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Volume LXXVII, Number 75
Monday, March 4, 2013
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Cal Poly fraternities and sororities gathered in the University Union to promote their philanthropies on Thursday.
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FROM HOMEWORK TO ENTERTAINMENT, TECHNOLOGY INFILTRATES THE WAY STUDENTS LIVE THEIR LIVES. NOW, IT’S EVEN IMPACTING HOW THEY DATE. It all started with a hashtag. A few months ago, anthropology and geology senior Paige Hernandez uploaded a picture of the beach to Instagram with “#calpoly” in the description. Among the likes and comments from local friends, a Cal Poly alumnus living abroad had commented on her photo and said he was jealous of her and missed going to his alma mater, she said. During the next several months, the two would comment on and like each other’s photos. Then they began to message online, and eventually got each other’s phone numbers and now text and occasionally Skype from across the Atlantic Ocean. “I definitely still have a guard up when I talk to him because basically I’m still talking to a stranger, because we have never met,” she said. “He’s not being creepy or aggressive like most college guys are. He’s trying to be a good friend to me and he wants to keep finding out who I am, and maybe meet up one day.” Hernandez’s connection, sparked via Web communication, is not an unprecedented case. Millennials often converse through screens rather than faceto-face. A recent New York Times article examined how most of the initial stages in relationships of getting to know one another are developed within some kind of technology. In fact, a survey of young people in America found that 38 percent would cancel a date because of something found during online research, 28 percent said they’d dated someone they met online and 48 percent of women and 38 percent of men had researched a date on Facebook before meeting. Hernandez said Web interactions are an OK way to start making a connection with somebody, but she personally wouldn’t rely solely on technology, the Internet, Instagram or Facebook to foster a relationship. “It’s a good start to provide common ground and a safe way to talk to someone, but eventually you’re going to have to meet
Philanthropy was the word of the day this past Thursday, as Interfraternity Council (IFC), Panhellenic (PHA) and United Sorority and Fraternity Council (USFC) fraternities and sororities gathered in the University Union to raise awareness for charities. The organizations showcased each of their respective philanthropies to show being greek is more than any stigmas. USFC philanthropy vice president and political science senior Adriana Vasquez said greeks agree there is a negative stigma toward fraternities and sororities, and while those negative aspects do exist, there are also positive components. “With anything, there is good and bad,” she said. “We
and develop a relationship in person,” Hernandez said. Mostly, interacting through technology allows people to circumvent conflict. Hernandez said texting becomes a crutch to say things when she’s upset, or for other people to send her messages that share emotions and feelings, she said. It’s easy to be guarded when texting somebody because emotions aren’t exchanged face-to-face. “When I’m upset with someone and tell them my feelings in a text message, that person has the ability to not respond, or they can send a message saying we can talk once I cool down,” she said. “Essentially, you are just getting out of the situation because you know you can; the conversation is just swept under the rug.” Assistant psychology professor Jason Williams said there are two reasons why people like communication via text messages versus face-to-face: first, it reduces anxiety, and second, it allows for time to craft exactly what the user wants to say. Conversations through technology allow for a low level of risk, he said. It deflects anxiety and gives people the opportunity to write with a lot of ambiguity. For instance, someone can invite another person on a date, but bury the invitation in JASON WILLIAMS the message so much so that ASSISTANT PSYCHOLOGY PROFESSOR the person on the other end isn’t sure if they have really been asked out, he said. “You can craft a persona more easily to what you think someone will be attracted to,” Williams said. “If you have time to think of a lie, you’re going to do it.” Williams said it is interesting that the tools used to help people communicate more actually result in people communicating less. Messages are direct and to the point, so impromptu conversations rarely evolve during non-face-to-face
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The resignation of two executive board members led to Cal Poly Panhellenic Council restructuring at the beginning of the quarter, but the organization’s new leaders are hoping to keep moving forward in spite of the changes. “It was a minor setback, but the women really rallied and powered through it,” Cal Poly Student Life and Leadership fraternity and sorority life coordinator Diego Silva said. “We are back to fulfilling our goals for the year.” Silva has taken over for former Panhellenic adviser Renoda Campbell, who —
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want to inform the community that we do service, and it’s not because we have to, but because we want to.” Every Cal Poly fraternity and sorority does philanthropic work with a specific humanitarian foundation. The event showed Cal Poly’s campus the charitable work greek life does, but it was also a way for the greeks to unify, support one another and share the spirit of volunteering. And that “love to give back” resulted in some big bucks during the past few years. Chi Omega sorority raised $22,000 last year through fundraising and gave all proceeds to the Make-A-Wish Foundation of the Tri-Counties, which grants wishes to children with life-threatening illnesses in San Luis Obispo County. So far this
after serving on the council for five years — left to take a position in Cal Poly Student Academic Services in January. In his capacity as greek life coordinator, Silva said he had worked closely with Campbell for years, so it was natural for him to take over. “I was second in command,” he said. Silva himself has worked in greek life on campus since January 2011, and worked previously as a consultant for the Sigma Nu fraternity at the national headquarter level. He said he will be filling in as adviser until they find a new person to fill the position. Campbell wasn’t the only see PANHELLENIC, pg. 2
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