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Write-in candidate Maurer faces off against Clayton, Corker

by BETH ROTH, CONTRIBUTING WRITER broth@outandaboutnewspaper.com

Benjamin Franklin famously said “in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.”

Franklin, of course, was unfamiliar with 21st century in Tennessee. If he was, he might have added “political absurdity in Tennessee: to his list of certainties.

In a national election season following a particularly contentious legislative session fraught with socially conservative bills sponsored by the state GOP, Democrats might expect leadership in the state party to devise a solid strategy for winning back not only state legislative seats as well as an effort to identify and vet a challenger to Republican U.S. Senator Bob Corker.

As the democratic primary neared, the list of possible Corker challengers seemed ... average. A few names people might recognize, Larry Crim for example or actress Park Overall. The state party never coalesced around any of the would be Democratic nominees, however, seeming almost to concede the election. When the votes were tallied, everyone, especially Democratic leadership was in for a big surprise. The Democratic party had chosen a nominee to challenge Senator Corker and that nominee was: Mark Clayton.

Mark Clayton? Huh? As Tennesseans statewide scratched their heads, more information about the new Democratic nominee was discovered. Information such as his role as a V.P. at Public Advocate, a group the Southern Poverty Law Center has called a hate group due to their vehement stance against pretty much every issue related to marriage equality.

Information such as his support of Senator Campfield’s “Don’t Say Gay” bill, and his belief in the secret formation of not only a New World order but also the secret construction of a 400 wide super highway from Canada to Mexico. Seriously.

Needless to say, the party’s nomination of such a radical, um, candidate, left the Democratic leadership with a bit of egg on their face and a serious PR problem. The party has been roundly criticized in the last several years for a lack of real leadership during a period where the state legislature grows more conservative. Many democratic voters are growing frustrated and have decided to take things into their own hands.

“I’m not Clayton or Corker”

Enter write-in Democratic candidate Jacob Maurer, democrat from Nashville: Teacher, write-in candidate and author of the best slogan of this political season.

“The state party has not pushed for candidates that represent the left,” Maurer said. “They fell asleep at the wheel during the primary by not being actively involved in campaigning for candidates who can represent us and

appeal to liberal voters.”

Maurer is a political outsider. He grew up in Decatur, Ala. and graduated from the University of Alabama, Birmingham with a degree in music.

After teaching for several years in Alabama, he moved to Nashville and currently serves as Hillwood High’s band director. Although always interested in politics and history, what drew him into this race “was the complete lack of any candidate who would represent my voice or the voices of the many in Tennessee who consider themselves liberal.”

As a teacher, Maurer brings a real world understanding of what he feels requires the most focus at both the state and national level: education.

While current democrat nominee Mark Clayton defends his involvement with groups pushing social conservatism and Corker wants to repeal the Affordable Care Act, Maurer has set his sights on education.

“Being an educator, I would continue to focus on educational issues,” Maurer said. “Tennessee has many brilliant students who deserve a quality and well-funded education. We need to work to make our schools the model of the nation and not settle for anything less.”

Like most every Tennessean, Maurer wants to see improvement in the economy overall, and specifically in Tennessee. However, his path to economical growth in Tennessee, is different than Clayton. Maurer believes economical development and success is tied to making our state an attractive location for companies. Having a strong successful educational system in place is a big part of that. Being an inclusive state that promotes equality is another big part.

“Being a strong supporter of gay

marriage, I would strongly push and fight for marriage equality,” Maurer said. “We can improve the economy in Tennessee by making our state attractive to national and international corporations. By having a strong educational system and social equality, we can attract progressive companies to relocate to Tennessee.”

In the last year, Tennessee has often found itself the butt of late night comedians’ jokes, often seeming behind the times, and sliding down what’s likely to be the wrong side of history.

Maurer doesn’t think it has to be that way.

“We need a senator who will show the country that Tennessee can and will move in a progressive direction,” opines would-be Senator Maurer. “Like it or not, the country is becoming more socially accepting. Clayton and Corker do not believe in social equality. The beliefs and ideas that Clayton have posted online are very extreme and outof-touch with the people of Tennessee.

I firmly believe the vast majority of the people who voted for him in the primary did not know who he was or what he stood for.”

Being a write-in candidate is very rarely a winning proposition and Maurer is certainly a realist. He is not measuring for drapes for his senate office or preparing for a career outside of his band room. He is, however, hoping that a few Tennesseans who feel disenfranchised from the political process will consider writing his name on their ballot. He is definitely hoping that a number of Democrats who feel their voices are not being heard will see in him someone who is interested in solutions, not rhetoric; an outsider who wants to bring positive change to a political system that seems broken. O&AN

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‘Olympus’fundraiser summons Greek Gods back to Parthenon

by JESSI GIBSON, DIVERSITY EDITOR jgibson@outandaboutnewspaper.com

On the first day of Autumn, as dusk began to settle, the myths once more rose from the dusty shelves of history. They came to the Parthenon, these Greek Gods, to honor and celebrate the heroic measures of those who had changed the lives of so many mortals.

The Tennessee Equality Project struck a pitch-perfect note when it named its fundraiser after the home of the Grecian gods of mythology.

In a bacchanalian atmosphere punctuated with food, wine and music, the toga-wearing warriors came together under the watchful eyes of Athena and celebrated a year of battles waged and victories won.

The Tennessee Equality Project honored several of those friends and allies who have helped tirelessly fight for GLBT equality:

The Memphis Gay and Lesbian Community Center — for its vital role in supporting gay and transgender youth in Memphis as well as its focus and HIV testing and prevention. The Memphis Gay and Lesbian Center’s mission is to “build safer spaces within ourselves and in our community.”

Metropolitan Government of Nashville and Davidson County — for adopting two inclusive non-discrimination ordinances in 2009 and 2011.

Knoxville Mayor Madeline Rogero — for her efforts in helping pass an inclusive non-discrimination ordinance in Knoxville. A measure which, incidentally, was the first nondiscrimination ordinance to pass unanimously.

“This evening is a clear indication that Tennessee's LGBTQI population is hungry for the kind of change that TEP works for,” said Hg Stovall, TEP board member. “I am delighted to see so many of our supporters and allies here tonight as we prepare for the state legislature to return in January.”

It’s clear that the often Sisyphean struggle for equality is never far from the minds of those who have taken on the solemn duty to work for progress. Still for a few brief moments on that first day of Autumn, there was wine, and dancing, and a moment to reflect on the hard-won victories so valiantly fought for. O&AN Photos by Phillip Chadwell

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Bar AIDS grows in sophomore year

New signature event raises funds, awareness for Nashville CARES

by JOE MORRIS, CONTRIBUTING WRITER jmorris@outandaboutnewspaper.com

The second time around proved to be successful for Nashville CARES fundraiser Bar AIDS, which posted strong numbers in both attendance and revenue last month.

The event, which took place at 13 different bars around Nashville, had a fundraising goal of $10,000. While all the proceeds haven’t been tallied as of press time, it looks as though the total will exceed that goal, said John Winnett, chief development and external affairs officer for Nashville CARES. “We saw an increase in the total number of bars this year, as well as the number of people who turned out to support the event,” Winnett said. “Both figures are important, because we want to raise money for the work that we do, but we also want to introduce Nashville CARES to a new audience. With Bar AIDS, we’re able to explain the services we offer to people who may not have heard of us but will support our mission.

It’s a fundraiser and a ‘friendraiser,’ all at the same time.”

Like Nashville CARES, the participating venues saw the event as a chance to reach out to new people. That was certainly the thinking at Fleet Street Pub in Printer’s Alley, which opened a year ago.

“We signed on because Nashville CARES is a good cause, so why wouldn't we support it?” said Glenn Henderson, co-owner. “And it was a good business decision too. The Bar AIDS event brought in a lot of people who hadn't been to Fleet Street Pub before, but now they know about us and have come in again.”

The mix of nightclubs involved was almost an even split in terms of their usual patron mix, with seven catering largely to the GLBT community and six known primarily for a heterosexual crowd. That’s very much the way the

Nashville Pride turns 25, adds to seasoned board

by JOEY LESLIE, CONTRIBUTING WRITER jleslie@outandaboutnewspaper.com

Planning for the 25th anniversary of Nashville Pride Festival is already under way with a new board slate announced today and, for the first time, a paid Festival Director. The new board slate

was approved at the group’s Sept. 9 board meeting and introduces four new members to the seasoned board.

Returning to the executive board with more than 15 combined years of service

to Pride are: Past-President Randall Roop, President Allan Gonce, President-Elect Joseph Woodson, Treasurer Christy Ikner and Marketing Director Joey Leslie. New board member Claudia Huskey rounds out the slate as secretary.

New additions to the at-large board are Pastor Greg Bullard, Heather Thompson and Metro Councilman Peter Westerholm who join returning members: Aaron Campbell, Joseph Conner, Lisa Howe, MAC, Brent Meredith and Milton White.

“We’re celebrating 25 years of Nashville Pride in 2013, so this is a big year for us,” Gonce said. “Our organization is tapped-in to the community and listening to what Middle Tennessee’s LGBT citizens want in their celebration and we’re looking forward to the road to 25.”

Gonce said Pride’s organizers are focused on strength, structure and continuity at a pivotal time when the organization is at its strongest. Jack Davis, a 4-year board member whose term ended this month, has been

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event was designed to play out, and that’s how it will be geared going forward, Winnett said.

“One of our goals is to prove that HIV is not a gay man’s disease any more, despite being perceived that way for decades,” he said. “With the balance we’ve struck for participating venues in Bar AIDS, we’re able to talk to the broadest audience possible about how HIV affects everyone, regardless of sexual orientation, social or economic status.”

Participating nightspots included: Stirrup Nashville, Fleet Street Pub, Nashville City Club - Riverview Grille, Lipstick Lounge, Trax, Blue Gene's, Tribe, Play, Canvas Lounge, No.308, BBQ Beach Bar & Grill, McFadden’s and Urban Grub. O&AN

named Festival Director which, for the first time, will be a parttime paid position. Gonce said this is the first step toward the organization’s long-term goal of hiring an executive director as the organization and festival continue to grow.

The 25th Annual Nashville Pride Festival will be held at Riverfront Park in June 2013.

For more information about each board member, visit the About section at www. nashvillepride.org.

If you’re interested in getting involved, visit nashvillepride.org/festival/ volunteer. O&AN

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White House Liaison for LGBT issues speaks at Vanderbilt

by O&AN STAFF REPORTS

Gautam Raghavan, the White House Liaison for LGBT issues and associate director of Public Engagement, spoke at Vanderbilt University on Sept. 9 in an open forum setting for students and

community members. The event was sponsored by the Office of LGBTQI Life at Vanderbilt and the Tennessee Transgender Political Coalition.

Prior to joining the White House, Gautam served as the Deputy White House Liaison for the U.S. Department of Defense and as the Outreach Lead for “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” Working

Group. He previously worked for President Barack Obama’s campaign, Democratic National Committee, and Progressive Majority, and is a graduate of Stanford University.

Gautam was asked to speak by TTPC President Marisa Richmond. Both of them attended a conference together over the summer and Gautam volunteered to come to Nashville in the future.

The closed media event featured a crowd of students and members from the community asking a wide variety of questions from GLBT homelessness to the Affordable Care Act to voter ID laws to court rulings.

The Office of LGBTQI Life at Vanderbilt offers support for individuals of all identities, and a resource for information and support about gender and sexuality. TTPC is an organization dedicated to raising public awareness and building alliances with other organizations concerned with equal rights legislation. For more information visit www. vanderbilt.edu/lgbtqi/ and www.ttgpac.com. O&AN

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It’s that time of the year again to dig out everything red you own and run in the Fourth Annual Grizzlies Red Dress Rampage on Saturday, Oct. 20, in East Nashville presented by Yazoo.

The event is a pub crawl/fun run where men and women wear red dresses, red costumes or red whatever and show their spirit. The proceeds will be going to Friends of Shelby Park and the Nashville Grizzlies Rugby team.

Everyone participating will receive a Yazoo beer at each “watering hole.” There will be a 30-minute period in between each location where additional food and drinks will be offered at everyone’s expense.

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“Like that ride, the Grizzlies Red Dress Rampage is for the brave at heart — hey, rampage does mean "excited behavior that is reckless, uncontrolled."

All attendees must be 21 or older on the day of the race and register at www.grizzliesreddress.org or in person before the race begins at noon. The cost is $40 and includes a T-shirt, if registered by Oct. 6.)

The race will take place in the Five Points area of East Nashville. The watering holes are Beyond the Edge, Lipstick Lounge, Red Door Saloon East,

Edgefield Sports Bar and Drifter’s. The total distance is less than 2.5 miles.

There will also be an assortment awards handed out to the ones who really get into the “red dress” theme. The judges last year awarded: • • • • • • • • • • • •

Best Coiffure — or hairdo Best Male in Touch with His Feminine Side Best Female as a Female Hairiest Legs Best Use of the Yazoo Logo Most Creative Biggest Diva Biggest Mess Most Bejeweled Most Outstanding Group Kardashian Hoochie Mama Award Best Pair

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TN Human Rights Commission Board approves 50th Anniversary Celebration plans

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The Tennessee Human Rights Commission Board of Directors has approved plans at its September board

meeting to increase visibility and understanding of the Commission in coordination with the agency’s 50th

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anniversary in September 2013.

Commissioners Jocelyn Dan Wurzburg of Memphis and Patricia A. Pierce of Harriman will chair the subcommittee to plan activities around the state leading up to the culminating celebration. “The Education and Outreach Committee is pleased to have the expertise and historical knowledge of Commissioners Wurzburg and Pierce to lead the Commission in our planning efforts for the 50th Anniversary Celebration.

We expect to have an eventful year of celebration and acknowledgement of the agency’s meaningful work,” said Commissioner Paul McDaniel of Chattanooga, who chairs the Education and Outreach Committee.

On Sept. 30, 1963, Gov. Frank G. Clement signed Executive Order 18 creating the Tennessee Human Relations Commission whose purpose was advising the public on the human rights laws of that time. In 1967, the state legislature created the Tennessee Commission on Human Development.

In 1978, that the Tennessee Human Rights Act became law and transformed the Commission into an enforcement agency with the power

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to investigate, conciliate and litigate claims of discrimination. Throughout the late 1970s- early 1980s, the Commission expanded protections to include disability, age and familial status (housing only) and officially became the Tennessee Human Rights Commission (THRC).

Since 1979, THRC has partnered with the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. In 1994, THRC became partners with the U.S. Department of Housing & Urban Development. These partnerships allow the THRC to extend federal protections to persons alleging discrimination. Today, the THRC mission is to safeguard individuals from discrimination through enforcement and education.

Through a variety of enriching and educational workshops, meetings, and events, the Commission seeks to celebrate 50 years of enforcing Tennessee anti-discrimination law and educating the public on their rights.

A calendar of events will be released and speakers will be available upon request. For more information, see the website at www.tn.gov/humanrights O&AN

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Houston Mayor to speak at Victory Fund’s Nashville Brunch Annise Parker, first openly GLBT mayor of a top 10 U.S. city, will address Oct. 14 event

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openly gay college football captain in NCAA history when he came out to his teammates at Bloomsburg University in 2000. Sims won a decisive primary earlier this year in Philadelphia, making him the first openly GLBT candidate ever elected to the Pennsylvania state legislature.

In addition to Parker and Sims, Maryland Delegate Mary Washington is scheduled to speak about the impact her state's eight openly gay and lesbian lawmakers had on passing a marriage equality bill. Victory Fund President and CEO Chuck Wolfe will also speak.

For more information about the event, which will take place at the Hutton Hotel, please visit www. victoryfund.org/nashville.

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Houston, Texas, Mayor Annise Parker, an out lesbian, is scheduled to deliver the keynote address at the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund's annual Champagne Brunch in Nashville.

Parker's victory in 2009 shocked political observers and garnered international headlines. She won a second two-year term in 2011, again with the backing of the Victory Fund.

"We're excited that Mayor Parker is coming to Nashville. She's an inspiration, and a symbol of what our community can accomplish when we work hard and fight to win. I know she'll offer some guidance on how LGBT Tennesseans can use electoral politics to make real change," said Maria Salas, a local member of the national Victory Campaign Board.

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Participating national landmarks include the LAX Pylon Lights and the JFK traffic tower, both of which will turn purple on Oct. 19.

Local and national groups and organizations including the BULLY Project; Campus Pride; FriendFactor; the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN); GSA Network; the National Bullying Prevention Center by PACER; Parents, Family and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG); Reaching Out MBA; Straight But Not Narrow; The Trevor Project; and Youth Empowered to Act (YETA) will all participate by wearing purple on Oct. 19, turning their social media channels purple, and encouraging members to participate.

For a complete list of celebrity participants, media outlets, TV networks, organizations and corporations visit glaad.org/spiritday.

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In 2010, teenager Brittany McMillan called on her friends to wear purple as a way to memorialize those who lost their lives to bullying. With GLAAD's help, Spirit Day has since garnered widespread support from celebrities, TV news and entertainment programs, corporations, organizations, schools, local communities, and even national landmarks. Spirit Day coincides with GLSEN's Ally Week, as well as National Bullying Prevention Month.

"Showing support for your friends, family and teachers can make all the difference in the world to young LGBT people, whether they are going through a tough time or not," said 17-yearold McMillan. "This year, Spirit Day is going to be bigger and better than ever, and I'm so thrilled to be going purple alongside some of my favorite celebrities, as well as millions of others in a united stand against bullying."

"By going purple for Spirit Day, millions of Americans are helping to send a clear message that no one should be bullied simply because of who they are," said GLAAD President Herndon Graddick. O&AN

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The Equality Forum presents a list of 31 GLBT icons to celebrate GLBT History Month.

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1. Roberta Achtenberg 2. Gloria Anzaldua 3. Ann Bannon 4. Katharine Lee Bates 5. Mary Bonauto 6. Glenn Burke 7. Paul Cadmus 8. Truman Capote 9. Chris Colfer 10. Kate Clinton 11. Ramon Cortines 12. Marlene Dietrich 13. Jodie Foster 14. Jean Paul Gaultier 15. Henry Gerber 16. Billy Haines

17. Mary Kay Henry 18. Chris Hughes 19. Christine Jorgensen 20. Arthur Laurents 21. Don Lemon 22. Federico Garcia Lorca 23. Irshad Manji 24. Katherine Miller 25. Holly Near 26. RuPaul 27. Pierre Seel 28. Billy Strayhorn 29. Jon Stryker 30. Tom Waddell 31. Rev. Robert Wood

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There of course is our amazing staff of contributing writers and photographers who work to product the meat of O&AN and the website content. But behind the scenes is the editorial board who assign stories, find advertisers, provide technical support for the

website and deal with all of the stress day in and day out that running a publication has.

The current editorial board is made up of Jerry Jones, publisher; Allen Haley, sales manager; Donna Huff, advertising production designer; Ryan Huber, webmaster; Neil Ward, layout and production designer; and myself as managing editor and creative director.

Huff volunteered with O&AN during our first year as a layout designer. “I had picked up O&AN on the newsstand at my college. Still dealing with an emotional coming out to my family, knowing there was a large GLBT community in the Nashville area helped me to have a better perspective of my situation,” she said. “Becoming involved in the paper seemed like the most direct way to make a connection to others with similar experiences at a time when aspects of my life seemed very uncertain.”

She moved to Middle Tennessee from a rural area where homosexuality was always treated very hush-hush. “Becoming involved with the paper was a defining moment for me. Not only did I make lasting friendships, but the paper also heavily influenced my career path,” Huff said.

By working with O&AN, Huff met her future employers, which she values because that meant she did not have to hide her personal life. “At a time when others are still worried they could be fired over sexual orientation, I am relieved that I have not had to share that same burden,” she said.

Besides our publisher, Huff has been with O&AN longer than the others on the editorial board and has many fun memories from over the years. “Early on, I received a layout back with a single word from Jerry written on the side ... ‘NO.’ He’s smoothed off some of his rough edges since then.”

When asked about why she thinks the newspaper is important to the community, Huff said, “Without question, being able to see the paper on the stands in the community and at local universities helps those struggling with their sexuality understand others like them exist.”

I can speak confidently for the rest of the editorial board and say we loving doing this everyday. For the past 10 years we have been that vital link to GLBT community in Tennessee that does not get the attention it deserves.

Being in such an unprogressive state, we hope that O&AN has brought light into everyone’s life that reads the paper and visits our website.

It is our hope to continue to be a part of your life in reporting the news going on in the community, and we welcome suggestions for stories and contributing staff members to help us on this journey together. Thanks for a great 10 years! O&AN

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‘Out & About Today’ staff reflects on their beginnings

we did what we felt was right for the community and our organization,” Bonnett said. “We knew the best way to grow our audience was to be as inclusive and diverse as possible. We were then and still are the market leader in viewership.”

Meredith believes they saw the vision as O&AN. “Very early on NewsChannel 5 saw the value in creating a show for our community as well as other, underserved communities in Middle Tennessee viewing area. The newspaper is equally of value but not everyone picks it up,” he said. “Having

the show allows for a broader reach, demonstrating how much a part of the local culture our community really is.”

Long said one of his most memorable so far was interviewing Anjela Johnson who played MAD TV’s Bon Qui Qui. “She allowed me to ask her questions while she stayed in character, something she said she had never done on TV before.

I was laughing so hard it was almost impossible to talk,” he said.

One of the new segments “Out & About Today” has created is Buzz About where hosts and

guests have a roundtable about hot topics of the day. “I think we all bring something different to the table and it's a good mix,” Long said.

“This show gave us the opportunity to educate everyone about the GLBT community. The best way to encourage inclusiveness and understanding is through education,” Bonnett said. “I hope in some small way this show was able to educate folks that what you traditionally have seen in the media is stereotypical – we wanted to give folks a more accurate portrayal of the GLBT community in Nashville.” O&AN

by PATRICK ARMSTRONG, MANAGING EDITOR editor@outandaboutnewspaper.com

Not only did Publisher Jerry Jones have a vision for reporting GLBT news across Tennessee in Out & About Newspaper, but NewsChannel 5 developed a vision for it on TV. “Out & About Today” launched in June 2005 and was one of several shows that were developed by NewsChannel 5 to target niche communities in Middle Tennessee. “When I took over NewsChannel 5+ in early 2005, my mission was to find a way to serve as many of Nashville’s diverse communities as possible,” said Michelle Bonnett, assistant news director for NewsChannel 5. “We knew there were several minority communities in Nashville that weren’t getting the media attention they deserved. So we decided to launch several shows specifically targeting diverse audiences – including programs for African-Americans, Hispanics, senior citizens, even the religious community. It only made sense to include the GLBT community as well.”

At the time, they were the only network-affiliated station in the country to a show specifically for the GLBT community. “This was absolutely the right thing to do on the content side of the house. And, I am pleased to say that the GLBT community has been extremely loyal in its support of the NewsChannel 5 Network,” Bonnett said.

Since the show started, Brent Meredith has been one of the co-hosts. He started this while he was managing editor of O&AN. “I had studied broadcast journalism in college, so it was an exciting opportunity to work for both the newspaper and the TV show,” he said.

The other two co-hosts are Chuck Long and Pam Wheeler. Long started with the show five years ago. “I come from a TV entertainment and news background and wanted to use that to help provide a voice to a group that in the past has not been given one,” he said.

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TN - Rhea County, Tennessee commissioners vote 8–0 to ask that state law be changed to allow county officials to effectively ban homosexuals from the county by being able to charge them with "crimes against nature." After a community uproar, the resolution is withdrawn two days later.

US - Arkansas, Georgia,

INT - Canada allows same-sex couples the right to marry.

US - Rev. Gene Robinson becomes the first openly gay man to be confirmed a bishop in the Episcopal Church USA. _The U.S. Supreme Court overturns the Texas sodomy law. _Wal-Mart Stores, Inc. adds “sexual orientation” to its corporate nondiscrimination policy.

US - Comedian and actress Rosie O'Donnell publicly comes out _Nevada creates constitutional amendment restricting marriage to one man and one woman.

Over the past ten years Out & About Newspaper has reported and brought our LGBT community news from the state of Tennessee and Nationally. Here are some highlights from the past ten years.

by PATRICK ARMSTRONG editor@outandaboutnewspaper.com

Thank you to our loyal readers for 10 great years!

TN - The Nashville, Tennessee Metro Council passes a measure requiring businesses with contracts with the city to promise not to discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation

US - President Barack Obama signed a historic memorandum in 2010 that protects the visitation and healthcare decision-making rights of LGBT people. _United States district court judge Joseph L. Tauro ruled in two separate cases that Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act is unconstitutional.

Chief U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker ruled that Proposition 8 the 14th Amendment's equal protection clause. President Obama officially repealed the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" military policy, which took effect in September 2011. _ District of Columbia and New Hampshire begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples.

_Mexico City’s same-sex marriage bill is signed into law _Iowa and Vermont begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples.

US - President Barack Obama signed the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act into law. The U.S. prohibition on HIV-positive people entering the country for travel or immigration purposes was reversed. _Washington state and Nevada enact statewide law providing equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples.

US - Proposition 8 is approved by voters in California _ Arizona, California and Florida create a constitutional amendment restricting marriage to one man and one woman. _Connecticut begins issuing marriage licenses to samesex couples. _Oregon enacts statewide law providing equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples.

US - New Jersey enacts statewide law providing equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples.

TN - Tennessee bans gay marriage US - Alabama, Colorado, Idaho, Tennessee, South Carolina, South Dakota, Virginia and Wisconsin create a constitutional amendment restricting marriage to one man and one woman.

US - Kansas and Texas create a constitutional amendment restricting marriage to one man and one woman. _California enacts statewide law providing equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples.

Kentucky, Louisiana, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Montana, Michigan, Mississippi, Missouri, North Dakota and Utah create a constitutional amendment restricting marriage to one man and one woman. _Massachusetts begins issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples.

TN - The “Don’t Say Gay” bills died in the General Assembly. Knoxville City Council passes antidiscrimination ordinance

US - President Barack Obama becomes the first sitting president to support samesex marriage. _North Carolina creates a constitutional amendment restricting marriage to one man and one woman.

US - The United States Department of State begins issuing passport applications that ask applicants for “Mother or parent one” and “Father or parent two” instead of for “Father” and “Mother.”[17] The change, announced in December 2010, is “in recognition of different types of families.. US Justice Department announces that it will no longer defend the constitutionality of section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act _New York begins issuing marriage licenses to samesex couples. _Illinois and Rhode Island enact statewide law providing equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples.

or gender identity. Governor Bill Haslam signs the "Equal Access to Intrastate Commerce Act" into law, reversing Nashville's LGBT-inclusive antidiscrimination ordinance and barring any local unit of government from requiring that companies bar discrimination on any basis not already covered by state law. The Tennessee Senate also passes Senate Bill 49, colloquially known as the "Don't Say Gay bill", which would bar schools from presenting any prepared material or lessons about homosexuality to students before high school.

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THANK YOU FOR THE PAST 10 YEARS

by JERRY JONES, PUBLISHER jjones@outandaboutnewspaper.com

Dear Readers, Thank you for your support over the past 10 years. We could not have been successful in growing Out & About Newspaper without you. From newsgathering to advertising, you’ve been there for us.

The impact that our newspaper has had on the Tennessee GLBT community is immeasurable.

We often forget the impact that we do have – but one of our goals since we started 10 years ago was to help build a sense of community.

I was reminded of this recently when a person was telling me the story of when they turned 18, he came to Nashville (from a rural southern city) to celebrate. He saw a copy of O&AN and picked one up. He’s now kept it for several years as a keepsake. He said the newspaper made such an impression on him and how professional it looked. It made a long-term impact on him and helped build a sense of community.

We also appreciate the support from all of our advertisers – many who have been with us since we started 10 years ago. It’s their financial support that has allowed us to publish for the last 10 years and to be able to grow.

O&AN was the first gay publication in Tennessee to distribute in a major grocery store chain – Kroger – and remains the only one to do so. We broke ground several years ago when we partnered with WTVF NewsChannel 5 to provide the areas first GLBT news and information show with a major network affiliate.

The support you have given us is immeasurable. The main goal of this publication was to be a voice of the GLBT community, and give you an outlet to express your thoughts and views.

We are proud of the work we have done over the past 10 years, and we thank you for allowing us to be in your lives and be that vital link to the GLBT community.

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2002 - 2008

JON COOMER

“I was honored to be part of this publication at the beginning. I worked with Jerry at Vanderbilt at the time he started O&AN, so he and I talked about his vision and the first issue was completed through the hard work of many. I keep up with O&AN online and when I am back in Nashville for school. It is remarkable how much it has changed from that first issue.”

Tenure: Volunteered for the first issue

Past Managing Editors

Current employment: RN at the University of Wisconsin-Madison in the Outpatient Psychiatry Clinic

“My time with O&AN was rich with experience, too much to summarize. I will hold dear my time with the publication for the rest of my life. It truly was a blessing to help establish and build something so much a part of our community.”

Tenure: First issue until June 2008 and current co-host of “Out & About Today” Current employment: Marketing and Communications Director for Vanderbilt University’s Peabody College of Education and Human Development

2008 - 2010

A look back at our leaders

JOEY LESLIE

“My journalism degree was hardly even cold when I started working at OAN and by the end of my first year I’d had a hand in everything from deliveries to sales and marketing to writing and editing. I even cleaned the bathroom once. I quickly learned about every aspect of the industry and consider myself very fortunate to have had such a unique opportunity early in my career.”

by O&AN STAFF REPORTS

We have enjoyed 10 years of success at Out & About Newspaper, bringing our loyal readers quality content and a strong voice for the GLBT community.

At our 10 year anniversary, we thought it was appropriate to take a look back at the Mananging Editors who worked tireless hours to get the stories and news that our readers have come to expect from O&AN.

2012

BRENT MEREDITH

Tenure: June 2008 – April 2010 (Advertising Sales Manager, September 2007 – June 2008) Current employment: Digital Marketing Manager for Southcomm Communications

BEN ROCK

Brent Meredith and Joey Leslie

Tenure: February to July 2012 and Contributing Writer

2010

JOE MORRIS

“It was great being back in a news operation with O&A, and I enjoyed pulling together store for both the print edition and our online presence. Newspaper journalism is my first love, and so I’m glad to be able to keep contributing on occasion.”

Current employment: Communications Coordinator and Program Assistant for National Health Care for the Homeless Council Ben Rock

Tenure: April to September 2010 and Contributing Writer Current employment: Writer/Editor at Parthenon Publishing in Nashville

2010 - 2012

BLAKE BOLDT

Tenure: July 2010 to January 2012 Above, Joe Morris On right, Blake Boldt

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Current employment: Freelance journalist

Covenant of the Cross celebrates 10 years

Over the past 10 years I have been privileged to see so many lives being changed for an eternity. I have had the privilege of pastoring and serving with the followers of Jesus at Covenant of the Cross. While none of us are, or were, perfect we shared and continue to share a deep desire to bring healing and hope to the larger region. It has been said that Grace is when we have received more than we deserve and Mercy is when we do not get what we deserve.

We saw mercy when over 4,000 in emergency situations were helped. We saw mercy when everyone responded rapidly to the 2010 flood and how it impacted our community. We saw mercy when we offered free anonymous HIV screening partnering with Nashville Cares. We saw mercy when one month the steps at the front of the church were filled with over 6,000 pounds of food to feed hungry adults and children, and people consistently continue to bring food each month. We saw mercy when people came with broken lives, which they gave to Jesus, to find a living hope.

We saw grace when we were able to buy a church building one-year after we started. We saw it again when we were able to pay off the $160,000 note in 4 months. God’s grace was again evident when we were able to move to a space that allowed us to grow by over 30 percent and opened more ministry because we occupied the old Employment Office in Madison. We saw it when people focused on Jesus and that he could help any and everyone who put their trust in him.

The stories share these two things in common Mercy and Grace, as they are the opposite sides of the same coin. I am humbled and honored to have served this great community of Jesus followers. So much has happened, and yet so much remains to be done. As we step forward to the next 10 years may we always remember the miracles, majesty and the presence of Jesus in our midst and draw strength, sustenance and resilience from it. Happy anniversary Covenant of the Cross. May our next 10 years be as filled with such success and significance as the first 10.

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OPINION

Why the Words Matter

by JESSICA GIBSON, CONTRIBUTING WRITER jgibson@outandaboutnewspaper.com

As a contributing writer to Out & About Newspaper for some time now, it has been my honor and privilege to bring news and interesting articles to the readers of this publication. I have had the pleasure of interviewing various people and organizations, and reporting back what they thought, said, and in a lot of cases, fought for. I have been inspired, amused and always interested in what others had to say — especially those people who are actively involved in the never-ending fight for equality.

What is not so widely known is my history with O&AN, and why I am so honored to be a writer for the paper.

I grew up in southern Mississippi, with a father who was a preacher in a cult-like religion. I knew I was different at an early age, of course. Shame quickly became the overriding influence as I grew up, resulting in my becoming a super-macho, slightly homophobic guy who followed all the rules.

Eventually, I achieved the “American Dream.” Beautiful wife, two amazing kids, beautiful historic house

— and a pretty cool job as a firefighter.

I’m sure you know how the story goes: I was — I am — transgender. And I couldn’t live the lie anymore.

Acknowledging that fact to the ones who loved me and thought they knew me was the hardest thing I have ever done. The second-hardest thing was dismantling the life and family I had.

Towards the middle of 2006, it was clear I would be moving to Nashville.

My now former wife had transferred within her company to Nashville, and the need to be close to my children, along with a desire to transition in a new place, decided things.

But, I was going into a new place completely blind. I didn’t know anyone.

I didn’t know who to turn to for support or help with transitioning. So I began to obsessively search for GLBT related content on Nashville.

That’s when I found O&AN. To a person blindly trying to find her way in a completely new and topsyturvy world, it was a beacon. Finally,

I had found a map, a guide to help me find my way in a new place and a new life. I found support groups, read articles on what was happening in the GLBT community, and even devoured the ads. I learned who was GLBT friendly, as well as places to avoid and pitfalls to steer clear of. It was my trusted, go-to source before I arrived in Nashville, and ever since.

Some time has passed since those initial “Bambi-on-ice” moments, and I have settled enough into this gorgeous city to truly call it home. But I never forgot the help I got from O&AN. When I saw an ad asking for writers to help contribute content to the paper, I felt it was something I needed to do.

A very small way to help repay the assistance I received in that dark and stormy time, I thought.

Instead, it has become an embarrassment of riches for me. To be given such interesting assignments to write about, to help tell your story, my story, our story ... well, it’s gotta be the most fun a girl can have with her clothes on!

To Jerry, Patrick and all the staff at O&AN: Thank you. For everything.

Happy 10th anniversary! O&AN

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1 Hal Sparks up close and personal

Actor and comedian Hal Sparks from Showtime’s “Queer as Folk” sat down with O&AN to talk about life after the series finale and his standup comedy.

Published: June 1, 2007 Author: Jarvis Handy Total hits: 44,526

2 F edEx to begin offering same-sex domestic partner benefits

More than 200,000 employees at FedEx were able to obtain same-sex domestic partner benefits beginning last January.

Published: May 24, 2010 Author: O&AN Staff Report Total hits: 35,466

3 Kane, Robinson team up to debut Maverix clothing line

Nashville's Christian Kane (who many will remember fondly as the maniacal Lindsey from the television show “Angel”) has teamed up with stylist Heather Robinson to launched Maverix, a rock n' roll inspired bikini and lingerie line.

Published: Aug. 1, 2008 Author: F. Daniel Kent Total hits: 32,389

4 ‘America's Next Top Model’ to hold Nashville casting call

“America’s Next Top Model” held an open casting call in Brentwood for their Cycle 16 season.

Published: July 6, 2010 Author: O&AN Staff Reports Total hits: 22,882

5 Still Unpredictable raises more than $28,000 The third-annual GLBT Chamber of Commerce Unpredictable Fashion show was the most successful to date, raising more than $28,000 and netting the chamber $22,130.

Published: June 1, 2008 Author: David Miller Total hits: 20,866

7 GLSEN of Middle Tennessee releases statement on bullying epidemic

GLSEN of Middle Tennessee released a statement in regards to the death of Gordonsville teen Phillip Parker, who took his life after years of bullying about his sexuality.

Published: Aug. 1, 2008 Author: F. Daniel Kent Total hits: 20,002

8 'Mamma Mia' returns to TPAC’s Jackson Hall

“MAMMA MIA!” the musical based on the songs of ABBA, returned to TPAC in May 2007.

Published: April 6, 2007 Author: O&AN Staff Reports Total hits: 18,647

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“American Idol” runnerup, Adam Lambert sat down with O&AN to talk about how his career has flourished.

Published: July 31, 2009 Author: Kristin Keiper Total hits: 18440

10 L OGO finds love transamerican style with upcoming reality slate

Published: Jan. 23, 2012 Author: O&AN Staff Reports Total hits: 18746

6 Dresden Dolls release BSides companion to 'Yes, Virginia' before Dresden Dolls drummer Brian Viglione took time to talk with O&AN about the album and the future of the Dresden Dolls during an exclusive phone interview from his home in Boston.

9 O &AN Exclusive: 1-on-1 with Adam Lambert

Logo, a division of Viacom Inc.’s MTV Networks, announced it has greenlit a new competition dating series – “Transamerican Love Story” – centered on transgender activist, actress, author and former Nashville-based entertainer Calpernia Addams. O&AN Published: Dec. 7, 2007 Author: O&AN Staff Reports Total hits: 18314

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Knapp talks about coming out in the Christian music field

by STEVEN DISNEY, CONTRIBUTING WRITER sdisney@outandaboutnewspaper.com

MUSIC Jennifer Knapp, many know this name from contemporary Christian music of the ’90s; it was as her career was at her strongest in this genre that she came out as a lesbian. The journey since then has been a wondrous maze of life charted through her music and outreach into the community.

From continuing in the Christian community; she has proven to numerous people that a person of the GLBT community can be one of faith as well. “When I came out two years ago I thought I would only have enemies in the church, but the opposite is true.

There is a real push from many of our faith communities to openly embrace all sexual orientation and gender identities,” Knapp said. “Let's be clear, the church can still be a dangerous place to come out, but there's growing support across the board. Just about every denomination has some kind of organized affirmative group effecting change. Not all those groups are directly funded or recognized by the head of their

denomination, but one thing is clear: more and more bodies of faith prefer to be known by their diversity rather than their discrimination.”

When asked about her bond to music and if her messaged has changed with coming out she commented, “I don't know that my bond with music is any stronger, but I am grateful for it.

Music has been a part of my life for so long, I feel utterly inhuman without it. For years I was fearful to perform because I didn't know how to publicly address my sexual orientation. I didn't stop being musician because I was gay. I stopped being a musician because I wasn't singing, writing or playing.

At the end of the day music helped me realize the person I am is the person I am. Music is a part of me.

It's beautiful, it's meaningful. It is one of the ways I tell my story. So too is my sexual orientation part of my story. It's beautiful and it's meaningful.

“As for messages in music?

I'm not a huge fan of premeditating what any one listener is supposed

to walk away with. The longer I do this, the more I think what I do is simply try and create a space where it is safe to be honest with ourselves. It seems like everybody's always watching, that there's always an opinion on offer to criticize who we are as people. It's difficult enough in that environment to keep up hope that maybe, just maybe, we are exactly who we were meant to be?” One way she has done this is with her out reach program Inside Out Faith.

Inside Out Faith is a mix of discussions, performances by Knapp and group participation with the audience allowing them to ask her questions. Generally the events are hosted by GLBT groups, churches, colleges or other social organizations but are inclusive for everyone in the local communities who wish to join for an evening of entertainment with a message. She uses a creative volunteer group to get the message of an Inside Out Faith event out to the masses, the group is called Kstreet.

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Continued from pg 22 The volunteers go about placing flyers, contacting radio stations to request her music or other media and social outlets to help promote awareness of Knapp's message. When asked about Kstreet, she said, “I don't have too much to do with this until the volunteers tell me what they want from me. It's humbling really, because the folks involved are fans that want to give back. Often, they know their local area better than we do, so they help us get to word out. Plus, we can count on getting to know each other a little better.”

Using her program and music, Knapp has brought a message of individual faith and personal struggle to the culmination of one human being making a difference in the world. She travels often and enjoys the time of meeting with fans. “I positively adore small venues crammed full of people. I love old rooms too. Flaming hot par cans, dressing room graffiti, local brews on tap, and everyone up close and personal so we can all see and talk to each other,” Knapp said.

If you would like more information on Inside Out Faith, Knapp or her work, visit www.jenniferknapp.com and Inside Out Faith at www.jenniferknapp.com/ insideoutfaith. O&AN

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Layher brings years of fashion experience to the pages of O&AN in new monthly column

by RENEE LAYHER rlayher@outandaboutnewspaper.com

Hello fashionistas!

I want to start by thanking Patrick Armstrong for giving me this new monthly fashion column. I am so excited to have the opportunity to share my thoughts and

philosophies about fashion with Middle Tennessee’s fashion-savvy GLBT community.

Each month, I hope to help readers better understand fashion and how to make it work best for you. I have had much success in my career as a wardrobe stylist, designer, and boutique owner, because I keep my approach to fashion simple: know the person before choosing the clothes.

My job is not to go out and pull a bunch of clothing off of a rack and hand it to an artist or customer to try on – that’s personal shopping. I need to understand the person and their body.

Once I know his or her needs, I am able to use my creativity to produce an awesome finished product. It’s an art – like being a painter.

Building a complete wardrobe is the result of careful choices and good planning. I am a true believer in lessis-more. Once you have classic pieces that fit well – a blazer, the perfect tee, a properly-fitting pair of pants, etc. – you can add other things, like accessories.

However, it all really comes down to having a solid foundation on which to build.

Next, you can look at adding some fun pieces. As it’s the changing of the seasons and people are looking to expand their wardrobes, too often I am asked, “What are the new trends for the season?”

Some trends are great to follow, such as a great bag or the newest interior design color, but when it comes to actually dressing your body, the most important thing to answer is “what is your own personal statement?”

Let’s take a look at a man’s dressed-up environment. For a “classic” look an elegant, black tuxedo will look fantastic after it’s professionally fitted, and it can always be spiced up by a colorful bow tie for a pop of color. A pair of waxed denim jeans can give a polished look, yet give a rocker’s edge, and can be dressed up with a three quarter-length frock coat and a great scarf.

A high profile business executive can take a modern silk and mohair suit and pair it with a unique tie or luxurious silk scarf, as well as add a blast of color with a custom-fit high collar dress shirt. And, for the more artistic man, wearing a riding pant with a ruffled shirt and vest will exude creativity, while maintaining a polished look.

In all, whether I’m dressing a person in haute-couture gowns or designing the perfect custom-made dinner jacket, I believe the best way to dress yourself or someone else includes two components: the right fit and what reflects your personality.

Ultimately, in order for a person to truly look good, one must wear clothing with confidence and not allow the clothing to wear the person.

Renee Layher is a stylist to the stars and owner of the menswear boutique, The Label, located at 2222 12th Ave. S. in Nashville. Store hours are Tuesday through Saturday, 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. Personal styling is available.

For private appointments, please call (615) 394-1541. For more information, please visit www.thelabelnashville.com or email info@thelabelnashville.com.

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