Long Island Tennis Magazine May / June 2022

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The Top Ten Tennis Tips of All-Time Part Three: Champions Do Not Fear Success By By Dr. Dr. Tom Tom Ferraro Ferraro

Some players that lose are actually afraid to try harder out of fear they may fail again. We call this a fear of success.

n the Oscar winning film, “Amadeus”, there were two main characters, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart and Salieri. In the last scene, we see Salieri being wheeled through the insane asylum exclaiming himself to be the “Prince of Mediocrity”. This film demonstrated how champions win and the rest find mediocrity. Champions do not fear success. Champions strive for supremacy, but

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most others unconsciously strive for mediocrity though they are not aware of that. Let me explain. Many have heard about the “fear of success”, but few understand what it means and how common it is. I am sure you have seen athletes who seem to quit at the slightest hint of failure. They become passive, weak, and somber and play as if they are simply going through the motions. And that is exactly what they’re

doing. They have quit and silently wait for failure to arrive. Here is why this occurs. Many athletes, including tennis players, have gone through upsetting losses in the past that have made them feel inferior and weak. And for some ambitious athlete this disappointment is intolerable. So intolerable in fact that they refuse to experience it ever again. Instead, they set up an unconscious attitude of

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The Secret to Being Your Best: Balance On and Off The Court

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The Top Ten Tennis Tips of All-Time Part Three: Champions Do Not

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But I Don’t Want To By Barbara Wyatt

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Mythbusters: Not All Coaching Advice is Based on Facts…Part Four

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Summer Camp Pitfalls By Chris Lewit

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Silent Partner Tennis Ball Machines: The Machine With Muscle

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Beyond the Baseline: Neil Thakur, USTA Eastern By Brian Coleman

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Strawberries, Pickles and Cream? By Steve Kaplan

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page 50

USTA Eastern Long Island Region Update

4min
pages 46-47

Adult League Wrap-Up By Becky Bellino

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pages 48-49

Junior Player Spotlight: Dahlia Morgenstern, Point Set

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Pine Hollow: A Picturesque Club on the North Shore

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Q&A with Dr. Tom Ferraro, Sports Psychologist

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page 32

Tennis History Meets a Cutting-Edge Private Club Concept at The Hamlet

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2022 French Open Preview

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Parsa’s Picks

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Courts & Cocktails Event Series Continues on Long Island

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Pickleball on Long Island

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Across Long Island: News & Notes from Across the L.I. Tennis Community

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USTA Eastern Conference Returns In Person

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