Central Church - Cal Jernigan - Thy Kingdom Come - Print Curriculum by Lifetogether Ministries

CONTENTS Endorsements 4 Introduction 7 How To Use This Study Guide 8 Outline For Each Session 9 SESSIONS

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Session 1: Once Upon A Kingdom Session 2: Longing For A King Session 3: The Kingdom Arrives Session 4: The Kingdom Of Heaven Is Like…. Session 5: Worthy To Be King? Session 6: Citizens Of The Kingdom Session 7: Customs Of The Kingdom Session 8: The Kingdom Advances Session 9: Trusting Your King Session 10: An Open Invitation To Belong

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Frequently Asked Questions Life Group Agreement Life Group Calendar Meeting Structure Memory Verses LIFE GROUP LEADERS

Hosting An Open House Leading For The First Time Life Group Leadership 101 Prayer and Praise Report

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ENDORSEMENTS “Here in the United States we are accustomed to a democratic form of government. But, the story of scripture is not about the formation of a democracy; it’s about the formation of a Kingdom. Therefore understanding the “Kingdom of God” is vital to understanding scripture. I think this series will help you better understand what it means to be a follower of Christ.” STEVE POE SENIOR PASTOR • NORTHVIEW CHURCH

“As I think about this teaching series, the first word that comes to my mind is “perspective.” Too many times we look at our lives, circumstances, and even the world through a distorted lens that leads us to wrong conclusions. Cal’s insight and experience will bring clarity as he challenges you to re-think the Kingdom of God. Be prepared for a life changing encounter with the Word and the Holy Spirit that will give you a new perspective.” DR. JOHN DERRY PRESIDENT • HOPE INTERNATIONAL UNIVERSITY

Cal Jernigan is both a great friend and a gifted communicator. And his new study “Thy Kingdom Come” is pure gold. So many Christians live mediocre, frustrated and defeated lives because they are clueless to the life Jesus offers. Much more than just forgiveness of past sins and assurance of Heaven- as great as those are- Jesus came to give you Life with new power, new hope, and a new mission. He came to give you life in the Kingdom! DR. CHIP HENDERSON SENIOR PASTOR • PINELAKE CHURCH

I cannot begin to express the joy I had when I saw this series “Thy Kingdom Come.” I have had the privilege of sitting under the leadership and friendship of Cal and of Central for a few years now. I can tell you that the phrase “Thy Kingdom Come” is what he and this great church bring to all who enter their doors and their community. I know that this catalytic church is just scratching the surface of bringing God’s Kingdom into the lives of thousands and thousands of people. I am thankful for a church that cares so deeply for the eternity of others that it brings eternity to them now. TREVOR DEVAGE LEAD PASTOR • CHRIST CHURCH OF MASON

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“Jesus’ main message was the Kingdom of God but interestingly, he never defined it. Jesus only said what it was “like” and then gave us many stories, illustrations, and of course modeled it. He told us it is “within us.” It is not a set of rules; rather, it is a way of thinking. Thy Kingdom Come transforms our lives as long as we are willing to say, “my kingdom goes!” This series by Cal will make Jesus’ Kingdom message come alive. We can’t wait!” RICK AND JOAN MALOUF

“I have been on a kingdom journey with Cal and Lisa for more than 20 years and I couldn’t think of better traveling companions. And now, I’m inviting you to join them as they advance the kingdom of God that has come to earth. Please don’t miss this opportunity to live out Jesus’ prayer, this worldwide move of God, this life-changing study—Thy Kingdom Come. MIKE BAKER SENIOR PASTOR • EASTVIEW CHRISTIAN CHURCH

Jesus said He “saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven” when His followers returned from preaching. When the gospel explodes in people’s hearts, lives change, the devil runs for cover, and God’s Kingdom comes. I can’t wait to see God do just that as we use the series, “Thy Kingdom Come” by one of our church’s favorite guest speakers, Cal Jernigan! GEORGE ROSS SENIOR PASTOR • NORTHSIDE CHRISTIAN CHURCH

Cal Jernigan is a communicator who makes the Bible come alive. Thy Kingdom Come combines Cal’s creativity, humor and Bible knowledge. The real life stories of life change are the exclamation point to a great video series. Your small group or class will both learn and love it! DAVE STONE • PASTOR • SOUTHEAST CHRISTIAN CHURCH

Few people we know have a bigger heart for people finding God’s grace in their life than Cal and Lisa. Even fewer people so authentically live a kingdom life. We love their hearts, we love who they are and mostly we love how they love God and love people! RICK RUSAW PASTOR • LIFEBRIDGE CHRISTIAN CHURCH

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“For any of us who have ever dropped to our knees or been knocked to our knees “Thy Kingdom Come” is something we have spoken or shouted from our innermost parts. I am so excited that my friend, Master Teacher, Cal Jernigan is going to lead you, teach you, and preach to you what happens as we truly make Christ our LORD. This will be a LIFE CHANGING event for those who take this series.” DAVE RAMSEY NYT BEST SELLING AUTHOR/RADIO HOST

“My friend Cal Jernigan is one of those rare leaders who have modeled ‘a long obedience in the same direction.’ He has faithfully led his family and his church to know and love God and fully participate in the Kingdom of God on earth. “Thy Kingdom Come” is a call to a lifechanging walk with God right now! I’m excited about this series...I know it will lead you to the same joy and strength Cal has found in Jesus.” CAM HUXFORD SENIOR PASTOR • SAVANNAH CHRISTIAN CHURCH

This is going to be a very relevant series helping us to have a more accurate world view that runs counter-culture to the world as we see it in America. It will help all of us see the larger picture that “there’s more to life than me!” MARK PALICH CHAIR OF THE ELDER BOARD • CENTRAL CHRISTIAN CHURCH

“Cal has an amazing gift to take what seems distant and to bring it close, what seems confusing and to make it simple, what seems impossible to experience and to make it real. Thy Kingdom Come will help you move closer to God in the here and now. His kingdom is closer than you think.” GENE APPEL SENIOR PASTOR • EASTSIDE CHRISTIAN CHURCH

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INTRODUCTION

his Kingdom series has been on my heart for quite some time now. It is so important that we have a clear understanding of what God’s Kingdom is, and what that means for us here and now as we live our lives. How should being a part of God’s Kingdom affect me in the busyness of each and every day? How should it be changing my heart on a grander scale? Why is this important? I would invite you to be a part of digging deeper into the ways the Kingdom of God affects us. Through this journey, I believe we will discover that it affects not just one part, but every part of our lives! My hope is that you will be able to walk away from this series with a better understanding not only of the Kingdom of God, but of your specific and uniquely designed role in this Kingdom. Where is God calling you? And what is He calling you to do? He doesn’t make mistakes, and He is willing to use you for great things if you are willing to be used by Him. I hope you’re as excited as I am to dive into this new series and learn more about our great God and His Kingdom!

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OUTLINE OF

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A typical group session for Thy Kingdom Come will include the following: HOW T O USE T H I S

S T U DY G U I D E

The Study Guide Contents are divided into three sections: SESSIONS The sessions are designed to complement the DVD teaching and be easy to follow. Use this book as a guide, not a straightjacket. If the group responds to the lesson in an unexpected but honest way, go with that. If you think of a better question than the one shown, ask it. Take to heart the insights included in the Frequently Asked Questions pages and the Life Group Leaders section. APPENDICES Familiarize yourself with the various resources included in the appendix. You may wish to incorporate some of them into the sessions themselves. LIFE GROUP HELPS If you are hosting or leading a life group, this section will give you advice from experienced leaders to both encourage you and help you avoid many common obstacles to effective life group leadership.

THEME VERSE AND INTRODUCTION For each session we have provided an overview and memory verse that emphasizes that week’s theme. Memorizing Scripture can be a vital part of filling our minds with God’s will for our lives. GROWING TOGETHER WITH DVD TEACHING SEGMENT This section features the Thy Kingdom Come DVD teaching segments from Cal. Questions will guide you to process as a group the teaching you experienced. LEARNING TOGETHER Here you’ll focus on a passage of Scripture (or two) related to the topic. You’ll look at what the Bible says about the topic, asking and answering questions to deepen your understanding. SHARING TOGETHER How do we live out what we’ve learned? This section is where you will share with your group your thoughts and discoveries on this week’s lesson. PERSONAL APPLICATION This section will allow you to share with your group how you are going to personally apply the teaching and discoveries made in this lesson to your life. Sharing your personal application with the group helps your group to be able to support your efforts to apply what you’ve learned to your life. DAILY DEVOTIONALS Each week on the Daily Devotional pages we provide Scriptures to read and reflect on between group meetings. We suggest you use this section to seek God on your own throughout the week. This time at home should begin and end with prayer. Don’t get in a hurry; take enough time to hear God’s direction.

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merica was birthed in rebellion to a kingdom. “The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over these States,” wrote Thomas Jefferson in the Declaration of Independence. In other words, this king is a jerk and his rule of us is unfair!

THE LORD SHALL REIGN FOR EVER AND EVER. Exodus 15:18

It is core to our nature as citizens of this country to resist subjection to a kingdom and to see this form of government as “tyranny.” Democracy is the Christian way, right? Yet it’s impossible to read very far in the gospels without noticing Jesus’s frequent mention of a kingdom and His teaching about its importance. So how should we think about this kingdom? What does Jesus mean when He talks about it? And what does it mean for us as we follow Him as Lord? Over the next few weeks, we’ll learn more about the Bible’s teaching on the kingdom of God; it’s language, customs, and values. Today we begin with an overview of why this idea is so important. Let’s dive in. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

What’s a topic you never get tired of talking about? What images or ideas come to mind when you think about royalty?

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WATCH THE DVD FOR THIS SESSION AND CAPTURE THOUGHTS YOU WANT TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WEEK’S TEACHING.

TOGETHER

This week there’s a story on CNN about Prince George, the young son of Prince William and Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, in Great Britain. Apparently the paparazzi are hiding in sand dunes at the beach, trespassing onto private property, and even prompting other young children to lure the prince into view at the playground—all so they can snap a pic and make some cash. What it means to be a king or to rule a kingdom has hugely changed since ancient times. Today, in most areas of the world kings (and queens!) are figureheads with limited authority. Their main role is to represent the country, not to rule it. But thousands of years ago, the king had absolute power over his subjects’ lives. He could send armies into war and make peace treaties. He lived off the work of his people, enjoying beautiful palaces and fine food while most of his subjects struggled to survive. If he was a good king, the people thrived. If not, they suffered and sometimes the kingdom was conquered. Either way, the fate of the people was bound to the decisions of the king. With all these conflicting models of “kingdom,” it can be difficult for us to understand what Jesus meant by a kingdom of God, so this week we’ll seek to find a true understanding of the God’s kingdom—and how we can be part of it.

AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

Is the idea of the kingdom of God a new concept for you? Does it surprise you to hear that Jesus talked about it more than He talked about the church?

Think about the idea that the church isn’t eternal. How is the kingdom different from the church?

What does it mean that the kingdom is here?

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LEARNING TOGETHER

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READ LUKE 12:29-32.

READ 1 CHRONICLES 29:10-13.

Do not set your heart on what you will eat or drink; do not worry about it. For the pagan world runs after all such things, and your Father knows that you need them. But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well. Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom.

David praised the Lord in the presence of the whole assembly, saying, “Praise be to you, Lord, the God of our father Israel, from everlasting to everlasting. Yours, Lord, is the greatness and the power and the glory and the majesty and the splendor, for everything in heaven and earth is yours. Yours, Lord, is the kingdom; you are exalted as head over all. Wealth and honor come from you; you are the ruler of all things. In your hands are strength and power to exalt and give strength to all. Now, our God, we give you thanks, and praise your glorious name.

This is a song of King David after collecting all the materials for building the temple. How do his words point to the reign beyond his own?

What does it mean to “seek his kingdom”? How is that in contrast to seeking earthly things like food and drink?

Why would Jesus tell the people not to be afraid in the middle of this teaching?

Based on your understanding of the kingdom so far, why would God be pleased to give it to us? How does this verse affect your understanding?

According to this passage, what are the characteristics of God as a king?

According to this passage, what should our response be to God as our king?

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SHARING TOGETHER

What are you hoping to get out of this group experience? How do you want to grow and what do you want to learn?

Respond to the idea that God wants you personally to be part of the kingdom.

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PERSONAL

A P P L I C AT I O N

We talked this week about not really understanding the concept of kingdoms because it’s not our form of government. But if we’re honest, we all have “kingdoms” that rule our lives in some way. What has authority or control over your life? And what would it mean for God to be king in that area?

The passage we studied in Luke teaches that God wants to welcome us into the kingdom and also wants us to seek after the kingdom. What are some ways you can “seek his kingdom” in the coming week? Which ones are you willing to do?

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1 • PSALM 145:10-11

All your works praise you, Lord; your faithful people extol you. They tell of the glory of your kingdom and speak of your might, so that all people may know of your mighty acts and the glorious splendor of your kingdom.

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

REFLECT:

How do our words and our behavior point to the glory of God’s kingdom? Are your words and actions giving honor to your King?

Developing our ability to serve God through the leading of the Holy Spirit takes time and persistence as we: PRAY. Commit to personal prayer and daily connection with God. (You may find it helpful to write your prayers in a journal.) Remember to pray for the requests shared by your fellow group members. MEMORIZE. Reflect on what God is saying by learning a passage of scripture. DAILY DEVOTIONS. Complete the Daily Devotions section. Each day, you’ll read just one portion of a passage of Scripture. Give prayerful consideration to what you learn about God, His Spirit, and His place in your life. Take your time! Listen to what God is telling you. Ponder and reflect. Then record your thoughts, insights, or prayer in the Reflect section below the verses you read. On the sixth day record a summary of what you have learned through this study.

DAY 2 • 2 PETER 1:16-17

For we did not follow cleverly devised stories when we told you about the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ in power, but we were eyewitnesses of his majesty. He received honor and glory from God the Father when the voice came to him from the Majestic Glory, saying, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.” REFLECT:

When have you been an eyewitness to God’s majesty and glory? Take a few minutes to simply ponder the greatness of our God and his power.

DAY 3 • ZECHARIAH 9:9

Rejoice greatly, Daughter of Zion! Shout, Daughter of Jerusalem! See, your king comes to you, righteous and victorious, lowly and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey. REFLECT:

This prophecy was fulfilled when Jesus rode into Jerusalem on what we now call Palm Sunday. What does it tell you about Jesus and his kingdom that he came as a king while “lowly and riding on a donkey”?

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DAY 4 • PSALM 45:6

Your throne, O God, will last for ever and ever; a scepter of justice will be the scepter of your kingdom. REFLECT:

This verse teaches two ways God’s kingdom is different from earthly kingdoms. What are they? Why are they significant?

DAY 5 • 1 TIMOTHY 1:17

Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory for ever and ever. Amen. REFLECT:

Which aspect of our king that’s noted in this verse is especially meaningful to you? Spend some time in prayer giving Him honor and glory for that part of His nature.

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

NOW TO THE KING ETERNAL, IMMORTAL, INVISIBLE, THE ONLY GOD, BE HONOR AND GLORY FOR EVER AND EVER. AMEN. 1 TIMOTHY 1:17

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“B

e careful what you wish for.” Like most clichés, this one has become popular because it expresses something most of us have experienced—hoping and wishing and perhaps even praying for something, only to receive it and realize it’s not so great after all. In the early years of Israel’s development into a nation, God wanted to be Israel’s king. He had set them apart as His people and instructed them how to live under His leadership. But the Israelites wanted an earthly king; after all, all the other countries and tribes had kings. (In some ways, Israel was like a whiny kid.)

THE SALVATION OF THE RIGHTEOUS COMES FROM THE LORD; HE IS THEIR STRONGHOLD IN TIME OF TROUBLE. Psalm 37:39

So God gave in and gave Israel a series of kings, and as the years passed the nation began to experience the consequences of rejecting God’s leadership. After a number of bad leaders and tragic experiences, the people realized having an earthly king wasn’t so great after all. Fortunately, God had a plan much bigger than the limited perspective of his people, and today we’ll see how he satisfies their dream of a king—in ways they could never have dreamed. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

What’s something you really wanted—and then regretted? Has anyone ever stood up for you or “had your back” in a tough situation? How did it make you feel?

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Most people thought the Chilean miners were a lost cause.

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WATCH THE DVD FOR THIS SESSION AND CAPTURE THOUGHTS YOU WANT TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WEEK’S TEACHING.

AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

In 2010, 33 men became trapped 2300 feet underground after a copper and gold mine caved in and buried them. It was a notoriously unstable mine and most people assumed there was no hope for the men, but eventually the Chilean government pulled together a rescue operation that included three international drilling rig teams, a dozen corporations from around the world, and even NASA.

Why do you think the people of Israel so desperately wanted to have an earthly king?

After 69 days all 33 men were lifted out of the mine. As the last one emerged from the darkness, the workers held up a sign to the cameras and to a watching world that simply said, “Mission Accomplished Chile.”

Why did God repeatedly allow times of exile for the Israelites?

The people of Israel weren’t trapped in a gold mine, of course, but as their kings became more corrupt and their nation split they definitely experienced a long time of darkness and separation. In fact, other countries probably thought Israel was a lost cause. However, God had a plan to rescue them, and in this session we’ll see how he even shares the plan with the people ahead of time. From the very beginning of Israel’s history, God is telling them “mission accomplished.”

Why doesn’t God give up on the Israelites?

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LEARNING TOGETHER

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READ 1 CHRONICLES 17:11-14.

READ 1 KINGS 11:9-13.

When your days are over and you go to be with your ancestors, I will raise up your offspring to succeed you, one of your own sons, and I will establish his kingdom. He is the one who will build a house for me, and I will establish his throne forever. I will be his father, and he will be my son. I will never take my love away from him, as I took it away from your predecessor. I will set him over my house and my kingdom forever; his throne will be established forever.’”

The Lord became angry with Solomon because his heart had turned away from the Lord, the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice. Although he had forbidden Solomon to follow other gods, Solomon did not keep the Lord’s command. So the Lord said to Solomon, “Since this is your attitude and you have not kept my covenant and my decrees, which I commanded you, I will most certainly tear the kingdom away from you and give it to one of your subordinates. Nevertheless, for the sake of David your father, I will not do it during your lifetime. I will tear it out of the hand of your son. Yet I will not tear the whole kingdom from him, but will give him one tribe for the sake of David my servant and for the sake of Jerusalem, which I have chosen.” This passage occurs later than the previous one; Solomon is David’s son who has become king after David’s death. How do God’s words to Solomon connect to the previous promise to David?

Who was David’s predecessor? According to 1 Chronicles 10:13, why did God take away his love from that leader?

Read a few verses before this passage. What was Solomon’s great sin? What clue does verse 14 give us that God is not talking about one of David’s children and why does this matter?

How would miss understanding God’s kingdom cause the Israelites, or us, to misunderstand the promise God is making?

Why would God wait to bring his punishment, and why did he limit it?

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SHARING

PERSONAL

TOGETHER

Cal says the people felt like something was missing when they returned from the exile. Have you experienced a time when it felt like God wasn’t there or the relationship had changed? What does today’s lesson teach you about God?

A P P L I C AT I O N

Where are you in Israel’s story? Are you feeling hopeless and in need of rescue? Do you feel separated or “exiled” from God? Or is this a “golden age” where things are going great in your life?

So often we behave like the Israelites did—we reject God’s best for us and chase after a substitute. Are you doing this in any areas of your life?

God’s promise to the people wasn’t fulfilled immediately. Does this discourage you or give you hope? Are you struggling to wait on God in some area of your life?

Cal ends the video teaching by saying today’s lesson is about preparing our hearts for Jesus to come as the king. As we move into the next few weeks of this series, how do you need to prepare your heart? How do you sense God speaking to you?

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.)

CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1• ISAIAH 11:1

A shoot will come up from the stump of Jesse; from his roots a Branch will bear fruit. REFLECT:

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

Jesse was David’s father, and this is another prophecy and promise that the Savior would come from his family line. Take some time to thank God for keeping his promises and sending us Jesus!

DAY 2 • PSALM 40:2

He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. REFLECT:

Can you relate to this psalm? Where do you need God to help you find your footing?

DAY 3 • DEUTERONOMY 31:6

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” REFLECT:

Do you believe that God always “goes with you”? Does this give you courage in difficult situations?

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DAY 4 • 2 TIMOTHY 4:18

The Lord will rescue me from every evil attack and will bring me safely to his heavenly kingdom. To him be glory for ever and ever. REFLECT:

What “evil attacks” are you experiencing right now? Ask God for his rescue and deliverance!

DAY 5 • GALATIANS 1:3-5

Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ, who gave himself for our sins to rescue us from the present evil age, according to the will of our God and Father, to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen. REFLECT:

These verses sum up the promises we studied this week—that Jesus would come and be the ultimate savior and king. Take some time to confess your sins to Him and then rest in his grace and peace.

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY:

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

THE LORD WILL RESCUE ME FROM EVERY EVIL ATTACK AND WILL BRING ME SAFELY TO HIS HEAVENLY KINGDOM. TO HIM BE GLORY FOR EVER AND EVER. 2 TIMOTHY 4:18

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ward-winning novelist Ann Patchett once said, “Never be so focused on what you’re looking for that you overlook the thing you actually find.”

“THE KINGDOM OF GOD HAS COME NEAR. REPENT AND BELIEVE THE GOOD NEWS!” Mark 1:15

This would have been a great reminder for the Jewish people during Jesus’ day, because they were so consumed of their idea of what a king should be that most of them totally missed it when He actually showed up! Jesus came as God in the flesh and brought the kingdom of heaven with him, but the Jews were looking for a military leader, a warrior, and a person of wealth and standing who could restore the glory days of King David. They were so focused on this idea that they overlooked the very normal-looking man from the little backwoods town of Nazareth. Fortunately, Jesus spent much of his ministry teaching those who would listen about the real kingdom—one built with love and truth instead of stones and weapons. Today we’ll learn more about what it means for the kingdom to arrive in our midst. At times we might feel just as confused as the original hearers of this message—but now, at least, we are focusing on the right things! AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

What did you most want for Christmas as a child? Are you better at remembering names or recognizing faces?

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WATCH THE DVD FOR THIS SESSION AND CAPTURE THOUGHTS YOU WANT TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WEEK’S TEACHING.

TOGETHER

If you’re at all familiar with the Lord’s Prayer, Matthew 11:2-4, you know the phrase “your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” Today we’re talking about both the now and the not yet of God’s kingdom. As you’ll learn in this session, in one sense the kingdom arrived when Jesus came to earth. It is intended as a spiritual reality now for all who follow Him. But in another sense the kingdom is yet to come, because all that God has for us and everything he intends the kingdom to be won’t be fully realized until Jesus returns. This means the present matters to God, because even now He is building His kingdom among His people. But it also means we have a great future to look forward to, because when God’s kingdom comes once and for all, in perfection and for eternity, it will be like nothing we can imagine. So we can look forward to “kingdom come” when we get to experience a wonderful forever with our King, but we can also pray that God’s will would be done here on earth as He invites us here and now to know more of Him. What a great God we serve!

AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

We tend to notice things if they fit with our expectations. How did the Jewish people’s expectations of a king cause them to miss Jesus?

How do our expectations of Jesus cause us to miss seeing Him as king?

How did Jesus’s arrival open the opportunity for people to begin living in the kingdom of God?

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LEARNING

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READ LUKE 17:20-21.

READ JOHN 1:1-5, 9-11.

Once, on being asked by the Pharisees when the kingdom of God would come, Jesus replied, “The coming of the kingdom of God is not something that can be observed, nor will people say, ‘Here it is,’ or ‘There it is,’ because the kingdom of God is in your midst.”

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.

Jesus talked so much about the kingdom of God that the Pharisees started to ask questions about it. What does it mean that the kingdom of God cannot be observed?

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The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world. He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. What does it mean that Jesus is life?

What does it mean that the kingdom is in our midst?

What does it mean that he is light?

React to the idea that the world was made through Jesus but the world did not recognize Him. Why didn’t his own receive him?

How does Jesus’ response remove all limits on what the kingdom of God can be right now?

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SHARING TOGETHER

In the passage from John 1, we read about the man’s failure to recognize or receive its Creator. What are some ways we continue to reject Jesus today?

What difference does it make in your life that the kingdom is now and not just after you die? How does that truth need to change the way you live?

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PERSONAL

A P P L I C AT I O N

Jesus talked about having “ears to hear”— having the ability to listen and understand His words. The kingdom of God is a huge idea. How can you continue to develop your “ears” and understanding as we move forward in this study?

The kingdom of God is spiritual, not physical, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be noticed. How can your choices, your words, or your actions show the kingdom to someone else this week?

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1 • JOHN 18:36

Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jewish leaders. But now my kingdom is from another place.” REFLECT:

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

Jesus could have commanded his disciples to fight when he was arrested. He could have called angels to attack everyone! Instead, Jesus allowed himself to be crucified because the kingdom is about much more than earthly power.

DAY 2 • MATTHEW 7:21

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. REFLECT:

It is good to acknowledge Jesus with our words, but it’s even better to follow him with our actions. Ask God to help you do His will!

DAY 3 • DANIEL 2:44

In the time of those kings, the God of heaven will set up a kingdom that will never be destroyed, nor will it be left to another people. It will crush all those kingdoms and bring them to an end, but it will itself endure forever. REFLECT:

In ancient times, kingdoms and land were constantly changing as kings rose and fell in power. But God’s kingdom will never fail, never change hands, and never be conquered.

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DAY 4 • MARK 1:15

“The time has come,” he said. “The kingdom of God has come near. Repent and believe the good news!” REFLECT:

How is the arrival of the kingdom good news for you?

DAY 5 • ACTS 1:3

After his suffering, he presented himself to them and gave many convincing proofs that he was alive. He appeared to them over a period of forty days and spoke about the kingdom of God. REFLECT:

Even after Jesus’ resurrection he still wants to talk about the kingdom of God! This concept is definitely a key to our faith—ask Him for help in understanding it.

JESUS SAID, “MY KINGDOM IS NOT OF THIS WORLD. IF IT WERE, MY SERVANTS WOULD FIGHT TO PREVENT MY ARREST BY THE JEWISH LEADERS. BUT NOW MY KINGDOM IS FROM ANOTHER PLACE.” JOHN 18:36

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

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f you took a high school English class, you might remember studying various kinds of “figurative” language like similes and metaphors. Figurative language simply means using words creatively to help others understand an idea. For instance, you might say something is as light as a feather or you might describe a cold room as a “refrigerator.” When we describe America as a melting pot or say we “slept like a log,” we’re using figurative language to communicate an idea.

WE DECLARE GOD’S WISDOM, A MYSTERY THAT HAS BEEN HIDDEN AND THAT GOD DESTINED FOR OUR GLORY BEFORE TIME BEGAN. 1 Corinthians 2:7

Jesus often used this approach when talking about the kingdom. It was such a huge idea and such a strange idea to his audience that he tried to connect his teaching about the kingdom with objects and situations they already understood. These comparisons can still be helpful for us today as we try to figure out what it means to be part of the kingdom. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

Did you study a foreign language in high school? Can you speak a second language? Share a story about trying unsuccessfully to communicate with someone else. (Be careful if it’s about your spouse!)

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WATCH THE DVD FOR THIS SESSION AND CAPTURE THOUGHTS YOU WANT TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WEEK’S TEACHING.

AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

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Science fiction fans might have a head start on understanding the idea of God’s kingdom, because a common idea in sci-fi stories is a parallel or alternate universe. In these other worlds, there is a separate reality that’s like our world in some ways and is very different in others. Perhaps the parallel universe doesn’t experience gravity, or everyone has a twin. Maybe, as in the popular Narnia books, time works differently. As long as human beings have told stories, we’ve been fascinated by the idea of another reality co-existing with our own. Now Jesus is telling us this is true! Not only is there more than what we experience here on earth, but this other reality is also infinitely better because it’s not just another place with different rules—it’s an entirely new spiritual reality rooted in grace, love, and justice.

Why is “church” easier to speak than “kingdom”?

Why is it so difficult for us to understand the kingdom?

Some people find it exciting to think that God’s kingdom is so amazing that we can’t fully understand it. Others find it frustrating that it’s not easier to understand. Where are you, at this point in our study?

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READ MATTHEW 13:24-30.

Jesus told them another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field. But while everyone was sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away. When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, then the weeds also appeared. “The owner’s servants came to him and said, ‘Sir, didn’t you sow good seed in your field? Where then did the weeds come from?’

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READ MATTHEW 13:44-46.

“The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field. “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant looking for fine pearls. When he found one of great value, he went away and sold everything he had and bought it.

How would you understand this parable if you are the man finding the treasure and the merchant searching for pearls?

“‘An enemy did this,’ he replied. “The servants asked him, ‘Do you want us to go and pull them up?’ “‘No,’ he answered, ‘because while you are pulling the weeds, you may uproot the wheat with them. Let both grow together until the harvest. At that time I will tell the harvesters: First collect the weeds and tie them in bundles to be burned; then gather the wheat and bring it into my barn.’” Who is the enemy in this parable?

How would you understand this parable if Jesus is the man finding the treasure and the merchant searching for pearls?

Who is the wheat, and who are the weeds?

What does this parable teach you about the kingdom? Why did Jesus teach this parable?

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SHARING

PERSONAL

TOGETHER

Which parable or comparison most connected with you? What new insight do you have about the kingdom?

A P P L I C AT I O N

Expand your kingdom thinking this week. You can find additional parables about the kingdom of heaven in Matthew 13, Mark 4, and Luke 8. Take some time this week to read one or more of the parables not discussed in this study and journal your thoughts and questions here:

What are you learning about what it means to be a citizen of the kingdom?

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1 • JAMES 1:5.

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. REFLECT:

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

We’re studying some big ideas together—things that don’t always make total sense, even with a parable. But God delights in giving us wisdom and insight into His word. Ask for His help in understanding the kingdom.

DAY 2 • MATTHEW 5:3

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. REFLECT:

“Poor in spirit” does not mean someone who is miserable; instead, it means someone who realizes he is sinful and needs God. How does this pave the way for someone to be part of the kingdom?

DAY 3 • 1 CORINTHIANS 2:7.

We declare God’s wisdom, a mystery that has been hidden and that God destined for our glory before time began. REFLECT:

It can be hard to understand everything the Bible teaches, but take comfort in knowing that it’s all for our good.

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DAY 4 • ISAIAH 55:9

“As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. REFLECT:

Try not to be discouraged if the idea of the kingdom challenges you. Thank Him for all He has already revealed to us, and praise Him for being a God whose thoughts are so far beyond ours!

WE DECLARE GOD’S WISDOM, A MYSTERY THAT HAS BEEN HIDDEN AND THAT GOD DESTINED FOR OUR GLORY BEFORE TIME BEGAN. 1 CORINTHIANS 2:7

DAY 5 • MARK 10:15.

Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it. REFLECT:

What does it mean to receive the kingdom like a child?

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

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n the ‘90s there was a recurring sketch on Saturday Night Live called “Wayne’s World.” This sketch was so popular, in fact, it led to a couple of movies. The SNL version and the movies both focused on two characters, Wayne and his sidekick Garth, who record a public access TV show in their basement. One reason these characters became so well-known is the catchphrases Wayne and Garth used on every episode. These included “Party on,” “As if!” and—when in the presence of a celebrity they really admired—“We’re not worthy!” Today we’re going to look at the kingdom from another angle. We’ve studied Jesus’ teaching about the kingdom, but what qualifies him to rule it? Why is He the only one who is worthy?

THEREFORE GOD EXALTED HIM TO THE HIGHEST PLACE AND GAVE HIM THE NAME THAT IS ABOVE EVERY NAME, THAT AT THE NAME OF JESUS EVERY KNEE SHOULD BOW, IN HEAVEN AND ON EARTH AND UNDER THE EARTH, AND EVERY TONGUE ACKNOWLEDGE THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD, TO THE GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER. Philippians 2:9-11

I’m not sure what it will be like when we first get to meet Jesus. I’m pretty sure we won’t be thinking about Saturday Night Live! But today we’re going to use Wayne and Garth’s phrase as we learn more about the power, and the strength, and the wisdom of Jesus. We are so not worthy to be king— but He is. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

Who do you really admire? What makes that person worthy of your respect? Imagine you could be king or queen of the world for a day. What would you do?

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WATCH THE DVD FOR THIS SESSION AND CAPTURE THOUGHTS YOU WANT TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WEEK’S TEACHING.

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Did you ever play King of the Hill? The idea was to claim the top of a hill, mound of dirt, picnic table, or pretty much anything you could stand on. As long as you could stay higher than everyone else, you were the king, but usually your reign involved wrestling with other kids to keep them from taking your spot. The king changed often in this game, based on which kid was the biggest or fastest. God’s kingdom is nothing like that. There has always been, and will always be, only one king. He has reigned since the inauguration of the kingdom and, as we’ll study today, he will reign for all of eternity. No one can muscle Him out of the spot or push Him out of the way, and His kingdom will never end.

AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

How is Jesus more worthy than all the kings who preceded him?

Have you ever thought about Jesus being smart?

What is so significant about Jesus’ righteousness?

That king is Jesus. But what makes Him worthy for such an honor? Why has God appointed Him as the king over all other kings? Let’s watch the video and learn together. Why is it so important that we respect Jesus and understand his greatness?

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READ REVELATION 5:1-5, 9-10.

Then I saw in the right hand of him who sat on the throne a scroll with writing on both sides and sealed with seven seals. And I saw a mighty angel proclaiming in a loud voice, “Who is worthy to break the seals and open the scroll?” But no one in heaven or on earth or under the earth could open the scroll or even look inside it. I wept and wept because no one was found who was worthy to open the scroll or look inside. Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.” And they sang a new song, saying:“You are worthy to take the scroll and to open its seals,because you were slain, and with your blood you purchased for God persons from every tribe and language and people and nation. You have made them to be a kingdom and priests to serve our God, and they will reign on the earth.”

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READ COLOSSIANS 1:15-20.

The Son is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross. How is Jesus the likeness or the reflection of God? How is he the manifestation or revelation of God?

Under Roman law, wills were customarily sealed with seven seals, which has led many scholars to believe this scroll is God’s final will and purpose for the world. Why is no one but Jesus worthy to open the scroll? What does it mean that everything was created through Jesus? What does it mean that everything was created for Jesus? This passage refers to Jesus as the “Lion of Judah” and “the root of David.” Read Genesis 49:9-10 and Isaiah 11:1-3. Why does the Bible use so many titles for Jesus and how do they increase our understanding of His worthiness?

What makes Jesus worthy to be king? (verse 9)

How is Jesus the “firstborn from among the dead”?

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SHARING

PERSONAL

TOGETHER

What characteristics of Jesus are especially meaningful for you? For instance, perhaps you are in awe of His power, or His strength, or His compassion. How do these traits make Him a good king?

How does this week’s study change the way you think about worship? What is the purpose of our worship? What should motivate us to worship Christ?

A P P L I C AT I O N

Jesus is worthy to be king—king of creation and king of our lives. However, we often serve other things or allow other things to rule us. In what areas of life are you following something besides Jesus? What would it mean to make Jesus the king?

In the video, Cal reminds us that Jesus is merciful. We have all made so many mistakes and done so many wrong things that He wouldn’t have to let us in the kingdom at all. Yet He invites us to join Him! The King of the kingdom wants to hear from you and show mercy to you. Romans 8:1 says, “there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” How do we balance the awareness of our sinfulness and knowledge that Jesus is merciful and will not condemn us?

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1 • REVELATION 17:14

They will wage war against the Lamb, but the Lamb will triumph over them because he is Lord of lords and King of kings—and with him will be his called, chosen and faithful followers.

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

REFLECT:

Not only do we serve the King who rules over everything, but we are called and chosen to serve with Him!

DAY 2 • MATTHEW 27:37

Above his head they placed the written charge against him: this is jesus, the king of the jews. REFLECT:

The people who made this sign for Jesus during his crucifixion meant it as a mockery, but today we know Jesus truly is the king of the Jewish people—and of all the rest of us who believe in Him.

DAY 3 • 1 PETER 1:18-19

For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your ancestors, but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect. REFLECT:

Today, reflect on the sinlessness and righteousness of the Lamb. Thank Him for sacrificing His life so you could be part of the kingdom.

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DAY 4 • MATTHEW 2:11

On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. REFLECT:

It may seem strange to have a verse from the Christmas story here, but this is a great example of how Jesus is king over every other king. Even the “three wise men” bowed at Jesus’ feet and worshiped Him.

DAY 5 • EPHESIANS 1:22-23

And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way. REFLECT:

Take some time today to thank Jesus for being the head of the church, and ask for His wisdom as we move forward together in ministry.

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

THEY WILL WAGE WAR AGAINST THE LAMB, BUT THE LAMB WILL TRIUMPH OVER THEM BECAUSE HE IS LORD OF LORDS AND KING OF KINGS— AND WITH HIM WILL BE HIS CALLED, CHOSEN AND FAITHFUL FOLLOWERS. REVELATION 17:14

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very year, about 700,000 people become citizens of the United States. It’s an involved process, requiring background checks, interviews, and lots and lots of paperwork. But thousands of people go through all these requirements because it’s worth it to be able to say you’re an American citizen.

FOR HERE WE DO NOT HAVE AN ENDURING CITY, BUT WE ARE LOOKING FOR THE CITY THAT IS TO COME. Hebrews 13:14.

God doesn’t ask us to get fingerprinted or do a background check to join his kingdom. We don’t have to fill out a bunch of forms. He knows all about us and wants us anyway! But that doesn’t mean there are no expectations for being part of His kingdom. Today we’ll look at what it means to be a loyal subject to the king, and how to sort through the tension of living in the kingdom while also living here on earth. It’s not always easy—but it’s worth it. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

Where did you grow up? How long have you lived in Arizona? Have you ever lived in another country?

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WATCH THE DVD FOR THIS SESSION AND CAPTURE THOUGHTS YOU WANT TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WEEK’S TEACHING.

AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

GROWING

Discuss the struggle of trying to live the values of the kingdom when we are so highly influenced by the values of our culture?

Culture shock is a very real phenomenon. Just ask anyone who’s lived in another country or culture for an extended amount of time and they’ll tell you it is a huge adjustment. When you are a citizen of the United States but you live in Japan or France or Mexico, you must deal with a constant bombardment of new and sometimes strange customs, foods, languages and experiences. Culture shock can cause anxiety, sadness, insomnia, and even physical pain.

Cal mentions there can be a temptation to stop caring about other people and identify only with God’s kingdom. Can you relate to that? How should our “dual citizenship” cause us to treat others?

TOGETHER

We are citizens of the kingdom who are living in a foreign place that is nothing like our home, and it can be tempting to just give in to the values we find here. Let’s think through this idea together, starting with the video teaching. React to his caution against our tendency to equate being a Christian with being an American.

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READ 1 JOHN 2:15-17.

READ EPHESIANS 2:19-20.

Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.

Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone.

What does it mean to love the world? What does it mean that the love of the Father is not in us if we love the world?

Are there any second-class citizens in God’s kingdom?

What rights and privileges go along with being part of someone’s household? What are the responsibilities and requirements that go along with being part of someone’s household?

Lust of the flesh is probably self-explanatory. What is lust of the eyes? What about pride of life?

What does it mean that Jesus is the chief cornerstone?

How does verse 17 reinforce the importance of living for God?

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SHARING

PERSONAL

How can you be a better reflection of what it means to be a citizen of God’s kingdom?

Is the kingdom “home” for you? If not, what is holding you back from changing your citizenship?

Cal says, “If your greatest allegiance is to America and not to the kingdom, you’re going to find yourself making some compromises to the values of the kingdom.” Do you agree or disagree? What kind of compromises or tensions do you struggle with in this area?

Do you look and sound like a kingdom resident? In what ways have the values and beliefs of this place rubbed off on you?

TOGETHER

A P P L I C AT I O N

How can you better live kingdom values?How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1 • JEREMIAH 29:7

Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.”

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

REFLECT:

Developing our ability to serve God through the leading of the Holy Spirit takes time and persistence as we:

This verse was originally written to the Israelites in exile; how can it also apply to us who are separated from our home?

PRAY. Commit to personal prayer and daily connection with God. (You may find it helpful to write your prayers in a journal.) Remember to pray for the requests shared by your fellow group members.

DAY 2 • 1 PETER 2:12

MEMORIZE. Reflect on what God is saying by learning a passage of scripture. DAILY DEVOTIONS. Complete the Daily Devotions section. Each day, you’ll read just one portion of a passage of Scripture. Give prayerful consideration to what you learn about God, His Spirit, and His place in your life. Take your time! Listen to what God is telling you. Ponder and reflect. Then record your thoughts, insights, or prayer in the Reflect section below the verses you read. On the sixth day record a summary of what you have learned through this study.

Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us. REFLECT:

Are you reflecting the kingdom in your deeds and in your words? Do those who aren’t part of the kingdom see something different about you?

DAY 3 • JOHN 15:19

if you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. REFLECT:

What does it mean to belong to the world? Why does the world “hate you” if you reflect the kingdom instead?

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DAY 4 • ROMANS 12:2

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. REFLECT:

What are some ways to renew your mind? How can that help you stay focused on the kingdom?

DAY 5 • PHILIPPIANS 3:20-21

But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body. REFLECT:

Spend some time praising God for his power, his wisdom, and his ability to change us when we submit to his rule.

LIVE SUCH GOOD LIVES AMONG THE PAGANS THAT, THOUGH THEY ACCUSE YOU OF DOING WRONG, THEY MAY SEE YOUR GOOD DEEDS AND GLORIFY GOD ON THE DAY HE VISITS US. 1 PETER 2:12

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY:

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

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n some Muslim countries, it’s common for the mom, aunts, and sisters of a bride to cover the bride’s arms and feet with elaborate henna designs before her wedding. In many areas of South America, it’s expected to arrive 30 minutes late, or even more, to a dinner invitation—showing up any earlier means you’re too eager for the meal. In Greece, children throw their baby teeth toward the roofs of their houses for good luck.

WHOEVER WANTS TO BECOME GREAT AMONG YOU MUST BE YOUR SERVANT, AND WHOEVER WANTS TO BE FIRST MUST BE SLAVE OF ALL. Mark 10:43-44

While some of these may seem strange to us, they are perfectly normal parts of life for the people living in those countries. These behaviors and beliefs are just part of their culture. It’s just how things are done there. The same is true in the kingdom—there are beliefs, values, and ways of living that are “just the way it’s done” when following God. The difference is that while someone might be born in Chile or Greece or America and grow up absorbing all the nuances of that culture, many of us have chosen to join God’s kingdom later in life. And, as we talked about last week, even if we started following Jesus as children we are living here on earth, in a place that’s not our true home, and we’re constantly affected by the customs of this world. This week we’re going to revisit the customs of the kingdom of God. Some of them may be part of how you already live. Others might challenge you, surprise you, or even seem strange to you. Let’s explore how God has called us to live as his subjects, and how we can grow in this area. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

Have you traveled to another country? What surprised you about the way people lived there? What are some customs of our own country that might seem strange to outsiders? For instance, Greek children probably find it funny that our kids put their baby teeth under their pillows for money!

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WATCH THE DVD FOR THIS SESSION AND CAPTURE THOUGHTS YOU WANT TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WEEK’S TEACHING.

GROWING TOGETHER

We like our lives, and our faith, to be nice and tidy. If we do this, God will do this. If I behave this way, this good thing will happen. If this, then that, cause and effect, everything easy to understand and making perfect sense.

AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

How are the customs or the behavior of a group reflective of their values?

However, Jesus consistently turns that upside down. From the very beginning of his ministry He not only talked about the kingdom of God, but he gave confusing explanations of how things worked there. He says we must lose our life in order to find it, that we will find more joy in giving than in receiving, and that we are strong when we are weak.

Did Dirk Willens make a good decision or a bad decision? What would you have done?

These paradoxes challenge our assumptions about the way life works, and they disrupt our tidy lives. But understanding these “upside down” statements is key to understanding how we are called to follow Jesus. This week we’ll dive deeper into some of these challenging ideas, and what they mean for us as citizens of the kingdom.

Cal mentioned that giving yourself away is the most common custom of the kingdom. Why do you think Cal believes this? Do you agree? What do you do to give yourself away?

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READ LUKE 9:46-48.

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An argument started among the disciples as to which of them would be the greatest. Jesus, knowing their thoughts, took a little child and had him stand beside him. Then he said to them, “Whoever welcomes this little child in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. For it is the one who is least among you all who is the greatest.”

MATTHEW 5:43-48.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

How does the disciples’ argument show their lack of kingdom understanding?

How does Jesus reverse the expected customs of the people? How do Jesus’ actions reinforce the point Jesus is teaching the disciples?

Why does Jesus talk about God’s treatment of people? Why does he mention the way tax collectors and pagans treat people? How can the least be the greatest?

Wait, none of us are capable of being perfect! What’s verse 48 all about?

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Review Matthew 5:21-7:6. What kingdom customs does this passage teach?

Which customs or values of the kingdom make the most sense to you? Which ones are more confusing or challenging?

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PERSONAL

A P P L I C AT I O N

What kingdom customs do you feel you most need to engrain in your life?

What can you do to begin making these customs a habit in your life?

How are customs engrained into a culture?

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1 • MATTHEW 11:30

For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. REFLECT:

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

We don’t think of a yoke—the wooden frame that keeps oxen in line—or a burden as being good things, but Jesus is saying His way can bring peace. Have you experienced this in your life?

DAY 2 • MATTHEW 10:39

Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it. REFLECT:

How do we try to find our life? What does it mean to lose our life for Jesus’ sake?

DAY 3 • LUKE 6:29

If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. REFLECT:

Jesus is not saying we should be doormats, passively allowing other people to push us around. But he is saying that we should not seek revenge, and that ultimately justice comes from God. How did Jesus live out this teaching?

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DAY 4 • MARK 10:31

But many who are first will be last, and the last first. REFLECT:

This is a short teaching that seems simple at first, but try restating it in your own words. What does it mean to be first and last in our world? What about in the kingdom?

DAY 5 • MATTHEW 5:5

Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. REFLECT:

We think of meekness as weakness, but meekness actually means controlled strength and appropriate humility. This statement can still seem paradoxical. How can the meek be victorious?

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY:

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

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ast week we studied the key values of the kingdom and some of the “upside down” statements Jesus made that challenge our usual way of doing things. For instance, Jesus said the least among us is greatest, and that we should turn the other cheek when someone hurts us. But today we’re talking about battle, and war, and going on the attack! If the kingdom is about loving our enemies and praying for those who hurt us, who are we fighting? Jesus is not telling us to fight with other people. Instead, he’s reminding us that the kingdom itself is under attack from Satan, and that as citizens of the kingdom we must constantly fight against darkness and evil so the kingdom can reach as many people as possible. He’s not saying fight with your neighbor—he’s calling you to a much greater battle!

IT IS GOD WHO ARMS ME WITH STRENGTH AND KEEPS MY WAY SECURE. Psalm 18:32

God is powerful enough to defeat Satan on his own, but one of the crazy things about the kingdom is He wants each one of us to participate. Today we’ll talk about what it means to advance God’s kingdom, and why it’s so important. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

Have you or a member of your family served in our nation’s armed forces? (If so, thank you.) What’s your approach to conflict? Are you okay with confrontation or do you try to avoid it?

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AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

GROWING

“The easiest way to lose a battle is to not understand that you’re in one.” Before today, had you thought of yourself as being in a battle?

TOGETHER

Many people believe that becoming a Christ ian is all about insurance for eternity—they accept Jesus as Savior because they want to go to heaven. There’s nothing wrong with looking forward to a wonderful forever with God, but the Christian life is about life now, not just life after death. God has a mission and a purpose for each person who follows Him. Young or old, male or female, you have been drafted into the Lord’s army, and today we’re going to learn about the King’s battle plan.

What strategies does Satan use to attack us?

What was at the root of Satan’s rebellion against God?

How do we think about battles here on earth? How should we think about the spiritual battle we’re part of?

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READ 2 CORINTHIANS 10:3-5.

LEARNING TOGETHER

READ EPHESIANS 6:10-17.

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. The devil is mentioned here; who are the other authorities and powers that are referred to?

For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

What are some of the weapons we fight with as Christians?

How are we to use these weapons and how can they change minds and hearts and demolish arguments?

How does faith shield us against the evil one? According to this passage, what is one tactic of Satan?

In what ways can we use God’s word as a sword?

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Think of someone you could consider an “enemy.” What would it look like to show love to that person?

Does it change your view of the battle to know that ultimately you’re on the winning side?

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Why is sin so appealing? Why do we continue to struggle with sin even though we don’t want to? Even people who are already Christians fight the battle with sin, because Satan is an “equal opportunity attacker.” However, your King is stronger. Ask Him for His help this week.

Think of someone you know who has been hurt in the spiritual battle—someone who is enslaved to sin or living without God. Of the radical tactics Cal talked about, which are you going to use to try to rescue this person from the gates of hell? Commit to praying for this person, for as long as it takes.

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. REFLECT:

D A I LY

How does submission to God help us resist sin?

DEVO T ION S

DAY 2 • ISAIAH 54:17

“No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and this is their vindication from me,” declares the Lord. REFLECT:

There is comfort in knowing that ultimately God’s kingdom will prevail, and evil will be no more. Ask God for courage to play your part!

DAY 3 • ACTS 1:8

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” REFLECT:

Our power comes from the Spirit of God, not from ourselves. How is the Spirit working in your life to help you witness to others?

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DAY 4 • 2 SAMUEL 22:30

With your help I can advance against a troop; with my God I can scale a wall. REFLECT:

You probably won’t ever have to move forward against a literal army or physically climb a wall—but as we’ve learned this week you may do spiritual battle. God can help you do what you can never do alone.

SUBMIT YOURSELVES, THEN, TO GOD. RESIST THE DEVIL, AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU. JAMES 4:7

DAY 5 • 2 THESSALONIANS 3:3

But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one. REFLECT:

Remember, you are not in this battle on your own! God is the leader of this army, and He is faithful to His people.

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY:

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f you grew up going to church, you might know the old hymn “Trust and Obey.” The chorus is very simple: “Trust and obey, for there’s no other way to be happy in Jesus than to trust and obey.” These two words go together—if we trust Jesus, we will be willing to obey his teaching. And if we’re not willing to do what Jesus says, it’s probably because at some level we don’t trust that He knows what’s best or can take care of us.

SHOW ME THE WAY I SHOULD GO, FOR TO YOU I ENTRUST MY LIFE. Psalm 143:8

Like so many old hymns, this one is full of truth. We might find pleasure and even temporary happiness in life by doing our own thing, but if we’re going to find joy as followers of Jesus our only option is to trust Him as our King and follow where He leads. AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

Who is someone you trust completely? Why have they earned your trust? Who is your favorite character in the Bible? How did they show trust in God?

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AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

GROWING TOGETHER

Why is trust so necessary for life? What happens if we all stop trusting each other?

It’s one thing to say you trust God when things are going well. But if our faith is based on our circumstances, we’re like a man who builds his house on sand—when tougher times come, our faith won’t be enough to sustain us. Romans 8:28 says “God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” This doesn’t mean only good things will happen to us if we follow Jesus, or that God causes the bad stuff. It means that if you have decided to follow Him, if you’re a citizen of the kingdom following the king, He can take anything that happens in your life and use it for good. With a promise like that, we can trust God based on who He is and what He has done for us—no matter what’s happening our lives today.

Why do we find it difficult to trust Jesus?

“You can’t say Jesus is Lord and then say no.” React to that statement. Do you agree or disagree? What does that mean for your life?

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LEARNING TOGETHER

READ LUKE 6:46-49.

“Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? As for everyone who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like. They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.”

Then Jesus said to his disciples: “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest? Maybe you are worried about having the necessities of life today, or maybe you are worried about other things—your kids, your health, your job. How does this passage address both kinds of worries?

Is it enough to just listen to what Jesus says?

Respond to verse 24. Does it build trust in God to know that He sees you as valuable?

What does it mean to lay our foundation on rock?

One scholar has noted that the ravens don’t worry, but they do work. What is the balance between us doing our part while trusting God to do His? These two houses would probably look the same from the outside. The difference would not be visible until the storm came. How does this parable apply to life?

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In what areas of life do you find it easiest to trust God? In what areas do you find it most difficult?

What are the next steps for you in taking what you’ve learned about the kingdom and applying it to your life?

As this study wraps up, what is one way this group could live out the teaching of the kingdom in a practical way? Is there a project you could do, a need you could meet, or a person you could serve?

Have you been calling Jesus “Lord” but not obeying Him? Explain.

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. REFLECT:

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

This verse reminds us again that trusting God is a matter of action—we show our faith by submitting to Him. What do you need to submit to God today?

DAY 2 • LUKE 11:13

If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him! REFLECT:

God wants to bless us and help us like a good earthly father wants to help his kids. How can passages like this lead you trust Him more?

DAY 3 • PHILIPPIANS 4:19

My God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus. REFLECT:

Don’t forget: the king we serve owns everything, and He has promised to provide for you!

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DAY 4 • JOHN 10:27

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. REFLECT:

Your shepherd knows you. Do you recognize His voice when He calls you?

DAY 5 • MARK 8:34

Then he called the crowd to him along with his disciples and said: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. REFLECT:

What does it mean for you to take up your cross? Ask God for the wisdom and strength to follow Him.

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY:

TAKING ACTION: What is one thing you will do as a result of what you’ve heard from God?

MY SHEEP LISTEN TO MY VOICE; I KNOW THEM, AND THEY FOLLOW ME. JOHN 10:27

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hey are the most exclusive credit cards in the world.

The Sherbank Visa Infinite Gold Card is made out of solid gold and is embedded with 26 diamonds. It costs $100,000 just to get the card—and that’s before you actually buy anything with it! The invite-only American Express Centurion Card is one of the most prestigious in the world. It’s also known simply as “the black card” because of its striking all-black appearance. Or there’s the Dubai First Royale MasterCard, which is also made of gold and diamonds and is also invitation only, reserved for a “select group of people representing royalty and the upper echelons of the social and business community.”

THE SPIRIT AND THE BRIDE SAY, “COME!” AND LET THE ONE WHO HEARS SAY, “COME!” LET THE ONE WHO IS THIRSTY COME; AND LET THE ONE WHO WISHES TAKE THE FREE GIFT OF THE WATER OF LIFE. Revelation 22:17

Most of us will never own one of these cards or be members of these exclusive groups. It is pretty certain none of us will be part of a royal family. But whether or not we have the blingy card in our pocket, the truth is we are representatives of royalty if we have decided to follow Jesus. He offers an invitation for each one of us to be part of the most important kingdom there will ever be, and he wants each of us to know Him personally! No matter what your background is, regardless of what your net worth might be, the king is inviting you to join the kingdom. How will you respond? AS A GROUP, DISCUSS THESE TWO QUESTIONS:

What groups are you part of? Think about your gender, race, age, profession, life stage, hobbies, education, etc. Share a story about a time you auditioned or interviewed for something; for instance, a school play, a sports team, or a job and you did not get it.

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AFTER WATCHING THE DVD, DISCUSS THE FOLLOWING:

TOGETHER

As young kids we want to be picked for the team. We want access to the clubhouse— especially if there’s a secret handshake. As we get older we want to be one of the cool kids, and it’s very important who we sit with at lunch. After school we want to beat others out for the best jobs with the best perks and benefits, live in the best communities, get our kids in the best schools and be thought of as successful. Our society creates countless ways to keep people out. There’s always some group we can’t join or some VIP line we can’t cross. Fortunately, the kingdom of God doesn’t work that way. While the kingdom can be a confusing place, with new customs and strange sayings, it’s also the best place—and the king wants everyone to be part of it. You don’t have to have designer clothes. You don’t have to write an essay or fill out an application. You don’t even have to have any money. He’s chosen YOU for the team— and now it’s time for you to get in the game.

Why do you think we have such a tendency to group people into categories?

How can sin keep us out of the kingdom?

How did Jesus “pay the expenses” for you to join the kingdom?

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Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” At once they left their nets and followed him.

READ MATTHEW 13:3-9.

Then he told them many things in parables, saying: “A farmer went out to sow his seed. As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants. Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop—a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown. Whoever has ears, let them hear.”

What is Jesus describing in the first scenarios: the seed quickly eaten up, the seed on rocky soil, and the seed among thorns?

Have you personally accepted Jesus’ invitation to follow him?

What does it mean to fish for people?

What is He describing in the last scenario of good soil?

What is the connection between this parable and our invitation to the kingdom of God?

What is the end result of seed that lands in good soil?

How are you actively fishing for people? Is it possible to follow Jesus and not be actively fishing for people?

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What’s the biggest insight you’ve received from participating in this study? What do you still want to learn more about?

Who do you need to tell about the kingdom?

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Cal says that God wants us in the kingdom because it won’t be the same without us. What are some of the gifts and talents God has given you? How are you using them for the kingdom?

How has this study impacted you?

How can the group pray for you? (Add the prayer requests to your Prayer and Praise Report on page 146.) CLOSE IN PRAYER.

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DAY 1 • MARK 1:16-17

As Jesus walked beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.”

D A I LY DEVO T ION S

REFLECT:

The kingdom invitation is not only to belong—we’re also called to participate! Are you ready to partner with God in “fishing for people”?

DAY 2 • MATTHEW 25:34

“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world.’” REFLECT:

As we’ve discussed in previous weeks, the kingdom is both now and not yet. So the invitation is to be part of God’s kingdom now—and to receive even more of His goodness for eternity!

DAY 3 • REVELATION 3:20

Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me. REFLECT:

Thank God for His pursuit of us and His desire that each one of us join the kingdom. He is knocking and inviting us to be with Him!

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DAY 4 • ISAIAH 55:1

“Come, all you who are thirsty, come to the waters; and you who have no money, come, buy and eat! REFLECT:

Jesus is our Living Water and our Bread of Life—and He invites all of us to find true life in Him.

DAY 5 • 1 PETER 2:21

To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. REFLECT:

How can you follow in Jesus’ steps going forward?

“COME, ALL YOU WHO ARE THIRSTY, COME TO THE WATERS; AND YOU WHO HAVE NO MONEY, COME, BUY AND EAT! ISAIAH 55:1

DAY 6

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your mind and heart during your devotions this week.

SUMMARY:

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F R E Q U E N T LY A S K E D Q U E S T I O N S WHAT DO WE DO ON THE FIRST NIGHT OF OUR GROUP? Like all fun things in life—have a party! A “get to know you” coffee, dinner, or dessert is a great way to launch a new study. You may want to review the Group Agreement (page 133) and share the names of a few friends you can invite to join you. If you want to begin with a party you will need to start meeting one week earlier than the scheduled kick off date for the study.

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G R E AT R E S O U R C E S T O H E L P M A K E YOU R LIF E GROU P EXPERIENCE EVEN BETTER!

WHERE DO WE FIND NEW MEMBERS FOR OUR GROUP? We encourage you to pray with your group and then brainstorm a list of people from work, church, your neighborhood, your children’s school, family, the gym, and so forth. Then have each group member invite several of the people on his or her list. No matter how you find members, it’s vital that you stay on the lookout for new people to join your group. All groups tend to go through healthy attrition—the result of moves, releasing new leaders, ministry opportunities, and so forth—and if the group gets too small, it could be at risk of shutting down. If you and your group stay open, you’ll be amazed at the people God sends your way. The next person just might become a friend for life. You never know! HOW LONG WILL THIS GROUP MEET? Thy Kingdom Come Groups meet weekly for at least their first ten weeks. At the end of this study, each group member may decide if he or she wants to continue on for another series. We strongly recommend that the group continue to meet for next six months on a weekly basis if at all possible. This allows groups to develop deeper relationships, community, and trust. Your group may launch relationships for years to come, or it may be a stepping stone into another group experience. Either way, enjoy the journey.

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WHAT IF THIS GROUP IS NOT WORKING FOR US? You’re not alone! This could be the result of a personality conflict, life stage difference, geographical distance, level of spiritual maturity, or any number of things. Relax. Pray for God’s direction, and at the end of this ten-week study, decide whether to continue with this group or find another. You don’t typically buy the first car you look at or marry the first person you date, and the same goes with a group. However, don’t bail out before the ten weeks are up—God might have something to teach you. Also, don’t run from conflict or prejudge people before you have given them a chance. God is still working in your life, too!

K I N GD O M / L I F E GR OU P AGR E E M E N T

WHO IS THE LEADER? All groups have an official leader. But ideally, the group will mature and members will rotate the leadership of group discussion. We have discovered that healthy groups often rotate hosts/leaders and homes on a regular basis. This model ensures that all members grow, give their unique contribution, and develop their gifts. This study guide and the Holy Spirit can keep things on track even when you rotate leaders. Christ has promised to be in your midst as you gather. Ultimately, God is your leader each step of the way.

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Safe Environment To help create a safe place where people can be heard and feel loved. (Please, no quick answers, snap judgments, or simple fixes.)

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Respect Differences To be gentle and gracious to people with different spiritual maturity, personal opinions, temperaments, or “imperfections” in fellow group members. We are all works in progress.

HOW DO WE HANDLE THE CHILDCARE NEEDS IN OUR GROUP? Very carefully. Seriously, this can be a sensitive issue. We suggest that you empower the group to openly brainstorm solutions. You may try one option that works for a while and then adjust over time. Our favorite approach is for adults to meet in the living room or dining room and to share the cost of a babysitter (or two) who can watch the kids in a different part of the house. This way, parents don’t have to be away from their children all evening when their children are too young to be left at home. A second option is to use one home for the kids with appropriate childcare and a second home (close by or a phone call away) for the adults. A third idea is to rotate the responsibility of providing a lesson or care for the children either in the same home or in another home nearby. This can be an incredible blessing for kids. Finally, the most common solution is to decide that you need to have a night to invest in your spiritual lives individually or as a couple and to make your own arrangements for childcare. No matter what decision the group makes, the best approach is to dialogue openly about both the problem and the solution.

• Confidentiality To keep anything that is shared strictly confidential and within the group, and to avoid sharing improper information about those outside the group.

OUR PURPOSE To connect people into a life transforming community where discipleship takes place in the context of relationships. OUR VALUES • Group Attendance To give priority to the group meeting. We will call or email if we will be late or absent. (Completing the Group Calendar on page 135 will minimize this issue.)

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Encouragement for Growth To be not just takers but givers of life. We want to spiritually multiply our life by serving others with our God-given gifts.

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• Refreshments/mealtimes

Planning and calendaring can help ensure the greatest participation at every meeting. At the end of each meeting, review this calendar. Be sure to include a regular rotation of host homes and leaders, and don’t forget birthdays, socials, church events, holidays, and mission/ministry projects.

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MEETING STRUCTUR E Life groups gather not just to answer questions or study a text, but to deepen our connection with God and with one another. We suggest that every meeting include not just study, but times of sharing, worship, and prayer. Every week, include the following elements: SHARING At your first or second meeting, use the Circles of Life diagram on the next page to write the names of two or three people you know who need to know Christ. Commit to praying for God’s guidance and an opportunity to share with each of them. At subsequent meetings, check in with how group members are doing at reaching out to the people they’ve each listed on their circles chart. PRAYER Allow everyone to answer this question: “How can we pray for you this week?” Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page . WORSHIP Spend a few minutes worshiping God together. Here are two ideas: • Have someone use their musical gifts to lead the group in a worship song. Try singing a capella, using a worship CD, or having someone accompany your singing with a musical instrument. • Read a passage of Scripture together, making it a time of praise and worship as the words remind you of all God has done for you. Choose a psalm or other favorite verse.

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M E MO RY V E R S E S SESSION ONE | ONCE UPON A KINGDOM The Lord shall reign forever and ever. (Exodus 15:18)

SESSION SIX | CITIZENS OF THE KINGDOM For here we do not have an enduring city, but we are looking for the city that is to come. (Hebrews 13:14)

SESSION TWO | LONGING FOR A KING The salvation of the righteous comes from the LORD; he is their stronghold in time of trouble. (Psalm 37:39)

SESSION SEVEN | CUSTOMS OF THE KINGDOM Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. (Mark 10:43-44)

SESSION THREE | THE KINGDOM ARRIVES “The kingdom of God has come near. Repent and believe the good news!” (Mark 1:15)

SESSION EIGHT | THE KINGDOM ADVANCES It is God who arms me with strength and keeps my way secure. (Psalm 18:32)

SESSION FOUR | THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS LIKE…. We declare God’s wisdom, a mystery that has been hidden and that God destined for our glory before time began. (1 Corinthians 2:7)

SESSION NINE | TRUSTING YOUR KING Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life. (Psalm 143:8)

SESSION FIVE | WORTHY TO BE KING? Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. (Philippians 2:9-11)

SESSION TEN | AN OPEN INVITATION TO BELONG The Spirit and the bride say, “Come!” And let the one who hears say, “Come!” Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life. (Revelation 22:17)

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HOSTING AN OPEN HOUSE

LIFE GROUP LEADERS

If you’re starting a new group, try planning an “open house” before your first formal group meeting. Even if you have only two to four core members, it’s a great way to break the ice and to consider prayerfully who else might be open to joining your group. You can also use this kick-off meeting to hand out study guides, spend some time getting to know each other, discuss each person’s expectations for the group and briefly pray for each other. A simple meal or good desserts always make a kick-off meeting more fun. After people introduce themselves and share how they ended up being at the meeting (you can play a game to see who has the wildest story!), have everyone respond to a few icebreaker questions:

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What is your favorite family vacation?

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What is one thing you love about your church/our community?

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What are three things about your life growing up that most people here don’t know?

Next, ask everyone to tell what he or she hopes to get out of the study. You might want to review the Life Group Agreement and talk about each person’s expectations and priorities. Finally, set an open chair (maybe two) in the center of your group and explain that it represents someone who would enjoy or benefit from this group but who isn’t here yet. Ask people to pray about inviting someone to join the group over the next few weeks. Hand out postcards and have everyone write an invitation or two. Don’t worry about ending up with too many people; you can always have one discussion circle in the living room and another in the dining room after you watch the lesson. Each group could then report prayer requests and progress at the end of the session. When time is short you may have to be creative to schedule this meeting. You may need to schedule this gathering at a time other than your normal group meeting time. You can skip this kick-off meeting if your time is limited, but you’ll experience a huge benefit if you take the time to connect with each other in this way.

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LEADING FOR THE FIRST TIME

LIFE GROUP LEADERSHIP 101

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Congratulations! You have responded to the call to help shepherd Jesus’ flock. There are few other tasks in the family of God that surpass the contribution you will be making. As you prepare to lead, whether it is one session or the entire series, here are a few thoughts to keep in mind. We encourage you to read these and review them with each new discussion leader before he or she leads.

Sweaty palms are a healthy sign. The Bible says God is gracious to the humble. Remember who is in control; the time to worry is when you’re not worried. Those who are soft in heart (and sweaty-palmed) are those whom God is sure to speak through.

• Seek support. Ask your leader, co-leader, or close friend to pray for you and prepare with you before the session. Walking through the study will help you anticipate potentially difficult questions and discussion topics. •

Bring your uniqueness to the study. Lean into who you are and how God wants you to uniquely lead the study.

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Prepare. Prepare. Prepare. Go through the session several times. If you are using the DVD, listen to the teaching segment. Consider writing in a journal or fasting for a day to prepare yourself for what God wants to do. Don’t wait until the last minute to prepare.

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Ask for feedback so you can grow. Perhaps in an email or on cards handed out at the study, have everyone write down three things you did well and one thing you could improve on. Don’t get defensive. Instead, show an openness to learn and grow.

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Prayerfully consider launching a new group. This doesn’t need to happen overnight, but God’s heart is for this to take place over time. Not all Christians are called to be leaders or teachers, but we are all called to be “shepherds” of a few someday.

• Share with your group what God is doing in your heart. God is searching for those whose hearts are fully his. Share your trials and victories. We promise that people will relate.

1. Remember that you are not alone. God knows everything about you, and He knew that you would be asked to lead your group. Remember that it is common for all good leaders to feel that they are not ready to lead. Moses, Solomon, Jeremiah and Timothy were all reluctant to lead. God promises, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). Whether you are leading for one evening, for several weeks, or for a lifetime, you will be blessed as you serve. 2. Don’t try to do it alone. Pray right now for God to help you build a healthy leadership team. If you can enlist a co-leader to help you lead the group, you will find your experience to be much richer. This is your chance to involve as many people as you can in building a healthy group. All you have to do is call and ask people to help. You’ll probably be surprised at the response. 3. Just be yourself. If you won’t be you, who will? God wants you to use your unique gifts and temperament. Don’t try to do things exactly like another leader; do them in a way that fits you! Just admit it when you don’t have an answer, and apologize when you make a mistake. Your group will love you for it, and you’ll sleep better at night! 4. Prepare for your meeting ahead of time. Review the session and the leader’s notes, and write down your responses to each question. Pay special attention to exercises that ask group members to do something other than engage in discussion. These exercises will help your group live what the Bible teaches, not just talk about it. Be sure you understand how an exercise works, and bring any necessary supplies (such as paper and pens) to your meeting. If the exercise employs one of the items in the appendix, be sure to look over that item so you’ll know how it works. Finally, review “Outline for Each Session” so you’ll remember the purpose of each section in the study.

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5. Pray for your group members by name. Before you begin your session, go around the room in your mind and pray for each member by name. You may want to review the prayer list at least once a week. Ask God to use your time together to touch the heart of every person uniquely. Expect God to lead you to whomever He wants you to encourage or challenge in a special way. If you listen, God will surely lead! 6. When you ask a question, be patient. Someone will eventually respond. Sometimes people need a moment or two of silence to think about the question. Keep in mind, if silence doesn’t bother you, it won’t bother anyone else. After someone responds, affirm the response with a simple “thanks” or “good job.” Then ask, “How about somebody else?” or “Would someone who hasn’t shared like to add anything?” Be sensitive to new people or reluctant members who aren’t ready to say, pray or do anything. If you give them a safe setting, they will blossom over time. 7. Provide transitions between questions. When guiding the discussion, always read aloud the transitional paragraphs and the questions. Ask the group if anyone would like to read the paragraph or Bible passage. Don’t call on anyone, but ask for a volunteer, and then be patient until someone begins. Be sure to thank the person who reads aloud. 8. Break up into small groups each week or they won’t stay. If your group has more than seven people, we strongly encourage you to have the group gather sometimes in discussion circles of three or four people during the SHARING TOGETHER sections of the study. With a greater opportunity to talk in a small circle, people will connect more with the study, apply more quickly what they’re learning and ultimately get more out of it. A small circle also encourages a quiet person to participate and tends to minimize the effects of a more vocal or dominant member. It can also help people feel more loved in your group. When you gather again at the end of the section, you can have one person summarize the

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highlights from each circle. Small circles are also helpful during prayer time. People who are unaccustomed to praying aloud will feel more comfortable trying it with just two or three others. Also, prayer requests won’t take as much time, so circles will have more time to actually pray. When you gather back with the whole group, you can have one person from each circle briefly update everyone on the prayer requests. People are more willing to pray in small circles if they know that the whole group will hear all the prayer requests.

ONE FINAL CHALLENGE (for new or first time leaders): Before your first opportunity to lead, look up each of the five passages listed below. Read each one as a devotional exercise to help yourself develop a shepherd’s heart. Trust us on this one. If you do this, you will be more than ready for your first meeting. MATTHEW 9:36 1 PETER 5:2-4 PSALM 23 EZEKIEL 34:11-16 1 THESSALONIANS 2:7-8, 11-12

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