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Stacey Clarke Photography WARNING signs of marriage meltdown
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Table of Content Stacey Clarke Photography
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Designs by Nishy
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Warning Signs of
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Marriage Meltdown
10 Tips to
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WARNING signs of marriage meltdown Signs of
function - in marriage. Couples typically will show a lack of interest in or attraction to each other when they don’t feel emotionally close to one another.
Signs of depression or withdrawal by one of the partners. Feelings of dissatisfaction, un-
happiness and helplessness, or a fear of losing the relationship, may cause one the partners to withdraw and become depressed. A lack of sympathetic attention may account for a loss of enthusiasm and optimism more than stress or work.
The abandonment of joint activities. Where partners begin to live parallel lives, there is little opportunity for them to spend time together or share in pleasurable activities that increase feelings of attachment and bonding.
An affair. Becoming emotionally and sexually
deterioration
involved with someone outside the marriage can be a “cry for help” and a plea for both partners to acknowledge that the relationship is floundering and in trouble.
Brian Craig
Preoccupation with interests and activities outside the marriage. The investment of
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ccording to research by Relationships Australia, there are nine common warning signs that emotional distance is developing in a marriage.
Complaints of loss of feeling. It’s quite com-
mon for one or both partners to complain that they no longer are in love with the other partner. Frequently, this loss of feeling is related to the fact that their lack of activity and fears have been “bottled up” and not expressed – or feelings of resentment, bitterness and hatred have been harbored by one against the other.
Recurring arguments that are not resolved. Research by Gottman, Markman and others; underscores the damaging effects that negativity and recurring patterns of conflict have on a marital relationship.
time and energy by one partner in career, work, church, or other interests and activities may leave the other partner feeling neglected and betrayed.
Arguments over child rearing.
Another significant warning sign is when fights erupt that divide the couple over their methods and commitment to rearing children. These disruptions can sometimes lead individual parents to form an alliance with one or a number of the children against the other partner.
Increased fatigue and the reduced ability to meet responsibilities at work. This may signal that a lot of emotional energy is being expanded on negative relational issues.
Loss of interest in sex. Sex provides a useful
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Signs of
4. They accept their differences.
a healthy marriage
Instead of trying to change their partner, each one accepts the other as he or she is. They even see differences as a way of enhancing their relationship.
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5. They control their emotions.
1. Spouses are aware of marital challenges.
6. They use past mistakes to introduce positive changes, not to hold grudges or to
n this article, “Bounce Back!” John H. Thurman mentions seven traits of couples who do not easily give in to problems that come up in married life.
They know that conflicts are an unavoidable part of the relationship and that conflicts are also necessary if couples wish to grow together.
2. They seek outside help when needed.
Whether it is professional help or simply the support of the church or friends, they do not hesitate to obtain counsel in moments of crisis.
Each one does everything possible not to “fly off the handle” when discussing differences of opinion.
conveniently throw them back in their spouses face.
7. They believe that with the help of God, they can overcome their difficulties. They
do not give up easily and, in moments of crisis, do their part trusting that God will help them
3. They focus on the positive.
Whether it is the happy moments of their marriage, or the qualities of their spouse, these couples prefer to focus on the good things that bring them together and not the bad things that separate them. www.nuptialsjamaica.com
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10 TIPS
TO CONSIDER WHEN SELECTING YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER Stacey Clarke
6. Candid shots are the norm at weddings now, just forget all about the cameras and just enjoy yourself. You will be surprised when you get your images at what some people are doing! 7. Getting ready images are a must have now especially with larger groups. There are always lots of antics going on in the room. When you look back at these pictures you will know just what the other was up to before you met at the end of the aisle. 8. If you would like your parents to be involved in the getting ready process, it may be a good idea to get ready a little earlier. So when he/she comes to your room to help they will be camera ready. 9. If you have lots planned on your wedding day, ask you photographers to coordinate with your planner. That way they will know what is planned and what time it will be happening. No opportunities for missed shots.
1. Make sure you get references for your photographer. Past brides will always give an honest opinion. You can also research your photographers on bridal/wedding forums. Does your photographer carryMerrick back up equipment? What Photo Credits: Mr. Cousley Jr. kind of equipment do they use? These answers will help put your mind at ease!
10. Having your family and friends pictures taken can sometimes be a bit overwhelming for you especially if there are a lot of them. Write up a photo list of groups or couples that you want to get and then ask your MOH or friend to read out the names for pictures. The process will go a lot smoother and faster
2. Details! Details! Details! I know it can get a little stressful! Why not take some well deserved down time and have some fun with hubby-to-be; by doing an engagement shoot or even better yet a boudoir session! It’s a good opportunity to meet your photographer before hand. 3. Most photographers these days shoot with a photojournalistic style which is fantastic. Capturing your day as it unfolds! You may also want to consider just a few formal pictures for keep sake or the parents as you know they LOVE to print and display them for all to see. 4. What time is your florist setting up on your wedding day? It is a good idea to have them set up a little earlier for preceremony pictures. Especially if you plan on doing a first meet/ family pictures before the ceremony. 5. If you are worried that your photographer may not notice all of the details you have put so much time and effort into; why not make a photo list for them of must have shots. Don’t worry it’s not too much. I occasionally ask my couples to do this.
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