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Contents December 2010

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Home Tour: Trey and Kristi Golden Landmarks: Heritage Antiques At Home: Christmas Decor In the Kitchen: Whole Food Choices Landscaping: Selection and Care of Fresh Christmas Trees

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yourcommunity 21 Hot Spot: Evening in Old Bethlehem Business Spotlight: Dr. Carolyn M. Moyers. Community Connections: Jennifer Stevens Lufkin Chamber of Commerce Nacogdoches Chamber of Commerce Calendar Giving Back: Love, INC. Inspiring Women: Margie and Claire Brody Holiday Gift Guide

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yourlife 46 Suzy Lou Comic Hall of Fame Hubbies Pretty Babies Stretch Marks: And His Name Shall be Called Weddings Relationships: Christmas - ‘Tis the Season for Giving’ Feature Teacher: Laura Mikeal Finance 101: Smart Financial Moves Can Help Brighten the Holiday Season Girl’s Group: Book Club

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yourbody 61 Fashion: The Fundamentals of a Perfect Closet Beauty: Brazilian Blowout Women’s Health: Boosters for Boomers Fitness: What is Right for You

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yourchild 69 Ask the Doc: Flu Shot Child’s Play: The Ellis Family Kids Konnect Treats and Eats: Christmas Treats Birthday Bash: Safari Adventure and Dinosaur Dig Why I Love Being a Mom Review Parting Advice

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journeymarket 78 Stephanie Oliver President Beth Stokes Managing Editor

Daryl Sparks Graphic Designer Lisa Crow Eve n t P h o to g ra p h e r

Michelle Briley Director of Sales

Jennifer Williams Copy Editor

Kay Hendricks Acco u n t Exe c u t i ve Michelle Haney Layout and Design

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Contributors Elaine Cameron S u z y Lo u C h i l d e rs Donavan Dickeson D r. C r i s t i n a G r a v e s Kathryn Greene C . D o y l e H a y n e s , M . D. A n n a Le e M e l i s s a Le e Kelley Moore Lo r i M o r r i s S t a c e y Pa i g e Tim Scallon

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Welcome

The month is finally here--not so much that it is Christmas time, but more so that the year flew by and this month officially marks that another year will pass us by. That is more stress for me than all the rush and busyness of the holiday season. Whew! Let’s keep moving and I will type this faster, so I can get back to all of my to do’s before this year is over! What another fun issue! I am so amazed at how many people are in the Christmas spirit and get things together so early. Thanks to all of those wonderful people we have a fabulous issue to bring you! All the lights, glitter, and ribbon adds to the excitement of this time of year. The kids start getting excited and asking questions and soon start to remind themselves that they have to be on their best behavior. If only that mindset worked year around! One great thing is that so many we worked with to plan this issue all helped keep the upcoming holiday season in perspective. The gifts, the trees, the wrapping— so many things can get you distracted and keep you from the real reason of Christmas- Christ’s birth. Without His birth so much of our time, our lives, the year that will soon pass us by is pointless. Because of His birth we truly have a reason to celebrate this Christmas season. This December, slow down enough to make that a priority and a priority to teach your children and be able to share the real celebration with others who do not know. Happy Birthday Jesus!

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Welcome Beth Johnson to The Journey! We are excited to have a new managing editor on board—Beth Johnson. Many of you may already know her since she was born and raised in Lufkin. She has been married to Philip for ten years and they have two daughters, Sarah Kate, 2, and Julia, 5 months. She has a Bachelor and Masters degree from SFA and worked for LISD for seven years before staying home. In her spare time she enjoys spending time with family and friends, reading and shopping. The Johnson’s are active in their church, Harmony Hill.

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Your Home

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The home of Trey and Kristi Golden is a warm and welcoming haven for their family. The Wayland family built the home over thirty years ago. Located in Brookhollow subdivision, this French Provencal style home is full of character. The home is three bedroom and two baths. The dining room and butlerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s pantry are great amenities for enjoying company. The newly renovated kitchen offers commercial-grade appliances and wonderful space for gathering. Just off of the kitchen is the spacious living area. The large floor to ceiling windows help bring the outside in, leading out to a quaint patio that is great for outdoor entertaining. The Goldenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s enjoy sharing their home to entertain family and friends, especially around the Christmas holidays.

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Trey & Kristi Golden

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Decorating Your Tree

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by Donovan Dickeson

All of the Christmas decorations have been pulled out; now where do you begin? Decorating a tree can be an overwhelming task. Donovan Dickeson, owner of Donovanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s in downtown Henderson, has some practical advice for trimming your tree.

Step 1:

Decorate from the inside out.

Step 2:

Weave the ribbon.

Once your tree is fluffed and ready to be decorated, start working the inside at the base of the tree. Choose a floral pick, such as berries or leaves, to use throughout the entire tree. Secure the picks onto the tree by twisting two unlit tree needles like pipe cleaners around the stem of the pick. Make sure all of your picks extend four to six inches away from the end of the tree branch. The extended picks will provide places to hang your ornaments away from the body of the tree, thus creating a threedimensional effect. For a tree topper, take the same picks used throughout the entire tree and place them coming out of the top.

Choose a ribbon that will complement the colors in your tree. Plaids are great to use, because they generally have all of the primary colors in them and will compliment most traditional family trees. If you are decorating a seven and a half foot tree, you will need at least six streamers of ribbon that measure around ten feet each. Normally, Christmas ribbon is sold in ten yard bolts, so you will need two of them to wrap your tree. Take one streamer and start at the top of the tree. Weave it in and out of the branches until you reach the base. Continued on pg 14

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Step 3:

Place your ornaments on the tree.

Some people love to do theme trees, where all of the ornaments are a similar color and style. However, many people have family ornaments that have been collected over the years. If you are decorating one of these trees, select at least twenty–four common ornaments that are generic enough to match your family’s collection. Any similar colored ball, finial or prism that also compliments your ribbon will work. Spread these similar ornaments throughout your tree, and finish with your varied ornament collection.

Storing your Christmas tree: Once you open your artificial Christmas tree, throw away the box. Chances are you’ll never get it back in there. Refrigerator boxes work well for storing your tree. Many of the new Christmas trees are made of PVC, a form of plastic. The older artificial trees are made of silk. If your tree has any silk in it, you should keep it in climate controlled storage. The heat does not affect those made of PVC.

Donovan’s is located in downtown Henderson, Texas. Travel to Henderson on 259 North. The store is located at 112 East Main. The store is open Monday through Friday from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. During the holiday season, they will be open on Saturdays. It’s only a short drive to experience this exquisite holiday tree display. You are sure to find some wonderful ideas. 14 / The Journey - December 2010

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In the Kitchen | yourhome Whole Food Choices

By Tim Scallon, M.S. R.D. L.D.

Do you ever feel rushed in the morning? Run out the door, no breakfast, maybe a coffee with sugar or “the white stuff.” Ever wonder what’s in that white stuff? Coffee creamer contains corn syrup solids - a refined sugar; partially hydrogenated tropical oils – a source of trans fat; sodium caseinate – a high sodium milk protein, and some other food modifiers. I think milk would have been a better choice for the coffee. With a little planning, I could have had a piece of whole wheat toast with natural peanut butter, a handful of almonds, skim or low fat milk and an orange for breakfast. This balanced choice includes foods from four food groups, is nutrient dense, high fiber, low sodium, low cholesterol, contains the right kind of fat, and is loaded with antioxidants that promote health. Instead, my coffee with the white stuff is high in caffeine, sugar, trans fat, artificial flavor and other stuff that I do not recognize as food. These are the kinds of mindless choices we make everyday. If King Solomon or Charlemagne, or even our first president, George Washington were alive today, what would be on their table? They would be amazed at the bounty of fresh foods available to ordinary citizens. We literally have the opportunity to eat like kings; fresh local and exotic fruits, lean meats and fish, fresh breads are available at our fingertips. We can have vegetables of every kind shipped from distant coasts, fresh and shelled almonds, walnuts, sunflower and pumpkin seeds, handpicked blueberries, strawberries, and raspberries, milk and cheeses without ever having stepped into a barn. Yet we choose things labeled as food that our ancestors might not recognize as food. According to the Journal of the American College of Nutrition, whole foods are foods that are unprocessed and unrefined, or minimally so before being consumed. Whole foods typically

do not contain added ingredients, like sugar, salt, fat, or the white stuff. The Food and Drug Administration defines whole grains as cereal grains containing all of the original parts of the grain – in other words, the whole package. Federal Dietary Guidelines issued by the Center for Nutrition Policy and Promotion in 2005 recommended the consumption of at least three servings of whole grains each day, because of evidence that they help reduce risk of cancer and heart disease. According to authors for the Journal of the American College of Nutrition, “Diets rich in whole and unrefined foods, like whole grains, dark green and yellow/orange vegetables and fruits, legumes, nuts and seeds, contain high concentrations of antioxidant phenolics, fibers and numerous other phytochemicals that may be protective against chronic diseases.” On your next trip to the grocery store, you might be surprised to find that whole foods are not only on the produce aisle. Check the cereal aisle, rice and beans aisle, and the fresh breads in the deli. Look for lean, uncured meats, fish and fresh poultry on the meat aisle. Follow the whole foods definition, foods minimally processed and not containing added ingredients. Make a pass by the local farmers market. It’s a great place to learn about locally grown foods and to bring home something for the sauté pan. What choices can I make to increase whole food consumption for my family? Here’s wishing you a royal holiday season from your friends at Memorial Health System.

Tim Scallon, M.S. R.D. L.D is the director of the HC Polk Center for Heart Stroke and Diabetes Education, Department of Clinical Nutrition at Memorial Health System of East Texas

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Stuffed Turkey Breast with Light Sauce Serving Size 1/6 of recipe – Serves 6

Ingredients

2 tablespoons butter 1 small onion, chopped 3 stalks celery, chopped 2 cloves garlic, minced 2 teaspoons fresh sage 2 teaspoons fresh thyme ¼ cup chopped walnuts ¼ cup unsalted pumpkin seeds ¼ cup diced dried cranberries 1 cup low sodium chicken broth 4 cups wheat bread crumbs 6 – 6oz slices turkey breast Pinch of salt and pepper to taste 1 tablespoon light olive oil ½ cup onions, diced 1 tablespoon flour 1 cup low sodium chicken broth ¼ cup diced dried cranberries 2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley

Directions

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Melt the butter in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add the onion and celery and sauté until onion is tender, about 5 minutes. Add the garlic, sage, thyme, walnuts, pumpkin seeds and cranberries; sauté and stir until fragrant, about 1 minute more. Add the chicken broth. Bring to a boil and remove from heat. Gently stir in the bread crumbs and set aside. Slice the turkey breast into ½ inch slices. Pound to ¼ inch thickness. Season with salt and pepper. Spoon some of the stuffing onto each turkey slice. Roll up and pin with a toothpick. Gently, brown each roll in a heavy oven proof skillet, carefully

turning to brown each side. Finish in the oven for 20 – 25 minutes or until an internal temperature of 165 degrees F. Meanwhile, prepare the sauce. Heat the olive oil. Sauté the onion until tender. Stir in the flour until moistened. Stir in the broth. Add the cranberries and parsley. Stir continuously over medium high heat until sauce thickens. Remove the turkey from the oven. Top with a little sauce and serve. Exchanges per serving: 5 Lean Meats, 1 Starch, 3 Vegetables Nutrients per serving: Calories: 444; Calories from fat: 127; Total Fat: 15g; Saturated Fat: 4g; Cholesterol: 114mg; Sodium: 373mg; Carbohydrate: 30g; Dietary Fiber: 3g; Protein: 48g

pumpkin soup Serving Size 1 cup – Serves 10

Ingredients

1 tablespoon butter 1 cup chopped onion 3½ cups diced fresh pumpkin 1 clove garlic, minced 1 cup diced tomato 1 cup diced mushrooms 1 tablespoon chopped fresh thyme Pinch of salt Black pepper to taste 6 cups low sodium vegetable stock 1 jalapeno pepper, cored (optional) ½ cup fat free half and half Fresh parsley to garnish

Directions

Heat the butter in a heavy saucepan. Sauté the onion until tender. Add the pumpkin, garlic, tomato, mushrooms, thyme, salt and pepper. Sauté an additional 3 minutes to enhance flavors. Add the vegetable stock and heat to boiling. For added spice, add the jalapeno pepper and reduce heat. Stir and simmer uncovered for 30 minutes. Remove the jalapeno pepper. Remove a cup of the hot soup and combine slowly with the half and half stirring continuously. Then stir the soup, half and half mixture into the rest of the soup.

Pour into soup bowls and garnish with fresh parsley. Exchanges per serving: 2 Vegetables

Nutrients per serving:

Calories: 158; Calories from fat: 9; Total Fat: 1g; Saturated Fat: 0g; Cholesterol: 2mg; Sodium: 135mg; Carbohydrate: 27g; Dietary Fiber: 2g; Protein: 6g

Oat Berry Tart

Serving Size: ¼ of recipe - Serves: 4

Ingredients

1 pkg. (1.4 oz.) vanilla fat free sugar free instant pudding 2 cups cold skim milk 3/4 cup rolled oats 2 tablespoons honey 12 fresh blueberries 4 fresh mint leaves

Directions

Prepare the pudding according to package directions. Set aside.

Heat a dry skillet over medium heat. Measure in the oats, and toast for about 1 minute, stirring until hot. Drizzle honey over the oats, and continue to stir over medium heat until the oats begin to brown slightly. Remove the oats from heat and spoon them into the bottom of 4 custard bowls. Spoon the pudding into the custard bowls. Top with three blueberries each. Garnish with fresh mint.

Exchanges per serving: 2 Carb Choices

Nutrients per serving: Calories: 52; Calories from fat: 13; Total Fat: 1g; Saturated Fat: 1g; Cholesterol: 4mg; Sodium: 120mg; Carbohydrate: 9g; Dietary Fiber: 1g; Protein: 2g

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by Elaine Cameron, Angelina Master Gardener

Christmas trees are the most beloved of our holiday traditions. We all have fond memories of gathering around a fragrant, beautifully decorated tree with our families. One snowy December day when I was eight, my father passed the school with a tree tied to his truck. The anticipation of decorating the tree made it hard to concentrate the rest of the day. Years later, Bill and I and our two sons enjoyed cutting our own fresh trees. Trees can be cut fresh from local Christmas tree farms or purchased from a tree lot. To find a list of area Christmas tree farms visit www. christmastree.org, the website of the National Christmas Tree Association (NCTA). To ensure a happy, safe holiday fresh Christmas trees require careful selection and care. We put our tree up December 10; so it will be fresh for the big day. When purchasing a cut tree at a lot, test the tree for freshness by gently grasping a branch between your thumb and forefinger and pull toward you. If the tree is fresh, very few needles will come off in your hand. A fresh tree will be fragrant; needles will feel resilient and will not drop off with a gentle touch. Bouncing the tree on its trunk should not cause it to shed an excessive amount of green needles. Some loss of interior brown needles is normal and will occur over the lifetime of the tree.

the crusty seal that has formed over the cut end. Place the tree in water immediately, and store in a shady, protected spot until you are ready to decorate. The NCTA recommends choosing a tree stand that will hold one quart of water for every inch of trunk diameter. Check the water frequently so the level does not fall below the cut trunk. Cut trees will drink more water during their first week. Place your tree in an area away from heat registers, space heaters, fireplaces, wood stoves and other heat sources, to slow moisture loss and evaporation. Make sure the tree does not block foot traffic or doorways. Inspect light sets for broken or cracked sockets, frayed or bare wires and loose connections. Discard any damaged light sets. Look for the UL label when purchasing lights. Choose miniature lights that produce little or no heat to prevent drying of the needles. Follow instructions on light packaging about how many light set to plug into one extension cord in order not to overload circuits. Always turn off lights when you leave the house or go to bed. Monitor your tree for dryness and remove it from the house after the holiday or if it is dry. Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t burn any part of a tree in a fireplace or wood stove. Contact Angelina Beautiful Clean to find out where to recycle your tree.

Cut about one-half inch off the bottom of the trunk to remove Photos show a few of Elaineâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Christmas trees through the years. 20 / The Journey - December 2010

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Old Bethlehem

If you have been around the East Texas area for any amount of time, then you know that Christmas brings an opportunity for your family to experience what it was like the night Jesus was born. This year, the First United Methodist Church in Lufkin will celebrate twenty-five years of bringing Bethlehem to our town. In 1985, Melissa Wilkins was the Director of Education for the church. She and the Family Life Council, a group of church members, went to Memorial Drive Methodist Church in Houston to view their Bethlehem. They were inspired, and the group came back ready to bring the wonder of this historic evening to the people of their community. The first year to of the event was 1986. Simple props and backdrops of paper created the scenes. They painted them

at the old Angelina Mall in the K-Mart shopping center. The church youth played the roles of Mary, Joseph, and the Wise men. The baby boy who would play Jesus got sick; so they had to use a doll. Although their surroundings were meager, you could find live camels on the set. There was just one street that first year, but the people of the church had big dreams and a vision for much more.

Each year, there are approximately three-thousand people who pay their taxes and walk the roads of Bethlehem. A little less than three-thousand people visited the city that first year. Now, people come from far places to experience and evening in Old Bethlehem. Each year, there are approximately three-thousand people who pay their taxes and walk the roads of Bethlehem. Spectators who visit the city today will experience many of the things that were probably taking place the night the Christ child was born. There is a potter, creating actual pottery and firing it by using a pit in the ground. You will be able to see the Synagogue, where young Jewish boys went to school. Above all, the main attraction is the stable where the Christ Child was born. Organizers know that many people will attend their event in search for Christ, and they hope that each person who visits will find Him.

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Carolyn M. Moyers, D.O., M.S.

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I felt drawn to Women’s Health in medical school. It is what I found interesting and where I chose to do elective rotations.”

Lufkin is proud to welcome Dr. Carolyn Moyers to the Obstetrics and Gynecology team of doctors. She is employed by Memorial Health System of East Texas, and her office is located at 401 Gaslight Boulevard in Lufkin, Texas. To find out more about her, we asked Dr. Moyers a few questions about herself and her practice:

Where did you grow up? I grew up in Livingston, TX. My parents moved to Livingston when my father accepted a position to pastor a church after finishing seminary. My mother was pregnant with me at this time. I grew up with 3 siblings and we remain very close. I attended kindergarten through twelfth grade in Livingston.

Where did you attend college? I completed my undergraduate degree at Texas Woman’s University, where I received a Bachelor of Science. I attended medical school at University of North Texas Health Science Center, Texas College of Osteopathic Medicine and earned a Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine and Masters in Clinical Research and Education. I completed my Obstetrics and Gynecology residency at Texas Tech Health Sciences Center in Amarillo. My residency program provided me with excellent training in all aspects of women’s health, as we were a referral base for the greater panhandle and surrounding states. I have a tremendous amount of experience in high risk pregnancies and gynecologic oncology.

What led you to a career in medicine? I always had a keen interest in medicine. My mother would laugh at the inquisition our family doctor went through at my visits. My grandfather is a brilliant man who has had a successful academic career teaching at the university level. He was a pastor for many years and has a strong spiritual compass. He has always been someone I adored, someone who was a voice of reason, and someone who was a mentor. He encouraged me at an early age to find my inner strength, to identify my passion, to be my personal best, and to contribute to society. I felt drawn to women’s health in medical school. It is what I found interesting and where I chose to do elective rotations. When I was deciding on what area of medicine to specialize and what residencies to apply to, the Dean at the university recommended I do Pain 24 / The Journey - December 2010

Management and Rehabilitation. I am glad I knew myself well enough to trust my own intuition and do what I enjoy.

What are some of your specialties in women’s health? I am interested in minimally invasive surgery, as it is in the best interest of the patient. It means a shorter hospital stay, less blood loss, less pain and complications and shorter recovery, which means women are back to their lives, caring for their families in two weeks versus six weeks. This is valuable time. I will be performing robotic minimally invasive surgery as of the first week in December. The Da Vinci robot is one of the main things that swayed my decision to join the OBGYN community in Lufkin. I am excited to offer this to my patients so early in my practice. I also have a love for pediatric and adolescent gynecology. This involves genetic abnormalities, straddle injuries, menstrual disorders, contraception management, teen pregnancy and education.

As a new resident in Lufkin, what do you enjoy about your new home? Lufkin has been so warm and welcoming. I have enjoyed the people most of all. My neighbors, colleagues, support staff, community leaders everyone has been so friendly and supportive of my transition here. I am delighted to be here and excited about taking care of the women in East Texas. To schedule an appointment with Dr. Moyers, call her office at 936-639-4463

yourcommunity

community connection Jennifer Stevens

Jennifer Stevens spends her days investing in the community that has given so much to her. When Jennifer was two years old, she moved to East Texas. She graduated high school from Corrigan-Camden and received both her under-graduate and graduate degrees from Stephen F. Austin State University. She and her husband, Billy Stevens, are proud to call Lufkin home. They are excited to be expecting their first child, a girl, in December. Jennifer appreciates being part of a community that takes care of each other. She explains, “They know what needs to be done, and they do it. They don’t wait for someone else to come along. The people are caring and generous.” For the past eight years, Jennifer has found her place of service to her community at Woodland Heights Medical Center. She was first hired as the Assistant to the Chief Nursing Officer and promoted to Marketing Representative three years later.

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Recently, Jennifer received the honor of Director of Marketing for the hospital. In this role, she is responsible for all marketing and public relations for the facility. She feels blessed that her employer encourages her to serve on local committees, as Woodland Heights is focused on serving the community. The hospital continuously gives back through education and programs like Healthy Woman, Senior Circle and Tiny Toes. Aside from her work at Woodland Heights Medical Center, Jennifer enjoys serving at several different community organizations. She is currently the Chairperson for the Coalition’s Drug Free Business Partnership, where the organization aims to remedy and prevent drug and alcohol abuse in the work place. Jennifer is also a founding board member of The Angelina County Heart Alliance, a non-profit organization raising awareness of heart disease and educating others on prevention. In addition to these, Jennifer is a United Way Budget committee member and belongs to several committees within the Lufkin/Angelina Chamber of Commerce. Her dedication to each of these agencies allows Jennifer to combine two of her passions of education and healthcare, and help people learn how to take charge of their own health.

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“[The people of this community] know what needs to be done, and they do it. They don’t wait for someone else to come along. The people are caring and generous.”

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Ribbon Cuttings

Bent Oak Bed & Breakfast held a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 28th. Bent Oak Bed & Breakfast is the perfect place to relax, rejuvenate and rekindle. This Bed & Breakfast has three bedrooms, 2 baths and is perfect for romantic getaways, parties, small weddings and much more. The house can host from one to a group of six. Visit them at www.stayatbentoak.com or call them at (936) 632-0288 for more information. Pictured are owners A.W. and Donna Wright along with members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team. Dogwood Designs celebrated their new Lufkin location with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 14th. Located inside The Fashion District at 1905 Tulane Drive, Dogwood Designs focuses on marketing services such as: logo design, website design and more, print ad design, collateral design and printing, event planning and much more. For more information call 936.552.4909 or check out their website www.dogwoodnac. com. Pictured is owner Kati Harris and members of the Lufkin/ Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team. Juan Hernandez, M.D. celebrated his Open House with a Ribbon Cutting Ceremony on Tuesday, November 9th. Dr. Hernandez specializes in internal medicine and is located at 402 Gaslight Blvd. He is currently accepting new patients so call (936) 634-7225 to schedule your appointment. Pictured is Dr. Hernandez along with his family, friends and staff. Also pictured are members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team and members of Woodland Heights Medical Center.

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Cavanaughâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Jewelers celebrated its new location inside The Fashion District with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 14th. Cavanaughâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s has created customcrafted quality jewelry since 1890 and are design and repair specialists. Come browse their wonderful selection of jewelry or have something custom made to your specifications. Call them today at 936.634.8261 or stop by their location at 1905 Tulane Drive. Pictured is owner Duncan Cavanaugh, his wife Barbara Cavanaugh along with friends and staff. Also pictured are members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team. C. Doyle Haynes, M.D. celebrated his Grand Opening with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 28th. Located inside the Temple Imaging Center at Memorial Health System of East Texas, Dr. Haynes specializes in family medicine. Call his office at 936.699.5040 to schedule your appointment today. Pictured is Dr. Haynes along with his family, staff and members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team. Veils & Tails/A Stitch in Time celebrated their Grand Opening with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 14th. Located inside The Fashion District at 1905 Tulane Drive, Veils & Tails/A Stitch in Time specialize in bridal and formal wear as well as alterations and embroidery. If you are looking for a special dress for a wedding or event or need to have something alerted stop by Veils & Tails/A Stitch in Time today or give them a call at 936.639.6564. Pictured is owner Tammy Jennings along with her friends and staff. Also pictured are members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team.

Angelina Alliance for Children held a Ribbon Cutting ceremony for their new office Harold’s House on Tuesday, November 9th. The mission of Harold’s House is “To serve child victims of sexual and/or physical abuse, minimizing their trauma through a team approach in a child friendly environment.” Harold’s House is named after Lt. Harold Cottle, who developed the idea for the Angelina Alliance for Children and created it in 2001. Cottle passed away in 2007 but his dedication to giving abused children one place to go to for safety, protection, and justice still lives on. Pictured is the family of Lt. Harold Cottle, Angelina Alliance for Children Executive Director Mona Hill and staff, Board President David Franssen and many other community officials and supporters. Pineywoods Jamboree celebrated their kick-off show with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Saturday, October 30th . The Pineywoods Jamboree is a live Branson style country music show with a mix of gospel. Performances take place the last Saturday of every month at Pineywoods Community Academy. Ticket prices will are $8 for Adults, $5 for children 7-12 and 6 and under get in FREE. For more information on upcoming shows call 936-6399268 or visit their website at www.pineywoodsjamboree.com. Pictured are owners Jimmy & Leigh Ann Hughes along with their band members, family and friends. The Spotted Zebra celebrated their Grand Opening with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 14th. Located inside The Fashion District at 1905 Tulane Drive, The Spotted Zebra specializes in women’s fashions and accessories. Stop by their store today or visit their website www.thespottedzebrastore. com. Pictured is owner Debbie Hunt along with family, friends, employees and members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team.

Oak Forest Independent Senior Living celebrated their Grand Opening with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Friday, October 22nd. Oak Forest is Lufkin’s newest residential facility for people 55 and over and is owned by Paul & Audry McCarty. If you or a loved one is having trouble or is just tired of preparing meals, doing laundry, cleaning the house or doing yard maintenance consider moving to Oak Forest Independent Senior Living. They are located at 5783 FM 841. Stop by and take a tour or give them a call at 936.632.9650. Pictured are owner Paul & Audry McCarty along with their family, friends and members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team. Steven’s Catering celebrated their new location and storefront “Sweets and Eats” with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 14th. Located inside The Fashion District at 1905 Tulane Drive, Steven’s Catering Sweets and Eats specialize in tantalizing coffees, desserts, lunches, dinners to go and refreshing teas. They also focus on catering with creative menus and elegant cakes. Stop by and sample the fabulous food or call 936.632.6938 to hear about their catering menus. Pictured is owner Sarah Stevens, her husband James Stevens, co-workers and members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team. Mohammad Siddiqui, M.D. celebrated his Grand Opening with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Thursday, October 14th. Located at 10 Medical Center Blvd Ste. B, Dr. Siddiqui specializes in pulmonology. Call his office at 936-633-5580 to schedule an appointment. Pictured is Dr. Siddiqui along with his family, staff and members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team.

The Wound Care Advantage of East Texas celebrated their Open House with a Ribbon Cutting ceremony on Tuesday, November 9th. The Wound Care Advantage of East Texas at Memorial Medical Center - Lufkin takes a personalized approach to medical and surgical care. Advanced wound care technologies shorten the healing time to just a few months. Dr. Randy Blakestad, Medical Director, and his team at The Wound Care Advantage of East Texas are focusing on healing chronic wounds within eight weeks of the first treatment. Pictured is: Dr. Randy Blakestad (Medical Director), Brenda Price (Program Director), Les Leach (Chief Operating Officer), The Wound Care Advantage staff and members of Memorial Health System of East Texas. Also pictured are members of the Lufkin/Angelina County Chamber of Commerce Diplomats Team. tjmag.com / 29

Nacogdoches Chamber of Commerce | yourcommunity Alive After Five Networking Chamber members and others from the community got to take good looks at the new offices for two Nacogdoches physicians during September and October Alive After Five events.

Chamber Events Thursday, Dec. 2, 5:30 to 7 p.m., Alive After Five hosted by Dr. Binusha Moitheenizima and Dr. Ahammed Hashim, Pulmonary/Critical Care/ Sleep Medicine Specialists, 1023 N. Mound, Ste. H. Diagnostic Center Across from Nacogdoches Memorial Hospital Friday, Dec. 3, 10:00 a.m., Ribbon Cutting - Eastex Tractor & Powersports, 11755 U.S. Hwy. 259 . Contact Rodney Robinson, (936) 4621511. New Chamber member. Open house 8 a.m. - 5 p.m., enter drawing for Husqvarna push mower.

From left are Tammy Morgan, Cristy Gonzales, Dr. Bryan Davis and Jackie Hurtado at an Alive After Five held Oct. 21 at the offices of Dr. Bryan Davis, M.D. Family Medicine, 129 Creekbend Blvd.

From left are Dr. Kavita Vyas, Dr. Laura Fernandes and Samantha Moreira at Alive After Five held Sept. 16 at the Nacogdoches Heart and Vascular Institute, 3226 North University Drive.

Friday, Dec. 3, 11:30 a.m., Ribbon Cutting - Nacogdoches County Senior Center, 621 Harris St. Contact Director Tammy Blank, (936) 569-6350. New Chamber member celebrating remodel.

Friday, Dec. 17, 9 a.m., Ribbon Cutting - Nacogdoches Farm Bureau Insurance, 2302 N.W. Stallings Dr. Contact George Wages, Mark Clark, Daniel Reid, Steve Williams, Elvin Henson, and Marty Karns, (936) 5647374. New Chamber member. Visit with agents after ceremony with coffee and pastries.

Thursday, Dec. 9, 1:15 p.m., Ribbon Cutting - Windhill Apartments, 1324 Pruitt Hill Dr. Contact Manager Carrie Atherton, (936) 560-1771. New Chamber member. Tour will follow ceremony. Friday, Dec. 10, Noon -1 p.m., Fourth Friday Luncheon at Hotel Fredonia. “Mystery of Hidden History” presentation by Linda Reynolds, Director of East Texas Research Center. Registration required.

Ribbon Cutting Celebrations

Dec. 24, 25 Merry Christmas Chamber holidays.

Save the dates: Feb. 16-17, 2011 Nacogdoches-SFA Day in Austin. More information on these and other community events at nacogdoches. org. Post your event on the Chamber’s online Community Event Calendar.

Austin Finance 130 N. University Dr., Ste. 100, 936-552-7874. New business location.

Craig Sessions, M.D., P.A. 5124 North St., 936-560-4300. New office location.

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The Hospice of East Texas Walk of Friends In the Master Gardeners Demonstration Site, corner Main St. and University Dr. , 936-615-6404. Memorial dedication and celebrating first year anniversary serving Nacogdoches, Shelby, and San Augustine counties.

Nine Flags Festival produced by Nacogdoches Convention and Visitors Bureau - “An Old Fashioned Christmas” at Millard’s Crossing Historical Village, 5 to 9 p.m., Dec 3. This charming Christmas candlelit event offers a nostalgic setting for a variety of Christmas activities in a historic village. Catch a performance of Charles Dicken’s “A Christmas Carol” or try your hand at the player piano. Enjoy demonstrations of how things were done in the “old days.” Enjoy seeing the lace makers to oldfashioned games, and don’t forget your favorite yuletide treats! The event will be held at Millard’s Crossing Historic Village, 6020 North Street . $8 adults, $5 children. - Original Cast in “Christmas at the Movies” presented by Nine Flags Festival & SFA School of Theatre Dec. 4: 7:30 p.m., Dec. 5: 2 and 9 p.m., Dec. 6: 2 p.m. All performances are in Cole Art Center. Tickets are $8 for adults and $5 for seniors and students. For tickets or more information, please visit www. finearts.sfasu.edu or call 936-468-6407. Tickets also available at Convention & Visitors Bureau, 200 E. Main St., Nacogdoches, or by calling (936)5647371. - Pancakes with Santa, 8:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m., Dec. 4, 11 and 18. Enjoy a fun-filled breakfast with Santa at the Cafe Fredonia (inside the Hotel Fredonia, 200 N. Fredonia

CBH Insurance: 108 E. Hospital St. (the former location for Mize Department Store), 936-564-1735. New Chamber member, new business location.

St., downtown). Children can enjoy the breakfast buffet as well as edible decorations to decorate their pancakes, coloring sheets, and pictures with Santa himself! Cafe opens at 8:00a.m. - 10:00 a.m., Pancake breakfast prices: $11.95 children 7 - 11 years of age, $5.95 children 4-6 years of age, children under 3 are free. - Jingle Bell Run, 8:30 a.m., Dec. 4. The 5K run has a new certified route in addition to chip timing and is set for 8:30 a.m. in downtown Nacogdoches with the 3K walk beginning shortly thereafter. The awards presentation will be held at 10:00 a.m. Registration forms will be available at the Visitor Center, 200 E. Main St. and online. The race winds its way through the historic streets of the oldest town in Texas and will kick off a full day of festival activities downtown. Entry fees are $20 for early registration, $25 for regular registration and $10 for children. - Texas Old-Time Fiddler’s State Championship Contest, 9:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., Dec. 4 - 5. Junior and senior divisions followed by an out-of-state division which will feature some of the best fiddlers in the country from outside the state of Texas. The contest is open to the public so come on out for some of the best family entertainment you’ll ever hear. Admission is free!

The Blood Center - East Texas 3520 N. University Dr. , 936-5603054. Facility remodel.

- Lighted Christmas Parade and Fireworks, 4 p.m. to 9 p.m., Dec. 4. The largest lighted Christmas parade in East Texas will be winding its way through the historic streets of downtown Nacogdoches, which itself will be glowing with more than 3 million festive holiday lights. Following the parade is the annual fireworks show that has become an anticipated highlight of the Nine Flags Festival. The explosive display lights up the sky above the oldest town in Texas Parade starts at 6:30 p.m. Food vendors will be set up in the square from 4pm - 9 pm. Free admission. - Gingerbread Homes for the Holiday Contest Adult and children categories. Entries will be accepted through Monday, Dec. 20 at 5:00 p.m. Come and view the best gingerbread homes in Nacogdoches! These delicious works of art will be on display at the Visitor Center, 200 E. Main St. , through the holiday season. - Tour of Homes, 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. Tour elegantly decorated residences during the 2010 Christmas Tour of Homes, benefiting Historic Nacogdoches, Inc. Tickets are $10 and are available in advance at the Visitor Center, 200 E. Main St. For more information on Nine Flags Festival: call 1-888-OLDEST-TOWN, or go to www.nineflagsfestival.com.

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Festival of Trees A display of trees transforms the Museum of East Texas into a winter wonderland. Free and open to the public. Mon-Fri 10-5, Sat 1-5. 936.639.4434 9

Stan Kenton Christmas Carols Boston Brass and the Brass All-Stars Big Band Temple Theater 7:30-10:00pm for ticket information call 936.633.5454

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family and step back 2010 years to the night Jesus was born as we recreate the old city of Bethlehem. Phone: 936-639-3141 Website: http://www.lufkinfirst.com

“Messiah” Stephen F. Austin College of Fine Arts 7:30 p.m. W.M. Turner Auditorium on the SFA Campus. Tickets: $5 adult, $4 senior, $2 student Ph: 1-888-240-ARTS www.finearts.sfasu.edu The Stephen F. Austin State University combined choirs and orchestra, along with the Nacogdoches Community Chorus presents this always-popular event and will feature student soloists and close with an audience Christmas carol sing-along. 11

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Stephen F. Austin Planetarium presents 7:00p.m. Phone 936-468-3009 for more information or Admission $2.00

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Breakfast with Santa 8:30-10:30 a.m. St. Cyprians Gym Enjoy story time with Skippy Dimpledot, face painting, Christmas music and crafts by the Journey Magazine, plus a professional picture with Santa by Angela Marcotte. Tickets are $15 per child and $5 for accompanying adult and can be bought at St. Cyprian’s School and the Very Thing. All proceeds benefit the St. Cyprian’s School PTO. For more details, call the school at 632-1720.

Hotel Fredonia 8:00a.m.-10am. Bring your camera! For reservations call 936.564.1234

Pancakes with Santa

Tour of Homes 1:00-4:00p.m. Tour elegantly decorated residences during the 2010 Christmas Tour of Homes, benefiting Historic Nacogdoches, Inc. Tickets are $10 and are available in advance at the Visitor Center, 200 E. Main St. 1 - 4 pm. Ph: 1-888-OLDESTTOWN www.nineflagsfestival.com

Museum of East Texas Gala 7:00-9:00 The annual Gala is a beautiful toast to honor the members of the Museum of East Texas. Exhibitions are opened and decadent food and beautiful music await you. This event is the Museumâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s way of thanking our incredibly supportive membership. Black tie is optional.

Family Day

Jerrod Niemmann in Concert

2:00-4:00p.m. Museum of East Texas An afternoon of free fun for your family! Santa will be on hand to listen to Christmas wishes and crafts and activities will be available for families. Children under 12 need to be accompanied by an adult.

Doors Open at 6:00 p.m. Banita Creek Hall, 401 W. Main Street. Ph: 936-468-8000 or www.banitacreekhall.com

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Lego Club 1:30-3:00 p.m. Nacogdoches Public Library

Teen Clothes & Jewelry Swap 5:30-7:00 p.m. Nacogdoches Public Library

Lego Club 1:30-3:00 p.m. Nacogdoches Public Library

Dawn to Dusk 6020 North Street (Hwy 59) Ph: 936-564-4490

Pajama Story Time 6:00 p.m. Nacogdoches Public Library

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Great things happen when you bring together an entire community. This month, Love In the Name Of Christ, Love INC, of Nacogdoches will gather an entire community for the seventh year of “Christmas Shared Blessings.” Christmas Shared Blessings is a project orchestrated by Love INC, but carried out by hundreds of donors and volunteers. This event provides needy client’s children with gifts for Christmas. This year, the case managers at Love INC will be choosing families from the list of clients whom they have served throughout the year. They will be looking for those who are working toward self sufficiency. Patti Goodrum, Executive Director for Love INC says, “We want to reward parents who are helping themselves and working with us to better their situation.” Prior to the event, Love INC volunteers will purchase toys and gifts for young children, age newborn to seventeen. They will also donate gift wrap and help set up the church for distribution day. The items are set up much like a retail store where clients can “shop” for their children’s Christmas gifts. Upon arrival at the church, clients are greeted by volunteers who will walk with them through the entire shopping process. Once their gifts have been selected, volunteers from the Nacogdoches Junior Forum will help wrap their gifts. While the clients are shopping, their children are entertained with activities and refreshments, as not to spoil the surprise of what they will be receiving for Christmas. Gathering the supplies for an event of this size takes an entire community. Local churches, individuals, Sunday School classes, and organizations will donate enough toys to ensure that all of the children have a memorable Christmas.

This year’s Christmas Shared Blessings will be Friday, December 10th. Volunteers are needed for set-up on December 9th, as well as the day of the event. To sign up to volunteer, call 936-569-8555, ext. 108. Financial donations and/or unwrapped toys may be dropped off at the Love INC building, located at 917 Ruby (the old Abbey Carpets building off Powers) through December 8th. Throughout the year, Love INC organizes several similar community outreach events. Donations of time, money, and resources are always needed to make these endeavors a success. The organizers assure that you will walk away not only having shared blessings, but also receiving them in return. 36 / The Journey - December 2010

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Margie and Claire Brody are a mother and daughter team who are making their dreams come true together. This month, their second book, “Skippy Dimpledot Christmas In Europe,” will be released. Margie grew up in St. Louis, Missouri and the beginning of December and return to the graduated from Wittenburg University. She North Pole when Santa brought her gifts. To and her husband Jim have been married this day, he still visits the Brody home. twenty-five years. They have lived in Lufkin As a former elementary school teacher, Margie twenty-four years, where they have raised their has always wanted to write a children’s book. son, Parker and daughter, Claire. Margie’s She has a love for reading and wants to share it husband Jim is a vice with others, especially president at Templechildren. She had Skippy Dimpledot first came Inland. Parker is the advice into [the Brody’s] lives when received currently a senior at to “write what you The University of Texas Claire was in the second know.” When Claire at Austin, and Claire was in fifth grade, grade at Dunbar Primary in joined him there this she and her mother year for her freshman Lufkin. Her teacher, Ms. Cindy began brainstorming year of college. Claire ideas about how they is in the School of Akeroyd, had an elf who visited would write Skippy’s Communication and her classroom to watch over story. They would has future plans to talk about their ideas the class during the month pursue a career in the way to Claire’s of December. Naturally, this on the entertainment soccer games. They industry. experience left Claire wanting wrote and re-wrote

Skippy Dimpledot an elf of her own. Soon after, an until they had the final manuscript of their first came into their elf magically appeared in her story. They sent it off lives when Claire was in the second grade home, and with that, a special to several publishing companies, but soon at Dunbar Primary in friendship was formed. realized that no one Lufkin. Her teacher, was as excited about Ms. Cindy Akeroyd, their product as they had an elf who visited her classroom to watch over the class during the were. Margie found Xlibirs Corporation, a selfmonth of December. Naturally, this experience publishing company, and decided to publish left Claire wanting an elf of her own. Soon the book through them. They chose Duane after, an elf magically appeared in her home, Gillogly to illustrate the book. What began as and with that, a special friendship was formed. a fun project for mother and daughter, turned Claire would write to Skippy asking him many into something neither one of them could have questions. Their special friendship continued imagined. year after year, as Skippy would appear at Continued pg.40

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IspiringContinued Women | yourcommunity Their first book, “Skippy Dimpledot The Christmas Elf,” is a story about a young girl named Annie and her magical elf. Margie and Claire hope that the story inspires parents to begin their own tradition of having the children exchange letters with their own elves. Claire encourages, “This is a tradition that can be shared by the whole family and creates memories that will last a lifetime.” Margie and Claire loved their story, but wanted children to be able to share the magic that Claire had experienced as a child when Skippy would visit her home. After researching the Internet, Margie discovered Binkley Toys. The company took their illustration of Skippy Dimpledot and created a plush toy. Two years later, in 2004, their first book and Skippy Dimpledot plush toy were ready to be introduced to the public. The Christmas season of 2004 was very exciting for this mother/daughter team. They visited schools in Lufkin and

shared the entire writing process with students, taking them from manuscript to illustration to final product with their PowerPoint presentations. Margie enjoyed being able to encourage young students to write creatively and read

often. They even took Skippy’s story to St. Louis. The response from the community was amazing, and they sold out of elves in a few weeks.

There was such an overwhelming response to the first book that they talked about writing a second book, but finally decided to do it last year. Claire was a high school senior, so they knew they should complete it before she left for college. Last spring, they created “Skippy Dimpledot Christmas in Europe.” The story is about a young girl named Annie who has an extraordinary Christmas vacation in Europe. Much to her amazement, Skippy Dimpledot returns for the holidays and adds surprise and excitement to Annie’s European trip. Annie also discovers two new elves; Marco Macaroni and Jazzy Gelato. The book and two new plush elves will be introduced this Christmas season. Plans to write a third book are already underway. Margie and Claire have been brainstorming ideas for their book that should be ready for release Christmas of 2012. There are also plans to create more elves. Both Margie and Claire say the best

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part of the experience is working with each other and helping to bring magic into the lives of others. They have heard many heartwarming stories of how children will write to their elves, even opening up about personal issues and asking for advice. Not only are these two women authors, but they enjoy volunteering in their community. Margie is involved with St. Andrew’s Catholic Church and is currently a sustaining member in the Junior League of Lufkin, chairman of the Tri-Ethnic Committee for Lufkin I.S.D. and secretary of the Kurth Memorial Library Board of Directors.

With both of her children gone from home, Margie and her husband are beginning a new chapter of their lives. She enjoys visiting schools and speaking to students of all ages about the experience of writing books and encouraging them to work hard and set goals. Claire is active on the University of Texas Austin Campus as a Delta Gamma. She loves to play the guitar, spend time with friends, and go to UT football games. She is currently working with students at Texas School for the Blind and Visually Impaired.

Skippy Dimpledot merchandise is available in Lufkin at The Wishing Well, The Very Thing and Katie’s. The books are also available on amazon.com. You can also visit Skippy’s website at skippydimpledot.com, where you can purchase all of the Skippy merchandise, play games, register your elf and much more.

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Gift Guide

1. Insignias, icons, amulets - each a beautiful addition to your personal lore. Start a new tradition with Waxing Poetic charms, rings, pendants and bracelets… to gift, to keep, to treasure, to delight, From $23 (Apricot Lane, The Fashion District, 1905 Tulane Ste. 102L, Lufkin, 936-238-3942)

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2. This year be sure to give the gift of Wassail! Fun festive and eye-catching “gift box” packaging make this season’s Instant Wassail a perfect gift! Make one gallon or by the cup. Scripture on Wassail box reads “Jesus - the best gift of all!” $6.95 (The Garden Gate, 3.3 miles South on FM 58, Lufkin, 936-639-9825)

3. New Dr. Comfort seamless socks with advanced shapeto-fit comfort sizing. Perfect for people with arthritis or diabetes. Promotes blood circulation. “The Natural Choice” (Medicine Shoppe, 903 West Frank Avenue, Lufkin, TX 759043318, 936-634-3006)

4. It’s fashion design with math in mind! Fashion Friends set includes 37 pieces for constructing and accessorizing four 5” tall dolls with more than 200 combinations. Includes storage case. Ages 4 and up. $30 (Discovery Toys, Brieanna Rhoades, briestoys4kids@yahoo.com, 936-212-0909)

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5. Keep your keychain close and your kisses closer! Each of these mini, keychain-sized shades contains 100% bareMinerals, leaving your lips drenched in shimmering color. Pop them on your keychain for beauty on-the-go. $15 (Expressive Images, The Fashion District, 1905 Tulane, Lufkin, 936-632-8800) 6. Sip in style! Monogrammed, insulated acrylic cup with straw keeps your drinks cold on-the-go. Great for any age! Twist off lid. Dish washer safe. $9.95 (House of Traditions, 314 E Main Street, Nacogdoches, 936-564-4101) 7.

Total-Body Multi For Women – Includes ingredients specifically formulated for the needs of women. Softgels contain fruits, vegetables and green superfoods for an energizing boost. $24.99 (Smoothie King, Southloop Crossing Shopping Center, Lufkin, 936-632-5464)

8. Bring back the nostalgia of an old-fashioned Christmas with a cookie basket. Charming holiday baskets are filled with a variety of unique, hand decorated sugar cookies individually wrapped in a cello bag and tied with a festive ribbon. $25 (Confections, 117 W Shepherd, Lufkin, 936-632-2228) 9.

Eliminate belt buckle bulge under fitted sweaters with this instantly slimming, undetectable belt. Reliable, adjustable support with a smooth, flat finish, it allows tops to lay over pants or skirts without any trace of a lump or bump. $24 (The Fashion Shop, 102 North Street, Nacogdoches, 936-564-8384)

10. Give the gift of sun all year long! Gift certificates are

a perfect way to make someone’s exact wish come true. Gift certificates can be purchased in any amount and applied to tanning packages or lotions. Perfect for stocking stuffers too! (The Sun Spa II, 2950 S. John Redditt, Suite 106, Lufkin, 936-637-4786 )

This magical fragrance is an Aromatique tradition. The Smell of Christmas combines the delightful aromas of citrus and spice with naturally festive botanicals. This boxed gift set includes a tall diamond shaped glass bottle with metal bells, glass stopper, diffuser oil and reeds. $26 (The Very Thing!, 1401 S John Redditt, Lufkin, 936-632-2202)

12. Perfect for ANY ONE on your list! Real Fudge - No marshmallows used! 4 ounces of fudge in a decorative tree container. Chocolate with or without pecans. Cream Fudge with or without pecans . Makes a great stocking stuffer! $4 (Stevens Catering/ Sweets & Eats, The Fashion District, 1905 Tulane, Lufkin, 936-632-6937)

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13. Have yourself a merry little bangle, or give it as a festive

gift! Bangles feature Christmas Carols and Reindeer Names separated by crystal rhinestones. $28 each (Macy May, 114 N Church Street, Nacogdoches, 936-205-5911)

14. Travel in style! Combine the season’s hottest looks with the perfect luggage pieces and you are “Good to Go”! Rolling luggage, tote bags, and make-up cases are available in a wide variety of styles and colors. From summer camps to trips to Grandma’s, this gift will be treasured all year long! From $12 (Miss McGillicuddy’s, Lufkin Mall, Lufkin, 936-6343228)

15. Create an amazingly easy cheesecake that will have your family and friends raving for days! Add butter, eggs and cream cheese with mix and evoke memories of old fashioned recipes that took hours to prepare. $10.95 (The Cook’s Corner, The Fashion District, 1905 Tulane, Lufkin, 936-634-2433) 16. This GIANT 4-lb Gourmet Fortune Vanilla Cookie contains your custom 1-ft long message inside! Your choice of chocolate or caramel with sugar decorations and holiday sprinkles! Wrapped in cello bag and ribbon. Gift boxed. From $26 (Southern Comforts Boutique, Stacey Mitchell, www.southerncomfortsboutique.com, 936-208-2258)

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17. Bring a smile to everyone’s face with the perfect gift!

Arely’s Cakes & Arrangements offers custom cookie baskets and candy baskets that transform thoughtful gestures into gifts that will be cherished forever. (Arely’s Cakes & Arrangements, 611 S Chestnut, Lufkin, 936-634-2335)

18. Old St. Nick by Vietri… A combination of plaids, winterberries and our Old St. Nick make the perfect holiday collection for entertaining and gift-giving! Handpainted on terra bianca (white clay) in Tuscany and dishwasher safe. From $25 (Kennedy’s Jewelers, 210 E Main, Nacogdoches, 936-564-7671)

19. Tis The season to be generous!! For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land.’ Deuteronomy 15:11

We will match your $10 donation to the charity of your choice. Drop by the store or call to make your donation. (L & S Floor Works, 303 N. Medford , Lufkin, 936-699-4477)

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1. The PERFECT gift for ANY woman! Wrap yourself in style with Resort Wraps. Sweater wraps available in Cream, Black, Brown, Cinnamon, Turquoise, Lime Green, Hot Pink, and Purple. $49 (Expressive Images, The Fashion District, 1905 Tulane, Lufkin, 936-632-8800)

2. Perfect for the holiday hostess! Mariposa napkin gift set includes Caspari napkins, box and fashionable weight! $44 (Macy May, 114 N Church Street, Nacogdoches, 936-205-5911)

3. Give the gift of giving this holiday season with TOMS. With every pair you purchase, TOMS will give a pair of new shoes to a child in need. Under city lights or in the sun, add some sparkle to your life with TOMS Glitters. Available in gold, silver, black and pink glitter. $54 (The Spotted Zebra, The Fashion District, 1905 Tulane, Lufkin, 936-632-4250) 4.

These jewel tone beautiful Mabry earrings by Towne and Reese can be dressed up or down- making them the perfect “go to” accessory for any outfit. They make a wonderful gift for women of any age… including yourself!! $31 (Blithe Boutique, 112 South First Street, Lufkin, 936-238-3987)

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5. Throw it in the Bag—The Bling Bag! This gorgeous leather bag is featured in the season’s hottest color- RED!! Adorned with cross and rhinestones, this purse will be noticed. Transitions with ease from day to evening wear. Perfect for the Fashionista on your list. $45.99 (Dazzle, 2213 South First, Lufkin, 936-632-5695) 6. She’ll love you for it…LUXIVA® Wrinkle Smoother Lift & Firm Serum. Advanced peptide-packed serum helps to lift, firm and revitalize skin, making it look and feel more smooth and supple. Improves the look of aging skin by reducing the appearance of deep lines and wrinkles. For all skin types. $53.95 (Merle Norman, 1865 W Frank Ave, Lufkin, 936-6321525) 7. Snuggle up in style with one of these faux fur or suede lined with faux shearling blankets! Blankets measure 54”x68” and are available in a variety of colors and prints. Suede blankets are machine washable and perfect for custom embroidery. From $50 (Laine’s Hallmark, 3205 N University Drive, Nacogdoches, 936-564-6724) 8. A Little Girl’s Dream…Tulle Puff Squeaker Shoes! These adorable glitter shoes come adorned with a tulle puff and matching rhinestone in the center. Exclusive to Carrington’s

Boutique, these shoes are available in sizes 3 to 10. Four festive colors are sure to match any holiday attire. Removable squeaker. $42 (Carrington’s Children Boutique, 906 North Street, Nacogdoches, 936-569-6355)

9. Give the most important factor in skincare- Skinceuticals Sheer Physical UV Defense SPF 50. This groundbreaking sunscreen has only physical filters, zinc oxide and titanium dioxide instead of the chemical ingredients. Ultra-sheer, light texture for all skin types even very sensitive and acne prone. $32.47 (Aesthetic Concepts, 3460 NE Stallings Drive, Nacogdoches, 936-569-1889)

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This desk agenda is the “must have” for the business person or student on your list! Leather interior with calling card holder contains month and week-at-a-glance calendars, address book and more. 3-ring binder has a flap to hold loose papers. Holds a 5 x 8 notepad. Refills and monogram available. $126 (Adair Boutique, 8079 North Street, Nacogdoches, 936569-6464)

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A man’s dream watch! The watch, hands and numerals on the Luminox Blackout are black and the dial is a dark gray providing a hint of the time during daylight. At night, it glows brightly for easy time visibility. The Blackout is most unusual... Handsome. Rugged. Mysterious. (Lufkin Jewelry on the Square, 121 E Frank Ave, Lufkin, 936-639-6369)

Morrison Supply now offers an extensive lighting collection that includes ceiling fans, chandeliers, pendants, bath vanities, outdoor lanterns and posts, door chimes, pushbuttons, plus an ever expanding array of home accessories. Lamps starting at $125 (Morrison Supply, 910 North John Redditt Drive, Lufkin, 936-632-7444)

Enjoy a cool and comfortable night’s sleep with exceptionally breathable sheets that have a silky soft feel. 1500 TREAD COUNT. 100% Egyptian Cotton. These sheets will stay soft and wrinkle free for years to come. No ironing necessary. Deep pockets for oversized mattresses. From $129.99 (P3 Designs, 212 E. Burke, Lufkin, 936-238-3992)

5. This distinctive lift/recliner combines a generously stuffed seam back with a soft supportive seat. Smooth, whisper quiet lift and recline. Simple two button control. Easily raise to a standing position. Gently lower to a seated position. Combining room to relax and tasteful design, this chair is perfect for any home. (Abeldt’s Gaslight Pharmacy, 200 Gaslight Blvd., Lufkin, 936-639-2346)

Jorge Revilla Jewelry Collection. A brilliant designer from Spain that understands Sterling Silver like no other. Burgos, in the Northern Region of Spain is known for it’s old world approach and craftmanship of the finest Sterling Silver. Organic in look and ever so modern in appeal. This is sterling at it’s finest. From $75 (Cavanaugh’s Jewelers, The Fashion District, 1905 Tulane Drive, Lufkin, 936-634-8261)

7. YETI Coolers. Wildly Stronger! Keep Ice Longer! A YETI cooler, with it’s roto-molded construction, generous insulation in walls and lid and freezer quality sealing gasket, gives you remarkable insulating performance and ice retention. No other cooler keeps ice longer. No other cooler compares! Starting at $159.99 (Coburn’s Supply, 2411 West Frank Avenue, Lufkin, 936-634-5539) 8. Only one chance to make a good first impression. A

whiter, brighter smile is beautiful, and can make you look and feel more confident. The Zoom! Whitening System is a scientifically advanced procedure. It’s safe, effective and fast. In One visit your teeth can be dramatically whiter. Gift certificates available. Holiday Zoom Package Special $490 Over $250 savings. (Hollywood Dental, 1703 Tulane Dr., 936-632-4477)

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Blake Russell I do not know what I did to deserve a man like Blake, but I feel so blessed to be his wife. Blake and I met in college four years ago, and we have been married a year and a half. Yes, it is still new and we have many years to learn and grow in this marriage, but we are excited. Blake brings out the best in me by just being who he is. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the hustle and bustle of life’s demands, and he is really good about bringing me back to what is truly important. Here are just some of the qualities of my husband: honesty, loving, dependable, pure, encouraging, levelheaded and enduring. He was definitely brought up in a wonderful home by parents who raised him right. When I ask Blake what he wants out of life, he says “God’s will, and not my own.” Being his wife, I know that those words are not just said, but they are lived out in his daily life. Blake leads worship for Great Escape, a ministry for SFA college students in Nacogdoches. His passion is music. Whether he is listening to music, writing music, or leading worship, music is what makes him thrive. The most humbling part about my husband is that he does not do it for recognition or fame of any kind; he does it solely for God’s glory. He knows in his heart that music is what he was designed to do. I am so proud of him and what he is doing. Thank you Blake for all that you are and all that you do. I love you forever Blake. Love, Ashley

Rip Gibbs One of the privileges of my husband, Rip Gibbs, job has been the influence of Godly people who want to share Jesus with adolescents. Rip has been on staff with Young Life for seventeen years. Young Life is an outreach to disinterested and unchurched adolescents, to introduce them to Jesus and help them grow in their faith. One of the first years on staff, a dear fellow staff person, Mal McSwaim gave Rip some incredible, life changing advise. He told Rip, “Meet people with the intention of knowing them and investing in them their whole life”. This advice is what merits my husband a place in the Hall of Fame. I could nominate him for the way he has loved, cared, and provided for myself and our three boys; however, that is just what makes him a good man. What makes him an extraordinary man is the way he has lived out the advice given to him by Mal years ago. Young Life’s mission statement says that as staff people we believe in the POWER OF PRESENCE, that kid’s lives are dramatically impacted when we come alongside them, sharing God’s love with them. Rip lives out the POWER OF PRESENCE. I have gotten to walk alongside him as he meets a freshman in high school, walks with them through high school, shares Christ with them, teaches them to share Christ with others, is present with them as they begin their journey of life long decisions, perform their marriage ceremony, and sit with them at a parent’s funeral. Most people would be privileged to have impacted one person this way. Rip has a list that would look like a phone book of people that he has lived out the POWER OF PRESENCE. This type of investment in people can only be found in a man who strives to love and invest the way Jesus loves and invests, unconditionally and unselfishly. This type of investment in people can only be found in a man that can put his own ambitions, time and desires aside to be there for others. I am honored to partner with him and continue to pray and watch the Lord at work through him as he lives out the POWER OF PRESENCE.

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stretch marks | yourlife And His Name Shall Be Called…

by Melissa Lee

December is a conflicting time for me. Sure I love hot chocolate and stockings, cookie exchanges, and listening to Fred Astaire sing “I Heard The Bells On Christmas Day.” However, every December, mixed in between holiday movies and big store discounts, there is a pain inside of my heart that refuses to go away. On Christmas morning, 2005, I kissed my little boy good-bye, he closed his sweet eyes, and made the journey from my arms to the arms of my Savior. So as the sun begins to settle in for the winter, as clouds form and rain turns to sleet, as yellow days turn in to grey ones - so does my heart. Because as joyful as it tends to be, there are moments when the joy turns to sadness or memories or snapshots in my mind and I cry.

be marred by what isn’t in the room as opposed to what is? But knowing the Lord, as I do, I know that He does nothing without a reason and He does nothing to hurt,only heal. I also know that in everything, there is a lesson. Here is one I learned on that Christmas morning, five years ago this month. I am not the only parent that had to give a son away on a cold, Christmas day. So did He. When I gave mine away, I did not have to do so knowing that He would live for 33 years only to die a heinous death at the hands of scoffers. I didn’t have to watch His life begin in a barn and end with a nail.

to His? Would you remember that He is to be called “…Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” May I remind you that there is no loss you’ve experienced that He didn’t first experience Himself? No tear He hasn’t counted. No wound He cannot heal. So He is a Prince of Peace. Please know that this Christmas there is no financial situation He can’t solve, marriage he can’t fix or wayward child He can’t bring back home. It is the reason we call Him Wonderful Counselor. Be reminded this season that nothing is too hard, too heavy, too lengthy or too treacherous that He cannot carry it, lift it, reach across it or bear it to save you. He is, indeed, a Mighty God.

Be reminded this season that nothing is too hard, too heavy, too lengthy or too treacherous that He cannot carry it, lift it, reach across it or bear it – to save you.

This December, a sweet friend of mine sent me a quote from author and speaker, Beth Moore, who had recently penned the Foreword in the new book by Mary Beth Chapman, Choosing to SEE: A Journey of Struggle and Hope, a book written about Mary Beth’s loss of her daughter. Here is what Beth wrote in that foreword… “...after decades of interacting with women, I knew that the name of every lost child is sacred to the grieving mother. A person is wise to use it with great care and caution because the stab of pain it will invariably cause had better be worth it.” A part of me wanted to let out a cheer the day I read that sentence, because yes, its’s true; the mere mention of a name can bring about life’s worst pain and life’s sweetest joy, and I know that fact all too well. Instead of cheer the day I read that ,I began to do something else…I began to think. Oftentimes, I’ve wondered why Christmas day? Of all the other 364 days of the year ,why did I have to lose so much on that day? Why must the most joyous day of the year always 52 / The Journey - December 2010

I didn’t have to watch as someone wrapped Him in rags and laid Him in hay, knowing that only too soon He would be wrapped in grave clothes and laid to rest. I didn’t have to watch as animals welcomed His arrival and animals chanted for His death. I didn’t have to watch Him cry at birth and cry out at death. I became thankful that my heartbreak was nothing compared to His. So as I re-read the words of Beth, I thought of Jesus. How flippantly we use His name, for our amusement and for our purposes. I was sad that I did not always use it with great care, for doing so any other way would bring a stab of pain to the Father who loves Him and sent Him to a stable and a virgin and a barn full of animals, for me. So, this Christmas, in memory of my son Elisha’s name, would you bring honor

Lastly, this Christmas morning, as you watch your little ones unwrap Big Foot Monsters and a 4-wheeler that your husband has sworn to you won’t go over 20 miles an hour and take out everything in its path, as you sip coffee by a fireplace and answer the question, “Momma, what’s a virgin?” for the one millionth time, remember that you have an Everlasting Father who holds what’s precious to you in His arms just like any good father would. So have a Merry Christmas. In His Name. Amen.

Melissa Lee recently moved back to her hometown of Lufkin after living in Nashville for 15 years as a studio session singer. She uses her maiden name as to not mortify her husband on a daily basis. Together they have two kids, Remi and Rocco, who they adore but will admit – are pretty bad. She spends her weekends traveling and speaking to women’s groups, writing or leading in worship at her church. She is constantly astounded at the sweetness of God, the goodness of her husband and the friendship of her mother. She can’t say “no” to a Channing Tatum movie or a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup.

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Barbara Alford, daughter of Keith and Brenda Alford of Center,TX engaged to Dustin Cole Pressley , son of Randy and Suzan Pressley of Hudson.

The wedding will take place at The Atlantis Resort in the Bahamas on March 18th, 2011. Reception to follow when the couple returns home. Photography by Donna Quarles.www.donnaquarles.com

Becca Reynolds & Donald Guillot November 20. 2010 Lufkin, TX

Parents of the bride are Jim and Amy Reynolds, Parents of the groom are Melinda Guillot and the late Donald Guillot Sr.Photography by Lacy Oliver Photography www.Lacyoliver.com

Tyler Alverson and Clayton Pavlic October 30, 2010 Cochino Lodge in Kennard

Parents of the Bride: Clay and Yvette Alverson Parents of the Groom: Lynn and Cathy Pavlic

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CHRISTMAS – “Tis the Season for Giving” by Kathryn Greene

One of my fondest memories as a little girl is looking forward to Christmas. There was the anticipation of what would be under the tree on Christmas mo r n i ng. Would I get what I had asked Santa for? Would my parents get me that outfit that I loved at the department store? Would my grandmother make my favorite candy, the Washington balls filled with cherry pieces and covered in chocolate? Christmas was all about me and what I wanted. I still have some of those same desires, just thinking more maturely! What am I going to buy for the grandchildren, for our adult children, for the office staff, for all the special people in our life, all of whom have more than they will ever play with or use? So what is the real meaning of Christmas? Is it receiving or giving? I think we all know the answer to that, but how do we get past giving more to those who already have so much and see God’s heart and His compassion to give to those who are caught in the grips of poverty and have so little? One of the best books that I have ever read, I read this past summer. It was The Hole in Our Gospel by Richard Stearns. The book is the story of Richard Stearns, a corporate CEO who set aside worldly success for something far more significant and discovered God’s ultimate purpose for his life. The idea behind the book is that being a follower of Jesus Christ requires much

more than just having a personal and transforming relationship with God. It also entails a public and transforming relationship with the world. It is much more inclusive than just meeting in our churches on Sunday morning, singing songs, giving our money, and then going through our week with no thought of the rest of the world. The whole gospel is more than just telling people there is a God in Heaven that loves them so much that He sent His Son, Jesus, to walk among us for some 33 years and then sacrifice His sinless life so that any of us could experience eternal life. The whole gospel also includes giving them food for their stomach, not just their soul. It means taking time to teach them how to plant and harvest food. It means providing ways to have purified water, not water so contaminated that if they drink it they will get cholera. In his book Richard Stearns says it so well…

“Our charge is to both proclaim and embody the gospel so that others can see, hear, and feel God’s love in tangible ways. When we are living out our faith with integrity and compassion in the world, God can use us to give others a glimpse of His love and character.” (Page 18)

During this season of the year I am challenged to think of others, those who are caught in poverty and don’t have anything to eat, very little to wear, and no hope of things being any different. I need to challenge myself to really look at the pictures of those in Haiti and other countries where they have been overcome by catastrophic events. I need to make a decision to give up

some family traditions and give to an organization or cause that can make a difference in the life of the hurting? I found this World Vision website: www. worldvision.org/content.nsf/give/ ways-to-give. It has a list of ways that I can give to Haiti, Africa, and other specific needs. A friend shared with me that last year they began encouraging their grown children to give to a mission cause or relief organization in the place of a gift for she and her husband at Christmas. The children had taken a catalog from World Vision and ordered some things with the money they would have spent on their parents’ gifts. It was a joyful time as the children had wrapped what they had done in a gift package and then watched anxiously for their parent’s response to what had been purchased in their behalf. They had purchased a goat for a family in some needy country and then a cow in another location. They celebrated around the Christmas tree for what God had done for them as a family and what they could give to others. It brought joy and a sense of well-being to know they had brought joy to someone else. God gave us His Son as the greatest gift He could give. That is the “Reason for the Season”! What is something God wants us to give this Christmas season? Is it a goat to a village in Nigeria? Is it a cow to a village in Niger? Is it $50 for a sanitation system or $60 for medicine and supplies for people in Haiti? Is it $30 for seeds, tools, and training in Africa? Whatever God has for us… this Christmas can be a time to give the whole gospel to the world.

How do we get past giving more to those who already have so much and see God’s heart and His compassion to give to those who are caught in the grips of poverty and have so little?” 56 / The Journey - December 2010

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Featured Teacher Laura Mikeal

You could say that Laura Mikeal’s teaching career began when she was a young girl standing behind her mother’s classroom podium. Then her students were make-believe, but now she touches the lives of many students each day. She graduated from high school and enrolled at Stephen F. Austin State University where she received a Bachelors in Elementary Education with a specialization in Early Childhood and a Masters in Elementary Education. She is also certified to teach Special Education and English as a Second Language. Teaching children has become Laura’s passion. She credits her parents with helping her to succeed. “My biggest influences have been my parents. Without them, I would not be where I am today. They have always encouraged me to do whatever I want in life and have pushed me when I thought I could achieve no more.” Laura is in her twelfth year of impacting young lives. She has taught prekindergarten and second grade at various campuses within the Lufkin School District. Currently, she teaches second grade, one-way dual language at Lufkin’s newest campus, Burley Primary. She recognizes that her teaching goes far beyond academics and helps to build a child’s future by molding them as a person. Laura admits, “Teaching is a difficult job, but the promise of the betterment of students’ lives is what keeps me going.” Her principal, Jason Davis, is very thankful for her service. He explains, “Mrs. Mikeal is a valuable member of the Burley family. She is persistent in her instructional delivery techniques to allow our students be successful. Burley is blessed to have Mrs. Mikeal as an educator of our children.” She has loved her teaching experience on each campus where she has served, but Laura has found her home teaching dual language. All of the students in Laura’s class are learning English as a second language. They spend half of the day learning in Spanish and the other half of the day learning in English. She teaches English reading and math to two different classes. The children engage in bilingual pairs, assigned according to their vocabulary and cognitive ability in English and Spanish. Students lean on each other to explain information they might not know and to support one another’s language development. Laura assures, “By doing this we are not hoping they’ll get it, but we make sure they do.” Because English is their second language, the class spends an increased amount of time in whole group and cooperative learning groups to help develop new vocabulary and oral language. Laura’s primary goal is for her students to become bi-literate and not only enrich their lives, but also the lives of their extended families, as well. She believes that without this program, her student would not be successful. Laura loves spending time with her family and being involved in her children’s activities. Her boys, Austin and Zach, play baseball and love to hunt. When she is not at the deer camp or cheering at a baseball game, Laura serves with the Junior League of Lufkin. She is currently the co-chair of Camp Get Fit, an outreach program to reach elementary age children with the message of living a healthy lifestyle. Everything about Laura Mikeal’s professional and personal life revolves around children. She has devoted her life to her own children and to the many that walk through the door of her classroom year after year.

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finance | yourlife Smart Financial Moves Can Help Brighten the Holiday Season

If you’re like many people, you’re watching your on gifts. But by making the right moves during this dollars extra carefully this year as you do your holiday holiday season, you can also help ensure that you shopping. And that’s a good thing, because even stay on track toward your long-term financial goals. in the best of times, it’s never wise to go overboard Specifically, what steps should you be taking during these weeks? Here are a few suggestions: •

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Avoid racking up big debts. In a time of economic uncertainty, the last thing you want is to take on a new debt load. Everyone in your life who is important enough to receive a gift from you will understand if you don’t splurge on presents you can’t afford. And winter can be pretty gloomy when you’re trying to pay off big credit card bills from the past holiday season. Establish a gift fund. For next year’s gift-giving season, you may want to open a special “gift fund.” Of course, it’s not easy for any of us to find “extra” money after we’re done paying our bills, so the best way to set up your gift fund may be to have the money moved automatically each month from your checking or savings account to another liquid account — one that you wouldn’t normally touch for your day-to-day expenses. Even if you can only afford to put in a small amount each month, you might be surprised at how much you’ll accumulate in a year. Don’t touch long-term investments to pay for gifts. Some people tap into their long-term investments to pay for holiday gifts, telling themselves they’ll re-fund the investment when they “get caught up” — but that rarely happens. In fact, once you cash out part of an investment to pay for a gift or an everyday expense, you’ll set yourself back in your pursuit of your financial objectives — so do whatever you can to help preserve those investments. Apart from setting up a gift fund, you’ll also want to

make sure you have a reasonable amount of “cash” and cash equivalents in your investment portfolio. •

Protect yourself from identity theft. Victims of identity theft can testify that it’s an enormous — and possibly expensive — hassle. Unfortunately, identity theft seems to go up during the holiday season, so take steps to protect yourself. When you go out shopping, just take one debit or credit card with you — and look around whenever you use it. Identity thieves have been known to copy down credit card numbers and even photograph credit cards with cell phones. Also, if you’re shopping online, make sure you’re on a secure web site. One way to check for a secure site is to look for “https” in the Web address, along with the icon of the locked padlock on your browser’s status bar.

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Shop early for bargains. As you probably know, some of the best bargains come during stores’ “after-holiday” sales. By taking advantage of these sales, you can stock up on gifts for the next holiday season.

By following these suggestions, you may be able to remove a lot of the financial stress that often accompanies the holidays — and that, by itself, can help you enjoy the season even more.

Stacey Paige, Financial Advisor with Edward Jones is located at 321 S. First Street in Lufkin. You may call 936-634-6116 or 800-569-9777 to schedule an appointment with Stacey to discuss your financial goals, review your current portfolio or answer any of your financial questions. http://www.edwardjones.com/

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Girls don’t really need a reason to get together, but this particular group shares a passion for reading books. These ladies come together every six to eight weeks to discuss a common book they have been reading. The membership of the group has changed over the years. People come and go, but any member is welcome to invite a fellow book-loving friend. The group usually meets in someone’s home for dinner. It is tradition that whoever picks the books will host dinner and facilitate the discussion. The ladies have been known to meet at Starbucks for coffee or go to a restaurant for Christmas. When this many women get together, there are sure to be differing opinions. However, they group tries to read from an assortment of genres, such as mysteries, novels, literature, and biographies. They have successfully managed to avoid reading a reallife, present day political work, and anything about the economy is also politely declined.

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People read for many reasons, and this group has covered them all. Some of their selections have been informative, while others are more entertaining. No matter what the selection, they learn something from each book they read. Group member Terri Reed expresses, “Reading challenges me. When we read The Zookeeper’s Wife, I realized I knew very little about Germany’s occupation of Poland before and during WWII; so that was a catalyst for personal study of the topic.” Over the years, the ladies have read so many books. Some suggest books they have enjoyed themselves or

The group is currently reading “Dewey: The Small-Town Library Cat Who Touched the World,” by Vicki Myron.

have heard about. One of the group’s favorite books has been Because of Winn-Dixie, a children’s book written by Kate DiCamillo. The selection for this past summer was Olive Kitteridge, by Elizabeth Strout. This book won a Pulitzer Prize, but the main character proved to be one of the most unlikeable characters the group had ever encountered. Collectively, the group gave this book unfavorable marks. The group also read the classic, Breakfast at Tiffany’s by Truman Capote. The ladies enjoyed watching the movie together, but noted that the two versions were very different. This past June, the ladies did something different. Everyone brought two books they had recently read, whether they liked the book or not. Each of them discussed their own selections with the group. Many of them ended up switching books, and it provided some with summer reading. Because different members nominate and choose the books, each of the ladies experience titles they would not normally choose on their own. Sometimes they visit more than they discuss the books, but these ladies enjoy one another’s company. Together, appreciate the art of a well-written book.

Current group members: Catherine Roberts, Elizabeth Perkins, Jamie Zayler, Terri Reed, Karla Maharrey, Joann Feld, Jule Fenley, Susie Erwin, Pam Herrington, Angie Tellman, Susan Mendola, Peggilu Watkins and January Smith.

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t e s o l C t c e f r e P A

| Fashion

The Fundamentals of

By Kelley Moore

Building a solid foundation of basic pieces is the perfect solution to the old problem of never having anything to wear! By having classic pieces hanging in your closet there is no need for impulse buying of one time wear items. Starting with just ten classic items for each season, you will save time and money!

1. Three-piece black suit:

jacket, pant, and skirt. These pieces should be classic separates. Choose a season less material, preferably a fabric that will pack and travel well. Each of these pieces can work with other separates for a variety of looks.

2. Classic white blouse:

important closet staple. Invest in a high quality blouse with a little stretch to the fabric for a better fit.

3. Jeans:

choose a jean for your body type. The skinny jean is very much “in” but if you have a pear shape, this won’t work! Try the trouser jean or a wider leg. Spend the time and money to search for a great fit.

4. Basic tees:

one white, one black, and one in a great color, such as red or pink. These can be crew neck or v-neck, short or long sleeve. A fitted tee is much more flattering than a baggy, big tee.

5. Turtleneck sweater:

Choose a great black turtleneck with a silk blend. A lighter weight for Texas climate will make this piece more useful.

6. Khaki chinos or brown pants: A weekend staple that will add a little diversity to your wardrobe.

7. Classic black dress: This is a fashion must! This dress should be simple and stunning, now and for years to come.

8. Trench coat: A stylish coat goes a long way. Choose

a basic color like black and it will be great over jeans or the little black dress.

9. Jog suit: Comfortable, yet put together should be the

focus of this item. One never knows who you might run into while grocery shopping! treat yourself to one trendy piece: this could be a tunic or a beaded top. Metallic is all the rage for holiday. Don’t spend a large amount on something trendy. It may be a one season item.

10. Lastly,

Having these ten items in your closet provides a solid foundation that practically guarantees you will look polished for any occasion.

Kelley Moore is a clothing consultant representing the Carlisle/PerSe Collection. Kelley provides personal shopping, closet audits, and fit consultations for clients in the Lufkin/Nacogdoches area. The Carlisle Collection is shown seasonally at Studio 319, in Lufkin . For more information email mailto:kelleys@consolidated.netkelleys@consolidated.net. tjmag.com / 63

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BrazilianBlowout What is Brazilian blowout?

Before

The BRAZILIAN BLOWOUT is the most innovative and effective professional smoothing treatment you can find.

What does it actually do to the hair? Through the use of a Brazilian Super Nutrient Complex and a proprietary polymer system, the Brazilian Blow Out actually improves the condition of the hair by creating a protective protein layer around the hair shaft to eliminate frizz and smooth the cuticle.

What does the process involve? There are six steps in the process. First, the client is shampooed twice to remove any residue from the hair. Then, the Brazilian Blow Out solution is applied in sections. Next, the hair is blown dry. After that, the hair is flat ironed in small sections. Then, the product is rinsed and conditioned. Finally, the hair is blown dry.

How long does the process take? Then entire process will take anywhere from one and a half to two hours, depending on length of hair.

Is there after maintenance involved? Brazilian Blow Out does recommend products to increase the longevity of the process.

What is the price? The price is determined by the length and thickness of the client’s hair. The base price is $200.00 and goes up accordingly.

What are some of the comments from clients who have received the Brazilian Blowout? Most commonly, you will hear, “It changed my life.” We also hear how awesome and amazing their hair looks, and that it doesn’t even look like the same head of hair. My personal favorite is when a client simply said, “Insane!”

How does it change their lives? The styling time is cut in half. The hair dries faster, and there is little to any use of a flat iron.

Where can I have this done? You can contact Studio 319, where our stylist are trained and certified to provide the most current products and services available! Call for your Brazilian Blow Out.

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After

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Women’s Health

Boosters for Boomers By C. Doyle Haynes, M.D.

Americans are constantly redefining what is considered “old.” Sixty is the new 50; 70 is the new 60 and we all live longer than ever before. But as we age, we become more susceptible to illness and disease. For adults over the age of 60, these illnesses can be very serious. The good news is that many illnesses can

be prevented through proper immunization. In fact, adults over the age of 60 can lower their risk of developing influenza, pneumonia, shingles and tetanus through a simple injection. For older adults, vaccines are a preventable measure towards a healthier future.

Influenza

Shingles

With flu season just around the corner, it is important for older adults to make getting the flu vaccine a top priority. A flu shot is the best prevention against contracting the flu. According to the National Institute on Aging, the flu vaccine reduces hospitalizations by about 70 percent and death by about 85 percent among older adults. The flu vaccine is recommended for adults age 65 and older, as well as persons of any age with chronic medical conditions, such as chronic heart, lung and kidney diseases.

Shingles is a painful skin rash caused by the varicella-zoster virus, the same virus that causes chickenpox. For people who have had chickenpox, the virus remains dormant in the nerve tissues and reactivates when the body’s immune system is weakened by age or physical or emotional stress. The shingles vaccine, which was approved in 2006, is recommended for anyone over the age of 60 and for patients who have had shingles in the past.

Pneumonia Pneumonia is a severe infection or inflammation of the lungs that, when combined with the flu, is the seventh leading cause of death in our country. Many pneumonias are caused by bacteria, and a vaccine is available that prevents pneumonia from 23 types of pneumococcus bacteria. According to the National Foundation of Infectious Diseases, more than half of pneumococcal cases and nearly all deaths in adults could have been prevented with the vaccine. The shot can also prevent some of the serious complications of pneumonia, such as infection in the bloodstream and throughout the body. It is recommended that you get the pneumococcal vaccine if you’re age 65 or older, you have a chronic illness or a weak immune system, or you’ve had your spleen removed. Although you may get one dose of the vaccine at any time, you may need a second dose if you’re age 65 or older and received your first dose before you turned 65, you have a weak immune system or kidney disease, or you had an organ or bone marrow transplant.

Tetanus When we think of tetanus, we often think of rusty nails. However, tetanus is much more than that. Tetanus is caused by bacteria that enter the body through wounds or cuts exposed to soil. Most people who develop tetanus infections are over the age of 65. It is recommended that children and adults receive the tetanus vaccine every 10 years. Vaccinations are the best defense against illness. To receive additional information on available vaccinations, or to schedule an appointment to update your immunization, please contact your primary care provider.

Sources: National Foundation for Infectious Diseases www.nfid.org Centers for Disease Control and Prevention www.cdc.org National Institute on Aging www.nia.nih.org Mayo Clinic www.mayoclinic.com

Dr. Haynes is a Family Practice physician. For more information or to make an appointment, call 936-699-5040.

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fitness | yourbody Which Workout is Right for You? Interval Training

Pilates

Interval training is a mixture of strength training and cardio exercises. Both cardio and strength are an integral part of overall fitness; therefore, this type of class is perfect for those that are looking for overall body conditioning in one class.

Pilates focuses on core strength and stability while also touching on flexibility. This class is perfect for people looking to build their core strength. Pilates, mixed with walking, is a great place for a beginner to start if they don’t feel ready for a highe -level class. But don’t be mistaken, Pilates can be tough as well!

Boot Camp The title of Boot Camp is generally used to describe an interval class that is simplistic in its exercises, yet performed at a more difficult level. Boot Camp is for those individuals that possibly need a little extra motivation as these classes are usually made of smaller groups with more instructor focus.

Zumba Zumba is a Latin dance-based cardio class. You will sweat profusely and have tons of fun whether you are a dancer or not! If you’re looking to burn lots of calories, this is a great place to start. Just remember that experts recommend at least 2 days a week of strength training to reach your fitness potential.

Yoga Yoga’s main focus is definitely flexibility, but some yoga classes can offer a power element that is very effective at building strength. Yoga will also help improve your balance and teach you how to listen to your body through breathing and meditation. Flexibility and balance are extremely important, as they are key in fall prevention. Even if you do not join a yoga class, be sure to add stretching to any exercise routine.

Other types of Cardio classes: Spinning – stationary bikes with a choreographed routine set to music. Step Aerobics Kickboxing Any other classes that get your heart pumping! Lufkin Boot Camp Company Stephanie Gustafson – Trainer Jennifer Farmer – Trainer www.lufkinbootcamp.com

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Your Child

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Photo by Lisa Crow

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Flu Shots

Flu season is here. Is your family prepared? Cases of influenza can occur at anytime, but the flu season traditionally starts in November and continues through May, with a peak in January and February. Preventing flu starts in the fall and continues throughout the winter.

The first step to prevent infection with the influenza virus is vaccination. Children

have a high rate of infection; so vaccination is very important in the pediatric population. Vaccination for influenza comes in two forms, an injection or a nasal mist. Children six months and older should receive a flu vaccine. Children ages 2 and older are eligible to receive the flu mist (the nasal flu spray) if they do not have certain medical problems and

by Dr. Cristina Graves

keep their hands out of their mouths. If your child is ill, keep them at home. They should be fever free for at least 24 hours before returning to school and other activities. If your child does become ill with the flu, what can you expect? Common symptoms of the flu include fever, chills, body aches, cough and congestion. These symptoms commonly last four or five days and sometimes longer. Seeking medical attention early in the course of illness can prove to be beneficial. Antivirals are available depending on the strain of flu with which you are infected. The antivirals will shorten the course of illness and often prevent secondary complications. In addition to seeking medical care, you can treat symptoms at home with fever reducers and other over the counter cough and cold medications.

The flu season traditionally starts in November and continues through May with a peak in January and February. are not exposed to individuals with compromised immune systems. Your medical provider can help you decide which is best for you and your family. Vaccination should occur as soon as supplies become available. If you miss the early months for vaccination, keep in mind that receiving the vaccine as late as January or February is still very beneficial.

The second step to keeping your family healthy this flu season is education. Teach your

children to wash their hands frequently or use a sanitizing hand gel, especially before meals. Encourage children to

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Children with the flu should generally avoid aspirin. People with chronic medical problems, such as asthma and heart disease, the elderly and very young are at increased risk of complications from the flu. Secondary bacterial infections like pneumonia are a risk for all, but pose an increased threat to those described above. Symptoms lasting longer than the usual four or five days, or sudden worsening of symptoms, should prompt evaluation by a physician. Get your family vaccinated and educate them on how to stay healthy this flu season!

Christina M. Graves, M.D. is board certified in pediatrics. Christina has been married to Del for 12 years. They have two boys (5 and 8 yrs) and two girls (2 and 4 years). She has worked at the Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Clinic for four years. The Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Clinic, 205 Gene Samford Drive, Lufkin, 936-634-2214

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Girl’s Part y Safari Adventure Reagan and Cailyn Crow

Looking for a way to utilize a Lufkin treasure—Ellen Trout Zoo? The Crow family had a great party for their girls, Reagan and Cailyn. Using free pavilions at the zoo saved money to budget in other areas of the party. They also went “green” with most of the décor: palm fronds, animal print fabric remnants, vases filled with sand and asper grass. All were readily available and at little to no cost. The cake is homemade and delicious. The children loved it! The party was started with a craft. Each child decorated his

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or her own collapsible binoculars. Afterwards, each received a safari hat and bag to go on a safari scavenger hunt inside the zoo. There were five check points, and at each check point they would get a prize/party favor. Then we met back at the pavilion for lunch and had cake. The party ended with a train ride. Not only did the party utilize our wonderful zoo, it was educational for the children, and cost effective for the parents!

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Boyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Party Dinosaur Dig

| birthday

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Brett Briley

If anyone knows Brett, they know how much he loves dinosaurs. His mom and dad made his fifth birthday special by having a Dinosaur Dig party. The best part of the party and also where every child immediately ran to, was the huge dirt mound in the backyard. When each child arrived, they received a bag and shovel to dig for dinosaur bones and dino toys buried in the dirt mound. The kids loved it!

The dĂŠcor made the party even more spectacular. They had everything from the dinosaur bones in a glass jar, to the dino themed food and drinks They also provided growing dinosaur party favors. The cake was another great feature! It was topped with a Stegosaurus and a bvolcano; another delicious creation by Grandough Bakery. The Dino Dig party was a great way to have Brettâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s friends to celebrate his love for dinosaurs and his fifth birthday. Happy Birthday Brett!

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childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s play | yourchild

The Ellis Family

Dr. Keven and Shelli Ellis love the spirit of Christmas in their home. All three children have trees in their room that match their individual personalities. Kati's tree is all girl that matches her very sassy styled room. Everyone who knows John, knows he is a die hard Aggie. His room and tree display his passion for maroon! Jacob is an avid outdoorsman. His tree has his deer horns, his love for fishing, and everything that goes with it. The Ellis' are all about family and sharing the special season together.

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. . . The Best

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Christmas Treats by Anna Lee

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Ever!

Ingredients

Directions

1/4 cup milk chocolate chips

In a small saucepan over medium heat, add chocolate chips, half-and-half, and cinnamon. Melt chocolate chips stirring frequently with wooden spoon; about 5 minutes. Be careful not to let boil. Remove from heat and pour into mug. Top hot chocolate with a dollup of marshmallow crème.

1 cup half-and-half 1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon Marshmallow creme

and eats

Santa’s Sleighs

Recipe By: Sandra Lee

Directions:

Sleigh bottom #1: Coat 1 side of a graham cracker cookie completely with white royal icing. Place 2 candy canes on top, keeping the hooks pointing upward, holding them in place for a few seconds to let set. Sprinkle coconut over the whole cracker and candy canes and set aside to let dry. Sleigh bottom #2: Coat 1 side of another graham cracker completely with red royal icing and set aside to dry.

Ingredients: Graham crackers White royal icing Red royal icing Starbursts Sugar wafers Fruit Roll-ups Teddy Grahams Twizzlers Candy canes Shredded coconut Chocolate Santa, foil wrapped

Presents: Pipe ribbons with white royal icing on Starbursts. Set aside to let dry. Santa’s seat: Take 2 sugar wafer bars (attached) and completely wrap with a fruit roll-up. Take another pair of wafers and do the same. Place seam side down to keep from them unfolding. Set aside. To assemble: Pipe a thin line of white royal icing over the

length of the candy canes that are attached to sleigh bottom #1. Place sleigh bottom #2 (red graham cracker) on top of candy canes (red side up)and hold for a few seconds to let set. Make a seat out of the fruit rollup covered sugar wafers by making an “L” shape on top of red cracker. Use 1 as the seat and the other as the back of the seat. On 1 side of the seat stack a few candy gifts and on the other side, place the chocolate Santa. Spread out 1 fruit rollup and place a few gifts in the middle and make a pouch, tying the ends of the rollup together with a twizzler, like a beggar’s purse. Place gift pouch behind Santa’s seat. tjmag.com / 73

kids konnect

| yourchild

What is your favorite Christmas tradition? Kolton Koonce (right), 8, Nacogdoches “On Christmas Eve we have always spent the night at my Mimi and Pappaw’s house, and we get to open 2 gifts before we go to bed. Since my Pappaw and Uncle Ryan spend Christmas in heaven now, my Mimi spends the night at our house!”

Kaden Koonce (left), 7, Nacogdoches “After spending Christmas Day with my Granny in Cushing, I love opening presents at my Nanna and Grandaddy’s house. Grandaddy always builds a fire in the fireplace and Nanna makes cheese toast and hot chocolate for us!”

Kayli Koonce, 12, Nacogdoches “Every year on the day before Christmas Eve, I make Christmas cookies with my Mom and brothers. Most are shared with our family and friends at Christmas parties, but we always pick 3 of the best ones to put on Santa’s plate on Christmas Eve.”

Titus Grigg, 6, Lufkin “Going to Arkansas to see my family.”

Does your child have a craft, hobby, or interest that they would like to share with other kids their age? Tell us about it by emailing us at editor@tjmag.com.Your child might be featured in a future issue of The Journey! 74 / The Journey - December 2010

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why I love being a mom

Lori Morris

God reminded me that He was in control, and it would be in His timing that we would be parents.

After trying for some time to have a baby, my husband, Keith, and I began to lose our faith. I struggled emotionally with my own personal feelings of “What’s wrong with me?” It was at this trying time in my life that I had to seek God’s word. God reminded me that He was in control, and it would be in His timing that we would be parents. I referred to the verses in Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.” I began to pray long and hard for answers and God’s will. Not much longer after those prayers were spoken, I was staring into the bright, blue eyes of my healthy baby boy. Our son, Landon Reid, was born August 16, 2008, a day my life would be changed forever in ways I couldn’t begin to imagine. 1 Samuel 1:27 says, “I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him.” This became a very special Bible verse to me. Now, two years later, we’re playing with choo-choo-trains, building with blocks, having late night story times and riding

Power Wheels tractors all over the backyard. Looking back over the past two years, I will always remember Landon’s firsts; his first step, his first tooth, the first time he said, “Mommy,” his first Christmas, and him crying over his first birthday cake. I will forever treasure the countless hugs and kisses and the times we practically rocked each other to sleep. To this day, I still enjoy tucking him into bed and watching him sleep so sound and peacefully. Even though it’s not always fun and games, being a mom is the most rewarding feeling in the entire world. Each day I thank God for the blessing he has given Keith and me. There’s no stronger bond than the bond between a mother and her child.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. -Proverbs 3:5-6

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The Review

Bling Chandelier

Laine’s Hallmark

Trim your tree Christopher Radko European Glass Nativity Ornament The Very Thing

Hallmark Keepsake Ornaments

Old World Glass Ornament

House of Traditions

Laine’s Hallmark

Soriortiy Design Ornaments Macy May

Waterford Limited Edition Ornament Kennedy’s Jewelers

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Hand Blown Glass Ornament

Glass Castles , Downtown Nacogdoches

Traditional Santa Ornament The Very Thing

parting advice “What do you do to ease your Christmas stress?” “It seems typically when I feel myself getting super stressed during Christmas, I try to remind myself what the season is all about. That is what I want my daughter to remember most. Not all the gifts (and she won’t, because I don’t remember any from my childhood),but is the honor and reverence we give to celebrating our Savior’s birth. Once I remind myself of that is why Christmas is Christmas, then things fall in to place . . . and then there is the egg nogg!!! That helps too.” Terrie Dawson. Nacogdoches

“To ease my holiday stress, I try to focus on my family, We have some “traditions” we do each year that help remind us of the real reason for Christmas.We have traditions my son looks forward to each year and now, my daughter will get to learn these things too!”

Emily Payne, Nacogdoches

“The adults in my family play a gift exchange game rather than buying individual gifts. This reduces the number of gifts to buy and adds a lot of fun to our family gathering.” Jada Tiemann, Lufkin

“I let my freezer be my friend. I plan my meals in advance and try to cook ahead. If I am expecting company, I make two casseroles and freeze one for later. For dessert, I bake the cake layers ahead of time and freeze them. When I need a cake, I take the layers out of the freezer and ice them. When it comes time to put away the decorations until next year, I keep things intact as much as possible, permanently attaching large ornaments to trees and garland.” Teresa Stokes, Lufkin

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