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where local women turn Premiere Issue NOVEMBER/ DECEMBER 2008
HOLIDAY BALANCE Working during the holidays doesn’t have to ruin the spirit
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“The Girls” of Faribault Harley-Davidson
Get your motor running, ladies. The women who work at Faribault Harley-Davidson might not have become the riders they are today if they hadn’t gone to the dealership. Now they are helping other women partake in the fun through classes and programs provided there. A new tradition was born last fall with the “Just the Girls” ride that began at Faribault Harley-Davidson with a photo shoot by Scott Davis of Northfield. The road called the group through the scenic back roads between Faribault and Northfield. On the way to Cannon Falls where they stopped for lunch at the Mill Street Tavern, the girls noticed the turning of leaves and of the heads of the men who watched them cruise by. WARNING: Guys, they plan to have more rides and invite a lot more women to join them, so please stay focused while driving by. “Today, we are not worried about what’s for supper, or if the laundry is done. Today is
about taking time for ourselves and having fun, ”says, Ann Hofmeister, owner of Faribault Harley-Davidson. Interested in leaving the mundane behind for a while? Attend one of the dealership’s ladies-only Ann Hofmeister, Chris Jeanes, Judy Pumper, Tammy Rosett, Dawn Drentlaw “Garage Parties.” This ain’t no Tupperware® party, it’s a you will have your motorcycle intimidation-free zone where women endorsement. The instructors are MSF can learn about the sport. You will learn certified and truly enjoy teaching new about the motorcycles, riding riders. Because class sizes are small, gear, customization, and how to pick up the instructors and staff leave you a 600 lb. motorcycle off the ground. feeling like part of the family. More Garage parties build confidence while than 1,000 students have successfully helping you learn how to get into the passed. sport of motorcycling. For those of you that already ride, what The dealership also offers an “About are you waiting for? And for those who the Bikes” course. You learn the want to learn more, stop in and see us. different models, riding positions and Go to www.faribaulthd.com for how to choose the correct model for information on up coming events. you. Most importantly, enthusiasts learn to ride by taking the “Rider’s “This one’s for the girls who love without Edge® New Riders Course.” This holding back, who dream with everything four-day class gives you the confidence they have, all around the world this one’s and education to be a safe rider. Upon for the girls” Martina McBride completion and passing the final test,
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Girlfriends speaks to women of our region Y
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ou simply want to know, “How does she do that?” This was your response when we asked what you wanted to read about in a new local women’s magazine. You told us you want to relate to other real women in our area. You want a women’s magazine to reflect who you really are. You don’t want to be portrayed as “superwoman” nor be challenged with having to be it all or have it all. You want to know that you are normal. Girlfriends was created with your interests in mind. Girlfriends speaks to us — the 70,000-plus women who live in Northfield, Faribault, Owatonna, Waseca, St. Peter and surrounding rural communities — about real life happenings and things we care about most. Girlfriends is where local women turn. We turn to our
extraordinary and ordinary things that women in our area are doing. We look to provide you with lively, informative feature stories about how we balance work, family and our needs. Our aim is to avoid stereotypes. We’ll focus on priorities and real women doing interesting things. We hope to provide you with a gathering spot to share and converse with others just like you. In Girlfriends you will discover a variety of fun and inspiring rotating features, including intriguing portraits of “Women We Know.” • “Purse Strings” — real women talk about the everyday challenges of making ends meet. • “We Time” — highlighting the fun, quirky, centering and adventurous things we do on our off time. • “Snap” — the sharing of great time-saving tips.
In Her Words Julie Frazier
girlfriends for everything. They are our confidants. They are the ones we can always count on. They understand when often nobody else does. They lend us a shoulder to cry on. They stand by us throughout the years. They are irreplaceable, steadfast and true. They are our best buds. This was the inspiration behind Girlfriends. Our goal is to provide you stories and topics that reflect the casualness and ease of the relationships that we have with our girlfriends. It is not about age, but rather our relationships as we transition through our life stages. We will celebrate both the
• “Referrals” — chat, swap stories and share advice with other women in the area who are just like you. This is just a sampling of the “Accessories” we will be featuring in upcoming issues. Soon we’ll encourage reader interaction through our Web site, www.girlfriends.mn. In the meantime, you can arrange convenient home delivery of the magazine for just $20 a year by visiting the site and clicking on “subscribe.” We hope you enjoy this debut holiday edition. Please email or call us with story ideas or comments. We welcome your input and look forward to sharing with you. Happy holidays girlfriend. Julie Frazier is the publisher of Girlfriends magazine. She can be reached at 507-835-5442 or email at jfrazier@I35targetmedia.com.
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15 29 Girlfriends NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2008 16 FROM THE HEART Owatonna foster parent Brenda Rions loves having a full house of kids.
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FINDING HOLIDAY BALANCE Working during the holidays doesn’t always have to be stressful. Many area women have learned to strike a balance.
21 INSPIRED Owners of Creative Hands and Passion for Art had dream of bringing renowned artists to Waseca.
18 WOMEN CAN BANK ON IT First United Bank in Faribault has a unique way of seeking input. An11-member all-female advisory board caters to women’s needs.
29 ALTER EGO Elysian hairdresser Diane Ross finds balance in her life in thrill of the hunt.
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26 RECESSION-PROOF LUXURY Chocolate has staying power. In an economy that is in a downturn, women find ways to splurge on this sweet treat.
Women We Know 12 YOU GO GIRL Northfield’s Linda Sone is always in motion. If she’s not biking she’s running stairs or working out.
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About Us
Lucy Sweitzer, Pam Roth and Pauline Jennings are friends first, musicians second. Read how these members of “Dame Station” became girlfriends. See page 6.
Volume 1, Issue 1 Copyright © Girlfriends 2008 Published Nov./Dec. 2008 by: I-35 Target Media, P.O. Box 537, Northfield, MN 55057 / 507-645-1136 Send releases and story ideas to: Jerry Smith at Girlfriends Magazine, jsmith@I35targetmedia.com
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Publisher: Julie Frazier Associate Editor: Jerry Smith Account Executive: Machelle Kendrick Contributing writers: Amy Acheson, Stephen DeLong, Patt Germann, Cathy Jones and Jaci Smith.
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ucy Sweitzer, Pam Roth and Pauline Jennings are friends first, musicians second. The three members of “Dame Station” met in 1997 and instantly became “best friends.” Then they got down to the business of music. “We all loved to sing and perform,” said Roth, who grew up in Northfield and now lives in Eagan. “It became a friendship first and then we just started playing together.” Two years after starting to perform with each other, Dame Station found success, being named a finalist at the 1999 Lilith Fair. The band produced its first and only CD two years later called “Not One of Many.” The song “Northbound” jumped to No. 3 on the MP3.com Country Chart. Girlfriends.mn
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“Music has always been a part of our lives together,” said Sweitzer, the owner of Anna’s Closet in Northfield. “We’re not making money at it anymore, but we just play as girlfriends.” But music isn’t everything to the trio, who no longer perform but still play together whenever they can. Being the best of friends has always been the top priority. “We’re always there for each other and that’s important,” said Jennings, who lives in Northfield. “Yes, the music is fun, but friendship is forever. We’ll always be girlfriends.” Sweitzer couldn’t agree more. “It’s a privilege to have these friends,” she said. “This will be for the rest of our lives.” G
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Striking a Balance Working during the holidays doesn’t have to be stressful
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he gift shopping, the baking, the food shopping, the cards, the cleaning for company. The parties, the “Santa” shopping, the wrapping, the stockingstuffer shopping, the decorating, the traveling. And don’t forget the last-minute-people-you-forgot shopping — it’s enough to make you dread the holidays and feel relief at going back to work. The holidays don’t have to be a stress-fest, though.
Story by Cathy Jones
Women who work on holidays have a message for all of us: stop worrying about creating a “perfect” Christmas holiday. Time with family is all that matters, no matter what day. Enjoy the time you have. Listen to nurses Margaret Orrie and Tonya Sanchez, retail shop owner Katie McIntosh, and restaurant owner Ranae Roberts. Having to work over the holidays just might be a blessing. Families are forced to stay home, thus eliminating the travel headaches that come this time of the year. >>>
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Striking a Balance: Margaret Orrie & Tonya Sanchez
Police reservist + nurse = family home for the holidays
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hen growing up in Waseca, the Orrie children would have to wait until Margaret got home from the Waseca Medical Center at 11 p.m. to open a few presents on the years she worked Christmas Eve (every other year). More presents came in the morning. If Margaret worked in the hospital on Christmas Day, she always worked the night shift, so she had the fun of seeing the kids get up and open presents and eat the holiday meal before heading off to work. Husband Bob always cooks the family’s main Christmas meal, while Margaret makes up the side dishes. But the Orries do even more. They start early so there’s enough food for the other police officers who work the holiday shift. At the height of the preparations, many of the the Orrie family’s 12 Crock-pots are plugged in and creating smells that waft through their home. “One year, all they got were a few sugar cookies from somebody’s wife, so just before Christmas, Bob would go into a storm
of cooking,” said Margaret of her husband, who recently retired from the Police Reserves after serving 24 years.
Hospital a bright spot Orrie said the hospital was never gloomy on Christmas. Patients’ family members would spend the day visiting, the hospital would be decorated, and, she said, “If they can eat we give them treats, and if they can’t, well, we sing carols.” The moral of the Orries’ story is that no matter the circumstances, the holidays are wonderful if there is family to surround you. Just make the most of it, Orrie said.
Longer shifts, more time off The 12-hour shifts that Tonya Sanchez takes at the Waseca Medical Center means more concentrated time off to get her holiday tasks done. She says it works well for her because she commutes from Albert Lea. “No matter what kind of schedule you have, you can always find time for what is important to you,” she said. >>>
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Margaret Orrie, a nurse at the Waseca Medical Center, makes the most of her holidays, even if she has to work on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.
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Striking a Balance: Katie McIntosh
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ll of the women interviewed for this holiday story said that their families have adjusted to their schedule with a minimal amount of griping and that they themselves accepted the fact that their line of work has holidays, weekends, early days and late nights. Katie McIntosh, co-owner of Straight River Sports and Fitness in Owatonna with Ann Paulson, has to have extended shop hours near the holiday season — with only Christmas day off — to serve those last-minute shoppers on Dec. 24 and prompt gift-card redeemers on Dec. 26. She says it goes with the territory.
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“It took a few years, but now (my family members) realize that my work schedule is based on how busy the shop is,” McIntosh said. Winter can be tough for a bike shop — even though hockey and fitness equipment are hot sellers — especially in a rough economy, which makes this holiday season even more important for the business. “I try not to stress out about the holidays,” she said. “I want to raise our son to appreciate the day. Entertaining and gift buying are secondary. I set realistic goals and focus on what is important to my family.” >>>
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Striking a Balance: Ranae Roberts
Christmas is a time for change
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anae Roberts time for a change. has been That change includes dreading spending the entire having to tell her cusholiday with their tomers that breakfast family. and lunch hotspot Holiday joy “Out to Lunch” in While the ChristWaseca will be closed mas holiday season both on Christmas will still be a bit hecEve and Christmas tic, the Roberts can Day for the first time. see light at the end of Add to that the fact the tunnel. that the restaurant “We love to see will now be closed the enjoyment of evon Mondays and the Girlfriends photo by Thom Caya stress is even higher. Telling her customers at “Out to Lunch” that erybody who comes in the restaurant for Roberts said it felt the restaurant will be closed on Christmas their Christmas parlike she was kickand every Monday has been a bittersweet ties,” Ranae said. “It’s ing family out of the exercise for owner Ranae Roberts. not that the restauhouse. But with Roberts and rant is not important “But you know her husband Rick seeing to us. I think you can tell it what, they don’t see it that their kids and grandkids is because we put everyway,” Roberts said. “They grow up so quickly and thing that we have into it. see it as, ‘Good for you having lost a grandchild to We just decided we wanted guys. You need that day meningitis almost a year to see our kids and friends of rest to do whatever you ago, they decided it was more.” G want to do.’”
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Tips for less stress during the holidays Share the responsibility: Share the cooking duties and make some in advance. Delegate: Have your meal catered, or have another family member do all the baking. Restaurant owner Ranae Roberts said, “There’s nothing wrong with having people do stuff for you.” Dedicate blocks of time: Pick a day — such as the day after Thanksgiving — to get a task completed, and dedicate yourself to the task at hand. Less on the to-do list means less stress. Don’t beat yourself up: What doesn’t get done just doesn’t get done. Get over it; people probably won’t even notice. Draw names: If everyone draws one name out of a hat, that’s only one present for each person to buy. Less shopping time, less money to spend, less worry. Use a planner: Schedule time for yourself, if you never seem to “get around to” relaxing. Cut back: Put up the decorations that have the most meaning each year, and rotate the rest. Just because you have it all doesn’t mean you have to use all of it every year. — Cathy Jones
You Go Girl
She’s constantly in motion Northfielder thrives on biking, stair climbing competitions By JERRY SMITH Associate Editor
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inda Sone is a competitive person. She comes by it naturally as her father was a competitive swimmer and marathon runner and her mother was a competitive speedskater. But Sone isn’t your typical athlete. She’s more into the beat-up-your-body, push-yourself-to-the-limit competitions like stair climbing, road racing and cyclo-cross biking. “It’s an addiction. I love pushing maximum,” said Sone, who lives in Northfield with her husband of eight years and training partner Daniel Casper, a former national collegiate running champion at Carleton College. “It’s the excitement, the adrenaline rush. There’s a little bit of danger involved, too.” If Sone isn’t competing in road races or battling competitors in stairwells of very tall buildings, she’s training. It’s a year-round process for this former marathoner who once finished the Minneapolis Marathon in a time of 3:07.
Addicted to cycling While Sone takes stair climbing very seriously, her true passion is competitive biking. The 36-year-old took up the sport in 2006 and now competes in about 70 races a year. And when the weather allows, Sone rides her bicycle to work as part of her training
Area offers cycling options Intermediate and serious bikers can ride for miles on area trails. Cannon Valley Trail Where: Between Cannon Falls and Red Wing Distance: 19.7 paved miles • Call the Cannon Valley Trail Office at 507-2630508 or visit www.cannonvalleytrail.com. Map online. Sakatah Singing Hills State Trail Where: Between Mankato and Faribault Distance: 39 paved miles • Call the DNR at 651296-6157 or 1-888-6466367, or visit www.dnr. state.mn.us. Map online. • Call your local Parks and Recreation Departments for trails in your area.
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Linda Sone runs the stairs at the Carleton Recreation Center recently. Sone has competed in the IDS Tower stair competition in Minneapolis and the Empire State Building run in New York.
regimen. This isn’t your typical casual ride to work, however. The 36-year-old is a Minneapolis firefighter and twice a week she pedals 50 miles each way as quickly as she can. “Biking to work is pretty important for a number of reasons,” Sone said. “I need to get my body ready for long rides and this is a good way.” The long rides also prepare Sone for a five-week training trip she and Casper take each Girlfriends.mn
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year. This year, they will train in the mountains of Arizona, New Mexico and Southern California.
Partners for life Sone said she wouldn’t be able to push herself as much without the help of her firefighter husband, who competes in the same sports. “He definitely helps me with training,” Sone said. “We do things together. He pushes me to be my best.” Nov./Dec. 2008
And what does Casper think of his wife’s addiction to these extreme sports? “She’s ferociously competitive and I think that is great,” Casper said. Casper believes his wife is at her best when it comes to handling her bike. “She’s fearless,” he said. “She doesn’t let any type of fear get in her way. “She’s the nicest natural born killer you will meet. She’s just an animal.” G
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athy Donahue-Nass has a sparkling personality all year long. But during the holidays, she literally shines. “We have a saying here (at Donahue’s Greenhouse) that it’s the holiday season from the time we pull the glitter out until the time we put it away,” said Donahue-Nass, who comes home each night with glitter from the greenhouse’s signature poinsettias covering her clothes
and her face. “I come home and my daughter will tell me I look so beautiful because I’m sparkling.” At Donahue’s Greenhouse in Faribault, there is no mistaking when the holidays have arrived. “We do over 20,000 poinsettias each year,” Donahue-Nass said. “We also have wreaths, spruce tops and other favorites.” Donahue-Nass and the other members of her family believe in the power of poinsettias.
“Poinsettias are the flower people remember seeing at grandma’s house each year,” she said. “So folks want to create that same homey feeling. Poinsettias never go out of style.” Donahue-Nass says poinsettias are a quick, beautiful way to decorate your home for the holidays. G — Snap! is an occasional Girlfriends accessory with timely help for the permanently harried.
Quick and easy holiday decorating tips Kathy Donahue-Nass offers these helpful holiday tips with Poinsettias: • Painted poinsettias are still a hot item. For the best effect, treat these plants as you would any other decorating accessory. Display three or four pots of poinsettias on a long table or mantle. As an accent, coordinate the color of the plant with your Christmas decor. • Sprinkling fine gold or silver glitter on your painted poinsettias can enhance them even more. “It’s not noticeable until the light hits it and then it is even more beautiful,” Donahue-Nass said. • Cache pots and colorful woven baskets are excellent choices for poinsettias. • There are quick and easy ways to draw attention to your poinsettias. Add holiday ribbons and bows to the pots. Dress up plain plastic pots by wrapping them in Christmas fabric or gift wrap.
Mary Smith offers these tips for floral arrangements: If it’s floral arrangements you are looking for, there are many options, including Mary’s Flowers in Saint Peter. Owner Mary Smith says that she’s happy to help those who are looking for simple and quick decorating ideas. Here are a few tips for decorating with flowers: • Less is more. When a group of florists, including Smith, decorated the Governor’s Mansion in 2003 and the State Capitol in 2005, the door wreath was spruced up with a simple red Christmas ball. “It was simple, but it was beautiful,” Smith said. • A simple idea for an outdoor decoration is using the same flower pot you use in spring and summer and placing a bough of fresh evergreen inside and then adding 3-5 Christmas balls. “The trend now seems to be less is more and I couldn’t agree more,” Smith said.
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Lisa Gillispie’s plan: Save big bucks! L
isa Gillispie recently took control of her life. After dealing with money woes for far too long, the Dundas woman decided she could do a lot of simple things to save money. “I get excited over this stuff,” said Gillispie, who not only saves money the old-fashioned way, but has also devised her own system for saving while shopping. “I have control over what I spend and how I feel. I don’t have to feel stressed over how I am going to pay the bills.” Gillispie’s big money saving project is a chart she has devised of all of the regular items she shops for. Each week, she’ll compare prices of these items between Cub Foods and Target. From this chart, she’s able to not only write
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I shop for my daughter’s clothes at consignment shops. She gets designer clothes dirt cheap. — Lisa Gillispie
down and compare the prices of each item on her list, she’s also able to see the trends in pricing from week to week at both businesses. “I like doing this because I can tell the difference in prices,” she said. “Add to that the coupons I’m able to clip and I can save up to $30 each week.” While Gillispie likes to read on average a book a week, she doesn’t like to pay the high prices of new best-sellers. That’s why
Gillispie buys all of her books at Half Price Books in Apple Valley. She’s taken the collection one step further by having a library of sorts in her office. She’ll check out the books to her co-workers so they don’t have to buy books. “I have 300-plus books and I e-mail the list and authors to all of my co-workers,” said Gillispie, who is an Office Support Specialist in the Rice County Social Services Department.
While most of Gillispie’s savings plans are based around shopping for goods and services, she also uses common sense at home to save money. “I unplug the toaster, the coffee maker, the phone chargers and anything else that isn’t being used because that saves money and energy,” she said. “Every dollar helps.” Things like a selfimposed 30-day waiting period on online purchases, cutting up all of her credit cards, bringing lunch to work and putting away money from each pay check have also helped her save. “What can I say, I’m anal,” she said. G — Purse Strings is an occasional Girlfriends “Accessory” offering tips on saving and making money.
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Lisa G’s Top 10 tips for saving money 1. Unplug appliances when not being used. Also, plugging multiple appliances into a power strip saves money. 2. Buy books at halfprice shops. 3. When grocery shopping, make a list and always stick to it. 4. Use store coupons when grocery shopping. 5. Shop for clothes at consignment shops. 6. Pack your lunch. 7. Stock up on items when they are at the lowest price. 8. Always put a little money in savings each pay check. 9. Buy prescription drugs on a prescription drug program. 10. Turn off the lights when you aren’t using them or not at home.
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awn Nelemans’ motto for the past 30 years has been “accessorize to maximize.” There’s no mistaking this self-proclaimed vibrant woman as Nelemans can be seen around Waseca dressed to the hilt and almost always in possession of her “Gucci.” But the “Gucci” she coddles isn’t what you would think. It’s her pet Schitzu. “Gucci has gone on rides on mopeds, bicycles and even has a life vest and goes out on our jet skis with us,” said Nelemans, who brought Gucci into the family when her daughter Brittini left for college six years ago. “I bought the basket on my bike specifically for Gucci. I have pink and yellow blankets in my tricked-out pastel yellow bike, and it’s all for her.” Nelemans is known around Waseca and Mankato for her snappy clothes and extravagant
accessories. But there’s more to her than meets the eye. Nelemans had a home-based hair accessory business in Waseca called Razzle Dazzle. After a year in business, Nelemans’ bubbly personality got her in the door of megadepartment store Dayton’s. Her product line was a hit and at the height of her 10-year business, she had 35 independent contractors and two full-time people working out of her home. With a few short answers to questions, much is revealed about this bigger-than-life Wasecan. Q: How important are clothes and accessories in your life? A: “I want to always look my Girlfriends.mn
best and accessories are a big part of that. Brittini had a bow in her hair in her bassinet and she knows nothing else. She sometimes got teased because she had bows as big as helicopter blades in her hair. Now that she’s gone, I do it to Gucci.” Q: Describe your relationship with Gucci. A: “I think all pet owners believe they have great dogs. It’s unconditional love with Gucci. She’s pretty much by me unless I go shopping. My dog loves everyone ... every age and size.” Q: You’ve been described as colorful. How would you describe yourself? A: “Vibrant. I like to dress my age, act my age and look my age.
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I’m not normal.” Q: Have you done all you’ve wanted to do in life so far? A: “Yes, but the next 10 years have something in store for me and I will be happy when I figure that out. I hope it’s something creative and fun again. I’m an empty nester. I have time to do something fun and interesting.” Whatever life has in store for this animated, fun-loving Wasecan, you can bet Gucci will be by her side, or most certainly in her bike’s basket. “I may be well-known around these parts, but Gucci is somewhat famous,” Nelemans said. “She’s been featured in two books now and because of that, I get invited to go out to area schools and bring her for show-and-tell. “I’m not sure what’s in store for me, but Gucci will be a part of those plans,” Nelemans said. G — Jerry Smith
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Brenda Rions of Owatonna has been a licensed day care provider for 17 years. She currently takes care of eight children, including 9-month-old Nolan. Rions and her husband, Todd, are licensed foster parents in Steele County.
Foster parent likes a full house B renda Rions wasn’t sure she wanted to start over as a mother having already raised three children (the youngest being 16). But the thought of having an empty house was too much to bear.
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Three years later, she knows with certainty that she made the right decision to become a foster parent. “We do it for the children and it is very rewarding,” said Rions, whose family has cared for eight children to date. “I tell others in the community they should do this. If you can help make a child’s life easier, I think you should. “Every child deserves to have a family that loves them and can take care of them.” It’s that attitude and commitment to being a foster family that earned Brenda and Todd Rions the 2007-08 Steele County Angel Heart award for Foster Family of the Year.
For more information about the Steele County foster care program, or about becoming a licensed foster care provider, contact Sandy Kurth at 507-444-7500.
The Rions earned this coveted award after making substantial progress with two brothers who had always had trouble getting close to others. “It was a challenge at first, but then it got easier,” said Rions, whose family cared for the siblings for 15 months. “By the time they were placed in adoption, they had no problem interacting with people.” Rions believes her role as a foster parent was a natural step after running a day care in her home. She has been a licensed day care provider for 17 years. “I’m used to having kids around all of the time,” she Girlfriends.mn
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said. “The only difference is they are here at nights and on weekends.” While getting attached to the children they care for can be a problem, the Rions go into each situation with the same thought that the kids will eventually get back with their families. “We went into this knowing we were 99.9 percent sure that we weren’t going to adopt any of the children,” Rions said. “Knowing this, it is easier giving them to another family. “It’s great when they are permanently placed in a loving environment.” G — Jerry Smith Nov./Dec. 2008
Foster care by the numbers • On Sept. 30, 2005, there were an estimated 513,000 children in foster care. • 24 percent were in relative homes; 46 percent were in nonrelative foster family homes. — Source: Child Welfare Information Gateway
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mpowering women. While some businesses pay lip service to this concept, 1st United Bank of Faribault is making a concerted effort to make empowerment a reality. One effort by the bank — forming an all-female advisory board — stands out among the others as a unique approach to seeking customer and community input about women in the community.
“Our goal for the women’s advisory board was to establish a group of key female advisors who will focus on the business and personal banking needs and preferences of women,” said Kathleen Jansen, senior vice president of Business Development and coordinator of the advisory board. “The women represent many different roles and they are able to contribute comments from their relationships with business associates, family and friends.”
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The board Brenda Borwege Borwege is Vice President of Marketing for ABC Companies. Vicky Carrillo Carrillo is a Spanish interpreter at Southern Heights Dental Group. Pam Dahl Dahl and her husband own and operate Trystar Cables, a Faribault manufacturer of copper cable products. Jan Hansen Hansen is owner and operator of Jan’s Thrift Shop in Faribault. >>>
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>>> The advisory board, which is made up of 11 women from around Faribault, first met in June 2007. Jansen, along with the bank’s board of directors, had been toying with the idea of organizing the female advisory board for some time. “The timing was just right,” Jansen said. Jansen facilitates the meetings and works with other bank staff to review and implement ideas generated by the group. She also provides insight into the bank, giving advisors an inside look into services and staff. The board’s quarterly meetings include a round-
table discussion on perceptions of the bank’s strengths and weaknesses, the markets being served or underrepresented, and events occurring in the community which members feel the bank could be involved in. The members also meet periodically for a network luncheon. Jansen’s message during the September gathering — which saw 65 women in attendance — showed how focused the group is on women and issues they face. “This is an election year, and one of the ways you vote is with your wallet,” Jansen said. “Women make 80 percent of the purchasing decisions
in our economy. You can ‘vote’ to support the women in this room and this community by patronizing their businesses and their organizations. Your economic vote is powerful.” An important aspect of the network luncheon is the opportunity for women in the community to meet. For Sweet Spot Candies owner Marie McCarthy, this has been an invaluable service. “I think for me personally, it’s nice when the bank sponsors events,” said the Faribault candy shop owner. “The networking that is done is very helpful. Continued >>>
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>>> We opened in June and to have our banker understand our growing pains is key. To also be invited to these networking events is a huge asset.” While members of the advisory board work with Jansen to bring community issues and concerns to the bank, it’s imperative that it be a two-way street. “We want the members to get something from the affiliation,” Jansen said. “We want to draw on their knowledge, but give back to them, too.” Jan Hansen is a member of the advisory board, but also a business owner in Faribault. She not only provides input for other
women, she also draws from the experience of the other members of the board. “Everybody brings to the board their own perspective,” said Hansen, owner of Jan’s Thrift Shop. “Women often have different questions about business and banking than men, and the all-female advisory board helps women feel more comfortable asking these questions. Hansen trumpets the success of the board. “Anytime you get a group of women sitting around a table discussing issues that were once only discussed by men, it’s a success story. Barriers are being broken here.” G
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Tammy Jones, owner of Creative Hands in Waseca, spins a pot on one of the wheels she now takes on the road to customers. Jones was offering a ceramics class at Waseca High School.
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“It’s worked out pretty well,” said Jones, who went mobile mostly because of the economy. “I bring everything to the customer instead of the customer coming to me.” Jones was part of a group of eight women who pooled their funds to start Passion for Art and Creative Hands in downtown Waseca. While things have changed in the way her services are offered, the owner of Creative Hands, also a Waseca High School art teacher, says her business is still keeping her busy. “It’s a change of thinking, that’s all,” said Jones, a graduate of WHS. “In many ways it’s better. Being mobile has its advantages.” While Jones is on the road most of the time now, Passion for Art is still a home
base for her and the other partners. The painting studio offers classes and workshops for the beginner and advanced students and are taught by nationally renowned artists in a spacious studio, with plenty of gallery space. “The main focus was to bring artists to Waseca in a place where we could all get together,” said Pam Mikeworth, president of Passion for Art. “We wanted to have a place for Wasecans to be creative.” Passion for Art is a studio for watercolors, acrylic, pastel and drawing. “Our workshops are how we sustain business,” Mikeworth said. “We are attracting well-known artists from all around Minnesota. Passion for Art is a great place to showcase our work, too.” G
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Sharing their love of art Creative Hands is a paint-your-own mobile pottery and ceramic studio in the Waseca area. Owner Tammy Jones brings everything needed to the customer. She can be reached at 507-835-4183. Passion for Art is a painting studio that offers classes and workshops for all skill levels, taught by nationally renowned artists. Call 507-833-6061 for more information.
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he holidays are here and your to-do list is longer than Santa’s. Our advice? Set it aside, grab your girlfriends and enjoy the festivities around the region. The holiday celebrations in many of the towns in our region offer a great venue to gather with girlfriends and family alike to celebrate, dine at fine restaurants and find fantastic deals at area businesses.
Christmas in Our City is an annual event that brings folks, including Santa Claus, to downtown Waseca.
ABOVE: “Christmas in the Village” is part of the Owatonna’s Hometown Holiday celebration. LEFT: Winter Walk lights up downtown Northfield.
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Owatonna Hometown Holiday Gala Christmas holiday event featuring “Lighting of the Lights.” When: Dec. 4-6 Where: Downtown Owatonna Waseca Christmas in Our City Holiday kick-off event with Santa and lighting of the tree at the courthouse. When: Nov. 22 Where: Downtown Waseca
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Holiday Happenings & Memories Farmamerica (Minnesota Agricultural Interpretive Center) At Christmas on the Farm on Sunday, Nov. 30, enjoy Dad’s Belgian Waffles and Christmas Craft Sale from 8:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Admission is $5 in advance, $6 at the door. Kids under 5 eat free and take-out is available. 7367 360th Ave., Waseca, 507-835-2052 10th Annual Winter Walk Experience downtown Northfield by candlelight during the 10th Annual Winter Walk on Dec. 4. Stroll through unique shops and dine at fine restaurants; enjoy caroling, horsedrawn wagon rides, storytelling, luminaries, decorated storefronts and much, much more! Contact the Northfield Area Chamber of Commerce, 800-658-2548, www.northfieldchamber.com and www. visitingnorthfield.com Keepers Antiques Keepers Antiques offers a wide and varied selection of fine antiques and collectibles. We have a large store full of Victorian to vintage merchandise. 224 Central Ave., Faribault, 507-334-7673 Ms. Mac’s Antiques “It is the most wonderful time of the year” as Ms. Mac’s Antiques decks the shop for our 8th annual holiday season.
Reminisce of holidays long, long ago in a magical, winter wonderland of hand picked, primitive treasures uniquely displayed in a century old building. An extraordinary shop! Hours: Tuesday thru Saturday from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. 100 North Main Street, Janesville, 507-234-2226. Hometown Holiday The Hometown Holiday begins Dec. 4 at 4 p.m. as carolers stroll through downtown Owatonna. At 6 p.m., a lighted caroling parade will make its way to Central Park for the annual “Lighting of the Lights. The Owatonna Express hockey team will be on hand to sign autographs and serve refreshments in the park. On Friday, “Santa Specials” continue at downtown stores, while the Steele County Historical Society’s “Christmas in the Village” runs from 4:30-8:30 p.m. Visit the State School Orphanage Museum from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Friday and 1-5 p.m. Saturday and Sunday. On Saturday, the Owatonna Business Partnership is sponsoring a pancake breakfast from 8-11 a.m. at the Eagle’s Club. For a complete schedule of events, contact the Owatonna Area Chamber of Commerce at 800-4236466 or visit the Web site at oacct@owatonna.org
Paper Petalum Find unique gifts for every occasion at Paper Petalum, open during Northfield’s Winter Walk. Browse our shop in the historic Archer House building, where we offer Norwegian fragrances, Backgaard leather purses, Lila and Geir perfumes, Scandinavian food and gifts and much, much more. During Winter Walk, the folks at Paper Petalum will be baking krumkake from 5-9 p.m. 212 Division St. South, Northfield, 507-6630565 Steele County Historical Society On Friday, Dec. 5 from 4:308:30 p.m., a Victorian Christmas awaits you at the Village of Yesteryear! Horse drawn sleigh rides, Santa and Mrs. Claus, our famous cookie sale, music and more! FREE admission, but donations are appreciated! And on Saturday, Dec. 6, Christmas in the Village continues, along with the Historic Holiday House Tour. Tour some of Steele County’s beautiful historic homes. From noon-5 p.m. Tickets are $8 in advance or $10 at the homes on tour day. Tickets may be purchased at Kottke Jewelers or the SCHS office. 1448 Austin Road, 507451-1420, www.steelecohistoricalsociety.org
Waseca County Museum The Waseca County Museum presents “Merry Retro-Christmas” – an exhibit of nostalgic Christmas decorations from the 1940s, 50s and 60s. Some from our collection and more from our members and area residents. Think of Christmas mantel pieces, tabletop decorations, favorite swags, lights, window decorations, tree skirts, stockings, whatever. Opens Saturday and Sunday, December 6 & 7 from noon to 5 p.m. Hot cider, cookies and roasted chestnuts. Museum Christmas Gift Shop open. FREE and open to the public and Christmas House Walk visitors! Exhibit runs through January 7, 2009. 315 NE 2nd Ave., Waseca, 507835-7700, email: director@ historical.waseca.mn.us Women & Kids on Division Women & Kids on Division offers high quality clothing for special occasions and day-today wear for both generations. We also carry an exciting mix of toys, games, books and accessories. Our store offers a fun, functional and fabulous mix of clothing and gifts for women and children. As always, we offer free gift wrapping. Hours; M,T,W,F 9:30 a.m.-5:30 p.m.; SAT 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m.; SUN Noon-4 p.m. 314 Division St., Northfield, 507-663-7993
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For the Love of Wine
Champagne is the symbol of holiday celebrations By STEPHEN DeLONG
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ny discussion of holiday wines naturally begins with Champagne, the very symbol of celebration. While the term champagne has unfortunately come to represent any wine with bubbles in it, the appellation is by law restricted to a welldefined geographical area in France and the intricate process (methode champenoise) by which the wine from that region is made. Champagne is the standard against which all other sparkling wines (the correct generic term) from around the world are measured.
The Real Thing Just what sets Champagne apart? One must immediately point to the
chalky soil, the cold, difficult climate, and the topography of the region. The other pieces of the puzzle: the classic grape varieties (Chardonnay, Pinot Noir and Pinot Meunier) and the long, rigorous method of production are now employed in other parts of the world with varying degrees of success. The words usually applied to the wine itself: “breed, finesse, delicacy and balance,” are quite subjective and do not give a clue as to what the stuff actually tastes like. More precise terms: “toasty, yeasty bouquet with hints of apple and citrus,” are somehow inadequate and tend to give way to more sensual impressions: “racy and assertive,” or: “round and elegant,” when one tries to describe a particular Champagne. This elusiveness serves to further enhance
Champagne’s considerable mystique and subsequent snob appeal. The one obvious characteristic that is not difficult to grasp is the price: Champagne is always expensive. Expect to pay around $30 to $50 for a good Non-Vintage, from $50 to $100 for a Vintage bottling, and close to $200 for a Luxury Cuvée such as “Dom Perignon.” If these prices don’t make you flinch, and your tastes favor the light and delicate style, look to Haton, Taittinger, J. Lassalle and BillecartSalmon. Moët & Chandon, Mumm, Piper-Heidsieck and Pommery stand out in the medium-bodied range; the full-bodied, richer styled wines of Bollinger, Veuve Clicquot and LaurentPerrier are among my favorites. Krug is in a class by itself. >>>
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Our wine expert Stephen DeLong is Director of Liquor Operations for the City of Northfield. He has written about wine in numerous publications in his 30 years in the business.
>>> Champagne Affordable Alternatives Fortunately, there is no shortage of decent, relatively inexpensive sparkling wines from around the globe that offer many of the qualities that one expects from a good bottle of bubbly. Good values at the entry-level price range ($10 to $15) come from the large Spanish houses, Cristalino, Codordiu and Freixenet. These cavas are honest, clean, simple and straightforward; for more style and complexity, look to smaller producers such as Grammona and Marqués de Gelida. Other similarly styled labels in this bargain category include Lindauer from New Zealand and Domaine Ste. Michelle from Washington. Another crisp and refreshing, yet reasonably priced bubbly worth seeking out is Prosecco, the (unofficial) national aperitif of Italy. Light and fruity, with a much softer bead (it’s less fizzy), this is one sparkling
wine that is definitely not made in the Champagne mode. Adami, Bisol “Jeio” and Venegazzu produce excellent examples of this little charmer. The next price tier ($15 to $25) is dominated by domestic sparklers, many of which are owned by the large Champagne houses. The combination of California fruit and climate with French know-how provides a boon for consumers, offering vibrant, fruit-forward wines with refined personality and style. Some of the domestic labels to seek out are Roederer Estate, Mumm Napa, and Domaine Chandon.
Serve with Food Champagne and other high quality sparkling wines are quite versatile when it comes to food. They complement a broad range of holiday favorites from latkes to baccalà, not just oysters and caviar. Fuller bodied versions — those with a high percentage of Pinot Noir — Rosés and Blanc de noirs make a splendid match with poultry, especially roast goose or turkey. G
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Chocolate Even when money is tight, women find ways to splurge on this sweet treat By AMY ACHESON
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aybe it’s the pure, delicious taste or the deep, dark color and pretty packaging. Perhaps it’s all the memories that go along with it. Whatever it is, chocolate is a luxury women love to indulge. America — especially women — is enamored with chocolate. Regardless of economic conditions, history has shown that chocolate sales have never wavered. In fact, chocolate is a $16 billion dollar industry each year in America, according to the National Confectioners Association. “It’s a feel good,” says Kerry McCarthy, co-owner of the Sweet Spot in Faribault. “When we were getting ready to open the store, we had a conversation with an economist. What he said made a lot of sense to us. He told us: You are in the best business to be in. When people get done paying off their bills and have a little extra left over, they’re going to want to treat themselves.” That’s been the case for as long as we can remember. Candy
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conjures up memories that often bring smiles to our faces and a pang in our stomachs. For many, remembering our first experience using our own money to purchase candy at the corner sweets shop is priceless. Maybe your grandma or someone close to you gave you a handful of coins that you put deep in your pocket, waiting for that moment to dig them out to buy coins of another variety — chocolate. It’s those memories that keep local candy shops hopping, even in these hard economic times. Ted Boosalis, owner of Costas Candies in Owatonna, recalls his family (three generations now) going through some economically tough times over the years. They started their business in 1919,
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survived the Great Depression and later World War II with its food rations. Boosalis recalls his great uncle George joking when customers would ask how he got all his butter. He said he had used his rations until 1955. But all through these trying times, the Boosalis family candy business flourished. “Even when money was tight people still came in to the store to connect with others and to forget about life for a while,” said Boosalis, whose business specializes in homemade, hand-rolled chocolates. “Customers may have even refrained from dining out before giving up buying some of
our chocolates.” Today, women’s tastes are a bit more selective than in years past. Dark chocolate seems to be the popular choice. And even though our pockets don’t seem to be as deep, women still find ways to treat themselves. “Chocolate is a personal choice,” said Marie McCarthy, co-owner of the Sweet Spot. “There is research out there that says dark chocolate has healthy benefits. I think women, and really people in general, if given a choice between milk chocolate and dark chocolate will pick the dark chocolate because of the health reasons.
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Eileen and Marvin Seeley have captured the essence of days gone by with the Cocoa Bean’s nostalgic feel and treat selection.
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>>> “But no matter what the taste, people will treat themselves.” The Cocoa Bean in Northfield, which boasts the theme “Where Memories Begin,” calls the kid in all of us to come in for a break. Eileen Seeley and her husband Marvin have captured the essence of days gone by with this shop’s nostalgic feel and treat selection. It triggers memories, prompting people to say, “I remember that!” The Cocoa Bean offers a refreshing pause to life’s hustle and bustle to recall a simpler era. “If we can find something to take two minutes of stress out of our life, let’s do it,” Eileen Seeley said. “Be it candy, be it an old photo, be it whatever, people like to reminisce and remember easier times.” To sweeten the deal, Seeley says “you can come in and walk out of here for under five bucks with treats for everybody.” So go out and get yourself some chocolate — and enjoy a little of the small, sweet things in your life. G
Our chocolate experts Sweet Spot Candies
Owners: Kerry and Marie McCarthy Specialties: Homemade ice cream and fudge, taffy, chocolate and vintage candies. Where: 209 Central Ave., Faribault Contact: 507-334-0600 Web site: sweetspotcandies.net
Costas Candies & Restaurant
Owner: Ted Boosalis Specialties: Homemade, hand-rolled chocolate Where: 112 N Cedar Ave, Owatonna Contact: 507-451-9050
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Owners: Marvin and Eileen Seeley Specialties: Old-fashioned candy store with fudge, ice cream and more Where: 15 Division St. S., Northfield Contact: 507-645-5322 LEFT: Ted Boosalis, owner of Costas Candies & Restaurant in Owatonna, makes chocolate.
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Alter Ego
Finding balance in thrill of the hunt D
iane Ross is a hairdresser by trade. She has owned Dee’s Beauty Salon in Elysian for nearly 40 years. While she’s hard at work making area women look their best, her mind sometimes drifts and she finds herself in the middle of the woods tracking a deer or just enjoying nature. Ross took up bow hunting six years ago as a way to spend more time with her husband, John. Since then, it has become a way to bond, but also to find balance in her life. “Hunting is not only a way for John and I to connect, it’s a way to see nature,” Ross said. “There’s something about sitting in a tree and watching the sun come up and watching all of the animals come out of their homes. It’s just like another world out
there.” Ross is one of a growing number of women who put on the camoflauge and make the trek into the woods to hunt each year. A recent study by the National Sporting Goods Association shows that bow hunting has seen the biggest rise in the number of female hunters, increasing by nearly 800,000 from 2001 to 2006. “Bow hunting is my favorite,” Ross said. “Those times alone and with John in the woods are special to me. That’s why I appreciate hunting. “There’s time to reflect and time to unwind and just enjoy nature.” G
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Daddy’s Girl
Before he left, Dad left one final gift By JACI SMITH
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ou’ll probably think I’m nuts. And for a while, I think I was, a little. My mother died when I was 5, and though my father remarried a woman I call Mom and my best friend, I was always Daddy’s Girl. Among us seven children, there was no debate about this. His lap was my kingdom, my wishes his command. He raised me as a tomboy, played horrible pranks that would make me squeal with outrage, terrified my boyfriends and bragged about me constantly to anyone who’d listen. He was as fiercely loyal to me as I was to him and until I married my husband I loved him more than anyone else in the world. In March 2004, my indestructible father died and my world fell apart. Just four days earlier, I had lost my job. Then I was struck by an illness that left me bedridden for a month. By the end of that summer, we had been forced to sell our home and move 1,100 miles away from everyone we knew and loved so that we
could earn a living. Losing my job had taken a serious toll on my self-esteem. I didn’t want to burden my husband any more, as worried as he was about our finances, but I didn’t have Dad to talk to, either. I felt more alone than I ever had before. Then, just a week after he was buried, Dad showed up again. I was sitting on the couch, not really watching TV, engulfed in wave after wave of grief. And suddenly, his voice was in my ear. I could almost feel his rough whiskers against my cheek. I knew I could smell his aftershave. “This isn’t my little girl who’s so filled with self-hate and pity,” he was literally yelling at me (not an uncommon occurrence when he was alive). “You’re better than this.” It marked the start of a year of life with my father by my side. Alternatively cajoling, teasing, laughing or being downright ornery, my father was in my head 24-7. I never saw him, but as sure I can read the words on this page, he was there. Girlfriends.mn
He got on me for unfairly picking a fight with my husband and for nagging my kids. He made fun of the cover letters I was writing to get a job. He laughed at me when I took the family sailboat out on the lake and the wind died. When I was so depressed I couldn’t lift my head off the pillow, he kicked me in the butt and ordered me to move on. And when the SUV towing a camper I was driving was sideswiped by a semi and nearly rolled, it was his hands that steadied the wheel and saved my life and my son’s. Shortly after the one-year anniversary of his death, Dad left. But not before giving me one final whiff of his aftershave and a lingering feeling of such intense joy that it took my breath away. A final gift for his little girl. — Jaci Smith is the managing editor of the Northfield News and wife of Girlfriends associate editor Jerry Smith.
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We want you to be our next ‘Daddy’s Girl’ For many women, being “Daddy’s Girl” conjures up wonderful thoughts and warm feelings. You hear about the special relationship women have or have had with their fathers all of the time. In the “Daddy’s Girl” feature, we get to hear those wonderful tales of father and daughter relationships firsthand. If you have a story about your father, call Jerry Smith at 507-645-1136 or send him an e-mail at jsmith@I35targetmedia.com.
The play-by-play of the
man vs. woman oil change There is no denying that men and women have different ways of going about the same task. Never is the difference more apparent than in the case of the oil change. Here’s a play-by-play of Women: the man-vs-woman 1. Stop at James Gang on Hwy. 3 on the way to Oil Can Henry’s, order a decaf skim latte but go for a dab of whipped cream because you deserve it. oil change.
2. Sit in your vehicle reading “Girlfriends” and sipping your delicious coffee drink. 3. Fifteen minutes later, pay with the Oil Can Henry’s coupon you got online at www.oilcanhenrys.com and leave with the job done and the whole day ahead of you. Men: 1. Go to auto parts store and drop a bundle for oil, a new filter, kitty litter and a talking tire gauge (darn impulse-buy rack gets you every time). 2. Go home, drive car onto oil change ramps and change into your college game-day shirt, which now feels like a size extra-medium. 3. Discover you forgot to empty your last oil change from the oil container, so drive to back to the store and beg them to take your old oil. Get dirty look from 17-year-old punk and tell yourself what you’d do to him if he was 18. 4. Drive home, back on ramps, then detour to fridge. 5. Gather tools and slide newly emptied recycling container under oil pan. Realize you grabbed the wrong spanner to remove the oil drain plug, so you decide to use Vise-Grips since you’re already on your back. 6. Unscrew drain plug, but fumble with it and soak forearm in not-quite-cool-yet motor oil. Lose drain plug in recycle container since you removed the screen to use for your failed bio-diesel lawnmower experiment. 7. Look for oil filter wrench, but give up and stab filter with a screwdriver, then twist it off. Install new oil filter, making sure to apply a thin layer of new oil to the gasket. 8. Almost done! Remove oil cap and pour first quart into engine. Quickly realize you forgot to replace the oil drain plug. Race to reinstall plug with wrong wrench and skin knuckles on motor mount. Bang head on A-arm in reaction. 9. Shoot across driveway on creeper and begin animated fit. Throw wrenches into yard, then crawl through flower bed trying to find correct wrench for oil drain plug. 11. Tighten plug and add remaining oil. Watch wife pull into driveway with the smug look of efficiency on her face and a Oil Can Henry’s decal on the driver side of the windshield. 12. Of course, all of that can be avoided by taking your vehicle to Oil Can Henry’s.
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