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CONTENTS 4.
TAROT CARD SUN SIGN PREDICTIONS FOR AUGUST 2016 By - Vijay keswani
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CRYSTAL HEALING EMOTIONAL ISSUES By: Tarminder Manchanda.
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BUYING JEWELRY ONLINE By: Monik Shah
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OPENING PETALS OF LIFE By: Poornima Dayal
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PANIC PROBLEMS CAN BE IMPROVED ETERNALLY By: Darwin Nunn
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COSMIC HEALINGS WITH VIBBES KADA By: Mr. Sharat Kumar
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THE ART OF SILENCE: LEARNING WHEN NOT TO SPEAK By: Chesley Maldonado
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CELEBS & POLITICIANS MAKE THIS EID MORE SPECIAL FOR NGO - SMMARDS! By: Dharmishtha Dagia
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DISEASE, STRESSES, COLOURS AND META-HEALTH By: Dr Kwesi Anan Odum,
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Associate Editor then there are days when you just don’t want to do the same thing. Sounds like you? Many a times, this leads to delay in our outcome accomplishment and eventually disappointment. Here, what is important to note is that there is no harm if you lose track once in a while. The bigger issue arises when you lose track and don’t get back on it.
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Tarot Card Sun Sign Predictions for August 2016 6:
Virgo: Finances on rise, people doing job may get promoted, health will improve. Good time for students, will study well. People dealing in metals will gain.
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Libra: You will be drawn more towards creative arts like painting, acting etc. Good time take a leap forward. Actors, directors, artists dancers will gain recognition.
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Aries: You will have extremely good luck this month, Monetary gains, good health, love life, 8: career business all will work in your favour. Think of stars and you get them.
Taurus: Health issues indicated. Work pressure will increase. Remedy: Take green cloth small bag Obstacles related with money ,fill it with fennel seeds and keep under the can be there. Builders may pillow, it improves health and money luck. face cash crunch. 9:
Remedy: Take a bay leaf, write words " More Money" on it ,and burn that leaf, n blow. This increases money inflow smoothly. 3:
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Scorpio: You will make more enemies than friends, Be on guard always. Take care of health.
Gemini: Relationships will become b e t t e r . F i n a n c e s g o o d . 10: Romance or new romance indicated. People in interiors, architecture may gain. Cancer: You have the talent to market anything, use it to maximum 11: capacity. People in marketing, films, social media will gain.
Leo: Please leave your ego and reunite with your loved ones. 12: Career stuck love life not good. Health is average. Remedy: Ask for forgiveness, whoever you have hurt.
Sagittarius: You strike gold in whatever you do, be it job or business or property deals or new start ups, Money is coming all the way.Good time for starting new business venture. Capricorn: Some money blockages indicated.Health will be good, someone close may ditch you, be guarded. Remedy: Feed poor. Aquarius: Love life improves,good relations indicated be it personally or professionally. Great time ahead.
Pisces: Relations with family improves. Stress decreases. Money gains. Good health.
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CRYSTAL HEALING EMOTIONAL ISSUES
Tarminder Manchanda. email id. terrymanchanda@yahoo.co.in Mob - 9870040769
I will be listing some of the common issues with which I have co-related a crystal/crystals one can use effectively. Choose 1 from the list to carry or wear.
Crystals are used to heal all kinds of issues, be it physical, emotional or spiritual. Here I Abuse- You can choose one of the following will give you a few suggestions of stones - Black Tourmaline, Smoky Quartz, Lapis Lazuli , Kunzite and Carnelian. one can use for emotional Issues. People in big cities are more susceptible to emotional issues due to tension and stress. Where does this come from? Paying rent or paying bills as well as EMIs against the loans taken for buying your own house is a major reason. Job satisfaction, bullying coworkers, nasty Boss- oh I can go on and on! These emotional issues create physical disease.
Anger- Aah, this is a major issue that really needs to be addressed. Amethyst, Blue Lace Agate, Chrysocolla, How lite and Moonstone are some of the stones suggested .
Many people are already familiar with the fact that emotional stress can lead to stomach aches, irritable bowel syndrome, and headaches, but might not know that it can also cause other physical complaints and even chronic pain. One logical reason for this: studies have found that the more anxious and stressed people are, the more tense and constricted their muscles are, over time causing the muscles to become fatigued and inefficient. Louise Hay, the famous author of the book" You Can Heal Your Life ", outlines the causes of physical symptoms and the affirmations one must repeat to heal the illness.
Bi-Polar- (Manic Depressive) Kunzite, Lepidolite and Lithium Quartz.
Anxiety- Amethyst, Green aventurine, Blue Calcite, Howlite, Lapis Lazuli, Black Tourmaline and Lepidolite.
Blockages- The choice of crystals to remove and release blockages are , Kunzite, Kyanite, Rose Quartz and Malachite. Conflicts- be it with your siblings, boss, coworkers etc. the choice of crystal can be Blue Lace Agate, Selenite and Rose Quartz. Crisis- Aquamarine, Duomorterite, Hematite, Garnet, and of course, the calming Rose Quartz.
Decision Making- I have found that Over time and experience I have found that Rutilated quartz is a fantastic stone that Crystals are effective to heal these issues, helps you make a descision. Azurite and Mookaite are the other two. with no side effects.
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Depression- This is an alarming phenomena in cities. It could lead to serious health issues. The key here is to reduce stress, easier said than done. Several reasons for depression catapult the person to a state that must be addressed by health counsellors. There are several crystals that can help ease depression. Botswana Agate, Celestite, Kunzite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Lepidolite, Lithium Quartz, Petalite, Rhodochrosite, Rose Quartz and Smoky Quartz.
Self Confidence- Azurite, Cavansite, Chalcopyrite, Chrysoprase, Citrine, Garnet, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Selenite, Red Tiger Eye, Tiger Iron and Green Tourmaline. Stress- Amber, Ajoite, Amethyst, Green Aventurine, Blue Calcite, Celestite, Chrysocolla, Danburite, Dolomite, Epidote, Rainbow Fluorite, Jasper, Kunzite, Lapis lazuli, Clear Quartz, Rose Quartz, Selenite, Smoky Quartz, Pink Topaz and Black Tourmaline.
Fear- Angelite, Chrysocolla, Nephrite Jade, Super Seven, Topaz and Black Tourmaline Emotional Trauma- Aqua Aura, Cavansite, Chiastolite, Epidote, Green Fluorite, are some stones to carry or wear. Quantum Quatro, Rose Quartz, Tangerine Harmony- A harmonious atmosphere at Quartz and Zincite. work and at home is of supreme importance. Amethyst, Aquamarine, Choose a stone according to your issue. Dumortierite, Jade, Moonstone, Clear Read about the property of that stone and Quartz, Selenite, Watermelon Tourmaline then pick the one you think is the best. and Ruby Zoisite are some excellent stones Remember that each stone needs to be cleansed and programmed for that one can keep in the home and office. purpose. Inferiority- Tiger Iron is one of the best one Disclaimer- The Accuracy and can wear or keep. completeness of the information given here Loneliness- Mookaite, Jade, and Rose are my opinions. The advice given may not be suitable for every individual. This Quartz. information is not a substitute for expert Motivation- Morganite, Rutilated Quartz, medical advice or treatment. This treatment can be worked along with the Tiger Eye and Red Unakite. medical course of treatment and is not a Negativity- Here the choise is from a lot of substitute. stones. Choose intuitively. Amber, Amethyst, Aqua Aura, Apophyllite, All Stones listed above are available at Aventurine, Citrine, Epidote, Fluorite, Serenity Crystals Mumbai. Indicolite, Red Jasper, Kunzite, Rose Quartz, Tourmalinated Quartz, and Black Tourmaline. OCD- Amethyst and Lapuis Lazuli. Panic Attacks- Lapis Lazuli and Chlorite in Quartz. Positive Energy (to increase)- Green Aventurine, Chrysoprase, Moonstone, Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Selenite and Sugilite.
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Those With Free Will Stand Up...Please
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here was a young boy who enjoyed The masters tell us of the truthfulness that man cannot be held accountable for being perfect health and was endowed with tempted. Maya (cosmic illusion), some call reason under the strict discipline and it “Satan” injected into the perfect protection of his mother; but after he grew f r a m e w o r k o f h u m a n b e i n g s t h e up, he told his mother he realized how safe possibilities for horrible enticements that he was under her custody and supervision continuously urge man to go astray morally but “why” he asked, “did you foster my and spiritually. Ordinary people languish intelligence with the power of free choice spiritually so easily that they are tempted when you are always deciding how I should to do things that will end up in hurting their behave? “self.” Because I have free will I want to find out for The motherly aspect of God flows through myself what is bad or good for me and make the instinctive love of parents to protect the my own choices.” child but when a baby grows up the time comes when it has to exercise reason by “My son,” the mother replied, “it is protecting itself. appropriate for you to insist on the right to use your free will to choose your path but a If he misuses his reason an evil outcome is small child with undeveloped reasoning precipitated and if guided rightly by good needs the protection and nurturing of judgment the growing individual becomes maternal love; now your time has come to happy. How is it then that some of these rely upon the direction of your own children are born with tendencies of judgment with the opened eyes of reason.” weaknesses and some with particular The young man with semi-developed discrimination now ventured into the world unguarded and under the influence of wrong acquaintances got into trouble and became ill from abusing the laws of health. The youth used blind will without meaningful purpose squandering energy on passions, speed, hasty resolutions and the uncontrolled appetite for the traps of visual temptations. Evil and good actions are freely chosen, but once one has acted there is no longer free choice to the consequences. The little boy’s example illustrates how worldly temptations constantly urge us to do wrong by appealing to present habits and prenatal karmic tendencies. It is wrong to interpret the hollow voice of our ego as divine guidance for the voice of the ego is devoid of divine guidance and one soon learns that no matter how much misguided rationalization one uses, nothing can lessen the karmic responsibility of wrongful actions.
tendencies of self-control prior to having any opportunity in implementing or using them? Agnostics, atheists and intellectuals confidently declare that it is heredity that is responsible for good or evil traits in children. Very often the parents unnecessarily blame themselves for the child’s physical or mental infirmity and many times the parents are unjustly blamed. Sometimes intelligent parents have moronic offspring and likewise ordinary parents have wise children. These seemingly unpredictable and erratic events are not freaks of nature but evidently these souls have variable evolutionary progress and it permits them to be born in the same family. If you ask a doctor what‘s the cause for the boy‘s ill mental health, he would say the boy probably inherited the affliction from his unstable parents.
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If you ask a sage or metaphysician he would say the boy’s soul was attracted to unbalanced, mentally ill parents with a tendency of madness and insanity as a result of bad actions from past incarnations.
It takes seven years to make a habit-groove in your subconscious mind and it takes another seven years to rid yourself of one habit where the temptation is no longer there.
The power of habits good or bad manifest It is impossible for an impartial God to the consequences according to good or bestow one child with a dysfunctional mind wrong judgments in man. to do only evil under the convincing influence of bad or evil physiological An apt example of the evils of bad habits are instincts and another child with a good ill health, indiscretion, overindulgence and heredity creating a good mind prone only to being seized by the grip of temptation and these arise when man forgets himself in good tendencies. erroneous judgment and by repeated The law of reincarnation is the cosmic transgressions making indulgence a habit dispenser of justice; the law of cause and in the subconscious mind. See article; Can effect and its corollary of karma governs Bad Habits Actually Make You Wealthy. the action of people. We have convinced ourselves by conceited Accordingly with this law, the soul egotistic habits into amnesia of who we magnetizes to itself either good or bad really are and have forgotten our divine mentality and a good or bad heredity nature or soul ever since early childhood. according to habits and desires formed in You are not a woman or a man. past incarnations determined by astralblueprints. Through karmic inclinations the soul is forced to incarnate not as a male or female When a child fails to make the grade at school, he has to return to this earthly but either with the body of a woman or a school again and again to pass all man. examinations. It is the same with souls who fail in the performance of detachment, If you live in a boarding house you don’t morality, spirituality, self-control and call yourself a border. The body identified calmness. They must also return and ego succumbs to the hypnosis of what your persevere in the schools of mortality until bodily house labels you to be. they learn to direct all actions by their We are nothing else but pure spirit. With spirit-nature. open eyes we identify our consciousness We are told by the great ones and spiritual with our body and all its limitations and masters that a human being has been moods. We have forgotten our true self. endowed with only twenty-five percent of free will. Where is the remaining seventy- If you close your eyes and don’t see your five percent? It is broken up between body any longer you will feel the invisible karma, pre-natal and post-natal habits consciousness residing in that form. deeply buried within the subconscious BY: Gary Zalben mind. You can test yourself by taking five of your strongest habits being either good or bad and try to break or stop even one of them for a month. You will soon find out the futility in doing this. 8 • BE - August, 2016
13 Signs that You're a Slave to Your Emotions. the structure of the human psyche. Id is the basic, childlike, part of the psyche that has demands, irrespective of morality. Ego is the negotiator between the practical world and Id; a sort of nanny that kindly regulates the childish urges of the Id, with the art of compromise. The Superego represents the We have all u n c o n s c i o u s t h a t a b s o r b s v a l u e s , devised our supervision, and influences of the own personal environment, and is the moral center. w a y s o f dealing with Not to be very strictly adherent to Freud's our emotions. theories, but if you are listening more to What we call what your desires tell you than your mind, emotionally you may be governed by the Id part of your i n t e l l i g e n t psyche, the one that wants instant people, are gratification to its wants. If any or all of people who have a way with others and these are a regular occurrence, you need to themselves and have learned to master start worrying. emotions in order to live a fulfilling life with satisfying relationships. Signs that You're a Slave to your Emotions It has been found that emotions govern everything we do. They are the source of You Don't Think of Consequences functioning, and the reason for decisions we make. In healthy amounts, emotions are The key difference is whether you take amazing and are what make us human, but action by being emotional or by a cool, wellunder extreme amounts of intense thought, and objective decision. When emotion, a person ceases to function in a you're ruled by intense emotions, you don't civilized, intelligent, and sympathetic tend to think of consequences to your manner. Sometimes, there is a flux where actions. Whether it is to go for an you know what the right decision is, but do impromptu trip without informing your not follow it anyway. Due to the stress of bosses at work, or whether it is buying a car modern life, people tend to lose control of without consulting your wife, you never their emotions. They start letting their think what the implications will be. You emotions drive them, out of frustration, justify it by saying "the heart wants what anger, loneliness, low self-esteem, the heart wants.� depression or repression. Whatever it is you desire, you need to have All rationality is thrown out the window. it at that very moment. Whether it is craving This results in a life where a person learns a pizza or going home in the middle of a to ignore the voice of their own conscience, meeting, you wish to do it, and do it now. and makes himself a slave to his emotions You do not delay anything that pops into without realizing it. Walking around life your head, especially when it comes to blinded by emotions is a recipe for disaster. something that is in no way beneficent to you except for the present. You have no second thoughts before maxing out your The Id, Ego, and credit card on that dress you just saw, nor S u p e r e g o a r e what happens when you binge eat three t e r m s w h i c h boxes of cookies. Sigmund Freud used to describe We've all been impulsive and careless at some point in life, but if this lately is a regular pattern with you, you may be avoiding some essential signs that you're a slave to your emotions. This is not a good thing.
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This is not to be confused with being angry at something or someone who is genuinely Your choices and opinions seem to you the troubling you. best, and you do not trust another person to give you sane advice regarding anything. You Don't Care Whose Feelings You're You should respect yourself, but not to the Hurting extent that you disrespect others in the process. If someone tells you anything Sometimes you're so busy shouting your against your own views, you tend to brush head off in anger that you do not realize it aside and are even more determined to do that you have said words that may have what you mean to do, sometimes just pierced the other person, even if you were because you dislike the person who is mad for the right reason. You get ahead of yourself and into the moment, and by doing butting in. that, you never stop to think and rationally ask yourself whether the words you're You Later Regret What You Say saying are going to hurt the person you say When you later look back on your sharp them to. As long as you are gratified, you retort to the boss, or to your mother that don't bother about the fact that words day, you realize that it doesn't seem quite cannot be taken back. as witty as you'd thought it to be at the time. And then you might start to fret whether You have Mood Swings the boss was embarrassed by what you said, and whether you'll have to resign tomorrow. If you still have some semblance of conscience left, you will regret what you have said impulsively in anger, pride, or pain. You Like To Think You Know Best
You Get Angry if Someone Tells You Otherwise
When you are told to do something you do not agree with, it is possible to diplomatically get out of the mess and have it your way without making a tantrum. Except you don't do that. You make one hell of an argument in support of yourself and refuse to listen when the other person wishes to even voice his opinion. You don't stop to give their advice a thought at all.
If you find yourself doing different things depending upon your varying moods, do introspect a bit. Having moods is natural, but these moods are to be overcome and faced, and routine should be stuck to despite them. When you find that you are skipping work regularly just because you don't "feel" like, or ignoring your work and chilling with friends/Netflix whenever you "feel" like, you are very much ignoring your duties because of fickle moods.
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You are Considered by Friends to be Unpredictable If your friends brand you an unpredictable person in the sense that you cancel a meeting at the last minute because your mood changes, or break your resolves and carry them forward again due to rotating moods, that's a sign. How you feel one moment should not determine the result of a resolution you have taken in the past; tell you that he didn't approve your leave moreover, as a back and forth decision because you have none left due to the without thinking hard and deep about it. weddings you've been attending lately. See what we mean? Don't let that emotion You Regularly Let People Talk You into overpower your better judgment. Doing Stuff You've Been Making Bad Decisions You seem to feel like nothing has been going right for you, because the decisions you've been making lately are impulsive and not well-thought out at all. You tend to consult various people, but ultimately follow your own mantras to disaster. You receive two new job offerings and you immediately select the one paying more without debating the pros and cons of both jobs, just for the money. You later find you're stuck in a 12-hour shift that Your close ones will sometimes get you to squeezes every ounce of energy out of you. bunk class with them, or try out this new place when you have a deadline tomorrow. You Confuse Passion with Emotional If you are regularly giving in to such Governance demands, because you feel like your work is not as important as compared to seeing You have always wanted to be one of those the new joint with your gang, you are passionate people who do what is right and letting your present emotions jeopardize follow their hearts, but all you end up being your future obligations. If it is a one-off is emotional about things. To be passionate thing, no reason to worry about that means to pursue something with an deadline, you seriously do need a break! unquenchable thirst and tenacity, but being emotional about your passion is to hinder yourself by concentrating on everything You React First, Think Later or Not at All related to the task except to finish it. Passion involves taking calculated risks, You realize at work that you have not been but emotional decisions will be hasty, rash, granted the 15-day leave even though you and bad for you in the long run. applied a month in advance, and you immediately react by letting out a string of profanities against your boss. And to top it all, then go up to his cabin and fight so loud that the entire building can hear your boss 11 • BE - August, 2016
You've Stopped Hearing that Inner Voice of Caution Slavery to one's emotions is retardation of one's emotional quotient, and unhealthy. Repression is not a solution either, and will lead to outbursts of pent-up emotions. If you observe most of these signs of being a slave to your emotions within you, or a trusted person has been making remarks that say roughly the same thing, you should know that you cannot control your emotions at all anymore, and are becoming a slave to your mind instead of taming it. There comes a point where you have listened to your heart for everything, and now your mind has been trained to stay out of the complicated equations of your emotions. So, that little voice which in the past would have told you to stop driving rashly, will either stop talking, or you won't hear it at all.
Don't give in to the barbarism that is inherent in human nature, but instead control it with a civilized, educated mind and a strong emotional quotient.
If you do not wish to end up behaving like one of the boys from Golding's Lord of the Flies, there are several ways you can seek help before your slavery reaches such a point that you are a mean, impulsive shadow of your former civilized self. All you know is what you're feeling, and you're feeling mad at your girlfriend for cheating on you. So you take it out with rash It does not take much to get yourself back on track. You can start with meditation, or driving. diverting yourself into putting your emotional energies elsewhere. All the descriptions here might be confused with specific personality types that cannot help but be this way. If you observe just one or two signs within you, which have been with you forever, it is safe to assume that you are not exactly governed by your emotions but need to caution yourself.
Find a way to utilize this intense excess emotion by joining some physical activity class, run around the park, do things you love, and most of all, get to know and love yourself
If none of these signs are recurrent in your life and you find that you have good selfcontrol, all is good. It must be remembered that being an emotional person is different from being someone who is governed by emotions and outbursts. There is nothing wrong with expressing one's emotions, thoughts and feelings, but this should be done in a tactful way to ensure that you do not make it your aim.
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By: Monik Shah
OPENING PETALS OF LIFE Here is a Prayer for Mother Gaia: Thank you Mother Gaia, for thy holy spirit keeps us fresh and light Thank You for the courage you give me, as I firmly stay connected to your love Seed pods spring from their fecund mother, awaiting their time So allow birth to take place, as thy joyous spirit communes bringing us more joy and sense of belonging. One by one the pods burst. As they sprout, NATURE AND SPIRITUALITY fairies dance, watching them thrive, cushioned comfortably in thy welcoming We all stand upon Mother Earth, our loving, embrace. caring, nurturing Mother Earth, also called Ma Gaia. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You She keeps us grounded, rooted to our very creator, she keeps us knowledgeable about the fact that we are a body made up of sand and mud. We are a part of her – her children forever. The Divine breathes light into this very form of mud and we become living individuals.
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Certified Angel Intuitive by Doreen Virtue. All the elements of nature – Rivers, Lakes, Angel Tarot card reader/teacher, Animal Mountains, Trees and Plants flourish on communicator, past life therapist, Reiki M o t h e r E a r t h , s u p p o r t e d b y h e r Master. nourishment and love. Mother Earth gives us the ground to walk/sit, she feeds the DISCLAIMER: The above meditation is a elements all what’s essential, which in turn relaxing/healing technique. I hold no provide for us. responsibility for anyone trying it out. The interplay of love between her and the elements provide us oxygen. Ma/Mother Gaia is the name by which we recognize Mother Earth’s living spirit. When you completely sink your feet into the sands, you feel the coolness of Mother Earth. When you swim in water, you feel almost as fluid as water. Her Pleasant influence upon the gush of winds that soothe you at the day break or the subtle, loving romance between the Sun, Moon (during its various phases) make us feel one with Ma Gaia. By keeping her clean, planting more trees, keeping water bodies clean, eating and savoring a variety of delicious fruits and vegetables, we may offer immense gratitude to Mother Earth. 15 • BE - August, 2016
Panic Problems Can Be Improved Eternally
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people with this particular disorder will reach the top, but not without drawing the attention of people around them. This happens to many people with anxiety in the middle of the mall, in the classroom, or in a social setting. The root of issue is doing too many factors. A prime example is basic genetics. Those passing traits have their hand in many conditions, however anxiety disorders remain at the forefront of that list.
hallway and the walls are starting to close in. The end of the hall is visible you make your way toward the light, as fast as your feet will carry you, no matter how fast you are however, it will not be fast enough, the walls are getting closer and you are running out of breath This is how anxiety makes people feel. You are concerned that you will never make it to the end, regardless of how hard you try. You might also look at other factors like the environment, abuse, death, and other These are the sensations that affects changes in life. All of them can cause millions of humans everyday. It's a change which is difficult to face. A critical combination of the troubled feeling, that area to take in is the fact that anxiety catastrophe is around the corner, and doom symptoms could trash a person's life. You is the focus. While the issue would be much need to determine how to get through it easier to treat if only a certain age category adequately. The symptoms themselves will battled with anxiety, it actually affects vary in accordance with your age. The most humans of all different ages. basic way of going about it is to talk over the problem with a friend, even meditation, Whether you contemplate the family, your perhaps go out and walk around. It is job, health, monetary issues or some other possible that you or a person you might problem, any of these may trigger an know with an anxiety disorder ends up attack. Comprehending anxiety symptoms developing a different disorder. Whether is critical. You could experience headaches, it's depression, panic disorder, or sweating, irritability, nausea or dizziness, obsessive-compulsive disorder, they muscle tension, as well as tiredness. People should all be recognized. You must cope afflicted by anxiety are on edge quite a bit with anxiety symptoms one way or another. of the time. If discussing with someone else doesn't If you have dealt with anxiety symptoms, help, or you don't wish to work with others, you are likely harming other pieces of your we recommend a good self-help book. life too. It can be relationships with your Doctors around the world have written a best friend or family members, or perhaps number of good books about handling issues with others at work. No matter it is, problems with anxiety disorder. there are a ton of anxiety issues to Similar to any other situation, stressful or recognize as soon as you can. not, it is undoubtedly for the best to start Plus you can't over look the fatigue, slowly. Anxiety related symptoms can be trembling, complete lack of focus, and extremely overwhelming. It might be a issues with getting to or keeping asleep. child dealing with school related problems Those with anxiety will also experience a or a full grown adult, anxiety symptoms shortness of breath and often struggle for need to be acknowledged and addressed. their breath. Anxiety itself is a stress reaction, though when it gets to the point that it is causing Yet another example would be imaginary disabilities, it must be addressed. Everyone drowning, which happens more than you is equal, and everyone deserves to live would think. You are able to see the top of anxiety free. the water, and you can move your arms, but you are not getting there fast enough. Darwin Nunn 16 • BE - August, 2016
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The Message Conveyed By Your Car's Color
Most people purchase cars based on the vehicle’s proposed functionality. For example, drivers of minivans may have children to transport; drivers of compact cars may have longer commutes; and those outdoor-types may opt to drive a Jeep which is known to welcome rugged terrains. It may be understood why the make and model of a particular vehicle is chosen, but what about the color that a buyer chooses? What message does the color of vehicle possibly say about its driver?
However, it was also discovered through research that those that are less obvious about these traits tend to drive cars that are a deeper shade of red, and those who display more obvious traits drive cars that are a more vibrant red. Green cars - Dark green cars are driven by those regarded as trustworthy and well balanced, while bright green car drivers tend to be trendy and lively.
The "Color Answer Book" author and color Yellow cars- Yellow car drivers are a very expert Leatrice Eiseman believes she knows loving bunch. Those in bright yellow appear to be trendy the answer. In the book, Eiseman says that a and whimsical; vehicle's color reveals quite a bit about the yellow-gold drivers personality of its purchaser. A few colors are warm, indulging that have been researched and linked to and intelligent; and specific personality types are: those bright, sunshine yellow Black cars- Black cars are said to be driven drivers have a very by the empowered and leader-type drivers who are typically not easily manipulated. sunny disposition and are joyful and young These drivers tend to appreciate elegance at heart. and things that are regarded as traditional Other colors - Taupe and light brown car and classic. drivers are noted for their simpler tastes, Silver cars- At the time of the writing, silver while drivers of dark brown car tend to be cars were thought to not only be driven by very down to earth; neutral gray car drivers those with elegant tastes, but also those are more practical; purple car drivers are who are cool and who love a futuristic look. known for their creative, individualistic In 2000, silver cars became the most ways; and orange seems to be the color of fun loving and trendy drivers. Car experts popular color choice by American drivers. may not agree that there is a correlation White cars- Drivers of white cars are known between a car’s color and its owner, but for their cleanliness and their attention to they can offer suggestions for choosing a detail (perhaps this explain why there are car color that will put more money into the rarely white cars that look like mine with buyer’s pocket in the long run. Sound advice is that edgy colors may be great for the words “wash me” traced in the sides). the moment, but in the long term they can lower your trade-in value, as these colors Red carsare more difficult to resell. Red cars drivers have always Traditional colors such as grey, blue, black, been regarded as and red are seemingly always in-demand sexy, speedy, from those looking for used vehicles. In the and highly end, the car-color winners will always be energized. those people comfortable enough to take a great car ‘deal’ regardless of the car’s color. Eiseman Leatrice 19 • BE - August, 2016
Celebs & Politicians make this Eid more special for NGO - SMMARDS! Celebs & Politicians make this Eid more special for NGO - SMMARDS and make it a never forgetting event by lending their support for it. After a successful Iftar Daawat last year, NGO - SMMARDS’ Founder and Politician Babita Verma and its Youth President Karan Singh Prince organized an Iftar Daawat this year too. The event was attended by renowned celebrities and Politicians.
Alokk Narula and Anshu Malik, Nandish Sandhu, Laveena Tandon, Laksh Lalwani, Vijay Patkar, Nivedita Basu, Vikas Gupta, Ajaz Khan, Munisha Khatwani, Ashutosh Kaushik, Swaroop Bhalwankar, Pooja Gujral, Rohit Jain, Sharhan Singh, Aslam Khan, Yogesh Lakhani, directors Anil Sharma and Manish Gupta, politicians Ravindra Fatak and Waris Pathan amongst others. In spite of heavy rainfall, many personalities came forward to make their presence felt for the good cause. Established in 1991, Sanman Mahila Multipurpose & Rural Development Society (SMMARDS) is a nong o v e r n m e n t a l organization working for the protection and promotion of human rights. SMMARDS has always been there for the television industry, helping resolve issues of the entertainment industry like the very popular blackmailing controversy of Karan Patel and Rithvik Dhanjani.
Babita Verma and actress Anara Gupta looked lovely in the outfits designed by veteran actress Anita Kanwal who was the Fashion Partner for the event. The evening commenced with few politicians and MLAs opening the Roza followed by a bevy of celebrities. Celebs spotted at the event were Varun Sharma, Mouli Ganguly and Mazher Sayed, Iqbal Khan, Ravi Dubey, Ankita Shorey,
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Disease, stresses, colours and META-Health
called Luscher Color Test to measure emotions and to trace the underlying conflicts creating diseases. Dr Kwesi explains, ”Color is the language of the subconscious mind.
Dr Kwesi Anan Odum, Meta-Health is an integrated approach to good health and wellness. It is an in-depth study of the development of diseases and their relationship with stress. It also provides an insight into the role of biological, psychological, physiological, spiritual, emotional and environmental triggers in the disease process which focuses on how specific stress triggers, emotions and beliefs affect specific organ symptoms. What kind of stresses can cause a disease?
The use of colours removes any language barrier, and helps us connect with the underlying conflict. Our mind processes information and conflicts in the form of images and colors. Thus, the Luscher color test can assist us in decoding these images with colours and can unravel underlying conflicts in a simple, quick and effective manner. Here is an example of how one’s choice of colors helps us identify the underlying conflict creating disease. Dr Kwesi explains that if a person chooses a dark blackish blue color and rejects yellow shades, then it is possible that he/she is longing for closeness; he/she is also not feeling enough, and is feeling disconnected, lonely, dependent and unloved. This person chooses blue, as he wants to feel embraced, loved, a sense of belonging, and wants to create harmony and healthy interdependence.
According to META-Health, stress is explained with an acronym called UDIN, which stands for stresses, which are unexpected [this has never happened to you before], dramatic, isolating [leaves you feeling that you can’t share this with anyone] and wherein the person dealing with stress has no plan or strategy for They reject yellow as yellow is a dealing with the stress. Such stresses cause compensating color for the blue the a disease. respective person chose. The color blue represents frustration, so the person Dr Kwesi Anan Odum, an Ophthalmologist chooses this color to overcome his/her and META-Health Master trainer says, “It is frustration. not just stress which creates disease, but the emotions we experience on the onset of This person rejects yellow, as he/she stress, our thoughts, self-image we have of knows that if he/she needs to belong all the ourselves and the meaning we give to the time, then he/she cannot feel free or stressful situation that creates disease. independent, which can create fear and These emotions make us unwell, thus its insecurity of their future. Such people important to be able to measure these suffer with fear of commitment and fear of emotions and deal with them at the earliest being alone. Such a person is most likely to in the most effective manner.” create conjunctivitis or eczema. Dr Kwesi uses a tool of language of colours
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The role of self-image in disease We often operate within a false reality, wherein we create our self-image based on what we think we are, what others think of us and lastly what the world thinks of us. All these self-images are not real so they are
This inauthentic, fixed self-image and faulty and fixed perceptions are responsible for creating disease. Dr Kwesi says, ”To alter our disease we need to create transformation, not a change, for change is short lived and will only create temporary relief.
inauthentic and fixed, and consequently create no possibility of a change. When we transform this fixed energy, fixed self-image, fixed emotions and take This self-image can also be equated to one’s responsibility to take actions to transform ego, which operates for the purpose of this energy by creating fluidity then we can one’s survival, and consequently, does not get out the cycle of disease, and move understand the concept of letting go. It towards health, harmony and wellness.” makes us operate in a fixed way creating inflexibility and in adaptability in dealing Compiled By Anu Mehta with stressful life situations.
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Hair Issues and META-Health
ANU MEHTA anu.metamedicane@gmail.com Mob: 9930898116
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air is a protein fiber present in all
mammals; which grows from follicles embedded in the dermis; it is supplied by nutrients carried by the blood vessels present in the papilla in the bottom part of the follicle. Within 22 weeks of fetal development, 5 million follicles develop all over our body, out of which of which our scalp is has one million are found in the scalp only. This number does not increase or decrease after birth. The part of the hair called the follicle is like the root of a tree and so is not visible to our naked eye and yet responsible for nourishing. We lose about 50 to 100 hairs in a day. If more than 100-hair fall a day then it is considered as hair fall.So if the hair stops getting nourished then hair loss and whitening of hair will occur. Hair fall, balding and graying of hair are major areas of concern for an individual. On seeing bald person often the first thoughts that occur in regarding the appearance of the individual are, “poor thing, what happened to him/her?” Our overt reactions or our inquisitive looks can make a bald person feel even more bald, naked and unattractive. In olden times Indian widows had to shave off their hair, in order to protect their honor. In short baldness was associated with the stigma, shame, blame, feeling unattractive and non-desirable. This association can be very
scary for people experiencing hair loss. Hair loss is not a physical disability but definitely is a social disability as it can create depression in the person losing hair as he/she may not accept himself/herself or others may not accept him/her. One of our clients underwent chemotherapy and lost all her hair. Her angry, educated husband rudely told her to cover her baldhead as he felt that he people would think that he is dead and she was his bald widow. This was a major issue for her and had led to many other physical and behavioral problems. According to META-Health – hair loss is an adaptation, which the body undergoes in order to deal with unresolved trauma of separation. More significant and deeper the trauma is, more is the hair loss. Hair increases the feeling of touch on epidermis. Baldness shows up when someone’s touch is missing on the specific areas where balding has appeared. Back in time, someone had a huge impact on our life but today they are either not physically present to touch us in a loving way or our realtionship has changed with them and they have left us. This creates a feeling of being separated from them. The following case study throws some light on the conflicts of major hair loss. Case Study: Miss D, a young girl lost lot of hair from her head after she got separated at the tender age of 12 years from her mother. She stayed in a hostel to complete her studies as her family migrated to another country. Her mother loved her a lot and used to comb her hair and take great care of her hair. After separation from her mother she had to take care of her hair. She missed her mother’s loving touch and associated it to the care of hair taken by her mother. The hair stopped feeling nourished and this created hair loss. She had massive hair fall which led to thinning of the bulk of hair she previously had.
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Statistics show that more men suffer from balding than women. Many mothers touch their son’s affectionately on their head, when they growing up, this loving touch on head becomes less or even disappears as they grow up.
Case Study: An army officer, Mr. M, did not get the expected promotion in service, rather his colleague was promoted. He was shocked to hear this and felt as if he had lost all the color in his life.
Mothers may feel that this gesture of hers is culturally inappropriate as her son is now a grown up man. Once her son is married she may feel even more withdrawn and thus more disconnected while showing any form of physical affection towards her son.
He got depressed and locked himself in a room for three days and brooded over the whole issue. He did not even let his worried wife or children in the room.
Her son misses her love and affectionate touch and this could cause balding in areas on the head where his mother touched him lovingly. Hence balding depicts an evidence of the brutal separation of loving touch in a relationship that meant a lot to you.
When he came out of the room after three days his hair majorly had turned white. To conclude: If we could become comfortable with our life situations and stop hiding or camouflaging our feelings then we would have a healthy skin and hair.
Baldness and graying of hair does not define us, it is just the opposite; it is we who When people view a bald person, as a poor define what bald patches and white hair thing, the social stigma around hair can be mean to us. responsible for further shock, which in turn can lead to further loss of hair? We humans The way we live our lives, helps us shape are image-conscious beings; we want to be our affinity to health or disease. In the nutshell, it is wise to say that “Live Life seen as perfect despite our imperfections. King Size.” The king here is our soul under We mask how we feel and call that behavior the guidance of the heart. as being strong. Hair is found in different colors. Melanin is a pigment that gives color to the hair; the issues about melanin are controlled by the cortex and medulla in the brain. It is strange that we may be born with different colored hair but most of us land up with only one color when we age, that is ‘white/gray’. When the hair turns white we need to ask ourselves “what has happened in our life that we have lost color in life?” “Which relationship or situation that brought joy and fun in life?” Absence of this relationship makes us feel as if the rainbow of our life has faded leaving hair white/gray.
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By - Anu Mehta
Ageing with dignity and grace
Manju Mohinani Patil info@celestethecenter.com +91 9820139397
Prepare for tomorrow but don’t bother yourself by it. Live moment to moment in the present. There’s no point of wishing you could turn back time because it will never happen. Like what Morrie said in the book Tuesdays with Morrie, “Unfulfilled lives. Lives that haven't found meaning. Because if you've found meaning in your life, you don't want to go back. You want to go forward. You want to see more, do more.” If you keep on wishing to go backward, you’ll never get anywhere; instead, you will just grow old and wither without accomplishing anything and losing on the present moment as well. Enjoy Yourself and Your Family. Gone are the days when you have to work double time each day to sustain your family’s needs. Ageing just means more time to spend with your husband, your children and most importantly, your grandchildren. Enjoy your time with the people who matter to you. Enjoy yourself; you have saved the special chinaware, the fine crystal cut glasses for later. Well, now is that later. Every day is special. So bring out all the special ware you have been saving over the years and enjoy it for yourself. With those you care about.
We live in a society where youth is celebrated and old age is shunned and looked upon as embarrassing and depressing. The fact is everyone only grows older as time passes. No one grows younger in age. This is a fact that most people prefer overlooking. People see ageing as a road to more limitations. On the other hand, ageing does not necessarily mean that you have to set boundaries upon yourself. As long as you enjoy good health and stamina you can live your life with dignity and grace. It is when you grow old that dependency grows and you start feeling as if somewhere down the road not Accept that Ageing is Inevitable. Ageing is only age, but even your dignity has been inevitable and no matter what you do and lost. how surgeons you visit, you still won't be able to hide the fact that you are indeed Wisdom It is often said that the older you getting old. So there is no room to feel get, the wiser you become. You gain guilty about ageing. It is less by choice that experience and knowledge in so many aging happens and more by design. aspects of living. With the amount of years However, what you can control is how you you have spent on earth, it is already view the additional wrinkles on your face. expected that you have had a taste of nearly Don’t battle with getting old; accept it as everything there is. More lessons learned one more phase of life and living and you means more lessons to teach and share. will be graceful even in your aging. Wear clothes and accessories that are suited to Live Each Day as it comes. Now is not the you and your physical body as of today. Not moment to waste your time worrying: what you have always worn or colors that you’ve had enough of that during your appealed to your spouse who is no more. Be younger years. Enjoy the present and leave in the here and now. Keep a positive yesterday behind. When you think of the attitude, cheer up and enjoy life. If you past, let it be happy memories that bring a don’t do it now, then when? smile on your face. By - Manju Patil 25 • BE - August, 2016
Heal with Colour Healing water using colour therapy: Place some water in a glass exposed to the morning sun. (ideally, before 9:30am or within 3 hours of the rising sun ) Cover the water with coloured glass. As the rays ff the sun pass through this coloured glass, the water is energized with the colour as well as the healing properties of the sun.
Colours: Manju Mohinani Patil info@celestethecenter.com +91 9820139397 Everything around us is made up of energy at various frequencies. Each colour vibrates at a different frequency. We use this difference in vibration of frequencies to heal at the emotional level. You may sit or lie down. Relax your body and wear comfortable clothing. Visualise the required colour coming from the Universal energy space into the palms of your hands.
Red: Colour of energy, vitality and power. Helps to reduce pain. Not suitable for high blood pressure and anxiety prone persons. Orange: colour of ambition, success, achievement, sexual potency. Helps in digestive ailments. Not suitable for nervous persons. Yellow: Colour for mental stimulation, clarity and confidence. Helps in skin and digestive problems. Green: Colour of healing. Use for overall well being. Regrowth of tissues and cells. Heals wounds, good for weak bones.
Gently place your palms on or just above the affected area of your body.
Blue: Colour of peace and clam. Use during fevers and bleeding.
Visualise the colour coming through your palms into your body, entering the cells and allowing the cells to heal. To increase the vibrations of the colour, light a candle of the appropriate colour during the healing.
Purple/ lavender: Colour of meditative and psychic energies. Use this colour for headaches, bodyaches, deep tissue massage.
Pink: colour of relaxation and harmony. Used to free oneself of grieving and Repeat the healing for 3-5 days, preferably emotional pain. Brings a sense of balance twice a day. Allow healing for about 10- within. 15mins each time. You may use this technique to heal yourself, others, plants, Disclaimer: please note, none of the above animals, even the Earth. is any substitute, in part or whole, for any medication or medical treatment. Please consult your doctor. By - Manju Patil 26 • BE - August, 2016
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The Art of Silence: Learning When Not To Speak The art of silence is not just learning when Shouldn't You Always Speak Your Mind? not to speak out loud. You have to know when not to text, blog, tweet, email, or The short answer is, no. Words are otherwise electronically express yourself, extremely powerful, and they can be used to educate, harm, help, damage, bless, too. curse, express expertise, or reveal foolishness. It is a mistake to let your words "Silence is golden." run wild when you are hurt, angry, or otherwise emotional, because feelings can change so rapidly. This is not to say that you should never speak your mind about things that you are passionate about. However, holding your tongue, staying away from the social media, and putting your cell phone down until you have a clear head, is a wise move. When it comes to words, quality is much better than quantity. The less you say, the more people will listen. If you feel that something really needs to be said, wait until the best time. Wait for a time when you know that you will be heard. Speak your mind with intelligence and wellcrafted words that people will understand. Your words are so much more meaningful when spoken to the right people, at the right time, and in the best way that you can express them. This simply means to warn you to think before you talk, text, or post. This proverbial phrase is so short, yet so full of timeless wisdom. The art and Why is Being Quiet for a while Such discipline of being silent has been lost in a Good Idea? this generation. Freedom of speech aside, people just don't seem to realize that Silence Allows for Introspection: sometimes it is important to just be quiet. The Internet and cell phones have made it virtually impossible to resist the temptation to reveal what is on one's mind. While self-expression is needed, there are certain times when you are generally better keeping it to yourself.
Your immediate reaction to certain things may not be the best. Taking the time to think things through can help you realize your possible fault in a given situation. You might also realize that in the grand scheme of things, there is nothing to get upset about. Maybe the other people involved are right, and you are wrong. Perhaps you took something the wrong way.
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It will Give You a Chance to Listen:
Silence Shows Good Manners:
Rather than assume things and taking your own interpretation of the situation as a gospel truth, hear the other side of the story. Have someone else offer their perspective about the intentions and reasoning behind a situation. Listening is also important when people are trying to help you, or offering constructive criticism. Instead of getting defensive, you should consider what they are saying. They could be wrong, but they can also be right. If you are in a movie theater, at church, in class, or attending a show or conference, it Listen first, then decide. is only polite not to take texts and calls unless it is really important. You can Protect Your Reputation: This is especially true, when it is related to business. Blurting out senselessly on Facebook or My Space, or tweeting without thinking first, can really make you look like a fool with no self-control. One proverb says, "Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue." If people are saying things about you, lashing out at them may not be the best choice. Sometimes, if you don't say anything, your true reputation will outshine what other people say. Silence can Protect Your Relationships:
Talking in these situations is considered very rude. It is also rude to talk at an amusement park attraction while attendants are giving instructions. In any of these situations, you are distracting other people, missing out on what is being offered, and completely disrespecting the presenter and those around you. If silence is ever appreciated, it is at these times.
If you aren't careful, you can really make yourself appear to be a hurtful jerk. You can The next time you decide to express damage relationships with one stupid yourself, think about how it will impact your life, your loved ones, your update on your page. relationships, your career, and your overall Getting on the phone the minute something reputation. happens is a recipe for gossip disaster, too. You should be careful with your texts as Express yourself when it is worth it, and well. Use discretion about what you say hold your peace when it's more effective. about other people, especially when you are upset. If you say something you really don't mean, Chesley Maldonado and it spreads like wildfire, the friendship or relationship can be over before you know it.
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What is evil eye? And how to protect yourself? 3.
Take coconut oil 100 ml, put 10 black peppercorns (Kali miri) and boil this oil t i l l h a l f , a n d then burn this oil 2 drops on any candle or camphor in house, this clears lower energies.
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Burn five bay leaves (Tej pata) on camphor in house to clear black magic.
Vijay keswani, Email: futurecure2@gmail.com Mob: 9850090230 / 9323415999
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field of Vastu,fengshui,astro,healing consultations,many people come to me saying they think somebody had done black magic on them,but truth is 90%,people don't have black magic or evil eye at all,its just fear or they think this because suddenly some bad incidents happen say,business loss,disease or accident,or any other issue.This negativity can be stopped with some simple remedies. I am sharing 5 great methods to stop negative energies. 1.
Mop the flooring in house or business 5. place with rock salt mixed with water, it clears lower energies.
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Take black candles, burn them in all 4 corners of house for seven days continuously. This stops negative or grey energies from entering your premises.
Burn bay leaf and black pepper corns on camphor and tell the person who has blackmagic or evil eye effect to sit in room for five minutes where bay leaf n Kali miri is burnt. This decreases evil eye effect.
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Playtime Look at this sample honeycomb. The shaded O and the six letters surrounding it spell COSTUME, which matches one of the clues below.
In the same way, find a 7-letter word for each of the remaining clues. Keep track of the center letter for each answer you find. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7.
Special set of clothes costume - O Soft cotton cloth Opposite of eastern Alike Wheeled toy with footboard Observer Ugly, terrifying creature
Now find the BUZZWORD for this puzzle by unscrambling all 7 of the center letters to spell the answer to this clue:. Check Your Answer in our next Issue.
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Marriage – Very Touching!
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hen I got home that night as my wife When I woke up, she was still there at the served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve table writing. I just did not care so I turned got something to tell you. She sat down and over and was asleep again. ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my me, but needed a month’s notice before the mouth. But I had to let her know what I was divorce. She requested that in that one thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic month we both struggle to live as normal a calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by life as possible. Her reasons were simple: my words, instead she asked me softly, our son had his exams in a month’s time why? and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and This was agreeable to me. But she had shouted at me, you are not a man! That something more, she asked me to recall night, we didn’t talk how I had carried her to each other. She into out bridal room was weeping. I knew on our wedding day. she wanted to find out what had She requested that happened to our every day for the marriage. But I could month’s duration I hardly give her a carry her out of our satisfactory answer; bedroom to the front she had lost my door every morning. I heart to Jane. I didn’t thought she was love her anymore. I going crazy. Just to just pitied her! With make our last days a deep sense of guilt, together bearable I I drafted a divorce accepted her odd agreement which request. I told Jane stated that she could own our house, our about my wife’s divorce conditions. She car, and 30% stake of my company. laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. to face the divorce, she said scornfully. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact sorry for her wasted time, resources and since my divorce intention was explicitly energy but I could not take back what I had expressed. So when I carried her out on the said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our cried loudly in front of me, which was what son clapped behind us, daddy is holding I had expected to see. To me her cry was mommy in his arms. His words brought me actually a kind of release. The idea of a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the divorce which had obsessed me for several sitting room, then to the door, I walked over weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. ten meters with her in my arms. She closed The next day, I came back home very late her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son and found her writing something at the about the divorce. I nodded, feeling table. I didn’t have supper but went straight somewhat upset. I put her down outside the to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I 33 • BE - August, 2016
drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind… I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit That evening I arrived home, flowers in my me… she had buried so much pain and hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I only to find my wife in the bed – dead. reached out and touched her head. My wife had been fighting CANCER for Our son came in at the moment and said, months and I was so busy with Jane to even Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, notice. She knew that she would die soon seeing his father carrying his mother out and she wanted to save me from the had become an essential part of his life. My whatever negative reaction from our son, in wife gestured to our son to come closer and case we push thru with the divorce –At hugged him tightly. I turned my face away least, in the eyes of our son— I’m a loving because I was afraid I might change my husband… mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, The small details of your lives are what through the sitting room, to the hallway. really matter in a relationship. It is not the Her hand surrounded my neck softly and mansion, the car, property, the money in naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give like our wedding day. happiness in themselves. So find time to be But her much lighter weight made me sad. your spouse’s friend and do those little On the last day, when I held her in my arms I things for each other that build intimacy. could hardly move a step. Our son had gone Do have a real happy marriage! to school. I held her tightly and said, I Author Unknown hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office… jumped out of the car 34 • BE - August, 2016
LAUGH A LITTLE When the grieving widow checked her email, she took one look at the monitor, let out a piercing scream, and fell to the floor in a dead faint. At the sound, her family rushed into the room and saw this note on the screen: Dearest Wife, Just got checked in. Everything prepared for your arrival tomorrow.
MOUTHOLOGY: A Professor was traveling by boat. On his way he asked the sailor: “Do you know Biology, Ecology, Zoology, Geography, physiology? The sailor said no to all his questions. Professor: What the hell do you know on earth. You will die of illiteracy. CHEMISTRY JOKE After a while the boat started sinking. The Sailor asked the Professor, do you know A chemistry professor wanted to teach the s w i m i n o l o g y & e s c a p o l o g y f r o m 5th grade class a lesson about the evils of sharkology? alcohol, so he produced an experiment that involved a glass of water, a glass of whiskey THE PROFESSOR SAID NO. and two worms. “Now, class. Observe closely the worms,” Sailor: “Well, sharkology & crocodilogy will said the professor putting a worm first into eat your assology, headology & you will the water. The worm in the water writhed dieology because of your mouthology. about, as happy as a worm in water could be. WRONG EMAIL ADDRESS:
The second worm, he put into the whiskey. It writhed painfully, and quickly sank to the A couple going on vacation but his wife was bottom, dead as a doornail. on a business trip so he went to the destination first and his wife would meet “Now, what lesson can we derive from this him the next day. experiment?” the professor asked. Little Johnny, who naturally sits in back, When he reached his hotel, he decided to raised his hand and wisely, responded… send his wife a quick email. “Drink whiskey and you won’t get worms!” Unfortunately, when typing her address, he mistyped a letter and his note was directed instead to an elderly preacher’s wife whose husband had passed away only the day before.
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