Dorset View November 2023

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Ben Pulford managing director ben@dorsetview.co.uk

It makes no sense. One of the most religious places in the world is causing death and destruction. This is not religion. This is inhumane. Why preach ‘love they neighbour’ and destroy faith by doing the opposite?

War affects us all deeply and with Remembrance coming up later this month, we have included some war letters to remind us of how harrowing wars are and how they tear people apart. We need peace in the world.

On a much brighter subject, our charity of the year event went amazingly well. There were all sorts of last minute issues, which had to be sorted, none less than poor Charlotte who got a throat infection and couldn’t sing. We hope she is much better by now.

As luck would have it, piano man and good friend, Matt Black was available and he came along for the whole evening and entertained everyone. I can’t thank Matt and his partner Mel enough for lugging all the equipment over to Dudsbury Golf Club and giving us a night to remember.

Tony Brown did us proud as auctioneer; Suzanne and Sam Lovell from Meridian Air Conditioning made a fantastic auction lot donation on the night worth £1,500 and Louis sprang a huge surprise to raise even more money for Dorset Mind. Turn to page 25 to find out what it was.

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More woes for Ferndown as golf course to close In a month beset with companies moving out of Ferndown – starting with the closure of The Nightjar, followed swiftly by Wilko (which has now been replaced by Poundland) and the unexpected closure of KFC – a further blow has been struck with the announcement that Dudsbury golf course will close at the end of March 2024.

Beate Braban, from the golf club, said in a statement: “It is with great sadness that I have to announce that the GOLF COURSE ONLY at Dudsbury Golf Club Hotel & Spa, will be closing from 1 April 2024.

We were recently informed that the lease purchased on the golf course will expire on 31 March 2024 and will not be renewed.

“I would like to confirm that the hotel and spa, bistro, events and the guesthouse will operate as normal but will undergo extensive refurbishments and investment and will continue to provide excellent facilities for the local community to use.

“Over the years, Dave and I have always provided excellent value golf on an extremely challenging course. Dave Braban’s vision when purchasing the club back in 2006, was always 'golf for all and not just the few'. I feel I have fulfilled his wishes over the past 18 years during some extremely

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unprecedented times. I would like to express my sincere gratitude to my team who have maintained the course and supported the club throughout our time here.”

The announcement has caused speculation over the future of the land the course sits on, with many people suggesting the area will be used for the development of more housing in the area.

The golf course was earmarked for potential development within the draft Dorset Council Local Plan which was put out for consultation in 2021.

Dorset View spoke to Ferndown Town Councillor Mike Parkes about the possible development of the land. He said: “I’m aware the golf course will be closing, but don’t know whether this is for development.

“The land at Dudsbury golf course was included in the Dorset Council Local Plan consultation that took place

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in 2021. The good thing is, the number of homes originally proposed has been halved – due to the way the land is, the original number was just not feasible.

“When the next draft of the plan is published, it is likely that a lot more will come out. Of the rest, we want developers to focus on entry-level housing, as we want people to be able to grow up and continue to live in Ferndown.”

The draft version of the Dorset Council Local Plan is due to be published in December 2024 (stage two), after which it will be submitted to the Planning Inspectorate in April 2025 (stage three).

At stage four, people will once again have chance to comment via public hearings and a report will be written suggesting further modifications to the plan. It is anticipated that the plan will be adopted in the spring of 2026.

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Volunteers needed for Christmas tree collection Julia’s House children’s hospice is seeking kindhearted elves to help with its Christmas tree collection and recycling service on 11, 12 and 13 January.

The charity is especially looking for local businesses or individuals with vans as they will need help transporting the trees to recycling centres in Dorset.

Volunteers will be helping to load trees on and off the vans, so need to be physically fit and able. Once collected, the trees will be taken to Adventure Pirate in Lytchett Minster and

ECO Sustainable Solutions in Christchurch to be recycled as chippings for use on local farms and community spaces.

If you would like to contribute a van or volunteer your time, contact the Julia’s House team at treepickup@juliashouse. org or call 01202 644220.

Julia’s House will be collecting trees from doorsteps in Bournemouth, Christchurch, Poole, Corfe Mullen, Wimborne and Purbeck for a suggested minimum donation of £10. Bookings are open on the charity’s website on www.juliashouse.org/trees

Council leader up for award Dorset Council’s Cllr Spencer Flower is one of five people across England, Wales and Scotland to be shortlisted for Leader of the Year in the 14th LGIU and CCLA councillor awards.

There were 300

nominations across five categories and Cllr Flower is the only Dorset councillor to be in the running for an award. The winners in England and Wales will be announced at the Guildhall in London at 7pm on 16 November.

Dorset Police officially welcomed its first Rural Mounted Volunteers at a launch ceremony which took place at Kingston Maurward College.

Volunteers on horseback will engage with local rural communities while out on their regular hacks along bridleways, lanes and country roads, gathering important information and reporting anything suspicious to the Rural Crime Team. The scheme has been funded by Dorset Police and is supported by the Dorset Police and Crime Commissioner David Sidwick, pictured right. To apply to be a volunteer, please email contact.vol@dorset.pnn.police.uk

Find your 50 campaign Local dads Scott Richmond and Jody Frost took on HomeStart Wessex’s ‘Find your 50’ challenge running the Bournemouth Half Marathon and raising over £700.

2023 is a special year for Home-Start UK, being 50 years since the first

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family was supported by a Home-Start in Leicester.

If you would like to support this charity by doing something 50 times, such as 50 squats, baking 50 cakes or selling 50 plants, go to https://homestartwessex. org.uk/50-years/

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Princess Anne visits Livability’s Millie College at Holton Lee Pictures and report by Jecs Davies HRH The Princess Royal planted a Millie rose at a Dorset college on 9 October to celebrate its first anniversary and signify future growth.

Livability Millie College is a centre for people aged 16 onwards with Special Educational Needs, funded by the charity Livability, that welcomed its first cohort of students in September 2022.

HRH The Princess Royal is a patron of Livability and was joined by 200 guests on the campus to learn about the college’s provisions and achievements in the last year.

Since opening, the college has more than doubled its number of students and anticipates further growth to meet demand.

Princess Anne said: “It’s a real pleasure to stand here and

see this as a thriving centre with such a huge future in front of it.”

She also said: “We know that there is more that can be done here and we know that it needs more investment to allow that to be possible.”

The college is based on a 350-acre site in Holton Lee and CEO, Sally Chivers, has launched a fundraising drive to support development projects.

Sally Chivers said: “We’re limited purely by the amount of classroom space at the moment. We need some finance to get some of these demountable structures off the ground and then we would have no limits.”

During a guided tour, The Princess Royal watched students participating in sessions involving animal encounters, horticulture,

The Princess Royal unveils the plaque alongside Sally Chivers

conservation, and creative arts.

The curriculum at Millie College is a blend of classroom-based learning and practical activities in less formal, outdoor settings.

Part of this means working in partnership with local businesses and organisations to extend opportunities into the community.

Sally Harris, a former trustee who has been involved in Livability for over 20 years, said: “There are visions of hope in these places. Livability goes into the nooks and crannies of society and finds people who may otherwise get left behind.”

The Princess Royal concluded her visit by planting the Millie rose and extending

her support of the college and its progress. Before she left, she was presented with a posy of flowers by student James Oswald.

Student James Oswald presents a posy of flowers.

Autumn gardening

by Plants Direct As the clocks reset to winter hours, shorter colder days are to be expected.

With the final clearing of fallen leaves and fruit to the compost heap, it is time to finish the planting of spring flowering bulbs. Daffodils, tulips, narcissus, crocus, snowdrops and hyacinths can be planted in pots, containers and borders for early spring colours and fragrance.

Vegetable gardens can be dug over and prepared with manure and compost for next year’s crops.

Fruit trees and bushes can now all be pruned to improve fruiting and growth.

New trees and bushes can be planted now to get them established for the early spring.

Planting of most deciduous trees, roses and hedging plants can now be done.

Visit your local nursery or garden centre where

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advice on planting of native species hedging and trees will be readily available.

Planting hawthorn, blackthorne, hazel, dog roses, Viburnum and more will give lots of flowers, berries, and fruit so you can create a habitat for birds, bees, and insects.

Lawns and grass areas can be repaired and levelled easily now, patching with turf or topsoil and seed.

As the frost appears, cover tender shrubs and plants with fleece and make sure pots and planters have adequate drainage as waterlogged plants very rarely survive through the winter.

Top dressing of pots and around plants with mulch and bark helps keep the frost at bay and helps supress weeds and slugs.

With Christmas on its way, planting of pots and baskets may still be done to cheer and brighten the winter gloom. @Dorset_View

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law spot by Harold G Walker Solicitors

Domestic Abuse in the Home and Elsewhere – A Male Perspective

By Rob Price, Associate, Family Law Solicitor

We will all have been exposed to some of the most horrific events reported in the press concerning abuse to men at the hands of women.

One recent example is the case of Eleanor Williams, who was sentenced to eightand-a-half years concerning rape and trafficking allegations. But what if this level of abuse extends to men at home, perpetrated by their female partners?

There are legal remedies available to both men and women who experience physical and/or psychological abuse from their partners. These remedies are provided in existing law, which addresses all forms of harm: The Domestic Abuse Act 2021.

Section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015 introduced a new criminal offence of controlling or coercive behaviour in intimate or family relationships.

This offence helps avoid the arduous task of proving a pattern of behaviour amounting to harassment.

While cases of actual murder gain significant attention, there are more

common but often unseen instances of systematic abuse against men. For example, a woman was recently jailed for life for murdering her husband due to systematic abuse, and another case involved a prison reform boss who subjected her husband to 15 years of abuse and received a four-year jail sentence. These cases raise the question of why such abuse often goes unnoticed.

Society tends to unfairly pre-judge men as the main providers and protectors, making it difficult for them to fight back. They are expected to conform to traditional roles and face potential repercussions if they challenge societal norms. This societal dynamic can deter men from seeking help or taking action.

At Harold G Walker, we have a team of highly experienced family law practitioners ready to assist you with complete confidentiality.

Law Spot is for information only and does not constitute legal advice.

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Heathside Travel has two festive holidays going out this year. On 8 December, they head to Norwich for the weekend to see the incredible Thursford Christmas Spectacular show. This extravaganza of singing, dancing, music and variety is the biggest of its kind in Europe and features a cast of 130 performers. On 23 December, they head to the Abbey Hotel to spend Christmas in Great Malvern. Enjoy time to relax and see some of the local area, with all entertainment and meals provided – including a traditional Christmas lunch.

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New facility in Ferndown A new ceremony room has been opened at AE Jolliffe & Son – part of Douch Family Funeral Directors – in Ferndown.

The facility, opened by Sir Christopher Chope OBE MP, is named the Sheila Kendrick Ceremony Suite after the daughter of Bert Jolliffe, the founder of the business before the Douch family took it over.

The venue offers families a place for personal and poignant funeral services, and is also to serve as a venue available to community groups. It has a catering area ideal for hosting wakes following funeral services.

The 1930's house on the site has been extended to provide a reception area, offices, meeting rooms and five chapels of rest which were blessed during the opening by representatives of local churches including Rev Patches Chabala and Fr Anthony Achunonu. A serene garden has also been planted.

Debbie Brown, branch manager; Sir Christopher Chope OBE MP; Ferndown Mayor Krissy Stamp; and Nick Douch, managing director

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Competition winners The lucky winners of the competitions in September’s Dorset View were Lisa Wolff from Ferndown, who won a £100 voucher to spend at Poole Lighting, and Barbara Campini, also from Ferndown, who won the £50 voucher to spend with one of our advertisers from Broadstone.

Barbara chose to spend her voucher with Forum Jewellers.

Lisa said: “I have never won a competition before and am very excited!

“I have had a difficult year or so with the death of my daughter but have continued to work for the NHS during this time.

“Thank you for putting a smile on my face.”

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David Sidwick, police and crime commissioner cuts the ribbon

Boscombe police station re-opens In order to provide an increased police presence in the area, Boscombe police station has reopened.

Response officers, who are the first on hand when a 999 call is made, will use the station in Gloucester Road as a base for their operations.

Previously they would have had to come from central Bournemouth and even though the distances are quite short, the built-up nature of the area inevitably meant delays as officers made their way through traffic.

Local Policing area commander T/Chief Superintendent Heather Dixey said: “The additional officers we’ve recruited in the last few years means we now have the capacity needed to reopen Boscombe. We’re always looking to improve our service, and people in the area will see an increased policing presence, tackling crime and keeping everyone safe.”

The station will host five squads of patrol officers and has been refurbished to provide them with the necessary facilities. Victim Support, a national charity supporting victims of crime, has been based at the station for several years and will continue to work there.

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Makeover for garden in Bournemouth The garden at Winton Salvation Army Church and Community Centre in Bournemouth has undergone a makeover with support from the team at the Sheltered Work Opportunities Project at Cherry Tree Nursery (SWOP) and Antony Batty & Company.

Elaine Wilkins, Antony Batty business development manager in Bournemouth, said: “Charities such as SWOP are seeing a big increase in the number of people with mental health issues requiring help, and they do great work in that area. The Salvation Army, whose focus is on transforming lives, also has a significant role in helping mental health through the work it does with youth and children, families and older people.”

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The Black Friday offer runs from 13-30 November 2023.

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Entry closes on 30 November 2023. T&Cs apply (see below).

Terms and conditions: Black Friday Membership competition Entry closes on 30 November 2023. A 12-month BH Live Active multisite Family membership for two adults and two children (under 16) consists of access to BH Live Active gyms, pools, spas (subject to age) and classes in the BCP region for 12 consecutive months. Centres include Queen’s Park, Littledown, Pelhams, Stokewood, Sir David English Sports Centre and Corfe Mullen. Facilities vary at each centre.

At the end of the 12-month period, the membership will cease. BH Live Active Membership must be activated by 18:00pm, 31 December 2023. The prize is not transferable and cannot be applied to current BH Live Active memberships. Entrants must be aged 18 or over. This offer can be withdrawn at any time.

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PULFORD PUBLICITY sponsors WIMBORNE COMMUNITY GARDEN Community garden has a golden glow

By Jane Benson

Wimborne Community Garden volunteers were ecstatic to find out we had been awarded a gold medal by judges for the South & South East in Bloom campaign.

L-R: Sandi Cook, the President of Britain in Bloom, and Jane Benson © Amanda Burton

Back in April of this year, we took part in the South & South East in Bloom competition.

This is the largest horticultural campaign in the region, involving hundreds of communities. The results of this competition were to be announced at RHS Wisely on 29 September so we hired a minibus and 17 of us set off early in the morning. The bus was filled with excited and nervous chatter but once we arrived we were able to calm our nerves as we wandered around the stunning gardens. We had a glorious time admiring the colourful and wondrous borders. Then, in the afternoon, it was time

to go to the award ceremony.

We had chosen to be judged in two categories. The first was ‘It’s Your Neighbourhood’ where we had to prove that the garden had enhanced the local neighbourhood. We knew that everyone who took part in this was awarded a certificate but we hadn’t realised that these ranged from Level 1 up to Level 5. As the awards were announced in alphabetical order we had a long wait but eventually our name was called and we were thrilled to be given a Level 5 certificate, rated ‘Outstanding’.

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Celebrate Christmas at Kingston Lacy, where the fabulously decorated house will bring to life traditional festive tales from around the world.

There’s magic for all the family this Christmas. You’ll find trees twinkling with lights and tables ready for glorious feasts in the house, where the State floor will be transformed with inspirational decorations. Each room will highlight a different seasonal story, bringing the world to the doorstep in celebration of tales that have been told for centuries.

There’s an extra special treat for younger visitors (up to age 12), who can join an adventure to find Santa in his hidden storybook nook (booking essential). There’ll be a cosy Christmas tale, an early gift and the opportunity for a photo with the man himself. Bring your child on a fantastical journey before snuggling up for an extra special storytime that will live in their imaginations forever. Check details, prices and ticket availability via www.nationaltrust. org.uk/visit/dorset/kingston-lacy.

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The second category was ‘Our Community’ and we were judged on how we impacted on the community but this time the prize would be a medal. To our absolute delight they announced that not only had we won a gold medal but we were declared the winning entry.

It was a glorious day and the singing in the minibus on the way home was pretty glorious too. The report we received stated we were doing well and the important thing was we keep going – so, with your help, support and encouragement, that’s exactly what we intend doing!

There’s nowhere quite like Wimborne at Christmas. The beautiful architecture, unique independent businesses, and some of the best food and drink in Dorset makes Wimborne a magical place at Christmas.

Wimborne Christmas Market starts off the season on 18 November. Following the success of last year’s market, it has been extended further into the High Street and into Crown Mead. With free children’s entertainment, gifts, food and drink, free parking*, and Radio Wimborne on hand, the atmosphere is going to be unmissable.

The Christmas Lights Switch-On Day is 25 November, and the famous Save the Children Parade is on 9 December.

Look out for the full calendar of events at www.wimborne.info, or pick up the Christmas programme.

Wimborne businesses wish you a very happy Christmas and look forward to welcoming you to Wimborne very soon. *Free parking excludes Co-Op, High Street and Waitrose car parks.

Star Wars toys at museum The Force will be strong in Wimborne Minster until 20 April next year as one of the UK’s finest collections of vintage Star Wars toys and original cinema posters has gone on display at the Museum of East Dorset.

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Wimborne toasting fork finds Anne Oliver, daughter of wellknown Wimborne Minster residents Anthony and Christine Oliver – and who now lives in Cornwall – is an enthusiastic fossil hunter.

Whilst staying in Lyme Regis recently, she was scouring the beach in the Black Ven area to the east of the town when her partner Gary spied what he thought was a large fork sticking out from under a rock.

Initially he was going to leave it but then gave it a tug, and out came a somewhat bent toasting fork, 18inches in length. On further inspection, Anne noticed the wording on the top was Wimborne Minster and under an effigy of the Quarterjack was the wording ‘Quarterjack’.

This was an amazing find linking Anne with her parent’s home but found on a beach in West Dorset. The area where Anne and Gary found the fork is part of an old Victorian tip which is constantly being eroded by the sea. This probably dates the fork from the early 1900s

but where they were sold, presumably in Wimborne, is unknown. Any suggestions would be welcomed.

The story does not end here because many years ago

Anne saw exactly the same thing in a shop in Cornwall and bought it for her mother. This identical toasting fork has been in Anthony and Christine’s lounge for a very long time.

Anne with the toasting fork

Christine with her toasting fork

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Counselling a beacon of hope People struggling with their mental health may be sceptical about the benefits of counselling, however, one Poole resident is keen to share her experiences in the hope it will help someone else.

Emily Downing accessed the NHS Talking Therapies service, run by Steps2Wellbeing, for adults over 18 who are registered with a GP in Dorset.

Treatments include Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), online courses, self-help and counselling, which are proven to be very effective in helping people to cope

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with problems such as anxiety and depression.

Emily said: “I had very low hopes and expectations. But I was wrong and that’s why I want to share my story to help someone else out there.

“I am so much better, and this is thanks to my lovely therapist. The skills I was provided with are very

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beneficial, and I still use them day to day to help lower my anxiety. Without the help I have received, I would still be at square one.”

People can refer themselves to Steps2Wellbeing. For information, visit www. steps2wellbeing.co.uk or call 0800 484 0500.

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Looking to lose a few pounds?

When it comes to losing weight successfully, making small, manageable changes to your daily routine can make a big difference.

Here are a few tips from LiveWell, Dorset’s free health and wellbeing service. LiveWell offers a weight loss kick-start with 12 weeks free at a slimming group or online support, plus 1-2-1 coaching. Find out if you are eligible: 0800 840 1628 or visit livewelldorset.co.uk.

Drink more water: don’t mistake thirst for hunger. Water also boosts your metabolism and can help you feel fuller if you drink a glass before a meal.

Don’t skip breakfast: this will make you feel hungrier, leading to snacking or eating bigger meals later.

Get more active: exercise burns extra calories and helps keep weight off.

The trick is finding an activity

you enjoy and making it part of your daily routine.

Don’t ban treats: banning food you love will make you crave it more. You can have a small treat occasionally but try to stick to Public Health England’s suggested 400 calories for breakfast and 600 each for lunch and dinner.

Discover more tips and free support at www.livewelldorset.co.uk

Plan your meals: plan your meals and snacks for the week so you know exactly what you are going to eat. Making a weekly shopping list means you’ll buy fewer unnecessary items.

Cut down on alcohol: did you know that a glass of wine has the same number of calories as a piece of chocolate?

Try swapping alcoholic drinks for low-calorie soft drinks.

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Alpaca experience Residents from Dorset House, a Care South home in Poole, took a walk on the wild side when they visited the Alpaca Adventure in Shaftesbury.

Wendy, who works at Alpaca Adventure, introduced each of the alpacas.

For Dorset House resident, Jean, the visit was a dream

come true. She said: “It’s an experience that I have been dreaming about for a long time, and I am so grateful that I have finally been able to do it. Alpacas are my favourite animal, and it was so special to have this opportunity to interact with them, as they’re not something you’d see every day.”

Digital records for new parents New parents in Dorset will now be able to access and update their children’s medical records via an app on their phone.

Previously, a baby’s Personal Child Health Record (PCHR) was kept in its ‘Red Book’, which is now supplemented by the Nurturey PinkBook app. Approved, assured and regulated by NHS England, the app offers digital access to all of the information

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contained in the Red Book, which will continue to be used.

A pregnant mother can simply download the app, and sign up with their NHS login.

When a baby is born, the system will automatically set up the child’s PinkBook with no manual input required. As the child’s vaccinations and check ups are conducted, the information will be available automatically on the PinkBook.

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Staying in control of stress According to the Mental Health Foundation, 74 per cent of adults have said they’ve been so stressed over the past year they felt unable to cope. This is in no way a small amount, and so we need to pay more attention to the symptoms of stress.

Thursday 2 November is Stress Awareness Day, and instead of aiming to eliminate stress entirely, we’re looking at ways of managing and coping with unhelpful thought patterns and focusing on situations out of our control, whether these situations are related to work pressure or a period of uncertainty.

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let unhelpful thoughts and pressure build up, and by pushing these thoughts away, they’re likely to come back.

Address these thoughts by writing down feelings which are causing stress and leave them on the page. Allow yourself to disconnect with the thoughts, and by doing this you may find unhelpful thoughts will stop going around in your head. Whilst there may not be anything you can do about the situation that is causing stress, taking it out of your mind is a good start.

We can also replace the time spent ruminating on stress by finding a combative activity. Time away from

screens can help you manage unhelpful thoughts, as mindless scrolling isn’t always time spent unwinding. A walk in nature, undisturbed by your inbox could be helpful to find time and space to take a few deep, meaningful breaths.

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who might be struggling.

Support for you: Visit dorsetmind.uk for local mental health support and ways to keep mentally healthy Call Samaritans for free 24/7 emotional support on 116 123 Call Dorset’s mental health helpline Connection for support on NHS 111

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Water safety skills for RNLI staff Swimming tutors from Dorset’s Individuality Swimming have been working with office staff from RNLI’s Poole headquarters to help them learn how to ‘Float to Live.’

Five members of staff from the national charity, which has its headquarters and training college in Poole, Dorset, took to a local pool to learn how to float.

The lessons, led by Kristin Maguire, were held in conjunction with World Drowning Prevention Day, a global awareness day, encouraging education around drowning prevention.

RNLI’s Race Equality Network initiated the lessons, to help ensure that everyone at the charity has the chance to learn this vital lifesaving skill if they haven’t acquired it already.

Megan Manneh, Water Safety delivery manager and chair of Race Equality Network at the RNLI, was part of the group that took part in these sessions. Her officebased job involves making sure the RNLI water safety teams have everything they need to fulfil their roles, so when given this opportunity to be more hands on like her colleagues, she jumped at the chance.

Office-based Megan Manneh, Water Safety delivery manager and chair of Race Equality Network at the RNLI jumped at the chance to be part of the group.

“It was a fabulous session and I’m incredibly proud of everyone for putting their fears aside and getting stuck in. I still have a way to go in my swimming journey but today was step one.”

On the August Bank Holiday Monday, the Ferndown Upper School Plane Pull team pulled a Boeing 737, weighing 35,000 kg, a distance of 50 metres raising over £1,800 for the John Thornton Young Achievers Foundation. This was all achieved in just 46.91 seconds.

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Corfe Mullen pupils have their eyes opened to science Children at Lockyer’s Middle School in Corfe Mullen were given a glimpse into the world of science when a Curiosity Cube visited.

The shipping container has been transformed into a mobile science lab and is designed to inspire young people to take Science, Technology, Engineering and Maths (STEM) subjects.

It is run by Merck, a global science and technology company, and some of its scientists staffed the facility.

The children learned about ‘contamination’ by conducting experiments,

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examining microscope images and peering through virtual reality headsets.

The school’s head of science, Gilly Snaith, said: “The cube has certainly helped open their eyes, and the Merck staff spoke to them about careers in science in order to encourage everyone to think about it.

“They pointed out that there are many types of scientist and many different careers open to them.

“Lots of our children were inspired by the visit and we hope many will go on to do STEM subjects at upper school.”

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Girls falling behind in maths Girls in Dorset are lagging behind boys when it comes to their performance in maths.

According to the latest statistics, only 66 per cent of girls achieved the expected standard in maths. This is six per cent below the national average.

In contrast, 70 per cent of boys in Dorset met the standard, albeit still trailing the national average by two per cent.

Amanda Davis, corporate director for Education & Learning at Dorset Council said: “Nationally, girls already face challenges in maths, and we want to do something to support our girls in Dorset.

“Although the stats are a worry, evidence shows that we can close the gap with concerted effort.

“I’m aware of lots of brilliant maths teaching and learning going on in Dorset schools, and we are working together to improve on that great practice.

“It would be great to see our girls start to imagine themselves as future scientists and mathematicians and I’m certain we can get there.”

‘Outstanding’ Sheiling School Following a recent Ofsted residential inspection, Sheiling School has been rated Outstanding across all inspection areas.

The school, which provides day and residential placements for children and young people between the ages of 6 and 19 with severe, complex and moderate learning disabilities was praised for its provision, which “contributes to the excellent social, emotional and physical progress that all the children make in this school.”

Head of Residential Services, Heidi Holm Rasmussen, said: “To achieve an outstanding rating as a residential provision is recognition that we are understandably very proud of.

“Our staff are skilled, proactive and dedicated and I am delighted this has been highlighted by the inspection team.”

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Charity of the Year OVER £2,000 RAISED FOR DORSET MIND What a night it was on 14 October when over 50 people came together to raise funds for Dorset View’s charity of the year Dorset Mind. Six months of planning and preparation culminated in an exceptional fundraiser held at Dudsbury Golf Club.

MATT BLACK TO THE RESCUE At the eleventh hour, singer Charlotte Geary had to pull out due to a throat infection. One of the organisers, Janine Pulford, said: “Against all probabilities our long-standing friend, Matt Black, came to the rescue and was able to bring his piano and put on one of his legendary performances. Not only that, he generously waived his expenses and asked for them to be donated to Dorset Mind.”

L-R Ben Pulford, Louis Pulford, Janine Pulford, Matt Black, Tony Brown

Matt Black

WELCOME Pulford Publicity’s MD Ben Pulford welcomed everyone and gave a brief introduction. This was followed by Dorset Mind’s CEO, Linda O’Sullivan from Bridport, and Marie Glen, legacy and bids officer, explaining about the charity’s work and its need for funds to help those in Dorset with mental health issues.

Welcome by Ben Pulford

FLASH AUCTION A flash auction by Tony Brown for champagne and Prosecco donated by him raised £55. This was followed by a three-course meal and coffee.

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In stitches: Nick, Marilyn and Mike from Dorset View

Natasha – birthday girl and her party

MATT BLACK “SHOULD BE ON TV” After dinner, Matt Black had everyone in stitches as he fired off a string of hilarious jokes whilst playing the piano. He even got everyone singing ‘Happy Birthday’ in Monty Python-esque voices to Natasha in the audience. On a more serious note, he sang ‘Don’t Let the Sun Go Down on Me’ – a song that he said had got him through a difficult time in his life.

“Matt is a true legend. Dorset is so lucky to have him. He really should be on TV sharing his talent with the world,” said Janine.

MAIN AUCTION Tony Brown stepped away from his dinner table and into the auctioneer’s role.

With interest soaring, a set of Portmeirion bowls donated by Salamander Cook Shop reached £100 and a luxury hamper (a late ‘lot’ from Virginia Hayward in Shaftesbury) made £120. A surprise and generous donation of an air conditioning package for a bedroom was given on the night by Suzanne and Sam Lovell from Meridian Air Conditioning, which made an incredible £600 for the charity, and then came a shock. Tony Brown asked Janine to sit down. Her youngest son and creative director Louis Pulford stepped forward and said if people would bid for him to have his dreadlocks cut off, he would do it to raise more funds for Dorset Mind. As he’s been growing them for over 15 years, both Janine and her husband Nick gasped in disbelief. Bidding rapidly reached £100 and the fate of his dreadlocks was sealed by Sue and Clive Watkiss.

In another gesture of generosity, Suzanne Lovell outbid everyone for the Ferndown Florist flower arrangement, which flew to £80 and without hesitation she presented it to Janine in thanks for “the lovely evening.” Suzanne also won the giant cuddly toy pig in the raffle and kindly donated it to Tony Brown who’d had his eye on it all night. He aptly named it MAC after Meridian Air Conditioning!

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Suzanne and Sam Lovell

ON FILM The lively evening was filmed for Pulford Publicity by Jecs Davies from Bournemouth University who also made time to interview Linda O’Sullivan, Matt Black and Tony Brown.

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Janine, Nick, Ben and Louis would like to say a big “thank you” to everyone who supported the charity event. The raffle, auction and dinner raised over £2,000.

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State of nature shows devastating decline in wildlife The State of Nature report published on 28 September shows that nature is continuing to decline at an alarming rate across the UK. Already one of the most nature-depleted countries in the world, Great Britain is now at risk of losing one in six species.

Across Dorset, over 400 land and freshwater species recorded in the past are now thought to be extinct, about one in 40 species.

These include the pearl bordered fritillary butterfly, shrill carder bee and chough.

Extinction is only the tip of the iceberg though – some 2,500 species are still here, but are threatened, rare, scarce, or protected.

People’s concern about nature loss, climate change and degraded wild places is a significant voting issue.

Dorset Wildlife Trust, along with its national federation of 46 Wildlife Trusts across the

UK, is calling on politicians of all parties to commit to an ambitious programme of policies to support nature’s recovery. The trusts have identified five priorities for politicians to consider ahead of the next general election: • Bring back the UK’s lost wildlife • End river pollution and water scarcity • Fund wildlifefriendly farming • Enable healthy communities • Tackle the climate emergency by protecting and restoring natural habitats Craig Bennett, chief executive of The Wildlife Trusts, said: “The State of Nature report is a stark reminder that politicians must not let nature

drop down the agenda – there is far too much at stake.

“This next parliament is the most important in my lifetime for nature and climate action.

The clock is ticking towards the 2030 deadline by which point the UK government has committed to protect at least 30 per cent of land and sea for nature and to halve the risks posed by pesticides. Nature recovery is fundamental to tackling climate change and improving people’s lives – history will not be kind to politicians that ignore this truth.”

Further details of the top five priorities are available here: https:// www.dorsetwildlifetrust. org.uk/things-do/actfor-nature/our-prioritiesnext-uk-government

Second generation beaver kit feeding on willow branches © Dorset Wildlife Trust

New beaver kits For the second year running, beaver kits have been born at the Dorset Beaver Project site, run by Dorset Wildlife Trust.

Beavers live in family groups, typically consisting of an adult pair and two generations of young, with breeding occurring between December and February. This year, two new beaver kits were first spotted in early summer.

The four-hectare enclosed site in west Dorset currently provides ample space for the family of seven (two adults and five kits). Breeding for the second year in succession is an indication that the pair of beavers, which were introduced to the site in February 2021, are healthy and happy in their home.

Get ready for a Merry Christmas

By Lynwood Vets Have you ever tried to explain Christmas to your pet? It is important to remember that pets like routine and predictability and at Christmas things change and they won’t understand why.

While some might enjoy the hustle and bustle of activities and everyone being at home, for others it causes anxiety which might lead to aggression or unwanted behaviours. All the preparations, parties and unusual activities disrupt their normal daily routine. This can include the arrival of the tree and furniture being moved to accommodate it, presents being hidden in their resting places or the spare bedroom being prepared for guests.

On the day itself, try and keep your pet’s normal routine.

Be mindful as to how many treats you give them, stomach upsets on Boxing Day are no fun. Some Christmas plants and foods are poisonous and eating decorations, wrapping paper and toys

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can also cause problems.

For pets that don’t want to join in, make sure they have quiet places to go. Cats like to hide up high or under things, maybe in a leftover Amazon delivery box. Fish, hamsters and other pets that can’t move to a quieter place or those that live outside may need extra bedding and may be scared of fireworks or noise from parties.

With a little extra thought and planning you can keep your pets happy – for Christmas, not just for life.

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foodie news

Bringing cookware to life The award-winning Salamander Cookshop is developing a reputation for its enjoyable day and evening events, including the Wimborne Food Walk which celebrates the town’s growing reputation as a foodie destination.

During a recent walk, 14 people visited eight artisan food stores and cafes, sampling local fare, learning about where businesses source their food and getting tips including how to fillet a fish and poach the perfect egg.

The next food walk is a special pre-Christmas evening event on 7 December, and will include a walk and food and drink tasting in store.

And on 30 November, Salamander welcomes Anita Davidson, national demonstrator for KitchenAid, for an entertaining evening helping you make the most of your kitchen appliances.

Admission for all events is by ticket at £10 per person or £15 for two. Evening events include a welcome drink, food tasting, a prize draw and offers on the night. For details and to book, pop into the store or visit www. salamandercookshop.com.

Plan your Christmas Day celebrations So many Christmas traditions revolve around food with all the family, however, the result is often that the person hosting ends up doing the vast majority of the cooking, barely stepping out of the kitchen for the day.

Or you may be more than happy to have extended family join you, but discover that you don’t have the space, or even enough crockery and glasses, to accommodate everyone.

If this is you, and you’d like to have a more relaxed Christmas Day (and probably Christmas Eve too), why not let someone else do the hard yards?

Many pubs and restaurants now open for Christmas lunch. Imagine it – no need to deal with the last-minute rush at the supermarket or juggle cooking the turkey and all the trimmings in a too-small oven. Each guest can choose a meal

to suit their personal tastes or dietary requirements, and you’ll find plenty of international cuisine options if you’d prefer something a little less traditional.

It is advisable to book early, especially if your family is large, as popular restaurants will fill up quickly. Start talking about where you’d all like to go sooner rather than later, and once you’ve decided,

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make that reservation.

You’ll also want to think about how you’ll get home.

If all the adults in your party like to have an alcoholic drink with their meal, book a taxi so everyone can have a relaxing time.

When letting other people take over the hosting duties, Christmas will be all about spending quality time with your loved ones – exactly as it should be.

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Events Details were correct at the time of going to print. Send information about your events to newseditor@dorsetview.co.uk

1, 8, 15, 22 and 29 November 7pm

Aspects of Spirituality talks in Wimborne Minster church.

Tickets £5 including light refreshments from the parish office or at the door.

2 November 7.15-9.15pm

Ferndown & District Historical Society meets at the Barrington Centre on the first Thursday of each month. Contact Andrew Palmer 01202 874407.

2 November 7.30pm

Verwood and District Horticultural Society meets at Verwood Memorial Hall on first Thursday of the month. Details on www. verwoodhorticulturalsociety. co.uk or 01202 827622.

4 November 6.30pm for 7pm start

Quiz night at the RBL in Wimborne to support the Poppy Appeal. £5 a head entry fee, boxed meals available in advance at £6 each (contact the RBL). Email: lee_burton2000@yahoo.com

4 November 7pm, 8pm and 9pm Bournemouth Fireworks celebrates its silver jubilee at the Littledown Centre.

8 November 6.30-9pm

Bournemouth Big Band, Swing and Jazz Club meets downstairs in Kinson Community Centre. Details www.bournemouthjazzclub.org

8 November 7.30pm

East Dorset Antiquarian Society meets at St Catherine’s Church Hall, Wimborne.

8 November 7.30-9.30pm

RSPB New Forest Local Group, The Isles of Scilly Birds, Lyndhurst Community Centre.

Non-members £5, members £3 Tel 01425 652864 https:// group.rspb.org.uk/new forest/

11 November 7.30pm

11 November 10am-3pm

Wimborne in Bloom Charities Fair at the Allendale Centre. Free entry.

11 November 10am

West Moors Town Council litter pick. Meet at the council office.

Broadstone Players Theatre Company presents ‘While the Cat’s Away’ at Broadstone Memorial Hall. To book: honsec@broadtoneplayers. co.uk or 01202 678449.

13 November 2-5pm

22 November 10am-1pm

Printmaking (Linocut) Christmas cards at the Museum of East Dorset. www. museumofeastdorset.co.uk

13 November 7.30pm

Dorset Chamber choir concert at Broadstone United Reformed Church, Higher Blandford Road. Tickets from choir members or on the door.

15 November 7.30pm

The Banff Mountain Film Festival at the Tivoli Theatre, Wimborne.

16 November 7.30pm

Artsreach presents folk duo Basset from Canada at Woodlands Village Hall. Tickets from www.artsreach.co.uk

Wimborne Community Theatre fundraising skittles evening at Colehill Sports and Social Club.

Bookings 01202 884201 or barbarhart414@gmail.com

11 November 7.30pm

17 November 7.30pm

Mozart Requiem presented

by Bournemouth Bach Choir in Wimborne Minster Church.

Tickets from www.ticketsource. co.uk/bournemouth-bach-choir and from Square Records.

Artsreach presents Budapest Café Orchestra at Sturminster Marshall Memorial Hall.

Contact 07903 057427.

17 November 8pm

An evening of Celtic music with Flook at Corfe Mullen Village Hall.

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RSPB New Forest Local Group field trip to the Lower Test (SU 361 140). Meet by the Salmon Leap public house SO40 3BR, with street parking nearby.

Non-members £5, members free. Tel 01425 652864 https:// group.rspb.org.uk/new forest/

25 November 10am-3pm Artisan Makers Market at Wimborne Community Centre, 41-44 King Street, Wimborne BH21 1EA.

25 November 10am-noon and 1.30pm-3.30pm

Lytchett & Upton Floral Club wreath making workshops at CJs, Lytchett Minster Parish Church.

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25 November 7.30pm

Fordingbridge Choral Society winter concert at St Mary’s Church.

Tickets from Fordingbridge Bookshop or www.ticketsource. co.uk/fordingbridgechoral

28 November 7.30pm

West Parley Gardening Club meets at the MS Centre Dorset, Church Lane, West Parley BH22 8TS. www.westparleygc.co.uk

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18 November 2-4.30pm

Honey Show at St Catherine’s Hill Community Hall, 17 Marlow Drive, Christchurch. Free entry.

West Moors Drama presents a comedy, ‘Lies, Spies and Apple Pies’ at West Moors Memorial Hall.

Tickets on the door or in advance from Dixon Kelley estate agent.

21 November 8pm

30 November 5-8pm

Wimborne Civic Society meets at the Allendale Centre. Members £2, non-members £5.

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Christmas shopping night at the Museum of East Dorset. £3. Live music in the garden 6.30-7pm.

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Remembrance Christmas events across the region 11 November 11am WIMBORNE: Short ceremony, two-minute silence and laying of a wreath at the War Memorial on the Minster Green.

RINGWOOD: Remembrance service at the War Memorial.

VERWOOD: Ceremony at the war memorial on Ferrett Green.

12 November RINGWOOD: Various services after which a parade from the Market Place. The procession will walk to the War Memorial Garden where a short service will take place followed by the formal Act of Remembrance at 12 noon, wreath-laying ceremony and procession back to Market Place.

WIMBORNE: Parade will leave Wimborne British Legion at 2.40pm for a Remembrance service in Wimborne Minster at 3pm. Wreath laying on the Minster Green at 3.40pm.

BROADSTONE: Remembrance parade from outside the RBL club, Tudor Road at 10.30am, marching to the War Memorial for the two-minute silence and wreath laying ceremony at 11am. The parade will then march to St James Church on Macauley Road for a memorial service. From 2pm, The Land Girls will be performing at the RBL club.

WEST MOORS: Procession starts at 10.30am from Riverside Road to the War Memorial at the Petwyn where there will be the laying of wreaths.

COLEHILL: Service at the War Memorial at 11am with road closures in place from 10.30am-11.30am.

VERWOOD: Service at St Michael’s Church at 9.45am followed by a procession to the war memorial at 10.45am for a service of Remembrance.

The nights are drawing in and it will soon be time to start enjoying the build up to Christmas.

The festive season begins when Christmas lights are turned on, and most of the towns around the Dorset View distribution area will be holding celebrations to mark the moment.

In Ferndown on 25 November, 1-5pm, there will be a Christmas market with children’s rides, musical entertainment and food stalls.

The tree lights will be switched on at 5pm. Father Christmas will be at the Barrington Centre.

In Wimborne, celebrations start with the Christmas Market on 18 November and continue right up until Christmas. More details can be found on page 12.

Bournemouth’s Alpine Lodge Bar and market, Christmas Tree Wonderland lights trail and SKATE ice rink will all be returning to the

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town from 17 November, and visitors can enjoy the festive atmosphere all the way until Monday 1 January 2024.

Christmas lights return to Boscombe, Southbourne and Westbourne, with each area having bespoke lights that reflect the character of the area.

In Poole, the Maritime Light Trail will be in place from 25 November until 2 January. There will be popup musical entertainment events throughout the town during the festive season.

Many of the Dorset’s tourism attractions will be holding their own festive events – see the advertisements over the coming pages for more details about these exciting events.

And would it be Christmas without a pantomime or Christmas-themed show? Many of the most popular pantomimes across the region are booking up fast, so make sure you get your tickets to avoid disappointment.

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If you love Christmas, Christchurch is the place to be In the month-long run up to the big day, there’s a festive event for everyone to enjoy almost every day.

Lights switch on The countdown to Christmas will start on 25 November when Christchurch Town Council is putting on a full programme of festive entertainment throughout the day from 11am until 8pm in the High Street and Saxon Square.

The lights will be switched on at 5.30pm. This year, the display will include deer on the roundabout, and a magical Convent and Riverside Walk that takes you to the bandstand, with further light displays along Bargates and the High Street.

Also during the day there will be a Christmas craft fair at Druitt Hall, a fete and craft fair at Christchurch Priory and lantern making at Red House Museum.

Christchurch Living Advent Calendar The Christchurch Living Advent Calendar (CLAC) will once again run in the town.

This free-to-attend event features daily surprise performances at previously announced locations, showcasing local talent and raising money for charity. Over the previous two years, the event has raised more than £41,000 for local charities.

CLAC runs from 1 to 24 December, with a different ‘door’ or ‘window’ being opened each evening to a performance by a local artiste or group of performers. Performances may include choirs, singers, bands, dance troupes, or theatre. There will be double

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the entertainment this year as each performance slot has been increased from 30 minutes to one hour.

Performances will run from 6-7pm – except Christmas Eve, which will be 2-3pm – at a different venue each day. Collections will be made, and raffle tickets sold, with the proceeds going directly to a local charity. Funding is provided by sponsorship from local businesses, and the entertainment and venues are provided free of charge.

CLAC is organised by Christchurch Rotary Club with other local volunteers and is fully supported by Christchurch Town and BCP Councils. For details, see christchurchlivingadventcalendar. org, follow CLAC on Instagram (Christchurch_living_advent) and Facebook or pick up a leaflet around the town.

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Christmas around &Events about Christmas wreath competition

Traditional celebrations

Christchurch’s Christmas Wreath Competition will return this year after a successful inaugural year in 2022.

Businesses in the town have been invited to create and display a wreath that reflects their business and members of the public can vote for their favourites. The business with the most votes wins the coveted title of Christmas Wreath Champion.

The competition begins on 20 November and voting is open until 10 December at 5pm. Wander around the town, soak up the Christmas atmosphere and vote as you go. Photos of all the entries will be displayed on the Christchurch BID (@ChristchurchBID) and Christchurch Chamber of Trade & Commerce (@Christchurchchamberoftrade&commerce) Facebook pages.

Placing a vote also automatically enters you into a prize draw to win an afternoon tea for two at Captains Club Hotel.

Winners will be announced on Monday 13 December. The competition is sponsored by Captains Club Hotel and the Christchurch Chamber of Trade & Commerce.

Christchurch Priory will be holding traditional Christmas services in the run up to Christmas, with an Advent service on 3 December, Christingle on 17 December, a crib service and Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve and Holy Communion and a sung Eucharist on Christmas Day. As well, the church will be the venue for a number of Christmas themed concerts across the month, and community Carols on 14 and 21 December.

Christmas gifts As well as the wide range of local and national businesses operating in the town, and the regular Monday market, there will be plenty more opportunities to buy unique gifts for your loved ones in the run up to Christmas. Every Monday at Druitt Hall, there is an artisan market, and every Friday – and Saturday 16 December – there will be a craft fair.

Christmas entertainment However you like to spend your free time, you’ll find plenty to entertain you over the Christmas period. As well as the CLAC performances, many of Christchurch’s pubs and restaurants will be holding their own music events. Check out your favourite venues to be sure you don’t miss out.

The Regent Centre will once again be hosting the Christmas Spectacular – a much-loved Christmas tradition for many Christchurch residents. This run of shows always lives up to its name and usually sells out, so early booking is recommended.

The Red House Museum will be holding family-friendly activity days including storytelling, facepainting and crafts, and even a Christmas gnome hunt.

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Broadstone Christmas Parade The Broadstone Christmas Parade will take place once again on Saturday 2 December. A popular event in the town, it promises to be a great day of entertainment.

As Dorset View went to press, the details were being confirmed but people heading to the parade can be sure of two things – it will be fun and loud.

The Broadstone Christmas Parade has traditionally been well-supported by the council, community groups and businesses, and this year promises to be just as spectacular. Expect music, marching bands, floats and, of course, Father Christmas.

In previous years, Santa has collected new toys for disadvantaged children from the Methodist Church porch and last year, in view of the cost-of-living crisis, he collected food that was donated to the Corfe Mullen Food Bank.

Details of items that can be donated this year will be published on social media closer to the time.

As well as the parade, the Musical Market will return to the 'Toast Rack', with stalls open from 10am until 3pm, and musical entertainment until 1.30pm. © Broadstone Christmas Parade

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Get involved If you are part of a group that loves to take part in community events, you could get involved in the parade.

The parade committee have a ‘the more, the merrrier’ philosophy, so if you would like to take part, contact them via their Facebook page at www.facebook. com/broadstonechristmasparade or email broadstonexmasparade@gmail.com.

If you are more of an organiser, you could provide your services as a marshal. Around 40 people are needed to manage the road closures, and between 20 and 30 marshals are needed to accompany the procession itself.

Local businesses are invited to become an event sponsor.

Again, get in touch via the Facebook page or the email above.

Parade schedule The entertainment will take place from 10am until 3pm. The following details were correct at the time of going to print. For the latest information, see www.facebook.com/broadstonechristmasparade 10am-1.30pm – Musical Market 10am-3pm – market stalls open 1pm – the parade gathers on Story Lane 1.30pm, approx – the parade leaves Story Lane 2.30pm, approx – the parade ends at Tudor Road

The route

The parade will start from Story Lane and process along the Broadway, then up Dunyeats Road before ending in Tudor Road next to Broadstone First School which will be closed from 12:30pm to approximately 3pm.

While there will be some road closures on the day, most of the closures along the parade route will be rolling, and the roads will reopen once the parade has passed by.

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Remembrance: a time for reflection With Armistice Day and Remembrance Sunday coming up on 11 and 12 November respectively, it is fitting that our thoughts turn to all those who risked and sacrificed their lives, fighting for our freedom.

In the August 2023 issue, Dorset View printed the story of Alan and Peggy Horton, a couple who were separated during WWII, first while Alan served his country, and then for a prolonged period as a prisoner of war after he was captured at the Battle of Crete. After their deaths, a box containing their wartime letters was discovered. Described as one of the most complete sets of wartime letters written between a husband and wife, they have since been turned into a book entitled ‘Behind the Wire: A Prisoner of War in Nazi Germany’ by their son John Horton.

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The following extracts from the book highlight the pain of being separated by war, as well as hope that the couple would one day be reunited.

Alan: Egypt 28 February 1941 Although it is about noon it is very dark, and the tent is lashed down but flapping like blazes. Outside a sandstorm is raging. It is rather unpleasant but rather thrilling. About twenty minutes before it reached us the sky turned black and had all the appearance of an ordinary storm. Small sand devils began to appear, whirlwinds which carry the sand along like waterspouts standing some hundreds of feet into the air. As the storm approached one could see it was a great mass of whirling sand and the whole surface of the desert rose up to meet it as a vast wave.

By then we had everything lashed up and ducked inside as it reached us. For a time even the tent about ten paces from us completely disappeared. It is dying away now, and some rain is falling but it still hangs over the desert like a fog. Needless to say, sand is now in everything. The desert is certainly the devil’s own country.

Peggy: Battle for Crete, 2 June 1941 Oh Darling, I simply do not know how to write and what to say. Kay Sutton’s just phoned me about Peter – poor dear Pam. I cannot write her tonight, nor the Stebbings family – but please darling my heart goes out to you all in the 234th.

Will you tell the others, also the Colonel?

I’d like to write to him in a day or so, but to you my love I can feel just how you feel – someone so vital as old Peter is no more – but he’s at peace before us and will be happy waiting for Pam to join him one day. Keep the old chin up my love, it’s a hard life – I’m fighting at your side and we’ll weather the storm together. I’m going down to Kay’s for the day tomorrow. She had a cable from Charles on Thursday saying all OK. You’re with him now, aren’t you Darling? I still can’t believe Kay’s phoned me – apparently her mother forbade her to tell me in case I didn’t know you were in action. I knew for, as I told you I felt you sapping my strength to help you pull through the hell – am glad you need my strength Darling. I’m afraid I can’t write any more for a while so I’ll bid you good night my sweet – forget the war and dream about me and us. Faith, hope and courage are in our hearts – we are /dorsetview.news

young and strong and full of our love.

Chins up, sleep tight my angel – God bless you and keep you for me and our future. My prayers are joined with yours my darling husband. Good night, my arms hold you tightly and I kiss you to sleep.

Alan: A Prisoner of War (P.O.W.) So, we embarked upon another journey — Spartea to Canea, Canea by JU52 to Athens — Athens by train and foot to Salonica — Salonica by train to Lubek, hunger, thirst, fleas, lice, bugs and filth. Rather unpleasant but necessary if one is to understand the meaning of “undernourishment”, “depressed areas”, “slums” and “the demoralising effects of unemployment” — just words before but real things now. 37 in cattle truck, half with dysentery and let out twice a day for 5 minutes! This journey lasted exactly 7 days and nights…. I too had dysentery and later Jaundice.

I had always craved for experiences. I was having them in plenty! Lubek was a clean but hungry camp. The thought of food dominated the mind, sleeping and waking. Slow starvation haunted the mind and stayed with us till long after the arrival at Warburg where Red Cross parcels were issued regularly.

Alan: in captivity in Warburg, 4 June 1942 The whole room, including a barrister, are of the opinion you have given me grounds for divorce – mental cruelty!

The picture of that large cream cake (was it chocolate?) has caused more mouth-watering than anything since we became gefangeners (P.O.W.s) but, joking apart, my sweet I was delighted with the snaps. You look even more charming than in the last and it is easy to see how you get all the compliments.

Home at last “LIEUT A E HORTON 98 AMERICAN HOSPITAL HERMITAGE NEWBURY -BERKS = BE WITH YOU FOREVER SOON ALL LOVE HUGS AND KISSES PEGGY”.

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Dream birthday weekend for 17-year-old racing driver The first racing driver to complete a ‘clean sweep’ and lead every lap of the weekend at the Ginetta Junior Championship is Reza Seewooruthun from Poole.

Reza stunned the crowds at Brands Hatch in September by leading every lap of each of the three races.

The ‘R Racing’ speedster also secured two pole positions and the fastest lap over the weekend that also saw him celebrate his 17th birthday.

In the 10 years since the formation of the championship, no driver has won all three races over a weekend, achieving the ‘clean sweep’ and leading every lap of every race.

Reza said: “It was a dream birthday weekend.”

A former English Kart Champion, Reza is in his first year of car racing and will be completing his first full season at the final round in Donnington Park at the end of October.

His efforts at Brands Hatch mean he has a strong chance

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of finishing in the top three of the drivers’ championship – alongside teammates Freddie Slater and Mikey Porter.

They are hoping for an R Racing 1-2-3 finish in the championship, to accompany their team’s win for the season.

Reza said: “I had been clocking fast times in qualifying and the car was good – but I never thought I’d top the podium after all three races.

“I was under huge pressure from other drivers but managed to stay ahead. The team and the tactics were superb.

“To achieve the fastest lap and take the two poles available really made it a weekend to remember.”

Backed by local businesses, Reza moves into Formula 4 next season and is aiming to follow in the footsteps of Formula 1 driver Lando Norris who also started in the Ginetta Junior Championships.

Fans can follow Reza’s racing endeavours on YouTube, Facebook and Instagram.

Don’t veer for deer

Autumn is a time when motorists should be especially wary of deer on the roads, particularly at dawn and dusk.

At this time of year, mating season is underway, and male deer chasing females across roads and can increase the risk of collisions. While the actual numbers of deer killed on the roads each year are not known, estimates range from 40,000 to 74,000 per year. In addition, deer vehicle collisions (DVCs) cause substantial damage to cars and numerous human injuries, as well as human fatalities each year.

The British Deer Society offers the following advice if you encounter a deer on the road: • Don’t veer for deer or over-swerve to avoid hitting a deer • If a collision with the animal seems inevitable, then hitting it whilst remaining in full control of the vehicle is the safest option – the alternative of swerving into oncoming traffic or off-theroad surface could have more serious consequences • Look out for traffic behind you and only brake sharply and stop if there is no danger of being hit by following traffic If you hit a deer, first make sure that you and your passengers are safe and park your car in a safe location with your hazard lights on. It is not a legal requirement to report a DVC, but if the animal is injured, it may require police help to remove it from the road or get veterinary assistance.

If the deer is still alive and visible, it is best not to approach it in case it runs back into the road. Instead, call the police and they will arrange for a trained specialist to deal with the situation.

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Homes scheme shortlisted for award Bins for A house-building programme that started in the South West has been shortlisted for a national award.

The Prisoners Building Homes (PBH) Programme, which is backed and led

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crisis by constructing affordable eco homes.

PBH is an innovative collaboration between public and private sector partners to unlock land and deliver affordable, highquality, low carbon, sustainable modular homes nationally; while creating job opportunities for serving prisoners and prison leavers to enable them to turn their lives around and reduce the cycle of reoffending.

The programme began when prisoners at HMP Leyhill in Gloucestershire made panels of an eco-home which were

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then constructed in South Devon with the assistance of an ex-offender who was being managed by the Probation Service.

By the end of 2023, the ambition is to have 40 serving prisoners in full-time employment on day release or on post-release arrangements and another 40 employed by opening disused prison workshops that have fallen into disrepair.

Nine prisons across the country will benefit from the programme, with plans under way to involve more.

The programme was shortlisted in the ‘Collaboration’ category of the Government Property Awards which took place on 26 September.

gardeners Keen gardeners in Bournemouth, Christchurch and Poole can now sign up for the garden waste collection service for 2024.

The service is run by BCP Council, and has collected over 11,500 tonnes of garden waste from the kerbside so far this year.

For the 2024 service, residents will receive 23 fortnightly collections, starting two weeks earlier than in previous years, running from 29 January to 13 December 2024. The service costs £65.50 per bin.

To receive all 23 collections for the 2024 service, residents must register for the garden waste collection service by Friday 15 December 2023. For information, visit https:// www.bcpcouncil.gov.

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The next deadline is 31 October and, if you miss this one, you’ll have to wait until 1 April for your next chance to start the service. A full year’s service (25 collections) costs £65, and there is an option to subscribe for a part year only.

Dorset Council residents can find more information at: https:// www.dorsetcouncil. gov.uk/bins-recyclingand-litter/gardenwaste/garden-wastecollection-service

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