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Well, we are officially in month number two of the New Year! And if your kids are anything like mine, they are already asking, “Is it summertime yet?” I guess they enjoy the perks of Christmastime and then they are ready to fast forward to their favorite time of year SUMMER! Well, before we can jump to those miserably hot months, I am looking forward to the cool breeze of Spring! Maybe we can forego some of the dreary rainy spring days and have those brisk, cool, early mornings. There is something so refreshing and renewing about seeing God’s flowers start to bloom and leaves turn from brown to green. Hopefully, this February we can start to see some of that. So, for all of those who are still plugging away at your New Year’s resolution, be encouraged and keep up the good work! Here’s to a Healthy and Renewed you this February!
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Calling all Royalty! We are looking for this year’s 2011 Angelina County Rodeo Queen If you are a senior in Angelina County, and have been involved in FFA, 4-H, and/or Rodeo—you just might be our next Rodeo Queen! Please send us a scholarship application available from your school counselor. Mail application by March 10 to PO BOX 150537, Lufkin, 75915.
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Injuries & Illnesses Antibiotics & Shots
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On-Site Digital X-Ray Urgent Asthma & Allergy Treatment Lacerations & Broken Bones Urgent On-Site Lab
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Home Tour: Les and Merideth Chambers Landmarks: Friends of Angelina County At Home: A Fresh Start In the Kitchen: Pops!
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yourlife 33 Suzy Lou Comic Pretty Babies Stretch Marks: The Doctor (Feelgood) Is In Weddings Feature Teacher: Betsy Lock Women’s Health: Cholesterol in the Blood Finance 101: Investment Ideas for Newlyweds Beauty: Enjoy Your Skin at Any Age Girls Group: MOPS Fitness: Fuel for Fitness
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Stephanie Oliver President Beth Stokes Managing Editor Michelle Briley Director of Sales Kay Hendricks Acco u n t Exe c u t i ve Michelle Haney Layout and Design
Courtney Conerly Daryl Sparks Graphic Designer Jimmy Williams Operations Lisa Crow Eve n t P h o to g ra p h e r Allyson Langston Jennifer Williams Copy Editor
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The home of Les and Merideth Chambers is tucked away on their farmland outside of Lufkin. This custom built ranch style home was designed and constructed by Les. The home itself is a work of art, full of character and hand-made pieces that are breathtaking. Many aspects of the home hold sentimental value to the family and create a warm environment for entertaining friends or enjoying family. The stained glass piece above the back door was hand-crafted by Merideth’s father. Each of the entrances to the girls’ bedrooms replicate a home in which the family has lived. The girls enjoy the loft just outside their rooms where they study and complete their school work. Beautiful windows throughout the house allow the family to enjoy the beauty of the land that surrounds their home.
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For years, eleven dedicated citizens served on the Angelina County Historic Commission with a mission of trying to preserve and promote Angelina County. After making a “wish list” of everything they would like to see happen, they realized that reaching their goals was more than the eleven could tackle. That is how the Friends of Angelina County Historic Commission were created in 2009. Since its inception, over 200 friends have joined. The current project and fundraiser of the Friends is a “Village” of Angelina County. The first unveiled piece of history that will make up the village is Pines Theater. Each individual piece of the village is an art rendering of a local landmark of Angelina County. The best part of this project is that each village will be unique to the individual collecting the pieces. For instance, the next village release is scheduled for late March. Several churches will be rendered. Some collectors of the villages may want one or all of the churches to add to their village. “Our hope is to have a release once a quarter,” said Friends member Sharon Wark. Since this is a fundraiser for the 501C3 organization, all the money raised from will go back into the organization for the completion of a long list of their restoration
add and see make up the village, including the Museum of East Texas, Ellen Trout Zoo, the old train depot, Texas Forestry Museum, and many more. Each building is $22. They are available at The Chamber of Commerce and the Angelina County Historic Commission office located downtown at 120 S. Second Street, Lufkin. The Friends of Angelina County Historic Commission wants the community to know there are many areas in which to get involved and help share and preserve the History of Angelina County. You can simply become an annual member for $25 a year, or even find a way to serve on one of the many current projects. For more information on purchasing the Pines Theater rendering or becoming a Friend, please call 936.639.6896.
“Another way individuals, groups, or businesses can get involved is to commission, or sponsor, a building. projects, history projects, and more. “Another way individuals, groups, or businesses can get involved is to commission, or sponsor, a building. If you would like to see your favorite landmark or building added to the collection, the sponsorship, which includes the sponsor information on the back of the building, is $600,” said Mary Jo Gorden. The Friends has a long list of buildings they hope to
Pictured: Carolyn Tinkle, Alyce Ann Baggett, and Sharon Wark, back row. Mary Jo Gorden and Elaine Jackson, front row.
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It’s the time of the year when we want a fresh start in every area of our life, including the home. Keeping your home organized and in order can make the rest of your life flow smoothly. Instead of being overwhelmed with totally overhauling your entire house, just start with these five tips.
1 Start in one area. That bulging closet, chaotic kitchen or heaping piles of “stuff” in the laundry room is robbing you of more than useable space. Whatever area stresses you out the most is where you should begin working. Follow the general rules of clean-up; throw out the trash, give what you don’t use away and find a place for things you need to keep. Arrange the things you keep by thinking about how you live in that space. Does it make sense to put the shoe rack at the back of the room when you drop your shoes at the entrance? Do your short sleeved shirts need to be at the front of your closet in the winter? Think through your regular routine in a typical day in that room and make sure that everything has a place that makes sense to how and when you use it.
willing to invest 4 Involve 2 Be to help in storage bins or boxes that will accommodate your specific needs.
Be advised, just because you own fifty storage boxes that neatly house your junk does not mean you are organized. Before you make a purchase, measure your space and decide which container is most beneficial. Remember to take into account how the container opens and how often you will need to access its contents.
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you get started working on a specific area, don’t let your mind wander to the next room or project. Stay focused on that one room until it is completely finished and organized like you want it. Finishing this project will give you the confidence and drive to move on to another room.
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Find someone who can honestly tell you that you don’t really need ten bottles of laundry detergent in five different fragrances and that you probably won’t wear that prom dress again. Be sure to reciprocate the favor and help her with her home, too!
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routine and procedure that will help you maintain what you have accomplished. Whether you have young children, teenagers, or are enjoying an empty nest, enlist the help of all family members in picking up their things each evening. This will give you a fresh start each morning.
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Sweets on a stick are the perfect treat. There’s a pop for every season and all reasons. For parties, desserts, everyday and special occasions, pops are tops!
They can be as simple as classic cake ball pops — crumbled cake mixed with icing, then shaped into balls and dipped into melted candy. Hundreds of other pop shapes and flavors
can be created from cake, brownies, cookies and crispy cereal treats. These recipes are only the beginning. “Pops! Sweets on a StickTM,” a new book from Wilton, features 112 pages packed with pops. Visit www.wilton.com to order the book, pops supplies, find recipes and much more. Pop to it!
Basic Cake Ball Pops Ingredients: 1 box (about 18 ounces) cake mix 1 box (about 3.4 ounces) instant pudding mix 4 eggs 1 cup water 1/3 cup vegetable oil 1/2 cup Creamy White Decorator Icing 1 bag (14 ounces) Candy Melts Lollipop Sticks
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cooling grid and cool completely. Divide cake in half; freeze one half for future use. In large bowl, use hands to crumble cake until no large chunks remain. Add icing; mix with fingers until well combined. Form mixture into balls. Chill in refrigerator at least 2 hours. Melt Candy Melts according to package directions. Dip sticks into melted Candy Melts and insert into cake balls; let set. Wait until candy is completely firm before dipping the pops completely in melted Candy Melts.
Preheat oven to 350°F. Spray two 8-inch or 9-inch round pans or one 13 x 9 x 2-inch sheet pan with vegetable pan spray.
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In large bowl, combine cake mix, pudding mix, eggs, water and oil; beat at medium speed with electric mixer 2 minutes. Pour into prepared pans.
Makes 24 — 2-tablespoon sized cake ball pops (each about 1 1/2-inch diameter)
Bake 30 to 35 minutes for round pans; 35 to 40 minutes for sheet pan, or until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool in pans 10 minutes; remove from pans to
Makes 48 — 1-tablespoon sized cake ball pops (each about 1 1/4-inch diameter)
Makes 16 — 3-tablespoon sized cake ball pops (each about 1 3/4-inch diameter)
Try Trifocals! Ingredients: Medium Cake Ball Pops White, Red, Orange and Green Candy Melts, melted Garden Candy Color Set (black used) Candy Eyeballs, spicedrops, banana shaped hard candies
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in sides of cake balls for ears. Insert banana candy, securing with melted candy. Cut small piece of spice drop and shape for nose. Attach nose and eyes with melted candy. Pipe black tinted candy mouth, let set. Pipe white candy dot teeth.
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Every February in Lufkin, talented youth gather at the Angelina County Youth Fair. On February 14th through 18th, the George H. Henderson Jr. Exposition Center in Lufkin will host area students who have completed a project in the categories of livestock, arts, crafts, photography, baking, agricultural mechanics and multi-media. Students who wish to participate must be in third grade through high school and be a part of 4-H, FFA or FCCLA. Students of art classes can also participate in the Arts and Crafts division. Those interested in participating in future fairs should contact the County Extension Office. The youth fair exists to provide a competitive, finishing touch to a project that the student has worked many long hours to complete. The overall goal is to build character and teach life skills that enable youth to grow up to be productive adults. Many who have been involved with the fair have said, “We are not in the business of raising animals, just kids.”
they earn to pay for next year’s project. Seniors use their earnings to help pay for their education. For the last four years, The Angelina County Youth Fair and Chamber of Commerce have been able to award scholarship money to qualifying seniors. The Fair could not exist without the support of local businesses and devoted community individuals. Those interested in contributing to the Buyers Pool can contact the Chamber of Commerce at 936-634-6644. The public is invited to come and enjoy the fair. Admission is free, and you will find youth giving their best and proud to share the results of their efforts. Todd Kassaw, this year’s organizer, reminds us, “It is very important that we get as many individuals and businesses to come to the auction to support these young people. The success of our sale is entirely dependent on the support of the community.”
The students bring their completed projects to compete with others from Angelina County. They happily share the results of the hard work that went into completing their project. Exhibitors who do well in their respective competition can sell in the auction. The selling auction is highly coveted, as local businesses and individuals pool their money together to reward the top class winners for their achievement. Many students who participate in the auction will manage the money
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WEDNESDAY, February 16th
FRIDAY, February 18th
6:00 P.M. Broiler Show
9:00 A.M. Judging - Cookies 12:00 Noon Judging - Pies 2:00 P.M. Judging - Breads 2:00-6:00 P.M. Check In of Arts & Crafts 5:00-7:00 P.M. Check In: Steers, Hogs, Goats, Lambs, Commercial Heifers, Ag Mechanics and Horses
8:00 A.M. Commercial Heifer Show 8:00 A.M. Orientation - Multi Media 9:00 A.M. Ag Mechanics Show 9:30 A.M. Market Lamb Show 11:00 A.M. Dairy Heifer Show 12:00 Noon Junior Horse Show 1:30 P.M. Pee- Wee Show (Goats, Lambs, Hogs, Rabbits) 2:00-5:00 P.M. Check Out- Non Sale Items (Steers, Commercial Heifers, Hogs, Lambs, Goats, Shop Projects, Dairy Heifers, and Horses) 5:00-7:00 P.M. Check out of Arts & Crafts 5:00 P.M. Awards Program 6:00 P.M. Auction
TUESDAY, February 15th 9:00 A.M. Forestry Competition Hudson Forestry Service 9:00 A.M. Judging - Cakes 1:00 P.M. Judging - Desserts/ Cheesecakes 5:00 P.M. Check-in for Market Rabbit & Breeding Rabbit Show followed by Showmanship
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THURSDAY, February 17th 8:30 A.M. Market Hog Show 10:00 A.M. Judging - Arts & Crafts 11:00 A.M. Market Goat Show 3:00 P.M. Beef Heifer Show with Beef Showmanship following 5:00 P.M. Steer Show following
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Dr. Fernandes opened her practice at the Nacogdoches Heart and Vascular Institute one year ago bringing 11 years of cardiology experience with her. February is American Heart Health month which serves as a great reminder to the public to pay attention to your heart health. No matter what time of year it is, Dr. Fernandes is passionate about cardiovascular health. “I am very passionate about promoting cardiovascular intervention. Not only because cardiovascular physicians can prevent significant suffering and significant life threating events, like sudden cardiac death, myocardial infarction, as well as stroke; but also because cardiovascular prevention is affordable for every one of us,” said Fernandes.
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An important aspect of medicine for many physicians is teaching the public and their patients about prevention. Dr. Laura Fernandes could not agree more. “Besides promoting cardiovascular prevention, we can educate and teach everyone how to support each other in having a better quality of life. In fact, that is one of the reasons I came to Nacogdoches. I felt the need to bring a new wave of care in the area of cardiovascular prevention. Many individuals think that they have to act only when they have an emergency event. Basically, they experience certain symptoms and then they look for the doctor. A healthier and more affordable way of preventing disease is being aware of the possible risks that you face on a daily basis. In my daily practice, I enjoy talking with patients about their individual risks and trying to create a long lasting plan on how we are going to tackle all the risks that are affecting them. Together, we can look for a solution to improve their cardiovascular risk.”
up, there is no better time to evaluate daily behaviors as they relate to your heart. Dr. Fernandes expands on one common issue, “Just about everyone knows we are facing an obesity epidemic that is generating another epidemic of diabetes mellitus. Because of these, we are also seeing significant increases in cases of hypertension, heart failure and cardiovascular disease. I spend a good amount of time in my daily practice sharing and educating my patients about the benefits of reversing obesity, reversing diabetes, controlling hypertension and reversing the state of the hypertension. We also focus on lipid management and cholesterol management, along with physical activities and exercise programs and weight loss. In my practice, I find it crucial to customize care for each individual patient.”
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With February being American Heart Month and the holiday season wrapping
“There is no cookbook medicine. To me, medicine is art. It is the art of communicating, reaching out to people and bringing awareness of what they can do and how much power they have to change their own destiny. Together, we can reduce the amount of suffering people experience by having a proactive attitude towards our health,” says Fernandes.
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The Pregnancy Help Center of Lufkin was established 26 years ago by Marcia Rutherford who now serves as the Secretary of the Board of Directors. Over the course of 26 years, it is estimated that the Center has served over 8,000 families and logged well over 18,000 appointments. The initial mission of the center was to serve women facing an unexpected pregnancy and offer positive alternatives to abortion. Over the past ten years, they have expanded to included resources, referrals and loving support to sexually active, pregnant and mothering women of all ages. Included in their mission statement is the heartbeat of their efforts, “We want to encourage positive responses to life’s difficult choices.” Director Paula Havard explains, “It is our belief that if a woman facing an unexpected pregnancy decides to carry her baby to term rather than abortion, then we should do our best to encourage her in the journey of adoption or parenting.”
“I feel like I can finally get the help I need to better myself and to be a better parent for my kids.” The staff hopes that the encouragement clients find on their initial appointment will keep them involved in the Learn to Earn Parenting Education Program which helps educate and equip moms for pregnancy and parenting. Participants are paired with a mentor who offers support in pregnancy, parenting and education issues.
Over the course of 26 years, it is estimated that the Center has served over 8,000 families and logged well over 18,000 appointments.
In addition to limited medical services, education services and emotional support, clients are also offered spiritual mentoring. As a Christian organization, it is important to the staff to meet the spiritual needs of their clients. The needs are varied and services provided are based on the woman’s consent to participate in spiritual activities. Through spiritual encouragement, women will have the opportunity to be introduced to Christ and experience a deeper walk with Him. It is a great day when a client recognizes her need for spiritual encouragement and allows the Center to meet those needs for her.
Every day offers a new challenge for the staff. While the Center offers free pregnancy testing, limited ultrasounds, confirmation of pregnancy and education on pregnancy and parenting issues, they often provide more social services through mentoring and encouraging the client through whatever difficult situation they are facing. When necessary, clients are referred to a licensed professional counselor for indepth treatment. Clients have stated that they felt like they were talking to an old friend during their visit. Recently, one client stated,
The Pregnancy Help Center is dependent upon the support of the community to continue to offer life saving and changing services to hundreds of East Texas women. The center is currently hosting “Babypalooza – A Texas Sized Baby Shower.” Baby items can be dropped off by the PHC office in Lufkin. These items will help restock the resource room, which logged over 1200 visits from families in need during 2010. O ccas i o nal ly, there will be an urgent need for items from the resource room, but the majority of its items are purchased with vouchers that the clients receive from attending parenting classes and participating
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It is our belief that if a woman facing an unexpected pregnancy decides to carry her baby to term rather than abortion, then we should do our best to encourage her in the journey of adoption or parenting.” in various skill building activities. The staff says, “The process of earning and learning does a lot for the self image of our ladies. When they work for what they receive, they not only gain knowledge, but also pride in themselves for the accomplishments they have made.” As the needs for clients grow, so does the demand for the services. Monetary donations can be made directly to PHC. All services are free to the clients. The Center receives a small faith-based grant each year, but the majority of the budget is provided by churches, businesses, and individuals. Each year, the PHC hosts their Denim & Diamond fundraising event. This event is open to the public and includes dinner, entertainment and an opportunity to financially support PHC. By supporting this organization, you can help meet the needs of hundreds of women and children in our area.
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The Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber Chamber of Commerce will host the Annual The Lufkin/ Angelina County Day Reception in Austin in honor of state officials, legislators, and agencies. Lufkin • Angelina County
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The reception will be held Thursday, February 10, 2011 from 5:30 p.m. until 7:30 p.m. at the Sheraton Austin Hotel at the Capitol, 701 East 11th Street, Austin, TX 78701. A buffet and beverages will be provided to attendees. Registration is now available – for more information go to The Chamber website at www.lufkintexas.org or contact Tony Moline at The Chamber. There will be opportunities to meet with key legislative and regulatory leaders, as well as network with other East Texans interested in government affairs. Lufkin/an geLina co econom ic DeveLo unty pment paRtneR SHip
We want to thank our sponsors for making this event possible. We would like to give special thanks to our Presenting Sponsor – Lufkin/Angelina County Economic Development; Gold Chamber Sponsors – City of Lufkin, Lufkin EconomicTheDevelopment, Memorial Health System of East Texas, and Temple-Inland; and our Silver Sponsors – Consolidated Communications, JE Kingham Construction Company, Langston Construction, Inc., Sudden Link Communications, and Zeleskey Law Firm; Bronze Sponsors – The Lufkin Daily News, Alexander, Lankford, & Hiers, Klotz Associates, Gibraltar Construction, Moore Brothers Construction Company, Oncor, Axley & Rode, American Enerpower, City of Huntington, Woodland Heights Lufkin • Ang
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Medical Center, Community Title, and Fenley & Bate; Media Sponsor – KTRE TV; Corporate Sponsor – Gann Medford Real Estate. If you plan to attend the reception or group meetings, please contact the Chamber at (936) 634-6644. For more information please visit our website at www.lufkintexas. org.
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February 26 – Angelina Beautiful/Clean Clay Shoot
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Join us for an update on our City and County. Our speakers will be Mayor Jack Gorden and County Judge Wes Suiter. Thank you to our 2011 First Friday Luncheon Presenting Sponsor - Lufkin Coca-Cola Bottling Company, our State of the City/County Luncheon Gold Sponsor - Lufkin/ Angelina County Economic Development Partnership; our Silver Sponsors - Klotz Associates, Inc and Kwik Kopy. Tickets will be $15 and can be reserved by calling 634.6644 or emailing cblack@lufkintexas.org.
a.m. - Chamber’s First Bank & Trust Community Room Join us for breakfast and networking! Thank you to our 2011 Power Networking Breakfast Sponsor: Planned Parenthood Gulf Coast and our February Sponsor: Woodland Heights Medical Center
Colony Country Club – 5:30 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. – 900 Crown Colony Dr. - Join us for drinks, fabulous food and wonderful door prizes.
Annual Angelina County Youth Fair – Expo Center Auction begins at 6:00 p.m. Friday, February 18, 2011. For a complete schedule and more information, call The Chamber at (936) 634-6644 or visit www.angelinacountyyouthfair.com.
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Nacogdoches Chamber of Commerce | yourcommunity Leadership Nacogdoches Class Project The 2010-11 LN class is planning to build the first bus stop shelter(s) for the city’s transit system. Call 936-652-7803 for donations and project information. Pictured: Representative Wayne Christian, Chamber Chair Francis Spruiell and Senator Robert Nichols at the Nacogdoches-SFA Days event planning meeting. (Photo by Bruce R. Partain)
Planning for Capitol visit The Chamber’s Government Affairs committee met with Sen. Robert Nichols and Rep. Wayne Christian to discuss Nacogdoches - SFA Days presented by Norbord Texas LP - February 16 and 17 in Austin . A reception for legislators, staff and agencies, hosted by the Chamber and SFA, will be held on February 16 from 5:30 to 7:30 pm at the Austin Omni Hotel Downtown. The community is invited to join the groups, and there are no charges for event admission. For more events, schedule and accommodation information, go to nacogdoches.org
Schedule of events for Nacogdoches-SFA Days Wednesday February 16, 2011 Session One: Briefing with elected officials in the Capitol. 2:00 -3:00 PM: Location: Capitol Extension Room E2.036 (note this room may change) Topics and Speakers include: Texas Legislative Budget Update - Senator Ken Armbrister: Legislative Director for Gov. Rick Perry
Thursday February 17, 2011 8:15 – 8:30 AM: Assemble at South capitol steps for group photo with elected officials. 8:30 AM: Group photo op with elected officials. 9:15 to 10:00 AM: Location: Capitol Extension Complex Room E2.036 (note this may change)
Texas Senate District 3 Update - Senator Robert Nichols
Topics and Speakers include:
Texas House District 9 Update - Representative Wayne Christian
Healthcare and Insurance Update - Kandice Sanaie , Texas Association of Business Higher Education Legislative Update - Dominic M. Chavez, Texas Higher Education Coordinating Board
5:30 – 7:30 PM: Reception: Omni Austin Hotel – Downtown, Location: 700 San Jacinto , Longhorn Room. Co-Hosts: Senator Robert Nichols , Representative Wayne Christian
10:45 AM: Assemble at 3rd Floor Rotunda – Capitol Bldg. to proceed to House Chamber gallery for public introductions. Will need to check to see if Senate will meet on Thursday, February 17. 10:45 – 11:30 AM: House gallery for public introductions/ recognitions by elected officials. Note: It is best to not bring extra items into the galleries.
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NOON: End of official program. Visit elected officials’ offices on your own.
Ribbon Cutting Celebrations
Nacogdoches Medical Center, The Imaging Center
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4932 North St. Contacts Operations: Manager Tina Krenek; Director of Medical Imaging and Cancer Center Miguel Garcia; and CEO Gary Stokes. 936-462-9909. New equipment and NMC ownership of imaging center.
2805 North St. , Ste. H, in Northpark Plaza. Contacts: Regina Gail, Trish Clayton-Holt, Debbie Clark and Donna Daniel, 1-877-732-6224 x.7, 409-392-8604, www.energyratesnow.com. New Chamber member and new business.
Chamber Events Feb. 10 - Ribbon Cutting – Xiomora Velazco, M.D., noon, April 4 - Agriculture Appreciation and Awareness 4800 N.E. Stallings Dr., Ste. 1500. (936) 715-9470. New Chamber member. Enjoy lunch and visiting with Dr. Velazco and staff.
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Feb. 23 - Ribbon Cutting – Nacogdoches Rotary Club, 4:30
p.m. at Hotel Fredonia. (936) 552-4909. Celebrating 100-year anniversary. Reception from 4 to 6:30 p.m.
May 6 - 14th Annual Blueberry Golf Bash presented by Jun. 11 - 21st annual Texas Blueberry Festival presented
by Brookshire Brothers. Vendor forms available at www. TexasBlueberryFestival.com.
Sept. 27 - 89th Annual Meeting and Membership Banquet Feb. 24 - Alive After Five hosted by Wells Fargo Advisors, presented by Andrews & Andrews Attorney at Law. LLC, 5:30 – 7 p.m., 1323 N. University Dr. Contacts: Wendy Buchanan, Geremy Anderson, Ann Moore, Sharla Covington and Bruce Mayberry II.
Feb. 25 - Fourth Friday Luncheon sponsored by CellularOne
More information on these and other community events can be found at nacogdoches.org. Post your event on the Chamber’s online Community Event Calendar.
of East Texas, noon – 1 p.m. at Hotel Fredonia.
Stay Connected www.Nacogdoches.org Browse the county’s best community event calendar and submit your events. Check the Hot News. Look for the Chamber Member Spotlight. Find links to the Chamber’s Twitter and Facebook pages, Shop Nac First, NacBlog and plus more! Or visit the Chamber, 2516 North Street , 8 a.m. to 5 p.m., Monday through Friday, or call 936-560-5533. tjmag.com / 23
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7(14, 21,28) Grief Share
5:30 every Monday. Held in the parlor of First Baptist Church Lufkin. Martha Chandler, Joy Rich and Barbara Mathis facilitate. The cost is only for the work book at $15.00. It is not necessary to pre-register. For more information, call 936 634-6253.
10 Fun After Dark Kids are invited to the Texas Forestry Museum to enjoy a campfire dinner and a night hike on the Urban Wildscape Trail behind the Texas Forestry Museum. This event is a free event for Kids’ Club members. Kids can join the Kids’Club at the event for just $5.00. 936-632-9535
12-13 Lamp-Lite Theatre presents “Nunsense”
All-Time Favorite Family Musical. LampLite Theatre is located at Old Tyler Road and Loop 224. Ph: 936-564-8300 http:// www.lamplitetheatre.org/ Adults: $15, Seniors $12 Student $8
12 Naturally Family Fun Day Gardening 101 for the Whole Family by Dawn Stover Meet in Room 110 in the SFA Agriculture Building, Wilson Drive on the Stephen F. Austin State University Campus. $10 per family 9-12 PM. For more information, call Kerry Lemon at 936-468-5586 or email sfagardens@sfasu.edu
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12-13 Millards Flea Market
Shaken Not Stirred Pre-Bond Party
Open Dawn to Dusk. 6020 North St Located on Hwy 59. Ph: 936-564-4490
6 to 9 p.m. Lufkin Civic Center, $25 per person. For reservations or more information, go to www. juniorleagueoflufkin.org and click on the Charity Ball link. All proceeds benefit the projects of the Junior League of Lufkin
12 Junior League of Lufkin 35th Annual Charity Ball 007 Theme. Prices started at $75 per person for non reserved seating. For reservations or more information, go to www.juniorleagueoflufkin.org or call Rebecca Brightwell at 936.639.2550 All proceeds benefit the projects of the Junior League of Lufkin
12 (19, 26) Movie Matinee Nacogdoches Public Library, Noon. Free popcorn and lemonade.
12 Farmers Market Shop local produce. 107 Pearl Street. 8:00 AM. For more information, call 936-559-2507 or log on! http://www. farmermktnac.blogspot.com
14 MOPS Carpenter’s Way Baptist Church All denominations Brunch and childcare provided 10 am - 12 pm
14-18 Polk Oil Presents the 62nd
Annual Angelina County Youth Fair Auction begins at 6:00 p.m. Friday, February 18, 2011 George H. Henderson, Jr. Exposition Center 1200 Ellen Trout Drive Lufkin, TX 75904
17 Pajama Story Time By Junior Forum at Nacogdoches Public Library at 6:00 p.m. 24 / The Journey -February 2011
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Lufkin Lanes. For more information, contact Tabitha Dixon Email: juniorachievement@consolidated. net Phone: 936-632-0490
19 Lego Club for kids and teens Nacogdoches Public Library 3:00-4:30 p.m.
19-20 Region V Jr. High Rodeo www.nacexpo.net Ph: 936-564-0849
19-20 Nacogdoches Trade Days Open Dawn to Dusk. Located on Loop 224 across from Foretravel, 1304 NW Stallings. Ph: 936-675-4099
19 Farmers Market Shop local produce. 107 Pearl Street. 8:00 a.m. For more information call 936-5592507 or log on! http://www.farmermktnac. blogspot.com
25 Pink Pearl PJ Party Diva Night with Elvis, Diboll Civic Center 7-11 $25 per ticket. All proceeds benefit American Cancer Society. For more information, call JoAnn at 936.635.0992 or Lisa at 936.829.1445
26 CBR Bull Bash Expo Center, Lufkin, Gates open at 6 PM. Tailgate Party with Miller Row from 6:30 to 7:30 PM 8:00 PM CBR Bull Riding Joe Nichols in concert immediately following Tickets are available at Cavenders in Lufkin or by calling 866-OKA-BULL
28 Dr. Seuss Birthday Party Nacogdoches Public Library, 6:30 p.m.
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Heart Fair 2011 Saturday, February 19 • 8 a.m. – 11 a.m. Lufkin Mall – Sears Court Admission is Free Everyone’s invited for a day filled with health screenings and information. To learn more, call Christie Maddux at (936) 637-8687. Free Screenings (for adults 18+) • Lipid Profile*
(including total cholesterol, triglycerides, HDL cholesterol & LDL cholesterol)
• Blood Pressure All testing will end at 11 a.m. In addition to the health information available, we will also offer a diabetes seminar at 10 a.m. in the Red Party Room (near the Sears Court). * For best results, please do not eat after midnight on Friday, February 18 until you have completed all testing.
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People are finding creative ways to combine exercise and fun to make a difference in the lives of those who are suffering from illnesses. Recently, Whitney Grunder held a Zumbathon with the help of KTRE, Livewell, Memorial Hospital, ABJ Studio and Zimmerman Communications. Around thirty ladies gathered at Livewell on Saturday, January 8, and danced for three hours. The twenty-five dollar participant fee benefited the Arthur Temple Sr. Regional Cancer Center in Lufkin, specifically local lung cancer patients. Four Zumba instructors led the group in dancing to fight cancer and handed out t-shirts and door prizes. Whitney Grunder teaches Zumba every Monday at 5:30 at Livewell and invites you to come try her class!
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On January 15, Connie Reeves, Sarah Vier, Amanda Calk, Rhonda Suarez and Jacqui Johnston volunteered their services to help raise money for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. Connie Reeves was contacted by the hospital to represent the Lufkin area in this event. Participants gathered from 5:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Affinity Center in Lufkin and participated in fitness activities like power pump, Zumba and yoga. All of the proceeds from the event benefited St Jude’s. At St. Jude, families never pay for the treatment not covered by insurance and no child is every denied treatment because of the family’s inability to pay. The operation cost of the hospital is provided primarily through public contributions. Connie Reeves owns and operates GET FIT! which offers a variety of classes available to the community. For more information, visit the Woodland Heights Affinity Center, 302 Medical Park Drive, Suite 103 or call 936-6747775.
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Walking through the journey of cancer with your child changes your life in more ways than anyone could ever imagine. Many of those ways make you a better person. Any parent knows that by nature parenting is the most self-sacrificing “job” there is. After we received the news that our otherwise healthy, happy 6 year old had a tumor in his brain, our lives became all about seeing that he was taken care of no matter what. In a flash we went from a typical family with small children and all the craziness that that entails to a family who had a critically ill child. Titus had three serious “migraine type” headaches from December 2009 through January 2010. Since migraines usually occur in the afternoon and he was waking with his, his pediatrician ordered an MRI; more to rule anything out than to find anything. In our wildest dreams, we would have never imagined that anything would be found, but we trusted our doctor and thankfully agreed to have it done. For the rest of my life, I will remember every detail of that day. When my alarm went off that morning, I reached to turn it off and my spirit immediately “heard” the verse Romans 8:28, “And we know that in all things GOD works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” It was so clearly spoken, that for the first time, I wondered if the news that we would find out that day would be more than what we were expecting to hear. Sure enough, the MRI revealed that he indeed had a tumor growing in his brain. The news hit us as though we had been tackled by an NFL linebacker at full speed. The doctor who delivered the news to us is a friend of ours who, after telling us, wrapped his arms around us and prayed. With our bodies numbed with shock, we left the room to get Titus from recovery and head to the Children’s Clinic for further instructions.
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Donnie, Titus, and Amy
From that moment and throughout Titus’ entire fight, GOD surrounded us with great support known as “Team Titus”. Family, friends, church family, and our community all began “thinking” for us and providing everything we needed, allowing us to focus solely on him. One of the members GOD knew we needed with us at the hospital that day was Terri Lee. Terri and her husband David heard the news that their son Carlton had cancer 5 years ago. He is now 5 years in remission. Their family has been a wonderful inspiration to us. As we walked out of our meeting with the doctor, Terri recognized the stunned look on our faces and helped us get through the next few hours as we left the hospital, went to the doctor’s office and then home to pack. A blur of activity followed : calling family to come in from Arkansas, getting packed, trying to remain calm in front of Titus and our two other children, Anna and Christian. Soon Donnie, Titus and I were headed to Texas Children’s Hospital
(TCH) still reeling from the morning’s events. When we arrived to TCH, we were taken to the ER to begin medical procedures and tests that we would become very familiar with in the next few months. After a few hours, the surgeon came in to examine Titus and he took us out to see an image of Titus’ brain. There in the center was the tumor. Seeing it on the screen made it real. He let us know there had been a cancellation and they would operate the next morning. I excused myself and was alone in a small room for the first time since that morning. I called my mom who was traveling with Donnie’s mom and we cried and cried. The sweet people at TCH kept poking their heads in and asking if I needed a chaplain. I wanted to scream, “My husband is a chaplain for crying out loud! This is not supposed to happen!” After a while, I composed myself and went back in to be with Donnie and Titus. There was no sleep to be had that night. They moved us to a room and our friends
and family started coming in. As others nodded off, I climbed into bed with Titus and held him, looking at this little head. How could life change so quickly? How could he go from playing basketball with his best friend over the weekend to lying in a hospital waiting for brain surgery the next day? I had no idea what the day would hold, but I wouldn’t waste time sleeping through the last hours that I had of my baby being the way that he was. The next morning, a song flooded my soul as I was getting ready. “You are GOD alone, from before time began. You are on the throne. You are GOD alone.” It was evident to me and Donnie that people were on their knees for us. Our hearts were in agony, but we had peace.
another inspiring mother from our area. Her name is Leslie Nichols. Leslie was there for a follow up visit with her daughter Lexi who is in remission after battling leukemia. Even though we did not know that Titus had cancer at that point, Leslie inspired me with the look on her face as
to the brain stem, (answered prayer!) but by looking at it he was pretty sure it was Medulloblastoma. A pathology report would later confirm this. We were told that after this surgery some patients unexplainably don’t talk for quite some time. We didn’t know what to expect as we entered the recovery room. Titus was asleep with his hair messed up and the back of his head shaved like he had done it himself. A huge scar was there with a tube protruding from his head to drain the extra fluid on the brain. Even so, he was one of the most beautiful sights we had seen. He roused and said, “My head hurts.” He talked! Another prayer had been answered.
I had no idea what the day would hold, but I wouldn’t waste time sleeping through the last hours that I had of my baby being the way that he was.
The surgeon came in, explained the surgery, and wheeled our precious baby away. We were so blessed to be surrounded by family and friends who spent time praying with us and for us. Many people who couldn’t be there were sending scriptures and letting us know they were praying for our boy. While waiting, I was introduced by a mutual friend to
she told me that although their journey would not have been one she would have chosen, it was a journey full of unexpected blessings. Knowing we had a battle ahead of us, it was a blessing to be encouraged by a mother who had just come through a battle of her own. The surgery was expected to take eight hours, but they were finished in only three. An answered prayer! The surgeon reported that everything had gone well, and he was fairly sure he had gotten all of it. It had not become attached
Titus recovered from surgery and walked out of the hospital one week later. After spending a few weeks at home we began his rigorous treatment protocol. In March, he endured proton radiation treatments five days a week for six weeks. After finishing we came home and enjoyed six weeks of rest. Then, because of the intensity of his chemotherapy protocol, the doctors wanted us to live close to the hospital. In May, Titus and I said good bye to our home in Lufkin for an entire four months. One week out of every month we checked into the hospital for his high-dose Continued pg. 32
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| yourcommunity p r e c i o u s Cadence went to be with Jesus. As I have kept up with Lindsey (mostly through Facebook) it is evident that she has allowed Cadence’s journey to impact her life in such a positive way. She is leaning on the Lord and looking forward to that day she gets to see her sweet girl again. In a perfect world, there would be no
“if we trust the Lord and lean on Him for strength that He will enable us to endure. We may not understand, but we trust.” to check back in as his body would spike a fever which can be very dangerous with such low white blood cells. The bone marrow transplant unit where we were placed for Titus’ chemotherapy is a very isolated place. Despite that, we were blessed to meet many wonderful families and hear many inspiring stories--one of which involved yet another family from our area, the Simmons. Lindsey and Colt were an inspiration to us as we learned that they had been fighting Cadence’s leukemia for over half of her life. Shortly after turning 5 years old last November,
cancer, but we don’t live in a world like that. Cancer is a fact of life in this sinful, fallen world. None of us are immune to it. Shortly after Titus’s surgery, the Lord reminded me of the time that we had dedicated Titus to Him. That day we prayed for him, and in that prayer, we gave him back to the One who gave him to us. If I truly meant that prayer, then that means I must place my trust in the Lord. His plans are certainly different than any plans that I had in my heart for Titus. Donnie and I have learned that if we trust the Lord and lean on Him for strength,
He will enable us to endure. We may not understand, but we trust. I believe with all my heart the verse that was whispered in my spirit the morning it all began: God works it all out for good. After four long, hard months away, we were welcomed home in September of 2010. We have settled back into living life with our “new normal”. Titus is back at school, staying only half a day. It will be a few months before his strength returns. We will return to TCH for follow-up tests every three months for two years to make sure that his cancer is still in remission. I Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts acknowledge Christ as the holy Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” There were so many changes that occurred in our family this year, so many great lessons learned. One thing that we were reminded of every day of the journey is that our hope is in the Lord. We do hope that the medicine will have done it’s job, we do hope that every time we go back for an MRI and spinal tap that it is clear, we do hope that we get to see all of our children grow up and become what GOD made them to be, but most of all, above all, our hope is in the Lord and we trust in Him.
“But in your hearts acknowledge Christ as the holy Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” - I Peter 3:15 32 / The Journey -February 2011
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Dear Dr. Feelgood, It’s Valentines and once again I fear what my husband is going to get me. Last year I opened up an electronic bird feeder and a new extension cord. Am I being selfish to wish for something more romantic? - Married mom on Grove Street Dear “Married mom”, Eight years ago I opened up a “poncho” and needless to say, unwrapping a gift in my house has never been the same. It looked just like something Ugly Betty would have worn. So what do I do now? I make a list. That’s right. I have a running list on my computer called “Things I Want And Am Going To Need,” that I add to and take away from whenever the gifts on said list are received from my beloved. The list started off with 13 items. It now has 124. He has yet to go by the list, read the list, pray over the list or buy anything off of the list. I still email it to him quarterly because I’m a dreamer. Even though there are 124 things he could surprise me with on this Valentine’s Day, I’ll still act shocked when I open up the turtleneck that goes under that poncho. Dear Dr. Feelgood, My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and this Valentines I’m hoping for a ring! Am I getting my hopes up for nothing? - “Waiting” while waiting at Chili’s Well “Waiting,” before you get your hopes up, let’s ask ourselves some questions. 1. Has he been acting nervous recently, like he has a huge secret that he doesn’t quite know what to do with? 2. Has he been getting picked on a lot by his friends? (For instance, when you walk out of a room do they slap him on the back and oh-so subtly say, “Hope you like the view because you’re gonna be staring at it for the next one million years!”) 3. Has he been overly concerned about his finances? Does he always suggest you 38 / The Journey -February 2011
split a meal? When you walk by a nice dress at Macy’s does he say things like, “Look, but don’t touch, babe.” If so, the man is in the process of purchasing you a ring. He knows it. His friends know it. His banker knows it. So congrats! If he has done none of these things, then I’m sure you’ll look great in a poncho. Dear Dr. Feelgood, My husband and I have been married for over 15 years. What constitutes romance anymore? – Still married, after all these years. Dear “Still Married…” let me tell you about the last date the Attorney General and I went on. He took me to a movie, it was the early showing because we were afraid we couldn’t stay up for the late one. He asked me if I wanted popcorn like this, “You aren’t going to want popcorn are you?” Later we went to Outback where we split a meal because he was afraid he was going to get heartburn and I had just eaten a bucket of popcorn the size of my head. During dinner we talked about how tired we were but that we still had to go pick up dog food at Wal-Mart. Then we went home. But amidst the heartburn and indigestion, the dog-food and the 2oz. steak we spent absolutely no time with our kids. No one spilled a drink on me or said, “Ewww gross, daddy just kissed mommy and she liked it.” It was just us. And it was nice. He held my hand during the movie, opened every door, and later that night after we got home….we fell sound asleep to Conan. And after 17 years together, that, my friend, is romance. Melissa Lee recently moved back to her hometown of Lufkin after living in Nashville for 15 years as a studio session singer. She uses her maiden name as to not mortify her husband on a daily basis. Together they have two kids, Remi and Rocco, who they adore but will admit – are pretty bad. She spends her weekends traveling and speaking to women’s groups, writing or leading in worship at her church. She is constantly astounded at the sweetness of God, the goodness of her husband and the friendship of her mother. She can’t say “no” to a Channing Tatum movie or a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup.
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Patricia Aguilar Raul Chong Julio and Martha Aguilar of Lufkin announce the engagement of their daughter, Patricia Aguilar, to Raul Chong of Dallas, son of Fernando and Juanita Chong of Lufkin. The wedding is planned for 2:00 pm, Saturday, April 30, 2011 at St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in Lufkin.
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Betsy Lock has been teaching school for twenty six years and twenty four of them have been with Central Heights Independent School District. She earned her Bachelor of Elementary Education and her Master of Education from Stephen F. Austin State University. She enjoys working with children and has a passion for providing her students with love, knowledge and positive reinforcement. Lock explains, “My biggest challenge is keeping all of my students’ attention one hundred percent of the time and keeping them engaged and on task. God has graciously given me the patience to handle this immense task.” She loves watching children as they learn to read for the first time. Mrs. Lock works hard to understand the learning needs and capabilities of each of her students, designing lessons that are flexible enough to meet the needs of individual students and the class as a whole. Of her planning, Lock says, “I draw from my education, twentysix years of experience, the expertise of others to help me understand how to communicate with my students, motivate them, and teach them so they can pursue and achieve academic excellence.”
Mrs. Lock works hard to understand the learning needs and capabilities of each of her students, designing lessons that are flexible enough to meet the needs of individual students and the class as a whole. She has watched many of her former students grow through the years and become accomplished adults. This year, she 40 / The Journey -February 2011
has a third generation student. She taught her mother in kindergarten and fourth grade and coached her grandmother. She also has a colleague that was a former student. One of the things she loves about Central Heights is the stateof-the-art technology provided to the teachers and students. Her favorite technological gadget is the Smart Board. This amazing tool engages students in fun and educational activities from a daily manipulative attendance board to reading practice and learning games. Her classroom is also equipped with IPADS to assist students in learning reading and math. Computers also help with teaching across the entire curriculum. These tools help keep her job interesting and create an exciting learning environment for students. Mrs. Lock adds, “Yes, old dogs can learn new tricks.” When she is not teaching, Betsy enjoys reading and coaching her own children and other students in sports. You can always find her at Central Heights sporting events. She also values spending time with her husband of twentyfive years, John Lock, and their two children, Cody and Katy.
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Cholesterolin the Blood
Health
By Dr. Hernandez
Facts about cholesterol: Cholesterol is a fat-like, waxy substance that can be found in all parts of your body. It aids in the production of cell membranes, some hormones and vitamin D.
What is HDL? This type of cholesterol is known as the “good” cholesterol, and is a type of fat in the blood that helps to remove cholesterol from the blood, preventing the fatty build up and formation of plague.
The cholesterol in your blood comes from two sources: the food you eat and your liver. However, your liver makes all of the cholesterol your body needs. Cholesterol and other fats are transported in your blood stream in the form of spherical particles called lipoproteins. The two most commonly known lipoproteins are low-density lipoproteins (LDL) and high density lipoproteins (HDL).
You can raise HDL by •
Exercising 20 minutes three times a week
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Kicking the cigarette habit
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Avoiding saturated fat intake
What is LDL? This type of cholesterol is commonly known as the “bad” cholesterol. It can contribute to the formation of plaque buildup in the arteries.
What is a healthy blood cholesterol level? High blood cholesterol is a significant risk factor in heart disease. Lowering blood cholesterol through increased physical activity, weight loss, smoking cessation and proper diet lowers that
risk. However, blood cholesterol is very specific to each individual and, for that reason, a full lipid profile is an important part of your medical information.
What treatments are available for high cholesterol? Medical treatment may include: 1. Modification of risk factors – risk factors that can be changed include lack of exercise and poor dietary habits.
2. Cholesterol lowering medications medications used to lower lipids (fats) in the blood, particularly LDL.
Dr. Hernandez has been a member of the American Medical Association and the American College of Physicians since 2008. He is Board Certified in Internal Medicine. For more information contact (936) 634-7225. Se Habla Espanol. tjmag.com / 43
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How to Choose A
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by Stacey Paige
As you navigate the financial world, you’ll most likely deal with a wide array of investment choices, constantly changing tax laws, estate-planning issues and other areas. And then, to make things even more complex, you’ll have to consider your own risk tolerance, time horizon and individual goals. If you’re like most people, you don’t have the time and expertise
to create, monitor and adjust your investment strategy by yourself, so you’ll need to get some help. But how can you choose a financial professional who is right for you?
Do you have experience working with people like me? Ideally, you’d like to work with someone
Will you be my primary contact? If you seek a one-on-one relationship with a financial professional, you’ll want that person to be your main contact, if not your exclusive one. You deserve the attention and expertise of a financial professional, so if you’re interviewing someone who seems as if he or she might try to “pass you along” to subordinates in the office, keep looking.
Do you have a particular investment philosophy? Look for someone with a thoughtful,
What services do you offer? If you want your
who has experience in helping people like you — that is, people with similar income and asset levels, family situations, goals and so on. The more familiar a financial professional is with people like you, the better that person will be at helping you identify the appropriate investment moves.
reasoned philosophy on investing. As a general rule, be suspicious of anyone promising you big, quick gains. The best financial professionals seek to help their clients achieve positive long-term results through disciplined, persistent and sensible investment moves.
How often will you communicate with me? If
you’re going to entrust your hard-earned financial resources with someone, you’ll want that person to communicate with you regularly as to how you’re doing and what changes you may need to make. How often will you receive investment statements? How many times a year will you meet to review your progress? Can you have face-to-face consultations whenever you need them? These are the types of questions you’ll want to ask any prospective financial advisor.
You’ll need to do some research, possibly by interviewing a few candidates. Here are a few questions you may want to ask:
financial professional to help you create a unified investment strategy, you’ll also want that person to help you implement it — which means he or she needs access to a full range of investment and money management products and services.
How are you paid? Financial professionals are compensated in any of a number of ways. They may work strictly on commissions, or they may work on a fee-only basis, with the fee either agreed upon in advance or based on the level of assets under management. And some financial professionals work in a combined fee-and-commission arrangement. From an investor’s point of view, one method of compensation may not be “better” than the others; nonetheless, it’s important for you to fully understand how your financial advisor will be paid.
By doing your homework in advance, you can develop a solid relationship with a qualified financial professional — someone who will be with you far into the future. Stacey Paige, Financial Advisor with Edward Jones is located at 321 S. First Street in Lufkin. You may call 936-634-6116 or 800569-9777 to schedule an appointment with Stacey to discuss your financial goals, review your current portfolio or answer any of your financial questions. http://www.edwardjones.com/ 44 / The Journey -February 2011
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Enjoy Your Skin
Skin care should change as you age. Your skin changes due to variances such as environment, lifestyle, heredity, hormones, and age and you need to make adjustments in your skin care regimen to provide the best possible care for your skin. There are a few things you should know how to properly care for your skin type and age if you want to maintain a youthful appearance, prevent possible further damage or reverse any damage that has already happened. Here are a few things one can expect:
Twenties
Skin begins to settle down after the hormonal upheaval of teenage years, although oil production may still be relatively high. In the latter part of your twenties, you may experience a gradual shift towards dryness and you may even notice the first fan of fine lines forming around the mouth. The epidermis renews itself every 28-30 days, although changes are taking place beneath this layer of skin and will reveal themselves when you least expect it. Smokers may see the beginning of the fine lines near the eyes and mouth. If you’re a squinter, you may see crow’s feet and small furrows on your forehead. Habitual tanners may start to notice brown splotches and an increase of freckles.
Recommended skin care regimen Foaming gel cleanser prescribed to your specific skin type; freshening toner; exfoliation no more than a couple times a week; appropriate masque; appropriate serum; eye cream; lightweight or oil free moisturizer with a minimum SPF of 15; regular facials
Thirties
More fine lines develop as your collagen and elastin start to break down and your delicate skin under your eyes begins to thin. You may likely have “combination skin” that’s only in the T-zone (across the forehead and down the nose and chin) and dry everywhere else. Broken veins may start to show up as tiny red dots. Towards the end of this decade “sun spots” or brown pigmentation may appear. Laugh lines, frown lines, and crow’s feet become more prominent. Even sleep starts to effect the way you look. The lines from your nose to mouth will run deeper on the side you sleep on. Under eye puffiness may become a problem as well.
at Any Age
Recommended regimen: Gel or creamy cleanser; gentle freshening toner; exfoliation at least once a week; appropriate serum; hydrating or firming masque; light moisturizer with a minimum SPF of 15; antiaging eye cream; regular facials
Forties
At this age, you may notice deeper lines etching around the mouth and eyes, furrows on the forehead, and circles under the eyes may grow into pouches. You may notice that your skin is noticeably drier. In the run-up to menopause and during this phase, your skin may also become more sensitive. Skin loses its resilience, due to further breakdown of collagen and elastin and does not rebound as quickly.
Recommended regimen: Creamy cleanser; freshener; exfoliate once a week; appropriate serum; hydrating, firming, or multivitamin masque; richer moisturizer with minimum SPF 15; anti-aging night cream; anti-aging eye cream; regular facials
Fifties, plus
Patches of pigmentation on your skin are likely to appear. You may notice age spots. This can occur on your face, chest, arms, and the back of your hands. You may notice an increase of pore size. This happens because when your skin loosens and the opening of your pores becomes more pronounced. Your skin becomes flakey and more wrinkles are apparent by now. Your skin is more dehydrated, and collagen and elastin are now weak and unsupportive to the skin cells. Eyelids become hooded and wrinkled.
Recommended regimen: Creamy anti-aging cleanser; freshener; exfoliation; appropriate serum; hydrating, firming, multivitamin masque; Heavy moisturizer with SPF 15; anti-aging night cream; anti aging eye cream; regular facials Everyone’s skin is different. You should see a licensed skin care professional to determine your skin type and recommend the proper protocol for your best outcome.
Stella has been a resident of Lufkin for 29 years. She graduated from Champions Beauty & Massage School in Houston, Texas in 2008. Dr. Charles Evans and Stella recently teamed together at Esteem Medical Spa. She has two years experience in aesthetics and previously worked as an aesthetician at Studio 319. 46 / The Journey -February 2011
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Being a mother is difficult, but being a mother of a preschooler can sometimes seem downright impossible. This group of ladies is doing what they can to make sure that no mother feels that she is doing her job alone. Mothers of Preschoolers, MOPS, is a national organization that has a local chapter in Lufkin. This non-denominational group meets the second Monday of each month at Carpenter’s Way church to encourage and support each other in the journey of motherhood. During the month of December, the mothers wanted to reach out to other moms who were hurting. Several of the ladies from the group have had children who, for various reasons, have spent time at Texas Children’s Hospital. Their personal experiences led the local MOPS chapter to put together care bags for mothers who would be spending Christmas in the hospital. The ladies packed over 40 bags that included items to help them feel pampered and loved during the season. Each meeting is from ten to noon, and every mother of a preschooler is invited to join the group. The next meeting will be February 14, and the ladies of MOPS welcome mothers to join them!
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Fuel for Fitness
Whether you’re a serious fitness buff or trying to get a little more physical activity, you need to make sure your body has the fuel it needs to keep you going. Protein, Omega-3s and vitamins D and B12 go a long way toward boosting your workout, and can all come from one delicious little source – the egg. It’s easy to fuel up for fitness by incorporating Eggland’s Best, America’s No.1 branded eggs, into a healthy diet.
Protein
Vitamins D and B12
The body needs protein for energy and muscle development, especially during exercise, but not all proteins are alike. The proteins in foods and in the body are made up of 20 different amino acids. Nine of these amino acids are considered essential – which means that your body doesn’t make them on its own, so you need to get them from food. The proteins in eggs are considered complete proteins – eggs can supply all the essential amino acids, replenishing those used during exercise.
Vitamin D helps the body absorb calcium, which is critical to maintaining strong bones and muscle strength. It is also important for body tissue health and maintaining healthy body fat levels. Vitamin B12 is important for healthy protein metabolism, as well as cardiovascular and nervous system health. It is also needed to convert carbohydrates, fats and proteins from food into energy.
Omega-3s Research indicates that Omega-3s may play an important role in maintaining cardiovascular health by lowering serum cholesterol, triglyceride and low density lipoprotein levels. They are also reported to be beneficial for brain and eye function, and a healthy immune system.
Protein, Omega-3s and vitamins D and B12 go a long way toward boosting your workout, and can all come from one delicious little source –
the egg.
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Imagine the horror I felt after discovering my fifth grade son Charles was asked to record a diary of the foods he had eaten the day before in Cathy Friesen’s homeroom class. You see, the night before he had football practice, we were in a hurry, and we ate on the run. Nachos were recorded in his diary for dinner, with a root beer - and, I’m a registered dietitian! I have come to terms with the fact that I’m not perfect when it comes to providing nutritious meals to my kids. I can only tell you, we do the best we can. Our sons know I am a registered dietitian and my viewpoint on food, but they are normal kids who ask for regular chips in their lunch boxes instead of baked chips, juice boxes or soda instead of water and candy instead of fruit. Although I don’t give in most of the time, sometimes life just happens and I do the best I can. No one expects parents or caregivers to be perfect, the point is to make sure your children are eating right most days-making allowances for those days when we just can’t plan ahead or when we decide NOT to fight a nutrition battle. The “on the run” days can provide teachable nutrition moments when we can talk with our kids about balance and moderation. Here are a few tips to help you to raise healthy and well-balanced eaters:
Try to limit fast food to once a week. Fast food is usually
Eaters
only make them more irresistible – raising the importance of certain foods. This can confuse a child’s internal hunger and fullness cues, leading them to eat for comfort, even when they’re not hungry. (Most parents are guilty of this one because we eat for comfort, too!)
by Amy McLeod
It may take an average of 15 times of offering a food before your child will try it or eat it – avoid labeling your child as disliking something. Just keep offering it.
Turn off the TV during When dealing with food jags mealtimes – it keeps children - when a child will only eat one or two
and the rest of the family from eating mindfully.
foods for weeks at a time – remember, this too shall pass.
Eat with your children. Make it easy for children to Include your child in family meals. Try make healthy food choices. not to feed your kids separately from the adults. Eating is a social activity and family meals are where children learn table manners and social skills associated with eating together. Don’t miss the opportunity to reconnect with your family with a relaxing family meal.
Place prepared fresh fruits and vegetables in an easily accessible spot in the fridge. Keep whole grain crackers, pretzels and popcorn available for quick snacks.
Finally, be a good role model Let your child decide how for your child by developing own healthy habits. much to eat. You decide what your Eat breakfast, eat your vegetables, and and when to offer food. Children are better able to regulate their own food intake when parents are less controlling about it. Children eat what they need, if allowed to do so.
watch your portion sizes.
Great resources to help your child develop healthy eating habits by Registered Dietitian Ellyn Satter include: Child of Mine: Feeding with Love and Good Sense How to Get Your Child to Eat . . . But Not Too Much
loaded with calories, fat and sodium. It’s much easier for kids to make healthy choices when they are offered them at home and not in a fast food drive-thru. Never use food (particularly sweets/ desserts) as a reward or bribe – it will
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Amy McLeod, RD, LD, is a registered dietitian and Healthy Living Spokeswoman for Brookshire Brothers Food and Pharmacy.
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Cullen Brantner
Jeff and Tiffani Brantner are the proud parents of Cullen. Cullen’s nursery is a showcase of everything boy with a masculine color scheme of browns, greens, and blues. Cullen is sure to feel the love of his family as he is surrounded by many portraits and candid photos of his family. Books and toys are located near the rocking chair so that mom and baby can play, and these will be easily accessible for Cullen as he enters the toddler years.
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The staff at Nacogdoches Public Library love for the community to enjoy their vast selection of books and other media, but they also want people to think of the library for more than those traditional offerings. The Lego club is one of those things you might not think of finding in the library, but children are welcome to come and enjoy all that it offers. The group began meeting last August, and by the second meeting, there were over thirty people participating. The Friends of the Nacogdoches Public Library were generous in helping the group get started and now they have hundreds of Legos. When children come to Lego club, they can expect to find Legos of all shapes and sizes at many different stations. The
children choose a station and begin working. There are no rules as to how the creation is designed. Participants borrow from each other or take from the extra pieces in the center of the room. Parents are invited to help their children with their creations or relax with magazines provided by the library. Children age five to seventeen are invited to participate at each month’s meeting. The club gathers from 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. The Lego Club has been one of the library’s most successful programs, with a mix of children of all ages, both boys and girls. You don’t have to be a Lego expert to come join the fun. It’s a great place for kids to make friends and to allows parents to get to know each other. Children cooperate with each other to
Upcoming Lego Club Meetings February 19, March 26, April 16, and May 21. We will continue through the summer with dates to be announced.
Upcoming activities for your children at the Nacogdoches Public Library Preschoolers Story Time on Wednesdays at 10:00 a.m. Spanish Story Time on Mondays at 6:30 p.m.
make interesting designs and you will even find them giving each other tips or helping put a particular piece in a tricky area. While you are there, you can check out some great books, too!
Dr. Seuss Birthday Party on Monday, February 28th at 6:00 p.m. Junior Forum’s Pajama Story Time throughout the school year. Next event is February 17th at 6:00 p.m. AfricanAmerican Heritage Celebration, February 24th, 6:00-7:30 p.m. Gwendolyn Zepeda, author visit on April 28th at 6:00 p.m. Children’s Summer Reading Club & Programs throughout the summer. Teen Summer Reading Club & Programs throughout the summer.
Does your child have a craft, hobby, or interest that they would like to share with other kids their age? Tell us about it by emailing us at editor@tjmag.com. Your child might be featured in a future issue of The Journey!
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Big 12 Party! Kole, Haley & Kyle
The Big 12 was a joint 12th birthday party for Kyle Roper, Kole Stubblefield, and Haley Carlile. The great party idea was the brain child of their moms, Angie Roper, Lisa Stubblefield, and Whitney Carlile. Their three children share a lot of the same friends and all three had birthdays very close to each other, so they decided to throw a joint birthday for guys
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and girls. With all three children turning 12 in the middle of football season, “The Big 12” was the perfect theme! The guests of honor all had “official” jerseys with the number 12. Many of the party guests wore “spirit” shirts featuring teams of their choice. Partygoers were split into teams of two for a competitive flag football game. According to their moms, the party was easy and fun. “For the food we had stadium food--Nachos,” said Whitney Carlile, “and for the drinksGatorade, of course!”
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Growing up I envisioned my life following many paths, and, while I knew children would be a part of my future, they were not at the forefront of my thoughts. But then my whole life changed the moment I had my first precious baby, Reed. Immediately I fell in love and wanted more of these remarkable gifts from God. Two years later (to the month), Lauren was born and then 18 months later (to the day), we had Julia. It was not easy having three children in 3 ½ years. The bottles and diapers led to toddlerhood and temper tantrums. As the kids grew and elementary school led to junior high I thought life would get easier, but it hasn’t! We are just busy in different ways. Between church, school, basketball, dance, archery, UIL, tumbling, DI, etc., it is not always easy being mom to Reed, 14, Lauren, 12, and Julia, 10. But it is a blessing. To be a happy mom you have to find pleasure in the moment. Life is always hectic and often stressful! There are actually many things in their early years that I simply don’t remember. Surviving those early years on very little sleep left me foggy. The best moment always seemed to be the last pat on the head and kiss on the cheek just after they fell asleep! But as you struggle to ensure you don’t miss anything or they don’t miss out on anything, it’s the small moments you cherish and that make all the hard work worthwhile. I remember Reed sitting in the outfield watching everything but the T-ball game he was supposed to be participating in. I remember the moment Jeff, my husband, had to run the bases holding Lauren’s hand at her first T-ball game because she was too scared. I
also remember her cute pink batting helmet with her pony tail out the back! And some of my favorite moments are of Julia going to school with me to pick up her big brother and sister dressed in her pink pointy princess hat, clip-on white earrings, and plastic dress up shoes. She was a favorite sight of all the teachers and parents! Now it’s the blocked shots in basketball, round-off back hand springs in tumbling, and bulls eyes in archery that stick in my memory and make me smile. Over the years we have had lots of opportunities for lots of moments! My life is a blur of meals, laundry, homework, and taxiing children amid all the practices, games, competitions, and tournaments. But I love the moments and the memories, the smiles and the thank yous. Being a mom is my identity even though I wear many, many hats. It is certainly the hardest thing I have ever done because I feel the responsibility of raising three little people to be happy, confident, successful human beings. Like all moms, I second guess myself constantly hoping I am doing things right. But when my daughter tells me she wants to grow up and be a mom just like me, my heart melts and I know: just being there and doing my best is all that is required. Those moments are the reward of being Reed, Lauren, and Julia’s mom!
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