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Fighting On
Fighting On
With founders: Kaylin Coelho, Danielle Avila, & Lacy Mendes
Words by by Lifestyle Staff
The story of the non-profit FightingOn begins with a deep commitment to women's health, particularly in the realm of breast cancer. Founded by two young survivors, Lacey Mendes and Danielle Avila, alongside Kaylin Coelho—whose mother, Natalie Coelho, lost her battle with breast cancer at a young age—the nonprofit emerged from personal experiences that shaped their mission. They understand the profound impact a cancer diagnosis can have not only on patients but also on their families. The collective journey of these women highlights the fear of not just battling the disease but also the emotional toll it takes on loved ones, especially children
Programs and support services
FightingOn operates with a three-pronged approach to support women facing cancer. Their first initiative focuses on advocacy, providing monetary donations to help alleviate the financial burdens that often accompany treatment. They also offer emotional support as fellow survivors, creating a community where women can lean on one another. Danielle Avila recalls, “As the late Emily Garnet said, ‘Breast cancer is the worst club with the best members.’ We aim to be those members who understand and support each other.”
Recognizing that the journey doesn’t end with treatment, FightingOn prioritizes mental health support for survivors navigating life after cancer. They offer resources and sponsor services to help individuals cope with the challenges that follow.
Another vital aspect of their mission is supporting children impacted by breast cancer. Through scholarships and financial trusts, FightingOn aims to provide opportunities for kids who may have lost their mothers or are dealing with the aftermath of their diagnoses.
Year-round awareness
While October is recognized as Breast Cancer Awareness Month, FightingOn emphasizes the importance of maintaining awareness throughout the year. “The month can be overwhelming for breast cancer survivors,” Lacey Mendes explains. “While it’s wonderful to see our community rally in support, we are committed to advocating for women and children all year long.” Although major funding may come from October events, their support continues relentlessly beyond the fall.
Helpful insights for those starting their journey
For those recently diagnosed with breast cancer, Danielle Avila shares heartfelt advice: “It’s okay to be scared and to take a moment to grieve. After a diagnosis, life can feel like a whirlwind of planning and appointments. I remember being overwhelmed, especially with my youngest daughter only one year old at the time. I feared she wouldn’t have memories of me. A friend suggested I start recording our day-to-day moments, giving my daughter something to look back on. That idea provided me with the strength to fight my battle.”
Community involvement
FightingOn invites the community to join in their mission. Their annual Fill the Ribbon event encourages donations while honoring loved ones who have fought cancer. Participants decorate notes that are displayed on a ribbon showcased around town. Last year, they partnered with 1852 Visalia to launch the event, and this year, the Tulare Soroptimist Association helped kick off the 2024 Fill the Ribbon fundraiser at their Wine & Shop event. The ribbon is currently on display at Vali Coffee in Tulare, where community members can stop by, enjoy a cup of coffee, and contribute to a meaningful cause.
Through dedication, advocacy, and community support, FightingOn continues to make a significant impact, ensuring that the journey through breast cancer is not one that women and their families have to face alone.
Together, we can advocate for women's health and create a community of support."
