April 17, 2017

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Cal Polyamorous Managing plural relationships in college THE POLYCULE

PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY CHRIS GATELEY | MUSTA NG NE W S

| A polyamorous relationship consists of having multiple intimate relationships simultaneously. The people pictured above are not members of the relationship depicted in the article.

Madison Agatha-Mancebo Special to Mustang News

Editor’s note: Last names and majors have been omitted to prevent family members of the Polycule from finding out about the participants’ polyamorous relationship. Meet the Polycule It’s a group that consists of David, Mary (first name has been changed to protect the source’s identity from future employers) and Heather: three Cal Poly students who are in a polyamorous relationship — having multiple intimate relationships simultaneously. The group also includes recent Cal Poly graduate April (first name has

been changed to further protect the source’s anonymity). Senior David is involved in the dance community and carries himself with a clear sense of confidence. “I had the thought train of ‘What happens if I date somebody, and what happens if I find somebody that I like more or at the same amount’ … But then being in a polyamorous relationship, you’re just like ... ‘I’m going to date both of them,’” Dan said. An unusual grouping Junior Mary came to college eager to find a girlfriend after only having heterosexual relationships. Instead, she met David

Five things to know about the Career Fair

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REPPIN’ | 150 companies will be at the Spring Career Fair.

during a dance class her freshman year. Shortly after the two started dating, they both admitted to having a crush on April, their dance teacher. After bringing up the idea a polyamorous relationship to April, the three sat down to create a contract — “Polyamorous Relationship Terms and Conditions.” They call themselves a Polycule because it’s a way to visualize what their relationship looks like — a polyamorous human molecule. Sophomore Heather joined the Polycule about one year after the relationship began. As it stands currently, all three girls are dating David, and Mary and April are also dating each other.

Caroline Ster @ CPMustangnews

You’ve prepped for this. You’re wearing your most “grown-up” clothes and holding on to your resume for dear life, hoping it doesn’t look too bare compared to the others around you. It’s time for the Spring Career Fair. Being surrounded by a sea of professionally dressed students with the same goal as you and the same look of desperation can be overwhelming. To calm you down, here are some things to expect at the career fair. Time moves fast With more than 100 companies and organizations represented at the career fair, it can be difficult to know which booths to prioritize. That’s why it’s key to prep yourself before attending. Ask yourself which employers are most important for you to see before the event ends. “Make sure you know which companies you want to visit most and prioritize them so that you

“The thing I love most about this relationship is how open and expressive it is,” Heather said. “There is just so much communication, it was so refreshing.” Heather had never been involved with someone who was polyamorous before, so when she met David she said it was nice to have everything laid out in the contract so she knew what to expect. The contract alleviated some of the jealousy that can occur in polyamorous relationships. However, according to Mary, jealousy is unavoidable in any relationship, including monoamorous ones. While the contract was used in the beginning of the relationship to set boundaries and expecta-

visit your top picks even if you run out of time to see them all,” art and design freshman Isabela Presedo-Floyd said. Presedo-Floyd suggested students get a head start on research to make sure no time is wasted. “Be sure to check out the list of employers as well as their profiles, available positions and what majors those positions are open to on MustangJOBS so you can make a plan for which booths you should visit first,” she said. Quick turnaround After the Networking Open Forum from 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., which allows you to connect with more than 150 companies, some companies will conduct interviews that same day from 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Make sure you come to the event prepared for a same-day or next-day interview. As for companies not conducting interviews at the event, try to follow up with them as soon as possible. FIVE THINGS continued on page 2

tions, the entirety of it is no longer used, or even necessary. There are, however, two major components the group swears by: communication and consent. This applies to every aspect of the relationship, including the decisions that allowed Heather to join the Polycule and who hangs out with whom and when. Most couples in monoamorous relationships only consult their partner when planning date nights, but members of the Polycule planning to go on a date with David need to get it approved by all Polycule members. POLYAMOROUS continued on page 4

New photography installed in Baker

BRIAN LAWLER | COURTE SY PHOTO

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| The new photos will be hung in Baker this quarter.

Mikaela Duhs @ mikaeladuhs

Two large photo installations will be hung in Warren J. Baker Science and Mathematics (building 180) this quarter, both from graphic communication professor Brian Lawler. One of the new installations is

of Crater Lake while the other is of Bishop Peak. The photos are a part of Lawler’s collection of projects featured in science buildings and the Julian A. McPhee University Union (UU). BAKER continued on page 6

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