Mums&Dads N81, Autumn 2023 edition

As always, autumn brings with it a feeling of change and the promise of beginningswhether that’s facing fresh challenges at school, moving to the next stage with important exams, or starting on the educational journey at nursery! But, as we all know, there’s a fine line between new things being scary and exciting; in the post-Covid world, it seems that our kids are increasingly likely to experience poor mental health, with heightened feelings of stress and anxiety. In this issue we’ve spent a lot of time getting to grips with questions around how we - as parents and as a society - might deal with that. Whether you’re looking for tips on making the start of nursery apprehension-free (page 14) or think you might benefit from a bedtime read which also teaches emotional intelligence (page 12), we’ve got plenty to get your teeth into. Our Education section has likewise been filled with teachers discussing the best ways to ensure that their students are well equipped to cope, not just with academic issues, but also with those which concern their own mental wellbeing. Zoe x

Manchester High School for Girls: The role of happiness

Mrs Samantha Gibbons Head of Preparatory Department

They use the word ‘fusion’ (their word, not ours) to describe these cross-curricular links, and whilst this is nothing new in education, actively canvasing the views of the girls in this way is instrumental in designing schemes of work and activities and has led to them feeling that they are part of this process. They talk positively about the support and guidance they receive from their teachers and how they benefit when a teacher breaks problems down into smaller parts or finds alternative explanations. This can include creating a more collaborative and interactive learning environment, incorporating more visual and verbal learning techniques, and providing opportunities for girls to excel academically, all of which contribute to a feeling of happiness.

Empowering young girls is crucial for creating a more inclusive and equal society. By providing girls with the necessary tools, opportunities and support, we can help them overcome societal barriers and achieve their full potential. A high aspiration, no doubt, but one that all educators, particularly those involved in girls’ only schools, seek to create.

If, at the start of their educational journey with us at MHSG, I was to ask the parents of the girls in our Preparatory Department what they hoped the school would provide for their daughters, very few would talk of ‘equality’ or ‘societal barriers’ at this point, but the word ‘happiness’ would appear almost universally in their description of the ideal school. Of course, they would talk of realising academic potential, excellent pastoral care and a comprehensive programme of extra -curricular opportunities, but the notion of their daughters being happy in school would feature very highly.

Some may argue, therefore, that ‘happiness’ is an overused word, with diluted significance. Some, too, may believe it to be a superficial term describing a more fleeting than sustained emotion. That said, I believe that if we stop and think carefully about the term and its role as an antecedent to education, ultimately, we will all reach the conclusion that happy girls flourish. The question for us as educators is, why do happy pupils flourish and how can we provide an environment that fosters ‘happiness’?

Research has shown that happiness is a precursor to academic achievement. When pupils are happy,

their cognitive functioning is improved. This leads to better focus, comprehension, and retention of information. Happiness can fuel intrinsic motivation and a genuine interest in learning. When students are happy, they are more likely to ‘think outside the box’ and generate creative solutions to problems. Happy pupils tend to have healthier relationships and higher self-esteem. When pupils are happy, they are better equipped to handle setbacks, challenges, and academic stress. In other words, they are more likely to bounce back from failures, seek help when needed, and maintain a positive attitude towards their academic journey. This resilience can help them persevere through difficulties and ultimately achieve academic success.

At MHSG, we are mindful of this, and we actively build an environment with happiness and human flourishing at its core. Our Pupil Voice Leaders work within peer focus groups to ascertain our pupils’ attitudes to learning and establish how they feel they learn best. These sessions have revealed our pupils derive the most enjoyment from their learning when it is hands-on and practical. They mention their Design and Technology weeks, during which they design and create something purposeful, as particularly engaging. They enjoy Art when it is related to another curriculum area, such as linking the study of Shakespeare’s ‘A Midsummer Night’s Dream’ to abstract art and creating impressionist images of Uluru when studying Australia. One child said of their outdoor learning sessions: “It’s the best time of the week.”

Leadership opportunities are another example of how we can enhance self-confidence, self-esteem and therefore happiness. MHSG girls can be involved in the School Council, the Eco-Council, the Charities Council, the Diversity Council, become a ‘Happiness Hero’, a House Captain or a Pupil Voice Leader. Within a supportive and nurturing environment, we aim to encourage girls to take risks, express themselves and develop a strong sense of self-worth. A trip around the Prep on any working day will reveal girls actively participating in class discussions and engaging in extracurricular activities, all of which contribute to their personal growth, confidence and happiness. Furthermore, without them realising, this empowers them to challenge societal expectations and pursue their passions, without fear of judgement or bias.

Achievement and therefore empowerment cannot be realised in their fullest sense without happiness. That does not mean to imply that a child will not suffer periods of sadness or other negative emotions, but it is their ability to process these negative emotions independently and return to the state of being happy that measures their overall well-being. Schools have a responsibility in this regard too. We cannot shield pupils from the negativities around them, rather we must prepare them for these times, so that they can truly enjoy being happy when the period of challenge passes.

Empowering young girls is a collective responsibility that requires a multifaceted approach. By investing in education and promoting happiness and self-worth, we can create an environment where young girls can thrive and reach their full potential. It is essential to break down societal barriers, challenge gender stereotypes, and provide equal opportunities for girls to succeed. Empowered young girls will not only transform their own lives, but also contribute to building a more inclusive and equal society for all •

Withington Girls’ School packed summer

with their classmates through presentations which they did with great enthusiasm and confidence.

Trips and visits are an important element of the Withington experience, and each year group in the Junior School takes part in a residential stay, where they take on challenges, conquer fears, spend time with nature and strengthen friendships. Visits were made to the Lake District and Peak District during this term, and other activities included a trip to Stockport Air Raid Shelters and visits from author and illustrator Thomas Taylor, and the Lancashire Wildlife Trust.

The Junior School at WGS is always a hive of activity. The Summer Term of 2023 alone included a practically perfect production of Mary Poppins JR, Culture Day, various trips and residentials, sporting activities, and participation in the whole school programme of community-based initiatives during Citizenship Day; it was an action-packed time for all.

On the captivating and energetic performances of Mary Poppins JR, which saw Year 6 take on the lead roles with support from younger pupils through song and dance, Ms Bridget Howard, Head of Junior

School, said: “Many weeks of hard work had gone into producing the show and the standard was quite incredible. I felt extremely proud of all the girls. They brought the magic of Mary Poppins to life and the show was thoroughly enjoyed by all.”

Earlier in the term, Withington’s Juniors had celebrated the wealth of diverse cultures in the school community on Culture Day. Pupils and staff dressed in clothing that represented their identity and each year group had a different focus: food, language, festivals & traditions. Pupils also shared their culture

Altrincham Preparatory School

Under the theme of ‘Bee the Change’, Withington’s Juniors participated in a range of activities on Citizenship Day, focusing on community action and those who have been recognised with honours. Year 5 and Year 6 heard from two award holders, whilst another group enjoyed outdoor learning and filled the school allotment, and another wrote poetry about the importance of community.

In the same week, based on a comparison of school fees with public examination outcomes, Withington had been named by The Daily Telegraph as the ‘best value independent school in the country’. “This is, of course, only one measure of the education a school provides but we are delighted to see these outstanding achievements of our school recognised,” said WGS Headmistress, Mrs Sarah Haslam.

A letter from the Chairman

followed those boys back then. For almost 90 years we have been welcoming boys each September, and although technology and teaching trends have changed over the decades, the fundamental care that pupils need as they embark on each new school year remains the same. It’s that reassuring message from experienced teachers who have walked the road many times before - we’ve got this.

Who knew that when we started teaching hockey, we would be nurturing a current England international goalkeeper? Maybe the brain behind a major technology breakthrough is currently learning in our Science Laboratory? When we complete our new climbing wall next month, will we ignite that fire in a future Everest explorer?

The start of every school year brings excitement, opportunities and new friends. However, it also brings challenge and uncertainty. Every year of a pupil’s journey increases the challenge slightly, allowing them to grow and learn. Whether it is moving from Early Years to Year 1, or preparing for the Grammar School entrance exams, each year has that exciting feeling of being new, being different.

I wonder how our boys felt back in 1936 when my grandfather founded Altrincham Prep? I think that the same feelings of excitement and trepidation

Today, it is even more vital for schools to provide the experience of traditional academic lessons but also, crucially, that extra breadth of experience and exposure of pupils to activities that might spark a lifelong passion.

All schools have a duty to make sure that their pupils have the best, broadest and most engaging experience that they can provide. Our message to you as parents is the same as the one to our boys: with almost ninety years of experience - we’ve got this. My best wishes to your family for the year ahead.

Andrew Hill Chairman of Altrincham Preparatory School for Boys

“As I come into my final year at MGS and having been at this outstanding institution and widespread community for over 6 years, never before have I felt so lucky and privileged to be a part of it as I do now. To represent this school as its Captain means being able to give back for all the opportunities that have been offered to me since the first time I walked through the gates at Old Hall Lane: from an endless abundance of clubs including podcasting and linguistics, to participation in national competitions run by the very top universities - MGS has guided me every step of the way. It’s been a set of incredible, wonderful and diverse experiences!

“The quality of teachers that the school has can only be summarised as exceptional, and the amount of effort and enthusiasm that they put into each lesson continues to amaze me and is the only reason that I’ve been able to get as far as I have academically. Outside the classroom, MGS has never failed to support my sporting ambitions, with

The King’s School ­ A ‘Happymind’ for students

the football, swimming, water-polo and now rowing coaches offering me every bit of help in achieving my goals, as well as setting up competitions and matches to provide chances at representing the school.

“One thing that I could not forget to include in my MGS experience is the languages department. Having previously studied Latin, I am now learning Chinese, Russian and Spanish at Alevel, thoroughly enjoying both the challenges and rewards that come from taking on any language.

“For anyone considering MGS as a potential school - of course, you should go to the school which suits you best, but what I have noticed is that MGS manages to suit every kind of student: the pure academics, the sporting athletes, the talented programmers, and everything in between. Either way, from my perspective, I couldn’t have been more fortunate to go to the school I go to, and I owe MGS all the thanks in the world for that”.

Pupils from Pre-School to Year 6 are taught about basic neuroscience and the science of ‘happiness’ in weekly lessons. By learning about how their brains work, pupils are able to understand how to look after themselves, manage their emotions and be at their best. Growth mindset is a key part of this –understanding how the way we think can influence our actions and ambitions. Different modules within the ‘myHappymind’ programme introduce new themes and habits to help children build resilience, self-esteem and confidence.

Since the Covid pandemic, teenage mental health has been a major issue for families, schools and the NHS. Rather than being reactive to the problem, what if we could equip the teenagers of tomorrow with a ‘toolkit’ to help them look after their own mental health and wellbeing should things get tough for the in the future?

Last year, King’s Infant & Junior Division introduced a ‘myHappymind’ programme to enhance pupil wellbeing provision for its youngest pupils.

‘myHappymind’ seeks to prepare today’s children for tomorrow’s world by building resilient, balanced and happy minds. It combines the latest research and scientific evidence to provide children with preventative strategies, skills and tools to help develop lifelong habits that will enable them to thrive in the modern world.

Philip Boardman, Vice-Principal of King’s Infants & Juniors, says: “Pupil and parental feedback has been incredibly positive. The pupils are fascinated by the neuroscience behind why we act like we do, how their character strengths enable them to cope with challenging situations and the practical skills that they can use to approach challenging situations with resilience.”

As one pupil in Year 4 put it: “I like ‘myHappymind’ because it helps me when I am annoyed or stressed because ‘happy breathing’ helps me to clear my mind and then rise up with fewer worries after it.”

Mr Boardman added: “’myHappymind’ promotes deeper thinking, more self-awareness and places an emphasis on the control of emotions. The pupils are really interested in the science of why their bodies deal with things differently.”

Daniel Burns, MGS A-level student, has been named as the new school Captain for 2023-24. Here are his thoughts on life at MGS.

Bridgewater School ­ A holistic approach

These are the days when a more individual approach really matters. Personal wellbeing and the role it plays in academic progress is a key focus for the Bridgewater School, which is why building confidence by celebrating individual skills and nurturing individuality lies at the heart of everything it does.

At the family-focused Bridgewater School in Worsley all children are encouraged to develop their individuality their way with small class sizes, exceptional tuition and a varied extra-curricular programme designed to enrich their experiences, enhance their personal development and give them every opportunity to flourish and thrive. Here, success and happiness go hand in hand. Achievement is embraced in all areas of school life, and this fully rounded approach to education manifests itself in excellent exam results, year after year.

This, together with Bridgewater’s ability to offer co-educational independent day school provision across the entire schooling age range, makes it the perfect choice for families who value continuity and individualised attention.

We can’t agree on a school. What will the court decide?

parent, or the school selected by that parent, should be considered first.

If that educational setting is not agreed by the non-primary parent, justifiable reasons must be put forward setting out why another should be considered. This is a scenario in which obtaining legal advice would be beneficial.

However, if there is a shared care arrangement in place, by which both parents’ residences are where the children equally call their home, and if the parents cannot agree on an educational setting, obtaining legal advice is vital and an application to the family court may well be required.

to the family court to prevent the children's removal from school. This also comes under section 8 of the Children Act 1989 and would be for a prohibited steps order; to prohibit the children's removal from the school without a court order to do so. In this case, any order of the court would need to be provided to the school as well as all those with parental responsibility.

In all cases and at all times parents are strongly encouraged not just to communicate their wishes, but to co-parent effectively for the best interests of their children •

If you are separated parents and cannot agree on which school your children should attend, there are considerations that both of you need to keep in mind. Here Ruth Hetherington, a partner at McAlister Family Law, discusses what happens when an agreement cannot be reached, and how the Court’s decision may vary depending on the care arrangement.

If it is agreed between you that one parent is the primary carer, meaning that one parent deals with the day-to-day needs of the children, and the children's home is with that particular parent, then common sense must prevail. The school most local to that

Initially, other forums for alternative dispute resolution must be attempted, for example, mediation. If an agreement cannot be reached, a court application should be issued.

The application which would need to be made comes under section 8 of the Children Act 1989 and is for a specific issue application; to specifically address what is in the best interests of the children’s education. As part of the proceedings evidence shall be put forward by both parents to set out how their proposal is in the children’s best interests.

However, if one parent has taken matters in their own hands and begins the process of changing the children’s school without the other parent’s consent, that parent would need to issue an urgent application

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning children issues, please get in touch with our private child team at McAlister Family Law.

Ruth Hetherington

For parents interested in the benefits of a Bridgewater education, the school is holding an Open Day for all year groups on Saturday 4th November.

Emotional intelligence for Parents and Kids

be brushed under the carpetthey bite back,” says teacher and bestselling children’s author Molly Potter.

In the post-pandemic era, 1 in 6 British children are experiencing mental health difficulties and 69% of early years and primary school parents say that their biggest concern is their children’s mental health.

Back to school can be a particularly anxious time for kids and their families, especially for school-refusers. “Talking to kids for 5 minutes each day about feelings is as important for their wellbeing as eating veg or cleaning their teeth. Emotions are too powerful to

With her new book, Molly aims to help parents navigate their kids’ emotions; How are you feeling now? is full of beautiful illustrations by Sarah Jennings and plenty of funny moments to keep children smiling. Notes at the back of the book explain emotional intelligence to parents and carers and provide more ideas and strategies to use with children. This comforting picture book will also help to start meaningful conversations with your child.

How are you feeling now?

by Molly Potter Bloomsbury, hardback £12.99

Generation stress by

Cat Allen, Director of Noodle Performing Arts, Cheshire

spent her leisure time playing Star Wars with the neighbouring children; my only worry was how to keep my rather fine hair in those funny bagel shapes on my head. Nowadays however, there’s no escaping the world outside. It’s constantly available at the click of a remote or the swipe of a finger.

Kids don’t get to escape it; with the many media platforms that allow anyone to be an expert on everything, a hive of intolerance and conflicting opinions, it’s no wonder they are feeling the strain. The old-style kids TV presenters with their Blue Peter Gardens and ‘answers on a postcard’ competitions have made way for YouTube commentators; react to someone reacting to something else... we don’t even need to think for ourselves anymore do we? Just like and subscribe.

I love seeing the youngest Noodlers waiting for their classes or siblings of our students playing with the toys and dressing up clothes in the venue toy corner on Saturdays. They are in their own world playing together - creating, inventing, imagining. At their age it’s all they have and all they need. But children are growing older earlier nowadays.

Stress is a word that gets thrown around constantly, usually by adults and in relation to everything we do: “the commute is so stressful... work is really stressful at the moment... I’m stressed about money.”

Mental health is today’s buzzword, and it seems sadly that children are now as likely to suffer the effects of stress as adults, but why?

My youngest son applied for the army this year at 16; he has always wanted to pursue a military career, but the process has been stressful, and he’s gone through more than many of his peers, whilst taking his GCSEs in the same year. As a parent it has felt daunting, so for one his age I can only imagine what he feels. My eldest at 18 has been dealing with A-levels and the minefield of the ‘what on earth do I do next’ question. But they are young adults... bordering on self-sufficient and you might say well, this is where it begins.

We recently did our annual show, Alice In Wonderland, performed in a big theatre, in front of an audience of 400 supportive parents and family (no critics there!) and it was amazing to see how the children coped. The performers ranged from 3 to 14 years old. One of my overriding memories of the day is having a conversation in the wings with a 9 year

old caterpillar who asked “What show are we doing next”? I looked at him somewhat incredulously and said “Let’s get through this one, shall we”, to which he put his hand on my arm and said, “I know, it’s very stressful”. I was rather torn between laughing, and thinking that stressful really shouldn’t be in a child’s vocabulary. It certainly wasn’t when I was a child. At least, I don’t remember it being there.

Is that because in the 80s we were not exposed to the constant barrage of news and information that now floods our homes 24 hours a day? Were we just blissfully ignorant of the damage we were doing to the planet and the injustices suffered by minority cultures and different genders? It’s a rather more terrifying world to raise a child in nowadays and as parents perhaps we allow our children to pick up on those dangers and our insecurities far more than ours ever did.

I wouldn’t say I led a particularly sheltered childhood, but Newsround and the 6 o’clock news, plus conversations around the dinner table or in the classroom were pretty much my only exposure to the world outside my street or school.

The internet hadn’t really hit the scene and mobiles were hardly commonplace. It was a much simpler time. World events might as well have been in a galaxy far away to a wannabe Princess Leia who

They are being tested far more than we ever were and expected to conform to a government ‘standard’; the future of their planet is uncertain and they’re overloaded with information, the fearful memories of Covid lockdowns start to fade, but the damage left behind is more and more visible. It’s no wonder our children are stressed. Introverted behaviour and social anxiety are something we have seen more of in classes, and are desperately trying to fix.

I don’t know the answer to child stress, but it seems to me that in a world where a screen can provide all the information, communication and entertainment you’ll ever need, perhaps this is the generation that more than any other, we need to help learn how to ‘switch off’ •

Navigating the first day of nursery ­ A guide for parents

• Validate their concerns

It’s very natural if your child is worried about going to nursery; it’s a big step in their life! Listen to any fears they have and be ready to answer any questions. Many children are worried about who will be there to pick them up, or what if their teacher doesn’t like them? So it is crucial to reassure them that you will be there at the end of the day, and of course their teacher will like them!

On the first day…

• Keep smiling

It’s normal for you to be feeling nervous at the first drop-off, but it’s important to stay calm and positive nevertheless. Children are sensitive to their parents’ emotions and will pick up on your cues. Try to be happy and excited to help your child feel the same.

• Communicate openly about the day

As you’re going to nursery, talk about all the exciting things they may get up to during the day. Explain the activities that could take place, and maybe talk about what you’ll do at the end of the dayreassuring them that you’ll come back.

• Prepare the night before

The first day of nursery can inspire a mixture of excitement and anxiety for children and parents alike. Your child taking their first steps into this new environment is a significant milestone for both of you. Entrepreneur and mum Aimee Cestrone, who founded Pippeta, a shop which sells a wide range of weaning products for babies, offers some advice on how nervous mothers and fathers can prepare themselves and their children for this new adventure.

In advance…

• Introduce the idea of nursery and regularly talk about it

Explain the concept of nursery to your child and get them excited about all of the new friends they will make and the variety of activities they’ll get up to. Some nurseries offer tours and run open days where you can visit and take a look around. If possible, take your child to one of these events and introduce them to the new surroundings where they will be spending a significant part of their day.

Point out the nursery when passing If you pass the nursery when driving or walking, be sure to point it out to your child and try to get them excited about going there! Make sure they feel that this new adventure is not something to be scared of but something to anticipate.

• Roleplay

Roleplaying with your child can help them to understand the format and routine of nursery. Practice saying goodbye to one another, answering their name on a register, sitting down nicely and lying down for naptime.

This is a great way to bond with your child and children thrive off routineso it will make the transition into nursery much smoother.

• Explain and establish a routine

It can be daunting going to a new environment alone, so it’s important to establish a strong routine early. Brushing teeth, getting dressed and having breakfast at the same time each day will allow your child to feel more confident and independent and keep this feeling even when their parents are not around.

Try to prepare as much as you can the night before, getting ready in the morning can be incredibly stressful so doing as much preparation as you can the night before will help the morning to run much smoother.

• Keep drop-off time short

It can feel almost impossible to leave your little one at the door on their first day, but it’s best to keep your drop-off short. If you leave slowly or leave as they’re crying, this could result in them being clingier and finding it more difficult to go in. Children bounce back quickly; they will feel fine after a few minutes and ready to play with all their new friends. Sending your children to nursery can be a daunting step, but it’s the start of the rest of their independent lives, an exciting opportunity to flourish, socialise, and make new friends. It may also be your first chance since having a baby to get some of your independence back •

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Baby Boutique ­ Picture­perfect memories for the whole family

Thankfully, Manchester’s Baby Boutique photography studio is here to change all that.

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With packages to suit all ages - from maternity and bump-to-baby, new-born, baby’s first year and beyond - the Baby Boutique is perfect for memorialising your children’s birthdays via lively cake smashes, sibling sessions and themed shoots. Ideal for little ones, parents, grandparents and even the family dog, Baby Boutique photography packages are happily affordable, with gift vouchers, new monthly offers and Klarna payments available to help spread costs.  With Christmas just around the corner, a family shoot is a picture-perfect addition to the festive season. Don’t take our word for it though; the studio has over one hundred glowing five-star reviews that have made it one of the most popular family photography studios in the North West.

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Life moves fast. If you don’t stop to celebrate its fleeting moments, you’ll miss something special. Never has this been more apt than when it comes to our loved ones - the very people who we hold dear yet rarely get the time to mark their key milestones.

fun & games

Are you game?

by Paul Wojnicki

Range of family games

Playing games together as a family can be a real joy, whether it’s board games, outdoor games or sitting together on the couch enjoying some bonding time over a console. Video gaming as a family has become so popular that video game nights have taken over from board game nights in the majority of households. Even the movie industry takes in less revenue than video games these days.

There’s a lot of noise and hype about next-generation consoles at the moment and the amazing technical specifications of the machines, but which console is best for family gaming? The answer isn’t that simple and Nintendo Switch, Xbox Series X or PlayStation 5 all have their plus points, also many experienced gamers will already have an affinity with a particular brand.

But for those of you looking to start gaming with the family, here are my tips - based on my family’s experiences - on what to consider when selecting the best console.

Manufacturer’s subscription services

Subscription services like Netflix and Disney+ have pretty much replaced owning a shelf full of DVDs or Blu-ray movies these days, and video games are slowly moving towards a similar model. PlayStation and Xbox both offer subscription services with hundreds of games to stream or download. PlayStation’s service has more games, but many of these are very

old games from previous console generations and it can take quite a long time before PlayStation’s exclusive games become available on their subscription service. The Xbox Game Pass often provides immediate access to brand new games, so is better in that respect. Xbox’s offering is also £2 a month less than PlayStation, at £8.99 and £10.99 respectively, for their mid-tier services. There is no shortage of family friendly games on both services, and both also allow online play against friends, which kids love. Nintendo also has a subscription service, but it’s limited to very old games from the 1980s and 1990s, which is presumably why it costs so much less at £34.99 for the year.

My winner, Xbox Game Pass: With more day one release games, lower prices and hundreds of games to choose from. There’s also an Xbox All Access 24 month payment option for £20.99 a month which includes an Xbox Series S console and Game Pass Ultimate, or £28.99 a month which includes the Xbox Series X console and Game Pass Ultimate.

Things get a little complicated when it comes to the range of family games for consoles. The Nintendo Switch definitely has the most exclusive family games out of the three main brands, and if you’re a fan of Mario, Princess Peach, Zelda, Donkey Kong, Kirby etc. then there’s no contest. Also, many of Nintendo’s exclusive games allow up to four players to play together, which is ideal for family time entertainment. Unfortunately, these aren’t included in any subscription service and will need to be purchased individually. PlayStation has its own family friendly exclusive with Sackboy: A Big Adventure, which allows up to four players to join in the fun and is undoubtedly a great way to spend the evening together on the couch. But - and this is a big but - for four of you to play you’re going to need four PS5 controllers, because PS5 games don’t allow you to use any other controller. Given that the controllers cost around £60 each, you’re going to have to splash out £180 on extra controllers, and there are no budget alternatives. Xbox and Nintendo both have a wide range of legacy controllers or third-party options that are a fraction of the cost. There are also tons of family games that are released “cross-platform” - on all three consoles - and many of these are included in the Xbox Game Pass. So, if you’re not tied to Mario or Sackboy then the plethora of family friendly and multiplayer games on the Game Pass, along with legacy controller support, mean you can be up and running straight away with a library of family games on the Xbox Series consoles.

Tie between Nintendo Switch and Xbox: Nintendo has great exclusive games for families but Xbox ties with them because of the availability of their family friendly games without having to buy them individually.

Technical specification

When it comes to raw power, there’s been a lot written about the relative performances of the Xbox Series X vs the PlayStation 5. Both are incredibly powerful machines, but the Xbox Series X is widely regarded to be the better of the two, and is justifiably billed as the most powerful gaming console ever made. Many of us won’t play games that stretch these

Nintendo Switch

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consoles to their technical capacity, so this might not be at the top of your reasons when deciding. But remember that this also means that the technology will be future proof for years to come.

The Nintendo Switch is nowhere near as powerful as either, and is less powerful than previous generations of the PlayStation and Xbox. There are also constant rumours of a Nintendo Switch 2, which may or may not make the Switch obsolete. On the other hand the Switch packs what performance it does have into a handheld console, as opposed to the massive size of the PS5.

One last consideration might be that PlayStation 5 is the only one of the three to have VR games.

Cost and value for money

The cheapest next generation console is the Xbox Series S (a digital only version of the Series X with a reduced specification), which costs £249 but is only capable of playing digital downloads, meaning second hand games can’t be bought, borrowed or exchanged. Given that there are so many games included in the Xbox Game Pass this might be a moot point, so it’s certainly worth buying still. Next up is the Nintendo Switch at £259 for the basic model and £309 for the OLED model, with an improved screen. You can use physical games or digital downloads on the Switch, and it comes with two controllers rather than one, though these are very small controllers.

So, which one do I buy?

Nintendo Switch has a very limited cardboard VR headset, similar to Google Cardboard for your smartphones, and Xbox don’t seem to have any plans for VR, so this might also be a swaying factor. It is certainly not cheap though, at £529 for the VR set on top of the £449.99 console price.

Tie between Xbox Series X and PS5: Both are incredible machines, PlayStation gets kudos for the addition of VR, but Xbox Series X is the most powerful console ever made.

The PS5 Digital Edition currently costs £389.99 in most stores, but for me is the worst value console of the lot; and I say that as someone whose son owns one. True, the technical specification is the same as the regular PS5, but if you’re desperate for a PS5 then spend the extra money on the disc version as you’ll also be able to use any PS4 games you own, borrow or buy for a fraction of the price it costs for a digital download on the PlayStation Store. The Xbox Series S suffers from a similar problem, but at least it’s £200 less than the Series X and has newer games on the Game Pass. Finally, we have the Xbox Series X and PS5 Disc Edition; both are priced at £449.99 but Xbox wins on value for money due to the fact that all accessories and games from its previous generation are fully compatible, unlike PlayStation 5. My winner, Xbox Series X: It’s not cheap but you won’t need to buy another console for years and you can still use all your old games and accessories.

For me, the winner is Xbox Series X, but all three consoles are great, and you’ll have a blast whichever one you choose. Ultimately, your choice may come down to brand preference, exclusive games or even wanting to use virtual reality at some stage. Only the PS5 has a decent VR option, but it is eye-wateringly expensive, and you could buy two Meta Quest 2 sets for the same price as the one PlayStation accessory. I would also think very carefully before buying any digital console, as you won’t have the option of second-hand games •

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Music and song in Heaton Moor

Marc Gwynne had lived on the same street as Rebecca Aldersea and her husband Chris Hoyle for many years, but they only met properly when the neighbours got together to discuss hosting Ukrainian refugees. When the war broke out, several residents of Broomfield Road in Heaton Moor opened their homes to Ukrainian families and were supported by the whole street. As it became clear that the war would continue and the sufferings of Ukrainian people are far from over, they felt they needed to do more and the idea of a concert came to life.

It was agreed that Chris (Head of Strings RNCM) and Rebecca (Cellist at the BBC Philharmonic) would ask their many colleagues to participate, offering musicians the freedom to choose their own piece of music to perform. The response was overwhelming and the choice of music was powerful and personal at the same time.

Marc Gwynne (until recently a member of William Byrd Singers, one of the North-West’s leading amateur chamber choirs, based in Manchester) in turn asked his fellow singers to join him in vocal music in Ukrainian and English, and he too was humbled by the willingness of his colleagues to participate completely on a voluntary basis.

The concert aims to bring together the local community, both British and Ukrainian, through this broad range of classical music. Every penny from ticket sales will be passed to small charities in Ukraine, which are not bound by the same red tape as their larger counterparts. Using local knowledge, they can get to the places where help is needed the most •

For more information and to get your tickets please contact Inessa Gwynne on 07980 535074.

Food for thought

In developed societies such as the UK, where the supermarket shelves are bursting with produce, and fast-food shops and coffee houses are multiplying at a rate of knots, why is it that, in 2023, one in seven people have fallen into food poverty and face hunger on a daily basis? Why is it that the emotional distress caused by visiting a food bank is leading to increasing bouts of depression and social isolation for millions of people right across the UK? Pride and shame are overriding emotions for many individuals who see themselves tumbling into destitution. Often it is what can drive many to the brink of suicide.

Charity Meals is a newly launched international charity which is already working in over 14 countries, focusing on addressing the problem. The main

premise of Charity Meals is the establishment of a growing network of community kitchens. These kitchens will form the warm and welcoming hub of the organization, a place where all individuals within the community can come together to both prepare and cook meals, and to eat.

Operations manager of Charity Meals, Sally Majid says: “The hunger itself is merely the surface of a much deeper problem - that of isolation and despair, which in itself is symptomatic of a broken society. Charity Meals wants to tackle hunger by empowering the community and pulling people together no matter what is going on in the outside world.”

The charity’s first UK community kitchen is on track to be opened in the North West in early 2024.

In the meantime a series of pop-up kitchens planned for the run up to Christmas will focus on areas of deprivation in and around Bradford where communities are encouraged to come together and eat together, whether they are homeless, displaced refugees, or families struggling to put food on the table for their children.

Every culture has a tradition of coming together for food at certain festivals throughout the year, and it is this sense of coming together which is shaping the strategy for Charity Meals. The vision it holds for the community kitchens is to move away from the traditional image of soup kitchens and food banks, and create a home from home, a place where anyone can drop in for a nourishing meal and some company, without the stigma of poverty or hunger •

Landon - now!

Have you heard about the Hallé’s Family Concerts?

• Sunday 1 October, 3pm

What is an Orchestra?

Tickets: £22.50 adults, £12.50 children (aged 16 and under), £49 family (any 4 people, including at least one child)

Sunday 3 December, 12pm

Christmas Concert

Tickets: £27.50 full price, £17.50 children (aged 16 and under), £69.50 family (any 4 people, including at least one child)

• Friday 22 December, 4pm / Saturday 23

December, 11am and 1.30pm

The Snowman with Live Orchestra

Tickets: £27.50 full price, £17.50 children (aged 16 and under), £69.50 family (any 4 people, including at least one child)

• Sunday 25 February, 12pm

The Hallé’s new series of concerts introduces the youngest audience members to a live symphony orchestra at The Bridgewater Hall with fun and interactive concerts for all the family! Take a tour of the Hallé from the titanic tuba to the petite piccolo with ‘What is an Orchestra?’, unlock the codes in the ‘Enigma Variations’, be thrilled by the romance of ‘Romeo and Juliet’, and join presenter Tom Redmond in unwrapping a magical musical Christmas adventure.

The fun doesn’t end there. A must for all the family, Raymond Briggs’ classic animated film ‘The

Snowman’, accompanied by the Hallé performing Howard Blake’s magical score, is back by popular demand. Get into the festive mood with the annual screening of The Snowman, which this year is accompanied by Gaspard the Fox.

The Hallé’s fantastic Family Concerts are recommended for children of primary school age, but everybody is welcome! Why not get into the spirit and come to the concert wearing your favourite fancy dress?

The Halle’s Family Concerts at The Bridgewater Hall:

The Musical Story of Romeo and Juliet

Tickets: £22.50 full price, £12.50 children (aged 16 and under), £49 family (any 4 people, including at least one child)

• Sunday 19 May, 12pm

The Musical Story of Enigma

Tickets: £22.50 full price, £12.50 children (aged 16 and under), £49 family (any 4 people, including at least one child)

For more information about the Halle’s Family Concerts visit www.halle.co.uk

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Events Watch

September

8 September: 10.00-12.00

13 September: 14.00-16.00 or 18.00-20.00

Rubbish to Resource

See your recycling in action!

Do you want to find out exactly what happens to the recycling from Greater Manchester once your bin has been collected? Discover how the state-of-the-art technology in our Materials Recovery Facility sorts and separates the recycling ready to be transformed into something new. You will also have an opportunity to take part in activities to dispel those recycling myths, ask questions and understand why getting it right is important. This is a two hour session that includes a tour plus some indoor recycling activities. Free event. Pre-booking is essential, and numbers are limited. Minimum age 7 and under 18's must be accompanied.

Longley Lane, Sharston, Manchester M22 4RQ www.heritageopendays.org.uk

9 September 0900-1300 & 1400-1700

Discover the Carnegie Library - Heritage

Open Days

This beautiful Arts and Crafts library was opened on 15th May 1915, the generous Scottish-American Andrew Carnegie funded the building of this fabulous library, following requests from Fletcher Moss. It was built on the site of Victorian cottages, which were demolished in 1912 and the bowling green of The Wellington Inn.

Didsbury Library, 692 Wilmslow Road, Didsbury Greater Manchester, M20 2DN www.heritageopendays.org.uk

9-10 September

Avro Air Fair - 'Wings & Wheels'

Ever popular two day Wings & Wheels event!

Wipe the tears from your eyes as the BBMF Lancaster flies overhead and feel that adrenaline rush as the Avro Anson does her stint. The static Spitfire will be situated near to the magnificent Vulcan, and as usual, there will be classic vehicles, military vehicles and not forgetting a fabulous array of motorbikes, from the vintage BSAs to the cool Bimotas! There will be music from 90 Proof on the Saturday, and on Sunday, the infamous Monkey Harris band. There'll be plenty to eat and drink, so bring a blanket or folding chairs and enjoy the atmosphere. Dogs welcome in outside areas, but please keep them on a short lead (water always available). Statement Artworks will be selling their hilarious, but classy, modern retro posters, and a face painter will be around for kids (or big kids).

Avro Heritage Museum, Woodford Aerodrome Chester Road, Woodford Stockport, Cheshire SK7 1AG. Tel: 01625 877 534 www.avroheritagemuseum.co.uk

9-10 September: Open 11:00 - 16:00

Victoria Baths

A great opportunity to visit Victoria Baths, widely recognised as Britain's finest municipal swimming pool and a Grade II* listed building. No expense was spared in its construction, the building is remarkably intact and today you can still discover the beautiful stained glass, rich terracotta, sumptuous tiles, and amazing mosaics. Entry is free on both Saturday 9th and Sunday 10th September. Wander the building, explore an exhibition of the creative uses and activities of Victoria Baths from its opening in 1906, and view all three pools, the Turkish Baths suite, entrance halls, Superintendent's Flat, and more.

Don’t miss our much anticipated “Pools of Creativity” event, celebrating this year’s Heritage Open Days theme of “Creativity Unwrapped”. Explore the creative past and present of Victoria Baths from the intricate designs of the building’s interior and use of the Gala Pool as a dancefloor in the 1950s, to the thirty years of creative events and activities since the building closed as a pool in 1993.

Victoria Baths, Hathersage Road, Manchester M13 0FE. www.heritageopendays.org.uk

9 - 11, 22 - 25 September, 13 - 16, 27 - 29

October 9:00 - 18:00

Fun Dog Show at the Farm

you have built your confidence up and completed a few short games, you will be taken on a guided tour in the venue grounds where you will be shown any obstacles that you will need to avoid. You will then be set free to unleash the true speed of your Segway and practice your new found skills, all the while experiencing the excitement of a Segway Experience!

Price: £20-£30 pp

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

10 September

Heritage open day: Bramall Hall

Explore Bramall Hall, one of England’s finest timber-framed manor houses. Learn more about the lives of people who lived and worked at the Hall and take in some exceptional architectural features.

Don’t miss the Solar and the Hall’s sensational suite of Tudor wall paintings, they are of international importance and there is nothing quite like them in England.

You can also try your hand at the favourite Victorian leisure activity, brass rubbing in the banqueting room thanks to the Friends of Bramall Hall. Suitable for all ages. Bramall Hall, Hall Road, Bramhall, Stockport, SK7 3NX. www.stockport.gov.uk/events/heritage-openday-bramall-hall

12 September - 20 October

Autumn: CAP COM GO!

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN

Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

16 September 13:00 - 14:30

Guided Walk : Bridge Street

Guide Daniel Hearn leads this walk down Bridge Street looking at the varied buildings that emerged to serve the town's residents, as the textile industry developed from the 18th century. Discover stories of trades, entertainment and education in garrets, houses, shops, schools, a medical clinic, a socialist club, drill hall, pubs and a church.

Price: £12 per ticket

Silk Museum, Park Lane, Macclesfield SK11 6TJ www.thesilkmuseum.co.uk

16-17 September 10:30 - 17:00

Unwrapping Quarry Bank - Heritage Open Days

Unwrap Quarry Bank's creativity past and present as they showcase the artistic and creative enterprises of the Greg family and their modern day counterparts (Quarry Bank staff and volunteers). Whilst keen business runners, the Greg family were also keen artists and recorded their adventures both at home and abroad in watercolours, pencil drawings and even photographs. Step back into their world to see what creativity meant to them and get a glimpse behind Quarry Bank’s industrial founders. The creative works by staff and volunteers will be presented in the same display. Quarry Bank, Styal, Wilmslow, Cheshire, SK9 4LA Tel: 01625 527468

www.nationaltrust.org.uk/quarry-bank

Come along and join the Farm team for a day of fun with your furry companion at the annual Dog Show held at Tatton Park. With 10 different novelty classes to enter, including Cutest Puppy, Waggiest Tail, and Golden Oldie, there's something for every kind of dog to enjoy. Every class winner will receive a rosette and there's even a chance for your dog to be crowned the Show Champion at the end of the day. Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to spend the day with your four-legged friend and show off their unique personality and skills. Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

9-10, 16-17 September

Buses depart 1000 then hourly until 1600 Museum of Transport, Greater Manchester Bus Tours - Heritage Open Days

An opportunity to ride on historic buses from the Museum of Transport, Greater Manchester. Tours using historic buses from the Museum of Transport, Greater Manchester, will run on the hour, every hour, calling at the Manchester Jewish Museum, Science & Industry Museum and the People's History Museum in Manchester city centre.

Children under 16 must be accompanied. Museum of Transport, Boyle Street, Manchester M8 8UW. www.heritageopendays.org.uk

9 - 11 September 9:00 - 18:00

Segway Experience

These environmentally friendly fun-filled machines create a fantastic day out for people of all ages. The Segway Experience takes place on the open grounds at Tatton Park one of the UK’s most complete historic estates and makes for an exhilarating ride with spectacular views across the parkland.

As you arrive you will need to follow the signposts directing you to the Segway Pod where you will register and complete the necessary paperwork. You will then be kitted up in the essential safety gear before being give a brief introduction to your Segway experience. Once

On July 16th 1969, three Astronauts blasted off to space to make the first ever attempt to land humans on the Moon. This short film allows you to relive the epic NASA Apollo 11 mission like never before.

CAP COM GO! is suitable for astronauts of all ages. Price: £4/ £6 (as an add-on to general admission). Running time - 25 minutes.

Jodrell Bank Discovery Centre, The University of Manchester, Macclesfield, Cheshire, Sk11 9DL Tel: 01477 571 766 www.jodrellbank.net

14, 21 September; 5, 12, 19 October 10:00 - 10:45

Museum Tots

Each session children explore a different area of the museum including machinery, Victorian household objects and Victorian toys. There is singing, storytelling and craft activities. At the end of each session you will be welcomed into the museum cafe for a complimentary hot drink for adults, juice and a biscuit for the children. Suitable for all children aged 3 + Silk Museum, Park Lane, Macclesfield SK11 6TJ www.thesilkmuseum.co.uk

16 September Arrival time from 10am, first walk starts 11am

Cheshire Memory Walk - funds rising event for Alzheimer's Society Memory Walk is a family-friendly sponsored walk like no other, where thousands of people come together to raise funds for Alzheimer's Society. It’s free to sign up and open to all. You will get everything you need to smash your target, including a brilliant fundraising pack, Memory Walk t-shirt, and when you’ve completed your walk, a shiny medal to celebrate your achievements.

There are two routes to choose from on the day of Memory Walk. A shorter 2.5km route, or the longer 8.5km route which takes you further around Tatton's Parkland and wooded areas. This event is not suitable for pushchairs or wheel-chairs due to the nature of the pathways, and some muddy, uneven terrain throughout the route.

16-17 September 09:00 - 20:00

Heritage Open Day - Six centuries of history at Lyme

Whether you want to step inside the house and explore its beautiful features, see the unmissable landmarks on Lyme’s landscape across the park, or have an adventure with the family. There's plenty at Lyme for a full family day out come rain or shine, and during the Heritage Open Day event it’s all free.

Lyme Park, Disley, Stockport, Cheshire, SK12 2NR Tel: 01663 762023

www.nationaltrust.org.uk/lyme

17 September 14:30

Grooving with Pirates

Grooving With Pirates is an animated and liveaction mystical adventure which follows three pirate friends on a dangerous mission to find some treasure! A tale of friendship, loyalty and a magic chest.

Meet monsters and mermaids, take musical challenges and strut your stuff on the gangplank.

Specially designed to be a midpoint between kid shows and adult concerts, this show has something for all seadogs. High energy interactive theatre meets hard grooving gig.

Blending electro jungle rhythms, infectious pop themes, and a heavy dose of 60s Blue Note soul jazz, the Groove Baby Organ Trio creates a nonstop groove.

Groove Baby is all about fun for the whole family. Created in 2013 to give parents the opportunity to experience concert hall quality music in a child friendly environment, the shows have developed into a unique - and definitely cool - form of musical

theatre event.

Suitable for children ages 3 - 7 and their grown-ups.

Price: £9.50 adult, £7.50 child WatersideArts, 1 Waterside Plaza, Sale Trafford, M33 7ZF. Tel: 0161 912 5616 www.watersidearts.org

17 September: 13:00 - 16:00

The Towers - Heritage Open Days

A hidden historical mansion, sometimes known as the Calendar House, for its 365 windows, 52 doors and 12 chimneys, which even some of the people who live in Didsbury do not know exists. Only the entrance hall will be open.

The house located at the back of modern complex was built between 1868-1872 by Thomas Worthington for the editor of the Manchester Guardian at a cost of £50,000. This Grade II* listed building became the home of Daniel Adamson instigator of the Manchester Ship Canal scheme. In 1920 it became the headquarters of the Shirley Institute where many textile breakthroughs occurred.

See the imposing staircase and magnificent stained-glass windows

The Towers Manchester, Wilmslow Road, Didsbury, Manchester, M20 2FZ www.heritageopendays.org.uk

23 September

The event site will open at 16:00 and the walk will begin at 17:00 Walk of Hope - fundraising event for The Christie

Unite against cancer and raise vital funds for The Christie at the Walk of Hope 2023!

The Walk of Hope brings together families, friends and individuals to walk together in memory, celebration and solidarity.  You’ll walk 10km through the beautiful grounds of Tatton Park in honour of the treatment and care provided by The Christie.

Before the walk begins, you’ll have the opportunity to enjoy lantern decorating, face painting and live entertainment. This will be followed by a peaceful dove release to start the walk. After taking in the stunning scenery of Tatton Park, the evening will finish with a chorus of live music. With so many people walking in memory, walking in support or walking in hope, it’s sure to be an emotional and inspirational evening.

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

30 September - 1 October 11:00 - 16:00

Harvest Festival

Come and experience the joy of harvest season at Tatton Park's Farm with the annual harvest festival! Join in on the festivities and witness the steam engine running in all its glory. Try your hand at scarecrow making or spinning, and learn about the traditional techniques used in harvest season. You can even make your very own corn doll to take home as a memento of this special day.

Be sure to attend the Harvest Blessing at 1pm, where thanks will be given for the bountiful harvest. And don't forget to bring your furry friends along to be blessed as well - dogs are welcome!

With something for everyone, the Harvest Festival at Tatton Park's Farm is the perfect day out for families, couples and individuals alike. Come and enjoy the beautiful scenery, learn about the history of harvest, and create some wonderful memories with your loved ones.

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

Events Watch

Join Ballet Theatre UK as they follow the yellow brick road and discover all the wonders of Oz. Enjoy Dorothy, the Scarecrow, Tinman, and Lion, (and yes Toto too) as they seek the Wonderful Wizard to find that there's no place like home!

The Wizard of Oz is a two act, full-length ballet adaptation of the iconic tale by L. Frank Baum, told through the magic of classical dance.

Set to a classical score which brings the story to life, this production is family friendly and is the perfect way to introduce children to the classical ballet. The production is presented with beautiful backdrops, stunning theatrical sets and costumes evoking the iconic sketches by W.W. Denslow, from the original publication.

Suitable for children ages 3 + Price: £21.00 adult, £15.00 under 16.

30 September - 1 October 10:00 - 16:00

Apple Fest

Come and celebrate the season of apples. The Farm and Gardens are all set to welcome you to a scrumptious weekend of fun-filled activities and delicious treats.

Get ready for a weekend full of games and children’s activities that will keep everyone entertained. In the stunning gardens, you will get the opportunity to taste delicious varieties from Tatton’s historic orchards. The aroma of freshly picked apples will fill the air and leave you craving for more.

Don't miss out on the chance to take home some of the freshest apple goods. The on-site shops and restaurants will be stocked with an array of apple-themed treats that you will definitely want to sink your teeth into. From apple pies to apple jams, there's something for everyone.

So, bring your friends and family along for a weekend of apple-filled fun. Entry to the event is free & the memories you make will last a lifetime Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN. Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

30 September, 28 October 11:00- 15:00

Arc Saturday art club

A great family day out for art and craft lovers. If you’re looking for things to do in Stockport at weekends then look no further. Hat Works pride itself on organising unique and fun art clubs. More than just cutting and sticking, they promise activities that build new skills, teach to collaborate with others, and use specialist or uncommon materials and techniques.

Hat Works, Wellington Mill, Wellington Road South, Stockport, SK3 0EU www.stockport.gov.uk

October

1 October, 3pm

Hallé Family Concert: What is an orchestra?

Did you know that symphony orchestras have existed for over 400 years, have 100 members and can sound as loud as a jet engine or as quiet as a mouse? Take a tour of the Hallé with lots of great music and plenty of fun!

Tickets: £22.50 adults, £12.50 children (aged 16 and under), £49 family (any 4 people, including at least one child)

The Bridgewater Hall, Lower Mosley St., Manchester M2 3WS. Tel: 0161 907 9000 www.halle.co.uk

1 October 11:00 - 15:00

Fungal Foray in the Parkland

Join fungus expert, FungalPunk Dave on a guided walk of Tatton's Parkland. Young or old, two or four legged, all are welcome on this unique

walk where you will discover the mysterious fungal world.

Participants need to bring a packed lunch and dress for the outdoors.

This event includes a workshop with FungalPunk Dave and entry into the parkland on the day of the event.

It is important to note that the purpose of the foray is to learn about the species found and not to collect for culinary use. You will be walking through a part of the park closed to the public containing dead wood habitat

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

7, 14, 21, 28 October

4, 11, 18, 25 November

Crafty Families

Join the artist in The Lookout for a different creative activity each week. Please book tickets for each person attending the activity.

The Lowry, Pier 8, The Quays, Salford, M50 3AZ

9 October, 10, 27 November

Experitots is a regular event specially designed for children aged 0 - 4. During these playful sessions, toddlers and their adults are encouraged to explore and experiment together. The team of friendly Explainers are on hand to support young explorers throughout the morning.

In sessions in the Experiment gallery, you can discover the wonder and delight of science at work whilst making memories with your favourite tiny people. Will you make light move? Can you find the heat in your body? How tall a tower can you build?

From September 2023 to May 2024, there will be additional Experitots sessions in the Special Exhibitions Gallery, where you can enjoy a voyage of discovery through the digestive system with Operation Ouch! Food, Poo and You. Price: free for ages 3 and under, £9 for children ages 4 and older and £10 for adults. Science and Industry Museum

Liverpool Road, Manchester M3 4FP Tel: 033 0058 0058 www.scienceandindustrymuseum.org.uk

14 October 19:30

The Wizard of Oz

WatersideArts, 1 Waterside Plaza, Sale Trafford, M33 7ZF. Tel: 0161 912 5616 www.watersidearts.org

18 October 16:00-18:00

Deer Rut Walk

Join the expert ranger team for an exclusive opportunity to get up close and personal to Tatton’s ancient deer herd.

Enjoy private access to the spectacular autumn parkland, and walk amongst the wildlife on your bespoke guided tour.

Find out how the herd is cared for throughout the year and listen to the deer rut - when male deer compete to mate with the females, so there’s lots of posturing, bellowing and wallowing! The rangers are happy to answer any questions during this unique 2 hour experience, and you will have plenty of opportunities to take some memorable photos and videos during the walk. Wrap up warm and finish off your visit with a warming hot chocolate in the Stables restaurant (10% discount with your ticket).This event includes a workshop with rangers, an opportunity to experience the park ‘after hours’, and entry into the parkland on the day of the event.

Minimum participation age of 8 years old

Price: £20 per person

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

21 October 10:00

Raver Tots Halloween Party Manchester

The most spooktacular indoor family dance party playing the best in house, garage & drum and bass. Huge effects show throughout the event with dancers, performers, cold pyro, bubbles, festival sized confetti blasts, multi coloured lasers and lighting, parachute games, giant balloons, licensed bar and face painting!

Music is kept at safe levels at all times in line with the risk assessment guidelines. Please note, it is still loud so bring ear defenders if you wish. Expect kid-friendly club lighting in a festival style environment.

Freight Island,11 Baring St., Manchester M1 2PZ www.ravertots.co.uk

Events Watch

21 - 22 October 10:00-16:00

Christmas shopping at Tatton Park- Artisan Gift Fair

Looking for a unique and unforgettable shopping experience this autumn? Look no further than Tatton Park's Autumn Artisan Gift Fair! This exciting event takes place inside The Mansion's Tenants Hall, a wing of the stately mansion house that is not usually open to the public. At the Gift Fair, you'll find a wide range of local suppliers offering a variety of unique items, including jewellery, candles, crafts, and even gin. This is the perfect opportunity to find gifts for all the family and to discover presents that are not usually found in high street shops. Best of all, entry to the shopping show is completely free!

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

21 - 29 October

Pumpkin Patch at the Farm

Come down to the Farm to meet all your Farmyard favourites and then it’s off to search for your perfect pumpkin. You’ll choose your own pumpkin, from the field, so prepare to get your hands dirty! Please dress appropriately for outdoor activity. Some areas of the farm are cobbled so sturdy footwear is essential. On arrival, the Farm team will direct you to the pumpkin patch.

Tatton Park, Knutsford, Cheshire WA16 6QN Tel: 01625 374400 www.tattonpark.org.uk

21 October - 5 November

Power Up

Take gaming to the next level with Power Up at the Science and Industry Museum. Play the very best video games from the past five decades and try out over a hundred different consoles with the ultimate hands-on gaming experience. There's something for everyone, from Pong to Pacman, Sonic to Street Fighter and Mario to Minecraft, plus a selection of games created in Manchester.

Face off against friends and families in multiplayer showdowns, rediscover your childhood favourites and test out some of the latest virtual reality experiences. Game on!

Price: £8.00 adult (18 and older) £6.00 child Science and Industry Museum

Liverpool Road, Manchester M3 4FP Tel: 033 0058 0058 www.scienceandindustrymuseum.org.uk

23 October 14:00

The Bubble Show

Join Mr. Bubbles with his extraordinary soap bubbles in all shapes and sizes! The Bubble Show is a unique blend of magic, storytelling, science and bubble art! Enjoy bouncy bubbles, bubbles inside bubbles, smoke bubbles, square bubbles, giant bubbles, and even fire bubbles!

Actor, storyteller, and Guinness World Record holder, The Highland Joker, is one of the top bubble artists in the world, bringing you an interactive, fun, international award-winning bubble extravaganza!

Eran The Bubble Man, also known as The Highland Joker, originally served as a soldier before following his dream to train as an actor. He is now an international Bubble Artist performing all over the world and blowing bubbles for peace. Eran is also the founding secretary of the Association of International Bubble Artistes. The Bubble Show has won several awards and toured from New Zealand to the UK, appearing at the Edinburgh Fringe, Brighton Fringe, and New Zealand Fringe, as well as performances in USA, Germany, Qatar, Malaysia and NewCaledonia to name a few.

Eran is a Soap Bubble Guinness World Record Holder as seen in the Guinness World Records book 2020 and 2023.

Suitable for children ages 3+

Price: £9.50 adult, £7.50 child WatersideArts, 1 Waterside Plaza, Sale, Trafford, M33 7ZF. Tel: 0161 912 5616 www.watersidearts.org

23 - 29 October 10:00 - 16:00

Half Term Horrors - Spooky Skeleton Trail

Twelve past residents of Capesthorne Hall have returned for Halloween!

Their resurrected skeletons are lurking around the grounds for you to hunt down in a Spooky Trail! Each skeleton will be hiding a word, and it's your task to find the word and get it written down. Once you have collected them all and finished the trail, make your way to The Lakeside Café where you will be able to collect a word search puzzle. Using the 12 words you have collected from the trail complete the word search! Or feel free to take your word search puzzle home and complete it later on!

Price: £8.50 for adults and £4.50 for children (aged 5 - 16 yrs). Under 5s go free.

Half Term Horrors - Creepy Crafts

Unleash your creepy creativity at Capesthorne Hall this Halloween.

This October half-term children (aged 3-12) will get creative in the Lakeside Marquee! There is a small additional charge for each craft, but, if you want to do all three activities, there is a special offer price of just £8!

Capesthorne Hall, Congleton Road, Siddington, Macclesfield, Cheshire, SK11 9JY Tel: 01625861221 www.capesthorne.com

26 - 27 October 11:00 - 15:00

(4 session 45min each)

Creepy Crawlies Workshop

Learn and be amazed by the world of invertebrates. Get up close and hold them if you dare! How slimy is a snail? Are tarantulas terrifying? Do cockroaches give you the creeps? Get upclose and hands-on with a unique Animal Explorer workshop.

Join ZooLab to get hands on experience with invertebrates. Little ones will be amazed and inspired to explore the big subjects of biodiversity and the environment. Price: £10 per child Lyme Park, Disley, Stockport, Cheshire, SK12 2NR. Tel: 01663 762023

www.nationaltrust.org.uk/lyme

27 - 31 October

A Spooky ‘Scare Skate’ Rink Manchester’s largest outdoor ice rink, Skate Manchester is set to return bigger and better than ever - and this time, it’s not just reserved for the Christmas festivities. Kicking off the excitement this October, Skate Manchester will be transforming their rink for the spooky season, to become Scare Skate, providing a fun activity for Mancs to enjoy over Halloween. Complete with Halloween-themed music and decorations, guests are invited to chase monsters on the ice and even attend in their own fancy dress, too, with the backdrop of Halloween in the City’s inflatable monsters climbing on the buildings and setting a super spooky tone for the occasion.

New for this year, the spooktacular rink will see a frightfully realistic giant spider take centre stage. The Cathedral Gardens, Manchester, Greater Manchester M4 3BG www.secretmanchester.com

26 - 28 October

Halloween Ghost Trains

Creeps, candy and costumes! Are you brave enough to board the “spooky” steam train? Once every ten years at Summerseat tunnel a portal opens to the dark past... But what evil beasties and nasty things await on the other side? Join us at ELR this year for family Halloween fun aboard the “scream train” and help the Monster Squad keep order and vanquish the ghouliees! Warning: This is a family event and joining in, screaming and singing is encouraged.

There will be ghoulish goodies galore, and your monstrous new friends will include a fang-tastically friendly vampire, a chatty Zombie, mad Dr Frankenburger, a snappy plant creature and more oddballs and curios. Be sure not to miss the all singing, all dancing “Skeletonettes” on the platform!

The East Lancashire Railway, Bolton Street Station, Bury, Lancashire, BL9 0EY. Tel: 0333 320 2830 www.eastlancsrailway.org.uk

28 October 19:00

Family Halloween Party

There will be prizes on the night for Best Dressed. North Reddish Working Men's Club

3a Midland Road, Reddish Stockport SK5 6PY Tel: 0161 223 2665 www.northreddishwmc.co.uk

28 October 15:00 - 16:30

'The Canterville Ghost'

Enjoy comedy and chills in this original adaptation of the charming Oscar Wilde tale, written especially for children and young families. This one-man show, featuring much audience participation, is guaranteed to raise more than just a ghost of a smile! Philip Jennings stars in a show that's written by Jonathan Goodwin, and directed by Gary Archer

Price: £15-adult, £10 child Biddulph Grange Garden Grange Road, Biddulph, Staffordshire, ST8 7SD Tel: 01782517999 www.nationaltrust.org.uk

November

From 17 November

Illuminated trail through festive gardens Christmas at Dunham Massey is full of seasonal surprises and shimmering reflections that cast light on beautiful silhouettes of majestic trees,

all choreographed to a soundtrack of festive favourites.New for 2023: colour-changing batons of light stretching out into the distance; a huge silver star, Nova, shrouded in mist as if just fallen from the sky; and star-shaped arches high above you. There will also be a magical glimpse of Father Christmas along the way and an opportunity to toast a marshmallow over an open fire. Independent street food vendors will bring a delicious twist with tasty treats on offer. Complete your walk under the stars with a spiced winter warmer or hot chocolate shared with friends and family.

Tickets: Adult £19, child £12.50 (age 3-16), family £41-60 (1 or 2 adults, plus 2 children). Dunham Massey, Altrincham, Cheshire WA14 4SJ www.nationaltrust.org.uk

18 November

Alfie’s First Fight

Featuring boxing action, surprising plot twists, compelling characters and an inspiring boy-hero, this funny and heart-warming show is guaranteed to pack a punch - for children aged 5+ and their grown-ups.

If you liked Roald Dahl’s Danny Champion of the World, the books of Jacqueline Wilson and the Rocky Movies, then you’ll love this ‘edge-of-yourseat storytelling’ (Manchester Libraries). Inspired by Oliver’s own experiences growing up without a mum and being coached as an amateur boxer by his dad, the show centres itself around shy twelve-year-old Alfie, as he decides to go in search of his missing older brother, Jacob, when he disappears moments before an all-important boxing match. On the surface, it’s a simple adventure story. But it’s also about love, loss, family and learning how to fight for what you want.

Recommended for children ages 5 +

Price: £9.50 adult, £7.50 child

WatersideArts, 1 Waterside Plaza, Sale, Trafford, M33 7ZF. Tel: 0161 912 5616

www.watersidearts.org

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CONCERTS FOR FAMILIES AT

THE BRIDGEWATER HALL, MANCHESTER

SUNDAY 1 OCTOBER, 3PM

WHAT IS AN ORCHESTRA?

Did you know that symphony orchestras have existed for over 400 years, have 100 members and can sound as loud as a jet engine or as quiet as a mouse? Presenter Ruth Rosales will take you on a tour of the orchestra, exploring all the different instruments, from the titanic tuba to the petite piccolo as the Hallé performs some of the most captivating orchestral music from Mozart to John Williams.

Tickets (including fees): adults £22.50; children (aged 16 and under) £12.50; family £49

SUNDAY 3 DECEMBER, 12PM

CHRISTMAS FAMILY CONCERT

An enormous Christmas present has been found in The Bridgewater Hall. What could it be? Who is it for? Join the Hallé and presenter Tom Redmond as they unwrap a magical Christmas adventure with a gift that just keeps giving ...

Tickets (including fees): adults £27.50, children (aged 16 and under) £17.50, family £69.50

FRIDAY 22 DECEMBER, 4PM

SATURDAY 23 DECEMBER, 11AM AND 1.30PM

THE SNOWMAN

WITH GASPARD’S CHRISTMAS

A must for all the family. Watch Raymond Briggs’ classic animated film accompanied by the Hallé performing Howard Blake’s magical score.

In the first half is Gaspard’s Christmas, a heart-warming festive adventure for Britain’s handsomest fox. Narrated by the story’s author Zeb Soanes, the performance includes music by Jonathan Dove and visuals on the big screen by award-winning illustrator James Mayhew. This is an unforgettable Christmas experience.

Tickets (including fees): adults £27.50, children (aged 16 and under) £17.50, family £69.50

COMING UP ...

SUNDAY 25 FEBRUARY, 12PM • THE MUSICAL STORY OF ROMEO AND JULIET SUNDAY 19 MAY, 12PM • THE MUSICAL STORY OF ENIGMA