My Child Magazine Issue 102 March 2020

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ISSUE 102 - MARCH 2020

parenting styles

EDITOR IN CHIEF

Bianca Medina ART DIRECTOR

Bianca Medina DEPUTY EDITOR

Caroline Meyer CONTRIBUTORS

Sheree Hoddinett Amy Adeney Lance Green Katie E Josh Willink Duy Dinh Lisa Fotios Mentatdgt Khoa Pham Kelly Sikkema

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Parenting Styles Explained

Sex And Contraception After Birth

Dad Read

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The Science of Dad Bods

Can You Change Your

Baby Massage

Parenting Style?

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Get The Look Interiors

What Parenting Style

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Suits Your Child?

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Real Read - Real Pretty Kind

Is It Okay If Parents Have Different Styles?

28 Talking To A Friend About Their Parenting Style

32 Book Reviews

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70 Cutting Your Toddler’s Hair Yourself

76 Free Activities For Kids

82 Toy Reviews

and Dad Brains

94 Moving On After Infidelity

98 Blogger - Parenting Reality Check

104 Fashion

114 Fashion Feature - Munsterkids

126 Recipes

140 The News on Newborn NappiesUsing Cloth from Day Onees

How Do You Know You’re Pregnant?

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Bianca Medina editor-in-chief Editor’s Letter

Hello Peeps.

It’s March already!! YAY I love this time of year, so much. Firstly, Max has her birthday at the end of the month and i will never not be amazed by her neverending growth. Also March is a super busy as there is a lot happening at work. The My Child Excellence Awards are launching and I love seeing all the new and exciting products as well as the favourites we have all come to love and not be able to live without!

As you know, if you read my editor’s letters, Miss Max has started kindergarten this year and it has aactually been a pretty smooth tranisition from daycare. So far, we are nailing the morninng routiune, there are no tears or tantrum and she is loving her school. I am very proud that she has already earned her first award in the first 6 weeks of schools for her participation in class activities as well as a comendation card for always trying her best. I really can’t express how pround I am of my liitle angel and all the efforts she is putting in at school.

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Parenting Styles Explained written by: caroline meyer

There are a number of different parenting styles. Some parents will combine styles or stick to a specific style. Here are the commonly recognized parenting styles.

Instinctive Parenting One of the most common parenting styles is the instinctive parenting style. There are no hard and fast rules in this parenting style and parents rely on their own instincts as to how to handle various situations. This style of parenting will often combine aspects of the parent’s own upbringing and childhood or be in complete opposition. These parents pick up cues from their children and parent accordingly.

They may be a bit more traditional in their parenting and may incorporate a more classic parenting style without changing due to the latest trends.

Attachment Parenting Just as it sounds, this parenting style is focused around the bond between child and parent. This parenting style focuses on intuitive development and emotional wellbeing.

This type of parenting usually includes extended breast feeding, carrying baby around for an extended period and even encouraging the child to sleep in the same bed as the parents. The parent is constantly there and there is minimal separation in the early years.

Helicopter Parenting Helicopter parenting involves hovering over your children and attempting to control and monitor every aspects of their lives. This will include detailing what they can and can’t do when it comes to their interests and even the friends that they make. They are rarely allowed space to explore creatively or to have any alone time. As babies they often don’t get opportunities for individual play and will have their free time dictated. While helicopter parenting has been shown to produce children that do better academically, 8

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these children are often socially awkward and are unable to make independent decisions. They become used to being told what to do and will not act of their own accord.

Authoritative Parenting Authoritative parents will have firm guidelines and boundaries laid out and their children will be informed of what is expected of them. Boundaries and consequences are laid out and made clear and children are expected to comply. However, this isn’t done so strictly as to not allow negotiation. Parents will allow discussion and compromise and some negotiation while maintaining the parental role. Children know the consequences for their actions and parents using this style will only offer one warning for smaller ones and often no warning for older children when the house rules are breached. This role is strict but still nurturing and does allow for the child to develop a measure of independence.

Permissive Parenting This style of parenting is very indulgent of the child and the parents often see themselves as friends or guides as opposed to being parents. These parents do not lay out rules or set guidelines. They will not demand anything from their children nor set any specific expectations. Children are generally not disciplined and there are no consequences for behaviours. These parents will usually rely on having a conversation with the child but not enforcing a strict regime.

These children are raised in a permissive environment and may have problems with authority later in life.

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This type of parenting can verge on neglect when parents move too far into this type of parenting style. Parents that practise uninvolved parenting will usually not be involved in their children’s lives nor offer any emotional support.

They will usually supply the basics such as clothing, food and shelter but in every other way allow the child to do as they please. These children will not be given any boundaries or guidelines and there will be little to no consequences for poor behaviour. These children may actually be neglected to the extent that they may not even be given the basics to live. They will usually have emotional problems and will perform poorly in almost all areas of their lives. These children may also have problems forming attachments as adults. Social interactions and appropriate behaviour will generally be tricky for children raised by uninvolved parents. This is not a good parenting style for raising a well-rounded, resilient and emotionally healthy child.

Children need love and support. Appropriate discipline, boundaries and expectations will also go a long way to raising a child that feels secure and grounded. Parental guidance is extremely important in the overall upbringing.

Most parents will use a combination of the above styles over the formative years. Parenting styles may also change from child to child and where they are in their development.

While some rules may stay the same such as there being a bedtime, a 3-year-old and a 13-year-old are unlikely to have the same bedtimes. You are the only person that can best decide on the best way to parent your child. Avoid the last style as far as possible and raise your kids in the parenting style combinations best suited to your family and your children.

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CAN YOU CHANGE YOUR PARENTING STYLE? Written By: Caroline Meyer

You may already have a specific parenting style which might have worked for a previous child or children, but what happens if you have a child that does not respond well to the current parenting style? It may be a child with special needs or just one that is quite different to the others and needs a different support structure. Your children might be very different from each other which may mean that you need to change how you do things in order to support all of your children equally. This can be very tough but the changes you make can make a huge impact on a child’s life and help them turn out better adjusted as well.

Parenting styles will probably change as your child ages as well. The parenting style for a toddler or young child will not be the same one you use for an older child or a rebellious teen. Little ones are more carefree, and you can actually push them a little harder than you can older children. It is also important to note that your child is not the same as your friend’s child and your parenting styles may also be wildly different, so you don’t need to base your choices on what works for someone else. As a parent, there is always room for improvement, and you can adjust your style as you see fit without switching it up so much that it becomes confusing for everyone.

Children are individuals and you will need to adjust how you tackle things with each child. This does not mean that you compromise on the rules and regulations in your home. You do however need to give the child some leeway for self-expression and to develop as people. By strictly forcing children into a mould of your design you may actually foster rebellion and achieve the opposite of the close bond you want with your kids. There are a few things you can do to improve your parenting role without compromising on the actual discipline in your home.

Give Them Breathing Space While it is important to know where your child is

and who they are with and that they are safe, this doesn’t mean you need to know the minutiae of everything that happens in their lives. You don’t have to scrutinise everything or invade their privacy to find out what is happening in their lives. Allow them to come to you and tell you with openness and honesty and live their lives. Don’t hover over them or force them into hiding things in order to have some space. Let them breathe and develop as people and be available when they want to share their experiences with you while backing off when they don’t want to.

Allow Mistakes to Happen You made mistakes. You might not want your child to make the same mistakes.

The facts are, no one is perfect. Your child will make mistakes. It’s okay to make mistakes sometimes as this is how we learn. It is good for a child to experience some disappointment and learn how to cope with it. Life is not simple and easy, and you will not always be there to help your child over every stumbling block. They need to fall so they can learn to stand up and find another way to get over the hurdle. You can be there to support and guide them but allow them to make mistakes and learn from them.

Don’t Compare or Pigeon-Hole Don’t compare your child with anyone. Not friends, not siblings, not even you as a child. This can have serious detrimental effects on your kid. Each child is an individual with their own personalities, their own strengths and shortcomings.

Do not expect them to be like anyone else. You can encourage growth of their strengths and improvement of shortcomings without making comparisons.

You can support and be there for your child without trying to force them into a pigeon-hole of who you think they are. In this same way, avoid labelling.

When you label one child the “brain” and one child the “athlete” which can create expectations and also lead the other child to believe they cannot match up in that department. Don’t force a child into a narrow outlook of this kind and avoid creating these types of labels which can be detrimental to your children.

Let them put their energy in to anything they want and praise their efforts and achievements without labelling.

Give Attention The best gift a parent can give a child is their attention and time. Giving material things may be fun, but there is nothing that compares to spending quality time with your child. Whether it is spending time with them in pursuit of a hobby, attending their events or just an hour together doing something that your child enjoys on a regular basis, this can make all the difference. Showing your child that you care but dedicated time to them means more than any game or toy you can buy.

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Be A Role Model Kids learn by emulating adults as well as from what is being directly taught to them. They may unintentionally pick up something you didn’t expect by copying you. You need to be aware of the example you set for your child. They are a lot more aware than you realize and will often pick up on things you were not expecting. Be aware of what you do and say around your children as they may be absorbing the lessons you teach inadvertently in your parental role.

“Part of parenting is dealing with the mess ups that come with the role.

Kids will break rules and push boundaries.”

Stay Calm Part of parenting is dealing with the mess ups that come with the role. Kids will break rules and push boundaries. Kids will make mistakes. It is not okay for a parent to lash out violently in anger, neither physically not verbally. Kids are not always in perfect control of their emotions and as a parent you need to set the example on how to deal with the complex feelings they may have. Calm yourself first, then deal with the child. Try and look beyond what they have done and ask them for the reasons as well. Punish appropriately from a place of calm and love. Offer support and understanding while still keeping to the principles of the basic house rules.

Parent to Your Kids Your parenting style will change to your kids and while you can read a ton of parenting advice and receive it in spadesful from friends and family, you know your child best. You don’t need to jump on the bandwagon with the latest parenting trend. You don’t need to do something just because everyone else is doing it. Go with your gut instinct on what is best for your child and your circumstances. Don’t be afraid to change your parenting style through the various growth phases of your child as well as with their personal changes. Your shy toddler may become an extroverted tween, your mini artist may become the captain of the rugby team. Children grow and change and as parents we need to change along with them to give the best parenting we can.

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WHAT PARENTING STYLE SUITS YOUR CHILD? written by: CAROLINE MEYER

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What suits your friend’s child may not suit you child and what suits one of your children may not suit all of your children. Children are individuals and while some may be similar, no two children are exactly alike.

When it comes to parenting, you have to take a child’s temperament and needs in to account and tailor your parenting style accordingly. While most kids do need some independence and freedoms and obviously need love and guidance, trying to squash all kids into a box and parent according is just not going to work. As a parent you will be more aware of your child’s character, their weaknesses and strengths. Taking these into account as part of your parenting strategy will help you improve your parenting style based on your children’s needs.

Recent studies, based on parenting by the mother found that when the parenting style was matched to the child’s temperament, there was far less anxiety or depression than those who were parented arbitrarily. Children that exhibited a lot more self-control did better in a parenting environment where they were allowed to think for themselves and had more autonomy. Children on the opposite end of the spectrum, that lacked self-control did better when parented in a stricter environment where there was more guidance and structure.

Children that have a good level of self-control may oppose excess structure and too much guidance. This may actually have the opposite effect of what was intended. You may even find that you need to give one child more guidance while allowing the other child to 18

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assert their own self-control. You may find that one child will complete instructions without a second request, while the other child may have to be told a number of times. Reminding both children continually will result in one of the children getting frustrated or actually waiting to be reminded a number of times as this is going to happen even if they do as request on the first ask. This defeats the purpose. Guide the child that needs more reminders, while allowing the child that does not require overbearing guidance to assert their own self-control.

As the children get older, the parenting will again need to change. Older children may not always need as much guidance as younger children, but they may also need different incentives. Some children may need rewards for getting things done, while others don’t. This may result in you having to devise a method so that children do not feel things are unfair or that they need to rebel to get the same treatment as the other child. Working around this can be tricky but taking your child’s personality and temperament into account can help things run smoother in your household.

You need to determine your child’s temperament and individual needs and incorporate this into your parenting style. Assess your child’s level of self-control and how quickly they get frustrated. What causes a positive or a negative reaction with your child? Pay attention to your child’s behaviour and no matter what parenting style you use as a basis; you still need to tailor it to each child individually for the best outcome.

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IS IT OKAY IF PA HAVE DIFFEREN WRITEN BY: CAROLINE MEYER

ARENTS NT STYLES?

Many parents base their parenting styles on how they were brought up while some go in the opposite direction. But what happens when both parents have different ideas on how to raise their children? This can cause a lot of tension in the home and confusion for the children. One parent may be lenient and the other a strong disciplinarian. One may be okay with compromising while the other holds firm.

This can cause immense strife in the home.

Decisions on parenting can be deep seated and can come from your culture and religion, your parents, your early socialisation, research you did before becoming a parent and afterwards as well as the community you were brought up in and live in now. You may have decided on exactly how you want to raise your child. There are however, two parents in this relationship and you have to raise your child together.

There are a number of parenting styles and most parents are a combination of the different types.

The Authoritarian parent believes in strict rules and meets out punishment for any infringement of them. They usually will not explain the reason for the rules and are not very responsive to their children. Authoritarians expect unquestioning obedience. While this may result in disciplined children, they are generally unhappy and exhibit low self-esteem and don’t do well socially. The Authoritive parent also lays down strict rules but does allow room for compromise. They will listen to their children’s reasons for infringement and take a lot more nurturing approach. This allows for discipline and co-operation while allowing the child to build self-esteem.

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Permissive parents are generally very indulgent and do not lay down many rules or regulations for their children to follow. They do not make demands and their expectations are usually low. They do not confront their children and behave as if they are friends and not parents.

This can result in children that lack maturity and self-control. These children may also rebel against authority. They may also exhibit lower performance levels. The uninvolved parent goes one step further and generally offers no involvement besides basic care. In some cases, the parent may even neglect even the basic needs. Children from this type of home tend to be less confident and less competent than other children of the same age.

When it comes to your children, there has to be a lot of communication between you and your partner to be able to parent effectively.

Not being able to agree on how to parent your children may result in a rift in your relationship and may even lead to a breakdown in other aspects as well. The inconsistencies in parenting can lead to confusion for the children. When the rules change depending on the parent as to what the child can or can’t do, this can make a child feel they need to take sides. This also leads to manipulation where parents are played off against each other. This can foster dishonesty in the child which is often carried into adulthood.

Children may also become stressed and even depressed as a result of the ongoing conflict.

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rules that cannot be negotiated. This can include rules around behaviour and expectations that both parents agree firmly on. All other potential falling out points can then be discussed, and parents can agree how to handle situations in a way that compliments the non-negotiable rules and both parenting styles. Look at the parenting styles of both parents and discuss the reasons why you feel your styles suit the way you want to raise your child. Listen to each other and examine potential points of contention so that you agree on ways of handling it that make both parents comfortable. This also allows you to present a united front to your children. You may also find that your partner’s approach works better in some situations and your does in others. You can use the style that best suits the situation or allow the other parent to deal with certain circumstances instead. You may be more nurturing while your partner may be more authoritive. As an example, this can be beneficial when it comes to dealing with emotional issues where your partner does not feel comfortable, while they can deal with a child refusing to do homework in a more disciplined way.

Parenting constructively as a unit will allow both parents to practise their parenting styles in different circumstances in most cases. The rest of the time compromise is key. There will need to be specific family values that need to be adhered to and methods of discipline that are agreed upon. This stops every issue from turning into major parental conflict. Any major points of contention should be discussed, and an agreement reached on the approach that will be used. All discussions on parenting 24

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should be done out of earshot of children and disagreements should be handled privately.

Don’t show a rift in your united stand as parents.

Do not allow for manipulation and nip it in the bud if your child tries to play you off against your partner. Make sure that you have clear outlines on expectations and consequences for going against the house rules. Both parents need to carry out the same punishments for the same behaviours to keep things consistent for the child.

Remember that you may need to parent children differently depending on their age, abilities and personalities. Discuss this with the parent partner so that you both change as needed. In the case of stepparents, blending may be a little difficult to start with. The house rules would still need to be discussed and laid out. The rules need to be the same for biological and stepchildren.

Make sure all children are aware of the rules but give them a little leeway during the transition to come to terms with any new rules that may be laid out. Besides your current partner, you may also need to discuss parenting with the children’s other parents, so everyone is on the same page.

This may be a struggle especially where there has been tension between ex-spouses. The main thing is to try and have some consistency.

You and your partner may have different parenting ideas but when it comes to a happier household, compromise and communication is the first order of business. The children need to feel secure and aware of their boundaries to result in a home with less strife.

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TALKING TO A F THEIR PAREN

FRIEND ABOUT NTING STYLE WRITTEN BY: CAROLINE MEYER

It’s important to remember that all parents will parent their children differently. How you raise your child may not be the same as the way your friend raises there. You may be a stern disciplinarian while your friend may be a lot more relaxed in their parenting style. You may allow your child snacks while your vegan friend only allows cucumber and carrot sticks. It is fine for you and your friend to differ in how you raise your kids. The only time it would be acceptable to try and step in and have them change their parenting style is when the children are suffering under the current method.

Going about it may be quite difficult and you may be told to mind your own business. They may be a lot of tension and you may even lose the friendship should the discussion go awry.

Stepping in when you think there is a need can lead to a lot of backlash and hurt. It is not recommended that you tell someone else how to parent without them asking, unless there is actual potential harm to a child.

Make sure that you are sure about the situation and not just jumping to conclusions. Are you being judgemental based on your own opinion or is actual harm being done? Doing things in ways that are not the same as you may not be harmful, just different. Set an example by your parenting. If your friend swears at their child or gets impatient, try and be the role model by parenting the way you prefer in their presence.

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your own home. This may help your friend and her children while not changing the way you parent your own child. Instead of criticising, set a positive example and hope she will learn from it.

One of the hardest ways to deal with the situation is to confront your friend and have a discussion on the issues. Sometimes a parent may not realise how their parenting is perceived by others. Talking to her calmly without judgement may help her see how others see things. This may help her better perceive the harm she may be doing her children and hopefully get her to change some of her behaviours. This also then allows her to explain why she does some of the things she does, which will give you more insight into her parenting style as well.

If the child is in danger and there is actual physical or emotional abuse withing the home and your friend is not likely to change her behaviour or even if the abuse is from another adult in the household, you may want to contact the authorities. People will often report neglect and sometimes physical abuse, but most will not seek help for the child when there are other concerns such as emotional and even suspected sexual abuse. This should always be done with the child in mind but you also need to be aware that this can have serious repercussions. Only ever report where there is actual serious abuse suspected. Don’t hold off reporting because it is a friend or family member involved. The children should always be first priority in these situations.

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WHAT A LOT OF NONSENSE

BY SHEENA BENTLEY

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Sheena Knowles, aut hor of internationally bestsel l i ng Ed war d the Emu and Edwina the Em u, has teamed up with renowned i l l ust r at or Jonathan Bentley to cre at e a j oy ous book that fires up the i m agi nat i on and revels in the joy of wor d s.

This richly illustrated r om p c an be read as a regular s t or y , or f or slightly older children, t he t e x t al so presents readers with a p uz z l e - t o find the anagrams hidd e n on e v e r y page.

Join in t h e fu n wit h a h o s t o f q u i r k y a n ima ls, a n d f in d ou t wh y a b ea r d oesn ’t wa n t t o b e b a re, a s ea l g o es to a sa le, a n d a d in go is d oi n g a d a n c e.

Th e f a b u lou s rh y me a n d i m a g i n a ti v e sc en a rios will b e en joy e d b y r ea d er s a ged 3 a n d u p .

J ELLY-BOY

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Wha t h a p p en s wh en a jellyf ish f a lls i n l ov e wit h a p las t ic b a g she m is ta k e s f o r a jelly-b o y? Jelly-Boy is dif f e r e n t. H e is b ig an d s t r o n g , and no t a s w ob b l y as t h e o t h er jelly-b oys.

B ut b y t h e t ime Jelly-G ir l d is c o vers t he d a n g e r ou s t r u t h ab o u t h er new f r ien d , i t m a y a lr ead y b e t o o la te.

T his i s a n inventive approach t o in t r o d u ci n g young re aders aged 4 a nd u p t o a n important cons ervat ion issu e – t h e incre dibly high lev els o f p l a s t i c i n the ocean. Told in a n e ng a g i n g a n d humorous way, this is a st o r y w i t h t h e pote ntial to ins pire t h e ne x t g e n e r a t ion to tak e gre ater ca re o f t h e e n v i r o n ment.

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BE AU T I F U L E G G S ILLUSTRATED BY ALICE LINDSTROM

Just in time for Easter c om e s t hi s simple and engaging int r od uc t i on to the artistic traditio n of e gg decoration around the wor l d .

Beautifully illustrated and d e si gne d featuring cut- paper illu st r at i on b y Melbourne artist Alice L i nd st r om , readers are taken on a j our ne y around the world to see t he way s i n which dif f erent countries d e c or at e their eggs.

Th is gorgeou s b ook c omes c o mp l ete wit h a st en c il in c orp ora t ed i n to th e d esign , t o en c ou ra ge y oun g r ea d er s a ged 3 a n d u p t o c rea t e th ei r o wn b ea u t ifu l eggs.

DUCK, APPLE, EGG BY GLENDA HEIDUCZEK

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F r o m m u l ti - a wa r d -win n in g au t hor G le n d a M i l l a r d c o mes a d elig h t fully simple story about the joys of playing in a g a r d e n . “ D u c k o n t h e g r een , sun in th e s k y , eg g in t h e n es t , apple o n t h e t r e e , an d m e.� T h e lilt i ng, rhyt h m i c a l t ext t r an s p o r t s the re a d e r i n t o th is id yllic wo n d er land a lo n g s i d e th e d u c k, t h e eg g a n d the a pp l e , c r e a t in g a jo yo u s r eading e x p e r i e n c e f o r yo u n g an d o ld a like.

Be a u t i f u l l y i llus trate d by Martin a He id u cz e k , this poetic book will b e t re a s u r e d b y familie s e ve rywhe re a n d is s u i ta b l e f or readers from birt h onwards.

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Confirming Your Pregnancy

Written by Caroline Meyer

For most women, especially those that have a regular menstrual cycle, the first sign of pregnancy is usually a missed period. There can however be other reasons for a missed period such as illness, low body weight, stress, hormone issues and strenuous activity. Some women may even continue to have a light “period” even when pregnant.

While women are not all the same and some will experience some or all of the early pregnancy symptoms, some may only experience one or two, or in some cases none at all.

Here are some of the early pregnancy symptoms you may experience.

Feeling Of Nausea Or Actual Vomiting This is known as morning sickness but for some women it can occur at any time of the day. You may feel nauseous when brushing your teeth in the morning or the smell of coffee can turn your stomach. It can occur on its own or as a result of smelling or tasting something. If you find that the nausea and vomiting is occurring constantly and you are unable to take in adequate nutrition, you should inform your doctor and get assistance as soon as possible.

Fatigue During the first 12 weeks of pregnancy many women experience feelings of tiredness even after a good night’s rest. There are many hormonal changes taking part in the body during this period of time which can lead to feeling fatigued, nauseous and bring on emotional outbursts. The fatigue and emotional upheaval can lead to feeling sad and depressed in the early weeks as well.

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the early days of pregnancy. Breasts may also become tender and sensitive and may feel tingly. The nipples may darken, and veins may also become more visible. Nipples may also react to heat and cold more and may stand out.

Bladder Changes Some women experience bladder changes from the early months of pregnancy. The feel the need to pass urine a lot more often and may end up getting up a few times in the night to use the bathroom. They may not pass much urine, but they feel an urge to do so more often. This is also hormone related and after the first couple of months this usually passes. There will probably be bladder issues later on in the pregnancy again when baby starts pushing up against it.

Other Possible Changes Some women experience an increase in vaginal discharge but without irritation or soreness that could indicate infection. They may also get constipated more often.

Many women report a metallic taste in the mouth which may also change their taste in food and drinks. There may be cravings for certain foods or strange combinations of food. They may go off food they have previously enjoyed and quite a few women report an aversion for coffee, tea and fatty foods. The sense of smell also seems to be quite heightened during the early pregnancy period and certain smells can bring on nausea. On the plus side, some women develop a dislike to tobacco smoke during this time period and often give up smoking which is of benefit to their health and that of their baby.

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only way to really tell in the early days is to be tested.

You can purchase a home pregnancy test from your local pharmacy. These tend to be quite accurate if you follow the instructions correctly. Wait at least a week or two after a missed period to try a home pregnancy test. Older women or those using fertility drugs may get a false reading from these tests. You can also have a urine test done at your doctor or local clinic. Even if you receive a positive result from the urine test, you should still see you doctor for a confirmation.

Urine tests test for human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG) which becomes heightened during pregnancy. There may also be a false negative if your do the test too early in the pregnancy or if the instructions are not followed carefully as different tests measure for HCG in different ways. If you have a negative result, try again in two to three weeks for a more accurate reading.

A blood test can give a reliable result even from the earliest stage of a pregnancy. This would need to be arranged by your doctor. This test also looks for levels of human chorionic gonadotrophin hormone but picks up the levels a lot more accurately than a urine test. You can check for pregnancy using a blood test after you have missed your first period and should get back a reliable result.

Another check for pregnancy can include an internal examination. This is usually only done two or more weeks after the missed period. The doctor will be able to check for changes in the cervix and uterus. The uterus starts to expand even in the early weeks of pregnancy. The cervix is usually softer and will most probably change in colour.

Even after an internal examination, your doctor will

most likely require a urine or blood test for a confirmed diagnosis.

When Will Baby Arrive?

While it is possible to work out an estimated date, unless you are booked for a specific date for induction or a caesarean, it can’t be guaranteed that your baby will arrive on its due date. You can work out an estimated date of conception and then add 40 weeks to this date for an estimated due date.

If you are not sure of the approximate date of conception, this is usually worked out by adding 40 weeks to the date of the start of your last period.

Once you have evidence of being pregnant by a confirmed urine or blood test you can start looking at your options in relation to your pre-natal treatment and birthing options.

You can also take time in the early weeks to check on maternity and plan for the time period when you are off work and estimate when you would return. You can talk to your regular doctor about seeing an OB/GYN if you do not already have a relationship with one or look at options for a doula (midwife) or other care giver depending on your preference. This is also a good time to do some research into pregnancy and childbirth to see what you can expect and to allow you to make informed decisions.

Pregnancy can be very exciting and a time of joy for most women, but some women may feel overwhelmed and confused or may need additional understanding and support. If the pregnancy is unplanned and unwanted, further counselling may also be required to allow for all options to be explored. If you feel the need, speak to your doctor about counselling and support.

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Sex and Contraception After Birth written by: CAROLINE MEYER

Unless your doctor has specified a waiting period, there are no hard and fast rules as to when you can start having sex after having given birth. For most women, the first few weeks after giving birth will be too painful to contemplate intimacy and they may also be fatigued from having a new baby and the healing process. There is no need to rush into it. If sex is painful then it is unlikely to be pleasurable, so it may be better in most instances to wait a little longer. There may also be a lot of bleeding for around 6 weeks after giving birth which may put some couples off having intercourse in this time period.

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After having a baby, there are a lot of hormonal changes and there may be less lubrication than usual. Using a water-based lubricant will also help in making intercourse more pleasurable and prevent pain from friction etc. Both men and women may feel a bit insecure after the birth of a baby. The woman may have concerns over their body shape and worry about conceiving again. Men may also feel tired and have concerns for their partners well-being that may put them off having intercourse in the first few months after baby has been born. It is a good idea to discuss how you feel and get on the same page when it comes to physical intimacy after having a baby so that when you are both ready, it can happen naturally.

Even if you don’t have penetrative intercourse after having a baby, you can still be intimate and loving with your partner. If there are physical concerns, you can also make an appointment to speak with your doctor to allay fears. You may need to take it easy the first few times, especially if the woman is still feeling a bit tender. Spend time relaxing and exploring each other before attempting to have penetrative intercourse to get the focus on each other and not the baby and test for discomfort. If pain and tenderness persist for more than 2 months after the birth, you should consult with your doctor to determine the cause.

It is possible to fall pregnant again just 3 weeks after having had a baby. It does not matter if you have not started a normal menstrual cycle yet or if you are breastfeeding, conception can still occur. It is important to use contraception after having the baby if you are not looking to fall pregnant again straight away. Your doctor can discuss options for short term and longterm contraception with you or you can attend a family planning clinic for more information.

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baby massage Written By: Caroline Meyer

Time used for massage can be relaxing and enjoyable for both you and your baby. It is a time for you to bond with your baby and is best done when they are settled and quiet. After a bath is often the best time as baby has not been dressed yet and they are usually fairly relaxed. The room should be free of draughts and nice and warm (not hot). Use edible oils such as olive oil, grape seed oil, avocado oil or apricot oil or a basic moisturiser that does not contain a lot of chemicals. Avoid oils derived from nuts for the first 4 months in case of a potential allergy. Put a little oil or moisturiser in to your one hand, not directly on to your baby. Make sure the surface is stable and that you have a towel or something underneath to catch the oils. Make sure baby is not able to roll off the surface, especially when they become a little slippery until the oils or moisturisers absorb.

Before you start, make sure your nails do not have any sharp edges. Remove jewellery and wear old, comfortable clothing that you won’t mind getting some oil on. Make sure you are warm and comfortable as well. You can add in some soft music and aromatherapy if you are in the mood to do so. Ensure that you are not going to be unduly interrupted during the process.

A massage can take up to 30 minutes if you and baby both feel comfortable. Before bedtime is a good time to try it if your household routine is less vigorous at this stage, but you can do it at any time when there is a gap in the routine.

Avoid trying to massage your baby when they are upset or need food or sleep as this is meant to be a pleasant time with positive associations. Rather wait until baby is calmer and more receptive and it will work out better for both of you.

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Rub your hands together to warm the oils. Start by massaging the soles of the feet in firm strokes from the heel to the toes. Always have one hand on baby at all times while massaging. Move on to the rest of the body. Use continuous smooth, firm strokes using only the flat parts of your fingers or your palm depending on the size of the area you are massaging.

On babies’ front stroke diagonally from the shoulder down to the opposite hip. You can alternate this with circular strokes if baby’s stomach is nice and soft and they are not full. Don’t massage near the naval area if the cord is still healing. When you do the back, stroke in long strokes from the shoulders downwards. You can similarly stroke the limbs, face and even the head. Avoid the genital region. You can end the massage by doing the arms and wrists but do not get oil on baby’s hands. Wipe off any excess oils gently. This is not something that needs to be rushed as it helps you bond with baby and offers skin on skin contact which is very important to growing little ones.

You need to be aware of your baby while you are massaging and take signals from them on whether to continue or not with massaging certain areas or to stop all together. If they are showing discomfort, are niggly or are not enjoying it, then it is best to stop and try again another time. If you are upset or overly tense, you might also want to delay this bonding experience to a time when you are more relaxed.

Baby massage can be a wonderful experience for mum and baby (and even dad and baby if he feels inclined). Start with 5 to 10 minutes and see how it goes. This may become part of your routine and help baby relax before a nap or a good night’s rest or simply some bonding time for the both of you.

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REAL PRETTY KIND is the new Sydney streetwear + lifestyle label that champions tween spirit, exclusive for 8-14-year-old change makers.

Katie Rockliff, Founder of REAL PRETTY KIND ™ spoke with My Child Magazine this month about the inspiration behind her positive Streetwear label for Tweens, its vision and ‘where to from here’…

Before designing any product Katie says she designed the brand. Designing in all the joy and free-to-be-me vibe of being a kid engaging with the world. Sans adulting!

In a nutshell the idea forming was something we could all happily slam straight to top of the wish list: More Joy. Less of the Rest.

‘The Tweendom’ as she calls it, is an exciting emotional, physical and intellectual step change. Yet when she started out, no labels seemed to cater for that. There was no excitement in shopping for Tweens, she said. It felt like no-man’s land.

Rigorous in her approach, this thought led Katie to undertake a national survey. Which unearthed some REALLY interesting stats around Tween confidence, body image and social acceptance.

And basically, those stats fleshed out her business thinking about what product she would design, how it would be designed, and some incredible charity partners to align with, to make a difference in Tweens’ worlds.

“1 in 4 students in Australia reporting being bullied and 1 in 5 being cyber bullied. With 1 in 3 people teased specifically about their appearance”. Katie quotes from The Alannah + Madeline and The Butterfly Foundations.“ As a mama I still find these stats horrifying. And the anxiety they’re creating in our next gen is real. It affects Tween schooling, their relationships, their chances for future success”.

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“1 in 4 students in Australia reporting being bullied and 1 in 5 being cyber bullied.

With 1 in 3 people teased specifically about their appearance”

From here the fire was lit to turn More Joy into a quest. The brand would be anchored in culture and wellness combining fashion with a strong BoPo ethos; with a gifting line championing self-care, kindness and Tweens standing with their fellow Tweens.

And a percentage of profits from all products are donated to the above foundations to bust bullying and negative body image.

Katie believes that designing the brand as an attitude as much as a label has been key to its success.

“Designing REAL PRETTY KIND ™ to fill a white space with something so in tune with Tween’s emotional headspace, is what appeals to the mums and dads who shop with us” Katie says.

“They can see we’re the real deal. We’re about the kids. Their style but also their wellbeing. We design for MORE Tween JOY. For Tweens to succeed. That’s a shared goal. And an emotional connection with us beyond your average shopping experience.”

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And from Tweens’ perspective RPK’s ‘walk the talk’ approach marked a refreshing stand out in a sea of slogans.

“Our ethos is ‘Pretty is as Pretty does’” Katie explains “So we can’t just pop an empowered slogan on a tee – we have to empower that tee’s makers, it’s customers, it’s planet too ideally. It’s a bigger job than simply saying something empowering in block font.

Ultimately ‘More Joy’ is a serious business. As well as a whole truckload of fun of course! We see part of empowering Tweens is role modelling that. We each hold a power with the choices we make to better the world we hang out in. To stand with and for each other or not. When you buy REAL PRETTY KIND ™ we represent that. So by default you represent that. And that’s powerful.”

RPK’s capsule launch collection across the Australian 2019-20 Summer, focused on products all tweens love – tees, sweatshirts, bucket hats and fun gifts – emphasising the brand’s democratic nature.

‘You Can Sit With Us’ the first of their organic slogan tees to drop, says it all. Customers responded with a sell out in the first month (don’t worry folks they’re back in stock now). And Katie jokes the slogan’s what your existing clothes are saying to any RPK joining the wardrobe…

For RPK, creating the perfect cut was paramount so the wearer looks and feels ‘extra’ no matter their shape. This strong Body Positivity stance is reflected subtly, in a signature ‘every body’ flattering box style. And sizing well beyond the traditional tween 12year old cut off – instead reaching up to 16 years for maximum access into the brand.

“My thoughts about Fashion have always been that the clothes need to hero the wearer – and not the other way around.” Katie says “And I think this is important as an idea to cement young”.

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She believes fashion is an easy, and fun form of self-expression for tweens. But that at its core, fashion should be heroing the wearer, not the designer.

“RPK’s customers are not clothes hangers. They’re unique, rapidly growing up people, who see something in the brand we’ve built that they connect with. And we design to honour that”.

To that end, beyond their BoPo philosophy, the brand offers quality craftsmanship in design and detailing; and super soft cottons that make designer items that are a joy to wear always – to the chicest events and tough enough for serious play AND not fall apart in the first wash. A dream combination for parental wallets where bang for buck is an essential criteria for most shoppers.

Working to reduce waste, all fabric scraps are collected and turned into pillows for the homeless whilst the garment makers themselves, are a majority female community on a mission to bridge the gender exploitation and pay gap unfortunately rife in the industry.

Katie is adamant fashion has much to give if it is fair in the giving – and that in emerging cultures especially, it can be their salvation economically and personally.

“TWEENS TO THE FRONT is the first thing you see on our Insta profile” Katie says “The subtext being “we have your back”.

“Our streetwear, gifting and content is all designed for that – to literally and metaphorically have Tweens’ back. And deliver more JOY. It’s early days but we’re doing that. And there’s so much more to come”.

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Do It Yours Haircuts

self Toddler Written by: Caroline Meyer

You’ve basically been washing and brushing your little one’s hair for some time and besides putting it in a ponytail or braid, you haven’t done much more than that. You aren’t a hairdresser and may not have any idea of the latest hairstyles, but that doesn’t mean you can’t trim or cut your toddlers hair at home.

Besides saving you money, a haircut may be a little traumatic the first time. Cutting at home means that your toddler is in a comfortable environment with people that she trusts. Make sure you have a sharp haircutting scissors and get ready for the first cut of many.

Start off by making sure you have a chair that is high enough for you to comfortably handle cutting your toddlers hair. Get together a comb, towel and barber shears. A chair that can be moved easily will also help so you can position it in front of a mirror (or the TV as a distraction). Put some newspaper under the chair to catch the cuttings. Place the towel around your little one’s shoulders and clip with a peg or hairclip to keep it in place. One of your old shirts could also work to keep the hair off your toddler while you cut. Your little one will probably not want a shampoo before the cut so you will need something to dampen the hair before you start. You can either use a comb dipped in water to comb through the hair and make it damp or you can try a spritz bottle. Make sure that you let her spray it a few times herself so she can get used to the idea of the spray before you start spraying her head.

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hair as you go as it is unlikely your toddler is going to sit perfectly still through the whole process. This way you can keep track and get one section done at a time. Don’t go overboard with the sections, just keep it manageable. Four sections will probably be adequate for most little ones. Your toddler will probably sit still for the first few minutes before they get bored with the process, so use the opportunity to cut the front section while they are calmer. Use one hand to gently hold your toddlers head so you have better control and trim the front from one side to the other. Cut from just outside the one eyebrow to the outside of the other if you are cutting a fringe.

Hold each small division of hair between your fingers and cut in small snips. Run your hand down to where you want the hair length to end and then snip below your fingers. All cut off less than you think you want to as you can always cut more off if you need to. Once it is snipped, you can’t glue it back on. Cut each section and then check that they are even. Trim off any pieces that are longer than the others until everything is neat and tidy. For boys, you can slowly get them used to the idea of using an electric hair-clipper if you prefer a short, neat cut that doesn’t need to be trimmed or neatened up quite as often. This may save you a lot of headaches for future trims as well. It’s also a lot quicker and simpler to use. Praise your toddler about how well they have behaved and praise their new look.

Giving tons of positive reinforcement will mean that they will be more willing to co-operate the next time you need to cut.

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Written by Caroline Meyer

FREE ACTIVITIES FOR KIDS

Stimulate creativity, save cash and keep your kids entertained.

Homemade games and activities that can be done on a budget help stimulate learning and creativity without costing much. There are things around your own home that can be used to create activities.

Small children can play drums on pots or spend time simply taking lids off containers to see what is inside. Older children can play inventive games with some old strips of cloth or old clothes.

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Play post box by putting little notes or cards into envelopes (you can make these from scrap paper as well). Decorate the envelope with crayons, stickers, glitter or help cut pictures or designs out of magazines to stick on the envelopes. Get an empty ice-cream container or decorate a box and make a slit in the top so the kids can “post� their letters.

Make homemade playdough and allow little ones to squish it, flatten it, roll it in to balls or shape it into something fun. Give them things to use to cut out shapes in the playdough and make up stories with the playdough creatures. Even little ones can roll a playdough worm in their hands to add to the story.

Play dress up using clothes, hats, shoes that you no longer wear (adult clothing is fun). Help little ones make fun hats or helmets to wear and let them decorate as they please. You can even fold newspaper into a pirate or magicians’ hat. It is also quite easy to make fake flowers, pom-poms and fans to use during dress-up. Let their imaginations run wild and allow them to be creative in their role-playing.

Use old, clean socks to make sock puppets. Buttons can be used to make eyes. You can also use odd scraps of material to turn the socks into dragons, snakes, turtles, butterflies or any other creature.

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paper (newspaper is fine too).

Turn cardboard boxes into a stove, a shop counter, a car, a spaceship or if it’s big enough, a mini playhouse. Tape or staple scrap paper together and let your child write/draw a book. They can draw/colour or stick in pictures to make up their story.

Make your own cubbyhouse by draping sheets over the edges of a table or between couches to make a large comfy space for kids to play in. Use old blankets in the backyard and drape over a slide or in a tree to create a tent to play in.

Spend time together in the outdoors whether it is in the local park, at the beach or even in your own backyard. Take a walk around the neighbourhood and let kids be observant about what they see.

Look for museums, historical sites and other places that don’t have a cover charge that you can take children to see (this may be better with older children though). Sometimes a visit to a friend or having someone over for a playdate or sleepover can be a lot of fun for your child and doesn’t cost anything.

Depending on age you can start to cook with your little one. From around the age of 3 they can help cut out cookies and decorate them. When they get older, they can help with more complex meals such as making a cake or a lasagne. Make sure they are always supervised near boiling water, hot stoves and sharp implements.

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Besides cooking, little ones are generally eager to help with other household tasks (this wears off fast as they get older). Let them do chores they can manage such as watering the garden, dusting, bringing in the mail, unpacking groceries and so forth. Talk to them as they do the chores, so they learn while doing. Listen to what they have to say as well to improve communication skills.

Play word games, make up songs and rhymes or simply silly stories to improve imagination. Let your child create and praise them once done. You can show interest while they are busy but unless they ask for help or are in danger, let them do it on their own. This helps build up confidence as well.

Encourage games that include movement such as dancing or putting on a play at home. Let them add in music made from any “instrument�. Not all children will enjoy this type of creativity but encourage it and allow them to experiment and have fun with it.

When it comes to being creative, there are many ideas you can come up with at home without the need to spend extra money. Outdoor time and indoor play should be balanced as much as possible. Outings can also be great fun but will probably need a little planning ahead of time.

There are many activities that you can do with your little ones that don’t require a big expenditure or even any at all.

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THE SCIENCE OF DAD BODS AND DAD BRAINS WRITTEN BY LANCE ARROW

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While the changes in a mum are fairly obvious physically and even mentally, men also change in preparation to becoming a father. The impact of motherhood on women is well documented and there are many thousands of published papers on the research into how women are affected socially, psychologically and biochemically. There have been very few studies done as to the changes that happen for men. Many of the early studies were contradictory and it is only recently that there has been some definitive progress in this arena.

In general, in mammalian studies, the male of the species does not have much to do with rearing their young. Research done on mammals to determine brain changes has therefore been limited. The most effective studies have been on Prairie Voles which are attentive fathers. They actually grow new neurons in their hippocampus when their babies are born.

This is the region of the brain that handles memory and learning. These neurons sprout dendritic spines to connect up with other brain cells. This more than likely helps daddy Vole recognise his own babies. When it comes to the human brain, it is a lot harder to figure out the changes as you can’t just randomly peak into a human skull. Research is done using a FMRI brain scanner. Dads showed a peak in the reward processing region when shown pictures of toddlers.

Men who were not fathers did not show the same amount of activity on this region. So, while it is not definitive and further research is needed, it has been determined that there is a definite change in men’s brains when they become fathers.

There is also a suggestion that there is a nature dampening of desire and a heightened interest in bonding and taking care of their offspring.

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believed that the hormone oxytocin increases leading to a strengthening of the bond between father and child. This seems to spike just prior to the birth of a child. While it is well known that this hormone is involved in motherhood, it is now more accepted that this is also a paternal hormone, increasing the emotions involved in caregiving.

Interestingly, the male hormone testosterone takes a dip by over 30% in most new dads. This can occur during the pregnancy and after the birth. The lower testosterone levels and higher prolactin result in men that are more likely to act on the sound of a crying baby and also more likely to engage with children. While this drop-in testosterone signals a better relationship between dad and baby, if the levels drop too low, men may suffer from depression. This can lead to the opposite affect when the men are then less likely to take part in any caregiver roles. So even though they don’t know it, men are also having hormonal changes leading up to their new roles.

Fatherhood can also impact on a man’s psychology. Being a dad is a role which can change how men see themselves and has a big impact on identity. Having the responsibility of taking care of another human being can have a major impact on a man. Things will change dramatically especially in how they spend their money, time and attention. They will now impact another life and have some responsibility in teaching, nurturing, guiding and supporting a child. This can bring a lot of pride and joy especially when a child meets milestones. There can also be fear, pain and guilt. Things they used to do in the past may need to be set aside and dads often feel guilty for taking time out for self-care in the same way as mothers do. Men may also feel hurt that their children initially bond more to their mothers even if the father gives an almost equal amount of attention. This is biological and although fathers may acknowledge that MARCH 2020 | My Child Magazine Issue #102

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the baby depends more on the mother, they may still feel unhappy about the closer bond. This can carry on into when the babies become toddlers and even afterwards and some men battle to come to terms with not having as strong a bond with their child as the mother does.

Another interesting fact is that men who live with their children are usually harder workers and more successful and tend to earn more than counterparts that live apart from their children. Dads that are closely boned with their children are usually more responsive and responsible. While it may not always be possible for Dads to spend as much time with their children, they should spend what time they can. Take paternity leave when their children are born where possible to spend some time bonding with the newborn and giving mum a break as well. Thereafter, make time for the babies and children every day even if it is only a half hour of quality time daily. Spend weekends and holidays with the family and give your children as much support as possible. This will help improve the overall bonding and make for happier fathers as well. Don’t forget to do date night with mum now and then after you get through the first few months of being parents. Keeping your bond as a couple intact is a big part of fatherhood and will help towards parenting in general.

Dads may let the heavy gym regime lapse a little when they become dads, leading to a slightly softer middle, but that’s okay too. Staying healthy is important so make sure to take some time out from being a Dad now and then to let off some steam but remember to allow mum the same. There are many changes when becoming a father. The key is to accept them and adjust to the best of your abilities and accept the confusion as well as the joy that comes from being a new parent.

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RELATIONSHIP REP INFIDELITY

PAIR AFTER written by: Lance Green

While infidelity can mean the end of a relationship in many cases, there is some potential positive aspects to repairing a relationship instead.

Infidelity is the reason for divorce in around 40% of cases but cheating may be a lot more widespread than the statistics show. Staying together after a partner has cheated may lead to more open discussion as to what went wrong and to looking for ways to repair the issues that led to the affair. This takes away from the actual act of infidelity itself and looks at a bigger picture when it comes to repairing the relationship. This doesn’t mean a partner can play the blame game and throw the guilt for the affair on to the other partner. If there is any chance for the relationship to be repaired, both partners need to be able to discuss what is not working in the relationship without finger pointing. When handled correctly, this may even result in a stronger relationship.

Repairing a relationship after this type of set-back requires that both partners are prepared to put effort into correcting issues. This may require therapy for both people individually and couple’s therapy in order to get to the bottom of the problems and start to heal and change. When both people are prepared to really work on it and take the necessary steps to heal the breach in the relationship, it can be done with some work. Don’t expect instant healing, it will take time, but be prepared to walk to road together.

The person that cheated does need to show remorse and regret for their behaviour. If there is no apology for the harm caused by what they have done, there is unlikely to be any moving on from it. Right from the start, the cheater needs to show they are sorry and are willing to change. The next step would be discussion why it happened. Some issues cannot be easily resolved and may lead to repeated behaviour in future. In many cases, especially when it was a once off situation, it may just have been a result of making a poor decision. Some of the reasons for affairs can include poor communication, unmet needs, attachment difficulties and even gender roles that are not in synch. It may also be a lot more complex.

Both partners will need to communicate issues in the relationship and how to go about resolving them.

If there is dishonesty and a lack of open communication or there is excessive finger-pointing and blame on behalf of the partner that has strayed, it is unlikely that the relationship will ever get back on track.

Discussions need to be honest and in-depth. This way both parties can get some resolution and try and find ways to move on and improve the relationship. The person that has had an affair needs to be prepared to cut ties with the person that they had the affair with. There should be no communication besides what is essential for the other person’s 96

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involvement in the person’s life outside of the affair. There should be no social media communication or any private conversations of any kind after ending the affair. Where there is communication such as when the relationship has been with a colleague, all interactions need to be transparent.

For the future there needs to be honesty as well as consideration of the other partner. The partner that cheated needs to be prepared to go through the details of the affair with their partner. This will cause pain but it is part of the catharsis. They need to answer all questions openly, even when it may cause more pain to their partner. This brutal honesty has to be continued in order to build up trust.

The partner that cheated also needs to be prepared to given up behaviours that cause suspicion or a breakdown in trust. While this may be uncomfortable at the start, it will help rebuild the trust to an extent.

Discuss openly what is required so that the cheating partner can show that they are prepared to work on the relationship and avoid situations that can lead to potential errors in judgement such as this.

Avoid sharing the details of the indiscretion with all and sundry, especially on social media. This leads to very public hurt and can cause a lot of extra anger and strife. While it is healthy to talk to someone when trying to deal with an infidelity, sometimes it is better to keep it between you and your therapist while going through the anger and pain of dealing with the affair. By slating your spouse to others, you can end up with a whole new set of problems and less chance of repairing your relationship. You will end up with people taking sides and others giving their opinions on you, your partner and your relationship, which is generally detrimental.

This will not help anyone to move forward especially when other people are now holding a grudge against the person that cheated and will put pressure on the other person to split from them instead of attempting to fix the relationship.

Once both partners have been able to communicate openly and the reasons for the cheating are laid out in the open, then actionable change can happen. The relationship will never be the same again, but it can be different and stronger than before. The affair will need to be left in the past and a new relationship will have to start from that point. There will need to be a lot of work, almost as much as what you would have had to put in at the beginning of the relationship initially in some ways and even more in others. You will need to discuss everything and work together to recreate a trusting relationship that works for both of you.

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A NEW DOOR OPENS WRITTEN BY: SHEREE HODDINETT

They say when one door closes, another opens, creating endless opportunities. I’d still like to know who “they” is and if I hear a door closing I instantly get suspicious, especially if it involves my children, because it means they are up to no good! Giggling behind is another good clue. It’s hard to believe I’ve been doing this parenting gig now for over 6 years. It’s good, bad, ugly and sometimes downright unbearable and to be perfectly honest, I still have absolutely no idea what I’m doing. Some days I can do everything perfectly, well maybe not perfectly, but pretty good anyway. Other days, I don’t even know where I left my brain. It’s like it jumps out of my head so it doesn’t have to deal with anything too complicated, haha!

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It’s funny how we can have all the manuals in the world to operate machinery, electrical equipment, all kinds of modern technology; recipe books to cook and bake; instructions on how to put things together; but there is no written guidelines on how to deal with kids.

Sure, there is lots of books offering advice out there, but they are generic at best, not specific to your child. I guess part of the “fun” of raising kids is waiting to see what they next have in store for you.

And how you handle it, well that’s up to you!

“no” or the cheeky laughter and puppy dog eyes when they want to score the last chocolate in the box!

My eldest daughter definitely has the eye roll down pat. She still maintains she’s not rolling her eyes but just simply “moving them”.

She’s 6….help me! Haha!

I must admit that despite the feisty and challenging attitude, she is an amazing kid and does a lot to help her Mumma out. I don’t always show her enough appreciation and I think more often than not she cops angry mum because she is the eldest. Life isn’t fair kiddo, but you’ll thank me one day! As for her younger sister, I think she’s possibly going to be a bit of a trouble maker, not necessarily all bad. Being the youngest she’s had to learn how to defend herself more (welcome to the younger sibling club baby girl, you are among some great members) and fight for her place, which as the baby of the family is not easy! But I love her spirit and tenacity, just not always when it’s aimed in my direction…which is often!

I often look at myself as the cranky mum. My girls tell me otherwise but I do think sometimes they are humouring me to make me feel better. Kids are smarter than we give them credit for at times. But boy can they be manipulative creatures when they want to be. They know how to put on the tantrums, the sad looks, the crying, the angry turns and cheeky/ happy moments right when they need to. I’m not saying it’s always at set times, kids have emotions and feelings just like we do. But we’ve all experienced the temper tantrum at the shops or I have moments where I the grumpy face at home know I’ve done something when they have been told right, well I hope I have. It

usually comes in the form of a compliment from a friend or even a stranger about how beautiful and polite my girls have been.

I have to quickly hide my snort of laughter and try not to ask if they are sure they’re talking about my children because I know that it’s true. Not always, just sometimes, because I often catch a glimpse of it myself. Mind you, I do have to keep reminding them, but it’s progress right?! I’ll just keep doing my best and hope that my best is good enough, especially when it’s only going to get trickier as they get older.

Teenage girls are going to be my nightmare, but that’s definitely a story for another day!

You’ll find more of my parenting tales of “wisdom and wonderings” over at www.shereekim.com. It’ll give you a bit of a laugh and possibly a bit more fight to keep battling through even the toughest of days and there’s always plenty of them. Until next time, always keep smiling, especially in front of the kids because they’ll want to know why!!

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Delicious

Zucchini And Corn Fritters INSTRUCTIONS 1

squeeze zucchini of excess liquid and place in a large bowl with 2/3 of the capsicum and the corn, spring onions, basil and cheese. season with pepper.

2

sift flour over vegetables then mix to combine.

3

pour milk into a jug, add eggs and whisk together with a fork. add to vegetables and stir well.

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heat a large non-stick frypan over medium heat and spray liberally with oil. drop heaped tablespoons of mixture evenly spread around the pan and spread using the back of a spoon to 8cm diameter. cook for 2 minutes or firm and golden. flip and brown on reverse side for 2 minutes.

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transfer to a plate, keep warm and repeat with remaining mixture.

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to make salsa, combine remaining capsicum with avocado, tomato, basil and lime in a medium-sized bowl. divide salsa between plates and serve with a stack of 3 fritters each.

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prep time: 25 mins cook time: 20 mins serves: 6 INGREDIENTS 1 med zucchini, grated red capsicums, diced 2 sml (put 1/3 aside for salsa) 1 can corn kernels, drained 2 spring onions, chopped 1/2 cup chopped basil 1 cup grated cheddar cheese freshly ground black 3 tbsp pepper, to taste 3/4 cup self-raising flour 3 eggs 1/2 cup milk olive or canola oil spray SALSA 2 2 avocadoes, diced 1 lrg 1 large tomato, diced 1 juice of lime 1/4 cup chopped basil

Quick & Easy

Overnight No-Cook Fruity Oats

prep time: 5 mins serves: 2

INSTRUCTIONS

INGREDIENTS 1 cup uncooked rolled oats 1 1/3 cup milk 1 cup natural yoghurt canned peaches drained, 1 cup roughly diced 2 tbsp slivered almonds 2 tbsp dried cranberries

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In a 1-litre container, add oats, milk and yoghurt. Mix until well combined.

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Add peaches, almonds and cranberries. Gently stir.

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Cover container and refrigerate overnight.

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Serve either cold or heat in microwave on high (100%) for 45 seconds to make a warm breakfast.

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Salad Nicoise prep & cook time: 36 mins serves: 4

INSTRUCTIONS 1

place eggs in a small saucepan, cover with water and bring to the boil. simmer for 6 minutes, drain and refresh with cold water. once cool, peel eggs and cut into quarters.

2

place potatoes in a medium-sized saucepan and cover with water. bring to the boil and simmer for 8 minutes. add green beans and simmer for a further 2 minutes until they are bright green and potatoes are tender.

3

drain beans and potatoes and refresh with cold water.

4

cut potatoes in half and add to a large serving bowl with lettuce, tuna, beans, tomatoes and olives, topped with eggs.

5

mix mustard with lemon juice and drizzle over salad.

INGREDIENTS 4 eggs 6 250g 8 lrg 1 can 250g 1/2 cup 1 tbsp 1 1/2 tbsp

unpeeled baby potatoes, washed green beans, cut into pieces cos lettuce leaves, roughly torn tuna in spring water, drained cherry tomatoes small pitted black olives, drained dijon mustard lemon juice

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Fiesta Salad prep & cook time: 10 mins serves: 1

INSTRUCTIONS 1

Mix together all ingredients except the lime.

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Squeeze lime over salad just before serving.

INGREDIENTS iceberg lettuce, 1/3 cup shredded cherry tomatoes, 3 halved 1/4 med capsicum, diced lebanese cucumber, 1/4 med chopped slice red onion, 1 chopped 1/4 avocado, chopped 1/4 cup canned corn, drained canned kidney beans, 1/2 cup drained and rinsed 1 lemon or lime wedges

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Quick Tuna Couscous Salad INSTRUCTIONS 1

Place couscous in a small heatproof bowl, pour over boiling water; cover and set aside for 3 minutes.

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In a large bowl combine the tuna, corn, peas, spring onions and coriander.

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Fluff couscous with a fork to separate grains and stir through sweet chilli sauce, lemon juice and curry powder.

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Add couscous mixture to salad ingredients, mix well and serve.

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prep time: 10 mins cook time: mins serves: 6 INGREDIENTS 1 cup couscous 1 cup boiling water tuna in spring water, 1 can drained and flaked 1 can corn kernels, drained 2 cups frozen peas spring onions, finely 4 sliced fresh coriander, finely 1 cup chopped 2 tbsp sweet chilli sauce 1tbsp lemon juice curry powder, 2 tsp optional

Rainbow Pasta Salad INSTRUCTIONS 1

Bring a medium-sized saucepan of water to the boil. Add green beans and simmer for 2 minutes until they are bright green. Remove beans with a slotted spoon and refresh under cold water. Alternatively cook beans in the microwave on high (100%) for 2 minutes with a tablespoon of water in a microwave-safe bowl.

2

Add pasta to the boiling water and cook according to packet directions until just tender.

3

Drain well and add to a large serving bowl with drained beans and remaining salad ingredients.

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In a small jug, mix dressing ingredients together then pour over salad. Toss until well combined.

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Serve immediately or enjoy cold the next day.

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Frozen Tropical Sorbet prep time: 5 mins chill time: overnnight serves: 2 INSTRUCTIONS 1

Roughly chop frozen fruit and place in the bowl of a food processor.

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Process until fruit becomes granular. Scrape down sides of bowl with a spatula and process again.

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Repeat 4-5 times until fruit mixture is a smooth, thick and creamy texture. Add passionfruit and process once more.

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Spoon into bowls and serve immediately with fresh seasonal fruit.

INGREDIENTS 1/2 can crushed pineapple 1 med ripe banana, frozen 1 pulp of passionfruit seasonal fruit for garnish

Serving suggestion: Fill the cavity of a seeded halved rockmelon with sorbet. Freeze until solid then cut into wedges to serve.

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Fruit Berry Jellies prep time: 10 mins chil time: overnight serves: 4

INSTRUCTIONS 1

Place ½ cup juice and gelatine into a 1-litre microwave safe jug.

Microwave on high for 1 minute to boil and dissolve gelatine.

3

Mix well while pouring in remaining juice and essence.

5

Divide fruit among four 250ml (1-cup) capacity serving glasses.

7

Pour juice over fruit and carefully stir with a teaspoon to distribute fruit through jelly.

INGREDIENTS 100% unsweetened apple and blackcurrant juice 3 tsp powdered gelatine rosewater essence 1/2 tsp (optional) 250g strawberries, quartered 2 cup

Cover each glass with plastic wrap and refrigerate for 4 hours or overnight until set.

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The News on Newborn Nappies- Using Cloth from Day One

Thinking of trying modern cloth nappies with your new bundle of joy? While many mums (and dads) choose to start their cloth nappy journey after settling in at home, lots of others are keen to reduce their environmental impact right off the bat. If you think about it, an average newborn can need up to 12 nappy changes a day. In the first 3 months that’s over 1,000 nappies taking a one way trip to the tip, which is where they will remain long after you and your baby have gone. So, where to start?! It’s a whole new world of its own with enough acronyms to make your go cross-eyed.

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MCN? OSFM? What?!

Let’s start with the basics. MCN or Modern cloth nappies ain’t what they used to be. The new reusables are so much easier to use and should last multiple children if you look after them as instructed. If you decide to take the plunge, here are a few things to keep in mind when stepping into newborn cloth.

One Size Fits Most There are a few ways to get started from the newborn stage and one is to use the OSFM. OSFM, or one size fits most, are great if you’re looking at keeping costs down.

At Bubblebubs we have managed to get a good fit on a 3.2kg newborn but it is not ideal. Because they are not intended for newborns specifically, some parents run into trouble and can give up on their cloth journey before it even starts.

Although OSFM are a great cost saver, they aren’t going to do you any favours if they end up leaking and force you to buy disposables anyway. Because the waist and legs are made for larger children (4.5-5kgs), sometimes the OSFM cannot be adjusted enough for baby chicken legs which results in gaps and leakage. Not ideal when you think about those runny newborn poos flowing out of your cherub like molten lava 24/7.

OSFM can also be bulky. The inserts of many OSFM are made to be more absorbent for older children and are often wider and longer, so getting a trim fit can be difficult in the middle of the night.

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right from the first day knowing that the fit will be less difficult to manipulate when you’re trying to adjust to life with your fresh bundle.

A better fit means less leaks, which is obviously the main concern when putting any nappy on bub. The great thing about MCNs is that the elastics are stronger than those on disposables, so a full on poo explosion is far less likely. The bulk is also going to be less. Nappy changes for newborns come thick and fast so the absorbency is made for tiny bladders and means a trim fit on tiny babes.

There is also a vibrant resale market and you’re likely to be able to sell your newborn nappies to recoup a large portion of the initial outlay through Facebook buy and sell groups. Try doing that with a used disposable!

Newborn Styles If you’re keen to try newborn nappies, there are a few different styles to choose from.

AiO You can use an AIO (All-in-One), like the Bubblebubs Pebbles if you’re looking for something that doesn’t need “putting together”. These newborn nappies have a Velcro closure, which is perfect if you’re just trying to get the hang of things. The Velcro tabs have an overlap at the waist so that they can fit even the smallest of tiny humans. The leg elastics are sure to contain any poonamis, as is the bamboo lined shell. The attached booster can be folded in multiple ways to suit your boy or girl and where they need the absorption most.

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nappy made of soft bamboo towelling which wraps around your baby’s bottom and fastens at the front with a Snappi (no need for dangerous pins!). The Bambams have a removable insert which is folded and sits inside the fitted nappy for absorbency. These are great if drying time is an issue as the nappy comes in two parts for quick drying. These nappies will require a waterproof cover as they are not an AiO like the Pebbles. Those two separate parts mean that Bambams are a little bit more work to put on but they are your absolutely bomb proof option for all newborn explosions.

Flats/Prefolds Flats are the traditional style of nappies that you might be more familiar with. These come in a range of materials from cotton to bamboo and are folded around baby before fastening with a Snappi. Flats are thin so they are very quick drying.

For ease of use, Prefolds already have extra layers stitched down the centre of the nappy so that they don’t need to be folded in the same way as flats; this can be better for new parents who don’t have time for folding.

Both Flats and prefolds require a separate waterproof cover and are also fabulous for leak protection. They are also great in the long run as they can be reused as boosting for your OSFM nappies, as burp rags or for anything that requires mopping up!

So while there are some good reasons to want to try OSFM on your newborn babe, it’s probably worth investing in some newborn nappies that are guaranteed to fit more snugly and make your foray into modern cloth nappies a successful one.

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