Spring 2013
Pack the Perfect Picnic Thankful for Adoption Rejuvenate Your Skin Want to Run?
Meet ... Phil & Darla How did he pop “the question”? The question-popping happened at Sardine Lake, near Graeagle, CA on August 17, 2002. My mom and I had already spent a few days there before Phil and my dad came up to meet us. Phil had already talked to my dad a few weeks prior to get his blessing. Phil rented a little rowboat and hid a bottle of champagne under the seat. The two of us took the rowboat out for a sunset tour around the lake. He was paddling us around and I was enjoying the beautiful views. About 30 minutes into our boat trip, he pulled out a little box from Poole’s and asked me to marry him! Of course, I said YES, and there were many tears and smiles. He popped open the champagne, and we enjoyed a little more time on the lake, knowing that our lives were about to change. As Phil rowed us back to shore I started to plan the wedding
in my mind. When we got ashore, my mom and dad were waiting for us. I was dying to tell my mom, because my dad had not said a word to her. They were both very happy and excited for us. We all had some more champagne and a nice dinner out and the rest is history!
What are some secrets to making it to your 10-year anniversary? In May we will be celebrating our 10-year anniversary…WOW!! What makes our relationship work is that we really are each other’s best friends. We enjoy doing a lot of the same things together, be it golfing, an evening out, traveling, or just hanging out at home. We are content to be in each other’s company. With that said, we also give each other time to pursue our own individual interests. We work together as a team to build a life and future together, respecting the other and what they bring to the relationship. We both feel fortunate to have found “the one.” Bottom line: we not only love each other, but we also really like each other and have a ton of fun together!
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e are big believers in intuition, in those moments where you just know what to do. It is always a good idea to listen to that little gut feeling nudging you in the right direction. This spring, we’re bringing you stories that reinforce the importance of listening to our intuition. It helps us pay attention and trust ourselves, like when we find true love. We are sharing the intuition of couples that “have it,” including how they knew they had met their soul mates. A wonderful story of how love runs thicker than blood is shared in a beautiful adoption story. Of course, that’s not all this issue has to offer. From the best tips on how to become a runner to our round-up of the
perfect picnic (including recipes!) to our favorite gifts for him this spring, we have you covered for spring. Our home feature also showcases an amazing way to decorate with great style and comfort for both adults and children, all without compromising beauty. We know for sure that you have at your disposal a powerful tool that can make your dreams happen, harness your inner wisdom, and lead you toward every bit of delight you desire in this extraordinary life! The world evolves because people do good things every day, for no other reason than that they have a feeling they can! Summer is just a blink away, and we have a feeling you are going to love what we have to share for this beautiful spring!
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Rejuvenate your SKIN
by Kim Pace Ruccione, R.N Family Physicians, Inc.
hemical peeling is a modern term to describe a process that has been around since ancient times. Legend has it that Queen Bathsheba, wife of King David, would soak herself for long periods of time in sour milk to lighten and brighten her skin. Lactic acid, which is present in sour milk, has been a popular beauty aid for centuries that improves the skin’s texture and hydration levels. It’s a relatively inexpensive and generally safe method to correct and rejuvenate the skin. It can also improve skin disorders and refresh a tired complexion. We call this an AHA, alphahydroxy, or “A-hydroxy” due to its chemical composition. Many modern men and woman have had AHA chemical peels.
A moderate peel can take up to 8 days of downtime where your skin may look like “road rash.” Typically, a medium-depth peel is the strongest peel you will find without needing a light anesthetic or numbing cream. A moderate deep peel penetrates deeper into the dermal tissue. This means layers of skin can be peeled away in a controlled fashion to create and stimulate new skin and collagen growth. These peels can nicely affect the dermal layers that are responsible for tissue growth and collagen formation. When used properly, these peels have therapeutic success in reversing the aging process. Successful outcomes are based on careful patient selection as well as appropriate use of the specific peeling agents.
There are many other types of AHA and Beta peels. More common names known to the public are Glycolic, Salicylic and Jessner’s peels. These types of peels are considered superficial peels. The depth of the peel is correlated with the clinical changes or improvement of the skin. The deeper the peel, the longer the healing time.
Chemical peels are used to create an injury of a specific skin depth with the goal of stimulating new skin growth and improving surface texture and appearance. They lighten, brighten, and exfoliate, which stimulates new epidermal growth and collagen regeneration. Chemical peels are not only for the face, but can also be used on the arms, legs, back, and chest to lessen the visual effects of age spots, old acne scars, and the aging process. The deeper the peel, the more experience necessary to attain optimal results. There has been a recent surge of interest in these ancient procedures...because they work!
Lighter peels can leave you flaky or pink for 3-5 days. These superficial peels, penetrating only the epidermis, can be used for a variety of conditions, including acne, little bumps on the skin, melasma, and discoloration (usually under the eyes or high cheek area). Peels can be combined with other in-office techniques to optimize the outcome in rejuvenating the skin.
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with Chemical Peels
Many people feel they need a “pick me up” and seek surgical procedures.
Unfortunately, your skin continues to look aged and damaged if it does not get addressed concurrently. After having completed a moderate depth peel, most people feel the need for further cosmetic surgery is not necessary due to the fabulous results. As with any cosmetic procedure, there is always a potential of adverse reactions. Post inflammatory hyper-pigmentation and healing issues on skin that has not been properly cared for are the biggest issues surrounding this procedure. Unwanted pigment changes can be a big concern on moderate- to darker-skinned individuals. Peels can still be successful on darkerskinned individuals in the hands of a knowledgeable practitioner. The cost of chemical peels varies from as low as $69 to as high as $1400. The deeper the peel needed, the higher the cost. The more down time involved, the higher the fees. These higher end fees usually include all the post-op visits as well. Kim Ruccione is a graduate of Rutgers University. She started her own electrolysis (hair removal) and waxing business in the 1980s to pay her way through college, and continues to offer these services to our community. Her experience and extensive knowledge base was obtained in over 11 years in the laser field. She works closely with the laser and skin care industry to bring you the most innovative and upto-date treatments and information available. Photo by Adel Mitchell of BSF Printing.
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My doctor says I could have Obstructive Sleep Apnea…..
Now what? by Nancy Tuscano, RRT
re you tired during the day, even after you have slept all
information to your personal physician, who will go over the results
night? Do you ever fall asleep watching TV? Has your bed
with you. With all the new technology available, it is very possible
partner noticed that you snore loudly or make choking
that a polysomnography test could be performed in the privacy of
noises while you sleep? Do you wake with a morning headache, or
your home. Simply pick up the small device and some instructions,
do you have trouble concentrating? These are just some of the signs
wear it for two nights, and then return it to the facility.
and symptoms of Obstructive Sleep Apnea, also known as OSA. The good news is that OSA is treatable. PAP therapy is usually the Leaving a sleep disorder undiagnosed or untreated can not only
first treatment for OSA, and it is the one that everyone says they
affect your life, it can
could never do. I have had
affect those around you. Your
many patients who complain
own health is jeopardized by
about the feeling of
increased risk of heart attack,
claustrophobia they may get
stroke, or high blood pressure.
while using a Continuous
Others around you can be put
Positive Airway Pressure, or
in danger by your fatigue,
“CPAP,” mask. With today’s
inability to concentrate, or
changing technology
rapid mood swings. This is
and designs, and most
why polysomnography (a sleep
importantly good instruction
test) is a very important
and education, success rates
diagnostic test. Your health
are high with CPAP.
care provider can refer you for a sleep evaluation where breathing and the amount of
therapy should have good
oxygen in your blood are
communication and easy
measured, as well as your brain waves, leg movements, body
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Patients using CPAP
access to a licensed and trained technician who will spend the time
position, chin and eye movement, heart rhythm & rate, and snore
and effort to get the perfect equipment for them. Each patient’s face
sound. All this information is collected, scored, and evaluated by a
and needs are different. These factors are all imperative to CPAP
sleep-certified physician. The sleep physician will send this
therapy success. It’s a process and not a matter of opening a box,
reading some DIY instructions, slapping on the mask, and wearing it. Rarely is that successful, as many may use the equipment incorrectly. Even with good communication from the equipment provider or sleep facility technician, CPAP may not be the first choice. There are other alternatives that may be an option for a person with OSA, depending on the stage of the OSA. One option is a mouthpiece that is made especially for you, which will increase the area in the airway by pulling your chin forward and pushing your tongue down. There are many on the market today, so it is best if you work with your dentist to choose the proper device. If the mouthpiece is not made correctly, dental damage can occur. Other options are more invasive procedures that can be performed by
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• Uvulopalatopharyngoplasty (UPPP): increases the airway at the throat’s opening. • Noninvasive pillar palatal implant treatment: includes placement of pieces of polyester string in the soft palette. For use in mild to moderate OSA. • Tracheostomy: A surgical procedure to create an opening through the neck into the trachea, or windpipe. Only for use in severe cases, and rarely performed in today’s medicine for OSA.
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• Genioglossus: tongue advancement. • Genioplasty: plastic surgery for the chin. • Hyoid advancement surgery: the chinbone is moved forward, pulling the tongue muscle along with it. • Maxillary or maxillomandibular advancement (MMA): moves the upper and lower jawbone forward. • Surgery for nasal obstructions, such as a deviated septum: used to treat snoring and other OSA symptoms. • Removing adenoids and tonsils in children. Certainly, some or all of these may not be an option for everyone with OSA, and recommendations should only be made by a board-certified sleep physician in accordance with American Academy of Sleep Medicine.
Nancy Tuscano, RRT, is the executive director of Sierra Sleep Diagnostics, located in Yuba City & Nevada City, CA. Nancy has many years of caring for and educating patients with sleep disorders, breathing disorders, and CPAP therapy. She can be contacted at Sierra Sleep Diagnostics 530-755-1251.
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Want to Run?
By Dan Duran
unning, jogging, jog-walking, fast-walking… is any of it worthwhile? What are the benefits? Can I actually lose weight? What about my knees? What if I’m pregnant? How do I get started? These are all common questions people have about exercising. Despite all of the media attention devoted to what to eat, when to eat, and how much to eat, exercise is and always will be the strongest factor in weight loss. Research has shown that exercising more than 250 minutes per week is needed to both lose weight and maintain that weight loss. Despite what most people think, you don’t have to use fat during exercise to lose fat from your waistline. After all, have you ever seen a fat sprinter? Sprinters primarily train anaerobically, never using fat during their workouts. Instead, your adipose fat (the fat on your waistline and thighs) is burned during the hours before and after your workout. That means there must be a workout to burn fat, and running is an easy and effective way to get started! To become a better fat-burning machine, you must enhance the metabolic profile of your muscles. Endurance training enhances fat burning by increasing the number of little fat burners within the cell called mitochondria, as well as the cell’s ability to utilize oxygen more effectively, which aids in the aerobic (using oxygen) burning of fat. Since the priority of recovering muscle is to replenish glycogen (carbohydrate) stores, the way to not gain excess fat is to constantly use your glycogen stores during exercise so that the carbohydrates you ingest will be used to replenish the glycogen stores rather than be stored as fat. If your glycogen stores are already full, as they are in most of the population that doesn’t exercise, any extra calories you consume are stored as fat. I like to think of my body as a gas tank—never let it go empty and don’t overfill it, just replace what you use. How about safety? People assume that because running requires pounding the ground, it must be damaging to your knees—but this myth is completely false. There’s no research that shows a greater instance of joint issues or osteoarthritis in people who run versus those who do not. On the contrary, studies show that running can be beneficial for joints as it strengthens the surrounding musculature and increases bone density.
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Running is also very good for pregnant women. It can help ease delivery and encourage the flow of blood, oxygen, and nutrients to the developing fetus. Almost all women can run up until the third trimester, and many can run through their final trimester. However, it is recommended that women not try to increase their mileage or speed while pregnant, as the body is already under a good deal of stress during this time. As with any exercise program, if you are currently under a doctor’s care, it is important you discuss your plans with them first. The next thing to do is buy a good pair of running shoes. Running shoes are designed to fit three primary types of gait (what your ankles do when you run) and it is important to buy the correct type of shoe. I suggest going to a specialty store such as Fleet Feet and having your gait analyzed for the correct shoe. Beyond these steps, it’s as complicated as you want to make it, but as a general rule, start out slow and easy and avoid adding more than 10% of minutes or miles per week. It is also a good idea to back off your time or distance by about one third every four weeks so your body can fully recover. The number one reason people become injured when starting a running program is because they do too much too soon. If you want to lose weight and keep it off for the rest of your life, running (or some other form of exercise if you can’t run) has to become a part of your life. If you’re pressed for time, run for just 15 minutes. Just run. The time people spend reading books on how to lose weight could be spent running to lose the weight. Don’t be a weight loss book reader. Be a runner.
Dan Duran is the Fitness Director and a professional trainer at the Yuba City Racquet Club and a member of the Yuba-Sutter Triathlon Club. He began running fewer than two years ago and has now completed numerous triathlons and the California International Marathon. He is now training to complete an Ironman Triathlon in July. He can be reached at (530) 624-2965 or yubahealth@gmail.com.
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Why
Smart
Women
by Paulla Hyatt-McIntire
Invest in Estate Planning
Death is uncomfortable to think about, and can be even more difficult to discuss with our loved ones. It’s no wonder so many fail to consider what will happen to their hardearned assets and those they love after they die.
omen in particular face
Some studies show as few as 30% percent
favorite charity. An estate plan is personal
challenges when it comes to
of adults have estate planning documents
and should reflect your own priorities for
estate planning.
in place. The reasons given range from
the ones you care about. It isn’t just about
thinking estate planning is only for the
who gets the sterling silver (although
It is difficult for them to think about
wealthy to the illogical concern that if
personal property is a surprisingly
leaving behind their children, spouses,
a person has a will, something bad will
important part of the overall plan); it is
parents, and others they love. The thought
happen to them. The recent passage of the
about expressing your hopes and desires
is nearly unbearable, so most avoid it.
American Taxpayer Relief Act of 2012,
for your loved ones when you are gone.
which increased the estate tax exemption In addition to all those reasons, many
to $5,250,000 per person, adds to a
Many people believe that estate plans are
women also overlook the likelihood that
common misconception that if you don’t
prohibitively expensive. A basic plan for a
they will outlive their male partners. It is
have great wealth, you don’t need to plan.
single or young couple is likely to be well
not enough to assume that beneficiary
Estate planning is much more than tax
under $2,000. Aggressive tax planning and
designations are correct and that things
planning. It is about planning for your
complicated trusts do increase the cost,
will work out. Many married couples
children, spouse, and loved ones by
but are not appropriate for most people.
assume everything they own will go to the
naming guardians, defining the manner in
Most good estate planning attorneys will
other when one dies. However, this is not
which those you love inherit wealth, and
work with a client to prioritize the critical
always the case, and certainly not without
passing down your hard-earned assets (no
documents and perhaps even spread out
confusing, time-consuming, and expensive
matter the value), to those you love in the
payments over time.
steps such as probate.
way you choose. To locate a good estate-planning attorney,
If you don’t sit down with an attorney
An effective estate plan dictates what you
ask friends, financial planners, insurance
and establish an effective estate plan, the
want to happen, with appropriate plans for
agents, and tax professionals for a referral
consequences can be expensive and
contingencies. These contingencies may
to an attorney that specializes in estate
unfortunate. The California Probate Code
include a loved one predeceasing you in
planning. You can also check with the
has a plan for you and your assets if you fail
death; ensuring that your children don’t
State Bar of California for specialists in
to make your own. It is not likely to reflect
receive a lot of money all at once at age
estate planning.
your wishes, especially if you have more
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than one marriage, children from more than
trustee; paying for the education of your
When you meet with an attorney, be
one marriage, a co-habitant, stepchildren, or
younger loved ones; or planning for a
prepared with a list of your assets, a list
any number of other relationships outside
disabled child, your church, or your
of your loved ones, and thoughts about
the “traditional family.”
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your priorities. Be prepared to use your
time wisely. If you go to the attorney with a spouse, have a conversation beforehand about your own ideas and preferences. Ask your attorney to look at your assets and make recommendations about steps you should consider. Are there ways to reduce taxes due on your death? Should you consider aggressive tax planning? If you have a disabled child, what is the best plan to take care of that child that will not jeopardize government benefits but still provide for the extras you would have provided?
Paulla Hyatt-McIntire is a Certified Specialist in Estate Planning, Trust and Probate Law*; her practice is focused on representation of individuals in estate planning matters, including preparation of revocable and irrevocable trusts for married, single and same-sex partners, business succession planning, and post-death administration of trusts and estates. In addition to Paulla’s experience in law, she spent nine years as an elementary and middle school teacher for Yuba City Unified and Franklin Elementary School Districts. Paulla is married to Brad McIntire and their family includes daughters Jackie and Katie and son Zach.
The likelihood of dying young is low, but tragedies do happen. Smart women invest in estate planning for peace of mind and the ability to enjoy life knowing that our loved ones and affairs are in order, no matter what happens.
Paulla Hyatt-McIntire, Attorney At Law Certified Specialist Estate Planning, Trust & Probate Law, State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization 642 Bridge Street, Yuba City, California 95991 674-9761 www.hm1law.com phyatt@hm1law.com *State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization
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Need an Office Too! by Meghan Hamilton
Many parents have spent countless hours creating the
perfect bedroom and play space for our children. We work with our children to create a colorful and organized space for them to call their own. Depending on the age of our child, this may mean finding that perfect shade of pink for our little princess, seeking out a jungle-shade of green for our explorer, or maybe looking for that ominous gray that our teen said would perfectly match their “Twilight” movie posters. With all of this thought and planning that we put into creating an amazing space for our child, we may be surprised to find that there is something we have not yet thought of.
Let’s ask ourselves a few questions about this space we have created for our child: What is the space designed for? This question is fairly easily answered, whether you are thinking of your child’s bedroom or their playroom. Your child most likely uses the room to play, listen to music, read books, relax, and/or sleep. What colors are present in the space? Chances are you have designed the space with colors that enhance your child’s ability to do the above-mentioned things and that there has not been much thought as to the psychological effect the chosen colors have on your child (I will come back to this). What items are available in the space? Again, if you are thinking of your child’s bedroom or playroom, there are most likely toys available to play with, a device for listening to music, some books, and probably a bed and some pillows. You have created the perfect space for your child to do the following: play, listen to music, read books, relax, and sleep. However, have you thought about creating a space where your child can “work?”
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All children “work.” Whether it is homework, a hobby, art, writing in a journal, or even filling out their first job application, ALL children work. Now think about where you work. Do you work in your bedroom? I hope not... there are a plethora of articles that have been written telling us why having an office in our bedroom is a big “no-no.” Do you work in the same room in which you play? By play I mean watch T.V., play video games, or workout. By now you probably see where I am headed... If we require a separate space to do our work, then doesn’t it stand to reason that children need a workspace too? The answer is YES! Children of all ages need an office too! Now before you run to the home improvement or big box store to gather items for your child’s office, there are some things that you need to think about before designing this space. Since it will be a workspace, you are going to have to do some sleuthing to ensure that your child will be productive in it. While the following questions may not require any serious detective skills, their answers will definitely place you on the right track.
1. How old is your child? This is an important question to be answered because it will not only help you decide the type of space needed for your child, but will give you a good idea of the type of materials you will want to stock the “office” with. Children under the age of 6 will do well with a flat table, while older children may prefer a desk. In terms of materials, younger children will always need pencils, crayons, glue, and scissors readily available, while older children will need items such as graph paper, lined paper, protractors, a ruler, and a calculator. Talk with your child about their personal preference. Don’t be afraid to ask what type of space your child thinks they will be most productive in. 2. Is your child creative? If you have a child who loves to draw, paint, or just create, make sure that you include some of those materials in their workspace. These extra materials should be organized in a manner that lets your child quickly and easily put them away. 3. Does your child prefer to sit or stand while they do their work? The answer to this question will help you to determine what type of chair (or lack thereof) will be most appropriate for your child. If they prefer to sit, make sure that you
choose a chair that is comfortable and promotes good posture. If your child likes to move while they work (or stand) then go for something a little less traditional, like a balance ball or a stool with wheels. 4. What motivates your child? A picture hung on the wall in or near your child’s workspace can do wonders. If your child loves the outdoors, hang a picture of their favorite national park. If your child loves sports and idolizes athletes, a picture of their favorite player may be the perfect piece of motivation to add to their office. Get creative! You may even want to add words and phrases to the space that will inspire them. Ask for your child’s help in this so the inspiration comes through their own design.
While planning, there are a few more things to keep in mind. Use this checklist to keep yourself on track: • Is the office in a part of the house that is quiet and free from distractions? Try to create this space in a room not already associated with another activity, such as watching T.V. or sleeping. • Have I organized it in such a way that my child can quickly and easily access materials and put them away? You want your child to be self-sufficient in their work space. You also want them to keep it neat and organized. By keeping it simple, you should be able to easily achieve this. • Have I chosen colors that lend themselves to productivity? Try to pick colors in the green or blue color palette. Both generate feelings of tranquility and a sense of calm. • Have I included a clock? Clocks are especially important for establishing work routines. Having a clock in their workspace allows your child to monitor their own progress. The answers to these questions will get you headed in the right direction and will allow you to plan the office space that is most appropriate for YOUR child. Have fun, be creative, and involve your child in the process…for you now know why kids need an office too!
Meghan Hamilton is a co-owner and founder of Fusion Schools (https://www. FusionKids.com) and the author of the Fusion Early Learning Curriculum (https://www. Preschool CurriculumOnline.com.) Meghan’s passion lies in educating young children in ways that excite and intrigue the learner, opening them up to a wider array of educational experiences. Meghan currently lives in Northern California with her husband and business partner Tom, and their two children, Jack and Emma. Contributor photo by Victor Bruce
Tell us about your adoption. I was adopted at 4 months of age from Seoul, Korea in March 1983. My dad, a Master Sergeant for the U.S Airforce, was stationed in Okinawa, Japan. At the time, my family was made up of my dad, Celestine Le Clair; my mom, Christine; and my brothers, James and Brian. My parents were on a bowling league with a friend who was a social worker specializing in adoptions. My mom had always dreamed of one day adopting a child, and thought about making that dream become a reality when she was forced to have a hysterectomy after the birth of her second son. She talked with her friend, who finally helped her get into the process of adoption. At first, my parents wanted to adopt from Okinawa because they fell in love with the little Okinawan babies they would see while living there. But after a few failed attempts, another social worker helped them instead adopt from South Korea.
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I have very, very little information about my birth mother, but there is an assumption that she was young, and definitely afraid. I was left in a basket as a newborn baby on the doorstep of a woman who thankfully took me to the agency from which I would later be adopted. No one knows where my birth mother is, or what circumstances brought her to where she was emotionally or physically to have made the choice she did that day. But let me tell you...words can’t even begin to express the gratitude I will always have for her, as well as for her choice to leave me there on that day. By this time, my mom and dad were on a waiting list, and one day in mid-February got a phone call that there was a baby girl who needed a home. They took the first chance they got to fly to Seoul, Korea to meet me for the first time. My mom says it was “love at first sight,” just like it is when any mother sees their child for the first time. That visit was the turning point for all of us, because it was then that things started to become more of a reality. The processing of paperwork began and the ball really got rolling. There were many interviews, home visits, background checks, and all the protocol that goes into adopting a baby. By late March, everything was official and they flew back to Korea to bring me home. By August, our family was back in the United States, and I was introduced to the rest of the family.
How did your parents explain the adoption to you? I never remember being sat down and told that I was adopted. However, I understand it was a pretty big deal. It happened before I started kindergarten, as my mom and dad were worried that other kids might ask why I looked different from my Hispanic mom and very white, blue-eyed, French-German dad! Little did they know, we must have blended perfectly together because no one ever asked any questions, and to this day people are floored when they learn that I am not my mom’s biological daughter.
Describe your relationship with your family. My family is the best. My brothers and I are close, but all three of us kids are completely different! They used to tease me and still do occasionally about being adopted. Once, my brother Brian said they only got me because I was “on sale!” Sounds terrible, but if you knew us, you would laugh because we are such a
joking family! I like to say that I was just the “chosen one!” One of my favorite stories is the one where my brothers would go into my room and wake me up just so they could rock me back to sleep. I also have a picture my mom took of us lying on the bed taking a nap, one brother on each side of me so I was sure not to roll off. We all live in different states now, but I love my brothers dearly. My mom is so amazing in so many ways that I get emotional when I really think about how wonderful she is. She is my hero for so many reasons. From what I can remember, my dad was always fun and such a people person. Anyone who knew him well says he was such a nice man who was full of personality. I remember watching Looney Tunes on his lap, playing “I Spy” with him, and how he would always leave me candy in a special dish on the kitchen table. I never saw him mad or even upset. My dad’s and my relationship was far too short. In 1982, he had a by-pass surgery that required him to have a blood transfusion. The blood he received was infected with HIV and it wasn’t discovered until years later, when it was too late. He passed away when I was 9. The reason I’m sharing that piece of information is because it makes the relationship between my mom and I even more unique and special. We believe the details of his life, as well as his death, were instrumental to the very close bond we share.
Have you visited your birthplace as an adult? Tell us about the experience. In 2007, my mom and I took a trip to Seoul, Korea and had the most amazing opportunity to visit the orphanage that I was adopted from. We met with a very nice social worker who went over everything in my file, which was still there from 25 years earlier! Later that day, we went out for an authentic Korean lunch, and when we went back to the orphanage, she asked if we would like to put on some robes, sanitize our hands, and help out in the orphanage and play with the babies for a while. We were beyond excited! We agree that walking up that stairwell and hearing those babies cry was the most emotional part of the whole trip. We spent a few hours holding and playing with those babies, and it was really hard to walk out of there childless.
Do you ever think about your birth mother? Yes. Not all the time, but when I do, I hope she is happy and at peace with her decision. I’ve thought more about her since I’ve had children of my own. I remember distinctively when both of my kids were newborns about how it must have been so hard for my birth mom to leave me. I don’t care who you are... you don’t just carry a baby for 9 months and not develop a bond that will last a lifetime. I hold nothing against her. My mom has always helped me to understand that she must
have done what she did out of love always stuck with me. Sometimes I think about how awesome it would be to meet her. Not just for me, but for her. I would love to be able to meet her, if for no other reason than so that she could rest in knowing that I have had a good life. I think about my life and really get so overwhelmed with emotion because it’s almost unfathomable. The older I get, the more I think about my adoption, which may or may not be normal. It never necessarily bothered me growing up. I’m just more curious. However, I will say there is a small lingering feeling of rejection. I wonder where my birth mother is, and if she thinks of me. I wonder about my birth father and if he even knows I exist. I wonder about their circumstances and what could have been. I wonder about siblings and extended family. I wonder about medical history. But these are all things that I have to be ok with never knowing in this life. I have a growing faith in a mighty God who knows everything, and I believe I will have all of these answers and more when I leave this earth one day.
What would you like others to know about adoption? I pray that the people reading this won’t just think, “That was a nice story.” Instead, I hope people will really take into consideration how precious life is. I am thankful to my family, but I am forever grateful to my biological mother who gave me this gift of my life. I believe in my heart she gave it to me because she knew in the depths of her heart that it wasn’t hers to take away.
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Couples who have There are numerous dynamics that influence a couple’s ability to form intimate connections, from finances and careers to children and extended family. While exciting stories of falling in love take center stage in a world, the true acts that have made for these lasting intimate relationships are much more real. Maintaining healthy relationships takes time, energy, practice, and patience. These happy couples may not have a secret formula, but their exhilaration with being in love is clear. Here they share the foundations on which they built their love, and how they have been able to sustain their relationships over time! Photography by Jessica B Photography
Melisa & Dave Tell us your story. How did you meet? Was it love at first sight? We first became aware of each other when I was a sophomore cheerleader and Dave was on the freshman basketball team at Yuba City High School. My cousin was friends with Dave’s older brother and kept bugging both of us about going out. However, I was apprehensive because he was a freshman, and Dave remembers being too scared to call me. My cousin still says to this day that I would not go out with Dave because he didn’t have a car. I don’t remember that conversation, but it sounds typical of a young girl in high school! One year later, we finally agreed to go out on a date. We wouldn’t call it love at first sight but love at first date, because from that day forward we were inseparable. We instantly felt comfortable with each other and loved to just hang out. We made it through the typical high school drama and went on to our twenties. This brought a different set of issues, and we took an “extended break.” We needed to experience what it was like to live life without each other and we both had a lot of growing up to do. Those years were the most difficult years of our lives, but we agree now that it was the
best thing that ever happened to us. It’s like the old saying, “You don’t know what you have ‘til it’s gone.” We truly appreciate what we have now and feel extremely blessed to be loved by one another. We are now confident that we can make it through anything life throws at us. What was the big attraction? What made it all click? Melisa: I loved that Dave was different. When we first met, he had long hair, played the drums and didn’t care what people thought about him. He is kind, loving and is always fun to be around. But I would have to say the most attractive thing about Dave is his sense of humor. He has always been able to make me laugh and make me feel better when I’m down. I knew he was right for me from day one. He is my best friend, and a wonderful father. He truly amazes me every day and I have a deep respect for him. He also has a wonderful family that welcomed me in from day one, and has always made me feel like the daughter they never had. Everything about him is what I imagined a husband and father to my children would be. Dave: Being that I was an average sixteenyear-old red-blooded male, the biggest attraction initially was that she was a pretty cheerleader. But immediately after our first date, she became my best friend. I felt so comfortable around her and it just felt natural.
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It’s hard to pinpoint a particular moment that told me “this was it.” What I can say is that knowing our children have such a beautiful, caring, loving, and determined woman as their mother to look up to makes me very happy, and nothing could feel more right. She is my partner in life and I could not do it without her. She never puts herself first and always makes sure we have what we need. How long have you been together? How long did you date before you were married? Our original “dating” anniversary is October 18, 1991 and we still celebrate it to this day. This year we will celebrate 22 years together. We decided not to count the “break” because we never truly let go of each other during that time. We were married on August 20, 2005 in Mendocino. That day was very special to us because we both knew how hard we worked to get to that moment. We honestly felt that it was finally the right time to get married. Three years later, just when we thought life couldn’t get any better, our beautiful baby girl Rylee joined the family. What do you enjoy doing together? What are your favorite things to do together, or your favorite places to go?
Mary & Rich Tell us your story. How did you meet? Was it love at first sight? Mary: Rich and I met in Clovis, CA at a popular country western bar called Jim’s Place. Rich asked me to dance and I asked him if he knew how to dance a two-step. He said yes, but clearly he had no clue. Fortunately, I forgave him for the little white lie. We dated subsequently but not regularly and not exclusively. We ran into each other a few months later again at Jim’s Place. This time, Rich shared with me that he was taking a job in Marysville and planning to drive up the next day and look for a place to live. He invited me to join him. After a little consideration, I said, “Why not?” and the next day we were off to Yuba City. We were exclusive after that. He moved to Yuba City, and I lived in Fresno. We took turns driving each weekend to spend time together. Rich: We met in Clovis, CA in the fall of 1984. As far as I know, it was not among George Orwell’s predictions. Our eyes first met at the area’s most popular country western nightclub, Jim’s Place. I walked up to Mary and asked if she would like to dance. She asked if I knew
We love going camping and finding new places to visit. Rylee has cousins close in age so we love going on family vacations. Our favorite place is Fort Bragg, and we try to make it there at least once a year. We love going to A’s games together and Dave was really excited to take Rylee to her first A’s game this past year, even though she was asleep by the 3rd inning! We both work very hard during the week so we look forward to family time and relaxing weekends. We try to enjoy simple things on the weekends like going on bike rides, taking Rylee to the park, or just going out to breakfast. Do you have any differences? How do you compromise? Dave is a planner; I’m more of a free spirit. Dave sees the big picture; I focus on day to day. We both realize that if we were exactly alike, our lives would only go in one direction. Instead, we have the best of both worlds. Dave keeps us on track, and I make sure we have fun along the way. We accept each other for who we are and don’t try to change each other. We truly want to see each other happy, so compromise isn’t always that difficult. However, it’s very important to pick your battles and understand which ones are worth losing.
how to two-step. Although I had not a clue how, I assured her I could. It didn’t take her long to figure out she’d been duped, but I had her in my clutches so what could she do? She didn’t seem to mind, however. I remember her beauty, her radiant smile, her Oklahoma accent, and her cheerful attitude. We hit it off pretty well. To my delight, the phone number she left me with that night actually worked the next day when I called to ask her out to lunch. We did lunch, and a few nights later a Fresno State Bulldogs basketball game. Unfortunately, I was dealing with some stressful issues in my life at the time and when I asked her out again a couple of weeks later, she had begun another relationship. Typical me, I had snoozed and lost. Several months passed, and in spring 1985, our paths crossed again at the same nightclub. To my delight, I found out that her former relationship was exactly that: a former relationship. The very next day I was headed to Yuba City to find a house, as I would be relocating in May to work for Frank M. Booth, Inc. Mary accepted my invitation to go along. Although the house hunting was unsuccessful, our relationship was off to a great start. What was the big attraction? What made it all click?
How do you communicate with each other on important issues? Do you have any advice to other couples? Communication is something that is a day-today struggle in life. Everybody gets caught up in life, careers, kids, and finances. We look forward to Friday night cocktails at home, sitting at the kitchen table, while talking about our week. Every now and then we get a chance to sneak away for a lunch date to enjoy an uninterrupted conversation. We try to discuss important issues when we are both in good moods, are in a relaxing environment, and know there will be no interruptions or distractions. After you get home from a long day or right before you go to bed is not the time to mention you received an unexpected bill or that something broke. Finding this time is the key, but whether it’s once a week or once a month, it’s always better to deal with issues together rather than keeping them from your spouse to avoid an argument. Keeping things from each other only creates resentment and distance.
Mary: For me, it was his ability to be fun and carefree, yet still professional. He was a cowboy by night, CFO by day. I had never met anyone like that before. What made it “click” for me was kindness and respect. We just plain loved each other. There has never been room in our relationship for jealousy or senseless bickering. Rich: Aside from being beautiful, I sensed immediately that Mary was inwardly mature beyond her years. She was only 23 at the time, and I was 10 years her senior. Despite our age difference, we conversed easily with one another, about everything from our work situations and our families. When we were together, we also could live for the moment: laughing, playing board games, bowling, dancing. While each of us were completelycomfortable sharing our innermost feelings, we never felt compelled to explain why we believed or felt a certain way. Our genuine respect for each other had very early foundations. What do you enjoy doing together? What are your favorite things to do together, or your favorite places to go? Mary: Our activities have changed over the years. The early years were focused on our daughters’ activities. We coached while they
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played soccer and basketball, and spent weeknights and weekends at practices or games. We bowled together for many years and now golf together. We both love to travel and appreciate our vacation time. We enjoy spending time with friends and supporting charitable functions, and we are both longtime Rotarians and past presidents, and are fortunate to have many fellow Rotarians as are wonderful friends. Our now-grown daughters and their significant others are so much fun to be around. In fact, the six of us, along with 16 other friends, will soon be cruising the Caribbean together. Rich: Mary and I have had many passions over the years. I have bowled in league since I was 8 years old. Mary embraced the game as well after we got together and we bowled in league for the better part of a decade. We play golf regularly. We enjoy a night out at the casino occasionally. We love spending every opportunity we can with our lovely daughters and their significant others. All of us enjoy playing board games together. Mary has always been willing to try things she knows are important to me. I try to reciprocate, but believe I am coming out way ahead in that arena. Do you have any differences? How do you compromise? Mary: We do have differences, but we actually think a lot alike in many ways. We both depend on logic and reason when faced with decision-making. We are both accountants by
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trade and thus find comfort in balancing our lives much like our books. Our differences have proved useful in raising our children, and were even complementary. I was always the tough one and Rich was always the softy. That role has switched, however, since our kids became adults. I am definitely much more giving in the charitable sense. I’d give it all away, but he keeps me reined in. I love enjoying a Lifetime movie on a Sunday, while he prefers sports. But that is okay. It gives us both some time alone. If we see things differently, we determine if it matters. Sometimes we simply agree to disagree. If it is something that must be decided upon, we discuss the situation, evaluate the alternatives, and make a joint decision. We have both given up things for the sake of the other through the years. It is a give and take for sure. Rich: We used to be at odds about how to divvy up the household chores and responsibilities. Since we both have careers, logic dictates everything inside the house and everything outside the house be shared in a way that neither needs to work significantly more than the other. That’s easier said than done, especially when we spend our early years developing prejudices about what work a man does and what work falls within the lady’s realm. I think over the years we have both mellowed and found a place of comfort that we both are happy with. Compromising is easy... Rich believes Mary always gets her way and Mary believes Rich always gets his way...this buys peace for each of us, and along with peace comes joy and happiness.
How do you communicate with each other on important issues? Do you have any advice to other couples? Mary: We converse all the time. We share stories, daily activities, jokes, and even read to each other. My advice would simply be to listen and enjoy conversation with your spouse. Then, when the difficult conversations need discussion, it comes easily and naturally. Never stop telling each other how you feel. We have a ritual where every time we leave each other’s company we say, “See you, love you, bye.” Rich: Mary uses the 24 hour rule...if she gets upset, she doesn’t verbalize it for at least 24 hours. Cooler minds don’t say things that will need to be apologized for later. We both know that the experience of hearing unkind words is seldom forgotten. Harsh words are the downfall of way too many relationships that would have survived if they’d only used a 24 hour rule. Another big no-no in our relationship is becoming jealous. If another man were to display admiration or physical attraction to Mary, I feel complimented. I never feel threatened because I know what’s in her heart. No one will steal her away....well, Brad Pitt might have a shot, but as far as I know, they don’t talk. The other thing about communication is to be flexible and allow yourself to be spontaneous. We recently spent several hours in front of the fireplace just talking. It wasn’t planned. Chores didn’t get done that night, and the house was messy the next day, but it was worth it. At the end of the night, we felt so together and so lucky to have one another.
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Pack the Perfect Picnic!
hat better way to enjoy the warm springtime weather than to go on a picnic? Whether you head to a local park, for a long hike in the Buttes, to the lake, or to your own backyard, you can still enjoy an unbeatable al fresco experience. Whether you’re interested in something traditional or gourmet, the key to a great picnic is to keep it simple and delicious. This spread of our favorite picnic recipes won’t suffer from being jostled around, and are best eaten cold or at room temperature. On a picnic, the very best contents for your picnic basket are easy and delicious! Recipes Contributed by Tiffani Williams
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Simple is best …portability is key. Our favorite picnic contents include:s
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• Gourmet cheeses and crackers • Seasonal fresh fruits and vegetables • Dried fruit and nuts • Pickles & olives •A n array of deli meats and cheeses in reusable bags/containers to create your meal on site •C ookies, brownies or fresh fruit for dessert
We Insist on these P icnic Tips: • Pack it up! Whether you choose traditional or gourmet picnic food, food that is easy to pack works best. Woven picnic baskets look elegant and romantic, but a cooler is more functional and convenient for a picnic. Use your picnic basket as a mini-cupboard for carrying plates, silverware, cups and all the extras, like serving spoons and bottle openers. Pack food items that do not need to be kept cold (like breads, cookies, or brownies) in the picnic basket.
• Pack re-sealable bags. These allow you to nibble now--and again later.
• Light is easier. Why haul a huge, hard cooler? A soft fabric version is just as roomy, and a lot easier on your body.
• Serving pre-made sandwiches? Use sourdough or seed bread, which is sturdier than white and won’t get soggy.
• Avoid saving leftovers. They don’t stand a chance on a warm day. For easy portion control, pack your picnic in pre-slotted reuseable containers.
• Keep ice zip-locked separate from your other items! Double bag ice to avoid leaks. A small bag of ice will keep your food cool and fresh and is useful in drinks when you eat lunch.
• Bring your tools! For cheese and fruit, slip a cutting board and a sharp paring knife into the picnic supplies.
When it comes to picnic necessities, our favorites tend to lean towards the unexpected, and these splendors are no exception. We’re huge fans of Serendipity, a unique gifts and home décor store located in Gridley…so it’s no surprise that we asked them to assist us with our round up of the “perfect picnic” items. We are thrilled to share an exclusive peek at just a few essentials from their various collections…talk about inspiration! • Brighten up a bit and make things cozy with colorful pillows. • Incorporate traditional picnic fundamentals with a quirky spin, adding mixed patterns & unexpected colors through The Farmer’s Wife textiles in bags & placemats. • Vintage-accented flasks & chip clips from the Natural Life collection really make things pop! • Spice things up with gourmet pickles, sauces, and olive oil of course!
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Gazpacho Pasta Salad 1 9oz package refrigerated cheese tortellini 2 cups cherry tomatoes, halved 1 cup chopped cucumber 2 tablespoons capers, drained 3 tablespoons olive oil 3 tablespoons white wine vinegar 2 teaspoons honey 2 teaspoons mustard 1 teaspoon minced garlic 1 cup crunchy croutons Cook tortellini as directed on package, rinse in cold water, and completely drain. In a large bowl, combine the pasta, tomatoes, cucumbers, and capers. For the dressing, in a screw-top jar combine oil, vinegar, mustard, honey, and garlic. Cover and shake well, then place in the refrigerator. Right before serving, shake dressing and pour over salad mixture. Toss well and sprinkle with croutons.
Traditional Muffuletta Sandwich 1 full loaf of your favorite French, Italian, or Dutch Crunch bread 1 16oz jar Spanish olives with 1/4 cup juice reserved 1 12oz jar fire-roasted red bell peppers 1 4oz jar sliced pepperoncinis (or jalapeños, if you like it hot) 4oz pitted kalamata olives 8oz whole milk mozzarella cheese, grated 4oz thinly sliced salami, pepper crusted 4oz thinly sliced Black Forest ham 4oz thinly sliced mesquite smoked turkey Slice loaf of bread in half length-wise and remove the white fluffy bread from the inside, leaving only the crust for the shell. Place all olives, peppers, and reserved juice in a food processor and grind to a nice olive paste. Spread the olive spread on both sides of the inside of the bread shells. Divide the shredded mozzarella cheese between each half of bread, and the on the bottom half of loaf layer the ham, turkey, and salami over the cheese. Cover with the top half of the loaf and enjoy!
Strawberry Banana Trifle 1 pound cake, cut into 1X1 inch cubes 1 small box strawberry Jello mix 1 small Cool Whip, defrosted 1 basket strawberries, sliced 3 bananas, sliced In a bowl, combine Cool Whip, bananas, and strawberry Jello. Gently mix to combine well, but do not break up bananas. In a larger plastic picnic container with a lid, layer 1/3 of the pound cake cubes, 1/3 of the Cool Whip-Jello mixture, and 1/3 of the sliced strawberries. Create two more layers, finishing with sliced strawberries. Cover and place in refrigerator. Can be made and refrigerated for up to two days prior to your event.
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njoy the river and its surroundings at Feather River Parkway in Yuba City. With almost 90 acres to explore, this river front park brings a whole new experience for the members of our community. This new recreation site brings new experiences and opportunities, explore pedestrian and cycling trails, a river walk, enjoy picnic areas, and a pavilion. Feather River Parkway also includes public educations displays and interpretive signs to describe the wildlife and habitats.
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Fathers Day is a gift-giving occasion that we think should be lighthearted and playful. The key is keeping it fun—and, of course, reminding all the dads in your life that you love them! Here are some of our favorite gift ideas for guys this year to remind them that you think they are the cats meow!
Sweeten DAD with something special this Father’s Day — a gourmet gift from Cupcake Magic that really shows you care. Our chocolate gifts are handcreated, including handsome assortments and favorites like sea salt caramels, truffles, and our best-selling light & dark chocolate covered bacon! Specialty Cupcakes just for Dad: Maple-Bacon & Guinness Stout with Baileys Irish frosting are $3 each.Gourmet Chocolate assortment box is $15. 728 Plumas St. - YC - 923.7847
Dinah’s on D Street Books & More is located in Historic Downtown Marysville, offering a wide variety of used books, and carrying more than 19,000 books total. New books arrive daily, and we take USED BOOKS and offer store credit. Search our collection online at www.dinahsondstreet.com. We regularly feature local authors for readings, book signings, and discussions. Save the date for an upcoming book signing on April 20th from 12-2pm, when we welcome Annette Kassis, author of Weinstocks, Sacramento’s Finest Department Store. Coming
this summer we’ll have Terry Grosz, a fish & game warden and author from Quincy. Terry is the author of Slaughter in Sacramento Valley and Wildlife Wars, as well as numerous other books. We are proud of the many local authors from the region and we try to carry the most recent publications by them! 320 D Street. Marysville. 530.741.1000 The hunter or fisherman in your life will be happy to receive a gift from Kittle’s Outdoor & Sport Co. Kittle’s offers full-service sporting goods for hunting, fishing, and camping gear. In fact, they are known throughout California for their large inventory of waterfowl supplies, and they also have a vast fishing department. The employees at Kittle’s have a lot of experience hunting and fishing, and can point you in the right direction as to what your outdoorsman would love as a gift. Kittle’s is known for their catalog prices and professional service. 888 Market Street, Downtown Colusa 530.458.HUNT (4868) www.kittlesoutdoor.com
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aving great style and being child-friendly are not mutually exclusive. Betsy and Miguel Reyna have found ingenious ways to fill their home with stylish décor while still finding ways to create great spaces for gathering together, playing, artwork, kicking off muddy shoes, storing books and toys, and spending time with friends and family. .
Describe your style of decor. I’d say my style of decor is mostly traditional, but always changing. Lately, I find myself being drawn to both new and old pieces and incorporating many styles in order to freshen up our space. It’s fun to find those personal touches that make your house a home.
Where have you found most of your treasures? I love shopping for my home and I don’t discriminate when it comes to where I shop. Generally, you can find me at Target or Pottery Barn because they’re close by, but I also love finding that amazing piece at a discount store or high-end boutique. Some of my favorite places to “window shop” are on the internet. Etsy is an amazing site to find anything from party supplies to pillows. And who does not love Pinterest? I love to see different ways of furniture and decor being put together.
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What do you love most about your home? It’s hard to say what I love most about my home, because I love it all! I love that it fits us so well. From the kids’ spaces to our living and outdoor spaces, it’s all perfect for our family.
How do you stay organized with small children in your home? That is a constant job, but boy do I love it when I am organized. On a daily basis we all pick up to some extent, including the kids (although it’s easier not to sometimes). This process definitely makes them appreciate what I’m trying to keep up around here. I do realize that life is not all about a clean house though, and I try to keep that in mind on the days that we are very busy.
What holiday do you love to celebrate most in your home? We like to celebrate around here, so one holiday is hard to pick. I love decorating in the fall and of course on Christmas, when you can go all out and it’s okay. I actually get a little down after putting all the holiday decor away because the house seems so bare, but then spring comes and it’s fun to see your house change again for the new season.
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Tell us about your style of entertaining family and friends. I love entertaining, and it’s something I’d like to do more. We love casual dinners with friends and family. This usually means no one comes empty handed; everyone brings a yummy something and we enjoy a dinner that wasn’t all on one person to prepare. In a perfect world, I’d still have time to set a pretty table. Now when I host something special like a shower, birthday party, or holiday, I tend to do a little bit more. I like to have an inspiration, such as something I’ve seen, and then try to re-create it in my own way. I also have no problem asking an expert florist or event planner for help. In my experience, no matter what your budget, someone like this can always help—even if it’s just advice!
What makes your house a home?
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I have always felt like this was our home, from the moment we first saw it. It definitely feels more and more like home as we live and grow here. To me, a home is where your family is, where you are comfortable and relaxed, and where you are content.
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