoon so that we didn’t have to worry about anything other than relaxing. We ended up spending eight nights in an incredibly beautiful five star B&B in the Andalusian mountains of Malaga, Spain, called Dos Iberos.

It was amazing.

Being married doesn’t feel much different, but there is a definite sense of unity that I think only those who have experienced being married can understand. We are very happy and enjoying our first year as a married couple. We can look back on our wedding with fond memories and great pride. I personally always felt growing up that I would never have a wedding day, or a family of my own, and that I would just be the cool uncle who maybe has

a boyfriend. But now I’ve had my perfect wedding. And with George’s two wonderful children I get to be a step dad. For that I feel truly blessed. Now that LGBT couples can adopt children in Northern Ireland I would love if same-sex marriage was similarly allowed. Only then can all children regardless of sexual orientation dream of one day having a perfect wedding of their own when they grow up.

George Married life has been great.

There are a few things we do separately. He loves Disney movies, rom-coms and Eurovision. I love kung fu movies and zombies. We might have a few different interests but really we function quite well together. As dads we have to. Kenny took a lot on when he came in to my children’s lives.

He makes as great a dad as he goes a great husband. I wouldn’t change it for the world.

Weddings

WHEN does stuff need done?

So you’ve popped the question, you have visions of your perfect day with the person you love.

Preparation is key to a smooth wedding day, here’s a handy guide giving you an idea of what to arrange and when.

When you’ve popped the question • • • •

Work out how much you can realistically afford to spend Consider dates you’d prefer Begin to jot down names of potential guests Think about the type and style of wedding venue you really want

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10 Months to go • • •

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Choose your bridal/ grooms party and if dresses are needed start looking for the style you want Confirm your venue and wedding date, try to block book some rooms for guests at or close to your venue Check with your local authority what sort of notice you need to give for your marriage and arrange as advised Hire a photographer - be aware that good photographers book up quickly

11 Months to go •

If you need a separate caterer now is the time to book them

Speak to florists and room decor specialists and decide on the look you want

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You should be starting to get a firm hold on your guest list by now If you’re having a gift list now is the time to get these nailed down Search for an officiant for your ceremony if it’s not being carried out by the local registrar Start thinking about the music for your big day, make a few playlists for different parts of the day and spend the next few months trying them out

9 MONTHS TO GO •

Remember those dresses you were looking at a couple of months ago, now is the time to get them ordered and have any alterations organised

8 MONTHS TO GO •

Order any accessories you need to complete your fashion look for the day, things like jewellery, watches, hair accessories

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etc, it’ll save you frantically running about close to your big day If you’re planning a big honeymoon now is the time to get it booked

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6 Months to go •

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Get your invitations sorted, if you’re making them yourself; settle yourself on a design and work out how you’re going to make them, and if you’re ordering them let your stationer know what you want and how many of each type (save the date, full day invitation, evening invitation, order of service, & place cards) If you have longer hair or are planning on makeup now is the time to start having a few run throughs

5 months to go •

Think about any items you might need to rent in for your big day, maybe things like, grand piano, additional sound or audio-visual equipment

4 months to go

Chose the menswear for your big day and arrange any necessary alterations Are there any additional womens accessories needed? Maybe shoes or lingerie Send out your save the date cards

your are completing yourself, you want to have these done so that you’re not panicking in the few weeks before your wedding

2 weeks to go

3 months to go

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Make sure you’ve sorted out your own accommodation for your wedding night

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2 months to go •

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Get those invitations out, you might want to post them or some people prefer to hand deliver Confirm your menu with whoever is preparing the food for you and your guests

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Confirm everything is in place regarding your marriage licence Give your hotel or caterer your final head count Work on your seating plan, it’s usually best to seat people with others you think they will get on with, it makes for better atmosphere on the day Confirm all suppliers arrival or delivery times Prepare a wedding day schedule and give out to those included in the schedule

on the day 6 Weeks to go • •

Confirm all items with your florist and room decor company Get your wedding rings

4 weeks to go •

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Finish any craft projects

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Make sure your wedding party know their responsibilities (who is accepting wedding gifts, who’s paying suppliers, who’s making sure guests are signing the guest book, etc etc) Enjoy this day, it will go much quicker than you think it will - take time to smell the coffee :-)

Weddings BIG DAY!

In this edition of ‘The Big Day’ GNI MAG catches up with Dearbhaile and Gabrielle. Like so many before them, these two lovely ladies met by chance in the Kremlin.

Six years later and they’re still inseperable.

Dearbhaile We met while we were both working in the Kremlin.

Gabrielle was one of the managers there while I was a member of bar staff. I had been in and out of relationships before I met Gabrielle. I was in uni at the time and working in the Kremlin, so I was just having fun.

Gabrielle and I didn’t really get on when we first met, but after chatting to her one night I realised she was actually dead on. After some terrible flirting on Gabrielle’s part we got together on a staff night out and here we are!

Gabrielle I had been single for four years and, believe it or not, had never been interested in women before. At the time I was training to be a hairdresser and needed a part-time job. Because I was a Kremlin regular I noticed a job vacancy ad behind the bar and asked for an application. After about a year of working together I realised I was crazy about her.

Dearbhaile We didn’t rush into things. We were together for six years before we got engaged. We had just bought our apartment and we knew that the next step was to get married. We had spoken about it lots and we knew that it was something we both wanted.

We got engaged on Christmas Eve 2012. We had our rings under the Christmas tree for

about a month. When Christmas Eve arrived we promised each other that we would be together forever. It was all very sweet.

My main stumble was finding the perfect wedding dress. I found the dress of my dreams while on holiday in NYC a few months before the wedding, but they didn’t have it in my size, so I had to head back to Belfast without it. Little did I know that they wouldn’t ship the dress to the UK because it was a Vera Wang, so I faced the predicament of flying back to NYC to pick it up or do without. Luckily a friend of mine was heading to New York on holiday so she was able to pick it up for me. We still joke that the dress had its own seat.

Gabrielle I had a few struggles in the first few months we were together because I was trying to come to terms with being in a same-sex relationship. I never considered myself gay before I met Dearbhaile or had any feelings for women. It was a difficult adjustment because I’d grown up dreaming about my Prince Charming. Who knew that a girl was to be my soul mate?

When I realised the important part wasn’t about gender or being gay, it was about finding my soul mate and being happy.

I knew I would be with her forever.

We discussed our future from early on, moving in together after a year of dating. We knew we would get married; it

was a question of, not if, but when. We shopped for our engagement rings together, bought them, and kept them under the Christmas tree. It was an amazing day. I’ll never forget it.

Dearbhaile My wedding day was the best day of my life. I know everyone says that, but it was just perfection. We had our ceremony on the Roof Garden of The Merchant Hotel. We were the first couple to ever have a ceremony up there so that was really special too.

Gabrielle and I both stayed in the hotel the night before (in separate rooms, of course) each with our bridal party. We all had breakfast together on the morning of the wedding alongside our wedding party, and then we went our separate ways until the ceremony. The ceremony was pretty small.

We had about sixty guests

there. We each wrote our own vows because we wanted it to be personal to us. From the music, to the readings, to the seating arrangements, every part of the ceremony meant something personal to us.

After the ceremony we had afternoon tea and drinks. We hired a Routemaster Bus to take the party from The Merchant to Harlem Café for the meal and evening reception. Harlem is a fantastic venue. We loved how chic it felt, and how perfectly it fitted with our theme.

We chose not to have a top table, instead just having small tables of five to six people.

Gabrielle and I had a table to ourselves. We named each table with quotes from different books, songs and movies, all of them about love. After dinner we danced the night away with family and friends. So off came the shoes and on went the Converse.

Gabrielle I would love to take credit for how our wedding day turned out but it was all Derv.

She styled the whole day and organised everyone. We discussed what we wanted at length (I helped with multiple choices when she couldn’t decide), but she executed it all!

We decided to go for a small wedding because we liked the intimacy of enjoying it with our close friends and family.

I don’t like the summer and she hates the winter so we felt that September was that perfect medium. And it was.

There was rain the night before and morning of our big day but it was completely dry for the rest of it, which we were so thankful for because our photos were meant to be taken on the roof of the Merchant!

Everything went so smoothly, which wasn’t surprising as Dearbhaile (who we fondly nicknamed Monica

after Monica from friends) and our events manager Rachel had everything planned to perfection. I literally just had to show up.

The most important thing for us on the day was the music.

We put our hearts and souls into getting it right. There could be no compromise. We handpicked every song that was played in the background, the music that played during the ceremony, and the music that was played throughout the reception and evening party. It was a beautiful mix of modern acoustic songs as well as songs from our life that we’ve always loved and have special significance for us. The music really made the day; even now it is the one thing (apart from maybe the food) that we still talk about more than two years later.

Dearbhaile

The reception was a great chance to relax and talk to old friends that we hadn’t seen in a while. With Harlem being such an intimate venue in comparison it meant we got to close to our friends and family.

The atmosphere was brilliant, especially when the guests started to arrive for the evening do.

We had a sparkling reception on arrival for our guests. Then we had speeches, none too embarrassing thankfully, there were some tears, and then it was onto the food.

We opted not to go with a traditional wedding meal, instead giving our guests the choice of what they wanted to eat. For starters there was a choice of ribs, salad or soup.

The main was fish and chips, steak burger and chips, or a traditional chicken dinner.

I have such a sweet tooth so we had a trio of deserts so we

wouldn’t have to pick just one!

As the night drew to a close we headed back to the Merchant for our one night’s stay. As we ordered drinks in the residents’ bar there were three other guys sitting there who asked us about our dresses.

They thought it was a double wedding! We explained that we were just married so the lovely guy at the bar offered to buy us a drink to celebrate.

It turned out to be the actor Dominic Cooper who was in Belfast filming at the time.

It was a really lovely and surprising end to the day. The next morning we woke up to beautiful personalised breakfast menus. We had a private dining room for our family and friends.

The Merchant team did an incredible, beautiful job for us.

We loved every second.

Dearbhaile We went on honeymoon three

days after the wedding. We flew into Barcelona for a night and then headed away on a weeklong cruise around the Mediterranean.

It was heavenly.

You don’t realise how tiring it is planning a wedding until it happens to you. We planned ours in just less than six months so being able to get away and spend time alone together was fantastic.

After our cruise we headed to Sitges for two nights. This was where Gabrielle and I had our first holiday way back when we first started going out in 2006, so it holds a special place in our heart.

Dearbhaile I love married life. People say that it’s not different but it is. You have made a commitment to someone to be there through the good times and bad. Just knowing you have one person in your life who will be by your side forever is an amazing feeling. Gabrielle and I are also wedding photographers, so every time we do a wedding I give her this little look and it reminds me how lucky we are and how much I love being with

this girl!

Gabrielle Before we were married it I was told by so many people that nothing changes, that everything is exactly the same as it was before, but I have to disagree. I know it sounds crazy, but my favorite part of the whole experience was the morning after the wedding. I was in the suite getting dressed.

Dearbhaile was still asleep, and I was thinking about the night before and wondering if things did feel different now that we were married. Then a lovely feeling washed over me and I have never felt so safe and secure in my life. I knew we would be together forever and I would never have to be alone.

Marriage isn’t just a piece of paper, for me it means security.

I know that may sound strange but knowing that I had a person who loved me more than anything, enough to make

this commitment to me, was heaven. Married life is fun. We can be rude, cheeky, thoughtless and crazy, but it doesn’t matter because we take care of each other.

Dearbhaile Gabrielle is a girly girl. She is very into her make up and dressing up and getting her hair done. I just throw something on and I’m out the door. I would be more into sports and music. I love going to the gym and DJ’ing. We do important things together but also have our me time. I am the planner.

I plan and organise everything whereas Gabrielle is happy just to wing it. Luckily this works well for us. We know that in the eyes of the law our marriage is only a civil partnership. We need to continue to fight for equality to make gay marriage legal in Northern Ireland.

Gabrielle We are polar opposites in so

many ways. Dearbhaile is so organised, I’m a hot mess. She loves cleaning, I leave things for her to clean. I’m mad about musicals, whereas she is more reserved. She has adapted to my tastes over the years.

Even though we are different in so many ways we managed to make it work. I am a photographer by trade (#PopPhotography!) and I work long hours at weddings or on shoots, which means I’m away quite a lot, so it was natural for Derv to want to learn how to take pictures too so that we could work together. We also love to spend time apart on our “pamper days”. Sometimes it’s visiting family, or going out for drinks with friends, or even just sitting at home to chill! We are happiest when we are together.

Contact Dearbhaile and Gabrielle at popphotographyni.com

Weddings wedding etiquette

Your wedding is your big day, make it yours, be a bit selfish and think about yourself and your other half, but be aware there are some standard wedding etiquite expectations out there...

Make sure you include the venue location on your save the date card Don’t assume your guests will know where your chosen location is. At this stage you don’t necessarily have to include the venue, but the save the date card can be an opportunity for out of towners to book accommodation close to or in your chosen venue.

Weekday or weekend wedding?

Let’s face is, weddings can be expensive. A way to save money is often to have your wedding on a weekday or a Sunday. If you take this route bear in mind that many of your guests will have to take possibly two days off work (the wedding day, and the next day to recover). An idea for a weekday wedding might be to start the ceremony later so your guest may not have to take a day off work, or maybe just a half day off.

Who to invite Sometimes it’s hard to break up some groups; the aunts and uncles you see all the time compared to the ones you rarely see – a lot of people use the all or nothing tactic, but it’s your wedding so it’s your choice.

When it comes to “+1”Regarding “plus ones,” the general rule is that couples who are married, engaged, or living together should be invited together (you may have never met the “+1”.

A false start Don’t leave your guests hang-

ing on waiting for you. If you plan on arriving at 2pm, put that on your invite. Most guests appreciate that your wedding is a big deal and won’t want to miss any of it.

If they’ve told you they can’t attend If someone has already told you that they can’t make your wedding, maybe after they’ve got their save the date card, don’t send them an invite – it might look a wee bit “gift grabby”.

Feeding the staff Those suppliers that you’re using for the whole day should really be fed (photographer, videographer, musicians etc). Sometimes venues offer meal options for these that can be taken at different times during the day – this might suit better with your schedule.

You’ve gotta see EVERYBODY The big post ceremony line up is getting a bit stale and a lot of couples decide against it. Another option is to go around each table, but it’s easy to get dragged away to something else while doing this. Make a decision and stick to it tho – if guests have made the effort to attend, you really should make the effort to thank each of them.

Gift expectations Anyone who’d gotten married has done it, imagined in our heads how much or how many things we’re going to get. Where

we’ll put the new suff or what we’ll spend the money on. The reality is that guests really don’t have to get you a gift, and there is certainly no minimum spend.

Bear in mind that attending a wedding is an expensive day out for guests so stay greatful with whatever you receive.

for cash.

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Your wedding will probably be a room filled with a mixture of people who probably wouldn’t want to be in the same room with each other for any amount of time. Stay calm, and keep some decorum. Here are some wedding etiquette tips...

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Invites should have an RSVP by date on them, and your guest should reply by that date in the manner you’ve requested. Once accpeted there should be no last minute change of mind (unless of course there’s an emergency).

Remember that the wedding party are the stars of this show so when chosing what to wear don’t go out to upstage or emulate them.

Be on time, it’s rude to arrive late for the ceremony, you’ll interrupt it and the focus will be taken off what’s taking place and instead all eyes will be on you.

Although not necessary it’s considered polite for guests to buy the couple a gift. Often you’ll be supplied with a gift list or a polite request

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Seating your guests can be tricky, put people together who know each other or who you think will get on.

The top table can be tricky too, the brides or grooms should be seated in the middle. Traditionally then mother or father in laws are then seated next to you, followed by best men/chief bridesmaids etc. However with todays families this is sometimes a bit more difficult, your family may be a bit more unconventional and you may choose to fill the top table with the wedding party and then the closest tables to it with the more important family members.

Speeches can take place either before or after the dinner. More often before as most people want to get them out of the way. Take this opportunity to thank anyone who’s helped in your preparations.

The cutting of the cake should take place after the speeches.

Weddings BIG DAY!

In this edition of ‘The Big Day’ GNI MAG catches up with Belfast couple Colin and Dave. From an unsuspecting start, through to a Las Vegas proposal, we let these two lovely lads tell us about “the most perfect” wedding day ever (including a cameo from Barbara Bryceland!).

Colin I was single for a few years before I met Dave. I’d been on a few dates here and there but nothing worth writing home about. Dave was actually on a date when we met! Safe to say I made a lasting impression.

Dave When I saw Colin trying to get my attention I paid him no attention. I was on a date!

But when my date went to the toilet Colin made his move. He wouldn’t take no for an answer.

So me, being polite, took his number. Obviously I had to keep my options open in case the date didn’t go well! Let’s say it came in very handy indeed.

Dave I didn’t want to get married but Colin, being Colin, simply had to have his way. He spoke to a few mutual friends to get them to hurry me up and make up my mind. We went to Vegas to see our idol, Celine Dion, so I knew when to pop the question but I couldn’t for the life of me decide where to do it. We walked up and down the strip and the wedding band was burning a hole in my pocket. Walking back to our hotel, in front of a huge poster of Celine, I knew the time was right. I got down on one knee and proposed. Sometimes I wonder if he said yes just to get me to stand up again!

Colin We moved in about six months after dating. It was more practical and it made no sense paying two rents when we were always together. We started going steady (do people still say that?) in September 2009 and were engaged in August 2011.

I had been pestering Dave for months about getting engaged, but he was always telling me not yet. In the end he gave in.

We went and chose our rings and they sat in the house for months! We both love Celine Dion so we flew to Las Vegas to see her perform in Caesars Palace. It was then that he got down on one knee and asked. It was an immediate yes, however I did make him get up off the floor straight away.

Colin Without being biased, it was the most perfect day ever. It was the first “gay wedding” we had been to, and we were the first out of our group of friend to get wed so we knew it had to be perfect.

We booked the Galgorm Manor in Ballymena after being blown away by how beautiful it was.

No other venue got so much as a second thought. We had 120 guests so it was quite a big party.

We had heard that civil partnerships were a little boring and impersonal so we both made a conscience decision that this wouldn’t be the case for us.

We had met with our registrar who laid down the law with the certain things you are and are not allowed to say which we didn’t really like. We knew that

anything religious wouldn’t be allowed but were shocked that we couldn’t mention the words “gay, marriage or husband” throughout the ceremony. Our friend Gordon wrote a beautiful poem to read at the ceremony and this had to be vetted and then changed before it was allowed.

We both chose and decided on everything with the help from our Matron of Honor and Dave’s best friend Karen. The ceremony itself was held in the Phantom House, a little old fashioned barn. It was lit with hundreds of candles as well as strings of lanterns going up the aisle. We had a string quartet playing Canon in D major (I think everyone who has ever watched ‘Father of the Bride’ has dreamt of walking down the aisle to this song). I was a complete wreck. I’d been so calm and collected up until the morning of the wedding.

When I woke up I went down for breakfast and cried into

my poached eggs. Thankfully Dave knew nothing of this as we stayed in separate rooms.

The ceremony was at 2pm and, being me, I had a tad too much Prosecco with my grooms men/maids. My mother arrived to proudly walk me down the aisle and I was so proud, scared and happy.

Dave then walked down the aisle with Karen and I started crying my eyes out. I think what made my day so special was seeing the sheer amount of love and smiles from our family and friends looking up at us. We said our vows, had beautiful readings from our friends, and then we signed the register as Somewhere Over The Rainbow played in the background).

Immediately after the ceremony we left to have the group photo, but before that our three kids (Lola, Alfie and Hugo) were brought up to have their picture taken with their daddies. Our guests loved

it.

One of the reasons we love the Galgorm so much are its grounds, thanks to this stunning setting we now have the most beautiful wedding pictures I could have asked for. One of my favorite ideas for the wedding was that myself and Dave and our best men and groomsmen would wear rainbow socks. We wanted a wedding that was as traditional and classy as possible but with a little bit of our “pink personality” here and there. The rainbow socks was one of those expressions and made for a fantastic picture.

Our reception was held in the brand new Renaissance Suite. The magnitude and style of this beautiful room is out of this world. The marble and gold made me feel like a princess on my special day.

Our good friend John McClean from Sugarroom had made our wedding cake. It had to be huge for me, the bigger the

better! He did a fantastic job.

We both wore navy Ted Baker suits with pink stitching and pink ties, Dave wore a regular tie while I wore a bowtie. Our shoes and underwear were also by Ted Baker. We we were literally dressed from Ted to Toe. Our matching wedding bands came from Gardiner Brothers.

Colin The food at the galgorm is incredible. We had canapĂŠs for our guests arriving, Prosecco and cocktails. Guests had a choice of chicken or turkey for their main, with two starters.

A Champagne sorbet followed.

Desert was a delicious rhubarb crumble.

For our evening entertainment Barbara Brycland, a muchloved fan of the LGBT community and personal friend mine and Dave, performed. After Barbara, Dave and I had our first dance. It started off with our favorite Celine song, nice and slow. It ended up with us both wearing high heels. We also had a photo booth that made some of the most hilarious pictures I have ever seen. Everyone had an absolute ball. It was like the best night out you’ve ever had but with everyone you love and care for there with you.

Our first snack of the evening was of fish and chips served in little cones, as well as mounds of sweets from our Candy Cart.

Since we were married in November we decided to hold off about six months before going off on our honeymoon.

We went on a fantastic cruise around the Caribbean (with eleven of our closest friends) starting off with four nights in Miami and then cruising around the Virgin Islands, Tortola and the Bahamas.

It was amazing and like everything we do, sharing it with our friends made the entire thing better. I had to give myself a few weeks off

the drink though. I took real advantage of the unlimited drinks package.

Dave I think Colin summed our day up perfectly. Apart from the fact he failed to mention that I planned, arranged and organised EVERYTHING! I had lists for lists.

I was the most organised, calm, and collected groom to be ever.

The day was perfect from start to finish. We loved the venue and we loved having our closest friends take part.

Colin’s speech had a “joke” at the end. We both watch Dallas, and there’s a line where John Ross says “I cant promise you smooth sailings, but I can promise you the ride of your life”. Colin thought this was hilarious and was so proud of it, only when it got to the day he said “smooth ceilings” instead...

The honeymoon was great. The only thing I would change is the unlimited Prosecco. Colin drank the entire ships’ weight of the stuff.

Colin Married life is fantastic, it feels the same as before but there is a sense of security we didn’t have.

Legally it is a civil partnership, but we’ve called it marriage from day one and we are as married as any heterosexual couple. Equal marriage is

not too far away, and it will strengthen the bond we already have.

Dave Married life is great. Not that much has changed. We are quite an old fashioned couple, really.

We love our nights in more than our nights out. When we do go out we paint the town every shade of red!

We love coming home after a long day, lighting the candles and cuddling up with our 3 dogs…

Colin We love going out with friends for dinner but we prefer our nights in a little more these days. I guess we’re getting boring. We like our home comforts. After a hard day we get straight home and watch some telly with our dogs. Most nights we are in bed by 10. How dull!

I love my rom-coms and American series. Dave hates

them, so he leaves me in peace to watch. We do go out separately from time to time but generally we do most things together. Now that we are married our next step is to start a family. We hope to do it someday soon. For now our dogs have to suffice.

Dave After being together so long you become in-sync with your partner and you find yourself liking the same things. We do do things together and we do things apart too, but sometimes we need our own space.

Every couple is the same, right?

Weddings DIRECTORY

On the pages to follow you’ll find information on some of the amazing companies who’ve stepped up and spoken to us. Along with the businesses and companies who promote themselves in the GNI MAG they’ve told us that they welcome business from same-sex weddings.

SAME SEx WEDDING SUPPLIERS DIRECTORY

Weddings

THIRTY SIX

CATERING

Thirty six is a thriving cafĂŠ in Belfast that specialises in catering. Your wedding day will be perfect and so should your catering.

We have a wide menu that is perfect from the beginning of your wedding journey, for engagement parties, morning of the wedding breakfast treats, drink and nibbles reception, evening meals and the oh so important evening time snacks.

Let us take the stress out of organising the food side of things, help you save money by planning your menu and let you enjoy the many special celebrations on your journey.

Telephone: 028 9065 7476 / info@no36catering.co.uk www.no36catering.co.uk

Weddings

DJ KENNY k

ENTERTAINMENT

Kenny himself needs no introduction to most having been a resident dj in probably every party bar and club in Belfast over the last 25 years. He has been nominated twice in the industry’s Fate Awards twice in the best Dj category and with this wealth of experience he also runs one of the most highly successful Wedding business’s in the country .

Investing in the newest photobooth technology he offers his clients the amazing new Selfie Mirror , a 5ft touchscreen mirror that both talks to you and plays interactive animations . You are invited to touch the screen to start , the mirror tells you when to pose etc and you can sign your name on the mirror and it will appear on your photo.

Each photo is also branded with the couples Wedding logo .

Based in the Love Store in Belfast City Centre Kenny meets his clients no less than three times to sort playlists and requests from your guests . His £999 offer is literally unbeatable giving clients 5 hr bespoke djing , 3 hr Selfie mirror hire , 16ft LED Dancefloor , a backdrop motion wall that can be programmed to scroll the Bride and Grooms names and 2ft Love Letters . Pics and videos @ www.djkennyk.com www.facebook.com/selfiemirrorhire www.facebook.com/djkennyk.events https://vimeo.com/157352644

www.djkennyk.com www.facebook.com/selfiemirrorhire | www.facebook.com/djkennyk.events

Weddings ENTERTAINMENT

KELLY SMILEY

Getting the entertainment right at your big day can be a minefield. There are so many people of different ages to consider because you’ll want them all to be having a good time.

One artist who can cater for absolutely everyone is Kelly Smiley. With everything from Pavarotti’s Nessun Dorma to Jess Glynne’s Hold My Hand and songs from all the musicals, Kelly has one of the widest repertoires on the scene. She can entertain any audience and add an extra bit of glamour and fun to your big day.

Kelly can perform ceremony vocals, entertain during your pre dinner drinks, or indeed perform as your evening entertainment with lots of audience participation and interaction (if you’re not too shy).

Kelly is also part of the Perfect Strangers girl group who has performed at Belfast Gay Pride at Custom House Square. This could provide another option for your evening entertainment.

info@kellysmiley.co.uk www. kellysmiley.co.uk

C +44 (0) 7801 383 144 | info@bigjolly.co.uk

www.thejustadamband.com

Weddings ENTERTAINMENT

If you are looking for the finishing touches to make your day stand out, or top class entertainment, Vertu Events has a wide range of products and solutions available to add that something extra to your event.

As the market leader in Northern Ireland for Starlight Dancefloor hire, one of our White LED Floors can really set your first dance alight. Why not try one of our black Starlight floors as an alternative or our Checker Board floor to give your event that retro look.

Our photobooth range has something to suit every taste and theme. Whether it’s the classic VW Camper Van booth, or our unique New York or Vintage

VERTU EVENTS themed photobooths, our booths will keep your guests entertained using state of the art greenscreen technology. They also provide a great memento for both you and your guests to take away and remember the day!

To get your evening entertainment going, or to close it out with a bang, our team of experienced wedding DJs can create a playlist for any taste or decade!

And finally our huge range of light-up letters can make your initials a focal point during your day.

Perfect to set in front of a top table or to put your name up in lights.

www.vertuevents.co.uk info@vertuevents.co.uk / 07734213051

Weddings FAVORS

THE RAINBOW PROJECT Wedding favours can be a headache – finding a gift that will be kept and cherished by your guests can be a challenge – and an expensive one at that. The Rainbow Project is happy to provide a practical and inexpensive idea.

A charity pin is something all guests can take away and will be a constant memento of your big day. By giving a Rainbow Project pin, your guests will have a gift which is not only a gift for them but one which, when worn, shows their support for you, our community and the work of The Rainbow Project.

The Rainbow Project is Northern Ireland’s largest support and advocacy organisation for lesbian, gay, bisexual and/or trans people and their families. We have offices in Belfast and Foyle where we provide counselling, support groups, sexual health advice and testing as well as support for victims of homophobic and transphobic hate crime.

028 9031 9030 / 028 7128 3030 www.rainbow-project.org

Weddings MENS GROOMING

THE ORIGINAL HAIRBUS COMPANY The original hairbus company hit the road last october aiming to travel around Belfast city and beyond providing a quality service when it is needed the most.

We are located at various sites around the city on a weekly basis offering an appoinment service for busy professionals at or near their place of work.

We also offer a unique experience for the grooms party on the morning of their wedding. Whether it be at home or the venue. We will give you the very best in wedding day preparation making sure it is a hassle free morning for all to enjoy!

FOR information on our packages: emma@thehairbus.com / www.thehairbus.com

Weddings

SHELLEY’S BARBER

MENS GROOMING

When it comes to your big day, you want your

Shelley was the barber for a recent large same-sex

whole grooms party to look the part. You’ll want a

wedding. In the two and a half hours before the

current look for their hair, but not something that

service she was on site to trim and chop the hair and

will date your photos when you look back at them

beards on the grooms party, as well as help with a

years from now. Shelley has been grooming and

quick re-style on close family members.

styling men for years now from her barber shop in Bangor. You can book your whole party in to be

Check out Shelly Barber’s facebook or instagram for

beautified, or if it’s easier Shelley can come to your

more information.

venue and groom the guys on site.

07541 286 022 70 Abbey Street, Bangor, County Down

Weddings STATIONERY

RYAN PATRICK DESIGN

Let us tell your love story in style...

We specialise in creating affordable luxurious Wedding Stationery. Founded by designers and Husbands, Ryan and Patrick McGinnisHasson. We believe in creating high quality products without breaking the bank, using only the best materials while delivering our own unique customer experience, as we guide you from start to finish.

Our wedding stationery collections are created in-house by our designers. Our online store allows you to choose an invitation that fits the style of your wedding, while customising everything to suit. From Invitations to Table Plans. We have everything you’ll need for your big day.

We also offer Our Bespoke Design Service, you’ll work with our designers, creating a design which is totally unique and special and reflects your personalities.

17D market street, limavady, bt49 0ab / 028 7727 8100 hello@ryanpatrickdesign.co.uk / www.ryanpatrickdesign.co.uk

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Weddings PHOTOGRAPHY

by phone, email or sending a message through our facebook page. We will arrange a cup of tea and chat to discuss your requirements. Should you wish to book us, then it’s a simple booking form and small deposit.

GNI Weddings spoke to Camille from Pure Pictures, asking her advice on choosing the right photographer for your big day...

How long have you been working with couples, capturing their big day?

Pure Pictures was established in 2008, we are a multi-award winning bunch based in Belfast. We have the experience and talent to make sure your photography and big day runs smoothly. We have three photographers – Nicola, Aisling and me. – Camille.

We know good photographers are extremely busy, when should couples book their photographer?

We would recommend that the couple speak to us as soon as they have a date and their venue booked. Please note if your big day takes place in the busy period (June – September), we would recommend that couples book their date a year or so in advance. So once you have your date, then contact us

What makes a good wedding photographer?

It is important that after speaking to a photographer, you feel confident in their ability, their work and how they will interact with you & your guests.

A professional photographer can make the day go smoothly, keep you smiling and help in a crisis. The Pure Pictures ladies have been known to provide transportation for additional family members, fix bridal hairstyles, iron shirts or just simply carry the umbrellas on those rainy days!

With everything seemingly going digital these days do couples still buy physical wedding albums?

Oh definitely, there is still a demand for the more traditional style of albums. Some couples may just choose a large canvas print and a small coffee book style album. Just depends on the couples individual styles or wishes.

A new trend which has appeared over the last couple of years are the smaller duplicate albums which are often given

ASK THE EXPERT to family members or sent to family across the world.

In terms of budget, how much should the average couple allow for their photography?

Now is this a trick question? LOL Our most popular package starts at £1000 for two photographers and your album.

At Pure Pictures we tailor make packages to suit individual couple and our prices range from £750 up to £2000. Also we can offer combination packages to include Hair & Make-up, Videography, Cars and room décor. Saving you hassle of shopping around and most importantly hundreds of pounds!!

One point to bear in mind is that cheap photography isn’t the same as affordable photography.

The one thing you take away from your big day, apart from your memories and your rings – is your pictures. You want them to be magical and you don’t want to miss anything.

Especially those happy tears, ach bless.

Any other advice for our couples regarding capturing their day?

Breathe and take your time – Don’t forget to enjoy your love, laugh lots and most importantly smile!!!

Weddings PHOTOGRAPHY

PURE PICTURES Pure Pictures specialises in quirky, unique, outdoor, and original Weddings. Providing top quality images, which captures your personality and your wedding- YOUR WAY! Our approach to photography is how life should be, relaxed, natural and most importantly full of joy. Bringing out the perfect day is the essence of our business, we love working with couples on their creative ideas and tailor make all our packages to each couple.

It’s your love story, we are just the lucky photographers who get to share your magical day.

Toot toot on our own trumpet - Top 5 Wedding Photographer 2012, 2013 &2014 by Wedding Journal Magazine and Wedding Industry Expert Award Winner in 2014.

So, what are you waiting for…….. Say “I DO” with Pure Pictures

www.pure-pictures.co.uk Phone: 07889341980 / Email: camille@pure-pictures.co.uk

Weddings PHOTOGRAPHY

Colin maxwell

A Wedding Tells a Story – Make Sure Yours Is Told There is only one opportunity to capture once in a lifetime photos. Would you dare to leave that up to chance?

An experienced photographer is imperative for your wedding memories; a photographer who knows how to capture vivid photos.

You can feel confident that capturing your wedding memories is my top priority. You will receive a highly professional service from a friendly and professional photographer.

My goal is to evoke the same emotions when you look at your wedding album as you felt on your special day.

I capture feelings and emotions so that you can experience them over and over again.

Just relax and know that your wedding memories are in good hands.

Head over to www.colinmaxwell.co.uk today and I will let you know how I can capture your wedding in the best way possible.

Mobile: 07743425928 W: www.colinmaxwell.co.uk / E: me@colinmaxwell.co.uk

Weddings

PHOTOGRAPHY

START MAKING MEMORIES TOGETHER...

Announce your engagement with a stylish portrait by the award winning photographer Paul McMahon LRPS. Create a bespoke yet affordable package that’s right for you. From single announcement shots to whole keepsake albums, I will work with you to make sure these special moments are captured perfectly.

Paul mcmahon Exhibiting member of the Northern Ireland Photographic Association and the Royal Photographic Society.

Expect a quality service and excellent results you’ll love.

SUPER SPECIAL OFFER: quote “WEDDED GNI” for unique offers across my range of packages.

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Weddings room decor

Are you planning a Wedding with a difference?

Would you like to personalsie your wedding day?

Great News - You’ve just found what you are looking for!

Wooden Treats offer a complete range of bespoke rustic wedding decor. Catering for both your ceremony and reception venues, we have designed and handcrafted a unique ‘Welcome’ arch, candle displays, table decor, cake stands, table plans & that’s just for starters...

We can provide everything you need to have a truly authentic rustic wedding day. Allow us to help you personalise your wedding day with our range

wooden treats of finishing touches including personalsied cake stands, wedding favours, alternative ‘guest books’ & more. As everything is individually handcrafted, we welcome your ideas and can design something truly individual to you; You imagine it, we create it.

We understand that each couples’ day will be different and we take direction from you in order to ensure your plans and individual requests become a reality.

Like what you see? Visit us at our showroom in Omagh or Belfast - get in touch today to arrange an appointment.

Tel: Donna 077 49545 100 / Email: woodentreats@hotmail.co.uk www.woodentreatsweddings.co.uk / Facebook: Wooden Treats

Weddings TRANSPORT

ENTERTAINMENT

STAR CAR HIRE Alternative Wedding Transport for the Modern Couple If you are looking for cool wedding transport guaranteed to make your day stand out from the crowd then look no further than Co. Antrim based company Star Car Hire who host a fab selection of quirky ‘wedding wheels’. Famous for their collection of Volkswagen ‘LOVE BUGS’, Star Car Hire have a fantastic range of white convertible Volkswagen Beetles, stretched Beetle limousines and split screen Volkswagen Camper vans.

For the ‘Rock ‘n Rollers’ they have several retro 1950s American cars such as a stunning 1957 Chevy Bel Air, a ‘57 Desoto Fireflight and a couple of cool 1950s American Pickup trucks.

For movie fans they have an actual replica the Dukes of Hazzard ‘General Lee’ (1969 Dodge Charger), a Chevrolet Camaro similar to ‘Bumblebee’ from the recent Transformers movies, a Porsche Speedster convertible and a stunning Ford Mustang Fastback similar to that used in Steve McQueen’s ‘Bullitt’ and ‘Gone in 60 Seconds’. Check out www.starcarhire.co.uk today to see their full range of vehicles or call Mike or Ciaran on 028 2858 3500 or 07731 826398 to get a quote.

Perfect Day www.starcarhire.co.uk 028 2858 3500 or 07731 626398

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ENTERTAINMENT

THE RED BUS COMPANY

TRANSPORT / VENUE

Imagine having an original 1965 Routemaster bus as part of your big day!

Your guests will be in awe as they see this pulling up. The Red Bus has been fully resorted and adapted making it a quirky fun space. The Red Bus can be used as transport to your wedding (how big could your bridal party be) but is usually booked as a venue or an addition to your big day.

The Red Bus can be adapted to suit any occasion from cocktail parties, engagement parties, business gatherings and small weddings. We also have a large selection of outdoor furniture and props to create a fantastic atmosphere in and around the bus giving a great social space for you and your guests.

As well as this The Red Bus is obviously a fantastic photo backdrop for you and your whole wedding party.

Have a look on our website for more details and photos, and get in touch to discuss how we can help make your day that extra bit special.

Telephone: 07540222850 www.theredbuscompany.com / info@theredbuscompany.com

Weddings TRANSPORT

MERCEDES WEDDING CAR HIRE IRELAND

If you are looking for modern cars on your big day that still look classic and elegant then Mercedes Wedding Car Hire Ireland is the right choice for you. We are available island wide and offer the ultimate in chauffer driven hire. Once you have us booked we are with you from the service to the reception and anywhere in-between, we strive to make sure your day goes as smoothly as possible and no task is too big.

We have up to four matching white E-Class Mercedes and our price includes champagne, ribbons to match your theme and a custom license plate with your names on it. We specialize in affordable, premier travel that provides brides and grooms with comfort and luxury on the most important occasion of their lives.

Whatever your requirements, be assured that we will compile the perfect wedding transport package for you. We go the extra mile so you don’t have to.

We also provide our cars for corporate, contract and VIP hire if needed.

mercedesweddingcarhireireland.com 07711 363 377 / 07803 580 458 / mercweddingcarhire@gmail.com

Weddings VENUES

as a couple-maybe it is the food or the service you will receive but really that is the best starting point. Definitely visit and see the space and if you can do it on an open day even better!

We caught up with Sally Grattan from Malone Lodge Hotel for some inside information and tips on booking your venue...

How long have you been working with couples helping their big day go smoothly?

Well it is our 25th anniversary as a hotel- we are actually really delighted that this year we have just been awarded as Belfast Winner of Wedding Venue of the Year in the Northern Ireland Wedding Venue of the Year Awards.

Good venues with excellent reputations book up quickly, have you any advice for couples selecting a venue?

Ultimately it is about where you and your guests will feel most comfortable and looked after.

Most people have a few definite ideas of what they really want from a venue ie the big fairytale castle or somewhere that only has one wedding a day. We would suggest you try to visit 3-4 venues and narrow down what is most important to you

We know a lot of couples these days prefer to do everything under one roof, from the ceremony to the evening reception. Are there any special licences our readers would need to be able to have their ceremony in a venue which isn’t a “Town Hall”?

We do offer the all under one roof option and have the venue licensed with the Belfast registrars at City Hall.

When choosing a menu for their guests, should couples request a taster session from their venue and is it acceptable for them to do this?

A lot of venues have suggested menus in their brochures and packages and some include a tasting. It is absolutely acceptable to have a tasting although some venues may charge extra for this. When food is such an important part of the day we would definitely recommend arranging this.

Budgeting is obviously an important factor for couples, what would you say is the standard practice regarding deposits and stage payments for

ASK THE EXPERT venues?

Deposits vary by venue and can be either a set amount like ourselves which is £500 currently or maybe based on a percentage of the package and numbers chosen. We then have a second payment 3 months after the initial deposit which is paid when the booking is confirmed. After that we ask for pre-payment of 75% of the balance 90 days before the date with full pre-payment then due 1 week prior to the date when final numbers and details are confirmed. We are always happy to arrange more regular payments to help with budgeting for a couple if that suits them better than larger sums on set dates.

Have you any other tips you would pass on to our readers regarding choosing their venue?

If you are able to, don’t let price be your deciding factor after all it’s meant to be a day to remember forever and regrets afterwards are too late!

If you have a lot of people who will travel to the venue check the accommodation is available on your date before you pay any deposits and finally when finalising a date check the availability of the registrar as well before you pay a deposit as deposits are usually nonrefundable.

Weddings VENUES

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Celebrating 25 years and winner of Wedding Venue of the Year for the Belfast region at the Northern Ireland Wedding Awards 2016 Set on a quiet street amongst the leafy suburbs of South Belfast only minutes from the iconic architecture of Queens and the picturesque Botanic Gardens we offer an independent boutique 4* venue that hosts only one wedding a day.

We pride ourselves on not just offering the standard package but are happy to tailor our service and package to match what you want your day to be like and delivering an exceptional experience from bespoke menus to opportunities to personalise the room.

Being fully licensed to hold ceremonies in the hotel in our dedicated ceremony room allows the whole day to be hosted all in the hotel. We can cater for weddings from 10 people up to 240 in our Deramore Banqueting Suite.

60 Eglantine Avenue, Belfast BT9 6DY / www.Malonelodgehotelbelfast.com 02890 388000 / eventsmgr@malonelodgehotel.com

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THE TAP ROOM AT HILDEN BREWERY

A Unique Wedding Experience The Tap Room at Hilden Brewery is a truly unique venue for your wedding. Hilden is located just 8 miles from Belfast City Centre yet on entering the grounds of Hilden House you could be a million miles away.

We are licenced for civil ceremonies for up to 120 people and can host receptions for numbers up to 200.

Your guests can enjoy a drinks reception in the Georgian Courtyard of Hilden House while the wedding party has photographs taken in the wonderful gardens.

As you’d expect, the food is as stunning as the grounds! Working with our chef and dedicated wedding coordinator we will create the most sumptuous menu to celebrate your special day.

The beers available make yet another unique and interesting contribution to your wedding day – where else can your guests enjoy a Belfast Blonde or a Headless Dog? We serve only the best craft beers, the sexiest cocktails and luscious wines.

The tap room at hilden brewery, hilden, lisburn, bt27 4ty 028 9266 0800 / info@hildenbrewery.co.uk / www.taproomhilden.com

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MOLLY’S YARD

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Located in the heart of Queen’s University

in the courtyard whilst enjoying the finest craft

Quarter and on the doorstep of the glorious

ales, the sexiest cocktails and the most luscious

Botanic Gardens, Molly’s Yard offers a truly

of wines.

unique wedding experience, far from the madding crowd.

Working with our head chef we will create a menu to wow and tantalize your guests and

We can cater for wedding parties from 10 to 40

help you celebrate your special day. Our food is

guests. You can reserve everything from a few

always seasonal and made using only the finest

tables for a few hours to the entire building all

local organic ingredients, where possible.

day and night. You can entertain your guests

Molly’s yard, 1 college green mews, botanic avenue, belfast, bt7 1ly 028 9233 0600 / www.mollysyard.co.uk

Weddings VENUES

HILLGROVE HOTEL leisure and spa

Well what can be said about the 4 Star Majestically Magical Hillgrove Hotel, Leisure & Spa in Monaghan, that hasn’t already been said. From start to finish, you and your Guests will be truly impressed, not only by the magical fairytale surroundings, but by the second-to-none service. The Hillgrove Hotel hosted one of the very first same-sex Weddings in Ireland in 2015, and they welcome all couples. Their luxurious Award Winning Hotel, is a bit out of the ordinary, with their 20 foot giant pink outside chair in their love garden, to their stunning Oscar inspired glass fronted orangery.

Not to mention their drive in entrance and many opulent and dazzling chandeliers and funky décor.

With Wedding Menus starting from just €34 per head and a choice of three beautiful banqueting suites, stunning Honeymoon Suites and 87 fabulous bedrooms, this is the perfect setting for both Civil Ceremonies and Wedding Receptions. There is also a Leisure Club, Spa & Wellness Centre and Hair Salon on site. It is no wonder the Hillgrove Hotel were awarded as Ulster’s Number One Wedding Venue in 2015. Call them now to arrange an appointment with one of their specialist Wedding Co-ordinators.

Where Dreams of Wonderful Wedding Days Come True.

old Armagh Road, Monaghan, County monaghan 00353 47 812 88 / weddings@hillgrovehotel.com / www.hillgrovehotel.com

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The Londonderry Arms is the ideal place to hold your wedding reception. Whether your wedding is a gala celebration in our Churchill Room or an intimate gathering in our Drawing Room, our dedicated team are here to make your wedding day special. We ensure that a member of senior management will liase with you and the Executive Chef to co-ordinate your special day. The senior management team will guarantee you their special care and attention so you can relax and enjoy the day.

LONDONDERRY ARMS HOTEL The Londonderry Arms is registered as a venue for civil partnerships.

Our chef will work with you to design the menu that best suits your occasion. We can also provide a wide selection of evening finger buffets.

The Londonderry Arms has a variety of rooms available depending on the size of the reception.

Contact Us if you would like to talk about your wedding plans or to receive a wedding pack.

028 2888 5255 / lda@glensofantrim.com www.glensofantrim.com

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A BEAUTIFUL CITY WEDDING WITH A DIFFERENCE!!

Situated in the heart of Belfast and with a rich history dating back to 1895, the Grand Opera House is a truly unique venue for your special day. Whether it is the opulent surroundings of the magnificent auditorium, the romantic setting of the Shakespeare Rooms, or the intimate Baby Grand Studio, the Grand Opera House is one of the most beautiful and unusual wedding venues in Northern Ireland.

GRAND OPERA HOUSE Offering a range of contemporary and traditional spaces, the Grand Opera House can cater for your wedding ceremony, reception and everything in between. Imagine having your wedding photographs taken in the surroundings of our beautiful auditorium! From your initial consultation to your wedding day itself, our specialist team can help to create your perfect day leaving memories that will last a lifetime.

Enjoy the red carpet treatment at the Grand Opera House and celebrate your wedding in style at Northern Ireland’s premier theatre.

Great Victoria Street, Belfast, BT2 7HR 028 9024 0411 / goh.co.uk

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The merchant hotel

Exclusive, chic and the epitome of luxury, The Merchant Hotel offers a range of beautiful rooms to provide the perfect backdrop for your wedding day.

Our fabulous array of spaces range from the intimate to the lavish and with a strict one wedding per day policy, you and your guests will be our sole focus.

The Rita Duffy Room offers a wealth of sophisticated details, with silken and fringed chandeliers as well as floor to ceiling windows, ensuring the room is flooded with natural light.

The spectacular Roof Top Garden provides another unique space featuring breath taking views of Belfast and a fully retractable roofmaking the weather one less worry for your big day!

With wedding packages starting from ÂŁ55 per person, your dream day with us could be closer than you think.

Contact our dedicated wedding co-ordinators to discuss your dream day.

02890262717 / weddings@themerchanthotel.com www.themerchanthotel.com/your-wedding The Merchant Hotel, 16 Skipper Street, Belfast, BT12DZ

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THE ULSTER HALL True love never ends so create the perfect beginning and choose The Ulster Hall to host your civil partnership.

There is only one venue in Belfast that has the grandeur to celebrate such a momentous occasion - The Ulster Hall, fondly known as ‘The Grand Dame of Bedford Street’.

You will fall in love with this classic beauty’s charm and character.

The Ulster Hall boasts Victorian opulence and extravagant interiors that will set your ceremony apart from the rest and create lasting memories.

Show your commitment and love for each other in front of your families and friends in our elegant Grand Hall with the Mulholland Grand Organ as a dramatic backdrop. And in the evening, trip the light fantastic on our famous dance floor.

Our spaces can be shaped to your specific needs and designed to suit your tastes.

Whether you prefer a small intimate gathering or ceremony for up to 1,000 guests, we promise to be by your side every step of the way, to embrace your ideas, share your excitement and add those special touches.

Using only the best in local produce, our caterers will conjure up stylish and delicious dishes to complement your celebrations.

Lighting up the iconic Mulholland Grand Organ and extending the warmest of welcomes to your guests will ensure your day is filled with joy and special moments.

Your day is important to us - so let us make it unique and extra special.

Telephone: 028 9033 4400 / enquiries@ulsterhall.co.uk www.ulsterhall.co.uk

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CORICK HOUSE hotel & SPA

Corick House Hotel and Spa is the ideal venue for a Civil Ceremony/Partnership with a variety of suites available to cater for your wedding party, from our secluded Library Room which accommodates intimate celebrations for up to 20 guests, to seating 200 guests in our elegant Garden Room and 350 guests in our stunning new Orchid Suite.

The advantage of having your civil ceremony in Corick House Hotel and Spa is the professional dedicated time and attention devoted to you and your wedding day. From the initial planning stages right through to your wedding day we will ensure that you get the highest level of personal service. No request is too big and no concern to small.

For more details contact our wedding co-ordinator today on functions@corickcountryhouse. com or 028 8554 8216

20 Corick Road, Clogher, Co. Tyrone, Northern Ireland, BT76 0BZ T: +44 (0)28 8554 8216 | E: reservations@corickcountryhouse.com www.corickcountryhouse.com/civil-wedding-ceremonies

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PRONUPTIA BRIDAL

BRIDAL WEAR

Pronuptia Bridal has been in Wellington place for over 40 years. During this time we have dressed thousands of Brides and in more recent times are delighted to have seen an increase our our customer base from the LGBT community.

Recently we have had a major refurbishment and have private Bridal Rooms, so if it’s one dress or two dresses we can assist with complimenting both partners in your Civil Ceremony.

Here at Pronuptia we welcome everyone male and female from the LGBT community and would love to play a part in your very special day.

We look forward to hearing from you and helping you choose the perfect dresses for your big day. Contact us on the details below.

16 Wellington place, belfast / 028 9032 4747 www.pronuptiabelfast.com

WEDDINGS AT THE LYRIC THEATRE THE LYRIC THEATRE IS A UNIQUE VENUE TO HOST YOUR WEDDING NOW FULLY LICENSED FOR CIVIL CEREMONIES, WE ARE DELIGHTED TO BE ABLE TO OFFER THE LYRIC'S THEATRICAL SETTING FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY. TAKING YOUR VOWS IN OUR STUNNING LONG-HALL WITH BEAUTIFUL VIEWS OVER THE RIVER LAGAN WILL OFFER A STUNNING BACKDROP FOR YOUR CEREMONY & AN UNFORGETTABLE EXPERIENCE FOR YOU AND YOUR GUESTS.

FOR MORE INFO VISIT LYRICTHEATRE.CO.UK/WEDDINGS

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