Food for thought this holiday season
The Importance of Oysters for Your Health & The Globe
Book Your Private Event with “The Italian Diva” Chef Dedee Royale!
World Renowned Chef Jacques Pépin is Coming to UMass Dartmouth
Happy Holidays from
Milbury and Company extends its congratulations to the buyers and sellers of these and many other fine properties, as well as the customers and clients that we have been so fortunate to work with during another extraordinarily successful year.
THANK YOU for making MILBURY AND COMPANY the South Coast’s number ONE brokerage of distinctive properties!
William J. Milbury, Broker, Owner
Grace Rowe
Alice Petersen
Roberta Burke
Kevin Quinn
Nina Weeks
Sarah Meehan
Bethany Mello Sarah Korolnek
Patricia Hottel . Gillian Barnard . Tom Chace .
Roswell Underwood . Lisa Jedrey . Linda Hopps . Liza Danforth
Heidi Lehner . Donna Horrocks
LITTLE COMPTON $999,500
This historic residence, circa 1840, retains its period charm throughout with three bedrooms, two baths, two fireplaces, wide plank flooring, set on .57 acre surrounded by stone walls and mature trees. Contact Linda Hopps 508.965.9274
EAST FREETOWN $769,000
This not-your-average-ranch offers single-level living at its best with three bedrooms, 2 full baths and hardwood floors throughout Features include mahogany deck, two-car garage and beautiful yard, all set on 1 6 acres
NORTH DARTMOUTH $929,000
Privately set at the end of a cul-de-sac, this 3,000+ sq. ft. foot home is set on .87 acre and offers 3 bedrooms, 2.5 baths with a spacious deck and great outdoor space. Minutes to highways and white sandy beaches. Contact Sarah Meehan 508.685.8926
DARTMOUTH $1,895,000 Handsome Colonial set on high, overlooking the quarry pond in desirable Wild Pepper Farms. Over 5,600 s.f., five bedrooms, 3.5 baths, three-car attached garage, set on 1.84 acre. Contact Will Milbury 508-525-5200.
Contact Linda Hopps 508 965 9274 NEW BEDFORD $489,000
WESTPORT $7,950,000
SOUTH DARTMOUTH $2,250,000 This spectacular Cape in the heart of Padanaram Village offers four bedrooms, three full and two half baths on 64 acre This turn-key home is but a few steps from the bustling waterfront Village with its yacht club, shops, restaurants and market! Contact Sarah Meehan 508 685 8926
Located in a quiet corner of the city, this spacious split level home offers three bedrooms, two and a half bathrooms, and several bright living spaces. Hardwood floors throughout, spacious patio, fenced-in yard . . . Contact Liza Danforth 339.203.5710
WYNDFIELD - A Magnificent Saltwater Farm! Curated gardens, orchards, two-bedroom guest house, studio. Spectacular main house offers historic charm & the appeal of a gracious farmhouse, yet rivals new construction in its quality, attention to detail, and modern conveniences. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200
HISTORIC NEW BEDFORD $695,00
Set on a double lot in the heart of New Bedford’s historic district, this classic center-entry Colonial offers over 3,000 s.f. of elegant living space with preserved period details throughout. This much-admired vintage gem awaits Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200
authentic , unique & unusual décor
We have the most exciting and important historical items in time for the holidays, whether you’re an eclectic interior designer with clients interested in museum-quality architectural elements, a discerning homeowner planning to enhance your living space, or a knowledgeable collector with an eye for remarkable opportunities, we invite you to consider the following.
Pair Of Exquisite And Wonderfully Preserved 19th Century Spanish Polychrome Giltwood Corinthian Columns, Height 77.5"
Provenance: From the estate of Ambassador & Mrs. Alexander Weddell, presented at the deaccessioning event—Across Continents— by the Virginia House Museum, held in Philadelphia.
$10,500
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ELEVATE Imitation as a form of flattery? Absolutely not! It is a sign of laziness or, much worse. It is time to dig down into the cause and effect of taking what is not yours.
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IMPRESSIONS
It seems everything is up for debate, from politics to the Santa ‘Clause.’ Our “North Poll” gives pause on an old argument.
30 Pleasant Street
24 PROPERTY
A Marion home with plenty of ‘Zen’ and peaceful luxury so you can focus on becoming centered on your core and mindful tranquility. It is time to manifest your new temple and plan a move.
30 TRENDING
‘The world is your oyster,’ is more significant than ever. Learn how this ocean creature has become a vital piece in the puzzle of global health.
34 ART
With expected anticipation, the Foundry Artist Association’s annual shopping spectacular is here and stocked full of surprises.
Dahlia Kanner
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BEAUTIFUL
Everyone reflects elements of beauty, but for those looking to make enhancements, it is vital to understand what they’re getting themselves into. Learn the differences and best approach to finding a provider of cosmetic care.
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LIVING WELL
What used to be referred to as ‘living alone’ is now known as ‘living solo.’ Are there differences between the two, or is it a play on words? Find out the who, what, and why many are choosing this optional lifestyle.
42 INTIMACY
“Level Up, Glow Up, Your Best Version,” call it what you like, but it all can be reduced to personal growth and progress. Find out what it takes to enhance who you are and how you are perceived in love and career.
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CULTURE
From the upcoming appearance of internationally acclaimed Chef Jacques Pépin in Dartmouth, Massachusetts, to the recent iconic performance by the Boston Ballet Company and the Museum of Fine Arts wild evening of entertainment billed as ‘MFA Late Nites,’ one of these events missed the mark when it spoke to inclusion but offended half of the room. As a result, we are compelled to correct the error since there is no excuse for hate.
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GIFT GUIDE
Only the Best. If it is found here, you can bet it is authentic, high-quality, and desirable. This year, make your gifts count!
ARE YOU A
Imitator? Creator
We have fallen into a society that places little importance on ethics and integrity, most noticeable when it comes to the plagiarism of art, music, language, ideas, and research. It’s a plague of ‘quick actions’ for making a ‘fast buck’ or becoming recognized for stolen achievement. Such egregious activities can be found at the top echelon of Ivy League Universities down to struggling street artists (including many in between). Too often, self-absorbed imposters utilize faulty rationalizations as excuses when they embark on the practice of copying the creative genius or mental clarity of others. Frequently unnoticed, when exposed, excuses of ignorance are claimed, or forgiveness is extended under an umbrella of protection and a plethora of misunderstandings of what it means when someone’s intellectual property is presented as one’s own; as a result, these forms of violating personal, educational, and business trust remain rampant.
It was once said (citation remains unclear), “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness.” Such a polite description would seem jovial and good-spirited. Yet, in truth, it is a violation of the creator’s effort, resources, and instincts, including the utter disrespect for ambition and wellearned status by the originator.
Unmasking the violators comes in a variety of methods, one of which is when the blatant redesign or reorganization of ideas, words, images, or a concept’s essence is noticed by an audience who, with good intentions, bring the fact to the original artist, designer, musician, researcher, author, or other person who possesses evidence of ownership. Taking into account that, at times, similarities occur within the scope of creative license and can be attributed to chance, when the number of reports specific to acts of ‘taking’ is in unison, and the descriptions of violation(s) are identical, it is easily determined when a work is being copied, forged or reproduced with slight, but obviously modifications. Arguably, the imitator intended to benefit from the prestige and profit that could possibly follow.
You might ask why we are witnessing an increase in cases of designs, concepts, words, or techniques being taken with little done to stop the theft of creative or intellectual property rights
without authorization. The answer is rather obvious: unless a party can bankroll the legal machine necessary to spend years in court and is willing to gamble on the judgment of a court (and from what we have witnessed, judges can be numbingly naïve), often a would-be defendant skips off unpunished and will probably continue practicing the same lack of morality and decency.
An example of a design used across many products, albeit the original was exclusive, you may notice the luxury car and SUV market is flooded with imitation. Land Rover, an icon of off-road superiority, has always boasted its unique details and beauty, but during the past couple of decades, some auto manufacturers have ‘ripped-off’ styling points and features that have many mistaking an American car company’s vehicle as the ultra-luxe benchmark the Rover brand represents.
The issue runs deeper; images of historical figures, photos, logos, and even publications are being copied with the intention of cashing in on similarities, down to minor details, that are identifiable not just by owners of the products or services but also by their clients or customers.
Creative brilliance faces a bludgeoning of imitators who wholly disregard the basic tenets of decency and authentic competition. It takes time and energy to design and build something others see as valuable and desirable; conversely, it is relatively effortless to wash, rinse, and repeat what others put effort into starting and continuously perfecting and promoting its growth.
Throughout history, the public has indulged artists, inventors, and researchers who discover ‘one-of-a-kind’ ideas, concepts, and products, watching them run a course of longevity because these creatives understand that success comes from evaluating, evolving, and elevating reliability and performance. At the same time, the losers fall into a rut of repetition because their faulty interpretation of a great idea lacks the essential components only the originator would know. As a result, the underlying structure and longterm plan of the concept remain hidden until executed. Once a significant change or improvement is made by the originator to their work, violators are left to act quickly, only to be exposed when they attempt to reproduce the new idea and imitate it into their work.
With this understanding, it’s easy to determine the creators from the imitators; keep your eyes open as well as your mind. H
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MARION $2,750,000
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WAREHAM $879,000
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NEWTON $3,850,000
Exquisite home in sought-after community, over 6,000 thoughtfully updated sq. ft across three floors.
FALMOUTH $3,150,000
Impeccably maintained 4,500+ sq. ft. Greek Revival overlooking the Village Green features 5BR across 3 levels.
BOSTON $2,525,000
Waterside Beacon Street Condo in the heart of Back Bay.
TRURO $649,000
Top floor two bedroom unit with stunning views from two private balconies.
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Upon stepping into their conveniently located offices on Hawthorn Street in Dartmouth, Massachusetts, you’ll find more than numbers meticulously arranged on spreadsheets. You’ll discover a team of seasoned professionals, each with a wealth of expertise and a commitment to excellence that spans generations. They are the custodians of fiscal health, the navigators in the tumultuous sea of finances.
Since its inception by founder Frank P. Adamowski, the firm has earned more than clients—but rather, confidants. The company’s reputation for reliability is legendary, and its integrity is unwavering. Businesses large and small rely upon them with their financial destinies, knowing that with Adamowski on board, their course is secure, and they will have continued access to top-flight services.
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NORTH POLL
BY PEET NOURJIAN
DEBATING WAS BIG NEWS THIS YEAR CANDIDATES MADE POSITIONS CLEAR TOUGH QUESTIONS PUT THEM TO THE TEST VOTERS DECIDE WHO ANSWERED BEST
ONE QUESTION SKIPPED IN NOVEMBER SO IMPORTANT FOR DECEMBER ONCE AND FOR ALL LET’S SEAL THE DEAL YES OR NO, IS SANTA CLAUS REAL?
BELIEVE ME I LOVE HOLIDAYS MAGICAL IN SO MANY WAYS BUT AN ARTICLE I JUST READ FORECASTS A XMAS SOME MAY DREAD
ROBOTIC SANTAS AT THE MALL RED SUIT, WHITE BEARD, EIGHT-FOOT TALL FLATSCREEN FACE WITH ROSY CHEEKS SYNTHESIZED ‘HO-HO-HO’ WHEN HE SPEAKS
UNION SANTAS ARE UP IN ARMS THEIR LAWYERS CLAIM A ROBOT HARMS THE CHILDHOOD SYMBOL OLD AS TIME “THOSE FAKE SANTAS SHOULD BE A CRIME”
THE JUDGE SMILES, TWINKLE IN HIS EYE
“ST. NICK’S A LIE, WE CAN’T DENY EXCEPT TO YOUNGSTERS WHO BELIEVE HE’LL VISIT THEM ON XMAS EVE
HIS SPIRIT LIVES IN EVERY HEART BUT KIDS TODAY ARE WAY TOO SMART REINDEER FLYING? PRETTY INSANE!
MAKES SENSE A ROBOT’S AT THE REINS.” H
Incredibly unique, 30 Pleasant Street was designed and built with health, energy efficiency, and sustainability in mind.
MODERN LUXURY WITH A CONSCIOUSNESS
BY STEVEN CHAN
At a time when families are cognisant of the importance their home environment offers their physical and mental health, they sometimes discover available options can be quite limiting due to a variety of factors, one of which is the age of the structure and the materials used during its construction. Adding to the dilemma of finding a home or building a dwelling that reflects the values and necessities of a family and matches to their taste and design preference, is the challenge of becoming knowledgeable about sourcing, mechanical features and fixtures, in addition to codes that must be adhered to and incorporated into a pleasing aesthetic.
This month, Converse Company Real Estate presents a noteworthy property that meets the dreams and passions of those searching for a healthy, efficient, and sustainable home that was created with astute care and attention to every detail.
Newly constructed on the original 1980 foundation, the entire project, completed in 2022, is a new-build from the first floor to the sky. Set on just over one-acre in Marion Village, the oversized lot (a rarity) offers substantial privacy while allowing the convenience of accessibility to both public and private schools, a magnificent harbor, restaurants, beaches, boutique shopping, and private clubs.
Incredibly unique, 30 Pleasant Street shares a warmth and feel which permeates all the senses. Through thoughtful, eco-friendly selections, the seller tirelessly researched and implemented materials and systems reflective of a desire to align
a spirit of cooperation with the environment.
The home incorporates family-friendly products that include low volatile organic compound (VOC) cork floors in bedrooms and foam insulation; it is also equipped with an energy recovery ventilator, which removes derivative (stale) air and replaces it with fresh. The constant replacement ensures free-floating compounds of any type won’t linger.
The home’s exterior is made of Yakisugi Japanese cypress— ‘Pika Pika White’ from the Nakamoto Forestry, with the interior’s common area finished with Swedish-engineered
Interior photos are virtually staged
The home’s exterior is made of Yakisugi Japanese cypress— ’Pika Pika White’ from the Nakamoto Forestry, with the interior’s common area finished with Swedish-engineered white oak—‘Greta’ from the Stuga Studio.
white oak—‘Greta’ from the Stuga Studio.
There is a relaxing aura throughout the home; its minimalist design, reflective of the Scandinavian modern aesthetic, is both appealing and comfortable throughout. From room to room, it becomes evident that care and planning went into creating a soothing and relaxing atmosphere that aligns and is grounded with the principles of ancient Chinese culture known as Feng Shui. Attuned to the creation and design of a living environment that is believed to reduce stress and anxiety while creating positive energy, the concept is also thought to improve the quality of life.
You’ll notice the rooms highlighted for this feature are shown as ‘virtual staged;’ they are a clean canvas welcoming your tastes and preferences as a new owner. It’s intriguing how easily one can visualize their furnishings by simply viewing the peaceful flow of the rooms and their delicate coloring.
The spacious 4,300+ square-foot contemporary home is tucked down a long driveway; upon arrival and opening the door to the first floor, one can’t help but feel a sense of idyllic living, likely attributed to the large great room complimented by a woodburning fireplace. As usually found in homes at this level of living,
the custom kitchen with a center island and dining area, as well as a study and a mudroom leading to a three-car garage and powder room, complete the layout of the first level.
On the second floor, there is a spacious primary suite with a luxurious bath and walk-in closet, along with three additional bedrooms and two baths, one of which is ensuite, plus laundry. In addition, the basement has been completed as a private guest suite with a bath and bonus space for a playroom, office, or studio.
As for the security of maintaining operations, the home has
a propane fuel backup generator for emergency use. Few homes of such remarkable foresight into this type of living are available on the SouthCoast of Massachusetts. Listed for $1,650,000, 30 Pleasant Street in Marion, Massachusetts, is a dream come true. H
For more information about this home, visit ConverseCompanyRealEstate.com. To arrange a showing, call 508-748-0200 or email converse@converse.com.
On the second floor, there is a spacious primary suite with a luxurious bath and walk-in closet, along with three additional bedrooms and two baths, one of which is ensuite, plus laundry.
Everything You Need To Know About Oysters, But Never Asked
BY CATHERINE HILDERBRAND
They are one of the most vital inhabitants of the ocean; the bivalve mollusk with an odd shape and rough exterior thrives in both saltwater and in sea environments where brackish water occurs; the combination of fresh and saltwater usually found in coves and estuaries.
Oysters grow in clusters attached to rocks, abandoned boat hulls, discarded shells, or almost any hard submerged surface. Their attachment to objects allows them to create a formation resembling a durable reef that attracts and provides shelter for fish, crustaceans,
and marine vegetation.
According to the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration (NOAA), an oyster’s life begins as free-floating larvae, tiny, swimming creatures. Before long, they settle down and attach to a solid surface where they will grow for the rest of their lives. But they have a crucial role in the life-cycles of other sea life. Oyster reefs create essential habitats for hundreds of species. Organisms like mussels, barnacles, and sea anemones settle on them, creating abundant food sources for commercially valuable fish. Oyster reefs provide habitats to forage fish, invertebrates, and other shellfish. They also provide a safe nursery for commercially valuable
species, including the following: anchovies, blue crab, croaker, flounder, herring, menhaden, shrimp, silver perch, Spanish mackerel, speckled trout, spot, stone crab, and a New England angler’s favorite, striped bass.
Oysters perform a valuable service to the world’s ecosystem and global health; they are recognized for their ability to filter impurities from the water surrounding them. It’s estimated that a single oyster can clean up to 50 gallons daily. Additionally, their reefs perform as a barrier from storm surges, preventing erosion along shorelines. Ongoing threats to oysters mean that unless deliberate efforts are made to protect and restore them, we are in
danger of losing the many benefits they provide. When oyster reefs are restricted to harvesting their meat, the overall function of the reefs becomes degraded. When they are restored and managed as a sustainable resource, oyster reefs and the habitat they provide can contribute billions of dollars in value to the economy.
NOAA points out some interesting historical information about the condition of these mollusks and the efforts to protect them, citing oysters were once plentiful in coastal areas throughout the country. In 1607, when Captain John Smith explored the Chesapeake Bay, there were oyster reefs so prominent that ships had to navigate around them. When Henry Hudson arrived in New York in 1609, the harbor’s oyster reefs were the largest source of oysters worldwide.
Today, we find ourselves at a crossroads. With centuries of advancements in technology, extensive poisoning of the sea with trash, man-made chemical pollution, and massive amounts of dredging and overfishing, the number of oysters protecting the waterways is dwindling. Thankfully, it’s not too late with advancements taking place to curb further damage.
The first is to protect oyster habitats and direct efforts to restore them. The Office of Habitat Conservation, NOAA’s Restoration Center, is both funding and offering technical assistance around the country. Local organizations, universities, and community-based stakeholders are getting the word out by taking action and creating base structures that allow the formation of oyster reefs, planting seagrass, and starting oyster hatcheries for seeding. Plus, and this is paramount, government agencies and organizations are restricting some types of harvesting and stopping the destruction of oyster reefs.
Local groups play a vital role in the monitoring of water quality and the effects of groundwater run-off and erosion, directly related to industry, farming, and recreational properties that lower the salt content and oxygen levels while increasing nitrogen and phosphorus, which results in copious amounts of algae. With this dilemma, oysters experience a slowdown of growth and a decrease in the calcification of their protective shells, irregular
In 1607, when Captain John Smith explored the Chesapeake Bay, there were oyster reefs so prominent that ships had to navigate around them.
formation, and higher levels of mortality. Another problem is the destruction of seagrass, which results from sunlight being blocked to the submerged plants.
HELP IS ON THE WAY
We spotlight oysters this holiday season because they will be arriving at many tables, and nothing exudes more cheer and abundance than a family’s favorite oyster recipe. At the same time, we wish to bring attention to a global effort that spans a significant list of international partners who, for the last eight years, have sent representatives to events that are committed to the restoration and preservation of the oyster population and its role in returning ocean health.
In a press release received from the highly acclaimed author and the North/ South American Chapter Co-Director of the World Oyster Society, Kahren Dowcett, the 9th International Oyster Symposium (IOS) of the World Oyster Society (WOS), the world’s only conference devoted solely to oyster science, industry, and culture, will be held in Portland, Maine, in October 2026. It is the world’s only conference dedicated solely to oyster science, industry, and culture. The prestige of having the upcoming event on the East Coast adds the U.S. (its second time) to the list of previous presenters, including Japan, Taiwan, China, Tasmania, Vietnam, and Wales.
The importance of this event being held on our shores transcends influencing the U.S. economy, invigorating the protection of the resource, creating awareness of the benefits oysters offer, and exchanging ideas and developments in the business of sustainable aquaculture.
What also adds to the excitement of the upcoming event is that it won’t be returning to North America until 2036.
According to Dowcett, “The planning team has begun to organize with local, national, and international partners to organize programs that will enhance an already dynamic dialogue and advance the exchange of ideas by attracting global representatives from academia, conservation, governments, business, and cultural experts. The three-day event will not only inspire but include new information, practices, ongoing projects, and research relative to the oyster and its place in ocean preservation and human affairs worldwide.”
The World Oyster Society has approximately 1,000 members from 50 countries and is growing. With a commitment to advancing oyster literacy and fueling the oyster ‘renaissance,’ this type of event will raise awareness and interest from almost everyone concerned about environmental and foodsourcing issues.
Dr. Katusyoshi Mori, President Emeritus of the World Oyster Society and Japan’s Oyster Research Institute, and Professor Emeritus of Tohoku University, says, “This will be an important moment again in the U.S., bringing together all who have linkage to oyster science and industry who are looking for a more holistic view of oysters within the planet’s ecosystem. This exchange is significant now as we work to address the issues arising from climate change. Let the sea live, and let us live with the sea.”
More information will become available as progress is made. The public at large and international visitors will have the opportunity to attend the ‘Opening Forum’ and an ‘Oyster Grand Tasting’ dinner, plus a trade show featuring industry-specific vendors. H
For sponsorship information or to present at the 9th International Oyster Symposium, contact kahrendowcett@gmail.com.
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In a few short months, the Village Sweet Shoppe has become one of the most visited stores in Village of Padanaram in South Dartmouth. Offering the highest quality choices and cheerful services, it's the place that puts everyone in a good mood and makes them smile.
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FOUNDRY ARTISTS
HOLIDAY SHOW & SALE ANNOUNCED FOR THE 2024 HOLIDAY SEASON
‘Bigger and Better,’ this anticipated premier Rhode Island art event, will host an ‘Opening Night Reception’ on Thursday, December 5, from 5-9 p.m.
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Pawtucket, Rhode Island, will once again become the home to The Foundry Artists Association Holiday Show & Sale. As the State’s most unique and vibrant holiday art event, featuring over 65 professional, regional artists, collectors and shoppers will fill the historic Pawtucket Armory at 172 Exchange Street for the organization’s 42nd event!
The Show will run for two full weekends, Friday through Sunday, with dates and times as follows: December 6, 12-8 p.m.; December 7, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m.; December 8, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m.; December 13, 12-8 p.m.; December 14, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m.; December 15, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m.
The Foundry Artists Association was created over four decades ago by a community of artists who opened their I-95 Foundry Building Studios in downtown Providence to the public during the holiday season. In 1995, when the original Foundry Building was converted to office space, its artists moved to studios throughout the region. The Show found its new home in the Pawtucket Armory building, a castle-like landmark built in 1894, which formerly housed the Rhode Island National Guard. The Foundry Artists Show now takes place in the beautifully renovated former drill hall, and it continues to provide a unique opportunity to experience one of the area’s most significant resources—its artists.
During its long tenure, this popular New England holiday tradition has offered patrons the opportunity to view and purchase distinctive, high-quality work from artists selected to participate through jury selection. Categories of fine art and craft range from art glass to wood and include painting, sculpture, metal, fiber, mixed media, jewelry, ceramics, and photography.
What makes The Foundry Show so unique and builds comradery is that its planning and operation are entirely managed and maintained by the artist members. Relying on their specialized talent, they run electrical wiring, hang directional signs, post to social media, create magazine ads, gather sponsors, and check customers in and out of the facility; it’s a group effort and a labor of love that makes the Show & Sale feel like a close family event.
SAVINGS GALORE!
Offering Free Admission and Parking (handicap-accessible entrance at the rear of the building as well as handicap facilities in the Armory) creates an ‘all are invited’ atmosphere and acknowledges the Foundry Artist’s commitment to diversity of attendance at their events. But, beyond this, many guests are attracted to do their holiday shopping because Rhode Island has a sales tax exemption for artistic works created within the State. It should be noted that all major credit cards are accepted for purchases. It has been a long-standing tradition that the Association’s artists are committed to giving back to their community, best represented by their annual ‘silent auction’ that showcases works donated by participating artists. The proceeds of the auction help support a local charity to strengthen the neighborhoods in which many of the artists live. In addition to the funds raised through the auction, attendees have encouraged the custom of collecting canned goods and cash donations for The Food Bank this year. H
For more information and details regarding The Foundry Artists Show and Sale, please visit foundryshow.com or facebook.com/ foundryshow.
Meet the Artists
DAVID BIRD photography—a crowd favorite davidmbird.com
GREG STONE painting illustration— big following the-zombie-penguin.myshopify. com/pages/about-us
MICHELLE PHANEUF ceramics michellephaneufceramics.com/#/
HILAL MINDA ceramics instagram.com/ newmoonceramics/?hl=en
CHRISTOPHER BELLEAU glass gallerybelleau.org
DONNA ANDREWS-MANESS jewelry swinglanestudio.com/meet-theartist
SARAH HESS print making sarahannehess.com
JIM DOWD metalsmith beehivehandmade.com
DAHLIA KANNER jewelry dahliakannerstudio.com/ collections/rings
COURTNEY HUTCHING jewelry—new artist seasaltandsilver.com/about
WRIGHT DETE metal—new artist wrightdeter.com/about
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BY MARGO ROBERTS
Under Knife
Who Do You Trust?
My reasoning for the headline was to attract attention. Still, today’s business isn’t just to discuss cosmetic surgical procedures but to focus on those who perform them. With an explosion of practitioners, many who claim to be specialists or experts in all treatment modalities and use injectables—Botox, the most famous of them all—along with a long list of fillers that plump, hide, and beautify aging skin, there remains subjective philosophies related to the scope of interventions and treatment protocols.
Not all practitioners follow the same guidelines for what a finished effort should look like; much of the work is based upon preferences and a spectrum from very conservative and subtle improvements to those willing to do whatever a patient demands. If you are in doubt about such a claim, look at many of the unrecognized celebrities who went too far!
We’ve all heard the horrific stories of procedures gone wrong, both in foreign countries and here at home, sometimes resulting in disfigurement, even death. For this reason, there needs to be some clarification when it comes to choosing who you can trust with your face and body, or at least gain insight into the differences and credentials beauty-enhancing professionals must hold.
Currently, medical doctors are grouped into specific specialties, such as plastic surgery, but some subspecialties are specific within the category. Often, these doctors perform a variety of cosmetic and health-related services.
Others specialize in dermatology and dentistry, along with a massive number of newcomers, many of whom have advanced nursing degrees accompanied by special training; these clinicians are limited to services that include injectables, lasers, and other non-surgical facial and physical improvement options.
Many, if not all, are qualified and licensed, but as with all professions, there will be a few outliers who don’t always abide by the standards set for safety and integrity. In researching this
topic, we learned that one medical spa was found diluting vials of Botox. As unimaginable as it sounds, when the patient addressed the nurse, she made up an excuse that didn’t suffice for the actions. Patient beware.
With the following information, the objective is to make you a better consumer and increase your chances of satisfaction. As with all purchases, it’s necessary to do research, ask questions, and, when possible, get a referral. Most importantly, finding common ground with your provider and discussing the results you expect ahead of time helps build a positive rapport with them and meet your objectives.
PLASTIC
SURGEONS – THEY DO IT ALL
Medical doctors who perform procedures that include abdominoplasty (tummy tuck), liposuction (excess fat removal), rhytidectomy (facelift & neck tightening), breast augmentation or reduction (self-explanatory), blepharoplasty (eye lift), rhinoplasty, (commonly referred to as a ‘nose job’), gluteal augmentation (butt lift), and newfound techniques involving male and female genitalia.
FACIAL PLASTIC SURGEONS – SPECIALIZATION
Specialized medical doctors who strictly work on necks and faces, with many focusing their practice on both cosmetic and reconstructive surgery.
DERMATOLOGIST – HEALTH-BASED & NON-SURGICAL COSMETIC INTERVENTIONS
Cosmetic dermatology is a form of aesthetic medicine focusing on cosmetic improvements. While they are medical doctors, they’re not trained or qualified to perform rhytidectomies. Often providing both health-related services and beautification treatments, they sometimes work in medical spa settings and perform services while also providing oversight of technicians who perform procedures that don’t require
Don’t be fooled by predatory claims that you can get ‘quality for less.’
Looking good is a significant investment, and those who are busy don’t discount; they are booked months if not years in advance.
advanced degrees or higher-level licensing.
Services include Botox and similar injections to relax facial muscles, dermal fillers, exfoliation (microdermabrasion and chemical peels), laser skin treatments, Intense Pulsed Light (IPL) therapy (management of many facial imperfections), laser hair removal, tattoo removal, and micro-needling.
DENTIST – INJECTABLES
Doctor of Dental Surgery (DDS) and Doctor of Medicine in Dentistry (DMD) have specialized training in facial anatomy and function. In some states, they are allowed to inject Botox and fillers.
LICENSED INJECTORS
While state requirements vary, most require an injector to be a Nurse Practitioner or Registered Nurse who has additional training and credentials for cosmetic chemical injections, laser treatments, and non-surgical improvements.
Once you’ve decided to freshen your look or make significant changes or improvements, you’ll want to consider the amount of time you can allocate to such services; choosing a location at a distance so no one learns of your transformation is often preferred while others opt for providers closer to home or work for easy access. As for budgeting, it’s wise to stay away from anyone selling price rather than results; the best option is to pay for outstanding service and not face (unintended pun) regret. And don’t be fooled by predatory claims that you can get ‘quality for less.’ Looking good is a significant investment, and those who are busy don’t
discount; they are booked months if not years in advance.
Prior to making an appointment, you’ll also want to visit a couple of websites where you’ll see some ‘before and after’ photos (if you decide, be sure they aren’t what is known as ‘stock photos,’ confirm ahead of time that your provider did the work they promote.
Cosmetic work isn’t like comparing cars, but it isn’t far off. Unlike deciding whether to buy gas or electric or domestic or foreign, it’s more of a decision when choosing from a Lamborghini, Range Rover, Mercedes Benz, or BMW. They’re all good, but some are better than others, and often, price matters.
During your search, look for Board Certified Doctors and Societies approved by the American Board of Medicine Specialties. It’s also a good idea to check for advanced training and certification for non-medical providers.
A red flag for anyone planning to have surgery is if a Doctor promotes themselves as a ‘Cosmetic Surgeon’ in place of the title ‘Plastic Surgeon.’ These individuals will not be board-certified and may have limited if any, specialized training in the field.
As with hiring any professional, ask them for the number of years they have been performing their specialized interventions and what they do, and see if that yields the best results.
The beauty industry is a multi-billion-dollar generator catering to our need for a youthful appearance. But be aware that once you start down this road, you’ll be joining an elite club dedicated to maintaining the ‘New You’ well into your senior years. Since there is no cure for aging, just a lot of lotions, potions, injectables, and surgery, it will be up to you whether or not it is worth your time and money. H
The Solo Living Movement:
Its Benefits, Drawbacks, and Finding Contentment Alone
BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED.
ohann Moolman is a sensible, serene elder gentleman in the town of Groot Marico, South Africa. In a short film on YouTube, Reflections of Life, the distinguished artist and former professor meditates on what it means to live alone, as he’s seen going about daily life and his creative pursuits around his home.1
“Being alone is one thing,” Moolman says. “But being lonely is an entirely different kettle of fish.” Compared to life with his dogs, spending several months living amongst the masses of New York City was the loneliest he’d ever felt. Loneliness can happen anywhere, he says. It’s a state of mind, an “empty, dark void” that he’s learned to live with rather than try to escape. A realist, he says he prefers to face it head-on and work with it, as we see him molding clay figurines. He appears well-adjusted as he acknowledges he’s nearing the end of his life’s journey.
Moolman’s life of solitude represents an unrecognized, longstanding trend taking place in the U.S. and around the world.
LIVING SOLO
In 2012, PBS News’ Ray Suarez spoke with sociologist Eric Klinenberg, Ph.D., author of the book Going Solo: The Extraordinary Rise and Surprising Appeal of Living Alone, published that year. Suarez noted that from 1950-2012, there was a more than 127 percent increase in the number of American adults living alone, going from 22 percent to over 50 percent during those 62 years. Today, some 28 percent of all U.S. households have just one occupant versus nine percent of households in 1950—a 211 percent spike. 2
To Klinenberg, this is a transformative demographic shift and the largest of the last century, yet one which we’ve “failed to name or identify.” More of us are unmarried, he says, but more of us are choosing to live by ourselves and for longer periods, especially in major cities. And while singles are more likely to be socially engaged than their married counterparts, the elderly are more at risk for isolation without the suitable types of housing, which the U.S. hasn’t invested in.
In 2023, Klinenberg’s message was the same as The Hill’s Daniel de Visé. U.S. Census data still shows a rise in the number of single-person households, which Klinenberg historically attributes to women’s emergence in the workforce and bodily independence. This rise coincides with a declining birth rate and an aging populace, making it easy to envision a future where there aren’t enough workers and resources to care for the nation’s eldest.3
About 13 percent of Americans now live alone, the vast majority aged 45 and over, many of which are retirement-age women, and marriages ending later in life, known as “grey divorce.”3
BENEFITS
While humans are innately social creatures, there can be upsides to living alone.
The community-driven resource Solo Living, the first-of-itskind to provide support for people “living alone through choice
or circumstance,” highlights 10 ways living alone can afford greater autonomy over one’s lifestyle and life direction.4
10 BENEFITS OF LIVING ALONE4
Pleasing oneself, prioritizing self-carer
Being in control of one’s life direction
Embracing life through self-exploration
Making one’s living space fit one’s needs
Learning to find fulfillment living alone
Sharing one’s home as one pleases
Controlling where money is spent
Contentment through independence and self-discipline
Time to pursue one’s passions
Ability to spend quality time with friends
Living alone gives a person liberty over things they might not otherwise have living with another person: eating, sleeping, entertainment, even climate control. This may come as a culture shock to a younger person just leaving the nest, or to a recent divorcee as they learn responsibility and self-reliance.
Solo Living says we shouldn’t underestimate the psychological impact of these perks.
Living alone enables us to explore our true selves and learn to become comfortable with our own company. It allows us to identify triggers for negative feelings and how best to counter them. Ultimately, we’re able to gain confidence in our values and limits and become better people.
PITFALLS
The National Institutes on Aging states that social isolation and loneliness are linked to a host of negative health impacts and behaviors, including heart disease, high blood pressure, obesity, weakened immunity, depression, anxiety, cognitive decline (abnormal memory loss, forgetfulness, aging), Alzheimer’s disease, and death.5
An analysis of 11 large cohort studies with 424,286 participants, for example, revealed that risk of negative cardiovascular outcomes can increase when living alone. Men living alone were found to be at higher risk for heart attack and cardiovascular-related death than women.6
Another large analysis examined the relationship between living alone and death from all causes in community-based adults. Eighteen cohort studies with 62,174 participants showed a high certainty for increased risk of death in those under age 65 but not over age 75. The researchers say the link may be causal but aren’t certain. They also say men may be more strongly impacted by associations and possibly effects than women.7
Steven Cole, Ph.D., who investigates how loneliness impacts human physiology, notes that loneliness can lead to several disease pathways: it can accelerate plaque buildup in the arteries, it can promote cancer cell growth, and it can encourage brain inflammation, leading to Alzheimer’s disease. “Loneliness acts as a fertilizer for other diseases.”5
Living alone is considered a risk factor for social isolation and loneliness. But researchers say living alone may not necessarily raise one’s risk of negative health outcomes, since social isolation and loneliness are very nuanced self-perceptions and not based solely on a person’s social network.
Like Moolman said, there’s a difference between being alone and feeling lonely.
Researchers in Japan found that having a poor social network was associated with negative health outcomes in 400 older adults living in Tokyo, regardless of whether they lived alone. 8
CONTENTMENT
The key for people living alone seems to be staying socially engaged, having a purpose, and finding ways to cope with inevitable lonely feelings.5 Older adults, especially men, who live alone may need social support.
Moolman reminds us that no man is an island and that we all serve as reflections of each other for us to learn from. Still, “[i]t’s inevitable that your flame is going to dim.” When that happens, he’s learned to be kind to himself. He believes loneliness and depression go hand in hand.
Solo Living offers a guide for people new to living alone from the perspective of those living it.
Simon Day found himself living alone after a divorce. He says the novelty and initial invigorating feelings dissolved after several weeks when reality set in with the cold weather. The darker evenings led to dark thoughts and self-doubt about living alone. But gradually, with the help of counseling and medication, he’s been able to improve his mental health, open up to friends, and adopt a more realistic, positive outlook. By planning his days, doing anxiety exercises, and living in the moment, he’s found contentment living solo.
He advises embracing the highs and managing the lows for a successful solo living journey.
Living a simple life, Johann Moolman believes true wealth isn’t about materialism and things we’ve gathered but about what we’ve acquired in our souls, the love we’ve cultivated in our hearts—what he believes is his purpose for being. H
1. Reflections of Life. (2023, February 18). Alone in the Crowd – Exploring Our Shared Humanity [Video]. YouTube.
2. Suarez, R. (2012, March 27). Why More Americans Are Living Alone [TV broadcast transcript]. PBS News Hour.
3. de Visé, D. (2023, July 10). A record share of Americans is living alone. The Hill.
4. Myers, S. (2023, August 20). 10 Reasons Why Living Alone Can Be Good For You. Solo Living.
5. National Institutes on Aging. (2019, April 23). Social isolation, loneliness in older people pose health risks.
6. Gan, T., Yang, J., Jiang, L., & Gao, Y. (2023). Living alone and cardiovascular outcomes: a meta-analysis of 11 cohort studies. Psychology, Health & Medicine, 28(3).
7. Zhao, Y., Guyatt, G., Gao, Y., et al. (2022, December). Living and all-cause mortality in communitydwelling adults: A systematic review and metaanalysis. eClinicalMedicine, 54, 101677.
8. Sakurai, R., Kawai, H., Suzuki, H., et al. (2019, November). Poor Social Network, Not Living Alone, Is Associated With Incidence of Adverse Health Outcomes in Older Adults. Journal of the American Medical Directors Association, 20(11), 1438-43.
It’s Time To Level Up & Be Your Best Version
BY STEVEN CHAN
Frustration, marked by a lack of interest in activities and experiences usually enjoyed, can be attributed to a host of negative feelings or having to adjust to life’s many sudden challenges. Divorce, dissolving a relationship, the death of a partner or parent, or equally traumatic, the loss of a favored career can damage a fragile ego and deplete one’s self-worth. Yet, we can all expect to face the unexpected at one time or another. Unfortunately, whether you get angry at others or internalize your fears, turning them into melancholy or a mild and temporary depressive state, adverse reactions to personal circumstances are detrimental to how you feel, lessening the ability to face struggles and achieve homeostasis; the inability to control emotions or understand what is going on ‘inside of you’ inhibits if not prevents you from presenting your best self.
A fundamental factor in the disconnect between finding satisfaction and roaming without purpose can be traced to feelings of powerlessness or difficulty in adapting to change or a new environment. Whether succumbing to repetitiveness and a monotonous existence or accepting ‘what is’ rather than creating change in your life are all selffulfilling behaviors that limit exposure to discovering new pathways leading to a rewarding and satisfactory life.
MORE IMPORTANT THAN MONEY IS TIME
Hopefully, most people are aware that besides good health, time is an irreplaceable
and valuable commodity or treasure we possess. Unfortunately, and much too often, some are late to react, only to find they wasted years of their lives. Regretful, they learn that every minute that passes is gone forever and cannot be replenished. It is for this reason the most emotionally intelligent and keenly discerning people come to cherish each day while evaluating their level of enjoyment and satisfaction, leading to questions like: Did I make a difference in someone’s life? Have I made progress in my journey of personal development, and what did I learn today? Whether changes are large or small, your story is the one that matters because it will continue to evolve and expand your enjoyment.
Complacency is the devil that strips away self-assurance (confidence) and self-esteem (appreciation), which can be thought of as the ‘emotional DNA’ of personal development and coping strategies into adulthood. Handle your time as if it were currency, spend it wisely, and never waste it on people who take advantage of your resources and energy.
WHAT IS LEVELING UP?
The short answer is to become better each day with an eye on expanding your personal assets that make you unique, engaging, and attractive. Think of it as climbing a stairway; each step you take lifts you to a new height of improvement of your mind, body, and appeal.
You mustn’t make the mistake of trying to overhaul your physical appearance or personality in the first week; remember,
it is the journey that yields measurable results. Throughout the process, you will find that by initiating subtle changes through mindful thinking, improved appearance, and, most importantly, living in the present, your progress will be reflected onto others, and you will begin to receive compliments as well as attention.
It is not a sprint; instead, view it as a marathon.
TAKING ACTION BY NOT ACTING
If you want to ‘glow up,’ here are a few suggestions for updating your look and outlook.
Begin by listing your strengths and weaknesses; next to them, note what you can do to move those that are less satisfactory into the other column. For example, if you find that people seem rude, short, or use poor social skills with you, make it a point to be overtly polite, make eye contact, and hold yourself to a higher standard of behavior by asking if they are feeling okay or is something is bothering them? You will be surprised that taking the lead will make them uncomfortable, not you. Often, you will find them a bit startled that you did not react how they anticipated you would and begin to engage with a more acceptable demeanor.
Next, ask yourself: What are my strengths, and am I exercising them to my full benefit? Too often, we neglect to make use of traits others find appealing. A man once said, “Play host to the world, and they will respond.”
Basically, regardless of the difficulty, always take the high road, no one has
ever been viewed as crass, angry, or vicious for remaining silent when in a confrontation. Reflecting on an incident once shared, during a traffic stop, a driver was approached by a police officer who proceeded to his vehicle screaming, yelling, and making threats because he misinterpreted an event leading up to the incident. Being prepared, the motorist used silence unless asked a question, and in those cases, answered in a low voice, absent of confrontation, while maintaining eye contact. When the officer did not get the response he desired, he wrote a citation and said, “We’ll see about this.” An appeal followed, and a hearing was granted.
On the day of judgment, the officer didn’t show up; instead, a representative took his place. Before the motorist had a chance to take a seat, the clerk said they would not have to say a word and that the
case was to be dismissed. What was going to happen was the taping for the record. The narrative surrounding the traffic stop and the ‘unprofessional’ behavior that took place would have demonstrated who was in control.
Staying in control is power; being silent is a weapon.
TACTICS FOR IMPROVEMENT
n Cease the negative voice in your head—everyone has one; replace it with a mantra that directs you to positivity
n Recognize behaviors that stifled you as ‘outdated’ and replace them with actions that evoke confidence
n Become disciplined; stop unhealthy behaviors: smoking, overdrinking adult beverages, sleeping late, isolating, reacting
rather than remaining stoic when challenged
n Change your routine by taking a new route to familiar places and resist following the same steps or paths of comfort; change rarely happens when we know the result ahead of time
n Read. Read. Read. Search for books, feeds, or podcasts that will share insight into modern-day social
n Clean up, dress up, and present well. Not only will you feel better—you will become memorable
This is only a starting point; by practicing daily, you will create confidence and satisfaction that will improve your outlook and build strength plus stamina, which develops into assurance and endurance. By leveling up, your self-awareness can’t help but improve; from here, you’ll notice changes in all of your personal interactions. H
MFA Late Nites
The Hottest Party In Boston @ An Extraordinary Venue
Last month, we shared a feature with readers focusing on Harvard Art Museums ‘A Night At The Museum,’ which proved to be an incredible evening and a super story that followed.
Shortly after, we discovered another well-known institution, Museum of Fine Arts (MFA) is also in the game of producing a similar event; however, this one seemed to be fueled by steroids.
On Friday, October 25, lines began to form in front of the
museum at 7 p.m., quickly growing and weaving aimlessly onto Huntington Avenue from one side of the stately entrance for advanced ticket holders another wrapped around the building for those purchasing access the day of the event. As the temperature dropped, the enthusiasm elevated quickly; idle chatter, selfies, and, of course, anticipation indicated what could be expected in the great hall.
The MFA Late Nites offers a spectacular experience and draws a massive audience from every corner of modern-day culture.
From the ‘galalike’ atmosphere created by dramatic lighting and the line of vehicles reminiscent of a red-carpet event, to legions of guests wearing highfashion looks— with some quite exotic—it was ostensibly ‘The Place To Be.’
The MFA Late Nites offers a spectacular experience and draws a massive audience from every corner of modern-day culture.
With an austere staff that moved people into the building with military readiness, lines quickly diminished, and calm returned as revelers were pointed toward the entrance, where the main event was heating up.
As the minutes passed, the combination of music, live performances, dancing, and art began to shine, as did the comfort food offerings and libations found at multiple bars set up around the museum’s first level. In combination with the extended opening of the Gund Gallery Shop, Bookstore, and Vinyl Village, accompanied by ‘ArtMaking’ and a chance to sketch live figure models, the vibe grew as each minute passed.
The museum is a great spot for such an event; its vast collection allows for the unique experience of strolling through time while listening to contemporary music—it was uncharacteristic but distinctive and pleasurable.
After-hour ‘blow-outs’ as they are called, bring together a community and entice participation because of their infrequency, held only a few times per year.
Diversity was at an all-time high at this MFA Late Nites event, and that is great and wonderful to be part of; but, with tensions running high during the political season and everyone talking about inclusiveness and respect, there were some shortcomings. Overall, the evening was tremendous, but the shade of noninclusiveness peeked out both subtly and overtly—many in attendance found it troubling and disrespectful by rolling their eyes and displaying faces of disappointment.
Here are the details: there was also a voter registration drive, with
assistants making their way through the crowd; it appeared innocuous until one of the feature performers took it upon himself to stop the music and encourage nonregistered voters to get signed up and in his words, “Register, only if you’re going to vote for the right candidate.” He continued with more—‘trash talk,’ calling notice to an unrealized theme of the event: a biased slant for a preferred candidate over another at a public institution. His actions not only tinged the pleasantry for many, but exposed his intolerance with whom he disagreed; it was an effort to stir up animosity within the crowd. His blatant attempt to combine a hidden agenda disguised by a ‘get-out-to-vote’ effort was principally used to divide people who were there to celebrate and accept their differences. His actions exposed his and the institution’s ideology by representation and allowance; such dishonesty is an unacceptable truth that lies under the surface and needs reform.
As this feature gets written and goes to press, we don’t hold contempt or ill feelings toward those involved; we reason that regardless of which political party would attempt to ‘use’ an event like this one to influence an election, our exact words would remain and we would also hold them responsible.
As we have written before, ‘Hate has no place here’ or, for that matter, anywhere; that is our truth. H
Future MFA Late Nites: Friday, March 28, 2025: 8 p.m.–1 a.m., and Friday, June 6, 2025: also 8 p.m.–1 a.m. For more information, visit MFA.org.
OUR VIEW
Stamina, Expression, & Commitment Creates A Masterful Performance At The Citizens Bank Opera House In Boston
BY CATHERINE HILDERBRAND
Boston Ballet’s “Fall Experience” opened the season on October 24, 2024, as a tribute to the late Michaela Mabinty DePrince, who passed a few months earlier. Described as a “gifted dancer” and “a voice of advocacy and a beacon of hope and kindness who inspired the dance community,” she was honored, while unbeknownst, her memory distilled a fiery passion and a resounding tenor that penetrated through historic music halls. Her spirited presence laid the foundation for an epic evening of dedication, which clearly inspired dancers to perform one of the most profound productions ever produced by the company.
Entering its 61st season with the introduction of the “Fall Experience,” the Boston Ballet held nothing back! Indescribably poignant, as the curtain lifted, the company immediately captured the audience with moody lighting, a barren stage, and hypnotic themes. Following variations, equal to the first, likened to stones on a path leading to a prescribed destination, guests were delivered a visceral journey building to “The Seasons’ Canon,” which arrived after a short intermission. The trove of rhythmic dancers working to music like waves on the ocean, brought tears of connection, pride, and appreciation to all who witnessed human perfection. The ease and delicacy of the ensemble of 54 dancers in unison was unearthly precise. The variations titled “Spring,” “Summer,” “Fall,” and “Winter” were performed with unimaginable accuracy; in light of this experience, there will be lingering pain by knowing nothing will ever compare to this memorable evening.
Upon reflection, the word ‘riveting’ comes to mind on the modality of emotions that flooded the audience on opening night; from the pin-drop silence—not an extraneous sound resonated—guests appeared as inspired as the performers, sitting with pent-up anticipation and unnerving focus, they watched as the music synced perfectly with the choreography of vibrant dancers serving as arrows to the heart; over and over again.
With critic’s opinions indicative of the hands on a clock, having many numbers to rest upon, it can be difficult for the public to decipher the intrinsic value of a production that is based on subjectivity and professional bias, which sometimes casts a shadow tilting towards a level of sophistication or knowledge that can’t speak to the sheer enjoyment that comes from dance when viewed by a large block of supporters which grows the organization.
This event did something ingenious and not often noticed; as guests left the theater, a hostess and camera person taped audience members’ reactions, which were later posted on social media.
Not startling by any means, the impromptu anecdotal reviews of the evening drew candid and unrehearsed comments that indeed measured the quality and satisfaction with the evening. Time and time again, the clips play with extraordinary accuracy, showing how impressed audience members felt about this first production.
Enough cannot be said about the Boston Ballet’s growth over the years, a direct result of the ambition and vision of its board, leadership, exquisitely talented choreographers, invincible dancers, and proud sponsors; in totality, this team effort for the 2024-2025 season has kick-off what will probably be remembered as the most magnificent programming ever conceived and performed.
We have been bestowed a gift of relevance that comes with what is best described as a ‘World-Class’ dance company. Now the season is underway, we urge you to make plans for one or all of the upcoming performances, including “The Nutcracker” (November 29-December 29), “Swan Lake” (February 27-March 16), and “Roméo Et Juliette” (May 29-June 8); you will not be disappointed. BostonBallet.org. H
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
World-renowned chef Jacques Pépin will return to the UMass Dartmouth campus on Tuesday, December 17, 2024, to celebrate his 89th birthday.
The event, hosted by the Claire T. Carney Library Associates, will feature a French-inspired four-course dinner, followed by a brief talk and book signing by Pépin.
Pépin was the personal chef to French heads of state and an ambassador for French cuisine. After moving to the United States in 1959, he worked at New York’s historic Le Pavillon restaurant. He served as director of research and development for the Howard Johnson Company, honing his skills in mass production, marketing, food chemistry, and American food tastes. An accomplished author with more than 30 books, Pépin also hosted a series on PBS with friend Julia Child, who earned a James Beard Foundation Award for Best National Cooking Show. He has received three honors from the French government, including the title of Chevalier de L’Ordre National de La Légion D’Honneur.
The December 17 event begins at 6 p.m. in the Marketplace on the UMass Dartmouth campus. Copies of Pépin’s books will be available for purchase. H
Tickets are now available at umassd.edu/alumni. For questions or more information, contact Susan Ahearn, Director of Alumni Relations, at sahearn@umassd.edu or 508-971-9007.
FOUR-COURSE FRENCH-INSPIRED MENU
Includes
Classic onion soup
A choice of scallops in cream sauce, Merlot-braise short rib, or ratatouille Bibb lettuce salad
Classic French opera cake
A Holiday Gift That Won’t Collect Dust
Do you realize goals that are written down are 42 percent more likely to be accomplished? Yes, and it’s no wonder that despite living in a modern world defined by digital technology and keyboards, handwriting still holds a rank and loving appreciation for personalized communication. Whether it is a schedule, note-taking, or a message to a parent, friend, or colleague, your expression when writing won’t end up deleted but instead saved and cherished.
Levenger, the iconic lifestyle brand founded in Belmont, Massachusetts, specializing in fine stationery, planners, leather goods, and accessories, is celebrating 35 brilliant years of championing the written word and all manners of creative expression to help individuals pursue their passions and achieve their dreams. After launching the company in 1987, Levenger has been dedicated to the creation of thoughtful and exquisitely designed products that assist in the pursuit of passions and achievement.
Each gift you share with someone special will be appreciated each time it is used; every product from Levenger stands out because of
its focus on quality and craftsmanship. Imagine giving a gift of a leather briefcase, folio, or fountain pen that will be remembered— and used for 10, 20, 30 years or more.
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We are thrilled to be a supportive partner to an outstanding company; as they put it, “We aren’t changing the world; our customers are.” H
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SunnyGem Almond Oil Gets Our Seal Of Approval
If you’re uncertain about finding the ultimate gift for your special ‘foodie,’ look no further than SunnyGem Almond Oil for the holidays, or for that matter, all year long. SunnyGem is so affordable you will want to get a couple for yourself.
From its attractive packaging to free nationwide shipping, SunnyGem Almond Oil is a premium, 100 percent virgin cold-pressed oil sourced from California’s finest almonds. Once you try it, it will become your favorite healthy baking and cooking alternative!
With a focus on health-wise food preparation while facing the high risks of cooking with butter packed with saturated fat, which can raise LDL cholesterol levels and contribute to heart disease, California’s SunnyGem Almond Oil is rich in monounsaturated fats, the same kind found in olive oil. These fats can lower LDL cholesterol and even increase HDL levels, which has been found to be beneficial.
It is also packed with vitamin E, a powerful antioxidant that can protect your cells from damage and boost skin health. In fact, a tablespoon of almond oil provides nearly 26 percent of your daily recommended vitamin E intake, which is something butter can’t match. But there’s more; SunnyGem 100 percent Virgin Cold-Pressed Almond Oil is rich in omega-6’s, known for helping with a reduction in nerve pain found in people experiencing diabetic neuropathy; it is known to reduce pain, swelling, and stiffness in joints, and studies have shown they reduce blood pressure and the risk of heart disease.
However, the primary reason people from around the country place orders is because of its taste and high-quality standards. It is a delightful alternative to finish a salad, use as a marinade, or sauté fresh vegetables and mushrooms; it is even a perfect choice when baking. With a low to medium smoking point of 425° F, it’s an ideal close-at-hand unrefined cooking oil that actually improves the taste of each dish you prepare.
SunnyGem Almond Oil is made without additives; it is also Vegan, non-GMO, plant-based, Keto, and paleofriendly. Unlike purchasing olive oils that often have been overprocessed or diluted with lesser-valued oils by indiscriminate overseas manufacturers, SunnyGem is one of the largest vertically integrated almond suppliers in the world, with a combined 200 years of experience in farming.
This versatile oil is perfect for a variety of culinary applications:
n Sold in three convenient-sized bottles, it’s ideal for sautéing, baking, dressing, grilling, and roasting
n A healthy alternative to butter and traditional cooking oils
n Enhances both sweet and savory dishes with a mild and nutty flavor
n A thoughtful gift for food enthusiasts, or everyone, this holiday season
n Transforms your dishes into delicious gourmet masterpieces
As a product that has gone through rigorous testing, has compiled volumes of reviews, and comes highly recommended, today is your opportunity to live better and receive the best value for your hard-earned dollars. H
Visit sunnygemoil.com and see what makes them a different type of company, offering the finest and healthiest cooking products on the market!
The Perfect Gift, A Dinner Party With Author & Chef Dedee Royale!
Indulge in a unique and affordable cooking and eating experience that is authentic, customized and, up until today, it either hasn’t been available or is out of reach to many.
This unique experience of having ‘The Italian Diva’ visit with you and your friends and family for a day or evening of prepping and cooking genuine Italian recipes handed down through generations under the guidance of private Chef Dedee Royale is a worldly indulgence.
Here is what you need to know: All events and intricacies are discussed in advance with the host/hostess, so every detail is as near perfect as possible. Groups can be as large as 10 participants and include an interactive and hands-on experience where everyone is involved in the preparation of the evening meal.
The class consists of creating the entrees, pasta dishes, focaccia, and dessert; wine or cocktails are handled by the clients. With everyone getting involved, interaction becomes entertainment with copies of the evening’s recipes included. Once the food comes out of the kitchen, Chef Dedee and guests retreat to the dining room to toast a spectacular meal and share enchanting experiences.
A night with a group of friends is unduplicated—add what everyone loves to do (eat, drink, and laugh), and you’ll receive calls and accolades for coming up with the best gift, celebration, girls night out, or holiday gathering ever to be shared or talked about.
This experience also brings families together for birthdays and anniversaries or to reconnect and spend quality time together while the devices are shut down for a few hours.
The only question remaining is, “What are you waiting for?”
Take a moment to grasp a concept hundreds of other people found to be beyond ordinary and tasteful—in every sense.
“I Come To You,” —Chef Dedee Royale H
Reserve your holiday dining and cooking class by December 31, 2024, and receive a complimentary class (A nearly $100 Value) for hosting an event.
Contact Chef Dedee Royale for more information about planning the perfect event in your home by calling the ‘Italian Diva’ at 508-454-2001, 786-316-2638, or email theitaliandiva77@ gmail.com. And, of course, you’ll want to visit her at TheItalianDiva.com | Gift Cards Available
DAY TRIPPING!
Catch a fast, fun, safe trip to beautiful Cuttyhunk Island on board the M/V Cuttyhunk!
• Depart from New Bedford’s historic waterfront; a short walk to downtown New Bedford’s many restaurants, boutique shops, museums & galleries.
• Enjoy the gorgeous views of Buzzards Bay as you make your way to the laid back island of Cuttyhunk.
• Friday Night Sunset Cruises! Breathtaking scenery, comfortable accommodations, not to be missed excursion.
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FALL: SEPTEMBER 23, 2024-OCTOBER 14, 2024
Depart
WINTER: OCTOBER 15, 2024-APRIL 28, 2025 - CALL FOR ADDITIONAL HOLIDAY TRIPS
Depart New Bedford
WEATHER NOTE: IF SEVERE WEATHER IS PREDICTED, IT IS ADVISABLE TO CALL IN ADVANCE OF DEPARTURE FOR POSSIBLE SCHEDULING CHANGES. 508.992.0200
RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED FOR ALL PASSENGERS AND FREIGHT
To get a ticket you must have a reservation through our online reservation system. No charge for children 2 years and younger. The office must be notified at the time of ticket purchase about each child 2 years and under that will be traveling with you, in order to accurately count all persons on board the vessel. Dogs, on leash, are welcome at no charge. For non-web or special group payments and for check, cash or different form of payment, please email reservations@cuttyhunkferryco.com or call 508.992.0200. You can leave a message and your reservation will be held.
NEW LISTINGS!
EXPERIENCE LUXURY CONDO LIVING ON BUZZARDS BAY
37 Hetty Green Drive, South Dartmouth, MA: This Charming Gambrel awaits you in the gated community of Round Hill along the shores of Buzzards Bay. With its own 9-hole Golf Course, Olympic size pool, clubhouse, tennis and its own Private beach, it is a retreat like no other. This property has 3 bedrooms with a possibility of adding a 4th. The home has a wood-burning fireplace, custom built-ins and gleaming hardwood floors. Step outside to the brass wrap-around screened porch, a truly magical space offering tranquil views of the pond and its surrounding wildlife. Only minutes to the Padanaram Harbor.
54 Hidden Bay Drive, South Dartmouth, MA: Welcome to this WATERFRONT PROPERTY that has panoramic breathtaking water views of Buzzards Bay. This two-story end unit offers 2,325 square ft. This property has 3 bedrooms and 3 1/2 baths. The sun filled open concept living/dining room has cathedral ceilings, hardwood floors, fireplace and triple sliders to the new deck with its incredible views. The community has a security gate, pool and tennis/pickle ball and a private beach. Just minutes from the Padanaram Village.
These two properties are exclusively listed by Fatima Simas: (508) 287-0003
250 Elm St. Padanaram Village, S. Dartmouth | (508) 999-1010 |