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Breaking new ground always takes a shovel. When I received the generous donation of newspaper racks from F5 magazine, I also received a list of the paper’s former distribution spots around Wichita. As I looked over the list I was surprised by the number of locations. There were over a 100 places that I didn’t have on the Liberty Press distribution route. I thought that if these businesses, libraries, and campuses distributed F5 - a sometimes controversial, leftleaning magazine - maybe they would distribute the Liberty Press. With all my optimism gathered, I set about adding new distribution spots. It went wonderfully! I was able to add about 20 the first month and another 20 or so the next. Fueled by my success I headed out into the third month of delivering, anxious to see how my new spots were faring. Now, I have to preface this with my understanding that I was breaking new ground. I’ve always distributed the paper at places that were known to be LGBT-friendly. Not that I shied away from it - I also distributed at corporate places like Barnes & Noble, Borders formerly, the downtown library and Wichita State campus. I’ve always felt that since 1994, the paper has pushed the envelope. But I knew I’d need a bit of thick skin for those who turned me away for whatever reason. I’ve been asked to “kindly leave the premises” before. It’s hard not to take it personally. So back to the third month. I was well into my delivery route when I headed down West St. (It’s been a struggle over the years to find places that will distribute on the west side of Wichita.) I head into Cinnamon’s Deli and the papers aren’t there, neither is the rack. The manager sees me and pulls the rack from behind that counter and apologizes. Says he’s gotten too many customer complaints about the paper being there. He was nice, but neither of us thought it was worth losing customers over. Onward. I went across the street to Jimmy’s Egg. I’m at two other Jimmy’s Eggs on the east side. The papers aren’t there. Hmmm. The waitress insists that no one threw them out. I head north to Taco Shop. The papers aren’t there and neither is the rack. Seems I got permission from the wrong person and I need to go through corporate headquarters. “But I’m at the east Taco Shop on 21st,” I say. This particular manager needs to hear from the corporate guy. Shoot. My wherewithal is draining. Several stops later I’m at Twisted Java on west 13th. I have the rack the manager requested last month. He appears from the back and I ask him where he wants me to put it. “ Wait a minute, what paper is this?” he asks. By now I’m a little jaded. “Yeah, it’s the gay one,” I say. “Ummm, I need to check with my owner. See, I went away for the weekend and the papers were there and I came back and they were gone. I think the owner was here while I was away.” Later that day I discovered two racks had been stolen. “I think somebody walked away with it,” I was told by the manager at Planet Sub and Taco Shop east. One was turned backwards so you couldn’t see the sign. Some papers were conspicuously gone. You get the picture. I only added a couple of new stops on that third month because I sort of lost my chutzpah. I have been wondering if it was a mistake to have all the placards printed and stuck on the new racks. It was a considerable expense; maybe I should have sold the racks instead, my thinking went. Get out the shovel. It was only a small number of businesses compared to the 40 or so new stops! Where are my bootstraps? This is Kansas, after all, there are probably places even in San Francisco that won’t take the gay paper! When have I ever let nay-sayers keep me from doing what I know is right? Onward.
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GUEST EDITORIAL A Tale Of Two Closets By Reid B.
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ne might say I am “just a poor boy from a poor family,” however my life has not been a “Bohemian Rhapsody” in any manner. I was actually born to a middle-class, blue-collar man and his junior-in-college wife on a cold January day some 50 years ago. Like every person on this planet, we are born into the religion of our families; some atheists are born into families that lack belief. I was born into a Christian family; although, a family of two denominations of Christianity: Lutheran and Methodist. I have always been on a journey of both selfdiscovery and becoming more knowledgeable than I was yesterday. The key to both of those has been honesty and acceptance of facts in evidence. Honesty and acceptance of facts helped me declare to my mom one late fall day in my junior year of high school that I am gay. And now, those same qualities helped me, finally, realize and declare, on this late winter day some 35 years later, that I am an atheist. Wow! I just outed myself to you. And guess what? The world did not end, the sky did not fall, nor has any bearded man come by to chastise me or banish me to an eternity of “torment, fire and brimstone” for not believing in his existence. Why am I an atheist? Another question would be “why did it take me so long to declare it?” An answer to both questions is the partial purpose of this article. The other purpose of this article is to let other gay atheists in the area know that “you are not alone.” Atheism, from the Greek word ‘atheos,’ is defined as the lack of belief, or the rejection
of belief, in the existence of any deity. At one point in Greek history, even Socrates was accused of being an atheist (though this accusation was probably more politicallymotivated than theologicallymotivated). In ancient Roman, early Christians were persecuted as atheists because they worshiped a different god than those officially sanctioned and worshiped by the government. On this “pale blue dot” (to quote Carl Sagan), aka Earth, at least 5,000 deities, from Allah to YHWH, are worshiped today. And within each faith system, there exists several denominations. If any god existed, there would be no need for any Bibles, Qur’ans, Torahs, etc., as that deity would speak for itself and we all would know, and hear, it. Throughout the many decades since I was born, I have traveled the gambit of religious experiences: Mormonism, agnosticism, fundamental evangelicalism (thanks to my first partner), Hinduism, and Wicca (they worship a pantheon of gods as well as revere nature). All in all, no god, nor its illegitimate child (think about it), ever physically appeared in my life to help me with anything, nor stop me from doing anything. I did every great thing, good thing, and not-sogood thing ALL by myself. I have come to realize that I do not need religion in order to be good or moral. In fact, my morality is the only thing keeping me from starting a religion and exploiting your gullibility for profit, just like L. Ron Hubbard or Joseph Smith. Now I am sure I will hear from some folks telling me that because I am an atheist, I’m therefore (somehow, ipso facto) immoral, filthy, or, perhaps, at best, a hedonist (or even, worse still, a libertine). Before writing those comments and sending them to me, ask yourself if those were not the same (or similar) words thrown at you merely for coming out as gay or lesbian or
Letters The other side of the domestic partnership coin Dear editor: Just thought that you should have looked at the other side of the coin. We have been partnered for over 28 years, raised three children. and when one was unemployed and was on the other’s health benefits it was extremely expensive for us. His monthly premium went from $40 a pay period and to over $300 to add one on as a domestic partner. And the deductibles almost tripled across the board for everything. When the unemployed became employed and looked at that company’s benefits and experienced the exact same thing. In talking to the HR rep, we were advised to drop the domestic partner thing and each one take out their own individual plan. Totally we pay out $66 every two weeks, have a lot lower deductible and much better benefits. Vision, dental and life insurance all proved to work out the same way. Because you see when you add a “spouse” you automatically also add 2.4 children to the mix and that is why the insurance is so much higher. But even “married straight” can take advantage of this and actually have larger paychecks to take home every period. For us, we may not be legally married, but in every other sense of the word we are. We were very thankful the company allowed us to do that while one was unemployed, but if anyone else out there is in the sinking boat this economy has created, thought it might be of interest to someone else. I just wanted you to know the positive for the other side of the coin. Thank you. Name withheld upon request transgender. Hopefully this article will encourage you to read the Bible from cover to cover, without study guides or any spin to it. Sometime between the talking snake, God kill children in Egypt (Exodus 12:29) or God commands Abraham to kill his
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Loneliness in prison Dear editor: First, I hope this finds you well and in good spirits. I’m writing from “Mule Creek” state prison here in California where I’m probably the loneliest gay man ever! Hence this letter I’m hoping you’ll read/will find its way to you. I am a 36-year old white male who got into trouble over drugs. Unlike most of the guys here I’ve worked very hard to make positive change in my life but this has really separated me from the majority of my peers and since I have no family and have cut contact with old “friends” I am really standing alone. This extreme loneliness is driving me crazy and causing major depression. At times it’s almost more than I can bear so I thought I’d reach out to see if you’d be willing to help me find a like-minded man willing to exchange snail mail. If you could print this lonely plea or a small ad with my name and address I’d be forever grateful and maybe not so alone. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. I hope you’ll consider my request. Again, I hope this finds you well. Best wishes, Daniel Parks #AX-6683 Mule Creek State Prison PO Box 409060 (C15-129) Ione, CA 95640
own son as proof of Abraham’s fealty to God, and when Jesus tells people to hate their mothers and fathers (Luke 14:26), you will become an atheist. [NOTE: OR, you could just say, “...and Jesus telling...”] For more info, please read books by Bertrand Russell, Robert Ingersoll, Christopher Hitchens, Sam Harris, George Smith, or Dave Steele (among many others), and/or listen to podcasts by former ministers, like Matt Dillahunty, Ryan Bell, or Seth Andrews. I will also answer all questions and comments at A.Gay.Atheist@ gmail.com. l
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GUEST EDITORIAL Explaining the Mystique of Donald Trump
By Dr. Gary S. Smith
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ow can we explain the surprising electoral success of Donald Trump, especially in light of his lack of political experience, limited knowledge of and specificity about policy issues, and crude and insulting rhetoric? Who supports him and why do they find the business tycoon to be so attractive? Analysts have identified four major features of Trump supporters. First, few of them have graduated from college. This is an important statistic because it likely speaks to their economic frustrations. Consider that only 68% of men without a bachelor’s degree had a full-time job in 2013. Moreover, the wages of these men, adjusted for inflation, have declined significantly since 1990. The shift of many manufacturing jobs to other countries and the low salaries of service jobs in the U.S. have reduced the employment opportunities and income of men and women who have not completed a college degree. Consequently, many of these people are disgruntled and ripe for change—and many are supporting Trump. Second, Trump’s supporters are individuals who complain that they have little political voice. In polls, high percentages of those who agree with the statement “people like me don’t have any say about what the government does” prefer Trump. People’s conviction that they lack power and influence predicts Trump support much better than any other factor
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including amount of education, income, age, race, or attitudes toward Muslims or illegal immigrants. Trump has promised to help these despondent, largely white Americans increase their political clout and financial prospects. He touts his business success and claims that when he becomes president America will regain its world influence and winning ways. Trump’s promises to “Make America Great Again” and to restore the power, prestige, and privileges of whites especially appeal to people who feel excluded from the political process. Third, Trump’s backers are willing to trade greater security for less liberty. They want the government to protect them from threatening “outsiders” whether they are terrorists, refugees, or illegal immigrants. They complain that many immigrants are not playing by the nation’s rules and are taking advantage of hard-working white Americans. Trump has sought to alleviate the fears of these individuals by pledging to construct a towering wall between the U.S. and Mexico, promising to keep Muslim refugees out of America, and calling for the deportation of most illegal immigrants. Deeply alarmed by the proliferation of terrorist attacks around the world, Trump supporters protest that President Barack Obama’s policies are not keeping the nation safe. They applaud Trump’s plans to create a database of Muslim Americans, increase surveillance of mosques, and temporarily ban Muslims from entering the U.S.. Fourth, Trump supporters disproportionately reside in sections of the U.S. where racial resentment is high. These white men and women, who often refer to themselves as the “silent majority,” fear that minorities and immigrants are advancing at their expense and want to turn the clock back to a time when America was not so culturally diverse and their lives were less complicated. They do not trust Obama, accuse him of intensifying racial tensions, and argue that they suffer from reverse discrimination. Tw o b o o k s w r i t t e n t o analyze Adolf Hitler’s rise to power—Erich Fromm’s Escape from Freedom (1941) and
Eric Hoffer’s True Believers (1951)—help explain why many Americans find Trump appealing. Fromm, a German psychologist who moved to the U.S. in 1934, analyzed how Nazism became widely accepted in society where people enjoyed substantial freedom and high levels of education. Fromm contended that the psychological conditions in Germany caused by the nation’s unexpected defeat in World War I and the punitive Versailles Treaty led millions to want Germany to restore its power and regain the world’s respect. This desire, coupled with the economic impact of the Great Depression, made many discontented, insecure, and despondent Germans receptive to the message of an authoritarian leader who vowed to make Germany great again. T h e c o r e o f F r o m m ’s argument is that in times of rapid social change, economic stagnation, and rampant anxiety, people often find freedom to be frightening. Freedom causes people to feel adrift, unsettled, bewildered, isolated, and fearful. Terrorist threats, reduced purchasing power, bleak economic prospects, lack of respect, perceived unfairness, and declining moral standards lead many to struggle with freedom. They are unsure about how to best use their freedom; making decisions is daunting and anxiety-provoking. To relieve this anxiety, some seek to “escape from freedom” by identifying with and listening to strong leaders who explain how the world actually works, tell them what to do, and promise to improve their lives. This relieves them of personal responsibility and gives them the comfort and certainty they crave.
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H o ff e r, a n A m e r i c a n longshoreman and social philosopher, argued in True Believers that individuals who are experiencing these pressures and adopt this mindset are inclined to join mass movements that guarantee to change the world and improve their circumstances. Such individuals are attracted to movements and leaders that give their lives purpose and direction, help them feel better about themselves and their prospects, and enable them to subsume their individual lives in a larger entity. Hoffer also contended that “true believers” often shift from one social movement to another because they are more concerned with the psychological benefits their participation brings by identifying with a powerful, magnetic leader than with t h e m o v e m e n t ’s a c t u a l ideology. He maintained that various nationalist and social movements, whether on the left or the right, typically attract the same kind of adherents and use the same rhetoric and tactics. I a m n o t a rg u i n g t h a t Trump should be compared with Hitler, only that some of the conditions that existed in the 1930s that led Germans to support Hitler exist in America today and prompt people to back Trump. These prescient books help explain why Trump’s mystique seems to be tarnished so little by his vulgar and outlandish behavior and why his momentum seems so difficult to halt despite the concerted efforts of many Republican leaders. l Dr. Gary Scott Smith chairs the history department at Grove City College in Pennsylvania and is a fellow for faith and politics with The Center for Vision & Values. He is the author of Religion in the Oval Office, Faith and the Presidency From George Washington to George W. Bush, Religion in the Oval Office and Heaven in the American Imagination.
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Auditions for Breaking the Code at Wichita Community Theatre WICHITA - Breaking the Code by Hugh Whitemore tells the personal and true story of Alan Turing. He was a genius mathematician and engineer in Britain who played a leading role in winning World War II. He created a machine that decoded the Nazi’s secret messages, thereby ending World War II early and saving 12 million lives. He also created the first computer. Since his work was classified as top secret for years after the war, the general public knew nothing of him when he was arrested for homosexuality. It is the same story as the award-winning film The Imitation Game, but its focus is on his personal life not his professional successes. Auditions will be held April 9, from 2-5pm and April 10, from 7-10pm at Wichita Community Theatre, 258 N. Fountain. Roles available for seven men and two women. Production runs June 8-19. Directed by Leroy Clark.
Bill gets support from social work students
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WICHITA - A group of social work students at Wichita State University is actively supporting House Bill 2323 that is currently before the Kansas House of Representatives. The bill adds the terms “sexual orientation” and “gender identity” to the current Kansas Anti-Discrimination Act. The group presented a policy brief to the Kansas Legislature the second week of March. There is a Facebook page for the group that includes a link to an
online petition supporting this bill. By liking the page, readers will be able to receive updates about the group’s efforts. Find the page at: w w w. f a c e b o o k . c o m / Students-for-HB-2323921315021315888/?fref=photo.
Curtain Up! An HOAMC Tribute to Broadway By Greg Dalton-White WICHITA - Want to see a Broadway show, but don’t have the money for the airfare, expensive ticket price or hotel? Your problem is solved with Heart of America Men’s Chorus’ spring concert, “Curtain Up!” The concert is filled with show tunes that are guaranteed to provide a Broadway fix. The concert will be presented in the Newman University’s DeMattias Performance Hall Saturday, April 9 at 7pm and Sunday, April 10 at 4:30pm. Tickets, $15 for the general public and $5 for students, will be available at the door. The men of the chorus will sing a variety of songs from a number of shows. Featured music ranges from highlights of The Pirates of Penzance to a medley of songs from Jersey Boys. Voices of the Heart, HOAMC’s select group, will sing selections ranging from If I Loved You to Kiss the Girl. Deanne Zogelman is the artistic director. For more information call 316-708-4837.
Planet Hair named to the Salon Today 200 WICHITA – Planet Hair, owned by Tod and Linda Ernst and Graham Ross, recently was named to the Salon Today 200 by Salon Today magazine. The magazine’s 19th annual
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issue profiled the selected salons in its January 2016 edition. The magazine honored applicants in 11 different best practice categories, including, Compensation & Benefits, Customer Service, Employee Education, Inventory Management, Philanthropy, Planned Profitability, Retail & Merchandising, Retention & Referral Programs, Salon C u l t u r e , Te c h n o l o g y a n d Growth. Planet Hair was honored in Growth. For a salon to be named, it had to meet the following criteria: 1) Opened on or before Jan. 1, 2013. 2) Is a provider of professional salon services. 3) Generated annual service and product sales revenues of at least $250,000/yr. since 2013; 4) Provided statistical information about his/her business and completed at least one of the Best Practice category essay sections; and 5) Submitted documentation to verify financials if he/she competed in the growth or planned profitability categories.
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Fuhrman exhibit at Diver's Studio WICHITA - Ally artist Andrea Fuhrman will be exhibiting at Diver's Studio, 424 S. Commerce St., April 29 from 6-10pm. The show is entitled Andrea Fuhrman: Collage and Paint. According to Fuhrman’s website, her primary visual experience as a child was peering through her father's microscope to view his collection of biology slides, so the small scale of her work is reminiscent of Persian miniatures. She collages images from various sources, such as biology textbooks and dictionaries. Read more at: www.andreafuhrmanfineart. com. l
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Topeka woman files lawsuit against state to correct birth certificate
Stephanie Mott wants a birth certificate that says the correct gender just like everyone else.
By Annette Hope Billings, staff reporter Mismatch, noun, definition: a failure to correspond or match; a discrepancy, a lack of correspondence or harmony, disharmony. TOPEKA - Imagine leaving your home one morning immaculately dressed and coordinated to present your true self to the world. Once in public, you glance at your feet and discover you are wearing
conspicuously different shoes. One shoe, the right one, is yours and reflects who you’ve always known yourself to be. The other shoe is entirely the opposite – inauthentic and a blatant misrepresentation of you. Imagine concerns you’d have about the questions and assumptions you’d encounter when strangers notice you don’t match. Now, imagine this mismatch was not something as simple as shoes; imagine it is the gender on your birth certificate. The mismatch would not just be for one day in your life. It would be every day of your life until it’s corrected. Birth certificates form a basis, a platform, from which we spring into life. A birth certificate serves as a lifelong record of who we fundamentally are. Imagine if one of the facts on yours is wrong. Activist Stephanie Mott, a To p e k a w o m a n w h o i s transgender, does not have to imagine such a scenario because it is a reality for her. She has lived her 58 years with identification that does not match who she is. The gender
on her birth certificate is listed as male. “I have never taken a breath where I’ve felt that my state government respects who I am and protects me from discrimination,” she said. On Feb. 19, Mott filed suit against the Kansas Department of Health and Environment (KDHE) to have the gender on her birth certificate corrected to female. She is being represented by the Transgender Law Center (TLC) and Topeka attorney Pedro Irigonegaray. To look up information on the filing, refer to www.Shawneecourt.org, filing number 2016-CV-000150. Similar requests by other transgender citizens to have gender corrected on their birth certificates have been granted by KDHE in the past, but denials began during the administration of Gov. Sam Brownback. According to the TLC every other state except Tennessee and Idaho will give transgender people updated birth certificates. In talking with Mott about this issue, the word “mismatch” came up often. With the gender on her birth certificate still listed as “male,” Mott explained the
implications. “The most powerful thing it means is my own state government is still denying my identity and the identity of other people who are transgender across the state,” she said. “I look at this through a window that shows the single most contributing risk factor to suicide in transgender people is denial of true identity.” This is information she knows all too well from panel participation and multiple workshop presentations, including last July’s Midwest Regional Suicide Prevention Conference. Mott’s passport and driver’s license list her as female, and she was determined to add her birth certificate as the final document to bear her correct gender. Mott explained that with “female” on her birth certificate, “It would mean that I would never have to worry again about whether I would be forced to reveal my transgender identification when applying for a job or registering to vote. It would mean there would not be anything left in my identification documents to misgender me – to lie about who I am.” l
Safe and Sound: Safe Place gives teens a place to go in times of need By Isabella Parker, staff reporter The Safe Place organization has been helping young adults escape dangerous situations for years. The YMCA of Greater Louisville founded Safe Place in 1983, and since then the organization has grown rapidly to provide service for teenagers across the nation. Safe Place’s main goal is to give young adults ages 12-17 a place to go in times of need, and because of its efforts over 100,000 youth have received care and counseling. Many teenagers across the nation have been forced to deal with unstable or threatening environments. Abuse, isolation, and neglect are all horrible things that thousands of youths deal with every day, and the most helpful thing their communities can do is provide safety. Now, because of Safe Place, teenagers
have several simple routes of obtaining the safety that they need. The yellow and black ‘Safe Place’ sign can be found around Wichita at places like QuikTrip, and if a teenager is in need of assistance, all he or she has to do is walk in and say, “I need a Safe Place.” They will be taken to a well-hidden and comfortable area of the store where they can stay until a Safe Place volunteer or staff member arrives to talk to and provide transportation for the youth in need. If the teen is taken to the nearest agency, the organization will make sure that the teen and his or her family receives the professional services needed. If there isn’t a Safe Place near them, anyone can contact the organization using their TXT4HLP program. Of the population of homeless
youth, 20-40% are part of the LGBT community. Many people are not accepted as who they are at home, and family conflicts can often become hostile and unsafe. Because of this, it is extremely important that communities become aware of the services available to teens in their city. Discrimination against the LGBT community is something that many are forced to face every day, and Safe Place staff understands the need for a community that is supportive and helpful in times of distress. The current president of the organization, Laurie Jackson, knows how important a welcoming community is for young people. For her and all the volunteers, the stories and lives of those
seeking refuge in a safe place “can be impactful to everyone involved in the process.” Safe Place has created this supportive community, and it allows teens to continue to have hope that they can be helped and protected. l
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National News Democratic National Committee blasts North Carolina antiLGBT legislation WASHINGTON – Upon news that North Carolina Republican Gov. Pat McCrory will sign a discriminatory anti-LGBT bill into law, the Democratic National Committee has released the following statement. When the Charlotte city council expanded protections for transgender people with a new ordinance last month, Republicans in the North Carolina state legislature were so disgusted that they announced they would take the unusual step of convening a special session in order to block it. But for one of the most extreme legislatures in the country, dragging one city backwards wasn’t enough. Instead of destroying just one progressive ordinance in one city, the legislation they passed blocks all LGBT nondiscrimination ordinances passed by any local government across the entire state, and protects businesses that discriminate based on sexual orientation and gender identity. But they didn’t stop there. State lawmakers took the opportunity to overreach even more by forbidding North
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Carolina cities from raising the minimum wage with living wage ordinances. Xena finally officially comes out According to Pacific Standard’s Francie Diep, Xena: Warrior Princess is getting a reboot. Along with the many battles against mythical gods and the absurd outfits, fans can expect to see a long-held suspicion finally come to fruition: Xena will be openly romantically interested in women, the show’s screenwriter wrote recently in a Tumblr Q&A. Of course, there was quite a bit of lesbian subtext written into the original show that aired in the 1990s. But now, Xena and her sidekick/love interest Gabrielle’s sexualities will show up in the main plot. The Guardian’s Nell Frizzell writes: The screenwriter and executive producer Javier GrilloMarxuach, who is working with Rob Tapert and Sam “Spiderman” Raimi to bring Xena back to our screens, wrote: “There is no reason to bring back Xena if it is not there for the purpose of fully exploring a relationship that could only be shown subtextually in first-run syndication in the 1990s.” The relationship to which he is alluding is the leather-studded “companionship” between Xena (played by Lucy Lawless) and Gabrielle (played by Renee O’Connor). It might have taken over 20 years to get there, but the girls are finally ready to make it official. Unlike in 1995, gay marriage is now on the statute books or at least high on the news agenda in most countries where Xena will be syndicated. Star Wars: The Force Awakens and Mad Max: Fury Road have shown that multi-million dollar global franchises can bear the weight of speaking female characters. So a gay female lead character isn’t just a fun idea, but a viable proposition. l
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Gettin’ fabulous before finals Sixth annual drag show to light up WSU stage By Trevor Reichle, staff reporter WICHITA - On April 22, Wichita State University’s Student Activities Council (SAC) and Spectrum, WSU’s student group for LGBTQ individuals and allies, will present the annual WSU Drag Show in the CAC Theatre. The show, which is in its sixth year, aims to present the art of drag to an audience that might not have encountered it before. This year, performers from all over the Midwest will gather together to perform a high-energy show, infusing comedy, music and audience i n t e r a c t i o n t o g e t h e r. F o r months, preparations have been in development for the show, with students from both organizations coming together for the event. Derick Gonzales, a senior at WSU who serves on the entertainment and logistics committee through Spectrum, promised an event that would blow the minds of those never
before exposed to the drag culture. “I would encourage everyone who has never been to try it,” Gonzales said. “On campus is a great place to do it with no judgment.” Gonzales also has performed in drag in the past and expressed his excitement for spreading the art form to others: “For me, I see it as inclusiveness and education. All the people involved are hyped up about it.” SAC and entertainment and logistics committee member Jacy Beck serves as the stage chair for the show. A sophomore, this is Beck’s first time helping with a drag show – a culture she says is even a little new for her. “I’m really excited about it. It’s great to bring something to students that they otherwise might not get to experience,” Beck said. “It’s a great show to come out and meet new people and have a different experience on a weekend.” Brad Thomison, aka Divinity
Masters, will be hosting the show. Thomison was a member of That Gay Group! – now Spectrum – when the conversation about bringing a drag show to WSU first began. “I’m really proud of how involved the students have gotten and the work they have done to help put this together,” Thomison said. “It’s a theatre environment; there’s lots of
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flashy glamour and just even more over-the-top excitement than you would catch anywhere else. There’s nothing like going to a drag show with 350 other people.” Thomison is also one of the owners of Club Boomerang that will be hosting the official afterparty of the WSU event. The show begins at 8pm. Tickets are free for students with a WSU ID and $5 for nonstudents. l
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Spring Opening: Saturday, April 23, 2016 | 7–9 P.M. On view April 23 – August 28, 2016 From the mind of artist, writer, and curator Hans Ulrich Obrist, do it began as a conversation with artists Christian Boltanski and Bertrand Lavier, and took shape as a perpetually fluctuating exhibition of malleable ideas and conceptual art. In partnership with the Ulrich Museum of Art, this iteration of do it is reimagined through the vision of students in the WSU School of Art, Design and Creative Industries course Concepts in Creative Industries: Curation and Installation of do it. do it is a traveling exhibition conceived and curated by Hans Ulrich Obrist, and organized by Independent Curators International (ICI), New York. The exhibition and the accompanying publication were made possible in part by grants from the Elizabeth Firestone Graham Foundation, the Robert Sterling Clark Foundation, and with generous support from Project Perpetual and ICI’s International Forum and Board of Trustees. Image: Shaleh Ake, Jillian Clough, Alexandra Long, Emily Loy, do it instruction by Sophia Al Maria, 2015. Digital image, 20 x 16 in.
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Schedule of events for WSU's Gaypril
April 8 2nd Annual Pride Prom 8pm-12am Rhatigan Student Center 233 Bring your dates, your friends, or anyone you want to a safe and welcoming dance. There will be a live DJ and light refreshments. Admission is free. April 12 Gender Diversity Training 2:30-5pm Rhatigan Student Center 266 This training will cover gender identity, transitioning, challenges posed, myths, misconceptions and inclusive language. The goal is to clarify the understanding of issues related to gender minority/ transgender people. Sign up for this training at wichita.edu/ transgender. Sign up soon as the training will fill up quickly. April 15 National Day of Silence 11am-12:30pm Rhatigan Student Center North Patio The National Day of Silence is a day of action in which students across the country vow to take a form of silence to call attention to the silencing effect of antiLGBT bullying and harassment in schools. April 19 Judaism & Gender: Torah, Talmud, and Transition 11am-12:30pm Rhatigan Student Center 266 For the Gaypril brown bag, hear from Isaac Dowd on the intersection of Judaism and Gender. April 22 6th Annual WSU Drag Show 8pm CAC Theater
Ford overcomes casting obstacles with talent
Admission: Free to students w/ WSU ID, $5 for general public, faculty and staff We present to you the sweetest event of the semester, the 6th Annual WSU Drag Show! Take a trip with us through Lollipop Woods and Gumdrop Mountains on our journey to the Candy Castle where we find our King Kandy and Queen Frosting. This will be a fabulous night of performances and education. Drag queens and kings from around the WSU community will unite in celebration and provide a show you won’t want to miss. For more information visit wichita.edu/dragshow. April 26 Gaypril Keynote Speaker: Shane Windemeyer The Blessing of Growth: Sitting Down at the Table with Chick-fil-A 6pm Hubbard Hall 208 Please join us for the Gaypril keynote speaker Shane Windemeyer for The Blessing of Growth: Sitting Down at the Table with Chick-fil-A. The evening keynote is open to the public and admission is free. April 28 2nd Annual Lavender LGBTQ Graduation 7pm Rhatigan Student Center 265 This ceremony celebrates LGBTQ and ally students for their achievements and contributions to the university. To RSVP, visit wichita.edu/ lavender For more information on these events, contact the Office of Diversity and Inclusion at (316) 978-3034 or www.wichita.edu/ odi unless otherwise noted. l
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WSU junior places first in Regional Theatre Festival
By Jeromiah Taylor, staff reporter WICHITA - “I just go up and do it really,” Da’Merius Ford said matter of factly. Ford, a Wichita State musical theater student, beams with confidence as he explains his most recent accomplishment. In January, WSU’s production of Smokey Joe’s Café, in which Ford was a dancer, was one of the invited productions to the Region 5 Kennedy Center American College Theatre Festival in Bloomington, Minn. Ford won first place in the Music Theatre Intensive that included a $600 scholarship to attend a week-long intensive at the Open Jar Institute in New York City this summer. He also is invited to the National Kennedy Center American College Theatre Festival in Washington, D.C to
compete with the winners from the other seven national districts, It’s an all-expenses paid trip with the chance to earn a full-ride scholarship for the Open Jar intensive. “At the intensive it’s pretty much like school for a week, there’s dancing, singing and acting all day long and then we go and see a Broadway show,” Ford said. Contestants performed a solo performance in front of judges and only one from each region was chosen. Ford’s region 5 includes the states of North Dakota, South Dakota, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, Iowa, and Kansas. The key to success according to Ford is listening. “I’m always listening to people or watching them,” Ford said. “I’m very observant, just kind of being very intuitive with the way I see my surroundings.” A passion for singing came early for Ford, who originally wanted to be a gospel singer. “I grew up listening to church music … and then I got into pop,” Ford said. “I like to belt, I feel powerful, like entitled, like I own something.” After years of acting in school and singing in choir a choir instructor suggested that Ford combine his interests and audition for a musical. “And now here I am,” Ford says with a giggle. But the ascent has been
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anything but effortless for Ford, despite his talent. “The biggest obstacle would be color-blind casting and casting for a type,” Ford said. “That’s a struggle that I face every day and I will probably be faced with it for the rest of my life just because Broadway is so specific; you don’t have a specific look, a specific skincolor or you don’t match the criteria [for a role].” However, Ford hasn’t let closed doors shake his belief in his abilities, “[I overcome it] by doing what I love,” Ford says. “I really like just saying ‘forget it all’ and showing them what I have to offer because at the end of the day it’s not them saying that I’m not talented it’s them saying ‘no you don’t fit the part.’” Disbelievers aside, Ford now has a whole lot of momentum behind him and is thrilled with what lies ahead. “There are going to be a lot of people,” Ford said, “I’ll be training one on one with possibly Susan Stroman and Jeff Whiting and Broadway personnel who could possibly help me accelerate my career because of this one intensive in New York.” Ford hopes to make the most out of his time in New York. “They’ll say, ‘Oh I remember this kid,’” Ford said, before adding a quick “I mean who knows.” As confident as he may seem, Ford still gets nervous before a performance. “I like the nerves because it builds up this amazing adrenaline and then once you get out there it’s like ‘ahh,’” Ford said. As thrilling as they are, Ford
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says the nerves can become too much, but he knows how to handle them. “Find yourself in the art regardless of the negativity and the commotion and the stress that comes from it and find what you really want,” Ford said. With only one year left of school Ford is planning for his future and knows what he wants. “I’m looking at cruise lines possibly, I really want to book a national tour,” Ford said. “I think the biggest achievement out of performance is to travel, to travel and perform.” Ford plans to audition widely and ideally would live in New York, “I don’t want to be stuck down in one place,” Ford said. “Not soon anyway.” Ford is also realistic and some dreams have been fondly let go of, for instance, the role of Simba in the Lion King. “Looking at the requirements for it I’m too short, but that’s fine,” Ford laughs. Although Ford says he just gets up and does it, in reality he has accomplished a great feat; one that required years of training and determination as well as an enviable endowment of talent. “I think for me what really helped me get through all of this and what I’m doing now is the positivity I have to bring forth,” Ford said. “Even though I feel like ‘oh that was a crappy audition, or that was a crappy performance,’ at the end of the day I still know that I can sing those notes and I still know I can do that move.” l Ford has a gofundme account to enable him to pursue his education at the Open Jar institute. (Da’Merius goes to NYV for MT intensive)
Marvel Universe Live! brings lesbian motocross rider to Wichita
Hydra soldier: Jackie Ives part of Red Skull’s evil army
By Brenda Way, staff reporter WICHITA - Over 25 characters from the Marvel Comic Universe are coming to Wichita’s Intrust Bank Arena for a battle royale for control of the Cosmic Cube. Black Widow, Iron Man, Captain America, Hawkeye, Hulk and Thor are among some of the heroes you will see in the Marvel Universe Live! experience. Fans will feel like they just stepped into a blockbuster Marvel movie with live action stunts, incredible pyrotechnics, and jaw-dropping technical advances as the heroes encounter some of their biggest adversaries including Green Goblin, Doc Ock, Madame Hydra and many more. Jackie Ives, a 28-year-old woman from Fresno, CA, is one of the stunt riders in the show. She is small in stature, but big on strength.
Volunteer Kansas accepting applications for Seed Grants WICHITA – Volunteer Kansas is offering organizations in Kansas the opportunity to apply for Seed Grants in the amount of $500. Grants are given to help support service projects that will engage volunteers. This is the fifth year Volunteer Kansas has made Seed Grants available. Ten grants will be awarded in May for use before Dec. 31, 2016. The application process is simple. Organizations interested
in applying for a grant should e-mail the following information to contact@volunteerkansas.org by April 17: 1. A paragraph about the organization, including contact information. 2. Up to three paragraphs explaining the project, how volunteers will participate, and who it will benefit.
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“I do think for a small person I have a lot of strength. It’s something you have to have as a female rider,” says Ives, a former competitive motocross racer. She misses the race circuit of competitive motocross and says, “Riding motocross competitively is something I’m passionate about and will always love.” So when asked why the switch to Marvel Universe Live! it becomes very clear that Ives made the right choice in making the move to stunts on the show. She still loves to ride motocross on her off-time, but there just isn’t a lot of money in women’s motocross. With Marvel, she gets to ride for a living and learn about the stunt industry, which makes her very happy. Riding motocross and performing stunts in Marvel Universe Live! isn’t the first time she’s had to show strength and power in her life. It was difficult for Ives to come fully out as a lesbian to her friends and family just ten years ago at the age of 18. It’s an age where, “You’re still scared of what everyone will think,” she says. Her friends were very supportive, but her parents did have a hard time with it at first, but they realized they love her and needed her in their lives. There doesn’t seem to be any of the stereotypical backlash of being the only lesbian rider in the show. In fact, it seems like Ives and her fellow riders are the only ones who bring it up. “The cast here at Marvel Universe Live! is very accepting of who I am,” she said. “I think the stereotype of being a lesbian motocross racer is something me and my other rider castmates joke about more than anyone else.” Jackie Ives’ main role in the stunt-filled show, a villainous Hydra soldier, puts her right in the middle of some the biggest fights and stunt action. She plays a masculine character continued on page 30
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KC men’s chorus hits the road with testimony tour in Kansas
HAYS, SALINA - Heartland Men’s Chorus (HMC), Kansas City’s gay men’s chorus, is hitting the road with their unique style of entertainment while promoting social justice, personal healing, and inspiration. In April, a motor coach filled with members of this nationally renowned chorus will be rolling west into Hays and Salina to perform songs that range from pop to classical, serious to fun, and everything in between. Fresh off a sold-out performance at Kansas City’s 1,000+ seat historic Folly Theater, the members of HMC use their music to fulfill its vision statement: Our Voices Enlighten,
Inspire, Heal and Empower. About 65 singers will be appearing at the First United Methodist Church in Hays at 7pm Saturday, April 23 and at Trinity United Methodist Church in Salina at 2pm Sunday, April 24. Both concerts are open to the public, and any free-will offering will go to support a cause important to the hosting congregations. Heartland Men’s Chorus was founded in 1985 to make music, but quickly transformed to a safe and affirming creative space for a community scarred by discrimination and under siege by a virus. Thirty years later, HMC has become a leader in the
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Show Heartland Men’s Chorus' Testimony Tour to central and western Kansas
Where/When HAYS 7pm, Saturday, April 23 First United Methodist Church 305 W. 7th Street SALINA 2 p.m., Sunday, April 24 Trinity United Methodist Church 901 E. Neal Ave.
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international gay choral community and is a vital part of the robust arts and cultural scene of Kansas City. “When you consider the state of LGBT affairs in Kansas, with a governor who has rescinded civil rights protections from gay state employees, it is more important than ever that we go to a part of Kansas where residents need to hear our voices,” says HMC Artistic Director Dustin Cates. “If ever there was a place and time to sing out and give hope, it is in Kansas, and it is now!” The Testimony Tour is based upon one of the numbers to be performed, Testimony, which reflects the postings by a cross-section of society to the famous “It Gets Better” website that encourages LGBT youth to overcome social and personal pressures to live a good and productive life. l
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Versatile and hilarious, Jane Lynch brings her love of songs to Yardley Hall
By Ciara Reid, staff reporter OVERLAND PARK - “HI, THIS IS JANE LYNCH, AND I’M SEVEN MINUTES LATE.” These are the first words Lynch says to me as we begin our phone interview, and while she is very accurate – she was indeed seven minutes late – the very fact that she mentions this indicates to me that she is a considerate person, conscious of our scheduled interview time. I didn’t mind at all – while I am very familiar with Lynch and her work (I’m a fan in general, but in particular of her work with Christopher Guest on his various mockumentary films), I was refreshing my
memory of her performances on Glee, and had just finished watching an interview piece on her website related to the It Gets Better project when the phone rang. Fans of Lynch will have the opportunity to see her live at Yardley Hall at Johnson County Community College on May 6 as part of the See Jane Sing nationwide tour. Lynch, along with Kate Flannery (known for her portrayal as Meredith Palmer on The Office), Tim Davis (vocal coordinator on Glee), and a five-piece band, give audiences a rousing, entertaining show filled with renditions of some of Lynch’s
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favorite songs, and of course, comedy. “Musically, our show is so gorgeous and lush and wonderful,” Lynch says. “We have a blast.” Being a fan of Jane Lynch does not automatically connect you to a certain film or television show. Lynch’s career, spanning approximately 30 years, has touched on so many genres and engrained her in several of Hollywood’s ensembles, it’s easy to find fans of a particular piece of work, or several. There’s Lynch’s aforementioned involvement in Christopher Guest’s troupe of exceptional improv players, responsible for some of the most hilarious films in recent history: 2000’s Best in Show, in which Lynch played one half of a power lesbian couple competing in the annual dog show; others include 2003’s A Mighty Wind; and 2006’s For Your Consideration. The upcoming Netflix series Mascots, of which Lynch is involved, along with other Guest improv regulars Parker Posey, Jennifer Coolidge, Ed Begley, Jr., and John Michael Higgins, among others, is highly anticipated. Scheduled to be released this summer, Lynch says that by now, fans of Christopher Guest films know what to expect. “We improvise it,” she says. “Your favorite Guest players will make an appearance.” Lynch explains Mascots as a glimpse into the world of sports teams’ mascots. The series follows various characters as they prepare for the competition at the end of the year. “Routines are judged, and of course, like every Guest movie, there are rivalries,” she says. Then there’s Glee – the juggernaut musical dramedy on Fox that exploded immediately upon its debut in 2009. Lynch’s excellent portrayal of tracksuitwearing Sue Sylvester garnered her numerous awards and critical praise. Her favorite performances include Mr. Monotony, a duet with Matthew Morrison (who played Will Schuester on the show), and of course, Vogue. “Peak experience,” Lynch says. “The dance was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. It was an absolute joy.” Whether fans know Lynch by her role on The L Word, her entertaining turn as game show host on Hollywood Game Night, her work in the short-lived but stellar comedy series Party Down, or even her minor but vital role in the film The Fugitive, Lynch’s work is widespread and memorable. How has Lynch managed to be involved in some of Hollywood’s best television and film? “I use my brain when I choose projects,” she says. “I come from theater, where jobs are few and far between. I used to say yes to everything. While I’m still very busy, I don’t say yes as much.”
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Who See Jane Sing, starring Jane Lynch, Tim Davis, and Kate Flannery
When 8pm Friday, May 6 (pre-show dinner, available via separate reservation, starts at 6:15pm)
Price Ticket prices range from $28-$175.
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Naturally, I had to ask about The L Word, on which she played therapist Joyce Wischnia. Specifically, I asked her about her favorite character on the show. “I loved Shane,” she says. “She was really young and hot and walked the line between male and female. So f*ing cool and self-possessed.” I also asked Lynch what her favorite game is on her show Hollywood Game Night. “What’s in Jane’s Box,” she says. “The writers have so much fun with it, and it gives me an opportunity to say ‘my box.’” Most recently, many may have seen her appear in the spoof of a key scene from the movie Carol, one of this year’s Oscar-nominated films. The parody featured Saturday Night Live’s Kate McKinnon, along with well-known comedian Wanda Sykes. I asked how the opportunity came about. “We all know each other in this town,” Lynch says of Hollywood. “And
not just because we’re lesbians.” Throughout her career, Lynch has been a huge advocate for LGBT rights, and has been involved in numerous initiatives, including the It Gets Better project, and the play 8, created by Dustin Ian Black, which documents Proposition 8. I asked Lynch for her thoughts on using her fame to spread the message to LGBT youth that it is okay to be yourself. “I’m spoiled in that regard, because I live in LA, and I’m from Chicago, a pretty progressive city,” Lynch explains. “There are many places, like Kansas, and others, where it is still very difficult, and youth face danger if you were to come out as gay. “It breaks my heart, but I would offer this: There are people who love you and will look right past what your sexual preference is,” she says. “It’s like your height, or freckles on your nose.” l
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Butler Community College’s GSA and Wichita State's Spectrum: two years vs. four years Academics. Alliance. Acceptance. By Emily Beckman, staff reporter EL DORADO - A number of local colleges have a GayStraight Alliance (GSA) organization in which LGBT students and allies can meet and socialize. D r. P h i l S p e a r y, t h e Dean of Academic Support and Effectiveness at Butler Community College, is the staff sponsor of Butler’s GSA and the co-chair of Butler’s inclusion council. “A lot of students are coming out of high school where they have either had a good gay straight alliance experience or they are looking for that experience,” Speary said. A t B u t l e r, t h e G S A organization typically consists of about 10-12 students and meets every other week. “The one thing that is both kind of a positive and kind of a challenge is that the organization has to be run by students,” Speary said. Since students typically only attend community college for two years, the number of students involved in the organization might not be as high as that at a four-year university. It also creates a high turnover in leadership. “Students who make for good
leaders of the organization are very, very busy otherwise,” Speary said. Cory Blevins was the president of Butler ’s GSA during the fall 2015 semester. Blevins said he wanted to be president because he identifies as LGBT and wanted to provide a safe place for other LGBT students to support and talk to one another. “Being a part of a GayStraight Alliance is such a supportive environment where people can celebrate their diversity. In my experience, it helps those who may be closeted or who feel alone in the world to realize that they are in a safe place with wonderful people,” Blevins said. At meetings, the organization discusses current world events and school events. They also hold movie nights where they watch LGBTQ+-related movies. Speary said that the inclusion council at Butler, a group of faculty, administrators and staff, is currently looking into “how to better meet the needs of transgender students. “I’d say that the whole issue of GSA right now is kind of in transition because a lot of LGBT students feel they don’t have to be as hidden about the whole thing, pretending that they’re straight . . . to some extent I think that’s made the continued on page 30
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Bensimon Brings Black Transmen, Inc. to Kansas. He is in his third year Kansas as chair of the Topeka Chapter
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here is a new trans support, resource, and advocacy group in Kansas. Black Trans Men, Inc.® (BTMI) was founded in 2011 with a mission to ensure that all transgender men and SLGBTQI individuals are acknowledged, provided equal access and protection under the law to contribute to a productive society. We accomplish our mission of equality, advocacy and empowerment for our greater social community, through education. Luc Malik Bensimon, one of the founding members of Kansas Statewide Transgender Education Project (K-STEP), has been on K-STEP’s board of directors since the organization was formed in 2010, and he has provided dozens of educational presentations throughout
of Equality Kansas. He has been working more than two years to bring the advocacy and much-needed efforts of BTMI to Kansas. Luc is also well known in Kansas as a performer known as Tee Raynbow. He has captured many titles and he has greatly influenced gender nonconforming entertainment in the Sunflower State. He has been my friend for several years, and I will emphatically tell you that it has been a honor to be able to say that. Something a lot of people don’t know about Luc, is that he is the patriarch of a very large family. Many TGNC (trans and gender non-conforming) people in Kansas affectionately refer to him as Daddy. Luc’s family is a collection of human beings
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trans activist, Way included the original colors of the rainbow flag that include colors of the trans pride flag. The design, chosen by the Wichita Pride board, will be used for all the upcoming events this year. It was unveiled at a Meet and Greet at The Center in late February.
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who, like him, have struggled with understanding how they fit into a society that tells TGNC people we don’t belong here. The members of Luc’s family always know they have someone to turn to, and a place to belong. In 2014, Luc began sharing with K-STEP and the Topeka Chapter of Equality Kansas about this conference in Dallas called the Black Trans Advocacy Conference (BTAC). Although we were not able to help Luc make it to the 2014 conference, there was a concerted effort to help him make it to the 2015 conference. Contributions for financial support came from across the state and the funding goal was met. Last April, Luc was able to attend his first BTAC conference in Dallas. He came back to Kansas with great energy and great hopes, and feeling like he had learned so much to enable his hope, to continuously become a better advocate and educator, here in Kansas. During the summer, Luc facilitated efforts to connect K-STEP and BTMI. Those efforts resulted in reward when Carter Brown came to Manhattan, KS for the 3rd annual TransKansas conference last September. Mia Brown, representing Black Transwomen, Inc. came as well. Their presentations brought invaluable diversity to the
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conference, and indispensable value to LGBT people of color advocacy and education in the State of Kansas. Recently, Luc was named as Kansas representative for BTMI. He is already busy at work, spreading information and providing resources. One of those resources is an in-person support group in Topeka that meets on the 2nd Tuesday of each month from 5-7pm. The Topeka group is followed by a national online group from 7-8:30pm. Services of BTMI are not limited to transgender men of color. If you need help, know someone who needs help, are interested in helping support BTMI, or if you are just looking for information, please contact Luc at lbensimon@ blacktransmen.org or (785) 4086435, or visit the BTMI website at www.blacktransmen.org. The 5th Annual National Black Trans Advocacy Conference & Awards Gala will be held in Dallas, TX, April 25-May 1. For more information visit www.blacktrans.org/ conference/btac-welcome.html. l Stephanie Mott is a transgender woman from Topeka. She is the executive director of the Kansas Statewide Transgender Education Project, and a commissioner on the City of Topeka Human Relations Commission. Reach her at stephanieequality@yahoo.com.
Augusten Burroughs coming to Wichita in early April WICHITA - Watermark Books & Cafe will host author Augusten Burroughs for a reading and signing of his book at Abode Venue, 1330 E. Douglas, on Monday, April 4 at 6pm. The event is $30 and comes with a copy of Lust and Wonder. Tickets can be ordered online or in-store. In chronicling the development and demise of the different relationships he’s had while living in New York, Burroughs examines what it means to be in love, what it means to be in lust, and what it means to be figuring it all out. Burroughs is the author of Running with Scissors, Dry, A Wolf at the Table and You Better Not Cry. He is also the author of the novel Sellevision, which
is currently in development for film. The film version of Running with Scissors was released in October 2006. In 2005 Entertainment Weekly named him one of “The 25 Funniest People in America.” He resides in New York City and Western Massachusetts with his longtime agent and husband Christopher Schelling. l
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Why Presidential Penises Are So Important
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y the second week of March, the discourse (using that word very loosely) of the Republican presidential candidates had sunk so low that to call it “juvenile” would be an insult to our children. Just when we thought that the personal attacks had lowered to a senior high level, they descended further to something like the tauntings of junior high kids. Whether it was about one candidate or another being accused of peeing in his pants, eating boogers, over-sweating, or having to run to the bathroom for one reason or another, it was actually the fully-on-display latest in the circus that GOP bosses are racking their brains to ring-master. Those Party leaders who created each of the caricatures on the Republican platform and encouraged their rabid fans, now seemed flailing about to know what to do with the performers except either just to embrace them as if any of the candidates were presidential material or to enlist a previous presidential loser to attack the biggest ego they most feared would win the nomination. What’s truly extraordinary about it all is that the lower the discourse sunk, the more that the diehard melded with their candidates. And those other Republican politicians who’ve given up trying to break up this schoolyard fighting, began scrambling to make sure that when the sawdust settles they’ll be on the side of the one they think will end up with the most power so that they could maintain their own power, positions, funders, and status. Wi t h t h e o n l y f e m a l e Republican contender out, the boys settled for criticizing each other’s manhood. The taunts
were focused around all the conventional expectations of conditioned patriarchal manhood with who’s the scaredy-cat, who can’t take the taunting, who’s going to be unable to fight like a man, who’s unable to control themselves, or, behind it all, who is the most “like a girl.” But that wasn’t clear enough - it then it sunk to discussion of the ultimate symbol of manhood, who does or does not have a big penis. There it was: conditioned masculinity’s symbol of power, virility and the ability to control women was out on the table. No one who has studied gender was surprised that all the debates centered around one’s manhood. Even the women on both sides of the aisle, after all, were analyzed with whether or not they had the biggest “balls” in the race. The only surprise here was that there it was: in the open discussion in a presidential race. And those who stereotype gay men as only caring about penises found presidential candidates who self-identify as heterosexual revealing their hidden obsession with the male organ. It was as if a dam broke. The Internet was flooded with stories about penis sizes, micropenises, and what insinuations such as “have you seen how small his hands are” really mean according to science. It was a discussion waiting below the surface ready to burst out, And thanks to the descent of the Republican contenders into bathroom references, there it was. What those who study gender also knew was that this was not actually about the realities of a physical genital organ. It was instead another sign of otherwise familiar phallic worship. They knew that the phallus
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stands for more than anatomical data. It’s the word for the male organ as a symbol of power – power over other people, other nations, nature, and the whole planet. Historical references have shown it so. It has stood for patriarchy and its subjugation of women, who at times were even accused of penis-envy. It has inspired colonialism with its victim peoples called “effeminate races.” It has justified the rape of both women and men without a second-thought being given to what this meant about one’s sexual orientation. Instead it actually represented the reality of a man’s or an army’s power to express their dominance over the other. And in a culture like the one we’ve developed, it symbolizes the ultimate manly man: the warrior. In American warriorculture, therefore, our boys must be conditioned to become warriors; and our girls, in turn, to become warrior support personnel. Gentle, thoughtful, even intelligent non-kneejerk solutions are criticized through the lens of this manly, manly warrior. He is supposed to act decisively, quickly, and immediately to protect the manhood of the nation and its people, who should be seen as his wards. Hence, the criticism of our current president who doesn’t bomb enough (no matter how many drones he’s launched), is that he isn’t considered a real manly leader because he consults with other nations, believes in talking to other leaders, even our enemies, and spends time considering options and consequences. By American warrior standards all of that
sounds quite womanly. Europe, or sometimes just certain nations that don’t kowtow to American manhood, is seen as effeminate. Europe has all those “nanny-states” after all – like women they nurture their people rather than just punish them. Sometimes, Europe even acts like disobedient children who don’t obey Uncle Sam’s orders just because they should know that we are their father to be obeyed, we’re the daddy. Because of Europe’s impotence, we must keep U.S. military bases there so that American macho can protect them. When Berkeley linguist, George Lakoff talks about the conservative way of seeing the nation as a family controlled by a strict father who “knows right from wrong and has the ultimate authority to make sure his children and his spouse do what he says, which is taken to be what is right,” he’s talking about the family patriarch. Applied to the national presidential debate, that model expects one patriarch to duke it out with the other to prove who the best – that is the most manly - man is. In spite of how much gender and gender roles have been highlighted by researchers and educators, in spite of how much both women’s and men’s movements have worked to change our views, when it comes down to today’s politics, it’s still about who can wield the biggest sword, who can convince us that he is well-endowed with warrior manhood. l Robert N. Minor, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of Religious Studies at the University of Kansas, is author of When Religion Is an Addiction; Scared Straight; and Gay & Healthy in a Sick Society. Contact him at www. FairnessProject.org.
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his month’s book review is One Teacher In Ten. Kevin Jennings, who was the executive director of the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Teacher’s Network, has complied stories from the community. These teachers have traditionally dwelt in the deepest of closets, but increasing numbers of young people are now served by teachers who are out and proud. Educators from all regions tell about their struggles and victories in their fight for justice. Dates To Remember: April 10, National Youth HIV/ AIDS Awareness Day; April 15, National Day of Silence, however, because USD 259 is out of school that day, Wichita will be celebrating on April 14 at A. Price Woodard park at 4pm. Please come join us as we rally to bring attention to school bullying and harassment! May 19, National Give OUT
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D a y ( w w w. g i v e o u t d a y. org). The Center’s donation page is: co.ClickandPledge. com/?ID=34552. This is a yearround donation site, please help support the Center and let’s raise money for Give OUT Day! Our newest group, Kids Connect, had its first meeting last month. This group is for parents, children, siblings and family allies of children who are gender diverse and/or variant. They meet on the first and third Wednesdays at 5:30pm. Coming soon!! We are working on having regular open hours. If you would like to volunteer time to help us staff The Center, please contact us at thecenterofwichita@gmail.com. For more information about The Center and its programs, p l e a s e v i s i t u s a t w w w. thecenterofwichita.com or stop by The Center at 800 N. Market. l
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Mama, I am so sick of the election stuff. How do you get through it? Not Signed
Dear Mama, How do you deal with this Kansas wind? Wind Blown I buy the biggest can of Aquanet I can find and the sturdiest scarf and a six pack of beer. I suggest moving to a less windier climate like Russia. Get the hell over it, there is wind everywhere!
I turn off the news, put down the paper, sign off social media, and put in my best Big Band music CD and crank it up. I also have a few beers. Most of the idiots running are morons so why listen to all their lies? Bunch of damn boobs trying to fool people! Mama, What is wrong with Gov. B ro w n b a c k ? M o v i n g t o Canada
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puppet and an idiot. Sure move to Canada and run away when things get tough. Act like a person with a backbone and stay and fight for what is right! Brownback is just another word for bullshit. We need to clean up the politicians in this country once and for all! Hi Mama, Where is the best place to meet people? Looking Well good Lord! That depends on what kind of people you
want to meet. If it is idiots you want to meet, go to a Donald Trump rally. If you want to meet morons, then come visit my family. If you want to meet single people, then go to speed dating. If you want to meet nice, kind, caring, and good-looking people then go to a gay bar. If you want to meet Eunice I will arrange for the marriage. I want her out of my house!! Thank you for all the questions. Keep them coming! l Have a question for Mama? E-mail MamaTHarper@aol.com.
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ive retrograde planets - Pluto, Jupiter, Mars and Mercury rumble our world this April. Expect out of control actions, general mishaps and a host of craziness through the month. Life will certainly not be boring. Try not to become an April Fool . . . or just embrace it!
ARIES (MAR. 21 - APRIL 20) Your safe and predictable job may shift in its foundations this April, gay Ram. If you have been preparing for a change, this movement will feel comfortable and empowering. If you have been merely warming your seat, this may come as a big surprise. Whatever happens, the cosmos always gives you what you need, whether you agree or not. Let’s all now agree. TAURUS (APRIL 21 - MAY 21) Any Taruean who decides to set off on a grand adventure will find one now. And it will be big, unexpected and possibly out of control. But you are up to whatever the fates deliver. The secret to your ultimate success is to proceed as cautiously as you can and maintain your practical sense of perspective. Then step out and grab the world by the tail. Or is it your tail, queer Bull? GEMINI (MAY 22 - JUNE 21) Pink Twins find ingenious ways to turn their nest into a love nest this April. And why not? You are hotter than ever . . . or at least you think so. And you have an insatiable appetite for love. Try to catch yourself in the mirror for a quick appraisal every so often to be sure that the sexy “look” you want is one that you have. Oops - is that spinach I see in your teeth? CANCER (JUNE 22 - JULY 23) Honesty is always the best policy, but this month, if you want to clear the air in any important relationship, compassionately lie just a little bit. Partnerships are more volatile and emotional now and any seemingly innocent (and maybe even warranted) criticism will be blown out of proportion. Let your loving actions speak louder and prouder than your words now, gay Crab.
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LEO (JULY 24 - AUG. 23) Is your value system open to reinterpretation, proud Lion? Are you headed where you want to go? All these questions bubble up this April and may make you feel a little lost or off track. But this is a mirage and not the true reality. The fact is that you are very much on course and know where you need to go. Let your worries wash over and off you. Then rub-a-dub. VIRGO (AUG. 24 - SEPT. 23) Anything you do or say, no matter how quiet and uncontroversial, will push you into the center of all of the attention. You have some great ideas, but will need to carefully craft them for your audience before they go viral and out of control. There is no way you can remain anonymous, queer Virgo. So mark yourself in the mirror and prepare for your big entrance. Hubba hubba. LIBRA (SEPT. 24 - OCT. 23) Expect some surprises around your house this month, proud Libra, as hidden things bubble up to the surface. Could there be a broken pipe? Or a home renovation project running amok? Anything is possible. So if you have the opportunity to just relax and enjoy your surroundings, do so. Try to put off any big to-dos. Well, I guess you can try to do that . . . SCORPIO (OCT. 24 - NOV. 22) You may think that you can be direct with friends now, but I say you should hold off on any tart commentary around them this month. Gay Scorps are usually strategic and careful with their words. But now the planets conspire to put your foot in your mouth. Be nice, be caring and be quiet around pals. There is time to tell it like it is in the summer.
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SAGITTARIUS (NOV. 23 - DEC. 22) As much as you may want to ramp up your career and make lots and lots more money, anything you try this April may be much more trouble than it is worth. Maybe it’s because your career opportunities are changing and transforming. Gay Archers may need to take a close look at where they are to stay current with the times. Or maybe it is time to plan an early retirement? CAPRICORN (DEC. 23 - JAN. 20) Pink Caps with a personal cause or gripe fight will find that their battleground goes international. Are you ready to go public with your grievances? If not, stay low and quiet while issues swirl around you and wait for a better time to pounce. Be strategic and careful. The people you meet now can benefit you in the future, but you want to make the perfect first impression. AQUARIUS (JAN. 21 - FEB. 19) Your secret admirer could turn into a stalker. Well, maybe not that extreme, but you may not know the impact you have on certain people. But there is nothing to worry about, Aqueerius, as long as you are lovely to everyone and diplomatic among even surly critics. You may even be recruited to run for political office. In that case, run . . . in the other direction! PISCES (FEB. 20 - MAR. 20) Will you be tempted into a tempestuous affair with a close pal this April? It is probably not a good idea because anything involving relationships and friendships now could be a bumpy ride later on. Be jolly and fun-filled, Guppie, but keep things light and airy. There is plenty of time to get serious and sexy later in the year. For now, be too cool for school.
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ueer teens often face hostility in their dayto-day lives. No place is perhaps more hostile than school. For this month’s column, the Beacon youth are sharing stories of experiences we have had in school, both positive and negative. These are a few of the those experiences. One thing that many of us have faced is the blatant disregard for queer identities in school sex education. Sex ed is lacking as it is, but for LGBTQ teens, the experience simply does not address our needs. There is basically no mention of queer identities, let alone how to have safe sexual encounters between same-sex couples. Asexual youth are also often alienated, as there is a large message that anyone who doesn’t want to have sex is broken or wrong. Some of us have had very positive experiences with teachers, others . . . not so much. It seems to be common for kids in same-gender relationships to be disciplined for public displays of affection that are not disciplined among straight students. Other kids report teachers being extremely accepting; one of our members had his first coming out experience with his English teacher, who was very supportive. The response can be even more varied for trans students,
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with some teachers refusing to respect names and pronouns, even going so far as to cross out a student’s chosen name and replace it with their legal name, and others going out of their way to help trans youth feel supported in school. Bullying also frequently comes from other students. We’ve all probably heard “that’s so gay” more times than we can count, and several of us have been the targets of slurs. Some of us have confronted bullies, many times with positive results. But standing up to these people can be terrifying, and many of us fear for our safety too much to attempt to fight back. Supporting LGBTQ students is extremely important. We can’t fight the oppression ingrained into the school system without help from adults. School environments can be the biggest sources of fear and depression for many queer teens. Some students dread going to school because of how they are treated, even to the point of considering suicide. We as students need to be given a voice, a way to rise up against unfair treatment in schools, and sometimes that only happens when people demand to be heard. We encourage you to add your voice to the chorus of voices speaking up against discrimination in schools. l
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that is part of Red Skull’s evil army. Eventgoers probably won’t recognize her, though, because she wears a mask, but Ives talks about how the show presents powerful women. “We definitely have strong females playing characters:
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favorites. She’s on a bike which makes her even cooler, in my opinion.” Tickets for Marvel Universe Live! are available online at selectaseat.com, or in person at the Intrust Bank Arena box office. Tickets start at $22, with a special $15 price for opening
night, Thursday, April 14 at 7pm, which includes all seats except front row. Fans of Marvel are going to love this spectacular actionpacked show with its original storyline – after Thor smashes the Cosmic Cube to prevent
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crying need for GSA less of a critical need. But there’s always a need for students to have a group where they can be really comfortable and be themselves,” Speary said. While a student at Butler, Charlie Wood did not have time to participate in GSA. Now a junior at Wichita State University, Wood is the social chair for Spectrum, WSU’s LGBT and allies group. A c c o r d i n g t o Wo o d , Spectrum strives to promote equality, encourage support and promote friendships between people that might not have met otherwise. Spectrum meets every Thursday at 7pm. The room changes weekly, but is posted on social media. “We are open to anyone outside of campus, on campus, students, non-students, part of the community or otherwise,” Wood said. “We are open to everyone as long as they don’t cause problems.” Three officers, a faculty adviser and an average of 30 others attend each meeting. The group has a number of discussion meetings along with movie nights and game nights. it from falling into the wrong hands his villainous brother, Loki, devises a scheme to clone its powers. To find out how the Avengers, along with Spiderman
In addition, Spectrum is hosting Pride Prom on April 8. “It’s casual dress or formal dress, whatever you want to wear,” Wood said. “We want to have a prom for people who were not able to, or comfortable bringing a partner of their choice to their high school prom.” Along with Student Activities Council and the Office of Diversity and Inclusion, Spectrum will sponsor the 6th annual drag show on April 22, at the CAC Theater at WSU. For more information about Spectrum and upcoming events, visit: wichita.edu/spectrum. For more information about Butler’s GSA, visit: butlercc. edu/student-organizations. l and Wolverine, save the day? We are going to have to see the show. l For more information visit marveluniverselive.com.
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Kansas State University LGBT Resource Center, 207 A/B Holton Hall, Manhattan, (785) 532-5352, lgbt@kstate.edu, www.k-state-edu/lgbt
Health E.C. Tyree Health & Dental Clinic, 1525 N. Lorraine, Wichita, (316) 6812545, www.tyreeclinic.com HIV/AIDS Client Emergency Fund administrered by the Junction City Teddy Bears, c/o Kevin Stilley, 2 Oak Valley Dr., Manhattan, (785) 556-8188, trlrhouseman@webtv.net, for people in the Manhattan/Junction City area Hunter Health Clinic, 2318 E. Central, Wichita, (316) 262-3611, FREE HIV confidential or anonymous testing with Spanish and Vietnamese interpreters. KU Internal Medicine-Midtown, KU School of Medicine, 1001 N. Minneapolis, Wichita, (316) 293-1840, (877) 472-8227 toll-free, (316) 293-2652 HIV Program LGBT Health Coalition of Sedgwick County, Wichita, (316) 285-0007, www. wichitalgbthealth.org Positive Connections, 1001 SW Garfield Ave, third floor, Topeka, (785) 232-3100, www.pcneks.org Positive Directions, 414 S. Commerce, Wichita, (316) 263-2214, (316) 2635214, www.pdiks.com Sedgwick County Health Dept., 2716 W. Central, Wichita, (316) 660-7300, www.sedgwickcounty.org South Wind Women's Center, 5107 E. Kellogg, Wichita, (316) 260-6934, www.southwindwomenscenter.org, LGBTQIA-friendly health services. The Sweet Emergency Fund, KUSM-W MPA, 1010 N. Kansas, Wichita, (316) 293-3405
Politics/Activism E q u a l i t y K a n s a s , w w w. kansasequalitycoalition.org, chapters across the state. Flint Hills Human Rights Project, fhhrp@yahoo.com Kansas Statewide Transgender Education Project, (785) 215-7436, stephanie.mott@k-step.org, www.kstep.org, provides transgender education and resources.
Junction City Teddy Bears, c/o Kevin Stilley, 2 Oak Valley Dr., Manhattan, (785) 556-8188, trlrhouseman@webtv. net NetworQ, Lawrence, KansasNetworQ@ yahoo.com, www.KansasNetworQ.org, meets at Maceli’s, 1031 New Hampshire Wichita Bears, presidentwichitabears@ yahoo.com, www.wichitabears.org Wichita Organization of Leather Fetishes, (316) 201-6242, www. woolfks.com Wichita Prime Timers, ICTPrimeTimers@aol.com, www. primetimersww.com/Wichita, social group for mature gay men.
Spiritual A Journey In The Light Ministries, 2231 S. Bluff, Wichita, (316) 302-6225, Sunday Praise and Worship services at 11am;Wednesday Discipleship Training at 7:30pm. College Hill United Methodist Church, 2930 E. 1st, Wichita, (316) 683-4643, www.collegehillumc.org, Sunday Celebrations at 8:30, 9:40 and 11:00am. First Congregational United Church of Christ, 700 Poyntz Ave., Manhattan, (785) 537-7006, www.uccmanhattan. org, Sunday services at 10:45am; Taize services Thursday at 7pm, An Open and Affirming Congregation. First Metropolitan Community Church of Kansas, 156 S. Kansas, Wichita, (316) 267-1852, www.mccwichita.com, www.godlovesyouperiod.com, Sunday services at 10:15am. First Unitarian Universalist Church of Wichita, 7202 E. 21st St., (316) 6843481, officemanager@firstuu.net, www. firstuu.net. Kalpa Bhadra Kadampa Meditation Center, 721 W. 13th St., Wichita. (316) 263-1533, weekly meditation classes, prayers and workshops. See calendar of events at www.MeditateInKansas.org, everyone is welcome. Lutheran Campus Ministry, 1421 W. 19th, Lawrence, lutheran@ku.edu Metropolitan Community Church of Topeka, 4425 SW 19th, (785) 2721442, office@mcctopeka.org, www. MCCTopeka.org, services Sundays at 10am. Pine Valley Christian Church, 5620 E. 21st St., Wichita, (316) 685-2421,
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churchoffice@pvcconline.org, www. pvcconline.org Prairie Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 1809 E. 30th, Hutchinson, (620) 663-8002, www. prairieuufellowship.org Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Manhattan, 481 Zeandale Road, (785) 537-2349, www.uufm.net, services Sundays at 10:45am. Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Topeka, 4775 SW 21st St., (785) 2729233, www.uuft.org, services Sundays at 10:30am.
Student groups Bethel College GSA, North Newton, advisor: Gabriel Fonseca gfonseca@ bethelks.edu, President: Zachary Preheim zacharyrpreheim@bethelks.edu Derby High School tkellenbarger@usd260.com
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F re e S t a t e H i g h S c h o o l G S A , Lawrence, sponsors: Hilary Morton hmorton@usd497.org, and Kim Grinnell kgrinnell@usd497.org Highland Park High School's Parity, Topeka, LGBTatHP@outlook.com, facebook.com/LGBTatHP Hutchinson High School GSA, faculty advisor: Mr. Westmoreland, chairperson: Kara Vaughn. The Independent School GSA, Wichita, sponsor: Matt Hanne matt. hanne@theindependentschool.com K-State LGBT & Allies, meets every Thursday at 6:30 in Willard Hall, room 120. Lawrence High School GSA, sponsors: Shannon Draper SDraper@usd497.org, and Lindsay Buck LBuck@usd497.org Manhattan High School GSA, mhs_ gsa@hotmail.com Maize South High School GSA, sponsor: Shelly Walston swalston@ usd266.com, meets 2nd Fridays. Pitt State GSA, Pittsburg State University, pittstategaystraightalliance@ gmail.com Spectrum KU, University of Kansas, Lawrence, (785) 864-3091, rockchalkcentral.ku.edu/organization/ SpectrumKU Spectrum: LGBTQ & Allies, Wichita State University, Twitter.com/ Wsuspectrum, meets Thursdays at 7pm in the Lucas Room (RSC 265) when classes are in session. Wichita East High School GSA, CFee@fcscounseling.com Wichita Heights High School GSA, nmagoon@usd259.net Wichita North High School GSA, (316) 204-5621, kellykk00@yahoo.com, rhorning@usd259.net, cwidmer@ usd259.net, meets every Wednesday at lunch in room A213. Wichita Northeast High School GSA, Jbell2@usd259.net Wichita Northwest High School GSA, amcdonald@usd259.net, meets every Monday after school.
Wichita Southeast High School GSA, (316) 807-2271, psychsteve2@yahoo. com Wichita West High School GSA, astucky@usd259.net
Support Beacon Youth Group, Topeka, beacontopeka@gmail.com, queer youth group for ages 12-20. Meets every Monday at 5:30pm at Central Congregational Church, 1248 SW Buchanan St., the 1st, 4th, and 5th Mondays and Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Topeka, 4775 SW 21st St., 2nd and 3rd Mondays. Central Plains Area Agency on Aging, 2622 W. Central Suite 500, Wichita, (316) 660-5120, www.cpaaa.org, CPAAA is available to assist seniors, caregivers, and adults with disabilities through life’s transitions and with various levels of support. COMCARE Crisis Intervention Services, 934 N. Water, Wichita, (316) 660-7500 free 24/7, www. sedgwickcounty.org Get Connected, Wichita, (316) 2850007, LGBTQIA youth group for ages 12-21. Meets at The Center, 800 N. Market, every Friday from 7-9pm. GLSEN Greater Wichita, wichita@ chapters.glsen.org. Headquarters Counseling Center, Lawrence, (785) 841-2345 free 24/7, www.hqcc.lawrence.ks.us Healthy Transitions, for heterosexually married gay men in KC. A phone and face-to-face interview required, Mark McCarthy, LPC (816) 931-0011x4. HIV+ Men’s Support Group, Wichita, (316) 293-3405, mmadecky@kumc.edu Living Positive, a support group for people living with HIV and their caregivers. Meets 1st Tuesdays at 6pm. Call 785-537-7006 for location. O n e D a y A t A Ti m e , Wi c h it a , Alcoholics Anonymous meetings held Tuesdays and Thursdays at 8pm at First MCC, 156 S. Kansas. PFLAG Hutchinson, PO Box 2488, Hutchinson, (620) 899-2345, pflaghutch@gmail.com PFLAG Lawrence/Topeka, sffeist@ msn.org, www.pflagnekansas.org, meets 1st Sundays, 2-4pm. Location alternates between Lawrence and Topeka. Check website or e-mail for location. The Face of Trans*, www.thefaceof trans.com Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center, 355 N. Waco, Suite 100, (316) 2630185 office, (316) 263-3002 crisis line 24/7, advocate@wichitasac.com, www. wichitasac.com, free, confidential sexual assault services to all genders and sexual orientations. Wichita Transgender Community Network, social group meets the 1st week of each month and the support group meets the 3rd Thursday of each month at The Center, 800 N. Market, at 7pm. l
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Leather Life By Nolin Christensen aka Master C
Rules for submissives Editor’s note: This column may contain content that is offensive to some people.
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ast month I talked about some general rules that are in used in the leather community. This month and next month, I’d like to talk about specific rules for submissives and Dominants. The basic rule for a submissive is: to honor, serve, and obey; and to give your heart, life and soul to your Sir or Ma’am. Now realize that there are two types of submissives, service
submissives and play/scene submissives. Let me explain the difference before I get into their rules. Service submissives are individuals who get satisfaction, fulfillment and enjoyment from serving other individuals. They love to serve. We see this type of personality all the time in the general world and community. These are the individuals who love to help others and serve on various church and social committees. We have those same people who love to serve here in the leather community, but the only difference is that they have a kinky side to their sexual life. Play/scene submissives are those individuals who love to be in a submissive role when they do kinky play or scenes. These individuals also like to be the recipient of various types of play that we do. Often referred to as bottoms, they get their thrills and kicks from various types of play. So what are the rules for these individuals? Well primary rule #1 in my book is that when in the negotiation, communicate with the person. Tell them of any and ALL medical or health issues.
They need to know so they can properly play without causing damage to you. Tell them if you have experience with that type of play or not. Express any concerns about the play/scene you are going to do. Talk about your fantasies so they have an idea of what needs to happen so that the scene happens with enjoyment. I get my boys to talk about what they fantasize about and then store that away for future use and try and make it happen for them. Nothing is worse than a scene that does not fulfill the submissive’s desires. So communicate, communicate, communicate. Define and express your safe word. Agree in advance. Nothing goes worse than a submissive screaming their safe word and the Dom is going like what?! Expounding on the honor, serve, obey, give your heart, life, soul. One of the greatest joys for most submissives is the joy of having a Sir/Ma’am and serving that individual. To give themselves to that person for pleasure and to receive in return a fulfillment of their deepest sexual desires. Nothing is more satisfying to me than to have a submissive wrapped in my arms sobbing because I have
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given them a deep satisfaction from the type of play we just finished (but then again, I also get total satisfaction from when a submissive gives me a “go to h*** you sadist S.O.B.” look from the type of play we just finished). But something special and wonderful occurs when a submissive reaches that point in the relationship where they truly embrace the honor, serve and obey and they have given their heart, life and soul to making sure their Dom is totally satisfied. Because there is truly something special between a Dom and their sub. So when a submissive has reached and embraced that primary rule, they truly understand what it is to be a submissive on a deeper and more profound level. But what does it mean to honor your Dom? It means to always show respect to them and for them. Because a Sir doesn’t look good if the boy doesn’t look good. (or Ma’am, girl). Serve your Dom, as I stated earlier, there are many people who get great enjoyment from serving another. When that deep commitment occurs between a Dom and a sub, it’s even a greater enjoyment. And obey, doing what your Dom continued on page 34
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commands. This can create a very hot and very sexy situation between the two individuals. Watching someone command another and that person obeys without question is what got me into this lifestyle. I found that type of interaction between two individuals to be absolutely the hottest thing I’ve ever seen. Last but not least, to give your life, your heart and your soul to your Sir/Ma’am. This is the ultimate in that deep commitment I referred too. This is where individuals will find satisfaction beyond anything they have ever experienced. Because there is no greater
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love than when a person lays down their life for another. To give your life, your heart and your soul is to do just that. As a submissive, you are willing to give your life for your Dom. These are just some of the rules (also called protocols) that we have in our community. There are many others, but too many to list here. Just think of the various military rules and you will have a good idea of these other rules. If you are interested in learning more about being a submissive or what it takes to be a submissive and you want to experience satisfaction in your life, come check us out. We are WOOLF, Wichita’s leather organization. l
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