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18 FATHER’S DAY CELEBRATIONS
Treat Dad to a day out on the town with the whole family.
21 HEAD OF THE CLASS
Introducing some of the most exceptional students in the class of 2023. Meet these rising stars.
28 HELICOPTER PARENTING
Learn to recognize potential parenting pitfalls and how to avoid them.
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39 SUMMER CAMP SHOWCASE
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Graduations are my jam. As soon as I hear the opening chords of “Pomp and Circumstance,” my eyes tear up — in a good way.
As a graduation ceremony fanatic, I am proud of our annual “Head of the Class” section, which spotlights some of South Florida’s outstanding high school seniors. I’ve always loved reading about these young adults — they are truly impressive.
The following might make me sound like a complete nerd, but the truth is, I scour the internet for the best graduation addresses during graduation season, which runs roughly from May to June. And if I am being candid, I often wonder what I would say to graduating high school and college seniors (and, of course, grad students) if I were invited to address a graduating class. It is unlikely I will ever receive such an invitation as I don’t host a late-night show and have not, in fact, reached any level of fame.
Yet, I still think about it.
It’s a tall task — inspiring young adults crossing the threshold into the world with a ten-minute speech.
As a collector of graduation speeches, my all-time favorite is David Foster Wallace’s 2005 commencement speech at Kenyon College entitled “This is Water.”
The speech is not full of grand platitudes but is more of a playbook for getting through the day-to-day grind of adulthood. That may not sound uplifting, but when I am having a frustrating day, I often think back to that speech. It always inspires me to see the world as a place ripe with infinite possibilities — I must open my mind to what I am willing to see and consider — exactly how I hope young adults experience the world.
It is so easy to go down the rabbit hole of negativity these days. Yet, if you are searching for positivity and a healthy dose of hope, you only need to consider the exemplary young people in our communities to flip your perspective.
SUSAN ROSSER Executive Editor
Behold these smoke-breathing, mythical giants as they roar and share their legendary stories.
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From water parks and spray grounds to Jurassic Splash and a Beach Bash, there are many refreshing ways for you and your family to beat the heat this summer. Here are some of our top picks.
MOVIE SPLASH DOWN – As the sun goes down, the fun ramps up at the Movie Splash Down on Friday, June 9 at Bass Park in Fort Lauderdale. The entire family can enjoy a night of fun while watching an outdoor screening of Sonic the Hedgehog by the pool. The free event takes place from 7 to 9 p.m. at 2750 NW 19 St. For more information, visit www.fortlauderdale.gov.
SPLASHTACULAR FRIDAY – Have a cool time with the kids at this Castaway Island Water Park event on Friday, June 16 with water-themed activities, games and music. Open to all, the cost is $7 per person for those ages 13 months and older. Castaway is located at T.Y. Park at 3300 N. Park Rd. in Hollywood.
JURASSIC SPLASH – Have dino-sized fun at this nighttime water park event
on Friday, June 23 at Splash Adventure. Activities are scheduled from 6 to 9 p.m. at 401 S. Powerline Rd. in Deerfield Beach. The cost is $7.50 per person.
If you can’t make it to the Splashtacular or Jurassic Splash, the Broward County Parks Department has four fabulous water parks to choose from with general admission all summer long — C.B. Smith’s Paradise Cove, Quiet Waters’ Splash Adventure, T.Y. Park’s Castaway Island and Central Broward Park’s Tropical Splash. You can venture out for a single day or purchase a season pass to return all summer long. Visit www.broward.org/parks for details.
SUMMER POOL PARTY – Celebrate the return of summer with swimming, food and fun at the Miami Springs Aquatic Center from noon to 5 p.m. Sunday, June 4. The cost is $7/adult resident, $5/child resident, $12/adult non-resident, $7/child non-resident. The event takes place at 1401 Westward Dr. in Miami Springs. For information, go to www.miamisprings-fl.gov.
BEACH BASH – Dive into family fun on Sunday, June 11 while celebrating the anniversary of Sunny Isles Beach. The evening event includes live music, food, and a drone show from 6 to 10 p.m. at Samson Oceanfront Park, 17425 Collins Ave. in Sunny Isles Beach. See www.sibfl.net for details.
MAKE SOME WAVES – Touted as one of the largest cable and wakeboard parks in the United States, Miami Watersports Complex offers wakeboarding, waterskiing, wakeskating, kneeboarding, boating, and an aquapark with 35 water features. It’s an opportunity to try something new or sign up for a lesson to improve your skills. Visit www.miamiwatersportscomplex.com.
DIVE-IN MOVIES – With 35 water slides ranging from mild to wild, Rapids Water Park has something for everyone, including a meandering Lazy River and the breathtaking Raging Rapids. As an added bonus, Rapids will host Dive-In Movies every Friday night in July when you can float around the Big Surf Wave Pool or lounge in a beach chair while watching a featured film. Dive-In Movies are included with paid
park admission. Rapids Waterpark is located at 6566 N. Military Trail in Riviera Beach. For more information, visit www.rapidswaterpark.com.
SAFARI SPLASH – Experience a safari South Florida style by driving through a four-mile stretch filled with large herds of animals roaming in naturalistic habitats. At the end of the trek, the kids can keep cool at the Safari Splash Sprayground which includes 23 different water features, free fall and loop water slides, and an interactive play area with water sprayers and dump buckets. The Sprayground is included in the price of admission. Lion Country Safari is located at 2003 Lion Country Safari Rd. in Loxahatchee. To learn more, visit www.lioncountrysafari.com
SPLASH INTO STORYTIME – Little minnows ages 5 and under can listen to a water safety story followed by open-play at the Splash Zone every Tuesday morning (except for the Fourth of July) through August 1 at the Palm Beach Gardens Aquatic Complex. Book titles include, Llama Llama Learns to Swim and Becket Beaver Learns About Pool Safety. The event starts at 9 a.m. at 4404 Burns Rd. The cost is $3 per resident and $5 for each non-resident. Visit www.pbgfl.com.
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Baron Von Holz, a German nobleman found tucked away in the family crypt of a 14th-century castle, and Nes-Hor, an Egyptian priest, are two of the mummies you will see at Mummies of the World: The Exhibition at the Phillip and Patricia Frost Museum of Science.
On display through September 4, the exhibit is the largest touring collection of mummies ever assembled, featuring the mummified remains of 40 real humans and animals and an additional 80 rare artifacts. The exhibit is designed to provide fascinating details about the lives of ancient people from around the world — including Europe, South America and ancient Egypt — and insight into past cultures and civilizations.
Through hands-on activities and the viewing of mummies, museum-goers will discover the natural processes of mummification, and gain knowledge of how computed tomography, DNA analysis and radiocarbon dating are used by researchers to learn who these people — and animals — were.
Mummies of the World is open to all, however, due to the sensitive nature of the display, Frost has provided an online family guide that offers suggestions when visiting with a child. All children under the age of 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Frost recommends that parents become familiar with the exhibit and content before deciding if it’s suitable for their children.
The Phillip and Patricia Frost Museum of Science is located at 1101 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Admission to Mummies of the World: The Exhibition is included with all museum admission tickets. For more information, call 305-434-9600 or visit www.frostscience.org.
Father’s Day is Sunday, June 18, and there are plenty of ways to honor Dad — or another important male figure in your child’s life. Here are some ways to spend quality time together.
Friday, June 16
Show Dad your love by making a hand-crafted Father’s Day card to give as a gift. 4-5pm, SUNRISE DAN PEARL BRANCH LIBRARY, 10500 W. Oakland Park Blvd., www.broward.org/library
Friday, June 16
A special celebration for toddlers and their caregivers with Father’s Day stories, songs and activities. Ages 18 months-3 years. 11:30-noon, NARANJA BRANCH LIBRARY, 14850 SW 280 St., Homestead, www.mdpls.org
Saturday, June 17
Bring Dad for a light breakfast and morning of fishing. For Cooper City residents. 8-11am, COOPER CITY POOL AND COMMUNITY CENTER 11600 Stonebridge Parkway, Cooper City, 954-434-4300 www.coopercity.gov
Sunday, June 18
Spend some special time with Dad on a guided boardwalk stroll through the mangrove swamp. $3/person. 11am-noon,
CENTER, 751 Sheridan St., Hollywood, 954-357-5161 www.broward.org/parks
Sunday, June 18
Have a fun-filled day with a car show, music, a children’s activity area and more. 9am-3pm, MIZNER PARK, 327 Plaza Real, Boca Raton
Sunday, June 18
Spend time with Dad on a 3-hour catch and release fishing trip on Biscayne Bay. $50. 1-4pm, DEERING ESTATE 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org
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Sunday, June 18
A family-friendly fitness event that’s all about Dad with music, a 5K race, video game truck, kids’ zone, games and an award ceremony. Pre-register online. Race begins at 7am. VISTA VIEW PARK, 4001 SW 142 Ave., Davie, www.victorysportsmgt.com
Sunday, June 18
See some cool cars, trucks and motorcycles while having fun with the family. The event includes specialty vehicle displays, coffee, a vendor midway, a showcase corner, food trucks and more. 8am-noon, TANGER OUTLETS PALM BEACH, 1751 Palm Beach Lakes Blvd., West Palm Beach, www.tangeroutlet.com
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SAT: 1580
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.71
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: National Merit Finalist; AP Scholar with Distinction, Excelsior Scholar; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, English, and Science Honor Societies; STEM Club-Vice President
ACCEPTED TO: Duke, Vanderbilt, Georgia Tech, UF, Georgia, SMU, UM
WILL ATTEND: University of Georgia Morehead Honors College
SAT: 1540
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.66
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: National Merit Finalist; Excelsior Scholar; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, Science, and Social Studies Honor Societies; SGA Executive Board Sergeant-at-Arms
ACCEPTED TO: Johns Hopkins, University of Florida, Florida State
WILL ATTEND: Johns Hopkins University
SAT: 1560
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.62
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: National Merit Commended Scholar, AP Scholar with Distinction, Excelsior Scholars Board-President; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, and Science Honor Societies; Model UN, Silver Knight Nominee
ACCEPTED TO: MIT, Georgia Tech, UF-Honors, UM-Honors
WILL ATTEND: Massachusetts Institute of Technology
SAT/ACT: 1550/35
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.56
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: National Merit Finalist; AP Scholar with Distinction, Excelsior Scholar; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, Science, and Social Studies Honor Societies; Student Ambassador, Maverick Medicine
ACCEPTED TO: Northwestern, Notre Dame, Michigan, UVA, UF, Georgia Tech
WILL ATTEND: University of Florida
SAT: 1390
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.42
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: AP Scholar with Distinction, Excelsior Scholar; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, Quill and Scroll, English, Science, and Social Studies Honor Societies; Yearbook EIC; Silver Knight Nominee
ACCEPTED TO: Brown University (QuestBridge Full Scholarship Recipient)
WILL ATTEND: Brown University
SAT: 1450
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.34
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: National Merit Commended Scholar; Florida Law Honor Society; Creative Writing Club-President; Interact Club-Vice President, Mock Trial Co-Captain; GLS Berlin College Foreign Exchange Student
ACCEPTED TO: Yale, Brown, Williams College, Wellesley, UF, BC
WILL ATTEND: Yale University
SAT/ACT: 1410/32
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.34
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: National Merit Commended Scholar, AP Scholar, Excelsior Scholar; NHS; Swim Team-Captain and State Qualifier; Maverick Medicine, Environmental Club
ACCEPTED TO: Williams College, Emory, UF, Boston University, FSU
WILL ATTEND: University of Florida
SAT/ACT: 1400/32
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.33
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: Excelsior Scholar, Carson Scholar; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, Quill and Scroll, Florida Law, Science, Social Studies, and Spanish Honor Societies; Silver Knight Nominee; SGA Member
ACCEPTED TO: UNC, UF, Georgia, UM, FSU, Clemson, UCF, FIU
WILL ATTEND: University of Florida
SAT: 1490
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.31
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: College Board National Recognition Program; AP Scholar with Distinction, Excelsior Scholars Board-Vice President; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, and Science Honor Societies; Student Ambassador Board
ACCEPTED TO: University of Florida, Boston College, Florida State University
WILL ATTEND: Boston College
SAT/ACT: 1490/32
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.28
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: AP Scholar with Distinction, Excelsior Scholar; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, English, Science, and Social Studies Honor Societies; Tech Ambassador, Key Club
ACCEPTED TO: UF, Boston College, UM, George Washington
WILL ATTEND: University of Florida
SAT/ACT: 1430/33
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.25
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: AP Scholar with Honor, Excelsior Scholar; NHS, English, Science, and Florida Law Honor Societies, TriM Music Honor Society-President; Marching Band-President
ACCEPTED TO: University of Florida, Boston College, Fordham, Florida State
WILL ATTEND: Florida State University
SAT: 1220
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.13
ACCOMPLISHMENTS: College Board National Recognition Program; NHS, Mu Alpha Theta, Science, and Spanish Honor Societies; SGA Senior Class Secretary; Student Ambassador, Maverick Medicine
ACCEPTED TO: University of Virginia, Michigan State, UF, Texas, Purdue, OSU
WILL ATTEND: Purdue University
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.04
OUTSTANDING ACHIEVEMENTS: President of USchool’s chapter of Debbie’s Dream Foundation, Captain of the Varsity Basketball Team, National Merit Finalist, Johns Hopkins Book Award, Class Scholar Athlete Award, Scott Wiegley Athletic and Academic Excellence Scholarship, Varsity Basketball Leadership Award, Citizen Scholar Award, Valedictorian
ACCEPTED TO: Duke University
WILL ATTEND: Duke University
CAREER GOAL: Attorney
FAVORITE TEACHERS: Dr. A, Ms. Sellers, Ms. Smith, Dr. B, Profe Ruiz
FAVORITE HIGH SCHOOL MEMORY: Bus rides to away games with my basketball team.
FAVORITE QUOTE: “Life is a series of coin flips.” –Zachary Samuel
WEIGHTED GPA: 5.01
OUTSTANDING ACHIEVEMENTS: President of USchool’s chapter of Art From the Heart, Co-captain of Varsity Tennis Team, Founder of non-profit organization
BESTS (Bringing Educational Supplies to Students), AP Scholar Award with Honor, National AP Scholar Award, University of Pennsylvania Book Award, Salutatorian
ACCEPTED TO: University of Miami
WILL ATTEND: University of Miami
CAREER GOAL: Pediatric Dentist
FAVORITE TEACHERS: Dr. Arechabaleta, Ms. Sellers, Ms. Carbonara
FAVORITE HIGH SCHOOL MEMORY: Attending pep rallies, class trips, and executing the Senior Class prank with my friends and peers.
FAVORITE QUOTE: “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” –Elbert Hubbard
WEIGHTED GPA: 4.65
OUTSTANDING ACHIEVEMENTS: Baseball MVP, AP scholar with distinction, Soccer coaches award
ACCEPTED TO: University of Florida, University of South Carolina, Vanderbilt University
WILL ATTEND: Vanderbilt University
CAREER GOAL: Sports Management of a professional organization
FAVORITE HIGH SCHOOL MEMORY: Going on the March of the Living
WEIGHTED GPA: 4.64
OUTSTANDING ACHIEVEMENTS: National Merit Finalist, State Thespians Superior Award Winner, District Envirothon Winner, Full Academic Scholarship Recipient
ACCEPTED TO: Princeton University, Yale University, Brown University
WILL ATTEND: Princeton University
CAREER GOAL: Doctorate in Music
FAVORITE HIGH SCHOOL MEMORY: Lunches outside with my friends
WEIGHTED GPA: 4.60
OUTSTANDING ACHIEVEMENTS: Principal Honor Roll, National Honor Society, AP Scholar with Distinction, Founder of Marine Experience Club, Varsity Football Championship 3 years in a row, Certified Master Scuba Diver with 13 certifications
ACCEPTED TO: University of South Carolina - Chapel Hill Kenan-Flagler Business School, University of Virginia, University of Florida, University of Georgia - Terry College of Business, Indiana University - Kelley School of Business, Wisconsin University School of Business, Wake Forest University, Florida State University, and University of Central Florida
WILL ATTEND: UNC Chapel Hill Kenan-Flagler Business School
CAREER GOAL: A career in private equity and venture capital.
FAVORITE HIGH SCHOOL MEMORY: Bonding with classmates and faculty at Camp Kulaqua.
WEIGHTED GPA: 4.6
OUTSTANDING ACHIEVEMENTS: National Merit Finalist and College Scholarship Recipient, AP Scholar with Distinction, National Hispanic Recognition Program Scholar, Miami-Dade Teen Court Outstanding Volunteer Award
ACCEPTED TO: Florida State University, University of North Carolina, Northeastern University, University of Maryland, University of Miami, Emory University, Tulane University, Boston University, Washington University in St. Louis, University of Central Florida, University of Florida
WILL ATTEND: University of Florida
CAREER GOAL: A career in STEM
FAVORITE HIGH SCHOOL MEMORY: Junior Class trip to Westgate River Ranch
SALUTES THE TOP TEN PERCENT OF THE CLASS OF 2023 AS THEY CONTINUE TO STRIVE FOR EXCELLENCE!
Other college acceptances for the Class of 2023 include: Alabama State University, Auburn University, Barry University, Clemson University, Cornell University, Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University, Florida Atlantic University, Florida International University, Louisiana State University, Loyola University Chicago, Michigan State University, Nova Southeastern University, Ohio State University, Pennsylvania State University, Purdue University, St. Thomas University, Stetson University, Texas A & M University, The University of Alabama, University of Colorado Boulder, University of Miami, University of North Florida, University of Pittsburgh, University of South Florida, Virginia Tech
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Fabiana Isasi Johns Hopkins University
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BY SARAH LYONS
Parents want the best for their kids and have a strong desire for them to be successful in every endeavor. While this tendency comes with positive intentions, it can occasionally backfire and leave kids unprepared for the natural consequences and realities that come with everyday life as an adult.
According to the Cambridge Dictionary, overparenting is defined as “too much involvement by parents in the lives of their children, so that they try to help with or control everything that happens to the child.” Kids who are raised in this environment struggle in college and beyond with basic tasks, common disappointments, and self-sufficiency. How do you know if you are overparenting? Here are some common pitfalls parents can easily find themselves falling into and some tips to turn these tendencies around.
COMMON PITFALL: Power struggles
Do you often find yourself having a heated debate with your child about something that isn’t important in the grand scheme of things? For example, you may be tempted to argue about your child’s clothing choices, if their room isn’t clean enough, if they are not playing with toys the “right way”, or if they are simply approaching a task differently than you would tackle it yourself. This is a sign you may be overparenting.
TURN IT AROUND: When you find yourself in the middle of another power struggle, pause and reflect if it is worth debating. Your child will learn problem-solving skills and gain independence from doing things their own way. If it doesn’t work as smoothly as the way you would have done it, that’s to be expected. They will learn the lesson and adjust naturally on their own. The best part will be less arguing and stress in the home.
COMMON PITFALL: Lack of natural consequences
One of the hardest things about parenting is watching your child fail. If they don’t make the team, get a bad grade, break a toy, or have a disagreement with a friend, parents are often tempted to step in and “fix” the situation so their child is not hurt or disappointed. While this seems like a good thing now, it can cause long-lasting challenges for your child.
TURN IT AROUND: Let them try, make mistakes and deal with the aftermath — positive or negative — that comes from their actions. Facing natural consequences is hard but kids who do so are better prepared for making decisions as an adult when the stakes are much higher and the choices can be life-altering.
COMMON PITFALL: Lack of responsibilities
A common sign of overparenting is a lack of age-appropriate expectations and responsibilities. It is tempting to do all of the chores around the house, help your child with homework assignments, allow them to give up when things get tough, clean up for them and assist them with daily tasks they can do on their own. Kids often surprise us with how much they can do by themselves when given the chance to try.
TURN IT AROUND: Start by choosing one task and let your child know they will be responsible for it from now on. Teach them how to do it, and let them know you are there to answer questions and help but they will need
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to do the task on their own. It might be a struggle at first, but over time they will be able to do it independently, will gain a sense of pride, and will be prepared for harder tasks, including those outside the home. If they have a special interest, encourage them to sign up to volunteer. HandsOn Broward and HandsOn Miami both offer a range of volunteer opportunities for all ages and clubs such as the Junior Service League, Kids Who Care and the Teen Service Squad.
COMMON PITFALL: No time for traditional play
Traditional play and downtime are important for kids’ development because it promotes creativity and allows your child to
rest from the structure and pressures that school and extracurricular activities bring. If your child has so many scheduled activities that they have very little free time, it may be due to overparenting. It’s best to find a good balance of your time that promotes both traditional play and activities such as sports or artistic interests equally.
TURN IT AROUND: Ask your child what they are truly interested in and reduce the rest of the activities to allow more free time. Keep in mind this may or may not be the activity they excel at. Allowing your child to choose the activities they want to engage in outside the home is important as they gain independence and allows time for them to develop their interests rather than spreading them too thin. Summer break
should allow extra time at home too, for free time. Set out a puzzle, board games, a ball, or construction paper and markers and allow your child to play alone, with a sibling or a friend, at their leisure.
Parenting is challenging and changing behavior is even more so. Give yourself grace and make small changes at a time. Talk to your partner or a friend and ask for support and a fresh perspective on the situation. Try to be receptive to their suggestions rather than defending your actions. Talk openly with your child about some changes you would like to make and why. The hard work will be worth it when your child develops into a healthy, selfsufficient adult that is ready to face the challenges and successes that life brings.
(Check all that apply)
I often argue with my child about small things.
I struggle to say “no” to my child.
I struggle with allowing my child to make their own choices.
I often rescue my child if I think they might fail. I hide or “fix” disappointments or consequences so my child doesn’t have to face them.
I tend to worry about things other parents don’t.
I compare my child to other children.
I sometimes argue with other adults about how they treat my child.
I don’t expect my kids to pitch in around the house.
Our life is so full of activities we don’t have any downtime.
I often find myself picking up after my child.
I tend to get overly involved in my child’s relationships.
I struggle to find interests and hobbies outside of my kids.
If things get hard, I allow my kids to give up.
I notice my child is unable to do things their peers can do themselves (dress themselves, cook a meal, keep track of assignments, etc.).
If something scares me, I don’t allow my child to try it.
I often give in to my child's requests if they pester me long enough.
If you checked any of the boxes above it may be worth loosening the reins a bit to make sure you aren’t falling into the habit of overparenting.
BUT I DIDN’T EXPECT HOUSING DISCRIMINATION BECAUSE I HAVE A CHILD.
One landlord said I could only live on the first floor, another said that my daughter was not allowed to play outside, and a third told me that my rent would be higher. Then I learned that discrimination based on familial status is illegal, so I filed a complaint with HOPE.
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BY RICK EPSTEIN
Idon’t know about you, but I tend to overestimate the abilities of 2-year-olds. They walk and talk just like people, so I assume they ARE just like people. But take them miniature-golfing and they’ll remind you that not so long ago they had gills and tails.
It was a hot August night at Golfzilla Mini-Golf. My wife, Betsy, our three little daughters, and I were in line for our equipment. One of the posted rules was, “Be careful with your putter. It is a dangerous weapon.”
“Let’s not give Wendy a dangerous weapon,” my wife said. Wendy was the 2-year-old. So we only rented clubs and balls for the four of us.
Sally, age 5, happily knocked her orange ball around the course with some skill, even scoring a lucky hole-in-one.
Meanwhile, little Wendy busied herself picking marigolds, trying to eat them, and picking up the balls, including those belonging to other golfers, and throwing them. “Wendy, stop that!” “Wendy,
come back here!” “Wendy, spit that out!” Before long, complete strangers were saying, “Look out! Here comes Wendy.”
To distract her, we’d carry her over to a heavily chlorinated waterfall and hold her up to touch the concrete gnome that was perched on top of it. She’d quiver with excitement every time, thinking it was alive, expecting it to react. She was also intrigued by the Golfzilla statue at the 18th hole, but it was out of reach inside a cage.
Marie, 8, was having a bad time. Even more infuriating to her than Wendy’s ball-snatching, was Sally’s hole-in-one. Marie’s red ball was not going where she wanted it to, and frustration turned careful strokes into vicious slashes.
On the 11th hole, Marie took an especially vengeful bash at the ball. It bounced off a low stone wall and into a clump of marigolds beside a 6-foot Dutch windmill. Exasperated, but not quite ready to fling herself onto the ground, she bent over the flower patch and rummaged around in search of the ball. The blunt plywood blades of the windmill, their slow motion powered by a little electric motor,
were awfully close to Marie’s head. Before I could say anything, Marie became, after Don Quixote, the second great tragic figure to be hit on the head by a windmill.
“Ow!” she said, backing away, not actually hurt.
Trying not to smile, Betsy said, “I’ll find it for you,” and stepped into the danger zone. Her bent head also received a tap, and this time the windmill stopped dead.
Marie howled, “Now we’re in big trouble!” She burst into tears and flung herself to the ground.
“What’s the matter with HER?” Sally asked curiously, provoking a roar of rage.
My wife gave a windmill blade a little push and the rotation resumed. We got a replacement ball from the attendant, and Marie recovered her composure and finished out the game with some dignity.
In the car going home, Sally asked, “Can we go again tomorrow?”
Trying to make Betsy laugh, I said, “It wouldn’t be as much fun if we went every day. But we’ll go again someday.”
“Good,” said Marie. I looked at her in surprise. Seems I wouldn’t recognize fun if it lay weeping on the ground right in
front of me. That was 15 years ago. We never went back, and the place went out of business waiting for us.
Last June, with time on my hands, I stopped by the old Golfzilla course. Skinny trees and knee-high weeds grew everywhere, and vines were climbing the windmill. The waterfall’s basin contained a murky soup of wiggly larvae, and Wendy’s gnome had cleared out. Golfzilla lay rainswollen and sun-cracked in his cage.
But things are happening there now. Driving by, I got a glimpse of raw earth, a yellow bulldozer and new masonry. A news item confirmed it: New Owners, Big Makeover, Re-opening Soon!
Call us fools, but my wife and I think it’d be fun to go back. All the girls will be home for a holiday weekend soon, and I bet they’d indulge us. They are now 24, 21 and 17, so their golf game may lack the intensity of extreme youth. It had better — especially if we let Wendy wield a putter this time.
Rick Epstein is a freelance writer and author who finds mega-adventure in mini-golf.
We should never forget the classics. Peach Melba is oddly impressive for being so uncomplicated. I love it because you can make it a day ahead — which is great for entertaining. It’s also the perfect way to elevate an ordinary Saturday night at home into something more celebratory. And there’s ice cream involved so everyone will be happy. If you plan to make the melba, start at least four or five hours before you want to serve it because everything needs time to chill.
Ingredients: (serves 6)
FOR THE RASPBERRY SAUCE
3 cups raspberries (fresh or frozen)
1/3 cup sugar
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
FOR THE PEACHES
3 peaches
2-5 cups of sugar (depending on the size of your pot)
1 teaspoon vanilla
1 lemon, juiced
Vanilla ice cream for serving
Preparation:
• Make the raspberry sauce by cooking
3 cups of raspberries (fresh or frozen) with about 1/3 cup of sugar. Add 1 tablespoon of fresh lemon juice and about 1 tablespoon of water. Cook over medium heat until the berries break down (only a few minutes). Remove from heat, let cool and then push through a strainer to remove the seeds. Refrigerate until ready to serve.
• Halve the peaches and remove the pit. In a large pot, heat equal parts sugar and water. I made 3 peaches and used about 2 cups of each. Add the vanilla. (You can add a split vanilla bean, but those are pricey.) Also, add the juice of the lemon. Place the peaches in the pot cut side up. Cook them for about 6-8 minutes until tender but not mushy. While they are cooking, baste with the syrup. When they are done, transfer them to a bowl and refrigerate for a few hours until they are chilled. (See note.)
• When ready for dessert, peel the peaches (the skin will come off easily). Place a scoop of vanilla ice cream in each bowl. Top with half a peach and the raspberry sauce. Enjoy.
Note: I’m not too fond of waste, so I saved some of the poaching liquid and used it to sweeten iced tea. Who needs peach Snapple?
We’ve all been there: despite our very best efforts — and cajoling — our kids simply won’t eat healthy, home-cooked food. How about trying a new strategy and making healthy eating a fun activity? Here are some fun ways to inspire the kids:
DINNER FOR BREAKFAST. Everyone knows about “breakfast for dinner,” but have you ever considered “dinner for breakfast”? “Well, why not,” says Shannon Crocker, a dietician. “If it was a healthy, balanced meal last night, it’s still a healthy, balanced meal this morning.” If your kids’ favorite food is pizza, serve mini-pizzas with healthy fillings like tomato sauce, ham, pineapple and cheese.
COOKING CLUB. Get some of your kids’ friends or classmates together and start a cooking club on afternoons or weekends. You could hire a local culinary student to teach basic cooking skills. “Children are more likely to eat healthy foods if the
GUESS THE FRUIT OR VEGETABLE. Put a bunch of fruits and vegetables in a bag, have the kids close their eyes, and ask them to choose one thing. The goal is to guess what it is based on how it feels and smells. “Exploring food with all of their senses moves them closer to trusting and eating that food,” says Savage.
DESSERT AS THE MAIN COURSE. Put a small portion of dessert on their plates, just enough to keep them hungry, along with other options. “You’ll be surprised when your child suddenly takes a bite of dessert along with a bite of something else, instead of just gobbling up the dessert,” says nutritionist Jennifer House.
GUESS THE FRUIT. Have your kids guess which fruit you’re thinking of by describing its color, shape, texture and taste. “It’s a great way to have fun while promoting healthy eating in kids,” Savage adds.
FOLLOW THEIR PASSION. Kids have different passions.
I’m not big on crying.
The last time I cried must’ve been over a year ago; I was rewatching the hit DreamWorks Animation movie “How to Train Your Dragon 2.” It’s a phenomenal film with ups and downs, capable of yanking some saltwater out of the most conservative of tear ducts.
But my cinema-induced tears don’t come close to the waterworks that happened on the last day of summer camp. Imagine hundreds of kids of varying sizes with wet, red, puffy faces frantically saying their goodbyes to each other at the crack of dawn. Every summer, without exception, I created a puddle of my own tears. And I have to admit, I made a massive mistake when I chose not to return for what would have been my last summer as a camper.
I went to camp for seven years, and, as such, I have seven summers worth of camp stories of varying appropriateness. One memory comes to the fore; the camp I went to is situated on the side of a mountain, and whenever it rained, small streams
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of dirt and stormwater would pop up. On one particularly stormy day, my group of idiots imagined it might be amusing to secure a surplus mattress and repurpose it as a sled.
The head staff quickly chastised us for “ruining a perfectly good mattress.” Although, I will contend to my grave that there was nothing “good” about the mattresses at camp. Nonetheless, we were charged, tried and subsequently sentenced to a creative punishment.
From dawn until dusk for two whole days, we worked as counselors with the youngest campers. These kids were just seven years old, terrifically needy, and somehow always a bit sticky. It taught us a thing or two about authority and it forced us to see the world from a different perspective.
From the hatching of our ingenious slip-and-slide, to the execution, sentencing, and even the punishment, all of it helped build friendships in ways only camp could foster. Our shenanigans were ceaseless — as were our punishments. We were slow learners. But we learned together. We grew up
summers on our mountaintop.
Before what would’ve been my last summer, I somehow lost sight of all these memories, friendships and what camp meant to me. I told my mother I didn’t want to go back. She pleaded with me to go. She told me I was making a mistake. My mother has a necklace she received for her 15th summer at camp. She hardly ever wears it these days — but still, I know she treasures it. She wisely held onto that sliver of childhood for as long as she could. She knew what I didn’t.
I dug in deep and stayed home that summer. I was hot. I was bored. I was miserable. Nearly every person I knew had some sort of summer plans — plans that did not include me. All while I was painfully aware that I could’ve been with my friends playing sports, learning new skills and being generally up to no good.
I now know she was right, as she often is. I left my childhood in the dust without even a glance back. I didn’t understand what an unusually close community I had been part of — or how rare that is. Never again will I live with my best friends in an abnormally small space with no air conditioning or plumbing. The friendships I made, the growth I went through, and the fun I had will always stay with me, and I am more than happy to revisit those memories. I just wish I had made a few more.
FINDING THE PERFECT
CAMP PROGAM CAN TAKE WORK, BUT IT’S A WORTHWHILE INVESTMENT OF TIME. THE PAYOFF?
SUMMER FUN YOUR CHILD WON’T FORGET.
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PINE TRAILS PARK, 10555 Trails End, Parkland, www.cityofparkland.org
World Ocean Day Celebration
SATURDAY, JUNE 10
Enjoy an afternoon of learning about the importance of our oceans and the benefits to our planet through arts and crafts, games and activities for all ages. $2 suggested donation. Noon-3pm, ANNE KOLB NATURE CENTER, 751 Sheridan St., Hollywood, www.broward.org/parks
Beetlejuice
ONGOING, JUNE 13-25
Based on Tim Burton’s beloved film, the comical musical tells the story of an unusual teenager whose life changes when she meets a recently deceased couple and a demon with a thing for stripes. Showtimes vary. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, www.browardcenter.org
Juneteenth Celebration
FRIDAY, JUNE 16
THURSDAY, JUNE 1
Participate in free museum exploration the first Thursday of every month. 11am-7pm, NSU ART MUSEUM FORT LAUDERDALE, One East Las Olas Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.nsuartmuseum.org
FRIDAY, JUNE 2
A powerful performance with dynamically choreographed movements and percussive rhythms. $20. 7-8pm, SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER THEATRE, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, www.sunrisefl.gov
Children’s Bookfest
SATURDAY, JUNE 3
This family fun festival with entertainers, arts and crafts and other activities, is the official kickoff of Broward County Library’s Summer Learning Program. 11am-4pm, AFRICAN AMERICAN RESEARCH LIBRARY AND CULTURAL CENTER 2650 Sistrunk Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.broward.org/library
SATURDAY, JUNE 3
Bring your family and your appetite to an outdoor event featuring live music and a variety of food trucks. Admission is free.
7-9pm, PARKLAND AMPHITHEATER, 10561 Trails End, Parkland, www.cityofparkland.org
Sounds at Sundown
SATURDAY, JUNE 3
Move and groove with an evening of music on the covered field. Food trucks start serving at 5pm. Concert begins at 6pm. 5-10pm,
MARGATE SPORTS COMPLEX, 1695 Banks Rd., Margate, www.margatefl.com
Sea Turtle Walks
JUNE 6, 8, 13, 15, 20, 21, 22, 27 & 29
An informative hands-on session about sea turtles is followed by a trip to the beach with expert guides to watch for turtles that have come to lay eggs. Be prepared to walk up to two miles. Ages 9 and up. $40. Pre-registration required. 8pm-1am, MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale, www.mods.org
Movie Splash Down at Bass Park
FRIDAY, JUNE 9
Lounge around the pool while watching a screening of Sonic the Hedgehog. Free. 7-9:30pm, BASS PARK 2750 NW 19 St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-828-6019, www.fortlauderdale.gov
Starlight Musicals
FRIDAYS, JUNE 9-AUGUST 11
Wrap up the week with this true summer tradition featuring live music on the football field. Weather permitting. 7-10pm, HOLIDAY PARK, 1150 G. Harold Martin Dr., Fort Lauderdale, www.fortlauderdale.gov
Disney’s Newsies
ONGOING, JUNE 10-25
The Disney film turned Tony-winning Broadway hit is designed to inspire everyone to fight for what’s right. $49 and up. Showtimes vary. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, www.browardcenter.org
Fishing Derby
SATURDAY, JUNE 10
Enjoy the outdoors while having some fun casting a line at the park. 8-10am,
Event includes performances by Ashanti Cultural Arts, live music by Motown Magic, food vendors, a kids’ area and more. 7-9:30pm, TAMARAC SPORTS COMPLEX, 9901 NW 77 St., Tamarac, www.tamarac.org
FRIDAY, JUNE 16
Join the South Florida Amateur Astronomers Association while looking at the night sky through a telescope. 7:30-9pm, FERN FOREST NATURE CENTER, 201 Lyons Rd. South, Coconut Creek, www.broward.org/parks
SATURDAY, JUNE 17
The downtown area comes alive with art, music, murals, outdoor markets and more. 6-11pm, DOWNTOWN HOLLYWOOD, www.hollywoodfl.org
TUESDAY, JUNE 27
Move it, move it to the Broward Center to see this fun-filled musical spectacular. $29.50 and up. 7pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, www.browardcenter.org
WEEKENDS IN JUNE
Check out some of the latest flight technology we have today and dive into ocean exploration with hands-on activities, exhibits and animal encounters. Saturday 10am-5pm, Sunday noon-5pm. MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale, www.mods.org
THROUGH SEPTEMBER 4
View 44 creative sculptures made from more than 800,000 Lego bricks throughout the grounds of Flamingo Gardens. Included with paid admission. 9:30am-4:30pm, FLAMINGO GARDENS, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., Davie, www.flamingogardens.org
SATURDAY, JUNE 3
Explore the museum for free the first Saturday of every month. GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM, 12450 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-253-0063 www.goldcoastrailroadmuseum.org
SUNDAY, JUNE 4
Dive into fun as you learn all about oceans and marine life while discovering what local conservationists are doing to save coral reefs, protect coastlines and raise awareness. Free with paid admission. 11am-4pm, PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, www.frostscience.org
such as astronomy, engineering and art through hands-on activities. Registration required. Ages 8-12. 3-5pm, SHENANDOAH BRANCH LIBRARY, 2111 SW 19 St., Miami, www.mdpls.org
PAMM Free Second Saturdays
SATURDAY, JUNE 10
Participate in hands-on activities, tours, performances and more. Admission is free all day with art-making from 1-4pm. PÉREZ ART MUSEUM MIAMI, 1103 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, www.pamm.org
SATURDAY, JUNE 10
Enjoy a day of family fun activities, arts and crafts, live performances and more every second Saturday of the month. 10am-5pm, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, www.coralgablesmuseum.org
Free Family Day: Once Upon a Time
SATURDAY, JUNE 10
It’s a literary adventure with books, local authors and other family-friendly activities. 10am-4pm, HISTORYMIAMI, 101 W. Flagler St., Miami, www.historymiami.org
Anniversary Beach Bash
SUNDAY, JUNE 11
Celebrate the 26th anniversary of Sunny Isles Beach with a night of live music, food and a drone show. 6-10pm, SAMSON OCEANFRONT PARK, 17425 Collins Ave., Sunny Isles Beach, www.sibfl.net
Teen Talk
TUESDAY, JUNE 13
SUNDAYS, JUNE 4, 11, 18 & 25
Discover fresh-made delicacies and hand-crafted goods, fruits and vegetables, vegan products and more. 9am-2pm, VIZCAYA MUSEUM AND GARDENS, 3250 S. Miami Ave., Miami, www.vizcaya.org
STEAM Workshop
THURSDAY, JUNE 8
Join the fun exploring different STEAM topics
SATURDAY, JUNE 10
Bring your lawn chairs and blankets for a live concert by Rus Anderson performing Elton John’s greatest hits. 7:30pm, OLD SCHOOL SQUARE, 51 N. Swinton Ave., Delray Beach, www.delraybeachfl.gov
The Wonderful Wizard of Oz
SUNDAY, JUNE 11
See this adaptation of the timeless classic presented by Curtain Call Playhouse. $9/adult, $7/child. 11am & 2pm, WILLOW
THEATRE AT SUGAR SAND PARK, 300 Military Trail, Boca Raton, www.sugarsandpark.org
Hometown Hero Appreciation Day
SATURDAY, JUNE 17
A salute to Hometown Heroes with military
Teens in grades 7-12 are invited to a roundtable to share ideas about everything from events and programs to podcasts. 6-8pm, THE SPOT, 215 185 St., Sunny Isles Blvd., 305-792-1706 www.sibfl.net
SATURDAY, JUNE 17
Turn flat pieces of paper into threedimensional works of art during this origami program. 2-3:30pm, CORAL REEF BRANCH
vehicle demonstrations, meet and greets with armed forces, live science demonstrations, dunk the heroes tank and more. Free admission and early entry for Heroes with valid ID and up to 4 guests. Pre-registration required. 10am-3pm, COX SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, www.coxsciencecenter.org
FRIDAY, JUNE 30
Enjoy extended hours of museum exploration and a variety of activities focused on the GEMS Rock theme. 6-9pm, COX SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 www.coxsciencecenter.org
MONDAYS
Explore the wildlife sanctuary and view the alligators and crocodiles as they have a
LIBRARY, 9211 SW 152 St., Palmetto Bay, www.mdpls.org
SATURDAY, JUNE 17
Have some fun with the family with a variety of free activities, such as kickball, relay races, yard games, a 3K community run/walk and more. 10am-noon, GOULDS PARK, 11350 SW 216 St., Miami
SUNDAY, JUNE 18
Participate in this bike tour that celebrates the Flame Tree and Royal Poincianas in full flower. 10am-noon, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, www.coralgablesmuseum.org
SATURDAY, JUNE 24
Take a stroll to check out some unique species of butterflies and a variety of habitats. 11am-noon, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org
SATURDAY, JUNE 24
Kids can practice reading skills and gain confidence by reading to Charlie Brown, a registered therapy dog. Noon-1pm, SOUTH MIAMI BRANCH LIBRARY, 6000 Sunset Dr., South Miami, www.mdpls.org
FRIDAY-SUNDAY, JUNE 30-JULY 2
Enjoy three action-packed days full of anime, celebrities, gaming, comics and pop culture. MIAMI BEACH CONVENTION CENTER, 1901 Convention Center Dr., Miami Beach, www.miamibeachconvention.com
WEDNESDAYS
Bring the family and your appetite to this food truck event featuring a variety of dishes to choose from. 5-10pm, PELICAN HARBOR MARINA, 1275 NE 79 St., Miami, www.miamifoodtrucksevents.com
snack. 4pm, BUSCH WILDLIFE SANCTUARY, 2500 Jupiter Park Dr., Jupiter, 561-575-3399 www.buschwildlife.org
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Now and then, my sister-in-law Angela sent gifts to my kids for no reason — just a little reminder she was thinking about them. One such gift was a Jimi Hendrix t-shirt for my son, who was about 14 then. When he asked me who Jimi Hendrix was — I must admit, I felt like a failure.
I place a certain amount of importance on cultural literacy. Obviously, when it comes to influential musicians of the 1960s, I had failed to educate my offspring about some of the greats. (Even though I am more of a disco fan, Hendrix, especially his 1967 “Are You Experienced” album, should be appreciated by younger generations.)
My older sister had given me quite an education about the music of the ’60s and ’70s. Why hadn’t I done the same for my kids?
When I was about 7 years old, I was a huge fan of the Partridge Family. My big sister, a high school senior in 1971, couldn’t stand that I listened to such bubblegum. She had a mission to musically rehabilitate me. We started with “Meet the Beatles” and gradually moved on to more complex music.
I remember sneaking into her room when she wasn’t home and putting on record after record. Her collection was diverse — from the Beach Boys to Joni Mitchell to some lesser-known artists. I think my music education was complete when I bought my own copy of “Layla and Other Assorted Love Songs” by Derek and the Dominoes — which includes an excellent version of the classic Jimi Hendrix song “Little Bird.”
When I was in high school in Manhattan, I would save up to buy record albums. When I had enough money to buy two or three, I would walk from our apartment on East 70th Street to Discomat near Lexington Avenue and 59th Street.
With vinyl’s demise, I am sure Discomat has long gone out of business. But I loved the ritual of meandering up and down the aisles, thumbing through album after album — each seemed to have a more creative cover than the last one.
When I told my husband Richard that I felt like a failure since my son had no clue who Hendrix was, he thought I was exaggerating. But isn’t cultural literacy vital? I know we can’t teach our kids everything about art and culture — but where do we draw the line between essential cultural understanding and insignificant pop culture rubbish from long ago?
Cultural literacy helps us understand a time and a place. It helps us relate to each other. My sister was ten years older than me and listening to “her music” gave me a deeper understanding of her individuality. If my kids listen to some of the music I grew up with, it may be a little window into me. Hey, someday my kid could be on an important job interview, Jimi Hendrix could be mentioned, and he will for sure know who he is.
Thanks to Apple, now I can quickly get decades of music on iTunes and make playlists to share with my kids — much easier, but not the same as vinyl.
A few years ago, I gave my album collection to a friend’s son, who is a true musician. I had saved all of them as I moved them from house to house over the decades. I wish I still had them — evidence that I once was cool (except for those silly Partridge Family albums).
Susan Rosser is the editor of South Florida Family Life She currently spends her days wondering how to get Taylor Swift tickets.
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