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table of contents

the rest 17 The Insider Little luxuries make your bedroom a haven. Zaaz!

23 Shop Talk Zobha in Mill Valley. By Crystal Chow.

Photos by Stuart Lirette.

25 Body & Soul Forgetting a lot these days? What you can do about it. By Melinda Sacks

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romance! fashion

Pondering her next move, social media superstar Tina Sharkey takes time to listen and learn.

By Julia Prodis Sulek. Photos by Stuart Lirette.

73 Getaways Ditch the crowds for a kinder, gentler Tahoe.

By Bonnie Wach

81 Seen Big fun around town.

34 A Splendid Affair This winter, it’s all about rich and romantic detail.

By Donna Kato. Photos by Joanne Ho-Young Lee. Plus: Spring 2013 trends. By Donna Kato

PASSIONS 55 Love, Lust & Lit Romance writing is hot, in more ways than one.

And the Bay Area is a steamy hub. By Crystal Chow

INDULGE 19 Hearts Afire Romantic jewels heat up the holidays.

FOOD & WINE 63 Thirsty Girl Leslie Sbrocco is besotted by bubbly.

Plus: Recipes from “The Clean Plates Cookbook.”

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editor’s note

Why we need birthday cake

Josie Lepe

What’s your guilty pleasure? Besides Cheetos and bad reality TV, that is.

For many of us, it would seem to be the romance novel, whether it’s an old Barbara Cartland paperback or “Fifty Shades of Grey” on our Kindle. The genre outsells all others, far beyond even sci-fi. Check out “Love, Lust & Lit” by Crystal Chow (Page 55) for a few local romance writers’ steamy excerpts about — Um, wait — about what, exactly? I forgot. ... This happens all the time, just like when I walk purposefully into a room or colleague’s office and can’t recall why I’m there, or stash my keys somewhere “safe” and have no idea where that might be.

I’m not alone. As you can read in “You Must Remember This” (Page 25), women

of all ages have an especially tough time with forgetfulness. Memory thieves include hormones, stress, the aging brain and, of course, the overwhelming 24/7 info and data culture we live in. Fortunately, there are ways to fight back (think blueberries).

But back to romance: The excerpts will give you a hint of the talent and tremendous creativity out there, and make you realize why we connect with the genre. Author Janet Evanovich puts it like this: “Romance novels are birthday cake, and life is often peanut butter and jelly. ... Everyone should have lots of delicious romance novels lying around for those times when the peanut butter of life gets stuck to the roof of your mouth.”

Happy reading — and eat birthday cake, because Scene celebrates its third year with this issue!

Katharine Fong Editor & Publisher

scene Katharine Fong Editor & Publisher

Rebecca Hall Lucero Art Director Donna Kato Contributing Fashion & Beauty Editor Crystal Chow Melinda Sacks Stephanie Simons Julia Prodis Sulek Bonnie Wach Contributing Writers Jose Carlos Fajardo Nikki Ritcher Contributing Photographers Rebecca Parr Copy Editor

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contributors

Crystal Chow (“Love, Lust & Lit,” Page 55) has enjoyed a diverse career as an editor and writer, starting with indelible stints at Guns & Ammo and Playgirl magazines in Southern California. More recently, she has worked at Stanford Hospital & Clinics and the San Jose Mercury News.

Work by award-winning photojournalist Joanne Ho-Young Lee (“A Splendid Affair,” Page 34) captures authenticity and realism, and has appeared in national publications.

Prior to shooting boudoir photography and lifestyle portraiture, she was staff photographer at major news outlets and worked with Annie Leibovitz and Mary Ellen Mark.

Julia Prodis Sulek (“Tina, in Transition,” Page 48) is a feature writer and general assignment reporter for the San Jose Mercury News.

She is a Pulitzer Prize finalist whose work has been nationally recognized. Julia also cofounded Lookiloos. com, which gives readers a peek into the style and stories of Bay Area homes and gardens.

Jeffrey Tuffin, creative director at the Tribez hair salons in Danville and Blackhawk, styled the hair for our fashion shoot (“A Splendid Affair,” Page 34).

A veteran of Fashion Weeks in New York, Paris, Milan and London, he is a master stylist and trainer. He was born in Tonyrefail in Wales, grew up in London and now lives in Albany.

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Four years ago, Jamie Hanna founded Zobha, a line of sophisticated activewear whose Sanskrit name means “grace, beauty and brilliance.’’ At the time she was living in Hong Kong, where her husband’s job had taken them and where she had trained to teach ashtanga yoga. The Harvard Business School grad lacked a background in clothing design — the closest she had come to it was a stint in merchandise planning for Gap/Old Navy before taking eight years off to become a full-time mom.

But Hanna transformed a lifelong interest in fashion, design and art into “runway-inspired silhouettes’’ featuring “superior performance fabric’’ that allowed for easy, elegant movement. Today, 400 establishments — including Neiman Marcus — in 27 countries carry the label favored by celebrities like Sandra Bullock, Reese Witherspoon and January Jones. As of last month, the count included the first Zobha, Hanna’s flagship store, in downtown Mill Valley.

The minimalist 2,000-square-foot space showcases all of Zobha’s collections for women and men. “Here we’re able to tell the branded story,’’ Hanna says of a narrative that includes a strong commitment to giving back. A prime example of this is a partnership with Headstand, a nonprofit that teaches yoga and stress-re-

duction techniques to kids in underserved communities in the Bay Area and other cities.

Hanna hopes to open three more stores in the Bay Area in 2013. One will be in San Francisco; the East Bay and Peninsula are possibilities for the others. A mother of two preteens, she isn’t fazed by the challenge.

Consider this: Within months of Zobha’s debut in 2008, the line rocketed from the initial 11 wholesalers to selling in 250 stores. That year the family moved to Mill Valley and, to top it all off, Hanna and her spouse oversaw a renovation of their house.

“It was a bit like drinking water from a fire hose, but it was good,’’ Hanna recalls. It helped that once they got to California, her husband stepped back from his career in private equity so she could concentrate on Zobha.

Ironically, she has since had to cut back on yoga, practicing at home only a couple times a week. “I do miss the luxury of two-hour morning practices,” she admits.

“My new mantra is, I really want to be successful.

Starting a business has its ups and downs, especially with this economy, but I feel that at this moment I’ve never had more clarity. This is what I want to do; this is what really moves me as a person.’’

– Crystal Chow

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Lost your cell phone again?

Can’t remember why you walked into the kitchen?

Forgetfulness plagues women of all ages. What you can do about it I found my briefcase in the refrigerator after frantically tearing apart the house for more than an hour. By that time, my heart was pounding, and I was using language I wouldn’t want my kids to hear.

What was I thinking? Probably the same thing as when I walk purposefully into a room and then have no idea why, or when I lose my keys three times a day, or blank out on my cousin’s phone number though I’ve known it for a decade.

That “vague and foggy feeling” — as Marin County author Cathryn Jakobson Ramin writes in her book “Carved in Sand: When Attention Fails and Memory Fades in Midlife” — hits almost all of us at one time or another. It’s unsettling, frustrating and even frightening.

And it’s not just midlife women.

“We are all bombarded with much more information than ever before,” says Cynthia Green, a psychologist and memory expert from Mount Sinai Hospital in New York and the founder of Total Brain Health, which offers memory fitness and brain health training.

“This is particularly challenging for women, as we tend to divide our time between multiple roles that demand our attention and require us to effectively track a great deal of information.”

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In addition, Green says, many of the ways women choose to deal with the demands on their time — cutting back on sleep, not eating well, not getting enough exercise, spending too much time multitasking — are not “brain-healthy choices” and can contribute to memory troubles.

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Ramin readily admits to writing “Carved in Sand” in 2007 because she wanted to figure out how to cope with her own forgetfulness and inability to concentrate.

“This was not just happening to me,” says the now 52-year-old Ramin. “Everywhere I’d go, no one could get a grip. I was determined to see why we were all so stretched. I had put a lot of stock in the fact that I was going to keep my brain [as I aged], if not my figure.”

Ramin became a guinea pig as she looked at a variety of genetic, biochemical and environmental factors that affect memory. She tried the drugs Adderall (to help focus) and Provigil (to improve wakefulness), she took dietary supplements and did biofeedback. She investigated the cognitive benefits of learning that use different parts of the brain, such as studying a new language or taking up art. She found help through diet and exercise.

Mostly, she found that the blame for a less reliable memory is seldom a single cause. Experts agree that it is a multitude of factors, some within our control, some not.

Unquestionably a major contributor is the sheer enormity of news and information we’re exposed to,

body & soul particularly from the electronic devices in our lives 24/7.

According to a recently released study in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, the frequent buzzing of a smartphone, the ping of incoming texts and emails all take a significant toll on working memory (the part of your brain that stores and manipulates information for complex verbal and nonverbal tasks such as reasoning and understanding).

Combine this with daily to-do lists from work and home, and on most days our brains are overwhelmed.

“We are constantly trying to multitask,” says Dr. Marci Teresi, medical director of Kaiser Santa Clara Memory Clinic. “There is always more than one thing you are doing and more than one thing going on in your head.”

Researchers have concluded that the human brain is actually not capable of multitasking. What our brain does instead is jump quickly from one task to another.

While the 20- and even 30-year-old brain can be interrupted and return to a previous thought or task with relative ease, our capacity to do this as we age has been shown to diminish.

The hormone connection Most women who have gone through pregnancy and/ or menopause complain of memory loss.

Studies suggest that elevated and fluctuating hormone levels during pregnancy and just before menopause can impair memory, but results have been mixed.

A small-scale 2010 British study found that women pregnant in their second and third trimesters performed significantly worse than non-pregnant women in tests of spatial memory — the memory that tells us where we parked the car or set down the keys. This effect still held at three months after birth.

But an earlier analysis by Australian researchers of 14 international studies that tested the memory performances of more than 1,000 women (pregnant, nonpregnant and mothers) found that pregnant women were not affected by familiar tasks, but instead experienced memory loss with unfamiliar or challenging tasks, or when multitasking. The research found that memory loss can extend up to a year after birth.

At menopause, estrogen levels decrease. This is thought to affect at least verbal memory, according to the North American Menopause Society, but the connection is not entirely understood yet, and memory often seems to bounce back after menopause. Some studies, such as at the University of Pennsylvania’s Penn Center for Women’s Behavioral Wellness, are testing whether drugs used to treat Attention Deficit Disorder can help

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with memory loss during menopause.

“The more we know, the harder it is to come to an easy answer,” says Dr. Victor Henderson, professor of epidemiology, neurology and neurological science at Stanford University, where he focuses on prevention and treatment of age-related cognitive decline, particularly in adult women. “We know estrogen affects the brain in a lot of ways, and most studies of women show that its presence is neuro-protective, but so far in clinical studies it is harder to see those effects.”

Stressing out Short-term stress, or as Mount Sinai’s Green calls it, “stress in the moment,” causes us to be distracted, so we will be less likely to learn and remember things we are trying to remember at that time, such as a name.

She recommends developing a simple “Stress ER” technique” — something that can be done almost instantly — to help you cope with short-term stress, such as deep breathing or counting backward from 20.

Chronic stress is the greater villain, Green says. “Research suggests that long-term exposure to stress, or chronic stress, has many negative health effects, including associated changes in the hippocampus, or area of the brain most responsible for new learning.”

While we cannot avoid stress, Green says, we can develop strategies or activities that balance the stress response, including exercising, an enjoyable hobby, yoga, meditation practice or massage.

THE SAVIORS?

Once again: Diet, exercise, sleep Just like your mother always said, healthy food, exercise and enough sleep can take care of myriad problems, including forgetfulness.

A Dartmouth study published in the May 2012 Neuroscience followed the mood and memory of a group of adults ages 18 to 36 who were formerly sedentary.

In just one month, those who exercised regularly (30 minutes of walking or jogging four times a week) performed better on memory tests and reported a reduced level of stress. Further, those who combined exercise and cognitive stimulation (riding a stationary bike while watching information programming) had an even greater ability to remember.

Another study by the American Association for the Advancement of Science reported that people who had exercised for six months showed a 2 percent increase in the size of the hippocampus, the part of the brain also

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Keep your brain sharp

Tips from experts in cognitive health as well as author Cathryn Jakobson Ramin:

Don’t multitask if you want your brain at its best: Multiple studies show that multitasking is counterproductive, unless you can do one of the tasks on automatic pilot.

Forgo supplements for real food: Fruits and vegetables keep brain cells fit by mopping up free radicals. On the other hand, studies show most antioxidant supplements provide no protective effect. Scientists hypothesize that food stays in the digestive system for much longer than supplements, maximizing its benefits.

Exercise vigorously: Get your heart rate up (check with your doctor first) and keep it there. Aim for a half hour or more of aerobic exercise three times a week, with a little strength training. The former sends blood pumping to your brain; the latter lets muscles retain glycogen, a form of stored glucose your brain can use when you skip lunch.

Go easy on the wine: The negatives of drinking alcohol every day appear to outweigh the benefits. Alcohol has both an immediate and long-term effect on cognition. On as little as half a glass of wine, you can develop what one scientist referred to as “cocktail party deficits.”

Keep learning: Challenging your brain with mental exercise is believed to activate processes that help maintain

individual brain cells and stimulate communication among them. Hone a new skill, join a book club, play Sudoku.

Engage all your senses: Studies show that the more senses you use in learning something, the more of your brain will be involved in retaining the memory. So give sculpting or ceramics a try, noticing the feel and smell of the materials you use, or try another multi-sensory activity.

Save your brain space and you’ll be better able to concentrate and remember new things: Take advantage of smartphones, calendars, planners, maps, shopping lists and file folders to keep routine info accessible. Designate a spot for glasses, purse, keys and other items you use often. Declutter to minimize distractions.

Repeat what you want to remember: To remember what you’ve just heard, read or thought about, repeat it out loud or write it down to reinforce the memory or connection. For example, if you’ve just learned someone’s name, use it when you speak with him or her: “So, John, where did you meet Camille?” If you place your keys somewhere other than their usual spot, tell yourself out loud what you’ve done. And don’t hesitate to ask for information to be repeated. It works.

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“There is increasing evidence that exercise is good for the heart and the brain,” Henderson says. “Our best understanding is that aerobic exercise does benefit brain function and may even offer some protection against Alzheimer’s.”

Exercise can also enhance the ability to focus and pay attention, a key factor in maintaining a good memory. Ramin knows this from personal experience.

“It completely rearranged my cognitive and emotional status,” she enthuses about the exercise program she undertook while writing and researching “Carved in Sand.” “Instead of being continually anxious, once I got serious about working out and about the kind of resistance training and Iyengar yoga that has become so important to me, my mind is working way better. I can almost do two things at once.”

Sleep can also have a big impact on our ability to focus and remember, according to the National Sleep Foundation. How much sleep an individual needs depends on multiple factors, but it is clear that feeling tired or drowsy leads to decreased ability to pay attention and remember new information, and decreased reaction time.

(Unfortunately, memory loss is a known side effect of sleep medications such as Ambien and Lunesta, which work by calming the hippocampus. Other common drugs that can interfere with memory function are used to treat allergies, anxiety, depression and pain.)

And certain foods may help boost memory. The Nurses Health Study, involving 122,000 female nurses, began with health and lifestyle questionnaires in 1976 when the women were 30 to 55 years old. Starting in 1980, they were surveyed every four years about their frequency of food consumption.

From 1995 to 2001, cognitive function was measured every two years in 16,000 women older than 70. Those who ate two or more servings a week of blueberries and strawberries delayed their memory decline by as much as 2½ years compared with those who did not.

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On the horizon The bad, though not surprising, news is that research is pointing to cognitive change beginning in early adulthood, says Stanford’s Henderson. “There is some measurable loss in the 20s and 30s, which is true for all cognitive processes. Memory is one that seems to be affected early on. The changes are modest, though, and progress slowly over decades.”

The good news, Henderson says, is that as we age, we also accumulate a lot of what he calls work-arounds and compensatory strategies.

“We have more knowledge and know how to do more things, so we can work with what we have and still perform better in real life and work situations than many younger people,” he says.

Green concurs. “There are many ways in which our brains improve with age,” she says. “We are better at deductive reasoning, and our fund of knowledge [such

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One example is Transcranial Direct Current Stimulation (TDCS), which sends miniscule electric currents across the brain, potentially making it easier for neurons to fire and form new connections. Early research shows that TDCS might increase math and language skills and perhaps memory. Studies are under way to assess the benefits, risks and ethics of such therapy.

Only more research will answer whether brain enhancers and other techniques to artificially make us smarter are the next steroid controversy, or a natural next step as we fight to stay young and competitive in the 21st century.

Ramin, meanwhile, sums up the situation succinctly: “If you do not use it, you will lose it. It’s no joke if you let your mind rot because you sit around and read ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ and nothing else, you deserve what you get.”

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Turkish Ottoman earrings, $179, Beau Bijou, Santana Row. Givenchy bracelet, $65, Macy’s.

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a splendid affair Winter style is all about rich and romantic detail Step into the past; just don’t linger too long. This season’s lavish looks have a timelessness that evoke the sensual luxury of a bygone grand era but without the staid feel of vintage.

Fresh and modern interpretations of the flapper dress, stately opera coats and Vionnet gowns from the ’30s are among the trends this winter, enticing women with imagined scenarios from classic novels and films.

Darkly romantic, imperial textures such as brocade, cashmere, fur and leather are in play; rules of proportion are abandoned. It’s a desire to embrace a seductive palette of reds, golds and greens. Or daring to combine delicate details with aggressive touches, like lace and chiffon with leather and metal.

This season, allow yourself to indulge in possibilities, both sartorial and otherwise.

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Peter Pilotto embellished silk and sequin sheath, $1,525, Cielo, Palo Alto. Manolo Blahnik Mary Janes with silver tips, $735, Footcandy, Walnut Creek. Jocelyn rabbit wrap styled as a hat, $275, Neiman Marcus.

Aqua earrings, $35, Bloomingdale’s.

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Nicole Miller silk ruched gown, $640, Neiman Marcus. Eliot Danori necklace worn as a headband, $130; and Givenchy necklace worn as bracelet, $98; both Macy’s.

Tadashi Shoji asymmetrical gown, $409, Macy’s. ABS Allen Schwartz stone earrings, $65; and Enzo Angiolini metallic pumps, $99; both Bloomingdale’s.

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Atos Lombardini peplum wrap jacket, $499, Alina B., Walnut Creek. Ann Taylor “Winter Garden” floral skinny pants, $88. Oscar de la Renta beaded tassel earrings, $395, Neiman Marcus.

Loeffler Randall suede pumps, $295, Crimson Mim, Palo Alto and Los Altos.

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3.1 Phillip Lim double-breasted leather motorcycle jacket with ruffled detailing, $1,350, Crimson Mim, Palo Alto and Los Altos. Lavender Brown high/low tiered chiffon skirt, $128, The Showroom, Mill Valley.

Valentino peep toe platforms with studded ankle straps, $945, Footcandy, Walnut Creek.

Givenchy statement necklace, $395, Macy’s.

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Elie Tahari wool peplum top, $248; and Joe’s Jeans trompe l’oeil lace denim jeans, $179; both Bloomingdale’s.

Anne Fontaine lace bib necklace, $495, Anne Fontaine, Santana Row. Givenchy multi-strand pearl bracelet, $58, Macy’s.

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Marc by Marc Jacobs bronze metallic coat, $598; Kathy Jeanne wool cloche, $150; and Carolee pearl station necklace, $125; all Bloomingdale’s.

DVF Ayanna dress with knotted keyholes neckline, $365, The Store, Mill Valley. Chie Mihara T-strap embellished shoes, $375, Crimson Mim, Palo Alto and Los Altos.

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Sofia cashmere tapestry wrap with fox trim, $1,895; and Rag & Bone slim pants, $350, both Neiman Marcus. Jimmy Choo suede wedge booties, $965, Footcandy, Walnut Creek. Lydell NYC earrings, $48, Bloomingdale’s.

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Banana Republic shearling toggle coat from Anna Karenina collection, $2,000. Anne Fontaine lace shirt, $298, Anne Fontaine, Santana Row. Rachel Comey brocade pencil skirt, $385, Crimson Mim, Palo Alto and Los Altos.

Elisabetta Franchi corset belt, $320, Alina B. Portolano leather gloves, $98, Bloomingdale’s. Necklace with natural agate and stones, $262, The Store, Mill Valley. Valentino lace-up short shaft boots, $1,295, Footcandy.

Giorgio Armani updated opera coat in cashmere, $2,595, Neiman Marcus.

Carolee faux pearl rope necklace, $60, Bloomingdale’s.

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Those who loved orange as the “it” shade last summer can rejoice: It’s making a curtain call in the months ahead. This time, it’s slightly more fiery, in a shade closer to tangelo than tangerine.

Seasonal trends are contradictory, and spring/summer 2013 is no different. Designers emphasized urban black, yet in the same collection showed bright white. Then, black and white as a combo.

Look-at-me embellishments in gold got our attention, but so did the quiet hues of cerulean and dusky blue.

While winter has given us sculpted and defined contours, spring loosens things up. Billowy skirts and dresses are cloudlike in their weightless volume. Boxy, sweatshirt shapes help hide winter’s indulgences, but why let things go when we might want to bare some skin as temperatures climb?

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The first thing Tina Sharkey did when she left the successful Internet company last spring was ditch her business cards identifying her very officially as chairman and global president of BabyCenter. Then, very deliberately, she created a new one: On the front of the heavy cardstock, in bold black typeface, is only one word: “Tina.”

For the 48-year-old woman who has been on the cutting edge of social media her entire career and held such titles as co-founder of iVillage and senior vice president at AOL, she was making a clear statement.

She is just Tina, and for now, anyway, she’s OK with that. In fact, she’s embracing it.

“I decided for the first time in my professional career that I was going to take a break. I wanted to retool my brain, challenge myself to learn new things and share new things,” she says. “I didn’t want to have answers anymore. I wanted to have questions. I’m just begin48 Scene • winter 48 • Scene • winter 2012 2012

ning to figure it out.”

It was a bold move and tricky to define for a working mother of two school-age boys who is seen as a role model for young women executives, who, while leading BabyCenter.com, frequently spoke about the challenges facing 21st-century women. She was so ahead of her time that she was one of the first, if not the first, to use the term “social media” while working at iVillage in 1995, having no competition when she registered the domain names.

When she left AOL in 2007, after overseeing Instant Messenger, one employee there lamented in an online comment, “Too bad. The glass ceiling won’t crack now.”

A dearth of female executives in Silicon Valley continues, with technology companies in California posting some of the lowest percentages of women directors and executives. That leaves working women clinging to conversations about the dramatic exceptions, including Facebook COO Sheryl

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Sandberg, Hewlett-Packard CEO Meg Whitman and the head of Yahoo, Marissa Mayer, who gave birth to a son just a couple of months after taking the job this past summer.

But the sisterhood Sharkey shares with those successful women didn’t make it easier for her to manage her message when she retired from BabyCenter, a subsidiary of Johnson & Johnson, last May. When a colleague suggested she write in her farewell note that she was leaving to “spend more time with family” — a standard line in resignation letters — Sharkey had a “visceral reaction.”

“Wait,” she remembers thinking to herself. “I don’t want to send the message I couldn’t hack it. I can more than hack it.”

At the same time, the cliche “suggests I wasn’t already spending time with my family, that something was broken with my family.” And that wasn’t the case, either.

She settled on a hybrid, mentioning her family, but also writing that she was “looking forward to taking some time to listen, learn and discover.”

Let there be no misunderstanding. Sharkey has not checked out, nor did she violate Sandberg’s tenet for women in the workforce: “Don’t leave before you leave.”

Sharkey plans to take her career to the next level. She just doesn’t know where yet or what yet. And that’s just one of the things she’s taking time to discover.

As she puts it, “I’m between trapezes.”

The luxury of time During Sharkey’s five years as head of BabyCenter, when she grew the parenting website from a regional site to a global one and more than tripled its unique visitors to 27 million, she implemented “innovation days” that allowed staff time off from their work routines to be creative.

“These,” she says, “are my innovation days.”

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And they start now at home.

Sharkey lives with her husband, new media entrepreneur and investor Seth Goldstein, and their two boys, Jacob, 13, and Charlie, 10, in a contemporary Mill Valley home overlooking the San Francisco Bay. Sailboats are moored across the way, and the morning crawl along Highway 101 into San Francisco, which she used to join daily, is barely visible from her living room window.

The family spent part of the summer biking and hiking through Italy, then another week with friends and family in her home state of New York — their first extended summer vacation as a family. They’ve been taking more time to light candles and have dinner together on Fridays to celebrate Shabbat, the Jewish day of rest. They hike the Marin Headlands, bike to Tiburon and kayak across the bay to dine at Fish in Sausalito. She helped her older son Jacob collect cell phones to recycle for Hope Phones, which uses proceeds to advance global health care efforts.

“Just spending time with them to have these experiences has been really joyous,” she says. “I haven’t had that time in the past.”

A month after her sabbatical began, she made a discovery with her son Charlie. In their side yard, a tree they had barely noticed before was laden with plums.

“All of a sudden, they just came out of nowhere,” she says. So what did she and Charlie do?

“I was like, OK, if a tree gives you plums, you make a plum pie,” she says. They followed the recipe and made it together. “If you stop and slow down a bit, you can apply your passion and energy to all kinds of things.”

The rhythms of motherhood are only part of the power of her pause.

She is directing some of her passion and energy to becoming

Master art works hang on the downstairs walls at Sharkey’s home, but the upstairs walls are reserved for family photos and school projects.

a more active investor in the 15 startups she and her husband have helped fund as angel investors. Now that her children are back in school, her days include regular meetings with entrepreneurs, investors and business leaders, and she opens her home for dinner parties with friends and influencers such as Kara Swisher, Aileen Lee and Zem Joaquin. (“There’s a tremendous network of talented, engaged, thoughtful women across the Bay Area — in academia, finance, filmmaking and more — that I really enjoy spending time with and doing things with.”)

She is consulting with a global bank on its women’s strategy, and lectures and mentors Stanford business students on marketing and branding. She has been a panelist for the Institute for the Future in Palo Alto and has been an active adviser in the launch of “The Future of Storytelling” conference. A nanny, she says, helps with her sons.

“I’m learning and challenging myself in ways I couldn’t do in a day job running a global company,” she says. “The pause is not just for unplugging. Time is the great resource, and part of what I’ve tried to do in this chapter is take the time to invest in relationships I want to go deeper on. I’m very conscious of having time because I know I may not always have the time. I want to invest it wisely.”

Sally Thornton, who founded a tech recruiting company called Forshay, knows Sharkey through her work at Stanford’s Clayman Institute for Gender Research and applauds her transition time.

“A small sabbatical used in smart ways makes you more successful, getting you further [along] to your destination and faster than doing what other people expect of you,” Thornton says. “She’s out there sort of defining it for herself and, frankly, has the demonstrated path of being right.

She’s going to where the action is, and she’s in front of it.”

Sharkey’s good friend Tiffany Schlain — a filmmaker and

founder of the Webby awards — says it’s important for “everyone to hit the pause button and reflect on what you’re doing the next phase of your life. Tina has a high-profile sexy life. It takes real courage to say, ‘You know? I need a break.’’’

Still, Schlain adds, “There are so many people courting her, I don’t think it will take long.”

Bolts of lightning Sharkey grew up in New York. Her mother, Mona Sherman, was a fashion executive for Anne Klein and Perry Ellis, and after school, Sharkey would often head to her mother’s office and do homework in the showroom.

“She would let me sit in meetings as long as I only spoke when spoken to,” Sharkey says.

Her mother also introduced her to the museums of Manhattan, where her passion for art began. She was especially taken by Monet’s “Water Lilies” hanging in the Museum of Modern Art, which captured the changing light over time as the artist was losing his vision. “My grandfather was losing his sight, too, and I felt connected to him,” she says. “Maybe that’s how he’s seeing the world, through this gauze.”

She spent a semester in Paris, spending hours in Monet’s gardens of Giverny, and has been fascinated by artists who play with perspective ever since.

She began collecting modern art when she was in her 20s. Working in the high-definition television industry in the late 1980s and early 1990s, she met artist David Hockney, who was experimenting with digital and high-definition images to create a new art form.

Taken by his work, Sharkey says she felt a “coup de foudre,” a bolt of lightning, and had to own a piece of it. With her last savings, she says, she bought a series of his work that now

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hang on the stark white walls of her home.

“It was completely reckless, and I had to have it,” she says.

She had similar reactions to the modern works of Laurie Simmons (“I literally went home and Googled her for four hours to see everything she’s done”) and the bold new paintings of Rosson Crow ( “Oh my God, I can’t breathe. I have to know more about this woman and her work.”). She treasures the master works that fill her “public spaces” downstairs, she says. But she cherishes those in the private spaces, beginning on the walls heading upstairs. Family photos and school projects fill a checkerboard of red-painted squares and rectangles. There’s Jacob and Charlie at a Patriots game with their dad, Sharkey kayaking

with the family across Richardson Bay outside their door and school essays written in pencil.

The walls downstairs are full, she says, but she always finds a spot for a new family memory.

Still, Sharkey is positioning herself for the next bolt of lightning to strike in her business life. It’s a bit of an anxious, unsettled time for a woman so accustomed to the forward march. When asked about her short- or long-term goals, she finds them difficult to articulate.

“Right now I can’t see that far because I walked back into the mist,” she says. “I know it will clear, but I kind of like being there now.”

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Romance writing is hot, in more ways than one.

And the Bay Area is a steamy hub When it comes to romance fiction, there’s no such thing as unrequited love. The bride doesn’t get stood up, and Mr. Right doesn’t turn out to be an ax murderer. Instead, no matter the obstacles, the dynamic heroine and her mate ultimately wind up in each other’s arms, figuratively or literally, equals in fierce devotion and fidelity. Every time. No wonder it’s such a turn-on for millions of readers who crave these books like a bottomless box of chocolate truffles.

According to the Romance Writers of America, an advocacy group, romance fiction sales are estimated to top more than $1.3

billion this year, making it the most popular genre in the consumer market by far. (By contrast, science fiction/fantasy accounts for some $579 million.)

The Bay Area, it turns out, is home to many successful purveyors of affairs of the heart.

Nyree Belleville, aka Bella Andre, for instance, is a New York Times best-selling novelist with titles such as “Hot as Sin,’’ “Game for Anything’’ and her latest, “Let Me Be the One.’’ The Sonoma resident is also, according to the Washington Post, “One of the hottest digital writers in America.’’ After being released by her publisher in late 2010 because

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of lack of sales, Andre turned to uploading her titles on e-readers like Kindle and Nook. Since then she’s published more than 1 million books — and her earnings are in seven figures.

“I love how my readers are constantly emailing me and sending me notes on Facebook, Twitter and Goodreads,’’ she says. “I love getting to watch a hero and heroine fall in love in every single book. And I love knowing that my books make people happy.”

Kristin Ramsdell, romance reference book author and longtime romance reviewer for the trade publication Library Journal, thinks there may even be an American — particularly West Coast — point of view in such fiction, one in which females never want to be treated as less than true counterparts. “You still get romances that are slightly old-fashioned, where the heroine wants to meet the rich shipping magnate, but a lot of those are coming out of England,’’ she says. By contrast, in the hands of authors in this country, “in general, women want to make it on their own, and want someone who’s their equal.’’

In addition to Bella Andre, Ramsdell can quickly name a string of other area romance writers who have hit pay dirt, such as Kate Moore, who specializes in historicals; Barbara Freethy (suspense); Monica McCarty (Scottish historical); Carolyn Jewel (historical and paranormal); and Pam Rosenthal (erotic). Ramsdell, librarian emerita at California State University East Bay, says the subgenres are endless.

In addition to contemporary and historical, they include inspirational/spiritual — such as works by local Wanda B. Campbell, whose books are classified as “urban Christian” — multicultural and young adult. The gay and lesbian subgenre is also thriving; Castro Valley’s Karin Kallmaker pens lesbian romance fiction and is editorial director of Bella Books, which specializes in it.

“You also have alternative reality or paranormal — all your vampires and fairies, angels, shape-shifters,’’ Ramsdell says. “In addition, anything with cowboys or books set in

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small communities, ones that can be turned into series, are popular.” Oh, and throw in stories involving the Amish — yes! — as well as steampunk, i.e., the alternative Victorian world. Those are in vogue, too.

Ramsdell is editing a two-volume encyclopedia of romance fiction, due out next year. It’s probably the first such resource of its kind, one that will require plenty of updating, what with the explosion of electronic/digital publishing. “E-books and self-publishing (through outlets such as smashwords.com, Amazon.com and Barnes & Noble) is standing everything on its ear,’’ she says. “You don’t have to have some publisher saying, ‘Oh no, we can’t do that; it’s too weird.’ Ultimately the readers are the final arbiter. It’s kind of a brave new world.’’

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❦ Never in his four-year history with Ruby Williams had Holt witnessed that deer-in-the-headlights look in her eyes.

It wasn’t Ruby’s style. If you looked up self-assured woman in the dictionary, there’d be a picture of Ruby right beside it.

More gorgeous than a 40-year-old woman had a right to be, with dark hair falling past her shoulders, deep brown, very knowing eyes, and long legs that made a man dream of running his hands up them to the hem of her short skirt, Ruby had no doubt of her sex appeal. She was efficient yet never cowed, sexy in her choice of clothing — some might even say halfway to being slutty — but always professional in her dealings with him and any visitors to his office, be they subordinates, vendors, auditors, or customers. She was his gateway.

Yet after four years, she was about to become more.

— “Submitting to the Boss,”

by Jasmine Haynes Jasmine Haynes, aka Jennifer Skully and J.B. Skully, turns out “sensual and classy erotic romance,’’ which includes the Max Starr psychic mystery series and the quirky, fast-paced Jennifer Skully books.

Haynes, who lives in Ben Lomond (“a perfect place for writing!’’) with her husband — whom she calls a “Viking god’’ — plus pets, keeps in touch with fans via jasminehaynes. com. The author of more than 30 titles got her first taste of fame the old-fashioned way, with works published by Harlequin and Berkley. Although she began self-publishing in August 2011, she just signed a two-book contract with Berkley Heat.

Inspiration for her smoldering prose comes “from every-

where,’’ she says, “a news article I read, something trending on the Internet, current things people are talking about, and most definitely fantasies I’ve entertained.’’

Devotees are pleased with the results. “Many readers enjoy the hotter stories, but the key word is story,’’ she says.

“They want a good, emotional plot in addition to the hot love scenes. Readers have especially appreciated the fact that I often write about older heroines. I try to get across the message that women over 40 still enjoy romance and sex as much as the younger set.’’

on-shifters and the undead, but their carnal desires are universal. “Twisted villains are my favorite to read, to write and to watch,’’ she says. “They’re twisted for a reason, and when you dig deeper into their psyche, you usually find pain, regret and emotional baggage that pulls on your heart strings.”

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If the Watcher sucking face with a platinum-blonde wood nymph in front of Black Moon’s ocean access gate wasn’t already hovering on the brink of excommunication, Ariana would’ve had him thrown out on his ass. He wasn’t supposed to sneak back to their haven to body-rock with a scantily clad nympho on a healing binge. He was supposed to be at his post, just outside the ring of fir trees in the forest, watching over her body as she astral-projected to the streets of San Francisco.

If he’d done his job, she might’ve been able to do hers.

Now, because he’d been distracted by velvet words and the jerk of a tiny hand, a vampire from the elder black market piggybacked on Ariana’s projection.

The wedding march music filled the air and Dad whisked Kellie down the aisle. Cameras snapped endlessly and Kellie wished Megan had chosen a veil that covered her face rather than a tiara that hid nothing. As she marched nearer to the altar, she drew nearer to Chase.

He smiled at her and she smiled back. It was so good to see him. After three years she wanted to run up to him and jump into his arms. That’s how they used to greet each other.

Kellie didn’t notice when the music stopped or her dad left her side or when she handed the bouquet over to Megan. All she knew was that she was facing Chase and she felt relaxed. Chase calmed her with that familiar gaze full of warmth and admiration.

Kellie got choked up reciting her vows. She had fantasized about marrying Chase many times. This ceremony was exactly what her soul needed to get that fantasy out of her system.

— “Last Vamp Standing,’’

by Kristin Miller

– “The Substitute Bride,”

by Victoria M. Johnson

Kristin Miller (kristinmiller.net), president of the San Francisco Area Chapter of Romance Writers of America, actually lives in the Central Valley. But the former high school and middle school English teacher knows all about blurred boundaries.

It was after she earned a degree in psychology from Humboldt State University that she “realized there is no scarier place than the warped human psyche.”

A longtime fan of bleak, gritty fiction by the likes of John Saul, Dean Koontz and Allison Brennan, Miller never imagined a career as a paranormal romance writer. It wasn’t until she sought to read a book “that didn’t exist’’ — and at the suggestion of her husband — that she explored the shadowy recesses of her imagination and produced “Intervamption,’’ the first of her Vampires of Crimson Bay Series for the digital imprint Avon Impulse. (She’s also penned a romantic suspense, “Dark Tide Rising,’’ among a handful of others.)

Miller’s otherworldly protagonists may include empaths — individuals capable of feeling the emotions of others — drag-

Victoria M. Johnson’s debut romance novel, “The Doctor’s Dilemma,’’ published in 2011, was an outcome of a visit to a rural part of Mexico that is the book’s setting. “I knew I wanted to write a novel or two set in that remote location, and I always loved reading doctor and nurse romances, so I combined the two,’’ says the Los Gatos resident.

“Dilemma’’ was good enough to become a double finalist this year for the Booksellers’ Best Awards, a national contest presented by the Greater Detroit Romance Writers of America. The nominations were for best traditional romance and best first book, an auspicious beginning for Johnson, whose latest e-book, “The Substitute Bride,’’ is available at amazon.com.

Johnson’s day-to-day life involves a bit more than chronicling love connections, as seen on her site, victoriamjohnson.com. A grant-writer (she’s penned a book about it) and volunteer at various nonprofit groups, this youngest of 12 kids is a maker of short films — mostly thrillers — as well.

Storytelling remains her passion. “I am always working on a writing project,’’ she says. “Currently I’m in the editing

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passions phase of a mainstream thriller novel set in Mexico (yes, there’s romance, too).” She’s also begun notes for a romance set in Los Gatos and is contemplating a romance short story collection.

❦ “What would you have me do? Drop her in the moat?”

He settled the strange woman on his lap, leaning her against his neck as if she nuzzled him. “The guard’s eyes will be on the lass, not me.”

Ormonde stared at him as if he’d lost his mind. Rollo glared a challenge, and his friend simply shrugged, climbing awkwardly into the barrel.

“Make it fast.” Rollo angled away from the guard’s side of the boat, draping the woman’s hair over his face. The smell of lavender filled his senses, and an unsettling feeling seized him, something visceral, both foreign yet somehow dimly remembered. He swallowed hard, reminding himself where he was. “We approach the gate.”

His hired man began whistling with affected boredom as they rowed closer, and Rollo thought he had well earned his keep.

Just as he’d predicted, the guard had eyes only for their drunken passenger. The man shot Rollo a rakish and congratulatory wink, nodding them through the Traitor’s Gate and out to the Thames.

— “Lord of the Highlands,”

by Veronica Wolff In the late 1990s, Veronica Wolff had a job she absolutely hated. Feeling the need to have a creative inner life unrelated to work, she began tinkering on a story. It took several years — and the birth of a daughter — but eventually that story became “Master of the Highlands,’’ published in 2008. Four years and more than a dozen books later, this specialist in contemporary, historical and time-travel romances has found her niche. Wolff ’s talent (veronicawolff.com) also extends to The Watchers Series of paranormal thrillers for young adults.

Mining such diverse subgenres doesn’t faze this national best-selling author. “I used to be a seat-of-the-pants writer,” she admits, “but now that I’m working amidst multiple deadlines (four books with Penguin this year alone), I’ve become more of a plotter, relying on extensive appendices to keep my various series straight. I love working in multiple genres — it keeps me fresh. I enjoy switching from things like a 17thcentury Scottish battlefield, to a modern-day family lodge

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in the Sierra, to a fictional island populated by vampires.’’

In other words, Wolff may live in San Francisco’s Outer Sunset, but as a writer she dwells in the past, present or future with equal ease. “I delve into disparate settings and time periods, but the characters inform the real heart of the stories,’’ she says. “People are people, no matter when or where you are.’’

❦ Naomi dropped her eyes back down to the table, then picked up her phone again and checked for nonexistent emails that she knew hadn’t come in since the last time she’d had it in her hand.

Okay, so she hadn’t broken into Cypress Hollow society yet.

She stole a glance toward the front where Elbert was pumping the hand of a man who dwarfed him. The brown, scuffed cowboy boots caught her eye first—the man wore them just like everyone else in this town did, and they looked great on him. His legs were long in his well-worn jeans, and his chest was broad under a red plaid shirt. His light brown hair was thick and a shade too long and it stuck up in places as if he’d just woken up.

He had a scruff of beard on his jaw. If he yelled Timber, she’d believe him.

— “Wishes & Stitches,”

by Rachael Herron Rachael Herron of Oakland writes about romance, sure, but the name of her website is yarnagogo.com. That’s because knitting, which she learned at age 5, is a part of her being, a way of life. So much so that all that yarn-working gets incorporated into each of her books, from “How to Knit a Love Story’’ to “How to Knit a Heart Back Home.”

“In my novels, the knitting is the background music, and in my nonfiction, knitting is the anchor,’’ she says. “I write women’s fiction with a strong romantic element — although I’m a little bit of a misfit in that I write straight romance but I’m married to a woman. It just means my men really know how to romance a lady.”

How gratifying is the process? “There is nothing like reading a book and closing it after the last page with a heavy, happy sigh. And even better is typing ‘The End’ on that page. You’ve lived and breathed those characters,’’ says Herron, who works full time as a fire/medical dispatcher with the San Ramon Valley Fire Protection District. “To give them the love every person deserves is a gift.”

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besotted with bubbly I’m often asked to name give Champagne and other my favorite wine. The anworld-class sparkling wines swer: sparkling. I love setheir unique elegance. ductive sparkling wine so Recently, I watched Benmuch I inked a tattoo of oit Gouez, chief winemaker Rosé Champagne on the of the iconic Moët & Chanback of my leg. don Champagne house, as And I’m not the only avid he showcased the blend admirer. Lily Bollinger of the of more than 100 different famed Bollinger Champagne wines that go into their famed house once remarked, “I drink “Imperial” cuvée. With rows Champagne when I’m happy of wine glasses set in front of

By Leslie Sbrocco and when I’m sad. Sometimes I me, I sniffed, swirled and spat drink it when I’m alone. When I (OK … sipped) and saw up close have company, I consider it obligahow much effort goes into making tory. I trifle with it if I’m not hungry Champagne. and drink it when I am. Otherwise, I Though it may seem like magic, the never touch it unless I’m thirsty.” A Thirsty process of making sparkling wine is fairly Girl after my heart. straightforward. Still wine is made by crushWhat is it about bubbly that makes us ing grapes, then adding yeast to eat the sugar swoon? Is it the crack of the cork? Or the and produce alcohol. Making sparkling wine sight of sparkle making its way to the top of is another few steps. First, the base wines the glass? Or the feel of the bubbles danc(still wines that are very tart) are blended ing on our tongue? It’s all of the above, and together in a base blend, or cuvée. Then, a more. mixture of yeast and sugar is added to the With the holidays in full gear, there’s cuvée and put in tightly sealed bottles. As nothing more festive to drink and share than the yeast eats this bit of sugar during the bubbly. Our guide: secondary fermentation, it produces carbon dioxide gas, which gets trapped in the bottle.

Voilà — the sparkle is born.

There are many different types of sparThe first thing to remember is that not all kling wine, including those from the United wine with bubbles is Champagne. Unless States and other countries. When made with the bottle is made in the Champagne region top-grape varieties, they can rival the quality of northeastern France, it’s called sparkling of Champagne. There are also the popular wine. Grapes planted in cool-climate Chamand easy-sipping Italian fizz Prosecco (made pagne include white Chardonnay along with the Glera grape variety), the affordablewith two purple-hued varieties, Pinot Noir yet-complex Cava from Spain and other opand Pinot Meunier. These noble varieties tions.

A guide to festive, swoon-inducing sparkling wine

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Buying When it comes to buying bubbly, the label will give you many clues to the style and ultimate taste. For example, most sparkling wine is a blend of grapes from various years, as it keeps the style constant. When there is an excellent harvest, a “vintage” Champagne or sparkling wine is made. These tend to be more expensive than the multi-vintage blends.

Grape Styles

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Blanc de Blancs: Generally from Chardonnay. Tastes fresh and crisp, like biting into a crunchy apple. Try them with oysters or salted nuts.

Blanc de Noirs: From Pinot Noir and Pinot Meunier, they range in color from pale yellow to light pink, are more full-bodied and are an excellent choice to serve throughout a meal.

Rosé: These dry-styled pink sparklers are usually made by adding a dash of red wine to the base blend, but can be crafted like traditional still rosé, where the pink hue comes from contact with red grape skins. Goes with everything from popcorn laced with truffle oil to salmon and sushi.

Sweetness Levels Brut: A dry wine. Most bottles will be labeled Brut. They can taste fruity but are not considered to have any noticeable sweetness.

Extra-Brut: Often called Natural or Nature, these are the driest of sparklers with an often mouth-puckering freshness.

Extra-Dry: Contrary to the name, when you see this on a label, the wine actually tastes slightly sweet. For those who like a rounder, fruity style, it’s an ideal option.

Demi-Sec: It literally means half-dry; these wines tend to fall on the sweeter side. A bubbly to drink with dessert.

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Gifts and party pours Splurge: $50 and up Moët & Chandon “Imperial” Brut, Champagne, France, $50 — From the winery that produces the lauded prestige Champagne Dom Pérignon, its classic (and more affordable) Imperial bottling combines elegance and creaminess in one package.

Pol Roger “Pure” Champagne, France, $65 — A newer wine from a historic producer that captures the snap of freshness and dryness that an Extra-Brut wine can deliver. With oysters, it’s magnificent.

Laurent-Perrier Rosé, Champagne, France, $75 — This is a personal favorite and ranks as the best-selling rosé Champagne in the world. The vintage Pinot Noir sparkler is packaged in an alluring 17th century-shaped bottle.

Billecart-Salmon Brut Rosé, Champagne, France, $80 — This delicately styled pink whispers class. You’ll want to drink the whole bottle yourself.

Veuve Clicquot “La Grande Dame” Brut, Champagne, France, $150 — One of the icon vintage wines of Champagne, this lush sipper pays homage to a great lady of bubbles (see story below).

The brilliant widow Throughout history, women have played an important role in the business of bubbly. The most legendary is Madame Clicquot of Champagne Veuve Clicquot. Nicole Ponsardin Clicquot became a widow, or veuve in French, in 1805 when she was still in her 20s. A master marketer and hands-on owner, Madame Clicquot is credited with helping to make Champagne famous throughout Europe. In 1816, she cut holes in her kitchen table and placed the bottles nearly upside-down, so the sediment would gather at the neck of the bottle for easy removal. This stroke of brilliance evolved into the now-standard process of “riddling” used by every producer of sparkling wine.

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“With a glass of bubbly, anything goes! I like to serve Brut and popcorn while watching movies at home. And, the best no-fat dessert is Brut and fruit. I simply add a few thin slices of mango to the glass.” ­— Joy Sterling, Partner, Iron Horse Vineyards, on pairing

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Gloria Ferrer “Blanc de Noirs” Sonoma County, California, $20 — With a hint of pink color due to being crafted from Pinot Noir grapes, this aromatic, succulent sparkler is one of the best values in the bubbly world.

Jansz Rosé, Tasmania, Australia, $22 — It’s hard to find true rosé fizz for this price, but I discovered it in the far reaches of the Southern Hemisphere. Hailing from the island of Tasmania, this wine (made by a woman) is a hidden treasure.

Lucien Albrecht Brut, Crémant d’Alsace, France, $24 — Crémant (creamy) wines are made with the same method as Champagne. But because of slightly less gas pressure, they are less fizzy. Always a great deal, try Crémant-style wines from other areas of France, such as Crémant de Bourgogne.

Le Grande Courtage “Blanc de Blancs” Brut, France, $25 — Made with a blend of white grapes led by Chardonnay, this non-Champagne French sparkler is one of the prettiest packages I’ve seen.

A great gift.

Iron Horse “Russian Cuvée” Green Valley, Sonoma County, California, $38 — California is home to world-class sparkling wine, and ranking at the top is Iron Horse.

This vintage wine sports rich fruitiness, making it ideal to sip alone or with food.

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Count on guests sipping about two to three glasses of wine per person over the course of a party. One bottle equals four to six glasses so buy at least half a bottle per person.

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Steal: $10-$20 Segura Viudas Brut Reserva, Cava, Spain, $10 — There isn’t a better price-toquality ratio than this Cava. Crafted from native Spanish grapes Macabeo, Parellada and Xarel-lo, it’s dry, fresh, delicate and juicy. Stock up and get ready for the holidays.

Korbel “Sec” Sparkling, Sonoma County, California, $13 — The Sec (a sweeter style) was the first wine ever made by the original Korbel brothers.

Sweet is back, and this popular style is ideal for après-dinner drinking.

Domaine Ste. Michelle “Extra Dry” Columbia Valley, Washington, $15 — If you’re looking for a wine to serve with spicy appetizers or even with desserts such as Christmas cookies, look no further than this fruity, slightly sweet bubbly.

La Marca Prosecco, Italy, $16 — This chic wine with its designer label looks expensive but is easy on your wallet … and your palate. Juicy and refreshing, it’s an impress-for-less holiday gift idea.

Mumm Napa “Brut Prestige” Napa Valley, California, $20 — A class act, this lush yet crisp blend of Pinot Noir and Chardonnay grapes is worth twice the price.

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Flank Steak and Chimichurri Salad Chimichurri is like a parsley-andoregano pesto, with a touch of vinegar and a mild chile pepper kick. In South America, it’s traditionally served with grilled meats, but here it’s thinned out a bit to make an herb-packed dressing for a meaty entrée-size salad.

Serves 4 ½ cup organic extra-virgin olive oil ¼ cup raw apple cider vinegar 6 garlic cloves 20 sprigs fresh flat-leaf parsley Leaves from 5 sprigs fresh oregano ½ teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes Fine sea salt to taste 1 pound grass-fed flank steak Freshly ground black pepper to taste 12 cups lightly packed spring mix greens 1 cup halved cherry tomatoes 1 medium-size zucchini, halved lengthwise and sliced thinly ½ medium-size red onion, halved and sliced thinly

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In the bowl of a food processor, combine the oil, vinegar, garlic, parsley, oregano and red pepper flakes and process to a puree, scraping down the bowl as necessary. Add salt to taste and set aside.

Prepare a grill to high heat and lightly oil the grate. Sprinkle the steak with salt and black pepper and grill to desired doneness, about 5 minutes per side for medium-rare.

Remove the steak from the grill and let it rest, covered loosely with foil, for 5 minutes.

Meanwhile, in a large bowl, combine the greens, cherry tomatoes, zucchini and onion with the dressing and salt and black pepper to taste. Arrange the salad on plates or a platter.

Thinly slice the steak crosswise and arrange on the salad. Drizzle with additional dressing and serve.

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Green Apple Carpaccio with Goat Cheese and Arugula Sort of a cross between traditional carpaccio and a fruit salad, this dish is a nice twist on the expected. If you want, you can core the apple before cutting it crosswise into thin slices.

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Serves 4 ¼ cup organic extra-virgin olive oil 4 teaspoons raw apple cider vinegar Fine sea salt to taste Freshly ground black pepper to taste 2 small tart green apples, such as Granny Smith or Pippin 3 cups loosely packed arugula leaves ½ cup crumbled goat cheese (optional) ¼ cup thinly sliced red onion 2 tablespoons chopped hazelnuts, toasted In a medium bowl, whisk together the oil and vinegar. Add salt and pepper to taste. Set aside.

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Cut the apples crosswise (through the core) into thin slices, discarding the seeds — each slice should be one round cross-section of the apple.

Arrange the apple slices on plates or a platter and drizzle with about half of the dressing. Add the arugula to the bowl with remaining dressing and toss. Arrange the arugula on top of the apples, top with goat cheese (if using), red onion and hazelnuts, and serve.

To make this recipe raw, don’t toast the nuts.

at the table Roasted Pecans with Rosemary, Olive Oil and Sea Salt Don’t let the simplicity of this recipe fool you. These nuts are simultaneously salty, rich, crunchy and deliciously complex, thanks to the rosemary. Keep them on hand for an easy, yet thoroughly enticing, snack.

Makes 3 cups 3 cups raw pecan halves 2 tablespoons organic extra-virgin olive oil 1 tablespoon chopped fresh rosemary Fine sea salt to taste Preheat the oven to 375°F/190°C. Arrange the pecans on a large, rimmed baking sheet and bake until browned and fragrant, about 12 minutes.

While the nuts are still warm, place them in a bowl and add the oil, rosemary, and salt to taste, tossing to evenly coat. Return the mixture to the baking sheet, set the sheet on a wire rack, and let cool to room temperature.

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the other lake tahoe Ditch the crowds for a kinder, gentler getaway

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By Bonnie Wach

For most Bay Areans, vacations in Lake Tahoe usually come down to North Shore or South Shore. Like snowbound lemmings, generations of lake lovers follow the weekend conga line of cars up Interstate 80 or Highway 50, packing into the condos, waterfront motels and ski resorts around King’s Beach and Tahoe City, or heading south to

the glitzy casino action of Harrah’s and Harvey’s.

It doesn’t have to be that way. Just a few miles from these tourist meccas lies a kinder, gentler Lake Tahoe, with all the mountain amenities and half the crowds. Check out these under-the-radar spots for a fresh take on California’s most famous lake.

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Genoa Fifteen minutes down the backside of glitzy Heavenly ski resort, Genoa, Nev., is one of those hidden gems you almost hesitate to tell people about, for fear it will get discovered.

The tiny western relic on the edge of Carson Valley is Nevada’s oldest town, settled by Mormons in 1851; the original trading post is on view in the town square.

Genoa (pronounced Juh-NO-uh) also lays claim to the oldest “thirst parlor” — the still-operating Genoa Bar — in the Silver State, and it’s the final resting place of legendary Pony Express rider Snowshoe Thompson, who traversed the Sierra from 1856 to 1876, delivering mail on homemade skis. He’s buried in the Genoa cemetery, and there’s a statue in his honor in the town park.

play Thompson is not the only celebrity to have found his way to Genoa. Ulysses S. Grant, Teddy Roosevelt and Mark Twain all sought the curative waters at David Walley’s Hot Springs Resort (davidwalleys-resort.com). Built in 1862, the resort features seven hot spring pools at varying temperatures, as well as saunas, steam rooms and a spa.

An 11-mile drive up steep Kingsbury Grade Road puts you in the heart of South Lake Tahoe and at the foot of Heavenly Mountain (skiheavenly.com), Tahoe’s largest ski resort, with 4,800 acres of terrain that straddles California and Nevada.

If you’re visiting in spring or fall, the Cowboy Poetry and Music Festival (April), and the fabled Candy Dance Arts and Crafts Faire (September) are two homespun events worth making a detour for.

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Who would have guessed that tucked into a corner of this outpost was a top-notch French restaurant? La Ferme (lafermegenoa.com) was opened in 1998 by Gilles LaGourge and chef Yves Gigot, whose résumé includes years at L’Orangerie in Beverly Hills.

The country French menu offers seasonal specialties and traditional dishes such as sole meuniere and wild duck with

Genoa Bar, the oldest “thirst parlor” in the Silver State.

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Winter wonder at Sugar Pine Point State Park.

apple confit. For Californians, it may be worth the trek just to get your foie gras fix.

Down the street, the founder of the original Tombstone pizza chain reopened this restaurant as the Tombstone Tap & Grill (tombstonetapnv.com) a couple of years ago, offering a menu of pizzas (naturally), but also barbecue and a variety of hearty home-cooked Italian fare, including a tasty lasagna and eggplant Parmesan. If it’s on the menu, don’t miss the cannoli.

sleep In addition to the plush timeshare suites and condos at David Walley’s Resort, hotel options include the Genoa Country Inn (genoacountryinn.com), with 11 spacious rooms starting at $89 and amenities such as microwaves, balconies and 32-inch flat-screen TVs.

West Shore The low-key West Shore of Lake Tahoe, between Tahoe City and Emerald Bay, is something of a guarded locals’ secret — popular with families and old-school Tahoe aficionados who come for the quiet beaches, mellow ski hills, unspoiled wilderness and homey cafes and inns.

play The slopes of Homewood (skihomewood.com) and Granlibakken (granlibakken.com) are ideal for family snowplay and great learners’ hills. Homewood will get a major overhaul in 2014, complete with a five-star hotel, ice-skating pond and amphitheater, but for now, the slopes and snowboard terrain park are still among the least expensive and least crowded in Tahoe — and the lake views are spectacular.

Nestled in the woods up the road from Tahoe City, Granlibakken is a lodge and conference center that offers a full range of winter activities, including downhill and cross-country skiing, tubing and snowplay areas, snowmobiling and snowshoeing.

At nearby Sugar Pine Point State Park (parks.ca.gov/?page_ id=510), rangers lead full-moon snowshoe tours that take you along the lakeshore and past the historic Hellman-Ehrman Mansion.

For 25 years, the lakeside restaurant at Sunnyside Lodge (sunnysideresort.com) has been a magnet for Tahoe-goers.

The lively waterfront deck is the draw in summer months; in winter, the dining room hunkers down with soul-warming and belly-filling dishes that include fresh seafood, steaks, chops and favorites such as smoked bacon mac and cheese. For dessert, Hula Pie – a cookie crust topped with macadamia nut ice cream, hot fudge and whipped cream – is a must.

A snowball’s throw from Homewood ski area (it’s owned by the resort), cozy West Shore Café & Inn (westshorecafe.com) reopens in mid-December with a menu of seasonal California favorites (wedge salad, blue-cheese burgers, crab corn fritters) and a side of global flair (sesame-seared ahi chips, black bean empanadas, tempura asparagus).

sleep Both Sunnyside and West Shore Inn offer lakeside lodgestyle accommodations. Sunnyside’s 23 guestrooms range from petite lakefront rooms to spacious suites with private decks and balconies. All rooms come with down comforters and include continental breakfast.

In addition to fireplaces, leather sofas, balconies and windows overlooking the lake, West Shore Inn’s six luxe suites also come with house-baked continental breakfast.

Truckee Located along the Truckee River, 15 minutes from Northstar ski resort and 20 minutes from Donner Summit and Squaw Valley, the old western town of Truckee was once a thriving center for lumber and block ice. Today, much of the rough-and-tumble mountain charm remains, bolstered by a host of more modern attractions, including some of Tahoe’s most innovative restaurants, and many recreational opportunities you won’t find lakeside.

play Avoid the long lines — both on the mountain and the drive home — and spend the day skiing at Tahoe-Donner (tahoedonner.com) or Sugar Bowl (sugarbowl.com). Tahoe-Donner is a

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getaways great family-oriented beginner slope; Sugar Bowl has plenty of thrills for more advanced skiers and snowboarders, and with its recent takeover of Royal Gorge, it adds more than 200 kilometers of cross-country trails to its extensive downhill terrain.

Off the mountain, ditch the skis for skates and head to Truckee River Regional Park on Old Brockway Road (tdrpd.com/ice_rink. html), where you can learn ice dancing, figure skating or hockey techniques, or just skate for fun. Along with rentals and lessons, the rink features music, a bonfire and a snack bar.

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Start your day at hip Coffeebar (coffeebartruckee.com), an Italian coffeehouse featuring drinks made using the highest organic-grade coffee beans, and a menu of pastries and paninis.

For a sweet treat, try the Caffè Marocchino — espresso in a Nutella-lined cup with gelato and whipped cream.

On Donner Pass Road, aka main street, the Squeeze In (squeezein.com) has been a favorite breakfast spot for decades, with some 66 different omelets and menu staples that include burgers, burritos and sandwiches.

Along old Brockway Road at the Ce-

dar House Sport Hotel, upscale Stella (cedarhousesporthotel. com/stella) crafts innovative seasonal cuisine and house-baked breads, with many ingredients foraged from their own gardens.

Down the road, Fifty-Fifty Brewing Co. (fiftyfiftybrewing.com) offers some two dozen housebrewed beers, along with localranch beef burgers, Baja-style fish tacos and a mean pulled-pork sandwich.

Don’t miss award-winning pinot noir at the Truckee River Winery (truckeeriverwinery.com), purportedly the country’s highest and coldest winery. Spring through fall, the winery hosts bocce ball on four crushed-oyster courts.

Hamachi sashimi from Stella restaurant in Truckee.

Between the ’50s motels and the Ritz-Carlton, it’s not always easy to find a happy middle ground in Tahoe.

The recently revamped Larkspur Hotel Truckee-Tahoe (larkspurhotels. com/larkspur-hotels/truckee-tahoe) fills the gap handily, offering all the warm and woody comforts you’d want in a Tahoe lodge (feather-topped beds, complimentary hot breakfast), along with modern amenities such as WiFi, iPod docks, Jacuzzi and sauna.

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Jeffrey Tuffin, creative director at the Tribez salons in Danville and Blackhawk, shares tips on pulling together a romantic up-do at home: You need a base, meaning texture in the hair, to build on. Get it with one or more of the following: • curliness (either natural or from a curling iron) • a “pouf” — a hidden accessory, often made of netting and resembling a doughnut or little cylinder, that adds volume and shape, especially for shorter hair • backcombing • a product that texturizes the hair and makes it “beachy” — Tuffin recommends Fuente hair products from the Netherlands, a natural and organic line sold at Tribez With texture, it should be easy to pull your hair up and pin it into a loose bun (you might want to start with a pony tail) or twist. Keep in mind the shape and proportion that is right for your head, body and outfit.

“Women who do their hair at home have an advantage over a stylist,” Tuffin says. “When a stylist is asked to do smooth hair, all there is is smooth — there are no gray areas. But ‘messy’ [as in a soft up-do] is very subjective. To the stylist who is trying to please, it’s one thing, to the client it could be and quite often is something completely different.

“So when women do their own hair, the only person they have to consult with is themselves.

If they get the shape and proportion, the rest is just taste and desires.”

where we got the look We shot on location at Palmdale Estates in Fremont, palmdaleestates.com. The 17-acre venue was originally the home of Clarence L. Best, founder of the Caterpillar tractor company. Featuring two English mansions, stately trees, and verdant grounds and gardens, Palmdale is perfect for weddings and special events.

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Alina B., Broadway Plaza, Walnut Creek, alinab.com Anne Fontaine, 334 Santana Row, San Jose, annefontaine.com Ann Taylor, various locations; anntaylor.com Banana Republic, various locations; bananarepublic. com Bloomingdale’s, Stanford Shopping Center, Palo Alto, bloomingdales.com

Cielo, 477 University Ave., Palo Alto, cielo-boutique.com Crimson Mim, 322 Main St., Los Altos; Town & Country Village, Palo Alto; crimsonmim.com Footcandy, 1365 N. Main St., Walnut Creek; footcandyshoes.com Franco Uomo, 333 Santana Row, San Jose, francouomo.com Macy’s, The Village at

Corte Madera; Westfield Valley Fair, Santa Clara; macys.com Neiman Marcus, Broadway Plaza, Walnut Creek, neimanmarcus.com Showroom, 108 Throckmorton Ave., Mill Valley, showroomonmiller.com The Store, 68 Throckmorton Ave., Mill Valley, thestoremillvalley.com

Jeffrey Tuffin works on model Khrystyna K.

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Hair: Jeffrey Tuffin, Tribez Salon, tribezsalon.com Makeup: Andrea Nervis, Tribez Salon Assistant: Michael Mejia, Tribez Salon Styling assistance: Erienne Guentner, Dionna Mash Models: Khrystyna K., Look Model Agency; Puja, Stars Model Management; Greg Kealohalani Young winter 2012 • Scene

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The Marin Center for Independent Living (MCIL) held its fifth annual Angels by the Bay fundraiser, at the Corinthian Yacht Club in Tiburon. The event honored Dr. Gary Mizono of Kaiser Permanente in San Rafael for his leadership, and raised $180,000.

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