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“If it is to be it is up to me.” William Johnsen
A resilient mindset means that you are willing and able to develop Grateful Connections, Self-Control, Empathy and Self-Belief. Throughout this planner there are questions and lessons on each of these, and by thinking about and writing down your thoughts you will be moving towards developing a resilient mindset. For each of these, colour in on the following diagrams where you feel you are at right now.
Your own, thoughts, words and actions contribute to about 40% to your state of wellbeing, so it makes good sense to look on the bright side of life, smile and be kind to others because they matter.
Grateful Connections: being grateful for your relationships with others and yourself and what you have.
Self-Control: controlling your emotions and impulses to think flexibly about what you are doing.
Empathy: being kind by showing that you care for other people’s needs and feelings and your own.
Self-Belief: valuing yourself as a person and believing you have what it takes to become who you want to become.
“Forget all the reasons why it won’t work and believe the one reason why it will.” Abdelnour
Which step have you reached today?
I WON’T DO IT
The Big Five are what you need to do and be aware of to stay physically and mentally healthy. There are daily opportunities to monitor each of these using out of 5.
At the end of each week summarise your daily efforts by colouring in each of the Big Five on how well you went.
The Term Breaks are opportunities for you to reflect on how well you are developing a resilient mindset. To feel that you are moving forward, reflect on the four components of having a resilient mindset, and enjoy focusing your energies to solve the Mindfulness Puzzles and to use pattern, repetition and control to enjoy the Mindfulness Colouring In.
To build both your resilience and wellbeing, there are 20 lessons for your class to do together.
“Always be a first rate version of yourself, instead of a second rate version of someone else.” Judy Garland
WHAT WENT WELL
MONDAY
What am I looking forward to doing this week?
TUESDAY
What is something that I am grateful for about where I live?
WEDNESDAY
When have I been resilient to respond well to a challenge?
THURSDAY
When have I shown respect for the nature and the environment?
FRIDAY
What good things could I celebrate with my friends this week?
SATURDAY SUNDAY
Communication/comments:
Teacher Parent/Caregiver
MONDAY
TUESDAY
WEDNESDAY
THURSDAY
FRIDAY
For each of your Big Five, colour in how you did this week.
Big 5
Check in
What were highlights for you in term one and what is a strength that you used often (page 112) and an emotion that you felt often? (page 123).
Which step have you reached today?
Reflect and colour in how well you think that you grew for each part of your resilient mindset over this term.
Grateful Connections: being grateful for your relationships with others and yourself and what you have.
Self-Control:
controlling your emotions and impulses to think flexibly about what you are doing.
Empathy: being kind by showing that you care for other people’s needs and feelings and your own.
Self-Belief: valuing yourself as a person and believing you have what it takes to become who you want to become.
The Big Five: what you need to do and be aware of to stay physically and mentally healthy.
The Big 5
For each of your Big Five, colour in how you did this week.
Exercise Daily? Sleep deeply? Feel Positive? Eat Healthy? Drink water?
“Try to be a rainbow in someone else’s cloud.” Maya Angelou
Practise looking on the bright side of life and relaxing by doing the following Mindfulness Puzzle.
Connect with yourself by enjoying colouring in.
“Imagination is more important than knowledge.” Albert Einstein
Answer on page 144
Resilient Mindset Intention: WHY: for your class to enjoy using the Character Strength Gratitude to make a positive difference to your and others’ wellbeing. HOW: Put up a copy of this page in your home room and one on the fridge at home. Then, when you, other students, or members of your family notices someone or themselves being grateful, they write it on the sheet. This activity is about consciously looking for opportunities to use and notice the strength gratitude.
Think about the little things you already have in your life that you are grateful for, not the things you want. What would happen if they weren’t there? Think about the many kind acts others do for you, without you asking. Do you say “thank you”? Choosing to show gratitude builds everyone’s wellbeing. This week, make Gratitude Walls both in your classroom and at home for your class and your family to write down or draw things they are grateful for and what they said to say “thank you”.
This Week’s Gratitudes: This week, write down or draw little things that you are grateful for and kind things others did for you that you are grateful for, and then say “thank you” to them. Also, who was grateful for your efforts this week?
Last Word: which people and what things are you grateful to have in your life?
Acknowledgement: Seligman & Peterson
“Start each day with a positive thought and a grateful heart.” Roy T. Bennett
Resilient Mindset Intention: WHY: for you to practise looking for and then using more accurate vocabulary to describe values, virtues and strengths (an important skill of emotional literacy). HOW: first look for the most unusual letter in each word in the search, and then look for the rest of the letters in the word around it.
ASSERTIVE AUTONOMY BELIEF CHALLENGES COMPASSION COMPETENCE CONNECTEDNESS COPING CORTISOL
DOPAMINE EMOTIONS ENDORPHINS
ENGAGEMENT ETHICAL GENEROUS GOALS GRATITUDE GRIT
GROWTH HABITS HELP HOPE JOMO JOY KINDNESS LEADERSHIP MEANING MINDFULNESS MINDSET NEURONS OXYTOCIN PERMAH PROCRASTINATION PURPOSE REALITY RESILIENCE
“The part can never be well unless the whole is well.” Plato
RESPECTFUL SAVOURING SEROTONIN SLEEP STRENGTHS TARGETS TEAMWORK WELLBEING