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By Vinnie Reed

W

hen I heard the shrill of a bird this morning, I thought of Bev. This week’s portion of the Torah mentions the “stranger.” It was about how, since we were strangers in the land of Egypt, that it is incumbent upon us to reach out to others who may be outside of the group. Those who are similarly marginalized. Set apart. Looked down upon.

Bev, indeed, was the stranger.

Perhaps not in the words we read in the portion, but in its intent.

Because Bev had a gay son. Not when it was trendy, or acceptable or when we were all putting cute little rainbows on our cars.

She was the stranger, not just because she had a gay son, but because she stood up for him.

Because she refused to do what she was told - to stop loving her son, to cast him aside.

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And then, Bev did what was the most right thing to do.

Knowing what it was like to be the stranger, Bev reached out to every stranger. If you were a mom whose son had just come out to you and you didn’t know what to do, you called the PFLAG help line.

Probably, you talked to Bev. If you were a teenager who didn’t know how to tell your parents, you called the PFLAG help line.

You probably talked to Bev. If you were a college professor brave enough to address sexual orientation in your classroom, you called the PFLAG help line.

Bev found you a panel of people who were just as brave to talk to your class.

Bev was an honorary mom and grandma, listener, caregiver and life-affirmer. If you were down, she would always pick you up. If you were gay she made sure you felt valued and loved. She was not a therapist, but she knew who you could see.

She was not a social worker, but she could tell you where to get the services you needed. And if you got married, she glowed with the love of a proud mama.

Bev was overflowing with care and love. I miss her so much. Bev loved birds, and when I hear one I think of her.

Bev knew what it was like to be the stranger, and as such she helped the stranger, the widow and the orphan. She embodied what Gd expects of us. l

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“It Gets Better” tour brings week-long outreach activities and powerful performance to Overland Park

By Ciara Reid, staff reporter OVERLAND PARK - Over the last several years, the “It Gets Better” cast has toured a selection of cities; engaging the local communities through interactive workshops before culminating the week with an emotional performance of true stories from communities nationwide.

This season’s performance features 12 real-life stories.

The cast performs the words of individuals that include public figures like Jason Collins, the first openly gay man to play in one of the four major professional team sports. The production also features music from the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles.

The “It Gets Better” cast will begin their week-long residency in the Overland Park/Kansas City area on April 17. Various events are planned throughout the week leading up to the show. The cast will help facilitate discussion with the community, including anti-bullying workshops. Two workshops will be located at St. Paul’s United Methodist Church in Lenexa, Kansas.

The week will culminate in a performance, which begins at 8pm on Saturday, April 22 at Johnson County Community College’s Yardley Hall.

Liberty Press spoke with Liesel Reinhart, the show’s writer and director, about what the local community can expect from the cast’s outreach events and performance at Yardley Hall: Liberty Press (LP): The “It Gets Better” show has been touring since 2011, and has included a stop in Lawrence, Kansas in 2013. How are the cities chosen, and how much preparation goes into planning the outreach events leading up to the performance for each tour stop?

Liesel Reinhart (LR): We share our availability at performing arts conferences and via word of mouth and then are invited to each community by a local performing arts presenter -

sometimes a year or more in advance. The local presenter may fundraise to help cover the costs of our visit and our organization also raises funds and sponsorships to support the show (our sponsor Southwest Airlines provides our flights, for instance). It really takes a village.

The local presenters and our tour coordinator work together to pack as many events as possible into the calendar during our week in each city and begin planning those many months in advance, reaching out to schools, LGBT organizations, and civic leaders.

It’s a really big job for them and we’re so impressed with the work that was done to prepare for our visit to Overland Park. Kansas has a wonderful arts community who serve not just the cultural needs of the community, but also some of the social, emotional, and practical needs of people in their service areas.

LP: What can the Overland Park/ JCCC community expect from the IGB week-long residency?

LR: While one week can’t fix everything, we do hope that our visit shines a spotlight on the need to create a supportive climate for LGBTQ+ youth (and all youth) in the community. A lot of organizations are working hard every day on that task, so our visit is meant to bring a new energy to the issue perhaps some new connections between people who haven’t communicated before.

We do a World Cafe - a community dialogue that is usually open to members of the public - as well as school performances and workshops and a program called the “community chorus” where we work with local singers, who then perform on stage with us during the performance.

LP: How are the 12 stories in the performance chosen, and how often do they change?

LR: The stories are chosen with great difficulty from the submissions we receive from across the country - some through the It Gets Better Project website, some through people we meet while traveling, and

some through the other 280 members of the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles. W e select stories that capture the reality of life in America as people try to find the “better” in their own experiences. We have queer voices, but also some ally voices, too. Of course - it is theater so we also select stories that are entertaining, dramatic and funny with engaging characters at the center.

We change the show annually - keeping some content and modifying other content to keep the show immediate and responsive to what we are hearing in communities we visit.

Curiously, on our first visit to Lawrence we met an individual in our residency who made such an impression that we added his story to our show. As part of his story he refers to a visit to the Shawnee Mission Medical Center in Overland Park. Each story in the show is real and uses the actual words of the person we interviewed.

Notably, the show also has a lot of great music - both continued on page 18

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10 years of being weird - the Lawrence Busker Festival

4th annual Bike Beautiful: “Riding a Bike Never Looked Better” WICHITA - On Thursday, April 20, Bike Beautiful will bring together fashion and friends who want to start or who already enjoy riding bicycles. The evening will be packed with bike-friendly fashion trends from local retailers, the latest cycling gear and accessories, tips from local ladies who ride, and shopping deals from local retailers.

Enjoy appetizers and beverages at Distillery 244 in Old Town, 244 N. Mosley, while learning about events hosted by local groups and share in a fun evening with awesome people. Doors will open at 6pm for shopping, mingling, and the show starts at 7pm.

Tickets are $10 for general admission, and $20 for VIP seating. Order tickets at www.

LAWRENCE - Ten years is a long time to do anything, especially when you are doing something weird. The Lawrence Busker Festival returns for its 10th year of keeping Lawrence weird with street performers from all over the world.

On May 26-28, downtown Lawrence hosts over 50 different acts performing on five different stages. The unique and different skills on display include fire manipulations, pogo stick acrobatics, circus spies, break dancing, strong women, aerial artists, musicians, poets and rubber chicken tricks. It’s all free, the acts are only paid by voluntary tips.

More information is available at Lawrencebuskerfest.com or by calling 785-330-5110 or writing to info@lawrencebuskerfest. com.

Global Village takes top place in PRX Zeitfunk Awards

WICHITA - Global Village took home top place for Most Licensed Series in the 2016 PRX Zeitfunk Awards, announced in March 2017 by PRX. Each year PRX, which along with NPR and PRI is the main route for distribution of audio content to public and community radio stations, presents the Zeitfunk Awards. They are based entirely on the actual number of individual shows stations take through PRX for air. Global Village, which placed in the Top 10 several times and as high as Top Three in the past, this year was named the Number One Most Licensed Series taken by stations through PRX. Global Village went on the air on KMUW in January 2007, the outgrowth of a world music radio show started in 1989 by host Chris Heim and one of the longest-running world music shows in public radio. It offers an eclectic mix of programming that highlights not only a wide array of world styles and artists, but jazz, folk, rock and blues performers who incorporate world influences in their work.

Global Village began national and international distribution in September 2010 and has aired to date on over 325 stations in 40 states, Canada, New Zealand and Cambodia.

Kelsy Gossett presents thesis show in April

WICHITA - Kelsy Gossett, owner of Images by Kelsy, is wrapping up her MFA in photography from Wichita State University. She is an artist working primarily in photography, video and performance. The use of the body is consistent in her work as she explores ideas of identity, intimacy and relationships while questioning expectations.

Gossett’s thesis show, entitled “For Your Viewing

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Pleasure, will be on display at The Diver Studio, 424 S. Commerce, in Wichita through May 19. The opening reception is Friday, April 28 as part of Final Friday. More information at www.kelsygossett.com.

April 8 Summit on Education WICHITA - Women for KansasWichita is hosting a Summit on Education on Saturday, April 8, from 2-5pm at SEIU, 3340 W. Douglas, Wichita. People interested in learning about the local public schools and what can be done to help are encouraged to attend. Contact 316-3716188 for more information.

National Day of Silence WICHITA - National Day of Silence, April 21, is a student-led event organized to make people aware of the silencing effects of anti-LGBTQ name-calling, bullying, and harassment in schools.

This year there are two events in Wichita recognizing the National Day of Silence.

One is from 11am-12:30pm on the north patio of the Rhatigan Student Center on the Wichita State campus as part of Gaypril activities.

The other is from 4-6:30pm in A. Price Woodard Park in downtown Wichita sponsored by the Greater Wichita chapter of GLSEN. “We are using the same format as in previous years,” said Liz Hamor, chairperson of GLSEN Greater Wichita.”

From 4-5pm community partners send people within the organization to set up informational tables.

“The organization representatives come out and show their support for the youth,” Hamor said.

During that time students can work on posters if they want.

Starting about 5pm, a 15-minute silent demonstration takes place.

“Then we break the silence with a short rally with student speakers, who talk about their experiences,” Hamor said.

From 5:30-6:30pm is a time to celebrate with a DJ there playing music, dessert, Starbucks, socializing, and dancing. l

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Edwards highlights WSU's Gaypril

Alyssa Edwards is this year's host of the annual drag show as part of Gaypril festivities at WSU.

By Grayson Barnes and Kristi Parker WICHITA - The month of April has been dubbed “Gaypril” by Wichita State University’s Office of Diversity and Inclusion (ODI) and Spectrum (the LGBTQ and Allies group there). Various fun, educational, and celebratory events are planned, starting with International Transgender Day of Visibility on Mar. 31, ending with Lavender Graduation on May 4.

Danielle Johnson, the Assistant Director of the ODI said LGBTQ events at WSU previously only lasted

a week, but since the beginning of the ODI, they have extended it to more than a month. At that point, the ODI “kind of jacked the name from KU,” laughed Johnson, “but we are incredibly grateful and we tell them that all the time!”

To highlight the month this year, Alyssa Edwards of RuPaul’s Drag Race is hosting the 7 th Annual Drag S h o w. E d w a r d s , whose name is Justin Johnson, has a storied career in the drag world dating back to 2003 when she was crowned the first alternate to Miss Gay Texas.

She followed that up with 11 other titles including four competitions at Miss Gay America, which she won in 2010. She also won Miss Gay USofA in 2006 and All American Goddess in 2010.

She was chosen to appear on the fifth season of RuPaul’s Drag Race on Logo in 2012 finishing sixth. She then appeared in season two of RuPaul’s Drag Race: All Stars in 2016, ending in fifth place.

“I remember the beginning of this life-changing experience,” Edwards said recently in response to the newly picked Season 9 performers, “and will forever be grateful. Have a ball.

Enjoy the ride and treasure every moment.”

Edwards is very popular for his famous quotes during the

show. Many top ten lists appear online including gems such as, "I don’t get cute, I get drop dead gorgeous" and "Don’t get bitter, just get better!"

Justin Johnson, no relation to Danielle, is also known for his award-winning dance company Beyond Belief Dance Company out of Mesquite, TX. The dance company is the centerpiece for a new web-series following Alyssa Edwards titled “Haus of Edwards” premiering in late 2017.

Additional events for the month, other than those listed above, include training opportunities, free STI testing, National Day of Silence, and a film showing. Safe Zone Training and Gender Diversity Training will be offered through the Counseling and Testing

Center at WSU, along with GLSEN. Out Here in Kansas, a short film about Southwestern College graduate and physician Burt Humburg, will be shown April 19 in the CAC Theater.

The Pride Prom, April 14, is a celebration for people who may not be able to attend another prom with their significant other because it is not allowed or even dangerous. It is open to anyone from high school on up.

Other co-sponsors include the Elliott School of Communications, Student Involvement, Student Health Services, Kansas Pathology Consultants, Human Resources, and the Cadman Art Gallery.

For more information on the events, go to wichita.edu/ gaypril, or check out the calendar on the previous page. l

Wichita State University School of Performing Arts Presents

By Alan Menken & Glenn Slater

7:30 Thurs - Sat, 2:00 Sun April 27th - 30th Wilner Auditorium

Tickets: $20, $18, & $10 Free for WSU Students

For more information, call 978-3233 or visit wichita.edu/fineartsboxoffice

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Freedom Through Fashion for ICT S.O.S. Funds raised to help prevent human trafficking

By Emily Beckman WICHITA - On Mar. 4, Abode Venue was transformed into a sparkling, roaring 20s fashion scene with a purpose.

The first annual Freedom Through Fashion event was held, a fundraiser benefitting ICT S.O.S., a local organization which works to prevent human trafficking.

The event featured a runway show with fashions by Alicia Ybarra of Vanya Designs and Custom Sewing, a silent auction and more.

Miss Kansas’ Outstanding Teen Paige Kauffman had the vision for the fashion show.

Her platform is ending human trafficking, although she was involved with ICT S.O.S. before beginning pageantry.

“I’ve always been passionate about seeking justice and helping those who are broken and have been exploited,” Kauffman said.

“Now as a titleholder, I am able to reach a broader audience and share about human trafficking and how it’s affecting Kansans.”

The event raised over $9,000 for ICT S.O.S. According to Jennifer White, executive director and founder of ICT S.O.S., victims of human trafficking are sometimes “branded” with a tattoo.

The money raised from Freedom Through Fashion will help bring Chicago-based tattoo artist, Chris Baker of INK 180, to Wichita. Baker has previously travelled to Wichita to cover up and remove tattoos that brand victims and he will be here in April to teach a couple

of local artists how to do so.

White has had the opportunity to sit in on several tattoo cover ups and removals.

“You just see what a relief it is and what a new beginning it is for somebody to get rid of that [tattoo] and move on from it,” she said.

How to get involved L t . Tr a v i s R a k e s t r a w, commander of the exploited and missing child unit for the Wichita Police Department, says people should know that human trafficking is an issue that happens in the Wichita community.

According to Rakestraw, there were 116 juvenile victims of human trafficking identified in Sedgwick County in 2015 and 2016.

There are a number of ways to get involved in ICT S.O.S. and help combat the issue.

The organization provides volunteer training courses, offers prevention education for schools, gathers resources and more.

White notes that through the volunteer class, individuals can often combine an existing passion with a way to help prevent instances of human trafficking.

“If people have a heart for this issue, we’d love for them to come and get involved with us,” White says.

To learn more about ICT S.O.S. or to get involved, visit www.ictsos.org. l

30 Years of Taking Back the Night

By Jamie Rhodes WICHITA - A few years ago, Gia (not her real name) met a guy, hung out a few of times, then had him over to watch a movie, to which, he made more and more sexual advances toward her. She began to feel uncomfortable and asked him to leave. He refused and kept insisting they have sex.

In a moment of defeat, awkwardness, and pure annoyance, she unwillingly succumbed to his pleading advances, despite her telling him “no,” just to get him to leave. Many woman may share this similar experience, but are too afraid to call it for what it is: RAPE. With this incident weighing on her mind, she drank more heavily. A few months later, Gia was walking drunk downtown, until she was picked up by four men and taken back to a house.

Most of her night was blurry and in the morning, she called a friend to come get her.

Her friend insisted on taking her to the emergency room after she kept complaining of pelvic pain. She doesn’t know exactly what happened to her

that evening, but there was some major bruising on her cervix.

While at the ER, she was visited by the Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center. Believing this incident was her fault because of her poor decisions, she did not press charges. Years later, she still finds it hard to call it for what it was: RAPE. Gia, and many other women (and men), may feel like their story is an isolated incident, until they find others who share commonalities. That is the purpose of the Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center (WASAC).

“It’s not unusual for drugs and alcohol to be used as a tool against a victim,” says Kathy Williams, Executive Director at WASAC. She estimates a national rate of 50-80% of sexual assaults go unreported. In 2016, WASAC saw 2,225 people in relation to sexual victimization.

This number includes people they saw at any stage of their healing process. 600 of those people were friends and family of survivors.

WASAC responded to the ER 462 times (includes children, teens, and adults). One of the many resources available at

the WASAC are therapeutic programs for children and adults of victims and their families, such as “Take Back the Night.”

“Take Back the Night” is an evening of survival celebration for victims and a space of reflection for the community. It’s free and open to the public. Mary Stolz-Newton, Director of Survival Services at WASAC says, “It’s a chance for the community to come together and be together to meet other survivors who want to share bits of their story, or the healing process, and how sexual violence has affected them, while providing a safe and supportive environment.”

The event is on April 28 in the Festival Plaza at Exploration Place starting at 6:30pm with food trucks, live music, t-shirt sales, and a display of Survivor Art. The rally starts at 8pm

and consists of five survivor speakers and three poets. At 8:30, the reflection march begins. Supporters will march to the 2nd Street bridge and end by the Keeper of the Plains.

Along the walk, volunteers will hold display boards so people can read pieces of stories from survivors.

“After the march, for those who were encouraged by the speakers and need extra time to process through, and time to share their story in a safe place, they may stay for the Candlelight Survivor Circle,” Stolz-Newton said. “We typically average 200300 people, but we’re hoping for a lot more since it’s the 30th anniversary.”

If you or someone you know is a victim of sexual assault and you need someone to talk to, call the WASAC hotline 24/7 at (316) 263-3002. l

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8th annual Little Apple Pride will be biggest yet

By Kevin Stilley MANHATTAN - The first Little Apple Pride celebration was held during K-State’s Open House Weekend in April 2010.

A rally including a drag show was hosted by K-State’s LGBT and Allies at Triangle Park in Aggieville. Nearly 100 were in attendance.

T h e f o l l o w i n g y e a r, a p a r a d e w as ad d ed to th e event. Participants marched f r o m M a n h a t t a n ’s F i r s t Congregational Church to Aggieville. There were rainbow flags and groups carrying banners representing various allied organizations from the Manhattan/Junction City area.

Sam Brinton says this of the first parade: “So, it’s the day of the first parade. We’ve spent months and months in planning.

We did all the paperwork and had the permits. We start getting people ready and realize there is no police escort. People start freaking out.

“I march into the police station covered in glitter, in my tall heels, and lace-up Apple Bottom jeans. Their eyes go wide. I say, ‘You guaranteed us a police escort. We’ve paid the fees. Now I need you to follow me and escort this parade.’ They got in their car and we showed up to the parade. I’ll never forget that day!”

This event continues to grow every year. Sponsors of the event include the Junction City Teddy Bears, the Flint Hills Human Rights Project, Flint Hills PFLAG, Flint Hills Pride, K-State’s SAGA (formerly LBGT and Allies), LGBT Resource Center, and Student Governing Association, as well

as several local businesses and individuals.

A silent auction of items donated by individuals and area businesses helps raise funds for the event, as do t-shirt sales.

Local politicos and LGBT activists are invited to speak.

A DJ is always present to keep everyone hopping, and a drag show is staged for entertainment.

This is a family-friendly event, and various kids’ activities are included.

The response from the Manhattan community has been overwhelmingly positive.

Manhattan is proving to be a progressive community as a whole. Last fall, gender identity and sexual orientation were added as protected classes to the city’s anti-discrimination ordinance.

In 2016, the event was forced to move to Manhattan City Park due to construction in Aggieville. This proved to be fortuitous as participation was larger than ever. More than 200 marched in the parade, and approximately 400 attended the celebration in the park.

The 8th Annual Little Apple Pride will be bigger than ever.

In keeping with recent local events, the theme is “Moving Forward,” and Mayor Usha Reddi has been invited to serve as Grand Marshall of the parade and keynote speaker at the rally.

A full parade permit has been obtained, so vehicles and floats will be allowed to participate.

Two live music acts have been added to the entertainment lineup.

A Pride Prince and Princess Pageant will be held April 1.

This amateur event will raise funds for the event, and winners

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Finally, for the first time, Little Apple Pride has been scheduled on a different weekend than K-State’s Open House.

This allows more KSU students and faculty to participate.

Besides SAGA and the LGBT Resource Center, KSU is home to the Gender Collective; a chapter of LGVMA, the Lesbian and Gay Veterinary Medicine Association; oSTEM, out in Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics; and an LGBT faculty group.

Everyone is welcome April 22 to celebrate diversity in the Little Apple. For more details, see the ad on page four in this edition of Liberty Press. l

Manhattan Mayor Usha Reddi has been invited to serve as Little Apple Pride's parade Grand Marshall and keynote speaker at the rally.

Below: Members of the Junction City Teddy Bears participate in the first parade in 2011. Courtesy photo

bridges Died: George Sweet Ph.D., 83, husband of Dr. Donna Sweet, on March 15, 2017 in Wichita. A memorial has been established at The Sweet Emergency Fund.

Died: Mary Harren, 91, peace and social justice activist, from cancer on March 22, 2017 in Wichita.

Anniversary: Stephanie Mott, transgender activist and founder of the Kansas Statewide Transgender Education Project, is celebrating her nine-year anniversary of writing the Liberty Press column Trans-Formative with the April 2017 issue.

Anniversary: Rocky’s, located at 604 S. Topeka, is celebrating its one-year anniversary on April 29, 2017.

If you or someone you know is having an anniversary, received a promotion or award, or a loved one has passed away, we will publish it free in Bridges. E-mail editor@libertypress.net.

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Positive Directions’ AIDS Walk 2017, additional outreach programs on the horizon

By Ciara Reid, staff reporter WICHITA - Positive Directions, Inc. (PDI) is gearing up for AIDS Walk 2017, scheduled for April 29. PDI is a social service agency that provides free HIV-prevention services and HIV testing and outreach education. Specific services include condom distribution, rapid HIV testing, and support group referrals.

Participants of the AIDS Walk will meet in the parking lot of The Workroom, located at 150 N. Cleveland in Wichita. Checkin is scheduled for 9am; the walk begins at 10am. The AIDS Walk is free for those who have raised more than $25. All walkers will receive a t-shirt.

Brett Hogan, executive director of PDI, says that the AIDS Walk has multiple purposes. “It is a memoriam for those that have passed from the syndrome, and an acknowledgement to those living with HIV, letting them know we are still here fighting for them,” he explains. “Also, the walk is a reminder to the community that HIV is still here, it is still prevalent and still spreading.”

Hogan says that while the syndrome is no longer the hot button issue it once was, the Wichita community will be reminded of its prevalence when they see more than 400 people walking down Douglas Street.

Funds raised through the walk will directly benefit PDI so that the organization can continue to help the community through its various services and outreach activities. For those who are interested in donating, but not necessarily walking, they can contribute funds to CrowdRise. A link to the specific CrowdRise site is at the bottom of this article.

Hogan says that in the past, PDI has been a full-service provider for those living with HIV, as well as a prevention and testing facility. The funds raised went directly back to the organization to maintain services such as the food bank,

case management, outreach, and many other programs.

However, PDI recently restructured its organization to provide strictly prevention.

Now, Hogan says the funds from the AIDS Walk will go directly to the outreach and education programs, which focus on the prevention and education of HIV, and direct targeting of individuals and groups, testing, and linking them to proper care in order to receive the services needed to remain healthy while living with HIV. Other initiatives in the works include the relaunch of the Bodyguards program. “As a new Positive Directions grew into being, we needed to bring a fresh idea to it to push us into the focus again,” Hogan explains.

The original program from years ago was a grassroots, face-toface prevention and education program. Hogan says they will reintroduce the full program to the community after making a few more tweaks and ironing out details.

While PDI has always offered free HIV rapid testing, they now have the new fourth generation test, which only needs a 10-day exposure wait, compared to the third generation test, which had a 90-day exposure wait.

“This drastically cuts down on wait time, as well as if the test is reactive (positive) then the individual can get on meds quicker,” Hogan says.

PDI will also soon be offering syphilis testing and HepC rapid tests. Hogan says that the organization’s condom program is still going strong and has many sites throughout Wichita.

In addition to the organizational and service changes, PDI also recently experienced a change in physical location, though not much of one. As of November of last year, the organization moved from their old address at 414 S. Commerce to an office right next door, at 416 S. Commerce, suite 108.

Hogan explains that while it is smaller than their previous office space, it fits their current more streamlined services.

“A downsize, but as funding and program needs have been refocused and reduced, the larger space at the previous office was no longer needed, nor affordable,” Hogan says. “Our landlord was gracious enough to work with us to maintain a presence here in the Commerce Arts District, as we have been

here for 11 + years and did not want to lose that connection to the community.”

For more information on the AIDS Walk or PDI, visit www.pdiks.com. To donate, visit: www.crowdrise.com/ AidsWalk2017. l

Seventh installment of Kid’s Cabaret to benefit Positive Directions

By Kristi Parker WICHITA - Amy Menas’ The Studio will be hosting its 7th Kid’s Cabaret for a Cause this time to benefit Wichita’s Positive Directions and Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS in NYC. Previous Kid’s Cabarets have raised money for The Treehouse, The Wichita Children’s Home, The Kansas Food Bank and Music Theatre Wichita (MTW).

Menas, who has taught private voice lessons for more than 25 years, has Studio students ages 7-18. They will perform songs from Broadway’s most famous shows. Performers include 2016 Voice of the Children winner Abby Jolicoeur, James Heinrichs, Chip in MTW 2016 production of Beauty and the Beast, Topher Cundith, Pinocchio and Young Will in 2015 MTW productions my My Son, Pinocchio and Big Fish, among others.

The show is Friday, April 7 at 7:30pm at the Wichita Art Museum, 1400 W. Museum Blvd. Broadway Cares/EFA will provide signed Broadway posters and other Broadway memorabilia. There is a $5 suggested donation. l

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Gender and sexuality conference at WSU offered a wide range of in-depth topics

By Grayson Barnes

Women Wash Their Hands

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aybe this is one of those things that we are not supposed to talk about.

Of course, most of the things we need to talk about are perceived as things we are not supposed to talk about. A lot of talk happens around transgender people in bathrooms. It might be time for some transgender talk about cisgender people in bathrooms. (cisgender = not transgender) Speaking as someone who has used the men’s room as well as the ladies’ room, I can tell you that there are a lot of things never spoken in the words used to relegate transgender people to a restroom identified by their birth certificate; words that are focused on people’s fears.

Speaking as a transgender educator, I can tell you that this is one of the most common topics during the question and answer sessions of my educational presentations. I treasure these questions. When people are genuine about wanting to have a better understanding, conversations that might otherwise be impossible, become possible.

Speaking again as someone who has visited both the male and female spaces, I can tell you that things are quite different in women’s spaces. For starters, women wash their hands.

Now I admit freely that I have not conducted any scientific studies about the propensity for one gender or another to wash their hands after going to the bathroom, and that my conclusions are based solely on my own personal experiences.

But I will also say that I have never been chided in the women’s bathroom for wanting to wash my hands.

When I was living as a boy, and I took the time to wash my hands after going to the

bathroom, the boys would sometimes chastise me. Come on, they would say, only girls wash their hands. A silent subtle smile must have crossed by face each time that happened, as I would think to myself, if you only knew.

And women talk to each other in the restroom.

Beautiful weather today, she said. My heart stopped in mid-beat. I had no idea how to respond to this woman in the next stall who was trying to start a conversation with me.

It would be the first of many conversations I would have with women in public restrooms, sometimes in mid-pee.

This is a different place indeed, I thought, as I managed a short, Yes. Yes it is. In all my (very limited) learning about how to navigate the world as a transgender woman, there was no information about the dynamics that fill women’s spaces - and how that differs from men’s spaces - when we go - where we go.

When I first started living authentically, and I was still perceived as male, I took the advice my parents gave when I was a child and we were getting ready to go on a car trip - Did you pee? We are not stopping every 15 minutes for one of you (my four siblings and me). You better pee before we get in the car!

I tried to stay clear of any public restroom. It wasn’t that I was uncomfortable with using women’s spaces. I just didn’t want to make anyone else uncomfortable by using the women’s restroom. Considering that I was presenting as a woman, using the men’s room would have been far more than uncomfortable; it would have been very dangerous. I always

WICHITA - On Mar. 3, I attended the 4 th Gender and Sexuality in Kansas Conference at Wichita State University.

The conference was sponsored by the Office of Diversity and Inclusion, the Shocker SOC Club, the Department of Sociology, and the Elliott School of Communications.

Conference subjects included intersectionality, inclusion, gender, gender and minority violence, and sexual experience and education.

I attended this one-day conference previously when it was still in the Marcus Welcome Center on the WSU campus and there were just a few breakout sessions. This year, the conference was in the Rhatigan Student Center, which offered more room for the 11 breakout sessions and the Keynote presentation.

The speaker was Dr. Joey Sprague, Professor of Sociology at the University of Kansas.

Her work focuses on the ways knowledge is shaped by social relations organized around gender, race, and class. In her talk titled “The Academy as a Gendered Institution,” Dr. Sprague examined how academic values favor masculine qualities. made sure to pee before I got in the car.

Today, it is different for me.

I go in the women’s room. I seldom get a second glance.

Women sometimes talk to me and I don’t give it a second thought.

In men’s rooms and in women’s rooms, people just go in there to use the bathroom.

Sometimes women talk to each other. And when they are done, women wash their hands. l Stephanie Mott is a transgender woman from Topeka. She is the executive director of the Kansas Statewide Transgender Education Project, and a commissioner on the City of Topeka Human Relations Commission. Reach her at stephanieequality@yahoo.com.

While I attended a number of sessions, I am going to look at those which might be of interest to our readership. When it comes to the breadth of the conference, very little is left out of the discussion. One, “Building a Trans-Inclusive Classroom,” was directed toward educators who want to implement practical, respectful, and inclusive spaces for transgender students and anyone else on the gender or sexuality spectrum.

An Sasala and Alex Cloyd (University of Kansas) discussed pronoun protocols along with when and how to build trust with students. They shared local and state resource materials for both educators and transitioning students.

Support and resources are important to ensure the educational success of minorities, transgender students especially, as noted

by Jennifer Pearson (WSU), Lindsey Wilkinson (Portland State University), and Hui Lui (Michigan State University) in their presentation, “Transgender Identity and Educational Attainment.” They examined the correlation between transgender identity milestones (realization, coming out, physical transition) and how successful transgender individuals were in their education.

According to them, it seems that those who identify as transgender in very early childhood or adulthood seem to be more successful in school.

This is because they are not subject to the harassment, namecalling, and institutionalized discrimination in schools (such as bathroom/locker room use).

Jakki Forester (Kansas State University) researched the drag community in central Kansas (Junction City, Manhattan, Topeka, and Lawrence). In “Drag Queens of Central Kansas as Social Justice Advocates and Civic Leaders,” she posited that these performers are instrumental in creating continued on page 27

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but mostly from young people.

Often they describe being at a original and popular songs sung very difficult place, but feeling in creative arrangements by the hopeful because of the time we eight-person cast. spent together.

After doing this for several LP: What has the response years now, I realize that part of a n d f e e d b a c k b e e n what makes the show important f r o m r e c e n t t o u r s t o p s ? is the basic act of a community LR: There has been great bringing us to town. It’s the local response during our sessions and courage to invite us to come, the in our Q&A’s after the shows. We local commitment to hosting our always receive a lot of messages events, and the local power of via all forms of social media - hundreds of people gathering to some from parents or teachers, show their love and support at Gets Better continued from page 7

the theater.

Our show serves as a capstone moment, but to a young person in Overland Park who is watching our visit unfold, what will likely blow their mind is to be in a theater full of friends and neighbors they never knew cared so much about their experience. We hear about that feeling again and again.

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By Bob Minor

Translating Right-Wing Attempts to Trigger Liberal Guilt

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e want to believe that everyone means what they say. We want to believe that a little more educating and presentation of the facts convinces people.

We think that explaining ourselves over and over again and spending a lot of energy to understand the right-wing will help us get along. We’re invested in the idea that showing them we care about their views – even claiming we “respect” irrational views – will win them over.

And when these things don’t work, we blame ourselves, our lack of listening skills, our lack of empathy, our neglect to spend enough time, or our failure to articulate clearly what we mean.

We treat ourselves as the guilty party in the debates and actually, though we’d never admit it to ourselves, end up looking down on right-wingers and their dupes as if they’re mere victims of ignorance, misinformation or illogic, not as actors who make choices and cling to their prejudices no matter how we argue.

No wonder that the rightwing thinks liberals look down on them.

There’s still a moveable middle that wants to see unwavering initiatives by progressives who stand clearly, powerfully, and convincingly as real believers in what they say.

Wishy-washy - acting uncertain - won’t work with that middle anymore, and certainly it won’t if we’re progressive people working out of some guilt that it’s somehow our fault.

The right-wing knows how to respond so that people will feel that their problem is actually their antagonist’s fault.

And people’s backgrounds, childhood upbringings, and unhealed issues feed into how

much it triggers them to blame themselves.

There are certain strategies that the right-wing (and others) will use – words and phrases that say one thing that makes their liberal enemies fall into guilt, into belief that liberals are the problem and need to put more energy into useless arguments.

If we’ve not done it by now, then, it’s time to translate what they’re saying into its

We’ve got to be ready for the hell they’re willing for the rest of us to experience. Their misery loves company – it makes them feel that they’re ultimately right when they’re actually full of doubt about it.

“You’re not listening to me.”

“You don’t understand me.”

They hope this will cause you to try harder because you’ll believe the continued disagreement is your fault.

Again: baloney. When rightwingers claim liberals don’t listen or don’t understand them, they’re saying that until you agree with them they’ll not accept that you’re giving them a fair listen or understanding.

You must change your opinion to satisfy them.

Understanding does not mean agreement. That’s a liberal fantasy - if we just understood each other, we’d all be singing “Kumbaya.”

“FOX News and right-wing hate radio will only keep you angry and upset.” actual meaning so that we’ll act positively and compassionately out of creative power and not take responsibility for rightwingers’ failure to respond as we think.

“You aren’t spending enough time figuring out what we mean and thus should listen forever to our sources.”

Baloney. There’s no need to listen more closely to rightwingers (especially members of the Trump cult). You should know what they believe by now; they have nothing new to say.

If anyone finds something new and unpredictable, that will be a surprise, but I’ll bet we’ve heard it all before. Garbage in/ garbage out.

FOX News and right-wing hate radio will only keep you angry and upset (“Look what they’re doing now!”). They know that, and their goal is to do exactly that to you.

This means that hardly any new mean, self-centered, hypocritical thing they do should not surprise us anymore.

Hypocrisy is built into their lifestyle to keep it going.

The Israelis and Palestinians do understand each other. I, in fact, disagree vehemently with the right-wing on most issues, because I understand them.

S o, don’t expect m ore indulgence to change their argument that you don’t get them. What will change it is when you change your position to agree fully with their view.

“You liberals talk down to us.”

We are if we think the problem is their ignorance of facts that we know.

But again: baloney. When they say liberals talk down to them, right-wingers mean that liberals keep using facts and careful, peaceful language.

Liberals will be accused of talking down to them until liberals agree completely with them.

And, by the way, no one talks down more to those they disagree with than rightwingers – ex. “We patriots.” “We true Americans.” “We Moral Majority.” “We Christians.”

You don’t get the logic in our positions.”

Baloney. The current rightwing mindset isn’t based on rationality and logic. It’s about supporting prejudices by any means possible. The more liberals argue as if cool rationality will work, the more they will be accused of talking down to them.

Remember, right-wingers are not caught up in their ideology because they’re stupid or just don’t understand something you have to tell them. They’re caught up in something like the comfort of a cult that has teachings that support their prejudices and fears – what George Lakoff calls the conservative frame.

As such, right-wingers will lie, reject anyone who points out that they’re lying, and defend their heroes no matter what they do - unless its same-sex relations with children.

And right-wing religion supports all of this if it makes them winners in their righteous culture wars. Look at their view of the end times, which includes their salivating about the violent, vengeful destruction of their enemies. The key to right-wing religion is experiencing and seeking the high of righteousness that means winning at all costs.

“We’re being persecuted by….”

Malarkey. Right-wingers love to play you so that you believe they’re the victims of you and your liberal culture. No matter how they’re in power, they’ll always talk like a persecuted minority.

The current office holders, including President Bannon, aren’t dumb or lacking in some understanding of democracy.

They know how to use the minds of their devotees and liberals to get their oligarchic agenda across.

Don’t fall into their guiltinducing mind control. It’s them, not you.

Realize that when you’re confronting them. l Robert N. Minor, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of Religious Studies at the University of Kansas, is author of When Religion Is an Addiction; Scared Straight: Why It’s So Hard to Accept Gay People and Why It’s So Hard to Be Human; and Gay & Healthy in a Sick Society. Contact him at www.

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Dear Mama, What do you think of the new Secretary of Education? A concerned teacher I think that our children will now be very safe from grizzly bears. She is an idiot! We are in big trouble!

Mama, Can you believe this crap with Kansas? Not signed

Hell yes I can! Look at our Governor, he is as bad as Darth Cheeto! Bareback is a pocket politician. If you look in the Koch brothers pocket you will find our Governor.

Not only do we have to worry about our own state, but the whole nation. I really wish Calgon could take us away!

Hey Thelma, Do you think Trump is right and all the media cannot be believed? Not Fox News Are you kidding? Darth Cheeto is full of orange filling! He is trying to cover his own agenda.

This is what another leader did, but he was an evil small mustached human. We all just need to do our homework and find the media that is just facts.

Do not believe everything Darth

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et’s try not to be an April fool as a bunch of planets hover in and out of Aries. The Sun, retro Venus, retro Mercury and Uranus all conspire to upend our carefully balanced world. Hold onto your hearts, heads and balance. Whoops!

Cheeto says! Bring me a beer before that is not allowed back into this country as well.

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Spread mashed potatoes on top.

Bake in preheated oven until the pie is hot, and the mashed potatoes are golden brown, about 30 minutes. l Have a question for Mama? E-mail MamaTHarper@aol.com.

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ARIES (MAR. 21 - APRIL 20) Proud Rams are at once both supremely confident and increasingly apprehensive about their next big move. The reason for the uncertainty is that you might be taking two steps forward in your personal goals only to have to go one step back. This dance might continue for the next few weeks, but I am confident that fairly soon you will get back into graceful rhythm.

LEO (JULY 24 - AUG. 23) Proud Lions may have itchy paws and want to travel the world. But content yourself with planning for a trip in the future. Any large venture could hit a snag, get you lost in the weeds or prove to be disappointing in some way. But there is a lot you can happily do closer to home including discovering some local hot spots. So keep your sunny side up and follow the sun virtually for now.

SAGITTARIUS (NOV. 23 - DEC. 22) As much as you might try to conjure up inspiration, nothing may manifest. If life becomes boring, blame it on the fates and let your genius slide for a few days. Gay Archers love a good time. If you are having trouble finding one, use your energies in more productive or lucrative ways. Ready to clean out the garage? You may find a fortune in old paint there.

TAURUS (APRIL 21 - MAY 21) Try not to rely on your intuition now, queer Bull. You will just get lost in confusion and conflicting vibes. Rely instead on your own good common sense and don’t over react to perceived slights.

Life will continue to be very interesting and a little stressful for a while, but you can find ways of unwinding and totally relaxing. Anyone we know?

VIRGO (AUG. 24 - SEPT. 23) Hot-blooded queer Virgos may lose steam in the love department now. It may be that you have your signals crossed with lovers or the one you want is the one you cannot have right now. Confusion may cloud your better judgment. Others may think that you are coming on too strong. Cool your jets while you check yourself in the mirror. Is that spinach in your teeth?

CAPRICORN (DEC. 23 - JAN. 20) Pink Caps find that family issues could whip up into an emotional storm that cannot be easily controlled. If so, resolve to place yourself outside of the frenzy.

What makes better sense is to find ways of de-stressing and relaxing at home. Don’t do anything strenuous like redecorating or renovating. But other strenuous activities with a certain someone might work well. Ahem.

GEMINI (MAY 22 - JUNE 21) Large gatherings and friendly confabs will produce more stress than enjoyment, at least for a couple of weeks. There might be miscommunication or misunderstandings that can upset you or others. So for those pink Twins who crave company and companionship, keep it small - try to reach out to close confidantes and romantic partners. The less, the merrier, at least for now.

LIBRA (SEPT. 24 - OCT. 23) Be clear about your expectations when it comes to certain relationships. There are those who want to control you and make you feel guilty for being more independent. The secret to your romantic success is to carefully balance your needs with the needs of others. Sometimes you will do it beautifully and other times you may upset the balance. So what? Go on, proud Libra.

AQUARIUS (JAN. 21 - FEB. 19) Do you have something important to say that just cannot wait? Try to wait, Aqueerius, until your thoughts can be crafted so that others actually listen and comply. That may take a couple of weeks. In the meantime, think your thoughts, talk to yourself and find ways of doing what you need to do without the approval of others. Keep quiet counsel for now.

CANCER (JUNE 22 - JULY 23) As much as you want to be appreciated for all of your hard work and political acumen, it is not a good time to approach your boss. Gay Crabs are advised to wait for a lull in the corporate intrigue - some of which is still unfolding. Keep your motives secret. Keep your ambitions under wraps.

There will be time for your big takeover in a few weeks.

Now just plot.

SCORPIO (OCT. 24 - NOV. 22) Just when you thought that you had everything and everyone under your control, your job could become more stressful. But you can handle it, queer Scorp, even if there are times when you feel that you can’t. Colleagues may be jealous of your successes or projects come at you fast and furious. Take it all in stride and, if you can, plan a short escape . . . or a verrry long lunch!

PISCES (FEB. 20 - MAR. 20) Money may come and go, go, go this month as what you want may be too expensive or not worth the cost. Guppies should keep a closer eye than usual on their finances now.

Gather good advisers, do your own research and follow your gut. But hold off on any big fiscal decision-making until the fiscal fog clears and your goals are carefully crafted. Be stingy now.

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Wendy Johnson to serve as Admiral Windwagon Smith Riverfest 2017 concert line-up announced

WICHITA - Wichita Festivals, Inc. revealed Wendy Johnson as Admiral Windwagon Smith XLIV, ambassador of Riverfest 2017 which runs June 2-10. Johnson, division director of marketing and communications for the Wichita Public Schools, grew up in Wichita and graduated from Wichita High School East. The recipient of Wichita Festivals’ Galaxy Award in 2013 recognizing more than 20 years of outstanding volunteer service, Johnson served on the WFI Board of Directors for six years and was its chair in 2006.

“When I was a kid rolling down the hillside in A. Price Woodard Park during Riverfest, I never thought I would experience this amazing community event as Admiral Windwagon Smith,” Johnson said.

In addition, nine days of concerts were also recently announced. Riverfest 2017’s concert headliners include four

Grammy Award winners, an Academy Award recipient, a Golden Globe winner and a Kennedy Center Honoree.

Riverfest’s entertainment kicks off Friday, June 2 with the traditional Twilight Pops Concert featuring the Wichita Symphony Orchestra. That Kennedy Plaza concert takes place while the Chroma Paint Party – a colorful combo of paint cannons, a light show and EDM provided by a team of DJs – will take place in the RedGuard Stage area.

On Saturday, June 3, California indie rock nine-piece band Foxygen, will open for cult favorites Flaming Lips on the Kennedy Plaza Stage. La Raza Fest will bring a Latinflavored dance party to the RedGuard Stage area that night.

Sunday, June 4 country duo LoCash will perform on the Kennedy Plaza Stage. Also that evening, the RedGuard Stage will play host to Magic Giant from Los Angeles, and regional favorites, Carrie Nation & the Speakeasy.

Gospelfest welcomes Stellar Award winner and Dove Award nominee Jonathan Nelson to the Kennedy Plaza Stage on Monday, June 5 and will include performances by local groups and choir members.

Wichita’s talented theater community will strut their stuff when “Festival of Broadway” returns to Kennedy Plaza on Tuesday, June 6, featuring performances

by Music Theatre Wichita, Roxy’s Downtown, Mosley Street Melodrama and Laughing Feet Performers. On the RedGuard Stage, popular local singersongwriter-musician Jenny Wood will host the “Don’t Let Them Get in Your Head” Concert, a special performance inspired by her anti-bullying anthem which has become a rallying cry in area schools to stand up and speak out.

The driving pop punk of Less Than Jake will keep everyone moving at the Wet & Wild Dance Party Wednesday, June

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Magic Giant is an American indie folk band formed in Los Angeles in early 2014. The group consists of Austin Bisnow, Zambricki Li , and Zang. They will perform at this year's Riverfest on Sunday, June 4 on the RedGuard Stage with regional favorites, Carrie Nation & the Speakeasy. Magic Giant is best known for its single "Set On Fire."

7 on the Kennedy Plaza Stage.

Opening act The Toasters will bring old-school, NYC ska to the party.

Brett Young, known for his West-Coast-meets-Southern “Caliville” country style, will play the RedGuard Stage that night, Mountain Deer Revival will open.

Soul, R&B and Gospel superstar Mavis Staples, a two-time Grammy winner who was recognized for lifetime achievement at the Kennedy Center Honors in December 2016 and will be inducted this spring into the Blues Hall of Fame, will perform on the Kennedy Plaza Stage on Thursday, June 8, roots rocker J.D. McPherson will be the opening act.

June 9, rapper, actor and writer, Common will perform on the Kennedy Plaza stage.

Denver hip-hop artists Flobots, will open.

The RedGuard Stage will play host to Louisiana-raised blues pianist and singer, Marcia Ball.

The closing celebration of Riverfest 2017 kicks off at Kennedy Plaza on Saturday, June 10 with Rockin’ on the River starring OK Go. Experimental pop duo Lewis Del Mar will also perform. Fiesta del Rio, featuring a variety of Hispanic bands, will take place on the RedGuard Stage that night.

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Been to Rocky’s?

Popular LGBT bar celebrating its first anniversary in April

By Kristi Parker WICHITA - With pool leagues, dart night, karaoke, drag shows, life-size Jenga, Ingo nights, and a DJ every Saturday, Rocky’s has become a popular place over the course of its year in existence. The new bar, located just off of Kellogg on Topeka, The bar's namesake Rocky Cornelson grew up on a has a friendly Cheers- carnival her dad owned, where she learned to break type atmosphere with and train horses and dogs. plenty of parking in the experience of one customer. He back.

“We needed a bar for the said that he was up at the bar girls,” Rocky Cornelson, owner, looking for something to eat. said of her initial inspiration. There are chips for sale, but he “Everyone kept saying they wasn’t interested in chips, and were going to open one and then although there is a tremendous nothing would happen.” But kitchen in the back, Cornelson’s Rocky’s turned into so much not ready to jump into food more than just a bar for the girls. service.

“Rocky is successful because “I wanted popcorn or pretzels of her personality and ability or something salty,” he said. Not to treat everyone equal. She finding anything he went back is respected by everyone in to his dart game with a friend. the community,” one patron A short time later the bartender set a bowl of Chex mix on their explained.

All genders were present table. The bartender had called at a crowded evening for pool his boyfriend and asked him leagues one Monday. “It’s the to stop at the store and pick place to be,” one person said something up on his way to the as she looked around the bar. “I bar.

“I was absolutely blown love it.”

C o r n e l s o n t h i n k s h e r away,” he said. “I couldn’t success isn’t based on anything believe they went out and bought particularly special. “People like me something to eat!” to come,” she said. “Everyone That’s just the kind of gets treated right, the bartenders experience customers have know your name, if you’ve had come to expect at Rocky’s. too much to drink at the end of “Great environment, friendly the night they’ll even give you staff, everyone is treated with respect,” is what several people a ride home.”

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Leather Life

By Nolin Christensen aka Master C

Education Editor’s note: This column may contain content that is offensive to some people.

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ne of the things the Leather community is very vocal about is educating yourself on the proper and correct way to do any type of play. If you’re not properly educated, it doesn’t take much for a scene to go from really fun and exciting to very wrong and tragic. I’ve known people who have ended up at the hospital because something went wrong and they were educated players.

So even for us who have been doing various types of play for years have to still be cautious that everything goes well.

So, what are some of the things you need to do? The primary thing is to educate yourself.

First of all, read, read a lot.

Books - preferably by someone who has been in the community for more than just a couple of years. Ask around about the author, look for reviews of the book.

Read on the internet, but be careful here. You want to read information that’s been posted by those who have been around a while. Again, ask around, check and find out what people have to say about that individual.

Second, go to a class. This should be a class that is being taught by someone who has years (and I mean YEARS of experience). Too often I’ve seen someone take one class and the next thing you know they are teaching. Oops, wrong!! Those are the types of people who will cause someone to get injured.

You need to be learning from someone that has experience.

There is an education class offered at almost every major event and at many local clubs/ organizations.

Third, get a mentor. Find someone you can mentor with.

This again should be someone with years of experience in whatever play you are interested in. Mentors can help teach you the finer things that need to be known with that type of play. Books are good for basic knowledge, classes are good to see how it’s done, but mentors can help you with hands-on experience and help watch to make sure you are doing it right.

When the Leather community started all we had was mentors.

That’s how you learned. You partnered with a mentor (with you as a submissive) and they taught you various types of play. If they didn’t have knowledge, they would hand you over to someone who did.

Once you learned from that person, you would come back to your original mentor for further tutoring. This was based on the old apprenticeships that were the way of the world from the beginning of civilization.

Education has always been important in the community.

Mentoring kind of went by the wayside after the AIDS crisis in the early 80’s because we lost a lot of our folks who had the knowledge. Mentoring is now making a comeback because we are getting more and more people who are now considered to be experts in their area of play.

So, if you are wanting to learn any type of BDSM play, we have several folks in the area who can help to teach you.

If we ourselves don’t know or don’t have experience with a particular type of play, we know people who do. If you would like to get into a mentoring program or want to attend a class, please contact me at MsterC69@gmail. com. I will be glad to help you. l Master C is the current president of WOOLF, the local leather club. If you have an interest in leather or BDSM, contact him via www.woolfks.com or at president@woolfks.com.

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safe spaces (temporary as well as permanent) for the queer community.

They are also people who work tenaciously to create social change surrounding issues of AIDS/HIV awareness, same-sex marriage, and inclusive business and city ordinances. Thus, they become civic leaders, although atypical versions.

In “Sexuality in the Age of Social Media,” individuals and groups considered the accessibility of information on the internet and the impact it has on emotions, status or personal beliefs, and what it can tell us about preferences.

Tara Terwilliger (Kansas State University – “The Trouble with Tomi: Problematic Rhetoric on Social Media”) analyzed Tomi Lahren’s (a conservative political commentator) arguments against women’s issues. She honed in on the term “snowflake,” in particular, as problematic.

Historically, this was an epithet hurled at someone who was not opposed to slavery and/or who acted “white.”

However, through its use on social media, “snowflake” has been reframed to disparage one who is perceived to represent themselves as unique or one supporting liberal ideas.

Verbiage such as this along with additional anti-female and heterosexist rhetoric are potentially even more culturally damaging because of the Rocky's continued from previous page

said they liked best about the new bar.

On April 29, Cornelson will mark the first anniversary of her new venture. Prior to opening she tells stories of being physically sick with worry about all the things that come with running a business. She is planning a big party and show with drag kings and queens to celebrate the occasion.

As for the future, adding a patio beside the bar, along the alley that leads to the parking lot in the back, is in the works.

Other than that, Cornelson just wants to keep offering the hospitality she feels the community deserves. Oh, and it's time to renew all the licenses and permits and . . . l

invasiveness of social media.

In that same session, Christopher Jensen and Marciana Vequist, PhD (Emporia State University – “Explicit Media Usage and the Differentiation of Self”) surveyed 356 students at a small Midwestern university to see if there was a correlation between their use (or not) of sexually explicit media (SEM) and their ability to define their own emotional feelings, what kinds of judgment they make about other’s sexual practices, and/or their levels of sexual guilt. It seems that those who use SEM appear to be less judgmental of other’s sexual practices, but the ability to decipher one’s own emotions did not seem to be tied to the use of SEM. Darin Challacombe (Fort Hays State) followed Jensen and Vequist. He surveyed Reddit users, specifically gay men, about their preferences, such as sexual positions, whether they liked more masculine or feminine men, and other demographics. Within 24 hours, 4,000 people completed the survey. Challacombe was surprised at the response. He is still working through the information and it has created further research topics for him.

For more information on next year’s conference, contact the WSU Department of Sociology at 316-978-3456. l Riverfest continued from page 25

regional acts also will perform at Riverfest 2017, including DJ Carbon, Sunshine Trucking, The Travel Guide, Mountain Deer Revival, Herd of the Huntress, Sloan Moon, Keen Kutter, Marrque Nunley and many others.

Admission to all Riverfest concerts is free with a Riverfest button. Adult buttons are $10, and children’s buttons are $5.

Buttons are available at an early bird discount price of $7 for adults and $3 for children via preorder at SelectASeat.com, and in person April 10-May 4 at Cox Solutions stores: 2240 N. Rock Road, 446 S. Ridge Road and 2556 N. Maize in Wichita; and 1636 N. Rock Road in Derby. Full-price buttons will be available at Dillons and QuikTrip beginning May 5. l

PAGE 28 | LIBERTY PRESS |APRIL 2017 WE WERE GAY BEFORE IT WAS COOL. Wichita Northeast High School GSA, Peace and Social Justice Center of Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Jbell2@usd259.net South Central Kansas, 1407 N. Topeka, Manhattan, 481 Zeandale Road, (785) Wichita, (316) 263-5886, director@ 537-2349, www.uufm.net, services Wichita Northwest High School GSA, wichitapeace.org, www.wichitapeace. Sundays at 10:45am. amcdonald@usd259.net, meets every org Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Monday after school.

Wichita Pride, info@wichitapride. Topeka, 4775 SW 21st St., (785) 272Wichita Southeast High School GSA, org, www.wichitapride.org, annual 9233, www.uuft.org, services Sundays (316) 807-2271, psychsteve2@yahoo. at 10:30am. celebration held in September. com Unity of Wichita, 2160 N. Oliver, (316) Social Wichita West High School GSA, 682-7511, www.unityofwichita.com, astucky@usd259.net 10am Sunday service, activities through Heart of America Men’s Chorus, the week.

Wichita, (316) 708-4837, www.hoamc.

Support Community Centers org Woodland United Methodist Church, Beacon Youth Group, Topeka, Junction City Teddy Bears, c/o Kevin 1100 W. 15th Street N. in Riverside, The Center, 800 N. Market, Wichita, beacontopeka@gmail.com, queer youth (316) 285-0007 www.thecenterofwichita. Stilley, 2 Oak Valley Dr., Manhattan, www.woodlandumc.com, office@ group for ages 12-20. Meets Mondays (785) 556-8188, trlrhouseman@webtv. woodlandumc.com, services 9 and 11am; org at 5:30pm at Central Congregational families welcome. net Church, 1248 SW Buchanan St., the Kansas State University LGBT NetworQ, Lawrence, www.Kansas Student groups 1st, 4th, and 5th Mondays and Unitarian Resource Center, 207 A/B Holton Hall, NetworQ.org, events are listed on Universalist Fellowship of Topeka, 4775 Manhattan, (785) 532-5352, lgbt@kwebsite and FB page.

Bethel College GSA, North Newton, SW 21st St., 2nd and 3rd Mondays. state.edu, www.k-state-edu/lgbt advisor: Gabriel Fonseca gfonseca@ Wichita Bears, presidentwichitabears@ Central Plains Area Agency on Aging, bethelks.edu, President: Zachary Health yahoo.com, www.wichitabears.org 2622 W. Central Suite 500, Wichita, Preheim zacharyrpreheim@bethelks.edu (316) 660-5120, www.cpaaa.org, E.C. Tyree Health & Dental Clinic, Wichita Organization of Leather D e r b y H i g h S c h o o l G S A , CPAAA is available to assist seniors, 1525 N. Lorraine, Wichita, (316) 681Fetishes, (316) 201-6242, www. tkellenbarger@usd260.com caregivers, and adults with disabilities 2545, www.tyreeclinic.com woolfks.com through life’s transitions and with F re e S t a t e H i g h S c h o o l G S A , various levels of support.

HIV/AIDS Client Emergency Fund Wichita Prime Timers, PO Box 3275, Lawrence, sponsors: Hilary Morton administrered by the Junction City 67201, ICTPrimeTimers@aol.com, COMCARE Crisis Intervention Teddy Bears, c/o Kevin Stilley, 2 Oak www.primetimersww.com/Wichita, hmorton@usd497.org, and Kim Grinnell kgrinnell@usd497.org Services, 934 N. Water, Wichita, Valley Dr., Manhattan, (785) 556-8188, social group for mature gay men.

(316) 660-7500 free 24/7, www. trlrhouseman@webtv.net, for people in Highland Park High School's Parity, sedgwickcounty.org the Manhattan/Junction City area Spiritual Topeka, LGBTatHP@outlook.com, facebook.com/LGBTatHP Get Connected, Wichita, (316) 285Hunter Health Clinic, 2318 E. Central, 0007, LGBTQIA youth group for ages Wichita, (316) 262-3611, FREE HIV A Journey In The Light Ministries, Hutchinson High School GSA, faculty 2231 S. Bluff, Wichita, (316) 302-6225, 12-21. Meets at The Center, 800 N. confidential or anonymous testing with advisor: Mr. Westmoreland, chairperson: Sunday Praise and Worship services at Market, every Friday from 7-9pm.

Spanish and Vietnamese interpreters.

Kara Vaughn.

11am;Wednesday Discipleship Training GLSEN Greater Wichita, wichita@ KU Internal Medicine-Midtown, at 7:30pm.

The Independent School GSA, chapters.glsen.org.

KU School of Medicine, 1001 N. Wichita, sponsor: Matt Hanne matt.

Minneapolis, Wichita, (316) 293-1840, College Hill United Methodist Church, hanne@theindependentschool.com Headquarters Counseling Center, (877) 472-8227 toll-free, (316) 293-2652 2930 E. 1st, Wichita, (316) 683-4643, Lawrence, (785) 841-2345 free 24/7, www.collegehillumc.org, Sunday K-State Sexuality and Gender Alliance HIV Program www.hqcc.lawrence.ks.us Celebrations at 8:30, 9:40 and 11:00am. (SAGA), meets every Thursday at 6:30 LGBT Health Coalition of Sedgwick Healthy Transitions, for heterosexually First Congregational United Church in Willard Hall, room 120.

County, Wichita, (316) 285-0007, www. married gay men in KC. A phone and of Christ, 700 Poyntz Ave., Manhattan, Lawrence High School GSA, sponsors: wichitalgbthealth.org face-to-face interview required, Mark (785) 537-7006, www.uccmanhattan. Shannon Draper SDraper@usd497.org, McCarthy, LPC (816) 931-0011x4.

Positive Connections, 2044 SW org, Sunday services at 10:45am; Taize and Lindsay Buck LBuck@usd497.org services Thursday at 7pm, An Open and Fillmore, Topeka, (785) 232-3100, HIV+ Men’s Support Group, Wichita, Manhattan High School GSA, mhs_ Affirming Congregation. www.pcneks.org (316) 293-3405, mmadecky@kumc.edu gsa@hotmail.com Positive Directions, 416 S. Commerce First Unitarian Universalist Church Living Positive, a support group of Wichita, 7202 E. 21st St., (316) 684- Maize South High School GSA, #108, Wichita, (316) 263-2214, (316) for people living with HIV and their sponsor: Shelly Walston swalston@ 3481, officemanager@firstuu.net, www.

263-5214, www.pdiks.com caregivers. Meets 1st Tuesdays at 6pm. usd266.com, meets 2nd Fridays. firstuu.net.

Call 785-537-7006 for location.

Saline County Health Dept., 125 W..

Elm, Salina, (785) 826-6602, www. Metropolitan Community Church People Respecting Individuality and O n e D a y A t A Ti m e , Wi c h it a , of Topeka, 4425 SW 19th, (785) 272- Diversity in Education (P.R.I.D.E.), sschd.org Alcoholics Anonymous meetings held 1442, office@mcctopeka.org, www. Emporia State University, Rochelle Tuesdays and Thursdays at 8pm at First Sedgwick County Health Dept., 2716 MCCTopeka.org, services Sundays at Rowley, Box 4022, 1 Kellogg Circle, MCC, 156 S. Kansas.

W. Central, Wichita, (316) 660-7300, 10am.

Emporia 66801, (620) 341-5723 www.sedgwickcounty.org rrowley1@emporia.edu PFLAG Hutchinson, PO Box Pine Valley Christian Church, 5620 2488, Hutchinson, (620) 899-2345, South Wind Women's Center, 5107 E. 21st St., Wichita, (316) 685-2421, PRISM, Pittsburg State University, find pflaghutch@gmail.com E. Kellogg, Wichita, (316) 260-6934, churchoffice@pvcconline.org, www. them on Facebook. www.southwindwomenscenter.org, PFLAG Lawrence/Topeka, sffeist@ pvcconline.org Spectrum KU, University of LGBTQIA-friendly health services. msn.com, www.pflagnekansas.org, Prairie Unitarian Universalist Kansas, Lawrence, (785) 864-3091, meets 1st Sundays, 2-4pm. Location T h e S w e e t E m e r g e n c y F u n d , F e l l o w s h i p , 1 8 0 9 E . 3 0 t h , rockchalkcentral.ku.edu/organization/ alternates between Lawrence and KUSM-W MPA, 1010 N. Kansas, Hutchinson, (620) 663-8002, www. SpectrumKU Topeka. Check website or e-mail for Wichita, (316) 293-3405 prairieuufellowship.org location.

Spectrum: LGBTQ & Allies, Riverside Christian Church (Disciples Wichita State University, Twitter.com/ Politics/Activism The Face of Trans*, www.thefaceof of Christ), 1001 Litchfield, Wichita, Wsuspectrum, meets Thursdays at 7pm trans.com in the Lucas Room (RSC 265).

E q u a l i t y K a n s a s , w w w . (316) 263-0900, www.riversidedisciples.

Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center, org, services Sundays at 10:30am. kansasequalitycoalition.org, chapters Wichita East High School GSA 355 N. Waco, Suite 100, (316) 263across the state.

Ta b l e o f H o p e M e t r o p o l i t a n Wichita Heights High School GSA, 0185 office, (316) 263-3002 crisis line C o m m u n i t y C h u r c h , 1 5 6 S . nmagoon@usd259.net Flint Hills Human Rights Project, 24/7, advocate@wichitasac.com, www.

Kansas, Wichita, (316) 267-1852, fhhrp@yahoo.com wichitasac.com, free, confidential sexual w w w. m c c w i c h i t a . c o m , w w w. Wichita North High School GSA, assault services to all genders and sexual Kansas Statewide Transgender godlovesyouperiod.com, Sunday (316) 204-5621, kellykk00@yahoo.com, orientations.

Education Project, (785) 215-7436, services at 10:30am. rhorning@usd259.net, cwidmer@ stephanie.mott@k-step.org, www.kWichita Transgender Community usd259.net, meets every Wednesday at step.org, provides transgender education Unitarian Universalist Congregation lunch in room A213.

Network, social group meets the 1st of Lawrence, 1263 N. 1100 Rd., (785) and resources. week of each month and the support 842-3339, www.uufl.net, 9:30am group meets the 3rd Thursday of each program, 11am service month at The Center, 800 N. Market, at 7pm. l

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