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Popular wedding music includes ‘old school’, country tunes By Donald Lambert The Northern Virginia Daily
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ne of the key components of any wedding reception is musical entertainment.
However, couples have to face two big questions when it comes to that entertainment - should they use a live band or a DJ, and what could they afford? “Over the past year, I’ve seen both, with the majority of music being played by DJs with a quartet or trio for the ceremony,” said Karen Nottingham, owner and wedding planner at Fab Affairs in Front Royal. “It comes down to budget. I have a lot of couples that would prefer a band over a DJ, but their budget just won’t allow it,” she said. Robbie Shiley, guitarist and vocalist for the band Souled Out, said he thinks bands are more popular than DJs these days. “It seems to run in a cycle, and it depends on how many good bands there actually are in the area,” he said. When it comes to the type of music that is usually played at weddings, Shiley said that Souled Out usually plays “old school” music when they perform at weddings because it’s easier to dance to. “The newer Top 40 is not very popular for the most part except the Bruno Mars stuff, but even his stuff is more old school sound, and then they mix some slow country in with some weddings as well,” he said. Jim McConnell, one of the DJs with J Squared Weddings and Events in Stephens City, said that in the 10 years they have been in business, their musical requests during weddings have stayed relatively the same.
“Many brides and grooms we work with take into consideration the age range of their guests and make requests accordingly,” he said. “We still play a lot of Motown, 70s, 80s, and 90s by request, but also have requests for 2010s and Top 40. Country hits are also popular in the valley at a lot of weddings. We create a customized playlist for each wedding to help satisfy the requests of all clients.”
Mary Riley, who serves as the head coordinator at Michelle’s Main Event in Winchester, said that she has also seen couples doing both recently, but it also comes down to the wedding’s budget. In the end, she said, it comes down to how couples prioritize their music for their wedding.
“If music is a priority, then they often go with a band; however, if cost is a factor and they would rather spend money on florals, photography, or catering, then they will often forego the band and select a DJ,” Riley said. Souled Out members Robbie Shiley, left, on guitar, and Adrian Re, right, on the saxophone, jam during a performance. Shiley said “old school” music is popular when they perform at weddings because it’s easier to dance to.
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Former wedding planner: ‘Focus on most important parts of your wedding’ money, that compromises what you thought would look good or you know what I mean. And peoples’ budgets are not always realistic.”
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eezy Barney, a former wedding planner, has a key suggestion to lower the cost of a wed- Barney has since left the field - she didn’t have ding bouquet: don’t mention that you’re getting it summers or weekends as a wedding planner and for a wedding. she wanted to further her education, she explained - but she has maintained her passion for “Any time you mention the word wedding, the helping people with their wedding. On Jan. 30, price just goes up automatically,” Barney said. “It for instance, she gave a workshop devoted to letjust does. That’s 100 percent the truth. You could ting people know how to keep their wedding call up a place and say I need six bouquets for my costs low. bridal shower for the centerpieces. And you could ask a week later, the same place for the same date for the same flowers and say it’s for a wedding, and the price is almost guaranteed to be higher.” Beyond that, Barney suggested purchasing bouquets at Costco as a cost-saving measure to keep wedding costs down. That’s just one of many tips Barney has to lower the cost of a wedding. Throughout a 15-minute conversation, Barney repeatedly exclaimed that she had a ton of things to say about saving money at a wedding. “I could go on for hours,” she said. “I really could.” That makes sense. When Barney worked as a wedding planner, she would focus on making sure couples kept their costs low.
“One thing people did like about me as a wedding planner was the same thing they did not like, which was I would try to save them money,” Barney said. “But sometimes when you’re saving
Barney’s central tip toward saving money on a wedding lies in the venue because it is the most expensive part of any wedding.
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In order to save money on wedding venues, Barney suggests calling potential venues and letting them know what you want, rather than seeking a premade wedding deal.
say, ‘well I want to give it to my future daughter,’ even though they don’t have a daughter yet. And then, 20 years down the road, their daughter “Don’t just say, ‘Well, what do your weddings start doesn’t want to wear that dress anyway.” at?’” Barney said. “Say, ‘OK, this is what our outIf you do decide to buy a wedding dress, though, look is. Can you work with us?’” Barney said that you need to make sure to purAlternatively, Barney suggested that some Airbnb chase it more than six months in advance. property owners will allow you to use their prop“If you only have six months ‘til your wedding, erty as a wedding venue. most places will charge you an astronomical rush “It’s just kind of thinking outside the box because fee to get it made,” Barney said. your venue is definitely going to be the most [exAnd in the end, Barney said, focus on the most pensive] item,” Barney said. important parts of your wedding. Barney also suggested that people might want to “The tips that I give are, ‘What are your dealconsider renting a dress. breakers?’” Barney said. “Get together as a cou“You’re going to spend all this money to wear this ple, put your top three priorities down, and everything else is trivial.” dress for a day,” Barney said. “And someone will
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Disney World, Caribbean among top honeymoon destinations By Donald Lambert The Northern Virginia Daily
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oneymoons are a time for newlywed couples to take some time off and celebrate their union.
Dutton said that some of the more extravagant places Passages Travel and Cruises has sent couples to include the South Pacific and to Bora Bora, while Drummonds said Alpha Voyages has sent newlyweds to various Sandals resort locations throughout the world.
Where do couples go as their first getaway as a married couple? Beth Drummonds, who serves as the inside sales travel planner for Alpha Voyages in Winchester, said that tropical places like the Caribbean and Hawaii are near the top of the list of places her agency has sent newlyweds. “We also send people to various countries in Europe, like Italy, and cruises,” she said. Maria Dutton, owner of Passages Travel and Cruises in Front Royal, said that lately her agency has sent couples on cruises and to places in Europe and to Disney World. “Couples have started doing their weddings at Disney and end up just
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“Not everyone is the same when it comes to planning their honeymoon,” Drummonds said. “I’ve had people who have gone on their honeymoons have done things like being driven around while in Europe.”
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Drummonds offered a tip for couples planning their honeymoons.
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“Don’t plan a big trip like this as a couple,” she said. “Let the travel agency handle it. If a couple plans a
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Stephanie Tierney, owner of Winchester Floral, creates a typical summer bridal bouquet of hydrangea and pink spray roses.
Florists urge brides to order flowers early By Melissa Topey The Northern Virginia Daily
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hatever the theme is for the wedding, area florists are at the ready to help brides and groom create a perfect day to their individualized style.
Area florists at the ready:
Stephanie Tierney has been helping transform weddings into a dream
in helping select their flowers than both, at an outdoor venue, and that ever before, trending to a more mas- means the use of an arbor. Tierney has owned Winchester Floculine, natural look for their suits. Receptions, she said, are often in ral for five years. She is not new to “Sometimes it is just greenery. I love barns, and that prompts a change in the business, however, having tabletop decorations so that they are those.� Tierney said. worked there for about 25 years. no longer uniform and formal. TaOne tip to save money: order early She says she is aware of the trends bles are more organic and natural so the florist can plan to pre-order a that her local clients are going to looking, with varied looks on differbulk order early on, she said. want. Bridal bouquets are trending ent tables and different heights of to include peonies, garden roses and Another trend is holding the wedflowers and table decorations. hydrangeas. Men are more involved ding, the wedding reception, or Sometimes the only thing on the event for years.
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in barns and outdoor venues. Her clients, she said, want rustic decor, perfect for mason jars and mis“It makes the eyes look around matched decorations that provide a more,” she said. natural feel for table decorations, Costs depend on what is being asked she said. for, but the average cost of her wedding flowers run from $200 to $2,500. This, along with an arbor, will run clients about $1,200 she estimates. “They are mostly around $1,300 to Contact Amy Nesbitt Floral Design at $1,500,” she said. 540-975-0674 Another tip: Tierney urges her bridal flower customers to make appoint- Website: www.amynesbittfloral.com ments. That allows her to focus only *** on the party and the big day. Chuck Hepner has been the owner “We want to make every part of a of Valley Flower Shop and Greenwedding special,” Tierney said. house in Woodstock since 1992. He Winchester Floral is located at 1939 has been working full time in the floral industry since 1977. He began Valley Ave. in Winchester. part-time as a driver helping make Website: www.mywinchesterfloral.com deliveries. Phone: 540-667-8414 “I ended up going to college and got a degree in horticulture,” Hepner *** Amy Nesbitt has been helping create said.
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Valley Flower Shop and Greenhouse is located at 127 N. Main St. in Woodstock.
Marshall will work with the clients on all their floral needs, from the bridal bouquet, boutonniere, alter flowers and table decorations to items for an outdoor venue. She has vintage and new trendy decor to create most any look envisioned by clients.
Website: www.valleyflowershop.net Phone: 540-459-2169 *** Dawn Marshall, who just purchased Donahoe’s Florist in Front Royal, promises residents individualized attention on their special day. Marshall is now the fourth owner of Donahoe’s Whimsical Flowers, which was established in 1937, and said she knows she has a lot of responsibility on her hands.
“You have a look you like, we can make it happen,” she said. If a flower the bride wants is out of season and expensive, Marshall said she would find an alternative flower that will be just as beautiful. And like the name of her shop, she says she will try to make this time before the wedding whimsical.
“I am still going to use the same sup- “When they come into the shop, I pliers. Your service is going to be the want them to be relaxed, step out of the stress,” Marshall said. same,” Marshall said, adding that she is looking forward to handling Dawn Marshall Donahoe’s Whimsithe full event of a wedding. cal Flowers is located at 205 S. Royal weddings for three years now. For weddings, the hand-held type of Ave., Front Royal. “Most people use Pinterest. This is Nesbitt, who has an online presence bouquets are still popular, he said, Phone: 540-635-2815 without a shop, goes to her customers. noting that everything is customized your wedding day. You are already to the individual party, such as with “I don’t have retail costs, so my color and material. clients save on costs,” Nesbitt said. “They can depend on us to provide She said she loves working one on first-rate attention to them and the one with the bridal party to create wedding,” Hepner said. the floral look that enhances their BRIDES NEVER MISS THOSE ONCE-IN-A-LIFETIME MOMENTS He added the Valley Flower Shop dream day. and Greenhouse prides themselves WHEN THEY ENLIST THE SERVICES OF A PROFESSIONAL Nesbitt’s bridal clients are asking for on creating a special day at a reasonWEDDING PLANNER. OUR ATTENTION TO DETAIL, VENDOR dahlia’s, roses and eucalyptus. They able cost. are selecting dark colors, like RELATIONSHIPS, AND PLANNING EXPERIENCE, LET YOU Most of the bouquets, he said, cost oxblood, mixed in with light colors FOCUS ON THE MAGIC OF YOUR SPECIAL DAY. from $80 to $150. like white and cream, she said.
Nesbitt has also found that wedding receptions are occurring more often
“People come in with ideas; we work with them and tailor those ideas to
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Area wedding venues preparing for upcoming season By Max Thornberry The Northern Virginia Daily
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s the weather warms and love is in the air, wedding venues are ramping up to get ready for a busy season. Whether clients are looking for the picturesque backdrop of an outside wedding or a more intimate affair inside, the Shenandoah Valley is filled with options to make their special day memorable.
WEST OAKS FARM MARKET
Hosting weddings is a new venture for West Oaks Farm Market in Frederick County, said Joe Salyer, the wedding venue manager. The sprawling grounds and ample space give couples flexibility and a wide range of options for how their wedding looks.
“We’re new into the wedding venue business, and right now we’re providing a place for folks to hold their wedding and reception,” Salyer said. “That gives folks the flexibility to coordinate and plan on their own.”
West Oaks offers a patio for outside weddings Courtesy Photo with an option pavilion and picnic area that proWest Oaks Market clients can hold their reception inside or outside. Inside, up to 225 guests can fit comfortably vides shelter in case the weather turns. Clients can also hold their reception inside, where up to with room to spare for dancing and a band or DJ. 225 guests can fit comfortably with room to spare BELLE GROVE PLANTATION for dancing and a band or DJ. For the couple set on celebrating their union outIf the couple wants to get married inside, the re- side, Belle Grove Plantation near Middletown ofception room can double as the venue before fers a view of the Massanutten Mountain on its being changed over for food and drinks. 200 acres.
A West Oaks wedding package includes the patio, reception room, groom and bridal areas, as well as the use of the kitchen. West Oaks also provides the tables, chairs and linens as well as clean up after the wedding, Salyer said.
Kristen Laise, executive director of Belle Grove, said the property is almost done with a “major project” that will add to the venue space. Repurposing a 1918 barn on the property is giving guests a space to hold their reception.
The space has been used in the past, Laise said, Guests are welcome to use their caterer, or West but this most recent renovation is making the Oaks can provide a caterer. space more modern - including a catering area Spaces are filling up fast as West Oaks already has and restrooms. 11 weddings planning for 2019 and two more in Most weddings at Belle Grove are outside affairs, 2020, Salyer said. Because of its indoor and outLaise said, though some very intimate occasions door facilities, West Oaks is available for wed- 40 guests or fewer - can be held in the manor dings year-round and prices don’t fluctuate with house. the season. “When the weather gets colder, we do not advise Location: 4305 Middle Road, Winchester trying to host a wedding here,” Laise said. “You can certainly put sides on and put heaters on a Phone: 540-539-8175 tent, but we’ve found after mid-October til midMay is just not pleasant for your guests.” Website: www.westoaksfarm-market.com
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Couples looking to get married at Belle Grove Plantation near Middletown should book the popular venue early.
Belle Grove packages include tables and chairs for weddings with optional tents and heaters as the weather begins to cool. Though the venue is a fair weather location, its scenery is sublime enough to fill up fast. Laise said most couples book their weddings six months to a year in advance. Location: 336 Belle Grove Road, Middletown Phone: 540-869-2028 Website: http://bellegrove.org
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BELGRAVIA MANOR Liz Morgan grew up in Belgravia Manor, the 1890 Victorian mansion in Edinburg she still lives in and rents out for weddings during warmer months of the year.
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HISTORIC JORDAN SPRINGS For the couple looking to set a date and let someone else worry about the heavy lifting, Historic Jordan Springs Event and Cultural Centre offers the region’s only all-inclusive capable wedding venue.
Morgan said she had always wanted to share the beauty of her home with Colt Nutter, executive director and people but wasn’t sure how until her event producer for the venue, said son got married there. Jordan Springs prefers to have a “He had a huge wedding there,” she hand in every area of a wedding said. “It was just beautiful. Everyone than leave couples to float on their own. told me I needed to do something with it.” “That’s one of the reasons so many Vast, wide-open space at the manor can accommodate up to 500 guests, Morgan said. Most of what Belgravia Manor can host is outside, though Morgan said she could provide space for a small “Christmas wedding” for up to 60 guests.
clients come to us,” Nutter said about their all-inclusive packages. “When you hear wedding disaster stories, it’s usually because people are bringing 20 vendors together who may have never worked together.” Historic Jordan Springs Event and Cultural Centre offers the region’s only all-inclusive capable wedding venue.
Historic Jordan Springs offers a full range of services outside its entryRegardless of size, Morgan said she has space for weddings as well as the level package including food and reception if guests choose to stay on beverages. On site DJs, florists, photographers, videographers complesite. While Morgan doesn’t provide catering, she has the space for cater- ment the optional salon and spa available for clients, Nutter said. ers as well as bands or DJs. Her space includes the wedding and reception areas as well as rooms for the bride and groom to get ready in. Couples can rent the venue for the night before the wedding to host their rehearsal dinner on site as well.
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All packages also include the tables, chairs and linens that every wedding needs. Because they are all-inclusive, Jordan Springs’ minimum size wedding starts at 75 guests, Nutter said, but parties can be as large as 400.
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Tips for a successful marriage proposal
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eople ready to “pop the question” may wonder about the right way to initiate an engagement proposal. Because a marriage proposal is such a memorable moment in a couples’ lives together, those doing the proposing often go to great lengths to ensure things go smoothly. While there is no proposal playbook, these guidelines can assist those ready to take the leap.
Add a personal touch. It’s easy to get caught up in making a marriage proposal a spectacle or something worthy of a social media post. But taking a sweetheart back to a special place that recalls a significant moment can set the backdrop for a memorable proposal. Incorporating the place you first met or a special
song into the proposal can make it that much more personal and meaningful. Embrace the old fashioned. It may be romantic to step back in time and followed the traditions of yesteryear. Show respect to future in-laws by speaking to them about intentions to propose and ask for their blessings. Get down on bended knee when asking for a sweetheart’s hand. Such gestures add up to meaningful expressions of love. Consider timing. A person may be so excited to propose that he or she fails to consider how the other person in the relationship is feeling. If that person is overwhelmed by work projects or stressed about upcoming events, consider waiting to propose at a more relaxed time.
Enlist help from others. It can be a challenge to keep your excitement hidden while collecting information about a future spouse’s likes and dislikes. Ask friends and close family members to be your accomplices so that information can be gathered without generating suspicion. This can be especially helpful when finding the perfect ring. Keep it simple. The more complex a proposal, the more opportunities for things to go wrong. Simplicity, even if it means keeping the proposal to yourself until the question has been popped, can make for an extra special moment. Marriage proposals happen every day. With humor, confidence and a heart full of love, popping the question can be a success.
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Alternatives to engagement rings
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Purple shades have long been • Sapphire: While sapphire stones associated with royalty, often are blue, they can also be making an amethyst yellow, green, pink, and fitting for such an white. Sapphires are the An engagement ring symbolizes the start of a occasion as third hardest mineral. A lifelong commitment and may even set the tone special as an white sapphire can be for a couple’s wedding day. engagement. the perfect diamond Because amethysts, replacement. Jewelry styles are personal, and grooms-to-be should carefully research their significant others’ which are less • Garnet or ruby: Red is the expensive than diamonds, preferences in terms of precious metals, colors •• sapphire definitive color of love. A Valentine’s and gemstones. Even though tradition holds that are a seven on the Mohs scale for Day proposal can be made even more special gemstone hardness, they can be very durable. a diamond gemstone is classic for engagement by presenting an engagement ring with a red rings, these precious stones are not the only • Knot rings: These rings do not have a center gemstone. options. In fact, before World War II, just 10 stone. Rather, they’re designed to be a tied knot • Moissanite: The jewelry source Brilliant Earth percent of proposals involved diamond or infinity symbol. These rings can be particularly engagement rings. That number jumped to 80 says moissanite is a gemstone first discovered in sentimental as they represent true, unbroken percent by 1990. However, many modern couples love. 1893 by Henri Moissan in a meteorite that fell to now lean toward other offerings not only for the earth. It is remarkably similar to a diamond in • Opal: Gemstones, like flowers, have been uniqueness they provide, but also for the appearance and strength. Moissanite also has assigned certain meanings. Tying the potential cost savings. heightened brilliance, with a refractive index engagement ring to one of them can infuse more higher than that of a diamond. Those seeking something unique can embrace symbolism into the relationship. Opal, for these engagement ring options. Couples have many beautiful alternatives to example, represents love, passion, creativity, diamonds that they can explore when shopping spontaneity, and inspiration. Those traits seem • Amethyst: This vibrant, lavender-hued stone tailor-made for surprise proposals. for engagement rings. can be breathtaking when cut the correct way.
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Facts and figures about modern engagements G etting engaged has and always will be a big deal. While marriage proposals are often steeped in tradition, some facts and figures about modern day engagements, courtesy of the 2018 Newlywed Report from WeddingWire, show just how much this special moment and all that surrounds it is changing.
Eighty-two percent of Millennials indicated they got down on one knee to propose. In addition, the tradition of asking for parents’ blessing also remains popular among Millennials, 72 percent of whom sought such blessings before proposing marriage.
• The pressure to make marriage proposals extraordinary appears to be on the rise, at least for Millennials. Of the nearly 18,000 respondents who shared their stories via WeddingWire’s 2017 Newlywed Survey, 72 percent of Millennials said they feel pressured to make their proposals highly unique, while only 45 percent of Gen X respondents indicated feeling such pressure. • Proposals might be changing, but getting down on one knee appears to be an enduring tradition that Millennials plan to keep in style.
• The average cost of an engagement ring was $5,000. • The pressure to pick out the right engagement ring appears to be subsiding. That’s because 50 percent of survey respondents indicated they picked out the ring together. • Married-couples-to-be also appear to like comparison shopping in regard to engagement rings. The majority of purchasers looked at between two and seven rings before making a purchase. • While online shopping has changed consumer
behavior in myriad ways, couples still prefer brick-and-mortar stores when buying engagement rings. Thirty-one percent of purchasers bought rings online, but 63 percent made their purchases in-person at brick-andmortar stores.
• Christmas Day is the most popular day to pop the question, followed by Valentine’s Day. Christmas Eve, New Year’s Day and New Year’s Eve round out the top five. • How to spread the news of an engagement is perhaps the biggest change surrounding engagements. Engagement parties were once the go-to way to spread the good news, but just one in four couples now have engagement parties. Nowadays, 86 percent of couples spread the news via social media. In fact, 10 percent of parents find out about their children’s engagements via social media. • The days of a short engagement seem to be a thing of the past. The average engagement now lasts 13 months, and 28 percent of couples are engaged for 16 months or longer.
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The dos and don’ts of restaurant proposals
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arriage proposals inside restaurants are popular ways to pop the question. Many couples find proposing over a candlelit meal is a romantic way to get engaged, providing a perfect setting to begin a life together. Even though restaurant proposals have been popularized by television sitcoms and movies on the big screen, those taking this route should do some homework before sitting down to eat. As with all components of wedding planning, it’s essential to get the proposal right to create lasting, positive memories. DO choose a place with the right ambience. If you do not have a favorite restaurant in mind, go online and do some research for picturesque or romantic establishments. Many online reviews now include images, which can help you find the right setting.
DO make a reservation. An engagement should not be left to chance. Call ahead and speak with a manager and mention that you will be orchestrating a proposal. Find out if the restaurant will help you make it extra special. Some may decorate your table with favorite flowers or provide a specific champagne once the proposal has been accepted. DON’T propose at the beginning of the meal. Set the scene with conversation and start to enjoy as much of the food as possible. Take time to enjoy the service, food and beverages. Some appetizers and a little wine in your stomach can ease pre-proposal jitters as well. DON’T forget the ring. The ring is its own spectacle, but there are ways to present it in an even more glorious light. Plan ahead so that the ring is tied to an exquisite tea cup brought out during dessert service. Or, if
you’re worried about putting the ring in the hands of others, bring along a hand-painted plate that asks “Will You Marry Me?” The wait staff can cover the question with the entreé or a dessert. As your partner eats, the message will become clear. DO expect a scene. Proposing marriage in a restaurant is bound to cause a big reaction — tears included. If you’re not comfortable with public displays, you may want
to reconsider popping the question in such a public setting. DO consider a weeknight. Restaurants are less busy on weeknights than weekends, so you can expect a more intimate setting Monday through Thursday than you might find Friday through Sunday. Restaurant proposals are traditional, and there are various ways to make them just right.
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Factors that can affect the length of your engagement
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ach year, millions of couples around the world tie the knot. But before couples walk down the aisle, the proposal to get married must take place. Many couples mutually agree to get engaged, while the experience may be a surprise for others who have thought about it, but may not have been sure when one partner or another would “pop the question.� Upon getting engaged, couples may ponder how long their engagement should last. There is no perfect answer, and engagement length typically depends on personal preference and the needs of the couple. In fact, according to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, the average length of an engagement is 14.5 months.
example, couples who will be financing their own weddings may need a longer engagement than those whose parents will be chipping in. In such instances, longer engagements give couples more time to save and may help them ensure their weddings are everything they hoped for. Others may prefer a shorter engagement if they are financially stable and prepared to tie the knot. Couples in their late 30s may feel the tug of a biological clock and want to ensure there is ample time to get married and have children. A shorter engagement can facilitate that.
affect the length of an engagement. Some couples may have little choice Some couples may feel that an in the matter, as the length of their especially lengthy engagement engagements may be dictated by the diminishes their excitement about availability of their favorite venues. A number of factors affect the length getting married. That “new Military deployment, work of a couple’s engagement, and engagement shine� can wear off as commitments, medical issues, or couples should not feel as if they family and friends wait months or need to hurry down the aisle. For travel responsibilities also may years for the wedding to take place.
Couples generally are advised to stick with what feels right to them regarding the length of their engagements. Just like all aspects of the wedding, couples can weigh the opinions of others but follow through with what works best for them.
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getting away from wedding planning for a bit.
fter the big question is popped and loving partners decide to spend their lives together as a married couple, a whirlwind of activity will ensue. Although wedding planning is exciting, some couples may feel overwhelmed with all the decisions that need to be made before they can tie the knot. In this state of increased pressure, stress may build and health could falter. According to a Cornell University study, more than 70 percent of brides-to-be have weight loss on the brain, but shedding pounds shouldn’t be the only health factor to consider. Here are some easy ways to stay mentally and physically fit in advance of a happy wedding day. Get daily exercise. Exercise is important for maintaining a healthy body weight and keeping stress levels in check. Exercise also can boost mood. The Department of Health and Human Services recommends getting at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity each week. Strength training exercises performed at least twice a week complete a well-balanced exercise regimen.
Eat body-boosting foods. The foods we eat can impact everything from energy levels to skin radiance. Foods like berries, sweet potatoes, broccoli, greens, green tea, and dark chocolate all contain antioxidants that boost the immune system, states The Food Network. Avoid drastic diets that can do more harm than good. Simply cutting 500 calories a day can help the average person lose a pound per week if weight loss is a goal. Simple ways to trim calories are to choose skim milk over whole milk and choose lowcalorie snacks.
Slow down and relax. Those who go full-throttle with all of their responsibilities — including wedding planning — may burn out. Stress can weaken the immune system and make people vulnerable to illness. Schedule some time for date nights with your fiancé, and don’t overlook the benefits of hanging out with friends and
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Cut down on alcohol consumption. Toasting to the future with a glass of wine may become rote in the months leading up to the wedding, but alcohol is a diuretic and a source of liquid calories. Alcoholic beverages dehydrate the body and cause it to hold onto water. When imbibing, stick to low-calorie cocktails like a vodka spritzer (60 to 80 calories) instead of a calorie-laden frozen margarita (300 calories). By making health a priority, couples can start their new lives together on healthy footing.
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Secrets to at-home weddings
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any couples preparing for their trip down the aisle follow the familiar sentiments expressed by Dorothy in “The Wizard of Oz.” Such couples feel “there’s no place like home” when hosting a wedding ceremony or reception.
Concessions in regard to comfort and safety will have to be made when drawing up the guest list. The wedding resource The Knot advises the general rule is six- to 10 squarefeet of floor space per guest for row seating. You’ll probably need even more space for buffet tables, seating There are many benefits to hosting a and a dance floor. wedding at home. Homes often hold couples’ most cherished memories, You will likely need to temporarily and hosting a backyard celebration move furniture to comfortably fit or an intimate indoor ceremony at everyone indoors — or rent a large your own home or the abode of a enough tent for a backyard wedding. loved one can be a cost-effective HIRE A CLEANING SERVICE way to have a good time.
Here are some tips to help couples navigate hosting an at-home wedding.
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It’s important to present a clean, inviting space when hosting a wedding at home. A cleaning service will conduct a thorough cleaning before and after the festivities, freeing up your time for last-minute tasks or to embark on your honeymoon.
BOOK AN OFFICIANT EARLY your home. Confirm with an officiant that they can oversee the wedding proceedings at your home. Many religious officials are not able to perform ceremonies outside of a place of worship.
LEARN IF IT’S LEGAL Certain municipalities may require permits for parking on street, noise past a certain hour, closing of streets, and much more. Do your research. You may need to coordinate parking at a nearby lot (like a school closed on the weekend) and shuttle people to
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Wedding registry tips
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uilding a wedding registry is a task unlike any other couples may encounter during their lifetimes. Wedding registries are invaluable resources that provide engaged couples’ loved ones with gift suggestions. In spite of that value, couples may find it daunting and even a little uncomfortable to build their wedding registries.
make large wedding registries, feeling that doing so gives the impression that they’re asking for too much. But large registries simply give guests more options to choose from. Many industry insiders advise registering for two to three gifts per guest. That might seem like a lot, but guests will appreciate having all of those options.
Don’t hesitate to include expensive items on your registry. Couples also may be hesitant to include especially expensive items on their wedding registries. However, the couples’ parents and other close relatives may be honored to purchase more expensive items, so couples should not feel embarrassed to include them on their lists. It’s also important to note that many Register with more than one store. It’s important retailers, after couples’ wedding days have come to register with more than one store. Doing so and gone, discount registry items that weren’t makes things as convenient as possible for guests purchased. So even if no one purchases the more and increases the chances they will be able to expensive items, including them on a registry shop at stores they’re familiar with. Unless your may significantly reduce their cost for couples guest list is predominantly local, try to register who want to buy such items themselves after tying the knot. with at least one national chain so guests who live in different regions can shop for gifts inVary the prices of items on the list. In addition to person if they prefer to do so. including more expensive items on the registry,
Building a wedding registry can feel like walking a tightrope. Couples likely won’t want to ask for too much or for gifts that are too expensive, but a poorly built registry can be a major inconvenience for guests. The following tips can help couples build adequate registries that benefit them without asking too much of their guests.
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inexpensive items. This gives guests more options and ensures guests who might be spending a lot to travel to and from the wedding can still purchase gifts without digging too much deeper into their pockets. Periodically update the registries. Periodically update your registries to remove items you have already received and to add items if many of the less expensive ones have already been purchased. This also makes things more convenient for guests. Building a wedding registry is a unique task that couples can embrace as their wedding day draws near.
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How to handle rain on your wedding day
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rides and grooms fear the prospects of rainy wedding days. But even couples who have contended with everything from a few drops to an all-out deluge on their wedding days look back fondly on the ceremonies and receptions. In fact, how couples handle any precipitation can affect how happy the festivities may be. Have a rainy day game plan. Rain affects outdoor weddings more than any other type of ceremony or reception. If the goal is to exchange vows outdoors, work with the venue to make this possible with a tent or gazebo. However, if the weather is especially foul and windy, move it indoors.
them stationed in decorated stands to ease transitions between wedding sites and keep everyone as dry as possible. Wear waterproof cosmetics. Women in the bridal party, including the bride, can ask their makeup artists to use durable, waterproof products. This can help salvage beautifully composed looks should some drops begin to fall. Know vendors’ rain policies. Some live musicians will not play in damp weather. Florists may need to make accommodations for arrangements blowing in the wind. Couples need to understand what they’re responsible for and what may be covered if a weather event occurs. Wedding insurance may help cover the costs of nonrefundable cancellations.
Invest in golf umbrellas. Couples who live in notoriously damp climates can purchase golf umbrellas, which tend to be larger Move past it quickly. It is okay to get than the average umbrella, and keep upset if the weather turns for the
worse. But don’t dwell on it. Guests will sense negative energy, and couples should set the tone of sticking it through despite a little adversity — which can be a good lesson for the marriage as well. Embrace the rain. While a couple probably won’t wish for rain, there are some benefits to overcast skies, say the wedding professionals at
Brides magazine. Flowers are less likely to wilt in rainy conditions. In the absence of bright sunlight, outdoor photographs can really pop. Rain is romantic and may compel couples and their guests to cuddle close. With preparation and perspective, couples can handle rainy wedding days.
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Wedding dress fitting guide
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ecause fashion preferences were once ornate and dependent on precise fits, ready-to-wear clothing really did not become widely available until the early 20th century. Such attire is now available in just about any retail store.
fitting. Do not be discouraged. Once a gown is chosen, the dress shop will take your measurements and order the gown according to the manufacturer’s sizing guide. Again, this can be shocking, since the size will likely be larger than what you wear in street clothes. Some shops Because ready-to-wear clothing is so will also order a little larger to allow readily available, the average person for adequate tailoring. may be unfamiliar with custom-made Schedule the first fitting. The first or tailored items. In fact, a couples’ wedding may be the only instance in fitting should be anywhere from eight to 12 weeks before the their lives when they require the wedding date, according to experts services of a seamstress or tailor. at WeddingWire, an online wedding Fittings are a part of wedding information provider. This is the planning, and here’s how brides-to- time it takes to complete most be can navigate the process of standard alterations. Complex finding and being fitted for a dress. customizations can take even Try on sample gowns. The first step longer. Brides should also budget a minimum of $500 for alterations, is to make your rounds to various gown shops and try on the samples which may or may not be included in the price of the dress. they have available. Most sample sizes will not be the size you wear Bring shoes and undergarments. every day, so expect them to be illRemember to bring along the exact
Check the details. The second fitting is designed to check that all issues from the first fitting have been addressed, the gown is comfortable and you can move Speak up. Martha Stewart Weddings freely. At the last fitting, ask the maid of honor to come along so that she suggests speaking up at fittings if anything is uncomfortable or needs understands how to bustle or help tweaking. Seamstresses are masters you handle complicated straps or closures. at their crafts, but only if they
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Many couples say ‘I do’ to Zero-Waste weddings By Katherine Roth Associated Press
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o protect the environment, many couples are saying “I do” to Zero-Waste weddings, focusing on sustainability for everything from floral design and dresses to invitations and food.
The goal is to recycle, reuse, compost and otherwise keep anything from becoming trash in a landfill. Whether or not couples succeed in reaching the Zero-Waste goal, “they’re certainly more conscious of the ecological impact of what they do, and are aiming for something as close to that as possible,” says Rachel Sylvester, lifestyle editor at Real Simple magazine.
you can find second-hand if you’re open-minded and really look around.” Her Zero Waste Home blog features a “bulk finder” tab that helps locate businesses selling food, drinks and other items free of plastic packaging.
families to go along with it all. My biggest tip is not to stress things, and to balance expectations with reality. Ours may not have been the perfect Pinterest wedding, but that didn’t make it less fun or meaningful.”
Focusing on quality instead of quantity also helps, Johnson says: “The smaller the party, the easier it is to make it truly Zero Waste.”
Some Zero-Waste wedding tips:
Her own Zero-Waste wedding was on a yacht, so space constraints limited the guest list to 40.
Kathryn Kellogg, who wrote extensively about her Zero-Waste wedding on her Going Zero Waste blog, hosted a reception for 60 people on a shoestring budget of $200 for everything. She The key to success, experts say, is letting wedding bought bedsheets from a thrift shop to use as tablecloths, and borrowed dishes, tables and planners, vendors and your reception venue seating from friends and family. know from the start that you’re serious about going Zero Waste. Then be flexible enough to “We were on a tight budget, so we were married facilitate that. at city hall with our closest family there, had a “Flexibility and creativity are essential,” Sylvester separate reception for about 60 people, and decided to save most of our money for a really says. great honeymoon in Maine,” she says. Bea Johnson, one of the pioneers of the ZeroWaste movement, says, “You’d be amazed at what “Honestly, the hardest part was convincing our
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wedding dresses and tuxedos can be GIFTS rented. Vintage or second-hand “Instead of traditional wedding gifts, dresses are also popular, and can be we asked guests to each bring a side tailored to size. Some designers now dish or something to drink, and make Zero-Waste dresses using contribute to our honeymoon fund,” fabric scraps otherwise destined for Kellogg says. the trash. Other couples ask for donations to “Zero-Waste weddings are a recent their favorite charity, or trend in France. This year I even contributions toward a goal, such as designed for a client a wedding a down payment on a house. dress made from pieces of her INVITATIONS grandmother’s wedding dress,” says Laetitia Drouet of the French-based “For my wedding invitations, I Kamelion Couture. bought card stock and painted a design on the front, but these days FLOWERS I’d say paperlesspost.com or another e-mail option would be the best Choose locally grown, seasonal Zero-Waste option,” says Johnson. flowers, “certainly from a carbonIf you’re set on paper though, “go for footprint perspective if not a waste recycled paper with vegetable ink,” perspective,” says Ariella Chezar, says Sylvester. Some papers are author of the forthcoming book embedded with seeds, so guests can “Seasonal Flower Arranging: Fill even soak the invitation in water Your Home with Blooms, Branches, and then plant it. and Foraged Materials All Year ATTIRE Round” (Ten Speed Press). Like tables, chairs and linens,
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your florist isn’t using foam in centerpieces and other arrangements. “It’s one of those products that is non-biodegradable and is totally unnecessary,” says Chezar. Next, plan how your florals will be repurposed after the event, she says. Many organizations will pick up arrangements and give them to nursing homes and other institutions. If nothing else, make sure flowers are composted instead
“Or you can forgo cut flowers altogether in favor of potted plants, which can then be gifted or planted. There’s certainly no waste there,” Chezar says.
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A wedding day shaving guide for grooms
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rooms are often content to let their brides-to-be shine on their wedding day. But weddings are a showcase of the two people getting married … and grooms matter! Grooms can take steps to look handsome and polished, but may wonder what they can do to put their best feet forward when all eyes and cameras are facing their way.
and follicles, allowing the hair to protrude as much as possible out of the skin. The more it sticks out, the cleaner the shave will be.
Addressing skin care and proper shaving techniques is essential. Although shaving is a seemingly simple task, some men struggle through the process because they haven’t mastered the basics for a clean, comfortable shave. Grooms who do not already have beards should be clean shaven for their wedding days.
Try a non-lathering or natural shave cream that does not contain the potentially irritating chemicals that create the lathering effect, but will still offer lubrication to help get a closer shave.
Brickell Men’s Products advises that the first step to a good shave is to shower before shaving. The warm water and steam will open up pores
Many men fail to prep their skin before shaving. It is important to rinse the face with a pre-shave soap and warm water to remove excess oil and dead skin that clogs razor blades.
The right razor can make all the difference. While an electric shaver can serve in a pinch, come the day of the wedding, work with a traditional razor, either disposable or cartridge style. Start with a fresh, new and sharp blade so it is effective. Some men prefer a single
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blade for a close shave, while others like razors with multiple blades. Grooms should use what has worked for them in the past, as now is not the time to experiment. While shaving, go with and against the grain, or what feels comfortable to take off the hair without having to go over areas repeatedly and risk irritating the skin. Gillette advises rinsing blades often during shaving. However, do not tap the razor against the sink to dislodge the whiskers, as this can damage or dull the razor.
Finish up by rinsing with cool water and applying a moisturizer or specially designed aftershave product. It can take up to 48 hours for skin to heal after a shave and keeping it hydrated can diminish irritation.
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Get schooled on wedding terminology
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ouples about to embark on their wedding journeys will likely learn a thing or two about party planning once their engagements are over and they are newly married. Wedding planning can seem overwhelming and a tad confusing at times, but a crash course in wedding terminology can help couples make more informed choices along the way. • Blusher: A short, single-layer veil that covers the bride’s face before the ceremony. • Boutonnière: A single flower bud worn by the men in the bridal party. • Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers served during the cocktail hour of a reception. • Civil ceremony: A marriage ceremony conducted by a council official or justice of the peace at a municipal location rather than in a house of worship.
arrive and mingle before being seated. • Corkage fee: A fee some establishments charge to allow guests to bring their own wine. • Dais: A podium or platform raised from the floor where the bride and groom are seated.
to her at the altar. “Maids” are those who are unmarried, while “matrons” are women who are. • Master of ceremonies: An individual who will work with the DJ or band to announce the various components of the wedding reception.
• Deposit: A percentage of the total cost of service • Nosegay: A small bouquet or flower arrangement typically given to the mothers of the given to a vendor to secure a date for their bride and groom before the ceremony. services. • Dragées: Round, small edible balls of sugar that • Processional/Recessional: Musical pieces that mark the entrance and exit from the wedding appear on wedding cakes. ceremony. • Escort (seating) cards: Printed cards that direct • Receiving line: A line of the key people in the reception guests to their seats. wedding who welcome and greet guests. • Fondant: A sweet, pliable product used to decoratively cover layered cakes. It can be used in • Stationery: All of the paper products used at the wedding, including invitations, programs and lieu of straight buttercream. enclosures. • Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric that wraps • Tablescape: A word that describes the multiple around the stems of a bouquet the bride and components of centerpiece designs. wedding party carries.
• Cocktail hour: Typically an hour-long interlude between the wedding ceremony and the main • Maid/matron of honor: The title given to the dinner of the reception. Guests have time to woman who assists the bride and stands closest
Learning some basic wedding terminology can simplify wedding planning.
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Get the most out of bridal shows and wedding events
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ecently engaged couples may be excited to get a jump on wedding planning. Bridal shows can be a great way for couples to meet and familiarize themselves with local wedding professionals, all the while introducing themselves to the terminology of wedding planning. Though they’re a great source of information, contacts and samples, bridal shows also can be a bit overwhelming. Learning how to maximize time spent at shows can help couples plan their weddings as efficiently as possible. Start small. If the idea of large crowds is unappealing, attend the more intimate, boutique shows that are often held at local reception halls and restaurants instead of the larger installations at convention centers and hotels. Scout out vendors. Check the bridal show’s website for lists of exhibitors
and see if your desired vendors are on the list. But even if they’re not, keep an open mind and use the show as a chance to compare offerings. If an event map is available, marking off must-visit booths can help save time. Pre-register. Pre-registering for bridal events saves time at check-in, and doing so may make you eligible for discounted tickets. Come prepared. Chances are each vendor is going to ask couples for information so that they can follow up with a phone call or email with more detailed offerings and estimates. Couples attending the show can expediate the process by coming equipped with labels that feature their names, contact information and wedding date. They can then stick the labels on sign-in sheets or use them like business cards.
Dress comfortably. Bridal expos involve a lot of walking and roaming around. Wear comfortable clothing and shoes. Consider a backpack or hands-free bag so you are not weighed down when collecting the swag and other handouts throughout the day. Ask questions. When face-to-face with vendors, rely on their expertise but don’t hesitate to ask questions concerning themes, colors, recommendations for honeymoon locations, invitation paper suggestions, and much more. Stay for the fashion show. Many shows will offer a runway experience to present the latest gown and tuxedo offerings. This can be an entertaining way for couples to formulate their wedding styles. Wedding shows introduce couples to vendors and set them on the path to making decisions regarding the planning of their weddings.
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Types of wedding officiants
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any people play a role in a wedding. The bride and groom, bridesmaids, groomsmen, ring bearers, and flower girls are front and center on the day a couple ties the knot.
Another central, and very important, figure on a couple’s wedding day is the officiant. Officiants perform the wedding ceremony and are the first to introduce the newlyweds to their guests as an officially married couple. Various types of officiants can officiate a wedding, and understanding each type can help couples find the right one for them.
RELIGIOUS OFFICIANT Couples who want traditional religious ceremonies often choose a religious officiant, such as a parish priest or rabbi, with whom they’re familiar. For example, couples who grew up attending a particular church might choose the priest who’s been preaching to them since they were children, while others might choose the priest at their current place of worship.
Religious officiants may be governed by certain rules that restrict them to performing ceremonies in a house of worship, which might rule them out for couples who want outdoor or destination weddings. Couples should inquire about such restrictions as early as possible in the planning process so they aren’t caught off guard.
CIVIL OFFICIANT Civil officiants are officers of the court, such as a judge or justice of the peace. Many couples who are planning destination weddings abroad still choose to have a civil officiant perform a wedding ceremony at home. This is because some overseas officiants may not be authorized to marry couples in their home countries, meaning their marriages won’t be recognized once they return home. Civil officiants make sure marriages are legal, and they also make great options for couples who just want to get hitched without a grand ceremony.
PROFESSIONAL OFFICIANT Professional officiants are not affiliated with a
particular religious organization. That makes them great choices for couples who aren’t religious as well as those who come from different religious backgrounds and won’t be converting to the same faith. Professional officiants typically meet with a couple once or twice to get to know them before writing the speech they will give during the ceremony. Many will share the speech with the couple in advance of the big day, and some even allow couples to write the speech.
LOVED ONES Many couples ask a friend or family member to officiate their weddings, which can add a fun and very personal component to the ceremony. Couples who want to take this route should research local laws to determine the steps loved ones must take to become ordained ministers who will be recognized by the state or country where the ceremony will take place. Officiants play a significant role during a wedding, and couples can choose one who best fits their personalities and ceremony preferences.
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Wedding insurance can ease nerves
Wedding insurance policies put protections in place that can reimburse couples should weather or other issues interfere with their wedding day bliss.
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ouples spend thousands of dollars on their wedding ceremony and celebrations. The cost of a wedding varies depending on geographic location, but according to the business and financial resource Business Insider and The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, the average wedding in the United States costs $31,391. Insurance policies can help couples protect their wedding investment. Special event insurance provides coverage for various scenarios, including extreme weather, damaged gifts, lost jewelry, vendor cancellations or no-shows, venues closing before the wedding, and canceled weddings, according to Travelers Insurance. Insurance also
may cover other unforseen scenarios, such as unexpected expenses from injuries during the wedding or spoiled food. Policies will pay directly for any damage or injuries that occur, or reimburse the couple if the wedding is postponed or canceled. If weddings occur at home, some people’s home insurance or umbrella policies may cover certain wedding liabilities. Most wedding venues carry their own liability insurance, so couples may not have to overlap there. However, for those who desire extra protection for vendor mishaps, it is wise to speak with an insurance professional about special wedding coverage. Prices for wedding insurance
policies can start at around $100 to $200 for minimum coverage and reach $1,000 for more expensive ceremonies, according to the financial advisement website NerdWallet.
of an engagement ring; rainy days that do not classify as extreme weather; switching vendors after a deposit is made; and risky entertainment, such as fireworks or live animals.
Speak with an insurance agent and read policies carefully before purchasing one. Non-covered issues typically include theft or loss
Protecting wedding expenditures with insurance policies can provide couples with added peace of mind on their big days.
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