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My experience with Creativate Brunei Seeing that Creativate Brunei has ignored my numerous correspondences, I am sharing my experience with its staff member there publicly.

I think it’s my duty as a responsible human being to inform everyone that Nazurah Salleh, a staff member working at Creativate Brunei, isn’t the kind of person that should be taking care of kids. I don’t want her near any children.

Here is my experience with her (summarized version at the end of this blog post seeing how long and crazy my experience with her was): Nazurah used to come to my house a lot back in Australia because she was friends with my housemate Lina. Lina was a friend of a friend. One day, Lina suffered from a mental breakdown (we later learned that it was partially induced by drugs) and was acting erratically. She was clearly having a mental breakdown. I wasn’t Lina’s friend but I suggested taking her to the hospital. Nazurah refused to do so and persuaded me not to.

The next morning, Lina was still acting erratically and Nazurah still insisted on not taking her to the hospital. I had to go to work so asked Nazurah to stay behind.

At the time, our neighbor’s child used to come to my house a lot (she was 3 or 5 at the time, I believe. We’ll call her “Anne” for a privacy sake). I had to leave to work and Nazurah wanted to leave the house, leaving Lina by herself. As I was leaving, Anne came to our house to play. Nazurah said she can play with Lina and let the child in. She was about to leave Lina, who was clearly having a mental breakdown, with a 3 yr old child, alone and unsupervised. I asked Nazurah what she was doing and she said, “Anne will calm Lina down”. She was treating someone else’s child like a dog.

I immediately went back to the house and to my horror, Lina was flinging a three year old in the air. The girl was crying and Lina wasn’t letting her go. We immediately intervened.

I didn’t let Anne in my house. Nazurah wasn’t living with us and she let Anne come into our house to “calm Lina down”, instead of taking Lina to the hospital. We did end up taking Lina to the hospital after that.

I thought Nazurah had learned from her mistake but I was really wrong. She later said that “all the crazy things you (me) said came true”. Crazy things like taking Lina to the hospital and not letting a 3 yr old stay with a mentally deranged person because that’s a form of child abuse.

Lina went to the hospital and came out. I took care of her during this time. After she recovered and she no longer needed my help, she accused me of threatening to kill her… with a candle. She accused another housemate of attempted sexual assault within the same year as well and Nazurah knew about this. Lina also ended up stealing money/things from me and other housemates. Furthermore, while my housemates and I were away, she told some random stranger that he could move into the house without telling us, the actual occupants. I’m assuming she wanted to steal his bond money.

I thought Nazurah learned from her mistake but she still defends her friend to this day (“Lina was sick”), showing her lack of judgment. I wasn’t there when Lina accused a guy of sexual assault but given the fact that she never went to the police and Lina’s behavior afterward, I don’t think that happened in real life at all. Nazurah must have known that Lina was lying but she never once wondered what it was like for the guy being accused of sexual assault.

I used to work at a courthouse in the past and had my criminal records checked all the time. I have zero criminal records but I’ve met a lot of girls that were raped but couldn’t prove they were. I have nothing but disgust toward people who would lie about sexual assault but Nazurah doesn’t feel that way because it doesn’t affect her and she is okay with defending people that would lie about it. Nazurah could have easily told her friend to stop making accusations but she never did. She was ready to leave a 3 year old in an extremely harmful situation because it didn’t affect her. Based on this, I would assume Nazurrah just doesn’t care about other people’s suffering.

Even though it was a harrowing experience being accused of something I didn’t do after I helped a person (no one believed Lina but it was still an extremely stressful situation and a major betrayal), I think it was worth it given that I ended up saving a child’s life.

Nazurah doesn’t see it that way because even though she may seem like a nice person, during times of stress she would make shockingly dumb decisions and refuse to take responsibility. She never acknowledged how wrong it was to support a person making a false sexual assault accusation. I think parents should know about her past mistakes and that this is how she treated other parent’s child.

I have nothing to hide and records will easily corroborate what I’ve said. My former neighbor can attest what Nazurah had done because she never forgave Nazurah for putting her child’s life in danger. Anyone who knows me knows that I’m the kind of guy that would stop a child from being abused. If anyone has any questions, please feel free to contact me.

I did confront Nazurah later on. She never believed in Lina’s allegation against me but she said that “you guys just had a personality clash”. Apparently, she thinks stealing money from people and making false allegations (Lina was going around insisting that I tried to kill her and cried when people didn’t believe her. She never came up with a reason why I wanted to kill her and never went to the police) is just part of people not getting along. Both Nazurah and Lina had ample time to apologize to me but they never did, indicating that they haven’t changed at all. They almost caused a serious injury to a child but they didn’t care. A person who thinks false murder threat or rape allegation to get attention is nothing serious shows clear lack of judgment and should not be put in such a responsible position as looking after other people’s children. I am sure Nazurah never wondered the emotional damage she caused to Anne. Given these incidents, my friends and I contacted Creativate Brunei several times because we were worried about the children’s safety. Instead of assuring us of the safety measures they have in place, they simply ignored our requests; as if having a child almost killed in your house due to negligence is no big deal.

Summarized version: Nazurah left a 5-yr old child alone with a person that was clearly mentally unstable and was having a nervous breakdown (Lina) to “calm Lina down”. She left the two people alone but I knew that was a wrong thing to do. When I went back to intervene, Lina was flinging the child in the air, making the child cry. Lina later got taken to the hospital against her will. Nazurah never took responsibility for what she had done and continued to do many things that I thought were irresponsible and shocking. This includes the time when Lina accused a guy of sexually attacking her which I don’t believe at all considering how she never went to the police, the amount of times she lied, and how she later stole things from us. Nazurah never once wondered what it was like for the guy that was being accused or talked to her friend about how wrong her actions were. She doesn’t care about anyone but herself and makes horrible decisions. Dealing with Nazurah and having almost a child killed in my presence was one of the worst experiences in my life and I am sharing this experience to spare people from going through the same things I did.