Carolyn M. Welsh Appointed as President and CEO
A Bold Vision for Our Future
Throughout her 24-year tenure at NJ Sharing Network, Carolyn M. Welsh’s unique combination of intellect, passion and compassion have enabled her to make a significant impact, not only here in New Jersey, but within the broader organ and tissue donation community. She has guided strategic plans, policies and procedures that have resulted in record growth in the number of lives saved and enhanced through organ and tissue donation and transplantation.
Those who have worked alongside Carolyn, including past-President and CEO Joe Roth, have witnessed her tireless commitment to NJ Sharing Network’s life-saving mission and her ability to inspire others.
Now, Carolyn is leading NJ Sharing Network in its bold vision for the future to save and enhance more lives than ever before. This includes achieving a goal of reaching 300 organ donors and 700 transplants in a single year by 2024.
What a Year for Saving Lives!
2022 will be remembered as a year filled with unprecedented achievements for our life-saving mission!
Inspired and Unstoppable
The number of organ donors in New Jersey and organs transplanted in a single year reached all-time highs in 2022. There were 283 organ donor heroes who gave the gift of life resulting in 670 organs transplanted. These totals mark significant increases over the previous records of 233 organ donors and 613 organs transplanted. This also marked the fourth consecutive year NJ Sharing Network has achieved new records in the number of donors, underscoring the clear trend of increased support for organ donation in the Garden State!
In 2022, the 670 organs transplanted included 350 kidneys (all-time high), 170 livers (all-time high), 71 hearts, 58 lungs, 20 pancreata and one intestine. In addition, 40,000 eye and tissue gifts enhanced the quality of life for those in need.
September 2022 was a remarkable highlight of the year as 92 organs were transplanted—the most ever in a single month in New Jersey. The previous record for organs transplanted in a month was 82 – the new record was a 12% increase.
A Landmark Achievement
On September 9, 2022, the U.S. organ donation system reached the historic milestone of one million organ transplants. A record-breaking 41,000+ transplants were performed nationwide in 2021, more than double the rate from 25 years ago. NJ Sharing Network is a proud member of the
It’s exciting to lead our efforts to further advance our life-saving mission working with our caring and compassionate staff. They are amazing people who understand that what we do is much more than a job—it is a unified mission to save lives and give hope to those waiting for a second chance at life through organ and tissue donation and transplantation.
I take extraordinary pride in the people with whom I work. Our team is unstoppable, motivated to take on all challenges, and focused on saving more lives than ever before. We have developed strategic plans for growth that include adding talent, resources, and programs to facilitate the donor process, support donor families, and increase our robust multicultural outreach and education efforts.”
—Carolyn M. WelshAmong New Jersey’s Best
In 2022, NJBIZ, New Jersey’s leading business journal, named Carolyn as one of the honorees for its Best 50 Women in Business program, which recognizes professionals who have made a significant impact on New Jersey industries and the community at large.
nationwide organ donation and transplant system responsible for making this happen and supports the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) in advancing Living It Forward, a national initiative to further accelerate the pace of donation and commemorate the lives saved, legacies honored, and hope restored.
Reaching New Heights
On December 6, 2022, NJ Sharing Network’s partner Community Blood Center/Community Tissue Services (CBC/CTS) celebrated the distribution of its one millionth allograft of the year. It was the first time that CBC/ CTS reached this level of success. Allografts can be vital for burn patients, accident victims, injured athletes and others who require allograft surgeries.
Caring Connections Matter
NJ Sharing Network’s compassionate team is making personal connections with more families than ever before within our local hospitals. Family approaches in 2022 increased by 11% over 2021. These tireless efforts are providing more families of every race and ethnicity the opportunity for donation—a precious gift during a tragic time.
Amazing Partners. Incredible Results.
Our hospital partners are a driving force in our life-saving mission. In 2022, Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital (RWJUH) an RWJBarnabas Health facility, achieved new milestones with 33 organ donor heroes giving the gift of life resulting in 102 organs being transplanted—both are new records for the most ever in a single year by any hospital in New Jersey.
“Our partnership with NJ Sharing Network and our shared mission of saving and enhancing lives through organ donation runs deep in the RWJUH culture,” said Bill Arnold, President and CEO, RWJUH. “RWJUH is committed to facilitating the gift of life in the face of tragic circumstances. We are deeply honored to support the families of donors through this journey.”
RWJUH Donor Hero Saves Lives
On April 4, 2022, the untimely passing of Stephanie Smith, 24, of Jackson shattered the hearts of her family and friends. The middle child of seven, Stephanie’s fun-loving spirit and energy always shined through. Stephanie’s parents, Donna and Wayne, find some comfort in knowing that a special part of her continues to live on as an organ and tissue donor. Stephanie’s donated heart, liver, pancreas, and kidneys saved the lives of four women. Her cornea donation also restored sight for another woman.
The family is grateful for the care and support they received from the teams of NJ Sharing Network and Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital
Caring for Stephanie on the day she gave the ultimate gift was the most sacred and humbling experience of my career. That day, her family honored her by carrying out the most selfless act of love that I have ever experienced. I will always be grateful for the opportunity of being her nurse, and I will always remember her beautiful family who chose to provide life through their loss.”
—Jaime Friedland, RN, RWJUHA WINNING TEAM TO GUIDE OUR MISSION
Everyone is familiar with the saying, “Teamwork makes the dream work.” That concept rings true at NJ Sharing Network as team members work together 24/7/365 to recover and place donated organs and tissue, support donor families, honor the legacy of those who gave the gift of life and raise awareness about the power of organ and tissue donation and transplantation. Meet the members of Carolyn M. Welsh’s Executive Leadership Team with over 80 combined years of expertise and service who are helping to guide our life-saving mission.
Dedicated
Eager
Compassionate
Resourceful
Team Focused
Best Wishes to Joyce!
Since 1999, Joyce Jardot, former Director of Human Resources, was a vital part of NJ Sharing Network’s life-saving mission— always guiding our HR team with great energy and expertise. While we will truly miss seeing Joyce around the office, we congratulate her on her retirement and wish her the best on her next chapter ahead!
To Honor. To Remember. To Give Hope.
On September 11, 2001, Tony Moyet of Bloomfield was one of the heroic NY Waterway ferry captains who helped evacuate people from Manhattan following the attack on the World Trade Center. He continued to work at Ground Zero for another year and a half, ferrying personnel and supplies to the workers and first responders.
To Honor To Remember
Years later, Tony began finding it difficult to breathe. He was diagnosed with COPD and emphysema, and doctors attributed his condition to the contaminated air from Ground Zero. Tony’s lung function deteriorated rapidly. He needed to inhale oxygen around the clock and could no longer walk or sleep without it.
On July 4, 2021, Tony’s celebration of Independence Day included a life-saving miracle thanks to a double-lung transplant at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center and Children’s Hospital of New Jersey. Eighteen days later, Tony returned home. According to his doctors, Tony’s fast recovery was driven by his determination to get better.
Tony is now able to enjoy special moments with his family and friends. In May, he participated in NJ Sharing Network’s 5KCelebrationofLifeat Long Branch and is focused on sharing his inspiring transplant story to help spread awareness about the power of organ and tissue donation and transplantation.
“My lungs are working great,” said Tony. “My doctors are amazing people—miracle workers. I am truly humbled and forever grateful to the donor hero who gave me my new lungs. I will honor the memory of my donor forever!”
On February 26, 2016, the senseless murder of Jamal “Mally” Gaines, 21, sent shockwaves throughout his hometown of Rahway and surrounding communities. Mally was loved and cherished by many. A vibrant, driven young man, he had worked hard to accomplish his dream as the successful owner of the popular East Coast Boutique sneaker store.
Mally’s infectious personality and sense of humor will always be remembered by his family, loved ones and friends. Mally’s mother, sister, and family were driving forces in his life. He wanted to be able to provide for them, and he believed he would be successful if he worked hard and kept a positive attitude.
“He lived his life with passion and energy—we called it ‘Mally’s Creed,’” said Tina Wilson, Mally’s mother. “He inspired everyone around him by teaching them to work hard, never give up, make no excuses, work for your dreams, go hard or go home, and keep pushing no matter what.”
Mally’s heroic legacy also lives on as his tissue donations have enhanced the lives of dozens of recipients.
“Even though Mally being gone hurts my soul, at least I know his death has changed so many lives,” said Tina. “I never would have imagined that my son would have been so thoughtful to register as a donor to be able to help someone else. Many of our friends and people in our community have said to me, ‘I am going to check that box and be an organ and tissue donor too because it’s just the right thing to do.’”
To Give Hope
Wendy Carr’s life changed dramatically on the morning of September 13, 2015. The Newton resident woke up feeling tremendous pressure and pain in her chest. Wendy and her husband Joe rushed to the hospital. Two days later, she had a stent procedure done at Morristown Medical Center. While in recovery, Wendy had a massive heart attack that severely damaged her heart.
“The left side of my heart stopped working,” said Wendy. “Since then, it has been very hard for me because I cannot do many of the things that I used to take for granted. When I move too quickly, I get winded. I can barely get up a flight of steps at this point.”
Some of the area’s finest specialists hoped that medicine and treatments would help regenerate Wendy’s heart. Unfortunately, those options have not worked. Wendy is now on the heart transplant list and is keeping a positive outlook for the future as she waits for her donated heart. She is especially thankful for the guidance and support of her close friend Heather Prutzman, mother of organ and tissue donor Joey Savage.
“It is hard to wrap my head around the thought that someone must pass away for me to receive my miracle. But Heather’s experience reminds me that the donor or their family has made the choice to give the gift of life to others,” said Wendy.
This summer, Wendy’s son, Nick, will be getting married, and Joe will be retiring at the end of the year. The couple is hopeful that they will be able to travel and enjoy all of life’s most precious moments together.
“I have the most amazing and supportive family - they are my world,” said Wendy. “This has been a long and difficult journey for me, but I am looking forward with hope. I want to experience all the good stuff that’s coming, like Nick’s wedding and grandkids. That is what keeps me focused each day.”
THANK YOU, JOE!
A Tribute to Joe Roth’s Decades of Saving and Enhancing lives
Joseph S. Roth, who served as President and CEO of NJ Sharing Network from 1998 to 2022, will oversee public policy through March 31, 2023, before beginning his well-deserved retirement.
Attempting to explain what Joe means to NJ Sharing Network is nearly impossible. He will always be cherished for leading our life-saving efforts and making NJ Sharing Network one of our nation’s top performing Organ Procurement Organizations (OPO).
While these pages list some of Joe’s career highlights, one could fill a book with all his great accomplishments. However, Joe would be the first to humbly say his successes were always due to those around him. Joe will always be appreciated for his kindness, witty sense of humor, his commitment to mentoring and inspiring others and for his dedication to NJ Sharing Network’s mission.
Writer Anatole France once said, “To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream. Not only plan, but also believe.” Joe has embodied these principles in following his personal mission to care for the health and wellbeing of others.
Since taking the helm on April 20, 1998, Joe has built a legacy that has made a positive impact on countless lives. His visionary leadership helped quadruple the number of transplants in the Garden State since the organization was founded. In all, 14,641 organs were transplanted during Joe’s tenure.
Joe is also nationally recognized for his accomplishments as a past-President of the National Association of Organ Procurement Organizations (AOPO) and as Co-Chair of the AOPO Legislative/Regulatory Committee. He is credited with bringing about needed changes to national and state policies to improve the donation and transplant process and support transplant recipients, including the passage of the Immuno Bill in 2020, the NJ Hero Act of 2008, and the creation of a New Jersey “Donate Life” specialty license plate.
We thank Joe for his years of service and wish him all the best always.
A Legacy of Innovation
Joe Roth has spearheaded innovative approaches and guided countless strategic planning efforts on both the local and national levels to save and enhance lives.
Thus, it is only fitting that the NJ Sharing Network Board of Trustees recently announced the naming of NJ Sharing Network’s onsite training facility as the Joseph S. Roth Simulation Center.
The center will help prepare clinical teams with the best hands-on learning options available to manage donors and support families. It will feature a simulated clinical setting to enhance psychomotor skills and strengthen critical decisionmaking to stabilize patients effectively and save more lives than ever.
Joe’s Highlights
Awards and Achievements
2021 New Jersey Chamber of Commerce and the African American Chamber of Commerce of New Jersey Champion of Diversity Award
2019 Union County Lifetime Achievement Award, Boy Scouts of America
2017 NJBIZ ICON Honors
2014 Meadowlands Regional Chamber of Commerce Service Award
2010 AOPO/Cryolife Achievement Award
2009 NJ League of Municipalities Distinguished Public Service Award
2006 AOPO Exceptional Service Award
2003 New Jersey Transplant Association Healthcare Professional Triangle Award
2000 Association of Organ Procurement Organizations (AOPO) President’s Award
Leading the Way in NJ and Beyond
• Musculoskeletal Transplant Foundation, Board of Directors (2017–present)
• Musculoskeletal Transplant Foundation, Chairman, Ethics Committee, Donation Board of Trustees (2015–present)
• Musculoskeletal Transplant Foundation, Vice Chairman, Donation Board of Trustees (2016–present)
• New Jersey State Health Care Administration Board (2001–present)
• New Jersey Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors (2018–2022)
• United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) Liver and Intestine Transplantation Committee (2017–2020)
• AOPO Legislative/Regulatory Committee, Chairman (2008–2010)
• Passage of revised Uniform Anatomical Gift Act and “HERO” Act in NJ (2008)
• Organ Donation and Transplant Alliance, Board of Trustees, Treasurer (2006–2008)
• Association of Organ Procurement Organizations, President (2004–2005)
• Passage of NJ Digital Driver’s License creating electronic organ donor registry (2004)
Dedicated December 8, 2022
This Simulation Training Center is dedicated to Joseph (Joe) Roth, NJ Sharing Network’s President and CEO of over 24 years (1998–2022). Joe has built a legacy that has made a positive impact on countless lives. He will always be cherished for his visionary leadership and tireless commitment that has helped quadruple the number of transplants in the Garden State since NJ Sharing Network was founded.
His presence as a leader has gained him respect, honors, and accolades among our staff, community and nationally throughout the industry. It is with great pride that NJ Sharing Network dedicates this state-of-the-art training center to a respected leader and guiding light.
On behalf of those who gave, those who received and those who continue to wait, we thank Joe for all he has done to steward the precious “Gift of Life.”
• UNOS/OPTN Board of Directors (2004–2006)
• UNOS Organ Procurement Organization Committee (2002–2004), Vice Chair
• UNOS Organ Availability Committee (2002–2004)
• AOPO Legislative/Regulatory Committee Chairman (1999–2004; 2008–2010)
• Passage of NJ law creating “Donate Life” organ donation license plate (2001)
• AOPO Ad Hoc Work Group on Medicare Conditions of Participation (1999–2001)
• Enactment of federal OPO certification law, Public Law 106-505: Public Health Improvement Act (2000)
COMING FULL CIRCLE: The Gift of Life
donor hero. Sean’s gifts saved 6 lives and enhanced the lives of over 75 others.
“I knew that we needed something positive to come out of this,” said Gail Clegg, Sean’s mother. “We made him live on forever. That is what he would have wanted.”
The Clegg family continues to have powerful relationships with several of the recipients of Sean’s gifts. According to Gail, they are their ‘extended family,’ and Sean’s heart recipient has become like the daughter they never had.
Retired Firefighter Doug Sisk , 58, of Bayonne, finds it hard to believe that is has been 12 years since he was featured on the cover of Circle of Life magazine. Doug was a recipient of one of only 16 kidney-pancreas transplants performed in New Jersey in 2009. Today, he understands that each day has been a blessing thanks to his organ donor hero, Ines Jahira Perez.
The cover of the Spring/Summer 2017 issue of Circle of Life featured a beautiful image of Patti Jackson holding a photo of her daughter, Zoë , who was only 13 months old when she tragically passed away after she was struck by a speeding car.
“We wanted something positive to come out of Zoë’s death,” said Patti, a resident of Newark. “As a family we all decided donation was the best thing to do. I couldn’t imagine not letting her save the lives of others.”
Indeed, Zoë’s gifts would give a second chance at life to three young boys. The recipient of one of Zoë’s kidneys, Abel Montesino of Newark, was 14 years old and being kept alive on dialysis until his successful transplant surgery.
When Abel and his family met with the Jacksons, they cried together and formed an instant bond. Patti is proud to say that they all remain in close touch, and Abel is now a healthy and successful 25-year-old man.
A loving mother of five, Patti continues to support NJ Sharing Network’s life-saving mission by encouraging others to register as organ and tissue donors. Each year, she brings together her family members and friends to participate in the 5K Celebration of Life. She is often joined by her son, Amir, for volunteer activities throughout the year. Together, they remind others that “a small decision today could make a huge impact on someone else tomorrow.”
Sean’s heart not only saved Stefania DeMayo’s life, but it made it possible for her to become the mother of three beautiful children. Stefania lovingly calls Gail, ‘Mom,’ and the children call her ‘Grandma.’ Gail’s 27-year-old son Brian Clegg is also godfather to Stefania’s 8-year-old son, Luciano. The families enjoy spending time together throughout the year, including birthdays and holidays.
Sean’s kidney recipient, Melissa, is getting married this year and the Clegg family will be in attendance. Melissa even joined the Cleggs on a 16-day European vacation! Gail also keeps in contact with Sean’s lung recipient, Craig.
Gail has stayed connected with NJ Sharing Network over the years, serving on the Advisory Board, sharing their story in the media, and volunteering her time to educate high school students about donation.
This summer, Gail and Andy Clegg spent time at the beach with their ‘extended family’ of Stefania and her children Melania, Natalia, and Luciano.
“I may have more gray hair now, but I am feeling great, and I never take for granted all of the things that I can do now that I could never do before I received the gift of life from Ines and her beautiful family,” said Doug.
During the past year, Doug was proud to witness his oldest son Jeremy get married and his youngest son Brandon graduate from college. Although he no longer battles blazes, Doug continues to fight on behalf of those on the transplant waiting list by sharing his story of hope to inspire others.
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The Winter 2018 issue of Circle of Life, included a touching feature on Vernell Williams , heart and kidney transplant recipient, meeting the family of his donor, Victor Startek . The cover featured an unforgettable photo of Vernell enjoying a special moment with Victor’s mother, Deborah Martinez, and his twin sister, Ashley.
Circle of Life readers may recall the tragic story of Sean Clegg , who was only 14 years old when he was struck by a car while riding his bike. His family did not hesitate when they made the decision for Sean to become an organ and tissue
“I will be forever grateful and indebted to the Startek family. We stay in touch regularly. I enjoyed visiting them for a recent family barbecue,” said Vernell. “Victor literally saved my life. The best way that I honor him is by waking up every day and living life to its fullest.”
Impacts Generations to Come
More than 20 years ago, Vernell cofounded Paterson’s Nifty Lions youth football team that has enabled hundreds of youngsters to blossom by learning discipline and teamwork. Today, Vernell is back on the field, pouring his heart and soul into coaching. He also serves as an active volunteer educating residents in our local communities about NJ Sharing Network’s life-saving mission.
“There are so many people waiting for a transplant, and I hate seeing other people suffering and going through what I went through,” said Vernell. “That’s what drives me each day. It is my goal to raise awareness to help save lives. I always show people around me the inspiring stories in Circle of Life magazine. When I get someone to register as an organ donor, I feel like I have scored!”
“Mike earned the title of hero in more ways than one - as a brave firefighter and tissue donor,” said Pam. “But he was always humble and would want to just be remembered as a good person.”
Pam remarried in 2020. She and her husband, Jeff Cooper, continue to lead “I Am Drozd,” the 5K Celebration of Life team that was created to pay tribute to Mike. Their energetic team visually stands out in the crowd each year because their team members wear bright Hawaiian shirts that Mike loved.
“I am blessed to have met Jeff, who is always committed to honoring Mike and telling his story,” said Pam. “We both proudly wear our green Donate Life bracelets. Jeff likes explaining to people why he wears it and why they should register as organ and tissue donors.”
Circle of Life
Richard’s story focused on his critical heart condition and how he was working hard to remain positive as he waited for a life-saving heart transplant. It also highlighted Richard’s many years of supporting local children and teens in need by collecting, refurbishing and providing used bicycles to them.
Thankfully, there is fantastic news to report! Richard received his successful transplant in May 2022, and he is feeling healthier each day!
“When I first left the hospital, walking up one flight of stairs was a challenge, but I kept going because I knew that I had to get stronger,” said Richard. “Now, I’m up and down the stairs nearly 30 times per day – often carrying a bicycle for our bike program.”
Richard is back to riding his bicycle regularly, and he recently surpassed giving away 4,000 bicycles. He is on a selfless mission to give away 10,000 bicycles in his lifetime thanks to the gift he received from his heart donor.
“Words can never express how grateful I am to my donor and his family,” said Richard. “Although I do not know much about my donor, I have this sense that he had a beard –so I have grown one in his honor. I will always respect and appreciate the gift of life that he gave me.”
Vernell and members of the Newark Beth Israel transplant team celebrate together during the Sharing Network Foundation’s 5K Celebration of Life.
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The Spring 2013 issue of Circle of Life magazine featured the touching story of Mike Drozd , a volunteer firefighter who strived to make a difference in the lives of others. Mike tragically passed away following a traffic accident in 2008. His wife, Pam, understood that Mike was a passionate supporter of organ and tissue donation. Pam found some comfort in knowing that Mike’s tissue donations enhanced the lives of 57 people throughout the country.
Although recently retired, Pam continues to serve as a volunteer first responder and plans to volunteer with a local animal rescue program. Pam continues to find peace and purpose by being a part of NJ Sharing Network’s community and sharing Mike’s story from a perspective of turning a tragedy into a triumph.
The Spring/Summer 2022 issue of Circle of Life included a spotlight on Richard Albanese-DeMair and his wife, Donna , the owners of Dairy Queen in Plainfield. Donna and Richard have been active supporters of NJ Sharing Network for more than 20 years after Donna donated one of her kidneys to save the life of her mother, which was featured in the Fall 2011 issue of
EVERY COMMUNITY NEEDS HEROES
A hero is selfless, generous in spirit, tries to help people and is admired for making noble decisions.
Choosing to give the gift of life is one of the noblest decisions you can make. Our donor heroes exemplify what it means to care for others. Their legacies will live on forever. Our transplant recipients are grateful for being given a second chance at life and honor their donors by giving back to their communities. Meet our heroes featured in the following pages.
A Tireless Advocate for Others
On May 26, 2022, residents in and around Jersey City experienced a deep loss when well-known and beloved community activist Anthony Cruz, Sr., 61, passed away. For four decades, Anthony worked tirelessly on community development both inside local government and in the private sector in a variety of organizations and roles, from tenant organizer to nonprofit leader.
As Deputy Mayor, Anthony was credited with helping to breathe new life into Jersey City’s historic downtown special improvement district by spearheading an effort to restore the iconic clocks on the pedestrian plaza on Newark Avenue and promoting progressive programs on affordable housing and home ownership for residents. He also helped revitalize inner
city residential communities and commercial districts as director of Housing and Economic Development.
While Anthony’s family continues to feel great sadness, they take great pride in knowing that he was a caring, honest, and humble man who put his heart into serving other
“Our team worked tirelessly to ensure we were able to carry out the family’s wishes and save lives through Anthony’s gifts. Spending time with this family, particularly Anthony Jr. (Anthony’s son) and Maddie (Anthony’s sister) was truly an honor. I could see firsthand how donation provided them with hope and healing. I am thankful for those moments we spent together. They were beautiful and bonded us so deeply.”
Veronica Horvath, Hospital Services ManagerAnthony Cruz, Sr.
put the needs of others first. Like how he led a rent strike against slumlords, or saved people from losing their jobs, or raised money for hurricane victims or spearheaded the effort to create William Mercado Plaza on Jersey and Newark Avenues to commemorate El Piraguero. His life was rich and full of great accomplishments and love.”
people without regard to personal accolades or financial gain. They also remember him for his beautiful sense of wonder about all the little things around him and how he never missed an opportunity to show affection for his family, even with the goofiest gifts.
“He understood that we are all part of a community of people. It was his guiding principle,” said David Cruz, Anthony’s brother. “There are so many stories to tell about how Anthony always
Anthony’s selfless legacy also lives on as an organ and tissue donor who enhanced the lives of many others. At first, Anthony’s family did not know that he was a registered organ and tissue donor. However, they quickly found some comfort in knowing that Anthony gave the gift of life to others.
“It was another example of the kind of giving person that he was,” said David. “Everything he did in his life—personally and professionally—he did it with a great sense of humility and with purpose without needing any accolades. Anthony being a donor hero made us all think, ‘yeah, that would be Anthony.’ They will not make many more like my brother.”
(Left) Anthony Cruz, Sr. will forever be remembered by his family, friends and the Jersey City community. Here Anthony enjoys a special moment holding his grandson Anthony Cruz, III, along with his brother, David Cruz.Forever in Our Hearts
Craig James, a Correctional Police Lieutenant at the Adult Diagnostic and Treatment Center in Avenel, has been overwhelmed by the support he has received in recent months from people throughout the Garden State and beyond. On July 14, 2022, Craig’s wife Denise and their three-year-old daughter Lilyanne (Lily) sadly lost their lives in a tragic motor vehicle accident.
Faced with unimaginable loss and grief, Craig is doing his best to stay strong for his sons, Nicholas and Robert, who survived the horrific accident. He is thankful for the care and sympathy of his family, friends, colleagues, and even strangers, who have reached out to do whatever they can to help ease his pain.
“It was heartwarming to see a family love and support each other through such unimaginable grief. Lily’s father, aunt, and brothers were there for each other throughout the donation process. In her short life, Lily touched the hearts of many. Being able to meet her family and hear stories about her has changed my life as well.”
Alison Wieczorek, Clinical Donation Specialist“My world and my dreams were torn apart,” said Craig. “But the outpouring of support from everyone has been amazing—it is very touching. I cried with this incredible feeling when I think about how we are loved by so many people. We are eternally grateful.
I know Denise and Lily are thanking everyone for looking out for us.”
Craig says he has also found comfort in knowing that Lily gave the ultimate gift of life to others as an organ donor. Her donated heart and liver saved the lives of two 2-yearold boys.
“I want everyone to know that Lily is a hero,” said Craig. “She was my baby girl. I loved her more than anything, and we were so close. But it is comforting to know that she has helped others continue to live and enjoy life to its fullest.”
Craig is also passionate about sharing Lily’s donation story with countless others to help raise awareness for NJ Sharing Network’s life-saving mission. He openly discusses how he made the decision to have Lily become a donor hero.
“I put myself in the shoes of a parent of a young child that is in need of a heart or a lung. If I were them, I would want to do anything in my power to get my child an organ to save their life,” said Craig. “I knew that donation was the right thing to do, and I know it is something that my wife would have wanted for Lily too. Lily’s legacy now lives on through others.”
Craig is also grateful for the compassionate support he received
from NJ Sharing Network and team members at Hackensack Meridian Health Jersey Shore University Medical Center.
“From the second that I arrived at the hospital, everyone showed me nothing but kindness and goodness,” said Craig. “I felt like they knew what I was going though. They would hug me, hold me, and console me every step of the way. I know they will continue to be there for me and my family.”
In addition to the many people Lily directly helped with her donation, her story has already inspired many others to register as organ and tissue donors.
“I am amazed that nearly everyone that I speak with says that they have now checked the box to register as donors. It is truly a silver lining that so many lives can be saved and enhanced in the future thanks to Lily,” said Craig.
COPING WITH GRIEF
NJ Sharing Network honors every donor and family who makes the generous decision to donate at the time of their loved one’s passing. Ongoing support is offered beginning at the hospital and continuing with grief resources, workshops, and events. Caring professionals are available to help answer questions about donation, provide updates on recipients and assist with donor family/ recipient correspondence.
For more information, visit NJSharingNetwork.org/ grief-support.
Upcoming Grief Workshops
for Families of Organ and Tissue Donors
February 26
Death in the Family: Who Are We Now?
March 26
Handling Grief on Special Occasions
May 7
Bearing the Unbearable: REAL Self Care in Grief
* All Grief Workshops are virtual on Zoom on Sundays from 10am to 11am
A Real Lifesaver
On October 15, 2008, Joseph “Joey” Burlew, Jr. and his fellow EMT partner Tom Kelly were radioed that a car had crashed into the Newark Bay. They rushed to the scene, immediately jumped into the water and swam to the car, which was sinking and rapidly filling up with water.
The driver was unconscious, but Tom was able to smash
“I remember Joey was very proud, but he never wanted all of the attention and accolades,” said Christine Burlew, Joey’s mother. “He was always humble and found joy in helping others.”
On March 6, 2016, the world lost a true hero when Joey tragically passed away at the age of 28. His loving family, friends and the entire
who is Associate Director of University Hospital’s Emergency Medical Services, never hesitated to honor Joey’s wishes as a registered organ and tissue donor.
“After Joey completed his driving test, he called me right away to tell me that he registered as an organ donor. I remember asking him, ‘but did you pass the driving test?’ I was amazed that he was more excited about registering as a donor,” recalled Christine.
“When we spoke with NJ Sharing Network’s amazing team in the hospital, we followed Joey’s donation wishes so that someone else could have more time with their family.”
the back windshield, and Joey pushed himself through the opening and grabbed the woman’s jacket. Together, they pulled her out, saving her life. Their efforts were highlighted in worldwide news coverage and even earned them nominations as “America’s Most Wanted” All-Star Heroes on the popular TV show. Joey was also named Bayonne’s EMT of the Year for his bravery.
New Jersey EMS community mourned his loss.
“Out of this darkness, Joey was able to bring light to many others by being a different kind of hero—an organ and tissue donor,” said Christine. “He saved six lives by donating his heart, liver, both kidneys and both lungs.”
Christine, who is a dispatcher with the Clark Police Department, and her husband, Joseph Burlew, Sr.,
Joey’s parents and his daughter, Airyana, were able to meet his heart recipient Jeffrey Blomkvist, his wife and their three daughters at NJ Sharing Network’s headquarters. When requested by families, NJ Sharing Network’s Family Services team assists with donor family/recipient correspondence and in-person meetings.
The Blomkvist family expressed endless gratitude for saving Jeffrey’s life and for bringing happiness to their entire family. The families now regularly keep in touch.
“It feels good to know that Joey can live on and still make people happy. We are thankful to NJ Sharing Network for keeping his legacy alive,” said Christine.
Joey Burlew, Jr.On a Heroic Mission to Give Back
Rev. Dr. Valerie M. Griffin, Chaplain at Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center, is loved and admired by all those who know her. She always brings hope and joy to patients, families and her colleagues. She truly practices what she preaches as she never lost hope while waiting nearly three years for a life-saving kidney transplant.
“I was not supposed be alive – no one expected me to live beyond my 20s due to the medical issues and struggles that I have had with sickle cell anemia since childhood,” said Rev. Val. “But I always remember that God will provide and walk with you – especially in times of need.”
On October 31, 2020, Rev. Val received the call that she had been waiting for. Her kidney transplant surgery was a success, and she is now feeling healthier and stronger.
“I am forever grateful for my donor who unselfishly gave me the gift of life,” said Rev. Val. “There are no words to fully express my deepest gratitude.”
Rev. Val is now more focused than ever on supporting the needs of patients. She is grateful for the opportunity to regularly minister to those who are waiting for a transplant or those who recently received a transplant. Her caring presence and personal story provides them comfort and lifts their spirits during their most challenging times.
“I will never forget one young man who was struggling a great deal during his dialysis session. He told me that he was in a ‘season of darkness’ and was losing all hope,” said Rev. Val. “I held his hand, and we spoke and cried together. Before he left, he thanked me and promised that I would see him again soon. My heart was filled with joy months later when he came to my church to see me. He was in a better place, and it was a powerful reminder for both of us of the power of faith and hope.”
The Power of One
One sunflower seed has the potential to bloom, grow and create countless other seeds.
So too does the gift of life through organ and tissue donation.
One organ and tissue donor can save 8 lives and restore health to over 75 others.
Rev. Dr. Valerie M. Griffin
To whom much is given, much is required. Luke 12:48
“The gift of life is like no other, and I will always keep my donor and his family in my thoughts and prayers.”
Always Ready to Support Others
Fred Goerlitz has been a valuable member of NJ Sharing Network since March 1996. As the Data Compliance Administrator, he has supported the Donation Resource Center (DRC) and has produced and analyzed vital reports.
Fred, who also proudly serves as an Emergency Medical Technician (EMT), was one of the first three full-time DRC employees hired. Fred recalls, “When I applied for the position, I was not sure what to expect, but I soon realized that I was inspired to be a part of an organization that works to save lives each and every day.”
Fred feels a deep sense of pride when he thinks about NJ Sharing Network’s growth. “It is exciting to come to work focused on our goal of reaching 300 organ donors in a single year by 2024. That’s lightyears ahead of when I started,” said Fred.
Delivering the Gift of Life
Every life saved and enhanced by organ and tissue donation and transplantation represents the successful execution of carefully choreographed steps involving the cooperation of many partners, including Organ Procurement Organizations (OPOs), donor hospitals, transplant hospitals, medical examiners, and donor families. Every person and every step of the process is critical.
Here in the Garden State, NJ Sharing Network partners with Nationwide Organ Recovery Transport Alliance (NORA) to ensure critical delivery of organs and tissue when it is needed most. NORA’s 80 years of combined leadership excellence in critical organ transportation has touched the lives of countless donors and recipients.
Luke Fugett, a NORA supervisor, understands the vital role his team of heroes plays in saving lives. “It is a mission for each and every one of our team members, and we are always ready to provide services efficiently and effectively no matter when or where we are needed,” said Luke.
Like many of NORA’s trained professionals, Luke has vast experience in emergency response
Gina Westhoven of Lodi is beloved for her energetic personality and zest for life. But five years ago, Gina faced serious health issues for the first time in her life. She felt zapped of energy and often struggled to breathe and walk.
On December 14, 2020, she received the call that a donated heart was available. The next day, she underwent a successful transplant surgery at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center.
Now more than two years later, Gina continues to honor her donor and takes pride in her life-saving work as an EMT.
“My heart is my new best friend – to honor my donor I know I must protect it,” said Gina. “When I look in the mirror, I see my scar and it reminds me that I am truly alive. I keep telling my family, friends, and co-workers that ‘Gina Version 2.0’ is better than ever!”
and service to our communities. In February 2022, the Scotch Plains Police Department (SPPD) honored Luke with a clap-out exit from the building on his final day upon completion of 25 years of service to the township. He most recently held the position of Lieutenant with the SPPD before joining NORA. Luke also served our country for seven years in the U.S. Navy and was stationed aboard the Aircraft Carrier USS Theodore Roosevelt during the Gulf War.
“I feel a strong sense of pride in my work with NORA and NJ Sharing Network,” said Luke. “Each day feels incredible because I know we are all saving lives with every large or small detail. It is like being a part of a miracle each day.”
Luke also finds inspiration when he speaks to others about organ and tissue donation and transplantation.
“It makes a great impact on people when they learn about what we do and how each life saved touches your heart,” said Luke. “I have many friends and parents of kids that I coached in football, wrestling, basketball and baseball, tell me that they now check the box to register as donors.”
Community outreach and education play a critical role in our life-saving mission. These efforts inspire our volunteers and community members to encourage others to register as organ and tissue donors.
National Minority Donor Awareness Month
Our #DonationNeedsDiversity community outreach and education shifted into high gear during National Minority Donor Awareness Month and Hispanic Heritage Month. Team members, advocates, volunteers and partners hit the streets for dozens of events and activities focused on empowering our multicultural communities to become more involved in saving and healing lives through organ and tissue donation. According to United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS), nearly 4,000 New Jersey residents are waiting for a life-saving transplant, and 68% are people of color.
A ‘Giant’ Boost for Our Mission
Sam Prince, heart transplant recipient, has been one of our most active and well-recognized advocates for NJ Sharing Network for the past ten years. But during the past year, Sam and his amazing story of hope was featured in ways that brought unprecedented attention on our life-saving mission.
At the 2022 NFL Draft, Sam showed the world the power of organ and tissue donation and the joy of being given a second chance at life. Thanks to Make-A-Wish America, Sam joined NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell on stage at the Draft, and he presented the New York Giants’ first round draft pick. Sam simply stole the show! He won over fans worldwide with his animated personality, and his interactions with players immediately went viral on social media. He also presented a Donate Life green bracelet to Commissioner Goodell.
Following the Draft, Sam’s amazing transplant journey was also featured on ESPN’s award winning “My Wish” series.
On November 20, all eyes were on Sam again as he spoke live in front of the huge crowd of 82,500 fans at MetLife Stadium during the Giants vs. Lions game. With his trademark enthusiasm, Sam encouraged everyone to register as organ and tissue donors by scanning a QR code on the stadium’s jumbotron or by signing up online. He was joined on the field by Donate Life America (DLA) board member George Herrera; NJ Sharing Network’s Kelly Bonventre, Manager of Community Services; and MakeA-Wish New Jersey’s President and CEO, Tom Weatherall, as the New York Giants presented generous $5,000 gifts to each organization.
A special spotlight on Sam was also aired on NFL Network and NFL 360 on several occasions, including prior to the Giants vs. Lions game and on Thanksgiving and Christmas! In all, more than 1 million viewers watched Sam’s heartwarming story and received a powerful message to register as an organ and tissue donor!
Become a Volunteer and Make a Difference
Our volunteers are a caring and passionate group dedicated to our life-saving mission. Members consist of those touched by donation, including transplant recipients, donor families, living donors, patients waiting, as well as advocates from our hospitals, schools, and communities.
“NJ Sharing Network has been a lifeline for me and my son, Brandon. I’ve found peace and compassion through Advocacy Night....volunteering for NJ Sharing Network is where I’m meant to be.”
— Janet Myer, mother of organ and tissue donor, Shane
“The legacy and memories of your loved ones is so important. Volunteering helps to keep them alive as you serve others in their name.”
Janice Campbell, mother of organ and tissue donor, Jamila
Attend a virtual Advocacy Night program to learn more about NJSN, the donation process, meet members of the donation and transplant community and to become a certified volunteer. For upcoming dates and to sign up to attend, please visit NJSharingNetwork.org/events.
Self-Care in Everyday Life Virtual Workshop
Join us on April 12 from 5pm to 6pm to learn about ways to fit self-care into your life without making it feel like a chore. Once self-care becomes routine, it is easier to thrive on stressful days and reconnect to feelings of peace, joy, and love that make all the chaos of life worth living! To sign up, visit NJSharingNetwork.org/events.
Workshop led by Jacqueline Salvatore, MSW LSW Advanced Family and Grief Specialist
To help spread the word about donation in your community, contact volunteers@njsharingnetwork.org.
National Donor Sabbath
Observed annually in November, National Donor Sabbath is a time focused on educating faith-based communities about the critical need for organ and tissue donation, and the vital role faith plays in making the decision to register as a donor. Local faith leaders and devout followers of various religions voiced their support for NJ Sharing Network’s life-saving mission at our first-ever Faith Leaders Roundtable. They participated in a lively panel discussion to share their unique perspectives and experiences in discussing the gift of life with their congregations.
Community Services Specialist E. Denise Peoples and NJ Sharing Network volunteers traveled throughout the state to meet with faith leaders and their congregations. Pictured below are activities that were held at Agape Family Worship Center in Rahway, Temple B’nai Abraham in Livingston, and St. Joseph R.C. Church in Lincoln Park.
Multicultural Matters
NJ Sharing Network’s E. Denise Peoples, Community Services Specialist and doublelung transplant recipient, was a featured speaker at the 30th Annual Conference of the Association for Multicultural Affairs in Transplantation (AMAT). Denise, who serves as the Membership Chair for AMAT, discussed how greater diversity among organ and tissue donors may increase access to transplantation for everyone.
Team Liberty Wins Big
Congratulations to Team Liberty for an incredible showing at the 2022 Donate Life Transplant Games in San Diego! Our amazing team members brought home 73 medals, including 21 gold! Pictured here are Patti DiSanto, who was recognized as Team Manager of the Year, and Rudy DiGilio, living donor.
Inspiring the Next Generation
NJ Sharing Network offers many ways for local youth to get involved in donor advocacy both in school and outside of the classroom. Popular activities include creative fundraisers, developing informational videos and social media campaigns, and organizing panel discussions and Donate Life Clubs.
If you are a TikTok user, help raise awareness by making a video about organ and tissue donation and be sure to tag @njsharingnetwork.
(At Center) Tanisha Garrett of Plainfield, NJ, receives the NJ Sharing Network’s Employee Giving Campaign scholarship award from Sandy Erwin, Sharing Network Foundation Board Member and Chair of the Programs and Initiatives and Scholarship Committees, and Amanda Tibok, Executive Director, Sharing Network Foundation. Tanisha is one of the 13 student awardees. Deadline to apply for the 2023 scholarships is February 27 at www.sharingnetworkfoundation.org/scholarship.
The Edison Chamber of Commerce proudly recognized NJ Sharing Network volunteer and township resident Anika Bhatnagar, 16, with its Vocational Student of the Year award. Anika’s powerful connection to NJ Sharing Network began when her mother, Sarika, donated one of her kidneys to save the life of Anika’s father, Vinay. Anika has raised awareness about organ and tissue donation by setting up information booths at several township events. Anika successfully established a Donate Life Club at her high school, Middlesex County Academy for Allied Health and Biomedical Sciences.
Special thanks to the student volunteers from The Pingry School who helped package materials for use during NJ Sharing Network’s community outreach events and activities.
Students from the Newark Academy, Piscataway High School, and Middlesex Academy for Allied Health and Biomedical Sciences visited NJ Sharing Network’s headquarters for a Day of Service. The students created scarves for Rose Parade participants from New Jersey and prepared a mailing for our scholarship program that was sent to over 300 high schools.
Donate Life America presented its prestigious Excellence in Youth Education Award to Midland Park High School (MPHS), for creating a unique way to raise awareness about NJ Sharing Network’s life-saving mission. Band Director David Marks collaborated with music composer Taylor Goodson, brother of double-lung transplant recipient Sarah Steinhauser, on a musical overture for the band’s Spring 2022 Concert. Knowing that the entire Midland Park community felt connected to the story of Connor Opderbeck, a 2016 MPHS graduate and heart transplant recipient, “The Gift” was created as a unique composition to express the emotions and experiences of a transplant recipient and celebrate the generosity of organ and tissue donors across the globe.
Volunteers Remembered
NJ Sharing Network is deeply saddened by the recent passing of Jim Rhatican of Berkeley Heights. In 2008, Jim’s life-saving liver transplant gave him many more years to enjoy with his family and friends. He was always thankful for his organ donor and felt blessed to have his health restored and to see his grandchildren be born. A retired teacher and coach of 37 years, Jim was a passionate NJ Sharing Network volunteer for more than a decade. He enjoyed sharing his personal story of hope with local students, teachers and parents as part of our High School Heroes Program where he educated thousands of students about the importance of organ and tissue donation. Before his passing, Jim’s family established the Jim Rhatican Scholarship Fund to recognize and award graduating high school seniors who advocate for and/or whose lives have been touched by organ and tissue donation and transplantation.
NJ Sharing Network recognizes longtime volunteer Marianne Ungar for her participation in our Wrapped in Love program. Before her passing, Marianne crocheted nearly 1,000 shawls to honor and support donor families with tangible expressions of comfort and compassion. Marianne also sewed 70 masks to help protect NJ Sharing Network’s clinical team heroes working on the frontlines making donation possible during the pandemic. Marianne’s expressions of kindness will be missed!
Members of the Wall High School Donate Life Club created a “Garden of Life” in the school’s courtyard and organized a special dedication ceremony with a touching butterfly release. Their efforts earned national recognition from Donate Life America with an honorary mention for its Excellence in Youth Education Award
Kevin Aspell of Kendall Park will always be remembered as an energetic community volunteer who was dedicated to supporting others in need. Many who knew Kevin found it hard to believe that he struggled with serious health issues from the time he was 8 years old. Kevin was an insulin dependent diabetic, but he never allowed the disease to get in the way of leading an active and successful life. In 1999, Kevin’s wife, Marisa, donated one of her kidneys to give him a second chance at life. In 2011, Kevin received the gift of life again when he underwent a successful pancreas transplant. Kevin’s family is forever grateful that he was able to enjoy many happy and healthy years thanks to the miracle of donation and transplantation.
The Journey to Pasadena
NJ Donor Heroes and Transplant Recipient Honored at 2023 Rose Parade
For the past 20 years, the Donate Life Rose Parade® float has been the world’s most visible campaign to inspire people around the world to save and enhance lives with the powerful message of organ and tissue donation. The 2023 float theme was Lifting Each Other Up, featuring floragraph memorial portraits honoring organ and tissue donors from across the country, including our honorees from New Jersey. The beautiful float was awarded top prize—the Sweepstakes Trophy.
Before hitting the streets for the annual New Year’s parade in Pasadena, our local participants were honored during several send-off celebrations and floragraph finishing events ‘right here at home’ in the Garden State. Our hospital partners also participated by dedicating roses affixed with personalized messages of hope and support for donor families, transplant recipients and living donors.
Our hospital partners participated by dedicating roses with personalized messages of hope and support affixed to the float
A Caring Community—United!
Every year, I am inspired by the amazing energy and excitement that can be felt during our 5K Celebration of Life events. I often find myself at a loss for words as I witness donor families and transplant recipients walking together with living donors, volunteers, hospital partners and community supporters to celebrate life’s greatest gift.
Last year’s 5K events were extra special as our amazing community of supporters came together to reconnect and share the love and joy that powers our mission. We deeply appreciate the generosity of our 5K sponsors and our top 5K teams who lead the way!
We are now getting pumped up as the countdown is on for this year’s 5K events! Be sure to mark your calendars for Saturday, May 20 in Ocean Grove and Sunday, June 11 in New Providence. Our 5K website is now LIVE, so please check it out for team signups and contributions.
Finally, in 2022, we were pleased to welcome Amanda Tibok as the Executive Director of the Sharing Network Foundation. Amanda has a long history with our Foundation, and we look forward to building on our many successes in 2023 and beyond.
Amanda Tibok Executive Director, Sharing Network Foundation 11 years of Service
Last year, our 5K Celebration of Life events raised over $1.5 million!
Special thanks to our 2022 top fundraising teams! To view all teams and sponsors, visit SharingNetworkFoundation.org/5K.
1 Team Buck
In memory of Dan Buckiewicz and Joyce Novotny $60,020
2 Team Luke In memory of Luke Bautista $44,419
3 Max’s Mitzvah Movers In honor of Sam Prince $18,397
4 Maeve The Brave In memory of Maeve Behan $17,010
5 Tyler’s Tight Lines In memory of Tyler Rodimer $13,100
6 Team Hailey In memory of Hailey Palumbo $12,286
7 Team Andrew In memory of Andrew Jova $12,132
8 Team Courtney In memory of Courtney Dayback $12,090
9 Team MTF In honor of all tissue donors $8,965
10 Team Liberty In celebration of the donation and transplantation community $8,585
I look forward to collaborating with Amanda, Chris and the Board to guide our Foundation’s efforts. I am confident Amanda will continue to grow and cultivate new partnerships to help reach new heights.”
—Carolyn M. Welsh, President and CEO
WHO WE ARE JOIN OUR TEAM
NJ Sharing Network is a non-profit, federally designated organ procurement organization (OPO) responsible for the recovery of organs and tissue for the nearly 4,000 New Jersey residents currently awaiting transplantation, and is part of the national recovery system, which is in place for the over 100,000 people on waiting lists. NJ Sharing
We are always looking for dedicated, eager, compassionate, resourceful and team-focused individuals to join us in our mission to save and enhance lives!
For the fifth consecutive year, our team is honored to be recognized by NJBIZ magazine on the prestigious Best Places to Work in New Jersey list. Our work can be extremely challenging, so every day we pull together as a tightly knit team to save and enhance lives. With that comes mutual respect, camaraderie and personal and professional rewards.
Current positions available include:
Clinical Donation Specialists facilitate the organ and tissue donation process, supporting families while offering the opportunity to give hope to others through the precious gift of organ and tissue donation.
Surgical Recovery Specialists work primarily in the operating room performing tissue recovery, along with packaging and labeling of tissue using sterile techniques according to accrediting agencies and processors’ standards.
Learn more about additional career opportunities at NJSharingNetwork.org/Careers. Donor Heroes Save Lives. Register