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The percentage of dads who report that they’ve caught their children sneaking snacks into a supermarket cart, compared with 22 percent of moms, reveals a December 2015 Harris Poll. Fathers also claim to notice three times more often than mothers do when the kids skip the cart altogether and pocket the treats. To curb the shelf helping, two out of fve fathers say that they avoid shopping with little ones whenever possible (amen to that).

Others employ their own meltdown-shutdown systems. Said one dad polled, “My threats to abandon the cart in the store and leave usually put the kibosh on shenanigans.” Give your grocery vigilante a hard-fought break this Father’s Day, June 19.

$324 What the average American family spent last year on “promposals,” the elaborately staged invitations— balloons and flowers! flash-mob serenades! celebrity video assists!—that come before the prom. (So much for the note passed in physics lab.)

The Visa Inc. survey, which canvassed 3,000 parents, also asked about the big night itself and found that—holy boutonniere, Batman!—the average household forked over $919 per teenager, including money for tickets, attire, grooming, flowers, food, limo rental, pictures, accommodations, and— last but certainly not least—after-parties.

The odds of dying as a result of a bee, hornet, or wasp sting, according to the National Safety Council (NSC) 2016 Injury Facts report. There’s a greater risk (1 in 672) just crossing or walking down the street. A major natural disaster— earthquake, food, hurricane, or tornado—carries a 1 in 63,679 risk, while bicycling increases the odds to 1 in 4,337.

Considering that June is National Safety Month, it’s a good time to separate the truly risky (heart disease and cancer, both at 1 in 7) from the rest (poisonous animals or plants, 1 in 44,086).

For tips on how to stay safer in any situation this summer, visit the council’s website, at nsc.org.

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65 How many fewer calories calm women consumed in a cluttered kitchen compared with those who were stressed, reports a February 2016 study published in the journal Environment and Behavior. To see if a person’s state of mind influences eating when she’s surrounded by mayhem, 98 women were randomly assigned to two kitchens—one neat, one not. Then both groups were asked to write about a time when they felt either chaotic or in control, while staring at three bowls of snacks. The women in the messy kitchen who recalled a messy situation consumed approximately 103 calories of cookies. But the women in the messy kitchen who recalled being calm ate only 38. Talk about mind over matter.

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The increase in a waiter’s tip when he or she repeats a customer’s order back, cites the new book Invisible Infuence, by Jonah Berger, an associate professor of marketing at the University of Pennsylvania.

What’s behind this phenomenon? Mimicry, says Berger. Hearing “Got it” after an order works, but when the waiter echoes all the items, it’s as if she is speaking your language. In other meaningful coincidences, Berger notes that three-fourths of the best female athletes in the United States have at least one older sibling; and research shows that learning a neighbor consumes less energy leads others to reduce their energy consumption by 2 percent. Maybe “Monkey see, monkey do” can be good after all.

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a stitch in time My dad could sew.

Once, when I was home for a friend’s wedding, the beaded straps of my dress popped of as I sat down in the car. He grabbed two pieces of black elastic from his sewing kit and whipstitched some makeshift straps in about 15 minutes.

We weren’t even late.

This month, 10 writers and photographers celebrate the beautiful traditions that bind fathers and daughters. And here at Real Simple, we’ve got some beautiful stories of our own.

Happy Father’s Day!

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When we frst moved to the U.S. from Moscow, my father taught group painting classes at our home on the weekends as a side gig. The students were all teenagers.

Though I was only four or fve years old, my father would always set up a spot for me to paint with the group so that I was included. We didn’t have very much space in the apartment, so he built me a bunk bed from scratch that had a ladder, a monkey bar, and a little workstation underneath so that I always had my own place to create.

My dad and I both love to swim, and when we went on family vacations when I was young, we would both immediately head to the pool. He had this trick that I loved where he would hold my feet close to the surface so that I could “walk on water.” I thought it was the most magical thing and would ask to do it repeatedly for hours on end. He was a good sport.

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the arf of conversation My dad has a very serious job as an oncologist but always lets his silly side show with his kids. When I was growing up, he loved to invent crazy games meant to spark our imagination. One of my favorites: He would tell me we were “part dog,” going back many generations.

Before bed, he would frst read my favorite stories in English, then he would “bark” them to me. To this day, we still speak “bark” to each other—our own secret language. Ruf rufs ruf, Ruf! (Happy Father’s Day, Dad!)

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MY FATHER ALWAYS WENT OUT OF HIS WAY TO MAKE OUR BIRTHDAY PARTIES SPECIAL. ONE YEAR, HE HID THE PRESENTS FROM MY SISTER AND ME, PRANKCALLED US, AND TOLD US THEY HAD BEEN STOLEN. THEN HE SENT US ON A SCAVENGER HUNT WITH OUR PARTY GUESTS TO FIND THEM! GR ACE ELKUS, editorial assistant, RealSimple.com

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music to my ears When I was little, my dad would sing “Sweet Baby James,” by James Taylor, to me as a lullaby. And once or twice he even played guitar along with it. I loved it so much that I chose it for our father-daughter dance at my wedding, 11 years ago, and now I sing it to my boys as a lullaby. It will always be our song.

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When my mom was at work and my dad was on the night shift, he would be in charge of doing my (super-curly) hair in the morning. I wanted a Topsy Tail so badly, so my dad made one for me, using duct tape and a piece of plastic from a brown hanging basket. It worked perfectly.

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How do you keep your closet tidy?

A. I think of what my family and friends would say if they had to go through mine after I am gone.

In recent years, I’ve had to clean out a lot of closets, after my parents, in-laws, and husband passed away. I’m sure there were things I encountered that they would have preferred to take care of themselves. I’ve vowed to go through mine every year to organize and declutter as needed—to spare others from doing the task.

KATHE NYLEN, Las Vegas, Nevada

With a timesaving trick.

We have hanging storage dividers for folded clothing and sock bins for smaller items, so our only closet stays mostly tidy. @HOUSE_BUS

I have one spot on my clothing rack where I put empty hangers.

It cuts down on overall clutter and makes hanging up clean laundry a cinch.

HEATHER PHIPPS, Houston, Texas

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Stackable hangers.

I was a yacht stewardess and learned how to live with a very small closet.

When I found these, my problem was solved simply and neatly.

Assigned space for in-between items.

We put a bookcase in our walk-in closet. The tall, wide kind that has square cubbies.

That’s where our shirts and jeans go, and my husband uses one of the eye-level cubbies to store his phone, wallet, keys, and pocket change. I use a laundry basket for my casual shoes because I don’t take the time to place them nicely on a shelf. I kick ’em into the basket at the end of the day!

I have a designated drawer for clothing that has been worn but doesn’t yet need to be washed. This keeps it from piling up on the chair in our bedroom or in the corner of the closet.

MARY SMITH, Pontotoc, Mississippi

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Mindful organization.

I sort clothing by type and color. The top hangers are for blouses/tops and the bottom hangers are for pants/skirts.

I hung a wreath hook on the outside of my closet door to display the next day’s outft.

TONI POLLITZ, Ormond Beach, Florida

JERRI GOMEZ, Los Fresnos, Texas

Separate closets.

YO U R W O R D S

Keep it seasonal. We live in a small house, so the closet needs to be eficient year-round.

We pack clothing away at the end of each season in a rollaway under the bed, or sometimes in the attic. After all, there’s no use in having shorts in the closet when the snow is falling!

SUSAN SCHONAUER HER ANSWER: I used to work

It keeps the peace—and if I don’t want to look at my husband’s, I just shut the door! It’s been working for 35 years.

in retail management, where new clothing collections came in every few weeks. We constantly had to tweak the racks to keep them looking neat. Now, every week, I take a few minutes and go through my own closet (and my family members’) to do the same. I weed out things that are out of season, check for stains, and organize garments.

Then I see what might be needed for upcoming events and make note of how much wear something gets. I am ruthless—if it doesn’t fit or it’s out of style, it gets donated.

NANCY GARVEY, Weymouth, Massachusetts

I got my scarves out of a pile and onto a hanger!

L AUREN BRIGHAM, Merrimack, New Hampshire

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The “touch it once” rule.

Hang clothes properly so that they’re ready to be worn and you aren’t spending more time on them later. This means blouses should be buttoned and pants folded with the seams matching up. Hang the garments so that they’re arranged by type and facing the same way.

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business and marketing high school teacher; Cincinnati.

ANY TIPS FOR GETTING A GOOD DEAL WHEN SHOPPING FOR NEW CLOTHES?

Unless you need the item right away, wait for it to go on sale. Some stores are on a four-week full-price status; then they mark down to make room.

WHAT’S YOUR GO-TO, EASY SUMMER MEAL?

Spaghetti. We grill vegetables (peppers, onions, mushrooms, and zucchini), then toss in olive oil with fresh herbs and serve over pasta with a sprinkling of Parmesan. The meat eaters add Italian sausage. For dessert, we love angel food cake with fresh local strawberries and whipped cream.

GERRIE BUNKER, Ipswich, Massachusetts

I ripped of the annoying folding closet doors when we moved in and never replaced them. It is much more motivating to keep the space in order when you see everything exposed.

I KEEP ONE NEAR THE LAUNDRY BASKET, AND AT THE END OF THE DAY, I PUT DIRTY SOCKS AND UNDERWEAR INTO IT. THIS HAS HELPED ME NOT LOSE A SOCK IN OVER FIVE YEARS! ANNA S. HAMRICK, Shelby, North Carolina

I have a set number of hangers. If I’m going to put a new item in the closet, an old item comes out to consign or donate. I also organize my clothes in a way that makes putting outfts together a breeze.

KERRIN BRINKMAN, Salt Lake City, Utah

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S T Y L I N G BY J E F F R E Y W. M I L L E R . T H A N K Y O U T O C R A I G C H A M P L I N , A U D I O LO G Y P R O G R A M D I R E C T O R AT T H E U N I V E R S I T Y O F T E X A S AT A U S T I N , A N D S T E V E N G A R R E T T, P R O F E S S O R O F A C O U S T I C S AT P E N N S Y LVA N I A S TAT E U N I V E R S I T Y.

MAGIC SHELL? When you cup a seashell to your ear and hear waves crashing, it’s fun to think that there’s some watery mysticism at play. But the real reason, of course, is straight-up science.

Trevor Cox, the author of The Sound Book and a professor of acoustic engineering at the University of Salford, in the United Kingdom, explains that the hard, curved, multisurface interior of a spiral shell makes it an excellent sound enhancer. When ambient noise—not just beach sounds but also the rumble of trafic, the hum of a computer, or the whir of an air conditioner—enters the shell’s cavity, it bounces around, producing a sound similar to that of pounding waves. The larger the shell, the deeper and more oceanlike the pitch, which is why a Lord of the Flies–ian conch is so stellar an aural specimen.

Not to take all the poetry out of the experience, but you can pretty much replicate the echoey calm by holding a cofee mug to your ear. (Bonus: No one in the ofice wants to approach the person holding a mug to her ear. At last, some peace and quiet!)

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BOLD BROWS Put down the tweezers. Big, natural-looking brows are youthful and low-maintenance.

Here’s how to enhance what you’ve already got.

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Using a tinted gel, comb through brows. The bristles grab onto hairs and coat them with color, making them appear fuller. Glossier Boy Brow ($16, glossier. com) comes in three shades and has a tiny tip for precise application.

1 Draw the line Brush brows up and over with a spoolie (a bare mascara wand) to create your shape and control any rogue hairs. Then, using a fne-tipped brow pencil, fll in any sparse areas with short, hairlike strokes. Try L’Oréal Paris Brow Stylist Definer ($9 at drugstores). If you’re blond, opt for a color one to two shades deeper than your hair. Redheads look best with an auburn tone, while brunets should choose a shade that matches their natural hair color.

3 Stay in neutral.

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Because bold brows are, well, bold, keep the rest of your makeup minimal. Apply tinted moisturizer, lip balm, and some shimmery champagne shadow over your lids. Try Flower Eyes on the Prize Eyeshadow Chubby in Rose Gold Dust ($8, walmart.com).

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SELTZER Clearly seltzer adds refreshing fizz to cranberry juice or sangría.

But its colorless, odorless, tasteless bubbliness also makes it the ideal secret ingredient to lighten up foods. Think batters and soups. (Thanks, air pockets!) Seltzer and club soda can be used interchangeably, but steer clear of sparkling water, which doesn’t have enough carbonation to leaven. And be sure to use a bottle that’s fresh from the store; over time seltzer goes flat.

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3 QUICK IDEAS RECIPE

Chocolate egg cream Stir together ½ cup whole milk and ¼ cup chocolate syrup in a chilled 12-oz. glass. Stirring vigorously, slowly add ¼ cup chilled seltzer. Serves 1.

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Stir 2 cups four, 2 tsp. sugar, 1½ tsp. baking powder, and 1 tsp. salt together in a bowl.

Whisk together ½ cup milk and 2 eggs in a separate bowl; stir in ¾ cup seltzer. Add the wet mixture to the dry mixture.

Gently stir in 3 Tbsp. melted butter; let stand 5 minutes.

Pour ¼ cupful per pancake on a hot nonstick griddle and cook 3 to 4 minutes per side.

Serve with maple syrup.

Serves 4.

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In a food processor or blender, in batches, puree 2 lb. roughly chopped tomatoes, 1 peeled and chopped English cucumber, 1 seeded and chopped jalapeño, 1 cup chopped watermelon, ¼ cup loosely packed fresh cilantro leaves, 1 Tbsp. fresh lime juice, 1 Tbsp. olive oil, and 2 tsp. kosher salt until smooth with some chunks.

Transfer mixture to a large bowl. Stir in 2 cups cold seltzer. Serves 6.

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Handwriting analysis Penmanship is worth a thousand, well, words. For fun, Sheila Lowe, the president of the American HandWriting Analysis Foundation, helps us read the T leaves.

LET TER FO R M

HOW TO BEGIN: Grab a sample—say, a shopping

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list—and see if you can spot patterns. “Take the whole composition into consideration—size, style, letter forms—to get a full interpretation of your character traits,” says Lowe. Some letters, such as I and Y, can be particularly telling. Trust us—you’ll never read a thank-you note the same way again.

ST Y L E

SL ANT

Maintains the penmanship taught in school: Prefers to stick to a familiar framework.

Slants to the right: Generally reacts outwardly.

Simplified writing, free of loops and nonessential strokes: Quick thinker, impatient.

C A P I TA L I

Large lower loop: Materialistic.

Like a Roman numeral or a single stroke: Doesn’t do things like one’s parents did.

Thin lower loop: Thrifty.

Legible: Confident.

The farther to the right or left writing slants, the more emotionally reactive the writer is.

With a big lower loop: Father is a strong influence.

This way, then that way: Moody.

Big and bloated: Possesses a lot of imagination or emotion.

Moderately open: Open to new ideas.

Very small: Modest.

Underlined: Akin to putting oneself on a pedestal.

Circled: Self-protective.

A person’s John Hancock reflects his or her public image.

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Yolanda Wikiel Large: Attention-seeking.

Illegible: Needs privacy or is covering something up.

With a big upper loop: Mother is a strong influence.

Elaborate handwriting: Keeping up appearances is important.

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U PP E R LO O P S (LIKE IN LOW E RC A S E D, H, O R L)

Slants to the left: Tends to hold things inside.

Straight up and down: Rational; a head-over-heart type of personality.

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HOW DID WE GET HERE?

Wedding traditions

13 TH CENTURY

The Catholic Church declares that a wedding must be oficiated by a priest.

Before this, marriage was often a contractual agreement between the groom and the bride’s father and usually included the exchange of land or money.

In India, white is the color of mourning, which makes wearing it to a no-no for brides.

14 TH TO 15 TH CENTURIES

In England, weddings are more rowdy than romantic, says Stephanie Coontz, Ph.D., the author of Marriage, a History. Guests tear at the bride’s dress, since snagging a scrap is considered good luck. Eventually, to keep the gown intact, a new ritual is born: The bride throws her bouquet from a distance, while the groom tosses her garter.

Smushing cake in a loved one’s face probably originated with the ancient Romans, who would break cake above the bride’s head.

The shower of crumbs symbolized good fortune.

1840

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White gowns are a must-have after Britain’s Queen Victoria wears one to wed Prince Albert. Previously, royalty donned garments of ermine, purple velvet, and gold thread.

1858

Brides get their theme music. Like her mom with the radical white gown 18 years before, Princess Victoria starts a super-trend when she walks down the aisle after her nuptials to Felix Mendelssohn’s “Wedding March.”

1933

Thanks to its same-day wedding-license policy, Las Vegas becomes “the Marriage Capital of the World” when the Reverend J. D. Foster opens a chapel for lovebirds looking to elope.

L ATE 1930 S TO 1940 S

Women are the only ones putting a ring on it until World War II, when soldiers fghting overseas start wearing wedding bands as loving reminders of the wives they left behind.

1980 S

Inspired by the lavish wedding of Diana, Princess of Wales, many start thinking bigger for their own nuptials. Bridal magazines and wedding marketers help sell the princess-for-a-day fantasy, and the industry swells to epic proportions in the 2000s.

2009 TO 2010

Social media ushers in a new way to share the love, including choreographed dances broadcast on YouTube, Pinterest boards on everything from fowers to favors, and photos posted on Instagram and Facebook in the moment.

2016

These days, 50 percent of couples create personalized hashtags for their weddings.

The latest tradition seems to be bucking tradition. WeddingWire’s recent survey notes that 26 percent of couples have mixed-gender wedding parties (as in “groom ladies” and “bridesmen”), and 37 percent opt to be married by a friend rather than a religious oficiant.

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For centuries it was believed that the vena amoris (vein of love), in the fourth finger of the left hand, lead directly to the heart.

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Fathers used to give away the bride—literally—in exchange for something else. What else set the stage for old, new, borrowed, and blue? Walk with us down the aisle of history and fnd out.

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Mesh produce bag

BEACH SACK

Give your little one a mesh bag to collect beach treasures, then simply shake out or rinse out the excess sand before bringing it all home.

FLOWER ARRANGER

To keep flimsy blooms perky and upright, cut out a section of the bag and stretch it over the mouth of a Mason jar. Hold it in place by screwing on a canning-jar band (from a jar with a two-part lid). Trim away any excess material. Poke stems through the mesh openings.

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Can’t find your pumice stone?

You can exfoliate rough skin with a mesh bag balled up into a scrubbie.

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Fill a mesh bag with unsalted peanuts (shelled or unshelled) or dried fruit, knot the top, and hang from a sturdy tree branch. Birds will peck through the openings to retrieve the tasty treats.

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Now what?!?

Smart solutions for life’s little disasters

LIZ CALLOWAY, via e-mail

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THE FIX: Keep freshly sliced cold cuts in their original deli

wrap (or a zippered freezer bag) and store them in the refrigerator’s meat drawer, then use them within five days, says Marianne H. Gravely, an educator at the Food Safety and Inspection Service of the U.S. Department of Agriculture.

Packaged varieties last two weeks in the refrigerator unopened and up to five days after opening. But keep in mind: “Each time meat goes in and out of the fridge, it warms up and cools down, providing an opportunity for bacteria, especially listeria, to grow,” says Gravely. Minimize the risk by not letting meat sit at room temperature for more than two hours cumulatively. To pack cold cuts for a picnic, place on ice inside a cooler. If consolidating, you can group different meats in one bag, but cheeses should be stored separately.

I get seasick on boats.

MARKESHA YOUNG, via e-mail

THE FIX: Look toward the horizon and focus on a fxed spot, and if possible, get to the middle of the ship. You’ll feel the rocking less.

Whatever you do, don’t go below deck. Seasickness occurs when what you’re seeing doesn’t match up with the way your inner ear is perceiving motion. Setting your eyes on one spot helps your brain reconcile the signals, says Kevin Hopkins, M.D., a family physician at the Cleveland Clinic. To prevent queasiness, take an over-the-counter medication, like Dramamine, or a ginger pill, lozenge, or gum before you embark.

My name is on the Do Not Call list, but I still receive robocalls.

JOAN HAYES,via e-mail

THE FIX: Just hang up.

If you press any button— say, in response to an ofer to be removed from the call list—it’s an indicator that your number works and the calling company will prioritize your number on the next round, says Bikram Bandy, a coordinator of the Do Not Call program of the Federal Trade Commission (FTC). Note the name and the number on your caller ID, fle a report at donotcall.gov, and call your carrier to have the number blocked.

This is your right. According to the FTC, robocalls that attempt to sell goods or services are illegal unless you’ve given the company permission to send you a robocall.

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Textured white The color may be basic, but the embellishments (fringe, pom-poms, pleats) are anything but. Details, details.

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Little helpers 4 ingenious products to make your day easier

Forget the thermos and the cooler. Send your child to camp with this compact, BPA-free kit. A snap-in insulated container keeps soup warm for up to four hours and pops out when a sandwich is preferred. In three colors. $40, omielife.com.

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This clever teeny spoon has a flexible silicone head, so you’ll never get stuck in a jam trying to get to the bottom of the marmalade jar. Standing jam spreader, $13, momastore.org.

USE YOUR SMARTPHONE.

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A better look than a scrunchie on your wrist, these plastic cuffs, available in three metallic finishes, always keep your elastic close at hand when the summer heat leaves you desperate for a topknot. B+ Sweet Teens, $20 for three, mariashireen.com.

For seafood to be considered sustainable, it must be caught or farmed in a way that doesn’t harm the environment and in which fsh can thrive in the future, says Jennifer Dianto Kemmerly, the director of the Monterey Bay Aquarium Seafood Watch program. These eco-friendly tips will help you navigate the potentially murky waters.

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Eliminate airport annoyances with this hard-case spinner. Not only does it weigh itself but it also has an accompanying iOS app that calculates the wait time of TSA lines and locates your luggage if it doesn’t arrive at the baggage claim. In seven colors and two finishes. $295 to $395, raden.com.

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What’s sustainable one day may not be the next, so download the Monterey Bay Aquarium’s Seafood Watch app to stay abreast. Alaskan salmon and Pacific cod are usually smart picks.

LOOK FOR LABELS from the Marine Stewardship Council (MSC) and the Aquaculture Stewardship Council (ASC). Fisheries using these identifiers are independently monitored. However, labels like “fair trade” and “dolphin safe” don’t necessarily address all issues, says Jon Corsiglia, the U.S. media manager for the MSC. BUY LOCALLY CAUGHT.

Transform any hair elastic into a chic bracelet.

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And ask if that is unclear. This usually lowers the footprint of transporting seafood.

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The author’s youngest son takes a sunset dip in Katahdin Lake, in Maine, with Mount Katahdin in the distance.

Into the woods

Can camping heal four fractured lives? After her marriage ended in New York City, Lisa Wood Shapiro headed to Maine to find out.

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M Y C H I L DR E N W E R E miserable in that way kids are when you make them hike hungry in the rain the day after they learn of their parents’ divorce. It was just after five o’clock in the afternoon. We were 10 minutes into a three-mile hike to the Katahdin Lake Wilderness Camps, a remote Maine sporting camp, when I looked at the three of them—the girl and two boys, ages 13, 11, and 8—and thought, This is my first official day as a single mom, and I overloaded their backpacks with box wine.

We’d already walked right past the trail registry, where I had forgotten to sign us in. Those stories you hear about camping trips that go tragically wrong?

This is how they begin.

The fact is, nothing had gone right that day. The plan had been to start on the trail by noon, but clearing out our summer rental took a lot longer now that

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the evening, my kids and I were into our third hour of trekking, and my 11-year-old son turned to me and said, “You’re old. I’m worried you’re going to be all alone.” He’s the romantic of my children, and this unexpected departure from our family story, the college sweethearts who live happily ever after, had been especially devastating for him.

“What are you talking about? I’m still hot!” It was a shallow, knee-jerk response, especially ironic coming from a divorcée covered in mud and bug bites. My kids didn’t know it, but among our essentials, I had packed an eyelash curler and lip gloss.

A few days before we left for our Maine trip, I had found a photo, a candid shot from a preschool party.

The kids were little, and all five of us look happy, so sure of us, maybe even proud. I believed we were building something and going somewhere.

Maybe that photo captured the last time we were really us. I wondered if I would feel happy like that again.

My first morning at the camps, I woke up panicked; for a moment, I didn’t know where I was. I peered out of our cabin’s screen door at Mount Katahdin’s craggy-edge peak and watched the morning vapor burn of the lawn. The kids were still asleep in their Ralph Lauren–like bunk beds.

I was new to my singleness and had an odd thought standing there. I wondered if I would end up a hermit.

Maybe someday the camps would look for a new caretaker and I would take the position. I kept thinking about that line in Bon Iver’s song “Skinny Love”: “Who will love you?”

As awful as the hike in had been, the following days fell into a miraculous rhythm. We swam, canoed, and fished. It was unlike me not to press my kids into service with dinner or cleanup, but I did it all. While I couldn’t blunt the pain they felt, at least I could feed them well. And for a brief

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If I could take three kids into the Maine woods for five days and survive, perhaps I could handle being a single mom in Cobble Hill.

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I was a solo act. Then the rain turned our six-mile drive on a gravel road inside the park into a plodding half-hour ordeal. My kids kept asking, “Are we really going camping?” I could tell they thought that this was an elaborate hoax, that at any moment I’d be pulling up to a hotel.

Before we’d set out on the trail, I’d pulled plastic ponchos over my kids’ heads, tearing each one in the process. I could feel them looking at me, wondering if we were going to be OK. They knew me as the killer of houseplants and the mother with a fast-filling swear jar. Having married young and spent my entire adult life in New York City, I didn’t know how to pump my own gas. All summer my mortified children watched as I coerced nice strangers into helping me fill my tank.

I’d come up with the camping plan the month before, while back in Brooklyn, the morning after I had filed for divorce. I wish I could say the idea had been to walk my children into primeval America like Thoreau, but in truth I had wanted to escape my own news. Also, if I could take three kids into the Maine woods for five days and survive, perhaps I could handle being a single mom in Cobble Hill.

The Katahdin Lake Wilderness Camps, established in 1885, are located in Maine’s Baxter State Park, which is also home to Maine’s highest peak—Mount Katahdin, the northern terminus of the Appalachian Trail. Staying at the camps ofers the advantages of a stove, lights, and a cabin that locks.

My fantasy included bonfires, canoeing, and trout fishing. To prepare, I watched dozens of “how to gut a trout” videos on YouTube. They always start the same way: with a man, a knife, and a line like “I don’t know what other videos you’ve seen about gutting a trout, but this is the right way to do it.”’

I’d first visited the park in my 20s.

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moment, I hatched a business plan to create a Sporting Camp for Divorcées.

Over the next few days, my daughter’s scowl softened. There were new inside jokes about her fishing skills and how we all studied the camp’s pamphlet on what to do in a bear encounter. My youngest, worn out from the day’s activities and the excitement of removing an engorged leech from his leg, loosened his grip when he hugged me. My 11-yearold seemed less worried about me and more mature with each passing day. Although they asked questions about the logistics of their new life, their focus shifted to playing with the other kids at the camps. And I noticed that the raw feeling I had carried with me for months, heavier than any backpack, had given way to something else. The truth was, there in the Maine wilderness, with my three grieving children, I felt less alone than I had in years.

The morning we left, I went into the main lodge to say good-bye. I signed the camp’s guest book. One of the camp’s employees was straightening up the dining room. She was a stranger, but I needed to tell her something—something I couldn’t put in the guest book. I needed a witness.

“This is our first trip since I told my kids I am getting divorced,” I blurted out. And if it made her feel awkward, she didn’t let on. Instead she ofered to take a family picture. I look at that photo from last summer every once in a while, the new version of us. We look disheveled but happy. I wonder if someday my children, all grown up, will come across that photo. I hope they remember that bittersweet trip to the woods when we all realized we would be OK. Q

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My dad and his wife recently bought a lovely lake house.

Unfortunately, they treat it like a museum: no wrinkles on the sofa, strict shower times, etc.

We respect that it’s their house, but the rules make it no fun to visit, especially for my kids, who are 12 and 14. I don’t want to hurt my dad’s feelings, though.

And him visiting us is not an option, as he has a bad back and doesn’t travel well.

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Your father is lucky to have you—a daughter who respects his way of life, cares about his feelings, and wants to visit him. But this does not sound like a tenable way to vacation. Can you afford to book a nearby hotel or rental house? If so, then do it, and use the kids as an excuse. Tell your dad that you’re eager to spend time with him but that the house rules (which you respect) cause too much strain, and it’s just easier if you don’t stay over.

You can spend most of the day at his house, but having somewhere to escape or retire to after dinner—where you can shower at leisure and not worry about wet swimsuits—could make that rulebound time bearable. Ideally, your father will be relieved. And if he’s not? Or if you raise the issue in lieu of a plan to stay elsewhere? Then at least the conversation will cue him to reflect on his values, maybe mellow out a little, or explain to you the awkward juggle between old and new family cultures. “Relationships are more important than stuff” is a mantra of mine—and is, I can’t help thinking, a good reality check for everyone.

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I’ve given one of my coworkers a ride home on a few occasions, as we live in the same area. I thought I was just doing her an occasional favor. However, now she asks me for a ride home several times a week. I think of my commute as a way to decompress from the day, and I don’t want to feel obligated to give a ride every time I’m asked.

I know that her husband can pick her up, as I’ve seen him come to get her when I’ve declined. I’ve been telling her I’m busy after work, but she doesn’t seem to be taking the hint. Is there another solution?

S. B.

This is a deceptively deep question.

Because if you can help somebody out (and be eco-friendly in the process) at a minimal cost to yourself, I’m inclined to think you should, even if it means tamping down your selfinterest in the process. However, if the rewards of doing a good deed are not enough compensation and you still feel put upon, you can try a different tack. You are basically carpooling, but without any of the benefits to you, so why not ask your coworker to kick in for gas? This might be just enough of a bonus to

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make her company worth your while, or it might be just enough of a deterrent to your coworker to keep her from joining you. Another option is transparency. Say to her what you say here: “I’m so sorry, but my drive home is valuable decompression time for me. Of course I’m happy to help out in a pinch, but otherwise I really need that commute to myself.

I hope you understand.” And the middle ground? Drive her, but make it clear that you’re not in the mood for conversation. Put on music or a podcast and say, “I hope it’s OK if we don’t talk. I prefer to tune out while I’m driving.” Then you can ignore her and still be carrying out an act of kindness.

I lead youth-group activities at our church, and there is one teenage girl who often makes incredibly rude comments to me. What makes it more difficult is that her mother is usually standing there and does nothing about it. How can I handle a rude girl in front of her mother?

M. J.

It’s good to model self-respect (instead of turning a deaf ear), but it’s not OK to offer unsolicited parenting advice. So find or make a time to talk to this young woman individually and explain why it is that her comments make you feel bad.

(Don’t embarrass her by speaking to her in front of another person, even— or especially—her mother.) Use descriptive, rather than accusatory, language: “I’m sure you don’t mean anything by it, but when you say X, that makes me feel Y. We’re trying to set an example here of being civil and respectful, and I’m hoping you’ll

help. Please be mindful of how you talk to me, and I promise to do the same.” If the problem continues, then you might want to loop in the mother—again, finding a time to speak privately. Ask for her help in strategizing with you, rather than accusing her of having a rude daughter. She may have good ideas about an intervention or offer crucial behindthe-scenes information.

She also may be relieved to brainstorm with an ally, since parenting teenagers can feel as rewarding as being slapped across the face with a dead fish. Whatever you decide to do, muster as much compassion as you can, and remind yourself that you probably don’t know the whole story.

unpleasant to be around. I have a fine relationship with my sister but find myself avoiding her so I don’t have to be around him. The rest of my family is fed up.

What should I do?

K. H.

What it sounds like you want to do—but should not do—is vent all your pent-up feelings. Don’t tell your sister that you and everyone else think her chosen partner is a jerk. Because despite your unhappy conclusion that this man is an interloper who has insinuated himself into your family, he is family now. You cannot exclude him from gatherings without destroying your relationship with your sister. That said, you can try to limit the amount of time you spend with her bore/ boor of a spouse by pitching one-on-one plans with her for dinner or a movie. And you are certainly well within your rights to say that unannounced visits don’t work for you. Finally—and hardest to consider, I know: Can you open your mind at all? When

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people start to grate on me, I can find myself irritated by every single thing they do, whether or not they are behaving irritatingly. In my family, we call this the “all arrows point in only one direction” feeling, and it’s a bad habit, best shaken.

As your brother-in-law becomes more comfortable with your family, perhaps his noisy posturing will abate and more appealing sides of his personality will reveal themselves. It’s worth imagining.

I am wondering if it is acceptable to miss a friend’s wedding. Five years ago, shortly after we were roommates in university, this friend was a bridesmaid in my wedding.

Since then, we have slowly grown apart. I even found out about her engagement through Facebook. I can’t afford a plane ticket and would have to drive nine hours to the wedding. Can I excuse myself and send a gift in the mail?

A.B.

You’re certainly not obligated to go to the wedding of a person you aren’t close to. Life should not be approached in a tit-for-tat way, and it’s good, if sometimes bittersweet, to roll with the changes. You were close five years ago, when you got married, and now you’re not. That said—and you knew there would be a “but” here—there are a couple of weddings I didn’t go to when I was younger, and those missed events are among my very few regrets in life. One friend is someone I was close to, then lived far away from at the time she got married, and now am close to again. Her wedding pictures kill me. (For what it’s worth: I also felt too broke at the time to

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buy a plane ticket, but I can see now that the cost wouldn’t have mattered too much in the long run. I realize that’s different for everybody.) So go to the wedding if you can. That’s my advice in a nutshell. You’ll never regret going, and you might regret not going, especially if you and your friend drift back together.

A good friend of mine gave me two large planters for the front of my house. They are nice, they go well with the house, and I have used them for a year. Now the local nursery has for sale a type of planter that I really wanted. They are as perfect as if I had designed them myself! I don’t have the space to use all of them in the front. What should I do? Forget the perfect ones and continue to use hers?

Use hers on the back deck? I really didn’t want that many planters, but I could do it to spare feelings.

And if I go with the others, what do I say when she comes over?

I can’t help it. I am a little bit in love with you for being so excited about those planters. Please, get them right away! And as for your friend, how lovely that she gave you a gift you enjoyed and used well! But that doesn’t mean you need to use it forever. Try the planters around back, if you like, and see what you think.

If they don’t work out there, give them away. No need to mention it to your friend. A gift is not a contract with permanence, and you aren’t obligated to account for the change.

If she says anything—or if you see her conspicuously noting her gift’s

absence—you can explain how happy you were to have those planters (the gateway planters!) and how lucky you feel to be known so well by her.

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any other battle in American history.

You can explore the battlefields alone, with a guide, or even on horseback. Definitely see the national cemetery near the High Water Mark, where the Union dead are buried and where Abraham Lincoln delivered the Gettysburg Address. But remember that Gettysburg is more than a battlefield and a burial ground. The Eisenhower farm, the retirement home of President Dwight Eisenhower, is part of the park. And there’s the Eternal Light Peace Memorial, just north of town, which is especially meaningful to me. I think about the dedication

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I’ve photographed a lot of national parks.

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But I could spend years shooting Yellowstone and never capture its entire essence. You’ve got bison roaming freely, prismatic springs that paint rainbows on the ground, geysers.… Yellowstone was America’s first national park, so in addition to being beautiful, it paved the way for land conservation. That is a uniquely American idea and, I think, might be our greatest gift to the world.

Lewis and Clark’s Missouri River route

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I was inspired to canoe down this stretch of the Missouri River in Montana by Stephen E. Ambrose’s* book about Lewis and Clark, Undaunted Courage. I began at Coal Banks Landing and finished at Judith Landing. Little has changed since Lewis and Clark came through in 1805, and Lewis kept such amazing notes that you can read along in his journals and experience things pretty close to the way they did.

You’ll see no roads— and few people—and it’s one of the best ways I can think of to spend a week. It really helps you understand the power of America.

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Jefferson’s personal collection—6,487 books that he called “unquestionably the choicest” in the United States—formed the basis of today’s Library of Congress.

(Many were destroyed in a fire; about 2,000 remain and are on exhibit there now.) To see these books, knowing how much they meant to our third president and how strongly he believed in enlightenment and access to education as the foundations of democracy, is an electrifying experience. It’s as if he’s whispering his favorite passages into your ear. If you love books and libraries, you will find this place extraordinarily special.

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It is so close to Busch Gardens and Water Country USA that families are often tempted to give it short shrift—or they assume that Colonial Williamsburg is another adjacent theme park. But I think it is one of the most important historical displays in the United States.

The reconstruction of the town, which started in the 1920s, is ongoing, and those Colonial-attired docents are very well trained. What I especially appreciate is that they did not overlook the contributions of the many AfricanAmericans who lived there. The same attention to detail extends to the slave quarters as to the Governor’s Palace.

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J O NAT H A N I R I S H is a photographer who has shot for National Geographic, the New York Times, and CNN. He lives in Washington, D.C. Follow his nationalpark project on Instagram (@jonathan_irish).

A N D R E W M C C A RT H Y is an editor at large for National Geographic Traveler and the author of Just Fly Away (out in 2017). He is also a director and an actor, appearing in ABC’s The Family. He lives in New York City.

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Gourmands will appreciate these locally sourced, richly flavored, gorgeously bottled ingredients: black lava salt, wildflower honey, olive oil, maple syrup. Black collection, $115, ila-shop.co.

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5 FINE-CHOCOLATE FIX

Small-batch bars with exciting add-ins (like pretzels with dried cherries) are always in good taste.

Buttermilk chocolate-bar collection, $38 for five, nathanmillerchocolate.com.

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6 MIX-AND-MATCH NAPKINS

Cheerful in any host’s home, these supersoft napkins and dish towels are hand stitched in linen and cotton.

The Everyday napkins, from $6 each; dish towels, from $12 each; and hand towels, $18 each: theevery daynapkin.co.

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1 FIRST-CLASS FOLDER

Boost his boardroom swagger with this leather document holder. Melaka folder, $110, bartlebyobjects.com.

2 CLEAN LIVING

No-frills, essential oil–filled formulas that turn the chore of shaving into a smooth experience (no more nicks or ingrowns). Beard and Shave soap-and-oil duo, $57, hudsonmadeny.com.

3 PIGSKIN COASTERS

These are no ordinary coasters. They’re manly and rugged, made from the leather used in NFL footballs. Leather coasters, $35 for four, owenandfred.com.

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Sleek, sturdy, space-saving (folds flat to fit in his bag)— high-end head gear for the dad who bikes everywhere.

Fuga foldable helmet, $140, momastore.org.

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Sports buffs will prize this in-depth look at competitive games, including the history of the baseball glove and iconic trophies. On the Origins of Sports, $20, amazon.com.

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Nerdify his exercise routine: The LED rope counts jumps and syncs with an app for calorie readings. Smart rope, $90, tangramfactory.com.

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This wooden organizer has slots for his phone and notes, plus a cup to collect change (all the change!).

London change valet, $65, sonofasailor.co.

8 BETTER BACKPACK

An ergonomic, elevated take on the workbag (leather details, water-resistant exterior), with a padded laptop pouch. Modern snap backpack, $68, everlane.com.

9 BUILDING-BLOCK SET

A fun little desk toy (real cinder-block replicas) for the guy who daydreams of swapping his suit for a hard hat.

1: 12 scale cinder blocks, $20 for 24 (including pallet), minimaterials.com.

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From art class (kraft) to office task (graph), this journal binds all of the essential papers into one. Paper Works sketchbook, $13; Seriously Fine felt-tip markers, $17 for 36 colors: intlarrivals.com.

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2 CACTUS PILLOWS

Mark her foray into the wild, wild west (a.k.a. freshman year) with some on-trend cactus dorm decor. Tasselshaped pillow, $35, pbteen. com. Cactus pillow headrest, $22, kikkerland.com.

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3 MOUSE-PAD UPGRADE

Swap out that standardissue version for this buttery leather stitched square with a wrist rest that wraps around the edge of a desk.

Also in black. Mouse pad, $50, thisisground.com.

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Perfect for a millennial’s first apartment, they’re designed to hold air plants, which require only a weekly 30-minute soaking. René holders, $32 each (small); Bucky holder, $65 (large): boycestudio.com.

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Thyme for the Grubhub dependency to end? This stackable tower of seasonings may be just the kick he needs to get cooking.

Mobile Foodie Survival Kit, $26, uncommongoods.com.

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For all her adventures (or visits home), a stylish satchel that’s sturdy, too, with a canvas-lined interior and vegan-leather handles. Giveback bonus: The bags are made by women in povertystricken regions. The Pike, $125, krochetkids.org.

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Real Simple has grilled pro organizers for 15-plus years—here are the low-effort, big-impact practices they swear by.

A vast, open storage area invites mess.

It’s tempting to fill all that empty space with items that don’t belong together, just because they ft—but once you do that, fnding anything becomes a big chore.

Compartments and containers are your fix.

Add bins to an armoire to separate table linens (runners, napkins) from table accents (candlesticks, vases). Keep small pouches in a large handbag so pens, keys, and lip glosses don’t get jumbled at the bottom.

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Attach a reward to a tedious task: Tell yourself that you can get a pedicure after you’ve organized the garage or watch The Blacklist after you’ve done the laundry and you’ll actually follow through.

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No. 1 Organized people avoid the big black hole.

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No. 7 Organized people have twice as many hooks (and not one thing on the floor).

Organized people say no to spillover.

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Have too many stuffed animals to fit in the toy chest, say? Exile some instead of starting another bin for the extras.

No. 4 Organized people keep the citrus reamer on the top shelf.

Look over the tools in your kitchen and consider how often you find yourself reaching for each. Standbys, like a veg-

etable peeler and measuring spoons, should stay close at hand, but an immersion blender used only sporadically needs to move up high.

Follow this same logic for all sorts of things—glassware, linens, board games, ofice supplies.

When you make the most of wall space—putting garden gear on a pegboard, hairstyling tools on a mounted rack, brooms and mops on a hanging organizer— your stuff stays within easy reach, but the space looks a lot neater.

No. 8 ORGANIZED PEOPLE ADJUST THEIR SHELVE S. No. 5

Organized people spend 30 seconds now to save hours later.

Stop dropping everything in random piles. When you’re holding an item, decide where it goes right then.

Otherwise you’ll just get fed up with the piles at some point—and lose a weekend afternoon when you’re finally motivated to put it all away.

No. 6 ORGANIZED PEOPLE MOVE THEIR C A STOFFS TO THE C AR. When you know there’s a box or a basket in the trunk waiting for giveaways, it becomes second nature to regularly off-load old or unused items so they’re not hogging space in the closets. A full container is a cue to officially let go: Bring the box to a charitable organization (like the Salvation Army), or mail it through GiveBackBox.com, which offers free shipping labels to send items to a local Goodwill.

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No. 9 Organized people think in zones.

Arrange things by usage rather than type. In the pantry, group breakfast items: pancake mix, syrup, nut butters, jams.

In the mudroom, create a pool-gear station: goggles, arm foats, beach towels. By the back door, set up a pet-stuf spot: leash, flashlight, treats, wastepickup bags.

It’s such a simple game-changer: Vary the shelf heights so the space fits your needs. This goes for bookcases, medicine cabinets, refrigerators, hall closets, and the pantry.

No. 10

Organized people never miss something they toss.

When you separate emotions from purging decisions and admit that a clean, clear surface is more satisfying than just having that thing, it’s really not so tough to let go. Prioritize the greater good: a happier home.

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Why does our older cat get matted-up fur on her back, and what’s the fix?

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A. Felines are pros at primping, but weight gain or arthritis can make it tough for an older cat to reach her back, resulting in tangled fur that is uncomfortable and can cause skin infections. (Matted fur can also be a sign of diabetes or hyperthyroidism, so it’s a good idea to have the problem checked by a vet.) To eliminate clumps, try this two-part plan. Have the mats clipped by a groomer. (This is tricky, since they’re so close to the skin.) Then, every few days, run a soft-bristle brush through her fur for three minutes. If she squirms, give her a treat (like a bowl of tuna) as you work, says animal behaviorist Suzanne Hetts: “When cats associate the brushing with something they enjoy, it can help them tolerate it better.”

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Seeing red Our golden retriever gets hot spots in the summer. Why? B. R., via Facebook

A. Those oozy red wounds are signs of a bacterial skin infection called acute moist dermatitis, which commonly forms from the irritation caused by a fea bite, a cut, or an allergen.

When a dog scratches, licks, or chews the itchy area, it creates a moist environment that causes the hot spots to form,

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says veterinarian Nancy Kay. To help them heal, use clippers to trim the fur around each spot to air them out. Once a day, gently dab the areas with a gauze pad dipped in a mix of baby shampoo (1 drop) and warm water (1 cup), then rinse with warm water and air-dry, says veterinarian Ann Hohenhaus. Avoiding new hot spots is all about ditching the itching: Ask your vet to prescribe a fea-prevention treatment and test for allergy triggers, like grass and pollen, that can be managed with medication.

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A. Practice makes peaceful when it comes to planning a long ride with a jumpy pet. In the weeks leading up to the trip, do trial runs to get the dog used to the car’s constricted space. “Start small, even just sitting in the car with her for a few minutes with the door open,” says Kay. Reward her with treats or a toy, and work up to short drives to the dog park or some other favorite location.

Comfortable seating is key: Kay recommends Pet Ego’s Jet Set Forma Frame carrier ($152, petego.com). On trip day, break up the drive with an hour-long bathroom and exercise break enhanced with a few interactive toys.

(Hohenhaus likes the Buster Food Cube; $15, dog.com.)

Still antsy? Soft tunes can calm a canine. “Clients of mine played the CD Through a Dog’s Ear: Driving Edition [$18, throughadogsear.com] when they got stuck in a ton of trafic,” says Hohenhaus. “They were ready to kill each other, but their dog was very Zen.”

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A Vlogger’s Guide to a Cool Summer Whatever you do this summer, don’t sweat over staying fresh.

Go fuss-free with warm-weather tips from StyleHaul beauty guru and online influencer Nikki Phillippi for new ways to help you feel beautiful all season long.

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1 NOURISH OVERNIGHT

I like to soak in a heavier cream overnight because it feels like I’m healing my skin. I apply to my face, neck and chest. Olay Regenerist MicroSculpting Cream reduces the appearance of wrinkles starting on day one.

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The No. 1 item in my beach bag is a lip tint with SPF. My shade for summer is a pop of peach, and the SPF is just obvious! Combine skin care and barely-there beauty with a multitasking balm like Physicians Formula Cheek & Lip Beauty Balm in Natural Peach.

3 BLOT AWAY

Oil-absorbing blotting paper or moistened sheets of tissue work! I live in a desert town where it can hit 115 degrees. I want to glow without shining.

4 MOISTURIZE LIBER ALLY

Daily hydration is so important for beautiful skin long-term. I’ve used body moisturizer every day for years and years. Nivea Essentially Enriched Body Lotion moisturizes and nourishes, leaving skin smooth and supple.

5 USE A PROTECTIVE P OWDER

After blotting, I apply a little colored powder with SPF to get some coverage and even out skin tone.

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Makeup-remover wipes are a summer staple for me. I like them because they make cleansing easier.

I just wipe the makeup right off and feel fresh again.

Neutrogena Makeup Remover Cleansing Towelettes are allergy-tested and safe for sensitive eyes after a day at the beach.

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Serious sun protection, minus the chalkiness. Supergoop! Shine On Lip Screen SPF 50 ($22, supergoop.com) is a clear, water-resistant gloss that you can wear alone or over any lip color to shield the thin skin from the sun.

Sephora Collection Mini Blast Hair Dryer ($26, sephora.com) looks doll-size at 5.5 by 5 inches, but it has ionic technology, a powerful motor, and two highlow settings so you can dry and smooth even long, thick hair quickly.

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Washing makeup brushes can be tedious, but not doing it can lead to breakouts when bristles become caked with dirt and oil. Japonesque Waterless Brush Cleanser ($16, ulta.com) essentially does the job for you. Use it once a week.

Essie Gel Couture polish ($11.50 each, essie.com) is a new, gel-like formula that gives you chip-free nails for 14 days (when worn with its topcoat) and can be taken of with regular remover. The swirled brush stem prevents polish from dripping as you paint.

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Facial in a bottle Apply a thin layer of StriVectin Oxygen Infusion Smoothing Mask ($79, strivectin.com) over clean, dry skin, then enjoy a bubbling sensation as beta hydroxy acids gently exfoliate to make skin smoother and brighter.

Rinse after three minutes.

Plucky strike Instead of throwing away dull tweezers, reach for The BrowGal by Tonya Crooks Tweezer Sharpeners ($4 for 12 fles, thebrowgal.com). Place a “matchstick” fle between the tweezers, then stroke downward to leave the tips as good as new.

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Burn notice: Skin-cancer rates continue to climb. They’re up more than 300 percent over the past three decades.

Sun-protection mistakes even smart people make

Considering the fact that 40 to 50 percent of Americans who live to age 65 will get skin cancer at least once, it’s always a good time for a (proverbial) skin check.

Dermatologists sound off on the most common SPF missteps.

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You’ve heard that one shot glass of sunscreen is enough to cover your body.

Problem is, knowing and doing are two different things, says Marcy Street, a dermatologist in Okemos, Michigan.

Studies show that most people apply just a quarter of the amount needed to reach the SPF on the bottle. “Underapplying an SPF 15 means that you’re really getting an SPF 8,” says Street.

To ensure the right amount, measure a generous handful for your body and a nickel-size blob to protect your face.

You don’t reapply frequently enough Every sunscreen must be reapplied.

Period. No matter what the SPF—15 or 50—all formulas (water-resistant ones, too) degrade signifcantly after two hours in the sun, and sooner than that if you’ve been in water or sweated heavily.

But reapplication isn’t important only when you’re lounging at the beach.

“If you spend your day next to a window or driving around in a car, you are getting UV [ultraviolet] exposure through the

glass,” says Jeanine Downie, a dermatologist in Montclair, New Jersey.

She recommends using stick or powder sunscreens, such as Colorscience Sunforgettable Brush On Sunscreen SPF 50 ($64, sephora.com), for everyday reapplication because they’re easy to swipe over exposed areas and won’t muss your makeup. Another good one: Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Face + Body Stick Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 70 ($11 at drugstores). For more smart sunscreen options, see page 98.

YO U T H I N K A L L F O R M U L A S A R E C R E AT E D EQ UA L The shot-glass analogy refers only to lotion. Sunscreen sticks, sprays, and wipes may make it more convenient to apply protection on the go, but they also increase your risk of under-application, because they go on so thinly.

“Your goal is to have an obvious sheen everywhere you’ve put on sunscreen,” says Andrew Alexis, the chairman of the department of dermatology at Mount Sinai St. Luke’s and Mount Sinai West, in New York City. That means two—yes, two—generous coats of spray, neck to toe, in a shielded area.

With wipes, apply two of them, rubbing the frst over the body head to toe, then the second toe to head. Swipe sticks over areas three times.

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Apply a broadspectrum SPF after a moisturizer for complete coverage.

YO U LO O K O N LY AT S P F Don’t see the words “broad spectrum” on your bottle?

You’re probably not getting protection from both UVB rays (which burn and cause cancer) and UVA rays (which penetrate more deeply, cause cancer, and accelerate skin aging).

“Most sunscreens today are broad spectrum,” says Downie. “But that’s not always true with moisturizers or makeup with SPF, which often do not provide UVA protection. Think of these as extra credit, and wear a broad-spectrum sunscreen every day, yearround, as well.”

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YOU DON’T PUT ON ENOUGH

According to the Skin Cancer Foundation, an estimated 90 percent of skin aging is caused by the sun.

According to a study in the American Journal of Preventative Medicine, 63 percent of AfricanAmericans never wear sunscreen.

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You think having darker skin makes you immune

YOU SLATHER ON TOO LATE Most chemical sunscreens “must be applied about 30 minutes before you go in the sun,” says Steven Rotter, a dermatologist in Vienna, Virginia, and a spokesperson for the Skin Cancer Foundation. “It takes that long for the ingredients to

activate and start absorbing UV rays.”

In contrast, physical sunscreens, with ingredients such as titanium oxide and zinc oxide, work straight from the bottle, because they literally block UV rays like a stone wall, rather than absorbing them, so there is a minimal activation period.

“Someone with very dark skin may have a natural SPF of between 5 and 8,” says Downie. However, while having that extra melanin can minimize a person’s risk of burning, it does not protect her from UVA rays or the skin cancer they can cause, she warns.

Additionally, because the skin is darker, “we don’t have the obvious marker of a burn to tell us when we’ve sustained serious sun damage,” says Alexis. “And later on it’s not as easy to see skin cancer developing on dark skin because, while something like basal-cell car-

Women age 49 and under have a higher probability of developing melanoma than any other cancer, except breast and thyroid.

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cinoma appears pearly pink on a Caucasian, on a deep skin tone, it’s often a more subtle brown spot that tends to scab more easily.”

Finally, because skin cancer is harder to detect on dark skin, when it is diagnosed, the prognosis is often dire: Late-stage melanoma diagnoses occur in 52 percent of blackskinned melanoma patients, versus in only 16 percent of white-skinned patients. Bottom line: “All skin colors must wear sun protection daily, because everyone can get skin cancer from UV exposure,” says Alexis.

YO U S K I P S P OT S “Most of us are pretty diligent about applying sunscreen to the face, but then we forget the ears or the lips or the back of the neck,” says Downie. So it’s no coincidence that these three oftenneglected spots are among the most frequent sites for basal-cell and squamous-cell carcinomas, the two most common non-melanoma skin cancers. Melanoma, meanwhile, crops up most frequently on the backs of women’s legs, another area that is hard to see and reach.

The moral: Coat all exposed areas with sunscreen and reapply regularly—and follow the protective-clothing advice on page 96 as backup.

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Staycation? No matter what kind of family vacation you’re planning, these tips will help make it great (yes, even though the kids are coming).

A H H H , VAC AT I O N. Time to relax, read, nap… Wait, never mind—this is a story about family vacations. So: Time to pack the gear (so much gear), strategize, and weep into your margarita after the children go to bed. “When you travel with kids, nothing is easy,” says family therapist Julia Simens, the author of Emotional Resilience and the Expat Child. And yet the majority of us take the plunge anyway. A survey by the Family Travel Association found that 79 percent of parents in the United States are very likely to travel with their kids in the next two years. (According to a recent AAA survey, 36 percent of Americans

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planned to take a multigenerational trip—i.e., Nana, too.) To add to the pressure, the trip must also be memorable. “Family vacations are one of those touchstones of childhood that people talk about forever,” says Guy Winch, a psychologist and the author of Emotional First Aid. (See? Pressure.) Real Simple asked experts, including travel-industry insiders and seasoned parents, for tips on executing five common types of summer trips, so you can take your show on the road more successfully.

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Trying to accomplish too much when time is short.

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SMART PLANNING STRATEGIES

Stay close. Don’t spend all weekend in the car. Pick a destination that’s no more than a three-hour drive, including traffic, says Dana McCain, a mom of two and the cohost of the culture and travel podcast Deep South Details. “If I have to eat two fast-food meals to get there, it’s too far,” she says.

Don’t leave on Friday at 3 P.M. Want to skip out of work a little early and head for the shore? So does everyone else. Instead, wait until after dinner, let the kids fall asleep in the car, then ease them into bed at point B. Bonus: “It’s so much more pleasant for you to not spend that time on the road meeting other people’s needs,” says McCain.

BYO sleep essentials.

You want to pack light, but bringing items from home that are crucial for kids’ sleep is key.

“Good sleep can make or break a vacation,” says Alice Callahan, Ph.D., the author of The Science of Mom. Pack pillows and a sound machine—and even a sleeve of the swim diapers that you know work (rather than hoping you’ll pass a Target on the way there).

Follow the “rule of one.” That means one major activity per day, says Callahan, not a jammed-to-the-minute schedule. The rest of the day should be flexible downtime (napping, relaxing, eating).

For maximum impact, select outings that are new to everyone (white-water rafting, laser tag). “Kids get really excited when the whole family is experiencing something for the first time together,” says Winch.

TAKE IT FROM THE PROS TIP 1 Pick a destination

that’s hosting a festival, even if the theme doesn’t strike you as a winner. “You may have zero interest in the Vidalia Onion Festival,” says Dana McCain. “But along with the onions, you’ll find carnival rides and a petting zoo. They’re all in the same place, so you won’t have to spend the weekend driving around.”

TIP 2 During car rides,

start the togetherness by playing a podcast or an audiobook that everyone can enjoy. “We’ve been surprised that, for older kids, even a TED Talk can spark great conversations,” says McCain.

AND REMEMBER…

One refrigerator may not hold two week’s worth of food. Ask if there are two (or a chest freezer) before you shop.

TIP 3 Make the getaway

feel longer by starting it earlier in your minds.

“Build anticipation by talking about what you’ll be doing,” says Guy Winch.

(Paint a realistic picture, though: the stop at Six Flags and the lines.)

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The two-week beach or lake-house rental PRIMARY PITFALL

Picking a semi-long-term location without doing your research. Or inviting the wrong housemates.

AND REMEMBER…

A quick flight sounds doable, but delays and airport time can suck up half a day.

Book an earlymorning, nonstop flight if you must fly.

SMART PLANNING STRATEGIES

Spend where it counts. The experts are unanimous on this one: Paying a little (or a lot) extra to be in a prime location is a worthwhile investment.

“We’ve done rentals that were three

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blocks from the beach and right on the beach,” says Callahan. “It makes a huge difference when you can walk out the door to play without the production of coming and going.”

Double-check inventory. You know that the house has sheets and towels, but what about a blender for your family’s traditional sunset mudslides? A griddle for pancakes? If it’s central to a good time, ask in advance.

Negotiate beds beforehand. Scope out the floor plan (or the listing photos) online. Settle who stays where—and with whom—pre-arrival.

Make a grocery spreadsheet. Ruth Topper, a mom of three who has been renting in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, with her family for more than a decade, has it down to a science: She enters a master list of ingredients and supplies into a spreadsheet and divvies it up among the branches of her family.

“It prevents us from winding up with multiple peanut butters,” she says.

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Choose housemates wisely. “There are very few people in the world whom I can spend 14 days with,” says McCain. Consider breaking up the cohabitation into smaller chunks—one week with your parents, one week with your inlaws. Or keep it fresh by inviting in a rotating cast of guest stars, like a few days with a freewheelin’ single aunt or school friends.

Divide and conquer.

A major perk of traveling with a herd is communal child care, opening up the possibility for date nights and gals-only day trips. “If you join forces, everyone gets a break,” says Eileen Ogintz, the creator of the travel website TakingTheKids.com.

Resist the full-court press. What’s the point of a trip without constant family bonding, right? Not really.

“Everyone deserves time together—and time to themselves,” says Winch. “Teenagers are going to want a chance to be on their phones. Let them, as long as they participate in a few non-optional activities.”

sional housekeeping into the budget, says Eileen Ogintz: “It’s not going to feel like vacation if you spend it doing the same chores you do at home.”

AND REMEMBER…

If you’re torn about taking the kids to dinner at a fancy restaurant that you’ve read about, try it for lunch.

TIP 2 If you have an only

child—or one outlier in the group with no other kids close to him in age—let him bring a friend, says Ogintz: “It should be someone who has already spent a lot of time with your family and knows your house rules.”

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The sightseeingheavy, cultural trip PRIMARY PITFALL

Bonjour, jet lag! Also expecting too much from your kids, who cry over unfamiliar foods and a too grownup itinerary.

SMART PLANNING STRATEGIES

Be realistic about the hotel. Do you need space for one kid to nap while the other plays? Is there a balcony where you can talk after the kids are in bed? “Hotel rooms outside of the U.S. tend to be much smaller. It’s not necessarily a queen bed and a roomy cot,” says Cynthia Harriman, the author of Take Your Kids to Europe.

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Renting through Airbnb or VRBO could be a better bet.

Stay put. For a weeklong trip to a far-flung location, like Europe, it’s wiser to stay put than to visit multiple destinations. “The first and last days of a trip are travel days, so you’re already down to five,” says Simens.

(Of course, a day trip outside of San Francisco or a combined road trip to Philadelphia and New York is more manageable.)

Remember that even teens are kids. “Do not expect any child, even a 16-year-old, to be ready and eager for an eight-hour day of museum visits,” says Simens. (Ruins, caves, and other experiential attractions tend to have more appeal.)

Visit a nearby theme park or beach to balance things out.

Designate a “leader of the day.” For each day of the trip, one family member gets to be in charge of picking the key destinations.

“Everyone goes along with other people’s ideas because they know their turn will come,” says Harriman.

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Avoid food fights.

If your kids don’t want to eat the local cuisine, don’t make them.

“When traveling, we let our kids pick something they’re familiar with— whether that’s French fries or shrimp—while my husband and I make a point of ordering something unusual,” says Harriman. “The kids frequently end up trying—and eating most of—our food.”

TAKE IT FROM THE PROS TIP 1 Since most overseas

flights arrive in the morning, request an early check-in wherever you’re staying, says Cynthia Harriman.

Otherwise your groggy family will be left wandering the streets like zombies. (For a sure thing, make your reservation start one day earlier.)

Take a two- to three-hour catch-up nap on the first day, then adjust to the local time zone that night.

TIP 2 Give each kid a cam-

era or an old, disabled smartphone to document the vacation from his or her POV. “A parent I know said her son spent one trip only taking pictures of dogs,” says Harriman. “But since he was always looking for dogs, he was really focusing on his surroundings.”

TIP 3 At museums, hit

the gift shop first. Then spend the visit looking for the painting on the postcard or the Dutch Master work that inspired that doll.

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The huge family reunion PRIMARY PITFALL

Becoming bitter that you’re spending vacation days and dollars on a vacation that you can’t completely control. And your kids are thrilled (ha!).

room near where everyone else is staying, or suggest houses close to each other. Every summer, Kara Marmion, a publicist in New York, and her extended family—58 people!—rent houses in the same Maine town. To successfully line up multiple properties, says Marmion, use local real estate agents.

SMART PLANNING STRATEGIES

Cluster rather than cohabitate.

Which sounds better: jockeying for bathroom privacy in a house with 25 people? Or heading home to your own condo after dinner? Book a hotel

AND REMEMBER…

If you’re eating in, cocktail hour—everyone brings a heavy appetizer and drinks— trumps cooking for 50.

Brief the kids. Discuss potential conversations, says Simens, like “When someone asks about your college plans, be honest and say you’re not sure” or “If you don’t recognize the person, ask, ‘When did we last see each other?’ ” Have your kids reach out to same-age relatives over social media to break the ice.

Arrange nontalking activities.

Got a middle-school–dance vibe going on with the third cousins?

Grease the wheels with a game of kickball or Chinese checkers.

Ask for a fixed-price menu. Many restaurants are happy to limit the options for a big group, says Emily Kaufman, the travel contributor for the Steve Harvey show. That way, everyone’s portion of the bill is equal.

TAKE IT FROM THE PROS TIP 1 For older kids, come

up with a code word or phrase: “Mom, I think I left my hat/iPad/sunglasses in the car!” They can then say it to you in front of others to indicate that they’re having an SOS moment, says Julia Simens.

TIP 2 “Teenagers don’t

want to hang out with adults—and they probably want to be together—so bribe a couple of them to be co-babysitters if you feel like a night out,” says Eileen Ogintz.

TIP 3 Designate one cen-

tral area where people can gather informally, says Emily Kaufman: “In my family, it’s always where my grandmother stays. She stocks it with snacks and drinks and calls it her hospitality suite.”

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The staycation PRIMARY PITFALL

Slipping into your everyday routine (wah-wahhhh), making your staycation a disappointing nonevent.

SMART PLANNING STRATEGIES

Start from scratch. No winging it because it’s your hometown! Get into a tourist mind-set by perusing your local visitors’-bureau website. “What would you suggest to someone coming from another part of the country?” says Ogintz.

Psych up the crowd. Once you have

a plan of attack, create an itinerary that everyone can see and get excited about. (This will also help keep you committed later.) “If you don’t treat this like it’s something special, kids will pick up on that,” says Simens.

Keep your eye on the prize. You caught sight of a bill that needs paying or want to sneak in one final episode of The Americans. Can’t you just…? Nope. “Put off all the stuff that you don’t absolutely have to do,” says Ogintz.

That includes errands and housekeeping (within reason). Schedule a chunk of time in the morning to answer e-mails or commune with the outside world. “Maybe it’s 8 A.M. to 10 A.M., then you head out,” says Simens. Stick to that window—no going down a rabbit hole.

Don’t be a snob. Steer clear of the go-kart track during normal life? The streak ends here. “The Fun Zone in our town is a cheesy combo rollerrink/cardboard-pizza/bouncy-castle place that makes my skin crawl,” says McCain. “But on vacation you do that kind of thing for your kids.”

AND REMEMBER…

You spent all day with your kids. Don’t feel guilty about booking the regular sitter and going out with your spouse.

TAKE IT FROM THE PROS TIP 1 Spend one night at a

hotel in a different area of town. “Look for package deals that also offer entertainment. For example, hotels near our town’s baseball stadium often throw in tickets to the game along with the room,” says Emily Kaufman.

TIP 2 Staycations deserve

souvenirs, too! “We visited a big garden center as one of our activities,” says Karen Hendricks, a mother of three in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania. “Everyone got to pick out something to plant in our yard, so we had a lasting memory.”

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It’s simple: Prep your body to prevent injury.

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save certain activities for vacations only— from lifting 30-pound luggage to fitting in a swim before taking a 15-mile hike.

But doing so could put a kink in more than your vacation plans. “Sudden increases in activity can lead to overuse injuries,” says Miho J. Tanaka, M.D., the director of the Johns Hopkins Women’s Sports Medicine Program, in Baltimore.

Each year, nearly 800,000 women ages 25 to 54 visit the ER for some type of “overexertion” issue, such as strains and sprains, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s injury center. Stay healthy by doing these activity-specific stretches a few times a week before your next getaway.

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R E VO LV E D TRIANGLE “This pose stabilizes the hips, strengthens the core, and teaches you to safely initiate twists from the obliques and deep transverse abdominals, rather than hyperextending or straining your limbs,” says Kristin McGee, a New York City yoga instructor, who matched the stretches with the activities on these pages. The revolved triangle also opens the shoulders, back, and legs.

H O W -T O : Stand with your right foot forward (facing 12 o’clock) and your left foot grounded about a leg’s length behind the right, toes angled outward (between 10 and 11 o’clock). Lift your left arm up and bend forward from the waist with your legs straight and core engaged, stretching your left hand out as you lower it to your right shin (or the foor outside your right foot). Twist from the waist as you raise your right arm to the ceiling. Gaze up at your right hand and hold for fve to eight breaths. Switch sides.

Stretches and warmups work to reduce the shock of a oncein-a-while activity.

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CHAIR POSE

WHY IT HELPS:

It strengthens the gluteals and thighs, opens up the back, encourages the abs to lift, and stretches the chest, upper back, and shoulders—all good training for hikers with backpacks as well as mountain bikers who crouch over handlebars.

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U P WA R D FAC I N G D O G “Riding and kayaking require core stability, arm strength, and good posture,” says McGee. This pose opens the chest, strengthens the arms, and opens up the hip fexors, which can get tight from sitting.

WHY IT HELPS:

H O W-TO : Starting in a high push-up position or plank, let your hips drop toward the foor as you open up your chest and squeeze your shoulder blades together and down. Keep your abs engaged and legs long as you rest the tops of your feet on the foor, relaxing your ankles; your legs shouldn’t touch the foor and your shoulders should be aligned with your wrists. (If there’s pain in your lower back, keep your toes tucked under and feet fexed.) Lift your upper body and gaze straight ahead.

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H O W-TO : Standing with feet together, sit back into a squat, keeping knees over toes. Lift your arms up high, in a straight line with your hips and back, palms facing each other (or touching, if that’s comfortable). Gaze up at your hands, which are slightly in front of you (not directly overhead). Keep your abdominals engaged and chest lifted.

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E AG L E A R M S It keeps your neck, upper back, and shoulders loose to reduce the chance of injury when lifting.

You can do this while waiting at the gate prefight; when you’re seated on the plane, depending on space; and at the luggage carousel, before retrieving your luggage.

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WA R R I O R I I I Warrior III builds a strong back and core, which can make your strokes solid while swimming and surfng and help you pop up on the board more easily. Plus, the pose works the buttocks and stretches the hamstrings for more powerful kicks and improves balance, reducing the chance of wipeouts.

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These no-strain tips from Nitin Khanna, an orthopedic spine surgeon in Munster, Indiana, and a spokesperson for the American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgeons, just might save your aching back.

Take into account your age and ftness level. Can you safely—without grunting, groaning, or tightening your lower back— lift the bag into your car’s trunk and wheel it to the check-in?

If not, split the contents between two smaller bags.

W H E N PAC K I N G :

Carry your luggage close to your body.

Avoid yanking or dragging the case up or down the steps behind you, which can strain or sprain muscles, ligaments, or tendons in your neck, shoulders, and lower back.

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H O W-TO : Lift both arms to chest height in front of you.

Cross your right arm under your left at the elbows, then raise both hands to press your palms together. (If your palms can’t touch, press the backs of your hands together.)

Hold for five to eight breaths.

Repeat, crossing your left arm underneath.

W H E N U S I N G A N OV E R H E A D B I N : Exhale (to reduce pressure on your spinal disks), bend at the knees to raise the bag up to the seat frst, pause to inhale, then exhale again as you lift the luggage up to the bin with the wheels facing down and in. (This allows the bag to roll in.) Use this two-step move in reverse to remove the bag.

H O W-TO : Stand on one foot as you tilt your torso parallel to the foor and lift your other leg parallel to the foor behind you with your foot fexed and abs fred up. With your arms at your side and your fngertips pointing behind you, steadily gaze at a spot slightly out in front of you on the floor and hold for fve to eight breaths.

Switch sides.

Lightweightbag check When choosing a case, skimp on size and weight wherever you can—but not on wheels. Spinner luggage, which has four or eight wheels, is ideal, says Nitin Khanna, M.D. These bags glide efortlessly, he says, and won’t put a strain on your shoulder or neck. Here, three to consider.

Delsey Chatillon 25-Inch Expandable Spinner Trolley WEIGHT: 7.7 pounds.

The bag’s Overweight Indicator shows if the bag is over 50 pounds (which helps to dodge back issues and airline fees).

TO BUY: $150, delsey.com.

Genius Pack 21-Inch Hardside Spinner Carry On WEIGHT: 6.8 pounds.

No tugging required. The bag moves easily over all terrain with its eight wheels. (Many spinners have just four.) A panel of organizing pockets inside does away with the need for bulky outer compartments.

TO BUY: $158, geniuspack.com.

Lojel Lumo 21-Inch Hardside Spinner Upright Suitcase WEIGHT: 3.9 pounds.

The magnesium trolley makes it amazingly light; the shell is made of a special material that prevents punctures.

TO BUY: $220, lojel.com.

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Work & Money What did you learn?

These big outsourcing firms were getting set up in India, China, the Philippines, and South Africa to do back-office work for big companies in the U.S. I thought, If this model can work hiring middle-class people in India, couldn’t the same idea bring opportunities to the poorest people? After a couple of years, I left and started Samasource. [Sama means “equal” in Sanskrit.]

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LEILA JANAH • Founder and CEO of Sama (the parent of Samasource and Samaschool), which trains and employs people in extreme poverty for work they can do online.

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Leila Janah launched Samasource, a global nonprofit that provides impoverished people with digital employment, at age 25.

Eight years later, Samasource has moved 7,600 people in developing nations into living-wage jobs—with a ripple effect (including families) that has elevated 30,000 lives. Real Simple spoke with Janah, 33, about the distance between dreaming up a smart solution and putting it into practice.

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How did you come up with the idea for Samasource?

I was working as a management consultant right after college.

When I first joined the firm, I was sent to work for a major outsourcing company in India. I was 22, and I had no idea what I was doing. It was incredible exposure to this new industry of digital work and the start of the digital economy.

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What kind of work does Sama provide people?

Tasks like tagging images, captioning video, transcribing, and other things that can be done through the Internet. Most require only basic training—though now we have some that call for a higher skill set, so there’s room for promotion. We train people to do the work.

Where?

We’re mostly in East Africa and South Asia, and we have a small presence in Haiti.

What was your childhood like?

My parents were immigrants from India. They

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You spent most of your senior year of high school in Africa.

I was there for six months and came back the day of my prom. It was a culture shock coming back and trying to make sense of the fact that some people in the world have so little and work so hard to earn not even enough to pay for the most basic needs.

What about college?

I went to Harvard and did a special major in African-development studies. I ended up going back to Africa pretty much every summer after that. After working in Africa for nonprofits and traditional NGOs, I realized what people most needed was income.

They didn’t want handouts. They didn’t want people to just give them stuff.

How did you first get Sama off the ground?

I was a visiting scholar at Stanford and was part of a business-plan competition that won us $14,000. Then I got $30,000 from a European business-plan competition. Those helped, but it was still really, really hard.

What came next?

I went into Nairobi first, and we worked with people who came from the slums. We got our first contract from a nonprofit in Silicon Valley. They had books they were trying to digitize for blind readers, and they gave me a $30,000 contract. I found a local Nairobi guy who ran an Internet café that had four computers and convinced him to be the first person to do recruiting and training.

What’s a mistake you’ve learned from?

I think my biggest mistakes have come from being impatient. As an

entrepreneur, I’m constantly urging my people to keep pushing. I think that can burn people out, and it’s not a great way to run a business long-term.

What’s your life like outside of work?

One of the challenges of doing this work is that I travel so much, it can be hard to maintain a consistent presence in San Francisco.

I was traveling 80 percent of the time for the last year. I don’t have kids. I’ve built up an amazing network of friends, and they’re around the world. I kite-surf, paraglide, and do a lot of adventure sports. My friends do these things, which makes it easy. I know it’s a blessing to be able to do this and not have responsibilities that pull me away from that right now.

I’m sure I’ll have kids at some point.

Any parting advice?

My biggest advice comes from Shonda Rhimes, and it’s to be your own sun.

Women are socialized to think we need to be partnered, we need to have a family, we need to somehow be revolving around someone else. Instead, think of yourself as the sun, not the planet.

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came [to the United States] with nothing, and it was a constant struggle. We never had enough money.

There was quite a lot of discord in my family.

I worked a lot—babysitting, tutoring, as a legal secretary. I got a scholarship to go teach in Africa when I was 17. I didn’t really have a home life to rely on.

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3 money mind-set shifts that make a big difference Sometimes you can get a surprisingly high yield from a simple attitude adjustment. Here, experts ofer experiments in fnancial thinking that just might give you a new sense of your dollars.

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WRITE A LETTER TO MONEY

B OT TO M LINE IT

Assess your cable bill, cell plan, and vacation budget with the icy remove of an executive.

IMAGINE YOUR HOME AS A BUSINESS When you apply the pragmatism of a CFO to your household budget, you take the emotion out of money, says Atlanta-based fnancial adviser Ted Jenkin.

Look at expenditures, profts, and losses. “Once a quarter, ask yourself how your company is doing,” he says. Are there ways to cut costs or bring in more cash?

Communicate with everyone on your team (er… kids, spouse) about fnancial priorities. Maintain your business savvy, says Jenkin, even when your family experiences a surge of success, like a salary bump. “As revenue grows, use the rule of thirds,” he says. “Onethird of the increase will go to taxes, one-third should go immediately into savings, and the fnal third can go to fun.

That guards against lifestyle infation.”

“Everyone has a complicated relationship with money,” says strategic adviser and executive coach Joanne Heyman.

To get to the bottom of that confusion, she encourages putting pen to paper and writing not just a letter, but a love letter. “Money is such a loaded, serious topic, and writing a love letter lets us have a sense of humor about it,” she says.

Aim for a page or two, and let loose, stream-ofconsciousness style.

Think of it as an exploration. “For some people,” says Heyman, “these letters to money say things like ‘Where have you been all my life?’ For others, it’s ‘I’m embarrassed to tell people how much I love you.’ ” Maybe you’ll look back on your past, together or apart. Recount in detail the time that one of you betrayed or abandoned the other (say, the way you dealt with your credit-card bill). You can even trace the relationship back to a childhood “crush” on your allowance.

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“You know that you’ve hit that sweet, honest spot when you feel a little embarrassed,” says Heyman. Once you’ve signed of, read the letter. What does it tell you about your emotions about money and how that might be afecting your decisionmaking—not just in terms of dealing with cash but also in terms of the jobs

you’ve chosen, the home you live in, and the future you dream of? How can you use this knowledge moving forward? “Writing the letter goes beyond the tactical and gets at any shame or hang-ups you might have,” says Heyman. “And once you begin to unearth the deeper feelings, you start to notice how they play out in your shopping, spending, and saving patterns.”

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Here’s a grounding exercise for the whole family, no matter what your financial situation.

TRY A SPENDING FAST What’s that? It’s a designated period (say, a month) during which you buy nothing but absolute necessities.

“Life is actually easier on a spending fast,” says Anna Newell Jones, the author of The Spender’s Guide to Debt-Free Living. “By making this one big decision, you save yourself from having to make a thousand small ones.” New throw pillows? Don’t need them.

Dinner and a movie?

Nope, we’ll stay in. You can use a monthlong fast to pay down a particular debt or simply to observe your impulses and see when and why cash disappears. When time is up, you might choose to adopt a “spending diet,” allowing yourself a fxed amount each month for discretionary spending.

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How to be a giver at work— without becoming a doormat Organizational psychologist Adam Grant, the author of the bestselling book Give and Take, ofers insights and parameters for being a good (but not too good) workplace comrade.

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Your expertise is valuable, and just a few minutes of your time can make a difference in someone else’s career.

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“I had my students cleaning our fourth-grade classroom at the end of a school day to prepare for parent-teacher conferences. One student found a stainless-steel water bottle tucked away and opened the top to rinse it out. As soon as she unscrewed the cap, there was an audible boom! and chunks of month-old, curdled chocolate milk few everywhere, even hitting the ceiling. The worst smell flled the room instantly. The odor wafted through the halls within seconds, then through the air vents, making the entire building stink. The smell stuck around for parent-teacher conferences and made my room a hazard zone. I had teachers thanking me later. Apparently the smell cut their conferences nice and short.”

When someone requests a favor, don’t assume that your only options are to answer yes or no. There’s a lot in between. Tailor your response so you can “align your favors with your specifc skills,” says Grant. This requires some advance work, but you have to do it only once.

“Come up with one or two ways of giving that you enjoy and excel at,” says Grant. Chatting on the phone? Sure. Responding to a written document? Maybe. When a colleague, a job seeker, or a friend of a friend asks for something that feels overwhelming, set boundaries on what you’re willing to give. For example, you might say, “I won’t have time for cofee and a brainstorm, but I’m happy to look at the proposal once it’s written.”

STICK WITH FIVEMINUTE FAVORS If you have a tendency to overdo, this policy could save you. “Many people think of giving as a really

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time-consuming efort, but you don’t have to spend hours and hours on every person you want to help,” says Grant. You can have a big impact “making micro loans of time, skills, and connections,” he says. When someone comes to you for help, ofer to answer a specifc question or make a strategic introduction. Implement a comfortable technique for putting a cap on a favor-based e-mail exchange. (Signing of with “Good luck!” might work for you.)

You are responsible for keeping your eye on that clock, though. No one is going to protect your time but you.

SAY NO SOMETIMES Grant encourages setting boundaries about whom you help—because if you’re a “giver,” you’re going to attract not only good folks who deserve your kindness but also selfsh “takers” who will abuse it. Says Grant: “Takers almost have a homing instinct. They immediately say, ‘Ah, there’s a giver—I must exploit her!’ ” If someone doesn’t seem genuine, trust your gut and beg of.

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Blair, a pediatrician, and Scott, an attorney, live in Larchmont, New York, with their three kids (clockwise from top): Spencer, 7; Callie, 9; and Charlie, 1.

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MEET THE HAMMONDS. A FAMILY OF FIVE WITH A FULL-TOBURSTING LIFE—AND FULLTO-BURSTING CLOSETS TO MATCH.

REAL SIMPLE STEPPED IN TO SHOW THEM—AND YOU—HOW TO BRING ORDER AND CALM FROM TOP (SHELF) TO BOTTOM.

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A too-high rod is just right for tiered hangers, which keep pants within reach.

Small canvas bags protect special shoes and hide offseason pairs.

A 27-INCHWIDE NOOK TRICKED OUT TO HOLD 27 PAIRS OF SHOES.

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Thinking out of the “box”—and into the adjacent alcove—turned Blair’s narrow closet into an open, airy dressing area. Real Simple flled out the nook with a seven-foot shelving unit to structure Blair’s footwear, placing a storage bench nearby to house overfow (and to ofer a place to sit while putting on shoes). The closet’s interior shelves were few and far between. We added three more shelves, cut to ft from a hardware store and installed with L-brackets, which make for shorter, neater stacks of folded items and no risk of avalanche. The doors are as hardworking—and as aesthetically pleasing—as the rest of the closet, so if and when they remain open, the view is still pretty.

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BEFORE Visual clutter is the last thing that busy parents need to see the moment they open their eyes. Overflow made closet doors hard to close. Folded items teetered in high stacks. Next to the closet, an alcove held untapped potential.

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BEFORE As found in linen closets since time began, a mix of sheets, towels, and miscellanea filled shelves, making it a chore to hunt down matched sets or put away clean laundry.

A big canvas tote is just right for a set of guest bedding: sheets, blankets, pillows.

When you have visitors, just pull it out and set them up.

LABELS ARE A VISUAL PROMPT TO KEEP STUFF SORTED.

TO BUY: BEACH HOUSE BINS, $20 EACH (FOR LARGE); STACKING WIRE BASKETS, FROM $15 EACH: CONTAINERSTORE.COM. BECKEL TOTE, $45; MINI HAMPER, $32: THELAUNDRESS.COM. STEELE CANVAS ROLLING BIN, $129, WESTELM.COM. CANVAS BIN WITH LEATHER HANDLES (SIMILAR TO SHOWN), $40, CRATEANDBARREL. COM. PARACHUTE BATH TOWELS IN BUFF, $29 EACH; AND HAND TOWELS IN BUFF, $19 EACH: PARACHUTEHOME.COM. CLASSIC CORE SHEET SET, $109 (QUEEN SIZE), BROOKLINEN.COM.

See-through bins help you keep track of inventory.

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STREAMLINED LINEN CLOSET Items reached for most often—towels and washcloths—warrant eye-level shelf space.

Sheets labeled for each bedroom are just above. Deep canvas bins on a middle shelf hold spare blankets. The almost-useless tippy-top shelf is perfect for extra pillows. Heavy, bulky stuf is a no-brainer for the bottom. Here, a wheeled hamper holds the family’s air mattresses and pumps, plus spare mattress pads, kept dust-free in protective canvas sacks.

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The lower rod hangs from the top by two ropes—no drilling required for installation.

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TWIN-SET KIDS’ CLOSET When you have two closets to work with, it’s good to have a plan. Each closet should serve its own specifc purpose.

Here, the closet on the left holds all of Callie’s clothes (pants, tops, dresses), plus a canvas laundry hamper. The right one is for extracurriculars (soccer jerseys, lacrosse uniforms) and accessories (shoes in a cubby cube, jewelry

on top). A round mirror lets her use the spot as a dress-up vanity. The acrylic tower to the right (actually a bookshelf) ofers structure for folded piles without the bulk of wooden shelving. Sleepover gear, awards, and hand-me-downs can be stowed up top in woven white bins—out of sight but easy to retrieve (by Callie, on step stool) when needed.

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A closet wall is bonus storage: Why not mount shadow boxes for treasures that might otherwise clutter up a dresser?

BEFORE This spacious setup wasn’t being used to its full potential and was begging for some rules. (What goes where?)

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CRAFTY CATCHALL CLOSET A “miscellaneous” closet—housing art supplies plus gift wrap plus outgrown clothing, for example—is notoriously tough to tame. The key is to equip it with drawers and shelving dedicated to each of its (random) purposes. We outftted this one in the Hammonds’ homework area with a wheeled cart to corral wrapping paper, ribbon, and tape. A stool with a slot on top dispenses tissue paper (bottom left). Shelves in back hold school and craft supplies (reachable from a foldable step stool at the side). And a sheepskin rug sends a message to all to keep the foor clear of clutter.

BEFORE This is the closet that helps keep the rest of the house neat. Land of outgrown toys, wrapping paper, and mystery boxes, it was begging to be revived.

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Add a memo board and a closet feels more like a workroom.

An “outbox” helps move giveaways out of the house more quickly.

Gift bags (normally an enemy of order) are obedient and accessible in wall-mounted file holders.

A mounted basket keeps vitamins, honey, and other A . M . essentials from getting lost in the mix.

FLAT ITEMS , LIKE PLACE MATS, CAN BE BINDERCLIPPED AND HUNG FROM HOOKS.

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KID-FRIENDLY PANTRY BEFORE The tall kitchen cabinet is a smart mix of snacks, books, and games for “brain play.” But the disparate items presented an organizing challenge.

A helpyourself setup makes for happy campers.

This storage zone allows the bigger kids to reach learning toys, books, craft supplies, and healthy snacks. It’s also the go-to cabinet for breakfast and lunch supplies.

We decanted cereal into labeled bins that make it clear which are running low. Tea packets stay neat in a six-part container of small pullout drawers. To speed lunchpacking, snacks are stashed in wire baskets (one for sweet, one for savory) front and center. The low shelves hold activities that the kids can enjoy while Blair and Scott are cooking: markers and paper in colored bins, books propped up with dividers, and toys slotted in between.

TO BUY: OXO GOOD GRIPS POP 3-PIECE CEREAL DISPENSER SET, $50; POP SMALL CEREAL DISPENSER, $18; AND REMOVABLE LABELS, $5 FOR 32: OXO.COM. MODULAR FLIP-OUT BINS, $14; SINGLE WIRE SPICE RACK, $4; SCALA STACKING BASKETS, $20 EACH; AND SOLID SHELF DIVIDERS, $7 FOR TWO (FOR SMALL): CONTAINERSTORE.COM. TOP BOXES, FROM $9 EACH, LANDOFNOD.COM. ACRYLIC 3-PIECE APOTHECARY JARS, $54, STAPLES.COM.

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Fashion Editor

Victoria Sanchez-Lincoln Photographs by

Joyce Lee Prop and Soft Styling by

Kiersten Stevens

YOUR ROAD MAP TO LOW-COST SUMMER STYLE, INSPIRED

BY THE COASTS AND PLACES IN BETWEEN.

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by Sam Edelman, $45, circusbysamedelman.com.

5. shoes, AMI Clubwear, $20, amiclubwear.com.

THIS PAGE 6. shorts, The Limited, $50, thelimited.com.

7. crop top, Ella Moss, $98, ellamoss.com. 8. saddle bag, DV, $25, target.com (for similar styles). 9. nail polish, Essie Nama-Stay the Night, $9, essie.com. 10. bracelet, Vince Camuto, $78, vincecamuto.com. 11. lipstick (also on model), Glossier Generation G in Jam, $18, glossier.com.

12. brow gel, Chosungah 22 Dong Gong Minn in Light Blonde, $22, sephora.com. 13. shoes, Shoedazzle, $43, shoedazzle.com. 14. eye-shadow stick, Tarte The Eye Architect Double-Ended Liner + Shadow in brown/champagne, $24, ulta.com. 15. sunglasses, Quay, $55, quay australia.com. 16. tinted moisturizer, Physicians Formula Organic Wear 100% Natural Origin Work It! Marathonista SPF 40, $15, physiciansformula.com. 17. face mist, Ole Henriksen Grease Relief Facial Water, $22, sephora.com.

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98. dress, Mossimo, $30, target.com. 99. bronzer, Pop Beauty Pow Wow Powder in Beachin’ Bronze, $24, popbeauty.com. 100. sandals, Indigo Rd., $59, belk.com.

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YASMIN LEUTWYLER, AGE 20, WITH HER FATHER, PHOTOGRAPHER HENRY LEUTWYLER; 2016.

REFLECTIONS ON THAT COZY, COMPLICATED, HEARTWARMING, WONDROUS, ONE OF A KIND RELATIONSHIP IN PICTURES AND WORDS.

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Dani Shapiro

E AC H SAT U R DAY M O R N I N G of my childhood, I walked to our New Jersey synagogue with my father.

He wore a dark suit, and I dressed in my Sabbath finery, and together we made our way up Revere Drive, across Nottingham Way, and down Westminster Avenue to Temple Shomrei Torah. The walk took no more than 15 minutes. Now I do the calculation: 15 minutes there, 15 minutes back—a half hour, once a week, multiplied by months, years. We walked for hundreds of hours, my father and I. Picture us: a tall, balding man, his head covered by a yarmulke; a small, blond girl who felt safe and beloved in his shadow. Although he was a religious Jew and would have preferred to attend services where men and women sat in separate parts of the synagogue, I curled up on the bench next to him, bored by the prayers but enlivened and fascinated by his relationship to them. He stood, shufed, swayed, wrapped in his tallith, a ceremonial shawl—the same one I recently draped around the still-narrow shoulders of my own 13-year-old at his Bar Mitzvah. Sunrise, sunset.

By the time I was a teenager, I declined to join my father on our walks, preferring to sulk in

my room. Would I have stopped if I could have known what would soon happen? He died in a car accident when I was 23. Sometimes now, when I want to feel him close to me, I find a synagogue.

If I sit quietly and listen, I can hear his voice, singing loud and of-key, rising above the rest.

I can see his hands as he turns the pages of his worn prayer book. Most of all, I feel his love surrounding me in the echo of those long-ago hours when I was a girl safe in her father’s embrace.

Dani Shapiro’s latest book is Still Writing: The Perils and Pleasures of a Creative Life.

O P E N I N G PA G E : P H O T O G R A P H BY H E N R Y A N D YA S M I N L E U T W Y L E R ; T H I S PA G E : P H O T O G R A P H BY I S A B E L L E , AVA , A N D C H R I S T O P H E R C H U R C H I L L ; O P P O S I T E : P H O T O G R A P H BY KO S T I S P S Y C H A S

WALKING TO TEMPLE

PHOTOGRAPHER CHRISTOPHER CHURCHILL WITH HIS DAUGHTERS, ISABELLE, 9, AND AVA, 5; 2016.

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Francine Prose

ON W E E K E N D S A N D VAC AT ION S ,

my father loved to take our family to art museums. But because he was a dedicated physician—a doctor, a research scientist, and later a hospital administrator—his approach to art was, let’s say, somewhat unusual. He was especially drawn to Old Master paintings in which the subjects suffered from some illness or malformation, or to works done by artists with widely known medical problems. Standing in front of a canvas by El Greco, we would learn about the effects of severe astigmatism; van Gogh’s sunflowers would prompt a brief lecture on the mental illness of the Dutch genius; and we knew more than was probably appropriate for children to know about the diseases that Gauguin suffered in the South Seas. The Gothic and Renaissance galleries were my father’s idea of heaven—all those saints healing the blind, the lepers, the halt and the lame; all those gruesome visions of the symptoms of bubonic plague and Saint Anthony’s fire. I don’t know why I wasn’t horrified or even upset. In fact, I loved it. Perhaps that was because, even as a small child, I intuited the compassion, the understanding, and the proud knowledge that my father was bringing to these representations of the body’s betrayal. He felt deeply for the wounded and the sick, the men and women who had lived and died centuries before our own. Like the Renaissance saints, I knew, he would have cured them if he could.

Francine Prose’s new novel, Mister Monkey, will be published in October.

PHOTOGRAPHER BILL ABRANOWICZ AND DAUGHTER MAX, AGE 16 IN THIS PHOTO; 2013.

OFFICE HOUR BY

Jenny Offill

W H E N I WA S I N N I N T H G R A D E , I transferred to a private school where my father taught. It felt like a terrible idea, but it meant free tuition.

I tried to blend in to the sea of beautiful, preppy people and walked right by my sweet dad in the hallway, hoping he wouldn’t notice I was disavowing him. At first, I slipped under the mean girls’ radar, but then came the Sadie Hawkins dance. I asked a popular senior, and amazingly he said yes. Then he called back and said no. Cue laughter and “Who does she think she is?” whispers. I fled to my dad’s office, where he shared his lunch with me and assured me that one day I wouldn’t even remember these girls’ names. And he was right. I don’t. What I do remember is spinning around in his chair, eating a cookie, and feeling like maybe, just maybe, it wasn’t the end of the world.

Jenny Offill is the author of the novel Department of Speculation.

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Angela Flournoy

MY FATHER DROV E a hatchback Nissan Z, a two-seater, for nearly a decade. From the beginning, there were too many of us—him, my sister, and me—then there was one more, my half-brother.

Our weekends were too booked with extracurricular activities to accommodate the typical divorceddad visits, so he picked all of us up on Wednesdays. I remember folding my limbs just so in the hatch of the car, the sun warm on my face.

We’d pull up to whatever chain restaurant one of us craved that week and have the closest we could get to a culinary experience in that suburb at that time. I’d usually sit next

Angela Flournoy is the author of the novel The Turner House, which was a finalist for the National Book Award.

OLIVE BUCK, AGE 3 IN THIS PHOTO, AND HER DAD, PHOTOGRAPHER CHRIS BUCK; 2013.

CASE CLOSED BY

Kate Bolick

I D I D N ’ T D I S C OV E R my father’s gift for giving counsel until my early 20s, when my mother died.

My long-term boyfriend and I were falling apart; I remained desperately in love but was equally desperate to experience the world on my own. My father, sensing an internal storm, asked if I’d like to stretch my legs, and for the next two hours, we walked the dirt paths of the local state park, where I spilled all my doubts and confusion.

Like my mother, he listened very closely and without judgment. But he had something she didn’t: a lawyerly ability to see every side of the story. (He is, after all, an attorney.) It was as if I’d dropped a box of buttons on the ground, and rather than simply scoop them back into the box, together we sorted them into piles, like to like, so that in the end I had a much clearer sense of how I felt and what I should do. That boyfriend and I broke up, of course, and over the 20 years since, my father has remained my go-to, the first person I call when I can’t puzzle out a problem on my own. The instant he answers the phone, I feel better. By the time we hang up, he’s calmed me so thoroughly that I’m able to see my predicament anew and start to find my way to a solution.

Kate Bolick is the author of the New York Times best seller Spinster: Making a Life of One’s Own, just out in paperback.

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WEDNESDAYS

to my dad, very close, and try to get some of his smell to work into my sweater. Leather, motor oil, and cocoa butter. We’d spread our homework out on the table and stay in the restaurant until it was time for our movie to start. Name a G-rated, PG-13, or even a less racy R-rated movie released between 1995 and 2003 and odds are I saw it with my father.

These were my first dates. Never delayed, rarely canceled. My father showed up for them no matter what else might not be going great in his life. He valued our decisions and never questioned our taste, even if it meant seeing the same coming-of-age movie two Wednesdays in a row.

Most of all, he made us feel worthy of his time and attention during those delicate years when who pays attention to you and how matters so much.

Now, when my calendar is crammed and it seems impossible to spend time with the people I love, I remember these Wednesdays. I can always make time for dinner and a movie.

PHOTOGRAPHER PAUL WESTLAKE AND DAUGHTERS (FROM LEFT) LOULOU, 13, AND STELLA, 15; 2016.

GRILLED

SANDWICHES Melt-in-your-mouth layers, special sauce…

When you want a break from the burger or chickenbreast routine, nothing else stacks up.

FOR THE WIN Written by Heath Goldman

Recipes by Robby Melvin

Food Styling by Maggie Ruggiero

Photographs by Ryan Pfluger

Prop Styling by Angharad Bailey

TRY THIS WITH

ONION RINGS + SPARKLING WATER

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TRY THIS WITH

FRESH PEACHES + LEMONADE

Summer vegetable panini with lemon aïoli and mozzarella Grilled chicken and prosciutto on ciabatta with pesto and fontina

Torta with grilled chorizo, avocado, and cilantro cream

TRY THIS WITH

SLICED MANGO + ICED TEA

TRY THIS WITH

CHOPPED PAPAYA + MEXICAN SODA

Grilled grouper banh mi with carrot-scallion slaw and spicy mayo

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HOW TO MAKE A GREAT GRILLED SANDWICH TRY THIS WITH

POTATO CHIPS + FRUIT PUNCH

The secret ingredient It’s sauce—and it’s so much better than basic mayo or mustard. Use these recipes on the sandwiches in this story or in the other ways suggested below. (Better make a double batch.)

Store for up to 3 days in the refrigerator.

LEMON AÏOLI Stir together 1 cup mayonnaise, 2 Tbsp. Dijon mustard, and ¼ cup fresh lemon juice.

OTHER USES: Serve with smoked salmon, spread on avocado toast, or mix into deviled-egg filling.

CILANTRO CREAM Stir together 1 cup plain yogurt, ½ cup firmly packed chopped fresh cilantro leaves, 1 tsp. kosher salt, and 3 Tbsp. fresh lime juice.

OTHER USES: Drizzle over nachos, dollop onto flaky white fish, or spread on a veggie burger.

THE BEST WAY TO STORE FRESH BREAD Fresh-baked breads and sandwich rolls have a short shelf life (1 to 2 days). They stay freshest when stored at room temperature.

Refrigerators cause bread to get stale faster.

If you buy rolls in plastic, keep them away from heat (that includes sunny windows or the oven).

Plastic and heat combined can cause molding.

Steak sandwich with romesco, grilled onions, and Havarti

S TA C K I N G GUIDELINES • Bread-to-filling ratio should be about 1 to 2.

Scoop out the doughy interior from too-thick buns and breads.

SPICY MAYO Stir together 1 cup mayonnaise, ¼ cup Asian chili garlic sauce, and ¼ cup dill pickle relish.

OTHER USES: Spread on a BLT, serve with French fries, or use as a dressing on an iceberg wedge.

ROMESCO SAUCE Process 1 (12-oz.) jar roasted red peppers, drained; 1 chopped garlic clove; 2 Tbsp. roasted almonds; 1 tsp. kosher salt; ¼ tsp. black pepper; and 4 tsp. red wine vinegar in a food processor until almost smooth.

OTHER USES: Fold into an omelet, top a grilled steak, or swirl into spaghetti.

• Balance textures (crunchy, juicy, creamy) and flavors (fatty, fresh, acidic).

What to do if you don’t have a grill Get the same results with these three smallspace tools.

• Room-temperature cheese tastes richer; remove cheese from the refrigerator 30 minutes in advance.

GRILL PAN: An indoor grill pan (single or double burner) works well for all these recipes.

Bonus: no ingredients lost between the grates.

HEAVY SKILLET: Cast iron will best mimic the flavors of a grill, but any skillet will work.

SANDWICH IRON: This heavy, cast-iron weight presses in the heat to create oozy, gooey layers.

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How to wrap sandwiches delistyle (bye-bye, plastic bags) STEP 1: Place the sandwich in the upperleft quadrant of a large square of parchment or wax paper.

STEP 2: Fold the upperleft corner over the top of the sandwich.

STEP 3: Fold all 3 sides in over the top of the sandwich; crease the edges.

STEP 4: Roll the sandwich down the length of the paper.

STEP 5: Secure the end with a piece of tape.

RECIPES RAW, THINLY SLICED VEGETABLES GIVE THIS GRILLED SANDWICH A FRESH FLAVOR.

GRILLED CHICKEN AND PROSCIUTTO ON CIABATTA WITH PESTO AND FONTINA

ACTIVE TIME 25 MINUTES TOTAL TIME 25 MINUTES SERVES 4

ACTIVE TIME 20 MINUTES TOTAL TIME 20 MINUTES SERVES 4

2 Tbsp. olive oil, plus more for the grill 4 (5-oz.) chicken breast cutlets ¼ tsp. kosher salt ¼ tsp. black pepper 8 (½-oz.) fontina cheese slices ½ cup jarred refrigerated pesto

SUMMER VEGETABLE PANINI WITH LEMON AÏOLI AND MOZZARELLA ACTIVE TIME 25 MINUTES TOTAL TIME 25 MINUTES SERVES 4

2½ Tbsp. olive oil, divided, plus more for the grill

3 Tbsp. water

1 large zucchini, thinly sliced

8 (1-in.-thick) ciabatta bread slices

1 large yellow squash, thinly sliced

8 oz. thinly sliced prosciutto or deli ham

TORTA WITH GRILLED CHORIZO, AVOCADO, AND CILANTRO CREAM

1½ tsp. kosher salt, divided ½ tsp. black pepper, divided

1 Tbsp. olive oil, plus more for the grill 1 lb. fresh chorizo or spicy Italian sausage (4 links) 1 tsp. kosher salt ¼ tsp. black pepper Cilantro Cream (page 165) 4 hoagie rolls, split 1 oz. crumbled Cotija or Feta cheese (¼ cup) 1 large avocado, thinly sliced 1 cup shredded red cabbage ½ cup thinly sliced radishes

1 large tomato, thinly sliced grill to medium-high.

Brush the grill grates with oil. Brush the chicken with the oil and sprinkle with the salt and pepper.

PREHEAT

GRILL the chicken, uncovered, for 3 minutes. Turn and top with 2 fontina slices each.

Grill, covered, until the cheese is melted and the chicken is cooked through, about 3 minutes.

STIR the pesto and water.

Place 1 cutlet each on 4 of the bread slices. Divide the prosciutto and drizzle the pesto mixture among the slices. Top with the remaining bread slices and serve.

CUTLETS (NOT WHOLE BREASTS) MAKE LAYERING AND EATING EASIER.

Lemon Aïoli (page 165) 1 focaccia bread loaf, halved lengthwise 3 (1-oz.) low-moisture mozzarella cheese slices PREHEAT grill to low. Brush the grill grates with oil. Toss the zucchini and squash with 1 teaspoon of the salt, ¼ teaspoon of the pepper, and 2 tablespoons of the oil in a colander.

Press to drain any moisture.

Sprinkle the tomato with the remaining salt, pepper, and oil.

SPREAD 4 tablespoons Lemon Aïoli on the cut sides of the bread halves. Place the mozzarella in a single layer on the bottom half. Layer the zucchini, squash, and tomato over the cheese. Cover with the top half of the bread and lightly press.

the sandwich, covered, until the cheese is melted, the flling is warm, and the bread is toasted, about 10 minutes, turning halfway through.

Cut into quarters and serve.

GRILL

grill to medium.

Brush the grill grates with oil.

Brush the chorizo with the oil and sprinkle with the salt and pepper.

PREHEAT

GRILL the chorizo, uncovered, until thoroughly cooked, about 10 minutes, turning occasionally. Remove from grill and cut in half lengthwise.

SPREAD 1½ tablespoons Cilantro Cream on the cut sides of each roll. Place 2 chorizo pieces on the bottom half of each roll. Top each with 1 tablespoon of cheese, 3 avocado slices, ¼ cup cabbage, and 4 or 5 radish slices. Cover with the top halves of the rolls and serve.

GRILLED GROUPER BANH MI WITH CARROT-SCALLION SLAW AND SPICY MAYO ACTIVE TIME 20 MINUTES TOTAL TIME 20 MINUTES SERVES 4

¼ cup olive oil, plus more for the grill 3 medium carrots, peeled and shredded 2 scallions, chopped 3 Tbsp. fresh lime juice 4 (5- to 6-oz.) grouper fllets, about ½ in. thick ¾ tsp. kosher salt ½ tsp. black pepper 1 large baguette, cut into 4 pieces and split, soft interior removed Spicy Mayo (page 165) 1 cup cucumber, cut into matchsticks ½ cup loosely packed fresh mint leaves PREHEAT grill to medium. Brush the grill grates with oil. Toss the carrots, scallions, and lime juice in a small bowl. Set aside.

BRUSH the fsh with the oil and sprinkle with the salt and pepper. Grill the fsh, covered, until it no longer sticks to the grate, about 4 minutes. Carefully fip, using a metal spatula, and grill, uncovered, until the fsh fakes easily, about 2 minutes.

Remove from grill.

GRILL the bread until toasted, about 1 minute per side.

GRATE CLEANING TIPS

A clean grill means you get smoky, not greasy, flavor. Go to realsimple. com/grillcleaning for a how-to guide.

SPREAD 1 tablespoon Spicy Mayo on the cut side of each bread slice. Divide the fsh, carrot mixture, cucumber, and mint among 4 of the bread slices. Top with the remaining bread slices and serve.

STEAK SANDWICH WITH ROMESCO, GRILLED ONIONS, AND HAVARTI ACTIVE TIME 25 MINUTES TOTAL TIME 25 MINUTES SERVES 4

3 Tbsp. olive oil, divided, plus more for the grill 1 red onion, cut into 4 (½-in.-thick) slices 2 tsp. kosher salt, divided 1 tsp. black pepper, divided 1¼ to 1½ lbs. skirt steak, cut crosswise into 4 (6-in.) pieces 8 slices thickly cut bread (such as sourdough) 2 oz. (¼ cup) unsalted butter, melted 8 (1-oz.) Havarti cheese slices Romesco Sauce (page 165) PREHEAT grill to medium-high.

Brush the grill grates with oil.

Brush the onion with 1 tablespoon of the oil and sprinkle with ½ teaspoon of the salt and ¼ teaspoon of the pepper.

Brush the steak with the remaining oil and season with the remaining salt and pepper.

GRILL the onion, covered, until tender and charred, 6 to 8 minutes per side. Grill the steak, 3 to 5 minutes per side for medium-rare. Remove the onion and steak from grill. Let the steak stand for 5 minutes, then slice across the grain.

BRUSH one side of each bread slice with the butter. Top 4 of the bread slices with 1 cheese slice each. Grill all of the bread, covered, until the bread is toasted and the cheese is melted, 1 to 2 minutes. Divide the steak among the 4 pieces of plain toast; add 1 slice of onion and 1 tablespoon Romesco Sauce to each. Top with the remaining toast, cheese-side down, and serve.

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Ditalini is often used in soups (like Summer Vegetable Minestrone, page 178) because the short tubes cook quickly.

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The color of an eggshell—even this pretty sky blue, which comes from the Araucana breed of chicken—has no signifcant impact on the egg’s taste or nutrition.

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1 cup jasmine rice 3 Tbsp. canola oil 2 Tbsp. toasted sesame oil 2 lb. Japanese eggplant, cut into 1-in. cubes 1 lb. chicken breast tenders, cut into 1-in. pieces FO OD

1 Tbsp. chopped garlic 1 Tbsp. chopped fresh ginger ½ tsp. crushed red pepper 1 bunch scallions, sliced, white and green parts separated ⅓ cup teriyaki sauce COOK the rice according to the package directions.

MEANWHILE, heat a large wok or stainlesssteel skillet over high. Add the canola oil, sesame oil, eggplant, and chicken to the wok and cook, stirring often, until evenly cooked and lightly browned, about 5 minutes. Add the garlic, ginger, red pepper, and scallion whites and cook, stirring often, until the scallions are tender, about 3 minutes. Add the teriyaki sauce and cook, scraping the bottom to loosen any browned bits and stirring often, until the vegetables are thoroughly cooked, about 1 minute. Stir in the scallion greens.

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Dijon burgers with sautéed potatoes and green beans ACTIVE TIME 10 MINUTES

TOTAL TIME 20 MINUTES

SERVES 4

1 large shallot 1 lb. ground sirloin ½ tsp. kosher salt, divided ½ tsp. black pepper, divided 3 Tbsp. Dijon mustard, divided FO OD

3 Tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil, divided 1 lb. small yellow potatoes, sliced ½ lb. thin green beans 4 large potato rolls 2 cups fresh herbs (such as parsley, dill, or a mix) 2 tsp. lemon juice SLICE the shallot in half. Finely chop one half; thinly slice the other. Set aside.

COMBINE the ground sirloin, ¼ teaspoon each salt and pepper, the chopped shallots, and 1 tablespoon of the mustard in a bowl. Form into 4 patties and set aside.

HEAT 2 tablespoons of the oil in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high. Add the potatoes in a single layer and cook undisturbed, 4 to 5 minutes. Add the green beans and the remaining salt and pepper. Cook for another 10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the potatoes are soft and the green beans are crisp-tender.

MEANWHILE, heat another skillet over medium-high. Add the burgers and cook for 4 to 5 minutes per side for mediumrare. Divide the remaining mustard evenly among the rolls. Toss the herbs and sliced shallots with the remaining oil and the lemon juice. Serve on top of the burgers with the vegetables on the side.

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Italian baked eggs ACTIVE TIME 15 MINUTES

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1 baguette, halved and sliced lengthwise 1½ Tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil 4 oz. low-moisture mozzarella, sliced into 8 pieces 12 oz. hot Italian turkey sausage, casings removed 1½ cups chopped yellow onion 3 garlic cloves, chopped FO OD

1 (28-oz.) can crushed tomatoes 1½ tsp. fresh oregano, plus more for serving ¾ tsp. kosher salt 4 large eggs ¼ tsp. black pepper PREHEAT the oven to 400°F. Place the baguette slices on a baking sheet; brush with the oil and top each with 2 pieces of the mozzarella. Bake until the cheese is bubbly and light golden brown, about 12 minutes.

MEANWHILE, heat a large ovenproof nonstick skillet over medium-high. Add the sausage and cook, stirring and breaking it apart with a wooden spoon, until almost cooked through, 5 minutes. Add the onion and garlic and cook, stirring, until the onion is translucent, about 3 minutes. Stir in the tomatoes, oregano, and salt. Bring to a simmer and cook, stirring occasionally, until slightly thickened, about 3 minutes.

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oven temperature to 375°F.

the eggs into the sauce, leaving space between them. Sprinkle with the pepper. Transfer to oven and bake until the whites are set and the yolks are still soft, 7 to 9 minutes. Top with oregano.

Serve in bowls with the mozzarella toast.

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TOTAL TIME 30 MINUTES

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¾ cup bulgur ½ cup loosely packed cilantro leaves, coarsely chopped 2 Tbsp. red wine vinegar 12 radishes, quartered 1 jalapeño, seeded and chopped

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5 Tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil, divided 1 tsp. kosher salt, divided ½ tsp. black pepper, divided 2 tsp. ground cumin 4 6-oz. boneless, skinless cod fillets 1 avocado, chopped COOK the bulgur according to the package directions. Toss the cilantro, vinegar, radishes, jalapeño, 4 tablespoons of the oil, ½ teaspoon of the salt, and ¼ teaspoon of the pepper in a medium bowl.

Add the cooked bulgur and toss again.

SPRINKLE the cumin and the remaining salt and pepper over the fsh. Heat the remaining oil in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high. Cook the fsh until lightly browned and cooked through, 4 to 5 minutes per side.

SPOON about 1 cup of the bulgur pilaf onto each plate. Top with 1 cod fllet and the avocado. Serve immediately.

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Summer vegetable minestrone ACTIVE TIME 10 MINUTES

TOTAL TIME 25 MINUTES

SERVES 4

1 cup ditalini pasta (about 5 oz.)

1 Tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil 2 leeks, white and light green parts only, chopped 3 cups chopped yellow squash (about 2 medium) 6 cups vegetable stock FO OD

2 cups frozen baby lima beans, thawed ¾ tsp. kosher salt 1 lb. asparagus, trimmed and cut into 1-in. pieces 1 cup halved cherry tomatoes 1 oz. Parmesan cheese, shaved (about ¼ cup) 1 tsp. black pepper COOK the pasta until al dente, according to the package directions.

MEANWHILE, heat the oil in a large Dutch oven over medium-high. Add the leeks and cook, stirring often, until slightly softened, about 3 minutes.

Add the squash and cook, stirring often, until softened, about 3 minutes. Add the vegetable stock, lima beans, and salt; bring to a boil. Reduce heat to medium-low; cover and simmer until the beans are tender, about 10 minutes.

STIR in the asparagus, tomatoes, and cooked pasta; cover and simmer until heated through, about 2 minutes. Serve topped with the Parmesan and pepper.

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How to slice a big sandwich Cutting a multilayered Dagwood hoagie (like the ones on pages 166 and 167) in half certainly makes it easier to eat. Well, unless you squeeze out the meat, cheese, and condiments in the process. Here’s a trick: Use a serrated knife to halve the top piece of bread before you build the sandwich. Once you’re finished assembling, guide the knife down through the rest of the sandwich using long sawing strokes. Less pressure on the top means more fixings stay put.

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The ripply texture of lettuce helps anchor slippery ingredients, like tomatoes and avocado. Layer the lettuce throughout for extra stability.

These slim French green beans (pronounced ah-ree-koh vehr) are sometimes sold in packages, trimmed at the stem end. The other end is tapered, tender, and edible. They have a slightly sweeter and brighter flavor than regular green beans.

Look for bunches that are fresh and perky, with no browning or graying. Use them in place of green beans in any recipe (like the Dijon Burger on page 172). But watch your stove: They cook in about half the time.

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2. SCOOP OUT SEEDS Scrape and remove seeds from halved cucumbers (key for tzatziki), bell peppers, and squash.

3. CLEAN A PORTOBELLO Run the spoon along the underside of the mushroom to remove the black gills, which turn the other foods that they touch an unappetizing dark color.

W H Y N OT T RY… ?

See red—or green

Look for firm, medium-size stalks. (Extra-fat ones can be stringy.) If you find green stalks, don’t be put off. This variety never develops a red color, but it tastes the same. Remove any brown or soft spots with a vegetable peeler, then wash the stalks well and trim the ends before using.

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RHUBARB This feeting spring vegetable—yes, vegetable—needs sugar to soften its tangy favor (hence, pies, preserves, and pairing it with strawberries).

But that doesn’t mean it’s strictly for dessert.

Limiting the sugar to a tablespoon or two makes rhubarb just right for topping a savory tart or a salad.

Move fast: Rhubarb’s season is short and sweet (or not).

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Make it last

Wrap unwashed stems in a plastic bag and keep in the refrigerator for up to a week.

Or freeze chopped stalks on a sheet tray, then transfer to a heavy-duty plastic bag; freeze for up to 6 months.

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Rhubarb-mango relish

Place 1 sheet PUFF PASTRY on a baking sheet; prick with a fork. Bake at 400°F for 15 minutes; cool. Combine ¾ cup each of sliced RHUBARB and FENNEL, 2 Tbsp.

GRANULATED SUGAR, and ¼ tsp. each of KOSHER SALT and BLACK PEPPER. Spread 4 oz. softened WHIPPED CREAM CHEESE on the pastry; top with the rhubarb.

Bake until the pastry is golden brown, 12 to 15 minutes. Sprinkle with 2 tsp. fresh

Bring ¼ cup GRANULATED SUGAR and 1 cup WATER to a boil over medium; add 1½ cups diced RHUBARB and 1 cup sliced STRAWBERRIES. Reduce heat and simmer, stirring, until the fruit is tender, about 3 minutes. Strain; discard solids.

Chill syrup 1 hour. Combine with 1 sliced PEACH and 1 cup sliced STRAWBERRIES in a 3-qt. pitcher. Top with 1 bottle chilled SPARKLING ROSÉ WINE. Garnish with

Combine ¾ cup diced RHUBARB, ¼ cup thinly sliced SHALLOTS, 3 Tbsp. fresh LIME JUICE, 1½ Tbsp. GRANULATED SUGAR, 1 Tbsp. grated fresh GINGER, 1 Tbsp. OLIVE OIL, and ¼ tsp. KOSHER SALT in a small bowl; let stand until the shallots soften, about 10 minutes.

Stir in ¾ cup chopped MANGO and 3 Tbsp. chopped fresh CILANTRO. Serve with pork or chicken. SERVES 4

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4 Buttery rhubarb muffins Cook ½ cup BUTTER over medium-low until browned, 4 minutes; cool. Combine 2 cups ALL-PURPOSE FLOUR, 1 cup GRANULATED SUGAR, 2½ tsp. BAKING POWDER, and ½ tsp. each BAKING SODA and KOSHER SALT. Separately, mix 1 cup SOUR CREAM, 2 LARGE EGGS, the butter, and 1 tsp. each of CINNAMON and VANILLA EXTRACT. Stir into four mixture with 2 cups diced RHUBARB. Fill 12 lined mufin cups. Bake at 400°F, 18 to 22 minutes. MAKES 12

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Roasted rhubarb salad with goat cheese and pistachios Toss 1½ cups sliced RHUBARB with 1 tsp.

OLIVE OIL on a baking sheet. Bake at 450°F until tender, 5 minutes. Transfer to a bowl and toss with 1 Tbsp. GRANULATED SUGAR; cool. Whisk together 2 Tbsp. WHITE WINE VINEGAR, 2 tsp. each of LEMON JUICE and DIJON MUSTARD, and ¼ cup olive oil. Toss with 1 head BABY LETTUCE. Top with GOAT CHEESE, ROASTED PISTACHIOS, and the rhubarb. SERVES 4

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Raspberry-rhubarb compote Combine 1 pint fresh RASPBERRIES, ½ cup diced RHUBARB, ¼ cup HONEY, 1 split VANILLA BEAN, 1 Tbsp. fresh LIME JUICE, and 1⁄8 tsp. KOSHER SALT in a saucepan; bring to a boil, stirring constantly.

Reduce heat and cook until the raspberries burst and the rhubarb is tender, 5 minutes. Discard the vanilla bean. Mash with a potato masher until no chunks remain; chill. Serve over vanilla ice cream with chopped almonds. SERVES 4

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G.H. Cretors Chicago Mix A mash-up of traditional gift-tin popcorns: caramel and aged Cheddar.

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Angie’s Boomchickapop Sea Salt Popcorn Others were bland or burnt, but this one tasted fresh-popped, even days after the bag was opened.

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Yep, it’s a smoothie that you eat with a spoon. Thick enough for toppings! And it’s a heck of a way to brighten up a gray, rainy morning.

¾ cup frozen raspberries ½ cup almond milk 2 tsp. honey ¼ tsp. pure vanilla extract Pinch ground cinnamon Topping 1 kiwi or banana, sliced

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POUR the smoothie into a bowl.

TOP with the kiwi or banana, almonds, faxseed, and cereal.

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W H E N T H I S M O M O F T W O L O S T H E R R E TA I L J O B I N 2 0 0 9, S H E S U D D E N LY H A D P L E N T Y O F T I M E T O D E V O T E T O H E R L O V E O F

JULIE PAULY, 51

B A K I N G , W H I C H E V E N T UA L LY L E D T O A P R E T T Y S W E E T G I G .

• Owner of The Able Baker • Married to Thomas Pauly, with a daughter, Ella, 17, and a son, Declan, 13 • Maplewood, New Jersey

RESPECT THE PROCESS

“I like the rulefollowing of baking. Comply with the recipe and something wonderful will result. Cooking often involves too much improvisation for me.”

7:10 A.M. “I have a 5 A.M. baking crew, so I can come in later and chat up my regulars, like Alfred Milanese. Someone once told me the bakery is like Cheers, but with butter instead of alcohol.”

9:40 A.M. “We’re baking every day until about 4 P.M. We serve classic American cupcakes, cakes, cookies, and brownies. But our biggest sellers are scones and gluten-free banana bread.”

HOW JULIE PULLED OFF A MIDLIFE CAREER CHANGE No.1

“I got used to saying, ‘OK, I know not to do that again.’

When I started out, every day was a mistake waiting to happen. I made sure to learn from them.”

No.2

“I asked everyone for advice.

Soon I was connected to neighbors and friends of friends to help me figure out all the details.”

KITCHEN AID

12:00 P.M. “My husband, Thomas, helps manage the bakery.

For lunch, we’ll go down the block to Arturo’s. We work together, but it’s amazing how little time we have to talk. It’s a treat.”

1:15 P.M. “I enjoy the hands-on nature of what I do. And it’s

2:05 P.M. “From the front, you can see right into the kitchen.

5:20 P.M. “Though I work every Saturday, I have flexibility that

very casual. If I need to hold a meeting, it’s a conversation over coffee, leaning against the counter.”

No. 3

“I didn’t start with a business plan. That would have been too intimidating. Instead, I took baby steps and grew slowly.”

There’s usually a bunch of us cramped at one table, each doing her thing—rolling crust, decorating cookies, packing boxes.”

I didn’t have with other jobs. I can step out for errands, plus either Thomas or I can be home with the kids after school.”

Photographs by Emily Kinni

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