SKY Magazine Issue 17 by skygirlsbw

Sept 2017 FREE COPY

SURE KA:

Striving, slaying, winning

KATLEGO NTIRANG PHOTO GR APHY

MUSIC

Puzzles Games

WHAT IS SKY?

SKY is a sistahood of teen girls across Botswana!

SKY STANDS FOR Sure Ka Yone (things you love)

Shapo Ka Yone (things you don’t need in your life) To become a SKY girl, take the pledge to stay true to yourself, through the skygirlsbw Facebook inbox.

SKY PLEDGE I pledge…

To be true to myself and what I believe in. To be who I am, not who someone else thinks I should be. I will say Sure Ka Yone to the things that I am all about – like standing up for my friends and following my dreams. I will say Shapo Ka Yone to the things that I am good without – like smoking and backstabbing. I will make choices that are true to me. I will follow my skyline. I pledge to find my SKY. dge the ple To take e SM S eive fre ents , and rec ev s about more, update and titions ssage compe us a me ok d n e s t jus acebo h the F t right g u o r h t l ge We wil inbox! ou :) y o back t

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FASHION & BEAUTY 14 Natural Hair with Afrobella 16 Photography 20 Poster FUTURE FOCUS 23 Goals, Goals, Goals! 24 Study Tips 26 Ideas for Courses 28 Ideas for Careers TRUE LIFE 30 True Life Stories 32 Mental Health 34 Your Inbox Questions Answered... by Celebrities! …AND THE REST! 4 Editor’s Note 5 InstaSKY 6 Best of the #SKYHunt 8 Matswaka Bae Balancing School & Life 10 Music & Lyrics 12 Katlego Ntirang 22 Letter to my 14-Year-Old Self by Beata Kasale 36 Puzzles & Games 38 SKY Spotted 39 Horoscopes

Editor’s No te... It’s yet another edition of your SKY Mag.

It’s all about striving, slaying, winning, and being your best self. As girls we should know where we’re going in terms of career wise I mean HELLO?! We do run this world! Women are a little great in the business sector and that is why we have decided to include career paths one can take on as a girl #YouCanDoAnything Slay boo :)

Hey SKY nation

So like summer is coming and I should personally say I’m super excited and I can’t wait to see the extravagant fashion senses displayed by people outchea. I know y’alls are as excited as I am and we’re awaiting for what’s in store this season. What’s your style? Are you a tomboy, a slaying queen, or a in-the-mood fashionista? Check out the fashion pages for the different styles featured. :p Shapo ka :

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Linnet Boineelo Bogatsu I love your enthusiasm guys You truly know how to lift people spirits during bad days. Me sure ka sky...

Goitseone Gaetshwane Whenever I visit your wall I feel emotional And I wanna see my self too on the cover page of skygirlsbw You really inspire me and I can stay true to myself through the help of your magz

Sesha Sesh hy skyfam... aitse ke filler gr u inspire me a lot ka dem monthly Mag cz di mpha sum tips to dealing wth sum teenage issues. Gape i even get strong as a lady to say i can do anithing se se nkgotsofatsang cz da sky magz teach gr we shudnt look dwn upon awaslvz... da fashion trend nd da skyscope are always lit.... ka le rata sxetha <3 <3

Confidence should go hand in hand with the looks of a girl...talking about the hair and all other components that can be handled and pampered... Yep, you guessed right, we included that too, featuring Afrobella and their tips on how to nurture your dope natural hair. OMG we definitely can’t forget the singing sensation, the girl with the voice of an angel, the one and only Katlego Ntirang you should definitely keep flipping these pages and see what this beautiful naturally talented girl has to say. Exams are around the corner and some of us are terrified and panicking! Just take a deep breath, keep calm, and check out our study tips from different girls. Also, how to stay mentally healthy through this stressful term. You got this! Just study hard, get enough rest, and believe in yourself. O tla ba strong. Basically boBerps, there’s a whole package waiting for you to learn about life in a fun way, and hey remember we love y’all so much #StayTrue and BE YOUR BEST SELF!

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n u H Y K S # If you’ve been keeping it locked over on the skygirlsbw Facebook page, then you know we recently ran the second ever SKY Hunt!, a competition with 10 challenges over 10 days. With prizes including SKY backpacks, T-shirts and watches, you guys really stepped up and joined in the fun!

After 10 days of prizes given away, we chose one overall winner who not only got her hands on the SKY Swag but also had her hair done by Afrobella, and got to attend the launch of Matswaka Bae Season 3! That winner was Tshepang Jr Manyika, 16, who goes to Naledi SSS <3 “Being a SKY girl - to me it means I am able to know what I want and what I don’t want. This is what being a SKY girl means to me, and I am proud to be one thanks to the SKY nation. Love u all!” “Ke shapo ka fake friends. This is because I’m one friendly person. I believe a friend is someone who has to be there for u through thick and thin.”

My top 5 health & beauty tips:

Smoke-free

Avoid smoking by all means as it affects our health and results in our beauty also vanishing

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Exercising

Taking exercises every day is also important as some diseases can be prevented by just exercising!

Living a good life

I also belief that living your own life also can keep you healthy as you would not easily do what others do

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Being healthy

This is all about eating healthy food and avoid all junky foods

Be true to yourself

Every decision we make affects us therefore we got to make decisions we believe are good. Our mindset also affects our health, and good health results in a beauty of a person. Let’s all take care of ourselves. Chow :)

Here are some of our favourite entries from the rest of the SKY Hunt!

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I hope you have been studying for your Setswana exam! I saw you watching TV, Kelly!

After dinner you must study, OK?

Kels! Don’t let mum and dad stress you, OK?

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You’ll definitely pass, you’re so smart!”

So who’s coming with me to the movies tonight?

Cool , good! sounds

2 for 1 tickets guys!

Uh, yeah Kelly we study, but you have to have SOME fun, gosh How can you guys go out right now?! We have to study

You’re right, you’re not as smart as us! … We remember to relax once in a while!

It ’s a lot of pressure. I’m not as smart as you guys, and dad says I must become a lawyer or businessman like you.

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Kelly we’re worried about you… are you OK?

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If you don’ t understand something , ask for help. And study a bit, every day. But you have to give your brain a rest! That ’s how the learning sinks in…

The first day of exams…

I got this!

Matswaka Bae Season 3 airs during SKY Live. Or listen again on the skygirlsbw Facebook page, or sky-girls-bw on Soundcloud

Sometimes we listen to a powerful song by a beautiful woman and think “that’s so SKY”. So we put together a collection of lyrics for you right here, taken from songs that inspire us to stay true to ourselves <3

Fifth Harmony That’s My Girl

Nod if you been played by every boo Just tryna show you off Thought he was the best you ever had Until he cut you off Ain’t nothing, ain’t nothing Bet you bet you know your worth

Ain’t nothing, ain’t nothing You’ve been down before You’ve been hurt before You got up before You’ll be good to go, good to go

Little Mix Shout-out To My Ex

Shout out to my ex, you’re really quite the man You made my heart break and that made me who I am Here’s to my ex, hey, look at me now Well, I, I’m all the way up I swear you’ll never bring me down

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Most Girls You know some days you feel so good in your own skin But it’s okay if you wanna change the body that you came in Cause you look greatest when you feel like a damn queen We’re all just playing a game in a way, trying to win at life Most girls are smart and strong and beautiful Most girls, work hard, go far, we are unstoppable Most girls, our fight to make every day No two are the same

Jessie J Who you are I stare at my reflection in the mirror Why am I doing this to myself? Losing my mind on a tiny error, I nearly left the real me on the shelf. Don’t lose who you are in the blur of the stars! Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing, It’s okay not to be okay. Sometimes it’s hard to follow your heart. Tears don’t mean you’re losing, everybody’s bruising, Just be true to who you are!

Alessia Cara Scars To Your Beautiful But there’s a hope that’s waiting for you in the dark You should know you’re beautiful just the way you are And you don’t have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We’re stars and we’re beautiful

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Where natural hair and youth empowerment are

A one-of-a-kind hair salon that prioritizes the care and styling of natural hair, though we still welcome all hair types. Afrobella was inspired by the group, or we can say a movement called NHBots. This movement was established by Fify Loewen, the Portrait Photographer, to help women come together and learn more about their natural kinky hair. During our interactions Afrobella realized that there was a need for natural hair salon since a lot of naturalistas encountered challenges when we go to local salons - either you are convinced to relax or sometimes they can shame you, telling you how difficult your hair is and so on! The creator is a 23-year-old, ambitious woman named Connie Maikutlo Golekanye. She says: “I am 100% owning the business and my mum is the main investor. Since she’s been in the business world I approached her and asked if she was interested in putting up some money in the business and she immediately said yes and she’s always willing to take risks… As you are aware starting a new business that has never been done before, its difficult to approach the banks for funding, as nobody will believe in your unique concept. Funding is one of the challenges. Since we are a start-up, we want to grow our business by stocking up all kinds of hair products used by naturalistas. Having to train hair stylists whose been used to using chemicals and relaxers on clients is another challenge, as is dealing with the unknown- not knowing how long the business will exist, how profitable my business will be, will I be able to get a pay check? And of course, attracting and retaining customers Being a director is not an easy thing. I no longer have my personal time, my personal space has been replaced by my business, but it’s good because I am also a hands-on director. The staff of the salon are all youth and together, in a familylike manner, they push the brand to the highest limits treating all customers with love and supporting them by sharing all the knowledge they have regarding natural hair.”

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So we are on this beautiful journey with our hair, learning how to love and nurture our precious curls, and as we know our hair is pretty sensitive so it needs extra care at all times. To help you along we have come up with some do’s and don’ts that will help you with your hair journey for strong, healthy and growing hair.

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Don’t 1. Don’t think, or say bad things about your natural crown! 2. Don’t wash hair that hasn’t been dentangled and don’t comb dry or soaking wet hair 3. Avoid too much manipulation when it comes to your natural hair 4. Don’t wash your hair every day and when you do don’t use altering shampoos as these tend to strip your hair of moisture 5. Minimize or avoid heat therapy and chemicals like relaxant and dyes on your hair. 6. Don’t tie your hair back too tightly - this pulls at the roots and is very damaging 7. Too much of anything is damaging, don’t use too much protein on your hair.

1. Embrace your hair and texture 2. Use combs made from natural fibers as well as wide tooth combs when detangling hair to prevent breakage 3. Read the ingredients of the products you use and follow the instructions 4. Use moisturizing products and apply from roots to tips. 5. Trim your hair regularly 6. Deep condition every week 7. Co-wash your hair to give your hair added moisture for kinky types 8. Explore natural 100% organic methods

This are just some of many important do’s and don’ts regarding your natural hair to assist you. For more information or hair counselling contact Afrobella on 72526426. For hair assessments book an appointment with Afrobella on 74900901. Your hair and its health, just like your body, soul and mind, is your ‘wealth!’

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14-Year-Old Self Dear Beata What a strong girl you have become! Teenagers are exploratory and life is an adventure. You were a child of the 70’s but you have survived drug addiction, teenage pregnancy and of course the need to belong. You have dared to be different, especially at a time when everybody wanted to fit in. You lived during the days of pop, rock, reggae and when smoking weed was cool. There was no HIV and AIDS but no one wanted to be called a slut so teenagers preserved their virginity. I am happy that you said NO to all those advances from ‘blessers’. You can’t begin to comprehend it but ‘blessers’ and their habits are as old as the hills and you heeded the advice to desist them. Being different was not easy as you missed out on those intimate details shared by your friends about their escapades. But as a tomboy, you hung out with boys and this made you a late bloomer. But how wonderful it was to write those beautiful love letters and poems for your friends to their boyfriends. That turned into your lifeline and career. You reveled in playing with words for the fun of it and eventually this hobby put bread on the table. Who would have thought your hobby would become the best selling newspaper in the county and provide job security to those who have a passion for words! How sad it was when you lost your mother at 16 and you thought it was the end of the world. Life is full of pitfalls and potholes but this should not deter you from dreaming. No one can dream for you and no one can take away your ability to dream. But turn those dreams into reality and remember that everything is possible if you work hard and smart. Please persevere in your studies and if you fail, do not give up. Many have despaired when success was just around the corner. Never give up. Always aim high and strive to win. That extra work you put into your school work will determine who you will become. Strive for fulfillment, happiness and success. You have turned into a beautiful, successful and confident woman. I am proud of you! Embrace the challenges and opportunities of life but most of remember that love and peace makes the world go round. That’s what life is all about.

Love Beata

Bio

Beata Kasale owns and is the publisher of The Voice, which is currently Botswana’s best selling newspaper as well as Mobile Enterprises, a digital services company.

assessments and evaluation of media, HIV/AIDS and community radio initiatives.

Kasale is a recipient of the PresidentialCertificateofHonour, 2010 for her contribution to the With over 30 years experience in mediadevelopmentinBotswanaand journalismandphotography,Kasale in recognition in advocacy for the hasworkedasaMediaDevelopment rights of the Basarwa (San). Strategist in various spectrums includingmarketresearch,needs

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With exam time here, lots of us are looking to the future and wondering how we achieve everything we want to achieve! Setting goals is a great way to start off on the right track. We all set goals for ourselves but how do we make sure we reach them? This is a question most of us ask ourselves, so here are a few tips on how to set SMART goals and SLAY them!

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Try to set specific goals instead of general goals, because they are easily achievable. For example, your goal may be to change the world but it would be easier to have “volunteer at an orphanage” as a goal which

It would be so cool if you could measure your progress on the goal you have set. You know why? Because it motivates you to keep pushing towards the goal. So next time you set a goal, ensure you can measure it. For example with studying, instead of saying ‘study more’, you can actually track how much you have covered from your textbook.

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We would all love to be Gigi Hadid or Kendall Jenner but it is better to set goals that you could possibly achieve while staying true to yourself. Attainable goals are encouraging because you have a great driving force as you know that YOU CAN ACHIEVE them. For instance, your goal could be getting a higher grade in your next test! Every ‘small’ goal achieved is a step in the right direction.

The more realistic a goal is, the more likely you are to achieve it. If you would like to own a large clothing store one day, you can set your goal as learning how to improve your designs and overtime this motivates you to work hard in knowing all about retail.

TIMELY Putting a time constraint on a goal pushes you to work hard in order to achieve it. See it as a finish line, such as I want to finish two chapters of my novel by the end of today. Remember not to compare your goals with other people, keep it steady moving in

your own lane and know that you are SURE KA REACHING YOUR GOALS ;)

#SLAY

What are your SMART goals? Write them down today :)

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#S tudyTip Sure ka Passing

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Make flash cards based on the syllabus requirements. Your syllabus will usually dictate a whole bunch of definitions and formulas expected - so use those to make flashcards or word bank to stick on your walls so that you see them all the time, and your brain can take in the info subconsciously on a daily basis. For diagrams, draw them over and over to get it right.

Do as many past papers as you can because examiners like to repeat questions, even those for practicals so you understand the skills necessary

Organize your study time using the Pomodoro method - this separates your work into tasks for a certain period of time and allows you to complete a whole lot of work :)

Make sure you understand what you’re studying, don’t cram too much otherwise you will forget your facts.

If you don’t understand something, form a little study group that’s not more than 4 and discuss questions or topics you feel you’re weak on. Ask for help from other students and teachers, you can’t do it all alone. Plus, explaining something you already know helps you remember it!

After reading something, make notes and take pride in them. Making your own notes as well as making them look pretty or presentable motivates you better to look at them and read more.

Study a topic a day, then after a few weeks, repeat. If you haven’t started already, start now.

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Balance your life. Study smart, have enough rest, eat well, take a walk, see your family, and stay focused.

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Use colourful pens and paper when writing down short notes.

Read out loud to yourself - if it will help! If you need to read in the quiet, wait till everyone is asleep or wake up early.

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Believe in yourself. Take a deep breath and do your best.

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TSHIAMO BADISANG Course: Entrepreneurship and Business Leadership at BAC (Botswana Accountancy College) Requirements: Pass BGCSE/ IGCSE in a minimum of 6 subjects, including Mathematics and English Language (minimum of 11 points in Mathematics and English combined) After graduating: You could become an entrepreneur or consultant. Aim to get a placement with LEA, CEDA, Banks, Kgalagadi Breweries to mention a few. What I enjoyed about the course: This major is broad and one learns all of the aspects of running a business all at once... It gives an idea of what happens in all the departments of a business, e.g. marketing, finance, HR etc, when one has studied this course... Advice: This route is for spontaneous, open-minded, driven, confident, ambitious, innovative and most importantly hard working. It is a major that test all the aspects related to one being a leader and an entrepreneur.

GAONE MOSETLHO Course: Double major in Sociology and Environmental science, (Cartography and Environmental Hazards), Humanities Faculty, University of Botswana Requirements: 36 points are needed After graduating: You could become a research officer, EIA officer (env. courses) surveyor (land board). Or, you could even become a teacher, if you choose to take a PGDE for 1 additional year. What I enjoyed about the course: Nothing, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the truth because unfortunately it wasnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t what I wanted to study. Advice: Do something that you Iove!

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GAONE MANATONG Course: Sociology and English, University of Botswana Anthropology and Literature, Kalamazoo College U.S.A (Exchange programme) Requirements: UB required points: 36 Points for University of Botswana course, and a GPA of 3.7 for the student exchange programme After graduating: You can later work as an HR, a researcher, a PR officer, a social worker, and probably go into communications. This also depends on the different courses you take throughout your undergraduate studies. Studying English grammar and literature is the best way to improve your writing skills as a scholar. What I enjoyed about the course: Sociology is basically the study of social problems. If you’re interested in research, learning about the different issues in our societies, and coming up with solutions for social change, this is your field. Advice: You should also consider going to study abroad which requires you to do well in school. Search for schools and scholarships online. UB also offers study abroad opportunities. Research, ask questions, and apply. Polish up your CV right now to put yourself in a better position. You can also inbox me @GaoneMK and I can send you different links for scholarships abroad.

PALESA NKHASI Course: Marketing, Business Faculty, MANCOSA (Management College of Southern Africa). Requirements: About 40 points are required to get into this course After graduating: After graduating, one can get work in PR, Communications and any other businessrelated jobs. What I enjoyed about the course: I got to learn about the importance of paying attention to detail and also how marketing is necessary for good and services to actually generate revenue Advice: To anyone wanting to take this route, you should be open-minded and hardworking because Marketing is a practical course and demands one to be passionate and attentive.

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Chandapiwa Nthusang JUNIOR ACCOUNTANT Qualifications needed: BA(Hons) in Accounting and Finance My favorite thing about my job is… every transaction brings about its own issues, so the job is not monotonous.

Gaopalelwe Cathy Mlambo SOFTWARE CAMPAIGN MANAGER Qualifications needed: Degree in Software Engineering My favorite thing about my job is… coming up with simplified solutions for technology in Botswana and seeing them better the lives of Batswana with or without internet access

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R Careers Mmaarona Phage GRAPHIC DESIGNER Qualifications needed: BA (Hons) in Industrial Design or Graphic Design. My favorite thing about my job is… that I get to design and create artworks that people can relate to. The fact that my working environment is so free and awesome for a creative person like me is a bonus. To be given an opportunity every single day to freely express my creative side is an honor. I am a designer and I love It!!

Maitumelo Mosweu ADMIN ASSISTANT, TECHNOLOGY SERVICE DIVISION Qualifications needed: Any business, banking or financial services degree will do! My favorite thing about my job is… I get to meet different people and personalities constantly. Also being in the TSD (Technology Service Division) is so exciting because every day I get to learn solutions and innovative ways to help us get market share from our competitors. And also getting a smile from when we deliver solutions to the technical issues they face in their day-to-day business.

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Tuduetso So many times we choose to forget who we are, so many times we choose to find ourselves in other people. I want to share a little bit about myself. This is one of my stories, not anyone else’s but mine, and I’m happy to share it with you. Remember, It’s important to always ask yourself this question, “Does it make me happy?” And be honest with yourself because no one else is listening but you. 2015, I took it upon myself to know more about my culture because it’s something that’s always been of great interest to me. I used to find myself asking questions like, “What do I mean when I say I am a proud Motswana child?” And Bojale for me came across as a part of our culture that I wanted to experience. It’s a part of our history and heritage that no one can take away from us but ourselves. Luckily for me, because Balete had just revived the practice

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about three years before I decided to go, I made part of the group for the year 2015. Years had passed without much activity in that area so I could go even at 27. And yes, I was one of the youngest. I shared my intentions with my dad and my uncle, who then told the rest of the family, who were all very supportive. I’ve always really went with what I felt strongly about so this didn’t come as a surprise. Being brave enough to do what you know makes you happy is the best feeling ever. I remember some ‘stranger’ lady asking me what a city girl is doing mo dilong tsa Setswana. I wanted to laugh. Honestly, what does that mean? Am I not a Motswana? Am I not proud of my roots? Is Setswana for a select few? It was 30 days of culture and tradition, away from city life. Setswana sa rona. A beautiful story of the Balete tribe, my people. It is my story. It is who I am, and

what has contributed to me being the woman I am today. I stand tall (as short as I am… lol!), proud that in me lives my people’s story, in me is what I believe in. #thisisme #myjourney #myculture #mypeoplesstorylives

When writing your life story, remember who you are writing about and never apologise for being you. From my Bojale experience I learnt that, in everything that you do, remember that you are different from the next person, embrace that difference and enjoy being different because that’s what defines you. We can’t all be the same. It would be such a boring world with no amazing stories to tell.

I’m A City Girl from Ramotswa, ke bidiwa Tuduetso Mokgosi A daughter, sister, aunt, friend and Managing Partner @ 750ml, The Research and change Agency

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I am the eldest of three girls, (my poor dad is the only man in the house, he can’t wait till we get married so there’s more men in the house). Throughout my schooling life, Primary (shoutOut Kopano Primary School, mine-town glory and Thornhill Primary School, to Legae Academy to the University of Botswana) my curiosity led me to different learning paths of my life, met different influential people, the bad the good, the ugly, the things your parents tell you to stay away from, the ones you don’t expect to meet up with, I saw most of it! But thankfully I was just there for the viewing party, I never partook, mainly because of my mother. I didn’t understand then what I know now, but she was protecting me, guys listen, if mom says nope, you not gonna go to Teen Zone (it was hot in our time) till you finish your exams, then best believe the second you put down that pen, put on that dress and

head out, you’re gonna have a blast, cos you’re not on stolen time! I’m grateful for my parents, and my friends! It’s taken me 20 somewhat odd years to figure out what these creatures actually are, but I’m thankful I took my time to knight them as fitting! The friends you keep determine your outcome, hang around like-minded people, my friends picked me up when they saw I was slacking in school. My friends were pretty intelligent people when we were growing up, the A* students, the position 1, and I was the average joe, made it through class, merely drifting through my days, until I was faced with actually being called AVERAGE, that word cut me deep, why couldn’t I ever be number 1? Why can’t my name be on the A* list, when you want something you FIGHT, I fought so hard, my friends pushed me so

hard, I remember my teacher giving me a letter at school to give to my parents, I was so scared like what have I done now..my mom is gonna kill me, and it was a letter inviting them to the prize giving at school, I was being honored with SECOND Position in MATH!! Man! I felt untouchable, I couldn’t wait to let them know, I was so proud of myself, guys there’s no better feeling, than knowing you killed the game, you put your best out there and someone recognised your efforts, and believe me you, someone always recognises...

Truee Lif Eat ‘Right’

Maintain a balanced diet as much as you possibly can. Eating the right amount of all vitamins not only benefits your physique but it stimulates your mind. When studying, snacking is a go-to :) Having the right snacks as you take your study breaks will enhance your studying without filling you up until you feel bloated or too full to study. For example blueberries, walnuts, almonds and dark chocolate could be helpful!

Keep Hydrated

Water is the one medicine for all ills and is always encouraged. Dehydration leads to fatigue and having a bottle of water at your study desk will discourage the yawns and sleepiness that normally comes with trying to study. It will also help you keep a clear mind.

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Heal It is relatively easy to maintain physical health – so most of the time we overlook our mental health. Taking care of how we think is really important. As the exam season approaches, we want you, our SKY Nation, to be in the right state of mind to get the results that you have worked hard for throughout this year. Here are a few tips to stay healthy especially during exams!

Take Active Breaks

Taking a walk or doing a few exercises is a great way to de-stress as you prepare for your examinations. Fresh air will help you to clear your mind and keep you calm so that you can focus better when you get back to studying.

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Talk to Someone

Whenever you are feeling pressure or even stressed about writing your examinations, it is always advisable to talk to someone, preferably older than you. It may be a sister, a friend, a teacher or a guidance counsellor. All these people have passed through the same stage you are currently at and they can reassure you that it will be alright.

Rest and Stay Calm

Getting enough rest during the exam season is vital. Try to sleep for 8 hours every night especially during your exams so that your energy levels are high when it is time to write the exam. Additionally, remind yourself of the hard work you have put in this entire year and take a deep breath – IT WILL END SOON. Treat every exam as though it is any regular test so that you do not feel any pressure. Finally, once you walk out of the exam room, FORGET ABOUT THAT PAPER! It will do you no good trying to discuss the exam and figure out the answers you possibly forgot to write. Keep Calm #SKYNation and be SURE KA PASSING YOUR EXAMS!

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Find out what the stars say about you & your friends! <3 AQUARIUS Jan 20 – Feb 18

You are smart, intelligent and confident. You relate well with different types of people as you exude confidence. It is for this reason that you inspire those around you, as you are comfortable in your own skin. Remember that some people may not take this confidence well but continue to believe in yourself and you will see the fruits you reap! As exam season slowly approaches, take it easy on yourself - you have been working hard. This is the time to unleash the greatness in you, Embrace it!

TAURUS Apr 20 – May 20

Ever so independent and down to earth, you are patient with those around you as you find yourself giving people the benefit of the doubt. Remember that you have the potential to be anything great, if you put your mind to it. Your friends and family are counting on you to remain humble and ambitious as this will catapult you to your next level. Look out for negativity and those trying to put you down –their opinions should encourage you to do better than they perceive. You are doing amazing! :)

LEO Jul 23 – Aug 22

You are kind, optimistic and straightforward. You are admired by many for your kind heart as you give without expecting anything in return. You shower people with love and affection, even those you have not known for a long time. This is a great trait as you balance it out by being frank to those that you love. You are a natural leader and you should embrace this as people seek advice from you. Stay true to yourself, boo!

SCORPIO Oct 24 - Nov 21

You are faithful, ambitious and fun to be around! You try find humor in even the worst situations, and this works for you as you keep those around you calm. Try to take some time to yourself and be reminded that you are on the right track. Continue working hard and you will see the benefits, be it in exams or in better relationships with the people around you. You can easily read people’s minds and discern how to handle situations- Keep to this!

PISCES Feb 19 – Mar 20

You are friendly and selfless and this trait makes you the friend that many find it easier to confide in. As you continue to put other people’s needs before yours, remember that you also need to put yourself first. This season has a lot of opportunities in store for you so take every chance you get and use it wisely. You may find yourself lacking motivation to carry out your tasks in all aspects of your life, but remember that you are strong and that every journey has a few bumps and turns. Embrace this season and own it as you stay true to yourself. Slay this season boo!

GEMINI May 21 – Jun 20

You prefer to spend time alone and reflect on your life and things around you while finding time to cater for the people you love. You are friendly and very generous. Your inquisitiveness has been directed in a positive way as you accept things that you cannot change as they are and work towards changing those that you can. You move into this season of your life with more confidence as the past couple of months have taught you a lot about yourself. You will help the people around you with making better decisions and take this opportunity to improve and exercise your communication skills.

VIRGO Aug 23 – Sept 21

Happy birthday to you beautiful! As you add another year to your age, remember that you are wiser and spend your days being happy because you have a lot to be appreciative of. Your loyalty to your friends is commendable and will be reciprocated. Remember that you are a star- don’t feel unworthy because you are MORE than enough. Keep smiling through everything as this is your time to SHINE!

SAGITTARIUS Nov 22 – Dec 21

Open-minded and enthusiastic, you are a gem! You are always looking for the good in people and this makes your friends appreciate you. You always go the extra mile for your loved ones as you are one of the most helpful people. Be more proactive in this season- perhaps take up a new hobby or discover a new band. Stay true to yourself and never doubt your greatness, boo!

ARIES Mar 21 – Apr 19

You are spontaneous, daring, active and courageous. You are the friend that motivates others and encourages them never to give up because you are a firm believer in never giving up. This will be helpful as you find yourself facing various challenges, they are just a reminder of how strong you are. Take chances -a leap of faith goes a long way. Remember to give yourself a pat on the back because of how far you have gone this year, you may have not accomplished everything you hoped to yet but you have come a long way. Keep shining!

CANCER Jun 21 – Jul 22

You have a complex personality and some people may not understand this - don’t let it get to you because those that matter know how to appreciate you for who you are. You are sentimental and caring. This care is directed at family and friends and it will ultimately pay off. You are openminded and this makes you the friend that many confide in as you do not judge anyone. Keep working hard at becoming the best version of yourself.

LIBRA Sept 22 – Oct 23

Beautiful, caring and kind to everyone. Those around you know you as the peace maker. Try not to lose yourself as you try to welcome everyone around you –IT IS OKAY TO SAY NO. You have an irresistible charm which works in your favor as you approach different people. Be open to knowing more and remember that not everything that shines is gold, take time to trust people -it’s vital for your well-being. Keep being confident and kind- It is who you are!

CAPRICORN Dec 22 – Jan 19

You have a great sense of humor and you are a born philosopher. Try to channel your curiosity into your studies and watch it pay off because of your efforts. Your desire for change will cause you to take chances and opportunities that very few people dare to. As you go about reminding people of their strengths, remember that you also need a pat on your shoulders from time to time. You are great and do not let anyone else tell you otherwise!

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