La Mensajera Spring 2015 by Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority, Inc.

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GREETINGS NBOD 25 Years: Reflection

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Florence and Beyond

Anniversary Edition La Mensajera 25 Ways GRAPHIC

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Humility: The Cure to Neo Fever Living My Principles: (More Than) 20 years Later FEATURE

FEATURE Sisterhood: Reflections On My Decade As A Gamma

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Pink Bag Selfie

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Reflections on My 23rd Year

POETRY The Hyphenated American

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#25FavoriteThings @LaMensajera1990

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Studying Abroad in Africa

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Enhancing Sisterhood Through Our Busy Lives

Letter from the Editor GREETINGS

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WMAA Founders Spotlight

NBOD 25 Years: Reflections

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Luz Danela “Atómica” Randolph Captain, Spring 2003 Las Damas Divinas Marvelous Mu Chapter at the University of South Florida National Board of Directors, Chairwoman It’s incredible to think I joined this organization when I was just barely 19 years-old and she was 13. Back then the sorority was relatively small, with only about 66 chapters across the nation. However, as I think back, we were small, but MIGHTY! During this time, we conquered our first Historically-Black College and University, grew our HQ staff from three to five, and doubled our size not only in our undergraduate entities, but our alumnae associations. Now as we continue our growth, we are challenging ourselves to be BIGGER and BETTER. We are partnering with organizations that are seeking our support, because they know “Sigma Lambda Gamma is a force to be reckoned with.” Seeing the evolution our sisterhood has gone through was not easy. The women who worked for those changes stood tall, strong, and with a vision. It’s a vision that has made Sigma Lambda Gamma the largest and fastest growing organization of its kind, one that represents so many intelligent and beautiful intellectuals. Sigma Lambda Gamma’s values are ones that my mother instilled in my sister and I, so it was evident that becoming a sister only reinforced them. SLG has brought so many positive, and at times challenging memories and opportunities, but I would not trade them for the world. The women from my chapter, region, and nation helped me GROW. In SLG, I found my panther soulmate a.k.a best friend, met the man I proudly call my husband, and had the

“The women from my chapter, region and nation helped me grow.”

opportunity to see my sister become a member of the Irresistible Iota Alpha chapter at Florida State University. The opportunities afforded have empowered me beyond measures. I have a network of women who are incomparable to any other. I work daily with passionate, hard-working, tough-minded WOMEN in order to make our organization the best of its kind for our members and the community we serve. I consider it a privilege to be a sister and be able to serve such a MAVERLOUS and SOLID sisterhood. I cannot wait to see all that the next 78 years will bring. Here is to forevermore!

Alicia “Instintiva” Iniguez Spring 2002, Las Poderosas Gamma Chapter at Iowa State University Reflecting on the last 12 years of my involvement within SLG, my heart swells with simultaneous pride and humility. I feel pride for our chapters who continue to thrive, for our alumnae sisters who still give back to the organization amidst their hectic lives and for the mission that guides SLG. I feel humility for the fact that we have paid staff and an Executive Director who helps to ensure the success and longevity of our sisterhood for years to come. I feel humility for the National Board of Directors who now has the opportunity to set the vision for 10-40 years into our future. We have come so far in such a short amount of time, but I’m not all that surprised. We have such amazing sisters. We are all accomplished women, who chose to value an education and attend a university. While on our path of degree attainment we found SLG. We found another family away from home who would be our partner in crime, our shoulder to cry on and our cheerleader in moments of accomplishments. It was those bonds we created and demonstrated that fostered us to become the largest and fastest growing historically Latina sorority. Whether we internalize it or not, as women we have barriers to overcome due to our gender. These can

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Sigma Lambda Gamma NBOD 25 Years: Reflections become compounded by other areas of our lives such as our ethnicity, religion and sexual orientation. I see SLG and the past 25 years as a true testament to the saying that “If you want it, you can achieve it.” We can run through barriers head on and achieve what we dream. I am so excited for the next 25 years. Thank you SLG for becoming a part of my life and teaching me so much.

Una “Audaz” Bilic Anchor, Spring 2004 “Corazones Captivados” Marvelous Mu Chapter at the University of South Florida I remember turning 25 and thinking “What am I doing with my life, what’s my vision, my purpose?” As I sat there and pondered on the next step for me, I look at SLG and how within the short 25 years, the organization has a vision, a purpose, an enormous membership, pride, sisterhood, and potential for even so much more. So while some of us were going through our quarter life crises, SLG was thriving and we all made that possible! I remember the first time I felt truly empowered as an undergraduate sister: Las Vegas Convention 2006. There was a proposal to change the GPA requirement to a 2.75 and man was it hectic! We went back and forth, and we, as a sorority, stood firm in our grounds that we were not ready for such a massive transition. This is what SLG is: the coming together of all women, the unification of membership! This organization functions because you are here giving back to your community, country and the world. I was empowered to get my chapter to become the best in the university, then I was empowered to get my region to be the number one in the nation, and now I am empowered to get our organization to thrive in all of Greek life. Our sisterhood has grown so much in the last 25 years. We changed how our colonies function, to how we do intake. We now have an actual website that’s more

than just a social network (Purple Republic). We have a manual for everything that you need, a strategic plan for the organization and an answer to all your day to day operation questions. We have volunteer leaders who continually and selflessly dedicate themselves to the organization. I thank SLG for my lifelong soul panther BFF. I thank SLG for continuously motivating me to be better. I thank SLG for molding my blood sister into a leader. And I thank SLG for the best four undergraduate years ever and a lifetime more to go!

Lannette “Flor” Richardson Anchor, Fall 2003 “Las Esperanzas” Absolutely Alpha Beta Chapter at the Loyola Marymount University Our journey or our sisterhood cannot be captured in a single snapshot. So, “how can I justifiably offer my perspective of our beloved sisterhood, its progression throughout the past 25 years and how it empowers me?” That was my initial thought. Then I realized that it can be summed up it in exactly one word. The same word that is used to request my perspective and our sisterhood’s journey, reflection. A reflection is what we have been. We have been a mirror image, a reflection of all of the sisters that are a part of it. Our sisterhood has grown to reflect the beauty that is our diversity. It is our diversity that gives our sisterhood the ability to empower. We constantly challenge ourselves to embrace the differences that our membership offers and demand that our ever-changing needs are met. We are not afraid to make mistakes. We learn from them. We grow stronger with each step that we take. I am empowered by our reflection. Our unique reflection has challenged me in both my personal and professional development. Our sisterhood has been a safe place for me to be erroneous, learn and grow. It has taught me how to be a stronger person for others and myself. It has brought educated me on social and political subject matter that has never been on my radar. I am empowered each and every day whether I recognize it immediately or not. Our journey as a sisterhood is a reflection of its diversity. We have successfully thrived for 25 years

“It is our diversity that gives our sisterhood the ability to empower.”

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because of it. Just like each sister, I am a part of our sisterhood’s reflection. We are beautifully flawed, yet triumphant.

Alice “Anani” Garcia Fall 2002 “Las Estrellas Brillantes” Magnificent Mu Beta Chapter at WestPoint Academy Over just my 13 years as a sister, our sisterhood has blossomed! It’s been like watching a baby grow into an empowered woman. As the years have passed, we’ve become a force to be reckoned with and a respected organization across the nation. I feel that the way we educate and bring women into SLG has changed into one that empowers women to reflect on themselves, their place in SLG, and SLG as a whole. As an organization, we have come into our own and found our voice. SLG took the big step of leaving an umbrella organization. We are much better off for it and are

solid on our own. Another empowering change is the creation of our first strategic plan, which enables us to purposefully plan for our future. The establishment and growth of the SLGEF is also a critical part of our future. As a sister, I feel SLG’s progression over the years has helped me grow as an empowered woman. Living the SLG principles has helped mold my frame of reference and mindset in my personal and professional life. Being part of SLG’s growing pains inspired me to volunteer first as an EAC, then RD and now member of NBOD. As SLG continues to empower women through leadership development, as well as focus on the five principles, I feel the commitment to do the same in my own corner of the world. I enjoy giving back and helping other women leverage the power they have within, so they can in turn impact the lives of other women.

“...my heart swells with simultaneous pride and humility.”

Florence and Beyond! Sister Valeria “Perseverante” Silva

I studied abroad in Florence, Italy for a semester and it has been the most influential event of my life thus far. Not only did I travel within Italy but also to many countries such as Germany, Spain, France, Ireland, and England. Being in a country full of foreigners makes you see life in a different light. In the United States, I was secretly annoyed by hearing “Do

you speak Spanish?” As a Latina, I am ashamed to say that I was annoyed, but this was the reality. Coming from Texas where the Hispanic population thrives, one is bound to encounter that question. When I heard those words on the other side of the world, I knew what foreigners in the U.S. felt. I am now more willing and happy to assist any foreigner to the best of my ability. Going outside of your comfort zone and stepping into new territory can be very intimidating. It is important for the natives of the country to acknowledge that and give a helping hand to those in need. This is only one small way that studying abroad has influenced my life for the better. I encourage everyone to take the opportunity if possible and study abroad. The world is waiting for you.

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dear summer Sister Vanity “Isorropia” Duran

After ten years, I’m finally going to the Dominican Republic. In the midst of preparing for my graduating year, being an interest for Sigma Lambda Gamma, and growing more into adulthood this vacation is much needed and well deserved. It’s time to experience what life is like for others and to explore my roots

July 18, 2014

I can’t believe this day has come so fast. I causally (or not) said hi to Trey Songz who was right next to us at the security check. We’re on the plane now getting ready to land!

July 20, 2014

We went to the beach today; Jaun Dolio and Boca Chica. Juan Dolio had killer waves and I loved it! The water was calmer at Boca Chica. We visited Abuela (grandmother). We both screamed as we ran to hug each other. Mom often sends her mother to help build the foundation of her house. Afterward, we went to Villa, which is dad’s cousin’s house. Seeing all these places and different people makes me appreciate what I have and don’t have. No one I personally know has it as bad as some of the people here: shacking up in already crowded houses or waking up early at the crack of dawn to sell fruit on the street while watching their child at the same time.

July 21, 2014

I taught my 9-year-old cousin the English alphabet and basic sentences she can practice. We spent the whole day together because that’s what she wanted. We went to this Walmart-like store and then had dinner at Tio’s (uncle’s) house. We ate hen and rice.

July 22, 2014

I see that the Dominican Republic is no different than the states. Things are up to date including the fashion, and technology. The McDonald’s and Wendy’s are also fancier. I got to go to the bar. There was free entry and they served hookah. It was fun even though the lights went out for twenty minutes. The small, smoky bar went from 60 degrees to 100 degrees pretty quickly! I might regret going out so late because I have to wake

up early to go fishing tomorrow.

July 23, 2014

I took an hour nap, threw my clothes on and rusehd downstairs just in time. Dad pulled up ready for the fishing trip. I offered to write down the directions to go to the boat but no one wanted to listen and of course we got lost! While we drove around in circles I got to observe the streets. I noticed how the garbage is often left in the street, yet the air doesn’t smell polluted like it does in the states. The Caribbean Sea was rough, yet so beautiful. The sun toasted me to a tan—three shades darker than when I arrived. I was so tired from the night before but I caught the biggest fish. On the way back home, I wanted to go to sleep but we got lost again. I stayed up to make sure we got back safe. Now I’m in bed, watching Sex and the City, or should I say Sexo en la Ciudad, before going to sleep.

July 24, 2014

People here are richer than in the states, rich in nature. The mountains surrounding us are so gorgeous words can’t even explain it. We’re in this hotel in a valley called Constanza, where the climate is slightly cooler than in the city. Upon our arrival, we played a nice family volleyball game. The parents and I were against Tio, Tia and Prima. We won 15 to 13, a very close game. We went to this beautiful waterfall, Las Aguas Blancas en Constanza. I got really emotional from taking in the beauty of all the nature. July 27, 2014 I got to see where the grandparents are buried. They’re right next to each other in the same little house with a nice view of the valley and mountains. I’m thankful for the legacy they left in the family. It’s been a great vacation. We gathered at Tio Jose Luis’ house and a lot of people came. We ate the fish I caught and took lots of pictures together. I ended up crying when Abuela left. I’m going to miss her. A vacation is more than just being in paradise, it’s about taking a break from your everyday life with the hopes of enjoying yourself so much that you gain something from it. My trip reminded me that life is bigger than me and I look forward to what the semester holds.

Love, Vanit y

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the hyphenated americans Sister Doua “AmaiRizar” Kha Because We’re not just Asian, As well-meaning and open-minded as you might be We’re not all look-alikes and certainly not Oriental We are Americans, too Our womyn are not good luck cherry blossoms, submissive lotus-ladies. We might have rice-rocket races, segregated high school cafeteria spaces because We can’t find ourselves in the movies, magazines, and MTV. Maybe,We’ll have Better Luck Tomorrow. And even though Amy taught me to be proud of my Mother Tongue, how to live this double life With the Kitchen-God’s Wife, and I, in turn, yearned to join her club of

Joy and Luck I long for a time when our backs will break free from strained phoneticizations, Western romanticizations and further perpetuations of ching-chang-chong. I

“Because there’s a difference between recovering from old stereotype, and simply re/covering them.”

Never learned karate from Mr. Miyagi, Fought like Bruce Lee, Spoke like Mickey Rooney in Breakfast at Tiffany’s. I must protest, Miss Golightly, because certain truths were supposedly self-evident. Because there’s a difference between recovering from old stereotype, and simply re/covering them.

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HUMILITY: THE CURE TO NEO FEVER AND THE KEY TO HUMAN DIGNITY Sister Carissa “Nehan” Cullum

Before beginning my intake process for Sigma Lambda Gamma, I was asked, “What does humility mean to you?” Sitting before the panel of sisters, I grew nervous. My mind went blank and I couldn’t think of what the word “humility” even meant. I mumbled out some vague response and left shortly thereafter. Looking back, part of me is glad that I don’t remember what I said that day, as I’m sure my answer was horribly insufficient. Although the definition was later explained, I don’t think I came to understand what humility really meant to me, or how it related to SLG, until recently. After nearly four years in our beloved organization, I have seen numerous new lines emerge throughout the region and met countless neophytes. Each one is thrilled at the prospect of meeting everyone in her new sisterhood, and each is proud of the Shocking Pink and Majestic Purple letters across her chest. This is the neo fever I encourage—the frequent wearing of colors, the continuous strolling, the constant talks about SLG—because it’s this pure enthusiasm that is the best recruitment tool anyone could ask for. These new members are so passionate about our organization that the women they meet can’t help but be interested. Unfortunately, I’ve also seen this pride turn sour when it’s taken to the opposite extreme. I’ve seen sisters demean other women based on their choice to join another organization, speculations on their intake processes and an array of other reasons. Don’t get me wrong—I’m sure we’ve all been here, myself included. We never intend to say some things, we simply get caught up in the excitement and it may cause us to forget that what we stood for is what brought us to this organization. But as time has passed, I’m able to look back on my own actions and apply the lessons I’ve

received on humility moving forward. According to Merriam-Webster, humility is the quality or state of not thinking you are better than other people; it is the quality or state of being humble. When we apply this meaning to SLG, it means that, on an individual level, we are no better than anyone else, regardless of who they are, where they’re from, what organization they’ve joined, or anything else for that matter. Instead, we should take a step back and look at the bigger picture. We should read our Human Dignity Policy and review our principles regularly to remind ourselves of the many qualities a Woman of Distinction should possess. Humility is one of them. If we are able to understand this concept, and teach humility to our neophytes, then maybe we can truly promote equality and build “a society where human judgments are based on merit, without regard to gender, race, religious preference, sexual orientation or disability”— just as our Founding Mothers have intended.

“What does humility mean to you?”

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Sisterhood: reflections on my decade as a gamma Sister Ana Laura “Penina” Castillo

As I write this, my ship, Ermina Amoretta, is just four months shy of our ten year Gammaversary. Like other sisters, we envisioned a grand trip to celebrate this day. Our group messages look something like this: “It would be amazing to go to another country!” “Maybe another city is more feasible? Remember some of us have student loans to pay off.” “Our sexy tres will have a newborn around that time.” “Well, how about just a staycation where most of us live?” “Can our quad who lives out of state make it?” “I think I could, just let me know what dates you’re thinking.” “How about the actual date?” “I have a family reunion.” “I’ll be in trial in New Jersey that entire month.” “Before or after that date then?” Then, silence. As with all things in life, logistics can sometimes stall our good intentions (although there is still time for us line sisters!). When we made that vow—hermanas por vida, sisters for life, I pictured myself in my seventies, having brunch with my sisters, still wearing letters. Twice I had seen this in action; once we saw a group of Zetas at a Denny’s living the brunch dream, another time we saw hundreds of women of all ages at an AKA convention. Why not us? What could possibly get in the way of always being hip-to-hip with my sorors forever? Collegiate Career

As an undergraduate, I lived with my sisters. I saw sisters every single day. So, maintaining sisterhood had less to do with logistics and more to do with dissipating egos, attitudes and cliques that sometimes arose in the chapter. We called it separating business from sisterhood—how could I avoid hurting a sister’s feelings when telling her that she could not attend a certain even because she had not yet paid her dues? I wanted her at the event, but the bylaws in place prohibited her from being there. What about those three sisters that only hung out with each other— could we set up sister-dates so they could bond with other sisters? As an undergraduate, sisterhood also meant meeting sisters from other chapters, attending conventions and regional retreats. Once, I even flew to Chicago with my Gamma-grandmother to meet my lineage at the Sigma Chapter. Sisterhood meant trying not to feel a little worried while on vacation when a smiling stranger eagerly approached me to tell me that she had seen my letters and wanted to introduce herself as an alumni sister from a different chapter. Sisterhood meant beaming after that interaction, proud that I was part of such an organization. Recent Alumni After graduation, life kind of took me in a different direction. I moved back closer to my family. I began a new career. My relationship got serious and took up a lot of my time. Sisterhood turned more into seeing most of my sisters at homecoming, baby showers and weddings. I would exchange texts and emails with sisters here and there, but the times I actually hung out with sisters in individual and small groups were few and far between. As life got so busy, it became difficult to see and keep in touch my sisters. But boy did I treasure those times I was able to spend time with my sisters—even those Gammaversaries when not everyone could make it! Graduate School When I returned to my alma mater for law school, I was so excited to be near my chapter again. I

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Sisterhood: Reflections On My Decade As A Gamma remember attending a percentage night (not wearing letters) and introducing myself to sisters I had never met before. “Hi! I’m 29!” The logic was that if I introduced myself by my chapter number, it would be easier for the undergrads to understand that I was an alumni sister (silly, I know). The very young women looked confused— one of them confessed, we thought you were telling us your age! I felt like a dinosaur as I eagerly text some of the “older” (but still young!) sisters to arrive—“please hurry!” I texted. During that first semester of graduate school, I was sent emails from our associate members. I developed a great connection with one of the members and decided to throw my name in the hat to be a Gamma mom—what the heck!? And suddenly, I had a second Gamma daughter! As an alumn, my insight with this daughter was so different from my bond with my first as an undergraduate sister. I could talk after-graduation, life and graduate school. To date, I serve as a mentor as my daughter approaches her law school graduation.

focus on adjusting to a new career. But again, Sigma Lambda Gamma never abandoned me. When I did reach out to sisters, almost all warmly welcomed me back into their lives. Today Last summer, the lovely Southwest Regional Director and my chapter sister, Julia Rivera, reached out incessantly to each member of our chapter. “The girls need you,” she said. “Please attend this important meeting. I know that it’s your dad’s birthday, but it would mean so much if you were there.” It reminded me of her recruiting me to join Sigma Lambda Gamma. Again, I attended the meeting and again I committed to Sigma Lambda Gamma. Two semesters later, I serve on my chapter’s advisory board and have a third, nineteen-year old Gamma daughter. I am nearly a decade her senior, but she’s wise beyond her years and teaches me valuable lessons.

The period between law school graduation and the bar exam, I was studying more hours than I care to admit. No one. Not even my family heard from me regularly. Even after I obtained my results months later, I felt alienated. I worked on reigniting relationships with my family members, but I felt so bad and embarrassed about all the times I had blown off sisters with my go-to “I can’t because law school keeps me so busy” excuse. Plus, I now had to

reason Sigma Lambda Gamma is a sisterhood, and not a friendship or a club, is because my sisters come closest to family. While we do not have a bond of blood, my chapter sisters feel like the biological sisters I never had. My sisters have been present at weddings—during the happiest of days, and at funerals—mourning alongside our sisters. Throughout this decade, my sisters have never left me. That being said, Sigma Lambda Gamma is also what you make of it. You cannot complain that Sigma Lambda Gamma did not deliver on its promise of sisterhood if you choose not to come around. It is your actions that speak boldly of your intentions. If you welcome Sigma Lambda Gamma into your life, it will welcome you into the sisterhood. Time after time after time. Year after year after year.

A Shared Experience

The Future

While a lot of this story is personalized to me, a lot of it is not. I know that many sisters at different stages of their Gamma careers can at least relate to some of the experiences I’ve gone through. So, what have I learned in my near-decade as a Gamma?

As our beloved organization celebrates 25 years, I know that we have built something extraordinary. The commitment that the sisters across the nation have put into the sisterhood will never be for naught—for

“I know we have built something extraordinary.”

After that first semester, law school combined with a new part-time job proved to be more time-consuming than I realized. I virtually stopped all contact with the undergraduate chapter and most of sisters. Yet, although I felt like I had abandoned Sigma Lambda Gamma, Sigma Lambda Gamma never abandoned me. I remember getting a flood of encouraging texts during my final exams. I had shared my fears going into the exam with my captain who made sure I got all the good vibes I could!

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I have learned that while the struggles I faced as an undergraduate seem so small to the problems I encounter today, the challenges and experiences Sigma Lambda Gamma exposed me to were formative to the woman I am today. I have learned that not all excuses are monuments; sometimes you’re building your life. And it’s okay to take a break from Sigma Lambda Gamma while you figure it out. And if you want, the sisterhood can be there for you if you need help figuring it out. Sigma Lambda Gamma will welcome you back with open arms when you’re ready and will welcome as little or as much of your presence as you can give. I have learned that Sigma Lambda Gamma is exactly what it vowed to be—a sisterhood for life. And the

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the mentorship, support and empowerment that we provide to each generation of women we call sisters transcends beyond our organization. The bonds that we have built amongst each other will survive for to form the legacy that will continue to fulfill the purpose of Sigma Lambda Gamma. As for me, I am looking to relocate to the Research Triangle in North Carolina in the coming year. I welcome any sisters with connections in the area to please contact me at penina29@gmail.com. While my support system is now primarily in Arizona, I know that I have sisters throughout the world. Also, I know that when I am in my seventies, I will be rocking my shocking pink and majestic purple at brunch with sisters as we celebrate the anniversary of Sigma Lambda Gamma.

“I have learned that not all excuses are monuments; sometimes you’re building your life.”

Studying Abroad in Africa

Sister Amy “Encanto” Siller

I am from the Legendary Lambda Alpha chapter at Texas A&M University and I was able to study abroad in South Africa for about 5 weeks. I had always wanted to go to South Africa, ever since I was a little girl. When I got accepted to go, I was thrilled! The trip was through my college: College of Agriculture and Life Sciences. Another reason I wanted to go was to see if I wanted to be a vet that specializes in exotic animals. The most memorable part for me was seeing all the animals, especially my favorite—the giraffe and leopard. I took a pictures of a leopard in a tree with an impala (antelope). It was so cool. I also loved the scenery and beautiful views in South Africa. The views (especially looking out into the city with the Atlantic Ocean behind it) were so breathtaking! It was one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever seen. Last but not least, my favorite memory was also seeing the children. The kids were so thrilled and happy to see us, despite being poor. They always made our day and it really is true when one says a smile can change it all. They made us feel welcomed and loved.

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Enhancing Sisterhood through Our Busy Lives Sister Jazmin “Chou Emi” Guevara

The sisters of the Honorable Omicron Beta Chapter at the University of Texas at Arlington have been very active these past two semesters with fundraisers, academics, and recruitment. However, that hasn’t stopped the sisters from connecting and strengthening their sisterly bonds. Yes, we all know that being a sister of Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority, Inc. takes hard work and dedication, which can sometimes be stressful, but we never let this get in the way of our sisterhood relationships. We must always know when to take a break and have some time for ourselves, for at the end of the day we are all sisters. Back in October we participated in various fundraisers for the Trio program and Breast Cancer Awareness. We started off with a Pan Dulce Sale in which our sisters took turns outside the university library with wonderful, delicious pastries. Then in November we had a benefit night at a Chipotle near the university campus, which yielded over $900 that was allocated toward our Trio program scholarship. Those events serve as a way to bond together as sisters even though we are technically “working.” Yes at times the weather may be cold/hot and we may not have a good turnout. But at the end of the day we as sisters need to have a positive outlook and enjoy the little moments that we share together. During Breast Cancer Awareness week, we hosted a midnight stroll off where other sororities and fraternities came out to stroll and donate for the cause. Sisters from all over the Dallas/Fort Worth area came to support and socialize. Having a good sisterhood doesn’t have to be limited to just the chapter, but can expand to other sisters around the nation. We must familiarize and

interact with the newly crossed sisters, enjoy each other’s company and share experiences. Always take

advantage of the moments we share together. Enhancing our sisterhood occurs everywhere, even when we are studying. While our main objective is to graduate and earn our degree, we must also build strong bonds and relationships. Bimonthly, the Honorable Omicron Beta Chapter holds Gamma Cram, which is when sisters get together as a chapter and study/work on assignments. Collectively tutoring each other and having open discussions about our classes enhances our bonds. Gamma Cram serves as a stress reliever as well. We take time out of our busy schedules and express what is happening throughout the week. Apart from studying, recruiting within the first two weeks of the semester can be very hectic with all the presentations and information sessions. Sisterhood memories can be achieved even through one of the most hectic weeks. Being ecstatic and outgoing during these events really lets each sister’s individual personality shine through. Have fun with your presentations and you can be assured that the long lasting memories will come. After recruiting events, go to lunch together or maybe even go see a movie. Sister interaction does not have to be limited to sorority functions only. Enjoying the small gestures is crucial in sisterhood. Work around your busy schedule and cherish being part of something great.

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Living my Principles: ( More Than) 20 Years Later Sister Dr. Yesenia “Dedicada” Avalos When I think back on my life I’ve reached the point where I have been a Gamma longer than not. I sit in my office as the Dean of Student Development at a Hispanic Serving Institution and I am surrounded by Pink and Purple. This space is a reflection of me and my experiences. My kids’ artwork and my wedding photos are everywhere. I also have one of my paddles prominently displayed. Finally, I have all three of my degrees on my bookshelf. This space and this title would not have been possible without Sigma Lambda Gamma. I work in higher education and I realize that there are sisters reading this message that were not born when I was thinking about joining Sigma Lambda Gamma. However, I think that my age is important in this piece. The love that I have for Sigma Lambda Gamma has never dwindled. I am so very grateful for the experiences I had through this amazing sisterhood. My experience with this sorority still guides me in all areas of my life today. The lessons I learned have stayed with me decades later. I learned to love and respect people deeply. I have been able to instill our values in my children. Most of us, never really think about how deeply our Gamma sisterhood influences us every day of our lives. My story begins very similarly to all sisters. I was a young (okay, not so young) undergraduate student. I was 21 years-old and a junior in college at Western Illinois University. This was in 1993. I had the privilege of being recruited and educated into Sigma Lambda Gamma by some of the most notable names in Sigma Lambda Gamma history. I am not normally a namedropper, but I think these names mean something to

“I was 21 yearsold and a junior in college at Western Illinois University. This was in 1993.”

all of us. I was introduced to Sigma Lambda Gamma by Danell Riojas-Carbajal, Maria Pineda, Noemi DiazArevalo, Gabriela Villafuerte-Mendoza, Nellie Nevarez and Kuki Aguilar-McArdle. I share these names, not to inspire awe (though they do), but to frame my experience. We were young and excited to expand Sigma Lambda Gamma beyond the “Original 4” chapters. During this time frame the sorority had colonies at about six or seven other campuses. It was a lot of work and we felt so connected. There were so few of us and we all knew each other, or at the very least, knew of each other. Being such a tight-knit group gave us a high standard of sisterly love. Today, the women I am closest to in my life are our sisters. The values of friendship and fellowship were taught to me via Sigma Lambda Gamma. The expectation of commitment, love, acceptance and compassion is a high standard for many of us. Explaining this type of love to someone who hasn’t experienced it is a challenge. I had many people in my life who did not agree with my decision to pursue Sigma Lambda Gamma. I come from quite the Mexican-American catholic family. Morals and Ethics weren’t necessarily a problem for me, but I wasn’t in a good place while I was in college. My lines of right and wrong got blurred along the way. I was in an unhealthy relationship and as hard as my friends tried, I wouldn’t leave that relationship. That relationship didn’t end until almost a year after I crossed. After a particularly horrific experience, I realized what my friends had been telling me for years. I just needed my sisters’ love and support to get me out. What I knew cognitively didn’t matter. What my roommates said to me didn’t matter. What the brothers of Sigma Lambda Beta said didn’t matter. None of it mattered until I knew I had a safe space to run towards. I needed to be safe, physically, emotionally and mentally. I ran towards my sisters. They loved me. They appreciated me for who I really was and not who that man wanted me to be. I learned to love myself and to love someone else fully. I have

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Living My Principles: (More Than) 20 Years Later been happily married to Angel, a member of Sigma Lambda Beta, for over fourteen years now. If I didn’t have Sigma Lambda Gamma I, quite honestly, may not have been here to write this today. I definitely would not have met my Angel if not for our sorority. I wouldn’t have my children. So thank you, Jonelle, Monica and Daria for giving me that safe space I so desperately needed. Cultural Awareness has always been the most important principle to me. I grew up in the south suburbs of Chicago. I can still count and name the Latinos in my high school. It was listed as one of the best high schools in the state for many years. That rating didn’t stop me from feeling like the odd woman out. The vast majority of my friends were either black or white. I wanted to ensure that my college experience was different. I made great friends right away in my residence hall. My new friends were of all cultural backgrounds. They introduced me to Casa Latina at Western Illinois and to the brothers of Beta Chapter. Then, a group of us set off on the adventure of bringing Sigma Lambda Gamma to Western Illinois University. This commitment to understanding and acceptance has not left me. All my studies have been centered on Latino populations. Most recently, for my dissertation, I interviewed Mexican-American female community college presidents. Currently, I work at Morton College. Our student population is over 80% Hispanic/Latino. We have the largest HSI percentage east of the Mississippi River. My passion is to facilitate the educational attainment level of students of color. We have evolved from being a Latina sorority to being historically Latina. I still get a kick out of hearing Mary Peterson say “We, as Latina women…” With her blonde hair and blue eyes she identifies as one of us. We matter. Our cultural backgrounds matter and we need to be the owners of our cultures. Every single day I am reminded of my racialized and gendered identity. For many of those days, I am reminded for negative reasons. I refuse to be labeled as the only brown girl here to address the brown problem at our college. I am the brown girl – but that’s “Dr. Brown Girl” – and I am here to raise the level of consciousness in our students. Our principle of Academics is very important to me now, but wasn’t as important to me back before I pledged. Remember that bad relationship? That was my priority and I actually was academically suspended for a semester from the college. I worked at it and got back into school. Then I met the aforementioned

sisters. I was in awe, but filled with sadness. I pulled one sister aside and confessed that I didn’t have my 2.5 GPA – yet. She was so understanding and patient. That sister accepted me with my academic flaws. I still was allowed to join with the promise of continued academic improvement. I never let my grades slip again. I was even accepted to a Master of Arts program straight out of undergrad. Sigma Lambda Gamma gave me the final push of motivation I needed to stay on the straight and narrow path to academic success. Ironically, today, I am responsible for handling all the academic and financial aid suspension appeals. I am probably more generous than the average administrator. I can’t help but think of how I could be the motivating force to get someone to succeed and not walk away from their education. I try to be that person who accepts that life happens and hinders us in various ways. Community Service was always a priority for me, even before I pledged. I volunteered at a few different crisis counseling nonprofit organizations during my undergraduate time. In Mary’s words, alumnae have “time, talent and treasure” to offer. Money is not something I have an abundance of, but I have commitment and skills to donate to others. When we were undergraduate members we cleaned the local Girl Scout camp and read to kids in a racially divided town not too far from campus. After my graduate program, I served on our National Board from 1997 until 2004. Recently I have volunteered as a troop leader for the Girl Scouts and I complete volunteer hours at my church whenever I am able. When a loved one was murdered, my husband started a scholarship fund to honor him and I have dedicated many hours working with that committee to raise thousands of dollars for the fund. There are a multitude of ways that we can give our time, talent and/or treasure. Sigma Lambda Gamma validated my desire to serve others and I am a better woman for it. Our fifth principle of Social Interaction gets to be challenging at this age. We get focused on our lives and sometimes depart from spending time with our sisters. However, social interaction can be more than hanging out with our sisters. We interact with people all day. When we treat people with respect, this act of respect is an example of us still living our principle. There are countless times that I need to say no to a student, co-worker or loved one. It’s about how I say it to them. I could be mean about saying no, but I choose not to be mean. I choose to engage with people in a space of respect. Furthermore, I do expect respect. I learned to be professional and honest through our

Sigma Lambda Gamma strives to be the premier organization committed to providing a mechanism of empowerment to all women

Living My Principles: (More Than) 20 Years Later

sisterhood. These are lessons that I carry with me every day. Here I am sitting in my office after working in higher education for over twenty years. I am so humbled to have been given this experience. There are so many sisters who have made my sisterhood journey so powerful. I could never name them all, but you know who you are. During my time as National President I had the pleasure of meeting so many sisters nationwide and many of those relationships are some of the tightest bonds of sisterhood. I look back and I don’t think I deserved the opportunity to be a part of this organization, but I am so happy that I am. I am who I am because I had these phenomenal women in my life. Thank you, Sigma Lambda Gamma, for all the joy you’ve given me. We’ve had a remarkable 25 years! May we have 250 more years of developing women leaders!

“I ran towards my sisters. They loved me.”

(Above) Theta Founders and First Line at the Casa Latina Cultural Center at Western in 1994.

My husband and I before we started dating. We were at La Gran Marcha in DC in 1996.

pink bag selfie Sister Alisha “Inspirada” Lewis “Pink Bag Selfie” is a self portrait created with color pencils. It is just one of many illustrations in my “Brown Girls Unite” project.

“My inspiration is loving who I am and where I came from in order to spark confidence in girls of color.” Culture is Pride, Pride is Success.

La Mensajera Spring 2015

Reflections on my 23rd Year Sister Laura “Chiquillada” Nelson

Hello Sisters! It is so exciting to write this article of reflection on what promises to be one of the most wonderful times for growth, exploration, discovery, empowerment and leadership in the history of our beloved organization, Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority. As we celebrate our 25th Anniversary as a National Sorority, I celebrate my 23rd year as a lifetime member of Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority, Alpha Chapter at The University of Iowa campus! Reflection is by definition a time for looking back carefully with thought and consideration. The Macmillian Dictionary defines reflection as the following: “1) an image that you see when you look in a mirror or another shiny surface, 2) careful thought about something—your ideas or opinions about something that you have thought about carefully, 3) something that clearly shows something— evidence, sign, suggestion, proof, and/or 4) the process of reflecting something through thought, sound or images.” My reflections about my sisterhood with Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority and Alpha Chapter, and my experiences as a member at The University of Iowa campus from the period of 1989 to 1998 and beyond, cannot possibly be divorced from one another. My reflections are my reality from this time period through 2004. I reconnected and reunited with sisters in person and on Facebook from 2009 up to the present time of February 14, 2015. Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority was founded on April 9, 1990. I am number seven, inducted in the fall of 1991 by the founders and first line. I was initiated on February 14, 1992. During this time of early growth, I had the privilege of traveling to Iowa State and Chicago’s USHLI, where the first four chapters and many earlier members of colonies were inducted. I also was a mother to one of the Founding Mothers of Mu Chapter and mother to two of the fourteen founding members of Delta Chapter,

who travelled to the University of Iowa to meet all of us after they chose to affiliate with Sigma Lambda Gamma. For Alpha Chapter and subsequently for Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority, I was the first official Historian. Other positions included Educational Director, Board Member, and first VP of Alumni. Additional responsibilities for The University of Iowa included Greek Advisor for the entire Greek System, College Bound Coordinator for Opportunity at Iowa and Office Admissions, and Mentor through Special Support Services (both paid). I also volunteered under Esther Materon Arum. I helped to coordinate the first Sigma Lambda Gamma and Sigma Lambda Beta Convention with Gabriella Villafuerte Mendoza, worked closely with National Presidents, Mary Peterson and Nellie Nevarez, assisted Lupita in editing and compiling chapter manuals for emerging colonies and chapters, and participated as an alumni in the first retreat in Glorieta. I was featured in the first edition of La Mensajera when it was 3 sheets of pink paper and no pictures. As the women of Sigma Lambda Gamma grow and their transitions occur from undergrad, graduate school/higher education, career/workforce, family transitions, marriage, community service/philanthropy, travels, publications, children, sometimes divorce, and sometimes loss of life, I try to keep up with them every step of the way. This is my story, this is my reflection: I arrived on The University of Iowa Campus in the fall of 1989 full of enthusiasm and prepared for a new adventure as the first in my family to potentially graduate from a Big Ten University. Academically prepared, and with a great thirst for knowledge, both the kind you find in the classroom and in the real world, I thought I had nothing to fear. I was provided immediately with opportunity through an office on campus called Special Support Services in Calvin Hall, and that is where I was fortunate enough to meet one of my many advisors, Jonathan Jordahl. Jonathan introduced me to a woman who would become my grandmother, mother, advisor, and part mentor on The University of Iowa Campus for years to come. Her name was Esther Materon Arum. I would admire this woman up close and from afar and later meet her

“We would grow as a sorority, as individuals, as sisters, as women, as leaders, as women in the workforce, as members on the National Board, as wives and as mothers.”

Sigma Lambda Gamma strives to be the premier organization committed to providing a mechanism of empowerment to all women

Reflections on My 23rd Year

husband, Steve Arum, Director of The International Center. Esther introduced me by phone to Danell Riojas (Carbajal) who would call me in the fall of 1989 to inquire about my interest in forming a sorority, I was interested, but young on the University of Iowa Campus at 17 years-old. Many contacts would happen, many friendships would be made, many positions would be held on the University of Iowa Campus. Gabriela Villafuerte (Mendoza) remembers that I was her tour guide on The University of Iowa Campus and the one who disseminated information. I decided to take that position because a member of Sigma Lambda Beta was also a tour guide. I saw him all over campus really enjoying life and because he was modeling this skill, I thought I could do that too! That is how I first met Gabriela who would be a linesister and whose remarkable history I would get to know not just during induction period, but as a friend for over 23 years. In the fall of 1990 I became a Peer Assistant Mentor through the Office of Special Support Services, selected by Esther Materon Arum, and be a Mentor to Patricia Arroyo (Correa) and Seema Kumari Singh among 28 other first year students. Later I passed Patti in the chemistry building and saw her on campus. Eventually, Patti passed through the IMU ground floor in front of the bookstore wearing her letters in the spring or fall of 1991 and I asked her about them. I became number seven in the second line and the Anchor of Sobrevivientes in November of 1991. I was initiated on February 14, 1992 the birthday of Founder Danell Riojas (Carbajal)! Patti Arroyo and Seema Singh were my guiding lights within Sigma Lambda Gamma and Julieta Miller (Calderon) was my Grandmother. I maintained friendships over the years with many sisters: Lupita Temiquel (MacMillan), Gloria Cuevas, Danell Riojas (Carbajal), Maria Esther Pineda, Julieta Miller (Calderon), Noemi Diaz (Arevalo), Gabriela Villafuerte (Mendoza), Patricia Arroyo (Correa), Seema Singh, Angel Martinez, Rita Martinez, Jackie Marquez, and Tina Quijano. We would grow as a sorority, as individuals, as sisters, as women, as leaders, as women in the workforce, as members on the National Board, as

wives, and as mothers. Sigma Lambda Gamma would impact us in all these ways. But first, we spent countless hours volunteering, making history, inducting and initiating chapters and colonies, meeting women and sisters from all over the country, becoming more culturally aware, maintaining our academics, interacting socially with all organizations in the Greek system at The University of Iowa and throughout the Midwest, and maintaining morals and ethics. When it looked like we were veering off track a little, there would be Esther Materon Arum and Mary Louise Peterson to be our moms and mentors. These strong women reigned us in and reminded us to not “overextend” ourselves. We typed, filed, and edited manuals together. Lupita, then Noemi, then Gabi, then Nellie would be the first administrative assistants of Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority and I would jump in as a member and leader on campus to do whatever they asked or needed me to do. That’s what you do when you are young and motivated, love your sisters, and firmly believe in the purpose, mission, goals, and principles of a growing organization that you not only chose, but that chose you. And how can anyone possibly tell me that I am just from Alpha? Alpha is how we were founded and Alpha is how we grew to become over 120 Chapters. Amazing! I am from Almighty Alpha, but I am also the mother of two out of fourteen founders from The University of Illinois—Champaign Urbana, Lisbett from Chicago and Maria De La Cruz who came to visit The University of Iowa at the CNACC (now the Latino Native American Cultural Center). I am also the proud Mother of a Founder from Mu Chapter at the University of South Florida: Amanda Acevedo (Morales). Mu Chapter was recognized at Convention in 1994. I had the pleasure of staying with Amanda in her apartment when visiting for Festival del Sol and dancing the night away with many sisters in Florida. We toured Busch Gardens with Nellie Nevarez and Amanda (back in the day). I have saved so many of their cards, letters and emails. I remember telling Amanda, “When you are someone’s mother, you want to give them the world.” That is just what I did before departing on my plane back to Iowa. I gave her a snow globe with the whole world in La Mensajera Spring 2015

Reflections on My 23rd Year it. Amanda is now a Speech Language Pathologist in Arizona. My friend Nellie works for the U.S. Tennis Association and has made quite the impact on Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority. Sigma Lambda Gamma Sorority has meant so much to me personally and professionally. Somewhere along the line we gained a formal advisor who met with us on a regular basis. Her name was Enedina Garcia Vazquez. She was in the Division of Psychological & Quantitative Foundations in the College of Education and Assistant Professor of School Psychology at the University of Iowa. As I demonstrated my strengths as Historian, member, and Education Director over my year with Alpha Chapter, she began to see my growth as a potential asset in the field of School Psychology. In the spring of 1993, I was accepted into the Ph.D. program for School Psychology. As a practicing school psychologist for over twelve years, I cannot tell you where Sigma Lambda Gamma principles begin and end within my personal and professional life. Sigma Lambda Gamma is simply who I am and who I choose to be every day. Dr. Vazquez, and her husband Dr. Luis Vazquez (Rehabilitation Psychology), would be my mentors, friends and colleagues for years to come. They, along with me and so many sorority sisters I respect, would be my fellow National Board Members. I then represented in the first edition of La Mensajera in July 1994, as a National Board Member. Later, I would become the first VP of Alumni initiated into The National Order of Omega in February of 1998 with Lupita Temiquel! Later, I attended the funeral of Mary Louise Peterson’s father in Iowa with Nellie Nevarez. I drove anywhere people needed, accompanied anyone who requested my presence, listened, learned, and admired profound speeches at numerous events. I Met Susana Rundquist very early on. She is now a professor at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. The list goes on, and I am so very fortunate and proud that it does. When I meet Sisters who are seasoned like me or brand new, I am so filled with hope for the future and truly

grateful for our past. Let the Sorority be all it can be for you, but let Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority know that you will be all that you can be for this organization. Believe in the mission and the purpose. Believe in the principles. Let them become so second nature to you that to do otherwise would be disappointing. Believe in the Vision! Believe in the Dream! When we met as a National Board in a joint meeting with Sigma Lambda Beta’s National Board in 1994, our dreams were 25 Chapters in 10 years and an Education Foundation for Sigma Lambda Gamma to award Scholarships to those that needed them. We wanted our own separate structure outside of the walls of the Office of Campus Programs, where we all shared space in Mary’s office together. Little did we know our dreams would be realized in less than 10 years and now we are 25 years young! We have over 120 chapters, are multicultural, the Education Foundation is growing stronger every day and we do indeed have our own separate structure where we originated in Iowa. Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority taught me so much over the years about leadership, sisterhood, and empowerment in addition to the five principles. The sorority had a significant impact on my growth as a woman, but I would like to think that I too made a significant impact for the women of Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority and that I will continue to promote this excellent organization any way I can. I am Sigma Lambda Gamma! The power of me! Thank you for letting me share my reflections with you, sisters! Thank you for letting me grow in ways I never dreamed up and for letting me continue to grow every day. Thank you for allowing me to become part of one of the greatest nonprofit organizations in the world. I look forward to seeing the growth for years to come. Buena Suerte! Felicidades! Happy 25th! Here is to the next 25 years!

Sigma Lambda Gamma strives to be the premier organization committed to providing a mechanism of empowerment to all women

West Michigan Alumnae Association Founders Spotlight Sister Matea Caluk, WMAA President

As we transition from our undergraduate entity involvement, it is important to continue to carry Sigma Lambda Gamma National Sorority, Inc. (SLG) with us throughout the various aspects of our alumnae lives. We as individuals need to seek opportunities to continue our involvement and give back to our organization. Often times, this may be a challenging road to travel.

The idea for founding the West Michigan Alumnae Association (WMAA) came from a group of sisters who gathered in Allendale, MI in 2010 to discuss ways in which we could be involved with supporting our undergraduate entities. We also wanted to provide continuous opportunities for involvement and support of our alumnae women. Many of us were either beginning our graduate studies or had been working professionally for a few years. The group of women worked together throughout the following few years, reviewing other Alumnae Associations’ bylaws and documents, as well as determining plans and ideas for involvement in the Michigan area. After many meetings, we finally created our own bylaws, positions, and staple events. Once we were able to recruit the number of women we needed, we applied to be recognized by SLG National Headquarters as an official alumnae association. The West Michigan Alumnae Association was officially recognized by SLG on January 12, 2013.

time commitment.

To continue our commitment to academics, the WMAA hosts a yearly graduation ceremony for the state of Michigan for sisters who have graduated with undergraduate, graduate or terminal degrees. In terms of social interaction, the WMAA also collaborates with the Michigan Alumnae Association of SLG for our annual summer BBQ, as well as the West Michigan Alumni Network of Sigma Lambda Beta International Fraternity, Inc. for various events throughout the year. We have been involved with state and central region support of undergraduate entities, attended regional retreats and provided support at entity events to promote positive interactions and ethic decision making. The WMAA has recently started a mentoring program with 8th grade girls at a local middle school, where we meet with the girls to provide leadership and opportunity for discussions regarding career goals and plans. Through this experience we are able to promote all of our five principles. We recognize our national philanthropy of breast cancer awareness through various initiatives such as a recent balloon release, and participate in the Panther Dash each year. Internally, the WMAA has worked on our structure, solidifying our board positions and reporting. We have defined our modes of communication as well as our financial practices. We continue to edit our bylaws at each in-person retreat, and meet regularly

Over the past five years, the women of the WMAA have had great accomplishments. We have provided opportunities for 16 alumnae women to be involved directly as members. As alumna life takes us all in different directions, the WMAA has identified two levels of involvement. One level consists of holding positions and has a bigger time commitment, while the other level calls for general membership and less La Mensajera Spring 2015

over the phone once per month. This year, we have made a commitment to continue to review our sorority rituals in order to tie us back to our principles. As a young entity, we are always seeking ways in which we can better our processes and opportunities for involvement in our communities and undergraduate entities. The WMAA has definitely become a well-known entity in the state of Michigan where alumnae members are welcome to be involved in any capacity that their time allows. This entity strives to continue its mission of supporting alumnae during their personal, professional or academic transitions. We encourage all alumnae sisters to consider joining an alumnae association close to their residence, or take the time to create one and provide opportunities to our alumnae sisters. Although the road to establishing the WMAA was a long one, we are thankful and proud of each of our successes and challenges. WMAA Founding Members: Matea Caluk, OA Beca Vazquez-Publes, Epsilon Jessica Bell, OA Kim Waslawski, OA Liz Martinez, OA Maria Perez, OA Itzel Avalos Gomez, Phi Thalia Guerra, Phi Genevieve Padro, TA Sara Villegas, Phi WMAA Current Members: Matea Caluk, OA Beca Vazquez-Publes, Epsilon Jessica Bell, OA Kim Waslawski, OA Liz Martinez, OA Maria Perez, OA Candy Valenzuela, Phi Glenda Grandy, TA Jakia Fuller, OA Lisa Ortiz, Epsilon Natishia Ledesma, OA

Sigma Lambda Gamma strives to be the premier organization committed to providing a mechanism of empowerment to all women

Letter from the Editor It is with much enthusiasm and gratefulness that I write this letter on behalf of La Mensajera Committee for our 25th Anniversary Issue. Reading all of the reflection submissions from sisters across the nation, sharing their cherished moments of growth, empowerment, accomplishments, sisterhood and setting the foundation for what Sigma Lambda Gamma has become today, is so incredibly moving. Thank you to all Sisters who helped make this issue memorable as it will surely be part of our history. Recently, I was able to do some reflecting of my own when a co-worker asked me “why did you join a sorority, you do not strike me as the sorority type?” I answered her simply, “To make an impact on my campus by empowering women!” I of course later read her off my resume of SLG accomplishments and involvements, she was impressed and said she wish she would have found something like this in college, too. This moved me to reflect on my past seven years as a dedicated sister and express my gratitude for every opportunity Sigma Lambda Gamma has given me from my time on Ohio University’s campus, working at Headquarters to now volunteering on a local, regional and national level. Sometimes I even sit back and try to connect the dots of how SLG has brought me to the exact point in my life today from the day I decided to join. Our anniversary issue is a true testament of Hermanas por Vida, I cannot think of a better recruitment piece that sharing our stories with interested women on campus, co-workers who can join though a nearby Alumnae Association and our family members who may not quite understand where all these new Sisters come from! We hope to celebrate the past 25 years of growth with all sisters attending National Sisterhood Retreat in July and look forward to the next 25 years of empowering all women. In Sisterhood, Christina ‘Ayana’ Cassan Forch

Happy 25th Gammaversary! La Mensajera Spring 2015

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