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When we’re young, we might think that we can’t achieve certain things, but the more you realize that you have the world at your fingertips, the more you can do your best to make the most of your situation. If you need some extra inspiration, check out these young ladies who have taken their destinies into their own hands :) A A Fa i n a f r i c B l e Ad a w ello ke eb : Fo t h inn En O lu ola ur i n e p i n g i o w , A te e T h p o o t s c l a c a to k i n n - y g e i ve e n i e a m y i n d e in ave r ur r t y tial ntifi e , a ele ar- o v A e t h i n - s to c u p n d A l d ev f r i c n t i o e m e - p t r i c rev p ro w i 1 5 b i o s D *In en a in n th ow ke ol ce th -ye la, uro sp t m L las e c er n a utio ss an ar- and i r i e a a g t m h a e d re n t h a aw o l ng n os o n g as i se t a d * t t o , N n t h ce e n , w p h a r d s h i g e a t to d e r a o r l o w s o w r i a t h i s to d w e r ca , a e M p la r id ide se n a ak y t ea . in nn er he ge u F ir nu al air e it y !
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If you feel a lit tle stressed, or are going through a hard time with a friend, these three girls stories might help. A lit tle belief in yourself, and loving communication can go a long way.
Keletso often helped her friend, Masego, with her homework, but didn’t have time to focus on her own. As a result, she often felt like she wasn’t able to do her best. She cared about her friend and wanted to be helpful. She knew she wasn’t completely happy but didn’t know what to do. One afternoon as she sat in the library, Masego asked her for her help, as usual. As she thought deeply about the situation, she realised that it is bet ter to give out of a place of abundance, rather than obligation. Reluctantly, she said: “Masego, I would love to help you, but I really need to finish this assignment. If I finish in time, I’ll see whether I can still help you out…” She braced herself for Masego’s reaction. To her surprise, her friend said “Okay, Kele. I understand. Thanks anyway!”
Masego was good at many things- she was awesome at athletics, she played net ball and soccer and was also the prefect for her Form. She loved doing her best, but she was starting to feel unhappy, and she didn’t quite realize why. One night, after chess club, she lay on her bed and burst into tears. ‘I’m so tired!’ she moaned to herself. She looked at her afternoon activity timetable, and realized that she had SO many things to do that she wasn’t having fun at any of them, any more. The following day, she spoke to her guidance and counseling teacher who said, “It ’s YOUR time, Masego- you can choose what to do with it!” Her teacher was right! She looked at her timetable again and chose only the activities that she thought she would enjoy. She loved being a prefect, so she kept that; she kept net ball and chess, and cancelled the rest from her timetable. She was able to concentrate on the activities that she lovedand was MUCH happier! <3
ays borrowing her Maria’s younger sister, Keletso, was alw always sharing stuffare rs siste clothes. That sounds normalnever shared her tops or but what upset Maria was that Keletso r was being unfair, but skirts with her! Maria felt like her siste she read her favourite novel, didn ’t know how to approach her. As her sister would know it dawned on her that the only way that HOW would she do it, without how she felt was if she told her- but e from the library, she sounding mean? When Keletso came hom how you’re always broached the subject “Hey, Kele, You know It makes me feel sad that borrowing my tops and other stuff? clothes to wear.” She waited you don ’t ever offer me any of your replied- “Oh! I didn ’t know for Keletso to blow up at her, but she r style is so much better you felt that way- I always feel like you want to wear anything than mine, and that you would NEVER was a simple case of that I own.” The sisters realized that it clothes in sisterly love and miscommunication, and they swapped peace forever after, lol! <3
Ssup young ladies, since we’re talking about the awesomeness of seizing your opportunities, in this issue, I’m handing over the selection of this issue’s music to a young lady who many of you may know. I’m still outchea, though; you can hang with me on KrazyNormaL, where we jam the coolest dance and dubstep beats! Tune in to Yarona FM, Saturdays 3 - 7pm and Sundays 9-midnight or follow me @ drewchadhall or like my page facebook. com/drewlalachadhall. You holla, I holla back. Enjoy! Drew :)
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I got to hang with one of the coolest SKY Girls; she hosted The Sunday SKY radio show with Warona Nzala, before we changed to SKY Live... She is dope, a rock star, a girl o ke leng sure ka ene and everything cool *drum roll....MANDIPA aka The Mandinator.
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I have to say you’re one of the coolest kids I ever met, what inspires you? Go go bolela Nnete, I’m inspired by the Universe as a whole. Everything in it. The universe is the most beautiful thing I have learned about. It’s so complex, dark, timeless, mysterious and unique! It’s one of a kind, well it’s the only one, hey! Hahaha xD it’s a work of art, like me, you and everyone else. Deep, are you an alien? Lol... most consider you wild and free, where do you get all that energy ? Haha, trust you to say such....I seriously don’t know! I’ve been like this all my life. It’s probably all the cartoons I watch which trigger my insanely crazy imagination. If you were an animal, what would you be? If I was an animal, I would be a Pandicorn! A unicorn and a panda bear in one. I would be the coolest creature ever seen! LOL... I’ve noticed that you love dubstep, why? Dubstep just speaks to me, man. It does something to my heart and soul. Gape it’s not music that most girls my age listen to and I like it like that. It’s unique and has this vibe to it, that makes you want to climb a tree an watch the sunset.
Pahahaha, okay a tree..really... who are you listening to right now ? I’ve been listening to a lot of electronica and indie & alternative bands. My number one electronica artist right now is MO. Her voice is just so rusty and earthy and raw- I’m in love with her music. And a group called Phantogram - they just keep me in a trance when I listen to them. Then my indie&alternative bands are Cage the Elephant and Gorgeous Bully. These two really get me CRAZY. I go wild when I listen to them. Tell me about your journey with sky girls Oh my Gosh! I’ve really gotten more confident and openminded about people’s opinions and views. It’s made me happy with and accepting of who I am and what I stand for. What’s the best part about being a SKY Girl? Being a SKY girl is totally pote... You have like 40 000 other girls across Botswana who are ready to help you when you have a problem, who are totally awesome and loving and are amazing to talk to. Like, it’s really inspiring. So… o sure ka eng? Ke sure ka music, astrophysics and life. Ke shapo ka fakeness, unoriginality and celery. Hahaha...peace out Mandi...
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Cage The Elephant, ‘Come a Little Closer’ What I like: It’s has this beat to it, and the lead’s voice is raw and how they fuse their music together is so different and it’s cool how it merges together. How it makes me feel: I get really excited; it unleashes the beast and hypes me up!
Eliphant ft Mo, ‘One More’
What I like: It’s electronica and I like the electronic vibe. Eliphant has an accent so when she sings, it sounds like Reggae, but it’s not! Mo also has an accent but the two accents together is really beautiful because of the fusion of cultures. How it makes me feel: It calms me down- I can think when I listen to it…
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Gorgeous Bully, ‘Dissolve’
What I like: It’s Indie music, and it also calms me down. I like that it sounds like what Indie music should be. His voice is rough, and beautiful in an odd way- as if he shouldn’t be singing, but he does! How it makes me feel: If I’m feeling down, it makes me feel better…
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My plan after form 5 is called The Triple A: A levels, Athletics and Arts. I would love to continue my studies, pass my A levels, get a scholarship to study psychology in London and at the same time train for the Olympics (fingers crossed)! After my achievements I would like to have my own fashion line or just dance. I will pursue these stages with hard work, dedication, self- belief, guidance from my parents and God.
The SKY Nation has the world at our fingertips! If we stay true to our sures and steer clear of our shapos there is no saying how far we can go! Check how these young women are planning to conquer themselves, and then the world! :D <3
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A woman with good qualities in my opinion is one that is patient enough to wait for the right time and doesn’t rush things. She would be a loving person because she knows that what you give out to the world comes back five times harder. As well as being confident,she should be able to stand up for what she believes in, even if she stands alone. Ke shapo ka smoking because I don’t think it is ladylike. Being smoke-free is hella-cool, you have a beautiful smile and you smell fresh. (Fresher than you!) When you stay true to yourself you accomplish so much more than you would being a copy, because you will work nights to get the work done- not because of the money but because you love it so much. Word to the flaming SKY Nation: You were born O.G (original), don’t die a copy.
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Abbie Wally I have a curious mind and love to travel. I’d love to - after I’ve saved up enough - travel for a bit and have my own ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ experience, lol. I’d like to be culturally diverse so I can pass on the knowledge I’ve learnt through my experience in whatever country I decide to settle in. I’m doing my A levels right now, so basically doing well with them is gonna be my ticket out of here. The qualities I’d like to cultivate are humility and PATIENCE, (I’m not the most patient person in the world!) I think I’ve got a few good qualities right now and these are just the ones I feel I absolutely need to become the woman I want to be. Staying true to yourself and to your sures and shapos definitely gives you a good chance of succeeding at achieving your goals. If you don’t give a second glance to your shapos then you have a good chance of being inspired only by positive things that will bring you closer to your goals. Guys, keep doing you- even if it isn’t perceived as cool by others. Don’t live for temporary thrills if they aren’t something you’d be proud to talk about the next day. And most importantly don’t shy away from life, go out and make memories, and even if you trip up here and there, it’s okay to make mistakes as long as you dust yourself off and get your head in the right space (learning from them would be cool too)! :)
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Malaika Williams Once I leave high school I plan to go to university to study law, and further my knowledge in dance. I think that hard work and dedication are the best way to get to where you want to go. By planning ahead I hope to be able to achieve my goals, because planning, to me, is essential. I would like to be more confident with myself regularly, rather than have brief bursts of confidence, like I do now. I also want to be wise, and more patient, and learn how to deal with conflict more efficiently. Smoking is one of my shapos, mainly because of the problems it causes to people’s well being. Staying true to yourself helps you keep your focus on what you want and where you want to be. ‘True to myself’, says it all! But I think that you should also remember to never give up, and if something isn’t working for you, look back at why you started it in the first place. If your mindset has changed, your goals can change too, no one has to stay the same forever. Above all, think positive & S M I L E :D
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For the past few months, SKY has allowed me to express myself without getting the feeling that I am being judged or having to compromise who I am… It has always been a dream of mine to one day leave the country and go to school somewhere not very far from home. I believe that hard work pays off, and I am working very hard to beat my best. Cultivating myself as a young woman has got to be one of the most important goals I have set for myself, as it leads to independence. At a very tender age I was taught to use my money wisely. At the time I thought it was the worst thing ever, but trust me- it definitely helped me because now, I am a lot more independent and have learned to accept the things I can do without. As a young lady, learning how to be independent can also reduce your dependency on your partner when you are older, for sure. My shapo definitely has to be smoking- not just because I am a SKY girl, but in my opinion, being smoke-free is actually really cool. You also get to be yourself and there is nothing cooler than being yourself and being positive when making decisions that affect you in the short or long run. Besides that, smoking is unattractive. Staying true to your sures and shapos gives you a chance to succeed at achieving your goals. When you fully know and understand that there are things you are better off without, it helps you focus more on finding yourself, working on your strengths and improving on your weaknesses. Create your own beauty by admiring women outside the stereotypebecause everything may appear to be the same, yet it is different. “When you process light within, you see externally.” - Anais Nin
Talitha Tim I would love to spend time traveling, allowing the world to open my mind to new experiences. From the beginning of the year I identified my goals and set out a list of things that would assist me in achieving these goals. Focus is an essential part of any student life. With the determination to succeed, I am positive that hard work will help me achieve my goals. As a young woman, there are so many qualities that I would like to cultivate within myself to not only better myself, but also better society. The most important quality that I am working on at the moment is discipline & selfacceptance. We are all blessed with different capabilities that make us all unique and different and by being true to yourself you get a chance to be the best version of yourself. So, who do you decide to be today?
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Just because it’s still a little cold outside doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun with your style! SKY Girl Thato Moleta (p10-11) is the guest editor of our fashion feature for this issue. She picks a few items that you can pair with accessories that are completely YOU ;)
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1. Check shirt - P99.99 Wear it: To a rugby match or other sport at school. With: A nude lip and leather cap. Thato’s style rating: 9/10
2. Faux Fur Gilet - P199.99 Wear it: On blind date or to dinner With: a sleek up-do, pink lip, dress shirt and ankle boots. Thato’s style rating: 15/10
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7. Printed pullover - P69.99 Wear it: To a winter braai. With: A pink lip and biker boots Thato’s rating: 10/10 It’s super cute!
8. Rocking this top - P69.99
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Wear it: To a party With: A choker, black jeggings, leather cap and waffle sneakers Thato’s rating: 7/10
9. Waterfall cardigan - P119.99 3. Fluffy pullover - P79.99
5. Knit maxi dress - P169.99
Wear it: to school With: floral headpiece and gold chain Thato’s rating: 10/10
Wear it: to watch a rugby match With: a dark/bold lip, brogues/ loafers and leather cap Thato’s rating: 6/10
4. Foil-print pullover - P79.99
6. Polka dot skirt - P79.99
Wear it: to the mall or lunch with the girls ;) With: white Tommys, black skinny jeans, scarf and satin mauve lips. Thato’s rating: 8/10
Wear it: to lunch With: A striped black and white shirt, gladiator sandals and hat. Thato’s rating: 8/10 Available at Mr. Price* Subject to availability
Wear it: To lunch with friends With: A purple lip, gold chain/ choker and platform sneakers Thato’s rating: 8/10
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fidence levels. A hormone Hormones play a big role in con for giving you that “top of called cortisol is responsible ually help bring up your the world” feeling. You can act and easy body language tips cortisol levels through quick tricks everyday!
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Walk that walk! Wider strides say “I’m a girl on a mission” and can make you feel much better than short, quick steps or a slouchy walk, so if you’re in on your way to an event and are feeling nervous, walk ing there with purposeful strides will boost your confidence!
How you use your hands is an important part of feeling more confident- if you’re feeling nervous, try not to fidget with your hands; keeping your hands by your side, or neut rally resting on a table is a sure way to calm your nerves!
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Lastly, remember that your lovely smile is the best way to get your happiness up! Even when you’re feeling shy, begin and end every thing with a smile. Smiles are contagious and send out posit ive vibes. So go ahead and spread that SKY high confidence :D
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You are in line at the cafeteria and someone stands in line in front of you. What do you do? 1. Tap him on the shoulder and say “excuse me, I believe I was next” (1 point) 2. Do nothing- you’ll get your turn, eventually… (5 points) 3. Turn to the person behind you and ask, “did you see that!?” (3 points) It’s girls’ night out, and you’re getting ready to have some fun! When you look at yourself in the mirror, you: 1. Think, “Ugh. I’ll never look as good as Dineo” (5 points) 2. Turn around once or twice, and maybe change your top. (3 points) 3. Smile, wink and go out! (1 point) Your crush walks by you in the corridor ko sekolong. You: 1. Make eye contact, smile and say ‘hi’- obviously he
Lion (0- 8 points) ‘I can’t do this’ said you, NEVER! You’re really confident and are able to speak your mind- even when you might not be right, lol… This is a great trait to have- you’re a go-getter and face a challenge head-on. Do take a moment to reflect on your reactions- even though you should never dull your shine, hanging back and listening to others’ points of view means that you’ll get to learn something new <3
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doesn’t know what he’s missing by not being friends with you! (1 point) Melt quietly into the background (5 points) Get nervous, but force out a: ‘hey’ (3 points)
Pick a colour: 1. Blue (3 points) 2. Green (1 point) 3. Black (5 points) You realize that you were put into the Geography class but you wanted to take History as your main subject. How do you react? 1. Get upset and go to the headmistress’ office, immediately (1 point) 2. Think to yourself- how are you EVER going to pass this?! (5 points) 3. Look on the bright side- you’re a clever girl- you’ll rock at Geo, too *shrugs* (3 points)
2 Labrador (9- 17 points) You’re that happy-go-lucky sista who’s sure of herself, but also takes time to reflect on her mistakes- this is a healthy balance- you know what you can handle, and what you might need help with, and you’re not afraid to speak up. Keep on keeping on, gal. Do remember that everyone makes mistakes, so go out and try something new, and be compassionate with yourself if it doesn’t work out- no mistakes, only LESSONS :D
Mouse (18- 25 points) You’re one of those people who is loved by their friends and family for your great qualities, but might not know that you have them! You’ve got style, but tend to say that your outfits are something that ‘you just put together’, instead of owning that you are genuinely good at what you do! You might find it helpful to say some affirmations in the mirror, in the morning, to get your confidence up- remind yourself that you are good at Business Studies or that you are a loyal friend. On the upside, your humility is inspiring <3
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When did you realize that you were destined to DJ?
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My passion and love for music is the foundation of everything. I was more of a bedroom DJ and it took just one Godly moment for me to be where I am. I was home relaxing and one of my boys (Dj Shimrok) picked me up from the house and forced me to carry my CD bag. When we got there, he forced me to do an opening set, which I was reluctant to do but I ended up playing. Immediately after my set, Robbie Rob called me up and offered me a mix slot called ‘The Quickie Hot Mix’ on Yarona FM, and the rest was history!
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Did you know that the number one shapo for SKY girls is smoking? What do you think about being smoke-free? Nna ke shapo ka a girl who smokes, There is nothing cool about a girl who smokes. The first step to pursuing your sures is to be in the right association. Surround yourself with friends who you share similar visions and goals with, positive friends, friends who can direct you and correct you when you are wrong and the rest will follow.
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elebrity horoscopes
Alicia Keys, Musician Like Alicia, your friends and family are your life. You count on them and they can def count on you :) Don’t be afraid to be that champion your friend needs when she feels lost or stuck!
Queen Latifah, Actress and Musician You are always strong for the people around you. This is the time you take to reflect on yourself and let go of carrying the world’s burdens. You might feel the need to have some alone time to do what you like doing, which is fine, everyone needs a recharge, every now and then <3
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Emma Watson, Actress/ Activist This is the time for you come out of the shell to show the world what you stand for! Don’t hold back, because your strength will shine through and get you past the tough times, just like Emma.
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Iggy Azalea, Musician Determination and patience are the key drivers that you live by daily. An opportunity will come no matter how small, and you will have the chance to consider your chances. Be brave, take your chance with both hands, and let the odds ever be in your favour!
Adele, Musician You might feel like your teachers are letting you do your own thing, a bit, in class. This is great because it allows you to be more focused, which you’ll love. Just like Adele, you like to prove your worth, and you work hard to get the results you want ;)
June 21 - July22 Selena Gomez, Actress/ Musician You might feel a little down, but don’t worry; life is full of ups and downs... As Selena says in her hit song ‘Who Says’ “I wouldn’t wanna be anybody else.” Overcoming your ‘low’ time means that you will start having a sense of appreciation of the resilience that resides in your own skin.
July 23 - August 22 Demi Lovato, Singer It’s your birth month! Just like Demi, you know that your style rocks your world! You will get the chance to look into your fashion icons and become inspired for your birthday celebration- fun times ahead! *Woohoo*
August 23 - September 22 Beyonce, Musician You will discover that the qualities you see in you as weird will set you free. Spread your wings and uncover that supergirl you are hiding for the world to see! Just like Beyonce, you may face some hurdles along the way but you are gonna make it.
September 23 - October 22 Bella Thorne, TV presenter You may have personal weaknesses that deprive you from opening up to coming out of your shell. Like Bella who was diagnosed with dyslexia as a child, you will realize that these do not define who you are. This is your time to get up, dust yourself, and take that chance you’ve been holding back on.
December 22 - January 19 October 23 - November 21 Michelle Obama, First Lady of the USA You are outgoing and confident in yourself. No one can tell you otherwise! Just like Michelle, you do what you love and you go for what you like. Spontaneity is sometimes part of your daily routines, even with family.
November 22 - December 21 Taylor Swift, Musician Just like Swiftie sang on 22, your day may not go as you would like but ‘everything will be alright’. You like a company of your girlfriends, hanging out and just having some girl funsie! You are so much a girlie girl but you like try out other styles.
Katy Perry, Singer You may be conflicted between two choices that are very important to you, but you are going to manage to listen to your inner self and find where your heart lies! You will realize that you have the final say on the decisions that you take.
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