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At Busch Gardens and Water Country USA, even the youngest members of your family can touch the sky and go wild in the water. Busch Gardens has more than 50 exciting rides and attractions designed to entertain kids ages nine and younger. And down the road at Water Country USA, your little ones can soak up the fun inside three areas created just for them. That’s two amazing parks dedicated to kid-friendly fun. Look for the KIDsiderate logo to find these exciting attractions and rides on your next visit.

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us today? The Allure of Ancient Egypt addresses that question by pairing ancient art with 19th- and 20th-century paintings, photographs, and decorative objects inspired by the Egyptian past. Selden Arcade, 208 East Main St. (N) 625-4211 Mid-summer Planetarium Shows Times vary. Choose from four shows in the Virginia Living Museum’s Abbitt Planetarium. A staff astronomer gives a tour of the current night sky in “Virginia Skies.” Enter the world of the extraordinary tiny in “Microcosm” as you go deep into the body of a woman infected with a dangerous virus. “Abraham Lincoln: The Case of the Missing Moon” explores how Lincoln defended a man accused of murder using “facts” found in an almanac. “Spirit of America” celebrates America with great patriotic music paired with lasers. The planetarium is open every day. Tickets are $4 plus museum admission. The Virginia Living Museum, J. Clyde Morris Blvd. (NN) 599-1900 or www.thevlm.org

July 2013 Ongoing Butterfly House 10 a.m.- 5 p.m. The enclosed structure provides an amazing opportunity for guests to observe and connect with butterflies up-close as the insect beauties fly throughout the house and land on their favorite nectar flowers. Norfolk Botanical Gardens, 6700 Azalea Garden Rd. (N) 441-5830 or www. norfolkbotanicalgarden.org Dolphin Watching Various times. Bottlenose dolphins and their dynamic behaviors are observed during a 90-minute ocean excursion. Experienced educators on board will introduce you to Virginia’s favorite spring and summer guests. Dolphin sightings are not guaranteed. $21 per adult (12 years & over); $15 per child (4 – 11 years old) Virginia Beach Fishing Center at Rudee Inlet. (VB) 385-FISH or www. virginiaaquarium.com

evidence to solve a burglary. There are two solution tracks to challenge all age groups. Children’s Museum of Virginia, High Street (P) www.visitportsva.com Reflections of Nature 10 a.m.-5 p.m. This exhibit will incorporate 30 glass sculptures inspired by nature designed and created exclusively for the NBG. The pieces are reflections of plants and flowers found throughout the garden landscape. Norfolk Botanical Garden, 6700 Azalea Garden Rd. (N) 441-5830 Danny Rozin, Sketch Mirror 10 a.m.- 9 p.m. Rozin’s interactive artwork features you as the subject matter. As the viewer stands in front of the TV screen, the Sketch Mirror creates a computerized caricature of the most obvious features. On view near Nordstrom on the first level. MacArthur Center, 300 Monticello Ave. (N) 664-6200 or www.chrysler.org

My Heart Beats for Peace: Portsmouth’s Civil War Homefront 10 a.m.- 5 p.m. and continues until Aug. 25. In commemoration of the Sesquicentennial of the American Civil War this exhibit is about regional history and local collections It explores the impact of the war on the homefront of Portsmouth. Portsmouth Art & Cultural Center, High Street (P) www.visitportsva.com

Spy Ship: An Undercover Onboard Quest 10 a.m.- 5 p.m. You have been recruited as a WWII secret agent for this mission to help solve a compelling mystery threatening the United States’ naval position. Your mission will lead you on an exciting trek throughout the Battleship Wisconsin, gathering clues, solving cryptograms, ciphering enigmas, unlocking secrets and compiling evidence as to the identity of a treacherous and deceptive covert operative posing as a crewmember. Log onto www.nauticus. org and click “Spy Ship,” to find out more about your crucial role in this assignment, plus how to sign up for ongoing undercover communications. Nauticus, One Waterside Dr. (N) www.nauticus.org

Crime Lab Detective 10 a.m.- 5 p.m. and continues until Aug. 31. Visitors use scientific reasoning skills while evaluating

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Cruise the Creek Various times. Explore Owls Creek during a gentle 30-minute pontoon cruise focused on salt marsh ecology. Virginia Aquarium, 717 General Booth Blvd. (VB) 385-FISH or www. virginiaaquarium.com

July 3 Celebrate Freedom 5 p.m. Join the U.S. Army TRADOC Command Band from Fort Monroe providing stirring patriotic sounds. The Jim Newsom Quartet will open the show. Following the concert, fireworks by Pyrotechnico will illuminate the dark sky after sunset. $5 on-site parking fee per vehicle. Chesapeake City Park, 900 Greenbrier Pkwy (C), 382-6411 or CityofChesapeake.net/ PRevents Early Expeditions 11 a.m. Every Wednesday, bring your toddler to the Conservation Station in the Bay and Ocean Pavilion to solve an animal mystery. Virginia Aquarium, 717 General Booth Blvd. (VB) 385-FISH or www. virginiaaquarium.com Glass Making Demonstrations 12 p.m. and continues Wednesdays to Sundays. Experience the magic of live glassblowing at an exciting demonstration. Chrysler Museum Glass Studio, 745 Duke St. (N) 664-6200 or www.chrysler.org Summer Fun at Family Focus! 9:30 a.m.noon and continues Wednesdays until Aug. 21. For children ages 3 years old to 6 years old. Enjoy themes including: Jungle Fun, A Day at the Beach, Happy Birthday USA, Pirates, Hawaiian Luau, Creepy Bugs, Dinosaurs, Fun Sports, Around the World, Wild West and Carnival Time. Activities include: Crafts, games, snacks, songs, fingerplays, and stories that correspond with the theme of the day. Cost: $40 Family Focus Stoneybrook, St. George’s Episcopal Church, 15446 Warwick Blvd.,(NN) 886-6511 or 833-3054

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Fountain Field Days Weekly Series 11 a.m.- 3 p.m. Every Wednesday until Aug. 28. This is a great for children and families to come and enjoy some fun in the sun! Fountain Field Days offer FREE family programming, to include: an interactive fountain, children’s activities, exercise programs, lawn games, theatre, dance and more! TowneBank Fountain Park, Waterside Drive (N) 441.2345 or www.festevents.org Storytime with Captain Fishbones 11 a.m. and continues Wednesdays and Thursdays in July and August. Captain Fishbones (or one of her crew) will guide children in storybook reading, make-andtake crafts, activities and other fun. $4 for adults, $2 for children, Price includes museum admission. Old Coast Guard Station Museum, 2401 Atlantic Ave. (VB) www.oldcoastguardstation.com

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Independence Day Annual July 4th Celebration 4 p.m.- 10 p.m. This day of family fun is open to the public. Fireworks begin at 9:30 pm. Admission and limited onsite parking is $5. Mount Trashmore Park, Edwin Drive (VB) 385-2990 or VBgov.com/ specialevents 31st Annual AT&T Fourth of July Great American Picnic & Fireworks 5 p.m.- 10 p.m. Guests can feast on traditional All American Fare, including hot dogs, hamburgers, barbecue, seafood, buttered corn on the cob, juicy watermelon, lemonade... with all the fixin’s and much more! Relax on the lawn and enjoy patriotic sounds by United States Army Training and Doctrine Command Band. Then watch as the sky lights up with the fireworks display at 9:30 p.m. Town Point Park, Waterside Drive (N) www. festevents.org Music By The Bay 7 p.m. and continues Thursdays until Aug. 30 Enjoy military band concerts played from the gazebo. All concerts are free and open to the public. Continental Park, Fort Monroe, Fenwick Road (H) 251-2754 Spirit of America in the Abbitt Planetarium – Hourly 5 p.m.- 9 p.m. Come enjoy the most amazing 4th of July laser displays in the Virginia Living Museum’s nice cool theater with this new laser show! “Spirit of America” mixes great patriotic music with America-inspired rock & roll and songs that have defined American music. Recommended for ages 6 and up. VLM members $3, non-members $6. The Virginia Living Museum, J. Clyde Morris Blvd. (NN) 599-1900 or www.thevlm.org

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Family Fun at Bay Lab 4:30 p.m. -6 p.m. Join an Aquarium Educator for a fun family adventure. Use a seine and dip net to see what’s living in the surf and take a beach walk to discover shells and other artifacts. This program is appropriate for ages 5 and up. Children must be accompanied by a paying adult. This program is limited to 15 participants. Fee: $4 members, $5 nonmembers (additional parking fee charged at park entrance). Bay Lab in First Landing State Park, Shore Drive (VB) 385-0278 for reservations or www.virginiaaquarium.com

Shipwrecks and Ghost Lore 7:30 p.m. and continues Tuesdays and Thursday until Aug. 29. The evening walking tour features a costumed storyteller who will share history and legends about local shipwrecks, witches, pirates, and other mysterious tales. The tour lasts 60-90 minutes and covers a leisurely five to six blocks in the vicinity of the Old Coast Guard Station. Old Coast Guard Station Museum, 2401 Atlantic Ave. (VB) 422-1587

Concert In the Courtyard 5 p.m.- 8 p.m. Enjoy music in the courtyard. Portsmouth Arts and Cultural Center, Corner of High and Court Streets (P) 393-8543 or www.portsmouthartcenter.com

July 6 Patriots Day 10 a.m.- 5 p.m. Enjoy craft demonstrations, musical performances, games, military drill, food and fun. Free admission. Lightship Portsmouth Museum, High Street (P) 393-5143 or www.visitportsva.com Pawsitive Reading with Therapy Dogs 10:30 a.m.– 11:30 a.m., Practice your reading skills by sharing stories with therapy dogs. Bring your own book or choose one from our selection. Call to register. Grade K-5. Followed by Pawfriends Make and Take Craft 11:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Enjoy a variety of make and take crafts featuring our furry friends. Registration begins Jun. 8. Grade K-5. Princess Anne Area Library, 1444 Nimmo Pkwy. (VB) 385-2610 Hayrides 7 p.m., 8 p.m. and 9 p.m. Enjoy park interpretations and discussion on a 40-minute ride through the park. Tickets are free and available 30 minutes prior to the ride. Newport News Park, Jefferson Avenu (NN) 926-1400

July 7 Big Bands On The Bay 7 p.m.- 9 p.m. Welcome the stars every Sunday night until Sept. 1. Guests are invited down to the Gazebo at Ocean View Beach Park for live Big Band music and dancing. Ocean View Beach Park, Ocean View Avenue (N) 441-1234 or www.festevents.org

July 8 Bike Nights 4 p.m.- 7 p.m. Enjoy a bike ride through the gardens. Continues Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays in the summer. Norfolk Botanical Garden, 6700 Azalea Garden Rd. (N) 441-5830

Paint Days 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Every Tuesday and Thursday. Paint your own picture in the Kids Gallery. Peninsula Fine Arts Center, 101 Museum Dr. (NN) 596-8175 or www.pfac-va.org ZooTales 11 a.m. and continues every Tuesday. Enjoy story time at the zoo and meet an animal or two. Activity included with Zoo admission: $7 adults, $5 children 2-11, $6 seniors 62 and over, free to zoo members. Virginia Zoo, 3500 Granby St. (N) 441-2374, ext. 229 Parent-Child Interactive Learning Playgroups 9:30 a.m. - noon and continues every Tuesday and Thursday. Circle time activities include children’s songs, music with instruments, finger plays. For children birth to five years old. While children participate in their interactive learning sessions with staff, parents will have an hour to enjoy the Parent Cafe discussion on the parenting topic of the day. First visit is free, $25 for unlimited playgroups. First Baptist Church Newport News, 12716 Warwick Blvd., (NN) 886-6511 or delores_price@bshsi.org

July 10 Chesapeake Bay Bunnies with Karen Calabro 10:30 a.m. Learn how to care for rabbits and meet Samantha Jane Waffleton, the English Angora Rabbit. Van Wyck Branch Library, 1368 DeBree Ave. (N) 441-2844

July 11 Single Parents Support Group 6 p.m.8 p.m. and continues the second and fourth Thursdays of the month. The goal is to contribute to the growth of strong families by providing information, support and opportunities that are family-oriented. It also provides a forum where single parents can interact and offer support to each other. Join us for parenting support as well as parentchild interactive play, songs, stories and snacks. First Baptist Church Newport News, 12716 Warwick Blvd. (NN) 886-6511

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Bay Lab Open House 3 p.m.-5 p.m. and continues Thursdays until Aug. 30. Join an Aquarium educator and volunteer at the Aquarium’s Bay Lab located at First Landing State Park as they show guests animals in the touch tanks and habitats, provide a craft for the younger audiences, and offer a beach-finds activity. Bay Lab, First Landing State Park, Shore Drive (VB) www.virginiaquarium.com

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July 12 Frozen Watercolors 2 p.m.-3 p.m. Beat the summer heat with some cool art. Create your own masterpiece from recycled and frozen watercolor paints. Registration required. Meyera E. Oberndorf Central Library, 4100 Virginia Beach Blvd., (VB) 385-0150 Second Saturday Family Day 10 a.m.2 p.m. Enjoy a fun history lesson. Hampton History Museum, 120 Old Hampton Lane (H) www.HamptonHistoryMuseum.org Sky Observing and Laser Light Shows Sunset. Take a tour of the current night sky with Virginia Skies at 7:30 p.m., followed by three laser shows: Laser Pop (family) at 8:30 p.m. All shows $6. The Wild Side CafĂŠ is open 6 to 9 p.m. The Virginia Living Museum, J. Clyde Morris Blvd. (NN) 599-1900 or www.thevlm.org Second-Saturday Family Day Noon - 3 p.m. Bring the entire family for art, music, and fun afternoon activities. Selden Arcade, 208 East Main St. (N) 625-4211

July 13 Archery Workshop 6 p.m.- 7 p.m. Learn skills to be good with a bow and arrow. Bass Pro Shop, Power Plant Pkwy (H) www.basspro.com

July 14 Big Bands on the Bay 7 p.m. Enjoy big band music. Ocean View Park, Ocean View Avenu (N) www.festevents.org

July 15 Active Parenting Now 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. This class is organized around the parenting skills necessary for instilling cooperation, courage, responsibility and self-esteem in children. Parents will learn nonviolent discipline skills that really work and how they can set rules that their children can understand and follow. Bon Secours Mary Immaculate Hospital Health Resource Center, 2 Bernardine Dr. (NN) www.bshr.com/familyfocus

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For the Birds 1:30 p.m. - 2:30 p.m. Do you know what birds like to eat? Meet a feathered friend or two and learn more about these interesting birds in this delightful program from the Virginia Living Museum. Windsor Woods Area Library, 3612 South Plaza Trail (VB) 3852630

Meet Llama Llama! 2 p.m. The adorable character created by children’s author Anna Dewdney will make special appearances to celebrate the Summer Reading Program. Little Creek Branch Library, 7853 Tarpon Place, (N) 441-1751

July 17 Art on the Porch 3:30 p.m. Students will practice art techniques with historically inspired subject matter in the shade of the Old Coast Guard Station Porch under the guidance of local artists and art teachers. Ages 5+, children must be accompanied by an adult. Suggested $2 donation. Old Coast Guard Station Museum, 2401 Atlantic Ave. (VB) www. oldcoastguardstation.com

July 19 Friday Night Adventures 8 p.m. Discover with a park naturalist fact about the park. Newport News Park, Jefferson Avenue (NN) 926-1400

July 20 Story time 10 a.m. Hear a story and see an animal. Recommended for ages 2 and above. Included in museum admission. The Virginia Living Museum, J. Clyde Morris Blvd. (NN) 599-1900 or www.thevlm.org


Conversations With the Curators 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Take a guided tour if the newest exhibitions with the curators and learn about the criteria and ideas that guided their selection of artifacts and artworks. Portsmouth Art & Cultural Center, High Street (P) www.visitportsva.com

July 27 Block Party 7 p.m. Enjoy a fun band. Downtown Hampton, Queen Street (H) 727-0900

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S’mores Sundays 1 p.m.- 4 p.m. Enjoy crafts, casting buckets and more. Bass Pro Shop Power Plant Pkwy. (H) www.basspro.com

Black Women During the Reconstruction Period Noon5 p.m. Black Women During the Reconstruction Period, a juried exhibition from The National Alliance of Artists from Historically Black Colleges. Hampton University Museum, 11 Frissell Ave. (H) 727-5308

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Diggin’ in the Dirt: Kids Garden Club 2 p.m. Dress to get dirty with area Master Gardeners! (Family) Larchmont Branch Library, 6525 Hampton Blvd (N) 441-5335

Musical Mondays with Skye Zentz 10:30 a.m. Kids of all ages will enjoy singing along with Skye Zentz. Lafayette Branch Library, 1610 Cromwell Dr. (N) 441-2842

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Minute to Win It 4 p.m. Teens can enjoy this fun game. Pearl Bailey Library, 2510 Wickham Ave. (NN) 247-8677

Plants and People 2 p.m.- 3 p.m. How did the Native Americans use their environment for survival? The Norfolk Botanical Gardens will bring these answers through plants and tools used by these tribes. Registration required and begins July 15. Age 6-11 Bayside Area & Special Services Library, 936 Independence Blvd. (VB) 385-2680

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July 24 YNot Wednesdays? 5 p.m.-9 p.m. Enjoy Live Entertainment from local and regional acts. The Virginia Beach Farmers Market returns. Food and drinks available for purchase. Kid’s ArtCart- an interactive children’s area for ages 6 - 12. Sandler Center for the Performing Arts, 201 Market St. (VB) 385-2787

July 25 Thursdays by the Lake Concert Series 6 p.m. and continues Thursdays during the summer. Bring a blanket and the children as you enjoy live music on a highrise stage, activities, and several food and beverage options. The Mariners’ Museum, 100 Museum Dr. (NN) www.marinersmuseum.org

July 26 The Wiz 7 p.m. and continues July 27 and July 28 at 3 p.m. Enjoy as The Hurrah Players sing and dance to this fun show. Tickets start at $15 for children (ages 12 and under), $20 for adults. The T.C.C. Roper Performing Arts Center, 340 Granby St. (N) 627-5437 or www. hurrahplayers.com

July 31 Travel the World Series 2:30 p.m.-3:30 p.m. Travel a different part of the world. There will be activities, games, crafts, and fun! No registration required. Sponsored by the Teen Advisory Group. All ages. Meyera E. Oberndorf Central Library, 4100 Virginia Beach Blvd. (VB) 3850150

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