DATE GUIDE
welcome to
Something magical Tonight you will embark on a magical journey. Magic in its purest form brings about a childlike wonder to the world, perhaps even for some skeptics. As we settle into a routine, some of that “magic” may have faded and our hope is that you get to have a little fun and do something different all from the comfort of your own home. You will explore magic by participating in a virtual, interactive magic show and also partaking in several activities that might inject a little magic into your relationship. PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT TO REVIEW THIS DATE GUIDE AND YOUR MAGIC SHOW INFORMATION CARD. PART OF YOUR DATE EXPERIENCE WILL INCLUDE A VIRTUAL MAGIC SHOW AND MIGHT REQUIRE SOME PLANNING! We have so much fun in store for you tonight! Take pictures of your date and share them using #DateNightInBox. One lucky couple will win and get their next date night FREE! Join us on Facebook or Instagram for more details. If you received this date as a gift and enjoy your night, we would love for you to join us again next month!
Thanks to
all of you for allowing us to help build memories with you and your significant others. Till Next Month!
Megan Pruitt, Owner and Founder of Date Night In
DATE ACTIVITIES -
SET THE MOOD
-
COOK YOUR SUGGESTED
Setting the mood is an essential tool for a successful date night. We have included Magical Flame Crystals that can be added to any woodburning fire. We hope you
DINNER RECIPES
-
Set the Mood
will enjoy this truly unique experience to help set the mood for your night!
5 MINUTE MAGIC IN VULNERABILITY
-
ENJOY YOUR INCLUDED SNACK
-
ENJOY AN INTERACTIVE VIRTUAL MAGIC SHOW
-
DECK OF ROMANCE
-
FIND YOUR MAGICIAN NAME
-
WAYS TO ENJOY THE REST OF YOUR NIGHT
Cook Your Suggested Dinner Recipes Locate your custom curated recipe card for
Visit datenightinbox.com/magic to access your custom Spotify playlist.
some delicious recipes to accompany your Something Magical date night!
5 Minute Ma Vulnerability The definition of vulnerable might surprise you. From MerriamWebster: Vul·ner·a·ble 1: capable of being physically or emotionally wounded 2: open to attack or damage : ASSAILABLE // vulnerable to criticism Vulnerability requires emotional risk. From risk, real magic can happen. In an era of Instagram filters, when you are vulnerable, you are deeply sharing who you are at your core. You are allowing your partner to know you without any filter. Being vulnerable requires trust. Although there is the possibility of rejection, there is also the possibility of feeling truly heard and understood by your partner. EXERCISE 1 - 5 MINUTE EYE GAZING Eye gazing sounds deceptively simple, but it’s quite a vulnerable exercise, and it can be surprisingly difficult to do for extended periods of time. Don’t worry if you feel self-conscious, nervous, or start laughing - this is a completely normal reaction. If you approach this exercise with an open heart, there will be magic in your vulnerability as a couple! Locate your included five minute timer. Face each other in a seated position with your knees close to touching and hold eye contact for 5 minutes. Yes, you’re allowed to blink and yes, it may feel slightly awkward for the first 1-2 minutes. Try to avoid talking. As you do this, look into each other’s eyes. As you begin to relax, think about how you feel. Breathe deeply as you do this. You might feel a number of different emotions - they will pass, just keep breathing deeply. You will notice a growing vulnerability within you - this is good!
gic In y EXERCISE 2-
5 MINUTES OF TRUST ME!
Locate your included Trust Me! Worksheet and your timer. Take the next five minutes sitting back to back or touching each other physically in some way and explore what trust means to you. Spend the following five minutes per person to review your answers. EXERCISE 3 - 5 MINUTES OF ALL TIED UP In this final exercise, you will need to work together to achieve a common goal while we take away the use of one of each of your hands and eyesight. This will make you vulnerable and require you to work as a team. For this game, you will need your timer, included hair tie, blindfold, and deck of cards. Bind your dominant hands together with your included elastic, you will not be able to use these hands during the challenge. Flip the five minute timer and take your included deck of cards and throw them in the air. Quickly and concisely communicate directions and actions so each partner can use their free hand to organize the deck in order. All four aces first, 2s next, 3s next, and so on. Arrange the cards in the order of Clubs, Hearts, Spades, and Diamonds. The person who took the lead in the first round will now wear a blindfold. Remember, this makes them a vulnerable partner who is at a bit of a disadvantage but can still be utilized to accomplish the task! Flip the timer and begin! Reflect on how you came to accomplish this task and the symbolism of placing a partner at a disadvantage who normally might take a leading role.
Enjoy Your Included Snack Perfect to sip during the magic show or any portion of your date. Locate your included drink mix and sip on your cocktail or mocktail!
Participate in an Interactive Magic Show Locate your included information card on your magic show and enjoy the show! It’s best to attend live but if that’s not possible, we have a virtual recording for you as well! Several items in your box will be utilized during the show. Listen for prompts from the magician Harrison and enjoy!
if t o d e ls sh n e ss m e n b u si u r te a m o se s ll a a d n W e h a ve d e m ic a g ic sh o w s, w e th is p a n l ma li ty d u ri n g t vi rt u a u is a re a o b a d m a k e th le a rn e e d e d to e n e w knew e rs ! cu st o m fo r o u r rl d cl a ss C it y is a w o rk K ra m e r New Yo n o in is n rr ia Ha d a g ic io n a l m o st e x p e ri e n ce e rs in ss fe ro p in m e n te rt a e o f th e and on a l Z o o m a g ic , iv e vi rt u m ve in te ra ct . H is cl o se -u p ows ha d o o m sh th e w o rl , a n d vi rt u a l Z p p le , A sm , li r m e n ta y G o o g le o f o th e
“Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen.” ― Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Deck of Romance Now it’s time to play Deck of Romance. This game will help you to unwind and have some fun while igniting the magic within your relationship. Feel free to modify this game to be as lighthearted or spicy as you want. INSTRUCTIONS Start by customizing your own actions and body parts by filling in the blanks. We have listed suggestions if you need some ideas. The number and suit on the card you choose will tell you what to do with your partner. The suit coordinates to an action you’ll complete, and the number tells you which body part to do the action to. Simple right? Begin playing by shuffling the playing cards and dealing 4 to each of you. Then, set the remaining deck in between you and your partner. Each of you must keep 4 cards in your hand at all times. Have player 1 lay down a card of their choice and then draw a replacement card from the deck. Player 2 must complete the action associated with the card that was laid down. After the action is completed, it is now player 2’s turn. Continue taking turns drawing cards back and forth and playing for a set number of rounds (ex. 4) or until you want to stop.
Actions SUGGESTIONS kiss,rub,touch,tickle,massage
body parts SUGGESTIONS nose, forehead, hand, stomach, lips, ear, neck, back, arm
2
8
3
9
4
10
5
J
6
Q
7
K A
partner’s choice
Find your Magician Name Now that you have a couple of magic tricks up your sleeve, let’s find your magician name using the prompts below.
USE YOUR BIRTH MONTH Jan-
The Hungry
Jul-
Feb-
The Sensational
Aug- The Amazing
The Miraculous
Mar- The Great
Sep-
The Breathtaking
Apr-
Oct-
The Wonderous
The Dangerous
May- The Mysterious
Nov- The Hot
Jun-
Dec- The Flying
The Crazy
THEN USE THE DAY YOU WERE BORN ON 1st-
Wizard
17th- Charmer
2nd- Heartbreaker
18th- Diviner
3rd-
Detector
19th- Entertainer
4th-
Magician
20th- Illusionist
5th-
Unavoidable
21st- Hypnotist
6th-
Wonder
22nd- Showman
7th-
Phenomenon
23rd- Genius
8th-
Sparkle
24th- Marvel
9th-
Berzerk
25th- Trickster
10th- Psychic
26th- Rookie
11th- Diamond
27th- Hotshot
12th- Romantic
28th- Prodigy
13th- Superstar
29th- Performer
14th- Optimistic
30th- Star
15th- Risktaker
31st- Whiz
16th- Artist
WAYS TO CONTINUE Learn some more magic tricks by heading to our website at datenightinbox.com/magic. Movie Suggestions: Now You See Me Practical Magic The Illusionist The Prestige The Incredible Burt Wonderstone The Sorcerer’s Apprentice
#DATENIGHTINBOX @DATENIGHTINBOX
Don’t forget to share pictures from your date with our hashtag #datenightinbox for a chance to win a FREE date.