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Delta Foundation of Pittsburgh Board of Directors Gary A. Van Horn, Jr., President Steven R. Herforth, Vice President Peter J. Karlovich, Treasurer Patrick R. O’Boyle, Secretary Members Samuel C. Badger and Joseph A. Senatore

Greetings: It gives me great pleasure to join with the Delta Foundation of Pittsburgh in welcoming everyone to Pittsburgh Pride Week 2009. Over the years, I have seen the GLBT community across our Commonwealth go through tremendous change and acceptance into society. The cultural fabric of our Commonwealth has been woven from the proud histories and traditions of our various citizens, and this diversity makes the freedoms of expression and association that we enjoy as Americans so extraordinary. By celebrating and embracing our diversity, we uphold the principles and ideals of liberty, equality, and democracy. During this special week, I hope you will have the opportunity to enjoy everything this great city has to offer – the goodness of its people, the richness of its historical significance, and its vibrant cultural diversity. As governor, and on behalf of all Pennsylvanians, I wish to extend my support of GLBT Pride Week, and again welcome everyone to this year’s festivities. Best wishes for a memorable week. Sincerely,

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Dear Friends: Welcome to the Pittsburgh Pride Week 2009! The Delta Foundation of Pittsburgh is working with our partners in pride for a great line up of activities to celebrate the diversity in our region. The GLBT community is going through a renaissance, and this year’s theme is appropriate for it: “Your Rights, Our Rights, Human Rights.” Who would have thought that in 2009 we would have five states, including Connecticut, Iowa, Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont, that recognize gay marriage? Unfortunately, here in Pennsylvania, we still can’t get a basic nondiscrimination bill passed statewide. Forty years ago this month the Stonewall Riots started the “Gay Movement,” and we cannot stop ACTING UP and ACTING PROUD until we have achieved total acceptance across all states and countries. Pride Week is a time to unite and show the Pittsburgh region that we are here, we are your neighbors, coworkers, relatives, and friends. This year’s events could not have been possible without the gracious support of our sponsors. Show them that the GLBT community is LOYAL and that we appreciate them taking part in our event. We would also like to thank the many volunteers and staff who pulled this event together. They have worked tirelessly planning and executing the events and we can’t thank them enough.

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Thank you for participating in this year’s events, and have a great week!

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Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Office of the Mayor Mayor Luke Ravenstahl Dear Friends:

Dear Friends: Welcome to Allegheny County for Pride Week 2009. We’re here this week to celebrate the diversity that makes our community strong and vibrant. Southwestern Pennsylvania is a collage of individuals, ethnicities, cultures, and religions, and this makes our region a great place to live, work and play. We must always stand united in our belief that discrimination is wrong because it damages us all as a society. In Allegheny County, we must not tolerate discrimination on the basis of gender, race, mental or physical disability, religion, ethnicity, national origin, age, educational status – and sexual orientation, gender identity or expression. Together, we will continue to improve the quality of life for our residents. I strongly support the passing of an inclusive non-discrimination legislation here in Allegheny County as well as at the state level. I encourage our elected officials to do so without delay. All citizens, including members of the GLBT community, need to know that they are fully protected in employment, housing, and public accommodations everywhere in the Commonwealth in order to make Allegheny County and Pennsylvania stronger and more economically competitive. During this week’s events, I would encourage you to enjoy all that our region has to offer and show the country why we have twice earned the title of America ‘s Most Livable City . Whether you’d like to experience a world-famous Primanti Brothers’ sandwich, stroll down one of our winding river trails or catch the Pittsburgh production of a Broadway play, there is something here for everyone. You can find a wide array of recreational activities at our nine County parks, including golfing, swimming and biking.

On behalf of the residents of the City of Pittsburgh, I am honored to welcome you to Pittsburgh Pride Week 2009 here in “America’s Most Livable City,” from June 8–14. Presented by the Delta Foundation of Pittsburgh, this seven-day celebration for and about the GLBT community promises a spectacular line-up of events and just keeps getting bigger and better each year. Whether you make a “Splash” at the pool party, have a “Wild Night” with Meshell Ndegeocello at the new August Wilson Center for African American Culture, kick up your heels at Pride in the Street, or check out some of quality entertainment coming to PrideFest — and especially if you plan to march in our city’s biggest Pride parade ever — there is something for everyone during Pride Week. This year’s theme is “Your Rights, Our Rights, Human Rights.” It has been 40 years since the Stonewall Riots in New York City and the GLBT community has come a long way. I am proud that together we accomplished the signing of the Domestic Partner Registry and are now in the process of forming the GLBT Advisory Board. I look forward to working with the Council to meet the needs of your community. I commend you on the positive influence you have and cultural richness you add to our great city. I look forward to continuing to work with you to make a better Pittsburgh. Together, we can break down the barriers of injustice and inequality. Together, we can make Pittsburgh “America’s Most Livable City” for ALL of its residents. Now is a perfect time to discover the treasures that surround us each day here in Pittsburgh, as well as the individuals in our communities who make it a special place to live, work, and play. I hope you enjoy this year’s Pride Week festivities, and to those of you visiting from out-of-town — Welcome to Pittsburgh!

Best wishes for a safe and enjoyable time. Sincerely,

Sincerely,

Dan Onorato Allegheny County Executive

Luke Ravenstahl Mayor, City of Pittsburgh

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Brand Identity The cooles t t a t t o o g u r u i n t o w n . Sitting across the table, the man with two arms of full-sleeve tattoos (not to mention those on his neck and head), piercings through various parts of his facial anatomy, and a bleach-blond Mohawk looks as though he might be more comfortable issuing spin kicks in the mosh pit at a Bury Your Dead concert than he would doing a turn on the catwalk. That man is Keith Greene, who many in the gay community know better as Lynda Lacee, one of the region’s most well-respected and popular drag queens in the 1990s and early 2000s. While Greene mastered the art of female illusion through his performances as Lynda Lacee in American pageantry systems, it was a visit to a tattoo parlor that led him to put down his gown and pick up a gun — a tattoo gun, that is. Although he worked as a nurse, Greene became fascinated with the art of tattooing and took it upon himself to learn the craft by spending many hours as an apprentice under the supervision of an established tattoo artist. An injury forced Greene to leave his nursing career, allowing him to begin tattooing fulltime. In 2008, he made the permanent move to Pittsburgh and opened his own tattoo shop, Main Street Ink, in Sharpsburg.

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At first blush, Greene might appear to be the stereotypical tattooed miscreant, but he is far from your typical ink-slinger. In fact, it doesn’t take long to learn that Greene is the antithesis of the popular misconception of tattooed people. He speaks enthusiastically about his love of art, books, music, and — perhaps his greatest passion — his devotion to community and his desire to help people.

--------------------“We are Pittsburgh’s only openly gay tattoo shop.” -------------------- Greene’s desire to have a positive community impact is reflected in Main Street Ink, which he admittedly jokes has been confused for both an antique shop and a furniture store. Many members of the community gather at the shop, which Greene welcomes, if only to keep teenagers out of trouble. He prides himself on breaking the mold of traditional tattoo shops, doing everything he can to ensure an inviting atmosphere. “You should have seen the shop at Christmas,” Greene says. “We had Christmas trees all through the shop, decorated with antique glass ornaments, and garland around the windows.” Norman Rockwell, on steroids.

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Greene’s pride of community involvement also includes his membership in the local volunteer fire department as well as charitable donations, including bookgiving to the local library. Recently, Greene also reached out to the Pittsburgh Police Department, as he began a promotion to pay tribute to the fallen Zone 5 officers, designing a tattoo to honor their service and that of all local law enforcement officials. “I am offering this tattoo free for all Zone 5 officers, and at a nominal fee for other police officers,” Greene says, adding that he will donate a majority of the proceeds to the Pittsburgh Fallen Heroes Fund. Greene is also proud of his contributions to the local gay community. “We are Pittsburgh’s only openly gay tattoo shop,” he says, adding that everybody is welcome, though he does cater to gay clientele. Keith Greene will give a tattoo on a float during Pride Awareness March on Sunday, June 14. He will also be tattooing at PrideFest, which follows. For more information, visit Main Street Ink, 511 Main Street, Sharpsburg, 412-304-3113. Myspace.com/ mainstreetinkpa.

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Keeping the Faith

By Victor Capone

O n e g a y m a n ’s s p i r i t u a l j o u r n e y. Christian and gay. I am content being both now, but for decades, I was a faithful practicing Catholic and refused to acknowledge my homosexuality. My faith always meant much more than attending mass on Sunday and giving up something for Lent. I received the sacraments, participated in services and retreats, served on church committees, and taught in Catholic schools, where I modeled my faith for the students. My outward actions were expressions of my internal beliefs. I strove always to live my faith, love God, and serve others. I was in denial about my sexual orientation. My church taught me that homosexuality was wrong, so I ignored or misidentified any attraction I had toward men. It was impossible to be a full participating member of the Catholic Church and to be gay. I was not a “cafeteria Catholic,” who only observed church teachings that suited me. I accepted them all. When I had doubts, I spent time in reflection and prayer.

My mid-forties were a time of great transition for me. Among other changes, I bought a house across town from the

--------------------“My church taught me that homosexuality was wrong, so I ignored or misidentified any attraction I had toward men.” --------------------neighborhood where I had lived all my life. There, I sought a new church, but after a year I had not found a spiritual connection to the nearby Catholic parishes. I was not satisfied with my worship experience in any of them. Then, I was reminded of East Liberty Presbyterian Church. I had been in ELPC previously to serve dinners in the men’s

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shelter, attend summits against racism, and pray on the evening of the September 11 terrorist attacks. Based on those positive experiences, I decided to attend a Sunday service, and I was pleased. It was welcoming, spiritual, and joyful. The congregation was diverse, the music beautiful, and the message hopeful. I returned for the next few Sundays. As unlikely as it was that I would be attending a protestant church, I was doing just that. Shortly afterward I did something even more incredible: I came out completely. In the course of a month, I acknowledged I was gay and came out to my family and friends. At first, I didn’t realize how important finding the right church was to my coming out. Now I recognize that it was crucial. I needed to know I could be a gay Christian, and in ELPC, there was reassuring evidence that it was possible. Believers of all races, social status, and sexual identity are visibly welcome there.

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the congregation and were welcome. I am content to have a place to worship, grow, and share in the community. There are many other GLBT individuals and couples whose joys and struggles are acknowledged as compassionately as every other member of the community. There is no need to deny or hide any aspect of myself. I’m a gay man with a spiritual home. For more information on East Liberty Presbyterian Church, visit cathedralofhope.org, or call 412.441.3800.

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The biggest bar faux pas, from the mouth of the bartender Ah, the life of a bartender… the money is great, the hours are easy, I’m in control (which suits me, since I’m a top), and I have more phone numbers on napkins than you have friends on MySpace.

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I’ve been in the service industry for 11 years, and I’m here to tell you — the bar scene is a popular one no matter how shitty the economy. But, if you are out spending your hard-earned money on a night you hope to forget, at least do it in style. I know all and see all from a very different — very sober — point of view. So before venturing out for a fierce boys’ night, a casual evening with the girls, or even those naughty nights that end up at After Hours for “one more” dance, drink, or forbidden bathroom break, know this…

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Lesson one: Know what you want.

If you have been standing in line for 10 minutes and finally make it up to my bar, and I ask you what you want, and you say, “ I don’t know (giggle giggle),” you will be lucky to get the stare and not a smack upside the head. You don’t know? What do you mean you don’t know? It’s NOT cute. Here is your Coors Light and shot of Jagermeister; enjoy your 21st birthday. Yay! I know this may sounds harsh, but I’m just keeping it real.

Lesson two: Order the right thing.

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Lesson three: Don’t “wine” about it.

If you are a wine drinker — wonderful, but act like one. Never, ever, order a “house” anything: not vodka, not gin, and especially not wine! I understand about budgeting, but for God’s sake people, is saving a dollar a drink worth feeling like a train ran through your bedroom in the morning? (I understand that for some of you, a “train” did run through your bedroom. Go get ‘em, boys!) Wine drinkers, look at a list. If you’re pinching pennies, pick out the least expensive wine, pronounce it correctly, and order like you know what you are doing. I’ll appreciate that and possibly over-pour you since I just short-poured the cheap guy who ordered a “House Merr-lot.” For those of you taking notes here, Barefoot Wine is the way to go. Trust me.

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Living with HIV. San Francisco has a lot in common with Pittsburgh: We both have established gay communities, a variety of bars, community centers, and social resources. We are gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender. And within these communities is a common thread: HIV. I feel as though being HIV+ (Poz) is like being gay: It can feel isolating, and we can feel apprehensive about telling anyone for fear they might react poorly. Being gay and getting to know other gays, experiencing our first kisses, and falling in love for the first time can help us to feel part of a community. The same rings true in the Poz community. Stigma and ignorance can push so many people into a state of denial or hiding to the point that we feel alone and misunderstood. I moved to Pittsburgh from San Francisco and was very impressed with the resources available, but I noticed no one around me talked about being Poz. Being open about my status created a welcoming atmosphere for other Poz people in Pittsburgh. I enjoy going to bars, movies, and even Kennywood with my new friends. We don’t need a support group, just a social network. In efforts to help, I helped to organize Staying Positive, a group of young adults who live with HIV either because we are Poz or because we care about someone who is. Our goal is to create an avenue for other Poz young adults and their friends, who are looking to connect with peers in a fun social setting. We intend to remain discreet while still making our group feel open and safe. For more information, visit stayingpositive.org.

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“Won’t you be my neighbor?” — No matter who you are, or what you can or cannot do. That’s how Fred Rogers welcomed generations of children into his Neighborhood. Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood has always been a welcoming place for visitors from different races, cultures, and age groups, who speak different languages and have a wide range of skills and interests as well as physical challenges. When we help children realize that differences are okay, we’re setting the stage for a lifetime of appreciating diversity and each person’s uniqueness. But for someone to know he or she is unique is not enough. In our “Neighborhood” programs, what matters most is how children feel about their uniqueness once they begin to realize that they are different from everyone else.

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This influences how we feel about everyone’s uniqueness. There’s even more to it than that. Appreciating our uniqueness can’t take on full meaning in our lives unless we also come to understand how much we are all alike. Finding out that we are one of a kind could be a lonely thing without the reassurance of knowing that we belong to humankind — and that all humans laugh and cry about many of the same things, that all have similar hopes and fears, that all have many of the same needs and that those needs are best met by other human beings who love us, both for our similarities and our differences. Young children tend to look at things from their own point of view. It’s understandable, then, that they may be concerned or confused when they meet people who seem different

from them. Those differences may be in how people talk, what they eat, ways they celebrate holidays or other customs, or how their family is configured. What matters most for children is how they feel about their uniqueness once they begin to realize that they are, in some ways, different from everyone else. How we feel about this early on often determines whether we grow into adults who rejoice in the diversity of the world’s people or into adults who fear and resent that diversity. It’s the people who feel strong and good about themselves inside who are best able to accept outside differences. For more information, visit wqed.org.

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GLBT Programming on WQED Tuesday, J u n e 1 6 a t 1 0 p m Independent Lens: Ask Not As wars rage in the Middle East, the U.S. military is eager for more recruits — unless you happen to be openly gay. Ask Not explores the tangled political battles that led to the infamous “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy and reveals the personal stories of gay Americans, who serve in combat under a veil of secrecy. Wednesd a y, J u n e 1 7 a t 1 0 : 3 0 p m Only in the Castro with Trevor Hailey A light-hearted film that follows renown walking tour guide and San Francisco legend Trevor Hailey as she takes visitors on a hilarious half hour romp through the backstreets and back stories of the world’s most celebrated gay neighborhood, including a stop at Harvey Milk’s real-life camera store location. Friday, J u n e 1 9 a t 1 0 p m In the Life (extended one-hour edition) In the Life is the country’s premiere GLBT news program and an essential tool for informing GLBT citizens, educating the broader public, and a vital contributor to the national dialogue on GLBT issues. Tuesday, J u n e 3 0 a t 1 0 p m POV: Beyond Hatred In September 2002, three skinheads were roaming a park in Rheims, France, looking to “do an Arab,” when they settled for a gay man instead. Twenty-nine-year-old François Chenu fought back fiercely, but he was beaten unconscious and thrown into a river, where he drowned. The acclaimed French verité film Beyond Hatred is the story of the crime’s aftermath; above all, of the Chenu family’s brave and heartrending struggle to seek justice while trying to make sense of such pointless violence and unbearable loss. With remarkable dignity, they fight to transcend hatred and the inevitable desire for revenge.

Hogs & Dogs Lesbian love for motorcycles and (wo)man’s best friend.

By Miranda Vey

The old saying is, “diamonds are a girl’s best friend,” but not for me, the founder of the Pittsburgh chapter of Dykes on Bikes. My true loves are my Alaskan Malamute, Dakota, and my motorcycle. My dog has been with me for nine years, and I often take him around to Pride festivities. Dakota’s breed can carry one third of his weight on their backs. It is not un-common to see Dakota with her backpack on an urban hike in the city. My hog is a 2008 Harley Davidson — Dyna — decked out to cruise. With the warmer weather, you’ll see me cruising to Cattivo or hitting the biker bars on Carson Street in the South Side. There is something different about being on a bike; it is freedom for the soul. Dykes on Bikes kick off the Dyke March on Saturday, June 13 and will also ride in Pride Awareness March on Sunday, June 14. For more information, visit pittsburghpride.org or myspace.com/pghdykesonbikes. For information about pet adoption, visit Western Pennsylvania Humane Society, wpahumane.com.

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Heaven Sent

By C. J. Daro

Hip-Hop divinity takes the stage. God-des & She, the reigning royalty of homo hip-hop, will be making their mark on Pittsburgh during Pride in the Street. The L Word fans know about God-des & She; they performed “Lick It,” lyrical poetry about the key to a girl’s “heart,” at Shane’s bachelorette party during the Season 3 finale of the Showtime hit series: “Let your mouth do the talkin’ and your tongue do the walkin’/ Work on your cardio; there is no stoppin’/ Get through the pain; if your jaw locks/ You gotta be a soldier, and don’t stop.” Although their video for “Lick It” was banned on MTV, it can still be seen on the Logo and at logoonline.com. God-des & She were also featured on the Logo documentary Hip-Hop

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Homos. Their music video for “Love You Better” held the No. 1 spot on Logo’s Click list for weeks. God-des & She is comprised of two amazingly talented artists from Wisconsin. God-des was always a rapper, but her musical partner, She, got her start in folk rock. They met in 2001, at a National Organization for Women benefit, and began performing and recording together. In 2004, they packed a U-Haul (ha) and headed to New York. It wasn’t until 2005 that they officially partnered as God-des & She. God-des calls herself a “white dyke Jewish rapper from Wisconsin.” She’s beautifully androgynous. Her cohort, She, is the sultry sidekick.

Their music is unconventional: a dynamic blend of soulful vocals and hard-hitting rap. While they may be known for their sexually explicit lyrics, their songs touch on many aspects of gay life. Their collection includes sweet love songs, political rants, and satires. Their debut album, Reality, was produced in 2004. It’s fresh, raw, and deeply personal. In 2008, they released Stand Up. It includes “Love You Better” and “Lick It.” God-des & She will perform at Pride in the Streets on Saturday, June 12th. For more information, go to pittsburghpride.org or god-des.com.

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Saturday, May 30

The Miss Pittsburgh Pride 2009 Pageant hosted by Kierra Darshell at Midnight. See Kierra or Rodney to enter!

Friday, June 5

Pegasus kicks off Pride Month with ChiChi LaRue and adult film star Josh West with a Talent Search and Show at Midnight. You can star in the Channel 1 Releasing Video to be seen worldwide! Giveaways from Swiss Navy Lube. DJ Shawn

Saturday, June 6

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Saturday, June 6

DJ Chi Chi LaRue kicks off Pride at the Eagle with POP & PORN with two of her favorite performers Josh West and Adam Killian. Your last chance to star in a Channel 1 Releasing Video to be seen worldwide. Giveaways from Swiss Navy Lube!

Friday, June 12

The Pittsburgh Pride Pool Tournament. $50 Prize money. Must have 4 players. Starts at 11pm

The 4th Annual Miss Teen Pride Contest hosted by Kierra Darshell. Showtime: Midnight, see Rodney or Kierra to enter.

Sunday, June 7

Miss Delta Pride 2009 Contest hosted by Euneke 2 die 4 and Bunny Bixler brings all title holders to Pegasus. Come and scream for your favorite titleholder for a 9PM start for this contest where 100% of door cover benefits Delta Foundation!

Saturday, June 20

AMERICAN IDOL DANNY NORIEGA performs for The Pride Committee Thank You Party. All Pride Committee members get in Free!

Tuesday, June 23

The Post-Pride Party happens when Queer Rock band Pansy Divison comes to Pegasus. See the bar for posters and times of all bands this night! Get your VIP Tickets for Pride and come to see your favorite bartenders in the Pegasus VIP Tent!

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Friday, June 12

You will want to make this your last stop on THE PRIDE BAR CRAWL PIT STOP because you are going to want to stay and hang with your friends and dance to DJ Tanner and THE FULL HOUSE EFFECT

Saturday, June 13

We are PRIDE IN THE STREETS. Come on in and celebrate all day! DJs all night long. GAYER THAN GAY SUNDAY!!! Give PRIDE the last shout and end the night with a gay ol time at THERE Lounge.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS Friday, June 5 Delta Foundation Happy Hour FREE 5801 5801 Ellsworth Ave 6 – 8 pm Every Friday happy hour in June will support Pittsburgh Pride! Pre-Pride festivities will include giveaways, raffles, and more! Stop by for great happy hour specials! 5801.us Chi Chi LaRue/Talent Search Pegasus 818 Liberty Ave 10 pm Pegasus kicks off Pride Month with Chi Chi LaRue and adult film star Josh West with a talent search and show at midnight. Giveaways from Swiss Navy Lube. pittpegasus.com

Saturday, June 6 Kick-Off Luau Cattivo 146 44th St 9 pm Drink specials, giveaways, and the music of DJ HoocH. cattivo.biz Pop & Porn, featuring DJ Chi Chi LaRue Pittsburgh Eagle 1740 Eckert St 10 pm Come listen to Chi Chi, spin your favorite pop, and take in the eye candy of Josh West and Adam Killian! pitteagle.com

Empire Privilege Ultralounge 1650 Smallman St 1st Annual White Party 9 pm $15 advance/ $20 door Featuring DJ Seth Gold (SPLASH NYC), Live Aerial Show by Lucas Derr (from Tony/Grammy winning Broadway show “BLAST!”). Tickets, call 888.71.TICKETS rrevolver.com Miss Teen Pride Pegasus 818 Liberty Ave 12 am The 4th Annual Miss Teen Pride Contest, hosted by Kierra Darshell. See Rodney or Kierra to enter. pittpegasus.com

Sunday, June 7 Ms. Delta Pride Pegasus 818 Liberty Ave 9 pm Miss Delta Pride 2009 Contest, hosted by Euneke 2 die 4 and Bunny Bixler, brings all title-holders to Pegasus. Come and cheer on for your favorite title-holder! pittpegasus.com

Monday, June 8 Boob Tube Follies: A Television Masquerade Party Hard Rock Café 230 West Station Square Dr 6:30 – 11 pm $25 To benefit and celebrate PFLAG Pittsburgh’s 20th Anniversary, come as your favorite television character. Prizes for best costumes. Entertainment by Phat Man Dee,

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Gab Bonesso, Patrick Arena, Mark Lucas, Brenda Jean, and Tracy Drach. Tickets: (412) 828- 0910 or A Pleasant Present (cash only) Pride Bowling Extravaganza Forward Lanes Squirrel Hill Registration 6:30, Bowl 7 pm $15 per person + onsite shoe rental Sponsored by the GLCC and Pride Bowling League. Includes three games of bowling, pizza, and wonderful prizes. glccpgh.org Our Rights, Your Rights, Human Rights: An ACLU Forum FREE University Center, CMU campus 7 pm Individual and small-group conversations with local legal experts on non-discrimination, civil partnerships, tax issues, healthcare decisions, and more. Featuring “The Experts’ Corners”: Larry Frankel, State Legislative Counsel, ACLU of PA. Sue Frietsche, Senior Staff Attorney, Women’s Law Project. Maureen Cohon, Family Law and Mediation Counsel, Buchanan Ingersoll & Rooney PC. Anthony Infanti, Professor of Law, University of Pittsburgh School of Law. Call 412-681-7736, or info@aclupgh.org

Tuesday, June 9 Pittsburgh Corporate GLBT Roundtable FREE GLCC 5808 Forward Ave (Squirrel Hill) 7-9 pm Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender business professionals and their Allies within major Pittsburgh-based businesses will host this meet-and-greet event.

The featured speaker at the event is Anthony C. Infanti, a professor of law at the University of Pittsburgh school of law. His work focuses on sexual orientation and the law, paying particular attention to the application of the tax laws to lesbians and gay men. Professor Infanti is the author of Everyday Law for Gays and Lesbians (And Those Who Care About Them). scott.stegman@ey.com Community Pride Ecumenical Service FREE ONEchurch Pittsburgh 937 Liberty Ave (downtown) 7:30 pm Special service with Reverend Deryck Tines. Guest speaker Chuck Christen. Music by ONEvoice Choir. (412) 261-1692 onechurchpittsburgh@yahoo.com

Wednesday, June 10 Sexuality & Faith: A Program for Pride WYEP Community Broadcast Center 67 Bedford Sq (South Side) 7 pm $10 Persad Center, in conjunction with American Shorts, presents Sexuality & Faith, A Program for Pride. The program will feature Reverend Janet Edwards in an evening of short readings and discussion that examines issues of faith and sexuality in the GLBT community. Q&A, refreshments, and a short film will follow. Tickets (412) 622-8866 pittsburghlectures.org

GLBTQ Civil Right: A Town Hall Forum and Training Session FREE St. Andrew’s Lutheran Church 304 Morewood Ave 7- 9 pm Democracy is a participation activity! In this town hall forum, learn about the status of pending legislation and the things you can do to assure passage of these critical protections. You will leave with stepby-step ideas about how you can make a noticeable difference toward achieving equality. This event is cosponsored by Equality Advocates PA, Pittsburgh PFLAG, Steel City Stonewall Democrats, Thomas C. Waters, and the Women’s Law Project. thomascwaters.com

Thursday, June 11 Splash! 207 Bailey Ave (Mt Washington) 7 pm – midnight $65 advance/ $80 door (if available) Annual pool party at the home of Steven Herforth and Peter Karlovich. pittsburghpride.org An Evening with Meshell Ndegeocello August Wilson Center for African American Culture 980 Liberty Ave Doors 7 pm/8 pm show $20 advance/$25 door (if available) August Wilson Center, the Pittsburgh Cultural Trust, and the Delta Foundation proudly presents an evening with Meshell Ndegeocello at the NEW August Wilson Center. Pre reception courtesy of Starbucks and Barefoot Wine. AugustWilsonCenter.org

Friday, June 12 Lez Liquor Hour Hall of Fame Club PNC Park 5 pm $5 advance/$9 door Come play at Pittsburgh’s Gay Girl Happy Hour! lezliquorhour.com G2H2 Come play at Pittsburgh’s Gay Guy Happy Hour! Location TBA. g2h2pittsburgh.com Delta Foundation Happy Hour FREE 5801 5801 Ellsworth Ave 6 – 8 pm Pre-Pride festivities to include giveaways, raffles and more! Stop by for great Happy Hour specials! 5801.us Hi Ho: The Glamorous Life Grey Box Theater 3595 Butler St (Lawrenceville) 8 pm $30 The Renaissance City Choir presents Hi Ho: The Glamorous Life, a musical revue about the GLBT experience expressed through the works of Stephen Sondheim. Two chances to catch the show. rccpittsburgh.org All Access: The 2009 Urban Garden Party Mattress Factory 500 Sampsonia Way (North Side) 6 pm VIP Pre-Party $200 (non-members) 7 pm general admission $90 (non-members) Don’t miss your chance to go behind the curtain and backstage as the truth, fiction, and mystery of the rock-n-roll velvet rope are exposed. The Mattress Factory and Rich & Cindy Engler team up to present the 2009 Urban Garden Party. mattress.org

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Pub Crawl 8 pm- 2 am $15 Six busses, 12 participating bars. pittsburghpride.org

Friday, June 13 DYKE March FREE CMU Lawn 5000 Forbes Ave 2 pm meet-and-greet March steps off at 3 pm Post-march picnic at Flagstaff Hill in Shenley Park myspace.com/ pittsburghdykemarch Black Pride Film Festival August Wilson Center for African American Culture 980 Liberty Ave 12 - 8 pm $7 all-day pass Symposium and reception with Pittsburgh Black Pride to precede feature film. Feature Film: 6 pm Noah’s Arc: Jumping the Broom. Pittsburgh filmmaker Ada Gay Griffin will screen A Litnay For Survival: The Life And Work of Audre Lorde and Queer Geography: Mapping Our Identities, Tongues Untied, Life, and Chocolate Babies. Films being added weekly. earthtones.info@gmail.com Pride in The Street Liberty Ave between 9th & 10th St 7 pm - 2 am $15 advance/ $20 door VIP tickets $100 advance/ $125 door 18+ to enter, 21+ to drink Featuring Tony/Grammy Awardwinner and original Dreamgirl Jennifer Holliday, The L Word sensation R&B hip-hop group God-des & She, and internationally renowned DJ Phil B. pittsburghpride.org

Hi Ho: The Glamorous Life Grey Box Theater 3595 Butler Street (Lawrenceville) 8 pm $30 The Renaissance City Choir presents Hi Ho: The Glamorous Life, a musical revue about the GLBT experience expressed through the works of Stephen Sondheim. Two chances to catch the show. rccpittsburgh.org

Sunday, June 14 Pride Brunch Palate Bistro 212 Sixth Ave 9 am - 2 pm Start your day with brunch menu at Palate Bistro! Proceeds benefit Pittsburgh Pride. pittsburghpride.org Interfaith Pride Gathering FREE ONEChurch 937 Liberty Ave 9 - 9:45am “A time of reflection, meditation, and faith within the GLBT Community” Pride Awareness March FREE March steps off at noon. Blvd of Allies at Grant St, to Stanwix St, to Liberty Ave ending at PrideFest entrance at 7th St pittsburghpride.org PrideFest FREE Liberty Ave between 7th St & 10th St 1 - 6 pm Two stages of continuous entertainment, a youth area featuring four inflatibles, games with prizes, a beer garden, a dedicated health and human services area and more than 100 vendors! pittsburghpride.org

Short Films presented by Lesbian & Gay Film Society Harris Theater 809 Liberty Ave 12 - 3 pm pghfilmmakers.org/exhibition/ upcoming.html/pride Sunset T-Dance Privilege Ultralounge 1650 Smallman St 6 - 10 pm w/DJ Michael St. John $7 Advance/$10 door (if available) Tickets: 888.71.tickets rrevolver.com

Tuesday, June 16 Dreams of Hope “That’s So Gay” FREE New Hazlett Theater Allegheny Sq East 8 pm An exploration of labels and stereotypes by today’s youth. Reception to follow. dreamsofhope.org

Friday, June 19 Delta Foundation Happy Hour FREE 5801 5801 Ellsworth Ave 6 – 8 pm Friday Pride happy hours don’t stop just because Pride Week has passed! Join us at 5801 to continue the celebration! 5801.us

Saturday, June 20 Pride Thank-You Party FREE Pegasus 818 Liberty Ave 10 pm $10 American Idol Danny Noriega performs for the Pride committee thank-you party. All pride committee members get in FREE! pittpegasus.com

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Friday, June 26

Indigo Girls Live in Concert Carnegie Library of Homestead 510 East 10th Ave Doors 7 pm/Show 8 pm Tickets (412) 368-5225 librarymusichall.com

Delta Foundation Happy Hour FREE 5801 5801 Ellsworth Ave 6 – 8 pm Celebrate 40 years post Stonewall at 5801. Games, giveaways, and more! 5801.us

Wednesday, June 23 Pansy Division

Pegasus 818 Liberty Ave 7:30 pm There have been gay musicians hidden throughout rock music history, but Pansy Division when began in 1991 in San Francisco, they were the first to be so boldly open about it. Founded by guitarist/ singer Jon Ginoli and soon joined by bassist/vocalist Chris Freeman, with the intent of forming a gay rock band, Pansy Division blew the closet doors open. pittpegasus.com

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Splash! annual poo l p art y Mt. Washington @ 7pm - Midnight As if we needed another reason to strip down and get soaking wet...

Presented by the August Wilson Center, the Pittsburgh Cultural Trust, and the Delta Foundation of Pittsburgh. August Wilson Center 980 Liberty Ave. @ 8pm doors open @ 7pm with pre-concert reception compliments of Starbucks & Barefoot wines tickets: $20 in advance, $25 at the door www.pittsburghpride.org Pride Pittsburgh Magazine | PittsburghPride.org

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New and Improved After the boys get happy at G2H2 and the girls get it on at Lez Liquor Hour, it’s time for the

PUB Crawl

Something Free at every bar Start the tour at: 5801 — FREE Coors Light draft or well drink Blue Moon — FREE domestic draft or well drink Brewer’s — FREE domestic draft or well drink Cattivo — FREE domestic draft or midshelf well drink Donny’s Place — FREE domestic bottle or well drink Images — FREE domestic draft or midshelf well drink Lucky’s — FREE rainbow beads and $1.50 draft special Pegasus — FREE domestic draft or well drink Pittsburgh Eagle — FREE domestic draft or well drink PTown — FREE Jello shot and $1 draft special Spin — FREE domestic draft or well drink There Video Lounge — FREE domestic draft or well drink Limit one free drink per person, per bar.

10pm – 2am

We call it a “crawl” because, well, we think that’s really sexy, but it’s actually a chauffeured tour of the city’s coolest clubs, bars, and lounges. And the theme may as well be “where everybody knows your name” since we’re hitting our most heralded hot spots: We’ll guzzle Dr. Beths on the deck at 5801, sip Gin Gimlets at Spin, shoot Red-Headed

Sluts at Cattivo, sling back the Cherry Bombs at the Eagle, and dance it all off at Pegasus. There’s a fleet of six party busses that will patrol the city, parade between 12 bars—and pick our sweet fine arses up when the drama gets deep. The down-and-dirty details: Busses will be dropping off and picking up approximately every 20 minutes from 8

p.m.—2 a.m. Passes are $15, in advance, or $20, at the door. Every location will have a Pub Crawl staff person positioned by the door. Turn in your (pre-purchased online) ticket to receive your coupon book for the evening, or purchase a ticket to ride on-site.

** The Renaissance Hotel is also a stop on the tour! If you are attending the Lez Liquor Hour at PNC Park, hop on Pub Crawl here. For more information go to pittsburghpride.org, G2H2pittsburgh.com, and lezliquorhour.com.

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PRIDE WEEK 2009 Thank you for helping us celebrate the DIVERSITY that makes Pittsburgh vibrant! Congratulations to the Delta Foundation of Pittsburgh and everyone who makes PRIDE WEEK a success.

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San Francisco’s internationally renowned DJ Phil B, will have us bump and grind late into the night (and by “late night,” we mean, “early morning”).

This year, hip-hop honeys God-des & She will get us off to a great start with their riotous repertoire of rap anthems,

including the dirty L Word ditty, “Lick It.” Original Dreamgirl Jennifer Holliday will also take the stage for belt-out ballads and sky-high serenades, the stuff our karaoke kings and drag queens have been aspiring to for years.

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Pride in the Street is the Saturday-night soiree that lights up Liberty Avenue like a lusty dance club, where the stage explodes with our wish-list of dreamy divas, the glow sticks gleam like fancy fireflies, and the prettiest girls (and boys) are laced with Pearl Vodka.

$15 in advance. $20 at the gate. VIP $100 in advance. VIP $125 at the gate. For tickets visit pittsburghpride.org

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Holliday... Celebrate!

By Philip Ezzo

A Dreamgirl takes the stage at Pride.

At the young age of nineteen, Holliday began her Broadway career in the musical Your Arm’s Too Short to Box with God, and only a few years later, she went on to originate the roll of Effie White in the musical Dreamgirls. The show opened on December 20, 1981, and Holliday stayed with it for four years before moving on to other projects. As a result of her stunning performance, she won Best Leading Actress in a Musical at the 1982 Tony Awards, a Drama Desk Award for Outstanding Actress in a Musical, and a Theater Award for Outstanding Broadway Debut. During this time, her performance of the now-famous song, “And I’m Telling You (I’m Not Going),”

garnered much attention from fans across the nation. She went on to record a pop version of the song, which peaked at No. 1 on the Billboard R&B Singles chart and No. 22 on the Billboard Top 100 in the United States. A Grammy Award soon followed and solidified her career as a recording artist. In 2001, Jennifer re-recorded a dance mix of the song, which peaked at No. 6 on the dance charts. After the success of the 2006 motion picture release of Dreamgirls, Jennifer Hudson, who reprised the role of Effie in the film, sang a duet with Jennifer Holliday at the BET Awards in Los Angeles. Most recently, in April, Holliday surprised fans at Hudson’s concert with another duet. Both divas were looking fit and better than ever. Fans of the hit TV Show Ally McBeal will recognize Holliday from her recurring guest role as choir director Lisa Knowles. As the ex of the Reverend Newman, Knowles used her position

to sing hostile songs directed at the Reverend’s current lady. In a particularly hilarious episode, the two dueling divas battle it out... in song. Classic! (Coincidentally, Holliday was married to a Reverend for a few short years.) A long time supporter of the GLBT community, Holliday has made a number of appearances at events and fundraisers to support the fight against AIDS, including a headlining position at Equity Cares/Broadway Fights Aids’ “Nothing Like a Dame” show at the St. James Theatre in 2001. In addition, she has made a series of special tours and promotions for the gay community, as well as appearing at several Pride Events throughout the country. And we’re telling you, you’re gonna love her. Jennifer Holliday takes the 10th Ave. stage at Pride in the Streets on Saturday, June 13. For more information, visit pittsburghpride.org.

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Each year, Pittsburgh Pride gains more and more momentum, bringing a larger presence to Liberty Avenue, and this year is no exception. Recognized throughout the mainstream as well as the GLBT community, Jennifer Holliday brings a Grammy Award-winning sound to the stage on Saturday, June 13. And, there is no way that anyone will want to leave without hearing her belt out her hits.

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Grand Marshals

We never feel prettier than we do when we’re marching!

Grand Marshall Dan Frankel is a member of the Pennsylvania State House of Representatives most noted in our community for writing House Bill 300 to amend the state Human Relations Act by prohibiting bias in housing, employment, credit, and public accommodations, on the grounds of sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. Wendi Miller is the “T” in GLBT. She is a longtime advocate for civil rights, an extraordinary spokesperson, and a leader within the Pittsburgh GLBT community, serving on the boards of many GLBT ally organizations. She has also run a successful business for more than 35 years. Pittsburgh’s own Thea Austin is returning to town to parade in the Pride March, serving as Honorary Grand Marshall. We can unofficially make Sunday, June 14 into Dance Party USA since Austin has recorded our favorite club mixes: “Just About Had Enough”, “I’m Addicted to You”, “I Got the Power”, “Rhythm is a Dancer”, and “I Can’t Get Enough.” The glitter girl is also performing later that day at PrideFest. Bring on the beat. Our booties are beggin’ for it.

The Pride Awareness March starts at noon and prances through the streets of downtown from Grant Street to the Blvd of the Allies and strolls down Stanwix Street for a finale on 7th Street. This year our friends will frolic on foot and frilly floats, too. We’re tipping our hats to the Grand Marshalls: author of House Bill 300 and long term ally Dan Frankel; long time trans activist Wendi Miller; and musician and Pittsburgh native Thea Austin! Our boots are made for walkin’ —and appropriately our stilettos, Birkenstocks, Pumas, Doc Martins, and Crocs are, too.

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PrideFest PrideFest combines our two loves in life: gays and getting a tan. This sunny gathering is a tank topped, flip flopped affair on Liberty Avenue, where we can guzzle icy lemonades, peruse more than 100 vendor booths, kiss each other over carnival games, and brand each other with Delta stickers du jour: “Top”, “Bottom”, and “Femme” are favorites. Best of all, the day delights with a continuum of entertainment. On this year’s roster are Katie Costello, Andy Moore, Coyote Grace, Vida, Phat Man Dee, Thea Austin, and Eric Himan and the Adams. Oh, and it’s F-R-E-E. Wee!

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Cool off with an icy cold Coors, Coors Light and Killian’s in our new Beer Garden located at the intersection of Smithfield Street and Liberty Avenue. Just $15 gets you unlimited drinks on Sunday, June 14th from 1pm to 6pm

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Pride and Soul

By Vanessa Joseph

An evening with Meshell Ndegeocello

Here is the scenario: You have just finished your classy dinner of Thai takeout, worked your way through a bottle of Chilean Cabernet, and now the time has come to lay your lover down for some sweet romancin’— it is that kind of night. You gently maneuver your iPod into the BOSE player, and out pours the smooth, sexy sounds of Meshell Ndegeocello. The 39-year-old neosoul goddess is perfect for a kickback kind of relaxing, or just plain gettin’ it on. Lucky for Pittsburgh music lovers, Ndegeocello’s voice will be filling the new August Wilson Center for African American Culture on June 11 (We’ll try to keep our clothes on). Having been in the business for more than 20 years, the German native, born by the name of Michelle Lynn Johnson, has kept what is considered an underground, yet iconic, profile. Ndegeocello grew up in Washington D.C. and taught herself the bass, guitar, keyboard, and drums. Throughout her

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teenage evolution, she adopted the name “Ndegeocello,” which, in Swahili, means “free as a bird.” With a new name, she took the music industry by storm with her expression of taboo topics such as politics, feminism, and sex. During the development of her albums, she pulled influences from a broad spectrum of artists, ranging from James Brown and Joni Mitchell to Eric Clapton and Betty Davis. She migrated to New York after college and became a member of the Black Rock Coalition. Her career escalated in 1993, when she was one of the first artists signed to Maverick Records, under which she produced a debut album, Plantation Lullabies. Although not always household name, this openly bisexual, shaved-head beauty has racked up 10 Grammy nominations and graced 12 motion picture soundtracks, including Batman and Robin, How Stella

Got Her Groove Back, and Higher Learning. Ndegeocello’s slam-dunk was a painful, heart-wrenching debut of “Fool of Me” in Love and Basketball. Through her work, Ndegeocello paved the way for other soul artists, such as Erykah Badu, Jill Scott, and India Arie. For a woman who has exhibited such influence and talent, there is no better place to welcome her than the August Wilson Center, which is a non-profit organization that continually allows African American culture to resonate throughout the city by way of dance, music, art, and drama. For more information on “An Evening with Meshell Ndegeocello,” go to pittsburghpride.org. Tickets are available in advance for $20, or for $25 at the door (if available). August Wilson Center for African American Culture, 980 Liberty Ave., Downtown. AugustWilsonCenter.org

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Moore to Love Coyote Grace gets some str8 talk from Andy Moore.

Coyote Grace: How old were you when you started playing music? Does music run in your family? Andy Moore: I don’t ever recall not being musically active in some way. But, if you’re asking when I began playing out, it was around the age of sixteen. A small gay coffeehouse in Amarillo, Texas — appropriately named Washington Square — was the site of my first-ever solo show. Needless to say, I was hooked. Unfortunately, my family is not so musical. I guess you could say my musicality is somewhat of an anomaly in the Moore household. And that’s okay; my family is good at all the stuff that really counts. CG: When did you write your first song, and what was it about? Do you still play it? AM: Having grown up in a very devout Southern Baptist household, the first song I wrote was a God song. I was 12, I think, and it was called “Is This the Right Way?” I don’t dare play that song now. Yikes. CG: Who is an artist that has inspired you the most, and why?

AM: I’d have to say that Emily Saliers has been the singlemost influential artist in my life. I discovered her and the Indigo Girls when I was still in middle school. So, I’ve had a lot of time to mull over her lyrics and melodies. I’m still inspired by her musical genius. Some other notables, though, are Richard Shindell, James Mercer, and Neko Case. CG: We read that you studied in Northern Germany after high school. What was it about studying abroad that inspired you to explore songwriting? AM: Honestly, I think part of the inspiration came from a bit of homesickness. During my first few months there, I was really going through some stuff emotionally, so I needed an outlet. Guess I found one. CG: You’ve shared the stage with quite the roster of noteworthy artists — What was one of your most memorable opening slots? If you could open for any artist/ musical act, who would it be? AM: I really enjoyed sharing the

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stage with Beth Hart. She is freaking amazing and incredibly nice to boot. If I could open for anyone, of course, it would be the Indigo Girls, without question. CG: Has being a queer musician filtered into your songwriting? How has it affected your career? AM: Not so much. I mean, I don’t hide my lesbianism, but it has not yet become a focal point in any of my songs. I feel like my visibility speaks for itself in a lot of ways; every song I sing is a celebration of queerness in that respect. CG: What is your ideal venue? AM: Definitely a coffee house. They’re kinda quiet and usually full of yummy food and drinks. Those things alone are the ultimate in pleasureable listening spaces. CG: What is your favorite song by another artist to cover? AM: One of my favorite singersongwriters, Kristen Hall, wrote a song called “Let It Rain.” I’ve been told my cover would make Kristen proud. So, of course, I like to play this song since I know my listeners dig it.

did make it, I’d probably play a newer song called “Perfectly Okay.” CG: Do you have any plans to release an album in the near future? AM: I’m currently working on an EP called 5 in Common, which will precede and aide in the funding of a full length album that is almost completely written. I’m very excited about both projects. But at this point, I just need to buckle down and get 5 completed. I’m long overdue. CG: What are you most looking forward to about Pittsburgh Pride? AM: Getting to finally see you and Eric again! I know the townspeople get fired up to see us perform ... well, I get jazzed about opportunities that afford me sweet moments to make music alongside friends. I’m so looking forward to it! Andy Moore will perform during PrideFest on Sunday, June 14th. For more information, visit andymooremusic.com.

CG: If you had the chance to play one song of yours for the Indigo Girls, which would it be? AM: {Chuckle} Hmm. I probably wouldn’t even make it to opening the guitar case because I’d be passed out on the floor. But if I

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Folk Friends

Andy Moore gets the lowdown on

Eric Himan & the Adams.

I suppose my first encounter with Eric Himan could begin something like a bad joke: “So, a Mexican and a Jew walk into a bar....” Except for “bar,” substitute “church basement.” (Odd, I know, but it’s as true as natural selection!) It was such a crude, albeit hilariously irreverent, introduction to our relationship, but it did not sully the significance that Eric has had in my life over the past decade. Eric and I met in the later years of our time as students at Penn State. Since then, we’ve written three songs together, we’ve recorded together on three separate occasions, we’ve made a lap around the U.S. in less than thirty days, and, most importantly, we’ve become close friends. So, when one friend has the opportunity to interview another — one who just happens to be a bonafide folk-rock demigod — what might be asked and answered, you inquire?!? Well, this is what I discovered about Eric Himan … upon further review: Andy Moore: Where and how did you pick up the Adams siblings for the band? Eric Himan: To make this a short story (cause it is kinda long), I met Jimmy and Angel Adams when they were backing a singer I randomly met when touring through D.C. The singer and I bonded over living in Tulsa and being outside of it at the moment. I came back to town and saw her play. I was asked to do a gig in town at a popular bar that liked my music but wanted me with a band. I asked Jimmy and Angel, and we started to evolve as a band. AM: Who came up with your band name: Eric Himan and the Adams? EH: Hmm ... I think we thought of a million names and ended up with the one that is basically our real names. It was very organic, plus we didn’t all agree on all the other silly names we came up with. AM: If you were a food, what might you be, and why do you think so? EH: I would be a lasagna cause I have many layers, and I wish I was Italian. AM: If the Adamses were foods, what might they be, and how do you think your flavors might best complement one another? Pride Pittsburgh Magazine | PittsburghPride.org

EH: Angel would be chocolate because she is sweet, and you just can’t help but love her. Jimmy would be a pretzel because he is salty; he has an edgy look and a quick wit. Together, they would make a great chocolate covered pretzels. A bit sweet and a bit salty. And who doesn’t like an awesome chocolate covered pretzel after a full plate of lasagna? Angel Adams: I was thinking that my food would be cheese: It’s great with or with out something else — just like me; I go great with just about anything/everyone. Very complementary and diplomatic. But, if you just want a snack, it’s great all by itself. Also, just like any fungus, if you don’t like me at first, I’m pretty sure I’d grow on you. And, I’ve aged well. Finally, I may seem pretty hard or tough but I usually melt very easily. AM: Someone asked me recently about my file of older unfinished/rejected songs. Do you have

such a file? If yes, do you ever wish to revisit any of those unrecorded materials? EH: I do have a few recordings on CD and tapes (how old is that!) that contain some stuff I am still working on. I have a good memory of old choruses and verses I never did anything with, and then one day, they just show up like an old friend. AM: How has Eric and the Adams helped you grow as a solo musician? EH: Tremendously. I started playing acoustic with them like I do at my solo shows and decided to switch to electric guitar. Funny enough, I started on electric when I was in high school and then switched to the acoustic. Revisiting it has been a lot of fun, but challenging. Technically, they are so different from each other. I have to change the way I play for the electric. I also had to work on sounds. The acoustic to me has one sound, and

now I have guitar pedals and overwhelming choices. Also, guitar solos are fun, too. AM: What sort of CD do you think will follow Resonate? EH: I am only guessing at this point, but the CD that probably will follow Resonate is a band CD with a full-on rock sound. I am exploring so much now with the electric [guitar], I can’t imagine my music ever being the same again! And Andy, you sang the s*!t out of Resonate. You made it that much greater, and I am excited that you will be singing on stage with us at Pittsburgh Pride. For more information on Eric Himan and the Adams, visit erichiman.com.

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I travel quite frequently around the country. When traveling through Milwaukee, I saw a poster for a band, Coyote Grace, in the window of the GLBT Center I was playing. It looked interesting and when I asked about the band, the folks there raved about them. I went online listened to their stuff and really liked it. When I was asked to help pick music acts for The Advocate/Gay.com’s showcase during SXSW in Austin in 2008, they immediately came to mind. Their music is full of songs about love, life, and sometimes GLBT issues that center on members, Joe Stevens and Ingrid Elizabeth’s relationship. Joe is transgendered and they have stuck by each other through his transition. I had the pleasure of asking them a few questions about their upcoming performance at Pittsburgh Pride. Eric Himan: Last time you toured through Pride Pittsburgh Magazine | PittsburghPride.org

Pittsburgh, you were on the road with Melissa Ferrick. What did you think about your experience there and are you excited to be coming back to the area? Joe Stevens: We had a wonderful time. It was our very first show in Pittsburgh, and I really enjoyed the area.

Ingrid Elizabeth: Pittsburgh is very close to my hometown of Cambridge, Ohio, so it was really neat to finally be playing a show there. We are so grateful to Melissa for sharing her audience with us and giving us the opportunity to play at such a cool venue as the Rex Theater. EH: How long after you two met did you start making music? IE: Actually, we started making music together before we were ever friends or sweethearts.

We met in Seattle while Joe was attending Cornish College of the Arts. At that time, I was dating someone else who also attended Cornish for music, and we all played music together. Eventually, Joe & I became friends, and quickly developed serious crushes on each other. The rest, as the say, is history. EH: How did that first conversation start when you decided to take your relationship to a musical place and start a group? JS: I don’t know if there was one single conversation. It was always a possibility, and eventually became a reality once my transition settled down. At that point, we quit our day jobs, bought a van, made an album, and hit the road. EH: When it comes to the music business, do 54

you both agree on most aspects? Do you take different roles (meaning one person is the day to day business person and the other, the bigger picture one?) IE: I’d say we agree on most business and artistic decisions within the band. We both have areas that we are naturally inclined to volunteer for — I handle most of the office/ managerial aspects of the band business (i.e. contracts, booking, promotion, web calendars, accounting, etc), and Joe does most of the songwriting (so we have something to sing), and he is responsible for more of the handson “roadie” duties (i.e. - hauling equipment, vehicle maintenance, set-up/breakdown of shows, etc.). However, we both dabble in each other’s realms when appropriate. We are a very naturally balanced team and a tight ship. EH: For Joe: Did you have a budding music career before you transitioned? Did you have aspirations to be a full-time touring musician and if so, who did you see yourself close to in the music world? JS: While in college, I was able to perform often while getting my music degree. I put out a recording called “Innocent to a Degree” in 2000 and “Dollar for a Dime” in 2003 under my old name, but I wasn’t very happy, nor was I moving very fast. I transitioned right after I graduated college, and had to take some time off music while my voice was changing. Moving in categories from a gay female singer songwriter to a not so visibly queer male singer songwriter was probably the weirdest thing about it all, an identity shift that I didn’t anticipate until it was happening.

But I have always wanted to be a working musician; the Indigo Girls were the first model that I aspired to. EH: For Ingrid: Have you ever felt that the topic of Joe being Trans interferes with the music being appreciated for what it is? IE: They are inseparable in my eyes. His music is his life, his experience, the essence of who he is. I think it only lends more insight into his storytelling and songwriting when folks know the whole back story. Sometimes, I am curious if most of the attention we DO get from fans is due to our Trans/Queer status or if it’s because they really like our sound and our song-craft, regardless of the queer content. But then, I remember that there are A LOT of GLBT artists out there, and not all of them have the sincere, wonderful, and diverse fan base that we do. So, musically, we must be doing something right. And personally, I don’t care how cute or how iconically gay someone is -- if it doesn’t sound good, I’m not listening to it. Period. And I’m sure I’m not alone in maintaining that standard. EH: For Ingrid: Did you have much background knowledge of Trans issues before you met Joe, Ingrid? IE: In fact, I did. When I first met him (before he was “Joe”), I was working at a fantastic feminist sex toy store called “Toys in Babeland” (now known as “Babeland”). While working there, we underwent an extensive education process, learning all about the different parts of the sexuality and gender spectrum, so we could best relate to ALL kinds of customers’ experiences. So, I knew quite a bit about

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Tran’s issues and had made a few FTM friends as well. It was actually through volunteering at a Babeland workshop that Joe stumbled upon more information about the FTM community and shortly thereafter, he came out as Trans. EH: I know you have met and performed with the Indigo Girls, who would be another dream group/music act that would have you talking about it for years after? At this point, I would probably say either Ani DiFranco or Gillian Welch & David Rawlings. Both are musical heroes of ours, and we’d probably both be giddy yet speechless upon meeting them. EH: If there is one song that you would have to say defines your sound, what song of yours is it?

JS: That’s a tough question. Probably “Forever’s Song”. EH: For Joe: I see you have just released your new cd. When I saw you last, you performed this amazing song called, “DaughterSon”. Is that song on the new cd and if so, what is it about? JS: Sadly, the song is NOT on the CD, but it WILL be on an EP that is coming out in the fall of this year. I wrote “Daughterson” one day, when I was sick with a cold, and I thought I would never play it for anybody. Ingrid begged to differ. It is a funny tongue-in-cheek song about the Trans experience. EH: What movie of the past, do you think your songs would fit the soundtrack to? IE: I’m a sap for the intersection of old-

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fashioned, down-home living and understated lesbian love affairs, so I’d say “Fried Green Tomatoes”. EH: I know you two travel in a car together. Do you ever run out of things to talk about? Do you listen to music most of the time? What is your guilty pleasure on the road? JS: We have been cursed with broken stereos in our vehicles, so we have taken to serenading each other while the other one drives. Sometimes it involves kazoo solos from the driver, while the passenger plays ukulele. Work provides us with plenty of things to talk about, and when we feel like being quiet, we take turns napping in the back of the van. EH: What is your favorite hotel chain to stay in on the road? Have you slept in your car more than once? IE: Why, the Motel 6, of course! Outdoor room entry (to sneak in the oth er person, so we only OnQ Pride_R1

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have to pay for one), cheap wi-fi access (god forbid it be free), and if we’re lucky, a swimming pool!! Besides, it’s usually the only one we can afford. As for sleeping in our car, we did it for almost 2 years solid. We still do, when the weather is right and a charming rest area is handy. EH: You just released a new cd. If independent artists released singles like back in the day, what would the first and second singles be off the new disc? JS: The first would most likely be “Zuma”, and second would be “Runaround”.

from our contemporaries. Where they play, how they run their shows, and by what means they succeed at spreading the word about their music. Also befriending them (as we’ve been so lucky to do with talented folks like Eric Himan and Andy Moore) proves not only beneficial but also a source of endless entertainment, commiseration, and inspiration. JS: Keep writing and playing. Don’t let discouragement get you down. You have something to say that somebody out there needs to hear. And don’t forget to have fun.

EH: For a budding musician who is looking to tour and put out their own music, do you have any advice for the best way for them to get started? IE: Pay close attention to those artists around you that are on the same path. We have learned countless lessons and valuable knowledge

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When the color of the rainbow is black. “Black Pride” is a slogan that has always been used to raise awareness of black racial identity. The slogan denotes a feeling of selfrespect, celebrating heritage and personal worth. A celebration of self is superficial if you cannot celebrate the whole self. It baffles me when I hear the question asked, “Why do we need a separate Black Gay Pride when we have a Gay Pride celebration already?” The answer is found in the broader question: Why is there a need to celebrate Gay Pride? I submit that all Gay Pride celebrations are a response to a lack of inclusion, which comes, for us, on two fronts: We are largely excluded from the “mainstream” gay community, and we are excluded from our own cultural community. Blamelessly, there is a lack of awareness and understanding in the general gay community when it comes to the dynamics of race and

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--------------------Recently a black attorney told me of a criminal case where one young black man killed another because he was afraid that the victim would reveal the sexual relationship that the two men had had. ---------------------

sexual orientation. Knowing the complications that are unique to skin color, the black community has always prided itself on its resilience. Black people have always said that when rejected by everyone else, we at least have each other. Recently a black attorney told me of a criminal case where one young black man killed another because he was afraid that the victim would reveal the sexual relationship that the two men had had. Two black 11-year-olds in separate cities killed themselves within 90 days of each other after being teased for being gay. The same smothering, palpable fear is rampant in black gay Pittsburgh: If I’m not out to the gay community and not out to my own community, who can I talk to? Do we live gay and not black, or do we live black and not gay? Black Pride celebrations evolved from the hearts of us who chose to not choose.

Black Pride is designed to create safe spaces where we can be with others we identify with culturally. It challenges viewpoints and empowers the people in this community. We create safe spaces to discuss the dynamics of race and sexuality and to figure out real solutions to the problems that those dynamics cause. The International Federation of Black Prides (IFBP) is the umbrella organization that organizes and assists with program planning all over the world. Black Pride celebrations feature a schedule packed with workshops and symposia, ranging from HIV discussion to domestic violence to financial and estate planning. The National Black Justice Coalition is a civil rights organization dedicated solely to fighting racism and homophobia. Their flagship program is Black Church Summit. We welcome all to attend Black Pride. Many of us are happily partnered with white, Asian, Latino, or others with whom we’ve found love. When you see Black Pride, don’t say, “Oh, that is for them.” Please come in, and say, “Hell, yeah! The rest of us are getting it together too!” In the words of Martin Luther King, Jr., “An injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” In order to be true agents of change, we must be able to be unapologetically black just as we are unapologetically gay. One love. For more information on Black Pride Pittsburgh, check out the EarthTones Film Festival, featuring shorts, documentaries, animated and feature films about, by, and for cultural minority gay and lesbian people on Saturday, June 13 at the August Wilson Center for African American Culture, 980 Liberty Ave., Downtown. Augustwilsoncenter.org.

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Girl Talk by Samuel Badger

Miss Bunny Bixler, duchess of Pittsburgh, interviews Chi Chi LaRue, drag queen and porn royalty. Bunny Bixler: My, my, my, Ms. LaRue, it’s such a pleasure to finally sit down during tea time with you! Chi Chi LaRue: Bunny, you must call me Chi Chi! BB: Oh, Cha Cha! That’s such a beautiful name! And, my favorite dance! I just love to cha-cha. In fact, my late husband and I... CC: It’s Chi Chi. BB: Of course, darling, like i said! Pride Pittsburgh Magazine | PittsburghPride.org

Anyway, if you were a First Lady, which would you be? CC: I’d be a dirty, crotchless-pantywearing Barbara Bush. Well, maybe Barbara Bush, after a good protein diet. BB: I would probably choose Nancy Reagan or Mamie Eisenhower, myself. I’m just pleased you were wise enough to choose a First Lady from Grand Old Party! It’s nice to know you have a good head on your broad shoulders! Now, my favorite

accessory is a pearl necklace, three stands. Are you ever disappointed in a collaborator’s efforts? CC: Well a girl always wants more pearls, and I always say — the bigger the pearls, the better! BB: Oh Cha Cha, you took the words right out of my mouth! If you were a fruit, which would you be? CC: A pomegranate, because people are sometimes afraid to eat it.

BB: Very interesting! Trying to eat one of those is just ghastly! But I suppose you have had the chance to eat many a fruit! I would have to say mine is the orange, off the tree, at our place in Ft. Lauderdale. We have a place in Ft. Lauderdale. I would assume it’s safe to say you never completed finishing school?

--------------------my mama always said, “Money can’t buy you class or taste.” --------------------CC: You’d be right! I’m a college dropout. But, hey — a successful college dropout. BB: Well, I’m an Upper Richmond Girls School girl. But, it’s inspiring to see that you did well. What do you take as a hostess gift to a dinner party? CC: The latest Rascal Dildo. BB: Well, isn’t that just delightful. You are on my next dinner party list! Where do you live? Tell about your décor. CC: I live in West Hollywood, in a fabulous penthouse. It’s definitely decorated “brothelchic.” BB: How divine! My personal style tends to lean toward mid-

century, but my mama always said, “Money can’t buy you class or taste.” Guess you’re just another example of that! I’m sure it’s quite charming none the less! If I looked inside your ice box, what would I find? CC: Right now, lots of healthy things and some Dryer’s fruit pops. BB: That’s more than what’s in mine! you would just find a bottle of Johnnie Walker and a carton of Capris! I’ve never directed porn; my background was quite repressive. Tell me about yours. CC: And you won’t either, or I’ll kill you! I kid, I kid. I think my background has been talked about enough, girl. Google me! BB: Well, i’m just learning to use

--------------------“Trashy always gets you famous.” --------------------the world wide inter-web, but this Google thing sounds like it’s the most! Ever wanted to do porn at a country club? CC: Oh darling, I think there’s more porn going on in those country clubs than we care to admit. I think the locker rooms, showers, and toilets of country clubs see a lot of action — especially man-on-man! BB: Well, I must say I’ve never

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--------------------“I would assume it’s safe to say you never completed finishing school?” --------------------seen any hanky-panky at my club. Oh Lotious, can you imagine? So, do you think being trashy will get you famous? CC: Trashy always gets you famous. Just look at Ms. California. BB: At least she knows how to walk in heels and wear a full face of make-up. She’s not all bad! In your pornographic oeuvre, I’ve observed moves one doesn’t usually see in normal people, is flexibility important in your casting?

CC: It’s like you’re a trained seal for the camera. You have to do different acrobatics to spice things up. My Exclusive Blake Riley is the prime example of that: Doing a handstand while giving a blow job in a 69 position isn’t easy, but it sure looks good! BB: You know, I used to be able to do a handstand myself! I was quite the popular girl! What super power would you like to have? CC: I’d love to have x-ray vision so I could see through people’s clothes. It would make my job a lot easier and quicker; I could say yes or no to someone auditioning for one of my movies. BB: Oh, I do agree! I’ve been told you know where to find the boys and the booze. What’s your secret? CC: Afterhours at Chi Chi’s place!

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BB: See, I knew you would be a smashing

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hostess. I guess we do have more in common than I thought! Do you have any Jack Wrangler stories? CC: I do have a Jack Wrangler story! Before I got into the business, he came to Minneapolis, Minn., when I was just a baby drag queen. I went to see him because I was a huge fan, and he let me take his boots off. I felt like a high school girl at a Jonas Brothers Concert! BB: Oh, isn’t that rich! Anything you would like to tell our readers and Pittsburgh Pride goers? CC: I better have fun in Pittsburgh this year, or you’re all in BIG trouble! BB: I’ll be sure to take every precaution to have our fair city ready for your arrival! And, I believe you have a motto you say in all your films? CC: WRAP IT UP! BB: Yes, darling, wrap what up! Cha Cha, I must be going! Ta ta for now! See you at Pegasus on June 5, and you can see me, Miss Bixler, at Pegasus Sunday, June 7, co-hosting the first annual Delta Queen Pageant!

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Politically Speaking

By Mark Segal

Pennsylvania’s frontrunners in the GLBT movement. Pennsylvanians should be proud of our commonwealth, a strong fixture in the forefront of the gay civil rights movement. Starting in 1965, the first public demonstrations for gay rights took place outside Independence Hall on July 4, every year until 1968. Legendary activists Frank Kameny and Barbara Gittings were among its organizers. While theses demonstrations were practically ignored by the media of the era, they were the nation’s first, and across from Independence Hall now stands an official historic marker from the Pennsylvania Historic Commission in recognition of the marches and the struggle for gay rights. The marker is historic in its own right, being the first governmental GLBT historic marker in the nation. But, of more importance and lasting effect is the work that was done on a statewide level in the early 1970s, which I am proud to have spearheaded. At the time, sitting Governor Milton Shapp was running for re-election,

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and I requested a meeting to discuss the state of the gay and lesbian community in Pennsylvania. It was expected that the governor would not be agreeable in the heat of the election. To everyone’s surprise, he was. That meeting was the first meeting in the nation between gay activists and a state governor. After his election, Shapp followed through on our suggestion from that meeting and created the “Governor’s Commission For Sexual Minorities,” the first official governmental commission created to look onto the problems of the gay and lesbian community. That commission also led to Pennsylvania becoming the first state in the nation to outlaw discrimination in state government. Shapp became the first governor to issue gay pride resolutions. Current Pennsylvania Governor Ed Rendell became the first governor to hire numerous GLBT individuals to fill out his administration. He also urged our community to become part of the political process. Rendell regularly

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Sponsored by The Delta Foundation and situated on Mt. Washington, the party is hosted at the home of partners Steven Herforth and Peter Karlovich. The city is the backdrop to this outrageously fun pool party. The crowd is friendly and easing-going, and the grounds are decorated with rainbow umbrellas at just the right angle to simulate a day at the beach. The food and beverages are superb, and the

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guest list is a virtual who’s who of socialites, not only of from our city but from around the country. Some of the VIP guests over the years have included Comedian Bruce Vilanch, Sirius Satellite Radio host Frank DeCaro, world-famous DJ Julian Marsh, Survivor’s Chet Welsh, and even some adult film stars.

hot tub, and the weather Gods always smile on us. The past two years were postcardperfect. Nothing beats sitting in the hot tub with a cocktail, watching the sunset behind the city. Later, when the city lights take over the nighttime sky, the fire pit gives off a nice warm glow.

Guests are encouraged to swim and to use the

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the whole house open for the party. Ask for a tour. Feeling tired? Take the lift between floors. Wine aficionado? Ask to see the wine room. Want a different view of the city? Retire to one on the many decks off the house. Don’t like the east wing view? Head over to the west wing view. Want to dance? The dance floor is ready, complete with DJ and fog machine.

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You’ll see old friends and make new ones. This is the one party of the year where, as a photographer and journalist, I actually put all my gear away and relax. I’ve been to parties everywhere from Beverly Hills to Midtown Atlanta, and Splash is a truly unique Pittsburgh event and the best party I have ever been to anywhere. Period.

There is truth in Dorothy’s mantra — “There’s no place like home.” — especially if it’s Steven and Peter’s Party Palace. Splash is scheduled for Thursday, June 11. For more information, or for tickets, go to pittsburghpride.org.

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In Memory A salute to a few good men. By Samuel Badger

For decades, Reader’s Digest has featured a monthly article called, “The Most Unforgettable Character I’ve Ever Known.” Subscribers are invited to submit a write-up about a memorable individual, who helped to shape their lives. Well, I have two candidates for that column, but would like you to read about it here first. Pittsburgh has lost two dear friends this year. These gentlemen were two of the most unforgettable characters I’ve ever known, and they will be remembered by many for years to come. They were the good old boys of our Pittsburgh gay history.

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David Marrow, long time owner of Pegasus and Sidekicks, both on Liberty Avenue, was king of the bar scene, loved by patrons, empolyees, and drag queens alike. I didn’t know David while he owned the bar; I just recently became close with him. He always had a coy smirk on his face, ready to tease, prank, or joke with you. He had a dry sense of humor and could make a whole room laugh at once. He had two accessories: cigarettes and Absolut Vodka, on the rocks. He was a man who you could talk to for hours about nothing and everything at the same time. To get you to believe some crazy story, he would mesmerize you with his charm. A member of the Tavern Guild, David was among our pioneers, who shaped our community. His donations to support our causes are untallyable. He was a gift to all who knew him.

Robert Eppinger, lovingly known as the “Duchess of Ellsworth,” was a man before you would fall in love with the moment you met him. I personally met him several years ago at Persad’s Celebrate Life, Celebrate Art benefit, and I will never forget it. It was like the opening scene of Auntie Mame. I was standing at the bar, and this well-dressed gentleman approached me and introduced himself. “I am Bob Eppinger, and you are… ?” I told him my name, and we chatted for a while. No one could tell a story like Bob, and he had one about everything! That evening, he guided me through the crowd and introduced me to so many people. Before our conversation was over he took me by the arm and looked at me and said, “You must call me mother.” And, I did — from that day on. He’s hosted most of Pittsburgh at his beautiful home on Ellsworth Avenue, which he shared with his partner, Stephen Totter. Their home had more Champagne in it that a liquor store! Many fondly remember Bob walking through Shadyside, always smiling. He was the life of the party wherever he went.

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The Breakdown on Brunch

By Amy Loveridge

Where the cool kids go between breakfast and lunch. Brunch. It gives you time to sleep in a little later after a night out on the town and still get your fill of delicious grub (and possibly a mimosa or Bloody Mary). Pittsburgh offers many tasty and affordable options for GLBT Pittsburghers to catch up on the week’s gossip, take out the family, or share a romantic meal for two. We religiously frequent The Square Café (1137 S. Braddock Ave., Regent Square) for owner Sherree Goldstein’s mean mix of oatmeal and fresh fruit, and we’re downright addicted to her Veggie Overload omelet. And there’s not an It-Gay in town who hasn’t killed time on the sidewalks outside of Coca Café (3811 Butler St., Lawrenceville) on Sunday morning for the only eggs in town worth waiting an hour for. But, we submit a few others for your weekend taste tours: Your Inner Vagabond (4130 Butler St., Lawrenceville) serves up a GLBT-friendly jazz brunch every Sunday from 10:30 am to 2:30 pm in

their exotic and posh world lounge, filled with lush rugs, plush pillows, and global food. Jazz guitarist Colter Harper and his combo provide smooth music to go with the buffet of vegan and vegetarian international delicacies. Food and entertainment will cost you $10, and it’s BYOB. Another Lawrenceville brunch option is the popular gay-owned Dozen Bake Shop (3511 Butler St., Lawrenceville). Their a la carte menu includes quiche for carnivores and vegetarians alike, chocolate French toast, a vegan hash, and their everpopular pastries. Dozen makes every attempt to use fresh, local ingredients on their menu, while serving up a wide range of Intelligentsia coffee, tea, and espresso. Brunch is served on weekends from 9 am to 2 pm, and soups, sandwiches, and baked goods are offered all week from 8 am to 7 pm Don’t forget to stock up on their famous cupcakes while you’re there (while they last).

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--------------------Their regular menu of a la carte soups, salads, omelets, burgers, and entrees will be available, along with the signature Palate Bloody Mary, Palate daiquiri, and mimosas.

--------------------For an elegant brunch, locals swear by the Sunday spread at the Grand Concourse (100 W. Station Square Dr., Station Square) in the historic Pittsburgh and Lake Erie Railroad Station. Their large buffet — offering fresh seafood, an omelet bar, prime rib, and a full fruit, salad, and dessert bar — is open Sundays from 10 am to 2:30 pm.

This year for Pride, Downtown’s own Palate Bistro (212 Sixth St., Downtown) will be open early, at 9 am on Sunday, June 14 to host a Pride Brunch for Pride Awareness Marchers and PrideFest attendees. Their regular menu of a la carte soups, salads, omelets, burgers, and entrees will be available, along with the signature Palate Bloody Mary, Palate daiquiri, and mimosas. Teetotalers can enjoy the fresh-squeezed grapefruit, orange, and tomato juices. Everyone attending Pride Brunch will receive a $25 Palate gift certificate valid from June 15 to the end of the year. Come back weekly for Sunday brunch from 10:30 am to 2 pm So grab your best guy, gal, the kids or pals, and try one of these scrumptious spots for weekend brunch. You’ll have a gay old time. Palate Bistro will host Pride Brunch on Sunday, June 14. For more information, visit pittsburghpride.org or palatebistro.com.

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Out and Online How to cruise the digital world when you’re Out and proud.

By Christopher Boscy

private photo Does anyone remember a time before Google? Well, I can tell you there was, and the net was a mess. Just as Google changed and improved how we find information, the internet, in general, has helped us find each other. The closet door of the IT department is wide open, with no lack of GLBT among all the other techie abbreviations. Do a search for “gay” on Google, and your first hit is a social networking site — a place to find others. Frankly, I was shocked. I had money ridding on it being a huge lists of porn sites.

players, similar to the web portals of the mid-90s, try to be a starting place for all things gay. Like the local bar that gets new lighting systems and switches out the DJ, they continually update to keep the audience coming, even if it’s still the same non-descript dance music and over-priced imported beer. We are a loyal bunch though; every time you try to log into a chat room on one of these, the first four rooms are full.

Social networking sites, like MySpace and Facebook, have their fair share of the queer. We use them even more than our straight friends, or so studies have shown. But, they seem to lack a comfortable homey feeling. Gay content on MySpace is what you make it: mostly snarky contents on your friend’s profiles accompanied by pictures of glittery ponies or barely dressed eye candy. Facebook fairs only a little better. The snark is still there, but it is usually followed by invites to take a drink from the virtual bar app, “Send a Round.” It’s little wonder that, even online, we still seek territory to call our own. A digital 40 acres and a pink mule.

Do a search for “gay” on Google, and your first hit is a social networking site — a place to find others. Frankly, I was shocked. I had money ridding on it being a huge lists of porn sites.

The first hit in the Google results, and probably the most well known, is Gay.com. In terms of how gays attack the net, this is a perfect example. A mix of things, it is part chat and profiles that could be considered a social network — or just a facilitator for naughty acts we don’t talk about in polite society — and part news source and blog hub. On the network side of things, we have well established sites like GayWired.com, OutInAmerica.com, and Connexion.org. These

The underbelly of the less-than-straight internet is inhabited by the hook-up site. The newer gays on the block, among them: Dlist.com, ManJam.com, and Downelink.com try to push a community feel. Still, in many ways, they are meat-markets — but fancy ones that let you rate the merchandise and take notes. Others freely admit, even scream, that they are all about naked extracurricular activites. With names like Adam4Adam.com, ManHunt.net, Recon.com, and Squirt.org, there is no pretence of “ltr” anywhere. Well, excluding travel time.

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More serious content-minded denizens of the web, or those not on the hunt, can find a home on PageOneQ.com or QueensSpeech. com. These pages act like gay newswires, collecting the top national and international headlines affecting the multilettered community. Think of them as the queer CNN. Well, if CNN’s homepage was run out of NYC or SF, and not Atlanta. (Having Anderson Cooper on staff isn’t enough.) If you like your news on the slightly pulpy side of things, I give you Queerty.com. They run under the banner of being “Free of an agenda. Except that Gay one,” and it fits. Taking cues from tabloid layouts, like The Sun in the UK and their infamous Page 3 photo spreads, Queerty averages at least one gallery of nearly naked model meat for every three or so posts. They balance serious news and commentary with just enough flesh to take the edge off one’s daily grind, all while keeping it safe for work. Though, you may want to check if men covered in less fabric than a tea towel complies with your company’s technology use policy. Consuming nothing but the headlines can leave you feeling empty; beyond the facts, sometimes we need perspective, and that is the domain of the blog. Let me state here that I don’t mean Perez Hilton, although in that vein you may want to try PinkIsTheNewBlog.com. It trawls from similar waters, but it scores points for using Photoshop to deface its imagery — who uses MS Paint anymore? Real commentary lives at Bilerico. com. The Project, a collaborative blog with over 30 contributors, has the feel of water cooler

conversations. Their content is always timely and as deep as it can be catty and cutting. The writing is engaging, like any good break room chatter should be, without the smell of stale popcorn and burnt coffee filling the room. For singular voices, see what JoeMyGod.blogspot.com or PamsHouseBlend.com have to say. Joe Jervis and his namesake site take the tone of your burly and stubbled neighbor who would be just as at home kicking back a few at the bar as he would discussing the issues at the library. His “PhoboQuotable” section has a knack of making the social rightwing seem even more out of touch just by quoting them. Pam Spaulding runs her site, as the name implies, like a coffee shop; conversation always welcome. Covering politics like a bloodhound, she calls all sides on their crap while tossing in some pop culture for good measure. Both would be on the frontline of any needed protest, leading the way with signs hauled there in the back of a bumper-stickered Prius. A local point of view can be had courtesy of Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents. (pghlesbian.com) Sue and Ledcat keep tabs on all things social and political affecting yinzer gays and beyond. As they say, just being “out’n proud in the Burghosphere.” Their greatest ability is keeping track of the legislation that matters and tallying how the votes fall. Reading PLC is a great motivation to get politically active. I never really had the urge to reach out to my elected officials. Who really wants them to touch you back? After reading Sue’s work for a few days I actually went out and bought stamps!

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The Pittsburgh Cultural Trust is our city’s premiere arts organization, working to promote and develop downtown Pittsburgh’s Cultural District. They’ve transformed our downtown with over fourteen cultural facilities, public parks, and plazas. The Pittsburgh Cultural Trust, along with its producing partner PNC, brings Broadway Across America, which is a series of touring shows direct from New York. This year, the series is featuring such favorites as A Chorus Line, Spring Awakening, and Rent. The Pittsburgh Civic Light Opera is our city’s leader in original musical theater productions and is a pioneer in musical works, cultivating new productions of traditional favorites. The theater company produces its mainstage shows in the historic Benedum Center, while offering more intimate performances at the CLO Cabaret. This summer’s mainstage offerings include Legally Blonde, Swing, Les Miserables, Barry Manilow’s Copacapana, and Into the Woods. Those who like theater in a cozier setting can catch 8 Track: The Sounds of the 70’s at the CLO Cabaret. Equally as interesting are Pittsburgh’s range of independent theater companies that are bringing unique, exciting, and original plays to Pittsburgh’s stages. This Pride season, Pittsburgh Public Theatre has a special treat for dedicated Pittsburgh theater fans and those checking out the city’s theater scene for the first time: Harry’s Friendly Service, a new play by Pittsburgh’s own Rob Zellers, which runs through June 28. Southside is home to City Theatre. Over the years, City Theatre has established itself as an exciting laboratory for new works. Its reputation for developing some of theater’s hottest new plays and artists began with Marc Masterson and has flourished under the influence of his successor, Pride Pittsburgh Magazine | PittsburghPride.org

Tracy Brigden. She created Momentum: New Plays at Different Stages at City Theatre. The Momentum series features new play readings and panel discussions that support the theater’s commitment to new works. Momentum has featured the efforts of many notable contemporary theater artists, such as Steven Dietz, Eric Simonson, and Billy Porter. In addition to these established icons, the city boasts more than a dozen “up and coming” independent theater companies creating a unique niche in the theater scene. Two companies with incredible offerings this Pride season are Pittsburgh Irish and Classical Theatre and The Unseam’d Shakespeare Company. This summer’s PICT offering of What the Butler Saw will appear on stage at the Charity Randall Theatre from June 11-27. What the Butler Saw was written by Joe Orton in 1967. Orton, who was openly gay and often publicly flamboyant, was equally famous for his off-stage antics as his on-stage works. He had a decades-long relationship with fellow writer Kenneth Halliwell. This relationship was often volatile and tumultuous, and a jealous Halliwell murdered Orton

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This Pride season, Pittsburgh Public Theatre has a special treat for dedicated Pittsburgh theater fans and those checking out the city’s theater scene for the first time: Harry’s Friendly Service, a new play by Pittsburgh’s own Rob Zellers, which runs through June 28.

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with nine hammer blows to the skull in 1967. Orton’s prolific career, which included nine plays, three novels, and a screenplay, spanned only three years before his untimely death. Andrew Paul describes Orton’s final work, What the Butler Saw, as “Oscar Wilde on acid.” The Unseam’d Shakespeare Company was founded by a group of Pitt students in 1993. An important part of the company’s unseaming is non-traditional casting; women and minorities frequently play roles historically assumed by white men. This Pride season, the Unseam’d Shakespeare Company is bringing two incredible shows – MacBeth 3, June 4-20, and Out Of This Furnace, July 2-26 – at the Open Stage Theatre in the Strip District. MacBeth 3 is a new adaptation of Shakespeare’s classic drama about power, corruption, and murder. The play features three actors cast alternatively. The role of MacBeth will be played by a female. The script was adapted by Lisa Wolpe, an actor, director, and writer who currently serves as Artistic Director for the Los Angeles Women’s Shakespeare Company. Wolpe is renowned for her gender-

bending adaptations of Shakespeare’s works. She frequently plays the traditionally male roles in these productions, notably appearing as Romeo in Romeo & Juliet, Hamlet in Hamlet, and Iago in Othello. We’re most excited about Burn This , a play by Lanford Wilson at the New Hazlett Theater June 4 - 12. The play features David Conrad from TV’s Ghost Whisperer. Whether you like musical theater or intense literary drama, Pittsburgh’s stages have something for you. This incredibly diverse theater scene is a great source of PRIDE for Pittsburgh’s GLBT community! For more information, visit pgharts.org or newhazletttheater.org

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Hey, Sport! Time to play ball (and that’s not a euphemism). Gay athletes n’at in Pittsburgh? You bet’cha! Pittsburgh has a surprisingly diverse GLBT sporting community. You can run, bike, hit, bump, strike, serve, dig, catch, and just about anything else you can think of to get your heart pumping. Were you the last kid to get picked for games in school? Played in the garden more than on the basketball court? Or, were you the athletic star? Knew the Steelers stats since you were in kindergarten? The sporting leagues have a place for everyone from beginners, to seasoned athletes, to those just looking to explore a new (sweaty) social network. You will find men and women — gay, transgender, straight, and those you’re not too sure about! Ages range from the 18-year-olds (Hate them! Wait until you’re approaching 50, and you’ll understand) to 60-year-olds and up. Many of the sporting groups offer ways for beginners to develop skills and different levels of play based on ability and desire. The leagues are designed to make you feel more comfortable, more skilled, and more social. Plus, where else can you freely pat that little hottie’s behind to congratulate him or her on a good play?!

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For more information, visit the Sports Tent, sponsored by 5801 Video Lounge and Café, at PrideFest on Sunday, June 14.

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