South Florida Family Life, December 2021

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Families trust Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital for a special quality of children’s healthcare. Our focus on patient- and family-centered care means we embrace each child and family like our own — with love.

A growing need for what we do means we need to grow. Expansion of the hospital is underway so we can take care of more children in South Florida and beyond.

Will you help us? Your donation to the Catch the LoveSM campaign not only supports the expansion, but it helps us provide more care and more love for more bright, healthy futures.

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MONDAY-FRIDAY | FOR 2ND THROUGH 6TH GRADE

The P.A.S.S. program is designed for the prospective young athlete in mind. P.A.S.S. will introduce a higher level of instruction and training in various sports throughout the week emphasizing fundamentals, teamwork and an overall skill-building experience within each activity. Areas of concentration will include:

Basketball, Baseball, Soccer, Football (Flag), Golf, Volleyball, Lacrosse*, Pickleball, Plyometric training, Swimming*, in addition to other fun activities Dodgeball, Wiffle Ball, Kickball, and more...

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All equipment will be provided by the DPJCC

The program is open to both boys and girls, 2nd through 6th grade. The rotation of all sports will be on month to month basis. All P.A.S.S. participants will have access to transportation from the following schools and receive snack and homework help before the start of the programming day.

Transportation

Our program provides transportation from the following schools:

Cooper City Elementary

Embassy Creek Elementary

Fox Trail Elementary

Hollywood Hills Elementary

Renaissance Charter School

Sheridan Park Elementary

Silver Ridge Elementary

Griffin Elementary

Stirling Elementary

Pioneer Middle

David Posnack Jewish Day School (in-person pick up)

Registration opens December 6,2021

For further information please contact : Will Croud, Youth Services Assistant Director at (954) 434-0499 ext. 112

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HOLIDAY WISHES

From frosty festivals to playful parades, there are so many ways to celebrate the season.

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Superstars on Parade

SOUTH FLORIDA’S JUNIOR ORANGE BOWL SHOWCASES LOCAL TALENTED STUDENTS

Awell-known annual event, the Junior Orange Bowl Parade, returns to the streets of Coral Gables this year on Sunday, Dec. 12.

The parade, titled “Miracle on the Mile: A Holiday Parade and Celebration,” honors active youth and community and will feature floats, bands, performers and thousands of kids from community groups.

The Junior Orange Bowl Parade is the founding event of the 73-year Junior Orange Bowl International Youth Festival, created to showcase the talents and strengths of young people. With that goal in mind, an All-Star Band has been introduced this year, a honor ensemble for high school students who will not be performing with their school bands.

Marching bands, drum corps, dance teams, colorful community floats, motorized vehicles and mounted equestrian units are also featured in the parade, which begins at 5 p.m. Dec. 12. The parade travels south from Alhambra Circle and Ponce de Leon

Boulevard, turns right on Miracle Mile, and finishes just past Coral Gables City Hall. Santa himself will make an appearance, adding to the parade’s family appeal, and collection stations along the parade route will accept new, unwrapped toys for Nicklaus Children’s Hospital.

Parade viewers are encouraged to bring chairs and seating to watch the free event. Families can also purchase tickets for grandstand seating and VIP Hospitality, which includes a pre-parade reception with food and drinks.

Local organizations, nonprofits and

businesses are encouraged to join the fun through the community float program, which judges the floats in 5 categories. Groups can score cash prizes for the best costumes, use of holiday theme, community spirit, fan favorite and best overall.

The Junior Orange Bowl International Youth Festival includes competition in sports such as basketball, tennis and golf, and showcases talents such as creative writing, photography and film. Learn more about the Festival at www.juniororangebowl.org/ what-we-do/participate.html.

Schools Offer More Than Just Education

Broward and Miami-Dade County School Districts are offering vaccine clinics on selected elementary and middle school campuses to help distribute the Pfizer COVID-19 vaccinations free of charge to children ages 5-11.

The vaccine campaign began after federal regulators gave final approval to the lower-dose, two shot protocol in November. The clinics have been scheduled at various public schools through February in Broward County to accommodate the anticipated demand for the vaccine, which is administered in two doses given three weeks apart. Miami-Dade, which is partnering with the University of Miami Health System (UHealth) Pediatric Mobile Clinic and several health centers to distribute the vaccines on campuses, was still planning its vaccine clinics for December and beyond as of press time.

Children must have a completed and signed COVID-19 consent form to be eligible to receive the vaccines. In Miami-Dade County, a parent will need to be present for the vaccine to be administered. In Broward County, only the signed consent form, which can be downloaded at

www.browardschools.com/vaccinations, is needed.

Parents can also get the pediatric Pfizer vaccines for children ages 5-11 at county vaccine sites, such as parks and government centers, and at retail locations such as CVS, Publix, Costco, Sam’s Club, Walgreen’s, Walmart and Winn-Dixie.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the possible side effects for children are similar to the side effects seen with adults receiving the vaccine, the most common of which are pain, redness and swelling at the injection site. They might also experience tiredness, headache, muscle pain, chills, fever and nausea.

Children should not receive the vaccine if they have experienced a severe allergic reaction to a previous vaccine or are allergic to any of the ingredients in the vaccine.

The CDC encourages families to enroll in v-safe, a free smartphonebased tool that provides personalized health check-ins after a vaccination so parents can report how their child is feeling after the shot. The program also sends reminders about the second dose.

Learn more about the vaccine and v-safe on the CDC website at www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/vaccines/index.html.

By Jennifer Jhon

Pawsitivity Pets the of

With the winter holidays here, parents might be considering gifting their kids with a furry friend. After all, those puppy-in-a-box and kitten-with-a-bow videos are the cutest, and they generally end with tears of joy all around.

But is a pet a good idea for your family?

“About 90 percent of the time, it’s a wonderful idea,” says Diana Johnson, the head veterinary technician at Faithful Companions Animal Clinic in Pembroke Pines. “I think every family should have a pet, especially when families have children. They bring extra comfort that some people need after a long day.”

Pet owners experience health benefits across the board, not just mentally but physically, as they interact with their furry family members, she says. “If they can adopt a pet and help a pet, they help themselves as well.”

After nearly two years of a global pandemic, with our mental health the way it is, the companionship and nonjudgement that animals offer is especially important, Johnson says.

And children with pets learn responsibility, as well as nurturing and empathy.

LEARNING TO NURTURE

Carole Himmel, who lives in Sunrise with her 20-year-old son, Max, and daughter Katelyn, 10, has had animals her whole life. “I think when you have animals, you tend to be a nurturing and caring person,” she says.

And Himmel is certainly caring. Two years ago, she rescued a 3½-week-old puppy named Bella, bottle-feeding her for 2-3 months before being able to start her on puppy food.

“Every three hours, I would get up. I actually put her bed on my bed. I would wake up and make her a bottle and go feed her, just like a baby. So she’s really attached to me.”

Before Bella, her family rescued Kitty. “Someone had moved out of a house and tied the cat to a fence. Kitty was almost dead when

we found her, she was skin and bones. We took her to the vet, and we nursed her back to health. … Kitty is a fat, happy cat now,” Himmel says.

Their most recent rescue is Lucy, a puppy adopted from the Humane Society of Broward County in May as a playmate for Bella after the family started to spend more time out of the house.

When they met Lucy, who was just a puppy, they fell in love instantly. “From the second she saw us, she was ours. … She’ll put her forehead up on my forehead and snuggle into me. She’s the sweetest girl.”

From day one, Lucy and Bella have been like sisters, she says. “They play together. Lucy will look over at Bella and she’ll start licking her face and grooming her, and then Bella will start licking Lucy’s face and grooming her. They love each other.”

Himmel has passed her love for animals to her daughter. “If I would let her have 100 pets, she would have 100 pets,” she says.

Katelyn is a rescuer as well, and she has the scars to prove it. In January, an iguana bit part of her finger off when she tried to free it from a chain link fence it was trapped under.

Despite the experience, Katelyn still catches lizards and iguanas, her mother says. ”She has no fear.”

BRINGING THE LOVE

The desire for a “playmate” also motivated Faran and Kara Fagen, both schoolteachers from Coral Springs, to add to their family.

They already had two children, two dogs and some fish in 2020, but their poodle, Jury, was in declining health, and they didn’t want their other dog to be alone. Plus, Kara’s birthday was approaching. So Faran surprised her with a Goldendoodle puppy, which they named Alice.

Their dogs bring unconditional love to the family, Faran Fagen says. “They just want you to play with them and pet them.”

Their Maltese, Counsel, just wants to sit with you, and he’s nice and warm and fuzzy, Fagen says. “Alice is loads of fun. She’s still a puppy, so she always wants to play.”

The kids, 8-year-old Blair and 14-year-old Spencer, love playing with the dogs. “It’s just nice to have somebody around who wants to love you and have fun,” Fagen says.

Alice is particularly affectionate. “When we come home, with Alice, it’s like a big lovefest. She just hugs everybody for five minutes each. … She just puts her arms on your shoulders, she doesn’t lick you or anything, she just wants to hold you because she’s so happy that you’re home.”

For the parents, the dogs help entertain the kids. “They like to walk the dogs and play games with the dogs. It gives us an easy filler activity,” Fagen says.

He says the dogs are also good for emotional balance and tension relief, because they are nice and calm.

They also help teach responsibility. “We’ll come home, and Blair will run right over to the dogs and let them out the back so they can go to the bathroom,” he says.

Fagen says getting Alice has really been a blessing for his family because she has such a good temperament. “She has the most amazing personality,” he says.

PART OF THE FAMILY

Sydney Barfus, 16, a junior at Plantation High, has had pets her whole life.

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Lucy, the Himmel family's most recent rescue

Alice and Counsel keep each other company

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works for them where they like taking care of them,” Sydney says. “It gives them someone to play with when other people are busy.”

She lives with her parents, Perry and Heather, and her 13-year-old brother, Dillon, in Fort Lauderdale along with a dog named Lucky, a cat named Tuit and pet pig named Pickles.

Sydney says her favorite part of having pets is interacting with them and having them welcome you when you get home. “Or if you are ever stressed or worried about something, you can just pet them, and they give you loving,” she says.

She also likes to travel with them when the family goes camping, visiting grandparents, and taking other trips. “It’s just a joy to have them around. Something always goes different than expected, and it’s always entertaining,” Sydney says.

She expects to get her own pets when she graduates and leaves home. “I just like having them around, being able to talk to them or have them just come into my room and greet me,” she says.

CREATURE COMFORTS

The comfort Sydney feels from her animals is familiar to Johnson, who has been at Faithful Companions Animal Clinic for about 20 years.

Johnson says her family dog was a great help to her oldest daughter, now 13, when she was in middle school.

“Preteen years are hard on kids. She had a lot of pressure from school, a lot of pressure from friends. She would come home, and she would just sit with our dog. She would just sit and talk to her and tell her all her problems, and the dog would sit there and just stare at her and lick her face. And she can hug her, and there

is no one there at that moment judging or looking at her any kind of way,” she says. “It’s just a dog that cares about their human and is willing to just listen to anything that’s going on.”

MAKING THE COMMITMENT

There are a lot of reasons to have a pet, but families should understand that it is a lifetime commitment, whether you purchase or adopt, Johnson says. Families should also consider finances, including medical costs and behavioral training costs, she says.

If it is financially possible for families to own a pet, she encourages them to do their research and choose the right pet.

“If you like to be an active person, if you enjoy being outdoors more, then a dog would be a better fit, because then you can give the dog what it needs,” she says. “If you are more of a sedentary person, a cat is better-fitted.”

For young families who are active, either would be fine, she says.

She urges families to be aware of the financial costs behind pets. “Few people understand how expensive it can get, especially without pet insurance.”

Animal health care costs are comparable to human health care costs, she says, so an ER visit with your pet could cost thousands of dollars. “We really want people to do their best to acquire pet insurance because it does make a big difference. It is life or death sometimes for these pets.”

But Johnson also says the costs of pet ownership are worth it.

“To me, personally, the comfort of having something there that’s fuzzy and warm and gets to listen to all the crazy things that happened to you throughout your day and doesn’t have a thing to say about it, that’s priceless.”

WISHES Holiday

Broward County COCONUT

CREEK

HOLIDAY MUSIC SERIES

Saturday, December 4, 11, 18 & Sunday, December 19

Stroll the marketplace while local musicians play holiday music. 2-5pm, PROMENADE AT COCONUT CREEK, 4443 Lyons Rd.,www.promenadeatcoconutcreek.com

HOLIDAY FANTASY OF LIGHTS

Through January 1

A spectacular drive-through display of illuminated trees and animated figures. TRADEWINDS PARK, 3600 W. Sample Rd., 954-357-8870 www.holidaylightsdrivethru.com

COOPER CITY

LIGHT UP COOPER CITY

Friday, December 3

Holiday fun includes twinkling lights and seasonal activities. 6-9pm, MEMORIAL PARK, between City Hall and the Community Center on 90th Ave., 954-434-4300 www.coopercityfl.org

BRUNCH WITH SANTA

Saturday, December 18

Visit with Santa during this annual event. For residents only. Pre-purchase required. $12/adult, $8/child. 10am, COOPER CITY HIGH SCHOOL, 9401 StirlingRd., 954-434-4300 www.coopercityfl.org

CORAL SPRINGS

DOWNTOWN IN DECEMBER

Saturday, December 4

Bring the family for a holiday dance party, train rides, ice skating, snow and other fun winter surprises. Free. 5-9pm, CITY HALL, 9500 W. Sample Rd., www.coralsprings.org

THE NUTCRACKER

Friday-Sunday, December 10-12

A delightful production of the holiday classic.

Friday 8pm; Saturday 2pm & 8pm; Sunday 2pm. THE CENTER, 2855 Coral Springs Dr., 954-344-5990 www.thecentercs.com

HOLIDAY PARADE

Wednesday, December 15

Enjoy the bright lights at the city’s annual holiday parade with floats, bands, entertainment and more.

This year’s theme: Lights, Cameras, Selfies! 7pm, along Sample Road, from CORAL SPRINGS DRIVE TO CITY HALL, www.coralsprings.org

CIRQUE MUSICA HOLIDAY SPECTACULAR

Thursday, December 16

The world-renowned cast of Cirque Musica performs to popular holiday songs. 7pm, THE CENTER, 2855 Coral Springs Dr., 954-344-5990 www.thecentercs.com

DANIA BEACH

HOLIDAY TREE LIGHTING

Thursday, December 2

Lots of festive fun for the family including a Tree Lighting Ceremony, entertainment, crafts and photos with Santa. Tree lighting takes place at 6:15pm. 6-8pm, DANIA BEACH CITY HALL, 100 W. Dania Beach Blvd., 954-924-6800

www.daniabeachfl.gov

DAVIE

LIGHTING OF THE GREENS

Saturday, December 4

Evening includes holiday music, activities,

From frosty festivals to playful parades, there are so many ways to celebrate the season

COMPILED BY SHANNON PEASE-SEVERANCE

entertainment, the official lighting of Bamford Park and a visit from Santa. 6-9pm, BAMFORD SPORTS COMPLEX, 3801 S. Pine Island Rd., www.davie-fl.gov

TOUR WITH MRS. CLAUS

Saturday, December 4

Let Mrs. Claus be your guide as you tour the old schoolhouse. Tours scheduled on the hour from 10am-1pm. $5. OLD DAVIE SCHOOL HISTORICAL MUSEUM, 6650 Griffin Rd., 954-797-1044 www.olddavieschool.org

OLD DAVIE CHRISTMAS

Saturday, December 11

Bring the family for a visit with Santa, petting zoo, hayrides, holiday music and more.

11am-2pm, OLD DAVIE SCHOOL HISTORICAL MUSEUM, 6650 Griffin Rd., 954-797-1044 www.olddavieschool.org

RUDOLPH THE RED-NOSED REINDEER

Friday-Sunday, December 17-19

Join Rudolph, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster and others on a heart-warming adventure performed by

Florida Children’s Theatre. $25/advance, $30/door. FLCT THEATRE AT BROWARD COLLEGE, 3501 Davie Rd., 954-763-6882 www.flct.org

GARDEN OF LIGHTS

December 17-23 & 26-30

See the botanical gardens and the historic Wray Home decked out with thousands of lights and decorations. 5-9pm, FLAMINGO GARDENS & WILDLIFE SANCTUARY, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., 954-473-2955 www.flamingogardens.org

DEERFIELD BEACH

OCEAN WAY HOLIDAY

Saturday, December 4

A magical evening with a giant interactive snow globe, photos with Santa, live entertainment, holiday character show, stilt walkers and more. 5-9pm, MAIN BEACH PARKING LOT, 149 SE Second Ave., www.deerfield-beach.com

MOVIES IN THE PARK

Friday, December 10

Bring the family for an outdoor screening of The Grinch. Free. 7pm, MIDDLE SCHOOL ATHLETIC COMPLEX, 501 SW Sixth Ave., www.deerfield-beach.com

FORT LAUDERDALE

HOLIDAY LIGHTS CRUISE

December 2-31

Check out the lights that line the shore while cruising the Intracoastal by way of Water Taxi. The tour includes sightseeing, holiday music and sing-alongs. Space is limited. Advance purchase required. $35/adult, $15/child. Fort Lauderdale Water Taxi, stop number 1 by the RIVERSIDE HOTEL, 954-467-6677 www.watertaxi.com

LIGHT UP SISTRUNK

Friday, December 3

A one-of-a-kind holiday celebration with fun and entertainment, including a tree lighting, holiday activities, a Kids Zone and more. 5-9pm, SISTRUNK BOULEVARD, from NW Ninth to NW 11th avenues, www.fortlauderdale.gov

FLORIDA SINGING SONS

Friday, December 3 Symphony of Americas, joined by the Girl Choir of South Florida and Florida Singing Sons, performs Holidays of the Americas. 7:45-9:30pm, continued on page 20

BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, www.singingsons.org

HOLIDAY MAGIC – WHIMSICAL WONDERLAND

Saturday, December 4

An evening for families with live entertainment, a scavenger hunt, story time, letters to Santa and more. Pre-registration required. $30/adult, $15/teen, $5/ child, 5 and under/free. 5:30-8pm, BONNET HOUSE, 900 N. Birch Rd., www.bonnethouse.org

MIAMI CITY BALLET’S

THE NUTCRACKER

Friday-Sunday, December 10-12

The Miami City Ballet presents George Balanchine’s dazzling choreography. Showtimes vary. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., www.browardcenter.org

WINTERFEST BOAT PARADE

Saturday, December 11

Line up along Fort Lauderdale’s waterways to enjoy the dazzling annual boat parade, from DOWNTOWN FORT LAUDERDALE TO LAKE SANTA BARBARA IN POMPANO BEACH. Free. 6:30-8:30pm. 954-767-0686 www.winterfestparade.com

LIGHT UP CARTER PARK

Saturday, December 11

Enjoy holiday cheer and activities that include live performances, bounce houses, train rides, face painters, crafts and prizes. 3-7pm, CARTER PARK, 1450 W. Sunrise Blvd., www.fortlauderdale.gov

NORTH POLE PAJAMA PARTY

Saturdays, December 11 & 18

Wear your pajamas or elf costume and celebrate the season with a holiday science show, holiday activities, museum exploration and an IMAX screening of The Polar Express. $30. 9am, MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., 954-713-0930 www.mods.org

THE NUTCRACKER

Friday-Sunday, December 17-19

The Arts Ballet Theatre transports the audience to a land filled with snowflakes and sugar plums in this holiday classic. $26.75-$46.75. PARKER PLAYHOUSE, 707 NE Eighth St., 954-462-0222 www.parkerplayhouse.com

VICTORIAN CHRISTMAS TOURS

December 18-23

Learn how Christmas was celebrated in the early days of Fort Lauderdale during this docent-led holiday tour of the historic house. STRANAHAN HOUSE, 335 SE Sixth Ave., 954-524-4736 www.stranahanhouse.org

RUDOLPH THE RED-NOSED REINDEER: THE MUSICAL

Wednesday, December 22

See all your favorite holiday characters including Santa, Rudolph and the Abominable Snow Monster come to life during this musical adventure. $29.50 and up. 7pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., 954-462-0222 www.browardcenter.org

CIRQUE DREAMS HOLIDAZE

Sunday-Monday, December 26-27

A holiday tradition that wraps together a whimsical, Broadway-style musical with contemporary circus artistry. $29-$69. Sunday, 7pm; Monday, 2pm & 8pm. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., 954-462-0222 www.browardcenter.org

NOON YEAR’S EVE

Friday, December 31

Ring in 2022 with music, dancing, science activities and a “ball drop” at noon. 10am-5pm,

DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., 954-467-6637 www.mods.org

HALLANDALE BEACH

CHANUKAH FESTIVAL

Sunday, December 5

Music, a light show and more for the whole family. 7pm, THE BIG EASY CASINO, 831 N. Federal Highway, 954-458-1877 www.chanukahfestival.com

SYMPHONY IN LIGHTS

Through December 31

A spectacular dancing light show with hundreds of thousands of animated lights and a towering Christmas tree all synchronized to music. The 10-minute show begins at the top of every hour. Free. 6-11pm, GULFSTREAM PARK, 901 S. Federal Hwy., Hallandale Beach, 954-454-7000 www.gulfstreampark.com

HOLLYWOOD

HOLLYWOOD BEACH CANDY

CANE PARADE

Saturday, December 4

A magical evening under the stars featuring floats, marching units and bands with a hometown flavor. Free. 7pm, along the HOLLYWOOD BEACH BROADWALK, 954-921-3404 www.hollywoodfl.org

CHRISTMAS NEAR THE BEACH

Saturday, December 11

A community tradition that includes singing, dancing, musicians, a night market and more. Free. 4-9pm, ARTSPARK AT YOUNG CIRCLE, Hollywood Boulevard and Federal Highway, www.christmasnearthebeach.com

HOLIDAY HAYRIDE & CAMPFIRE

Friday, December 17

Start a holiday tradition by taking a hayride around the park and enjoying an old-fashioned marshmallow roast around a campfire. $4. Pre-register online. 6:30-9pm, T.Y. PARK, 3300 N. Park Rd., 954-357-8811 www.broward.org/parks

LAUDERDALE-BY-THE-SEA

CHRISTMAS-BY-THE-SEA

Wednesday, December 1

An evening of old-fashioned family fun, entertainment and activities. Free. 5-8:30pm, ANGLIN’S SQUARE, Commercial Boulevard and El Mar Drive, 954-640-4200 www.discoverlbts.com

CHANUKAH FESTIVAL

Sunday, December 5

Celebrate Chanukah with live music and festivities by the sea. 5:30-8:30pm, BEACH PAVILION, One Commercial Blvd., www.discoverlbts.com

LIGHTHOUSE POINT

LIGHTHOUSE A’GLOW

Wednesday, December 1

Spend an enchanted evening with holiday fun and activities. 6:30-8:30pm, FRANK MCDONOUGH PARK, 3500 NE 27 Ave., www.city.lighthousepoint.com

MARGATE

WINTER FESTIVAL

Friday, December 17

A family-friendly festival with children’s activities, live performances, kiddie rides, Florida-style snow, photos with Santa and more. 6-10pm, MARGATE BOULEVARD from US 441 to NW 58 Street, 954-972-6458 www.margatefl.com

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MIRAMAR THE NUTCRACKER

Saturday, December 18

A classical holiday ballet presented by Ballet Etudes for the whole family to enjoy. $38-$58. 7pm, MIRAMAR CULTURAL CENTER, 2400 Civic Center Place, www.miramarculturalcenter.org

VISIT WITH SANTA

Sunday, December 19

Meet Santa at the big beach chair to tell him what’s on your list and to take a photo on your own phone or camera. 2:30-4pm, MIRAMAR PINELAND, 3600 A. University Dr., 954-357-8776

OAKLAND PARK

HOLIDAY VILLAGE

Friday-Saturday, December 3-4

Have some holiday fun with children’s activities, a snow slide, a visit with Santa, a Christmas tree decorating competition and more. Free.

Friday 5:30-10pm, Saturday 11am-10pm. JACO PASTORIUS PARK, 4000 N. Dixie Highway, 954-630-4500 www.oaklandparkfl. gov

PARKLAND LIGHT UP THE PARK

Friday, December 10

Celebrate the season with holiday activities and a display of glimmering lights. 5:30-8pm, PINE TRAILS PARK AMPHITHEATER, 10561 Trails End, 954-757-4105 www.cityofparkland.org

SNOWFEST

Thursday, December 16

Lots of wintery fun is in store for the whole family. See website for details. 5-8pm, PINE TRAILS PARK, 10555 Trails End, 954-757-4105 www.cityofparkland.org

PEMBROKE PINES SNOWFEST

Saturday, December 4

Bundle up to play in tons of snow and participate in a variety of holiday activities. Pre-registered residents only. 4-8pm, CHARLES F. DODGE CITY CENTER, 601 City Center Way, 954-392-2116 www.ppines.com

PLANTATION

WINTER WONDERLAND

Through December 30

A wonderland of more than 40 themed holiday trees, Hanukkah displays, miniature train village and more. Closed Sundays, Mondays and Wednesdays. Call for hours. Free. PLANTATION HISTORICAL MUSEUM, 511 N. Fig Tree Lane, 954-797-2722 www.plantation.org/museum

POMPANO BEACH

YULETIDE PARADE

Thursday, December 2

Line up for a hometown holiday parade starting at Riverside Drive, heading west to Atlantic Boulevard. Free. 6:30pm, ALONG ATLANTIC BOULEVARD, 954-786-4111 www.pompanobeachfl.gov

BREAKFAST WITH SANTA

Saturday, December 11

Play some festive games and then have breakfast with the big guy. $7. 9-10am, EMMA LOU OLSON CIVIC CENTER, 1801 NE Sixth St., 954-786-4111 www.pompanobeachfl.gov

POMPANO BEACH HOLIDAY BOAT PARADE

Friday, December 10

Whether you are watching or participating, this is a great procession on the Intracoastal Waterway,

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starting at LAKE SANTA BARBARA heading north to Hillsboro Boulevard. 7-9pm. www.pompanobeachchamber.com

SUNRISE

HOLIDAY TREE LIGHTING

Friday, December 3

Get into the holiday spirit with live music, decorations and a lighting of the city’s seasonal display. Free. 6-8pm, SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER CAMPUS, 10610 W. Sunrise Blvd., 954-747-4600

TOYS IN THE SUN RUN

Sunday, December 5

A toy drive and community gathering with performances, activities and entertainment benefitting Joe DiMaggio’s Children’s Hospital and other children’s charities. $10/person with an unwrapped toy, or $20/person without a toy. Registration takes place from 8-11am at ALLIGATOR ALLEY HARLEY-DAVIDSON, 201 International Parkway, www.sfpctoyrun.com

THE NUTCRACKER BALLET

Friday-Sunday, December 10-12

Fort Lauderdale Youth Ballet presents the holiday classic about a young girl who dreams of a Nutcracker Prince. All ages. Reserved seating, $30. Friday & Saturday 7pm, Sunday 4pm. SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER THEATRE, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., 954-747-4646 www.sunrisefl.gov

HOLIDAY HAYRIDE & CAMPFIRE

Saturday, December 18

Start a holiday tradition by taking a hayride around the park and enjoying an old-fashioned marshmallow roast around a campfire. $4.

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Dec. 17-23 & 26-30, 2021

Friday and Saturday: 5pm-10pm

Sunday-Thursday: 5pm-9pm

Thousands of lights decorate the gardens, costumed characters, live performances and Santa.

www.flamingogardens.org

Admission

3750 S Flamingo Rd, Davie, FL 33330 954-473-2955

Pre-register online. 6:30-9pm, MARKHAM PARK 16001 W. State Road 84, 954-357-8868 www.broward.org/parks

ELVES AND THE SHOEMAKER

Saturday, December 18

See a live production of a classic fairytale about a poor cobbler and a team of helpful elves. $7. 2pm, SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER THEATRE, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., 954-747-4646 www.sunrisefl.gov

TAMARAC

LIGHT THE NIGHT

Tuesday, December 2

A festive night featuring a Christmas tree, Menorah and Kinara lighting, an interactive children’s area, visit with Santa and a live holiday performance. 6:30pm, CAPORELLA PARK, 5200 Prospect Rd., www.tamarac.org

TINSEL TOWN HOLIDAY

DRIVE-THRU

Friday, December 10

Celebrate the holiday season as you drive through an area filled with festive and themed décor. 6-8pm, TAMARAC SPORTS COMPLEX, 9901 NW 77 St., Tamarac www.tamarac.org

PAWS WITH CLAUS HOLIDAY PAW-TY AND ADOPTION EVENT

Saturday, December 11

Dogs can be photographed with Santa and participate in a howling holiday time. 10am-noon, GARY B. JONES PARK FOR PEOPLE AND PUPS, 8101 Southgate Blvd., www.tamarac.org

WESTON

YULETIDE CAROLERS

Thursday, December 23

Listen to the sounds of the season at the Bell Tower. 7-8:30pm, WESTON TOWN CENTER, www.westontowncenter.net

WILTON MANORS

HOLIDAY LIGHTING CEREMONY

Thursday, December 2

Kick off the holidays with an annual lighting of a Menorah, Kinara and Christmas tree. 6:30pm, JUSTIN FLIPPEN PARK, 2109 Wilton Dr., www.wiltonmanors.com

SANTA BY THE SEA

Wednesday, December 15

If you live by the water in Wilton Manors, step outside and wave hello to Santa, who will be sailing around the Island City with his elves to spread holiday cheer. Santa sets sail at 5pm from the COLOHATCHEE PARK BOAT RAMP, 1975 NE 15 Ave., www.wiltonmanors.com

WILTON WONDERLAND

Saturday, December 18

Bring the family to see Santa and to participate in holiday activities. 10am-noon, HAGEN PARK, 2020 Wilton Dr., www.wiltonmanors.com

Miami-Dade County

AVENTURA

THE NUTCRACKER

Friday-Sunday, December 10-12

Arts Ballet Theatre of Florida presents this classic ballet to Tchaikovsky’s popular score. Friday & Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 3pm. $40. AVENTURA ARTS & CULTURAL CENTER, 3385 NE 188 St., Aventura, www.aventuracenter.org

after 5pm: $12.95 ages 12+, $9.95 ages 3-11, children 2 & under and members free. Wildlife exhibits, museum and tram closed.

Presented by

Major support for Flamingo Gardens provided by Broward County Cultural Division, the Cultural Council, and the Broward County Board of County Commissioners. Sponsored in part by the State of Florida, Department of State, Division of Arts & Culture, and the Florida Council on Arts and Culture.

CORAL GABLES

VOICES OF ANGELS

Sunday, December 18

The Miami Children’s Chorus presents a captivating holiday performance. 6-7:30pm, FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH OF CORAL GABLES, 536 Coral Way, www.miamichildrenschorus.org

THE NIGHTGARDEN

Through January 2

Experience the fantasy and wonderment of effects including the wise talking tree, flying fairies, and holographic butterflies at this magical light spectacular. $24-$34. FAIRCHILD TROPICAL BOTANIC GARDEN, 10901 Old Cutler Rd., 305-667-1651 www.fairchildgarden.org

CUTLER BAY

THE NUTCRACKER

Saturday-Sunday, December 4-5

This classic Christmas ballet about a little girl’s journey to the Land of Sweets is performed by the Miami Youth Ballet. $26-$41. Saturday 8pm, Sunday 3pm. SOUTH MIAMI-DADE CULTURAL ARTS CENTER, 10950 SW 211 St., 786-573-5300 www.smdcac.org

HOLIDAY GOLF CART PARADE, TOY DRIVE AND WINTER CELEBRATION

Saturday, December 11

It’s a unique take on a typical parade as a procession of decked-out golf carts glide by. Additional holiday activities included. Bring along a new, unwrapped toy to be donated to a child. 6-10pm, CUTLER RIDGE PARK, 10100 SW 200 St., www.cutlerbay-fl.gov

DORAL HOLIDAY TREE LIGHTING & MOVIE NIGHT

Wednesday, December 1

Be dazzled as twinkling lights add holiday cheer to the night. While there, the family can watch a special screening of Polar Express. 6pm, DOWNTOWN DORAL PARK, 8395 NW 53 St., 305-593-6600 www.cityofdoral.com

HOLIDAY CELEBRATION AT THE PARK

Friday, December 10

Celebrate the season with a festive evening of live performances, inflatables, a gingerbread house contest and more. 6pm, DORAL MEADOW PARK, 11555 NW 58 St., www.cityofdoral.com

HIALEAH

SANTA’S SNOW BLAST

Saturday, December 11

The kids can have lots of wintery fun at this event that includes a mountain of snow to play in, bounce houses, rides, games, live entertainment and more. 5-9pm, MILANDER PARK, 4700 Palm Ave., www.hialeahfl.gov

SANTA’S ENCHANTED FOREST

Through January 2

Lights, rides, food, games, entertainment and more make this holiday wonderland glow. 3100 E. Fourth Ave., Hialeah, 305-892-9997 www.santasenchantedforest.com

HOMESTEAD

MAGIC OF LIGHTS

Through January 1

Drive through a dazzling light display using the latest

LED technology and digital animations. $20/standard vehicle. 6-10pm, HOMESTEAD-MIAMI SPEEDWAY, One Ralph Sanchez Speedway Blvd., www.magicoflights.com

MIAMI

JACOB MARLEY’S CHRISTMAS CAROL

December 1-5, 8-12 & 16-19

Spun off A Christmas Carol classic, this show tells the tale of Ebenezer Scrooge’s former partner and chains-rattling ghost, Jacob Marley. Showtimes vary. ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., www.arshtcenter.org

CHRISTMAS IS IN THE AIR

Saturday, December 11

The Florida Chamber Orchestra presents a traditional concert with timeless holiday melodies. 8pm, MIAMI-DADE COUNTY AUDITORIUM, 2901 W. Flagler St., 305-547-5414 www.miamidadecountyauditorium.org

THE POLAR EXPRESS TRAIN RIDE

December 11-30

Put on your pajamas and climb aboard this one-hour magical trip to meet Santa. Set to the sounds of the motion picture, the adventure includes hot chocolate, a cookie and a keepsake sleigh bell. $55-$70. MIAMI CENTRAL STATION, 600 First Ave., www.miamithepolarexpressride.com

MIAMI CITY BALLET’S

THE NUTCRACKER

December 16-19, 21-24 & 26

The Miami City Ballet presents George Balanchine’s dazzling choreography. Showtimes vary. ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., 305-949-6722 www.arshtcenter.org

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ZOO LIGHTS

Through December 30

During select nights in December, visitors can see the zoo twinkle with dazzling lights. See website for details. $20.95/adult, $18.95/child. 6:30-10pm, ZOO MIAMI, 12400 SW 152 St., 305-251-0400 www.zoomiami.org

MIAMI LAKES

JINGLE BELL JOG 5K

Saturday, December 11

Participants of this themed race receive Santa suits to run in, jingle bells for their sneakers and a holiday- themed finishers medal. The event also includes a Little Elf Dash for kids. $45/adult, $20/child. 8am, PICNIC PARK WEST, 15151 NW 82 Ave., www.jinglebelljog.net/miami-lakes

MIAMI SHORES

DASHING THROUGH THE SHORES

Saturday, December 4

Enjoy a tree lighting followed by a 3K Fun Run/ Walk through Miami Shores. Jingle bells and glow sticks provided. $5/person. 6pm, VILLAGE HALL, 10050 NE Second Ave., www.msvfl.gov

MIAMI SPRINGS

CHRISTMAS AT THE GAZEBO

Saturday, December 4

See Santa, a holiday parade and participate in festivities featuring rides, snow and more. $15/non-resident, $5/resident. 5:45-9pm. Parade begins at CITY HALL, 201 Westward Dr., and proceeds to the Gazebo. 305-805-5000 www.miamisprings-fl.gov

PALMETTO BAY

HISTORIC HOLIDAYS EVENING STROLLS

Friday, December 3 & Wednesday, December 15

See the historic houses of the Deering Estate decorated in elegant holiday décor, keep warm by a campfire and watch some holiday films. $15/adult, $7/child. 6:30-9:30pm, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

STORY TIME & PHOTOS WITH SANTA

Saturday, December 11

Stop by for a photo with the big guy, holiday arts and crafts and a story time with Santa’s elves. Included with paid admission of $15/adult, $7/child. Additional fee for photos. 10am-noon, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

PINECREST

NIGHTS OF LIGHTS

December 10-January 2

Be enchanted as Pinecrest Gardens transforms into a holiday wonderland featuring thousands of sparkling lights, a holiday-themed maze, storytelling and live entertainment on select nights. Closed on December 18. $15-$20. 6-9pm, PINECREST GARDENS, 11000 Red Rd., 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

SOUTH MIAMI

SANTA’S PARADE OF THE ELVES

Sunday, December 5

See a procession of elves and entertainment wind their way through SOUTH MIAMI. 2pm, Sunset Drive from US-1 to 57th Avenue, and 57th Avenue from 72nd Street to 74th Street 305-668-3873 www.southmiamifl.gov

Palm Beach County

ZOO LIGHTS

December 3-5, 10-12, 17-23, 26-30

Start a new tradition with family and friends by strolling the zoo while it’s twinkling with more than 1 million eco-friendly lights. $14.95/adult, $12.95/child. 6-9pm, PALM BEACH ZOO, 1301 Summit Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-547-9453

www.palmbeachzoo.org

GINGERBREAD HOLIDAY CONCERT

Sunday, December 5

Family-friendly concert for all ages featuring seasonal classics and holiday cheer. $35. 3pm, LYNN UNIVERSITY WOLD PERFORMING ARTS CENTER, 3601 N. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-237-7000

www.lynn.edu/events

ORNAMENTS NATURALLY

Saturday, December 18

Create holiday decorations using shells, sea beans, pinecones and unusual natural materials. Materials are provided. $8/member, $12/non-member. 10am & 1pm, GUMBO LIMBO NATURE CENTER, 1801 N. Ocean Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-544-8605

www.gumbolimbo.org

MIAMI CITY BALLET’S THE NUTCRACKER

Wednesday-Thursday, December 29-30

The Miami City Ballet presents George Balanchine’s dazzling choreography. 2pm & 7pm, KRAVIS CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 701 Okeechobee Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-832-7469 www.kravis.org

Produced by:

©Disney

Disney character live appearances are not part of the exhibit.

Give your child the gift of health care coverage

Keeping your child’s Florida KidCare coverage is impor tant. This holiday season, remember:

* Pay your child’s Florida KidCare premium on time.

* If your child’s Florida KidCare is due for renewal, send in all documents right away.

If you have questions about your account, please call 954-467-8737 or go to www.floridakidcare.org and click on “Check Your Account Online.”

Florida KidCare wishes you and your family a happy and healthy holiday season!

Dé a su niño el regalo de un seguro de salud

Es importante mantener la cobertura del seguro Florida KidCare. No lo olvide, en esta temporada de fiestas de fin de año:

* Pague a tiempo la prima del seguro Florida KidCare de su niño.

* Si ya es tiempo de renovar el seguro Florida KidCare de su niño, envíe los documentos hoy mismo. Si tiene preguntas sobre su cuenta, por favor llame al 954-467-8737 o visite el sitio www.floridakidcare.org y haga clic en “Verifique su Cuenta en Línea.”

¡Florida KidCare le desea a usted y a su familia una temporada de fiestas de fin de año con felicidad y salud!

Ofri pitit ou kouvèti asirans medikal

Li enpòtan pou kenbe kouvèti Florida KidCare pitit ou an. Pou fen dane a, pa bliye:

* Peye Florida KidCare pitit ou an alè.

* Si se pou renouvle Florida KidCare pitit ou an, li enpòtan pou w voye tout dokiman yo ale san w pa mize.

Si w gen kesyon sou kont pèsonèl ou a, tanpri rele nan 954-467-8737 oubyen ale nan www.floridakidcare.org epi klike sou ”Tcheke Kont Mwen an Anliy.”

Florida KidCare swete oumenm ak fanmi w yon Bon Fen Danel!

Ditching the Big Top

TIPS TO TAME THE HOLIDAY CIRCUS

BY CHRISTA MELNYK HINES

Are family traditions, parties, volunteer commitments and shopping turning you into a frenzied ringmaster of a runaway circus train? For your sanity and your health, put the brakes on the holiday rush. Here’s how.

1. MAKE A “NOT-TO-DO” LIST. Consciously leave a few activities off the program this year. Ellie Griffin, a feminine vitality coach, says this is one of her favorite ways to reduce holiday stress. “I love having my clients do this exercise because it makes them realize how much of what they do doesn’t have an effect on the big picture of their lives,” she says.

2. END A TRADITION. Let go of rituals that are more work than fun or are no longer meaningful. Attempting to turn the holiday season into the greatest show on earth could put your health at risk. According to the American Psychological Association, chronic stress can weaken your immune system, making it harder to recover from illness, and can cause heart disease, obesity and depression.

3. CATCH YOUR ZZZs You perform better when you’re well-rested. Strive for seven to eight hours of sleep, which can help you cope better with stress. “Poor sleep habits keep you jittery, irritable and feeling like you’re just dragging yourself around,” says Rosalie Moscoe, author of Frazzled, Hurried Woman! Your

Stress Relief Guide to Thriving… Not Merely Surviving

4. CHOREOGRAPH THE CHAOS. Organize your shopping trips. Ask for help from your significant other. When possible, buy gifts whenever you’re already out running errands. Make shipping presents a breeze by purchasing some online. After pounding the pavement, reward yourself with dinner out, pizza delivery, or a glass of wine.

5. CLOWN AROUND. During the holiday rush, try not to schedule every free moment. “By pursuing pleasure in her life, a woman can not only enjoy a more fulfilling life, but in the process increase production of oxytocin, a hormone crucial to lowering stress hormones,” Griffin says. Go through your calendar and block out 15 to 30 minutes each day to do something just for your personal enjoyment, like a manicure, lunch with a friend, yoga, a nap, or reading a book.

6. JUGGLE LESS. Planning, cooking, cleaning and entertaining can test even the most talented acrobat. Host a light-hearted appetizer party instead of a serious dinner soiree. Choose menu items that can be prepared ahead of time or have the event catered to make it easier for you to enjoy the festivities along with your guests.

7. RELY ON YOUR SAFETY NET. “Ask for help! Get your family to help with cleaning up at home. Or, if you can, hire a cleaning person,” Moscoe says. “Take a break, be kind to yourself. There will always be something to finish — that’s life!” For casual parties, prepare the main dish and ask your friends if they can bring side items or desserts.

8. REVEL IN THE MOMENT. Duck out of the buzzing fluorescent lights and long lines. Take an evening stroll to breathe in the cooler December air and admire the holiday lights illuminating the streets. Allow the movement to calm your mind without further stressing your body.

9. FEED YOURSELF RIGHT. Hunger and exhaustion can bring out the tiger in anyone. Eat wholesome, good mood foods with protein for energy. “Don’t bring extra cookies or chocolate into the house in advance of the holidays,” Moscoe says. “This will make you cranky, tired and cause fluctuations in blood sugar.”

10. PLAN FOR SURPRISES. Keep tricks up your sleeve for managing those last-minute gift exchanges. While running errands, purchase small gifts that you can stash. And, go ahead and store those extra cookies in the freezer for drop-in visitors.

11. SIMPLIFY DECOR. If holiday decor makes you sweat, swap time-consuming and expensive lights and ornaments for homemade decorations. Try making luminaries with your kids. Draw a star or tree on a lunch-size paper bag. Punch holes into the design and fill the bag with sand. Place battery-charged tea lights inside the bags and line them up on your porch or driveway.

12. FOCUS ON THE MAGIC. Carefully consider what makes the holidays special for you and your family. Ask your kids, too. Their answers may surprise you. Perhaps they’d like to try building gingerbread houses this year or want to spend an evening in their pajamas drinking hot chocolate and watching seasonal movies. Most of all, resolve to bring your holidays from over the big top to just right for you. Even one small change can make all the difference between anxiously counting the days until the show is over to living in the moment while celebrating more peace and joy with your family this season.

Christa Melnyk Hines is a freelance writer. Her circus includes her strongman husband, two children who love to clown around and a quirky mutt.

Is it Fact or Fiction?

TEACHING KIDS TO TELL THE TRUTH

BY JAN PIERCE

Somewhere around the age of 3, when children begin to understand parents may not know what they actually did or didn’t do, your precious little angel may begin to tell whoppers. “Baby Jack made that mess,” or “I played with a dinosaur today and rode on his back.”

Before you panic, thinking your child is destined for a life of crime, let’s take a look at when children lie, why they lie, and how to teach them to tell the truth.

WHY: Children tell lies for a variety of reasons. They’re afraid of getting in trouble, they want attention, they’re testing boundaries, or quite often with the very young, they just enjoy a good story and haven’t yet learned the distinction between fantasy and real life.

If a child breaks a family rule or makes a big mess, he may be afraid of the consequences. Parents need to first discern whether the infraction was intentional or a normal childhood accident such as spilling milk. When parents see the lie was meant to cover a normal child “accident,” it’s best to reassure that we all make mistakes and work together to clean it up. When the lie was meant to cover breaking a family rule, it’s best to set a consequence in line with the infraction — perhaps forgoing play with a favorite toy for a while. Setting reasonable consequences builds trust yet reinforces the family value of both the rule and truth-telling. When consequences involve physical punishment, children are much more likely to lie to avoid the pain.

Some “lies” are merely pretending. Wouldn’t it be fun to have an imaginary friend, or be able to fly to the moon and back? This is normal behavior and part of a child’s growth and development. Young children are learning right and wrong and need to experience the difference between truthfulness and lying. Plus, we adults read them stories filled with creativity, pretending and magical acts. So, children need experience and practice in separating fun, creative fantasy from real life.

WHEN: Children begin to experiment with telling fibs at about age 3 when their language is developed enough to express their thoughts clearly. They are experimenting with the lines between fact and fantasy. They understand they may displease adults with some behaviors and

want to avoid being in trouble.

From ages 4 to 6, children can tell more sophisticated lies. However, when questioned about the circumstances, most children will eventually relent and tell the truth.

As children grow older, they learn they can tell a lie and not get caught. They’ve learned more about how other people think and know when their fabrication is believable. That’s why it’s important as parents to take the time to teach honesty as a family value from babyhood on up.

Whenever your child tells an untruth, you have the opportunity to teach. If they share a creative idea as fact, “My doll says she is hungry now,” you have the opportunity to teach, “It would be fun if your doll could talk, wouldn’t it?”

If a mess is made and a fib told, “The dog spilled the juice,” you can say, “It’s OK if you accidentally spilled. We all spill sometimes. Let’s clean up the mess.”

And when lies are blatantly told to cover up a broken rule, “I didn’t hit my brother,” then a fair and reasonable consequence is imposed to set the boundary. “We don’t hit, and our family tells the truth.”

HOW TO TEACH TRUTH-TELLING:

Everyday family life offers countless opportunities to mold and shape our children’s moral code. We all want our children to be honest, upright citizens. Here are some ways to teach them to be truth-tellers:

• Be a good role model. You can talk all day about being honest, but if your children hear you tell a lie, they’ll know you don’t mean it. Even small fibs told by parents are confusing to children trying to navigate the rules of the home.

• Notice and encourage whenever truth is told. Both in real-life situations and when watching television or videos, there are opportunities to notice who is telling the truth and who is not. “Oh, dear, that character is telling a lie. What will happen now?”

Or, when your child does tell the truth, make a point of complimenting him or patting her on the back. Applaud truthtelling whenever it happens.

• Help children understand the difference between truth and fantasy. Enjoy fantasy tales with your children but talk about reality. “It would be fun if animals could really talk, but it’s just pretend.”

• Tell your children you know they can do the right thing. Children need to hear your praise and encouragement. “I know you can do the right thing.” And “I know you can make the right choices.”

• Talk about the importance of being honest. “When people don’t tell the truth, they feel bad. They may be worried or feel guilty. It’s so much better to tell the truth.”

• Play games and do activities that promote honesty. Play a game in which you draw a card with a sentence written on it. Read it aloud for everyone to hear. Is it real-life or fantasy? Or role-play with puppets that either tell the truth or lie.

• Avoid tempting your child to lie. Explosive anger or asking, “Who did that?” will tempt a child to lie to avoid trouble. Whenever possible, stay calm and get to the bottom of the problem. Additionally, we want children to trust us enough to tell the truth in the event of any kind of dangerous or abusive situation. Children have to know it’s safe to admit a problem.

• Share childhood memories that help teach honesty. Kids love to hear stories of their parents as young children. Tell how you learned to tell the truth and resist lying. Share hard lessons learned.

• Read books that lead to a discussion about truth and lies. We all know about the boy who cried wolf. Take the time to find stories that teach the importance of telling truth. Some recent ones are: The Honest to Goodness Truth by Patricia McKissack and Giselle Potter; What Should Danny Do? By Adir Levy; and Scout’s Honor: A Kid’s Book about Lying and Telling the Truth by Tiffany Obeng.

We want our children to thrive as responsible citizens. We want them to be people of character and moral goodness. Honesty is one of those character traits that takes some work to instill. It needs to be held up and valued in our lives.

The value of creativity and fantasy also has a place in our lives, but children need to be taught the difference between fantasy and reality. So, remember, an occasional fib is a normal part of a child’s life, and for most kids, it doesn’t become a habit. With patient teaching and understanding, your child will master truthfulness.

Jan Pierce is a retired teacher and author of Homegrown Readers and Homegrown Family Fun.

Celebrating Differences

PLAYDATE TIPS FOR KIDS WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

BY SARAH LYONS

Playdates are an important part of childhood. They offer time for kids to interact socially without the structure of school or extracurricular activities. They also help kids learn to share, socialize, and play freely while still having support from their parents as needed. Kids with special needs are no exception and benefit from playdates as much as their peers. While they may take a little more planning and patience, it is well worth the efforts for everyone involved. Here are some tips for hosting a playdate with kids with disabilities.

BE OPEN. Our natural reaction may be to avoid talking about any disabilities a child may have but it is better to address any questions or concerns beforehand so everyone is more comfortable and knows what to expect. “I am upfront and honest about my daughter before we go to anyone’s house for a playdate.” says Barb Walker-Shapiro, a mom of six. “Her brain doesn’t work like other kids. She may have a seizure and is prone to major meltdowns. I find that when other parents know what’s ‘wrong’ with my daughter, they are more tolerant and compassionate towards her.” It is also a good idea to talk to your children openly about differences they may have with their friends. Explain that just

because others may seem different or express their joy differently, it doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy playdates or making new friends as well. Prior to the playdate, it is also a good idea to check in with the other parents about whether there are any food allergies or restrictions and any other important details you should know. BE STRATEGIC. Prior to the playdate, discuss with the other parents about what would be the best location to have the playdate. For some, their own home is more comfortable and successful. For others, staying at home may encourage the special needs child to say hello then retreat to their room while company visits. In this case, it may be better to go to a public place that everyone can enjoy, such as a park, museum or zoo. On the other hand, parents who have a child that is prone to running away or hiding may find a public place overwhelming. Discuss your plans with all the parents involved and come up with the best solution for everyone. Another great strategy is to plan activities that unite the kids. Kids who struggle with talking to peers or sharing toys may find that a common interest helps them feel more at ease. Find out the interests of the kids you are hosting and offer an activity around one that excites all of those invited. Ideas could include

a craft, a game, or visiting somewhere that fosters that interest. For example, if they are interested in nature, visit a local nature center or go on a backyard scavenger hunt. If they are interested in tractors and farm animals, visit a petting zoo.

BE PATIENT. Whenever kids are involved, patience is important. Try to understand that kids may have different reactions to situations, things may not go exactly as expected, and that it may take some time for kids with special needs to warm up to the situation. Some children with special needs may prefer to participate in parallel play. Parallel play is when kids play beside each other, but do not interact with one another. Children who play alone during parallel play still enjoy the time together and are usually interested in what the other children are doing. If things do not go as planned, it is OK to cut the playdate short and try again in the future.

Playdate Activities That Unite

Choosing activities that encourage common interests will help foster friendships. Here are some ideas:

• Building with Legos, blocks or wooden train sets

• Arts and crafts

• Outdoor play

• Quiet stations with puzzles, coloring sheets, books and blocks

• A sensory bin

BE INCLUSIVE. It is most important to note that kids with disabilities or special needs are just like anyone else; they want to interact with friends and be loved and appreciated. When hosting a playdate with kids with disabilities, it’s important to greet them and interact with them as you would anyone else you meet. “Please say hi to my son. Smile at him, even if he doesn’t smile back,” says Marie Taylor, a mother of two. Even if the child is nonverbal or doesn’t seem to hear you, it is important to speak to them. Angela Leever, a special education teacher and mother of

• A neutral location such as a museum, park or zoo

three says, “Encourage the parents and children to speak to the child with special needs, not about them. If the child with special needs does something your child isn’t happy with or that isn’t appropriate, allow them to use words to tell them. Sometimes that is more powerful than the adults intervening.” BE UNDERSTANDING. Parenting is not easy, and we all struggle with different challenges when it comes to our children. Ask the parent if they need help with anything prior to the playdate. “I almost always have a few extra things to carry, so please don’t be shy about asking if I need help,” says Taylor. “I also need a lot of grace.” Try to be patient and understanding. The other parent may be overwhelmed or tired. It may have been challenging to get there. All parents have great days where everything goes as planned and tough days where it seems nothing does. Listen and offer a hand when needed and they will most likely offer the same in return. It may take a little more planning and patience than the average playdate, but it is so worth it to both the parents and kids involved. Playdates offer a great chance for kids to interact with peers and make friends in a non-stressful way, and they are also a great time for parents to connect and build each other up as well.

Sarah Lyons, a freelance writer and stay at home mom of six children, has planned a fair share of playdates.

DecemberEvents

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entertainment, food and children’s activities is combined with Winter Wonderland, with additional family activities and snow play for kids. Festival is free; Winter Wonderland

$5. 10am-4pm, SUNRISE SPORTSPLEX, 9101 NW 50 St., Sunrise, 954-747-4600

www.sunrisefl.gov

Synergy Dragon Boat Races

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 11

See races of colorful boats that resemble stylized Chinese dragons. 7am-5pm, TY PARK, 3300 N.Park Rd., Hollywood, 954-232-7434

www.broward.org/parks

Nature’s Gifts

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 12

Make some nature-based arts and crafts to give to loved ones. $2/donation. 2-3:30pm, ANNE KOLB NATURE CENTER, 751 Sheridan St., Hollywood, 954-357-5161

Family Hayride and Campfire

FRIDAY & SATURDAY, DECEMBER 17 & 18

BROWARD COUNTY

Sunny Days

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 2

Free admission Starry Nights have transformed into Sunny Days with free museum exploration the first Thursday of every month. 11am-5pm, NSU ART MUSEUM FORT LAUDERDALE, One East Las Olas Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.nsuartmuseum.org

Stomp

THURSDAY-FRIDAY, DECEMBER 2-3

An inventive eight-member troupe uses unconventional percussion instruments including matchboxes, brooms, garbage cans and Zippo lighters, to fill the room with music. $35-$125. 8pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 www.browardcenter.org

An Evening with the Stars

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 3

Look through telescopes to see what’s visible in the South Florida sky. Free. 7-9pm, FERN FOREST NATURE CENTER, 201 Lyons Rd. S., Coconut Creek, 954-357-5198 www.broward.org/parks

Dance Fever through the Decades Party

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 4

Dance the night way at this high-energy decades dance party for the whole family. Free. 5-8pm, WESTON TOWN CENTER, Main Street & Bell Tower Lane, Weston, www.westonfl.org

Champions of Magic

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 4

Watch mystifying magic and illusion unfold before

your very eyes. $29.50-$69.50. 7:30pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 www.browardcenter.org

Run for Tomorrow

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 5

Start the day with an invigorating run/walk and finish up with family entertainment at the end of the race. Pre-registration required. Run starts at 6:20am; festival begins at 9am. VISTA PARK BOULEVARD, Weston, www.westonrotaryrun.com

Moonlight Movies in the Park

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 10

Bring lawn chairs or a blanket to an outdoor screening of Space Jam on a giant, inflatable screen. 7:30pm, WESTON REGIONAL PARK, 20200 Saddle Club Rd., Weston, 954-389-4321 www.westonfl.org

Music Under the Stars

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 11

Enjoy an evening of music and entertainment under the stars. 7pm, THE GREAT LAWN, corner of Atlantic and Pompano Beach Boulevards, www.pompanobeachfl.gov

ArtVentures Family Funday

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 11

Kids can make a masterpiece at the museum every second Saturday of the month. Themes vary. All ages. $8/person. 2-3pm, CORAL SPRINGS MUSEUM OF ART, 2855 Coral Springs Dr., Coral Springs, www.coralspringsmuseum.org

Sunrise Arts & Crafts Festival

Featuring Winter Wonderland

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 11

A community tradition of arts and crafts,

Enjoy a hayride around the park, followed by a campfire where you can roast marshmallows to make s’mores. $4. 6:30-9pm, Friday, TY PARK, 3300 N. Park Rd., Hollywood; Saturday, MARKHAM PARK, 16001 W. State Road 84, Sunrise, www.broward.org/parks

Jazz Concert

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 19

Experience a relaxing afternoon as you listen to Cachi and his Salsa Ensemble and watch a live painting by an artist. 3-5pm, CHARLES F. DODGE CITY CENTER, 601 City Center Way, www.ppines.com

Trail Stroll

MONDAY & WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 27 & 29

Put on your walking shoes and take a guided boardwalk stroll through the mangrove swamp. All ages. Free. 11-11:30am, ANNE KOLB NATURE CENTER, 751 Sheridan St., Hollywood, 954-357-5161

Cinderella

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 30

The State Ballet Theatre of Ukraine presents a ballet version of the beloved tale. 7pm, THE CENTER, 2855 Coral Springs Dr., 954-344-5990 www.thecentercs.com

Dora & Diego Let’s Explore THROUGH JANUARY 17

Discover what nature is like in different parts of the world through compass making, a scavenger hunt, wildlife identification and more. Included with paid museum admission. MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale, www.mods.org

MIAMI-DADE COUNTY

Food Truck Wednesdays

WEDNESDAYS, DECEMBER 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29

Bring the family, and your appetite, to this food truck event featuring a variety of dishes to choose from. 5-10pm, PELICAN HARBOR MARINA, 1275 NE 79 St., Miami, www.miamifoodtrucksevents.com

Art Basel

THURSDAY-SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2-4

Leading international galleries display multimedia work of modern and contemporary Artists. Advance ticket purchase required. MIAMI BEACH CONVENTION CENTER, 1901 Convention Center Dr., Miami Beach, www.artbasel.com

Twilight Fridays at the Museum

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 3

An evening of free museum admission, live music and more. 6-10pm, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, www.coralgablesmuseum.org

Club P.L.A.Y.

FRIDAYS, DECEMBER 3, 10 & 17

Drop the kiddoes off and have a night on the town as they participate in fun-filled activities including games, arts and crafts and socializing with friends. Pre-register online. 6-9pm, WAR MEMORIAL YOUTH CENTER, 405 University Dr., Coral Gables, 305-460-5600 www.coralgables.com

Gold Coast Free First Saturday

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 4

Enjoy free museum exploration the first Saturday of every month. GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM, 12450 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-253-0063 www.goldcoastrailroadmuseum.org

Night Hike & Campfire

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 8

Explore the woods and wildlife at night and them gather around a campfire. $15. 7-9:30pm, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, www.deeringestate.org

Parents Night Out

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 10

Kids can get crafty with an ornament making workshop while parents have a night on the town. Pizza and snacks included. Ages 6 and up. $45. 6:30-9:30pm, MIAMI SHORES COMMUNITY CENTER, 9617 Park Dr., Miami Shores, 305-758-8103 www.msvfl.gov

Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory

DECEMBER 10-19

Area Stage presents a theatrical production about a mysterious candy manufacturer and his unique factory. Showtimes vary. AREA STAGE COMPANY, 5701 Sunset Dr., Miami, www.areastage.org

Family Day on Aragon

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 11

Enjoy a day of family fun activities, arts and crafts, live performances and more every second Saturday of the month. 3-6pm, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, www.coralgablesmuseum.org

Free Family Day

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 11

Celebrate the holiday season with craft activities, music, stories and more. 10am-4pm, HISTORYMIAMI, 101 W. Flagler St.,Miami, 305-375-1492 www.historymiami.org

Mini-Me Science: Igloo Engineering

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 12

Have some frosty fun with the family learning about animals and their habitats through hands-on activities. 10:30-11:30am, PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, www.frostscience.org

Junior Orange Bowl Parade

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 12

A community tradition, this annual event celebrates local children, community and culture with a parade of floats, cars, bands and more. 5pm, heads south from ALHAMBRA CIRCLE and PONCE DE LEON BOULEVARd, ending at City Hall, www.jrorangebowl.org/parade

Sensory Saturdays

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 4

First Friday ArtWalk

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 3

Discover the area’s vibrant art scene and galleries as you stroll DOWNTOWN DELRAY BEACH on a self-guided tour. 6-9pm, various locations, www.downtowndelraybeach.com

Zoo Lights

SELECT NIGHTS DECEMBER 3-30

While the animals are sleeping, the zoo is illuminated with over a million eco-friendly lights and unique themed displays throughout the 23-acres. 6-9pm, PALM BEACH ZOO, 1301 Summit Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-547-9453 www.palmbeachzoo.org

Gables Bike Tour

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 19

Bring your bicycle and take a guided ride while learning about the history of the area. The excursion begins at the museum and the cost includes museum admission. $10/person. 10am-noon, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, 305-603-8067

www.coralgablesmuseum.org

Seraphic Fire Christmas

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 19

Seraphic Fire brings a unique sound to the stage with a performance of traditional English carols and Gregorian chants. $19-$54. 4pm, SOUTH MIAMIDADE CULTURAL ARTS CENTER, 10950 SW 211 St., Cutler Bay, 786-573-5300 www.smdcac.org

Cinderella

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 28

The State Ballet Theatre of Ukraine captivates audiences with a two-act performance based on the popular fairytale. $45-$65. 7pm, SOUTH MIAMI-DADE CULTURAL ARTS CENTER, 10950 SW 211 St., Cutler Bay, 786-573-5300

www.smdcac.org

Santa’s Enchanted Forest

THROUGH JANUARY 2

Lights, rides, food, games, entertainment and more make this holiday wonderland glow. HIALEAH PARK, 3100 E. Fourth Ave., Hialeah, 305-892-9997

www.santasenchantedforest.com

The NightGarden

THROUGH JANUARY 2

Experience the fantasy and wonderment of effects including wise talking trees, flying fairies, and holographic butterflies at this magical light spectacular. $19 and up. FAIRCHILD TROPICAL BOTANIC GARDEN, 10901 Old Cutler Rd., 305-667-1651 www.fairchildgarden.org

Salty Saves Christmas

THROUGH JANUARY 2

Join Salty the Sea Lion and his co-stars during this special holiday performance. MIAMI SEAQUARIUM, 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, Miami, 305-361-5705 www.miamiseaquarium.com

Mother Nature & Me

THURSDAYS

Families and children affected by autism spectrum disorder can explore the museum for an hour before the center opens to the public. Lighting and sound adaptions are made during this time. 9-10am, SOUTH FLORIDA SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 www.sfsciencecenter.org

Sandoway Discovery Series

THURSDAYS

Children ages 3-6 can participate in a handson activity with different topics ranging from bugs and pythons to plants and butterflies every Thursday. $8/class. 9:30am & 10:15am, SANDOWAY DISCOVERY CENTER, 142 S. Ocean Blvd., Delray Beach, 561-274-7263 www.sandoway.org

Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.

Little ones learn all about nature through crafts, garden exploration and story time. Ages 5 and under with caregiver. $10/child. 10am-noon, DELRAY BEACH CHILDREN’S GARDEN, 137 SW Second Ave., Delray Beach, www.delraybeachchildrensgarden.org

PALM BEACH COUNTY

Angels Do Exist

HOW A DEVILISH DAY TURNED HEAVENLY

BY PAM MOORE

Every time I take my kids grocery shopping, I return with a week’s worth of food and a lifetime’s worth of regret. Every time, I search my soul for an answer to the question: Why don’t I have groceries delivered?

Recently, I took the kids shopping after picking up my 3-year-old from preschool. I had 80 minutes before we had to be home for lunch. In my mind, it seemed totally reasonable.

I arrived at preschool pick-up a couple of minutes early. When my daughter saw me, she pronounced, “I wasn’t expecting you.” We were off to a great start.

After a drama-filled car ride, we finally pulled up to the store and the place was jamming. We did not have time to search for parking.

After several loops around the lot, I slid into a spot, unbuckled the girls, and strode across the pavement as quickly as one can while carrying a 17-month-old and holding a 3-year-old’s hand.

By the time we entered the supermarket, my arm burned under the baby’s weight. I set her down in search of a dry cart on a rainy day, but all they had were the handheld kind that hold just a few Lean Cuisines and no people. To my horror, I turned around to find the baby toddling toward a towering drink display. I collected her, instructed my 3-year-old not to move, dashed back outside, grabbed a drenched racecar cart, and with all the force I could muster, pushed it up the ramp with one hand.

I did not have time for a wet racecar cart.

Inside the store, I set the baby down, told my 3-year-old to hold her hand, and tore off in search of a towel. I grabbed a box of tissues from the service desk and sprinted back in time to prevent a Gatorade avalanche.

And then, an angel approached.

She had long, curly, black hair, glasses, and a loaf of bread. When she spoke, harp music drowned out the sound of Taylor Swift emanating from the speakers.

“Can I help you?” she asked.

I could have wept in gratitude.

“Um, yes...”

“What can I do?” she asked, concern in her eyes.

“I’m not sure. I’m… overwhelmed.”

Just then, the service desk guy whose Kleenex I’d stolen appeared with a legit roll of paper towels. He ripped off a bunch and handed them to Angel Woman. I stood there like an idiot, holding the baby and my toddler’s hand while they wiped the cart. Sheepishly, I told the clerk I’d created

a mess and pointed at the puddle while Angel Woman crooned to my kids.

“You are being so patient. You are both waiting so nicely. I’m a mommy, so I know how hard it can be for kids to be patient,” she said soothingly.

We made eye contact and exchanged a smile. She didn’t have to mention she was a mom. I knew the moment I saw her, that she really saw me. She didn’t look at me as a nuisance taking up the whole entryway and a couple of unsupervised rug rats. She saw a tired mom with two kids, a wet cart, an empty fridge, and 45 precious minutes to get through the store.

Her small act of kindness meant so much. When I asked myself again, why I didn’t buy my groceries online, it hit me. If I hadn’t come to the supermarket, I wouldn’t have been reminded that angels exist.

Wherever you are, thank you, Mama.

Pam Moore helps women push through fear to become their best selves, even in the grocery store.

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