South Florida Family Life Magazine, August 2023

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Moments that Count

Parker was born with a genetic disorder so rare she’s the first documented case. Her family turned to Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital Center for Complex Care, where our collaboration with Boston Children’s Hospital means Parker benefits from the expertise of both teams.

From breathing problems in the first moments of life to surgeries for fused bones in her skull, Parker’s complex care team is helping her beat the odds.

“The moment we arrived in the NICU at Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital, we knew we were in the right place,” said Parker’s mom, Kelsey.

When your child is facing rare or complex medical problems, Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital is there in the moments that count most.

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EDITOR’S LETTER

Childhood is a time of exploration. Encourage kids to venture out and discover their hidden talents.

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SOUTH FLORIDA SPOTLIGHT

August in Florida means it’s time to get back in the classroom. Check out our list of back-to-school events to get in the swing of things.

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FAMILY FEAST

An excellent and refreshing no-cook lunch-for-dinner option — summer rolls.

40 CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Explore these fun and noteworthy events specially curated for maximum family fun in South Florida.

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WORDS OF WISDOM

It’s probably ill-advised to establish friendships based on tinned-fish preferences.

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CHORES FOR CHILDREN

Assigning the kids household tasks teaches them about responsibility and sets them up for future success and independence.

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PICK YOUR BATTLES

Parenting can be a blast, but it isn’t always all gumdrops and rainbows. Knowing when to address problematic behavior is essential.

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SMART CHOICES

Find schools, activities and educational programs in our special advertising section.

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Florida Department of Health in Broward County

Children's Reading Center & Museum 751 SW 121st Ave, Davie, FL 33325

The Florida Department of Health in Broward County will be offering immunization services, beginning July 31st until August 25th:

Children's Reading Center & Museum, 751 SW 121st Ave, Davie, FL 33325

Monday and Thursday: 10:00 AM - 7:00 PM

Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday: 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM

Saturday, August 5th & August 19th: 9:00 AM - 2:00 PM

BOrange lossom Pageant

Miss Pageant

Saturday, September 9 2023 *2:00PM

Ages 2-18

Mr. & Mrs. Pageant

Friday, September 8, 2023 *11:00AM

Ages 55+

Davie residents are invited to compete for the Orange Blossom title. The royal court will ride in the Orange Blossom Parade and represent the Town of Davie at events thr gh t th www.Davie-fl.gov/obfpageant

A Path Unknown

When my daughter was a little girl, I called a local dance school to inquire about classes. The person I spoke to was about as warm and welcoming as an iceberg. She rambled about strict rules, especially the dreaded hair bun. If my daughter showed up with her hair even slightly out of place, she would be banned from class.

Who knew a tight bun was the key to becoming a dance prodigy? At the time, I could barely get my act together to find a pair of matching socks, let alone construct a perfect ballet bun.

I envisioned my daughter showing up with a messy sphere of hair dangling precariously off the side of her head when everyone else looked like a prima ballerina about to take the stage at Lincoln Center.

The pressure was too much for a working mom like me.

So I signed my daughter up for soccer and gymnastics — neither of which required specific hairstyles.

Now, at 21, my daughter likes to remind me that we will never know if she could have been a celebrated dancer. Thanks to my ballet-bun anxiety, she was robbed of that opportunity. Of course, none of this is likely, but it’s not out of the realm of possibility.

Childhood is a time for exploration and trying new things. Who knows what hidden talents kids possess until they get out there and give it a whirl? Computers, art, sports, theater — who knows?

But one thing is for sure — my daughter has proven she’s not destined for a career in dance. And though she enjoyed soccer, she didn’t exactly become the next soccer sensation. However, there was a wakeboarding phase, and boy, was she impressive on the water. I know that all the activities she experimented with laid the groundwork for her future triumphs — whatever they may be. Maybe she’ll become a data scientist or an expert cupcake decorator. The possibilities are as limitless as her adventurous spirit.

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Back to Class

Back to School Round-Up

Saturday, August 5

Check out this end-of-the-summer celebration with refreshments and children’s activities. Representatives from Sunrise schools will be on hand to answer questions about the 2023-2024 academic year. Free. 10am-1pm, Sunrise Civic Center, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, 954-747-4600 www.sunrisefl.gov

Gideon’s Back to School Bash

Saturday, August 5

Children in need can receive free backpacks, school supplies and haircuts, while enjoying a day of music and entertainment. Noon, Margate Sports Complex, 1695 Banks Rd., Margate, www.margatefl.com

DIY Pencil Holder

Saturday, August 5

Make your own pencil holder with materials provided by the library. Ages 6-12. 11am-noon, Coconut Grove Branch Library, 2875 McFarlane Rd., Miami, www.mdpls.org

School Day Jitters Storytime & Craft

Wednesday, August 9

Squash those first-day-of-school fears with fun-filled school-themed stories, songs and a craft. Pre-registration required. 11:30am-12:30pm, Edison Center Branch Library, 531 NW 62 St., Miami, www.mdpls.org

Back to School Family Storytime & Craft

Saturday, August 12

Spend the final days of summer vacation creating a craft together. Noon-1pm, Doral Branch Library, 8551 NW 53 St., Doral, www.mdpls.org

Nature POP! Back 2 School Weekend

Saturday-Sunday, August 12-13

Celebrate the start of school with a fun-filled weekend with music, live performances, kids’ activities, back to school giveaways and exploration of Sean Kenny’s sculptures made from more than 800,000 Lego bricks. 9:30am-5pm, Flamingo Gardens, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., Davie, www.flamingogardens.org

Back to School 5K/10K

Saturday, August 26

Kick off the start of school with a race to the finish line. Participants receive a t-shirt, finisher medal and signature bib. Fort Lauderdale Beach Park, 1100 Seabreeze Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.runsignup.com

SOUTH FLORIDA spotlight
Say so long to the lazy days of summer while celebrating the start of a new school year. You can coordinate your own back-to-school bash or attend one — or some — of these local events with the family.

FLAMINGO GARDENS

May 27 through September 4, 2023

Skip the Sales Tax

The Back-To-School Sales Tax Holiday is back, providing parents and other buyers tax relief on select purchases through Sunday, August 6.

Items exempt from sales tax during the holiday include learning aids and jigsaw puzzles selling for $30 or less; most school supplies selling for $50 or less; clothing, footwear and accessories selling for $100 or less; and computers and accessories (when purchased for non-commercial and personal use) selling for $1,500 or less.

This year, the two-week sales tax holiday began on July 24. The exemption runs through Aug. 6. A second chance to save takes place January 1-14, 2024.

For more information and a list of qualifying items, visit www.floridarevenue.com/ backtoschool.

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Chores for

UNLEASH THE SUPERPOWERS OF

RESPONSIBILITY, INDEPENDENCE & JEDI-LEVEL LAUNDRY SKILLS

Ah, the daily grind! It’s like being stuck in a continuous loop of dishes, cooking, cleaning and a never-ending pile of laundry. As summer bids us farewell and school is just around the corner, it’s time to summon our inner cheerleaders and get those kids back into the swing of things. Why, you ask? Well, besides giving them a taste of responsibility and a sense of accomplishment, it’s an opportunity to witness the incredible spectacle of children attempting to fold laundry without turning it into an origami disaster.

By offering a variety of household responsibilities, kids feel essential to the family unit. It teaches them necessary skills, acceptance of responsibility and self-discipline. Ultimately, it builds their self-esteem and increases their chances for a successful, fulfilling life.

REWARD

Whether to compensate and reward kids for their work is a difficult question. Conflicting opinions are held by child specialists, which doesn’t help. But one thing is sure, experiencing self-satisfaction from work is essential. Even adults receive compensation for their work. In turn, they reward themselves in many ways from shopping and eating out to buying recreational toys and taking vacations.

So your best bet is to take a middle-of-the-road approach. Assign your kids some responsibilities without reward, such as cleaning their rooms and taking care of personal belongings. This can provide self-satisfaction. But also offer an allowance or provide rewards for additional tasks. Kids learn valuable lessons from earning, such as budgeting and handling money, and they will come to understand that hard work pays off, just as it does in the adult world. Whether your child receives a reward for a particular task or not, always praise the efforts. This helps to reinforce the intrinsic value of completing a task.

When selecting prizes, choose something your child wouldn’t receive otherwise. If you go to the

park several times a week, an extra trip to the park won’t seem like much of a reward. But if you usually go only once a week, an additional visit will be more enticing.

For toddlers and preschoolers, immediate rewards are essential. Offer to go to the ice cream store or park, play a favorite game together or have a friend over. You can also buy prizes that come in a set, such as markers, and then offer one piece for each completed task until your child has earned the complete set.

Elementary kids can save for bigger rewards. Use a chart and offer prizes for accumulated stars. But don’t make your child wait more than a week or so for an award. Otherwise, the reward will lose its motivational value. Rewards for elementary-age children might include additional TV or computer time, a trip to the zoo or museum, baking together, having a friend overnight or a new toy.

Older kids can accumulate points for more extended periods and begin to look toward long-term rewards. Teens might want to collect points for several weeks to earn a concert ticket, amusement park trip, new outfit, or special privileges like staying out later or additional phone time.

AGE-APPROPRIATE CHORES

Toddlers and preschoolers are more capable than we realize. In these early years, children should take on household tasks. But their attention span is short at this age. So keep chores brief when assigning them to little ones unless the chores are especially fun. Your preschooler can:

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Local adventures to celebrate kids’ achievements

What could be sweeter than spending quality time together? If you decide to forgo tangible prizes, here are some suggested outings that are sure to make them smile.

• Set the table

• Rinse dishes

• Empty wastebaskets

• Vacuum (with a small vacuum)

• Frost cakes and cookies

• Sort out dirty clothes

• Put clothes in drawers

• Pick up toys

• Stack books

• Answer the phone

• Get the mail

• Water flowers

• Dust

Elementary-age kids are more coordinated and capable of performing better-quality work. In addition to the previous items, your elementary-age child can:

• Help pack lunches

• Load the dishwasher

• Wash windows

• Fix breakfast

• Clean bathroom sinks

• Fold laundry

• Run their own bath

• Clear off the dinner table

• Pack their own suitcase

• Feed and walk pets

• Vacuum the car

• Take out trash cans

• Care for younger siblings

• Prepare microwave foods (with an adult at home)

Kids in middle school and beyond can learn nearly any task. During the teen years, introduce new tasks periodically so your adolescent can master all skills. Your teen can:

• Clean tubs and toilets

• Set up a garage sale

• Fix dinner

• Make a grocery list

• Grocery shop

• Pump gas

• Do laundry and ironing

• Mow the lawn

• Do minor household repairs

• Organize the garage, basement, and closets

• Clean the kitchen, refrigerator, and oven

IT’S NEVER TOO LATE

If your child is beyond preschool or elementary-age, and you haven’t offered many household responsibilities in the past, don’t despair. While it’s better to start when kids are young, it may be more difficult, but it’s not too late. Make a plan today to set your child or adolescent on a path toward selfreliance. You’ll both be glad you did as you watch your child reap the benefits of growing into an independent, successful young adult.

We all scream for ice cream: It doesn’t get much cooler for kids than kicking back with a scoop, or two, or three, of their favorite flavors at an ice cream shop. Let them choose the kind — traditional, nitrogen or rolled ice cream, frozen yogurt, Italian ice, gelato — and then pick a place. Or, set up your own sundae bar at home with a variety of ice cream, sauces, toppings, whipped cream, cones, and any other personal favorites you want to add.

Take them out to the ballgame: The whole family will have a ball cheering on the home team. And, the Miami Marlins offer several specials for families including 4 for $44 which is a bundle of four game tickets, four hotdogs, four sodas or waters and four small containers of popcorn. They also offer $1 admission for kids 14 and younger on Tuesdays. Any day of the week though, a family trip to LoanDepot Park is sure to be a homerun.

Movie Night: Whether you choose to venture out to a theater, or create your own in-home experience, both are equally entertaining. If you plan to stay in, you can make some popcorn, set out some candy, and pile up comfy pillows, blankets or an air mattress for the kiddoes to relax on. If you have a movie projector on hand — and the weather allows — play a movie outside. No need for a screen, a bedsheet will do. If you decide to venture out, theaters such as AMC, Regal and Cinemark offer discount Tuesdays with deals on tickets and concessions.

Explore the Outdoors: Getting in touch with nature is a reward in its own right, and in this part of the country, we have 365 days a year to do it. County parks are a good starting point to find an adventure that’s a good fit for your family. You can find your own fun at the parks’ many playgrounds, hiking and biking trails and water parks, or you can check out an organized event, many of which are free or a nominal fee. Among the many events the Broward Parks Department has on the calendar this month, is a Twilight Forest Stroll in Coconut Creek on August 11 at Fern Forest Nature Center and a Once in a Blue Moon Hike on August 31 at Long Key Nature Center in Davie.

Keeping the peace as they grow

It’s one thing if your toddler has a kicking and screaming tantrum in the supermarket, which is actually on target developmentally, but what if she’s still at it when she’s 3, 4 or even 5? As kids get older, we expect more from them, and rightly so. But it can be tough to know what’s OK because it’s “just a stage” and what’s no longer age-appropriate. That’s because kids don’t necessarily develop on a strict timetable. “Age gives you a general idea of when you can expect normal developmental milestones like being able to use your words instead of having a tantrum. But the timing can also depend on your child’s temperament, how much practice she’s had with the skill you’d like her to have and how you handle daily opportunities to develop it,” says child advocate Marcy Guddemi. The good news is that with a little insight and encouragement, you can help your child move to the next level. Use our guide to decipher when certain “bad” behavior is on track, when to expect your child to age out of it, and what you can do to speed the process along when she’s ready.

BATTLES
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Biting

BABIES: It’s very common for teething infants to nip. In fact, they’re prone to bite everything, which can provide information about the world like, “If I bite Mommy, she screams.” Still, start training your baby now not to bite you or anyone else. If she chomps down when you’re breastfeeding, remove her from your breast or and say firmly: “No biting,” and turn away from her. Withdrawing your attention, plus the tone of your voice sends the clear message that biting isn’t OK.

TODDLERS: Even if you taught your baby not to bite, she still might do it now. “Toddlers sometimes bite to communicate their frustration,” says Peter L. Stavinoha, co-author of Stress-Free Discipline: Simple Strategies for Handling Common Behavior Problems That’s because they don’t have the complex language skills yet to ask for what they want, such as the Legos a friend is playing with.

If your toddler bites, state firmly: “No biting. Biting hurts,” then take the toy away or whatever he snatched. “Comfort the bitten child and say things you want your child to hear, such as: ‘You don’t like being bitten because biting hurts and we don’t bite our friends,’” says Guddemi. Toddlers are too young to understand the pain somebody else feels but focusing on the bitten child and your tone of voice will help them learn that biting doesn’t work.

PRESCHOOLERS: By now, biting shouldn’t be an issue because preschoolers can ask for what they want. But they still might bite on impulse as a fast way to get something, like a turn on the swing. If you’ve got a biter, remind her before play dates and preschool that even if she gets mad, biting isn’t allowed.

Keep your radar on when she’s around others so you can jump in before a situation escalates. When things go well, be your child’s cheerleader: “That’s great you didn’t bite. I’m so proud of you. Keep up the good work.” If your child bites anyway, remind her to use her words instead of biting and give her a time-out (for double her age in minutes) and comfort the bitten child. Or leave the playground or the play date. It’s embarrassing when your child bites. But not freaking out, stating the rules and delivering a consequence can help put a stop to it.

Tantrums in public

TODDLERS: Meltdowns are inevitable for kids ages 1 to 2 because they can’t yet say, for example, “I’m frustrated because you won’t buy me fruit roll-ups,” so they make their point by throwing a fit. However, they’re not too young to learn that tantrums won’t get them what they want.

Don’t reinforce them by giving in to your child’s demands just so he’ll stop. Instead, stand firm: “No, we’re not getting that today,” and turn away, start humming to yourself or read the fine print on the cereal box at the supermarket, whatever you can to send the message that you’re not going to engage.

“If your child doesn’t get your attention, his tantrum will stop, but you have to have more endurance than he does,” says Adiaha Spinks-Franklin, a developmental-behavioral pediatrician.

If your child doesn’t get over it, leave the store or wherever you are and remind him: “Tell Mommy what you want. Don’t kick

and scream.” He may not be able to do that yet, but he’ll get the concept. Being tired or hungry can trigger meltdowns, too, so try not to shop with your toddler around naptime and mealtime.

PRESCHOOLERS: While your child is developmentally capable of telling you how he’s feeling, he may still pitch a fit, especially if you’ve given in to tantrums before. To work tantrums out of your child’s repertoire, be clear about your expectations before going out. “We’re going to buy eggs and milk today, not cookies.”

In the store, recognize it when he’s behaving well: “I love the way you’re helping me put things in the cart. You’re doing such a great job.” Then reward it: “Since you were such a good helper in the store, we’re going to play Candy Land when we get home.”

If a meltdown breaks out anyway, help your child learn to say how he’s feeling by labeling the emotion, such as: “I can see you’re frustrated because you want a cookie, but cookies are not on our grocery list today.”

SCHOOL-AGE KIDS: Tantrums are rare by now, so if your child has one, he may be having a tough time expressing complex feelings like jealousy or feeling left out. “You should also ask yourself whether you’ve babied this child more than the others or been inconsistent with your expectations,” says Dr. Spinks-Franklin.

If you’re still baffled about why a tantrum broke out, ask your child to explain it after things calm down. If he doesn’t know, dig deeper. It could be a sign he needs more hugs or one-on-one time with you, for example. “All behavior is communication and the older kids get, the more complex the meaning of a tantrum can be,” Dr. Spinks-Franklin adds.

Whining

TODDLERS: Toddlers whine because they want attention and they’ve learned that using an annoying voice will get it. Don’t give in. Show her the difference between a whine and a normal tone. The next time she whines, say, “I don’t listen to that voice. Please ask me nicely.”

PRESCHOOLERS: If your preschooler whines to get what she wants, you’ve probably been caving in a little too often. To reverse course, tell her you won’t listen to her unless she uses a big-girl voice. “The more kids whine, the less you should engage with them,” says David J. Schonfeld, a developmental-behavioral pediatrician.

If the whining continues, make eye contact and warn her that you’ll need to leave the store (or wherever you are) if she keeps it up, then leave if you have to. Or, if what your child is asking for is OK – say, you’re in the supermarket and she’s whining for ice cream, you might say: “Can you say, ‘Can I please pick out some ice cream?’” If she delivers, let her pick out the ice cream. Also, reward and reinforce good behavior by telling your child how much you appreciate the fact she stopped whining or asked nicely for something.

SCHOOL-AGE KIDS: Not to point fingers, but if your school-age child is a whiner, you’re to blame. It’s time to be brutal: When the whining begins, flat-out ignore it. Refuse to listen. Walk away. When she starts to talk in a normal tone of voice, show her the attention she’s after with enthusiasm.

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Not sharing

TODDLERS: Little kids are too egocentric when it comes to the give-and-take sharing involves. You can encourage your child to “take turns,” but don’t expect him to willingly give his toys to his siblings or other kids on play dates. In his mind sharing means, “I had a toy and it’s gone forever.”

At playdates, opt for activities that are easy to do together — dancing, coloring, building with blocks — to short-circuit any tussling.

PRESCHOOLERS: Preschoolers are less self-centered than they were a year or two ago, but they’re still impulsive and from age 3 to 5, they still tend to be possessive with their favorite toys. You can help your child practice by showing him how to take turns with toys (even using a kitchen timer to emphasize that concept).

That said, it’s fine to put away certain special things before friends come over. To encourage empathy, point out how nice it makes others — and even himself — feel when he does share.

SCHOOL-AGE KIDS: By kindergarten, kids can share well. If your child isn’t there yet, help him practice by inviting friends over who have mastered the art of sharing so he can learn from them. Continue to talk about why sharing is a good and kind thing to do.

Still, don’t expect your child to have to share special toys, such as the one he just got for his birthday, even with siblings. It’s fine if some toys are private property.

Throwing food

BABIES: Throwing food helps your baby learn cause and effect — if she throws food from her high chair, it falls down and you’ll pick it up. Instead of getting exasperated, play along for another round or two. When you’ve had enough, say something like: “That was fun, but Mommy isn’t going to play anymore,” then stop gathering

up tossed Cheerios in front of her.

TODDLERS: Your child is old enough to understand that flinging food isn’t okay, but she may still do it when she’s bored or wants attention. To end the antics, tell her, “Food is for eating and it belongs on your plate.” Stay calm. “A huge reaction from you will only reinforce the bad behavior,” Guddemi says. If your toddler keeps it up, end the meal. She can finish eating later, once she has calmed down.

PRESCHOOLERS: Thankfully, by the time your child is 3, she won’t be tossing food on the floor to get your attention or indicate her displeasure with what you’re serving. She’ll likely use her words to level any complaints about the meal.

SCHOOL-AGE KIDS: Food fights can erupt when kids get a little too rowdy with their friends. Step in immediately if one breaks out at home. You don’t want your kids going all out in the school cafeteria.

Squirming

TODDLERS: Unless something engages your child’s interest, expect him to be fidgety. Being antsy comes with the developmental territory. Try to work around it. For example, go to a kid-friendly restaurant early when it’s less busy (11:30 AM for lunch and 5:00 PM for dinner), and take along toys and crayons to keep your child engaged.

PRESCHOOLERS: When kids reach 3 to 4, they should be able to sit contentedly for chunks of time, although how long depends on your child’s temperament. If you have a high-energy kid, that might be just 15 minutes. It’s still too soon to expect him to endure grown-up events, however, like lengthy religious services or three-course restaurant dinners. When attendance is mandatory, be sure to have a stash of fun stuff to keep him busy.

SCHOOL-AGE KIDS: By now, children should be able to sit still for longer stretches at home and school without needing constant attention. If your child can’t, consider that your cue to help him practice at home with activities such as crafts and games. If you’re concerned about your child’s restlessness, talk to your pediatrician.

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choices Education & Enrichment Programs to Start the School Year Right SCHOOLS Advent School ...................................................... 30 Atlantis Academy 32 Chesterbrook Academy ....................................... 37 German-American School of Ft. Lauderdale .................................................. 36 Glades Christian Academy 28 North Broward Preparatory School .................... 27 Posnack Jewish Day School 29 Summit-Questa Montessori School ................... 31 Temple Beth El Preschool 31 ENRICHMENT PROGRAMS American TKA Martial Arts 37 Area Stage Company............................................ 35 Bright & Smart 34 Broadway Kids Studio ......................................... 26 Florida Children’s Theatre 32 Greater Miami Youth Symphony ........................ 33 Miami Children’s Chorus 33 Young At Art | Museum ....................................... 34 SERVICES Children’s Services Council of Broward County................................................ 35 DiverseAbilities Center 30 SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION
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Broadway Kids Studio

Broadway Kids Studio is an award-winning, full-service performing arts studio. BKS has received countless awards over the last two decades, including Best After School Program, Best Kids Theater Program, Best Performing Arts Studio, and Best Dance Studio. We thank our loyal clients and local community members for voting and recognizing the value of our programs and service offerings.

Broadway Kids Studio offers the most well-rounded performing arts curriculum in the United States. A wide variety of group classes are available including jazz, tap, hip hop, ballet, contemporary, pointe, musical theater, monologues and scenes, thespian preparation, TV commercial acting, tiny tots tap/ballet, and more. Availability in all BKS classes and programs sell out very quickly.

Performance opportunities are available for specific classes to allow our students to showcase the skills they learn in classes. These include end of year musical theater productions and annual showcase for dancers. BKS also offers private classes for vocal, piano, guitar, drum, acting, all styles of dance, college preparation, thespian preparation and more. BKS has successfully prepared students for auditions, college and high school theater programs and thespian performances.

Broadway Kids Studio offers incredible opportunities for students looking to take the “next step” in their performing arts journey, including auditions for our Rock Band, Dance Competition team and casting calls for musicals and plays we produce throughout the year.

Broadway Kids Studio offers everything you could possibly want from a performing arts institution. BKS provides these services in a safe and inclusive environment run by a dedicated, experienced, and professional staff. All families are required to sign a positive environment clause to ensure everyone upholds our core values. Come join the Broadway Kids Studio family today!

Located at 9042 West State Road 84 in the Pine Island Ridge Plaza. Call 954-693-7500 or visit www.BroadwayKidsStudio.com for more information.

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Glades Christian Academy

Looking for a new school? GCA is where you belong. Glades Christian Academy is a kindergarten through 8th grade school. Our main core values are kindness and respect. We teach students to look to God’s Word for guidance.

Choosing a school is never easy. Here are a few questions to ask yourself to see if your child is receiving the best education and attention for their success:

Is my child a number or a name? Here at GCA, we learn everyone’s name and, in turn, are able to assist students and families better because we know them personally.

Is the current school keeping the parent informed? GCA uses a variety of tools to keep our parents informed. Parents have daily access to grades and interim reports, homework is clearly posted, parent meetings as requested, and a twenty-four-hour response to all phone calls and emails is provided.

Is your child’s school safe? GCA securely locks all doors so that there is only one entrance into the building. All teachers have been trained in the event of an intruder. Monthly drills help the students to practice fire drills or lockdown situations. GCA is a part of the Coral Springs Police Department private school notification system. In the event of an incident in the area, we are immediately notified to lockdown the school.

If you qualify for Family Empowerment Scholarship for Educational Options (FES-EO) or the Step Up for Students/Florida Tax Credit (enrollment@sufs.org) you may qualify for free tuition.

Call today for a tour of the school and further information.

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Posnack Jewish Day School

Posnack Jewish Day School in Davie and Hochberg Lower School in Hallandale are South Florida’s true educational gems. Excellence in general and Jewish studies is matched by superior athletics, performing and visual arts, and extra-curricular programming. This reputation for excellence has resulted in unprecedented growth in enrollment, with few spots for many grades for the 2023-2024 school year.

Posnack School families consistently praise the school’s warm and nurturing environment. Hochberg Middle and Fischer High School students can choose from a wide variety of electives and clubs, with programs in pre-med, pre-law, pre-engineering, and robotics. Graduates consistently rank in the top 5% of college applicants nationwide and are admitted into elite colleges in the United States and around the world.

Posnack School’s extensive capital investment over the past decade has made it a technology powerhouse and provided unparalleled learning and safety resources schoolwide. The 2023-2024 school year already has a waiting list for our youngest RAMs in our Junior Kindergarten, bringing the “Posnack Way” to younger children who are emotionally and intellectually ready for an enriched educational experience.

With all this to offer, it is easy to see why South Florida parents choose Posnack Jewish Day School and Hochberg Lower School for their children.

SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION August 2023 | SOUTH FLORIDA FAMILY LIFE 29 HOCHBERG LOWER SCHOOL (K-5) 412 SW 11th Street Hallandale Beach, FL 33009 954.299.3600 POSNACK SCHOOL MAIN CAMPUS (JRK-12) 5810 South Pine Island Road Davie, FL 33328 954.583.6100 *By Niche.com A Junior Kindergarten through Twelfth Grade College Preparatory School Discover the Posnack School Difference! Ranked #1 Jewish Day School in Florida* Call 954.583.6100, ext. 641 or visit www.posnackschool.org for more information regarding admissions for the 2023-2024 school year.

Our mission is to help each individual with Special needs to learn the skills to be happy, productive, successful, and as independent as possible.

Advent School

At Advent School, your child will become a confident, capable, Christian leader. Schedule a personal tour and find out how we can help your child become tomorrow’s leader and change the world. Students engage in rigorous academics along with intentional Christian character development in a nurturing and safe environment. Innovative programs include Dual Language and Emergent Reader for Pre-K students, STEM enrichment for elementary students, leadership development, athletics, fine arts, competitive robotics, coding beginning in kindergarten, high school credit opportunities for middle school students and much more. From the infants in our Early Childhood School to our graduating 8th graders, every student is treasured and encouraged to be their very best. Parents love the supportive Advent community. Tuition assistance is available.

DiverseAbilities

DiverseAbiities (formerly Broward Academy ) is a private school and therapy center for individuals of all ages with autism and related disabilities. We provide intensive and individualized instruction and therapy enabling these special individuals by teaching them the way they learn in a safe environment.

This reduces inappropriate behavior and teaches them replacement skills, enabling them to experience success in learning the skills they will need for a life of happiness. DiverseAbilities is now in its 17th year of teaching and enabling these special needs individuals in language acquisition, academics, social skills, pre-vocational and vocational skills, and life and leisure skills.

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Temple Beth El Preschool

Instilling a Love of Learning

At Temple Beth El Preschool, children ages 3 months to 5 years learn and play in a warm, nurturing and safe environment. From reading,writing and math, to art, science and Jewish values, Temple Beth El Preschool introduces them to a world of possibilities. Children are encouraged to learn through active exploration, games, and academic activities that promote intellectual, social and emotional growth.

Temple Beth El Preschool is proud to have national accreditation by APPLE (Accredited Professional Preschool Learning Environment) and Florida’s Gol d Seal Quality Care. Being accredited means all classes have low student to teacher ratios for children to have individualized attention. Certified teachers follow a unique curriculum that includes STEM. Classrooms are specifically equipped and designed for each age group, so children can reach their full potential.

Temple Beth El Preschool invites you to take a tour by calling 954-921-7096 or visit www.templebethelhollywood.org/ preschool-home and on facebook.com/ preschoolattemplebethel/

Summit-Questa Montessori School

Summit-Questa Montessori School uses an authentic Montessori curriculum from toddlergrade 8, led by nationally certified Montessori teachers. Established for 32 years and located on a beautiful 10-acre campus in Davie, it has native habitats, edible schoolyard vegetable gardens, butterfly gardens, a wetland preserve, gymnasium, sports field, and 2 pools.

Our Montessori program also includes art, music, PE, animal care, science, advanced math, BC/AC. Specialty after-school programs such as reading/math labs, chess, STEM, gymnastics, drama, basketball, soccer, volleyball, flag football, track and swim. Summer Camp is available. The principal, Judy Dempsey, is a Montessori educator of 40+ years, the author of Turning Education Inside Out, and was the recipient of the 2016-2017 Distinguished Educator of the Year award by the Association of Independent Schools of Florida.

The school is fully accredited by AISF, NCPSA, Middle States Association, Accreditation International, and Cognia, and is a full member of the American Montessori Society. The school is also the home of Summit Montessori Teacher Training Institute, a MACTE accredited Montessori teacher training center.

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Atlantis Academy

Atlantis Academy offers programs designed for students’ grades KG-12th, who have learning differences and may be facing challenges in their current setting. We offer personalized special education programs with small class sizes, evidenced-based curriculum that includes individualized  attention, specialized instruction and high levels of academic and social/emotional support led by highly effective instructors and administration. Additionally, our L.I.F.E. Programs in Coral Springs & Miami are designed to support young adults (ages 18-26) with varying abilities, by providing them with the skills needed to live a more independent life at home and in the workplace. At Atlantis Academy, we believe in the strength of our community, and the importance of close parent/teacher/ student relationships for the student to reach their fullest potential.

Call today to schedule your personalized tour!

Florida Children’s Theatre

Florida Children’s Theatre (FLCT) offers year-round theatre classes and camps for ages 4-18, including Creative Drama, Acting, Musical Theatre, Circus Arts, Acting for the Camera, Film Production, and more. FLCT is located at Broward College Central Campus in Davie, with select classes offered at the Galleria Mall. FLCT produces a full season of shows each year including family-friendly musicals, teen-focused projects, and a Cirque-du-Soleil style circus production. Coming soon: “Chicago Teen Edition” and “Rogers and Hammerstein’s Cinderella.” FLCT also offers community outreach programming including free performances, workshops, arts integration education programs, and more! Class, ticket, and audition information is available at www.flct.org.

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Miami Children’s Chorus

first community children’s choir, providing high quality singing instruction in Miami-Dade County since 1965. Its nationally and internationally recognized choral performance program unlocks and showcases the artistry and excellence of youth.

8-22, are selected, by audition, to participate in the program, which offers four advancing levels of chorus. Its newest ensemble “Prelude” is for children ages 5-7 and there is no audition to join — registration is open now!

for performances throughout the season and they learn the necessary skills to be practicing and professional musicians. MCC trains and prepares students to collaborate with artists in a wide variety of musical settings, most recently with Latin Grammy winning artists Paquito D’ Rivera (2022), Manuel Turizo (2021), and Gloria Estefan for “The Estefan Family Christmas” album (2022). The chorus was also recently featured on

Greater Miami Youth Symphony

The Greater Miami Youth Symphony’s mission is to instill life-long values of discipline, teamwork, responsibility, respect, and cultural appreciation in young musicians while enriching the cultural foundation of our community by reaching out to and recruiting young musicians from different cultural, ethnic, and economic backgrounds. We serve students ages 5-18 starting with little-to-no experience to advanced students  with years of experience. Our 23-24 Season will be exploring how music can tell stories and express imagination through sound. Join us for an exciting new year!

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Bright & Smart

Come and explore the captivating world of Robotics, Coding, and Engineering with Bright & Smart’s enthusiastic and experienced educators at our STEM Center in East Broward. Our curriculum incorporates Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math, making learning a fun and fulfilling experience for children as young as three. We offer private and semi-private classes, birthday parties, and special events for kids and adults at our location or yours. With our limited class sizes, we provide a personalized approach to learning, enabling students to unleash their inner talents and maximize their true potential. Join us on this exciting journey of discovery and creativity!

#STEAM is our Approach.

#LEARNING is our Goal.

#We are BRIGHT & SMART.

For more information, call 954-816-3346 or visit www.BrightAndSmart.com.

Young At Art Museum (YAA)

August is Art Appreciation Month!

Art supports our intellectual and emotional needs and should be accessible to all with no boundaries or limits. As a nonprofit, YAA’s mission is to enrich our community through artistic, interactive experiences for all ages which inspire creativity and encourage an understanding of the world in which we live. YAA’s love and support for our community surpasses the divide from geography, ethnicity, economics, and disability to bring the transformative power of art to all. Art is meant for ALL and all are artists at heart.

Learn more about how YAA supports our community through free art initiatives and how YAA can support your child’s art enrichment needs by visiting YAA’s website at www.youngatartmuseum.org. Call 954-424-0085 or email info@yaamuseum.org for more information and to learn how you can support art enrichment too!

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Children’s Services Council of Broward County (CSC)

The CSC is the main funder of programs that serve children and families in Broward. We fund over 100 programs that help improve the lives of thousands of children, including maternal and child health, family strengthening, out of school-time, kinship care, youth leadership, advocacy, employment, special needs, and support for youth aging out of foster care.  We are leaders in training child-serving professionals and are the backbone of the Broward Children’s Strategic Plan, a mechanism that ensures that funders, policymakers, and stakeholders are aware of and address needs and service gaps. Visit CSCBroward.org or call 954-377-1000 to learn more about us.

Area Stage

The future of Broadway is right here in Miami at Area Stage Company! With courses in acting, singing, dancing, and more, ASC’s award-winning conservatory offers the very best in theatrical education. This unique program gives students the chance to learn from working professional artists, and its customized curriculum has already enabled hundreds of alumni to go on to successful theatrical careers. Students with developmental and intellectual disabilities are also invited to participate in ASC’s Inclusion Theatre Project, which offers classes specifically tailored to their needs.

Enrollment is now open for the conservatory’s upcoming fall session, with classes set to begin at the end of August. Options include group classes, private lessons, and the opportunity to perform in an upcoming conservatory production of The Addams Family scheduled for this December. To learn more or to reserve a spot for a young artist in your life, visit www.areastageconservatory.org

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Get your copy of the 2023-24 Broward County Family Resource Guide, a full directory of agencies and organizations serving children and families with articles on child development, safety, education, childcare, activities for the whole family, and more Call 954-377-1000 or visit CSCBroward.org for more information
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Let’s Do Lunch

Over time, I have developed coping mechanisms for a South Florida summer. Chief among them is lunch-for-dinner. Yes, we all know about breakfast-for-dinner. But many lunch foods don’t require cooking — which is desirable when the outdoor temperature is still well above sweltering. There’s nothing wrong with a tuna sandwich or Italian sub for dinner. And, it’s a great excuse to serve potato chips — a welcome addition to any meal. These summer rolls check all the boxes. They’re fancier than a sandwich, packed with veggies and a side of chips would not be out of place. To speed things along, get the whole family involved in the rolling process.

Please note, I intentionally have not given amounts for this recipe because you might want to make just two or three for yourself or a whole bunch for a crowd. Or, you can prep a batch of veggies in advance and have them ready to go for some last-minute rolls in a flash. Also, the veggies are just suggestions — use whatever you like, but the fresh herbs really make it. Another alternative is to swap the chicken out for chopped shrimp. Serve with the nuoc cham and peanut dipping sauces.

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Summer-All-Year Rolls

Ingredients:

Round pieces of rice paper

Cooked shredded chicken

Cucumber, cut into matchsticks

Carrots, cut into matchsticks

Bell peppers, cut into matchsticks

Watermelon radish, cut into matchsticks

Snow pea pods, cut into matchsticks

Scallions, cut into matchsticks

Red cabbage, thinly sliced

Fresh cilantro

Thai basil

Fresh mint

Nuoc cham and peanut sauce for dipping (recipes follow)

Preparation:

• Dip the rice paper into a bowl of water until it just barely softens. It will continue to soften once it is out of the water, so don’t leave it in too long or it will become challenging to work with. Place the rice paper on a damp clean kitchen towel. Grab a small handful of chicken, vegetables and herbs and place them near the bottom of the paper, centered between the left and right, leaving about an inch at the bottom edge. Fold the bottom edge over the vegetables. Fold the left and right sides of the paper towards the center, and then roll the bundle away from you. If you don’t eat it right away, place the finished rolls under a damp dishtowel and continue.

FOR THE NUOC CHAM

2 tablespoons granulated sugar

¼ cup fresh lime juice

1-2 tablespoons fish sauce

1 garlic clove, grated

1/4 cup water

Red pepper flakes, to taste

• Whisk all the ingredients together and serve immediately with the summer rolls, or store in the refrigerator until ready to use.

FOR THE PEANUT SAUCE

1/2 cup smooth peanut butter

1/4 cup soy sauce

2 tablespoons rice wine vinegar

1 tablespoon honey

1 garlic clove, grated

1 teaspoon fresh ginger, grated water to taste (to thin it out)

• In a small bowl, combine all ingredients except the water. Once combined, add enough water to thin to your liking.

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August Events

HOW TO SUBMIT CALENDAR LISTINGS

Please e-mail listing information to calendar@southfloridafamilylife.com by the 5th of the month prior to the event date. Include the name of the event, location, address, date, time, brief description, price and telephone number for the public.

Splash Into Pines

SATURDAY, AUGUST 12

Savor the last days of summer with water play, slides, games, food and music.

10am-1pm, WEST PINES SOCCER PARK & PRESERVE, 350 SW 196 Ave., Pembroke Pines, 954-392-2116 www.ppines.com

Youth Fishing Derby

SATURDAY, AUGUST 12

Kids ages 3-12 can bring a fishing pole and bait for a fun-filled fishing derby. Free. 8-10am, PINE TRAILS PARK FISHING PIER, 10555 Trails End, Parkland, 954-757-4107 www.cityofparkland.org

The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

SATURDAY, AUGUST 12

Follow the yellow brick road to see Curtain Call Playhouse perform this beloved tale. $10.

1-2pm, SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER THEATRE, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, www.sunrisefl.gov

Pajama Storytime

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 16

Starlight Musicals

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National Night Out Against Crime

TUESDAY, AUGUST 1

Bring the family to learn about crime prevention while enjoying a night of food, music and activities for all ages. 6-10pm, MARGATE SPORTS COMPLEX, 1695 Banks Rd., Margate, www.margatefl.com

Sunny Days and Starry Nights

THURSDAY, AUGUST 3

Participate in free museum exploration the first Thursday of every month. 11am-7pm, NSU ART MUSEUM FORT LAUDERDALE,

One East Las Olas Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.nsuartmuseum.org

Tropical Splash Family Fun Night

FRIDAY, AUGUST 4

Have a cool time at this luau-themed event with water park fun, games and prizes. $7. 6-8pm, CENTRAL BROWARD PARK, 3700 NW 11 Place, Lauderhill, 954-357-5400 www.broward.org/parks

ArtsPark Movie Night

FRIDAY, AUGUST 4

Bring a blanket or chair to sit outside and see a free screening of The Princess and The Frog. 8-10pm, ARTSPARK AMPHITHEATER, One Young Circle, Hollywood, 954-921-3404 www.hollywoodfl.org

Splashtacular Friday

FRIDAY, AUGUST 4

Enjoy water-themed activities, games and music at this monthly event. $7. 6-8pm, CASTAWAY ISLAND WATER PARK AT T.Y. PARK, 3300 N. Park Rd., Hollywood, 954-357-8811 www.broward.org/parks

FRIDAYS, AUGUST 4 & 11

A true summer tradition, this event is the perfect way to wrap up the week. Bring the family, a picnic and some chairs or blankets to enjoy a concert under the stars. Weather permitting. 7-10pm, HOLIDAY PARK, 1150 G. Harold Martin Dr., Fort Lauderdale, www.fortlauderdale.gov

Children’s Summer Film Festival

SATURDAY, AUGUST 5

Catch the final day of this summer film series by watching a screening of Luca. Free. 10am-noon, RIVER OF GRASS ARTSPARK, 17195 Sheridan St., Pembroke Pines, 954-986-5027 www.ppines.com

Twilight Forest Stroll

FRIDAY, AUGUST 11

Explore the nightlife during this naturalistled walk. $5. 7:30-8:30pm, FERN FOREST NATURE CENTER, 201 Lyons Road S., 954-357-5198 www.broward.org/parks

Monster Jam

SATURDAY & SUNDAY, AUGUST 12 &13 Witness heated rivalries and high-flying stunts as some of your favorite monster trucks battle it out. Saturday 1pm & 7pm, and Sunday 1pm. FLA LIVE ARENA, One Panther Parkway, Sunrise, www.flalivearena.com

Paw Patrol Live! Heroes Unite

SATURDAY & SUNDAY, AUGUST 19 & 20

The pups take to the stage to help with a rescue mission. $45 and up. 10am, 2pm & 6pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 www.browardcenter.org

Preschoolers can listen to a story and participate in a singalong before bedtime. 6-6:30pm, SUNRISE DAN PEARL BRANCH

LIBRARY, 10500 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, www.broward.org/library

Dive In Movie

FRIDAY, AUGUST 18

Keep cool in the pool while watching Sonic the Hedgehog. Free. 8pm, HOUSTON SWORN POOL 901 NW Tenth St., Pompano Beach, www.pompanobeachfl.gov

Kids Adventures After Dark

SATURDAY, AUGUST 19

Children ages 6-12 can explore the museum and participate in fun-filled activities during this after-hours event. 5-9pm, MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-467-6637 www.mods.org

Toddler Crafternoon

FRIDAY, AUGUST 25

Little ones can get crafty making their very own creation. Noon-1pm, TYRONE BRYANT BRANCH LIBRARY, 2230 NW 21 Ave., Fort Lauderdale, www.broward.org/library

Once in a Blue Moon Hike

THURSDAY, AUGUST 31

Take a guided hike through the nature trails to experience and learn about the full moon as it rises. $5. 8-9pm, LONG KEY NATURE CENTER, 3501 SW 130 Ave., Davie, www.broward.org/parks

Sean Kenney’s Nature POP!

THROUGH SEPTEMBER 4

View 44 creative sculptures made from more than 800,000 Lego bricks throughout the grounds of Flamingo Gardens. Included with paid admission. 9:30am-4:30pm, FLAMINGO GARDENS, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., Davie, www.flamingogardens.org

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Paw Patrol Live: Heroes Unite

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National Night Out

TUESDAY, AUGUST 1

Celebrate community and safety with a morning parade through the city at 7:30am, followed by an evening of music, inflatables, vehicle displays and children’s activities from 5:30-8:30pm at GATEWAY PARK www.sibfl.net

Free Summer Art Class in the Garden

WEDNESDAYS, AUGUST 2, 9 & 16

Kids can create a masterpiece using objects from nature. Ages 5-12. 10am-noon, MIAMI BEACH BOTANICAL GARDEN, 2000 Convention Center Dr., Miami Beach, 305-673-7256 www.mbgarden.org

“Water” You Painting?

SATURDAY, AUGUST 5

Kids and adults ages 6 and up can experiment with watercolor painting. Basic materials provided. 2-3pm SOUTH MIAMI BRANCH LIBRARY, 6000 Sunset Dr., South Miami, www.mdpls.org

Gold Coast Free First Saturday

SATURDAY, AUGUST 5

Explore the museum for free the first Saturday of every month. GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM, 12450 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-253-0063 www.goldcoastrailroadmuseum.org

Vizcaya Village Farmers Market

SUNDAYS, AUGUST 6, 13 & 20 & 27

Visit the historic farm and village as vendors sell homemade food and hand-crafted goods. 9am-2pm, VIZCAYA VILLAGE, 3250 S. Miami Ave., Miami, www.vizcaya.org

Disney’s The Little Mermaid

AUGUST 9-27

Ariel and Eric’s love story is brought to life onstage in this under-the-sea spectacle. All ages. $84-$110. ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 786-468-2000 www.arshtcenter.org

PALM BEACH COUNTY

Sensory Saturdays

SATURDAY, AUGUST 5

Families and children affected by autism spectrum disorder can explore the museum for an hour before the center opens to the public. Lighting and sound adaptions are made during this time. 9-10am, COX SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 www.coxsciencecenter.org

Old MacDonald’s Singalong Farm

SATURDAY, AUGUST 5

Belt out a tune with Old Farmer MacDonald, Mrs. MacDonald, Daisy the Cow and Simon the Pig. 11am & 2pm, WILLOW THEATRE AT SUGAR

Laser Evening

FRIDAY, AUGUST 11

Get ready to rock under Frost Planetarium’s 67-foot dome. $10/adult, $8/child. 7-11:45pm, PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-424-9600 www.frostscience.org

Family Day on Aragon

SATURDAY, AUGUST 12

Enjoy a day of family fun activities, arts and crafts, live performances and more every second Saturday of every month. 10am-5pm, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, www.coralgablesmuseum.org

Family Fun Day

SATURDAY, AUGUST 12

All aboard for a Pirates and Sea Monsters adventure. 10am-4pm, HISTORYMIAMI MUSEUM, 101 W. Flagler St., Miami, www.historymiami.org

Bark at the Park

MONDAY, AUGUST 14

Treat your family — and your pooch — to a Miami Marlins ballgame against the Houston Astros. $15/human, $7.50/dog. 6:40pm, LOANDEPOT PARK, 501 Marlins Way, Miami, www.mlb.com/marlins/ballpark

Just for Me: Prehistoric Lab

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 16

This is a sensory-friendly way to discovery paleontology with sound and lighting adjustments and a hands-on dinosaur dig. 4-5:30pm, PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-424-9600 www.frostscience.org

Furry Tales

SATURDAY, AUGUST 19

Kids can practice their literacy skills by reading aloud to a therapy dog. 10-11am, NORTHEAST DADE-AVENTURA BRANCH LIBRARY, 2930 NE 199 St., www.mdpls.org

LEGO My Library

SATURDAY, AUGUST 19

Make a unique creation with a variety of building blocks. 11am-noon, Lakes of the

Meadow Branch Library, 4284 SW 152 Ave., Miami, www.mdpls.org

Gables Bike Tour

SUNDAY, AUGUST 20

Bring your bikes for a guided tour though The City Beautiful. 10am-noon, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, www.coralgablesmuseum.org

Paw Patrol Live! Heroes Unite

FRIDAY-SUNDAY, AUGUST 25-27

The pups take to the stage to help with a rescue mission. Showtimes vary. ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 786-468-2000 www.arshtcenter.org

Moonrise Photography

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 30

Bring your camera and tripod to capture the moon rising over Biscayne Bay. $20. 7-9pm, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

Food Truck Festival

WEDNESDAYS

Bring the family, and your appetite, to this food truck event featuring a variety of dishes to choose from. 5-10pm, PELICAN HARBOR MARINA, 1275 NE 79 St., Miami, www.miamifoodtrucksevents.com

Curious George: Let’s Get

THROUGH SEPTEMBER 3

Curious

Based on the fun-loving storybook character, this exhibit invites kids on an interactive journey to explore math, science and engineeringbased themes. MIAMI CHILDREN’S MUSEUM, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Mummies of the World

THROUGH SEPTEMBER 4

The largest touring collection of mummies ever assembled, this exhibit features the mummified remains of 40 real humans and animals and an additional 80 rare artifacts. PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-434-9600 www.frostscience.org

SAND PARK, 300 S Military Trail, Boca Raton, www.sugarsandpark.org

Family Fun Day: Hashi No Hi: Chopstick Day

SATURDAY, AUGUST 5

Celebrate Chopstick Day by making your own origami chopstick holder. Noon-3pm, MORIKAMI MUSEUM AND JAPANESE GARDENS, 4000 Morikami Park Rd., Delray Beach, www.morikami.org

Nights at the Museum

FRIDAY, AUGUST 25

Guests of all ages can enjoy extended hours of museum exploration and Ocean Commotion themed activities. 6-9pm, COX SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 www.coxsciencecenter.org

Alligator Talks

MONDAYS

See the mighty Florida Alligator and learn about why they are such an important species. 4pm, BUSCH WILDLIFE SANCTUARY, 2500 Jupiter Park Dr., Jupiter, 561-575-3399 www.buschwildlife.org

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A Friendship Barometer

ANCHOVIES AND FIRST IMPRESSIONS

During my time on this planet, I have developed a theory: I like people who like anchovies. In order to prove my hypothesis, I posted the following online: “Do you like anchovies? If the answer is ‘yes,’ like this post. Feel free to comment too. Thanks in advance.”

Since I only asked those whose cyber-friendship I have accepted, I admit that this approach was neither scientific nor statistically significant.

I should mention that I adore anchovies. When I was single, I could make a dinner out of a tin of anchovies and a box of Wheat Thins. Of course, I did live in a constant and unrelenting fear of falling into a sodium-induced coma, but sometimes it pays to live on the edge.

To be clear, I never thought I disliked those who are not anchovy lovers. My own husband is not a fan — although he belongs to a significant subset who enjoy them as an ingredient but refuse to eat them whole. Nonetheless, I noticed a striking correlation over the years: Many of my friends seem to like anchovies. Which naturally begged the question: What’s up with that? After all, we do choose our friends.

I’ve always maintained that either we connect with people or we don’t. And those with whom we feel an instant bond often become our closest friends. I fully expected those in my inner circle would publicly affirm their love of anchovies.

My childhood friend Mark was one of the first people to comment on my post. I have not seen Mark since I was 4. All these years later, we are cyber-buddies, and I am sure that if we lived closer, we would be good friends. It’s obvious from his posts we still share the same sense of humor, and I’m not surprised — we were so close as kids. So when he commented that anchovies are “indispensable,” I thought I was onto something with my anchovy barometer. I was certain all of my closest friends would reply in a similar fashion.

Yeah. That never happened. Sure, there are those with whom we feel an immediate sense of connection and, indeed, some of those people in my life love anchovies — but not everyone.

And as I look back, there are plenty of significant people in my life with whom I didn’t feel an immediate sense of kinship. Sometimes the daily interactions with a coworker, client, or fellow student allowed me to get to know someone beyond first impressions. And quite often, I was pleasantly surprised.

I have been blessed with several remarkable and long-lasting friendships in my life. But many meaningful connections I made at work, school or summer camp surprised me. And while most have faded over the years, all those relationships fashioned my life in ways I might have missed had I walked around asking about anchovy preferences.

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Susan Rosser is the editor of South Florida Family Life magazine. For the record, she is also a fan of sardines.

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