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EDITOR’S NOTE
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If your kids need a digital detox, here are some ideas for replacing screen time with green time.
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CALENDAR OF EVENTS
Fun and noteworthy things to see and do throughout South Florida.
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WORDS OF WISDOM
Building the groundwork for a long-lasting relationship with your kids — one latte at a time.
16 MOTHER’S DAY CELEBRATIONS
Treat Mom to more than breakfast in bed and enjoy a local Mother’s Day event with the whole family.
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TRYING TIMES A heartwarming glimpse at one woman’s struggle with infertility and her path to parenthood.
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We’ve gathered numerous resources to help parents navigate pregnancy and parenthood.
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It seems fitting that my first issue as the new editor of South Florida Family Life features our annual maternity guide; let’s start at the beginning. Of course, just like raising a child, it takes a village to create a magazine, and I am grateful and excited to join such a professional and experienced staff with a loyal and growing audience and a fantastic community of parents.
While working on this issue, I remembered my maternity journey. It took me a few years to get pregnant, and I recall those days of uncertainty with glaring vividness. Living day to day, not knowing if I would ever have kids, was a very tough time for me.
Spoiler alert: the kids finally arrived and in quick succession.
I remember the day I learned I was pregnant. It was just a regular workday. I woke up uncharacteristically early — it was still dark outside. At some point, I realized there was the slightest possibility I may be pregnant. But I had a crazy busy day at work ahead of me. So, I decided to wait to take a pregnancy test. This way, I wouldn’t be in a foul mood if the results were negative. I needed to be on my game.
But curiosity got the best of me. I tiptoed into our guest bathroom and took the test. Positive.
I practically galloped into the bedroom to wake my husband, Richard.
Learning you are pregnant comes with a crazy rush of emotions. I felt everything from euphoric joy to crippling anxiety, often with seconds between the two.
“What do I know about raising a child — let alone growing one inside of me?” I asked myself in panic quite a few times.
My son is now a recent college graduate, and my daughter is a college junior studying mathematics. So now I can say, “I know a few things about raising children.” Although, I still have plenty of head-scratching days.
Parents must have the support they need for one of life’s most joyous yet challenging journeys. So I am particularly proud of all the resources our team has compiled into this issue so expectant parents can begin their adventure on the best foundation possible.
SUSAN ROSSER Executive Editor
Ashowcase of art, science, innovation and inspiration, Sean Kenney’s award-winning exhibit, Nature POP! features 44 highly-stylized sculptures made of more than 800,000 Lego bricks.
Created around themes of preservation and conservation, Kenney’s latest exhibit highlights nature and its beauty through colorful displays intended to pop in contrast to their natural, earth-tone surroundings. Inspired by the pop art movement, the exhibit draws from a belief that everything is interconnected, including nature. The vibrant pieces will add to the atmosphere of Flamingo Gardens’ grounds and gardens from May 27 through September 4.
The exhibit opens this month with a special Memorial Day weekend event. Additional activities that weekend will include entertainment, kids’ corner projects and themed activities on May 27, 28 and 29. Other special event weekends scheduled throughout the summer include the Featured Creatures Weekend on June 17 and 18, Nature POP! Art Weekend on July 15 and 16, Back 2 School Weekend on August 12 and 13, and Labor Day Weekend on September 2, 3 and 4.
Sculptures featured in Nature POP! will include a polar bear, lion, dog, snow leopard, rabbits, dragonflies and many more. Flamingo Gardens also features a narrated tram tour, the Wray Home Museum, a Wildlife Encounter Show, Butterfly Conservatory, Arboretum, gallery exhibits and more. The presence of the exhibit is designed to engage young
of art, preservation and conservation.
In addition to Nature POP!, there are several hands-on Lego-themed events, activities and programs throughout South Florida to foster your child’s interest. Your local library is a good place to start the search. Call or go online to see what building sessions or Lego clubs your branch may offer. There’s also Bricks 4 Kidz, a program that promotes play while sparking an interest in science, technology, engineering and math. First Lego League is another program that guides youth through STEM learning and exploration. And, of course, there is Legoland, our not-so-distant neighbor to the north — a must-see attraction for any Lego lover.
Nature POP! will be on display daily from 9:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. May 27 through September 4 at Flamingo Gardens, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd. in Davie. The exhibit is included with paid admission of $21.95 for ages 12 and older, and $15.95 for ages 3-11. Children 2 and younger are admitted free.
For more information, call 954-473-2955 or visit www.flamingogardens.org.
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Celebrate community and the arts by attending one — or all — of these fun-filled affairs with the family.
MIAMI-DADE COUNTY
All Kids Included Family Arts Festival
This free, multidisciplinary community arts festival – for children with and without disabilities – features a student art competition, live performances, community resources, an art show and more. The event offers accommodations such as ASL interpretation, assistive listening, noise-cancelling headsets, Braille and sensory-inclusive programs among others. All Kids Included takes place from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. on Saturday, May 6 at the DENNIS C. MOSS CULTURAL ARTS CENTER, 10950 SW 211 St., Miami. For information, visit www.mosscenter.org.
BROWARD COUNTY
Spring Into Art & Music
Enjoy this fun-filled nighttime children’s art and music show featuring kids’ art displays, musical performances, puppies and an interactive dance show. The free event takes place from 7 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, May 11 at CHARLES F. DODGE CITY CENTER, 601 City Center Way in Pembroke Pines. For information, call 954-392-2122 or visit www.ppines.com.
PALM BEACH COUNTY
Downtown Delray Beach Memorial Day
Weekend Craft Festival
You’ll never run out of things to see and do as you stroll this fair with mixed media art, crafts and handmade goods, including paintings, jewelry, glasswork and pottery. There’s also a Green Market with everything from gourmet sauces to handmade soap. The 25th annual event takes place from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday and Sunday, May 27 and 28 at the DELRAY BEACH TENNIS CENTER at 201 W. Atlantic Ave. in Delray Beach. Admission is free. For information, visit www.artfestival.com.
Mother’s Day Bouquet
Wednesday, May 3
Bring along a package of Lindt truffles to create an adorable bouquet of truffle flowers. 5-5:45pm, Library, 16835 Sheridan St., Davie, www.broward.org/library
Mother’s Day Celebration
Saturday, May 6
Kids can celebrate Mom and make her feel special by creating a unique, artistic gift. 1:30-2:30pm, Miramar Branch Library, 2050 Civic Center Place www.broward.org/library
Mother’s Day Card Craft
Wednesday, May 10
Enjoy time together with stories, songs, crafts and other fun activities. Pre-register online. 6:30-7pm, Lauderhill Central Park Library, 3810 NW 11 Place, Lauderhill, www.broward.org/library
DIY Mother’s Day Floral Arrangement
Wednesday, May 10
Kids can create a fresh floral arrangement to give to mom or someone special. Pre-registration required. Ages 8 and up. 5:30-6:30pm, Glades Branch Library 166 St., Miami, www.mdpls.org
Spend some special time together by making handmade jewelry. 3-4pm, , 2710 W. Davie Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.broward.org/library
Don’t be late for this very important date that includes a tea party with an Alice in Wonderland theme. Pre-registration required. Ages kindergarten and up. $30 for mom and , 9001 SW 51 St., Cooper City, 954-434-4300 www.coopercity.gov
Mother’s Day Tea Party
Saturday, May 13
Enjoy family time together with a tea party, craft activity and music. Supplies provided.
Ages 6-12. Coconut Grove Branch Library, 2875 McFarlane Rd., Miami, www.mdpls.org
Mother’s Day at Deering
Pack a lunch and bring the family for a picnic with a beautiful backdrop or take a Mother’s Day Bay Cruise departing from the Deering Estate grounds. $7-$50. 10am-4pm, Deering , 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org
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Sunday,
BY SANDRA GORDON
With all 65 of our guests gathered on the lawn of the Victorian mansion where my new husband, Ron, and I had just gotten married inside, the cork flew off the Champagne and filled flutes were passed. A hush fell over the crowd.
“Congratulations Sandy and Ron,” the best man began. “May your lives be long, prosperous and filled with babies!” Clink. Clink. Everyone raised a glass and cheered. For this momentous event, Ron had shaved his whitish beard, the only solid evidence of his edge in the age game. “I don’t want to look so old,” he had said. He was 43. I was 31, an obvious “breeder chic.”
Don’t get me wrong. It was love. Still, having babies — and my comparable youthfulness to pull it off — was very much a part of the deal. For some mysterious innate reason, we both looked forward to them sooner than later — or even just one. And our guests had us pegged. Forget about the wedding. Get “busy” you guys, everyone seemed to be saying by their enthusiastic
response, suppressed grins and elbow jabs.
Fast forward a year and a half. We’re jinxed. Ron and I are honestly trying everything — going on vacation, timing intercourse with ovulation predictor kits and a stopwatch (okay, kidding), trying to relax, and pretending we weren’t trying. But it was evident. Something like 10 percent of all couples around the globe, were infertile (the inability to conceive after one year of trying).
Soon enough, I find myself a regular at the infertility specialist, along with the dozens of others I meet along the way who thumb through non-parenting magazines in the reception area. A common bond: We’re all experts at giving blood. And we all know which is our “good” arm.
The stories I hear. There’s Kate who has been trying for five years and is on her third attempt at in vitro fertilization. Another, Maria, has a similar record and says she bursts into tears when she sees newborns in restaurants. I’m a newcomer, having just endured one low-tech assisted reproductive procedure, but I can still relate. The name of the game is hyping up your hormones, then tracking your menstrual cycle like the stock market with blood and ultrasound tests. My goal is to nab the whereabouts of that all-elusive egg.
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For two weeks, I’m lubed up with HCG and Clomid, infertility wonder drugs, and though I’m glad for the technology, I’m resentful. “I just don’t feel right about this,” I said to Ron. Deep down, I just know we can do it on our own. But of course, isn’t that what every woman who is trying to get pregnant thinks in the beginning? Meanwhile, our friends begin leaving us in the dust. There is Anna and David, for instance, a couple so perfect looking that their wedding photo was featured in a local advertisement.
“We’re going to start trying,” Anna confides to me one evening at a neighborhood party. “What about you?” “We’ve been trying for a year and a half,” I reveal.
Two months later, when all four of us are out to dinner, Anna gets quiet. “We have some news. I’m pregnant.” My stomach lurches. After only two months? Suddenly, I can’t see my salad. It’s the first time I nearly come to tears because I had been trying so hard to be optimistic. Luckily, I pull myself together quickly. The conversation quickly turns to sonograms and baby heartbeats and not being able to drink.
Out of spite, I signal the waiter and order another glass of chardonnay just because I can. Our attempt at intrauterine insemination (IUI) didn’t work.
Later, as the guys talk, Anna turns to me. “It’s a relief to know you can,” she says, as in conceive. I can’t believe she’s actually saying that — to me. “It must be,” I say, just to be nice.
It’s not like I wanted a child so badly that I had to have one, like a drink of water on a scorching day. It’s just that being pregnant and raising a child is a life experience I would rather not pass up. After a while, when you don’t get pregnant like you thought you would, you start to get a little crazy. Strollers in shopping malls pop out at you, especially those with kids who match your or your husband’s hair color. You feel like clobbering unknowing coworkers who’ve calculated how long you’ve been married and say, “So, do you guys want kids?”
Granted, not getting pregnant on schedule has its moments. “Did you ever think we’d be infertile?” I say to Ron one day as we’re driving home from the health club in a haze of endorphins. “We’re not infertile,” he replies with characteristic optimism. “We’re… fertilely challenged.”
During this time, a realization comes to
light. I’ve never had I child, so I really don’t know what I’m wishing for. Will I be patient and selfless like my mother? Or will I be short-tempered and bothered by the minutia of it all, like my father? I can’t really even imagine what our child would look like. Ron is a redhead and I’m blonde. Wouldn’t that make our baby… orange?
And after listening to friends who have kids, I’ve even had second thoughts. “Had I known it was going to be this hard, I wouldn’t have become a parent,” says a friend from college, the weary stay-at-home dad of a charming six-year-old girl.
But every so often, I get a hint of the good stuff. One morning during the holidays a few months later, for instance, when I pick up my mother and grandmother at the bed and breakfast they’re staying at while they’re in town, the proprietor’s 4-year-old granddaughter is there, in the main living room, opening presents. We all sit down for a minute. “Look Ruby,” the little girl says to my grandmother. “A tea set.” Making her way through a mound of wrapping paper, the little girl carries the porcelain pot and teacup over to Gram, who is sitting on the sofa.
“Oh!” Gram says, throwing her hands back in exaggerated delight, just like she did when I was little. “How pretty!” My mother, grandmother and I watch the little girl play with the tea set, mesmerized. Then, I remember. This is not my child. We don’t even know these people. My mother looks at me and shifts in her seat. The spell is broken. Time to go.
The following September, though, after nearly three years, we finally get lucky. Two months after a round of infertility surgery on both our parts to fix some “plumbing” issues, Ron and I try on our own and get two pink lines on the at-home pregnancy test. At the ripe age of 35, I’m finally going to be a mom. “So that’s how it works,” I jokingly tell a friend.
Soon, my elastic pants are tight and my boobs are heavy as grapefruits. Who knew pregnancy could feel this good? After nine and a half months, Rebecca is born by C-section, weighing in at nearly 9 pounds with a full head of dark hair (surprise!) and long eyelashes. “She’s pretty,” Ron says, sniffling in the OR. I’m in disbelief.
What can you say about finally giving birth after not knowing if pregnancy is even possible? Nothing short of: “This is the best day of my life.” Suffice it to say, Rebecca was much more than we had ever bargained for and definitely worth the wait.
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Baptist Hospital
8900 N. Kendall Dr., Miami 786-596-1960 www.baptisthealth.net
The Family Birth Place at Baptist Hospital was created with parents in mind with a warm and comfortable environment and specially designed birthing suites. The latest technology is readily available for mothers and newborns, and neonatologists are available 24 hours a day for babies who need extra attention. Programs for expectant parents include labor and delivery, breastfeeding and newborn care.
Broward Health Coral Springs
3000 Coral Hills Dr., Coral Springs
954-344-BABY (2229)
www.browardhealth.org/maternityplace
The Maternity Place at Broward Health Coral Springs provides top-notch care while keeping families’ privacy and comfort in mind. Special programs and services include 24-hour onsite anesthesia and OB Hospitalist, all private postpartum rooms, family-centered couplet care, childbirth classes, lactation support and more. The Level II Neonatal Unit is staffed on a 24-hour basis with a highly skilled medical team to care for any baby needing special attention.
Broward Health Medical Center
1600 S. Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale 954-355-4400
www.browardhealth.org/maternityplace
The Maternity Place at Broward Health Medical Center provides exceptional maternity care in routine and high-risk pregnancies. In-house specialists include anesthesiologist, neonatologist, obstetrician and certified nurse midwife around-the-clock. The 24-hour, state-designated Level III
Neonatal Unit is able to support the tiniest and most fragile of babies. Birthing classes and parent support groups are available.
Homestead Hospital
975 Baptist Way, Homestead
786-243-8000 www.baptisthealth.net
Homestead Hospital offers the comforts of home with the safety and security of a modern, technologically advanced hospital unit. Nurses are experienced in labor and delivery, newborn nursery and postpartum care. Neonatologists are available 24 hours a day for babies who require special, intensive medical care, and the hospital has a specialized OB emergency department.
Jackson Health System
• Jackson Memorial Hospital, 1611 NW 12 Ave., Miami, 305-585-1111
• Jackson North Medical Center, 160 NW 170 St., North Miami Beach, 305-651-1100
• Jackson South Medical Center, 9380 SW 150 St., Miami, 305-256-2150 www.jacksonhealth.org
Jackson Health is the only academic medical center in South Florida providing expert high-risk pregnancy care and high-risk neonatal care under the same roof. A variety of birthing options are available, and specialists in maternal-fetal medicine, neonatal care and critical care are always on hand if needed.
Kendall Regional Medical Center
11750 SW 40 St., Miami 305-223-3000 www.kendallmed.com
Kendall Regional strives to provide individualized, quality maternity and newborn care with compassion and respect in a warm environment. Labor and delivery rooms offer a relaxing setting with state-ofthe-art technology. The secured maternity
unit features 12 labor and delivery rooms, operating suites and recovery rooms nearby, 23 private postpartum rooms, a nursery, Level II and Level III Neonatal Intensive Care Units. Memorial Hospital Miramar 1901 SW 172 Ave., Miramar 954-538-5180 www.memorialmiramar.com
Professionals at Memorial Hospital Miramar help you through every stage of your childbirth journey — coaching and providing you with the knowledge and support to achieve a safe and treasured experience. The hospital features a NICU level III, LDR suites and family-centered care. Sign up for baby care, breastfeeding classes, infant massage, hypno-birthing and more.
Memorial Hospital West 703 N. Flamingo Rd., Pembroke Pines 954-844-7110 www.memorialwest.com
The nursing staff consistently ranks high with parents for compassion and professionalism at Memorial Hospital West’s Family Birthplace. Amenities include postpartum suites with private bathrooms, a gourmet meal the night before discharge and a take-home meal for the family for the first night. A level III NICU is equipped with the latest high-tech equipment and a highly trained staff. Childbirth and breastfeeding classes are offered as well as a variety of workshops.
Memorial Regional Hospital
3501 Johnson St., Hollywood 954-265-4484 www.memorialregional.com
The Dr. Henry D. Perry Family Birthplace at Memorial Regional strives to provide mom with well-deserved privacy and optimal rest with spacious suites furnished with a sleeper sofa and dinette. High-risk obstetrical care is offered, and level IV NICU rooms are available. Special emphasis is given for preparation and
To help parents navigate the journey of pregnancy and parenthood, we’ve rounded up a sampling of some of South Florida’s abundant resources.
offer parents information about childbirth and parenting.
West Boca Medical Center
21644 State Road 7, Boca Raton
561-488-8000 www.westbocamedctr.com
West Boca Medical Center’s labor and delivery unit features a team of highly-trained obstetrics-gynecologists, maternal-fetal medicine specialists, nurses and nurse practitioners, lactation counselors, social workers and more. West Boca Medical Center has an on-site level III NICU, and the hospital offers lactation consult and support and a maternity education series taught by nurses, and postpartum support.
West Kendall Baptist Hospital
9555 SW 162 Ave., Miami
786-467-2000 www.baptisthealth.net
Equipped with modern technology and a skilled staff, this maternity department focuses on a patient- and family-centered care philosophy. Programs for new and experienced parents include childbirth preparation, breast feeding, newborn parenting, epidural anesthesia, Cesarean births and infant CPR.
A Child is Waiting
www.davethomasfoundation.org
This free resource takes you through the typical steps to adopt, from thinking about which type of adoption is right for you to celebrating adoption day.
Childnet
www.childnet.us
954-414-6000
Florida Department of Children and Families
www.myflfamilies.com
850-487-1111
Florida’s Adoption Information Center
www.adoptflorida.com
800-96-ADOPT
Forever Family
www.foreverfamily.org
1-888-365-FAMILY
Jewish Adoptions and Foster Care Options
www.jafco.org
954-749-7230
Amazing Births & Beyond
17184 W. Dixie Highway, North Miami Beach
786-955-6560
www.amazingbirthsandbeyond.com
Expecting moms can learn the techniques of HypnoBirthing, a method that teaches relaxed, natural childbirth education enhanced by self-hypnosis, through a series of classes. Additional services include doulas, baby care, breastfeeding support, massage therapy, chiropractic care and more.
Hollywood Birth Center
2316 Hollywood Blvd., Hollywood
954-925-4499 www.hollywoodbirthcenter.com
A home-like maternity care unit designed to help families, including siblings, become involved in the events of pregnancy and childbirth in a safe personalized setting. Natural childbirth with the support you need.
Most hospitals offer breastfeeding classes, lactation specialists and support groups. In addition, check out these resources. Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Coalition of Broward County 954-765-0550
www.hmhbbroward.org
This community organization is working to improve access to prenatal care, education, advocacy and public awareness for all families in Broward County.
La Leche League www.llli.org
Mother-to-mother support, encouragement, information and education.
After Hours Pediatric Urgent Care www.afterhourspediatrics.com
• 5067 N. Dixie Highway, Oakland Park, 954267-1621
• 6250 Lantana Rd., Lake Worth, 561-963-4874
Baptist Health Urgent Care
www.baptisthealthbroward.com
Multiple locations in Broward, Palm Beach and Miami-Dade Counties.
Broward Health Coral Springs
3000 Coral Hills Dr., Coral Springs 954-344-3000 www.browardhealth.org
Broward Health Weston Urgent Care
2300 N. Commerce Parkway, Weston 954-217-5700 www.browardhealth.org
HCA Florida Northwest Hospital 2801 N. State Road 7, Margate 954-974-0400
www.hcafloridahealthcare.com
HCA Florida University Hospital 3476 S. University Dr., Davie 954-475-4400 www.hcafloridahealthcare.com
Holtz Children’s Hospital 1611 NW 12 Ave., Miami 305-585-5437 www.jacksonhealth.org
Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital
1005 Joe DiMaggio Dr., Hollywood 954-265-5324 www.jdch.com
Memorial Hospital Miramar
1901 SW 172 Ave., Miramar 954-538-5000 www.memorialmiramar.com
Nicklaus Children’s Hospital
Main Hospital Campus: 3100 SW 62 Ave., Miami Miramar Outpatient Center: 12246 Miramar Parkway, Miramar www.nicklauschildrens.org
Pediatric Associates
www.pediatricassociates.com
Multiple locations throughout Broward and Miami-Dade Counties.
Salah Foundation Children’s Hospital Broward Health
1600 S. Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale 954-355-4400 www.browardhealth.org
211 First Call for Help
dial 2-1-1- or 954-537-0211
www.211-broward.org
By simply dialing 211, residents can access Broward County’s nationally accredited comprehensive helpline for information and referrals to all kinds of support, health and human services. Free, confidential, and available for assistance 24 hours.
Women in Distress
954-761-1133 www.womenindistress.org
Provides victims of domestic violence with crisis intervention, advocacy, support and shelter.
Resolve
www.resolve.org
A national nonprofit support group to assist couples dealing with infertility issues.
Florida KidCare
888-540-5437 www.floridakidcare.org
Free or low-cost health insurance for children, sponsored by the state of Florida.
MOMS Clubs
www.momsclub.org
Connect with other moms in your neighborhood for social gatherings, playdates and more. Chapters exist in many communities or get support to start your own club.
Mothers of Preschoolers
www.mops.org
Meet other like-minded moms through this international support network of Christian women with preschool children. Groups meet regularly at churches in Broward and Miami-Dade Counties.
South Florida Mothers of Multiples
www.southfloridamoms.org
Provides understanding, guidance, and education to moms raising multiple birth children.
Supermoms
www.thesupermoms.org
Local group of members who chat online and gather in real life, either via planned playdates, parties or other events.
MOMS
Maternal Stress)
954-765-0550 www.hmhbbroward.org
Program of the Healthy Mothers, Healthy
Babies Coalition provides counseling and services to women suffering from maternal depression through group classes and in-home visits, both pre- and post-natal. Counselors available 24/7.
Postpartum Support International
800-944-4773 www.postpartum.net
Postpartum Support Online
www.ppdsupportpage.com
Child Find
754-321-7200 www.browardschools.com
Child Find is a public program that works to ensure that all children who need special education and related services receive a free appropriate education. Serves as entry point for services from birth to age 5.
Health Care Clinics of Nova Southeastern University
3301 College Ave., Fort Lauderdale 954-262-4100 www.nova.edu/healthcare
NSU offers a range of clinic operations with services ranging from medical care, psychological services, speech and communications therapy, hearing and balance center, and more.
Nicklaus Children’s Hospital
Dan Marino Outpatient Center
2900 S. Commerce Parkway, Weston 954-385-6200 www.nicklauschildrens.org
Not-for-profit center offers comprehensive evaluation and treatment of children with special needs.
Children’s Services Council
954-377-1000 www.cscbroward.org
Agency created by voters to provide leadership, coordination and funding for children’s services. See website for list of funded programs.
Family Central
819 NE 26 St., Fort Lauderdale 10800 Biscayne Blvd., North Miami www.familycentral.org
Not-for-profit agency offers childcare assistance, counseling, education, family therapy and more.
Florida Healthy Start
Healthy Start Coalition of Miami-Dade
7205 NW 19 St., Miami 305-541-0210 www.hscmd.org
Serves as part of a statewide network of community-based organizations to reduce Florida’s high infant mortality and improve the lives of pregnant women and their families.
Healthy Mothers/ Healthy Babies Coalition
954-765-0550 www.hmhbbroward.org
Community organization aimed at reducing infant mortality through education on maternal health, father involvement, safe sleeping environments and breastfeeding. HMHB is dedicated to providing resources and education to pregnant women, new parents and families.
These pork tacos are more of a Sunday project than a quick weeknight dinner — but worth the extra effort. And who doesn't love a taco? Even the hum-drum ground beef variety flavored with a packet of ready-made seasoning is convenient and tasty. But if you want to up your taco game, this pork carnitas version is packed with complex flavors. The pork is tender, smokey and spicey. The mayo provides unctuousness, and the orange salsa brightens the whole shebang. Don't skip the radishes because that peppery crunch is essential.
Ingredients: (serves 6)
FOR THE PORK
3 pounds pork shoulder, cut into 2-inch cubes
5 garlic cloves
1 poblano pepper
1 orange, juice and zest
3 chipotle peppers in adobe sauce
1/2 white onion, roughly chopped
6 tablespoons olive oil, divided
2 tablespoons honey
1 tablespoon cider vinegar
2 teaspoons dried oregano
Kosher salt
Ground pepper (freshly ground)
4 cups chicken stock
2 bay leaves
1 cinnamon stick
FOR THE ORANGE SALSA
3 oranges, supremed and chopped – (see note)
1 white onion, chopped
Preparation:
• Preheat oven to 350°.
1 poblano or jalapeño, chopped
1 big handful of fresh cilantro, chopped
1 garlic clove, grated
Kosher salt to taste
FOR THE SPICY THYME MAYO
1 cup store-bought mayonnaise, such as Hellman's or Duke's
1 chipotle pepper, chopped
2 teaspoons fresh thyme, chopped
1 garlic clove, grated
1 teaspoon honey (or more)
Kosher salt
Ground pepper (freshly ground)
1 orange, zested (use the zest of one orange used for the salsa)
FOR SERVING
Sliced radishes
Cojita cheese, crumbled
Lime wedges
Soft corn tortillas, warmed in a pan
• Place the garlic cloves and the poblano pepper in a bowl, cover with water, and microwave for 2 minutes until soft. Peel the garlic, remove the seeds from the poblano and place both in a blender.
• Add the onion, 2 tablespoons of olive oil, honey, cider vinegar, orange juice and zest, oregano, chipotle peppers, 1 teaspoon of salt and black pepper to taste to the blender. Blend until smooth. Set aside.
• Dry the meat with paper towels and season with salt and pepper. Cover the bottom of a Dutch oven with olive oil. Cooking the pork in batches, add the pork in one layer and brown on all sides. Remove to a plate. Repeat with remaining pork and set aside.
• Pour the blended mixture into the Dutch oven and cook for a few minutes. Add the stock, bay leaves, and cinnamon stick and reduce just a bit. Add the meat, cover, and cook in the oven for about 2-3 hours until tender.
• To make the orange salsa, place the chopped oranges, onion, poblano or jalapeño, cilantro, garlic and salt in a medium bowl. Stir to combine.
• To make the mayo, place the mayo, chipotle pepper, thyme, orange zest, garlic, honey, salt and pepper in a bowl. Whisk together with joy.
• To assemble a taco, spread a little of the mayo on a warm corn tortilla. Add a few spoonfuls of the pork, and top with the orange salsa, radishes and cheese. Slurp away.
Note: To supreme an orange, cut away all the peel and pith. Hold the peeled orange over a bowl, and remove each section with a sharp paring knife, leaving the membrane behind. Place the sections in the bowl and any juice you can squeeze out of the orange. (Reserve a little of the juice to add to the mayo.)
Kids are spending an exorbitant amount of time glued to their electronics these days. The latest survey by Common Sense Media found that American teenagers ages 13 to 18 spend an average of six and a half hours of screen time per day on social media and other activities like video games. Screen time continues to increase as kids are online more during the school day and for socializing with their friends. With this boost in screen use, we have also seen a rise in mental health concerns with tweens and teens. The increase in young girls’ digital technology use, for example, is often linked to the rise in depression and suicide since 2012 in the U.S.
One way to balance out all this screen time is to get outside and engage with nature, which has been shown through scientific research to have an abundance of health benefits. All of us need healthy breaks away from screens throughout the day to recharge and get back to a balanced state, both mentally and physically. Spending some time outside will help kids relax and then come back energized and inspired as they continue with their day. If they do not get these necessary nature breaks in between
school, homework and their other commitments, they could burn out before they even have the chance to receive their high school diploma.
Every year, the organization Fairplay organizes Screen-Free Week to shine a light on the importance of taking breaks from screens. Screen-Free Week is an annual invitation to play, explore and rediscover the joys of life beyond ad-supported screens. During the first week of May, thousands of families, schools, and communities around the world will put down their entertainment screens for seven days of fun, connection and discovery.
Even though this week is about turning off screens, Screen-Free Week is not just about going without technology. As we all know, much of our lives these days depend on screens: paying bills, ordering food, filling out forms before visiting the doctor, keeping up with family and friends, communicating with our children’s school, our own work, our kids’ schoolwork, and more.
Instead, let’s spend time during Screen-Free Week recognizing how we can start building a nature habit to turn some screen time into more green time. An hour once dedicated to YouTube becomes
an hour spent outside on a family bike ride; ten minutes scrolling on social media turns into ten minutes taking care of a pet or plant; a movie on a rainy afternoon is replaced by time spent reading and learning about nature.
You can celebrate Screen-Free Week at home, in your school, in your community or anywhere — just put down those entertainment screens and choose an activity that helps you connect to nature because, as we discuss all the time here, it will help you and your loved ones feel happier and calmer.
Sandi Schwartz is an award-winning author who has written extensively about parenting, wellness and environmental issues.
There are many ways to swap screen time for green time. The best way to get started is by turning off technology and heading outside. Here are some other ideas.
• Instead of eating dinner in front of the television, take your meal out back or on your balcony.
• Instead of planning birthday parties where kids watch a movie or play video games, suggest getting a group together for a barbeque, swimming, outdoor sports game, or an exciting adventure like camping, boating, kayaking, river rafting, mountain biking or doing a ropes course.
• Instead of your kids being tucked away in their rooms on their computer doing homework, suggest they head outside to get some of their work done while enjoying the fresh air. Maybe they even want to draft an essay the old-fashioned way with a pencil and paper to get a much-needed screen break.
• Instead of your kids making TikTok videos all day, get their creative juices flowing outside by doing activities like nature photography, drawing or painting, journaling, writing, and even listening to music while relaxing in the backyard.
• Instead of hosting family holiday dinners at your dining room table, set up your gathering outdoors.
FINDING THE PERFECT CAMP PROGAM CAN TAKE WORK, BUT IT’S A WORTHWHILE INVESTMENT OF TIME. THE PAYOFF? SUMMER FUN YOUR CHILD WON’T FORGET.
Children’s Summer Dance
Inspire a love of creative movement and dance at the renowned Miami City Ballet School.
Children ages 3 – 8 will explore the world of dance at MCB’s sunny and cheerful Miami Beach studios, all led by a dedicated and nurturing faculty.
Jul 5 - 29, 2023
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Explore-Discover-Enrich
Camp Embark offers a unique, fun, and memorable experience for kids 5 – 14 years old. We focus on developing the areas that will have the greatest impact in all possible futures through entrepreneurial values. Come join our amazing CE Family!
• Art Lab • Archery • Entrepreneurship
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• Water Activities
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Hours: 9 AM – 4:30 PM
extended care: 7 AM – 6:30 PM
Price: $229 per week
Country Club Ranches of Miramar, 4700 Indian Trail, Miramar, Florida 33027 contact us: 954-654-4091
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An Academy specializing in students with autism & related developmental disabilities.
Comprehensive and Individual Teaching Programs focused on:
• Functional Skills
• Academics
• Language Acquisition
• Social/Relationship Skills
• Accepting SUFS-UA
formerly Gardiner Scholarships
• Accept most insurances
DiverseAbilities
(954) 401-2024
www.teachdiverseabilities.com
11850 SR 84, Suite A10 Davie, FL 33325
Our Mission is to help each individual with Special needs to learn the skills to be happy, productive, successful, and as independent as possible.
Camp
For ages 6-15
June 12 - August 18, 2023
954-815-9054
Markham Park State Rd.84 & Weston Rd. Sunrise www.campchameleon.com
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• Full Immersion German Preschool Program Ages 1-5
• After Care • Free VPK Program
• German Language Classes for Native Speakers
• German as a Foreign Language Class for Children and Adults
• Teaching Principles of Learning With Your Head, Heart and Hand
(Hands on Activities; music, art, storytime, puppet shows and outdoor activities)
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May 2023 | SOUTH FLORIDA FAMILY LIFE 35 SUMMER CAMP SHOWCASE
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of the month. This month’s theme is Family Movie & Popcorn. Pre-registration required. Free. 6:15-8:15pm, WINDERMERE COMMUNITY CENTER, 1818 NW 54 Terrace, Lauderhill, www.lauderhill-fl.gov
Extraordinary
FRIDAY, MAY 19
The Girl Choir of South Florida, with singers ages 6-18, presents a family-friendly concert that explores life’s wonders. $20-$30.
7:30pm, MINIACI PERFORMING ARTS CENTER, 3100 Ray Ferrero Jr. Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.miniacipac.com
Canoe Race and City Birthday Celebration
SATURDAY, MAY 20
This fun-filled day begins with a canoe race at 10am followed by the city’s anniversary celebration with a barbecue, DJ and trophies for winners of the race. Starts at COLOHATCHEE BOAT RAMP and ends at Richardson Historic Park, Wilton Manors. www.wiltonmanors.com
THURSDAY, MAY 4
Participate in free museum exploration the first Thursday of every month. 11am-7pm, NSU ART MUSEUM FORT LAUDERDALE, One East Las Olas Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.nsuartmuseum.org
FRIDAY, MAY 5
Join a naturalist to explore the nature trails by the light of the full moon. $5/person. 8-9pm, LONG KEY NATURAL AREA, 3501 SW 130 Ave., Davie, 954-357-8797, www.broward.org/parks
SATURDAY, MAY 6
Have a relaxing afternoon that includes tea, refreshments and all the materials required to make your own soap. $18/person. 1-2:30pm, OLD DAVIE SCHOOL HISTORICAL MUSEUM, 6650 Griffin Rd., Davie, www.olddavieschool.org
SUNDAY, MAY 7
Based on the animated series, this dynamic stage musical features SpongeBob and all of Bikini Bottom as they face the total annihilation of their undersea world. $20. 1pm & 5pm, SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER THEATRE, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, www.sunrisefl.gov
SUNDAY, MAY 7
Meet one of Secret Woods’ reptile residents and then learn all about it from a naturalist. Free. 1pm, SECRET WOODS NATURE CENTER, 2701 W. State Rd 84, Dania Beach, 954-357-8884 www.broward.org/parks
SUNDAY, MAY 7
This free, live outdoor concert series features the area’s best local jazz artists performing on three different stages. 11am-2pm, RIVERWALK LINEAR PARK, 20 N. New River Dr., Fort Lauderdale, www.fortlauderdale.gov
Spring Into Art & Music
THURSDAY, MAY 11
Enjoy children’s artwork, musical performances, an interactive show by Fantasy Theatre Factory and more. Free. 7pm, CHARLES F. DODGE CITY CENTER, 601 City Center Way, 954-450-1060 www.ppines.com
FRIDAY, MAY 12
See a screening of Strange World at the pool. Free. 7-9:30pm, BASS PARK, 2750 NW 19 St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-828-6019 www.fortlauderdale.gov
Tunes ‘N Trucks
FRIDAY, MAY 12
Bring your lawn chairs or blanket for an evening of live music by Johnny Wild and the Delights, and a variety of food trucks. The trucks start serving at 6pm and the band begins at 7pm. SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER AMPHITHEATER, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, www.sunrisefl.gov
SUNDAY, MAY 14
Bring the kids to watch a free screening of Frozen 2 at the library. 3-5pm, STIRLING ROAD BRANCH LIBRARY, 3151 Stirling Rd., Hollywood, www.broward.org/library
Families R’ Us
FRIDAY, MAY 19
Get together with other families in the community for a night of fun every third Friday
Savor the Sounds
SUNDAY, MAY 21
Enjoy an evening of food, music and fun at this music series that fuses food trucks and live music. 4-7pm, CHARLES F. DODGE CITY CENTER, 601 City Center Way, Pembroke Pines, 954-392-2116 www.ppines.com
Great American Beach Party
SATURDAY, MAY 27
Kick off the summer with a beach party with live bands, waterslides, a kids’ zone, a classic car show, art show, sand sculpting contest and more. 11am-6:30pm, LAS OLAS OCEANSIDE PARK, 3000 E. Las Olas Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-828-7275 www.fortlauderdale.gov
Bike Rodeo
SATURDAY, MAY 27
Bring your wheels for a morning dedicated to bike safety with helmet fittings, giveaways, a bike rodeo course and more. 10am-noon, SUELLEN H. FARDELMANN SPORTS COMPLEX, 10300 Stirling Rd., Cooper City, 954-434-4300 www.coopercity.gov
Nature POP! Opening Weekend
SATURDAY-MONDAY, MAY 27-29
Explore Flamingo Gardens on opening weekend of the summer-long Nature POP! exhibit featuring 44 sculptures made from more than 800,000 LEGO bricks. 9:30am-5pm, FLAMINGO GARDENS, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., Davie, 954-473-2955 www.flamingogardens.org
Israeli Dance Festival
SUNDAY, MAY 28
Experience the excitement of the 27th edition of Festival Yachad, the largest Israeli Dance Festival in the country. $15 and up. 7pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 www.browardcenter.org
FRIDAY, MAY 5
Bring blankets, lawn chairs and your telescope to spend an evening cozied up by the bonfire to view the night sky. S’more kits available for purchase. $5/adult, $2/child. FRUIT & SPICE PARK, 24801 SW 187 Ave., Homestead, 305-247-5727 www.redlandfruitandspice.com
SATURDAY, MAY 6
Explore the world of arts and crafts while creating something unique. Materials provided. Ages 6-12. 11-11:30am, FAIRLAWN BRANCH LIBRARY, 6376 SW Eighth St., West Miami, 305-261-1571 www.mdpls.org
All Kids Included Family Arts Festival
SATURDAY, MAY 6
Now in its 17th year, this festival invites all children — with or without disabilities — to experience a day of activities, experiences, exhibits, performances and more. Free.
10am-3pm, DENNIS C. MOSS CULTURAL ARTS CENTER, 10950 SW 211 St., Cutler Bay, 786-573-5300 www.smdcac.org
WALLCAST Concert
SATURDAY, MAY 6
Experience a live performance by New World Symphony and Miami City Ballet displayed on a 7,000 square-foot projection wall with a state-of-the-art sound system. Free. 8pm, SOUNDSCAPE PARK, 400 17 St., Miami Beach, www.nws.edu
SATURDAY, MAY 6
Explore the museum for free the first Saturday of every month. GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM, 12450 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-253-0063 www.goldcoastrailroadmuseum.org
Vizcaya Village Farmers Market
SUNDAYS, MAY 7, 14, 21 & 28
Discover fresh made delicacies and
Shen Yun
TUESDAY-WEDNESDAY, MAY 2-3
Travel back to ancient China through this theatrical performance. $80 and up. Tuesday 7:30pm, Wednesday 2pm & 7:30pm, KRAVIS CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 701 Okeechobee Blvd., West Palm Beach, www.kravis.org
Family Fun Day: Children’s Day
SATURDAY, MAY 6
Celebrate Children’s Day by making a koinobori, a Japanese flying carp, an origami kabuto hat or by coloring a Japanese kimono-inspired bookmark. Free with paid museum admission. 10am-4pm, MORIKAMI MUSEUM AND JAPANESE
hand-crafted good, fruits and vegetables, baked goods, vegan products and more. 9am-2pm, VIZCAYA MUSEUM AND GARDENS, 3250 S. Miami Ave., Miami, www.vizcaya.org
Laser Evening
FRIDAY, MAY 12
Get ready to rock under Frost Planetarium’s 67-foot dome. 7-11pm, PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-434-9600 www.frostscience.org
Family Day on Aragon
SATURDAY, MAY 13
Enjoy a day of family fun activities, arts and crafts, live performances and more every second Saturday of the month. 10am-5pm, CORAL GABLES MUSEUM, 285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, 305-603-8067 www.coralgablesmuseum.org
Herp Tour
SATURDAY, MAY 13
Join a naturalist to explore the property’s restricted natural areas while learning about reptiles and amphibians in wild and urban habitats. $15. 7-9pm, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org
Beach Cleanup
SATURDAY, MAY 13
Bring some gloves and meet on the beach for a community cleanup. 8am-noon, ELLEN WYNNE BEACH ACCESS, 192 Street and Collins Avenue, Sunny Isles Beach, www.sibfl.net
Mini-Me Science: Mommy Gators
SUNDAY, MAY 14
Spend Mother’s Day participating in hands-on activities with your little one while learning about the relationship between mother alligators and their offspring. Ages 2-5. $25, plus museum admission. 10:30-11:30am, PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-434-9600 www.frostscience.org
Teen Event: eSports Tournament
FRIDAY, MAY 19
Teens in grades 7-12 can compete with friends in the virtual world with some gaming classics including FIFA, Super
Smash Brothers and more. Pre-registration required. 7-9pm, THE SPOT, 215 185 St., Sunny Isles Beach, www.sibfl.net
SATURDAY, MAY 20
Absorb the beauty of the surroundings as you take a tour of a 23-acre lake. Ages 5 and up. Space is limited. Pre-register online. $10/person. 10am, LAKES BY THE BAY PARK, 8551 SW 216 St., Cutler Bay, www.cutlerbay-fl.gov
Family Cooking Class
SUNDAY, MAY 21
Kids and adults can learn how to make healthy dishes under the guidance of a Short Chef during this fun, hands-on cooking workshop. Tickets available online.
Noon-2pm, FAIRCHILD TROPICAL BOTANIC GARDEN, 10901 Old Cutler Rd., Miami, www.fairchildgarden.org
All A-Board
FRIDAY, MAY 26
Show off your board game skills while playing Monopoly, Uno, Clue, Trivial Pursuit and other classic board games. Ages 8-18. 3-5pm, SHENANDOAH BRANCH LIBRARY, 2111 SW 19 Ave., Miami, www.mdpls.org
Furry Tales
SATURDAY, MAY 27
Kids can practice their reading skills while gaining confidence by reading to Charlie Brown, a registered therapy dog. Noon-1pm, SOUTH MIAMI BRANCH LIBRARY, 6000 Sunset Dr., South Miami, www.mdpls.org
National Salute to America’s Heroes
SATURDAY-SUNDAY, MAY 27-28
Air and Sea show pays tribute to our military and first responders. Tickets available online. ALONG MIAMI BEACH, www.usasalute.com
Food Truck Wednesdays
WEDNESDAYS
Bring the family and your appetite to this food truck event featuring a variety of dishes to choose from. 5-10pm, PELICAN HARBOR MARINA, 1275 NE 79 St., Miami, www.miamifoodtrucksevents
GARDENS, 4000 Morikami Park Rd., Delray Beach, 561-495-0233 www.morikami.org
Art & Jazz on the Avenue
WEDNESDAY, MAY 24
A closed-street style format with live jazz bands, art activations, dancing and dining. 6-9:30pm, DOWNTOWN DELRAY BEACH, www.downtowndelraybeach.com
Nights at the Museum
FRIDAY, MAY 26
The last Friday of every month guests of all ages can enjoy extended hours of exploration, science crafts, activities, shows and a chance to view the night sky in the public observatory (weather permitting). 6-9pm, COX SCIENCE
CENTER AND AQUARIUM, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 www.coxsciencecenter.org
Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.
THURSDAYS
Learn all about hawks and owls and see the native birds of prey up close. 12:30pm, BUSCH WILDLIFE SANCTUARY, 2500 Jupiter Park Dr., Jupiter, 561-575-3399 www.buschwildlife.org
And view our extensive online Calendar of Events at www.southfloridafamilylife.com
Waffection was voluptuous — far too old for him. He saw her constantly. She had long flowing hair and intense eyes. He called her his “little love.” The crown she wore lent an air of power while sleek fins encircling her projected a steady but enticing mystery.
The fact that our son was smitten by the Starbucks Mermaid was our fault.
One of our oldest family traditions is spending Saturday mornings at the local coffee shop. Started long before kids came along, this easy-going tradition was a sweet opening to weekends. We didn’t have a lot of money and the coffee shop fit our wallet.
When we started having kids, going out for coffee each Saturday morning was a tradition we were determined to continue. We selfishly coveted this entrée into the weekend as a young couple and didn’t want kids to change this beloved routine.
Looking back, it was inevitable that our son’s first love would be the Starbucks logo. At our neighborhood Starbucks, we’d wolf down our weekly dark-roast coffee and cinnamon scone with our baby son and his slightly older sister in tow. It was exhausting. No longer a peaceful, relaxing way to begin the weekend, our treasured tradition had been turned upside-down. It would have been easy to let this tradition die with the arrival of kids.
Yet, we persisted, trying to roll with the times.
When the kids morphed into fidgety toddlers, we’d pull out toys. We started talking about what restaurant manners looked like because coffee shops offered a forgiving environment in which to begin these lessons.
Time passed and the kids grew. Their tastes changed, resulting in them branching out, and trying new items on the menu. Previously, they had faithfully ordered chocolate chip
cookies because they knew that on Saturday mornings,
an appropriate breakfast.
Time sped by and one Saturday we suddenly realized that the day we had been pining for had arrived: we were having conversations with our kids. We realized we could actually finish our sentences without meltdowns, outbreaks, or an impatient, is
They answered in fully-formed sentences with increasing thoughtfulness while making eye contact. In fact, we were experiencing intentional, meaningful time
accommodate the various seasons of family life. As our family moved around, this tradition followed us, so easily transferable into new surroundings. An old friend, this was a tradition we came to count on, a comfort during often painful adjustments.
Yet, from its infancy, the core point of this family tradition — to hang out, celebrate and support each other — remained unchanged. With amazement, I watched as we grew closer to our kids through our steady and persistent Saturday habit.
Could it be that this tradition is in part responsible for the young adults I now see sitting across from me at Starbucks discussing the latest political flap?
I realize now that this simple tradition of hitting the coffee shop each week started something in motion long ago. Though I’m still trying to appreciate its fullness, its richness, and its direct contribution to building the relationships we have today with our young adults, I’m thankful. Starting with Starbucks, this coffee shop routine helped our kids want to be with us — their parents. And that’s no small thing.
