Appreciate the Little Things…
I don’t know how you all felt, but the trees were beautiful this fall. For several years, it seemed the fall leaf season was short. The leaves would come in, but then the winds would pick up and Northeast Ohio would get this cold, rainy weather —and everything would drop on the ground. However, this year, with the warmer temperatures, it lasted longer. We got to visit our local parks to view all the bright orange, red and yellows. We even took some photos with our senior in high school. Hope you did too.
While raking them up is always a chore and having a good leaf blower helps, it’s that time of year where your kids can jump in the piles. I remember the days when my youngest son wouldn’t wait for us, but got to work to make his own pile to play in.
Also, take time to help your kids appreciate the fall foliage and nature. One way is to do a leaf rubbing. There are plenty of leaves around and you might even want to stop by your local park system to see even more varieties. For the activity, get white paper, put the leaf underneath it, and have your kids rub a crayon over it. My favorite part is to see the leaf come to life on the paper and how the different leaf veins appear.
It’s the little things, right?
You can enjoy the last days of fall by getting ready for the upcoming holiday season. Starting with Thanksgiving (November 28, late this year), it becomes a whirlwind of holiday parties, shopping, decorations, family gatherings and more. This month, ease into the hustle and bustle season. That’s why in this issue, we thought of ways to help, from our gift guide, 50 under $50, to the early happenings, which we hope will make your life a bit easier. As always, look to NortheastOhioParent.com for even more resources.
For almost 11 years, we have been focusing on National Adoption Month in our November issues. Mostly, it’s been speaking to families who’ve shared their foster and adoption journeys. They take time to tell us the “why” it’s important and provide advice to others who might be thinking of adoption. In this giving and gratitude season, I can’t help but marvel at their stories and strength to take on the naysayers, but also give their hearts to these kids in their care. We only could share two stories this year, but I hope you get as inspired as I am.
It’s the little things, right?
That is what I really want to leave you with — this month is the time to reflect on the small moments that we can appreciate. Our kids come home from school for holiday break, making fall-Thanksgiving crafts, heading to our area attractions for happenings, school holiday shows, or eating the big Thanksgiving meal, which likely will be our only one that day. And, honestly, just being together with family and friends at holiday gatherings, it makes you appreciate the little things, right?
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The Growing Popularity of Esports: Friend or Foe in Youth Development?
By Jenna C. Turney
In the digital age, screens have become an essential part of our everyday lives. The prevalence of screens has led to a surge in esports, a competitive video gaming phenomenon that has gained immense popularity, particularly among young people.
This rapid growth has sparked debate about esports’ impact on youth development. While some view esports as a distraction, with concerns about excessive screen time and potential negative health impacts, others argue that it offers valuable skills and opportunities that can positively contribute to young people’s lives. As esports grows in popularity, it’s important to consider both its potential advantages and disadvantages.
Melanie Seiser from Cavs Academy Esports Camp and vice president of youth sports and community development for the Cleveland Cavaliers says esports can positively impact young people.
“Esports offer a unique way to engage with friends and channel competitive spirit in a different way than traditional sports,” she says, noting that esports can hone cru-
cial skills applicable beyond gaming.
These skills include developing hand-eye coordination, a skill sharpened by the fastpaced nature of many video games. Critical thinking and problem-solving are also developed as players navigate strategies and make split-second decisions.
“There’s a strong element of teamwork involved,” Seiser adds. “Especially when playing with teammates who may be geographically distant. Communication through headsets becomes crucial for coordination and success.”
The Cleveland Cavaliers’ esports initiatives are just a glimpse into how organizations are embracing this growing trend.
Esports encourages the development of essential competitive skills, including sportsmanship, perseverance, and the ability to handle both victory and defeat gracefully.
Seiser explains esports is an opportunity for the youth to “learn a lot about how to accept those wins and losses and how to be a good teammate and how to look outside of yourself and your own wants and needs.”
Many esports games require players to work together to achieve a common goal, fostering a sense of camaraderie. Additionally, the competitive nature of esports can help young people develop resilience and the ability to bounce back from setbacks.
While some parents may understandably worry about excessive screen time, Seiser believes esports can be a healthy activity when approached with a balanced perspective.
Seiser suggests an importance of setting boundaries and recommends that children should have scheduled breaks from gaming and to incorporate physical activity into their daily routine.
“We’re here to support it, because we know it’s not going anywhere,” she says. “We live in a very digital era, we just want to make sure that kids are engaging in a healthy way with their screens and with gaming from an early age, It’s crucial to remind kids to maintain a happy, healthy, and active lifestyle.”
RE A D I N G R O O M
The Pie That Molly Grew
By
Sue Heavenrich and illustrated by Chamisa
Kellogg
Under Molly’s watchful eye and care, each stage of growth— from the seed to the sprout to the leaves to the final fruit on the vine—is showcased. And at the end, Molly’s lovely pumpkin is turned into a delicious pie for one and all to share in a celebration of gratitude.
Marshall Mellow
By
JJ Landis and illustrated by, Brian Martin
Marshall Mellow discovers kindness in the world while finding his way home after he falls off his grocery store shelf. He was content to never leave his comfy home with the graham crackers and chocolate bars, but when Marshall Mellow fell off his shelf, he was forced to face his fears of the world.
A Pinecone!
By Helen Yoon
Daddy is a bit distracted on their autumn walk, while his curious child only has eyes for one of nature’s small wonders: a pinecone! And look, another pinecone! And another! In fact, she could gather an entire collection—an entire extended family—of pinecones if she wanted to (and she wants to!).
Turkey’s Escape Plan
By Julia Zheng and illustrated by Nurul Ashari
Turkey from Cranberry Farm hears that he will be eaten for Thanksgiving dinner. Fearing for his life, he comes up with some escape plans and turns to his friends for help. However, on Thanksgiving evening, Turkey is safe and sound. Curious to know why? Find out the answers in Turkey’s Escape Plan.
Thanksgiving: Setting the Kids Table
Maximize fun with these kid-friendly table ideas
COLORING TABLECLOTH. Keep the kiddos busy while making something festive for your table. Add a small box of crayons or colored pencils to each place setting. Tiny Expressions Giant Coloring Poster for Kids. tinyexpressionsstore.com
TABLE SCAVENGER HUNT. Use a free printable to make a quick and fun Thanksgiving scavenger hunt. Kiddos can check off the things they find around the table or house (example, turkey, pumpkin pie, cornucopia, etc). mymotherhoodmadeeasy.com
COLORFUL CUPS WITH LIDS. Minimize spills and keep track of drinks with these col orful, reusable cups that come with a lid and straw. 12 ounce ALINK Plastic Kids Party Cups with Lids and Straws, various locations.
MAKE A MOCKTAIL.
What better to go in the colorful cups than a specialty drink? Try this Thanksgiving Punch recipe below.
Thanksgiving Punch:
• 5 cups apple cider
• 3 cups cranberry juice cocktail
• 1 cup orange juice
• 2 cinnamon sticks
• 1 liter of ginger ale
• Apple slices and/or frozen cranberries for garnish
In a punch bowl or pitcher, combine apple cider, cranberry cocktail juice, orange juice and cinnamon sticks. When ready to serve, pour in ginger ale and garnish with apple slices and cranberries. *Add champagne instead of ginger ale for an adult version! Serves 8-10 people.
LOCAL AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT
Trotter
The Thankful Turkey
By Tony Marini and
illustrated by
Tom Paul Fox
Local author Tony Marini, born in Cleveland and a Cleveland State University graduate, shares the journey of an ungrateful Trotter Turkey as he learns a valuable lesson in life.
Printed in 2024, this hardcover book measures 10 ½” by 13” and consists of 32 pages. Readers will be delighted by an array of autumnal images and vibrant characters.
“This new Thanksgiving holiday book is sure to serve as a gentle reminder that our best selves bring out the best in others. It also illustrates the importance of kindness and generosity while we keep our pride at bay,” Marini says. “There are kid-friendly activities at the back of the book sure to keep a child busy during the hectic holiday.”
The book includes everything you need for the Thanksgiving holiday including: Trotter’s story of becoming a humble turkey, kid-friendly recipes, an activity page to create your own feather to pass around the table on Thanksgiving and also a “Traveling Trotter Turkey” section where kids can color Trotter and document his travels.
Visit penniepickle.com/ about-the-books to purchase.
Is a Special Education Evaluation Right for Your Child?
By Dr. Jennifer Murphy
Watching your child struggle in school is awful. Maybe they’re trying their best but are still behind, or maybe homework feels like a battle. Children may even share that they feel inadequate or uncomfortable in the classroom. When parents see these signs, they often begin to wonder if something more is going on—and whether special education services might help.
In Ohio, school teams complete Evaluation Team Reports (ETRs) to determine whether students qualify for special education services. Knowing when and how to request an ETR can help your child get the support they need.
WHAT IS AN ETR?
An ETR is a comprehensive evaluation completed by a team of professionals to determine if a student qualifies for special education services. A student qualifies if they meet the criteria for one of the 13 disability categories under the Individuals
with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) and require specially designed instruction to meet their needs. Teachers, parents and other service providers can refer a child for an ETR.
WHEN TO REQUEST AN ETR?
Not every child who struggles in school needs special education. So, when should you consider requesting an ETR?
• Persistent struggles in school
• Lack of progress despite extra support like interventions or tutoring
• Discrepancies between effort and outcomes—your child works hard but still struggles
• Avoidance of challenging subjects
• Family history of learning challenges or specific diagnoses
• Concerns from teachers or specialists
• If your child’s challenges are impacting their daily life
HOW TO REQUEST AN ETR
As a parent, you have the right to request an ETR. It’s recommended to make this request in writing. Sending it by email helps ensure you have a record of the request and allows you to include everyone involved in your child’s education. Be sure to include the following in your request:
• State you are formally requesting an ETR.
• Provide basic information about your child, like their school, grade, teacher and date of birth.
• Explain that your child is not making expected progress and why you suspect they may have a disability. Share relevant information, such as:
• Progress with past and current interventions
• Report card information
• Test results (state or classroom)
• Any outside support your child receives
(tutoring, counseling, other therapies)
• Support you provide at home to help with their challenges WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
After you request an ETR, here’s what to expect:
• The school team has 30 days to respond.
• They will either agree to evaluate your child or deny the request.
• If they agree, the team will create an evaluation plan and ask for your consent.
• The evaluation must be completed within 60 days of your consent, and the team will meet with you to review the results.
• Based on the ETR, the team will determine whether your child qualifies for special education.
• If your child qualifies, the team will develop an Individualized Education
Program (IEP) and meet with you to review it within 30 days.
• If the team decides your child does not qualify, and you disagree, you can request an Independent Educational Evaluation (IEE).
TRUST YOURSELF
As a parent, you know your child best. If your child continues to struggle in school, despite receiving support, there may be something more going on. A special education evaluation can provide insights into how your child learns, giving the team the information they need to create a plan that will best support your child.
✱ Dr. Jennifer Murphy is an independently licensed school psychologist and the Director of Assessment at her private practice, Achievement Advantage Assessment & Services. She specializes in psychoeducational assessments, focusing on learning differences and executive functioning. Dr. Murphy is an active member of the Northern Ohio Branch of the International Dyslexia Association (NOBIDA), where she serves on the executive committee.
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BENEDICTINE HIGH SCHOOL
Nov. 3
2900 MLK Jr. Dr., Cleveland 216-421-2080, cbhs.com
COMMUNION OF SAINTS SCHOOL
Nov. 17
2160 Stillman Road, Cleveland Heights 216-932-4177, communionofsaintsschool.org
HAWKEN SCHOOL
hawken.edu, 440-423-4446
Lower & Middle Schools
Nov. 23
5000 Clubside Road, Lyndhurst Upper School
Nov. 2
12465 County Line Road, Gates Mills
Mastery School
Nov. 9
11025 Magnolia Dr., Cleveland
HERSHEY MONTESSORI
Upper School
Nov. 8, Jan. 17, Feb. 7 11530 Madison Road, Huntsburg Twp. 440-636-6290, hershey-montessori.org
Lower School
Nov. 9, Dec. 7, Jan. 25, Feb. 22 10229 Prouty Road, Concord Twp. 440-357-0918, hershey-montessori.org
JULIE BILLIART SCHOOLS
juliebilliartschool.org
Akron
380 Mineola Ave., 330-333-5280, Nov. 13
Brecksville
8611 Wiese Road, 440-630-1711
Nov. 7, Dec. 17
Lyndhurst
4982 Clubside Road, 216-381-1191
Nov. 5, Dec. 12
Westlake
3600 Crocker Road, 440-471-4150
Nov. 22
LAKE CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL
Nov. 10
6733 Reynolds Road, Mentor 440-578-1020, lakecatholic.org
LAKE RIDGE ACADEMY
Nov. 8
37501 Center Ridge Road, North Ridgeville 440-327-1175 Lakeridgeacademy.org
LAKEWOOD LUTHERAN SCHOOL
Jan. 26
14560 Madison Ave., Lakewood 216-221-6941, lakewoodlutheranschool.com
LAUREL SCHOOL
Lyman Campus
Jan. 11
1 Lyman Circle, Shaker Hts.
THE LILLIAN AND BETTY RATNER SCHOOL
Nov. 8, Nov. 15, Jan. 23
27575 Shaker Blvd., Pepper Pike 216-464-0033, theratnerschool.org
THE MUSIC SETTLEMENT’S CENTER FOR EARLY CHILDHOOD themusicsettlement.org
University Circle Campus
Nov. 14
11125 Magnolia Dr., Cleveland 216-421-5806
Ohio City Campus
Nov. 14
2610 Detroit Ave., Cleveland 216-377-1410
NOTRE DAME-CATHEDRAL LATIN SCHOOL
Jan. 21
13000 Auburn Road, Chardon 440-286-6226, ndcl.org
OUR LADY OF THE ELMS
Nov. 7
1375 W. Exchange St., Akron theelms.org, 330-836-9384
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RUFFING MONTESSORI SCHOOL
Nov. 9, Jan. 11
3380 Fairmount Blvd., Cleveland Heights 216-321-7571, ruffingmontessori.net
SPRING GARDEN WALDORF SCHOOL
Nov. 13
1791 South Jacoby Rd., Copley 330-666-0574, sgws.org
ST. BARNABAS SCHOOL
Jan. 19
9200 Olde 8 Road, Northfield 330-467-7921, sbcatholicschool.com
ST. HILARY SCHOOL
Jan. 26
645 Moorfield Road, Fairlawn 330-867-8720, st-hilaryschool.org
ST. PAUL WESTLAKE SCHOOL
Jan. 26
27993 Detroit Road, Westlake 440-835-3051 stpaulwestlake.school
VILLA ANGELA-ST. JOSEPH HIGH SCHOOL
Nov. 6
18491 Lakeshore Blvd., Cleveland 216-481-8414, vasj.com
k Parent & Me Storytimes and Activities
Pick-A-Day
MONDAYS
Toddler Tales Story Time. Stories, songs, fingerplay, flannelboards and more. Through 11/11. 10:30 a.m. Kent Free Library, 312 W. Main St., kentfreelibrary.org
Family Storytime. Books, rhymes, songs and fingerplays. 10:30 a.m. Brunswick and Medina Branch Libraries, mcdl.info
MONDAY & THURSDAY
Preschool Story Hour. Ages 2 and up. Through 11/21. 10 a.m. Peninsula Library, 6105 Riverview Road, peninsulalibrary.org
TUESDAYS
Tales for Twos. Enjoy stories, songs, and movements with your two year old and Mrs. McBee. 10:15 a.m. Through 11/12. North Canton Public Library, 185 N. Main St., ncantonlibrary.com
TUESDAYFRIDAY
Frogs & Polliwogs. Hands-on activities, music, games and simple crafts. Ages 2-3 with an adult. 9:30 or 11 a.m. Lake Erie Nature & Science Center, 28728 Wolf Road, Bay Village, lensc.org
WEDNESDAYS
Wiggles and Giggles. Come and have fun while increasing your child’s cognitive, physical, social and emotional well-being through play. Through 11/13. 10 a.m. Elyria Central Branch Library, 211 Second St., elyrialibrary.org
Babytime. Stories, songs and rhymes. Through 11/27. 10 a.m. Geauga West Library, 13455 Chillicothe Road, Chesterland, geaugalibrary.net
Tiddlywinks. Interactive story time filled with stories, songs and rhymes. Through 11/20. 10 a.m. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., mentorpl.org
Fall Afternoon Storytime. Stories, flannel boards, fingerplays and songs. Through 11/27. 2-3 p.m. Windham Branch Library, 9005 Wilverne Drive, portagelibrary.org
THURSDAYS
Newsy Mom Playdates. Stories and activities on the 2nd Thursday Monthly. 11 a.m. - 12 p.m.. Belden Village Mall, 4220 Belden Village St. NW, Canton, shoppingbeldenvillagemall.com
Family Storytime. Songs, rhymes, stories and art or playtime. Children five and under with a caregiver. Through 11/21. 11 a.m. Firestone Park Branch Library, 1486 Aster Ave, Akron, akronlibrary.org
Tales for Tots. For ages 3-4 with an adult companion. 10-11 a.m. or 1-2 p.m. 11/21. Oenslager Nature Center, 6100 Ridge Road, Sharon Ctr., medinacountyparks.com
Wee Ones Storytime. Stories, songs, rhymes and playtime. Through 11/21. 10:30 a.m. Barberton Public Library, 602 W. Park Ave., barbertonlibrary.org
FRIDAYS
Family Storytime at the Great Northern Mall. Family storytime on the first Friday of each month. 11:30 a.m. 4954 Great Northern Mall Blvd., North Olmsted, greatnorthernohio.com
Baby Rhyme Time. There will be books, bounces, bubbles and Coco the storytime bear. Through 11/29. 9 a.m. University Heights Branch Library, 13866 Cedar Road, heightslibrary.org
Storytime. Stories and songs for children ages 2-5. Through 12/27. 11 a.m. - 12 p.m. Oberlin Public Library, 65 S. Main St., oberlinlibrary.org
Read to Me Playdate. Hear engaging books and sing lively songs with plenty of time for playing and talking. Through 11/22. 10:30 a.m. Jefferson Branch Library, 850 Jefferson Ave., Cleveland, cpl.org
Holiday Gifts 50 Under $50
By Elena Epstein, Director of the National Parenting Product Awards
◆ 1. LEGO Gravity Drop
A fun mix of science, building and creativity. Features 168 LEGO elements, a footand-a-half tall chipboard tower and an engaging STEM instruction book. $28.52, ages 8+, various retailers.
◆ 2. Pixie Cruiser Doodle
Embark on creative adventures with this 13-piece customizable RC car designed for expressive play. Includes erasable markers, stickers and playful accessories. $29.97, ages 6+, various retailers.
◆ 3. Kanoodle Ultimate Champion
Pick from 500 puzzles in this brain teaser game that practices problem-solving, visual and spatial reasoning and critical thinking. $24.99, ages 8+, various retailers.
◆ 4. Alphabet BubbleBrix
Press a letter block, feel and hear it pop, and practice its name and sound, then snap it to another block to build simple words and practice reading and spelling. $29.99, ages 3+, educationalinsights.com
◆ 5. Cry Babies
Morning Routine
Bella and Emma get ready for daycare. Each step is completed with interactive accessories and a clap from your happy doll. $34.99, ages 3+, various retailers.
Looking for some budget-friendly, tried-and-tested gift options? Check out these National Parenting Product Awards’ picks for kids and tweens.
Command your dragon pirate crew to plunder the Islands of Numbers in this thrilling strategy math game. Claim treasure chests and raid opponents for their gems to amass the greatest hoard. $36, ages 8+,
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A hilarious party game of fowl play where players fill their benches with adorable pigeon miniatures to prove you rule the roost. $19.99, ages 8+, various retailers.
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A wearable blanket that doubles as a superhero cape. Available in four designs—T-Rex, Starpow, Zapzing and Fairybloom. Each includes a coordi nating mask, blending warmth with imaginative play. Ideal for naptime, cozy reading or dress-up. $39.99, ages 3+, dreamighty.com
◆ 9. Chronicles of Light: Darkness Falls (Disney Edition)
Players work together to form dynamic alliances of Disney and Pixar heroines to drive back shadows of infamous Disney Villains and restore the Realm of Light. $29.99, ages 8+, various retailers.
◆ 10. Kinetic Sand Squish Motion Playset
All-new magical moving squishable sand space. Open the case that doubles as storage and discover six tools, a flat play space, a squish zone and 1lb of Kinetic Sand in three colors. Layer, load and squish. $19.99, ages 5+, various retailers.
◆ 11. Sort & Discover Activity Wagon
Great for floor play, featuring colorful rollers, hidden animals, activity keys that introduce colors and numbers, a bead maze, sliders and interlocking gears. $29.97, ages 12-36 months, various retailers.
◆ 12. Sesame Street Chicken Dance Elmo Dance, chat and sing along with this fun-loving and interactive plushie. $29.99, ages 18 months+, various retailers.
◆ 13. Mumaloo Craft Box
Pre-packaged creative arts and crafts, that comes with all necessary materials and a set of easy-to-follow instructions. Great for the whole family to take a break from screens. $29.99, ages 3+, mumaloo.com
◆ 18. Numberblocks Five’s Musical Superstar Stage
Join the lead singer of the band to count and sing along. This set comes with interactive lights, sounds and a spinning dance floor. $49.99, ages 2-4, hand2mind.com
◆ 19. Slapzi
This fast-matching, card-slapping picture game will have everyone laughing. Includes 90 double-sided picture cards and 60 clue cards. $14.99, ages 8+, various retailers.
◆ 14. Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Party Cruiser
Vintage “Woodie” style vehicles come equipped with long boards on top that activate the Turtles popping out of the car - Leonardo, Michelangelo, Donatello, and Raphael. $19.99, ages 6+, various retailers.
◆ 15. Dissect-It Rattlesnake Super Lab
Firm gelatin-like compounds provide a realistic experience of scientific dissection. Includes 35 bones and organs to dissect and a surprise skeleton inside the stomach. Each kit also comes with a learning guide, a worktable, 4 tools and 2 refill mixes. $24.99, ages 6+, topsecrettoys.com
◆ 16. Disney Junior Splash & Glow Ariel Doll
In the tub or at the pool, immerse Ariel’s tail in water and watch rainbow lights glow. A fun under-the-sea adventure awaits. $39.99, ages 3+, various retailers.
◆ 17. The Tiny Collection –Cuddle+Kind
Beautifully made to cherish and collect, each doll comes nestled in a Tiny home adorned in breathtakingly hand-painted watercolor wildflow ers. Every Tiny doll provides 10 meals to children in need, is fair trade and artisan made with OEKO-TEX certified natural cotton. $44, ages 3+, cuddleandkind.com
◆ 20. Dog’s First Christmas Dog and baby explore the delightful and puzzling ways their family prepares for Christmas. See these branches? They’re not for tugging. See this ball? It’s not for fetching. $9.99, ages 2-5, quirkbooks.com
◆ 21. Guinness World Records 2025
Open the next chapter of record breaking. Filled with thousands of facts and feats for the whole family, this new edition celebrates Guinness World Records’ 70th anniversary. $19.95, ages 8+, various retailers.
◆ 22. National Geographic Clay Dinosaur Modeling Kit
This kit makes it easy for kids to be creative, as they design colorful, fun dinosaur figures they can display proudly. Kids can create five different dinosaurs using five colors of soft, air-dry clay and googly eyes. $14.99, ages 4+, various retailers.
◆ 23. Elephant Show Stoppers!
Sharon, Lois & Bram invite you back to your childhood with never before heard and previously unreleased music from all your favorite Elephant Show episodes. Captures the magic, wonder and whimsical nature of all five seasons of their series. Available both digitally and on vinyl. $34.98 (vinyl) $13.99 (digital), ages birth+, sharonloisandbram.com
Color Sheen Metallic Colored Gel Pens – Set of 12
These metallic gel pens will make any endeavor a radiant, colorful affair. Designed with a fine point, this set makes it easy to give greeting cards, photo albums or other creative projects some shine and an extra wow factor. $12.95, ooly.com
ChatterTime Conversation Cards
Create moments of connection through answering playful conversation prompts. With six question categories, you can explore all kinds of memories, favorites, dreams for the future and more. $22.99, ages 4+, pennycake.com
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26. Ms. Rachel Surprise Learning Box
Inspired by the popular videos, this toy features four interactive learning scenes and comes with six soft surprise accessories for babies to interact with. $29.99, ages 3 months to 2 years, msrachel.com
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27. Feelings Family: Isabella’s Day at School Storybook and Plush Set
A heartwarming set introducing kids to core feelings. Includes complete prompts, questions and activities to support adults using it as a teaching tool. $39.99, ages 3+, various retailers
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28. Inspiring Quotes from Children’s Classics
A collection of 162 of the best passages from historical and modern classics. Divided into 18 themes like ‘being different,” “forgiveness” and “curiosity.” Includes fresh illustrations that bring each quote to life. $12.99, ages 6+, read.sourcebooks.com
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29. TOSY’s Waterproof Flying Ring
The lightweight construction, smooth rim, and aerodynamic design ensures precise flights, allowing you to master impressive throws and catches. With its built-in LED lights, the fun doesn’t end when the sun goes down. $19.99, ages 6+, tosy.com
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30. Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook for Kids
Whether you’re freezing in the Arctic, escaping quicksand in the jungle or befriending tarantulas in the desert, this guide has you covered. Bust open and discover step-by-step instructions for surviving the most extreme situations that Planet Earth can throw at you. $12.99, ages 8-12, quirkbooks.com
◆ 31. Plai
Poe
The AI Story Bear
This soft and cuddly plush friend offers kids a one-of-a-kind story-creating and storytelling experience. Your kids create the story and Poe magically comes to life to read their story aloud. $49.99, ages 4-8, various retailers.
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32. A Year of Celebraciones
Discover how cultures around the world observe the new year through decorations, gifts, foods, gatherings and more. This exciting tour of the globe will encourage kids to learn about how their own families ring in the end of the year and the beginning of the next, while discovering that there are so many ways to celebrate. $18.99, ages 4-8, apa.org
◆ 33. Curio Bud
Subscription Box in Spanish
A quarterly book club for kids featuring whimsical picture books in Spanish. Thoughtful themes and storylines foster language development, help children express themselves and simplify learning for the whole family. $49.95, ages birth-3 years, becurio.co
◆ 34. Harry Potter Clay Charms
Adorable make-it-yourself charms featuring iconic characters. $26.65, ages 8+, various retailers.
◆ 35. Pluzzles
Soft, squishy plush toys that connect with others to form a larger collection. Features corduroy accents, pellet-filled bottoms and puzzle piece hangtags with fun facts. The more you collect the more you connect. $5 and up, ages 3+, yooniquetoys.com
◆ 36. Sky Viper Nova FX Light Display Drone
Features, on-touch stunts, advanced software and 24 bright and color-changing RGB LED lights to illuminate the night sky. $49.99, ages 12+, various retailers
◆ 37. Punirunes
Build friendships with your squishy BFFs and keep them happy with lots of squishies, prepare their food, give them a bath, clean their room, play games and more. $39.99, ages 5+, various retailers.
◆ 38. Yeti Yikes! Ski Mountain
Includes 37 building pieces, such as square frames, paperboard panels, a ski chalet roof, mega slope, mountain top, luge and moguls. The included comic book unveils Fluke’s mountaintop adventure. $44.99, ages 4+, squargeles.com
◆ 39. Morphle Magic Pet Mobile Playset
Inspired by the animated series, this set offers lots of fun with friends, Mila and Morphle. $29.97, ages 3+, various retailers.
◆ 40. Get Ready for Phonics Spin &
Learn
Send kids on an interactive wordsound journey to boost vocabulary skills. Press light-up buttons next to pictures to make connections between what is seen and heard. $19.99, ages 18 months +, various retailers.
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41. Pickleball Blast
Board game-size tabletop court that uses the thumb action paddles to send the play piece soaring. Can you smash your opponents? $12.79, ages 6+, various retailers
◆ 42. Littlest Pet Shop
Playset
Features fun activities and accessories for your bobblin’ pets to enjoy. Open to reveal 20+ accessories and 4 different rooms to customize and explore. $39.99, ages 4+, littlestpetshop.com
◆ 43. Furlings Aspen
An interactive plush toy packed with 80+ playful responses. Each character is ready to react to your child’s play patterns. $39.99, ages 3-6, furlings.funrise.com
◆ 44. Future Fans Soccer
A grown-up plus child experience comprising of 6 sessions, with surprises (games and toys) unboxed along the way to learn the fundamentals of soccer. $49.99, ages 4+, futurefans.com
◆ 45. KLUTZ Mini Shake Shop
A clay café in a box featuring faux ice and translucent color strips, tons of cups and bowls, straws, glitter drizzle, paper punch out toppings, straws and foam beads all packed into one small package. $19.93, ages 7+, various retailers.
◆ 46. Cake-N-Bake Challenge
Bring cooking show excitement to your home with this fast-paced, color-matching, cake-building game where the fastest baker wins. $24.99, ages 4+, heybuddyheypal.com
◆ 47. Baby Paws
Love & Care Labradoodle
An interactive puppy that reacts to your actions. Feed, play and cuddle. $29.99, ages 4+, various retailers.
◆ 48. BIZYBOO Holiday
Seek ‘N’ Find Busy Bags
Combines the beloved concept of toddler busy bags with a festive twist, making them the perfect companion for on-the-go fun. Portable, mess-free and filled with holiday cheer. $9.99, ages 2+, vangotoys.com
◆ 49. Be Loved Babies
Lifelike baby dolls with squishy cheeks and a soft textured body. Includes a pacifier and feeding bottle. $26.99, ages 18 months +, imctoys.com
◆ 50. Flipslide
A fast-moving matching electronic handheld game. Can you master the moves to beat the blocks? Flip to find the color and slide to match the lights. Challenge yourself or play with friends. $14.98, ages 4+, various retailers
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Holiday Kick-Off
11/8-9
Christkindl Market. A juried fine arts and crafts show with a holiday theme. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Canton Cultural Center for the Arts, 1001 Market Ave. N., cantonart.org/christkindl
11/8-12/21
The North Pole Adventure. 26-mile, 90-minute excursion to the enchanting North Pole. Cuyahoga Valley Scenic Railroad, Akron Northside Station, 27 Ridge St., cvsr.com
11/9
Family Christmas Photos. Get a jumpstart on your holiday planning.
10 a.m.-3 p.m. Middlefield Branch Library, 16167 E. High St., geaugalibrary.net
11/9, 11/23,
11/29
Santa Visits Lehman’s. Bring the little ones to meet Santa. Lehman’s, 4779 Kidron Rd., Dalton, lehmans.com
11/9-10
Nature Art Fest. Find one-of-akind, nature-inspired pieces for everyone on your holiday gift list. Oenslager Nature Center, 6100 Ridge Road, Sharon Township, medinacountyparks.com
11/15
Santa Parade sponsored by Northeast Ohio Parent Magazine. Live entertainment, activities, games and more. 5:30-7 p.m. Great Northern Mall, 4954 Great Northern Mall, North Olmsted, greatnorthernohio.com
11/16
Holiday Toy Drive. Drop off new, unwrapped toys and gift cards for kids of all ages in foster care. 9 a.m.12 p.m. St. Mark Lutheran Church, 1330 N. Carpenter Road, Brunswick, fostermedina.com
11/16-24
Holiday Tree Festival. More than 200 decorated trees, 85,000 strings of lights and countless other creations. John S. Knight Center, 77 E. Mill Street, Akron, akronchildrens. org/treefestival
11/22-24
Medina Candlelight Walk. Shops and restaurants of the nineblock Medina historic district will be open later to welcome local residents and visiting guests. Medina Public Square, mainstreetmedina.com
11/22-1/4
Magic of Lights. Family-friendly drive-through of holiday lights. Cuyahoga County Fairgrounds, 19201 E. Bagley Rd., Middleburg Hts., magicoflights.com
11/23
Tree Lighting Ceremony. Crocker Park will welcome back the 50foot Christmas tree with its annual tree-lighting ceremony. 7 p.m. 89 Crocker Park Blvd., Westlake, crockerpark.com
11/23-24, 11/29
A Christmas Carol. Open your heart to Charles Dickens’ classic tale of one man’s ultimate redemption. Mimi Ohio Theater, Cleveland, playhousesquare.org
11/29-12/1
Back in Time Christmas. Breakfast, pictures with Santa, tours and a craft show. 10 a.m.-5 p.m.
Century Village Museum, 14653 E. Park St., Burton, centuryvillagemuseum.org
11/29-12/22
Holiday Lights. 5:30-9 p.m.
Wednesday-Sunday. Carlisle Equestrian Center, 13630 Diagonal Road (drive-through), and Carlisle Visitor Center, 12882 Diagonal Road (in person) in LaGrange. loraincountymetroparks.com
11/29-12/30
Wild Lights. Enjoy the wildest lighting display this holiday season. 5-9 p.m. Akron Zoo, 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, akronzoo.org
Nature’s A-Glow. The beautiful botanical garden turns it into a winter wonderland. Friday-Sunday. 5-9 p.m. Beech Creek Botanical Garden, 11929 Beech St. NE, Alliance, beechcreekgardens.org
Deck the Hall. Come see the estate illuminated with over one million lights on select evenings. Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, stanhywet.org
11/30
Christmas Lighting of the Square. Colorful lights, live music and a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus. 6:30-8 p.m. Chardon Square, chardonsquareassociation.org
Holiday Movie: “National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation”. Bring the whole family to the beautiful and historic Canton Palace Theatre and get in the festive spirit. 605 Market Ave. North, Canton, cantonpalacetheatre.org
11/30, 12/1, 12/7-8
Ballet Theatre of Ohio presents “The Nutcracker.” This classic has become a treasured holiday tradition for families of all ages. Akron Civic Theatre, 182 S. Main St., akroncivic.com
11/30-12/22
A Christmas Story. The record-breaking show returns in all its pink-bunny-suit, glowing-leglamp, triple-dog-daring glory. Allen Theatre at Playhouse Square, 1407 Euclid Ave, Cleveland, playhousesquare.org
11/30-12/29
Country Lights Drive-Thru. Enjoy the festivities from the warmth of your own vehicles. 6-8:30 p.m. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com
12/6-8, 12/13-15
Winter Wonderettes. This seasonal celebration finds the girls, Betty Jean, Cindy Lou, Missy, and Suzy entertaining at the 1968 holiday party for Harper’s Hardware. French Creek Theatre, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Lake, loraincountymetroparks.com
12/6-8, 12/13-15
Winter Wonderettes. This seasonal celebration finds the girls, Betty Jean, Cindy Lou, Missy, and Suzy entertaining at the 1968 holiday party for Harper’s Hardware. French Creek Theatre, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Lake, loraincountymetroparks.com
12/7
Light Up Lakewood. The most joyous of Lakewood traditions is returning to Downtown Lakewood for the 16th annual celebration. 4-8 p.m. 14701 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, lakewoodalive.com
Santa Claus and Furry Paws. Crafts, activities, photos, stuffed animal hospital and watch animals open gifts from Santa. 5-8 p.m. Sippo Lake Park-North, 5712 12th St. NW, Canton, starkparks.com
12/8
Hudson Holiday Walk. Join the Merchants of Hudson as they welcome shoppers and diners with activities for the entire family. 12-4 p.m. firstandmainhudson.com
12/13-15, 12/20-22
Scuba Claus Meet & Greet. Talk to the magical man in red while he’s underwater with sharks, stingrays, eels and angelfish on his “nice” list. Greater Cleveland Aquarium, 2000 Sycamore St., Cleveland, greaterclevelandaquarium.com
11/6
Global Thanksgiving. Community members share stories and gratitude traditions from around the world. 3:30 p.m. Fulton Branch Library, 3545 Fulton Road, Cleveland, cpl.org
11/7
Turkey Craft. Make a turkey-themed centerpiece. 4 p.m. Seville Branch Library, 45 Center St., mcdl.info
11/16
Gratitude Art for Teens. Boost mood, increase social connection, and improve sleep quality with freeform art centered around gratitude. 1-3 p.m. Firestone Park Branch Library, 1486 Aster Ave, Akron, akronlibrary.org
Turkey Roll on Ice. Put together turkeys, cranberries, an ice rink and a team of four friends together. 7-10 p.m. Mentor Civic Ice Arena, 8600 Munson Road, cityofmentor.com
THANKSGIVING EVENTS
11/17
Cornucopia of Caring. Make a seasonal craft for yourself and a second one to help fill a cornucopia that will be donated to those in need of holiday cheer. 2-4 p.m. Oenslager Nature Center, 6100 Ridge Road, Sharon Twp., medinacountyparks.com
11/19
Gratitude Chain: Thanksgiving Activity for Families. A Thanksgiving
activity for family and friends to get together. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Memorial Nottingham Branch Library, 17109 Lake Shore Blvd., Cleveland, cpl.org
11/23
Turkey Talk. Join the naturalist to learn more about turkeys and make a fun craft. 11-11:30 a.m. Indian Lake State Park Nature Center, 13156 State Route 235 N Lakeview, ohiodnr.gov
11/25
Stuffed Animal Friendsgiving. Enjoy a special time listening to stories together followed by dancing, games and snacks. Portage Lakes Branch Library, 4261 Manchester Road, Akron, akronlibrary.org
A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. Play games, make crafts and more. Grades 1-3. Twinsburg Public Library, 10050 Ravenna Road, twinsburglibrary.org
11/26
Thanksgiving Storytime. Stories, fingerplays and flannel boards about Thanksgiving. 10 a.m. Garrettsville Branch Library, 10482 South St., portagelibrary.org
11/28
Cleveland Turkey Trot. A Thanksgiving morning tradition for the entire family. Public Hall, 500 Lakeside Ave., Cleveland, turkeytrotcleveland.com
Driving Past Anxiety:
By Erin Sernoffsky
Helping Nervous Teens Become Safe Drivers
There’s no greater symbol of teenage independence than a driver’s license. At least that’s how it’s always been. But a change is slowly taking place as gen-
eral anxiety and a lack of motivation settle in over the newest generation of would-be drivers. While many teens still eagerly practice maneuverability, there’s a rising number
of kids who elect not to get their license.
“It used to be a rite of passage but it’s somewhat diluted,” says Dr. Luis Amunategui, PhD of University
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“ A parent’s approach to learning to drive makes a huge impact. Focusing on the positive aspects of learning — the excitement and independence — while also working to reduce the pressure to drive right away and eliminating high-stakes situations can go a long way.
Hospitals Behavioral Health Institute.
Since COVID Amunategui has noticed that teens are showing greater social withdrawal. Furthermore, access to cellphones and the internet mean teens no longer need to leave the house to connect with their peers and friends.
“There’s always been a subset of kids I treat that are anxious [and] who have low interest in learning to drive…But now there is also a lack of eagerness that is evident in teens,” Amunategui says.
Amunategui isn’t alone. Greg Anderson, founder of All Star Driving School and Teach With A Pro, agrees. “We have to identify what the reluctance is,” he says. “Sometimes they don’t want to put in the effort because they don’t see the need to drive. A lot of time, the people who are anxious to drive are fearful because they don’t think they can handle the information or they had a bad experience with someone teaching them to drive.”
A parent’s approach to learning to drive makes a huge impact. Focusing on the positive aspects of learning—the excitement and independence—while also working to reduce the pressure to drive right away and eliminating high-stakes situations can go a long way.
Amunategui recommends parents, “talk about this as a privilege and a skill that makes life so much better and richer. Parents create this expectation that we want you to develop this skill, while still having the mindset that it’s a gradual skill.”
However, even when parents employ high-positivity, low-pressure, family dynamics are a frequent roadblock and sometimes the best approach can be to step back.
“The main thing I would ask parents to consider is that the best instructor is not a family member. Get yourself out of the family teaching loop,” recommends Amunategui.
This dynamic is so common Anderson launched Teach with A Pro, an online subscription series of short videos, all dedicated to teaching new drivers critical skills before ever getting behind the wheel.
Anderson’s goal is to provide a third-party expert so teens are less likely to question their parent’s judgment and authority. By watching the videos together, parents and teens can practice skills or address any questions. The series is especially effective if families watch prior to the teen starting drivers’ education so they are equipped with knowledge before being put on the spot by an instructor.
The expert guidance on the videos also helps parents close the gap between what their teen needs to know and what they may not remember or think to teach. Anderson asks parents, “How much information did you forget about driving and how do you communicate something you forgot or don’t think is important? Driving becomes watered down if the parent is teaching without expert help.”
Another major tool in combating driving anxiety is to break it down into manageable parts.
“One of the best ways for parents to help someone who has anxiety about driving is separating out the skills—car control skills, scanning and hazard recognition, and critical decision making-skills,” Anderson says.
It’s much harder for a new driver to learn to make a left hand turns on a road when they’re also expected to scan for road signs, notice other drivers, unexpected dangers, and maintain a speed limit all while understanding how far and fast they need to turn a wheel without hitting a curb.
Instead, Anderson teaches car control in an isolated environment— by having drivers practice figure 8’s in an empty parking lot.
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“There’s no danger, they can get up to 15-20 miles per hour and can practice turning both ways. The pressure is gone and they are often ready to try driving on the road so much sooner,” he says.
He also utilizes the “I do it, we do it, you do it” approach to hazard recognition and critical decision making. With the teen as the passenger, parents and instructors first narrate what they are doing. For example, when coming to an intersection the driver can tell the student that they notice it’s a four-way stop, when to begin slowing down, the position of the other cars, when they use their turn signal, where they notice a crosswalk, and so on. Later, the student is asked to point all of these out. Anderson even recommends students point out all the white cars they see on the road.
Once teens have mastered the skill of visually scanning surroundings they can then practice critical decision making in a no-stakes scenario by telling the driver what to do in a given situation.
“We want to turn them into the worst backseat driver in the world,” Anderson says. “You want them telling you everything to do and what you should be doing. We’re building habits and awareness. It reduces the stress for when it’s their turn. It truly works wonders.”
By setting positive expectations, removing pressure to drive immediately, breaking lessons into manageable parts, and bringing in experts, it can help parents be a major ally in building their teen’s confidence and helping them to be safer behind the wheel.
“I would love to tell every parent this one thing,” Anderson says. “I would much rather have my kid driving than them being a passenger of another kid driving. Because you don’t know what the other kid knows or learned.”
6 Ways Families Can Support Their High Schoolers
By Joel Hammond
High school students and their parents seem to have more on their plates as everyone balances multiple schedules from sports, academics, work and after-school activities. For high school families, they also have the crunch of getting everything done before it all ends, including figuring out future steps, whether it’s college or career. We spoke with a few parents who provided tips on how to keep things moving in the right direction.
1. FOCUS ON ACADEMICS FIRST.
That’s the rule in the Griffin household in Strongsville, where Jackson, the youngest of three kids, is a senior — and a four-year starter at defensive back on the Mustang football team, senior class president and a member of the honors orchestra, among other things.
“The thing we celebrate the most for our kids is not athletics or extracurricular success but rather academic success,” says Kevin, Jackson’s dad. “The only other real rule was that if you start something you have to finish it, be it a sport, team or club.”
2. ESTABLISH SUPPORT GROUPS — FOR STUDENTS AND PARENTS.
Griffin says peer groups have been instrumental for his son and he and his wife, Farrah.
“We’ve always encouraged our kids to establish a strong group of friends who share similar priorities and values. Jackson’s friend group keeps him accountable and they push and support each other.” As they’ve navigated their kids’ maturation and growth, though, parent peers have been important, too:
“Having other parents to talk to about this topic was helpful,” Kevin Griffin says. “We didn’t want to overlook
a blind spot we might have as parents. Conversations with other parents plus older folks who had been through the process were always helpful.”
3. COMMUNICATE — CALENDARS AND GROUP TEXTS. Matthew Contipelli, a senior golfer in Solon, and his sister, Kate, a sophomore runner and band member, are constantly on the go, says their mom, Stephanie. Communication, then, is key. Everyone has a separate color on their shared calendar, and their family group text thread is always humming.
“Everything goes on the calendar: family commitments, sports, games, tournaments, my husband’s work travel —everything,” Stephanie Contipelli says. If Kate needs to be picked up or dropped off unexpectedly, that goes in the group chat, and Matthew — whose agreement for getting a car was dependent upon him driving his sister when his mom and dad can’t — jumps in.
4. FAMILY TIME EVOLVES — BUT REMAINS CRITICAL.
Dinners together are fewer and farther between, but family time has turned into trips to Target, errands or
elsewhere for the Contipellis. They also view golf tournaments as little getaways they otherwise wouldn’t enjoy: If he golfs for two days across the state, Mom, Dad and Kate go; one day, Mom walks with Matthew and Dad takes Kate shopping.
“We must meet them where they are right now. If they ask me to do anything, I always say yes. I’ve become more comfortable with the house not looking perfect all the time if it means I spent time with the kids.”
5. MAKE CLEAR TO STUDENTS THAT THEY’RE LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY.
As students go, go and go some more, sometimes it’s easy to let the most important things lose priority. Kevin Griffin says that he and his wife tell their kids, and any other parents who will listen, that their kids must continu-
ally understand the love their parents have for them.
“The sports outcomes, the scores, records and results, don’t matter,” he says. “What matters is how the kids prepare and learn from the lessons sports and activities teach. We’ve drilled this into our children early. Balancing unconditional love with accountability, including commitment, hard work and being a good teammate, has proven to be the key in our household.”
6. UNDERSTAND ONE TRUTH: FATHER TIME IS UNDEFEATED.
“It is really hard to balance everything,” Stephanie Contipelli says, “but I want to be at each event and try to look at it as a privilege, rather than an obligation. At this point, I can see the years of getting to watch their events is quickly coming to an end, so I try to appreciate each one.”
College Testing: 8 ways to start planning for the ACT and SAT
By Shana O’Malley Smith
Just when you think you have the high school years figured out, the college planning begins.
During your teen’s junior year of high school, they will likely take the ACT (American College Testing) or SAT (Scholastic Assessment Test), to assess college and career readiness.
According to the Ohio Department of Education and Workforce, “state law requires districts and community schools to administer the state-funded ACT or SAT to all grade 11 students in the spring of the school year. Each year, districts and schools will select the test to administer to their juniors.”
If your child is planning on attending college, having a good ACT or SAT score can help them stand out and increase their chance of acceptance.
While these tests are taken in 11th grade, planning begins well beforehand. Here are a few ways to prepare and maximize testing opportunities.
1. START THE PROCESS EARLY. Attend an informational session offered by your local school district or library. This will give you an idea about what resources are offered through your school or community. Some parents start gathering testing information when their child begins eighth or ninth grade.
2. MAKE A TESTING TIMELINE. Determine the date you plan on having your child test and work backwards from there.
For example, if your child is testing the fall of junior year, you’ll want to make sure to plan for test registration (2 months out), studying and practice testing (3-4 months out), pre-testing and tutoring (6+ months out). Tests are offered multiple times throughout the year so you can figure out a time that works best for your child’s schedule.
3. MAKE A LIST OF TOP 5 COLLEGES AND LOOK AT THEIR AVERAGE TEST SCORES. A quick online search will tell you the average ACT and SAT scores for students accepted into the universities your child is considering. For ACT, look at the 25 and 75 percentile for a good range. This will help determine the score your child will want to achieve on their test.
4. TAKE PREP TESTS. Students can take the PreACT or PSAT beginning in eighth, ninth or 10th grade. These shorter exams help students practice for the ACT and SAT, provide a baseline score and a benchmark for areas of strength and weakness. The scores from the PreACT and PSAT do not count toward the actual ACT and SAT and are only meant for practice. It is advised not to take the ACT or SAT to use as a baseline because those scores go on your child’s permanent record.
5. FIND THE BEST STUDY STRATEGY. How does your child learn the best? Figuring out their studying style and sticking to a study plan will keep your student
organized and prepared. According to UWorld College Prep, students should begin studying for the ACT and SAT about three to four months before the actual test. You may also consider using a tutor or taking prep classes.
6. READ, READ, READ! Read materials outside of school assignments, especially non-fiction magazines and journals. This can help improve grammar, vocabulary and critical thinking skills.
7. PRACTICE SITTING FOR TEST DAY. The ACT is 2 hours and 55 minutes, with a 15-minute break. If you choose to do the optional writing portion, it’s an additional 40 minutes. The SAT is 2 hours and 14 minutes of testing time, with a 10-minute break. Your student should get comfortable sitting at a desk and testing for long periods of time. A parent or sibling can proctor a practice exam by setting a timer and enforcing test day rules such as not using a phone or electronic device, no restroom breaks and no eating or drinking during the test.
8. PLAN TO TAKE THE TEST MORE THAN ONCE. It’s OK and common to take the ACT or SAT more than once. In fact, many colleges allow “score choice,” which allows you to only share your best test score with them. If a college requires submission of all test scores it may show consistent improvements made.
HIGH SCHOOL LISTINGS
BENEDICTINE HIGH SCHOOL
Benedictine High School, situated in Cleveland, Ohio, is a prestigious Catholic school exclusively for boys.
Established in 1927, it has a rich history of providing excellent education in the spirit of St. Benedict. Their commitment is to nurture the holistic development of students by offering leadership programs that facilitate growth in mind, body, and spirit. They encourage boys in grades 7-8 to visit and experience what being a Man of Benedictine means for them. 216-421-2080, cbhs.edu
HAWKEN SCHOOL
Hawken School offers two high school options: the Upper School in Gates Mills and the Mastery School of Hawken in University Circle. The Upper School guides students to embrace the intrinsic value of learning by providing opportunities for student inquiry, analysis, agency, experimentation, and leadership. The Mastery School immerses students in real-world problem solving with a focus on personalized, project-based learning and an assessment model that leads students to learn deeply and persist to Mastery. Call or email admissions@hawken.edu or 440-423-2950. hawken.edu/ admission
HOLY NAME HIGH SCHOOL
Holy Name High School, founded in 1914, educates its students through the Triple Threat model–mind, body, spirit. They believe that a well rounded student is one who not only excels in the classroom, but also in extracurriculars and in their faith. Following their college preparatory curriculum, students at Holy Name can choose from over 100 courses ranging from Business/Technology to Performing Arts, will partake in career shadowing, and will earn service hours through various volunteer opportunities. 440-886-0300, holynamehs.com
LAKE CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL
Life at Lake Catholic offers a transformative education grounded in faith, academic excellence, and community service. With a rigorous curriculum, diverse extracurricular activities, and a commitment to developing well-rounded individuals, students thrive in a supportive environment. The school’s dedicated faculty and staff foster personal growth and spiritual development, preparing graduates for success in life beyond high school. Come to Lake Catholic and discover all the ways you can create your extraordinary future. 440-578-1020, lakecatholic.org
LAKE RIDGE ACADEMY
Lake Ridge Academy is the only independent college preparatory school on Cleveland’s west side. Their K-12 co-educational curriculum offers a unique blend of rigorous academics, extracurricular activities, and a focus on wellness and character development. With a student-teacher ratio of 8:1, their devoted faculty provides personalized attention to help every student thrive. Come visit their 93-acre campus and see the Lake Ridge difference. Their next preview day is September 30. Register at lakeridgeacademy.org/admissions/visit.
FLEX HIGH SCHOOL
Are you looking for a high school that offers the FLEXibility you need? FLEX High School provides a path to graduation that is flexible, personal, unique, and completely free. We focus on providing a safe educational environment, so that you may focus on your goal of obtaining a high school diploma. Students love the quiet, one-on-one attention they receive from their teacher mentors. Enroll anytime (877) 494-FLEX (3539).
MAGNIFICAT HIGH SCHOOL
At Magnificat High School, young women learn with purpose, lead with faith, and serve with impact. Students are challenged academically and encouraged to explore individual interests through engaging co-curricular programs, competitive athletics, dynamic artistic offerings, and service learning. The faith-filled environment is rooted in Catholicism while welcoming students of all religions and backgrounds. Friendships are made to endure into an alumni sisterhood that spans generations and lasts a lifetime. 440-331-1572, magnificaths.org
264 S. Arlington Street Akron
24-Hour Foster Care & Adoption Inquiry Line: 330-379-1990 summitkids.org
“We are committed to the safety, permanency, and well-being of all children served, in partnership with families and the community.”
— Cassandra Holtzmann, JD, LPA, Executive Director, Summit County Children Services
Soummit County Children Services serves 1 out of 12 children in Summit County.
For Monica and Michael Burgan becoming foster parents four years ago allowed them to help some of those children feel safe. With 5 children of their own, the Burgans have plenty of love to share.
Training by SCCS prepared them well for the process of fostering and what to expect with each arrival, but nothing could have prepared them for the connections that would be created. For the Burgan Family, the goal of fostering is the reunification of the biological family. Becoming a foster parent means more than taking care of a child. It means helping to rebuild families.
“It’s great to watch a child grow in
Meet the Burgan Family
our space,” says Monica “and to be part of an amazing community that supports us in doing so.” As members of the Redemption Church, they have a huge support network providing meal trains, diapers, moral support and more. They also have access to various resources like the Foster Care Closet, Toy Library, and the Foster Parent Association.
During her childhood, Monica was taught to share and give back and that people need healthy relationships and safe spaces. It is these values she hopes to instill in the children under her care. Becoming a foster family has taught their children important lessons, helping them grow and learn.
The Burgans have learned that any family can help, and even though it
is not always easy, they can serve the greater good.
SCCS is committed to the safety, permanency, and well-being of all children served, in partnership with families and the community. It is those partnerships that make all the difference as they care for a population of nearly 900 children in foster care in Summit County.
With only 140 foster families available, the need for those partnerships is only increasing.
Join Summit County Children Services and help care for children and families in Summit County. Visit summitkids.org for more information about becoming a foster parent, or call the 24-Hour Foster Care & Adoption Inquiry Line: (330) 379-1990.
CELEBRATING ADOPTION DAY. FROM LEFT: DUSTIN, PIERCE, PHINEAS, JAMIE LOZIER.
The Faces of Adoptive Parents
TWO STORIES, TWO FAMILIES WITH UNIQUE PATHWAYS TO ADOPTION
By Angela Gartner
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THE SPECTRUM OF PARENTING
Jamie Lozier of Akron and her husband always knew they wanted a big family. They had two children, but wanted more. However, due to medical reasons, they were unable to expand naturally, instead, it was the beginning of a journey where they opened their hearts to foster and adopt.
In fact, it’s somewhat of a family tradition for Lozier, as some members of her immediate family were adopted.
However, it wasn’t until one of her sons started asking questions regarding more siblings, specifically a sister. The couple, who were already thinking of adoption, decided to start the process.
“We started classes through Summit County Children Services to become licensed foster parents because we decided that we wanted to help the kids that needed it the most,” Lozier says.
Currently, they have seven children in their household (including their two biological sons), six boys and one girl, ranging in ages three to 17.
As foster parents, other children have stayed at their home and were later reunited with parents or family members.
“The goal of fostering is always reunification,” Lozier says. “But, when the kids leave, it’s emotional. My boys consider every single child that’s been in our home, their siblings. We still have their pictures on our walls and we still have contact with some of them. We just tried to keep in mind that the reason that those kids didn’t stay is because somebody else needs us more.”
The Loziers were not afraid to take in sibling groups who were looking for placement.
“I come from a big family and my husband is very close with his siblings so I think that’s just always a relationship that’s been important to me,” Lozier says. “I’m one of four children so when we were those kids, we always did everything together. I want to see that for my children and I see that for the kids that come into our care. I just always want them to have that experience. Your siblings are your first friends.”
As this article was being written, the Loziers’ cele-
brated their adoption day with two of the children, two siblings, ages three and five.
The decision to move forward with placements is a family decision.
“We’ve definitely kept our kids all included in any of the decisions we make regarding placement,” she says. “We always talk about it together as a family first to make sure everybody’s on board because it does definitely impact and change all of our lives whenever a new placement comes in or out.”
She advises parents looking into foster and adoption to just make the decision that’s right for you and your family.
“It definitely feels like a jump off the deep end,” she says. “You go into the classes and you read the rules and you watch the videos and the training. It’s a hard, not easy, a long process and invasive. There’s definitely an emotional aspect of it. It’s one of the hardest and most beautiful things we’ve ever done.”
She says some of the challenges that there’s stigma to fostering.
“Unfortunately, the worst stories are the ones we all see on the news and that’s how we base our opinions on things,” she says. “So, I’ve actually had people, like, stop me in public and be like, you don’t look like a foster parent when they see my kids. And I’m like, how am I supposed to look?”
The family does get a lot of support from family and other families in the adoption community.
“Children need more people to love them, not less,” she says. “So, we definitely try to not make them choose between us and their biological families. We’ve kind of adopted a whole bunch of people into our family. We’ve been able to expand relationships with people from the biological families of all of our children. We’ve had a unique perspective in that we’ve become parents in almost every way possible. Through biological, foster, adoption and legal custody. The story of how you got here just makes it more beautiful and more special, more yours.”
CHANGING LIVES FROM ABROAD
Stephanie Bever and Justin Campbell knew international adoption was something they wanted to pursue. Not only children from other countries pulled at their heartstrings, but Bever says it’s an opportunity to give them a chance to have a life in a loving home. A place that also includes modern medical treatment.
“It’s little things like that that we take for granted, that we have here in the U.S. and most of us have access to,” she says.
The process of adoption isn’t easy, whether you are looking to adopt domestically or internationally.
“Only certain adoption agencies do international adoption,” Bever says. We picked the agency (and) once we did that, it was a whole plethora of paperwork. I mean, everything from every address you’ve ever lived at your entire life. They do a deep dive into your life.”
This also included a home study from Bellefaire JCB, an adoption agency in Shaker Heights.
Campbell looked through the agency’s website and let them know they were interested in a boy, Bodhi, from Bulgaria, who was on a waiting list to be adopted.
“We officially went to meet him for the first time in December of 2022,” Bever says, adding the flight
to and from was rough with lost luggage and long layovers. However, when they met Bodhi, it was amazing.
“We decided, yes, we’re moving forward,” she says. “The formal adoption was completed in Bulgaria and in March of 2023 we brought him back.”
Bodhi, 8, who was diagnosed with autism and ADHD, did not speak English, but soon learned how to adapt to his new surroundings, but it wasn’t easy.
Bever says the first months were challenging, but with the help of special therapies, it’s been much better.
“He is pretty much speaking 100% English, in the regular school system and has an IEP,” Bever says. “The school does fantastic with him. He’s just a sweet
Bodhi also connected with Bever’s three biological
“We did a lot of Zoom calls and with him, his foster mom and the adoption agency and always made sure my biological children were included on those calls,” Bever says.
The family has also embraced Bodhi’s Bulgarian culture with holiday celebrations and even including
Bever says there’s a holiday in March called Baba Marta Day, which marks the beginning of spring and end of winter where there’s an exchange of exchange martenitsi, which are decorave pieces of red and white yarn that symbolize health and happiness.
“We actually bought a book that explained that holiday and bought the little red bracelets for his entire classroom at school,” she says. “The teacher was so kind to have a day where they educated his class on his culture.”
She advises parents who are interested in adoption to be realistic about what your household can handle.
“It’s knowing that first year is going to be rough, you are going to have moments where you second guess what you did, (and if or) can you really do this,” Bever says. “But, know it gets better. It becomes so rewarding and I think for us, it’s been a blessing. I mean, we still have our moments where we have some regression. It’s not going to be easy ever. You’ll have setbacks and delays and all of that. Knowing that you have a good support system around you is important. It doesn’t matter whether you adopt internationally or domestically, you’re never going to adopt a perfect child.“
November Calendar
Art this Way
11/10
Family Fun at the Maltz Museum: Celebrate the Artist in You. Kids explore while creating a self-portrait mosaic. 1:30 p.m. 2929 Richmond Road, Beachwood, maltzmuseum.org
11/16
Fall Mommy & Me Art Class. Make potato stamped tea towels just in time for Thanksgiving. 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. The Nature Center at Shaker Lakes, 2600 S. Park Blvd., CLeveland, shakerlakes.org
11/20
Mess Makers: Orange Day. Children and caregivers explore creativity. 1-4 p.m. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., akronartmuseum.org
Pick - A - Day
TUESDAYS
Kids Aerial Hammock. For anyone with little to no aerial experience. 11/5-12/10. 6:10 p.m. Sky Circus Cleveland, 4700 Lakeside Ave. East, skycircuscleveland.com
WEDNESDAYS
Astronomy Club. Explore the world of astronomy in a fun, social environment on the third Wednesday of each month. 6:30 p.m. Lake Erie Nature & Science Center, 28728 Wolf Road, Bay Village, lensc.org
Read with a Librarian. Read with a librarian trained in early literacy techniques. 3:30-5:30 p.m. Noble Neighborhood Branch Library, 2800 Noble Road, Cleveland, heightslibrary.org
Funday Group. Designed to help 9-12 year olds manage their social skills. 5-6 p.m. The Center for LifeSkills, 6325 Cochran Road, Solon, center4lifeskills.com
SATURDAYS
Second Saturday Science. A naturalist answers questions and helps spot marsh wildlife, including birds, bees, and butterflies. 8 a.m. Mentor Marsh, 8852-8928 Woodridge Lane, Mentor, cmnh.org
Comic Club. Learn to juggle works with images in unexpected ways with artist Juan Fernandez. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Community Arts Center, 2937 W. 25th St., Cleveland, clevelandart.org
SUNDAYS
Family FUNday. Family-friendly games, movement-based activities, art and more. First
Sunday of each month. 1-4 p.m. Community Arts Center, West 25th St., Cleveland, clevelandart.org
Ongoing
THROUGH 11/30
Trekking Through Autumn. Hike eight or more designated trails and receive an award. Medina County Park District, medinacountyparks.com
Fall Hiking Spree. Explore the colors while enjoying the fall colors. First-year hikers earn a staff and shield. summitmetroparks.org
THROUGH 12/31
Wild Hikes Challenge. Walk, hike, skip, jog, run or stroll on eight designated trails before Dec. 31 to earn a hiking staff (first year) and/or a 2024 Wild Hikes medallion. portgageparkdistrict.org
THROUGH 3/2/2025
Garden of Lights: Alice in Wonderland. Dazzling light display inspired by the classic fairy tale, with illuminated character lanterns like Alice, the Mad Hatter, and the Queen of Hearts. The Crawford Barn, 5563 Raiders Road, Frazeysburg, gardenoflights.com
Day-By-Day
11/1-9
Thank Our Veterans. Honor our veterans by making thankyou cards to be delivered to them. 9 a.m.-9 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, westlakelibrary.org
11/2-3
Buckeye Alpaca Fall Fest. Come see these amazing animals compete for Champion Status. 9 a.m. Summit County Fairgrounds, Tallmadge, buckeyealpacashow.com
11/6
Edible Science. Have you ever wanted to eat a juice balloon? Now you can with molecular gastronomy. 4-5 p.m. Springfield-Lakemore Branch Library, 1500 Canton Road, Akron, akronlibrary.org
11/6-9, 11/1314, 11/18, 11/20, 11/23, 12/5-6
Kindergarten Countdown. Help your child build kindergarten readiness skills in a program aligned to Ohio’s Early Childhood Standards. Cuyahoga County Branch Library, various locations, cuyahogalibary.org
11/7
Camp Cooking with Fall Flavors. Ages 8+. Spice up your cooking skills with exciting new recipes. 6-8 p.m. North Chagrin Reservation, Chestnut Shelter, Willoughby Hills, clevelandmetroparks.com
Game Playtesters. Work collaboratively and make friends with others who share similar gaming interests. Grades 4-8. Parma Heights Branch Library, 6206 Pearl Rd, cuyahogalibrary.org
11/8
Leaves for Little Ones. Join a naturalists for all things leaves, including a read aloud of Lois Ehlert’s “Leaf Man.” 10:30-11:30 a.m. F. A. Seiberling Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, summitmetroparks.org
Let’s Cook for Kids: Homeschool Edition. Plant-based mobile cooking school for kids ages 8+. 11:30 a.m. Headlands Community Center, 9096 Lake Overlook Dr., mentorpl.org
11/9-10
Red, White & Zoo Days. Wear red, white or blue and receive free admission. Akron Zoo, 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, akronzoo.org
11/10
Thank a Veteran. Make a thank-you card in honor of Veterans Day that will be distributed to local veterans. Rocky River Public Library, 1600 Hampton Road, rrpl.org
11/12
International Snack Tasting. Teens come to sample snack items from around the world. 3:30 p.m. Shaker Heights Library, 16500 Van Aken Blvd., shakerlibrary.org
11/16
Super Science Saturday: Microbe Madness. Take a deep dive into the mad world of microbes. 10:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Akron Fossils & Science Center, 2080 S. Cleveland Massillon Road, Copley, akronfossils.com
Open Studios at the Fairmount Center for the Arts. Bring the whole family for varied performing and visual arts activities. 3 p.m. 8400 Fairmount Road, Novelty, fairmountcenter.org
Children’s Beginning Guitar. Learn the basics of the guitar. 6:30 p.m. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., alpl.org
11/19
Kids Paint Night. Follow a librarian through a fabulous llama painting. 6 p.m. Kent Free Library, 312 W. Main St., kentfreelibrary.org
11/20
Open Beam Play. Enjoy interactive floor projection games. Grades 3-5. 4:45 p.m. North Canton Public Library, 185 N. Main St., ncantonlibrary.com
11/21
Owlbert’s Adventure: Super Seeds. Ages 3-6 and families. Put on your scientist hat and dissect and explore seeds. 11 a.m.-noon. Shaw Woods, 7075 Beery Road, Ravenna, portagecounty-oh.gov/ portage-park-district
11/21-12/22
Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. An irresistible family-friendly musical about family! Go on the journey of the trials and triumphs of Joseph, the favorite son of Israel. Beck Center for the Arts, 17801 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, beckcenter.org
11/23
Fun Fabric Creations. Paint on fabric inspired by Africa, discover the art of Shibori, and learn about the quilt blocks of Ohio, while creating your own quilted pillow. Ages 9-11. 10 a.m.-noon. Bay Arts, 28795 Lake Road, Bay Village, bayarts.net
11/23-1/1
Candy Land: It’s Wild in Ohio. An indoor magical wonderland brings this favorite family game to life! 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Penitentiary Glen Reservation, 8668 Kirtland Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com
11/29-12/22
Matilda The Musical. Captivating masterpiece that revels in the anarchy of childhood, the power of imagination and the inspiring story of a girl who dreams of a better life.The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, fineartsassociation.org
12/8
Kids Maker Fest. For young entrepreneurs who are just starting out or who have established businesses. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, akronartmuseum.org
ONGOING ATTRACTIONS
AKRON ART MUSEUM LAND JAM. 1 S. High St., akronartmuseum.org
AKRON CHILDREN’S MUSEUM FARM TO TABLE. Akron Children’s Museum, 216 S. Main St., akronkids.org
AKRON FOSSILS & SCIENCE CENTER TWO ACRE OUTDOOR PLAY PARK. 2080 S. Cleveland-Massillon Road, Copley, akronfossils.com
AKRON ZOO GRIZZLY RIDGE. 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, akronzoo.org
CHILDREN’S MUSEUM CLEVELAND BUBBLES. 3813 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, cmccleveland.org
CLEVELAND BOTANICAL GARDEN HERSHEY CHILDREN’S GARDEN. 11030 East Blvd., University Circle, cbgarden.org
CLEVELAND METROPARKS ZOO SUSIE’S BEAR HOLLOW. 3900 Wildlife Way, futureforwildlife.org
THE CLEVELAND MUSEUM OF ART PICTURING THE BORDER. 11150 East Blvd., clevelandart.org
CLEVELAND MUSEUM OF NATURAL HISTORY ONE WORLD, ONE SKY. 1 Wade Oval Drive, Cleveland, cmnh.org
GREAT LAKES SCIENCE CENTER TAPE SCAPE. 601 Erieside Ave., Cleveland, greatscience.com
GREATER CLEVELAND AQUARIUM
ASIA AND INDONESIA GALLERY. 2000 Sycamore St., Cleveland, greaterclevelandaquarium.com
HOLDEN ARBORETUM
MURCH CANOPY WALK AND KALBERER EMERGENT TOWER. 9500 Sperry Road, Kirtland, holdenarb.org
LAKE ERIE NATURE & SCIENCE CENTER
SCHUELE PLANETARIUM. 28728 Wolf Road, Bay Village, lensc.org
MUSEUM OF ILLUSIONS CLEVELAND
ILLUSION ROOMS & INSTALLATIONS. 186 Euclid Ave., Suite 130, Cleveland, moicleveland.com
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Navigating the TEEN YEARS
In the blink of an eye it happens... your kids grow up. I cannot believe it, my youngest daughter is 13 years old and a high school freshman now. And I just love every single minute of it. I’ve always been close to both of my daughters, and it’s just such a beautiful thing to watch them grow up. The transition to teenager can come with lots of changes though. The sweet, chatty child who once shared everything may become more independent, quieter, and sometimes even distant. But while the teen years bring their challenges, they also provide a chance to deepen your relationship and build a strong, lasting connection. Here are just a few of my thoughts as a parent that help navigate the transition.
LISTEN MORE THAN YOU SPEAK
Teens want to be heard, and one of the best ways to strengthen your relationship is by becoming a better listener. This is sometimes hard, I get it. Instead of jumping in with advice or opinions, try to really hear what they’re saying. Ask open-ended questions like, “How did that make you feel?” or “What do you think about that?” This helps foster a sense of trust and shows that you value their thoughts. Often I think, teens just need to express themselves without feeling judged.
RESPECT THEIR BOUNDARIES
Teens are at a stage where they’re seeking independence and privacy, and respecting these boundaries is important too. It’s a balance though. It can be tempting to pry into every detail of their lives, especially in the age of social media, but giving them space fosters mutual respect. While it’s important to stay informed and engaged, I think overly controlling can be difficult too. Let them know you’re there for them, but trust them to manage their growing autonomy.
SET FAIR EXPECTATIONS AND STICK TO THEM
While teens crave independence, they also need structure. Setting fair expectations and boundaries around curfews, responsibilities, and screen time can help maintain balance. The key is consistency—sticking to agreed-upon rules helps teens feel secure. Including them in the conversation about household expectations can also help them feel a sense of ownership and fairness. And parents, it’s ok to say no and set those boundaries.
KEEP THE DOOR OPEN FOR CONVERSATIONS
Sometimes, teens might retreat or avoid deep conversations, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want a connection. Also, the social dynamics in high school can be intense. The ups and downs are a real thing. Peer pressure, social media expectations, and the desire to fit in to certain “friend groups” all influence how your teen navigates their world. They might not always talk about it, but your high schooler is likely juggling complex emotions about friendships and self-image. Encouraging open conversations about their feelings can make a big difference in helping them cope with these pressures. Keep the door open for dialogue without forcing it. Encourage talks about their interests, challenges or even things happening in the world. By showing them that you’re always there to talk — without judgment— you lay the foundation for a strong, trusting relationship.
Building a strong bond with your teen takes patience, understanding and flexibility, but it’s all so worth it. These years are about finding new ways to stay connected as they grow into young adults, and that bond can be a source of strength for both of you.