Milieu - Volume 1 Issue 04 by Milieu Magazine For Women

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Pure NV BKT Harmonizing Shampoo and Conditioner is the perfect rejuvenating duo for hair fried during the hot summer. The shampoo is infused with keratin that gently cleanses and leaves your hair hydrated. The conditioner restores the hair’s depleted keratin and imparts a satin smooth finish. ($25 for each, American Culture, NuBest Salon & Spa in Manhasset and The Look Salon in Greenlawn, AmericanCultureHair.com)

your hands look creamy and smooth. ($10, Keep Buzzin’ Body Products, KeepBuzzinBodyProducts.com)

Keep Buzzin’ Honey-Almond Hand Cream with a vegan sweet almond essential oil blend smells heavenly and makes

Elizabeth Arden Beautiful Color Eye Shadow Classic Khaki Duo offers brilliant long-wearing colors that are crease-free and unique skincare benefits that eliminate fine lines while lifting and firming eyelids, perfect for your fall look. ($28.50, Red Door Spa, Multiple Locations, ElizabethArden.com) OBAGI ELASTIderm Eye Complete Complex Serum is a great way to kick off your morning. Thanks to a dose of

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caffeine, the serum helps improve strength and replenish elasticity of the skin around the eyes for a smoother and refreshed look ($89.10, Multiple Locations, Obagi.com)

Laura Mercier Rose Hope Lip Glace creates longlasting color—a top priority for many women’s lips in the office. This treatment also creates the appearance of fuller lips and 100 percent of profits from each lip glace purchase will be donated to the Laura Mercier Ovarian Cancer Fund to raise awareness and fund research and educational efforts. ($24, Laura Mercier, LauraMercier.com)

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Lush Emotional Brilliance Liquid Collection is about wearing colors that are determined by your mood. The liquid eyeliners, lip colors and eye shadows bring color to your face, and shape your mood according to the color you pick! (Lip colors $22.95, eyeliners $22.95 and eye shadows $22.95, Lush, Roosevelt Field, LushUSA.com)

Brownlow Gift Manicure Set comes with six manicure tools including a scissor, tweezer, nail file, cuticle pusher and two nail clippers nestled in a cute padded carrying case. A portion of profits benefit breast

cancer awareness and research. ($12, Gem Craft Boutique, Glen Head, GemCraftBoutique.com)

Philosophy Homemade Pumpkin Pie is the “It” bath and shower product for fall. The homemade blend of pumpkin and spice is a 3-in-1 formula: shampoo, shower gel and bubble bath—YUM! ($16, Macy’s, Multiple Locations, Macys.com)

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In This Issue

Inspiration

Staff

Style Editor

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can originate from many sources. Mine comes from the women I meet through my Fortune 52 column in the Long Island Press and in Milieu. These women personify what is right in the world, even if their life might have gone horribly wrong. In honor of the incalculable number of women around the world, but especially of our sisters on Long Island who are battling breast cancer, we wanted to tell you one of their stories. When I met Samantha Fried, she had recently gone through two surgeries, the second was to remove both of her breasts. At just 35 years old Sam has experienced more than most of us will ever have to endure. Before I write anymore, flip back to the cover of Milieu. That’s Samantha, a few days before her surgery. In this photo I see both her fierceness and her femininity. I hope after reading her story you will be moved to get involved this October during Breast Cancer Awareness Month and continue to support these women throughout the year. Many want the dollars they raise to go to research, others opt to help local women get through grassroots non profits. Either way, you’re helping others in their battle—the very least we can do for these female warriors. Our cover story is a subject that has been debated online, in print, on television and the radio: Has the media exploited the so-called “War on Women” or does it really exist? As a political novice, I listened and then opined and then I started getting mad. When I asked other women their thoughts, there was a mixed response. Some were unaware of the debate and others said, “That will never happen.” So, we gave the assignment to our editorial team. Is there a War on Women? The story begins on p. 27. Every quote we used was vetted and confirmed. I’ll leave you to read the story and make your own informed decision. My goal is to get you to vote. How you vote is up to you. If you’re not registered yet, there’s still time. All of the information is on the Milieu website, MilieuLI.com. If you’d like to receive the next issue of Milieu being published on Nov. 15, please email us your home address and you’ll Publisher receive the next issue Beverly Fortune in the mail, free of Art Director charge. I hope you Jon Sasala ASSOCIATE PUBLISHER/ enjoy reading this SALES DIR. issue and if it sparks Amanda Kollmer a conversation, then

we’ve done our job. In honor of the newest Fortune 52 honorees I’m hosting a free networking event on Tuesday, Oct. 2 at Tilles Center for the Performing Arts. It’s a great way to meet these extraordinary women and other Long Island business professionals. If you’d like to be added to the guest list, please email me. Warm Regards,

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Contents Beauty Counter �� p. 4 Express Checkout �� p. 8 Shopping List �� p. 10 Tanger Pink Style �� p. 13 Style Spotlight �� p. 14 Shoes �� p. 16 Handbags �� p. 18 Jewelry Box �� p. 20 Home Décor �� p. 22 Cover: Is There a War on Women? �� p. 27 Guys Who “Get It” �� p. 30 Feature: Surviving �� p. 34 Health �� p. 38 Family �� p. 42 Playground Patrol �� p. 44 High School Journalism �� p. 46 Nightlife �� p. 50 Here, There, Everywhere �� p. 54 Horoscopes �� p. 58 Crossword �� p. 58

Licia Avelar Staff Writer

Lindsay Christ Production

On the Cover

Contact

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Chris Twarowski, Jaclyn Gallucci, Spencer Rumsey, Tim Bolger, Rashed Mian, Caitlin Breen, Laura Cerrone, Sydney Menzin, Anna Dinger, Sarah O’Sullivan, Megan Gilroy, Kyle Kjellgren

Samantha Fried photographed by Melissa Calise Photography See Surviving on page 34

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Bangs Are Back... Again Cleopatra was on to something with her “bad girl” bangs because for thousands of years, they’ve continued to boomerang back into style, and this year’s no different. “More than ever, the fringe is in,” says Richard Calcasola of Maximus Salon and Spa in Carle Place, who raves, “It’s the easiest and fastest way to update any hairstyle.” While banging it does involve quite the commitment—if you’ve ever had bangs, you’ll know how stressful it can be to grow them out—it’s certainly worth it. “There is no age limit. For an older woman it can make you look younger, and at the same time make a young woman look older,” says Josephine Abbatiello of Studio Novelle in Carle Place. If you’re still not sure, just Google Jessica Biel, Rooney Mara, Lea Michele, Beyonce, or Rachel McAdams, and you’ll see how BIG this BANG trend really is. And if you’re really commitment-phobic you can always pick up clip-in bangs at the mall. Wear them to work Monday, take them out Tuesday!

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Growing Up Gold Coast Specialty Breads

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Pies, Pies, Pies

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Pies are always hot in the fall but this year, they’re so hot the International Dairy-Deli-Bakery Association’s “What’s In Store 2012” report is saying that pie is the next “It” dessert. “We think pies are a classic and distinctly American seasonal food,” explains Remsen Dooley of Young’s Farm in Brookville, famous for their popular Autumn Apple Crisp, Apple and Pumpkin Pies. For those looking to cut some calories, a new and delicious confection is the pie pop. These mini pies on sticks follow the huge cake pop mega-trend. Aside from dessert or a treat, pie pops also make great appetizers for entertaining guests. They’re easy to make at home with the Babycakes Pie Pop maker ($24.99, TheBabyCakesShop.com). You can whip up six mini pies filled with whatever filling you desire in just under five minutes. Starbucks has jumped on the bandwagon with their own mini pies. The coffee chain offers “Petites” pies in apple and cherry, topped off with a sprinkling of sugar. ($1.50 each at Starbucks)

Google Translate, available in the App Store for iPhone and iPad users and Google Play for Android, is a useful tool no matter what your business or profession, for students, retirees and travelers. This multi-lingual app allows you to easily translate text using words or phrases in more than 60 languages. You can even speak the phrases and hear the corresponding translations! A new update has just been added that translates text from your camera! The update includes a convenient touch-guided interface that allows you to draw over the text you'd like converted into English. Free.

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Gem Craft Boutique If you’re looking for a unique gift, prepare to spend some time browsing at Gem Craft Boutique. Everything from fragrance diffusers and candles to handcrafted porcelain, pocketbooks and funky iPad holders can be found. This unique boutique also carries a selection of items created by local artists like Sueanne Shirzay’s crystal jewelry line and clay creations made by an 11-year-old Long Island artist named Serena. Gem’s owner, Deborah’s business model includes charity giving. “My concept was really about giving back,” she explains. Deborah also designated an area in the store for breast cancer awareness merchandise and a portion of the proceeds go to breast cancer research. (58 Glen Head Rd., Glen Head, 516-874-3639, GemCraftBoutique.com) 8

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Eat There

Risotto Lollipop from Roots Bistro. Photos by Roots co-owner Philippe Corbet

Roots Bistro

Roots Bistro Gourmand was recently opened in West Islip by French-trained chef Philippe Corbet and partner James Orlandi whose desire was to bring French cuisine with gastronomic techniques enjoyed in a bistro setting to Long Islanders. The bistro-barn atmosphere offers exciting ambiance with a twist—tin ceilings, a living wall, vintage wood flooring and a modern zinc bar—all inspired by nature. The restaurant serves up items inspired by fresh, local ingredients combined with exciting global flavors like pressed suckling pig, slow cooked with caramelized heart of palm and baby carrots on the appetizer menu and entrees like Marseille Bouillabaisse with Saffron Fish Broth and Striped Bass, Shrimp, Mussels, Clams, Monkfish, Rouille and Baguette Garlic Crouton. Mon Dieu! Desserts like their unique Pop Rocks, well they rock: Coconut Ice Cream with Toasted Coconut, Macerated Strawberries, Candied Mint, Pop Rocks and Crème are c’est delicious. “We try to be very inventive with the products,” says Corbet. “We make everything in-house like bread and ice cream. We’re all about local produce and trying to be very green.” (399 Montauk Hwy., West Islip, 631-587-2844, RootsBistroGourmand.com)

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Fashion Special Runway To Reality: looks inspired by the catwalk

Runway

REALITY

Just in time to de-stress after getting the kids back to school or catching up with work after summer vacation, National Spa Week returns on Oct. 15. “We work with top-tier spas all over Long Island,” says Spa Week publicist Kelly Verdi. “There’s something for everyone’s wellness needs on the Spa Week menu.” Spa Week brings back old favorites like the Swedish massage as well as exciting new treatments like the Autumn Glow Body Retreat or Pumpkin Latte Facial available at Blue Sapphire Spa in Port Jefferson. “[Spa Week] is a wonderful way to bring people who don’t come to your spa or never heard of your spa or don’t get a chance to do little luxurious treatments because of a budget. It gives them an opportunity to join in and try something,” says Lisa Forsyth, Blue Sapphire Spa owner. For a complete directory of participants and services available visit SpaWeek.com.

Stylish Skeleton For The... Front Row Fashionista Black Engineered Lace Mini-Dress— RIP to your LBD. ($1,570, AlexanderMcQueen.com) Bernard Delettrez Skeleton Hand Cuff With Rings—Bone-chilling cuff bracelet. ($2,646, NotJustALabel.com) Arrogant Minnie Nappa Spine Heel—A stylish pair that will send chills up your spine. ($93.23, ArrogantMinnie.com)

Fitness Vacations

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Get fit while you’re on vacation! The new fitness and wellness vacation trend has landed on Long Island’s East End at Gurney’s Inn in Montauk. Their spa and fitness director Candice Monte says staycationers can expect everything from spin and zumba to lectures on nutrition and other fun activities. Attendees are in for a sweat-filled weekend, but will also have plenty of time to enjoy the spa and beautiful Atlantic scenery while dining on yummy, yet healthy, meals. (Nov. 16-18, $400 pp, for more info visit GurneysInn.com) For more than a weekend, Bikini Bootcamp offers an exotic tune-up getaway at the Amansala Resort in Tulum, Mexico. Here, you’ll get not only an exotic beach getaway, but mountain hikes along the coast, soothing poolside yoga and a variety of exercise classes like salsa, African and belly dancing. Guests can also take part in a meditation session or presentation on local area nutrition! (Around $2,381 for six nights, AmansalaResort.com)

Skeleton Stud Sleeve Sweat—Comfy skeleton motif and tie dye design sweatshirt. ($76, Top Shop, TopShop.com) See You Monday The Walking Tall Leggings—Talk about a sexy X-ray. ($33, KarmaLoop.com) Skull Flats—Laid back loafers with rhinestone skull detailing. ($278, The Shoe Box, ShopTheShoeBox.com) Kirna Zabete for Target Hematite Cast Filigree Ring—Skulls cover your finger. ($14.99, Target, Multiple Locations, Target.com)

Skeleton Mommy & Me Shirt—A festive shirt for a mommy-to-be. ($39, GladditudesBumpTees.SpreadShirt.com) Skeleton Sneaker—A bone stiletto pump design makes for a trendy sneaker. ($128, Be&D, BeAndD.com) Distressed Sequin Pants—Trendy sequin and striped leather design. ($528, Free People, FreePeople.com) Tarina Tarantino Lucite Skull Crystal Barrette—Crystal detailing with a bright lucite skull. ($80, Tarina Tarantino, TarinaTarantino.com)

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Mom-To-Be Betsey Johnson Skeleton Dress from MercedesBenz New York Fashion Week Fall/Winter 2012/2013

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Staycation

New York Marriott At The Brooklyn Bridge

Brooklyn is one of those places that can seem so close, yet so far, and many of us don’t venture out to the westernmost tip of our Island. Now it’s official: Brooklyn is the new “It” spot, not only home to the famous Brooklyn Bridge and Brooklyn Botanical Gardens, but also the Barclays Center, a beautiful new venue that is bringing world-class entertainment and sports to the Island. Make it a weekend and stay at the official hotel of the Barclays Center. Whether you’re taking in a Nets or Islanders/Devils game this fall, or the highly anticipated Kellogg’s Tour of Gymnastics Champions or Barbra Streisand, or you just want to explore some local sites, the Marriott is the place to rest your head. The hotel boasts 638 rooms, 28 suites and The Archives, an American-inspired restaurant and lounge, as well as an indoor pool and fitness center. You can always join a slew of Brooklynites who jog, walk or bike across the bridge for a scenic workout, too. (New York Marriott At The Brooklyn Bridge, 333 Adams St., Brooklyn, Marriott.com) september / october 2012

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Maison Moschino, Milan

Hot off New York Fashion Week, we wanted to recommend one of the most fashionable hotels in the world. The Maison Moschino is located in fashionable Milan and is also a work of art, designed by world-famous fashion icon Moschino. Decorated to resemble a fabulous dream, 16 of its 65 rooms are designed to evoke different fantasies. “Alice’s Room,” “Life is a Bed of Roses,” “Little Red Riding Hood,” “Forest” and “Gold” are just a few of the themed rooms, featuring everything from hanging trees sprouting out of bed posts to clouds suspended throughout the room. Our favorite is “Sleeping in a Ball Gown” with a bed that looks just like that. The hotel is located in what was the city’s first railway station, a neoclassical building that sits in the heart of the modern center of Milan. Besides the fabulous rooms, guests can also enjoy the Technogym, lounge bar and boutique. There’s also an ART SPA on premises that provides guests with essential treatments including oxygen therapy and hydrotherapy. “It is completely unlike other hotels, and it also has the courage to reveal the high-quality workmanship that built it,” said Rossella Jardini, the creative director of Moschino. (Viale Monte Grappa, 12, 20124 Milan, Tel. +39 0229009858, MaisonMoschino.com) milieuli.com

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Smokin’

Paisley Jacquard Cigarette Trousers Metallic paisley leaf jacquard print trousers are smokin’ hot! ($90, TopShop, TopShop.com)

Houndstooth Skirts Saks Fifth Avenue, Huntington, SaksFifthAvenue.com

splurge VS Steal Akris Punto

Leather Houndstooth Skirt Supple leather appliqués give this pencil skirt a unique and sophisticated take on the houndstooth pattern. ($694)

Tory Burch Cornelia Houndstooth Houndstooth print adds timeless charm to this classic pencil style skirt with a solid waistband and back zipper. ($275)

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Eye Candy

Chanel 3230 Tortoise Glasses Posh bicolor eyeglasses feature contrasting temple tips. ($319, Main Street Optometry, Northport, MainStreetOptometry.net)

Cayden Sweater Capture a casually carefree look in this breezy go-anywhere sweater with color-blocking and ribbed trim. ($178, BCBG, Multiple Locations, BCBG.com)

Hot Neckwear

Moksha Masai in Mocha The newest addition to the Moksha collection, the super trendy paisley print wears beautifully against your skin. ($90, Aromatherapy, Huntington, AromaEssentials.com)

Vibrant Top

Nicole Richie for Macy’s Impulse Chiffon Embroidered Blouse From the hot limited-edition collection inspired by the celebrity’s personal style. ($59, Macy’s, Multiple Locations, Macys.com)

Fall Colors Cozy Sweater

Lola Chunky Hand Knit Tunic Keep cozy in this perfect fall sweater for the office. ($158, Athleta, Manhasset, Athleta.com)

case of spades

Kate Spade Earbuds and Candy Stripe IPhone Case Orange and pink colors with fun Spade detailing. ($40 for earbuds; $35 for phone case, Kate Spade, KateSpade.com)

SAMA SPECS

Breast Cancer Awareness

Women Auto Know Belt Made from used tires with a portion of proceeds going to breast cancer awareness and research efforts. ($65, Women Auto Know, WomenAutoKnow.com)

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SAMA CC PURPLE SUNGLASSES Fun lavender circle shades. ($248, ILori, Manhasset, ILoriStyle.com)

WAIST WHITTLER

Purple Flower Cummerbund A butter-soft ruched leather cummerbund accented with a voluptuous corsage gives a pop of color at your waist. ($58, White House Black Market, Multiple Locations, WhiteHouseBlackMarket.com)

Devil-Horn Headband Add some devilish sparkle to your outfit with this unique dayto-night metal headband with devil horn embellishment. ($38, BCBG, Multiple Locations, BCBG.com)

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Taylor PolkaDot A-Line Dress A cute scoop neckline with a pleated, A-line skirt and bow at the center of the waist. ($129, Last Call by Neiman Marcus, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, Deer Park, TangerOutlet.com/ DeerPark)

Pretty In Pink

H&M Bat Sweater Hang around in this batty number! ($24.95, H&M, Multiple Locations, HM.com)

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Made In Montauk

Layered Skirt Made In Montauk Designs’ fall collection can be customized with different designs and colors. ($160, Made In Montauk Designs, MontaukDesigns.com)

Cream of the cropped

Marisa Ankle Pants Creating an ultramodern silhouette, these pants hit just above the ankle. ($59.50, Loft, Multiple Locations, Loft.com)

Time to shine

Jule Sleeveless Sequin Dress Gorgeous green sequin dress sure to be a favorite from autumn right through the holidays. ($495, Alice & Olivia, Manhasset, AliceAndOlivia.com)

we’re fallin’ for

Michael Kors Chocolate Belted Dress A golden buckle whittles your waist in this ultra-feminine and flattering style. ($1,595, Nordstrom, Garden City, Nordstrom.com)

Fall Colors Based on the Fall 2012 Pantone Fashion Color Report

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Parker Cut Out Dress Beautiful cobalt dress designed with Parker’s signature chic style and featuring a deep V-neck in the front. ($298, Intermix, Manhasset and Southampton, Intermix. com)

Fit To Print

Hazy Ikat Dress Pretty print dress with runway style bell sleeves and a V-neck design. ($465, Nicole Miller, Multiple Locations, NicoleMiller.com)

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Give a little and get a lot! For a minimum $1 donation, you can shop till you drop with the 25-percent discount you’ll receive by using your Tanger Pink Style Shopper Card at a participating store. Proceeds from Pink Card sales at Tanger Outlets at The Arches will be donated to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation and the Babylon Breast Cancer Coalition to help Long Island women who are being treated for breast cancer. 3

1 1 Judith Ripka Classic Oval Earrings Timeless and elegant, these beautiful earrings feature oval-cut pink cubic zirconia and 18-karat yellow gold post backs. ($375, Last Call by Neiman Marcus)

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5 Romeo & Juliet Couture Pink Ponte Pants Perfectly styled for a long and lean look, the faux slashed pockets and wide legs can be paired with any kind of footwear to go from casual to work wear. ($59, Last Call by Neiman Marcus)

7 Make A Statement Bangle The perfect pop of pink on your wrist to kick off the season. ($8.50, Claire’s)

1 0 Kate Spade Small Maeda A stunning pink tote to hold all of your essentials. Tote it around the office, mall or movies! ($335, Kate Spade)

Sneakers Energize your steps with these extra comfortable kicks. ($64.99, Easy Spirit) 4 Dallas Prince Pink Amethyst, Rhodolite Garnet and Diamond Ring This beautiful piece from the exclusive Dallas Prince collection features a pear-shaped pink amethyst and rhodolite garnets. ($269, Ultra Diamonds)

6 Dior Cateye Sunglasses Retro-styled glamour glasses are funky yet fashionable and will shade your eyes well into fall. ($139.99, Saks Fifth Avenue Off Fifth)

9 Nine West Galliano Heels You may not be walking on the runway, but you can certainly look like it with these sexy slingbacks designed by John Galliano. ($39.99, Nine West)

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8 Judith Leiber Pink Evening Bag Perfect for a fancy affair or for a night on the town. ($1,430, Last Call by Neiman Marcus)

2 Juicy Couture Lipstick Charm Pucker up with this beautiful charm! The accessory snaps on easily and can be interchanged on your key ring or necklace chain. ($34.99, Juicy Couture)

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1 1 La Fenice Anastasia Flat Cut-it-out! These comfortable flats with an adorable side bow and almond toe will carry you through the season. ($119, Last Call by Neiman Marcus)

1 2 Skanz Bracelets Your own unique QR code links you to your Skanzsite for easy on-the-go sharing of contact and social media info, photos, music and more. ($12.50, Icing)

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ay Unger Studded Herringbone Dress K $115, Last Call by Neiman Marcus Cole Haan Tonya Heels $159, Last Call by Neiman Marcus Black Crystal Bangle $34, Last Call by Neiman Marcus Nine West Colorblock Dress $69, Fox’s Gold Bangle $85, Last Call by Neiman Marcus Sam Edelman Frances Heels $120, Bloomingdale’s Ted Baker Rufia Blazer $275, Bloomingdale’s Large Pearl Necklace $60, Last Call by Neiman Marcus Ted Baker Bellie Dress $235, Bloomingdale’s Sam Edelman Pixie Pointy Toe Heels $129.99, Bloomingdale’s Tahari Black and Leather Dress $89, Fox’s Gold Chain Link Necklace $45, Last Call by Neiman Marcus DV Dolce Vita Red Mary Jane Pumps $99, Bloomingdale’s

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Splurge

THE CEO

Christian Louboutin Pigalili Plato A pair fit for the HBIC. ($3,595, Christian Louboutin, ChristianLouboutin.com)

VP OF FASHION

Valentino Garavani booties Sexy and sophisticated, these booties multi-task for work and après. Features lace and floral detailing with a rear zip closure. ($1,195, Valentino, Valentino.com)

DIRECTOR OF HR

Ana Rachel Roy Pumps A hot houndstooth pattern. ($225, Bloomingdale’s, Multiple Locations, Bloomingdales.com)

EXECUTIVE ASSISTANT

80%20 Tessa Ankle Boot A covered wedge and concealed platform make this cute style a true “vision statement.” ($69, Fox’s, Mineola and Huntington, Foxs.com)

editorial assistant

Levity Jessie Pump Menswear-inspired shoe complements career wear with style and features upfront lacing and a capped pointed toe. ($59.95, DSW, Multiple Locations, DSW.com)

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Charles Jourdan Elegant Platform A neutral pump in glossy patent leather, with a price that goes right to the bottom line. ($179, TangerOutlet.com/ DeerPark)

Steal

Pump In Monogram Vernis Dots Infinity Inspired by Louis Vuitton’s creative collaboration with Yayoi Kusama, these shoes will pump you up for business. ($1,150, Louis Vuitton, Manhasset, LouisVuitton.com)

VP OF ASSETS

Ankur Mary-Jane’s With a classy update like the rounded toe embellished with burgundy and golden trim, this pair is a keeper. ($375, Jildor, Multiple Locations, JildorShoes.com)

director of sales

COACH Sue Heel Ocelotprinted heels A modern round toe, adds an edgy yet elegant look to the classic black pump. ($188, Lord & Taylor, Multiple Locations, LordAndTaylor.com)

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Splurge

VP of BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT

Director of marketing

Steal

Nude Platform Pump

Yves Saint Laurent Tribtoo Platform Pump A sexy island platform is perfect for commanding everyone’s attention in the boardroom.($825, NeimanMarcus.com)

VERONE PUMP A stylish and elegant round toe embellished with a bow-topped vamp, gold detailing and chunky patent heel. ($118, Vince Camuto, Multiple Locations, VinceCamuto.com)

PHOTO EDITOR

DV by Dolce Vita Luna Flats A silver cap toe with a dark suede upper that is both stylish and playful. ($79, Macy’s, Multiple Locations, Macys.com)

INTERN COORDINATOR

director of special projects

Tommy Hilfiger Tasseled Pump A fabulous daytime look for the office. ($99, Tommy Hilfiger, Tommy.com)

Miu Miu Glitter Slipper Tassels add sophistication to these deep sea blue glittered flats, perfect for the office and more glamorous occasions. ($495, Miu Miu, MiuMiu.com)

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Truth or Dare by Madonna Corinie Sexy two-toned pumps make a big statement. ($110, Macy’s, Multiple Locations, Macys.com)

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Lacoste, Manhasset, Lacoste.com

Splurge Lacoste Cathy Bucket Bag This beauty can transition with your look from day to night. ($850)

Steal Lacoste Large Shopping Bag You can carry all of your essentials in this super tote. ($86.99)

Etch A Sketch iPad Case Be the coolest in the conference room with this quirky case for your iPad 2, celebrating the Etch A Sketch’s 50th Anniversary. ($39, Headcase, GetAHeadcase.com)

Gucci USA Boston Bag From Gucci’s UNICEF collection comes this gem with 25 percent of the retail price going to support education initiatives. ($895, Gucci, Manhasset, Gucci.com)

Dooney & Bourke’s Small Blair Bag This handbag makes a subtle statement with its elegant and timeless look and includes a cell phone pocket. ($298, Dooney & Bourke, Dooney.com)

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Alexander McQueen Flowers Embroidered Unicorn Skull Knucklebox Clutch Pure perfection, this clutch with unicorn skulls and Swarovski crystal details will be treasured for years to come. ($2,445, Alexander McQueen, AlexanderMcQueen.com)

Henri Bendel Brown & White Too Cool For School A rite of passage for young women, this colorblock crossbody bag is just too cool. ($378, Henri Bendel, Huntington, HenriBendel.com) Add to Cart

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Vera Bradley Abby in Suzani A stylish shopper for storing all your essentials this fall. ($68, Fern’s Gifts and Collectibles, Huntington) Add to Cart

Green Crossbody Clutch Imported from Poland, this bag features metal hardware and a crossbody strap, perfect for running errands. ($85, Paper Doll Vintage Boutique, Sayville) Add to Cart

Christian Audigier Cynthia Shoulder Bag A hot option for fall, detailed with funky fringe. ($69, Fox’s, Huntington and Mineola, Foxs.com)

Betsey Johnson Evening Bow-Tiful Velvet Clutch Rock any outfit with this designer clutch for an evening to remember. ($55.98, Saks Fifth Avenue Off Fifth, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, Deer Park, TangerOutlet. com/DeerPark) Add to Cart

Jimmy Choo Rob Announce your arrival without saying a word with this stylish glittered champagne crossbody with an iPhone case. ($375, Jimmy Choo, JimmyChoo.com)

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Zara Terez Bridgehampton A beautiful bag designed by one of Long Island’s own, this eye-catching yet practical handbag features handwoven tapestry. ($695, Let’s Bag It, Merrick and ZaraTerez. Goodsie.com)

Brahmin Vivian An iconic style that is perfectly on-trend this season and a great everyday office bag that transitions into weekendwear. ($325, Brahmin, Southampton, Brahmin. com)

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Hermes 32cm Toile & Leather Kelly Bag From 1990 and in mint condition. ($6,500, The Perfect Purse, Southampton)

Prada Tote A classic silhouette crafted in Italy from Spazzoloato leather, this bag is a standout. ($2,500, Prada, Manhasset, Prada.com)

Cris Trash Tablet Case “Trashy” fashion for the on-the-go woman. ($695, Christian Louboutin, ChristianLouboutin.com)

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Sapphire Rings

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Splurge

Sapphire Stack Rings Pretty stackable sapphire rings. (From left to right: $1,500; $1,700; $675; $1,200)

STEAL

Platinum Sapphire ring With two diamonds, this ring will make you feel like royalty! ($650)

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Splurge VS Steal

Cleo Stack Ring ($88, Henri Bendel, Huntington, HenriBendel.com)

Tiffany Diamond and Gemstone Pendant ($65,000, Tiffany & Co., Manhasset, Tiffany.com)

Beaded Chunk Bracelet ($20, Francine’s Fashion Boutique, Huntington)

Real Jewels Heart ($85, Aromatherapy, Huntington, AromaEssentials.com)

Zicana’s Limited Edition CALA Necklace ($2,995, Zicana, Westbury, Zicana. com)

Must Be V’s Spike bracelets ($21 for rhinestone spike bracelet and $12 for solid, Must Be V, Babylon Village)

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Queen’s Crown ($6,500, Rebekah Lea Designs, RebekahLeaDesigns.com)

Green Rock Studs ($18, Chrison & Bellina Boutique, Oyster Bay)

Standing Cuff ($575, Swarovski, Multiple Locations, Swarovski.com)

Cancer Awareness

Snake Fingernail Ring ($6.50, Claire’s, Multiple Locations, Claires.com)

Mel’s Bracelet Symbolizes a commitment to supporting those touched by breast cancer ($20, Friends of Mel Foundation, FriendsOfMel. MyBigCommerce.com)

Tassel Earrings in Bronze ($14.99, Kirna Zabete at Target, Target.com)

Sorrelli’s Pinkberryinspired Kaleidoscope Ring ($48, Multiple Locations, Sorrelli.com)

Nina Nguyen Gold Vermeil Druzy Earrings ($140, Lonny’s, Multiple Locations, Lonnys.com)

Mixed Metal Link Necklace ($39, Fox’s, Mineola and Huntington, Foxs.com)

Alexis Bittar Siyabona Gold Petal Earrings ($198, The Girl’s Room, Woodbury, ShopTheGirlsRoom.com)

Plastic Pink Lace Cuff ($6.95, H&M, Multiple Locations, HM.com)

Louis Vuitton’s Pumpkin Charm ($7,900, Louis Vuitton, Manhasset, LouisVuitton.com)

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Décor a la Maison “Fall in love with your kitchen” Quick Fix Nespresso U Espresso Maker

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Tabletop Toys

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A new, cute creature collection from Sculpted from the company’s collaboration with glazed stoneware, it Target. (Coasters - set of four, will brighten up your $9.99; Glass drinkware - set kitchen. ($39.50, Pottery of four, $19.99; Ceramic Barn, PotteryBarn.com) pitcher, $19.99; Target, Multiple Locations, Target.com)

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Precious owls that will take your table décor right through Thanksgiving. ($9, The Potting Shed, Huntington, PottingShedLI.com)

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A compact single-cup machine that features a movable water tank and one-touch operation. ($199.95, Williams Sonoma, Multiple Locations, WilliamsSonoma.com)

Vintage Louis Back High Bar Stool

Beautiful hand-carved weathered oak frame with hand-turned legs and eco-styled linen. ($505, 406 West, Huntington, 406West.com)

Fall Must-Have Twig Flatware 5-Piece Set

A woodsy theme from the Twig Flatware collection that will make your table look “Tree-Mendous”. ($39, West Elm, WestElm.com).

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Alustra Duette Architella Honeycomb Shades

A beautiful shade from an exclusive line by Hunter Douglas. (Pricing varies, Homestead Window Treatments, Huntington Station, HomesteadWindowTreatments.com)

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Chalkboard Paint

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“Is There A War on Women?” By Spencer Rumsey That was the question recently posed at the packed VFW Post 5253 hall in Albertson by Ann Salpeter Schockett, president of the Nassau County Federation of Republican Women, and Wendy Long, the Republican candidate for U.S. Senate in New York, had a provocative reply. “The Democrats have been inflating this balloon about this phony war on women now for the last year,” Long told the crowd. “And the whole reason they cook this up is because they have such a dismal, dismal record on jobs and the economy, which are number one in the minds of almost every voter in this country and certainly in this state…. Frankly, what women are concerned about is not really birth control, what women are concerned about is spending control.” Judging from the approving response, her answer certainly seemed to appeal to this clearly conservative crowd who came out to hear her on the night when former President Bill Clinton addressed the Democratic National Convention, where speakers had been criticizing the Republicans for attempting to “roll back” women’s reproductive rights and blocking women’s efforts to get equal pay. There may not be an actual “war,” but everyone agrees that women’s issues are on the front lines this November, and whom women vote for could make the difference in a close election. No one argues that the two parties do differ starkly on a woman’s right to choose. The Republican Party’s convention platform says that, “We assert the sanctity of human life and affirm that the unborn child has a fundamental individual right to life which cannot be infringed.” That plank has been interpreted to mean that there would be no exceptions for abortion, even if a woman were raped. Long takes that position, according to her campaign spokesman Dave Catalfamo, who tells Milieu, “Her position is pretty clear. She believes in protecting life from conception through death. She’s never veered from that.” By contrast, the other platform states, “The Democratic Party strongly and unequivocally supports Roe v. Wade and a woman’s right to choose a safe and legal abortion, regardless of ability to pay, and we oppose any and all efforts to weaken or undermine that right. The Democratic Party also strongly supports access to affordable family planning services and comprehensive age-appropriate sex education which empower people to make informed choices and live healthy lives.” That’s the view shared by Sen. Kirsten

“The Democrats have been inflating this balloon about this phony war on women now for the last year,

more restrictive for women by fighting tooth and nail against an equal pay mandate, and vowing to defund Planned Parenthood [the nonprofit family planning, reproductive health care and sex education services provider] when most of its services are geared towards preventative care and cancer screenings, just to cite two examples.” Women’s issues could be key to who and the whole reason they cook this up is because they wins the First District Congressional race have such a dismal, dismal record on jobs and the on the East End, which is a rematch piteconomy, which are number one in the minds of almost ting Rep. Tim Bishop (D-Southampton), against millionaire entrepreneur Randy every voter in this country and certainly in this state... Altschuler, who lost a nail-biter to the inThat hearing about contraceptive cov- cumbent by 593 votes in 2010. Which party erage in the new health care law made holds that seat may determine who gains third-year Georgetown University law the House majority next year given what’s student Sandra Fluke a household name in play now. (Rush Limbaugh called her a “slut”) when “The Republicans’ platform would force the Republican majority barred her from a woman to carry a child to term who was testifying. conceived in rape—it Last year Rep. doesn’t get more exPaul Ryan (R-Wis.), treme and more cruel now Republican presithan that,” says Robdential candidate Mitt ert Pierce, Bishop’s Romney’s running campaign spokesman. mate, co-sponsored “Randy Altschuler the No Taxpayer and his Tea Party alFunding for Abortions lies in Congress are Act, a ban on federal fighting to restrict a funding for abortions woman’s access to that would exempt contraception and only “forcible rape” other family-planning and not “rape” in genresources. People can eral. Long Island vetcall these policies a eran Congressman Pe‘war on women’ or an ter King (R-Seaford) assault on their rights. was also a co-sponsor. I’m not too interested “I have been in coming up with consistently pro-life names for it other throughout my 20 than calling it what it years in Congress and is: extreme. While the —Wendy Long, Republican the voters, men and Democrats are fightcandidate for U.S. Senate women, know that,” ing to put workers (AP Photo/Times Union, Will Waldron) —Rep. Carolyn McCarthy (D-Mineola) says King. “I certainly back on the job with Gillibrand, the Democratic incumbent. consider myself to be ‘pro-woman,’ such as legislation such as the highway bill, Repub“Women’s reproductive freedom, our being in the forefront of efforts to increase licans are busy trying to craft new ways to ability to make our own health-care deciresearch funding in the struggle against put a rapist’s rights over a victim’s rights.” sions, the decision to make sure that being breast cancer and I consider terms like ‘war Altschuler is also pro-life but certainly a woman is not a pre-existing condition, on women’ to be utterly ridiculous, insultnot anti-woman, Diana Weir, his campaign are fundamental to the well-being of woming and non-intelligent.” manager, tells Milieu. In his corner is the National Right to Life PAC, while Bishop may be getting some support down the line from pro-choice groups. The difference between the two presidential candidates is crystal clear, considering that Romney has said, if elected, he would de-fund Planned Parenthood, while President Barack Obama is pro-choice and —Rep. Peter King (R-Seaford) opposes “any constitutional amendment to overturn the Supreme Court’s decision” in en,” Gillibrand said last week at the DemoRep. Carolyn McCarthy (D-Mineola), Roe v. Wade. When Obama was a senator, cratic convention. “When the House of sees the issue differently. he co-sponsored legislation to expand acRepresentatives is having a hearing about “Whether at the presidential level or at cess to contraception and health services to access to birth control, and the first panel is the local level, this election offers a stark “help reduce unintended pregnancies.” devoid of a woman, women’s voices aren’t choice,” she tells Milieu. “Republicans So, is there a war on women? being heard.” promise to make life more expensive and Depends who you ask.

Frankly, what women are concerned about is not really birth control, what women are concerned about is spending control.”

“Whether at the presidential level or at the local level, this election offers a stark choice.”

“I consider terms like ‘war on women’ to be utterly ridiculous, insulting and non-intelligent.”

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Consider This... This election year the issues key to women—such as reproductive rights, access to contraception and equal pay—are in the forefront as Democrats and Republicans battle for their ballots come November 6. More than half the population may be female but their electoral power is not equivalent to men’s—only six governors are women and 17 senators are women, to cite two figures. The economy may be the number one topic on voters’ minds, but lately the headlines have been raging about the so-called “war on women” as the left and right fight for this critical demographics’ support. Here’s a collage of commentary from both sides of the divide. Is there more to the rhetoric than meets the eye? Decide for yourself.

Median Age of First Marriage for Women

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The emergence of the single woman vote—or “swingle”—as a powerful voting block. More and more women are remaining single into their late 20s and early 30s, adding greater political importance to women’s issues as deciders of elections. Source: “Why Young Women’s Votes Will Matter in 2012,” Public Religion Research Institute; 2010 U.S. Census

According to Pennsylvania Senate candidate Tom Smith (R) becoming pregnant from rape is like...

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31 states have no laws that bar rapists from seeking custody or visitation rights

Source: Attorney Shauna R. Prewitt, author of “Giving Birth to a Rapist’s Child: A Discussion and Analysis of the Limited Legal Protections Afforded to Women Who Become Mothers Through Rape,” written for the Georgetown Law Journal, in an Aug. 23, 2012 op-ed on CNN.com

The right approach is to accept this horribly created—in the sense of rape, but nevertheless—gift... And accept what God is giving to you.”

“If it’s a legitimate rape, the female body has ways to try to shut that whole thing down. But let’s assume that maybe that didn’t work or something. I think there should be some punishment, but the punishment ought to be on the rapist and not attacking the child.” —Missouri Republican Senate nominee Rep. Todd Akin on abortion in cases of rape

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Out of every 100 rapes 46 get reported to police 9 get prosecuted 5 lead to a felony conviction 3 of those rapists will spend even a single day in prison

Source: RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Justice Department, National Crime Victimization Survey: 2006-2010; FBI, Uniform Crime Reports: 2006-2010; National Center for Policy Analysis, Crime and Punishment in America, 1999; Department of Justice, Felony Defendants in Large Urban Counties: average of 2002-2006

“That anyone, no matter what party they belong to… believes that a fetus is more important than a woman’s life, that person has no business holding public office.”

— Marcia Pappas, the president of the New York State chapter of the National Organization of Women

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“Whether or not women can determine when and whether to have children is the single biggest element in whether we’re healthy or not, whether we’re educated or not, how long our life expectancy is, whether we can be active in the world or not.

This presidential election is a turning point. We will lose what we have gained if any Republican candidate were to win.” “Rep. Paul Ryan’s extreme anti-choice record shows just how serious a threat Mitt Romney’s presidency would be for women. Rep. Ryan has also repeatedly voted to defund family-planning programs and supported the ‘Let Women Die Bill,’ which would allow hospitals to refuse to provide a woman emergency, lifesaving abortion care, even if she could die without it. It comes as no surprise that Romney would choose a like-minded running mate who is just as out of touch with our nation’s values and priorities as he is.

The RomneyRyan ticket is dangerous to women’s health.” --—NARAL Pro Choice America President Nancy Keenan

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“[The party] strongly and unequivocally supports Roe v. Wade and a woman’s right to choose a safe and legal abortion, regardless of ability to pay, and we oppose any and all efforts to weaken or undermine that right.” —2012 Democratic National Platform, Democrats.org

AP Photo Credits: Former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum by Steve Pope; Republican vice presidential candidate Rep. Paul Ryan by Mary Altaffer; Activist Gloria Steinem by Dan Steinberg; Sen. Kristen Gillibrand by Harry Hamburg Radio personality Rush Limbaugh by Gary He; Republican presidential candidate Gov. Mitt Romney by Susan Walsh

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“I know in your mind you can think of times when America was attacked. One is December 7th, that’s Pearl Harbor day. The other is September 11th, and that’s the day of the terrorist attack. I want you to remember August the 1st, 2012, the attack on our religious freedom. That is a day that will live in infamy, along with those other dates.”

Women Make Just 77 Cents to Every Male Dollar The median annual earnings for full-time, year-round women workers in 2010 was $36,931 compared to men’s $47,715. Source: Economic Policy Institute analysis of Current Population Survey Data

—Pennsylvania Rep. Mike Kelly (R); Aug. 1 marked the day a Department of Health and Human Services requirement that health insurance companies cover contraceptive services for women went into effect.

Number of Women Holding STATE Public Offices in US: 1,880, or 25 percent.

Source: U.S. Census Bureau, Statistical Abstract of the United States: 2012

“When the House of Representatives is having a hearing about access to birth control, and the first panel is devoid of a woman,

women’s voices aren’t being heard.” — Sen. Kristen Gillibrand

“If we’re going to pay for your contraceptives and thus pay for you to have sex, we want you to post the videos online so we can all watch.” —Conservative Radio Talk Show Host Rush Limbaugh, March 2012

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A mentalist. A magician. A runway fashion show. All of this entertainment can be found at the newest “Ladies Night Out” events produced by George Santiago of West Islip. This “Ladies Night Out” has a lot more to offer than your usual happy hour or networking event with a portion of the proceeds from the suggested admission price being donated directly to the West Islip Breast Cancer Coalition to help breast cancer patients in their everyday lives.

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Guys Who "Get It" Since all of the organizations he approached thought it wasn’t a good fit because weddings are happy occasions, he started his own event, “Ladies Night Out.” “We then called some cancer coalitions to come into our bridal shows, but they didn’t think it was a good fit because they didn’t think people would want to hear about breast cancer during a happy event. So we started a different type of event, ‘Ladies Night Out,’ to help fight breast cancer on Long Island.” The “Ladies Night Out” events include entertainment, raffles, 40-50 assorted exhibitors that range from chair massages to mini makeovers, health and wellness demonstrations and much more. So far they’ve held five successful shows, all at the Islandia Marriott. Even though they don’t technically charge admission to the events, they do ask attendees to give some sort of donation instead. “We don’t ask for a suggested amount for a donation,” George says. “We’ve seen people give $10 and $500. It really is across the board. Everybody gives some kind of donation, we usually see $10, but it can be anything.” The donations go to fund the West Islip Breast Cancer Coalition’s Lend a Helping Hand program. George has raised somewhere between $10,000 to $15,000 so far. He chose the West Islip Breast Cancer Coalition because he liked the work they do and wanted to work with a nearby charity. Tradeshow Productions is located in North Babylon. Gina Marrone runs the Lend a Helping Hand program, and says that the money he raises goes to assisting women who have or are undergoing breast cancer treatment. “What we do is we provide them with services, depending on what their needs are, whether it’s housecleaning, transportation, prepared meals or medical co-pay assistance,” she says. She adds: “He always makes it really nice. It’s very important to him that it is a ladies’ event and that it always upholds a certain level of sophistication.” Lend a Helping Hand’s practice of helping current patients is what turned Santiago on to the organization in the first place. “When people do these fundraisers it mostly goes to research, but what happens to the people who are going through it at the moment and need help? I’m glad that’s what they do.” George also has the pleasure of meeting some of the women who are on the receiving end of the donations from “Ladies

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GEORGE SANTIAGO

When Santiago left his job at Dynasty Limousines after six years to start his own business, Tradeshow Productions USA, he had no idea that he would use his business to help those with cancer. In fact, he didn’t know how any of it would work out. “I enjoyed Dynasty Limousines, and I enjoyed working with them, but I had to make a decision. Do I leave and open up my own business? And that’s what I decided, to go full speed ahead with Tradeshow Productions,” he says. Tradeshow Productions USA, was originally producing only bridal shows, but after George lost his mother to stomach cancer, and his father-in-law to lung cancer only six months after he was diagnosed, George and his wife Nina decided they wanted to host events where the proceeds went to local cancer organizations. “We decided that we wanted to somehow get involved in helping cancer charities,” he says. “It was something we always planned to do later on in life.”

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He plans to host a show three times a year, in March, August and November, and hopes to one day branch out into Nassau County. For the future, Santiago wants to start holding events for children’s charities and for men with prostate cancer in addition to “Ladies Night Out.” “When we first started doing this, I didn’t realize how many people cancer affected. As you go around talking to people at the event, who was a survivor, who is in the midst of it, it seems to touch everyone, whether it be your own family or a friend,” George says. “Any type of cancer today, it’s just all over the place.”

It’s just amazing how many women have survived and how many women have it. It’s something that everyone should get involved in sometime in their life.”

Night Out” events. “Everybody always says thank you for doing this, no matter who I talk to,” he says. “It is definitely a good cause.

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Samantha’s photo on the cover of Milieu was taken a few days before her double mastectomy. A friend advised her to document her body in pictures before she had her breasts removed, to remember in future years how far she’s come. This photo was taken two months after her surgery, before reconstruction. “When this is over, I’m going to be the Pam Anderson of breast cancer survivors,” Sam vows. Photo by Jim Lennon www.JimLennon.com

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Surviving

Breast Cancer Passing a woman with shortadmissions process. By Beverly Fortune Beverly@MilieuLI.com cropped hair or a perfectly shaved head By chance, Sam had found a small barely gives us pause anymore. Perhaps lump in her breast herself; the thought it signifies solidarity for a friend on St. Baldrick’s Day or it could be cancer was unthinkable. a gift of hair to “Locks of Love.” Maybe it’s simply a style She was young and there was no family history of the thing; an expression that a woman is more than her hair. disease, which accounts for only 5 to 10 percent of diagOr it could be a woman bravely displaying the effects of nosed cases according to the National Cancer Institute. chemotherapy. SUNY suggested she get a mammography, so Sam Whatever the reason, our perception of cancer and went to her own radiologist. those battling it has changed. Breast cancer has become familiar to us, particularly on Long Island. We walk for cancer. We raise money to defeat it. We see pink ribbons year-round and know what they represent. Even though our awareness has risen dramatically, it does little to assuage the effects of cancer on the person diagnosed with it. There is hope. With advances in treatment, earlier detection and new understandings of this disease, more and more women are now living with breast cancer. “Mortality has gone down significantly since screening and awareness has improved,” says Dr. Alexander Hindenburg, medical oncologist at WinthropUniversity Hospital in Mineola. “Breast Samantha with her dog Nala and cat Monkey on April 17, 2012. cancer patients are much more savvy than other cancer patients. They are very motivated.” Scientists are continuously learning new information “They said it was benign,” she recalls. They showed about women’s breasts and now believe the fatty tissue her the scan of her breast. “It looked like little pieces of that comprises them can act like a sponge, attracting and sand.” soaking up whatever they come in contact with, both inForty percent of women have dense breast tissue, ternally and externally. They’ve also learned that breast which has less fat and more connective tissue, accordcancer is not just one cancer, it’s a combination, and thus ing to the American College of Radiology Imaging Nethave new courses of treatment. work. This can cause major ramifications because of the “Early diagnosis is the key to improved breast candifficulty in reading the mammograms to detect tumors. cer survival rates,” says Dr. Patricia Farrelly, clinical asDense breast tissue appears light-colored on a mammosistant professor in the department of surgery at Stony gram, as do tumors. Brook University School of Medicine. “Beyond this, The problem has been taken seriously by physicians, the field continues to rapidly change. Today, we have and by lawmakers, too. learned more on the biology of tumors, but this is still New York State Gov. Andrew Cuomo signed a Breast in infancy. No tumors are the same and this will help to Density Law Aug. 1 requiring health care facilities to noindividualize and personalize treatment plans. There are tify patients categorized as having dense breast tissue constantly new options.” about their condition. The law is designed to improve So while cancer hasn’t changed, the way doctors and detection and prevention through education about how survivors deal with it has. dense breast tissue can conceal abnormalities during a Samantha Fried, 35, of Islandia, moved back home to mammography. live with her father Howie until she heals from her double So while mammograms are historically the first mastectomy. Sam’s mother died when she was 2 years choice for detecting breast cancer, a two-pronged prevenold, and Howie raised Sam and her three sisters alone. tive approach is now being used more and more often: Sam is beautiful—radiant, actually. Her hair has the MRI, or magnetic resonance imaging. started to grow back and is now about two inches long. “Digital mammograms helped to revolutionize breast She wears a pink headband and a bow. It is a far cry from cancer with improved imaging at often earlier stages,” the long blonde hair she had a few months ago. says Farrelly. “Unless strong family history, imaging is A veterinarian technician who wanted to change not usually recommended under age 40. Those at high careers and study to be a nurse, Sam was especially inrisk should also be evaluated with MRIs of the breast, terested in adult and pediatric oncology. She had been which can often detect smaller abnormalities in these accepted into the State University of New York’s acceleryoung dense breasts.” ated nursing program. Having a physical was part of the Dr. Patricia D’Imperio, a chiropractor from Bayville

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who had a bilateral mastectomy last July and finished her chemo treatments on Dec. 31, 2011, advises having an MRI instead of a mammogram. “My mammogram did not find my cancer, I did,” she says. “My sonogram was negative. The needle aspiration of my lymph nodes was negative. Yet, the MRI showed abnormal change in both areas. As a doctor, I knew what I felt and knew something was not right, so I chose the MRI on my own. Request an MRI and if your doctor does not think it is necessary—then demand it!” Sam says that a few months after her mammogram, her lump grew and felt like a frozen pea. She was sent for a biopsy the day before Thanksgiving. She didn’t tell anyone except her boyfriend. That Monday, Samantha’s doctor called to give her the biopsy diagnosis. “You’re not driving are you?” she asked. That’s when “It became real,” Samantha says. “It was scary.” “What am I going to do about school?” was her first thought. Then, her family: “I’m going to ruin Christmas. I had to tell my Dad.” Sam told her nursing supervisor and they cried together, but she didn’t tell anyone else at school. “I thought I could ignore it and not deal with it,” she says. Sam tested positive for BRCA2—a gene associated with increased risks for breast cancer—with an aggressive tumor. She had “conservation” surgery on Dec. 13, 2011. When it was time for her second surgery, Sam says, “I felt nothing. I knew it was coming.” “I used to have nice big boobs,” she says. A friend told her, “They’re just tits, you can get new tits.” “When this is over, I’m going to be the Pam Anderson of breast cancer survivors,” Sam says. Following chemo, she underwent a double mastectomy, only missing three days of school and never a rotation. It’s a custom at the hospital that when you finish your last chemo treatment everyone is invited to ring a bell, announcing that you’re done with treatment. “I rang the crap out of my bell,” Sam says. She graduated magna cum laude and recently learned she passed her nursing boards and is now officially a registered nurse. But for the fact she can’t raise her arms higher than perpendicular to her body because of the mastectomy wounds, she would start working tomorrow. Sam is just one of the more than 200,000 women diagnosed with breast cancer each year in the United States. Now, she’s also one of the more than 2.5 million breast cancer survivors—living proof of the strides made against this disease, living proof that it is no longer definitively a death sentence. Hindenburg puts it into perspective. “What you have, I don’t have a cure for,” he says he tells his patients. “But I don’t have a cure for diabetes, either.”

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HEALTH TRX Pumpkin Facial Peel

If your skin requires some pampering, all you need is 15 minutes and some pumpkin! Pumpkins contain high concentrations of vitamin A and C, potassium, zinc and beta-carotene that help skin recover from the stress of the hot summer. Not only is this peel a great way to naturally exfoliate your skin, it also gives you a healthy glow. The pumpkin-peel facial can treat a wide range of skin issues such as wrinkles, fine lines and acne. It can easily be made from home with our DIY recipe. You can use canned or cooked pureed pumpkin, soy milk or regular milk, honey for dry skin or, if you have oily skin, substitute the honey with apple cider vinegar. The recipe is simple: two teaspoons pumpkin, one-quarter teaspoon milk and a half-teaspoon of honey or apple cider vinegar. Mix together with a spoon and apply to your face with your fingers. Leave on for about 15 minutes. Then rinse with warm water.

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Quogue Wildlife Refuge—Take a walk on the wild side at this beautiful wildlife nature preserve. With more than seven miles of trails on 305 acres, every day can be a new adventure! “There’s a variety of habitats that you can see and walk through. Some of it’s forest, most of it is the Pine Barrens, then there’s a field, some freshwater ponds, and the ecologically rare Dwarf Pines are up north,” says Assistant Director Marisa Nelson. The refuge houses injured wildlife, including bobcats, hawks, owls and falcons. Visitors can visit these animals after their workout. There are also wildlife exhibits, a nature library and a gift shop. The main trails are wheelchairand stroller-friendly. It’s open daily, sunrise to sunset, free of charge. (3 Old Country Rd., East Quogue, 631-6534771, QuogueWildlifeRefuge.org)

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EaST: Spa Adriana in Huntington offers

spa-goers a hair-rejuvenating treatment called Botanical Kinetics. The heavy-duty protein mask and restructuring treatment uses a Keratin-based formula that helps elasticity and strengthens and conditions while smoothing the cuticle. “Everybody that has that beachy, chlorine-damaged hair that looks cool... It’s really dry and impossible to run a comb through when it’s wet,” explains owner John Vater. The treatment starts at $45 and leaves hair shiny, full of body, smooth, with 100 percent wet comb ability, and greatly reduces breakage. (Spa Adriana, 266 Main St., Huntington, 631351-1555, SpaAdriana.com)

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The Skin Doctor By Dr. Joshua L. Fox

ACNE solutions Acne is the most common skin disorder, affecting nearly 50 million Americans. Almost everyone

has acne at some point in their lives. At our seven LI offices, we see a lot of frustration among our new patients who are suffering from acne. Some come with a sense of hopelessness and depression. It’s important to know that there are treatments that can help, thanks to science and new technologies. A “one-size-fits-all approach” does not work for acne. In the first line of therapy, prescription topical ointments may be prescribed. Based on the acne’s severity, stronger medications may be used next. Retinoids, including Retina A, Differi, and Tazorac all work by stopping pimples from forming under the surface of the skin. Photodynamic therapy (PDT) with aminolevulinic acid (ALA) has been shown to effectively treat acne. PDT works by using laser or light energy like IPL. Other laser and light therapies have become more common, as are chemical peels that destroy parts of the skin in a controlled way so that new skin can grow in its place. One of the most important things to remember is to stick with the treatment long enough to allow it to take effect. Sometimes that can take six to eight weeks. Perhaps most important, a patient should seek care promptly at the outset of acne to avoid any long-term negative effects of depression. Joshua L. Fox, MD is a leading authority in the field of dermatology, laser procedures and cosmetic surgery. He serves as a medical director of Advanced Dermatology PC, and the Center for Laser and Cosmetic Surgery, with seven locations throughout Long Island, Queens and Manhattan. Visit us at GetMeGreatSkin.com.

Have some fun outside of the bedroom! Even if it’s just for laughs, these sexy vibrating panties can leave you breathless with ecstasy anytime, anywhere. Inside the folds of these soft lace panties is a hidden 10-function, wireless vibrating bullet that will make your toes curl. The panties are operated by a wireless remote control that works from up to 20 feet away, so your partner can turn you on from across the room. (Just make sure it doesn’t fall into the wrong hands like the scene in the movie “The Ugly Truth!”) It’s a naughty little secret you can share that will have you both running for the nearest bedroom. ($99, BootyParlor.com)

TRX, short for Total Body Resistance, is a fitness craze created by a US Navy SEAL that targets your core by combining traditional exercises with suspension cables. For an intense TRX full-body workout, head over to Equinox in Roslyn and Woodbury for their 1-hour TRX Boot Camp. The workout includes cables that are attached to a wall so students can perform exercises in different positions using their own body weight. “Anyone can do it, young or old, deconditioned or an elite athlete. All you do is change the vector [the way you would stand holding the strap]. It works on your own body’s weight and your own resistance against gravity,” says Kristen James, area group fitness for Equinox Long Island. “It’s great because you can pack it up in your suitcase and take the strap with you. You can do it outside or hang it over your door. It’s very userfriendly. You’re working at your own ability and your own level.” Of course, you can try it at home, too, via TRXTraining.com.

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While it looks like frozen yogurt, the Soft Serve Fruit Co.’s offering is in a class of its own. Made from fresh fruit, filtered water and just a touch of organic cane sugar, this healthy treat is gluten free, vegan friendly, and delicious! “Soft Serve Fruit allows you to satiate your frozen treat craving while avoiding the artificial ingredients of frozen yogurt and the fat of ice cream,” says Chloe Epstein, co-founder of The Soft Serve Fruit Co. Sold locally at Bagel Boss Café in Roslyn Heights and the Golden Pear Café’s three East End locations, Soft Serve Fruit Co. has seasonal varieties, frozen bars and other snacks. A kid’s cup is just under 90 calories! (SoftServeFruitCo.com)

wEST: Maximus Spa and Salon in Westbury offers

patrons a chance to rejuvenate their summer-damaged locks with a personalized Kerastase treatment. “First we analyze and diagnose the hair and determine what the hair needs, and then we customize the treatment with the proper dosage,” explains owner Richie Calcasola. The personalized treatment aims to bring back hair’s volume, softness, moisture and restore color lost during the warmer months. The 45-minute treatment will leave you with a slew of positives. The treatment costs $35 and includes a blow-out at the salon’s new blow-out bar! “Expect healthier, silkier, touchable, shinier, stronger and voluminous hair,” Calcasola says. (Maximus Spa & Salon, 399 Old Country Rd., Carle Place, 516-222-8880, MaximusSpaSalon.com)

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Together, helping kids stay on the right track to health Kohl’s Active Kids Program As childhood obesity rates climb, an entire generation of children is at risk of growing up with chronic obesity-related health problems such as high blood pressure, heart disease, asthma and other conditions. One of the best gifts we can give our kids is to help them develop healthy exercise habits – today. As parents, we can help our children learn to make fitness choices. Kids have great ideas and want to try new things. Let them get involved in planning their exercise routine, and teach them to take ownership of their own good health!

Try some fun “get going” ideas from this healthy habits checklist:

Turn off the television and as a family act out your own sitcom. Or make it a song-and-dance show! Take the family to an indoor playground when it’s too cold to play outdoors. Dig into gardening! Plant a garden and assign each family member their own section to care for and maintain.

Be a role model for good health. Get moving, stay fit and be physically active, together!

Teach your kids to take the stairs instead of the elevator whenever possible. And practice what you preach!

Healthy eating goes hand-in-hand with fitness! For kid-friendly recipes you and your children will love – and love to prepare – visit: northshorelij.com/cohenandkohls

Plan a walk every day after dinner and chart your steps on a map on the fridge.

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Many children want store-bought costumes to wear on Halloween, but the price tag is sometimes more than your budget will allow, especially if it’s only going to be worn once. We found an ideal solution where everyone gets what they want. Really cool costumes at affordable prices can be found at local consignment stores. Many of these costumes were originally sold at nearly 10 times the price. Check out these Halloween costumes at a price that won’t give you a fright!

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into the Halloween spirit. To make our Batty Bites, you’ll need: whole grain English muffins, a jar of pizza sauce, whole or part-skim mozzarella cheese (not grated!) and your favorite cookie cutter. We liked the bat pizza, but ghosts and pumpkin pizzas are fun, too! To assemble: split the muffins and top each half with about one tablespoon of pizza sauce, slice the cheese as thin as possible and cut your favorite shape with the cookie cutter. To make eyes, use a straw. Bake in the oven at 350 degrees for about 10 minutes, or until the cheese melts. Let cool slightly and BOO Appetite!

Firefly Jars Give your yard

an enchanting glow in just two steps! You’ll need an ordinary mason jar and with a small paintbrush, splatter glow-in-the-dark paint on the inside of the jar . When finished, keep the jars in the sun all day (to “charge” them) and place them around your yard or on a windowsill for a fairytale glow at night. Be kind to the environment by using non-toxic glow-in-the-dark paint, available at Walmart stores. (Walmart.com)

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Family Fun Trip

Running with the Wolves is a Ronkonkoma-based nonprofit organization that rescues wolves and helps fund other wolf-rescue organizations. Because wolf pups are so cute and cuddly looking, many people believe they can adopt them and raise them like dogs, but they are often abandoned as they grow older. Teresa DeMaio, of Ronkonkoma, certified pet care specialist and wildlife handler, started Running with Wolves to help the rescued animals by funding sanctuaries for them around the country. She now has a rescue wolf of her own, Takoda, and has renamed her adopt-a-wolf program The Takoda Fund. “It costs over $300 a month just to feed him because we only use raw, organic meat,” DeMaio explains. “Takoda came to us a year ago as a pup, and he really is the main focus.” There are different levels for donations, which can be as low as $10. Donors receive a certificate, and depending on the amount, a stuffed animal of a wolf. She also holds a yearly Wolf Expo that raises money for Takoda and seven other sanctuaries across the country. This year the expo is Oct. 14 at the Sheraton LI Hotel’s Grand Ballroom in Hauppauge. For more information on the organization or the event call 631-737-9653 or visit RunningWithTheWolves.org.

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Kids Korner

This is a road-trip adventure that will open up the eyes of kids (and parents) to the rich history of the North Shore. From George Washington’s spy trail to former speakeasies with bootlegging and rumrunning, Long Island has played a role in important historical events throughout history. Since it’s a do-ityourself trip, you can decide whether you want to stop in at Walt Whitman’s birthplace or the Cold Spring Harbor Whaling Museum or the Mather House Museum. The tour will change the way you look at Route 25A! For more information on the different historical sites and attractions, visit LongIslandHeritageTrail.com or contact the North Shore Promotional Alliance c/o The Ward Melville Heritage Organization, 111 Main St., Stony Brook, 631-751-2244.

Baby Dinosaur $6.50, Once Upon a Child, 5640 Sunrise Hwy., Sayville. 631-2449400, OnceUponAChildSayville.com The Patriotic Cheerleader $6.50 Once Upon a Child, 5640 Sunrise Hwy., Sayville. 631-244-9400, OnceUponAChild Sayville.com

Mr. Incredible $10, Once Upon a Child, 5640 Sunrise Hwy., Sayville. 631244-9400, OnceUpon AChildSayville.com

Fit Fusion Interactive After School Program

Five days a week at Fit Fusion Interactive in Oyster Bay, students are in for a variety of lessons including self-defense, nutrition and team spirit, all while using interactive video game equipment and special kidfriendly magnetic machinery. Owner Don Hauner explains, “We have bikes hooked up to computer systems, where kids play video games or do research as they pedal.” What makes the equipment so unique is one must pedal at a certain speed deemed adequate by trainers to see the screen and continue playing or researching. One favored area is equipped with steppers, and kids can play PlayStation 3 together while stepping to power their joystick. The program costs $139 per child on a month-to-month membership basis. (67 Main St., Oyster Bay. 516-802-3088, FitFusionInteractive.com)

Charity: Long Island Hope for Youth Luggage Drive

Long Island Hope for Youth works with children in foster care and in the juvenile justice system who move frequently. Providing these kids with their very own suitcase gives them something they can call their own. “It’s about having a certain amount of dignity. Who wants to go from house to house in a garbage bag?” says Vonni Guthrie, director of development. “They get a piece of luggage that’s theirs until hopefully they find permanent housing.” Only new luggage is used. The drop-off location is 201 Dixon Ave., Amityville. For more information contact Guthrie at 631-782-6540 or visit HFYNY.org.

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Playground Long Island is known for being a picturesque oasis away from the tall buildings of New York City. Even though much of the Island has been built up over the years, we still have some great parks and playgrounds where you can enjoy the outdoors. Since nothing feels better than a breath of fresh air, we decided to visit some of the parks to see which ones are the best. So grab the kids and a light jacket and head out to enjoy nature before the season turns too cold!

Eisenhower Park East Meadow

516-572-0348 Eisenhower Park is a whirlwind of activity. Available sports include golf, tennis, baseball, swimming, softball, soccer, football, basketball, a fitness trail, an outdoor roller-skating rink, a scenic lake and the Lakeside Theatre. Keep in mind, if you’re swimming, that the aquatic center is a bit pricey, especially for non-residents. Eisenhower also implemented a new adaptive playground in May 2012.

Cedar Creek Park Seaford

516-571-7470 Cedar Creek Park is a nice relaxing park near Jones Beach. It offers activities like softball, football, lacrosse, tee ball, tennis, handball, basketball, archery, tether cars, remote-control planes and biking. The park also has a designated dog-run area, archery range, Lufbery Aerodrome, tether-car race track, two turf fields, picnic areas, an outdoor roller-skating rink, two playgrounds and a 4.1-mile path with access to Jones Beach.

Hecksher Park

Huntington 631-351-3000 Hecksher is the ultimate playground park. Three softsurface, fenced-in playgrounds have everything from jungle gyms to a sandbox for little ones. Shaded picnic tables offer relief from the sun and a spot to rest, and the trail around the lake is a great place to become one with nature.

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Northport Village Park Northport

631-261-7502 This scenic Northport park offers a nice walk or a picnic with a waterside view. The playground boasts multiple slides among other features. Frisbee, biking, skateboarding and unleashed dogs are prohibited. But it’s a nice romantic location that comes shaded with waterside benches, a boardwalk, nicely maintained cement picnic tables throughout the park and a boatyard offering small boat rentals until Oct. 31. The restrooms are clean. Check out their Halloween Hayride on Oct. 28.

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Oyster Bay 516-624-6202 The park is only open to Town of Oyster Bay residents. It offers three playgrounds built on a soft material so tumbling kids don’t end up with scrapes all over. The park also has tennis, handball and basketball courts, a refreshment stand, two covered picnic areas, kayak racks and walking paths throughout.

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Lake Ronkonkoma County Park

Lake Ronkonkoma 631-854-9699 This lakeside park boasts a large adaptive playground that is accessible to children with special needs. Lake Ronkonkoma also offers access to basketball, handball, and tennis courts as well as a baseball/softball field. Fresh-water fishing is available with the proper license and permits. The restrooms could use some TLC and there is no food concession, but parking is free during the weekdays. On the weekends it’s $3 for residents and $10 for non-residents.

Hoyt Farm and Nature Preserve Commack

631-543-7804 This cute little park is great for kids. It offers ample playground space and a shaded picnic area. But bring a tablecloth because the tables need some TLC. There are benches for parents to sit on as they keep an eye on their kids at play. If you’re looking to get some exercise, there’s a baseball field near the park entrance and scenic walking paths throughout. The Nature Center and Hoyt House Museum are open all year. Restrooms are fairly clean, but there’s no concession stand. Non-residents and those without proof of Smithtown residency must pay $7 to park.

Kyle Meier Moriches Athletic Complex Adaptive Playground Moriches Argyle Lake Babylon

631-785-6191 Argyle Lake Park is absolutely beautiful, but a limited number of activities are available. If you’re looking for a relaxing day in a very natural setting, this is the park for you. Situated in the heart of Babylon and bordering the marina, it features a scenic path around the lake for walking, running or biking and a small playground, plus a nearby sports field and fishing. Unfortunately it has no accessible restrooms or concession areas, but food shops and stores are within walking distance of the park.

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Heritage Park

631-767-4354 This new playground was inspired by Kyle Meier, a Suffolk County child who, through his determination, has thrived despite his disabilities and has been an inspiration to other children and their families. Kyle’s grandmother, Debbie Metz, director of the Kyle Sports for Special Needs Program, was the catalyst for the funding and construction of this beautiful adaptive playground. (Photo: Brookhaven Town Councilman Dan Panico presenting a plaque naming the park in Kyle’s honor.)

Mount Sinai 631-509-0882 This park is great for children of all ages. Despite the fact that it’s smaller than other parks, Heritage has two playgrounds— one for toddlers up to age 5, and another for older kids that includes a rock wall. It also has ballfields, a walking/bike trail and community gardens boasting a small waterfall. The Heritage Center on the grounds offers classes, programs and events.

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Wantagh Park

Wantagh 516-571-7460 Wantagh Park features many different attractions and skimps on none of them. The large playground areas are full of all the slides and swings a child could dream of, along with a maze that will keep the kids busy all afternoon. It also has six pools, concession facilities, court games like bocci and horseshoes, a fishing pier open year-round and a two-mile-long jogging course.

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LI Treats Go A Long Way September marks a rite of passage for many freshmen college students who will get their first dose of independence as they settle into their new dorm rooms and college life. As kids say goodbye to Long Island—the place they’ve probably called home sweet home for almost two decades—parents aren’t the only ones left feeling a little blue. It’s not uncommon for new students to get homesick, so we’ve compiled a list of LI goodies that will help them feel a little more at home. Here are a few items that will make a nice care package for your homesick college student. Bagel Boss Bagels Bagel Boss has been rolling out unbeatably delicious round treats for the past five decades. The go-to bagel store offers an array of goodies from the breakfastinspired French toast bagel to the flat bagel that looks like it’s been run over by a truck, dubbed the “Flagel.” Unfortunately, the store and their scrumptious bagels won’t be an option on an outof-state campus but luckily, the “Boss” offers three college package options with FREE shipping. Multiple Locations BagelBoss.com

At Hofstra, you’re at the center of everything. So you can learn more. Think more. Be more. Each year, hundreds of students transfer to Hofstra, and now, transferring to Hofstra is simpler than ever. Our transfer students are given greater fl exibility in fulfi lling general education requirements with coursework from a prior institution. At a Transfer Day students can apply and receive an admission decision and credit evaluation, meet with an academic advisor and register for the fall 2012 semester.

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Words of Witness Film Shows a young female reporter’s struggles during Egypt’s revolution The footage is shaky as Heba Afify and her cameraman navigate the dark, ominous halls of the State Security headquarters. The public has stormed the building, searching for family and friends who disappeared by the hands of the government during Egypt’s revolution in February 2011, and the 22-year-old journalist is right in the thick of it. Words of Witness is an eye-opening documentary that follows the life of Heba, a young woman starting her career at one of the most crucial points of Egyptian history—after the fall of the Hosni Mubarak regime. Milieu got a chance to talk to Words of Witness director Mai Iskander. The 38-year-old Brooklyn resident stayed with family in Egypt during the filming of the documentary, and actually followed three female political activists in addition to Heba. Ultimately, she decided that she wanted to focus on Heba’s story alone. “I just felt like Heba was right in the middle of the action in what was going on in the country,” she said. “The film really was about Egypt at the time and it’s supposed to parallel the life of a woman, so I just felt like Heba’s story managed to do that the best.” The two often found themselves in dangerous situations during Heba’s assignments for the English edition of Egypt’s Independent newspaper Al-Masry Al-Youm. In one scene viewers watch Heba maneuver through a crowded Tahrir Square sit-in, the same location where numerous female reporters from several different countries, including America, have been sexually assaulted since the start of the revolution. While no prisoners are found during the State Security storming, protesters do uncover thousands of files that the government has kept on its citizens. People call friends on their cell phones to let them know what’s in their file, while others search to find the file with their name on it. Throughout the raid a tense aura radiates off the screen—are the police around the corner of the cold, barren hallway? Will violence break out? Will they find evidence of the torturing and killing that is rumored to go on in this grim building?

This isn’t a thriller film, this is real life, and these are real people fighting for freedom. While Heba puts on a brave face and completes her assignments with a cool, collected professionalism, it’s no wonder that her mother disapproves of the events she’s covering and calls her frantically when she doesn’t return home by a certain time. “I can’t abide by the rules of being an Egyptian girl if I want to be a good reporter,” she states matter-offactly during the film. The power of social networking is also apparent during the film. Many protesters organized on Twitter and Facebook, and Heba uses it throughout the movie to post her stories, lament about her mother’s overprotectiveness, and tries to find family members of those who went missing during the 18-day revolution.

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By the end of the film, Egyptians, including Heba’s own mother, excitedly commemorate voting in their first real election. But the country’s road to democracy has many bumps ahead of it, and the documentary ends with an air of uncertainty that still hangs over the nation. Mai said that her goal for the film was to show people what was really going on in Egypt. “People come and say, ‘I see a lot on the news, but I never really understood it so cohesively and from a personal point of view like I do in this film,’” she says. “That’s been one positive that I’ve been trying to get across. I think it’s a great representation of a young female who is also Muslim, because you don’t normally see that in the news.” The next step for Mai is to take the film around college campuses with Rock the Vote to show young people just how precious democracy is. “I want students to see how many people lost their lives for the right to vote, so that they’ll get out there and vote in November.” BY LINDSAY CHRIST Lindsay@MilieuLI.com september / october 2012

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Long Island is a famous summer destination for thousands of people. But for locals, as the summer comes to a close and the out-of-towners disperse, the fun continues!

NIGHTLIFE

Fall Ladies Nightlife Guide Monday

Monday

Four Food Studio

Monsoon

Babylon, 8 p.m. “As the dinner hour draws to a close, our DJ heats up the vibe at the Typhoon Bar with a light show. The scene moves from Dim Sim to lights dim, the music turns up another notch and the party moves to the lounge,” says owner Michael Bohlsen of The Monday Monsoon.

Chi

Westbury, 9 p.m. “It’s a restaurant/lounge scene with house music pumping,” says Rosenberg.

Thursday

Aura

Sugar

Ages 40+

Friday

Ages 25+

Mint

Garden City, 8 p.m. According to Rosenberg, the “R&B” night includes lots of drinking and dancing with music pumping and a beautiful rooftop experience.

Syosset, 9 p.m. “Rare gets better in the fall,” says Rosenberg, “Wine and dine and then hit the dance floor as the night heats up.”

Saturday Ages 21+

BLACK WOLF Syosset, 9 p.m. Check out the laid back bar for a casual night of drinking and chatting it up with locals.

Friday

Ages 25-45 Mixed Singles & Couples

Sapsuckers

Huntington, 8 p.m. Expect to find yourself enjoying the hip Brooklynstyle bar while ordering up a local brewed beer.

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The Emporium,

Commack, 4 p.m. Spend the night with your dearest friends over a $15 bottle of wine or dinner with $5 cocktails!

Friday

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Wall Street Hauppauge, 10 p.m. Rosenberg says patrons can expect to get the Suffolk version of Sugar.

Patchogue, 5 p.m. “Enjoy happy hour and four bowling alley lanes,” says Rosenberg, adding that there’s live music offered on the new venue’s big stage.

Friday Ages 30+

Babylon carriage house Babylon, 3-7 p.m. Enjoy happy hour and a complimentary buffet with friends.

Honu

Saturday Ages 30+

Saturday Ages 21+

Mulcahy’s Wantagh, 10 p.m. Expect drinking at the bar and dancing into the wee hours.

Saturday Ages 25+

Huntington Social

Sugar

Carle Place, 8:30 p.m. “If you’re single and between the ages of 30 and 50, this is the safest bet for meeting people,” Rosenberg says, adding that there’s a new happy hour at 5 p.m. for early birds to enjoy.

Friday

Ages 30+

Carle Place, 8 p.m. “Sweet Thursdays during the Sweet Season,” Rosenberg says, and adds that it’s the busiest time of year, “definitely the sweet season at Sugar.”

Thursday

Don’t wait for an excuse to put on that cute new outfit. Grab your girlfriends and have some fun!

Thursday

Ages 23-35

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Thursday

Long Beach, 8 p.m. The party continues indoors with bands like Mystique performing, according to Rosenberg.

Wednesday

Westbury, 8 p.m. According to Rosenberg, a live Du Wop band plays as guests hit the dance floor.

Ages 21+ Mostly Singles

Not only is the nightlife at an all-time high but autumn is also one of the most fashionable times of year, so what’s the point of all that shopping if you’re not going to show it off?

Ages 30+

Allegria Hotel

Melville, 9 p.m. “We give guests a weekend quality night on Monday night,” says Anthony Gentile, director of marketing at Four Food Studio.

Ages 40-60

Wednesday

Ages 21-30

Ages 25-40

“Fall is the best time to go out on Long Island. The weather is still pretty good and you just have everyone doing the weekends. Thursday, Friday and Saturday are three great days on the Island for nightlife,” explains Brian Rosenberg, Milieu’s nightlife expert. “Everyone’s home, no one’s on vacation, people put their BBQs back in the garage and head out to eat and enjoy.”

Huntington, 9 p.m. Patrons can expect dancing to classic 1990s hip-hop and 1980s top-40 remixes, says Rosenberg.

Saturday & Sunday

Huntington, 10 p.m. “Dinner followed by drinks and dancing to top 40 hits,” Rosenberg says.

Ages 21+

Kasey’s Rockville Centre, 9 p.m. According to Rosenberg, the RVC bar gets a good crowd on the weekends.

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tion center is looking for volunteers to assist in their formal gardens and butterfly garden. Training provided for positions that require it.

Children Abuse Prevention Services Quogue Wildlife Refuge

3 Old Country Rd., Quogue. 631-6534771, QuogueWildlifeRefuge.org. Opportunities available for animal care assistants, nature center attendants and trails/grounds.

Holocaust Memorial & Tolerance Center of Nassau County 100 Crescent Beach Rd., Glen Cove. 516571-8040, ext. 106, Holocaust-Nassau. org. Volunteers are requested to work five hours per month and attend at least eight to 12 volunteer meetings per year.

Long Island Maritime Museum

86 West Ave., Sayville. 631-854-4974, LIMaritime.org. The

museum needs parttime volunteers for different positions.

North Shore Long Island Jewish Hospital

270-05 76th Ave., New Hyde Park. 718-470-7090, NorthShoreLIJ.com. Volunteers needed for a wide range of positions. Opportunities are flexible.

Forgotten Friends of Long Island Location varies. 516719-0808, ForgottenFriendsOfLongIsland. org. Be a vital part of an animal’s transition from abused, neglected, or traumatized to healthy and happy.

Long Island Seaport & Ecology Center Bayles Boat Shop, Harborfront Park, Port

Jefferson. 631-4744725, LISEC.org. The center is looking for a volunteer who is computer savvy, can assist with the website and help with the triannual newsletter.

Ronald McDonald House of Long Island

267-07 76th Ave., New Hyde Park. 516-775-5683, RMHLongIsland.org. Give back as an in-house volunteer, prepare a home-cooked meal, visit residents in hospitals, or do a number of other things to help out the charity.

Sweetbriar Nature Center

62 Eckernkamp Dr., Smithtown. 631-9796344, SweetbriarNC. org. This nature education and rehabilita-

1579 Northern Blvd., Roslyn. 516621-0552, ext. 104, CAPSLI.org/Community/Volunteer. CAPS’ objective is to ensure the safety of every child and they need volunteers to help accomplish this. Train as a presenter, office assistant, or help with fundraising events.

Little Shelter Bingo Saturdays

110 Bingo Hall (Camelot Hall Building), 585 Broad Hollow Rd., Melville. 631-368-8770, ext. 206. Doors open at 9 a.m., selling starts at 9:30 a.m. and game starts at 10:30 a.m. The animal rescue and adoption center needs volunteers for their fundraiser bingo every Saturday morning.

Last Hope, Inc.

Animal Rescue & Rehabilitation

Multiple locations. LastHopeAnimalRescue.org. Volunteers needed to help take care of injured animals, must be 16 years or older.

Pal-O-Mine Equestrian Inc.

eterans Homes.org. This nursing facility serving U.S. Armed Forces veterans has myriad volunteer opportunities, including recreation activity providers, clerical assistants, decorators and trip volunteers.

829 Old Nichols Rd., Islandia. 631- 3481389, Pal-O-Mine. org. Pal-O-Mine uses horses to promote healing, growth, and learning for those with disabilities, neglected. Volunteers will be given extensive training that will prepare them to tend to the horses.

Literacy Nassau

Cold Spring Hills Center for Nursing & Rehabilitation

107 E. Deer Park Rd., Dix Hills. 631-4625400, ArtLeagueLI. org. Share your love for art and expand your knowledge as a volunteer.

378 Syosset-Woodbury Rd., Woodbury. 516622-7749, ColdSpring Hills.net. Volunteers 14 years and older needed to visit and work with residents.

Long Island State Veterans Home

100 Patriots Rd., Stony Brook. 631444-8590, LIStateV-

187 Smith St., Freeport. 516- 8673580, LiteracyNassau. org. Literacy Nassau is looking for tutors, conversation circle leaders, outreach volunteers, student assessors, and office support people.

Art League of Long Island

Habitat for Humanity 1421 Northern Blvd., Manhasset. 516-6276047, HFHNC.org. Nassau’s Habitat for Humanity has been building homes and

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LI Pet Expo @ Tanner

Walk for Lymphedema & Lymphatic Diseases

@ Eisenhower Park, 1899 Hempstead Tpke., East Meadow. 516-625-9675, Walk@ LymphaticResearch. org, WalkLRF.org, 10 a.m. Raises money to fund treatments and cures for lymphedema, lymphangioma, lymphangiectasia and other related disorders, and research to further understand the lymphatic system’s impact on other health issues and diseases.

Pet First Aid & CPR Class @ Bid-A-Wee

Learning Center, 3300 Beltagh Ave., Wantagh. 718-347-7387, InHomePetServices. com, 9:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Robyn Elman, president of In Home Pet Services, Inc., is a certified “Pet Tech” instructor who will give participants a take-home reference manual and a certificate at the end of the class. A portion of the proceeds will benefit the Pet Safe Coalition.

Park, 123 Kerrigan Rd., Copiague. HorseAndPet Expo.com, 11 a.m.-6 p.m. Also 9.16.

WED 9.19

32nd Annual R. Brinkley Smithers Gold Invitational @

Piping Rock/The Creek, 150 Piping Rock Rd./1 Horse Hollow Rd., Locust Valley. 516747-2606, ext. 105, LICADD.org, Noon at Piping Rock, 12:30 p.m. at The Creek. The Long Island Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence’s annual event offers golfing rounds on two of LI’s premier golf courses, along with a silent auction, live auction and dozens of raffle prizes.

THU 9.20

Charity Fashion Show for ParentChild Home Program @ LK Bennett, Bloomingdale’s, 2nd Floor, Roosevelt Field Mall, 630 Old Country Rd., Garden City. 7-9 p.m. A free fashion show featuring a peek at LK’s Fall Winter

collection, along with sangria and light hors d’oeuvres. All customers get a 10-percent shopping discount, with 10 percent of all sales benefiting PCHP, an early literacy program providing lowincome parents books and educational toys for their preschoolers. Guests who register at Parent-Child.org/ LK-Bennett-Event. html, are entered for a chance to win a free facial at Clarins Skin Spa.

SUN 9.23

Children’s Walk Against Brain Tumors & Brain Cancer @ Eisenhower

Park, 1899 Hempstead Tpke., East Meadow. CBTF.org, 9 a.m. A walk presented by the Children’s Brain Tumor Foundation to raise money and awareness. Check in is at 8 a.m. and the walk begins at 9 a.m. You can choose to walk either a 1- or 3-mile route.

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@ Carlyle at the Palace, 1600 Round Swamp Rd., Plainview. 516827-1290, KBlank@ CFF.org, $75, 6-9 p.m. Presented by The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, this event acknowledges LI’s finest professionals and volunteers with a three-hour cocktail party and a silent auction.

FRI 9.28

Fall Auction @ St. Joseph’s School, 25 Church St., Ronkonkoma. 6:30 p.m. 631-615-2181. The Court St. Joseph Catholic Daughters are hosts. Admission is $8 and includes 25 tickets, cake, coffee and tea. Extra tickets are $2 per card.

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A Journey Four Paws

@ Barks-n-Bubbles Boutique, 1800 Middle Country Rd., Centereach; and Oceanside Beach Resort, 626 Montauk Hwy., Montauk. Barks-n-Bubbles Boutique owner Irene Rabinowitz and her

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@ Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Ave., North Babylon. 631-6722027, LongIslandNYEvents@Ovarian. org, $25 for adults, 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. This is one of the largest fundraisers for the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition. It raises awareness, celebrates survivors, and remembers those we’ve lost to ovarian cancer. The registration fee includes a T-shirt and admission to all event activities.

10-year-old Australian Shepherd Sydney will walk 70 miles in four days from her pet boutique in Centereach to Montauk to raise money and awareness for Central Suffolk Paws and the Arthritis Foundation. A kick-off celebration will take place at the boutique on Oct. 5 at 7:30 a.m. A luncheon celebration will be held at the Oceanside Beach Resort on Oct. 8 at approximately 12:30 p.m., which will include dog festivities, raffles, goody bags and a best Montauk dog costume contest. To RSVP for the luncheon, make a donation or become a sponsor, call 631-456-5362 or visit BarksNBubblesLI.com and click on ‘A Journey Four Paws.’

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Walk Now for Autism Speaks @ Jones

Planting Fields Arboretum

Middle Island. 631736-8207, SaveThe AnimalsRescue.org. These wildlife rescue and rehabilitators are looking for volunteers who are willing to transport animals between veterinarians and the rehabilitation specialist, as well as help fix up their new facility.

1395 Planting Fields Rd., Oyster Bay. 516-922-8670, PlantingFields.org. Volunteers needed to help preserve a part of Long Island’s natural heritage.

Adelphi NY Statewide Breast Cancer Hotline & Support Program

1 South Ave., Garden City. 516-877-4315, Adelphi.edu/NYS BreastCancer. The hotline is looking for breast cancer survivors to provide emotional support, information and referral services to callers with breast health concerns.

Splashes of Hope

101 Browns Rd., Huntington. 631-4248230, SplashesOfHope.org. This organization creates murals in hospital rooms as a way to facilitate healing through art.

National Alliance for Autism Research/Autism Speaks

380 Oakwood Rd., Huntington Station. 631-521-7853, AutismWalk.org/ LongIsland. Volunteers needed for clerical work including data entry, preparing packets for events and lectures and sorting

THU 10.25

Women Achievers Against the Odds Breakfast @ Crest

Hollow Country Club, 8325 Jericho Tpke., Woodbury. 516-3969857, Info@WomensFundLI.org, LIFWG. org, 10 a.m. This is the annual charitable event for the Women’s Fund of Long Island, a not-for-profit group that supports programs to improve the lives of women and girls on LI.

Halloween Party to Protect Children @

Beach State Park, Field 5, Ocean Parkway, Wantagh. 631-5217853, WalkNow ForAutismSpeaks. org, 9 a.m.-1 p.m. No fee for walkers. This signature annual fundraising walk brings thousands together with the common goal of supporting autism research.

Crest Hollow Country Club, 8325 Jericho Tpke., Woodbury. 516539-0150, EACInc. org, 6-8:30 p.m. Come dressed in your best costume and enjoy a family friendly dinner and trick-or-treat fun at the Halloween Carnival of Games. All proceeds benefit EAC’s programs to protect children.

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Garden Inn, 2038 Old Country Rd., Riverhead. 631-337-1603, $50, 6 p.m. Some of LI’s most powerful CEOs will serve dinner for guests. This elegant night out includes dinner and music. All proceeds will benefit the American Heart

ton Hall Theatre, Trinity Episcopal Church, 130 Main St., Northport. 631-732-2926, Minstrel Players.org, Show times vary. World-class theater at an affordable

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FRI 11.2

4th Annual Girls Night Out @ Gurney’s

Inn, Old Montauk Hwy, Montauk. 631-6681742, GurneysInn. com, 7-10 p.m. This event will benefit Breast Cancer Research. Foundation. A special $175 rate is available to all attendees.

SAT 11.17 St. Jude Give Thanks Walk @

Bethpage Ballpark, 3 Courthouse Dr., Central Islip. Free admission, 9 a.m. This 5K family friendly walk hosted by St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital raises money for research, treatment, curing, and prevention of cancer among children. Click “Register” at GiveThanksWalk. org to sign up.

SUN 11.18

23rd Annual Peter Sweisgood Breakfast

@ IBEW Local 25 Hall, 370 Vanderbilt Motor Pkwy., Hauppauge. $45 per person or $400 per table, 10 a.m. This breakfast is presented by the Long Island Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence. Proceeds benefit family interventions and other clinical services.

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Food

Pronto of Long Island, Inc.

128 Pine Aire Dr., Bay Shore. 631-2318290, ProntoLongIsland.org. Mon.-Sat., 9 a.m.-2 p.m. In addition to its food pantry, Pronto also accepts clothing and furniture donations.

Realtors Against Hunger Campaign

Extravagant Realty, 15 Glen Head Rd., Glen Head. 516-232-8885, ExtravagantRealty. com. Mon.-Fri., 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Collecting donations of nonperishable food items in an effort to provide help to hundreds of local food pantries, soup kitchens, shelters and other programs that feed the hungry. on Long Island.

Mary Brennan Inn

100 Madison Ave., Hempstead. 516486-6243, TEbron@

The-Inn.org. Mon.-Fri., 9 a.m.-11 a.m. & 2-4 p.m. The Inn needs sandwiches and nonperishable goods such as peanut butter, rice and pasta.

town, Bohemia, Commack, Lake Grove, Hicksville, Westbury and Huntington. Drop off non-perishable food items during regular store hours.

Marshall’s Department Store’s Ongoing Food Drive

Clothing

Multiple locations. accepting donations include Stony Brook, East Islip, Huntington, Commack, Patchogue, Jericho, Massapequa, Miller Place, Melville, West Babylon, Syosset and Shirley. Drop off nonperishable food items during regular store hours.

Old Navy Ongoing Food Drive Multiple Locations.

Nine Old Navy locations will be collecting food for Long Island Cares. Participating stores include locations in Bay Shore, West Babylon, Levit-

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Salvation Army

462 Hempstead Tpke., Floral Park. 516-354-9498, SalvationArmy.org. Clothing donations are accepted 24 hours a day, seven days a week via donation boxes in the parking lot behind the store. Electronics and other larger items such as furniture can be dropped off between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m. at the store. For pick-up service call 516-354-9498.

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Long Island

70 Acorn Lane, Levittown. 631-234-0000, BBBSLI.org. Drop off during regular busi-

ness hours. BBBSLI collects clothing at various locations listed on their website. You can donate gently used items including clothing, coats and shoes.

Galleria Invitations, Favors & Tuxedos Clothing Collection 234 Rte. 109, Farmingdale. Drop off donations during regular store hours. Donate unwanted dresses to Galleria Invitations, Favors & Tuxedos. Call Joyce at 631-753-1264 for more information.

Society of St. Vincent de Paul

2160 Jericho Tpke., Garden City Park, 516-746-8250. Mon.Sat., 10 a.m.-6 p.m. With its motto, The Society of St. Vincent de Paul strives to provide for those who cannot afford certain amenities. This orga-

nization asks for clothing, furniture, used vehicles, and food.

Luggage

Hope For Youth, Inc. 201 Dixon Ave.,

Amityville. 631-7826540. Children in foster care are in need of new carry-on and small-sized wheeled luggage. Many youth have to make multiple moves from home to home, family to family. Comfort in knowing a child has her/his own dedicated piece of luggage helps the moving process can ease the transition and provide a sense of dignity during a difficult time.

Toys

Gerald J. Ryan Outreach Center Toy Collection

1434 Straight Path, Wyandanch. Mon.-Fri., 9:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m. The Outreach is wellknown for its charity

Woodward Children’s Center

201 W. Merrick Rd., Freeport. Woodward is seeking new and gently used toys, especially for older children. For drop-off details, call 516-3790900.

Birthday Wishes of LI

835 Middle Country Rd., St. James; and 49 Colgate Lane, Woodbury. Help make a small difference in a child’s life by giving a gift. Birthday Wishes of Long Island will help you do just that. For details call 516680-7990.

Bethany House

102 White House Ave., Roosevelt. Bethany House takes new toys for children 2-12. For drop-off details, call 516-868-6866.

Vets

Vietnam Veterans of America Multiple locations.

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VVA is an organization dedicated to the homeless. It is willing to pick up donated items from your home. They accept clothing, bedding, shoes, small appliances, furniture, TVs, radios, and other items you wish to give. Simply call 1-800-7758387, 631-924-8088 or visit VVA.org to plan your donation.

United Veterans Beacon House

1715 Union Blvd., Bay Shore. 631-6651571, UVBH.com. Mon.–Fri., 9 a.m.–6 p.m. Help veterans by donating bedding, food, gift cards, toiletries, household goods, or any daily necessities.

Long Island State Veterans Home

Stony Brook University, Nicolls Road, Stony Brook. Needs fold-up tables, a Wii console, a karaoke machine and microphones, dry erase boards, CD and DVD players, wheel chair cup holders, and more. Find out what else is on LISVH’s wish-list by going to LIStateVeteransHome.org or contact

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Pets

Save-A-Pet Animal Rescue and Adoption Center

608 Patchogue Rd., Port Jefferson Station. Needs clay kitty litter, Pedigree dog food, paper towels and more. You can purchase the items directly and have them sent to Save-A-Pet from BestBuy.com, Petco.com, OfficeMax. com and HomeDepot. com.

Misc.

Saddle Rock Ranch

41 Coram-Swezeytown Rd., Middle Island. Accepting financial contributions and items for their annual fundraiser, like raffle prizes, tables, chairs, wine, beer, paper plates, cups and napkins, etc. Saddle Rock Ranch offers therapeutic riding to children and adults with special needs. Call 631-786-9708 for details.

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VIRGO

August 23 to September 22

Your inner dreams and visions may feel ready to spring into action. Place some distance between you and the outside world and jot down your private thoughts for future reference.

LIBRA

September 23 to October 22

Your well-chosen words have a healing effect on people. Speak out pleasantly but firmly on topics vital to your family. Use your subtle leadership abilities to help others see the truth.

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October 23 to November 21

CONSONANT SEXTETS ACROSS 1 Holier-than- 5 Cow sounds 9 Blueprint, e.g. 15 Not very much at all 19 Procure off-site, as goods and services 21 Novelist Waugh 22 “Livin’ La Vida -” (Ricky Martin hit) 23 Bodybuilding regimen 25 Dull, as London skies 26 Buying places 27 “Candida” playwright 28 Declares 30 That vessel 32 Potential epidemic 36 Post-shave splash-on brand 40 Rowboat movers 43 Arab rulers 44 Utah’s - Mountains 45 Airline posting 48 Bay - (Bostonian, e.g.) 49 Juliet’s guy 50 New Mexico art mecca 51 Biol. or geol. 52 “Born Free” lioness 54 Certain fruity liquor 63 Spiel giver 67 Fry a little 68 “Rocky” actress Talia 69 Tel 70 Excellent 74 Have - with (know someone at) 75 Credit card lure 77 - few rounds (spars) 78 Backed down 80 Senior 84 Auto pioneer 85 With 56-Down, bigwig with big bucks 86 Is hurting 89 “- that hard to believe!” 92 - frisé (toy dog) 96 Large dog used in police work 101 Broadcasting 102 Actor Joe 103 Emmy winner Falco 104 Rosten and Sayer 58

105 Penetrate suddenly 108 Nose variety 110 Pays a casual visit 111 Vehemence 114 Delineated 119 “I - Song Go Out of My Heart” 120 1952 Peace Nobelist 125 Ireland, in poetry 126 Regret-filled 127 Greeting in a locked book 128 Nitwit 129 1922-73 comic strip 130 Gear teeth 131 Whizzes DOWN 1 Throw away 2 Jabba the - (“Star Wars” villain) 3 Other, in Oaxaca 4 Customer 5 Perp’s photo ID 6 Dinner scrap 7 Phil of folk singing 8 Actor Rogen 9 Marine plant 10 Livy’s 106 11 Barn clucker 12 Yale Bowl cheerer 13 Avian mimics 14 Gloomy anxiety 15 Neighbor of Libya 16 Downpour 17 Film overlay 18 Bright planet seen before sunrise 20 Some till fill 24 Rally cry 29 They’re not able to get out much 31 Part of NNE 33 - Darya (river) 34 Small, in Dogpatch 35 Three, in Trieste 36 15-Down loc. 37 Polly Holliday sitcom 38 Big name in books and records 39 21-35 range, maybe 41 Nipper’s co. 42 Buying place 46 “Bonanza” brother

47 Suffix with Taiwan 48 Educ. inst. 51 Venue 53 Pooch sound 55 Syrian president 56 See 85-Across 57 “Ben- -” 58 Budge 59 Some 60 Small 61 - -dieu (pew add-on) 62 Dispatch 63 Filmmaker Gus Van 64 Declare 65 Two cubed 66 - rock (music genre) 71 Homily: Abbr. 72 Airport uniform abbr. 73 Day- - paint 76 Attempts 79 Kazan of Hollywood 81 Light brown 82 Have dinner 83 Move upward 87 PC screen variety 88 Armada unit 90 Prefix with colonial 91 “ER” figs. 92 Winter Olympics event 93 Not yet born 94 Neck artery 95 - -American (Latino U.S. resident) 96 Hamburg loc. 97 Prefix with propyl 98 Start to puncture? 99 During every evening 100 Fixes, as Rover 102 Chordata, for humans 106 Some ski lifts 107 Bulls, rams, and bucks 109 Basic street system 112 Flexible, electrically 113 Mr. Kojak 115 “Take - from me ...” 116 Antidrug kingpin 117 Architect Saarinen 118 Ones against alcohol 121 The Andrews Sisters’ “- Mir Bist Du Schön” 122 New newt 123 Deep groove 124 Turn tail?

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Rewards for smart financial moves may have been elusive in the past few months. But evidence that this is about to change begins to show. It’s about time!

SAGITTARIUS

November 22 to December 21

Things will quiet down more. Jupiter will reveal a favorable period for harmony in marriage and partnerships of all kinds. Don’t take your partner for granted.

CAPRICORN

December 22 to January 19

Friendships and finances may not gel. Stay emotionally close to friends but don’t constantly bother them with tales of your financial woes. The spiritual law of finance says this will soon pass.

AQUARIUS

January 20 to February 18

Take a no-nonsense approach to your work routine during this period. Detach yourself from highly emotional entanglements at work and stick to the business at hand. Be courteous but not overly friendly with co-workers.

PISCES

February 19 to March 20

Your love life gets a boost during this period. Don’t wait for romance to find you like you usually do. An assertive approach works best. Quality is just as important as quantity. Try not to waste your time with someone who is not really your type.

Aries

March 21 to April 19

Take advantage of the energy rush coming your way. Initiative and crisp decisions put you in the limelight at work. Don’t let outside activities take up all of your time.

TAURUS

April 20 to May 20

If you feel you have not been expressing your thoughts clearly and want to upgrade your language skills, your talents can turn this chore into a fun game. Children will be especially important to you at this time.

GEMINI

May 21 to June 20

Be careful of extreme reactions where family finances are concerned. You have a precise and logical mind but others with a stake in the action may not be willing to trust your judgment now.

CANCER

June 21 to July 22

Do not hesitate to make decisions during this period. You are highly regarded by those around you for your insight and perception. Although your personal charm flows naturally, don’t take yourself too seriously.

LEO

July 23 to August 22

Home is where your heart should be, especially if relatives need some words to the wise about how to express love. A young person can guide you into accepting what may be positive changes in your life.

CONSULT THE HOROSCOPE FOR YOUR RISING SIGN AS WELL Psychicdeb has been a professional astrologer for more than 25 years. Psychicdeb also uses the tarot to do psychic readings channeling her spirit guide, Helen. Reiki is one of her obsessions and she is a Reiki Master and loves to teach others its benefits. Namaste. Astro-Mate.org

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