BERLIN IS BURNING about queer aesthetic
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BERLIN IS BURNING about queer aesthetic
EDITORIAL Some of you probably know the movie “Paris is burning� from 1991. It reminds me of my life in Berlin. About opulence, self-acceptance, strong friendships and entertainment. For 7 years now I sourround myself with people who create the nightlife in this city or try to make this world a better place by creating art, political actions or simply spreading good vibes. This magazine or gay guide or however you want to call it, is made to show you the aesthetic side of queer culture of Berlin. We are dealing with the nature of art, beauty and taste, with the creation and appreciation of beauty. What is important for drag queens in this city? Who is fighting for human rights? And how you define beauty in a sometimes so heteronormative but also plastic reality? You will get in touch with amazing people in this issue, who talk about the pretty and ugly sides of this city. And who always fight for optical pleasure.
Matthias Panitz
INTERVIEWS 10 JURASSICA PARKA
58 JULIAN LAIDIG
16 CHRIS PHILLIPS
62 KAEY
about drag aesthetic and German TV
about LGBT rights
about porn and art
about transgender and heteronormativity
20 PATSY L'AMOUR LALOVE
66 ROMAN SHAMOV
about self-hatred and political gays
about Berghain and normality
24 FRANK R. SCHRĂ–DER
72 MARCEL WEBER
about lifestyle in Berlin
about SchwuZ and tiny steps
28 OSH-REE
76 JULIE CHANCE
about Tel Aviv, Berlin and NYC
about aesthetic in music
32 MATIAS SAUTER
80 PANSY
about beauty
about being sassy and the art of drag
44 BOB YOUNG
84 INGE BORG
about the GMF
about subculture and SO36
50 GLORIA VIAGRA
88 GIANLUCA VENERDINI & GIANLUIGI PORCU
about political parties and refugees
54 JERRY DRISCO DISCO!
about the Italian way
92 HIEN LE
about aesthetic in fashion
BARS & CAFÉS
OUT
106 PRENZLAUER BERG
142 DENNIS
110 MITTE 114 FRIEDRICHSHAIN 116 SCHÖNEBERG 122 KREUZBERG 128 NEUKÖLLN
CLUBBING 134 PRENZLAUER BERG & MITTE 136 NEUKÖLLN & KREUZBERG 138 FRIEDRICHSHAIN & RUMMELSBURG
"THE GREATEST CULTURAL EXTRAVAGANZA THAT ONE COULD IMAGINE." David Bowie about Berlin
INTERVIEWS BY ALEXANDER WINTER HE RUNS A BLOG CALLED TALKING GIANTS talkinggiants.com
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these people shape the nightlife of Berlin they serve you drinks they perform they fight for rights they are artists they create
they own everything
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Some are just bigger than life. And then there is Jurassica Parka, the tall super drag queen goddess of Berlins vibrating queer nightlife. She hosts shows in theaters, clubs and also on YouTube, works as DJane and is an essential part of the scene not just because of her drag, but because of her cynic gab. And an impressive gab that is.
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PHOTO: NORBERT BENIKE
JURASSICA PARKA
Jurassica, you are an essential member of the queer party scene in Berlin. How did you evolve from Art Director to a celebrated Drag DJane? That was a very long way. Berlin is full of drags. I’d even say that Berlin is the capital of drag queens. That means a lot of competition, too. In the beginning it was very hard to stand out. But I had the advantage of having studied communication design in the past. I’ve spent a few years at an advertising agency so I know how to advertise and sell a product. Not many of my colleagues have this kind of background. If you want to make a living as a drag queen you also have to be patient! Holding on, getting to know people, doing no-profit projects… You have to be brave to do that. Financial fears are a regular thing as a freelancer. But now I’ve found my place in the scene, I just mustn’t get lazy – which I don’t want to anyway. I love my job and it’s a big part of my personality. Aside from many regular events (e.g. Nuttengucken, Literaturnight at SchwuZ etc) you also produce a weekly comedy show on YouTube: Attraktiv – Das Starmagazin. How do you keep up with your own pace? I stopped doing Attraktiv almost 2 years ago, but I still put videos on my YouTube account regularly. It’s one of my big passions and I think it’s the best way to reach a big audience outside of Germany. Actually it’s the only possibility. Sometimes I look in the mirror and I ask myself: “Who’s this clown and what am I doing here?” And sometimes I’m scared that I’m losing track and it could all become too much. But that mostly happens on days when I’m hungover from one of my parties and it stops quickly. I don’t know. I’m not an eager person. I want to do so much more, I just started. Ten years is not a long time in this business. Colleagues like Ades Zabel and Gloria Viagra have been doing it for much longer than that.
You are also a columnist at the queer city magazine Siegessäule. What’s the state of the capital in your opinion? The sate of the capital? You mean in a queer sense? Let me think. Hm, difficult. Berlin is a melting pot, where everyone can be what they want to be. That’s great. The only city in Germany, incomparable. But in the last few years the party scene has become more exhausting. There are so many different scenes. The GMF-Gays, the Neukölln-Expats, the lesbians, the transpeople, the kings, the sisters of perpetual indulgence, the drags and so on. In other cities there’s just ONE scene. Here all the different ones try to isolate
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themselves from the others. There are wars, it’s about racism and sexism and discrimination and being invisible, lots of discussions. Too many for my taste. It always starts around the CSD, every year. It’s annoying. But maybe I see it differently than a few years ago because I have been in the scene so long, met many people and got more information due to my column. And there’s Facebook! I think that’s a big part, too. Everyone has the possibility to put themselves out there – that leads to many potential conflicts. Are the cities nightlife and travesty inseparably connected and if so, why? Yes! The drag queen belongs to the nightlife like eyeliner on a lid. Haha. Why? I think that the nightlife is a microcosmos, some kind of fairytale world that has nothing to do with the real world. There are real friends and party friends. It’s a paradise especially for newbies. Plus, sequins only work in disco light.You can only be a star at night.
What are typical reactions when you walk the streets in drag? It’s 95% positive or neutral. I think that most pedestrians have seen it all. From hobo to glamour. Many of them just take a look and then walk on. Whether they’re shy or confused, I don’t know. But of course people also walk up to me, they take pictures and I make them happy. It’s amazing! But it was awful in the beginning. I felt like an alien, I was ashamed, outside of the disco. Now it’s rarely like that.You need a lot of self-esteem to walk the streets on your own. It’s different in a group. People called me bad names a few times, one time someone spat at me and once someone threw a bottle, but that’s very rare.
Imagine a young drag queen came to Berlin – what should she do first? Hop in drag, go to clubs, meet new people, talk to them. This attitude of some newcomers “I’m in drag, so I’m the star: don’t touch me!” is not acceptable. That way you’re out of the game real quick.
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As a TV-critique – is German TV dead? No! Of course there’s a lot of trash. A shitload. But I think it has improved already. Especially the smaller channels let me hope for the future. Tele5 has started to put up some brave new formats in their late night program. But I think it gets harder and harder to be brave as a TV-channel. The internet is such a huge competitor, so that they try to be on the safe side by producing irrelevant shit that sells advertising spots… I can even understand it a little bit. In general, I really need my spot on TV! That’s what I’ve been working on for years. But just like I said: You have to be patient.
Is there a drag queen aesthetic and if so how would you describe it? Yes. Exaggeration is the key! The most important parts on a drag queen are the hair and face. It also takes the longest to get them ready. More eye, more lash, more lip, more gloss, more hair! And slutty outfits. A drag queen doesn’t imitate a real woman, she impersonates the secret dreams of the hetero guys.That’s why so many hetero guys go for drag queens. Us gay guys have a different perspective of course. We see the drag queen as an imitation of the big famous divas of pop culture. That’s what it’s all about.
If you want to know where you can meet Jurassica the next time, check out her webpage: jurassicaparka.com Or see page 134 for her monthly party.
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PHOTO: MATTHIAS PANITZ
PAILLETTE GEHT IMMER Jurassica Parka
(sequin always works)
As photographer, Chris Phillips knows a lot about aesthetics – but also about sex. And that’s no surprise, given the fact that he’s the co-founder of the infamous Pornceptual party and very interested in the connection between art and pornography.
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PHOTO: CHRIS PHILLIPS
CHRIS PHILLIPS
Chris, what’s male beauty? Every form of beauty is a symbolic value. An aesthetic preference is part of a predisposition to a certain group of shared tastes, depending on your position in society. What is understood as male beauty is a direct consequence to this and therefore influenced by a hegemonic discourse and gender stereotypes. So the definition of male beauty is constructed from cultural and subjective meanings that constantly shift and vary. And what’s the difference between gay & heterosexual male beauty? Both are cultural products with distinctive categories. Since the heterosexual discourse is dominant, homosexual beauty is a response to this power system. In the contemporary gay culture, there is a presence of hyper-masculine aesthetics as a response to “being expected to behave like men” or – in other words, a masculine performance that is imposed by stereotypes and internalised homophobia. As a result, the perception of beauty for gay men is often an archetype of masculine icons: a romanticised man – with a heterosexual-like behaviour – that will not carry the stigma of being associated with effeminate queers. Do gay aesthetics exist and if so, can you describe it? Yes, as mentioned before there is a very ideal type of gay beauty, since the hyper-masculine aesthetics result from gay men’s response to being expected to behave like men and from a masculine performativity. But of course there is also space for other aesthetic representations from gay sub-cultures, such as the camp gays that will praise an exaggerated effeminate performance. What’s the beauty of pornography? Pornography is not beautiful itself, but it can be beautiful. For some people the distinction between pornography and other sexually explicit works is the idea that pornography is bad art. Although a lot of what actually counts as pornography is not at all obviously art, much less bad art, much of the aesthetic content is technically quite good, with a lot of artistic references.
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Why did you start Pornceptual? Because of my hate against mainstream pornography and love for art. It was also a tool of personal sexual liberation and a way of experimenting with my own sexuality. What are the big differences of Pornceptual to other parties? Pornceptual is a queer erotic party. First, it’s clearly different from other underground queer parties in Berlin because of its pornographic statement and sexual atmosphere. But at the same time, it’s not like the usual sex parties, which usually have strict playing rules and excluding policies. We encourage people to get naked and wear fetish gears, but welcome a very mixed crowd. So the Pornceptual parties are not about sex, they are about sexual freedom. Do you see any limits in porn and if so, can you describe these limits? Porn should not be a tool for oppression, and of course that there are legal and ethical limits that should not be ignored. But I am not the person to draw these limits. Why should people be more open about sex? Because sex is an essential part of human existence. Staying open about it is important to avoid a feeling of frustration, but it is more than only self-realisation issues. It is also about creating links and exploring relationships. Sex is the most powerful catalyst of our culture and being open about it should be a constant exercise. What’s the influence you want to have in Berlin and in society? I do not want to influence or change anything. My goal is just to invite people to be more creative about sex so they can produce their own pornographic meanings and feel more free about sexuality in general.
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If you want to see more amazing shots by Chris, visit is artist page: facebook.com/phillips.chris.phillips
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This Drag talks straight. And that’s exactly what we need. As a member of the managing board of the Schwules Museum and as one of the few political involved drag queens of town, Patsy l’Amour laLove has a deep interest in gay culture that goes way beyond the party clichés.
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PHOTO: DRAGAN SIMICEVIC
PATSY L'AMOUR LALOVE
Patsy, how do you become a political professional drag queen? By just making yourself be one. I have the impression that there’s no other possibility for me than to concern myself with that. Most of the time I feel a deep disconcertment – from everywhere. I get pissed off by many things from masculinist gays to dogmatic undifferentiated political demands. Additionally, I experience homophobia and dragphobia almost everyday. Hiding or keeping my mouth shut is just not an option.
You research and discuss many social topics. Why not just entertainment and party-party? Most of the time I really like the discussions I’m having. And I still go to parties. I like long bar nights although I’m not the disco chick. I can’t imagine dealing with sexuality and desire theoretically without knowing what I like myself. That’s how I can understand this very complex and contradictory area.
How do you recognize gay self-hatred and what can you do about it? You recognize it best through a little circuit: The behavior of gays with each other. If a GayRomeo profile cuts out drags and fat people then that’s not just because of taste. If that was the reason you could just focus on what you like without being disrespectful. But that’s exactly what happens and we have to ask why. A major reason is that gays still learn to apply heterosexual normatives to themselves. People who are too gay – the drags – and people who are not gay in the right, pretty way – the fats – have to be rejected. That takes the pressure away for a moment. But it’s really just swept aside and will still nag at the person. That’s why the antidote is to become conscious to self-hatred and to recognize why you reject another gay person for e.g. their femininity. It always has to do with yourself as a gay person.
What is gay manhood and what’s the relation to self-hatred? First of all it’s important to emphasize that there’s no such thing as “gay manhood” just like there’s no real “manhood”. But we still have an instant picture of what a real man is, e.g. in an aggressive gang of men. But that aggressiveness of said gangs is directly related to the missing picture of a real man. They follow something that doesn’t exist, of course they get frustrated. That aggression is being left with gay men or men that appear to be gay as these men seem to live out aspects that other men restrict themselves from: giving up control, passivity and so on. So the men punish the others instead of themselves which is what you also find in gay men that reject others because they are too gay, not manly enough, too sexually active etc.
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PATSY L'AMOUR LALOVE
Do you think there’s a gay aesthetic and what does it look like? A possible answer could be to look around in gay subcultures and focus on their ideals of beauty. There’s a terroristic cult of beauty and youth which is actually something very specifically gay. Of course there are also normative ideals of beauty for heterosexuals but there’s nothing more superficial than the gay subculture. That hasn’t changed in decades.
Why should people go to the Schwules Museum* (Gay Museum)? I think that you should really visit the archives there and do some exploring. It’s open for everyone and has an internationally one of a kind collection of cultural-historical objects.You can find flyers and magazines but also private memories of LGBTI-people. And of course you can go see one of the many exhibitions there. I don’t think that many people realize what a treasure that museum really is.
Are young gays political nowadays? If yes: how can you tell? If no: how can we change that? Yes and no, it always depends on the person. I also wouldn’t say that a person can be political. Someone can be politically involved but that doesn’t make them a political person. For me, being gay requires some political interest – which doesn’t mean that all the gays have to get involved with politics, that wouldn’t happen anyway. Some say that the gays today are not political and don’t fight anymore but that wasn’t different 40 years ago. Those who are politically active have always been the minority.
Party city Berlin – how can you party and still be political? By connecting the necessity with the pleasure and by not chasing the label “political”. That leads to dogmatic imaginations of what’s more subversive than what and that doesn’t lead you anywhere.
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Is an openly lesbian and gay life just seemingly possible in Berlin? If so, how can we change that? Being openly gay or lesbian is always possible somehow, you just have to do it. People have done it under the worst circumstances and they still do. I think it’s a problem if the freedom to get out of the closet is seen as full emancipation and you feel like you’re supposed to be on your knees to thank society for it. I think it’s necessary to be be openly gay but mostly for yourself, so you can cross this socially put and really unnecessary boarder of shame for good.
If you want to know where you can meet Patsy, visit her artist page: facebook.com/patsylamourlalove
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FRANK R. SCHRODER
PHOTO: SKYLAR KANG
Specialist of the cool, Frank R. Schröder follows Berlin’s heartbeat by publishing one of the biggest lifestyle city magazine blogs of town – iHeartBerlin. In this interview he talks about the pros and cons of Germany’s capital and the fear of missing something out.
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Frank, what makes Berlin so special? I like to call Berlin a “playground for adults”. Everyone can experiment with crazy ideas and projects and is very likely to find an audience, I think that’s great. Berlin is very open-minded compared to other cities.
You’ve been collecting tips regarding clubs, parties, restaurants and events – since 2007! Are you getting tired of Berlin? It’s the pressure to always be up-to-date about everything and to discover new things for my blog that keeps me going and lets me experience new aspects of this city over and over again. That’s exactly what keeps me from getting tired. I still can’t deny that there are many repetitions which can lead to some eye-rolling on my side. But I also like to travel and I see many different cities. I spent 3 months every year in Buenos Aires and one more month I travel to other destinations. I often experience things there that I find better than in Berlin. And the other way around. That puts everything in relation and I can return to Berlin with new motivation.
What’s your definition of lifestyle and how do you live showing a good sense of style? I like to use the word “Lifestyle” to describe the genre of iHeartBerlin. For me, lifestyle is a mixture of fashion, profession, entertainment, art and culture. All the things that are a part of a person’s way of life. It’s a lifestyle to be an organic farmer in the countryside although it differs extremely from the lifestyle of a fashion blogger in New York. To have a good sense of style is something completely different as that’s about specific aesthetics and behavior. For me, a good sense of style includes a well-groomed individualistic appearance and an open, respectful mindset.
Where is this city at its best (e.g. fashion, music, art, parties,…) and why? Right now Berlin is really good at being a little edgy, bold and nostalgic. The people here love the open-minded and intense nightlife, the electronic music scene. But also the progressive and versatile theater and dance scene needs to be appreciated. Another attractive aspect of this city is how it appears to be unfinished and improvised in so many parts. That’s exciting and charming for the people here. Of course this will change in the long run.
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Berlin in the year 2007 – what has changed since that time and what’s your prognosis for the future (e.g. the year 2027)? The hip districts have changed. The different neighborhoods have improved and new ones were added. We have a few more malls and fewer small shops. The Berlin club scene is crumbling, unfortunately, and I think that that might get worse as the people are changing here. They are getting less tolerant of loud and colorful parties that disturb their sleep. The culturally active wastelands of Berlin are being more and more included in the development of the city and many clubs are pushed aside to make room for new things. If that’s to be viewed as something good or bad has to be decided individually. Twelve years from now, I believe that Berlin will still be more alternative, more relaxed and more open-minded than other big cities. But it will have lost its attribute of being “cheap”. I fear that we’ll have five more useless malls but if we’re lucky, some others will have already shut down by then.
How do you get rid of the ever-present fear of missing out on something in Berlin? I believe that you only have this fear while you’re still young. While you’re getting older you lose the fear as you begin to understand that everything repeats itself and that it doesn’t matter if you were hanging out at some party at a specific time or not.
What are your favorite places aside from typical touristic hotspots? That’s always changing. My favorite place for breakfast is a small cafe around the corner from where I live, it’s called “Betty’n Caty”, it’s very charming. For dinner I like going to Toca Rouge, a Chinese fusion restaurant in Mitte and my favorite bar right now is the Bar Milano which is also in Mitte, there you can get a great aperitif. I don’t have a favorite club or party right now. While we’re talking about favorite places – I really like the small park near the water tower in Prenzlauer Berg. It’s on a hill, so it’s a little hidden from the surrounding streets and it’s very quiet and informal, especially during the week, with a front-row view at the Fernsehturm. I also like the rose garden at Humboldthain, especially when it’s in full bloom.
Betty‘n Caty Knaackstraße 8, 10405 Berlin Opening hours: mon-fri 08-18 • sat 09-18 Toca Rouge Torstraße 195, 10115 Berlin Opening hours: mon-fri 12-00
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What do you really dislike about Berlin? The people who get to decide about the urban development and their failing projects really piss me off. The plans to build more malls along the river Spree are totally absurd and reckless. Is it desperation, greed or just pure madness – I don’t know. Probably all of it. The luxury condos that they built next to and on the grounds of the former Kater Holzig and that are the reasons for a restriction to 12 parties per year along the Spree, these piss me off too. They are a stain on the city’s appearance both aesthetically and regarding urban development and I really hope that they will crash into the river one day. We’ll have parties on their ruins… Another thing that annoys me are the people who just moved to Berlin two years ago and who are already bitching about the naivety of other people who moved here a few months ago. That’s embarrassing.
If you want to check out Frank's Blog go to iheartberlin.de. iHeartBerlin.de is made by Frank, Claudio, Devid, Suz, Lia and Jens.
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Osh-Ree is a performer, a singer, an actress – she’s art. Pure and simple as that. But Osh-Ree is not just a very impressive and glamorous queen. She also had the chance to experience the golden days of New York City, the thrilling vibes of Tel Aviv and the eclectic nights of Berlin.
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PHOTO: EITAN TAL
OSH-REE
Osh-Ree, you’re originally from Israel, you lived in New York City and now in Berlin. What does nationality mean to you? I was born and raised in Tel Aviv, Israel and I feel connected to my roots and origin. It is the essence of me but not who I am. I believe that I am a citizen of the world, I am a traveler and an artist. So my branches and leaves are wherever my bags are. What are the big differences between Tel Aviv, Berlin and New York City – a) generally? These three cities are very alike, except from Tel Aviv being much smaller with the sea next-door. The art culture and food is very diverse (although Berlin has to do better with food), but what really makes the difference is the people. In Tel Aviv they’re warm and open and live for the moment, in NYC they’re careerists and fast, and in Berlin? Very open minded and down to earth. b) for gay men? The gay life in Berlin is far more better in many aspects, Tel Aviv has a great scene and does a lot for gay rights but there is still much more to do and New York is powerful and divers but still, it’s not as amazing and open and free as Berlin. Tel Aviv has the best pride parade though. c) for drag queens? It is hard to compete with New York when it comes to drag.You can really make a living from being a drag queen and there is room for everyone. Berlin is getting better with that and I love the audience here because of the search for higher things and substance. Tel Aviv is still missing more people to come to see the shows. I heard you lived in a “house” back then in NYC: Can you tell me something about that? How was life there? A “house” is like a family or a tribe, back in the old days it was created when young gay men drifted to New York and found shelter in the older queens houses. These days I am still in touch with the mother of my house, the “House of Aviance” it is. I learned so much about gay culture from her and from the other queens of my house and it was – and still is – amazing.
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Should Berlin also have houses like this and if so: why? I think it would be amazing in a way because I see that here are a few nameless houses. Anything that get people together and promote culture and love is amazing. How did you come up with the idea of being a drag queen? It is a funny story. In a way it chose me. I always stayed away from being a drag queen, it seemed far from what I wanted in life: I wanted to be an actor and a singer. When I eventually embraced it, I discovered that I can do both as a queen. My first time in drag I was forced to do it by a friend who I worked for. He threw a party in a new big club and decided that I should be the queen of the night. I didn’t want to do it but agreed at the end because I was promised good money and a makeup artist and a wig and a dress of my choice. After that night the owner of the club hired me to be his resident with all the same conditions that I was promised, and I have to say, embracing it, took me real far and all over the world. What’s the biggest difficulty of a being in drag? Being tucked and stitched and painted for hours in high fucking heels. Are parties relevant for our self-concept and if so: why? Parties are the place where we come together and blow steam and live out large no matter who we are or where we come from. It’s the place to give your body and soul freedom, to get away from it all, to get catharsis! I think for gay people it’s like going to church or synagog. What is beauty? Everything and anything.
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I'M YOUR BEAUTY YOU'RE MY BEAST WELCOME TO THE MIDDLE EAST Omer Adam feat. Arisa - Tel Aviv
Portrait and fashion photographer Matias Sauter sees more than rainbow flags and bearded homos when it comes to queer sexuality and beauty emphasis. In this interview he speaks about the way Berlin changed his perspective on masculinity, about the differences between Germany’s capital and Costa Rica, the country he was born in, and many other things.
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PHOTO: DANIELA LINARES
MATIAS SAUTER
Matias, what is male beauty for you as a photographer? And what is beautiful for you in general? To be honest I haven’t quite defined how I perceive male beauty. For me beauty is a concept or a perception that keeps transforming and evolving depending of my life experiences. I’ve had so many “acquired tastes” that I am sometimes surprised about everything that I can find beautiful these days. That’s the reason why it’s is difficult for me to define what male beauty is in general. What I can say though is that i find something beautiful when I see a real object, or a form, or a person that immediately activates my mind creating feelings and making me imagine thousands of other new things, like a creative “trigger”. And that is the moment when that object/person/ form transforms and becomes beautiful because you also respond to it emotionally. Sometimes the responds doesn’t have to be immediately a good one… Sometimes you appreciate beauty afterwards. Does your sexuality define your work? Or are you influenced by it how you see things? I don’t think sexuality is a strong subject in my photographs, so I wouldn’t say that it defines my work. But I think sexuality and creativity are two energies that complement each other somehow. A friend of mine told me once that they are exactly the same or that they come from the same source. And that actually if one energy is lower you could compensate with the other. And I kind of like to think that. So for me sexuality could be more like one of the sources of motivation or inspiration to create. Consequently, I do think sexuality does have a certain influence on how you see things in general. In this case, as a gay man I have become more sensitive to analyze behaviors for example. In my daily life I observe and try to identify other gay people in crowds. I think I have definitely become more aware of gender and more conscious about body language as well. In a big city this becomes stronger.You also become more aware, more specialized in observing those details in gender, to be able to identify exactly if a person is gay or not, if you share sexual tastes etc.You become quite good at it actually.You specialized on it. This makes you very sensitive when you are portraying somebody.You just analyze from a different point of view and gender is always one of the subjects you are immediately going to observe and analyze on other people. If you want it or not.
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Sexuality is already defining how I perceive certain beauty, what excites certain emotions. I think on an unconscious level this could be shown in some of my work, not so much on the subjects, or themes, but more on the sensual aspects of images. For example the use of color, the use of lighting and composition.
Is there a certain queer aesthetic in the world for you? Of course. I mean, I think that when you start saying “Oh look! That’s so gay!“, you are already having a certain expectation of how gay/queer should look like. For me, as soon as you mention the word “queer” it already pops out some rainbows in my mind, unicorns, leather, beards, drag queens, sparkle, tight shirts, roses etc... Of course this is a very stereotyped image. But I think it is pretty much in the media, in our surroundings, in our society and even inside our global gay community. It is obvious to me when I travel and I notice that gay clubs have strong similarities of aesthetics, music and behaviors from one country to the other. This image could condition how we also see ourselves or see our sexuality. Also in the early moments when you get out of the closet for example. At least that is more or less what happened to me. When I came out, I immediately took shelter under that big “Queer Aesthetic”. Wearing colorful, tight things, proud of my kitsch rainbow necklace. But it is interesting because this queer aesthetic defines our gender as Gay. Somehow it could be that there is already a pattern of how we should be, or behave also in the gay community.... Our gender is also very much stereotyped. And that’s the reason why I think Berlin’s so interesting because it broke the way I saw this. Here you can find a lot of different types of male, gay, queer aesthetics. Starting the way of dressing up to how the clubs and pubs look like, to the wide range of subcultures and social codes inside the scene. Here I see a huge and super diverse expression of different types of masculinity in the gay world. Starting from sparkling divas to strong “macho like” gay men which I wouldn’t have imagined before in the queer scene while I was living in Costa Rica.
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You were born in San José, Costa Rica. Can you tell us about the queer scene there? And what are the differences to Berlin? For such a small and conservative country it actually has a fun and not so small scene. Imagine, in a tiny city like San José, there is a concentration of 3 gay bars and 2 gay clubs in no more than two blocks! Some of them prepare new and complex drag queen shows with performances and costumes every week. Well, don’t image the best choreographies of course, but their passion definitely wins the heart of everybody. This time I went there, I was very impressed. Every year the city closes for a “macho” parade called “el Tope”, which consists of thousands of cowboys riding and showing up their best and strongest horses. But this time 3 very brave drag queens decided to show up riding proudly on their horses as cowgirls among the “machos”! It was great! So I think for being a Latin-American country you have some options if you are gay. But it is still a big taboo. A lot of gays are still afraid of coming out to their families. As I said before, we still have a very stereotyped scene which is the main difference to Berlin for me. Here you can be completely free and open about your sexuality, and this freedom makes you explore more the essence of “What is masculine, what is gender, what is your own place in the gay scene” for sure that creates the possibility of having a wide variety of gay people, trends, subcultures and tastes inside the queer community.
You said that you integrate real elements of the traditional context into fashion and portrait photography. How do you do that? When you are doing fashion photography you are creating a world of great beauty, dreams and idealization.“Perfect” figures which could represent the vision of beauty of a moment in time. I like somehow to contextualize this dreamy world of fashion into the real world. To use real persons that are walking around, people that apparently aren’t aware of this spectacle which fashion is. I like to create a contrast between two parallel realities. I love it when you realize that the picture that you’re seeing is a spectacle, a beautiful unreal show running in an actual real world.
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What advice would you give young photographers? You can go travel the world and photograph great events, or photograph your intimate life, or friends... It doesn‘t matter what the story is. Every story is important, small or big. Some day they will all represent a visual reference of an era or of our nature. Now we don‘t think so much about it, but the thing is that you never know how the world is going to change in the future. We kind of take everything that is going on now for granted, how we live, our relationships to everything, our structures and social codes, because we are used to them. But try to see humanity and our world as if you were an alien or a guy coming from the future, and then you will really get fascinated of ourselves, our nature and organization. Because I actually really believe that everything could be completely different as we know it now. And for sure it will be different some day. I always try to imagine somebody from the future watching all of our photographs and thinking how weird, and peculiar we were… I mean we are. And that is how I try to see ourselves now.
You can see Matias' photographies here: matiassauter.com
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MATIAS SAUTER FOR Zerstört// TrashEra Zerstört is a memorial to this city in flux. For one night only at Neu West Berlin an ensemble of dozens of artists, performers and party organizers collaborate on an immersive foray into Berlin's dark culture of experimentation and excess. Part installation, part dining experience and part techno rave, this surreal twelve-hour event reflects on what it means to be in this post-traumatic city today, asking – how do we come together – and how do we fall apart?
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Oh so Young – Bob is one of Berlin’s party godfathers and founder of the very sexy GMF, a bash that belongs naturally to the city’s queer culture and party scene. Bob Young explains us why partying is so important – not just for gay men, but for the city itself.
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Bob, what’s the big difference between Berlin in 1987 and Berlin 2015 – besides the reunification and the fall of the Berlin wall? Once Berlin became the capital and cultural epicenter of Germany, the city began to attract thousands of influential and creative people from around the world. In the 80s, Berlin was a kind of workshop/studio— people came and went, but few stayed on to make it their home. Why did you come here and – I originally came here to study BWL and German at the Freie Universität. I fell in love, and returned in 1986 to find my place in nightlife. a) what did you hope/expect? I hoped to make Berlin my home, and to enjoy the freedom of expression and lifestyle which would not had been as east to do in many parts of the US—including the south, where I am from. b) what did you get? I got what I hoped for! How did you realize the idea of the famous party called GMF? At the time I started GMF, I had a club called 90 Grad. When the owners of WMF asked me if I would be interested in having a gay party at their club, I thought: “Why not give it a try?” That was spring of 1996!
Why should people come to GMF? GMF has always been very tolerant and inclusive of all types of partygoers. The mood at GMF is relaxed, while we continually strive to offer current and progressive entertainment. It’s not a place to stand around and be cool, but rather a place to party with your friends, and make a few new ones at the same time!
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What kind of men are attracted to your parties – and is there a common aesthetics among them? I don’t think there is a typical type that is attracted to GMF, although our guests tend to be well groomed and often quite handsome. As our party usually ends around 6 a.m., we don’t attract the super hardcore party crowd that wants to stay out for 16 hours.There are plenty of options for that crowd in Berlin.
Do gay aesthetics exist in the first place and if so, can you describe it? Aesthetics exist everywhere, and are of course very subjective. The gay scene obviously puts a great deal of emphasis on the body culture— working out and staying in shape are especially important for many gay men.
Why is partying so important to a) gay men? Most straight partygoers start fading out of the clubs once they hit their late 20s or early 30s. Women generally want to have babies, and the dynamic of the parties change drastically in the mainstream. For the gays it is different. Gay men meet and socialize in party environments much longer than straights, and are often more hedonistic and design their private lives more around party/sex opportunities. b) the city of Berlin? Berlin has evolved into the world’s premiere party city, not just for gays, but for everyone. This has partially to do with the tradition of partying here, but also with the freedom to do so. Where in the world can you operate a club for 48 or even 72 hours straight without having to close? The fact that the cost of partying is still reasonable in comparison to most large cities is also a big plus for the “party tourism”—which by now is an important income source for the city’s service industries. c) you? I always loved organizing parties. As a child, teenager and even still today. I like the feeling of getting people together, see them leave their cares behind them and just let go and have fun. Dancing is instinctive and a very important social skill. The party will always be one of our favorite past times!
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You moved the location in the past quite often. What will be better now? What can we expect? GMF has relocated to 2be club in KlosterstraĂ&#x;e. The location, originally designed by the guys from WMF feels more like GMF. We have two big floors, an outdoor area and plenty of hallways and dark corners. Expect to experience GMF like you always have. Friendly, sexy and dance-intensive!
If you want to know where GMF is located go to page 136.
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DON'T THE RIHANNA
Big, bigger, Gloria Viagra. A tough Queen with a true, political vibe, Gloria connects quite naturally the attraction of a gay hedonistic life (with all its glitter and sparkles) with the everlasting importance of being aware of political issues like the fight against homophobia or the social catastrophes refugees are living in.
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GLORIA VIAGRA
Gloria, why are your parties always political? They are? All I can say is that you should keep your eyes open to what is happening around you. But yes… I guess because I grew up politically. And because I think that fun and politics fit together... they have to fit together. We all have a responsibility: when we shop, when we celebrate and when we vote. Our actions are political – even in the daily life and partying! It is an important need for me to make people aware of issues. I hope I’m not too missionary. Homo – Hetero: Is the distinction really important, and if so, why? It wouldn’t be important to me – I mean for what reason? If every sexual orientation is not accepted there will always be differences. But there are already so many places in Berlin where it just doesn’t matter anyway.
How do people react to you when you‘re in drag? I get reactions in all facets. Starting from enthusiasm to envious eyes, laughing at me, but also “son of a bitch” insults. Because of my size, people often show some kind of respect and some even shit their pants. In the scene in which I’m in most of the time, I’m wanted, ordered, approved. So the admiration I get is pretty big. Since I wear the mustache, the enthusiasm splits considerably though. Because of Conchita Wurst’s victory, the trans beard got more recognition, but it does still offend. That’s why I still wear it! People always want to pin you down instead of accepting who you are.
Who feels most intimidated by you and why? Straight men – particularly short ones... Well, that’s self-explanatory.
How do you fight homophobia every day? Oh, there are no limits for that! I believe that homophobia – like prejudices – is based on fear. Fear of your own inclinations and fantasies, of the unknown, etc. I think that constant confrontation, a constant presence is a very important tool.
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Is there a gay aesthetic and if so, why should we scrutinize it? Oh no, that’s such an analytical question again and it’s not on me to answer it! Sure there is something like a gay aesthetic: body cult, lookism, lifestyle are gay inventions, at least in my opinion. And if those things are represented by only one – and presumably the biggest – part of the gay community… well, of course they must be scrutinized and checked. Constantly. Tastes are obviously very, very different.
Berlin, the gay hedonist capital. How do you see the development of Berlin? a) in the past Berlin has always been Germany’s melting pot and the center of gay life. From the 20s of the last century to the new gay movement of the 70s right up until today. Berlin was a wonderful free city with endless possibilities; and in the past perhaps even more free-thinking than it is today... b) in the present Gay life has arrived in the mainstream. The struggle for recognition is about civic privileges as marriage, tax, adoption, but no one wants to change society anymore. This fight has become very bourgeois and middle-class.Yet Berlin offers gay life in all its forms and desires like no other city with its corresponding scenes. The diversity in today’s Berlin is probably unique in the whole world! c) in the future The hype surrounding Berlin will get expensive. And the gays themselves are supposed to earn well. But not necessarily in Berlin... Thus, the gay scene is a reflection of the city itself and the social gap will become bigger, will have more importance. As a political cohesion won’t be ostensible anymore, soon this commercialization will blow away the gay scene like a hurricane.
Is Berlin a tolerant city? Yes.
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Why do you think so? Berlin people love to bitch about a lot of things, but most of them are tolerant and free thinking. To what extent newcomers torpedo this attitude because of their bigotry and small-mindedness – well, I cannot tell. But there have been always people moving to Berlin and they never changed the mentality of the city. I completely trust Berlin.
Why do we need a wider awareness of the situation of refugees? Because the world is in upheaval... Globalization has not only created a large common market, but also large common misery. In case of need, developed countries perform (proxy) wars to secure markets. This has led to the biggest refugee movement ever. And we, as citizens of Europe have a responsibility, even some kind of complicity. In front of our borders, there, on our screens thousands of thousands of refugees die on their way to this supposedly golden Europe. And why are Pegida, Freienthal etc our biggest challenges? If we do not take this into account with more humanity, Europe has lost all its democratic values.
If you want to know where you can meet Gloria the next time, check page 134 for her monthly party.
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Nearly seven years ago, Jerry Drisco proudly presented the Horse Meat Disco to an audience in a time where everyone nearly forgot how to disco. But those times are over, and now the crowd just knows the drill.
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You have brought the legendary Horse Meat Disco from London to Berlin. Why? That can be answered easily: because there was no such thing in Berlin. A disco party. I was with a friend in London. Wonderful music were played and it was a great and very sexy mix of guests. I was flashed downright and I realized what we need in Berlin. I was at the right time at the right place. My friends from the TAPE Club were enthusiastic about my idea (I did not speak about anything else after the London visit) and we planned it together. That was more than 6.5 years ago. The party stands for itself, I would say. What is the big difference to other (gay) parties in Berlin? We don’t really play techno. Although we always have DJ’s who do not only play disco, but in the main the music is a little bit more relaxed. For us it is also important that guests will be warmly welcomed by the entrance and the cloakroom and that they get the drinks with a grin. It’s nice to see many smiling faces on the dance floor. What kind of men are attracted to the Horse Meat Disco? We have a good mixed crowd. On average, our audience is about 30-40 years old, from lumberjack style a la Al Parker up to the “hipster” of today, Drags and also “normal” types, everyone is welcome who enjoys disco music. Bearded men with short hair, tank tops and sneakers - that‘s a fetish or an aesthetic and what is the difference? Sometimes I think it’s already fetish. For years already I noticed that there is a trend among boys to dress more masculine and especially a beard was important. But now I notice again a trend that the men also like to shave and also dress partly more feminine.You can not argue about taste, so everyone should walk around how he likes. Important is, he or she feels comfortable!
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Is there ever a „homosexual aesthetic“ in the world, and if so, can you describe it? Probably. There are always certain trends the guys like to jump on. The hipster today was yesterday the “hobo” in front of Lidl ... or something like that. I do not really know what homosexual aesthetic can be. I like men who dress like men. The fashion hype is not really interesting for me nor do I like strong fetish styles.
What are your favorite reasons to celebrate? Music, music and again music, for me the main reason for going out.
And what is your favorite club actually? My personal favorite closed the doors 3 years ago unfortunately, and was demolished. This was the legendary TAPE Club. My favorite party today is the PET SHOP BEARS Party. And of course I love to be at Horse Meat in Prince Charles! But I realize, since I’m in the business, I don’t go out so often anymore.
Can you tell me about the last big party that you will never forget? That was in the TAPE Club, the first Horse Meat Disco in January 2009. That will always remain unforgettable for me.
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You want to visit HORSE MEAT DISCO? See page 138.
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Photographer Julian Laidig is no ordinary observer or a simple aesthete, he hits more than just the eye. Being involved in one of the biggest LGBT related Berlin based organizations against the oppression of human rights and Homophobia – particularly in Russia, but also in other countries worldwide –, Laidig talks about the political consciousness of queer Berlin.
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As co-founder of Enough Is Enough! you have decided that you need to do more than just watch. Why, what moved you? At that time I felt not picked up by many actions of various associations and organizations and I was surprised at the same time, that after all the images from Russia in the summer of 2013, nothing was happening in Germany. The media was restrained. And there are still young people that are harassed, humiliated, beaten, persecuted or even killed because of their sexuality. For this reason, we have organized the demonstration through Berlin in the past. We had to and wanted to draw attention to the conditions in Russia. The gays and lesbians have to suffer there every day. So many people showed us their solidarity though and that was an overwhelming feeling. We were no longer alone with our anger. After a while, our initiative has become Germany’s largest social media platform for the LGBTI* community. At the moment we run the campaign #MeinJA for same-sex marriage. We have understood that we can sensitize people through our actions and events, but also give them courage and hope and that’s what keeps us going all the time. What can the community and above all: the Berlin community do to stop injustice – not only in Russia? A society can not change from one day to the other. But you can help to make it work better in the future than today. That has a lot to do with enlightenment. But very important is that not only gays, lesbians and transgender people need to fight for the rights of the community. Even and especially the support by heterosexuals is crucial for the rethinking of society. There is still homophobia. Every Day. Everywhere. Also in Berlin.
Is Berlin as tolerant as everyone says? Tolerance is not fully implemented. It is written and the city is being advertised with it. But like in every city there are tolerant and less tolerant people. I feel that the intolerance in Berlin is a little more subtle and not as bold and aggressive as perhaps in some villages and provincial towns. And something is obvious in a big city like Berlin: Inside of the rainbow community intolerance is (almost) just as strong as somewhere else. Between gays and lesbians, masculine and feminine men, between homosexuals and transgender people but also when it comes to the attitude towards other minorities.
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How did you realize that? I noticed that by many reactions of people, but also by many conversations that I am having. There, most people show their true face. And because of that I even broke off friendships.
Why is political awareness necessary? Our motto of Enough Is Enough! is: Together we can make a difference. Why? Very easily. If we all – like now, during the current subject of same-sex marriage – stick together, we can make a difference with our sustained pressure against the federal government. One person alone with only one sign in front of Mrs Merkel‘s door will not be perceived. Ten thousands of people in front of Mrs. Merkel‘s door can no longer be ignored by the politics. This does not mean, as I just mentioned the topic regarding the intolerance within the community, that not everyone is allowed to start to sweep in front of his own front door. Let it be the homeless on the street, the child in kindergarten, the parent who has to pay aliment or the ailing 90-year-old. Every life is determined by what the state offers or which laws it adopts, which you have to obey. The only way to actively participate in something is to be part of actions. No one requires that you have to deal in detail with the politics every day, but elections can sometimes even depend on just a few votes.
To what do you say “no”? Hatred, racism, homophobia, intolerance and asparagus. I dislike everything.
To what do you say “yes”? I say yes to same-sex marriage. I say yes if someone asks me for help and I know I can count on his/her yes next time. I say yes to sex education from an early age on. In my opinion, especially the childhood contains the most formative years within the whole life, so you cannot start early enough with sex education. And with that I also mean the respectful and tolerant education of children – in context of their respective ages... Love is love... In any case: I say definitely more often yes than no.
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Check out Julians work on julianlaidig.com.
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With a voice, soft and smooth like Jazz itself, Kaey tells us all about selfinvention and self-awareness, about sitting in-between and choosing the right chair, about the fight for normality and the struggle of having it.
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Kaey, did you arrive in a) Berlin b) your body, and if so, how does people arrive in a “right” way? I have definitely arrived in Berlin. This city is my home. I lived for three years in Hamburg and realized soon enough that the second largest city in Germany is not as great as Berlin. Whenever I drive through Berlin or when I am at my favorite places I have such a warm fuzzy feeling in my heart. It just feels right. In my body… well, I’m still not quite there. I had an operation recently, they narrowed my stomach. This comes automatically with many changes I have to get used to. When I reached a certain weight I would like to make a breast operation. Although my breasts are not small, I think that a big girl should also have a large bosom. At least I want that for me. I’m pretty sure that this will also be a big change again. It’s tricky with the right arrival. I think you can develop a feeling that things just feel right. I can not describe it correctly.You just feel it. However, I would not rest in this state. As a human being you are always somehow in motion and changes are important in order to survive. Member of the Queer Riot Club, host, jazz diva, editor of SIEGESSÄULE, transgender activist, one of the queens of the night – you invent yourself constantly new. Can you tell me why? I wouldn’t say that I constantly reinvent myself. I think I’m moving further or develop myself. This is simply essential as a person and as an artist. Stagnation is death. Accordingly, I don’t have a make-over all the time but I always find new facets in me which I express or live.
Speaking of transgender: How developed is the “society” nowadays according to this topic? In recent years, a lot happened. Especially when you face America. There are veritable icons. The actress Laverne Cox or Caitlyn Jenner who you might know as Bruce Jenner from the Kardashian Clan. The presence in the media creates visibility. This is important to enlighten. It’s a start as soon as a human has an image in mind when it comes to such issues. Important is that these people are not the bad stereotypes so everyone
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feels confirmed. In Germany there are no such icons yet. Not even in Europe. The only thing that comes to mind is Conchita Wurst, but she’s a drag queen, a man who wears occasionally very glamorous women’s clothes. I think a start has been made though. Because these topics will be discussed. A real change only happens when life of transgender people has become easier. But that takes a very long time. It’s still running the gauntlet. It starts on the streets when someone offends you and it stops at the doctors and authorities where you constantly have to explain yourself anew.
Why is a political consciousness necessary? Quite simple: because otherwise nothing will change. If the gay movement wouldn’t be on the streets for decades and plan actions to achieve equal rights, the paragraph 175 would probably still exist. Each minority has to fight for their equal rights. That’s sad, but obviously necessary.
What advice can you give to young transgender people? Don’t give up! You’re not alone! Dare you! Life is so much more beautiful when you are not ashamed of yourself.You deserve everything that everyone deserves. Just don’t give up!
In the past they demanded tolerance for the LGBT/LSBTTIQ community, today it’s normality. What’s your idea of normality? I think normality still stands for heteronormativity. For the mainstream of society. I think that’s an illusion. Especially our German history has shown us how dangerous it can be when you just follow, if you don’t attract attention. We live, however, in a social framework. In this framework, standards are sometimes unfortunately essential to ensure the survival of a society. Accordingly, of course, there are certain standards that unite the majority.
Is normality worth aspiring and if so, how do you manage that? I think heteronormativity is not particularly desirable. In our society there are different groups and these groups have specific standards that unite them. They are needed by human beings – most for orientation. The problem only comes up when these groups work against each other to make a norm more important than the other one. So I believe
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that it’s possible that a whole society can exist peacefully with different groups. As long as you treat each other with respect.
What do you think of the state of emergency called Berlin? I live almost 15 years in Berlin. For me, Berlin is no state of emergency any more. Berlin is somehow normal for me. I only realize how great Berlin is if I’m somewhere else though. When I lived in Hamburg, I was almost shocked that you could not a package spread cheese on a Sunday evening at every corner in a late-night-shop. I feel Berlin is still a cultural center of Europe. This city attracts creative people like a turd the flies. But there are reasons for that. Berlin is still an insanely cheap metropolis where you can afford a life as an artist – with an own studio and something like that. But in addition, this city has an unique history. How many cities in the world were separated by a wall? I mean the fall of the Berlin Wall happened just 26 years ago. That’s not a long time. I think this flair will continue for some time.
What is beautiful for you? The mankind itself. I find it fascinating what mankind has achieved if you look at the diversity of living things on this planet. I think it’s nice when people connect. If you are on the same wavelength. When I’m on stage and I open my heart and feel how the emotions that I release reach other people. I think it’s nice that something like this is possible.Then I also think that people who are able to do this are beautiful. These are often people who go their own way and are not afraid to find themselves.
Kaey works for the free monthly queer magazine SIEGESSÄULE. You can get this magazin at over 700 spots in Berlin or check their webpage: siegessaeule.de
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Roman Shamov proves that madness can be totally normal if our perception just hits the twelve, and that normality can be absolute bollocks if others decide its normativity. As singer, artist and the most spiritual bartender of the Berghain ever he just puts many pictures straight.
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ROMAN SHAMOV
Roman, can you tell me something about the club you work in or do you have to keep it secret? Of course, everything is kept under wraps! No, honestly, I can tell you something about it. It all began with a concert in Berghain, New Years Eve 2007/2008 and then I first worked in the infamous LAB, later at the “Säulenbar” and then finally at the “Fassadenbar” where I’m still happy. Wicked team, fierce music and a wonderful crazy audience. I really have to admit that the motto at “Fassadenbar” is: Love Rules. We have fun with the guests and with each other, and if I don’t get touched at least every 30 seconds – somewhere by someone – something is not right. Because that’s what it is, what I love about the work in Berghain wit all my colleagues and with the guests: we are all always tender to each other. Do you think secrets are important – especially in a city like Berlin, and if so: why? No, I think secrets are not really important. I think privacy is important, a space, a place in yourself, only you know, only you can reach, where you can charge again, especially in a city like Berlin. A spot where you develop some kind of good friendship with yourself, a peace of mind which you can share with open hands and an open heart with other people – just by the way you live and how you are.
What’s an open secret – a) about you? I am really insane. So insane that I am already “normal” again, whatever “normal” means (but we will read about that later). b) about the city? “Poor but sexy” is so over! The city is becoming a bit too rich and stale to be that. c) about... whatever comes to your mind. A band called “Meystersinger”.
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What’s your opinion about the gay scene in Berlin? There is such a multiverse of the gay scene in Berlin that I don’t really have an opinion about the gay community. I find some things really shitty and terrible, especially if it’s so ultra stuffy that it gives me shivers, and some things are just wonderful, touching and inspiring. What’s your idea of normality? Normality: standard: Wikipedia: “Social norms are specific rules which relate to the social behavior. They define possible forms of action in a social situation.” In this context I would like to shout out loud repeatedly: FUCK YOU!, FUCK YOU! Especially regarding to politics and many politicians, because I think that the word social behavior or behaving in a social way are already absolutely unknown words in these circles. That also includes the industry – but it’s always easy to nag about that. Obviously. In my world, normal means to keep your heart always open – for animals, the environment, children and sometimes even to other adults but that – and I am really honest here – is my biggest challenge, but also my greatest desire. A peaceful, friendly, respectful and cordially coexistence. Totally normal, right? How should the community look like in the future – what should they do? How I said, I have no clear ideas, claims, or proposals. The most important thing for me is that I always try to stay open and even more. I wish we can gain more than tolerance or acceptance. More curiosity for new things, for things that appear different in the first place, the unknown and the joy to discover.
Are there too many artists in this city? No! Artists are people who test boundaries with heart and soul. They try to put feelings, longings and hopes in words. In my opinion there are not enough of them. Art is a major reason why I can bear it at all, that there is a species like humans. With all the atrocities and the galloping madness I sometimes perceive in our world, it’s every photo, every poem, every song and every image that reminds me again of the beauty, of the grace of creation, of nature, the silence in the heart. And it also reminds me that we are all part of the big picture, a blessing and a deep joy and confidence. Art is our large lifeboat!
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MEYSTERSINGER soundcloud.com/meystersinger meystersinger.com Luci van Org Roman Shamov
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WHAT LUCI VAN ORG AND HER MALE COUNTERPART ROMAN SHAMOV ARE ABLE TO CREATE JUST THROUGH THE POWER OF THEIR SINGING, IS FASCINATING: PURE EMOTION SO FRAGILE AND VULNERABLE, THEN RADICAL BRACHIAL.
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Owner of a club called SchwuZ – the most utterly important club in town –, Marcel Weber really makes a difference. Not just by running a very glittering and very alluring club in one of the most ambivalent districts in town, but also by making thousand tiny steps.
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MARCEL WEBER
Marcel, what makes the SchwuZ so special? The SchwuZ is so special because there is no comparable institution with such a long tradition and history in Berlin – or perhaps even in Germany. Thanks to continuity and presence in the scene, the SchwuZ is certainly unique. And of course the SchwuZ is mainly so special due to all the people who run the show. Without these wonderful people there would be nothing. In the context of moving the club to the neighborhood of Rollberg, it was said in the media the SchwuZ might find its political mission again. What‘s this mission, and did you rediscovered it now? I came to SchwuZ during a time when the decade of depoliticization began, that was around 1999. At that time, a lot of what we want to maintain disappeared. One good example is the fag/pansy/fairy. Of course, today it has a place in the SchwuZ again. But also transgender people, many forms of femininity, blacks and people of color and much more are included in the self-image of SchwuZ. And of course – the gays and lesbians. The job is pretty straightforward for me. If someone raises the question: “Do we really still need a gay center in 2015 in a city like Berlin?”, then I’d say quite clearly that there are still plenty of barriers, there is still oppression and discrimination in our society. We have to rebel. “Rollberger” (neighbors around the club) and SchwuZ guests: How compatible is this combination? The combination of SchwuZ guests and the Rollberg neighborhood is amazingly good. People get along very well. After initial fears on all sides, we have managed to become a part of the neighborhood. And we always shared the idea of coexistence. This approach had also a lot to do with the experience of the past SchwuZ locations and the willingness to necessarily maintain a good living with the neighborhood. We always try to involve the neighborhood. We cook at the neighborhood association “Morus 14” for instance, we invite the pensioners gang from across the street to our in-house theater, or we work together on different ideas to make the neighborhood even more beautiful for everyone.
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How would you describe the concept of the club, anyway? It’s difficult for me to consider the SchwuZ only as a simple club. With the moving we have managed to be noticed as real “Club” in Berlin’s cultural landscape though. Moreover, we got concerts, readings, panel discussions and socio-political events. So we really are a cultural center which offers club nights that take place on up to three different dance floors.
Is the demand for tolerance still relevant today? I think the demand for tolerance is outdated. To demand tolerance from society ultimately means that we may only coexist. Much more important for me now is togetherness. We’re all in the same boat. So the question of acceptance and the addition to developing common goals is much more important nowadays. How do we want to live in the future? What will happen to our planet in the age of climate change? How can we fight hunger, oppression, discrimination, war and exploitation together? How can people live an independent life and not succumb to the total consumption today? Is it just a matter of being rich and famous which is living quickly and without effort? What are we leaving for future generations? These are just some of the questions that interest me. And our society needs answers – especially in a time when not even the escape to religion helps.
Which goals and plans do you have for the SchwuZ in the near future? For the SchwuZ it’s very important to stand on solid ground. Thus, one of our goals is to be economically successful. We want to offer and provide different contents in the future – so we need to be able to finance them. In addition, our goal is always to improve our offers and to check what else is missing. The payment of our male/female/trans employees is also an important issue. The value of all our offers to the queer scene is just as important as the appreciation of everything the people at SchwuZ are doing. We want to communicate with the outside even more. And we want to continue to fight for many interests of people or groups who cannot be heard without the assistance of the SchwuZ amid our society.
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Why is partying important – in the gay scene and especially in Berlin? Partying is enormously important. Because we live in a society in which we always have to work. There’s mot much time left to break out. Especially because it’s not particularly accepted in our environment. In the club nights, people have the opportunity to drop social conventions and to be themselves. For me, partying should be therefore considered as something like freedom and important part of a self-determined life. And Berlin has so many so incredibly diverse offers – it’s certainly not the worst place in the world to blow off some steam.
Do politics and party get along together – and if so, how does this link look like in your opinion? Party and politics do not exclude each other. A connection already shows itself by a low-threshold introduction to a topic. To engage or to site yourself politically at a party isn’t difficult. It usually starts with getting in contact with the guests, to talk about the things that moves us. And sometimes there are some very exciting debates during an evening. Because people are freed from conventions in the nightlife, they can discuss without pressure in this unusual atmosphere. There is even an understanding of opinions between each discussant. I have often witnessed how good discussions arose and took place on a great level – and out of this the wildest ideas have emerged.
How do you commit yourself and what can each and everyone do? I daily commit myself to the SchwuZ, to my co-workers – and we’re now talking about nearly 100 people. That’s a very intensive task. Furthermore, I am a member of various associations. Networking with the neighborhood and with the people from the district government are also very important tasks which I administer. And of course, as a representatives of the SchwuZ I try as often as possible to show our positions to the outside. That we show ourselves as politically involved is not completely seen in the mainstream society. And for all of that I commit myself. The mainstream shouldn’t perceive the SchwuZ exclusively as a club. Of course every individual should ask himself/herself: “What’s the thing that moves me? What’s the thing that lets my heart beat?” There are endless opportunities to get involved. I think the most important is that you really want it. Then you will definitely find a way to get actively involved.
If you want to know what kind of parties you can expect at SchwuZ, go to page 136/137.
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Julie Chance feels the beat. For her, music isn’t just background noise at parties that need to be tuned up. It’s the essence of life, a treasure chest. As a DJane of the record label MY HOUSE, Julie brings this essence to the people.
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Julie, why do you think is music so important for a) people? I think music can take people away from themselves, help them escape. I think it’s powerful in a sense that it can also evoke feelings and memories of times and places, happy or sad. a) you? It’s important to me for the same reasons. Music moves me emotional, spiritually and mentally. What’s the beauty of music? The beauty of music is it’s sheer power. What is the beauty of MY HAUS, the record label? The beauty of MY HAUS is that it’s just three friends sharing their love and enthusiasm for music.
Is there something like “gay music” – if yes, could you describe it? If not, why does society think there is? Well all the best music is made by queer artists, that’s for sure! I don’t necessarily think there is “gay” music, but society likes to label things so I think that’s where it comes from.
Speaking about Berlin: Do you feel home here – if yes: Can you define home? Yes, very much so. Home is a place where you are accepted and loved and safe and Berlin feels like that to me.
What’s your comment on the queer scene/culture of Berlin? I think the queer scene here in Berlin is the best in the world actually. Better than New York and London any day. Queers are more political here in my opinion and that’s important. They are always supportive and that feels good.
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MY HAUS RECORD LABEL myhaus.net
Julie Chance Producer, DJ, label manager, founding member of Evvol and My Haus. Jon Dark Producer, composer, DJ & engineer. Jon is a founding member of Evvol and My Haus. Samuel Gieben DJ, collector and member of My Haus.
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Being sassy and being snarky, Pansy Parker is one hell of a drag queen. She organizes regularly performances where others act out, where TV shows like RuPauls Drag Race are aired – one of the most famous events in Kreuzberg by the way – and she supports diversity by supporting the art of drag.
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Pansy, what’s your ideal of beauty for a) men? b) women? c) Drag Queens? There is no ideal of beauty. Is superficiality necessary in the gay world and if so, can you explain why? It’s not necessary, but certainly it exists. I think it mostly exists because our daily struggle can often be so complex that easy and superficial pleasures provide a sense of escape. You came a long way from South Carolina over San Francisco to Berlin. What attracts you most when you think about Berlin? Berlin is a young city on old ground. It’s a place to plant ideas and watch them grow – if one is willing to put in the work. You said once that you came to San Francisco to learn how to be gay. How does one learn to be gay and what’s part of this gay education? This was more of a tongue in cheek kind of joke, but I would say that I learned to love myself as a queer identifying person – that my life choices, desires, and needs are acceptable and worthy of exploration. You also said that you came to Berlin to learn how to be an artist. What’s an artist – especially in Berlin? And did you make it, are you an artist? This was a follow up to the joke above, but I would say that Berlin has allowed me to grow as a human and as an adult. My life choices tend to be against the grain of comfort and normative success, so I guess that would make me an artist?
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During your shows you’re naughty and insulting. Most of the times. Can you explain me why? I wouldn’t say that I am insulting, but sassy. I like to get the audience involved, I like to make people uncomfortable, I like to get people actively participating instead of passively watching.You can’t do that without ruffling a few feathers. You don’t do your shows for money, because you don’t make much of a deal, but why do you do your shows in the first place? I do them because I want to create a space for people to simply be without having to worry about looking cool or the pressure to fall into a certain category. I do them to create a meeting place for all kinds of people that might not otherwise socialize or go to the same parties. I do them because I love the art of drag, I love watching performers grow and become more confident, and I want to share that with other people. If I don’t do it, no one else will.
If you want to know where you can meet Pansy the next time, visit her artist page: facebook.com/pansypresents
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Inge Borg and Gisela Sommer are the Drag Queen tag team of the left orientated (and collectively organized) SO36, the only left club in Berlin-Kreuzberg and a real institution of the city’s culture, and they are two spearheads of political involved drag life. Inge Borg in the interview.
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Is the SO36 important and if so, why? Of course, a club like the SO36 is very important. Now, the SO36 is more than 36 years old and it has always been a place where anything can be tested and tried. Many bands had their first appearances in SO36, many parties have started here and then moved on, many of them are still running. The SO36 is not a relic of ancient times. It’s just that the operators do just their own thing, and they never follow trends. Incidentally. Since 1998, the Super Sexy KiezBingo takes place in the SO36 monthly. You moderate the whole event. How did that happen? The Kiez Bingo has been around since 1997-98. No one can say exactly. Gisela Sommer and I have taken over the Kiez Bingo in 2006 by Kitty Carell and Mary de Mol. We had participated in various shows in SO36 for years and were available. They believed in us that we were able to host an evening. Since then, nearly 10 years have passed and we go on and on and hope that they build soon a stair lift to the stage.
Is political commitment important and if so, why? More important is probably being interested in knowledge, especially in political knowledge. Anyone who has no idea what really happens in politics can’t expect others to show action.
How can you show action in politics? First of all get informed, then a lot is already gained. What each individual can do always depends on the personal life.You can get involved if you just want to.
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How do political involvement and travesty fit together anyway? Many people say: “Yes, it’s political to be a man dressed in women’s clothes.” I never really thought about it because travesty’s not a thing of the modern age. In history there were always men who had various reasons to wear women’s clothes. Meanwhile, I consider it differently. You always get attention in drag, glances are thrown and sometimes you nearly expect to get an offensive comment – for whatever reason. However, if one is in drag on stage, it might happen that the audience listens and if one has really something to say, like something political, it could also happen that one gives impulses – or simply says things out loud someone has already thought, but perhaps has never been able to communicate.
Berlin, a left orientated town? Berlin has always been a working-class city, but that is also slowly changing now. Berlin had mostly big left parts, but they decreased. That’s my impression. The left scene is older and because of the low-birthrate there is not much coming after. The interests are changing. There are still many young people coming to Berlin, but less want to be part of something. They just want to consume. Only time will tell, if they can be influenced.
Can you tell me something about the Tuntenhaus? In Tuntenhaus, at the legendary Hoffest, circa 1998, I had my first big show, with my dear friend and colleague Stefanie Gras. We performed ABBA. It was magical. We have many friends in Tuntenhaus and are welcome guests – on various occasions. It’s nice to know that there is the Tuntenhaus. It is important to have this space. I don’t want to miss it.
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The SO36 is a music club on Oranienstrasse in the area of Kreuzberg. It takes its name from the historic postcode of that area, SO36, in which the SO stands for S端dost (South East). The Kreuzberg district has historically been home to the Berlin punk rock movement, as well as other alternative subcultures in Germany. SO36 was originally focused largely on punk music and in the 1970s was often frequented by musicians such as Iggy Pop and David Bowie.
Tuntenhaus tuntenhaus-berlin.de
The Tuntenhaus in the district Prenzlauer Berg is a residential project of homosexuals. It is part of the formerly occupied building Kastanienallee 86.
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This Italian duo knows exactly how to party. Gianluca Venerdini and Gianluigi Porcu are the enfants terribles slash hosts and creators of the infamous Italian party Partycolare where trash styles meet sexy men meet a lot of fun.
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Guys, the motto of your party called Partycolare is: Italians do it better. Can you explain me what Italians do better and how they do it better than Germans (for instance)? Gianluca: Italians have always been considered as latin lovers and really passionate people. With a strong sense of humor which German sometimes don’t understand. The private birthday party of yours has turned into one of the trendiest parties in Berlin. How did you manage that? Gianluigi: It started in a really casual way. We wanted to celebrate our first year here in Berlin and we were organizing a house party. It ended up with 300 people and three DJ’s. We received a lot of positive feedback from friends and they asked us to do it every month. So we started this adventure. And party after party we tried to make it bigger and better and since then we try to improve and make our guests happier. We are very happy for the possibility that Berlin gave to us. Why should people visit the Partycolare – what’s the difference to other parties? Gianluca: First of all it is the energy. We are always at the party and go around because we think the communication with the guests is really important. And because of our trashy concept and our sense of humor we always try to get inspiration from Italian stereotypes.
What kind of men are attracted to your party? Gianluigi: As much as possible! But actually our party is not only for one kind of man or one kind of people, because our party is really mixed. The key of Partycolare is that we want to make it for everyone and that they can feel free and enjoy the evening.
Are drugs a problem or a benefit of parties in Berlin? Gianluca: We would say 50/50. The benefit can also lead to a problem. Gianluigi: Be careful!
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What do you think is missing in the gay party scene of Berlin? Gianluigi: I think the party scene in Berlin is really suitable for everyone. It is not missing anything, because there is a party for every kind of people. And what I also like is that it’s totally mixed and this makes the big difference to other cities
Why is partying so important to a) gay men? Gianluca: For gay men it is important to meet new people or sex partners or a date, because it is really easy for gay men to get to know people at a party. In Berlin it’s also a little bit different as in London for instance. Because in Berlin there is a big cultural music scene. But I’d say it’s important to get to know people, like gay bars, gay sauna and gay networks. b) the city of Berlin? Gianluigi: Because the nightlife is a big part of the culture here. Also a big part for the people who live here. It is a part of the fascination of this city. c) you guys? Gianluca: Because I am a person who likes to socialize with people and to communicate with others. And everyone can give you something. Sharing experiences with other people can make you grow faster. Advices from other people can make you improve. But also because I like the party scene here in Berlin and I use to party since I was 17. Both of us we worked for a LGBT association and we were making parties for them. Gianluigi: Only to show myself. No, I’m just joking. Because I feel that parties are occasions to get out of a every day routine and also to meet new interesting people and to enjoy the fun atmosphere of the evening. And sometimes you have your life and it is full of problems and you are always running and running and maybe you find a party as an occasion to relax and to get out of this routine.
Are sex associations like meaty puns or porn style references important for gay parties and if so, can you tell me why? Gianluca: They are pretty much important. We are always curious about sexuality and everything that is related to sex. Like advertising or explicit sexual content.
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Do gay aesthetics exist and if so do you use it for marketing reasons? Gianluigi: I think that gay aesthetic exists, you can see it all the time. If there’s an advertising for a party there is always a sexy guy or a situation that is sexy. We also use that, but we use it in a different way. Our visual concept is sexy but also funny. We did the “Culo Party” for example where we used as an inspiration the picture of Kim Kardashian, but with our faces. It was sexy and funny and it was our most successful party.
If you want to know more about the LGBT association they were talking about: movimentomosessualesardo.org And if you want to visit the next PartyColare, you get further informations on page 136.
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It’s everything we experience that drives us – and it’s what fashion designer Hien Le inspires. He had his fist debut at the Mercedes-Benz fashion week in July 2011, and – well, look who’s featured in different fashion magazines now? The Vogue loves him. And we do, too.
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Hien, how can people make it into the fashion industry? Through will, motivation, passion and ambition. Just like with everything you want to achieve.
What separates good fashion from bad fashion? Well, that’s all a matter of taste and perspective. I don’t want to be the one to decide what’s bad fashion. But generally speaking, I’d say the difference is in the appearance and in the quality.
Where do you obtain your fabrics? That varies but most of my suppliers are in Italy, Switzerland, Japan, New Zealand, Portugal and Germany.
Why do you abstain from black? Because it wouldn’t match the rest of the collection. I don’t spare it completely and it’s not like I don’t like black – quite the opposite. But when I develop a new collection I feel like black would smother everything else. There are enough good designers who work well with black, but it’s too heavy for my collections. Last winter I worked with black for the first time, for the A/W 14/15 collection. That was harmonious and it matched.
What inspires you? Everything I experience – art, music, people, cities, movies…
What’s the role of sexuality in the fashion world? I never really connect sexuality and fashion, at least not with my fashion. Of course it matters and I’m sure it plays a part in my subconsciousness but it’s nothing I work with on purpose. I produce women’s and men’s fashion and I don’t really think there’s unisex fashion. But I like it if women wear men’s clothes and men wear some women’s. I still wouldn’t call that unisex fashion.
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Is there a gay aesthetic and if so – what does it look like for you? It depends on how you define gay aesthetic but of course it exists. For me it was the old aesthetic of Jean Paul Gaultier.
Do Berliners dress well? There are many well dressed and surely some badly dressed people in Berlin, just like in any other big city. One person’s got style, the other doesn’t.
Fashion Week Berlin – why should I go there? If you’re really interested in fashion and you like to attend to it then you should choose the matching events and go there. It’s where fashion is really presented and respected and I think it’s good that we have a fashion week here in Germany. Of course, we can’t compete with Paris, Milan, etc. and I don’t think we ever will but do we really have to?
Why is fashion important? Because it’s fun and it can make you happy. Just like chocolate. Fashion is surely not the most important thing in life and it shouldn’t be overrated but it’s just as important as art and other cultural things that surround us. Because it connects people.
Which store in Berlin is a must-see? Definitely the Andreas Murkudis Store and Voo Store.
Andreas Murkudis Potsdamer Straße 81e, 10785 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sat 10-20 Voo Store Oranienstraße 24, 10999 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sat 11-20
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BARS & CAFÉS The selection of bars and cafés are not based on the single fact that it is a place for queers. This should not be the only reason why you visit a place. In my opinion the whole aura of a place is important combined with great drinks and nice people. The collection of bars and cafés is just a minium of what Berlin can offer. If you want to explore more, I recomment to get Berlin‘s queer monthly magazine SIEGESSÄULE. And yes, it is for free.
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Lettestraße 6, 10437 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sun from 10 Smoking & non smoking rooms. Indoors or out in the sun you will eat vegetarian. In the summer you get a refreshing Caipirinha.
With vegan-vegetarian breakfast buffet on friday, saturday and sunday from 11 am to 3 pm.
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Visitors can enjoy food and drink in an outdoor oasis. in the heart of Prenzlauer Berg. Beer has been served under the shade of chestnut trees since 1837, making Prater Berlin’s oldest beer garden.
Rouges et Tartes Knaackstraße 54, 10435 Berlin Opening hours: thurs-sat 12-18
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Marietta Stargarder Straße 13, 10437 Berlin Opening hours: mo-thurs 10-02 sat-sun from 10-04
The little shop in Prenzlauer Berg specializes in southern French wines.
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Prater Garten Kastanienallee 7-9, 10435 Berlin Opening hours: April–September • weather permitting • daily from 12
Their cocktail selection includes contemporary and seasonal creations. The establishment is illuminated by light strips/bars, mirrored by a iridescently tiled wall.
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The look of 50s and 60s, the Marietta presented at the Stargarder Straße. In the afternoon there is coffee and cake and evening drinks for night owls.The audience is mixed and especially on Wednesdays quite gay.
November Husemannstraße 15, 10435 Berlin Opening hours: mon-fri from 18 sat-sun from 11 The cafe is an institution in the Kollwitz neighborhood and known for great pies and cakes, of which three to six are available daily.
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Smoking bar. The name of the bar is "To your place or mine?". One equipped with sofa landscapes Bar, which is dedicated to the 70s.
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Kollwitzstraße 83, 10435 Berlin Opening hours: daily 08-24 Not only the fragrant tea and coffee specialties, homemade pies and cakes, but especially the freshly prepared food offer make the café a favorite of Prenzlauer Berg.
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"You can buy everything from us - a colorful potpourri of furniture, much comes from the fifties. It may even happen that you have to get up, because someone has just bought the couch you sit on." - Even the "secret" waffle recipe you can buy, right in one package with the ingredients. But you can also easily eat breakfast just good to start with a coffee and a hot waffle in the day.
Marienhof Marienburger Straße 7, 10405 Berlin Opening hours: mo-fri from 07 pm sat from 08 pm • sun closed The Marienhof, is more than just a bar, cafe or pub. It is one of the last trendy bars in Prenzlberg. An ever-changing program is offered.
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Pappelallee 73, 10437 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sat 09-01 • sun from 09-18 A small corner bar with some historic ambience. Especially the old lettering on the outer wall indicates the point to the original use of the building. Interior totally cozy and rustic furnishings with tasty and fresh food. You should try the homemade and the Sunday Brunch is amazing!
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There will be beer (Demory from Paris), wine and champagne, but the focus is on longdrinks with the not so usual gin and tonic and a broad selection of whiskeys and tequilas. Saturdays are non-smoking evenings.
"Think big", thought the barman and equipped its new location at Hackescher Markt with all the props from that one needs for upscale bar culture - heavy upholstered furniture, golden accessories and high-quality spirits.
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Butcher‘s Torstr. 116, 10119 Berlin Opening hours: wed-sat 21-04 Not to far away from that one at Rosenthaler Platz you have the Butcher's that uses a Curry Wurst bistro as a front and you have to enter the actual bar through a telephone booth.
The three fateful asterisk - to be clear - are for the last name of the celebrity Betty Ford, although you are tempted to think something else here. In fact, the location in Mitte attracts mainly, but not exclusively gay people. The cozy interior decorated with red, golden and black furniture, and a small intimate basement with pop beats and slight 80‘s groove.
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TheCoven Kleine Prasidentenstr. 3, 10178 Berlin Opening hours: mon-thurs, sun 20-02 fri-sat 21-03 New and stylish bar near the Hackescher Markt. Dark and mysterious. Mixed, trendy and mostly male audience. Not only gay. A minimalist decor, great cocktails and friendly bartender.
DEAN Rosenthaler Straße 9, 10119 Berlin Opening hours: thurs-sat from 22 The DEAN, a fairly new place that belongs to the popular Amano Hotel across the street is one of those extra fancy places. You might wait 20 Minutes at the marble counter for your cocktail but the patience is worth it.
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Sophienstr. 21, Sophie-Gips-Höfe, 2nd yard, 10178 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sat 09-21 • sun from 10-21
Today a meeting place for people from fashion and art. Nice furnishings and daily DJs. (I recommend the Moscow Mule with vodka, ginger beer, lime juice and cucumber.)
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The café has the best conditions for a successful start to the day: own coffee roasting, own pastry plus lots of bagels and even croissants from their own production. In the morning most popular is the New York Special Bagel.
St. Oberholz Rosenthaler Str. 72a, 10119 Berlin Opening hours: daily • sun flea market 09-18
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Red leather furniture, antique lamps, warm light and a nice warm atmosphere. Upstairs is a "working space" where you can just see people behind MacBooks.
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Auguststr. 43, 10119 Berlin Opening hours: mon-fri from 14 • sat-sun from 16 (if there is good weather) Here you are closer to the sky. The cocktail list includes some creations that are not so commonly found in the bars of Berlin as the "Black Hugo" or the "Wild Kitchen". There is also a good selection of long drinks and wines. I also recommend the homemade iced tea.
Buck and Breck Brunnenstraße 177, 10119 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sun 19-04 Buck and Breck in Mitte at Brunnenstraße has quite the reputation for being super secretive and exclusive and you have to be lucky to get a chair without reservation.
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13 Maxim Gormannstrasse 25, 10119 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sat 18-01 There the wine has the starring role combined with a great selection of cheese.
Mein Haus am See Brunnenstr. 197-198, 10119 Berlin Opening hours: 24/7 "Not a bar, not a club, something sexier in between." Nothing more to say. Young audience.
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Grünberger Str. 81, 10245 Berlin Opening hours: mon-fri from 17 sat-sun from 9
No, that is not a hospital. Although the chairs and the transparent plastic curtains may give the impression …
Here one can eat well for a nice price and by good weither watch the crazy people flaunt over the "Boxi".
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Volkswirtschaft
Warschauer Str. 34, 10243 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 19
Krossener Straße 17, 10245 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 10
Singing reportedly has therapeutic effects. But what is good for yourself, may not bring the same effect to others.
For lunch there is a solid card with classics like schnitzel, spaetzle or goulash, there are a total of seven vegetarian and meat dishes. And the prices are more than fair.
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Simon-Dach-Straße 36, 10245 Berlin Opening hours: mon-fri from 18 sat-sun from 14
Santa Maria Eastside Krossener Str. 18, 10245 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sun from 12 "Best tacos in Berlin!"
In the summer it is rather fruity, more chocolate in winter. Classics like "Eierlikör-" or "Schwarzwaldkuchen" almost always decorate the showcase.
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Süß war gestern Wühlischstraße 43, 10245 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sat from 20
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Smoking bar. Electronic DJs, and if you don‘t want to dance, you can refresh your skills with the Super Nintendo.
Revaler Str. 99, 10245 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 18 The bar is known by the drag queen "Nina Queer", funny events like the Oktoberfest or public viewing for Euro Vision Song Contest. Among the guests are many gay friends and fans of the drag queen, but a general rule: Everyone is welcome.
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Winterfeldtstraße 50, 10781 Berlin Opening hours: sun-thurs 18-03 • fri-sat 18-04
The music determines the mostly gay audience at the digital jukebox in the middle of the store, or to sing the same even on the karaoke nights.
They mix everything you want!
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Motzstraße 19, 10777 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 20 Since cabaret times people celebrate here. In the Hafen everyone lives his own identity. 7 3
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Motzstraße 5, 10777 Berlin Opening hours: daily 20-04
The waiters wear "dacha-style" T-Shirts, and as a digestive, they pour a glass of vodka. Iced and fully until it stops. Here‘s a little tip to digest: the balmy summer air on the terrace.
Possibly the most straightforward of Berlin's gay bars.
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Prinzknecht Fuggerstr.33, 10777 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 15 The self-proclaimed men pub has been around for over 10 years an institution in the Berlin scene.
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Lietzenburger Str. 13-15, 10789 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sun from 12 Hamburger Mary's is located on the ground floor of the Axel Hotel. Nice service and great burgers. The restaurant/bar in Berlin is the only one outside of the U.S. There is a drag show every Saturday from 21.
Austrian restaurant. Pink wallpaper and huge chandeliers.
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Miss Go Lightly Nollendorfstraße 15, 10777 Berlin
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Maaßenstraße 5, 10777 Berlin Opening hours: mon-fri 07-20 • sat-sun 09-20
The most popular dessert is and remains the New York cheesecake by a secret recipe.
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Very cosy café with a great variation of coffees. If you don‘t like coffee, you should definitely try the "Tension Tamer Tea".
Kalwil Berlin Motzstraße 30, 10777 Berlin Opening hours: wed-mon 09-18 Beautiful atmosphere, awesome cakes and the best coffee.
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Lieblingsbar Eisenacher Str. 3, 10777 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 20 It is the daughter of "Rauschgold" in Kreuzberg. Drinks for a fair price, nice people. Sometimes Live-DJs.
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Victoria Bar Potsdamer Straße 102, 10785 Berlin Opening hours: sun-thurs 18:30-03 fri-sat 18:30-04 The Victoria Bar at Potsdamer Straße is one of the most established and popular classic cocktail bars in Berlin and you can’t go wrong here.
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Monkey Bar 25h Hotel, Budapester Str. 40, 10787 Berlin Opening hours: sun-thurs 12-01 fri-sat 12-02 The top floor Monkey Bar with panoramic view and perfect sundowner terrace is the hot spot after dusk. An international choice of drinks and fine wine as well as bar snacks from the NENI kitchen are served.
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Neni Krossener Str. 18, 10245 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sun from 12 The oriental-European dishes are served in a real greenhouse, cuddly on chaises longues or on the terrace.
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The queer bar maintains the now of mixed audience with quiz nights and changing DJs on Fridays.
One of the best queer bars and the brunch on Sunday is cheap and super yummy.
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Oranienstraße 187, 10999 Berlin The iconic pink walls and kitsch décor of this Kreuzberg institution are presided over by Gabriella, the Anglo-German barmaid who loves to chat up foreigners in her hammed-up Geordie accent and dole out free drinks to her favorites. Attracting all sorts, from street toughs and trannies to Turkish hookers and drug casualties, this visual feast of a bar is the kind of place where you’re almost guaranteed to meet new people.
International fare in a well known café with bar, dance floor and precipitated decor from rustic to modern.
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Apotheken Bar Mariannenplatz 6, 10997 Berlin Opening hours: mon 19-02 • tues-sat from 18 Here you can celebrate the fine art of high-proof drinking in front of largescale, dark wood pharmacist cabinets.
Bierhimmel Oranienstraße 183, 10999 Berlin Opening hours: mon-sat from 18 sun closed
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Bateu Ivre Oranienstraße 18, 10999 Berlin Opening hours: daily 09-03
The well-known café serves coffee and cakes and in the evening features live sets from well-known DJs.
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Luzia Oranienstraße 34, 10999 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 12
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Mariannenstraße 6, 10997 Berlin Opening hours: mon closed • tues-thurs and sun 11-20 • fri-sat 11-24
Always fucking crowded but always with style and good Tapas.
Möbel-Olfe Reichenberger Str. 177, 10999 Berlin Opening hours: tues-sun from 18 Cosy smoking bar. Thursday is gay evening.
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"When you enter, you will be a bit shocked first of all, before you get spoiled", says owner Ingo Ohm.
Located inside of an old pharmacy, with most of the original furnishing still there, it’s a beautiful place to have your first meal of the day, spend a lazy afternoon or get the first or last drink of the night.
Ankerklause Kottbusser Damm 104, 10967 Berlin Opening hours: mon from 16 • tues-sat from 10
14 Barbie Deinhoff‘s (see small map) Schlesische Str. 16, 10997 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 19
The cozy, popular "Hafenbar" with nautical decor and Jukebox offers breakfast and international food.
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The name is an homage to the BaaderMeinhof terror group, and although it’s no longer in the same building as the erstwhile hideout of the Red Army Faction, this queer bar is still a great pre-clubbing option to pick up the weekend vibe and hear about word-ofmouth parties. My good friend had his thirtieth birthday party here and it ended in a group spanking session in the back room. There are also fun deejays and cheap beers.
Zum Fuchsbau Planufer 96, 10967 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 10 The restaurant at thew corner with outdoor dining area serves breakfast, snacks and drinks in the atmosphere of a typical Kreuzberg pub.
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Fahimi Skalitzer Str. 133, 10999 Berlin Opening hours: thurs-sat from 21 sun from 20 Located in the barracks above Kaisers on Kotti, but one entrance further to the right, Fahimi Bar has made a point in distinguishing itself from the other clubs/bars on Hochbahn level. Instead of going for the shabby chic of Berlin, Fahimi actually strives for something of an interior design concept.
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Mehringdamm 63, 10961 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 14
The bar has become almost an institution of the gay and lesbian scene. But for everyone else, the Melitta SundstrĂśm is a good starting point for a journey through the Bergmannkiez. Outside can be the activity on the Mehringdamm observe in the backyard but are also quiet seats to find. (It‘s quite dark inside)
A dream in gold and pink. The ironic touch is hard to miss. The map shows the classic bar culture, a small selection of good Cocktails, beer, champagne and wine naturally.
18 Barbie Bar Mehringdamm 77, 10965 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 14
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The blonde and her oodles Accessories determine the idea that changes through constant donations over again. Even the ex-Ken finds unlike rival Blaine his place in Barbie's house. Gay bar, but the sexual preference plays only a subordinate role.
Mehringdamm 62, 10961 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 20 As the name implies, the bar revels in glitter, kitsch and colorful lights.
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Boddinstraße 57a, 12053 Berlin Opening hours: daily 16-03 mon closed
Cozy, queer owned bar. Regular exhibitions, space for making music, and boasts moderately priced "Emotional Cocktails" - customized to your current mood.
Excellent bar with a great atmosphere, good cocktails and crafts beers. Also, in the afternoon, it‘s a great place to take a good espresso, try a club sandwich and a good variety of kuchens. A must in the neighborhood.
Café Ole Boddinstr. 57, 12053 Berlin Opening hours: tues-sat 10-20 sun 12-20
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Café Ole is named after a little black dog, pronounced like the north German name and not how the Spanish exclamation. There are homemade cakes, quiches and breakfast Ole with sausage, cheese, butter, jam, Nutella, honey, fruit, egg, rolls and toast.
They are hosting a range of events such as art exhibitions, birthday celebrations, acoustic music sessions, drag shows and poetry nights. Every Wednesday the drinks are half price till midnight.
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TiER Weserstraße 42, 12045 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 19 The bartenders really know what they are doing.
The bright café with tall windows, wooden chairs and graphics on the walls serve cupcakes and cakes. A really cosy place.
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Weichselstraße 44, 12045 Berlin Opening hours: daily 13-03
Ficken 3000 Urbanstraße 70, 10967 Berlin Opening hours: daily from 22
The cosy cafe turns into a busy bar at night and attracts an easygoing mixed crowd. Lot’s of couches and big tables make this a perfekt place for bigger groups.
A legend in the area. Sometimes they have readings and evenings just for girls. (with darkroom)
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Weserstraße 16, 12047 Berlin Opening hours: mon-thurs 19-01 fri-sat 19-03 • sun closed
Weserstraße 206, 12047 Berlin Opening hours: sun-thurs 17-02 fri-sat 17-03
A lot of differnt types of Gin!
For Kings and Queens and criminal Queers.
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Yuma Weserstraße 14, 12047 Berlin Opening hours: sun-thurs 19-02 fri-sat 19-04 The "Neukölln Cooler" contains grain liquor, sugar syrup and lemon.
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CLUBBING These are just a small selection of popular clubs and parties in Berlin. If you want to get a daily overview for parties I recommend again the free magazin SIEGESSĂ„ULE.
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PRENZLAUER BERG& MITTE THIS IS THE PARTY FROM THE INTERVIEW …
GMF 2BE-Club • Klosterstraße 44, 10179 Berlin Pop, Electro • every Sunday
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Chantal's House of Shame Bassy Cowboy Club • Schönhauser Allee 176a, 10119 Berlin Live performances, Electro, House, Minimal • every Thursday SASOMO KaterBlau • Holzmarktstr. 25, 10243 Berlin Electro, Techno • every Saturday Revolver KitKatClub • Köpenicker Strasse 76, 10179 Berlin Electro, Techno, House • every second Friday of the month and special dates Piep-Show KitKatClub • Köpenicker Strasse 76, 10179 Berlin TechHouse, Techno, House • every last Friday of the month GEGEN KitKatClub • Köpenicker Strasse 76, 10179 Berlin DeepHouse, Techno, House • monthly on a Friday (check Facebook group: GEGEN Berlin)
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NEUKÖLLN &KREUZ BERG THESE ARE THE PARTIES FROM THE INTERVIEWS …
Jurassica Parka's POPKICKER SchwuZ • Rollbergstraße 26, 12053 Berlin Live performances, Electro, Pop • every second Saturday of the month Gloria Viagra's PARTYSANE SchwuZ • Rollbergstraße 26, 12053 Berlin Rock/Pop, Urban Sounds, Discoelectro • every second Friday of the month Inge Borg's KIEZBINGO SO36 • Oranienstraße 190, 10999 Berlin Play Bingo with live music • every second Tuesday of the month Gianluca's & Gianluici's PARTYCOLARE Loftus Hall • Maybachufer 48 / Pannierstraße, 12045 Berlin Electro, House • every last Friday of the month Jerry Drisco's HORSE MEAT DISCO Prince Charles • Prinzenstrasse 85F, 10969 Berlin Disco, Discotronic, Deep House • every second Saturday of the month Chris Phillips' PORNCEPTUAL Prince Charles • Prinzenstrasse 85F, 10969 Berlin Discotronic, Electro, House • every second Saturday of the month
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London Calling SchwuZ • Rollbergstraße 26, 12053 Berlin Indie, Rock, Electro • every first Friday of the month L-Tunes SchwuZ • Rollbergstraße 26, 12053 Berlin Especially for lesbians, Electro, Pop • every last Saturday of the month Proxi Club SchwuZ • Rollbergstraße 26, 12053 Berlin House, Techno, Disco • every last Friday of the month Gayhane SO36 • Oranienstraße 190, 10999 Berlin Oriental music, Pop • every last Saturday of the month ICKY Ficken3000 • Urbanstrasse 70, 10967 Berlin Indie • every Sunday Beitola IPSE • Vor dem Schlesischen Tor 2b, 10997 Berlin Electro, House • every month (check Facebook group: BeiTola Berlin) G Day changing locations • (check Facebook group: G day) Electro • every month CockTail d'Amore Griessmuehle • Sonnenallee 221, 12059 Berlin Electro, House • usually every first Saturday of the month Sankt Veit Chalet • Vor dem Schlesischen Tor 3, 10997 Berlin Electro • usually every third Friday of the month
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FRIEDRICHS HAIN& RUMMELS BURG THIS IS THE PARTY FROM THE INTERVIEW …
KLUBNACHT (Interview with Roman Shamov) Berghain / Panorama Bar • Am Wriezener Bahnhof, 10243 Berlin Electro, Deep House, Techno • every Saturday
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Rummelsburg Rummelsburger Landstraße 2-12, 12459 Berlin changing events (check: rummelsburg-berlin.de) Members Kosmonaut • Wiesenweg 1-4, 10365 Berlin Electro, House, Techno • every last Saturday of the month Homopatik about blank • Markgrafendamm 24c, 10245 Berlin Electro, House, Techno • usually every third weekend of the month Sisyphos Hauptstr.15, 10317 Berlin Electro, House, Techno • usually every weekend
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My name is Dennis. I'm 20 years old and I'm from Villingen-Schwennigen in the Black Forest near Stuttgart, a city with a population of about 80,000 people. At the age of 18 I moved to Berlin for my studies. I got a scholarship at the Design Akademie, a private university, but dropped out shortly afterwards because it didn't meet my expectations. Then I started working at H&M, which is what I'm still doing today. Recently, I got the chance for an apprenticeship position as pastry chef. Besides all that, I also created Holly Hunter – my drag queen persona.
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What is there to tell about my coming out? At the age of 16 I had a best friend and we spent almost every minute together. For example, we had sleepovers every weekend, alternating between my place and his every other week. For my so-called “inner-self”, this whole situation was very crucial. I liked him a lot and as we were always sharing a bed, just being close to him felt really good. By this age, everybody’s watching quite a lot of porn. There was this one particular scene during which the guy had sex with two women. My first thought was Wow, this guy really has stamina and then I asked myself how would it be if two guys and a woman had sex? So, I started googling. After a while,
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I found what I was looking for and started watching it. During the movie, I noticed that I was just waiting for something to happen between the two guys. Of course it didn’t come to that. After that I was really confused. Why am I so interested in this whole thing? At first, I pushed these thoughts away. ••• Some months passed. On “SchülerVZ”, a German social networking site, I found a group for bisexual people. Naturally, I was pretty curious. I started browsing the members and opened like 10 tabs of
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different guys, not knowing that one of them would become the key element for my next step. At some point he texted me, wanting to know how I found his profile since we had no mutual friends and lived 900km apart. I didn’t tell. Neither that I knew that he is bisexual, nor that I feared at that point that I could be. We started texting anyway. In the beginning it was very casual, but soon there were longer texts and in the end we wrote on a daily basis. As I started caring for him over the course of time I eventually asked myself: Where do I want this to go?
hand, it was the best feeling, but on the other hand I still didn’t want to admit it to myself. Telephone calls ensued and our thing kept on going. After 9 months we even called it a relationship. Just a short reminder, I was 16. At the same time he was already pretty open with his sexuality. Over the telephone he asked how I was imagining my future, because he wanted to see me in person for the first time. I was completely overwhelmed and felt cornered. So I just told him what I thought would be “normal” and “right”: a wife, two kids, and a Labrador. •••
But this thought was still far from my mind because I just didn’t want this for myself. I remember kneeling at my bed at night, praying that I wouldn’t be gay. This being true was the worst thought ever. I begged for an epiphany and for somebody to hear my prayer: Please don’t let me be gay.
Silence. He didn’t answer. After a while he asked me if I would listen to what I was saying. A woman? He was a nervous wreck. His voice was breaking as he told me that it doesn’t seem like I take our relationship seriously and that I treat it like a temporary thing.
Despite this, we stayed in touch. Every day after school I looked forward to the little “1” next to the message symbol because I knew who had texted me. Even though we had never met in person, I developed a huge crush on him. On one
He advised me to make sure that I know what I want and added that he was not going to be some temporary fix. We stopped talking.
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After this experience, I realized that I really liked him a lot - I loved texting him and my feelings towards him were genuine. I had to come to terms with the fact, that men are a possible option after all. But my inner conflict kept on going. I still had the hope to fall in love with a woman, to hope be normal. So I started dating girls, but quickly realized that there was no sexual attraction whatsoever. From this point on, women kind of “faded away” and I started rethinking being “bi”. I gradually accepted that I was, in fact, gay, and I couldn’t change that at all. It became acceptable. ••• The very first person I spoke to about this was my mom. I had the feeling she would be open to the idea of me being gay, since she has two gay friends. She always enjoyed hanging out with them a lot and so I thought she would be the last person to judge me for my sexual orientation. When I was about 17 and we were shopping, which we used to do on a regular basis, I told her that we had to talk and asked if we could sit down somewhere. I was so nervous. My heart was racing and I had serious stomachaches. I didn’t know how to put it, so she started guessing: “You are not a virgin anymore?”, “You have a crush on a girl?” I said no, but explained that it still revolved around feelings. “Who is she then?” I was just like: “That’s the problem, it’s not…she.” My mother immediately stood up and went back inside the shop. There was total chaos in my head. “Doesn’t she care?”, “Does she think it’s bad?”. I went up to her and asked her to say something.
She just looked at me and replied: “What can I say to that?” I wanted to know if she was okay with it but she interrupted the question, saying that it was of course not okay, and that she could not comprehend why I am acting that way. “Why can’t you like women? Two men together - that’s no option.” I brought up her two friends, and that she didn’t mind them being gay. She just said that they weren’t her kids and added: “Nobody in our family is or was gay, and nobody ever will be. Where should this even come from?” I was extremely overwhelmed. We both started crying and went home. On our way back, we constantly saw couples. “Why can’t I see you like that? When you’re older I want to see you like that! I really want this for you. It’s just a phase anyway.” I tried to explain myself as good as possible, but nothing worked. We came to the conclusion that she had to sleep on it, but the next day her attitude hadn’t changed. “You are my son, and my son is not gay.” ••• During the following two years, this was the biggest fight with my mother. Up to this point, we were really close but after my coming out the same discussions kept on repeating. She was convinced that homosexuality was in fact a choice. I therefore asked her why I would choose something that would make my life noticeably harder. Due to her rejection, I didn’t even think about telling neither my dad nor my sister. It was a different story with my friends and the people from school. There was just no need for a “proper” outing. Step by
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step I told my closest friends and the rest just caught up. I guess it wasn’t that big of a surprise, even though I wasn’t the kind of guy who just had girls for friends. Even my close male friends were accepting me after they learned about my sexual orientation. Realizing that rejection wasn’t the only response I got, I opened up to my sister. Before my coming out she once mentioned during a conversation with my mother and without any hesitation, that if I were to be gay, she wouldn’t „know“ me anymore. So obviously I was really nervous about telling her. However, I was pretty surprised and relieved about her reaction. She told me that she was really happy for me and she had changed her views completely after working at H&M, through which she got to know and like a lot of gay people. As I told her about our mother’s reaction she replied: “We’re gonna change that together.” From this point on, my sister
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continuously stood up for me. She even confronted our mother directly and asked her why she just didn’t accept my sexual orientation. My mother gave the usual response: “He is not gay.” Time passed. For my 18th birthday, my best friend and I secretly went to Stuttgart for my first CSD. It was one of the best days of my life, and my first big gay experience. I told my mom that I would be sleeping at a friend’s place. Of course I got busted. After I explained to her where I’ve been, she looked at me without understanding. She had no idea of „CSD“ being Christopher Street Day, the biggest annual LGBT celebration and demonstration against discrimination and exclusion. So I just showed her the article in Wikipedia. I, again, feared the confrontation with her. As before, an oppressive silence ensued. One last time she asked me if I was into men or women: Men.
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She nodded and continued: “It’s been 2 years now” and then she started crying. At this point she must have realized that the topic was as close to my heart as it was to hers. She knew that neither I nor she intended for it to happen, but I could now accept myself for who I am. She finally understood.
responded: “What is unique about God?” I asked myself where this whole question and answer game was going and said to him: “He can do anything. He’s almighty.” My dad proceeded: “But why did it take him six days, if he’s almighty?” I was lost. I truly didn’t know what he wanted to hear from me: “Because he had to take his time? Because some things just take time?”
••• From this point on everything got better. She accepted and tolerated me, while we both found a more casual way to talk about this. She even started pushing me to open up to my dad. Even though I have had a very good relationship with him till then, I just couldn’t take this step. He’d never been the kind of man, who expects of his son to play soccer or develop some kind of mechanical skills – if anything, he’d always supported me. Yet, I had this huge fear of rejection. One night, my dad and I were sitting at the table at home when he asked me if we could have a talk. I thought it would be something work-related or some other random topic – but when he closed his laptop and turned off the TV, I had a feeling where this might be heading. He then, calmly but very straightforward, told me that I needed to talk to him, and that I exactly knew why. He wanted to hear me saying it out loud. “That I’m into guys?” I asked. Silence. “You have had religious education in school, right? You guys did read the bible?” I got really nervous and my throat dried up. “Do you know the origin story? How did that happen?” I replied: “It took God seven days, to create the earth. He worked for six days and on the last day he rested.” He
He looked at me and said that this was exactly the point. Just as I had to take my time, my mother had to take her time as well and everyone I met and going to meet will take their time to accept and understand who I am, how I am, and that I’m gay. I just sat there with goosebumps, crying, as he wrapped his arms around me and added quietly: “I know about you since you were 12 years old. I have been watching you all your life. I’m your dad - I never disapproved and I never will.” ••• After our talk everything became so much easier. I gained much more confidence, and even confronted with discriminating slurs in public, I could just deal with them without blaming myself. Before I admitted to my homosexuality, things had been different of course. If people notice that something makes you uncomfortable, they are trying to tease you even more. My dad also shows much interest in me and my life in Berlin. He wants to know almost everything, and he is extremely open-minded and tolerant. Through my coming out, my group of friends in Berlin shifted to mostly gay or female friends.
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Expanding my gay circle of friends was a good thing for me, because you get each other on a different level. I wasn’t used to this when I lived back home and I really wanted and needed this kind of support and exchange of ideas. I don’t have that many straight male friends here in Berlin, which is completely fine with me. I’m just really satisfied with everything right now. ••• Let me now mention Holly Hunter real quick. I wanted to do drag since way back when I was 16 and secretly watched RuPaul’s Drag Race in my room. I was fascinated by the show and I loved dressing up anyway. Therefore “Fasnacht”, the annual German carnival, was the highlight of my year. I could “beat my face” as I thought fit and nobody cared. I dressed up to the point that the people didn’t even recognize me. This was a great feeling for me, since I haven’t been too happy with my appearance back then. The whole story began at that time, because I liked dressing up as a woman. Moving to Berlin then really kicked off the drag thing. I’m wholeheartedly doing it just for two months now – which is not that long. But I wanted to stand out from the rest of the drag queens – meaning not just putting foundation on my face, throwing on a wig and be off to the club. That’s not enough for my taste. I want to reshape my entire face with the help of make-up. I have a manly face which has to become as female as possible. So I started researching. I spent 2 years watching videos, browsing make-up tutorials and visiting the local MAC-store to get advice. I gained my current knowledge step by step, while always practicing at home. When
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going out I didn’t want to look like a queen that had to show for a dollar. The approval for my effort came with this year’s CSD, where I got a lot of positive feedback. This was the final acknowledgement for my two years of practice. Even drag queens, who have done drag for several years, came up to me and congratulated me on my fabulous make-up-job. I have to see if this is going anywhere, but I could definitely imagine working in this area of entertainment in the future. Part-time of course, since I’m really trying to realize my career as a pastry chef. ••• Maybe it’s mentionable that my father even helped me ordering my first wigs. Tthe moment I told my parents about me being interested in Drag, they were very supportive. They told me how fantastic I looked and that they would have my back, whatever I’m doing. I mean seriously, my mom proudly showed her best friend a picture of me in drag, which made me more than happy. Finally, I can openly talk to them and I don’t have to live a lie anymore.
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Thank you Alexander Winter Esther Vomfelde Felix Grimm Jurassica Parka Chris Phillips Patsy L‘amour LaLove Frank R. Schröder Osh-Ree Bob Young Gloria Viagra Jerry Drisco Julian Laidig Kaey Kiel Marcel Weber Julie Chance Matias Sauter Pansy Parker Inge Borg Roman Shamov Gianluca Venerdini Gianluigi Porcu Hien Le Prof. Thomas Born Prof. Daniela Hensel
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Imprint Layout / Concept Matthias Panitz Cover Photo Chris Phillips Cover Model William Rootpeter Interviews Alexander Winter Matthias Panitz Translation / Copyediting Esther Vomfelde Felix Grimm Florian Schmitt Greg Bell Druck Copy Clara GbR LuisenstraĂ&#x;e 45, 10117 Berlin
This magazine was created as a bachelor thesis by Matthias Panitz studying Communication Design at HTW Berlin in 2015 The supervising professors were Prof. Thomas Born Prof. Daniela Hensel
I always had hopes of being a big star. But as you get older, you aim a little lower. Everybody wants to make an impression, some mark upon the world. Then you think, you‘ve made a mark on the world if you just get through it, and a few people remember your name. Then you‘ve left a mark. You don‘t have to bend the whole world. I think it‘s better to just enjoy it. Pay your dues, and just enjoy it. If you shoot an arrow and it goes real high, hooray for you. Dorian Corey in “Paris is burning”