June Issue

Issue 15 June 2012

Feeling hot, hot, hot!

The most comprehensive source of summer must-haves and activities for the whole family!

Independence and good behaviour This vacation sets a perfect opportunity to teach your young children pivotal life values

ALSO INSIDE:

Your 2012 Summer Camp Guide!

Vouchers and competitions included!

Supported by:

The ‘men of the house’ are celebrating their very special day - Father’s Day!

PEOPLE OF THE MONTH: Mumtrepreneur

Charity’s Angel

Green Guru

Creative Enterprise

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t’s finally Summer! What are you all doing this summer? We have a busy few months with our upcoming Talent Show/Summer

Camp in August. This month we decided to put together a lovely Summer Camp Guide for all you mummies who are staying in Dubai this summer. We have received thousands of emails through our Feedback forum on the site with piles of questions about what happenings are occurring this summer. Hence the guide.

Ramadan is fast approaching; will you stick around this Ramadan? Stay tuned for our special Ramadan issue coming up with some special features. This month I would like to inspire you with the below beautiful poems:

Mother's Love Her love is like

an island in life's ocean, vast and wide A peaceful, quiet shelter From the wind, the rain, the tide.

'Tis bound on the north by Hope,

By Patience on the West, By tender Counsel on the South And on the East by Rest.

Above it like a beacon light Shine Faith, and Truth, and Prayer; And thro' the changing scenes of life I find a haven there.

Author Unknown Enjoy this month’s special summer edition; you’re

"M" is for the million things she gave me, "O" means only that she's growing old, "T" is for the tears she shed to save me, "H" is for her heart of purest gold; "E" is for her eyes, with love-light shining, "R" means right, and right she'll always be, Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER," A word that means the world to me.

Howard Johnson (c. 1915)

bound to keep this close to your heart wherever you go this month!

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We're giving you ways to commemorate the special days of June!

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Stop! You’re at the right place…

Fun activities kids can do this summer

What’s Poppin’?

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Party & Fun! Places where kids can be themselves... And you too!

Out & About Vacation is not just for the studs, you and your hubby are in for a treat as well

On The Way

Getting Ready

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Queasy about the ‘bloody’ details Ease your mind about donating blood

Is it safe? (Revisiting pregnancy myths anew) What are true, false and somewhere in the middle

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Stop & Shop!

Competitions and shopping never looked this good!

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7 summer ‘musts’ The dos and don'ts if you want to conceive this season Ensure your baby is free from any hereditary disease An expert answers the frequently asked questions Unwated cysts and infections You may not want it, but you can have it

The New Family 46 ‘Harmony’ at home

On music and healing

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Feeling hot, hot, hot!

Preggy mummies, summer is here!

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Should I or shouldn’t I panic?

Facing post-term pregnancy with composure

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Hot Mama Fashion

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Raising independent kids

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Making sure that your child is safe and protected

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Your voice soothes. Your voice saves!

A mother's voice help in the development of a preemie

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Top Tips for the Fussy Eaters

In Focus: Toddler

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Fun and learning, a lot for tots!

Summer destinations for your toddler

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Slick kids fashion

89 Slick kid of the month

62 Determining autism from the first year

What are the signs to look for

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Your baby's first summer!

Just a few of his or her many firsts

Now, that’s my good child!

Rasing a good boy and girl

91 What Do You Think?

Mama & Me Events

108 Pampers' Mommy Blogger Academy 110 Dubai Mum's Creative Coffee Morning 111 Mummies & Munchkin Mini Market 113 Hamleys Inter School Be'ati Watani Quiz Contest

94 Top Tips for Babies & Kids 98 Bookworm Me! Junior 100 Kiddie Flicks Picks 102 Mama and Me Get Busy 104 Birthdays!

106 Mother, Baby & Child Offer… for Little Ones!

You have to want it to stop it Thumb sucking tips and advices

In Focus: Child

76 Summer sizzlers for youngsters

Kids will have their hands full only the cool stuff

Determining autism from the first year

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Stroke awareness A tyrant to its victims, young and old

Tough calls?

How to discipline your grade schooler

contents | june 2012 Mama Me-Time

Food for the Soul

114 The ‘balancing act’:

Attaining a balanced mind, body and soul through motherhood 116 Behind these mumtrepreneurs... are THEIR MEN

Love-filled dedications for the men in their lives 118 Tickle me funny 120 Mother, Baby & Child Offer…Exclusively for Mama!

Health & Wellbeing

126 They amaze. They entertain... And dolphins do heal!

Take advantage of their calming presence!

People of the Month

132 Mumtrepreneur, Green Guru, Charity’s Angel

140 Kitchen Magic 144 Editor’s Pick: In

Focus – Dining

Dining at Sheraton Dubai Creek Hotel & Towers, Ibn Battuta Gate & Hilton Al Ain

Family trip to Hilton Al Ain

148 Editor’s Pick: In

Focus – Spa

128 Top Tips for Wellbeing

Focus – Hotels

Deep-tissue spa treatment at Ibn Battuta Gate and promotions for June

152 Editor’s Pick: In

Focus – Salon

Summer promos in Dubai and Sharjah

153 Bookworm Me!

155 Horoscope

158 Directory Listing

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MANAGEMENT Publisher Dominic De Sousa COO Nadeem Hood Associate Publisher Darine Hounaine Williams darine@cpidubai.com Mobile: +971 55 9159905 Office: +971 4 433 2372

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MARKETING Manager Bernadette Pelaez infombc@cpidubai.com Office: +971 4 433 2398 CIRCULATION Database and Circulation Manager Rochelle Almeida rochelle@advancemena.com +971 4 368 1670 PRODUCTION AND DESIGN Production Manager James P Tharian james@cpidubai.com +971 4 440 9146 Designer Jimmy Mendoza designermbc@cpidubai.com +971 4 433 2424 DIGITAL www.cpilive.net www.cpidubai.com Digital Services Manager Tristan Troy Maagma troy@cpidubai.com +971 4 440 9141 Web Developer Vishal Garg webmbc@cpidubai.com +971 4 433 2454 Published by

a father had both given me the feeling of security and

anxiety... But having him for me to call ‘Papa’ was totally different with the man in uniform everyone else knew.

Sales Manager Bahar Erdogan bahar@cpidubai.com Mobile:+971 55 3088639 Office: +971 4 433 2446 Sales Editor Dominique Pechuela-Famador editormbc@cpidubai.com Office: +971 4 433 2449

rowing up with a soldier for

He is kind (although sometimes moody), forgiving (although oftentimes frightening) and loving (although always stern). His stature transforms into that of a caring father the very moment I would sit on his lap – even when I became a mum myself.

Most of us have had the fortune of having a Dad, a Daddy, a Father or a ‘Pop’ to fondly call.

They shield us against pain and all the ‘bad’ things in this world. Even our own children may have the gift of having great fathers too. But other children are not as lucky. Perhaps out of poverty, unawareness or mere carelessness plentiful of young boys and girls fall prey to the hands of wicked beings, stripping off their innocence and right to enjoy an untroubled life.

May we find our own means to be a beckon of hope to these children. And may we continue to appreciate those men who embraced fatherhood (just as much we did as mothers) and aim to make a world a much, much better place in the name of their children...

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1013 Centre Road New Castle County, Wilmington, Delaware, USA

To them, Happy Father’s Day!

Head Office PO Box 13700 Dubai, UAE Tel: +971 4 440 9100 Fax: +971 4 447 2409 Printed by Printwell Printing Press LLC © Copyright 2011 CPI All rights reserved While the publishers have made every effort to ensure the accuracy of all information in this magazine, they will not be held responsible for any errors therein.

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Again, many thanks!

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Dominique

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HONOUR WORLD ENVIRONMENT DAY!

Kids Read celebrates with the theme ‘Green Economy’

Kids Read is honouring this day with an interactive community event for children aged 6 to 10

Does he want to be among the first

years and their parents. The programme sponsored

miniature auto-racing hobby? Then the

solely by HSBC Bank Middle East aims to highlight the importance of the World Environment Day through books about the preservation of nature. It is a free event for families and the community which includes storytelling, arts and crafts, and fun activities too!

To register, email english.projects@ae.britishcouncil.org

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Pit Stop Club at the recently launched entertainment centre, Super Dooper, is the place to be! Fathers and sons will be able to enjoy this exclusive “celebrity” race to the checkered flag auto-racing hobby that is guided by a groove or slot in the track on which it runs. Be amongst the first in Dubai to share this passion alongside

CELEBRATE FATHER’S DAY!

only global p store of the world’s The Middle East flagshi stuffed ractive make-your-own company that offers inte e! The her lly fina ment experience is animal retail-entertain es Giv Back” g “An Opening That new store will be holdin e, which is also t mall. The programm at the world’s bigges iting guests h birthday, will be inv in celebration of its 15t the store en op Centre to help from The Dubai Autism introduction event will also see an and participate... The dy. For every Champ and Curly Ted to two special bears: t year, AED d during the stor’es firs Cham Bear that is sol e. ntr Ce Autism 10 will go to The Dubai mother, baby & child june 2012

in Dubai to experience this special

game. Slot cars is a powered miniature

British Council (near Rashid Hospital), Oud Metha June 23 (Friday), 3.00 to 6.00 pm

p, The Dubai Mall Build-A-Bear Worksho June 12 (Tuesday) ar.com , visit www.buildabe For more information

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Is your hubby a racing enthusiast?

celebrities like Elvis Presley, The Beatles, Jay Leno and Rod Steward just to name a few.

Super Dooper, Waves

Damac Building, Dubai MarinaJune 16 (Saturday), 10.00 am to 1.00 pm For more information, call 04 454 8391 or visit www.superdooper.ae

Save lives with THE COMMEMORATE ONE WORLD BLOOD or Day, In support of the World Blood Don mobile a ing host be will THE ONE Jumeirah ai Dub their ide blood donation clinic outs ting ribu Theatre, Not only will you be cont treated to to a good cause, you will also be e and a ‘recovery’ cup of tea or filter coffe Deli. d’s bran ion cookie at the home fash one ther Here’s to changing the world toge pint at a time!

Deli THE ONE, Jumeirah Theatre & pm 1:30 June 24 (Sunday), 9.00 am to 345 6687 or For more information, call 04 visit www.theone.com

DONOR DAY!

SUMMER CAMPS GALORE

DUBAI HOLIDAY CAMPS Dubai International Academy, July 1 to August 30 Raffles International School, June 24 to August 16 Deira International School, July 1 to August 16 Raffles Lakes Nursery, July 1 to August 16 Raffles Marina Nursery, July 1 to August 16 INSPIRE SUMMER CAMP Inspire Children’s Nursery, July 8 to August 30

THE KENSINGTON NURSERY SUMMER CAMP The Kensington Nursery Umm Suqeim & Dubai Silicon Oasis, July 3 to August 30

International Day of Innocent Children as Victims of Aggression June 4

CAMP KIDVILLE Kidville Jumeirah Beach Residences, Motorcity & Mirdif, May 6 to August 23

World Environment Day June 5

SUPER DOOPER SHOW PRODUCTION SUMMER CAMP Super Dooper, June 24 to August 30

World Day Against Child Labour June 12 World Blood Donor Day June 14

BLOSSOM PASSPORTS SUMMER CAMP Blossom Children’s Nursery & Blossom Village Nursery, July 1 to August 23

International Father’s Day June 17

RAINBOW VALLEY NURSERY Jumeirah Lake Towers July to August 2012

World Music Day June 21

FUN CITY Camp starts June 24

Stroke Awareness Month 13

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International Children’s Day June 1

KIDS FIRST SUMMER CAMPS Kids Cottage, July 1 to 26 Ladybird Private Nursery, Abu Dhabi, July to August Willow Summer Camp, July 1 to August 9

Summer is finally here! Want to keep your kids busy whilst encouraging positive developments in him or her?

Here are the incredible places around town you can choose from!

Inspire Summer Camp What to do: Inspire has heard and is responding to the needs of families in Dubai. Inspire is offering services all summer to

School & Family Free Day Summer Camp 2012 What to do: Under the Patronage of Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum Sports & Physical Fitness Program, Fun City presents this Day Camp which will run until June 15 to August 15. Over AED 30,000 worth of prizes, gifts, giveaways and camp materials will be given away. Plus, AED 30,000 Post It & 3M school scholarship will be awarded to 3 students who excel in the craft! mother, baby & child june 2012

Download the registration form from Fun City & Ad Pack Six UAE websites. Registration ends on June 10!

Get this: First 4,000 students get Day Camp free along with their parents.

Location: Oasis Centre, Sheikh Zayed Road For more information, call 050 853 8616 or email info.adpacksix@gmail.com 14

current as well as new incoming families. The Inspire Summer Camp offers children skill-based instruction in language and arts, music and movement, dance, sports, swimming and so much more! The camp is schedules from July 8 to August 30 with enrolment on a weekly basis with flexible timings.

Get this: Rates start at AED 850 Location: Inspire Children’s Nursery, Al Safa 2, near Spinney’s Center on Al Wasl Road For more information, call 04 395 5473 or email admin@inspireallchildren.com

Blossom Passports Summer Camp What to do: Have your child experience a well-rounded, multicultural and ultimately fun experience the whole summer round!

Painting... Playing... Even welcoming familiar characters like Barney! The Blossom Passports Summer Camp will be running from Kuly 1st to August 23rd and welcomes children 2 years old and above.

Get this: Rates start at AED 180 per day and AED 790 per week; Pay for all 8 weeks before June 30 and get 10 percent off.

Location: Blossom Children’s Nursery & Blossom Village Nursery, Jumeirah For more information, call 04 348 6275 (Blossom Children’s Nursery) & 04 394 8837 (Blossom Village Nursery) or email info@blossomnursery.com

The summer heat is here!

Have you got your SnoozeShade yet?

See our website for this great product and more: www.bohobebe.com

SNOOZESHADE ORIGINAL • SNOOZESHADE PLUS • SNOOZESHADE TWIN • SNOOZESHADE INFANT CAR SEAT • SNOOZESHADE COT

Available at:

Summer Splash Camp What to do: Have your child experience a splashing summer by joining SplashnBounce’s summer camp. Ongoing until the 1st of August, every Sunday to Thursday from 9.20 am to 1.30 pm.

Children from 5 to 8 years of age are set to enjoy daily splash sessions, arts & crafts, hip-hop and gymnastics, drama and musical theatre and cooking fun.

Get this: New theme every week makes it all the more sizzling!

Location: Dubai Polo & Equestrian Club For more information, call 050 282 5257 or email splashcamp@splashnbounce.com

The Little Gym of Dubai What to do: Let their qualified, energetic and friendly staff will lead your child each week with The Little Gym’s themed activities in a fun, safe and comfortable environment. With their boundless energy can be used to learn gymnastics, sports, arts & crafts just to name a few. As they are offering really flexible schedules from June 24 to September 6, you can tailor-fit the camps depending on the suitability for your child and the rest of the family! mother, baby & child june 2012

Get this: Prices available for 5 days at AED 775 (members) and AED 875 (non-members) Location: The Little Gym, Ibn Battuta Mall For more information, call 04 445 6850 or email thelittlegym@eim.ae

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Music class at Golden Beach Nursery What to do: The nursery encourages children to be creative, to initiate their own ideas and to respond in their own ways. Children will have fun in their music classes with a specialist music teacher. Different age groups learn rhythms and experience various instruments. Ms Natalie Sengezer, the manager of the nursery believes that children should be involved in music at a very young age as this helps on their development and improve their abilities. Your child will learn and grow through activities that stimulate brain growth, build motor skills, enhance social-emotional development and much more.

Get this: Toddlers as young as 12 months old to kids 5 years of age are invited to join Golden Beach Nursery’s music class 30 minutes on the average each session.

Location: Golden Beach Nursery, Jumeirah For more information, call 050 926 2611 or 04 380 9336 or email nataliesengezer@goldenbeachnursery.com

Come and enjoy a truely unique Mother and Child Experience!

Favourite Things www.favouritethings.com

Level 2 (Food Court level) - Dubai Marina Mall T: 04 434 1984 F: 04 434 1983 info@favouritethings.com

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BOHOBEBE’S ALL OUT PROMOS Starting this month, discerning parents can find eco-friendly kids’ products at Bohobebe called Beco Things. The Beco Feeding Set is made from the natural plant fibres found in bamboo and rice husks. The Beco Step is made from bamboo and rice husk plastic. And the Beco Potty, from waste plant material... They are all pretty-looking, functional and durable now... And are biodegradable by the time you won’t need them anymore!

Also join their Facebook competition entitled the iiamo Peace Competition. Share which is your favourite peace colours to give to your loved ones...

And standby for more upcoming products too! We’re very sure they will be just as stylish and functional, even award-winning as the iiamo!

For more information, visit www.bohobebe.com

It‘s safe to have fun The SWIMTRAINER "Classic" for babies and children is suitable from 3 month to 4 years.

It offers an ideal swimming position in the water, is fast and easy to put on with clip fastener and is available in three models.

Recommended by midwives and swimming schools in Europe! e in

Availabl es HAMAC stor in Dubai

SALE! SALE! SALE! AT LITTLE ANGELS Little Angels is running a sizzling summer sale from 30 to 60 percent discounts on their lovely kiddie apparels. This twomonth-long promotion began last June 1st and will end on July 31st. Time to

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make a wardrobe upgrade for the kiddos, don’t you think?

Shop at their store located in the Dubai Mall Contact number: +971508896924

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THE HUNT IS ON AT PITTER PATTER Play Pitter Patter’s Scavenger Hunt and win AED 1,500 worth of online goodies! Simply LIKE their page on Facebook to register and email your answers to the following questions on info@pitterpatter.ae: 1. Which shoes have they chosen as their style pick of the month from

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the Pediped family? 2. What hippity hoppity creature is a baby aspen gift set playing in the garden? The competitions will be running until August 20th!

Here’s a clue: all answers are found on www.pitterpatter.ae!

SPARKLE IN SPARKLES Sparkle offers unique individual pieces amongst selective established brands. There is a vast range of affordable, imaginative and delightful products that appeal to the girl in you. From ball gowns and ballet tutus to princess shows, enchanted castles, fairy wands, secret diaries, cuddly teddies, sparkly diamante tiaras, and music and trinket boxes... They’ve got something for every princess and her palace! From June 1st to September 1st, Sparkles is offering exciting summer deals for up to 50 percent off on selected items!

Visit them at their Madinat Jumeirah and Mercato Mall branches or call 04 344 8498 for more details

First Impression Telephone: 0556434173 Mobile: 044325291 Email: fimpressions@hotmail.com www.Facebook.com/FirstImpressionsLLC

DEVELOPMENT-BOOSTING MUSIC AT BEAUTIFUL MINDS NURSERIES

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The Beautiful Minds Nurseries’ director Bernadette King-Turner is a firm advocate of learning through music. As a matter of fact, she invited Tessa Grigg and Brian Ringrose of New Zealand’s TESSAROSE Productions to give a two day workshop to share with the staff how early childhood music and movement affects and encourages a child’s mental and physical progress.

The techniques that are now being practiced at the nurseries works the child’s entire sensory system,

KIDS CLUBS AT JEBEL ALI GOLF RESORT & SPA The resorts destination prides itself in partnering Worldwide Kids Company in enhancing the activity programmes that are being facilitated by WKC-trained coordinators. CoolZone, specially designed for kids from 4 to 12 years

vital for brain stimulation, movement and sense of balance. The Beautiful Minds Nurseries always play soft and gentle background classical music, from composers such as Vivaldi, Chopin, Johann Strauss and Mozart. These particular classical ensembles are perfect for a young child’s developing mind.

For more information, visit www.beautifulmindsnurseries.com

of age, and ChillZone, for youngsters 13 years and older, commit to provide exceptional childcare in an environment that has been independently checked to ensure best practice policies for health and safety. CoolZone offers ‘master chef’,

DUBAI DOLPHINARIUM’S MEMORABLE BIRTHDAYS

beach Olympics, sandcastle competitions, water fun and a kids karaoke night to

The specially designed

name just a few!

‘Marine World’ themes room and the highly trained staff members will make your child’s

For more information, visit www.jebelali-international.com

special day an unforgettable event. Loads of fun, dances, games, marine world related activities, face painting, puppet show and gifts will be organized for the celebrant and his or her guests.

The highlight of the day will be the one and

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only “Live Dolphin and Seal Show” where all the guests can witness gracious bottlenose dolphins and funny northern fur seals show off their natural behaviours. If your kid gets lucky he or she may even have a ‘dolphin boat-ride’ during the show program.

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LOLLICUTS SALON, SPA & BOUTIQUE Visit Lollicuts at the Sunset Mall in Jumeirah and let your child

A DAY WITH YOUR INNER CHILD

experience a lively and playful salon environment. Kids will surely enjoy having their first hair wash and cuts.

Teens will have a good time getting their nails and hair done. Young

Whether it’s a first date

adults can have their facial and make

or you’re already in a

up application lessons too! To top it

relationship with your

off, this family-friendly and specially-

inner child, the intention

designed facility for early years and

of this workshop is to guide and support you with

onwards offer that spa vibe, awesome

a variety of healing techniques and experiences as

packages and gift vouchers for all. It’s

you explore and get to know your precious self.

going to be an exciting one for the

You will learn what she wants, what she needs

kiddos, as well as a relaxing time for

healing and begin or continue the journey of

you too!

lovingly re-parenting your little ‘you’. This one-day workshop will be held on June 8th.

For more information, visit call 055 771 2857 or email lisa@lisalawscoaching.com

For more information, visit www.lollicuts.com

EURO 2012 AT SHANGRI-LA HOTEL ABU DHABI

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Are you the sporty mum? Or do you support your husband’s penchant for sports in an all out fashion? Then join Shangri-la Hotels, Qaryat Al Beri, Abu Dhabi’s Euro 2012! Cheer on your favourite team as you watch the live action-packed football tournament of the year on

multiple screens inside the

fully air-conditioned beachfront tent in Plaza Bar. Entrance ticket is at AED 75 per person inclusive of two selected beverages. Packages are also available for a minimum group of four and advanced bookings are accepted. Euro 2012 runs from June 8 to July 1.

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For more information, visit www.shangri-la.com

It’s sunny, it’s warm and it’s the best season to visit Wild Wadi over and over again!

Get unlimited access to Wild Wadi Waterpark with the exclusive Summer Pass! · General Admission: AED 975 · Children below 1.1m: AED 650 · Valid from 1st of May until 15th August 2012 · You can even get up to four friends to join in the fun for a discounted rate of AED 160 for General Admission and AED 135 for Children below 1.1m every visit when they come with you · This offer is valid for a limited number of passes only, so get yours soon!

Ladies, please note that during June, July and August (excluding Ramadan) Ladies Night will be twice every week (Thursday and Friday) from 8pm – 1am.

For more information, visit www.wildwadi.com

Say what?

Did you know that just by knowing their slogan, you and three of your family and friends can win General Admission tickets (a total of 4!) to Wild Wadi?

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Simply answer the question:

“What is Wild Wadi’s slogan?”

A. “I’m lovin it.” B. “Just do it.” C. “Life. Refreshed.”

D. “Impossible is nothing” Send your answer to competitions@motherbabychild.me Deadline of submission is on August 15, 2012.

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blood donation* summer special* hereditary disease* cysts & infections*

Queasy about the ‘bloody’ details

World Blood Donor Day

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Blood is the river of life. We can't live without blood or else the body's organs couldn't get the oxygen and nutrients they need to survive, we couldn’t fight infections, or get rid of our own waste products. Without enough blood, we'd weaken and die. People who undergo major surgeries, victims of accidents or those who are suffering from certain lifethreatening illnesses need blood to survive. In the olden days blood donation from relatives and friends seem to fill the bill; however, as people in need of good blood grow in number and as the nature of illnesses that afflict mankind multiply by such an astounding rate, there is always that ever present need for blood donors.

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Bloodletting, a scare or privilege?

If you are a healthy individual, what prevents you from donating blood? I asked around and here are the most common answers I got: • Fear of the needle. This is not surprising.

There are many macho men around who would pale and grow weak in the knees at the sight of a long needle and the thought of that needle piercing their body. But as experts say, the best way to fight our fears is to face them so… let’s face that needle!

• Fear of being rejected. True, not all who want to donate blood are qualified to do so.

But you will never know unless you try, right?

For all you know, the fear of rejection may be unfounded!

• Fear of being infected. Some people are still afraid of acquiring diseases thru the needle.

getting ready This fear could be put to rest by seeing to

What are the issues to be taken

it that you donate blood only to accredited

into careful consideration?

blood banks and/or hospitals. They not only

First and foremost to

practice top-calibre hygienic procedures but

be considered is the

they are manned by highly qualified health

health condition of

professionals.

the couple. If they are both healthy and

• Fear of losing blood. This fear is most

are not taking any

unfounded and based on lack of education

special medication

and information. The body is capable of

or undergoing delicate

replacing the blood that you donate and

fertility treatments there

besides, there is a prescribed quantity that

seems to be no reason to worry

can be donated, nothing more than that will

about donating blood. But a go-signal from

be taken from you.

their physician will not hurt. It is imperative to ensure that the wife is not yet pregnant if she is

Blood donors are true heroes – your one

to donate blood. Pregnant women should not

blood donation will be broken down into

donate blood because of their increased need

several components, enabling you, with

for nutrients, especially iron, during gestation.

just one donation, to save up to three lives!

Donating blood is not only a noble, safe and

For husbands, there is a life-saving benefit

healthy thing to do; blood donors also get a

to donating blood. Men are at higher risk

free mini physical, including blood pressure

for "hemochromatosis or iron overload" a

check, heart rate, temperature and iron

potentially deadly problem where too much

levels, and it's also the fastest and safest

iron builds up in the blood. Excess iron does

way to lose a pound!

not pass thru the waste system of the body; it accumulates in the liver, pancreas, joints and

The need for blood donors is ever present;

other internal organs including the testes; thus it

yet, not all donors are accepted. Since

can lead to heart disease and other major health

blood is the river of life, it is imperative

problems including infertility. Research shows

that only healthy blood is donated and

that if men give blood 3 times a year, they can

transfused to the needy patient. There are

reduce their iron overload and therefore their

stringent rules for blood donors; only those

risk of a heart attack by as much as 50 percent!

who pass the screening conducted by the Red Cross or the accredited blood banks

Whatever may be your guiding principle in

are accepted.

donating blood, it best to remember that the blood you donate will be saving lives. And who

Potential donors who meet these basic

knows… the life you save may be even be yours.

a mini physical examination prior to the bloodletting. Once the requirements are satisfied the donor spends at least an hour letting blood, and saving lots of lives.

Are you both apprehensive?

What if the husband or wife would like to donate blood whilst trying to get pregnant?

REFERENCES: The Infertility Handbook: The Complete Resource for Couples Longing to have a baby Angela I. Hutchins, 2011 Eligibility for Blood Donation: Recommendation for Education and Selection of Prospective Blood Donors Pan American Health Organization, 2009 27

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requirements will undergo screening and

getting ready | summer special

7 summer ‘musts’ It is summer again. The sweltering heat of the sun combined with the humid air makes staying outdoors (unless extremely necessary) very unpleasant.

Women trying to have a baby need to be extra careful this summer. Certain activities which appear to be strictly harmless could prove to be the grim reaper of your pregnancy dream... Curious? Read on.

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One trip you may find worth going to this season is to your physician. Have a thorough check-up to ensure that there is no medical impediment to your getting pregnant. Some

couples waste precious time trying to conceive, not knowing that they have fertility problems that need to be appropriately and immediately addressed.

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It’s vacation time and there’s a great opportunity to reignite romance between you and your hubby. Enjoy each other’s company, take walks in the park when the sun is down and

the weather has gotten cooler. Have fun. Don’t try too hard as stress could only make conception harder to achieve.

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If you are a working woman, and you do not have your own car, do your best to leave home early enough to avoid the harsh summer heat. Avoid crowded trains or buses where flu

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and other summer-borne diseases could be easily transmitted.

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Should you catch the flu or any summer-borne diseases, do not self-medicate. Consult your doctor for the best treatment option considering your desire to get pregnant.

REFERENCES: What to do When You Can’t Get Pregnant: The Complete Guide to all the Technologies for Couples Facing Fertility Problems Daniela A. Potter, MD and Jennifer S. Hanin, MA, 2005 28

Fertility Facts: Hundreds of Tips for Getting Pregnant Kim Hahn, 2008

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It is very easy to get dehydrated with the heat and undernourished with all the activities summer brings. Drink plenty of water and eat a balanced diet. Now, more than ever you must get enough of the

following fertility-enhancing nutrients: vitamins D, C, B and E antioxidants, folic acid, zinc, selenium and omega-3 fatty acids.

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Summer can also make a couch potato out of you. Lack of physical activity due to the oppressive heat and the temptation of indulging in sweet, ice cold drinks could add unwanted

pounds to your unsuspecting body. Summer can make you lazy enough to forego your exercise regimen; remember that exercise does not only make you healthy it also helps you de-stress.

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The season can make your skin dry. Stick to your old, reliable body lotion or moisturizer. New products may contain substances that you are unknowingly allergic to. Treatment of

allergies can complicate your plan to conceive.

Of course avoiding stress, alcoholic beverages and unwanted chemicals in the air are general, practical tips that must be gravely considered by mummy hopefuls all year round. Have fun, stay in shape and enjoy summer!

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" You deserve a break , walk-in to us and pamper your self "

getting ready | hereditary disease

Ensure your baby is free from any hereditary disease Single gene disorders are genetic conditions caused by the alteration or mutation of a specific gene. They are hereditary and therefore individuals with a family history of a single gene disorder may pass the condition onto their children. Some of the most common single gene disorders include Beta-thalassemia, Sickle Cell Anemia, Spinal muscular atrophy and Metabolic disorders to name a few. A field expert from Fakih IVF answers the following frequently asked questions on hereditary diseases: Q: Can a couple pass a genetic disease running in their family onto their children even if they don't show any symptoms?

genetic disease. As for a dominant genetic disease, the chances are higher for the child to become affected.”

Q: How can a couple ensure that their child is 100 percent free of their genetic disorder?

A: “Once a couple decides to have a baby, they should consult a fertility expert and request a test for the specific gene disorder running in their family. The test is called Pre-implantation Genetic Diagnosis (PGD), also known as "embryo screening". It is the application of genetic testing on a live embryo to determine the presence of a specific gene before placing the embryo in the womb. In order to carry out a PGD test, the couple will have to conceive through an in

A: “A person who is a carrier will look normal and

vitro (IVF) procedure so that the embryos will

not develop the disease, but may pass it onto

be assessed in the lab. Only embryos that are

their children. To find out if you are a carrier you

completely free from the genetic disease or

will need to have a blood test done, where the DNA of the

disorder are selected and transferred to the mother’s womb. By doing this we ensure that

cell is tested.”

no defect or abnormal genes will be passed

Q: If one or both parents

onto the child.”

are carriers, then what

Q: Is there any possibility that the single

are the chances of them conceiving an affected baby?

A: “If both parents are carriers, then each child has a 25 percent chance of having the disease, a 25 percent chance of being free mother, baby & child june 2012

free of the disease. This applies to a recessive

of the disease, and a 50 percent

gene disorder will reappear in the offspring of those children born through this technique (IVF with PGD)?

A: “Not at all. The child will be completely free of the disorder, and in the future the children of those children will also be free of the same.”

chance of being a carrier. If only Any single gene disorder with a known one parent is a carrier, then mutation could be accepted at Fakih IVF for each child has a 50 percent PGD. chance of being a carrier

and 50 percent chance of being 30

For more information about Fakih IVF or to book an appointment, please visit www.fakihivf.com

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Most women conceive without any effort. Others need extra care and even medical treatment, whilst some are simply unable to get pregnant. And having cysts and infections are the last thing a couple looking forward to the start of having a family would ever want to impede that very dream. Thing is, there are times that these ‘unwanted’ factors really do occur.

getting ready | cysts & infections Growths you wouldn’t like

are linked to ovarian cancer particularly for

The most common threats to fertility are

women over the age of 50.

ovarian cysts for the female and infections for both male and female. Ovarian cysts that

Women, even the most hygienic ones,

could cause infertility are Endometriomas or

may be prone to such a predicament. Dr

cysts caused by endometriosis, a condition

Kinda Dargam, a practitioner of obstetrics

in which the tissue normally lining the uterus

and gynaecology, sheds light on this...

(endometrium) grows outside the uterus,

“There are many kinds of cysts and most

and ovarian cysts resulting from polycystic

of them are not a form of infection. Some

ovaries. Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS)

may happen to any woman in reproductive

is a condition marked by many small cysts in

age such as functional cysts. Pathologic

the ovaries, irregular periods and high levels

cysts (like endometriosis, also known as

of certain hormones. PCOS does contribute

chocolate cysts) and masses may also

to problems with fertility in some women.

occur,” she explains. Functional cysts may

Ovarian cysts are usually characterised by

be avoidable by taking oral contraceptive

pelvic and abdominal pain, feeling of fullness

pills whilst cysts such as endometriosis

in the pelvic region, irregular and/or painful

(which can prevent conception) may require

periods, painful intercourse and difficulty in

medications or even surgery.

urinating. Unfortunately not all women with ovarian cysts experience these symptoms

‘Invasion’ just as bad

hence the condition remains untreated for

Infection, on the other hand, is the

a considerable length of time. Aside from

invasion of body tissues by disease-causing

being a cause of infertility, some ovarian cysts

microorganisms, their multiplication and the reaction of body tissues to these microorganisms and the toxins that they produce. Dr Dargam enumerates the various kinds of genital infections that may affect a woman: • Fungal infection which already exists in this area in low concentration and for some reason, such as taking antibiotics, it increases in growth. It may cause an itching, burning sensation accompanied by a thick, white and scattered genital discharge.

The wet weather and the use of daily pads which prevent vagina from breathing.

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getting ready treatment. At times, bacteria migrating from

unprotected intercourse; Remember that

the anus cause this problem.

an ounce of prevention is always better than a pound of cure.

• STDs (like Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea) which are transmitted from the partner requires

In situations where cysts or infections

treatment to both the husband and the wife.

are found to be the cause of your fertility problem fear not. Your physician is fully

Delicate reproductive tissues can be damaged

equipped to provide you with the most

by inflammations that accompany even mild

appropriate treatment possible, to remedy

infection. As a result, infection can interrupt

your condition.

reproduction at any stage, starting with the development of the germ cell to the viability and ultimate survival of the new born. The problem becomes more complex when the infection is undetected. Screening for infections is vital for all couples wanting to conceive. While the couple cannot do anything to remedy whatever happened in the past especially during their youth, the infection screening process could help rule out that their fertility concerns are not due to undetected or untreated infections. It is known that in

CREDITS & REFERENCES: Dr Kinda Dargam GP Obstetrics and Gynaecology Emirates Hospital 02 446 6422 Fertility and Pregnancy: An Epidemiologic Perspective Allen J. Wilcox, 2010 Living Laboratories: Women and Reproductive Technologies Boost Your Fertility: New Solutions for Conceiving Quickly and Having a Healty Pregnancy as soon as possible Marilyn Glenville, PhD

problems of infertility, a third is traceable to the wife, a third attributable to the husband and the other third, due to unknown causes.

Since infection may afflict both the husband and the wife, the couple should be screened for infection. Sadly some women become infertile due to the use of contraceptive devices in the past. One of the most common problems that threaten female fertility is blockage of the fallopian tube due to infection arising from the use of intrauterine device (IUD). Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) is also another leading cause of fertility in women.

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infections, it goes without saying that living

pregnancy myths* summer special* post-term pregnancy*

Is it safe?

(Revisiting pregnancy myths anew) In our earlier issues, we have discussed the outrageous superstitions around the world about pregnancy. Some sounded quite plausible, but others got us giggling too. However, since they are instilled in our cultures and beliefs, we give that degree of respect so as not to upset our elders – anyway, what’s there to lose with some extra precautions, right?

But it is not just the olden days that impose a list of prohibitions on mother, baby & child june 2012

pregnant women. In fact, our modern lifestyle are also affected by these so-called “no-no’s”. Which of them are true? Which of them aren’t? And which of them offer half-truths too? Let’s find out together, shall we?

Big pregnancy no-no #1: Wearing nail polish The chemicals being used in nail polish cannot be absorbed through the nails in any significant amounts. What is worrisome, however, is breathing the fumes from the nail polish and the nail polish remover. These contain organic solvents that may be harmful if inhaled for long periods or in enclosed spaces. Avoid applying nail polish (or removing it for that matter) in small, poorly ventilated areas.

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Big pregnancy no-no #2: Standing in front of the microwave Non-ionising radiation from microwave ovens cannot directly affect the cells in the developing foetus. Also, it cannot affect the cells in your body. Unless you get to fit yourself inside the microwave oven and have it turned on, there is no way that it could hurt you.

Big pregnancy no-no #5: Taking out cat litter Perhaps the source of this ‘myth’ is the fear that Toxoplasmosis (a parasite with a complex life cycle) may be passed from the mother to her child. And cats may be affected with it. Based on a US research, though, toxoplasmosis complicates only about one in 10,000 pregnancies.

Big pregnancy no-no #3: Painting the baby’s room If you work in a well-ventilated room and take frequent breaks, then this shouldn’t be a cause of alarm. Of course, climbing ladders (and risking a bad fall) should be avoided. But merely occasional exposure to pain and paint thinner shouldn’t put the pregnancy at risk. Being exposed to it on a daily or almost just as often can, however.

Wearing globes and well-fitting masks may reduce the danger. Also, painting over old lead-based paint (which was prevalent until the late 70s) isn’t a good idea.

Big pregnancy no-no #4: Using certain shampoos and soaps that could harm the body. Since shampoos and soaps don’t last on your skin long, the risk of having them threaten the baby

REFERENCE: The Panic-Free Pregnancy Michael S. Broder, 2004

in the womb is remote. Even if chemicals are absorbed into the bloodstream, the placenta will do its job to block them out.

Going go “all- natural” products may be based on other reasons, but certainly (and not scientifically) to harm your baby.

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The skin keeps out all negative elements

on the way

Feeling hot, hot, hot!

Heat and pregnancy don’t really go well, right? The last thing you need when expecting is getting uncomfortable and look unflattering... So here's a run down of what's in store for you this hot season. Find your fun with what’s under the sun!

Choose the right SPF for you!

Bioderma recommends the following to various skin types: Fair skin, freckles, red

Always subject to

hair

sunburn

SPF 100

Light to medium skin

Easily tans and subject

SPF 50+

to sunburn during intense exposure to sunlight Dark brown to black

Easily tans and never

SPF 30to

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skin

burns

50+

Photoderm product that

Light skin, blonde

Frequently subject to

SPF 50+ to

best suits your skin type

sunburn

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and enjoy the beach!

Enjoy walking in the mall!

Walking is a good form of exercise whilst waiting for your due date. Since the blistering heat outdoors would be very limiting for you, the next place that is most accessible for you would the mall. Luckily, the Oasis Centre along Sheikh Zayed Road has just launched the Women’s Day Out promotion to 25 percent EVERY WEDNESDAY! Shop for your maternity outfits, avail mum-to-be wellness services or simply go on a retail therapy with over 30 establishments giving special offers!

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on the way | summer special

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Should I or shouldn’t I panic?

(Facing post-term pregnancy with composure) Panic is never a desirable reaction to any situation in life, more so if it involves pregnancy.

A calm disposition is required for pregnant women especially those who are first-time moms. To ensure safe pregnancy and delivery, your pregnancy should be carefully monitored by your physician so that abnormalities or irregularities are immediately detected and appropriate action are taken. However post-term pregnancy should not be taken lightly. This occurs when a baby has not yet been born after 42 weeks of gestation, 2 weeks beyond the normal 40. Alos, it may be a reason to induce labour...

Why is it delayed?

The causes of post-term pregnancies are unknown; however certain maternal demographic factors have been related to prolonged pregnancy such as higher socio-economic class, prior post-term pregnancy, and sedentary lifestyle. Women who have gestational diabetes or history of diabetes frequently are also prone to have post-term pregnancies.

According to Emirates Hospital’s Dr Kinda Dargam, “Some of these prolonged pregnancies have inaccurate dates so the expected dates of delivery are not true. But it is better to visit her doctor because some conditions may need close observation. At times, induction of labour may be elected if the placenta is not providing enough high blood pressure.”

Different babies have different symptoms of postmaturity. The most common symptoms are: dry skin, overgrown nails, creases on the baby’s palms and soles of his or her feet, minimal fat, a lot of hair on the head and either a brown, green or yellow discoloration of the skin.

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nutrition to the baby or if the mother is diabetic or with

on the way | post-term pregnancy However some post-mature babies show little sign of post-maturity Both the baby and the mother are at risk in post-term pregnancy. For the mother there is increased psychological stress and greater possibility of forceps-assisted or caesarean birth considering that post-term babies are generally larger than an average baby? The baby on the other hand is exposed to: • Reduced placental perfusion –Towards the end of pregnancy calcium is deposited on the walls of the blood vessels and proteins are deposited on the surface of the placenta which changes the placenta. This limits the blood flow through the placenta and ultimately leads

beat; normal heart beat will not require

to placental insufficiency. When the baby is no

induced labour

longer properly nourished, induced labour is encouraged.

• Ultrasound scan – This evaluates the amount of amniotic fluid around the baby.

• Oligohydramnios – excess amniotic fluid can

If the placenta is deteriorating, then the

lead to cord compression which can cause

amount of fluid will be low and induced

acute and chorionic foetal hypoxia and death

labour is highly recommended. However,

• Maconium aspiration

ultra sounds are not always accurate since they also monitor the foetus’ development

• Large foetal size

and if the foetus is smaller than normal

• Foetal dysmaturity

the doctor’s guess at the age can be quite off. The actual placenta won’t start to

Is it enough to cause alarm?

deteriorate until about 48 weeks.

Panic is not the answer to post-term pregnancy;

• Doppler Flow Study – This is a type of

instead, measures must be taken to ensure

ultrasound that measures the amount of

whether a pregnancy is actually post-term.

blood flowing in and out of the placenta.

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These include: • Foetal movement recording – Regular

“Expectant mothers who have passed

movements of the baby are the best sign

the due date should consult the doctor,

indicating that it is still in good health. The

perform an ultrasound to confirm that the

mother is advised to maintain a “kick-chart”

baby is ok and the water is still enough. He

to record the movements of her baby. Less

or she will also perform CTG (non stress

than 10 movements in 2 hours is not a good

test) and weighing if waiting for the natural

sign and a doctor should be contacted as a

delivery or intervention is the best option

reduction in the number of movements could

depending on the situation of the baby and

indicate placental deterioration.

the mother,” explains Dr Dargam. Labour

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on the way

Honey, my water bag broke! ...Or did it?

Dr Kinda Dargam of the Emirates hospital answers our questions regarding ‘false alarms’.

Q: How do mothers-to-be really know if their water bag broke or it’s just a false alarm?

a mother who miscalculated her last period, the baby could actually be born too early.

Women that have first trimester bleeding or irregular periods are most affected by this.

When a baby is thought to be post-term but is actually born too early, it is called late pre-term. Late pre-term babies may have jaundice, trouble with feeding or breathing, or difficulty maintaining a normal body temperature.

“I advise to count baby movements. They should be more than 10 in a day. And do some walking,” she adds. Given all these information the best course of action for a pregnant woman is to submit herself to the care of her obstetrician who will conduct maternal monitoring to avoid complications that could harm the mom and the child.

CREDITS & REFERENCES: Dr Kinda Dargam GP Obstetrics and Gynaecology Emirates Hospital 02 446 6422 Obstetrics and Gynecology Recall F. John Burgeois, Megan J. Bray and Catherine A. Matthews, 2008 Management of High Risk Pregnancy: A Practical Approach SS Trivedi and Manjo Puri

A: “The rupture of the baby (water) bag presents sudden water leakage from the genitalia or by a watery discharge. It is not easy even for a doctor sometimes to confirm but if this happens for one time, then stopped and the baby movement are still good, it may only be a urine leakage or genital discharge. I advise the patient to consult the doctor.”

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the new family xxx music &| healing*

teaching independence* stroke awareness* summer special*

‘Harmony’ at home Music is the language of the soul. It brings out the deepest emotion of man; it is a balm that soothes tired bodies and weary minds. It is a gift that not everyone is blessed with. My family has been inclined with music for as long as I can remember. From my parents all the way to my kids, we are a bunch of music lovers. Soniyaa Kiran Punjabi, Founder of Illuminations Well-being Center, explains its different levels of importance: “There may be several reasons why music is important for a family’s wellbeing. Musical sounds create a rhythm that helps ease stress and promote a sense of relaxation. Music brings people together as it can be interactive as it may facilitate dancing or playing an instrument. Music can be hypnotic in a sense as soft soothing music can alter the brain wave and help people go deeper into the core of their being. People connect with music as there is one for every occasion and every emotion.”

Music heals To prove how it heals the soul, I could look back at that time when my mother, baby & child june 2012

father was very ill. I would sing to him and I would begin to notice his body relax... And then it will get tensed again when I’d stop. And that is why for as long as he lived, I sang to him.

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the new family with our friends and children as well as to play various musical instruments. It brings us closer and helps release the stresses that came our way during the past week. Little did we know that it can actually be coined as ‘therapeutic!’ “It is therapeutic to play musical instruments as it stimulates their sense of co-ordination and creativity. It is a beautiful means through which people can express themselves and create pieces that come from a place of inspiration. It helps promote self confidence and esteem,” Punjabi adds.

Love for music can be taught. Parents can teach their children to appreciate music and hone their talents. You may not be a great singer but there is music in your soul just waiting to be unleashed. You can nurture your child’s musical development by being involved. Parents can become role models for their children by taking music lessons with them or by making music together.

Music plays a prominent role in the life of children; this is true then and it is true now.

Music emerges almost magically from them;

notes correctly and of laughing at our off

intuitively and naturally, children respond

key tones contribute to our child’s musical

to music as they communicate through it.

education

Remember the chants for jumping rope and clapping hands? The music played with

When the time is ripe, we can introduce our

friends using homemade instruments?

children to formal music education. This will involve determination of when to start, what to study, where to enrol and the cost of the

Parents can seed their children’s love for

formal music lesson. Before embarking on

music by exposing them to music of all

this endeavour, however, it is best to have

kinds. By simply singing together or by

a firm commitment from your child that he

taking your children with you to watch

is interested in taking formal music lessons

musical performances or by playing music

and that he is committed to learn. Do not

in the car radio, the children’s musical

force him to take a music course just because

awareness is enhanced. As one author aptly

you want to re-live your dream for yourself.

observed, our kids feel better about their

Perhaps as an introduction to the formal music

own “squawks” if we “squawk” with them.

education your child can join your church’s

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choir. Here he will be taught the proper way of singing and the regular rehearsals will enhance his sense of discipline.

Lastly, Punjabi heartens parents to bring out the musicians in their kids. “I would encourage parents to allot some ‘music time’ for the family, as it would create a great opportunity to become closer as a family and strengthen the bond between members. It encourages family members to express themselves and be who they are in a safe and secure environment,” she says. Their parents are the children’s partner in progress and should encourage their children to strive for excellence but should not push them to perfection. Parents should help turn mistakes into opportunities for learning. And when you have to give praise, be sincere, specific, generous and discreet.

World Music Day June 21

CREDITS & REFERENCES: Soniyaa Kiran Punjabi Founder Illuminations Well-being Center 04 448 7043 Soniyaa@illuminationsworld.com

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the new family | teaching independence

They’re no longer babies…

(Raising independent kids)

Parents, particularly first timers, tend to be overprotective of their child.

They want to provide the precious baby with all the good things of life and more importantly, to save them from the evils of this world. If only parents can keep their child in a safety bubble where they can grow, play, rest and learn with utmost security, I suppose they would. And who can blame them? As parents, our role is to also teach our children to know right from wrong, consideration and respect for others and how to make the most of their talents and teach them how to continually enlarge their horizon so that they need not be afraid to face the outside world.

Letting them be We have to allow our children the privilege

years before they had children tend to spoil

of learning from their honest mistakes. But

their children and do everything they can

when a child repeatedly commits the same

for them. This may be good while the child

mistake then something must be amiss and

is very young and is unable to tend to his

parents should take to heart the proper

own needs but as he grows up, he should

guidance of their

be taught how to do things for himself like

before it is too

child late.

pick up his toys when he is done playing or

Some parents

how to put on socks or tie his shoe laces. If

especially

the doting mother will do all these for the

those who

child he will grow up totally dependent on

waited

the services of others. Never mind if the laces are not properly tied or the socks are put on wrong side out; he will learn how to correct his tiny mistakes and will be very proud of his achievements especially when the parents praise him for a good job done.

The parents’ attitude and behaviour plays a great role in training a child to be independent. It is important to remember

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to do by themselves. They have be taught and

parent and one who is overprotective and

guided.

who smother the child with suffocating

• Our expectations should be age appropriate.

attention. The first type will nurture the child’s We cannot expect a three year old to be doing quest for independence but the latter will

things that a seven year old can competently

stifle whatever spark of independence the

accomplish.

• Parents should agree on how to raise their

A child who can dress and undress himself

kids and how and when to start teaching

with ease will be easier to train to use the

them to be independent. It is never good for

toilet and feel competent at the same time.

one parent to take the side of the child who

So do not fret if he does not know how to

refuses to do some basic things for himself.

button his shirt (he will learn eventually) or

• Parents should not argue about the

if his undergarments are wrong side out and

discipline route to take before the child else

he does not care to put his dirty clothes in

the little one will learn to seek the support of

the hamper; just teach him. Little by little he

the “lenient” parent when things get rough

will know what to do and gradually he will be

for him.

able to competently dress and undress himself

• Teaching a child to do things for himself

and use the bathroom when he needs to go.

requires a lot of patience, understanding and

Parents should appreciate and reward acts of

love. You just can’t tell the child it’s time to

independence by their children, to encourage

be independent, and go do what they need

them to be more competent.

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child has.

the new family | teaching independence Allowing opportunities

explore the world. Independence is stifled

It is also a big help if there is no one who will do

when a parent insists on doing everything

the job for him. Usually if there is a nanny who

for a child or by not offering opportunities

takes care of the child, she will do everything for

for independent activity”. Furthermore she

him so that he will be happy and content. That is

advises parents to “ set up opportunities

a very wrong notion and children who have been

for independent behaviour by deciding on

pampered and doted upon by their parents and

an age appropriate activity, perhaps doing

their caregivers tend to grow up totally dependent

some initial teaching and then encouraging

on the protection and provisions of others to their

the child to take part such as an infant is

own disadvantage.

encouraged to walk unaided when they show maturational signs of being ready

Dr Jessica Lee, Clinical Psychologist at Infinity-

to do so. A young child is encouraged to

the Family Clinic confirms these observations.

play with other children.”

According to Dr Lee, “The biggest difference in the type of parenting approach used is parental

We all love our children. We want them

expectation of behaviour. As the child grows we

to succeed, to be happy and productive.

can expect more from them in terms of their ability

Children who are able to do things for

to manage their behaviour. Parents can help their

themselves with minimal supervision, those

child to become more independent by offering

who are able to share in the housework

them safe and age appropriate opportunities to

and responsibilities at home bring not only pride and joy to their parents, but more importantly, give their parents an assurance that they have been raised well and that they can be relied upon to take on more responsibilities not only at home but also in school and the community at large.

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Dr Jessica Lee Clinical Psychologist Infinity – The Family Clinic 04 394 8994 The New Baby Answer Book: From Birth to Kindergarten Answers to the Top 150 Questions About Raising a Young Child Robin Goldstein and Janet Gallant, 2009 Raising Happy Children for Dummies Sue Atkins

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Stroke: a tyrant to its victims, young and old

Carlos, a highly technical individual, had his first stroke when he was 56 years old; the infarct was on the left side of his brain and it affected his speech as well as his ability to read and write. It happened at the crack of dawn, he was rushed to the Emergency Unit of the nearest hospital and he was forthwith brought to the ICU. After months of therapy and self-will, Carlos was able to walk as though he didn’t suffer from a massive stroke. But his ability to write and do calculations did not return‌ He could still sign his name, but that is all about it. The mathematician‌ the guy who does not need a calculator to do his math was rendered incapable and even unable to count past ten! their then one-year-old son fatherless.

to heart disease as the biggest cause

According to statistics, Cardiovascular

of death in the country? On a global

Diseases (CVD) which includes

scale, it is the most common cause of lifelong

hypertension, coronary heart disease,

disability. And whilst Carlos had it when he was

strokes, peripheral vascular disease, hear

past fifty, one woman became a widow at 23

failure, rheumatic

when her 27-year-old husband succumbed to

heart disease,

his first stroke leaving

congenital

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id you know that stroke ranks second

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heart disease and cardiomyopathies, and Circulatory Problems such as stroke and

The researchers found that almost one in

atherosclerosis is 31.4 percent of all deaths in the

three ischemic stroke patients 15 to 34

UAE.

years old, and over half of those 35 to 44, had high blood pressure. In addition,

What is stroke?

one-fourth of the patients 15 to 34 years

In layman’s term, stroke is an injury to the brain

old who had ischemic strokes also had

and is characterized by sudden loss of function

diabetes. Among those female patients

of a particular part of the body due to sudden

15 to 34, one in four was smokers, as

interruption of blood flow to a part of the brain.

was one in three males aged 15 to 44.

Although it can affect people of all ages it is most

Moreover, many had high cholesterol

common among the elderly. A stroke may either

and were obese. Earlier studies found

be ischaemic or hemorrhagic. An ischaemic stroke

that stroke in teens and young adults

occurs when there is a blockage in the blood

accounted for 5 percent to 10 percent of

vessel carrying blood to the brain. The blockage

all strokes, and that it is one of the top 10

stops the blood from getting into the brain thus

causes of childhood death. Traditionally,

destroying the part of the brain supplied by

strokes in the very young have usually

that artery. If the disturbance to the brain is not

been caused by different factors than

remedied within a few hours that part of the brain

those in older people. For adults,

may die. Less commonly the artery could burst

advancing age is a major stroke risk

and blood spurts out into the brain tissue or over

factor, with rates approximately doubling

the brain causing bruising in or over the brain.

for every decade over age 55 years.

This condition is known as a hemorrhagic stroke.

Although about a third of strokes occur in persons under age 65, rates in children

Dr Ali Aslani, General Practitioner at the Emirates

and young adults tend to be quite low,”

Hospital, explains why now more than ever,

he continues.

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stroke effects the younger generation: “Local medical experts have said that one in two deaths

Cause & prevention

in the UAE are caused by cardiovascular diseases

The risk factors for a stroke are high

and that the first cardio event (stroke) occurs at

blood pressure, high cholesterol,

around 45, which is 10 to 15 years earlier than

smoking, diabetes and increasing age.

the international average of 55 to 60. During

Heart rhythm disturbances like atrial

the past years, researchers noted a rise in stroke

fibrillation, patent foramen ovale, and

among youth. They discovered that diabetes,

heart valve disease can also be a cause of

cholesterol and tobacco use “has also increased

stroke. When strokes occur in younger

in adolescents and young adults experiencing

individuals (less than 50 years old), less

stroke.” According to statistics, the number of

common risk factors to be considered

people aged 15 to 44 hospitalised for stroke

include illicit drugs, such as cocaine or

jumped by more than third only between 1995

amphetamines, ruptured aneurysms,

and 2008. The increase may be due partly to the

and inherited (genetic) predispositions

increasing numbers of young people who have

to abnormal blood clotting. Given the

diseases, such as high blood pressure and type 2

above risk factors, what can we do to

diabetes – diseases usually associated with older

prevent a stroke?

adults.

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the new family • Quit smoking • Control blood pressure • Healthy diet and regular exercise • Take cholesterol-lowering drugs when necessary • Opening up blocked arteries • Taking drugs that reduce blood clotting • Taking homocysteine with vitamins A person at high risk of stroke can reduce the risk by 75 percent by adhering to the above preventive measures. Smoking is the most important risk factor for stroke because it is completely curable. A person who stops smoking cuts his risk of having a stroke by half within a period of six months!

The other measures involve the use of medicines and even surgical procedures that are quite expensive. It is believed that exercise can also prevent stroke since it has been proven to reduce the incidence of heart attacks, increase HDL (the good cholesterol in the body) and improve insulin and diabetes resistance.

When at the workplace, Dr Aslani says, “Studies suggest that a brief workplace stress management intervention can produce clinically significant reductions in BP and improve emotional health among hypertensive Employees and also decrease the risk of stroke. Implications are that such interventions may produce a healthier and more productive Workforce, enhancing

Emirate Hospital’s Dr Ali Aslani shares the most common factors of stroke in the UAE and offered scenarios for each: High blood pressure is the single most important risk factor for stroke and it also plays a significant role in the development of heart attacks.

Type 2 diabetes is a major risk factor for coronary heart disease and stroke. The incidence of type 2 diabetes is increasing globally and the UAE has one of the highest rates (18.7 percent). Having diabetes doubles the risk for cardiovascular disease and uncontrolled diabetes increases the risk of premature CVD. In pre-menopausal women, diabetes cancels out the protective effect of estrogens and their risk of heart disease rises significantly.

Smoking risk is significantly high in young and heavy smokers and in woman. Passive smoking is also a risk factor for cardiovascular disease.

Abnormal blood lipids - high levels of total cholesterol, low-density lipoprotein (LDL) cholesterol and triglycerides or low levels of high-density lipoprotein (HDL) cholesterol increase the risk of heart disease and stroke.

Physical inactivity increases the risk of heart disease and stroke by 50 percent and regular physical activity is known to increases life span. A middle-aged woman doing less than one hour of exercise per week doubles her risk of dying from a cardiovascular event compared to a physically active woman of the same age.

Obesity is a major risk factor for cardiovascular disease as it predisposes to diabetes, hypertension and atherosclerosis, all of which increase the risk of cardiovascular disease.

A diet high in saturated fat also increases the risk of heart disease and stroke.

Though moderate alcohol intake is supposedly beneficial for heart health, excessive alcohol can damage the heart muscle.

performance and reducing losses to the decline, illness, and premature mortality.”

After all has been said and done. It is quite obvious that living a healthy life is the key to avoiding stroke as well as the other dreaded diseases. To add, a regular relaxation time will also do wonders particularly for people who live a particularly stressful life. Don’t allow the tyrant to steal your life from under your feet! Fight stroke and start today...

REFERENCES: Dr Ali Aslani General Practitioner Emirates Hospital 04-3496666 Stroke:Your Questions Answered Graemae J. Hankey, 2002 Stroke Richard I. Lindley, 2008 How to Prevent Your Stroke J. David Spence, MD, 2006 55

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organization resulting from Cognitive

the new family | summer special

Super Dooper summer!

Nadine Chammaz Bekhaazi, Founder & Managing Partner of Super Dooper, gives us reasons why spending the warm months are cooler at their family edutainment centre!

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very morning, a fun, creative and unique summer camp awaits children from 3 to 10 years of age. Each week, a different theme spices up the activities such as Red Indians week, Hawaiian week and 80s week! A ‘Thursday Fiesta’ will be staged by

the kids to showcase their theme-based sewing and card-making projects, as well as dance and theatrical performances. Adding to the fun are the puppet shows and lots of exciting workshops like public speaking, singing, fashion designing, make up artistry and more!

During the afternoons, kids are taken back to basics and allowed to enjoy imaginative and creative activities away from the daily habits of watching TV and playing electronic games.

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Children and their parents can enrol together in Super Dooper’s Sewing, Scrapbooking and Acting workshops. Sewing and scrapbooking creations will form part of an exhibition that will showcase their creativity and originality.

Mothers can have their own artistic ‘me-time’ via their Ceramic Coffee Mornings every Monday and Wednesday. Share the goings on of motherhood with fellow women whilst

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making your own home decors and collectibles. Over the weekends, special in-house events take place such as the fairy godmother visit, the Pit Stop for the boys and dads Saturday mornings and Disco Party mother and daughter girls night out every Friday Night!

“We care about the community. We offer services for everybody – all age groups. We have our place dedicate to both parents (fathers and mothers) and kids. It’s not just a place for playing, where parents leave their kids.

Here we value family time and having fun while learning. We highlight creativity. They can share precious moments while make their scrapbook as a family. The can relive those beautiful memories. When they paint a ceramic, they always have someone in mind to give it to... For the dads, we have the racing circuit where they can enjoy time with their sons,” says

They say they inculcate the values of creativity and learning to the whole family... We say they teach more than that... They encourage the value of thoughtfulness and quality time which goes a long, long way for a child.

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Nadine.

summer special* mother's voice* early signs*

Your baby's first summer!

When we become parents, we start to become very conscious (even obsessed) about how our children’s bunch of ‘firsts’ would be. Let these following items be part of the must-haves for your babe’s first summer ever!

First sunglasses!

Never too early to get trendy! Db Babies is now offering the fabulous Julbo sunglasses!

This super cute summer ‘must’ comes in three sizes, from 0 to 18 months, 12 to 24 months and 2 to 4 years of age. What’s great about these glasses is that there are

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no hinges that can be broken, no top or bottom – either way up is fine! They also come with an amazing strap to keep them on too! Shop at Db Babies in Town Centre or on www.dbbabies.com. The Julbo sunglasses are only AED 199!

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First sun protection products!

Trust a product that midwives trust! With its olive oil and milk proteins, the Sanosan Baby sun protection range is highly recommended by midwives. All formulations have been dermatologically tested for skin tolerance and carefully selected with mostly natural ingredients. As a baby skin is a lot more sensitive, it is essential to choose the right sunscreen for them – which has to have an SPF of at least 30! Sanosan products meet this requirement plus the following characteristics: no scents or preservatives, a combination of mineral and chemical SPFs (so as to provide UVA protection) and extra water-resistance. Find them at Al Manarah Pharmacy.

First swimming accessory!

Being able to swim is very important for children in exploring new experiences and spending memorable time with friends.

And for them to establish a lifelong positive feeling with water, baby swimming is very much suggested by experts. Freds Swim’s Swimtrainer “Classic” offers a guide as the children masters the perfect leg movement since the legs are the motor for motion in the water. Learning this has to come first before the use of arms and breathing its inflatable compartments and stable, slipfree safety belt. Freds Swim products are available in HAMAC stores across Dubai and in their online store: www.swimtrainer.ae

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Meredith was on her early twenties when she delivered her baby prematurely. When she found out that she was pregnant, she showed a brave face but was deeply worried – is she ready for this? Her OB-GYN specialist said that there is a great chance for her child to be delivered prematurely and true enough, she had labour pains and finally delivered through caesarean section on the 7th month of her pregnancy. It almost broke her and her husband’s hearts to see their daughter, so tiny with so many tubes and needles attached to her doll-like body. It was only years later that her father confessed his fear that his granddaughter might not survive at all!

During pregnancy,

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when the mum talks to the baby in her womb, there’s this recognition of her voice hence the bond begins early. She would tell her yet to be born child how much she loves

in focus: birth her, discussed how her day went, her hopes and dreams of her daughter’s future. When there were tinges of stress inside the womb, she’d play soothing music and – at times – would sing herself. She believes continuing this practice whilst her baby was still in the NICU helped the fragile angel to survive this tough ordeal.

Helping save a preemie Such conviction such as hers is now supported by studies which show that merely talking to the newborn helps build language, vocabulary and early stimulation of premature babies. This leads to good performance in social and learning environments. The bond between mother and child is something that cannot be defined nor explained. It just exists. And this bond helps nurture the child to grow into a healthy, happy child. This is true for full term babies and preemies as well. Studies show that the newborn baby, particularly the premature one, have a distinct relationship with sounds and music. It is also known that newborns prefer the female voices over the male voices and prefer their mother’s voice over other women’s voice.

Premature babies in the neonatal intensive care unit have been known to turn to the direction of their mothers’ voice! How wonderful it is then when the mom speaks to and sings to her child!

Some of the more commonly used stimulation in the NICU includes lullabies, womb sound music as well as the mother’s speaking and singing voice. Research has shown that high pitches tend to create tension or excitement while low pitches (such as the mom’s soft, soothing voice) tend to relax the child. All these contribute to the baby’s

Simulation or MSS) led to an overall lower chance of acquiring cardio-respiratory related cases. Researchers found that premature babies are less likely to stop breathing or have their heart rate slow dangerously when listening to recordings of their mother’s voice and heartbeat.

Maternal voice and heartbeat sounds were recorded individually for 14 preterm infants and were then played four times per a 24-hour period through an audio system installed in the infants’ beds. The infants experienced fewer cardio respiratory events when they heard the maternal sounds, compared to routine hospital sounds and noises. Although the study was small, its authors note that it provides preliminary evidence that premature infants show shortterm improvements in physiological stability when listening to maternal sounds.

It is a blessing that scientific research on ways to improve development of premature babies is a continuing process. The effect of music and sound, particularly the mother’s voice on the development of premature babies is a much later development and has helped a lot of preemies develop normally sans medication. Truly, the best things in life are free. A loving mother’s soothing voice provides the child with a feeling of comfort that no expensive apparatus can ever replace.

Coupled with the mother’s tender touch, a child will grow secure under a mantle of love and affection.

The miracle of a mum’s voice A research led by Amir Lahav, Director of the Neonatal Research Lab at Brigham and Women’s Hospital showed how exposing a premature baby to an audio recording of the mother’s heartbeat and voice (a method called Maternal Sound

CREDITS & REFERENCE: Music Therapy for Premature and Newborn Infants Edited by Monica Nocker-Ribaupierre, 2004 Music Medicine & Miracles: How to Provide Medical Music Therapy for Pediatric Patients and Get Paid for It Amy Robertson, MM, MT, BC, NICU MT, 2009 61

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sense of security, safety and strength.

in focus: birth | early signs

Determining autism from the first year Parents long for a healthy, normal child. First time parents are understandably excited and at the same time anxious about how their first child will turn out to be. You can’t fault them for checking the baby out: ten fingers, ten toes, two hands and two feet. To find out that their precious child is not going to grow up the way they dreamed he or she would gives a pain like no other. It is believed that autism presents itself during the first three years of a person's life. Autism is a wide spectrum disorder, meaning to say no two people with autism will exhibit exactly the same signs, with the same intensity. Kids with autism act in unusual ways. They flap their hands, say certain words over and over, they scream and have temper tantrums. They live in a world of their own.

Early signs “Autism involves a variety of developmental delays, so keeping a close eye on when— or if—your child is hitting the key social, emotional, and cognitive milestones is an effective way to spot the problem early on. While developmental delays don’t automatically point to autism, they may indicate a heightened risk,” reiterates specialist paediatrician Dr Lali Pataridze. Other characteristics are also found in children with autism; the presence of these signs should ring the warning bells for parents and significant

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elders of the child. These are: • Doesn’t make eye contact (e.g. look at you when being fed) • Doesn't smile when smiled at • Doesn't respond to his or her name or to the sound of a familiar voice • Doesn’t follow objects visually 62

• Doesn't point or wave goodbye

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• Doesn’t ask for help or make other basic requests “It is vital to remember that every child develops at a different pace. When it comes to healthy development, there’s a wide range of “normal” - so you don’t need to panic if your child is a little late to talk or walk, but if your child is not meeting the milestones for his or her age, or you suspect a problem, share your concerns with your child’s doctor immediately,” she continues. Below is a table that can help parents determine the telltale signs of possible autism in their babies:

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in focus: birth | early signs Below is a table that can help parents determine the telltale signs of possible autism in their babies: By 6 months

No big smiles or other warm, joyful expressions

By 9 months

No back-and-forth sharing of sounds, smiles, or other facial expressions

By 12 months

Lack of response to name. No babbling or “baby talk.” No backand-forth gestures, such as pointing, showing, reaching, or waving.

By 16 months

No spoken words

By 24 months

No meaningful two-word phrases that don’t involve imitating or repeating

Fear not, be brave for your child If you suspect that your child is under the spectrum, do not allow your fear to paralyse you from seeking help and early intervention. Seek help from a psychologist, a psychiatrist or a developmental paediatrician who specialises in the early detection of developmental disabilities.

There is evidence that at age two, it is possible to determine whether a child has autism or is just having some developmental delays. There are lots of assessors who are outstanding in their field but there are still some with a lot to learn.

Dr Pataridze says, “If your child is developmentally delayed, or if you’ve observed red flags for autism such as those listed above, schedule an appointment with your paediatrician right away. It’s a good idea to have your child screened by a doctor even if he or she is hitting the developmental milestones on schedule. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that all children receive routine developmental screenings, as well as specific screenings for autism at 9, 18, and 30 months of age.” The experience of the assessor is very important; if you are not satisfied with the assessment given to your child; do not hesitate to go elsewhere. Remember that correct assessment will result to the right treatment of your child.

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Dr Lali Pataridze, MBBS, MD Specialist Paediatrician Euromed Clinic 04 394 5422 www.euromedclinicdubai.com Understanding Autism Susan Dodd, 2005 Autism Spectrum Disorder in Infans and Toddlers: Diagnosis, Assessment and Treatment Katarzina Chawarska, Amy Klin and Fred R. Volkmar, 2008

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Summer Risotto

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Preparation time: 30 minutes (depending on pan and stove) 4 to 6 Servings

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3 to 4 cups of vegetable or chicken stock

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1 tbsp olive oil 3 tbsp butter 4 large shallots or 1 medium onion, finely chopped 1 clove of garlic, crushed ½ sweet red pepper, chopped 1 cup Arborio (risotto) rice 1 small zucchini, diced 2 medium tomatoes, peeled, seeded and chopped 6 tbsp grated Parmesan cheese Salt and freshly ground black pepper

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What to do: 1. Bring stock to a boil, then allow to simmer.

2. Heat the oil and butter in a large

frying pan and sautĂŠ the shallots and garlic for 1 minute.

3. Add the red pepper and cook for 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, until softened.

4. Add the rice and stir for 1 minute to make sure that it is well coated.

5. Add 1 or 2 ladlefuls of hot stock

and simmer, stirring, until it has been absorbed, then add another ladleful of stock.

6. Continue adding the stock a little at

a time and simmer until the rice absorbs the liquid before adding more, stirring frequently.

7. After 10 minutes, add the diced zucchini and the tomatoes.

8. When all the stock has been added and the rice is cooked, stir in the

parmesan cheese until melted and season

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to taste.

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summer special* raising a good child* thumb sucking*

in focus: toddler Fun and learning, a lot for tots!

Whether they are enrolled for a full semester or visiting a cool place one-time over the summer, toddlers these days sure are very fortunate to have all these choices!

Camp at the ‘Gym’!

My Gym Camp will run from July 1st to September 8th. Baby Camp especially created for children from 18 to 36 months will be on every Sunday, from 10.00 am to 12.00 pm for AED 150. Independent Camp (for kids 3 ½ to 8 years old) will be from 9.00 am to 12.30 pm for AED 200 a day and AED 850 a week. The camp provides fun and fitness learning through gymnastics, arts, crafts, cooking, science, story time and more themed activities that change every week. My Gym provides nutritious snacks and kiddie outfits for messy play too! Become a member now and get a discount, call 04 394 3962 or visit www.mygymuae.com

Every week, the Orange Tree Children’s Nursery in Bur Dubai will be taking the little ones to an Adventure Quest! Let them play ‘Everyday Heroes’ and ‘Splish, Splash Sports’. Have them go through ‘Science Adventures’, experience ‘Animal Antics’ and get busy at the ‘Kids Kitchen’. From July 1 to August 2, your toddler can do all that!

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It’s going to be an ‘Orange’ summer!

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Splash with dolphins!

Looking somewhere to chill during hot summer? Can anything be better than to jump into a cold pool with crystal clear, blue, sea water where real dolphins will surround and swim with you? This is a dream that can become true at the Dubai Dolphinarium – the first and largest indoor marine mammal facility, which is fully air conditioned and is located in the Creek Park – the second largest and one of the most beautiful parks in Dubai. Swimming and interaction with dolphins leave memories for a lifetime for both adults and children. This is one of the most fascinating experiences that we humans can have! And also, from the scientific point of view, it will help to get rid of stress, increases psychological stability and gives powerful charge of positive emotions.

Explore the wonders of learning!

The Willow Children’s Nursery encourages children to embark on a wonderful early learning journey all year round. Based on the Early Years Foundation Stage, they impart an holistic approach, encompassing the needs of the child through innovative and creative learning experiences. From July 1st to August 9th Willow Summer Camp will be in action with, mother, baby & child june 2012

of course, the 2012 Olympics as its theme! Travel around the world as they visit all the regions that represent each of the five Olympic rings!

Register at 04 346 5078 or willownurserydubai@ gmail.com

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Now, that’s my good child!

International Children’s Day June 1

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During the days of our grandparents, discipline tends to be imposed on a gender-specific way. In other words, there was a different set of rules for boys and another one for girls. Generally, discipline for boys was a bit stricter compared to that of girls since boys are believed to be more aggressive and rowdy and girls, sweeter, more sensitive and emotional. Even now, some families have a different set of rules for boys and girls. Sons and daughters were deemed good boys and good girls if they toe the line and follow parental instructions to the letter.

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CREDITS & REFERENCES: Dr Jessica Lee Clinical Psychologist Infinity – The Family Clinic 04 394 8994 Parenthood in America, An Encyclopedia Volume 1 Edited by Lawrence Balter

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Raising a Self-Disciplined Child: Help Your Child to be More Responsible, Confident and Resilient Robert Brooks, PhD and Sam Goldsein, PhD, 2007

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You have to want it to stop it

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It’s cute for the first few months that your baby has been doing it‌ But then it starts to feel awkward once the habit lingers. Thumb sucking is usually related to the child’s feeling of hunger, shyness, loneliness or even boredom. Thumb sucking by children less than one year old is considered normal and acceptable. It causes the salivary gland to pour out its content, thus moistening the mouth and even aiding in digestion.

The deed comforts the irritable child and helps put him to sleep.

However, that not all children older than one year do this.

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in focus: toddler | thumb sucking Show your child that you care...

Dr Lali Pataridze offer these tips that will make him or her want to quit – which is the most effective way to stop thumb sucking:

• Let her know that you love her unconditionally and that you want to help her out of concern for her well-being.

• Show her with a mirror what sucking is doing to the teeth, and point out calluses or crooked fingers that are related to the habit.

• Discuss any speech problems that may make it hard for others to understand her.

• Talk about the unhealthy aspects of putting a finger or thumb with “germs” on it into the mouth.

• Discuss hurtful comments made by others about the sucking behaviour.

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Dr Lali Pataridze, MBBS, MD Specialist Paediatrician Euromed Clinic 04 394 5422 www.euromedclinicdubai.com The Parenting Journey: From Conception to the Teen Years Gregory K. Moffatt, 2004 A Parent’s Guide to Child Care Dr Suresh Keshan, MD Advise to a Mother on the Management of Her Children Pye Henry Chavasse 74

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in focus: child Summer sizzlers for youngsters

The kids are finding their place in the sun – well, this season it’s quite literally. Let’s make it even more interesting for them, shall we?

Keep them healthy & protected!

Prevention is still the best protection against insect bites and stings. The Moustidose range offers various products to suit every child’s need. The baby cream repels insects and soothes stings. It is highly recommended for the sensitive skin of babies and children. The baby lotion repels most insects and also ideal for sensitive skin. Additionally, it possesses refreshing properties and pleasant smell. It prevents skin dryness too! Moustidose also has after stings treatments such as soothing gel for babies and sensitive skin, and soothing gel suitable for children over 3 years and adults. Not only does it help ease the sting, it also takes care of the skin by disinfecting it and keeping its moisture and nourishment intact.

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Make sure they are well hydrated with Elete electrolyte add-ins. It is essentially a liquid electrolyte concentrate that can be added to your child’s water, juice, smoothies or even food! It contains 4 key electrolytes (Magnesium, Ptoassium, Dosium and Chloride) pluse 60 trace elements in an iconic form providing one a balanced electrolyte mother, baby & child june 2012

profile that has been clinically proven to increase hydration. It is certainly great for kids who need stay hydrated during this sweltering season. Check out www.eletewater.ae to find out more!

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Have them travel in style!

Babyshop understands that kids as young as 5 years and older deserve trendy, functional and easy-to-bring travel essentials. Adding to that, parents deserve something reasonable on the wallet too! That is why they are bringing the ‘Happy Holidays’ promotion with a chic range of sling bags, hard top suitcases and trolley bags perfect for all those trips your family will be having! The collection is sure to fulfil all the family travel needs, with unbeatable value-formoney. The attractive assortment has been designed with care, for optimum comfort and safety, and style that will complement every

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holiday experience.

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Don’t forget the sunscreen!

Sunbow, the Nickelodean themed Children’s sunscreen is on a mission- to put the fun back in sun care; taking the difficult task of applying sunscreen to children and turning it into a fun, welcome, learning experience. Safety first though, Sunbow suncreens are manufactured with state-of-the-art technology and formulated with the health and well being of the child in mind. All products are SPF 30 and offer up to 97% UVA/UVB barrier without the chemical activity of known nasties Oxybenzone and Octinoxate- found in most sun care products. The solution is also PABA free, Pediatrician tested with added anti-oxidant protection and moisturising agents for extra-hydration. Now available at all Boots Stores near you!

Give opportunities to chill!

On June 16th, bring the whole family to Mazina’s Generation Creation at The Address Dubai Marina.

All budding pastry chefs are invited to pick up a piping bag and get creative at this Saturday family brunch. Kids can join you or your hubby for a funfilled afternoon and display their artistic talents using coloured icing and edible decorations. Prizes are at stake!

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Tough calls?

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(How to discipline your grade schooler)

Everyone has a unique personality, children included. Thus, an effective discipline for Jane may not work for Kate. Parents should be able to discern the best discipline method for their children but family values, morals and guidelines are fixed and non-negotiable. Young children all the way to pre-adolescents are quite challenging to discipline; because they are now exposed to outside influences and sometimes, peer pressure have a stronger impact on them. However, it will be easier to discipline your child if he or she is no stranger to parental guidance even 80

as a very young child. Raising a child properly requires making decisions, from the simple, ordinary matters to earth shaking concerns.

They’re older now Parents should remember that disciplining them require a different approach compared to disciplining a toddler or preschooler. Their interests and concerns are now more complex and the people they meet on a day-to-day basis are more varied. In addition, the school has greater demands on them, both academically and socially. To successfully discipline your

in focus: child child, look at the world with your child’s eyes,

honesty, integrity, respect for others,

not yours. Always remember that he or she is

and sense of responsibility to one’s self,

just a child, who gets confused, unintentionally

the family, and the community at large.

makes wrong moves and wrong decisions.

Whether they are toddlers, preschoolers, grade schoolers or teenagers, these

Your child is in the learning stage and will

values will not change or adjust to them.

undoubtedly make mistakes in the process.

He or she is not out there to make you angry

Relationship with siblings (older and

or miserable. What your child needs is your

younger). The child should be taught as

guidance. Remember also that there is a

early as possible, to respect their siblings

generation gap between you and your child

as well as their properties. They must

and you cannot hope to discipline them in the

understand that they cannot use their

same manner that you were disciplined by

sibling’s things (coloured pens, pencils,

your parents some 25 years ago. Although it

etc.) without their express permission.

requires great effort, parents must understand

They should also be taught about their

their children. Always give your child the

responsibilities at home and their share in

chance to explain himself politely. Never

the household chores.

deprive him/her of the opportunity to say his or her piece. In so doing, you will strengthen your

Responsibilities as a student. Your child

child’s faith in you. Remember, however, that to

has more lessons to study, projects to

be effective in disciplining your child, you must

submit, and extracurricular activities to

say what you mean and mean what you say.

attend to as compared to your toddler.

He or she should be taught early on that

Clinical psychologist Dr Jessica Lee agrees

he or she must pay attention to his or her

that communication is vital to make this

lessons and school activities first before

feat work. “Talking with children about their

your child can even think of playing

understanding of the world and their beliefs

or watching TV. Better yet, allow TV

is a great place to start. Children respond well

watching only on weekends.

to having their views and opinions respected.

Children’s attitudes towards certain topics will

Relationships with teachers, other

certainly change (and may change multiple

school authorities, classmates, and even

times) and this is a natural part of maturing,”

bus mates. A grade schooler goes to

she says.

a big school; he or she will therefore a day-to-day basis, starting with his/

Disciplining the grade schooler will be more

her teachers, classmates, bus mates

effective if there are no harsh words or tears.

and other school authorities. Respect

Basically, the discipline concerns for them

for others must be instilled in his or her

evolve around:

young mind. If he or she encounters problems with his/her classmates this

Observance of family values, morals and

should be discussed with the homeroom

guidelines. He or she must understand that

teacher at the earliest possible time,

there are family norms that are non-negotiable.

before it escalates further.

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encounter different kinds of people on

How to go about it

in focus: child | discipline firm but kind voice without any hurtful or angry remarks and the nature of the consequence fits the misbehaviour. “The type of discipline parents should reinforce depends on the causes and maintaining factors of the child’s behaviour as well as what the child finds rewarding. For example taking away access to a video game only works if the child is really into that video game,” she explains.

Many more concerns will crop up as days pass by. No parent can make a list of all the things that need to be taught their children, and refer to this list when problems arise. Every day is a learning process and daily, a nugget of wisdom is acquired both by you and your child. Your role, as the parent, is to love and understand your child and to guide him or her to become a responsible, reliable, and productive member of society. At the end of the day, as what Dr Lee Playtime and bedtime. He or she may be given time to play even for an hour or

advices: “Aggression is never an appropriate parenting technique.”

two to give him/her a chance to release all his/her pent-up energies. Bedtimes should be observed, to enable the child to have sufficient rest before starting another school

International Day of Innocent Children Victims of Aggression

day To add, “Basic ground rules of the house

June 4

should however be maintained regardless of the age of the child. Ignoring these because a child is going though an awkward period in development would only cause the child anxiety and increase household stress. Clear consistent boundaries and exceptions make

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children feel safe,” says Dr Lee.

Having them deal with consequences Should you need to impose a consequence as a form of discipline, make sure that they are related, respectful and reasonable. A related consequence has an obvious connection to whatever happed; it should be given out in a 82

CREDITS & REFERENCES: Dr Jessica Lee Clinical Psychologist Infinity – The Family Clinic 04 394 8994 The No Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good Behavior Without Whining Tantrums and Tears Elizabeth Pantley, 2007 Loving Discipline Diana Hayes, 1994

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Don’t let them fall prey...

It is a highly sensitive topic that not many of us are comfortable to talk about amongst ourselves, more so with our children. But Paedophilia is a condition all of us must be aware of for the sake of our children’s safety and overall wellbeing. Some parents may think it is too early to even give their kids a hint of what it is or how to address when they find themselves in such a situation. We have asked Zahra Hamirani, Esq., Founder of The Blossom Nursery and a US-trained lawyer admitted to the New York Bar, to better guide us in tackling this touchy subject. She has practiced in domestic violence and child abuse cases and is n advocate for the rights of children.

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Q: How is the topic of paedophilia relevant in our world today?

A: “Child protection is an often-overlooked topic and awareness of this must be raised.

Thank you for the questions, which deal with the sensitive topic of paedophiles – those who prey upon children. Paedophilia is deemed a mental disorder and the actions that result from this often are both illegal – considered child abuse and very damaging to children with lifelong repercussions for a family.”

Q: How do parents and the local community address this prevailing oppression (sometimes from the internet itself)?

A: “The Dubai Police have launched a campaign to prevent abuse of children under the theme ‘Violence against the innocent’, which is being organized by the General mother, baby & child june 2012

Department of Community Service and the General Department of Criminal Investigation of the Dubai Police in coordination with other 15 government and private institutions. While there are no official statistics of abuse in the UAE, there are a number of initiatives to help prevent it or create further awareness.

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can make “secret touching” look accidental,

helpguide.org/mental/child_abuse_physical_

and they should still tell you even if they

emotional_sexual_neglect.htm which highlights

think it might have been an accident.

warning signs of abuse. There is also a book

• Tell your children that touching problems

distributed for free in the UAE used to educate

are kind of like stealing or lying, and that the

young children to stay guarded against sexual,

people who have those kinds of problems

physical or emotional abuse. Titled Learn

need special help so they don’t continue to

to Say NO, the 24-page book has adopted

have problems or get into trouble. Don’t

a cartoon, activity format where children are

describe it as a ‘sickness’.

required to color visuals depicting potential

• Tell your children that some people try to

scenarios of abuse. Below each cartoon is

trick kids into keeping touching a secret. Tell

the lesson to be imbibed in a short message.

your children, ‘We don’t want those kinds of

Children must be made aware that abusers

secrets in our family.’

include not just strangers but also familiar faces

• Give your children examples of things

like drivers, neighbors, friends or even family

that someone might use to try to get them

members. Those interested in contacting Dr

to keep a secret: candy, money, special

McCarthy, the author of the book may call the

privileges, threats, subtle fear of loss,

Counselling & Development Clinic at 04 394

separation, or punishment.

6122.”

• Make sure they have support people they can talk to at home, at school, in their

Q: At the age of 5 to 10, is it reasonable to tell the kids that some young boys and girls are being victimised by perversion? Why and how?

extended family, neighborhood or church.

A: “Children must have a secure and safe

know that, if for any reason they cannot talk

person they can tell anything to and it is up

to you, they should call or go see another

to parents to establish this trust. The best

support person.”

Have them pick out three people and tell you who they are. Put the phone numbers next to your home phone and let them

here to help ensure children are aware of their

Q: How do they teach their children to avoid such a situation themselves?

rights. For example:

A: “Together we can help children avoid

• Use proper or semi-proper names for body

circumstances of abuse (like making

parts (penis and vagina), and phrases like:

them aware of stranger danger, internet

Private parts are ‘private and special’.

safety, saying no and being aware of what

• Tell your children that if anyone touches or

is allowed and not allowed) and with a

tries to see their private parts; tries to get

supportive and open family relationship you

them to touch or look at another person’s

can empower children to communicate their

private parts; shows them pictures of or tries

concern and get help.”

Some things you can do at home are noted

to take pictures of their private parts; talks to them about sex; walks in on them in the bathroom; or does anything that makes them feel uncomfortable to tell you or a “support person” as soon as they can.

REFERENCES: Zahra Hamirani, Esq. Chief Education Officer The Blossom Nursery

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WHAT DO YOU THINK?

When in public, how do parents address (when all else fails - raising voice, ignoring, threatening to be reprimanded) a toddler have a bad case of temper tantrums?

MOTHER’S POINT OF VIEW “It all depends on the training on the child. Before my daughter could throw into a big fit, I look at her in the eye and say: ‘Do you want Mum to get angry?’ And she will behave!

Haha! Maybe she sees thinks I’m the Hulk... But sometimes when she just won’t stop fidgeting, we will tell her if she does not stop her tantrums, we will go home pronto. It really depends on what’s driving the tantrum.”

Submitted by Jack Castro “Kids throwing tantrums in public could be the most embarrassing thing to happen and of course, will happen when you least expect it and at the exact place where tantrums are the worst thing that could happen. As a mother of two, I have learned about this the hard way, by going through it nearly everywhere, restaurants, libraries, the least embarrassment is at the mall though, thanks for the busy audience. I ended up with a strategy, when the tantrum starts. Rule number one: do not stand against it, no screaming, shouting or giving your child orders. Tolerate your child’s acts with patience like nothing is happening, then quietly mention a magical word to his or her ears, something like games, juice, ice cream, that special thing that will reach him or her no matter what.

Sometimes it could be just easier and all what the child need is a hug, and you to tell him that everything is ok. Always remember that kids are in a continuous search for care and attention, and sometimes this is their only way to drag more attention. My only advice is not to be affected with these tantrums, stay calm and always find a way to

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distract your child.”

in focus: child SPECIALIST’S POINT OF VIEW “Dealing with a temper tantrum in public needs to happen well before the toddler leaves home for the day. Parents need to prepare their child in advance of them leaving the house by telling them their expectations of behaviour. This may include a clear description of the consequences for misbehaviour. This not only helps the child to understand and prepare for the situation but also gives the parents confidence of what they will do in the event of misbehaviour.

When the child is behaving in a desirable manner then parents need to give praise. This will encourage the child to continue behaving in this manner. If the child is rewarded with attention for behaving well then behaving well becomes desirable. If the child misbehaves then the parent needs to swiftly act. Depending on the level of misbehaviour this may involve immediately enacting the consequence that they warned the child of before leaving the house or giving a warning of this consequence.

The strategy that is used by the parent to manage the misbehaviour is best chosen after analysing the cause of the child’s misbehaviour and what maintains it. If a temper tantrum occurs as a means of gaining the parents attention then rewarding good behaviour with attention and ignoring misbehaviour may be appropriate. If the temper tantrum occurs as a result of being refused a desired toy or other item then quite time or time out in the car may be appropriate.”

Dr Jessica Lee Clinical Psychologist Infinity – The Family Clinic 04 394 8994

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Ask Now! Q: “My son is usually a very friendly and happy child but his recent behaviour is disturbing me. Last week I had gone with him for an entry test into the nursery. He became very aggressive and wasn’t ready to leave me and enter the class.

He cried and screamed. There were many other children and most were sitting calmly. Even now, he is not willing to go to school as the classes start in September. I just want to know if this attitude is normal as maybe he does not want to be without me and what should I do to ease his fear?”

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in focus: child A: “It’s unclear why your child has some anxiety about separating from you; perhaps he is worried that something will happen to you if you are apart, perhaps he is worried about his own safety or health if you leave him. Most children feel some anxiety when they are first asked to separate from a parent. The good news is that if the child stays in the situation without the parent they start to learn that the things they are fearing do not in fact happen (and instead they often have a very good time). You might like to start by separating from your son for a short period of time in a mildly anxiety provoking situation and then building up from there with increasing periods of time.

If possible it might be an idea to visit the school a number of times before classes start. You might also try reading books about nursery and talking about all the fun activities that he will do as well as how you will drop him off but you will also pick him up again. Even driving past the school and waving and saying hello to it might make him feel more familiar with it.”

Dr Jessica Lee Clinical Psychologist Infinity – The Family Clinic 04 394 8994

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World Environment Day

both nurseries have been thermal

World Environment Day activities take

shielded in an attempt to reduce

place all year round but climax on 5

consumption of energy. Blossom

June every year, involving everyone from

has always employed internal

everywhere. People are called to take

staff development programs

action by organizing neighbourhood/

the importance of reducing,

of plastic bags, organizing collective

reusing and recycling. A recent

tree plantations and the list goes

initiative is “Green Bites”, a

on and on. The tradition started in

series of casual lunches where

1972 and the day is now an important vehicle through which the UN Environment Programme raises worldwide awareness about

healthy, watch videos and talk about “Greening” our lives.

Blossom has been recipient of

action. It is an important moment to step back

a number of awards, such as

i ch

Earth and more recently by DEWA energy. For Summer 2012, our

Caring for the environment is very personal at the Blossom Nursery. We

A

Believe

achievement award by Project for sustainable consumption of

children.

ev

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leaving on this world for our children and their

theme is “Save the Earth”. This caters to a larger understanding

ensure that our community (staff,

of the planet’s natural resources

parents, children and partners) is

and developing an appreciation

cognizant of this responsibility and that

towards conservation and

we have the power to become agents

biodiversity of Earth. We talk

of change by supporting sustainable

about the importance of growing

and equitable development. There are

our own groceries, making

a number of programs and initiatives

musical instruments from trash

that Blossom has undertaken to ensure

and saving energy. At Blossom

that it celebrates Environment Day

we Believe Achieve Become and

everyday for a cleaner, greener and

Think Green!

better future. Besides being the first education institution in Dubai that has been certified as carbon

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staff can come together, eat

the environment and encourages attention and and reflect on the carbon footprint we are

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beach clean ups, stopping the use

Mahira Chishty Zakiuddin Education Director, Blossom Nursery

believe, achieve, become A warm welcome to the Blossom Childrens Nursery, a secure and stimulating enviroment where each child will blossom. Blossom caters to modern families who require flexible, year round care and education for their children aged 6 months to rising fours. Our philosophy is simple believe, achieve and become. We want children to dream, work to fulfill their dreams & become all they can be.

us @blossomnursery us @theblossomnursery

• EYFS (British) Framework with Skygarden Sensory Curricullum.

• Smartbook Parent interaction program.

• Pool / Wetplay, Gardening, Music and Indoor Playgym.

• Letterland Phonics, Arabic, French and Weekly Dubai Drums sessions.

• Open All Year 7:30 - 6:00 pm with pick up options at 1pm/3pm/5pm/6pm.

• Fingerprint entry system and CCTV of the site.

• Healthy, hot lunch and fruit & veggie based snacks are all included for children 1+.

• Skillplay™ afternoons are teacher led programs that incorporate creative activity.

www.theblossomnursery.com | Blossom: 04 348 6275 | Blossom Village: 04 394 8847

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In 2011, we have visited more than 40 charities across four countries delivering over 15,000 books and toys to children in need.

Thanks to you, together we have brought thousands of smiles to their faces.

Perhaps your children have outgrown some of their favorite toys. Maybe there are some toys or books that were never among their favorites and aren't likely to be missed. Or, like some families, perhaps you and your kids have made it a birthday tradition to say farewell to a handful of yesterday's toys and books to make room for the new ones.

Today early learning centre can help you make the best use of your used toys and books by helping you to DONATE them to children in need!

Toy donations mean a less fortunate child has a warm teddy bear to snuggle up with at bedtime, a puzzle to enjoy on a hot afternoon, a ball to practice his football skills with in the park. Donating new and used toys and books is free, and sure to bring big smiles to the faces of little ones in your community.

Donate used or new toys and books to charity by visiting

early learning centre stores throughout UAE, Saudia Arabia, Qatar

and Oman. Our donation bins are clearly marked in our stores and easily accessible. Our staff will be more than happy to assist you.

For more information on our toy donation campaign, please visit our facebook (Early Learning Centre ME) or contact us by email: elc@kojamjoom.com

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By Cathy Beylo

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Bugs Mazes

By Fran Newman-D’ Amico

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(Author)

The cute tiny creatures are trying to find the ir way! Ground beetle wa nts to get across the table for that piece of cake.. . Stinkbug needs to clim b up the plants to get to those juicy tomato es. ..

Little Moth likes to ge t to the lovely tulips!

More of these insect friend s need your kid’s help.

Will you let them team up ? What is even more fun about this book is tha t he or she can use his or her colouring materials to add life to the page s!

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Little Farm Follow-theDots

By Barbara Soloff Levy (Author)

This book is the perfect way to teach your toddler the order of numerals and explore what a farm has! Each page shows a clue about the picture but for it to be revealed, he or she must connect the dots! Aside from the farm animals, your child will also know what are the different roles of the family who takes care of them. Here’s another reason to let your little one grow wild with his or her crayons and coloured pens!

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By A. G. Smith (Author)

Over thirty sticker images of crossing passengers, railway cars, porters, elements that signals, a water tank and more ion scene is make a busy country railroad stat It is a helpful . kids r what this book offers to you objects, vehicles, tool to teach your child identify can either and even colours! Then he or she the images or use the book itself the stick on bigger sticker her or have them as part of his collections!

Zoo Animals Dotto-Dot

By Barbara Soloff Levy (author)

It’s summer and going out to the zoo may not be a goo d idea just yet (with the scorching hea t and all). But that doesn’t mean your toddler cannot enjoy the “wildlife” espe cially with this connect-the-dot book!

Find them in their natural habitat – a tiger in the jungle, an owl on a tree bran ch and so on... Even more exotic anim als like the armadillo and camels are being introduced with short descripti on for each too... Plus, they can colour it!

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Train Station Sticker Activity Book

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Coming soon in UAE cinemas Madagascar 3: Europe’s Most Wanted 3D Directed by Eric Darnell, Tom McGarth and Conrad Vernon Featuring the voices of Chris Rock, Ben Stiller, David Schwimmer and Jada Pinkett Smith www.madagascarmovie.com The guys from the first two instalments of the film are now being joined by even more interesting (at times outrageous) characters from Europe! Meet Gia, Vitaly, Stefan and the ‘human’ Dubois... Their journey to the Big Apple has gotten them to a rather different continent where they have found the perfect cover: a travelling circus!

Winx Club 3D Magic Adventure Directed by Iginio Straffi

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The princesses are off to an epic adventure filled with magical and mystical creatures!Mums with little girls would definitely have heard about Winx Club (and perhaps the opening song of the cartoon show too).

Warning: It would be best to leave Daddy and the brothers to do their ‘manly’ stuff whilst you and the girls go to the cinema to watch this movie!

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New & upcoming DVD & Blu-ray releases Dora’s Explorer Girls: Our First Concert Wow! Dora has grown to be a young lady – and now an Explorer Girl in a whole new world! Her family from her hometown Puerto Verde as well as her new friends Emma, Kate, Naiya and Alana (aka the Explorer Girls) are set to add more spice to this adventure film. Find out how she and her group of explorers tackle both the mysteries of the world and growing up!

Cinnamon Directed by Michael Feifer Cinnamon is a cuddly Maltese puppy who simply adores her human caretaker, Madeline. The problem is, Madeline has crossed paths with the man of her dreams (Kevin) and soon the duo were whisked away to Hollywood along with his son. Witness Cinnamon as she discovers what ‘family’ truly means.

Engine Friends Flashback to the day Thomas met his best friend Percy for the first time!

Also witness how Edward helped save Trevor the Tractor Engine from being scrapped. And did you know that the unlikely duo Emily and Whiff first teamed up before ever call themselves real friends too? Engine Friends

Cat in the Hat: Miles & Miles of Reptiles Featuring the voice of Martin Short Dr Seuss’ Cat in the Hat offers new tales and tails! Cat’s slithery friends such as Ziggy Iguana and Gecko have some tricks up their scales. One can turn light when hot, the other can disappear and re-appear right before your very eyes!

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Hello kids! Do you know which of these cutesy toys can create music? Grab your crayons and encircle them with RED crayons! For those that don’t make music, encircle them with BLUE crayons! Have fun!

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A piano is a musical instrument that usually has 88 keys – of which 52 are white (sometimes made of ivory) and 36 black (sometimes made of ebony).

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mama & me - events POST EVENT SPECIAL! Mums make ‘net time their me time’ Mums attended Pampers’ first of its kind ‘Mommy Blogger Academy’ in the UAE where they were introduced to the blogging field, their own blogs and learn the secrets to ongoing online success. The educational workshop held at Baker and Spice encouraged new mothers to find their own way to express themselves and maintain contact with the outside world by teaching them to create their own blogs.

The gathering was led by famous beauty expert, blogger, and recent mom, Huda Kattan, where she

to issues related to their day to day lives and their children’s well being. At Pampers we believe in the power of online communication and the ‘Mommy Blogger Academy’ creates the platform for mothers to share their experiences and advice to all mothers out there.”

Huda Kattan, editor of HudaBeauty.com, shared her expertise about being a mom and managing her blog. “It’s so important for every mother to have some time for herself. As a mother, it’s natural to get caught up in your baby’s life, but every mother should always remember to do something for herself. Setting up and running my blog helped me maintain some independence after my child was born and

I encourage every mother to find her own gave an introduction to blogs and their value today, passion and start to blog about it”, said addressed common misconceptions and illustrated Huda. the different ways blogs can be used. She also

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During the interactive educational session, attended by several mothers, Mrs Suhad Hawamdeh one of the attendees said, “The idea of a blogger academy is highly motivating for working mothers and those who want to achieve something for themselves, plus it is a great way to spread the culture of blogging in the region.”

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DubaiMum’s Creative Coffee Morning The Dubai Mums are widening their reach – this time at the Dubai Marina area! The lovely ladies have recently partnered with Super Dooper to offer Creative Coffee Mornings every Wednesday. Mums are now given the chance to express their artistic side or simply mother, baby & child june 2012

to unwind by means of painting ceramics. They need not worry about their kids too as dedicated staff from Super Dooper will keep them preoccupied and well entertained as well...

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Mother, Baby & Child magazine headed down indoors!

“Mummies & Munchkin Mini Market” being run by Dubai Family & Friends in Jumeirah Beach Residence was held last June 2nd, from 3.00 to 6.00 pm. There were several stalls including Melanie Gissing’s collection of Maddy & Eva children’s clothes collection as well as her ladies fashion line. Carole from Good Habits was giving tips on how to lose weight in a healthy and sensible manner with her own diet book. Brill Kids introduced an excellent range of educational learning aids for kids from USA for parents to teach their children by Brill Kids distributer for UAE, Zoraida Cao. Children and little tots played in the Family & Friends play area equipped with the latest toys and books and activity centres, whilst the mums and dads were browsing at the different stalls which had an array of merchandise. Lots of mums who have set up their own mini successful businesses and mini enterprises show cased their stalls for mums and kids which included: Dmompreneurs (a small group of ladies in the community who have set up their own brands and franchise businesses themselves under this name) which include: jewellery

by Rustic Tinge & Fashion affair, health & beauty by Oriflame from Sweden as well as Sweet Celebrations (gifted sweets & chocolates), other mini businesses such as Keerti Kreations plus

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Hamleys Inter School Be’ati Watani Quiz contest Over 900 students participated last April 21st to qualify for the Semi Final round of the quiz competitions.

With over 1,000 students signing up, the Inter School Quiz contest by Hamleys for the Be’ati Watani online environmental program by the Emirates Wildlife Society in association with WWF has garnered the highest number of registrations for an environmental quiz. Mother, Baby & Child Magazine was one of the esteemed exclusive media partners. The event is under the Patronage of Sheikh Mohammed Sports & Physical Fitness

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food for the soul* health & wellbeing* women of the month* editor’s pick* kitchen magic* book-worm me* horoscopes*

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The ‘balancing act’: Attaining a balanced mind, body and soul through motherhood Just when you thought all the tasks to maintain a harmonious home and keep each member of the family in tiptop shape is all to it, you’d find out that striking an ideal balance as a mother ought to come from within. Now it may take an extra amount of effort for a beginner, but Pranic Healing and Yoga is set to vitalise your entire system – getting you ready for any challenge being a mum may pose.

aims to balance the body, mind and soul – thus helping us vibrate off the frequency of optimum health.” Meaning ‘vital life’ in the Vedanta philosophy, practicing it revitalises and helps the energy flow to several body parts and meridians.

Yoga, on the other hand, was developed from being initially designed for young men to remove excess energy before meditation into a practice for all. It gives a certain awareness of one’s body, stretches the muscles and is a gentle workout for mind, body and soul too...

She also explains how these two practices

Holistic coach Elise Bou Malham defines

can benefit a woman through every stage of

Pranic healing as “an energy medicine that

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• Receiving Pranic healing on a regular basis from a certified practitioner is

conceive

essential for conception.

• It also prepares women on a spiritual level, especially now that they are ready to receive life.

• Engaging in a balanced yoga with an accredited practitioner can bring many benefits that will help ease the effects of pregnancy.

During Pregnancy

• Pranic healing or general energy work during pregnancy is not advised.

The mother’s energy shifts and changes while she is with child to support the growing foetus, thus it is not wise to channel massive amounts of prana into the body especially into the lower chakras that drastically change size and proportion during pregnancy. An experienced practitioner can continue practicing energy healing in a gentle way in the prenatal phase because she is less exposed to congestion hence someone who has never tried energy healing before is not advised to start especially in the first trimester.

• As in all sports, it is advised to practice prenatal Yoga only if you have been a regular yoga fan before pregnancy which is not considered as a good time to start. Some yoga asana are potentially dangerous for pregnant women, per example positions that demand lying on your back might block the blood flow to the uterus thus cause miscarriage. It is inevitable to note that a Yoga teacher is neither a prenatal caregiver nor a medical expert and therefore cannot determine, if a pregnant lady is unease during the session, whether her symptoms are dangerous or not.

• On a brighter side, for those who have been practicing yoga before and during pregnancy, this practice may help with the breathing, with widening the pelvis and strengthening the legs as well as stretching essential muscles needed for delivery.

Whilst recuperating

• The postnatal phase is extremely different from the prenatal one. During

from giving birth

this phase, a mother’s body requires a proper healthy routine to heal and regenerate especially in the area of the perineum and uterus.

• Pranic healing helps keep the lactation healthy, helps with the energy flow to the uterus thus accelerates the healing and assists the mother is coping with her new life!

• Yoga is equally effective in that stage since it represents a gentle workout shedding the excess and old energy.

Throughout

• It is advised to continue practicing energy healing as well as different types

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of yoga, which will help with stress management, coping with life changes, staying fit and healthy but can also help greatly in keeping the mother infant bond strong and healthy!

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Behind these mumtrepreneurs... are THEIR MEN There is a saying that goes: “Behind every great man is a woman.”

And it’s more often true than not, is it? That men who lived with immense purpose, whether the world stops to take notice or not, are those whose passion is further ignited by the women in their lives. But let us not forget those who, aside from pursuing their dreams, are also their wives’ greatest supporter and biggest fan as they follow their own...

Most, if not all, mumtrepreneurs have nothing

naturally strikes that balance. But we have men

but kind words to say about their loving

who do it perhaps just as good.

husbands. As fathers, these men are their ‘parenting partners’. And now that these

Over the course of our publishing life, Mother,

strong women have taken over their own

Baby & Child Magazine have seen men like them

enterprises, their husbands transform into

– through the wonderful words of their wives, our

‘business partners’ too. When she is too busy

mumtrerpeneurs...

with her entrepreneurial affairs, he makes life easier with the kids and other more ‘manly’ chores. When she needs to switch back to her private self, he sees to it that it is with him that she is feels most at ease. We say that we, as wives and

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“I am blessed to have the love, total support and understanding from my husband.”

- Elaine Stannard, Mumcierge

mama me time “I don’t have a business partner or anyone

She shares her ‘secret weapon’... “a fantastic

to have a meeting with – that’s where my

husband who parents with me on a 50/50 basis!”

husband excels. He is always ready to listen

- Melanie Gissing, Melanie Gissing Art, Maddy &

and offer support.”

Eva and Melanie Gissing Design

- Lesley Cully, Buckle Up in the Back

“My husband David has been my biggest support and I could not have made it this far without

“We have been putting things together

him.”

through research and investigation since the

- Juliette Alexander, Lovelinks by Pastiche

last eight years and finally got on this project since December last year. My husband had

“I am so lucky to have a husband that is both my

worked with me side by side for this project

business partner but also is willing to do anything

to come true and has always inspired me to

from fixing flooding toilets to changing electrics.”

go the extra mile.”

- Zahra Hamarini, The Blossom Nursery

- Tora Khasgir Borhani, Elixir Health & Wellness Spa

International Father’s Day 3rd Sunday of June

tickle me funny!

“Last week my

family and I went to Al Barsha Pond Park.

We were enjoying the beautiful day when suddenly my son Abdel Rahman who is 3 years old call me and said: “Mummy, the slide is so fun!” while laughing hilariously! I couldn’t stop laughing too. His daddy found this just as funny until... We saw that my son is already peeing his pants! He got very excited and that is the very reason why my two boys had burst out laughing! “See Mummy, you made me laugh too hard it may me pee,” he teased. He is just so cute, trying to playfully give the blame. Expats like us in the UAE have to have a time to slow down... My husband and I find relaxation in spending time with our son, enjoying the day and watching him grow with our love. It’s always nice to have a funny moment like this!”

Shiela Rizza Arciaga “My twins are growing up to be totally independent minded, but sometimes childishness still finds a way to creep in... Just last night Chloe (the ‘younger’ twin) was asking her twin sister to lie down beside her. Charm felt obliged to do so.

Chloe then requested that Charm hugs her... As they are in separate beds that were just moved side-to-side, Charm was already trying a little too hard to please her sister when Chloe said, “Can you take off this bar so you can hug me properly?” Charm retorted: “I’m not a fairy to grant all mother, baby & child june 2012

your wishes!” Of course we had to laugh silently but let the two understand that they have to give and take... This time, Chloe has to give her ‘older’ sister A BREAK! (Laughs!)”

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They amaze. They entertain... And dolphins do heal!

Have you gone to a dolphin show with your kids? You sure have noticed their eyes beaming with excitement. With every trick, they are bedazzled as well as in awe. Did you begin to feel that immense joy yourself? Somehow there is that feeling of being transported back to your childhood days, isn’t it? Back to those days when simple things give you delight. Have you gone to an adventure and be around a dolphin or two in the water? The sight of them up close is just magical. At that moment, you are equals.

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Aside from the entertainment value that these magnificent creatures give us, science has proven that they possess this healing property simply by having them around humans.

“It has been well documented that people experience miraculous and spontaneous healings when around dolphins,” says holistic coach Elise Bou Malham. “These amazing creatures are known for their joyful, soothing energy they project and for their kind nature which has incited many to study their healing capacities,” she continues Founder of Illuminations Well-Being Center, Soniyaa Kiran Punjabi, agrees: “Dolphins have healing properties. That is why when people are in their presence, they feel lighter and more energised. The vibrate energies on a different frequency.” The presence of dolphins helps through their ultrasonic wave production and through the connection between our electromagnetic field and theirs which provide a positive energy transfer.

Scientific studies show the following effects of being exposed, in close proximity or in an interaction with dolphins: • Chronic patients claim that their pain levels automatically decrease and the body starts healing.

• Dramatically reduces stress and alleviates depression • Helps people with Down’s Syndrome, autism, ADD, muscular dystrophy and spinal cord injuries • Boosts the production of infection fighting T-cells • Stimulates the production of endorphins and hormones • Aids cancer patients Do people have to be in the water with the dolphins to experience its therapeutic benefits? As water is an excellent conductor, a positively charged water can accelerate the healing tremendously. Dolphin healing practitioners submerge themselves and their clients in the sea or the pool with the dolphins to receive an assisted healing and compound the capacity of the practice. Whilst Soniyaa believes that one has to be physically around dolphins to acquire the positive energy they emit, Elise believes that people who do not have access to these aquatic mammals can benefit from their sounds. “Sound is a fundamental part of life , thus playing a sound recording of sea and dolphin sounds is highly therapeutic especially when in meditative state and while visualising swimming with dolphins simply because the brain doesn’t not recognise the it can achieve’,” she explains.

So the next time you and your family take that trip to the dolphin show or dolphin adventure destination, take it as an opportunity to be more in tune with yourself and grasp the positive energies as much as you can!

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difference between imagination and reality hence the term ‘what the mind can perceive

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Eco Zen Health Tip

Eco-friendly water works • Rather than drinking sparkling water, drink still water instead. This is because still water digests much easier – avoiding bloating and the development of cellulites.

• To make plain water taste more inviting, you can add some fresh lemon or lime juice rather than a sugar-filled cordial.

• It is easier to drink water at room temperature than when chilled.

• You can opt to filter your tap at home to make it taste better and balance the mineral content. It is more eco-friendly than buying bottled water.

• Mild dehydration can make you feel dizzy, weak and more prone to headaches. Rehydrate and drink at least eight glasses of water (each containing 200 ml/7fl oz) every day.

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Mind & Body Tip Massage during pregnancy

Many expectant mums will find it very difficult to lie on the stomach for any period of time by the fourth month of pregnancy. And, generally, it isn’t a wise idea to lay flat on your back during the latter part as this may make you feel light headed and the weight of the foetus can restrict the circulation and cause a tingling sensation in the legs.

With the proper position and a well-trained therapist, a massage is useful for the following reasons: • Massaging the legs counteract the effects of oedema, varicose veins and tiredness. The legs and the arms may be treated with your body in a semi-supine position or sitting in a comfortable chair.

• You can be seated, leading forward with cushions for support to have you back massaged.

• For a variety of ethical reasons, however, massaging the abdomen is not a good idea. The most a therapist can do is apply oil with light effleurage strokes.

Also, be clear and concise with your instructions!

Source: The Essential Guide to Holistic and Complementary

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Holistic Motherhood Tip Music for you and your family

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he reason we are so receptive to music is simply because we are made of it as Dr. Candace Pert says:” Even DNA has its own melody. The musical nature of nuclear matter from atoms to galaxies is now recognized by official science.” Ambient music should be an essential part

of a family’s life since it brings the following benefits: • Reducing stress level through balancing the hormones.

• Enhancing communication between family members.

• Keeping the physical frequencies healthy • Music helps with the development of Motor Skills.

• Easing the perception of Chronic pain • Setting a positive mood around the household Music therapists all around the world acknowledge the many benefits of music education whether it is playing an instrument or engaging in therapeutic voice work. Members of the family, adults and youngsters are advised to consider taking part in musical routines for the following reasons: • Early musical training helps develop parts of the brain responsible for languages and reasoning.

• Playing music helps develop a thinking pattern which is linked to mathematical analysis.

• Music students have been proven to be exceptional problem solvers thanks to increased imagination capacity.

• Music education forms an inter-cultural bridge which enhances empathy and compassion for other races and cultures.

• Music studies help with the development of team-work playing skills.

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People of the Month

Jenny Ashton t has always been ‘Passion’ that drives a

The economic downturn however had also

dream to become reality. Dreams may have

affected them, prompting a move to Dubai

been growing inside since childhood or they

and her husband to work in Abu Dhabi.

may just surface far more recently with the

While many of us would have thought that

intensity just as much. What is essential for

the impact of the crisis would have gotten

them to find their way in this world is that

the best of those who had to go through this

with determination you can make it happen.

horrendous time, Jenny proves that there

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are those who see an opportunity instead Jenny Ashton a former Travel & Tourism

of a failure. It was actually just last year

professional and entrepreneur rediscovered

that she went back to working fulltime and

herself and made yet another dream a

that was when she realized just how tough

reality with her most recent feats. For over

it could get for women, especially mothers,

four years, Jenny, her husband Ian and their

to be part of the rat race – more so if they

daughter Maya have called the United Arab

ought to venture into a business of their

Emirates their home…away from home.

own. This made her long for that ‘bond’

Motherhood had impacted her so much that

she used to have with other women and

she liked sharing this journey with fellow

came up with a new goal, which is to help

mums in Sharjah (where her family spent their

other women entrepreneurs find a platform

first couple of years in the country). She then

where they can promote their products and

accepted the role of running the Sharjah

services, and so DubaiMums was founded. A

Mums & Tots group for this reason.

coffee morning community for women about women offering an opportunity to share

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Manager of Globaleye International Wealth Solutions and her schedule as the Founder

Leaving her previous background behind, she

of DubaiMums. Whilst DubaiMums raises

embarked on a new career, which has traditionally awareness of what brands are out there for been dominated by men – financial management women - creating exposure for companies, and consultancy. Back in the UK, financial

Jenny offers sound advice to the rest of

advisers would normally visit your home and

the populace as a commendable member

explain what they do. Somehow their words

of Globaleye. DubaiMums, which has just

often wouldn’t meet expectations. In the UAE,

celebrated their first anniversary on May

this kind of service is much needed now more

11th, has already diversified into offering

than ever. The fact that women are usually not

women’s creative coffee mornings at Super

comfortable sharing their financial concerns to a

Dooper and family time at Extreme Fun.

male financial consultant combined with the need Needless to say, her financial consultancy for getting the right advice paved the way for an services see a brighter future ahead with the enormous opportunity for Jenny. “There is a very number of women who are in need of that large hole in the market in this region and I would warm yet strategic method that only a few like to be there for women to provide the right

women can deliver.

information which is much needed,” she says.

And how does she do it? She says: “You She underwent training and educated herself in

have to define what you are passionate

the field. Last year she earned her qualification

about. You are not limited only to one

on financial planning and became a member of

industry. With passion, perseverance and

the Chartered Insurance Institute – proving that

strength, you can adapt to do anything

it is never too late to learn new things and reach

you want. For me, that is giving advice to

new heights. Since she joined Globaleye as a

people, establishing connections and giving

Wealth Manager, Jenny has helped men and

good service. I love engaging with people.

women alike address their financial affairs. A

The hard part to any endeavor really is

Managing Director noted her ‘personal style’ in

having passion in the first place”.

delivering her duties as a financial advisor. Cold calls (and approaches) aren’t her thing. Her

Such passionate words from

honesty, hard working attitude and sincerity

a very passionate woman…

come across when she delivers her professional wealth management advice. “As a financial adviser, I allow people to gauge whether I can be trusted or not. I want them to see if I can make situation over coffee, they soon realize that I can add value to their future financial plans. It gives me great satisfaction in the knowledge that I can achieve this,” she explains.

Jenny juggles about 60 hours as a Wealth

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a difference. If after we sit down to discuss their

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Amelie Campsey and the SENSES Residential and Day Care for Special Needs When a restaurant we fancy closes down, some of us feel distressed – even sad.

When our favourite bookstore suddenly stops its operations... Or perhaps when our favourite boutique is having its final sale before moving to a new location, we couldn’t help but feel like suddenly there’s a hole somewhere...

But when we hear about a facility looking after children with special needs at the brink of shutting down, are we giving the same degree of concern? Do we even wonder why it is going out of business? Or think how you can help stop the impending closure? Amelie Campsey did... Moreover, she had gone through lengths to make a difference.

Family and professional life had always been what kept her busy. Married to an Englishman and blessed with a three-year-old son Theo, the half-Moroccan and halfFrench lass is now leading a business development team of a French multinational company. Far back in her early teenage years, she had involved herself into charity missions, fund-raising events benefiting orphanages in East Africa and Nepal and educational programs in Sikkim, India. “It is only when I joined the Rotary Club of Jumeirah, an organisation focusing on community service that I realised how crucial it was to work on continuity and follow up of charity actions. I then, through and thanks to mother, baby & child june 2012

Rotary Club, discovered SENSES, which needed serious and sustainable support,” she says SENSES, the only residential and day care centre for special needs in the community, welcomes children whose families are not able to cope with their condition either financially or emotionally. Forty-three of the eighty-six children live in the centre and benefit from a round-the-clock care. “When I visited the centre for the first time and met

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That is when she began to appreciate the costs that keeping such a facility entail.

The staff of sixty-five ought to be paid for their services. The equipments have to be updated and maintained. Medical check-ups with specialists come with fees. A healthy diet, especially for children, requires only the best of ingredients (which, of course, one has to buy). She adds. “Shocking fact: Some kids could have to take medicine costing up to AED 10,000 per month!” Since then, Amelie has given 100 percent commitment and engagement to SENSES. Although solicited for various social & environmental projects, international and local initiatives mainly as a Director of Community Service for the Rotary Club of Jumeirah, she has given most of her time in the service of these “extraordinary” children at SENSES. Amelie and the team behind the SENSES Residential and Day Care for Special Needs did not just stop at their tracks and offer concern to these children – they actually given the most important gifts these young ones can ever have: TIME, EFFORT AND CARE. Amelie believes that everyone, even mums who have got their arms full, can follow their lead: “A drop in the ocean can make a difference, so every individual action is worth it. Being busy with motherhood and everyday life usually means we are blessed enough to give back to the community. Yes, it could be quite challenging to mingle between work, children and a charitable project…But it is absolutely worth it. For the cause, of course, but also for yourself and your family: What a better role

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model you would want to be?”

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Habiba Al Marashi A true leader is a visionary. She feels the pulse of the future in her fingertips. She has enough courage to make decisions even when they seem unpopular at the time and is humble enough to stay at the background when the accolades and praises come pouring in. She can see a vast, magnificent garden when others can only see a tiny shrub; she can envision a barren land when the rest of the world sees nothing but a lush, prosperous piece of earth. She is not afraid to work hard; she could be a tenacious and hard-hitting negotiator yet a loving, tender wife and mother who cares for her family with all her heart and soul. She is a trendsetter, a go getter, a dreamer, a worker… Most of all she does not rest on her laurels but continues to work, harder and more passionately, to further her cause of saving the environment. One such magnificent woman is named ‘Habiba’.

H

abiba Al Marashi is the founding member of the Emirates Environmental Group (EEG).

Begun in 1991 with just 12 members, EEG, a non-government organisation devoted to protecting the environment through the means of education, action programs and community involvement, now has more than one thousand two hundred members (individuals, corporate groups, schools, colleges & universities, government and international institutions). Since its inception in 1991, the EEG has organised a variety of public education foray and community-based activities aimed at increasing social awareness on day day-to-activities that impact on the environment. EEG is at the forefront of Recycling Campaigns and Clean up Drives.

EEG’s recycling campaign covers paper, can, battery cell and mobile phones. Since the 1990s EEG has recycled 9,115,782 kg of paper; from January to Sept 2011 it has collected 161,908 kg of aluminium cans (mostly from Dubai); and from 2006 till September 2011, 5,388 kg of battery cells.

EEG has also teamed up with Nokia and since the 2000s till late 2011 it has collected and turned over to Nokia (for recycling into new

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that in addition to helping clean the environment,

imagine where these items would now be

the clean up drive brought together people

had EEG not come into the picture!

from all walks of life, race and creed to work side by side, in the process fostering a sense of

And who could forget EEG’s cleanup

camaraderie and fellowship.

campaign? The Clean Up UAE campaign is part of EEG’s contribution to decrease

Before she got involved in the environment

the country’s carbon emissions and

and helped set up the Emirates Environmental

eventually its per capita footprint. The

Group, she was working in administration and HR

Campaign likewise brings awareness to

in the UAE government. “Though I enjoyed my

check one’s lifestyle in order to reduce

responsibilities there, I did realise that my true

wastage and our demand for resources.

passion lies elsewhere. At this point of time, my

“The main reason for the trash,” according

children were young and I spent a lot of time with

to her, “without a doubt, is the high

them, watching them grow. It is imperative that

levels of waste production in the country,

a mother is part of a young child’s life as this is

which is one of the highest in the world!

when the strong bonds are forged. I am thankful

Consumption of goods in this country is at

that I could spend this time with my children and

its highest and ‘use and throw’ seems to

be successful as a professional too.”

be the policy of the day. We, the people of the UAE, are to blame for this mess as

When asked what inspired her to venture

we are the ones who go on consuming like

into the conservation and preservation of

there is no tomorrow. Waste management

the environment, Habiba shares that her

and education regarding waste is

inspiration came when she was a small child

imperative if we want to avoid over-

looking after their backyard garden, as well as

consumption as a nation. This situation

her upbringing on solid Islamic teachings. This

affects us all, health wise, resource wise,

inspiration grew into a great affection for the

etc. Thus, it is a vicious cycle, which must

country’s environment. Habiba believes that this

be dealt with immediately.”

inspiration was inspired by her parents, who were about the

in December 2002 and was held

environment and

simultaneously in 4 Dubai, Sharjah, Ajman

their surroundings.

and Abu Dhabi. Over time, the campaign

They made her

has become a national initiative that

and her siblings

went beyond the boundaries of religion,

understand the

race, nationality, gender, economic status

importance of

and the like. Today, it is considered as

reflecting on their

a unified campaign that welcomes each

actions and working

and every member of the UAE society

towards a more

with open arms to work for environmental

sustainable use of

preservation and conservation. In 2010,

resources in their

EEG working in tandem with members and

lives. “Growing

volunteers was able to collect a massive

up with such an

100 tons of waste. It is uplifting to note

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so considerate The Clean Up UAE Campaign began

mama me-time | women of the month the environment and the region has fuelled my

Nations Global Compact (UNGC), and brings

efforts to reach for sustainable development.

to the Arab world the projects they organize

My journey with EEG, that began two decades

on a global scale. Apart from this, EEG also

back, started off at a time when the environment

supports the efforts of its sister organization,

was not a popular or fashionable subject to talk

the Arabia CSR Network, in promoting

about or advocate. However, I am lucky to have

sustainable and Corporate Social Responsibility

feisty and determined individuals by my side who

among companies and the private sector in the

managed to transform this scenario to what it is

UAE and the wider Arab world..

today,” she says.

On a personal level, Habiba is one of the The EEG encourages parents to bring about

founders of the Emirates Green Building

a sense of awareness and civil consciousness

Council (EmiratesGBC) and serves as a

among their children and this must begins at

Treasurer to the council. She also held

home. Little things like turning the lights off

the position of a board member of the UN

or closing the tap are as important as signing

Global Compact since 2006 and successfully

environmental petitions and being part of the

completed her term in December 2011 but

global process. Our Green Goddess shared

retained her position as the President of the

with us a very interesting trend that they have

UN Global Compact Local Network for the

noticed during their Education for Sustainable

GCC States. She was also elected as the

Development Program. The students who go

representative for Civil Society Organizations

back to their homes after programs like the Inter

in the Global Reporting Initiative (GRI)

School & Inter College Environmental Speaking

Stakeholder Council based in the Netherlands.

Competitions or the Students’ Workshop, discuss

She is also on the advisory committee of the

with their parents how they want to be involved.

FDNV Certification Advisory Board for the

The tables seem to have been turned as it is

Middle East and accepted to serve as a Board

now the youth who are successfully bringing the

Member of the Dubai Customs Consultative

adults forward to be part of the environment

Council and a member of the Patronage

strategy of the EEG..

committee of Myclimate – an international climate protection organisation based in

Habiba declares that “EEG is lucky and thankful

Switzerland.

to have a proactive membership base consisting of students, parents, companies, government

But Habiba knows that – alone - her efforts or

officials who are truly passionate about the cause

those of her colleagues alone will not suffice to

of environmental protection.”

sustain their campaign to conserve and protect

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the environment. As an affirmation, she invites Our Green Goddess has her plate full. As

you, our dear readers, to participate in the

Chairman of the EEG, our Green Goddess is

process as it is our world and the responsibility

also involved with all the programs of several

of protecting it cannot belong to only a handful

international organizations including the

of people.

United Nations Convention for Combating Desertification (UNCCD), International Union for Conservation of Nature (IUCN), United Nations Environment Programme (UNEP), and the United

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by Jan D’Sa

rt 1) a P ( G IN G G BLO

The other day, I caught the movie ‘Julie Julia’

Everyone has a blog these days, whether they

on TV. The movie is about how a former

use the blog as a personal diary, as a portfolio,

editor turned 9-5 employee tries to find

or for business purposes. A couple of weeks

excitement in her life. She turns to blogging

ago, Wordpress.com stats showed 406,042

about the one thing she loves – food. She

bloggers, 775,871 new posts, 1,443,773

adores Julia Child, a well known American

comments, & 175,373,581 words posted on

chef and TV personality, and she decides to

its platform. So, amongst all these blogs (and

run a blog marathon where she undertakes

not to forget blogs hosted on Tumblr.com,

to cook all the recipes in Julia Child’s first

typepad.com and blogspot.com to name a

book in a year. She blogs everyday about

few), how can people find out your blog, if

each recipe that she has tried. She persisted

that’s the purpose?

even when the going got tough.

What she doesn’t realise is that her blog

(To be continued next month)

and she eventually starts to get media attention. Of course, she didn’t blog just so as to get attention, but because she had something to share with the world, while sticking to her passion.

Jan D’Sa is a published writer, mixed media artist-designer of Janys De and is the Founder of the CulturalArtsTravelogue.c om , an online lifestyle portal focusing on the creative arts, for the creative connoisseur in you.

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starts to gain popularity amongst the readers

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KITCHEN MAGIC! Summer isn’t just all about what you do outside, it’s also about what you take in!

Take advantage of the fruits and veggies in season... And make the most of what’s in the garden! This special salads edition of Kitchen Magic is brought to you by Yes Chef!’s Managing Director Scott Crowley.

Citrus Walnut Salad 1/2 cup walnut pieces 8 heads Belgian endive (about 2 1/4 lb.)

1/2 cup firmly packed fresh parsley leaves 2 red grapefruits, peeled and sectioned Cumin, Dijon vinaigrette (see below)

1.

Preheat oven to 350°. Bake walnuts in a

single layer in a shallow pan 6 to 8 minutes or until toasted and fragrant, stirring halfway through.

2.

Remove and discard outer leaves of

endive. Rinse endive with cold water, and pat dry. Cut each endive head diagonally into 1/4-inch-thick slices, and place in a serving bowl. Add walnuts, parsley leaves, and desired

Cumin, Dijon vinaigrette 1/2 cup extra virgin olive oil 3 tbsp white wine vinegar 2 tbsp Dijon mustard 1/4 tspground cumin 1/4 tsp salt 1/4 tsp sugar

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amount of dressing; gently toss to coat. Top with grapefruit. Serve with any remaining dressing.

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Spinach and Strawberry Salad 1/4 red onion, thinly sliced 2 (6-oz) bags baby spinach 1 (16-oz) container strawberries, quartered 1 (4-oz) package crumbled blue cheese 1/2 cup sliced toasted almonds

1.

Toss together red onion and next 4

ingredients in a large bowl. Drizzle with balsamic vinaigrette; sprinkle with salt and pepper to taste.

Balsamic vinaigrette

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Salt and freshly ground pepper to taste

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Three Colour Cous-Cous Salad

Dressing 1 rounded tbsp

200g cous-cous 2 tsp vegetable stock (or use a cube) 250g pack cherry tomatoes , halved 2 avocados peeled, stoned and chopped 150g pack mozzarella , drained and

pour over 300ml boiling water, then cover

chopped

with a plate and leave for 5 minutes.

handful rocket or young spinach leaves

pesto

1 tbsp

lemon juice

3 tbsp olive oil

1.

2.

Mix the couscous and stock in a bowl,

For the dressing, mix the pesto with

the lemon juice and some seasoning, then gradually mix in the oil. Pour over the couscous and mix with a fork.

3.

Mix the tomatoes, avocado and

mozzarella into the couscous, then lightly stir

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in the rocket or spinach to serve.

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Cumin Chicken Avocado Salad 2 tbsp olive oil 1 heaped tsp ground cumin 1 heaped tsp mild chilli powder 4 skinless boneless chicken breast fillets 400g pack cherry tomatoes, halved if large 1 red onion, finely chopped 4 Little Gem lettuces, separated into leaves 20g pack fresh coriander 3 avocados, peeled and thickly sliced 6 tbsp Caesar dressing (ready-made dressing is fine)

400g tin red kidney beans, drained and rinsed

1.

Mix the oil and spices in a large bowl, then

use the mixture to coat the chicken. Pan-fry the chicken (without extra oil) in a large nonstick frying pan for a few minutes each side.

Toss the tomatoes into any spiced oil left in the bowl, and then add them to the pan.

Cover and cook for 5 minutes more until the chicken is cooked and the tomatoes are warm and starting to soften.

2.

Meanwhile, toss the onion, lettuce,

coriander and avocados in the Caesar dressing handfuls of the beans and scatter with the tomatoes. Slice the warm chicken and pile on top. Serve with crusty bread or crunchy tortilla chips.

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and pile onto a large platter. Top with small

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Editor’s Pick: In Focus -

Dining

Shanghai Chic, Ibn Battuta Gate Upon entering the Ibn Battuta Gate, I was totally bedazzled by the intricate designs to depict the life and times of the traveler Ibn Battuta. The hotel itself is a beauty – Moroccan in its entirety, with themed floors based on the travels of the iconic voyager. China is one of his destinations, and Shanghai Chic must be yours too! The interior design of the restaurant fits every occasion… Whether you are in an intimate date with your hubby, out for an Asian cuisine fix with friends or even with the whole family, there is certainly a spot for you.

The high ceiling is being complemented by long stemmed lamps. As we were scanning the menu, we were surprised at how reasonable the prices are especially in such a ‘chic’ place.

The highlights of our main course were the signature Wasabi Prawns (a signature dish of the chef), Crispy Peking Duck (complete with pancakes, pickle veggies and sweet Hoi Sin sauce) and the Barbecue Pork Ribs (succulent to the bone).

Do not, and I repeat DO NOT, leave with trying their desserts.

Whilst we were there, we had Taro Puffs and Fried Ice Cream.

Needless to say not only were the kids the only ones who enjoyed this part of the experience, we adults sure did too!

Definitely worth going even when you’re coming from the other part of Dubai or farther!

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For more information and bookings, call 04 444 0000

Top tip:

There’s a possibility for the place to be a bit dark for a baby or a toddler.

Children from a grade schooling age may start to appreciate the modern Eastern (and a little velvety-heavy) vibe of the place though.

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g n i n i D Ashiana, Sheraton Dubai Creek Hotel & Towers It is not award-winning for nothing – that I have proven myself.

For someone whose Indian cuisine know-how is limited kebabs, chapattis and biryanis, Ashiana really has been a revelation. The restaurant itself gives off this elegant atmosphere, with stately columns, lovely paintings and murals and dim lighting. The service from the staff had that distinct and genuine warmth, even offering tidbits of information about each dish being served which we found very useful as first timers. A live band playing traditional Indian music made our experience even more special. The sitar player entices us through the instrumentals, as well as the percussions and keyboard. The vocalist entertained the buzzing crowd with his soothing voice and renditions of Indian melodies. We truly savoured every dish – over 10 of them! It is really tough to pick our favourites.

But let’s see... For starters, the juicy lamb kebab was the total knockout – the best I’ve had. For the main course, the Tandoori Lahsuni Jheenga (Jumbo prawns marinated in carom, brown garlic and spiced yoghurt), Subz Nizam (Stir-fried vegetables) and Saunfiya Murgh Biryani (Basmati rice with chicken) really sealed the deal. For desserts, I’d say it was the Angoori Rasmalai (cow’s milk dumplings poached in saffron and cardamom flavoured milk) and the Pista Kulfi (Indian ice cream flavoured with a hint of pistachio). Signature Ashiana cocktails are also available. For that night, I had their Tall & Dandy mix which gave a kick in the taste buds. The dinner was a complete thrill... We felt like a Maharaja!

Top tip:

You don’t have to be a ‘spicy eater’ to enjoy their flavours. Simply request a mildly spicy version of your chosen dish. Ashiana definitely offers a great cultural trip for the family!

Quality: Service: Ambience: Value for Money: Mother, Baby & Child says...

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For more information and bookings, call 04 207 1733

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Dining

Casa Romana, Hilton Al Ain A romantic feel welcomes couples who are to dine in this Italian restaurant. It offers a very cute and friendly vibe too for families who crave for pizza, pasta and more. The venue is ornamented and dimly lit – reminiscent of the streets of Italy. Authentic Italian flavours are certainly to be had at Casa Romana!

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For more information and bookings, visit alain@hilton.com or call 03 768 6666

Top tip: Make sure you

try any of their pasta dishes. If you know your Italian cuisine, you’d understand why!

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Hilton Al Ain It is said that the Hilton Al Ain stands for four decades as the great Sheikh built it to be the venue of his beloved son’s wedding – making it the first of its kind in the emirate. This oasis in the heart of Al Ain is a modestly sized family-oriented hotel.

Three pools – one with bar, another for doing laps and for the kids – offers refreshing recreation for all ages. Swimming instructors are on duty; they can also be commissioned to teach the children how to swim too! Families are best to get their 1-bedroom suite which has spacious hall for the children to lounge around. Two airy balconies overlook the lush greeneries. Their Hiltonia Resort & Aquatic Club offers a thrilling range of sporting and fitness activities. Not one member of the family will ever get bored here!

The hotel is currently embracing the times, an old wing as well as a new renovated wing offer a pleasant contrast to the guests...

For more information and bookings, visit

Quality: Service: Ambience: Value for Money: Mother, Baby & Child says...

Top tip: If your nanny is in tow, you and your hubby can sneak past bedtime and chill-out at the Makani Cafe where they also offer entertainment via a widescreen television.

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alain@hilton.com or call 03 768 6666

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Spas

Spa choices around town!

It could really get tiring with this heat. So here’s the lowdown of all things relaxing and refreshing this month!

Where: Jebel Ali Golf Resort & Spa What: Weekend Day Spa Treat Get this: The Enjoy a 60-minute Swedish, European, Thai or Balinese massage or Foot Reflexology at The Spa at the Jebel Ali Golf Resort & Spa every Friday and Saturday. Plus take advantage of a complimentary lunch buffet at La Fontana Restaurant and pool and beach access, all for only AED 495* per person.

Our smaller guests (aged three to seven) also gain complimentary access to the CoolZone Children’s Club to give Mum or Dad some peaceful time out.

For more information and reservations, call 04 814 5810 or e-mail thespa@jaihotels.com Where: The Address Dubai Marina What: Triple your indulgence Get This: Indulge in the tranquil ambience of The Spa at The Address Dubai Marina. Our relaxing facility offers the mother, baby & child june 2012

ultimate way to ease stress from your mind and body and restore your natural balance with our pampering treatments and therapeutic aromatherapy. Get 30% off on your first spa treatment, 40% off on the second and 50% off on your third spa treatment.

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Spas What: Tea of Spring Spa Package Get This: The Spa at The Address Dubai Marina introduces a luxurious treatment ‘Tea of Spring Spa Package’ that offers guests the revitalising effects of tea focusing on the regenerative quality of white tea, the stimulating attribute of black tea, soothing properties of red tea, and antioxidant potentials of green tea. The treatment commences with the Nepalese Tea Exfoliation, followed by the Singapore Massage, and concludes with the Green Tea Facial.

The therapeutic experience of tea can continue at home with a complimentary Themae Organic Face, Body, and Hair Oil, infused with extracts from tea, upon purchasing two Themae products.

For more information and reservations, call 04 436 7424 or email spa.dubaimarina@theaddress.com

Where: The Spa at Shangri-La What: Spa at a Steal Get this: Purchase any spa treatment during June and receive another treatment for half price. Why body massage for 50% discount.

For more information and reservations, call 04 405 2441

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not try our signature caviar facial and book your

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Spas Safar Spa, Ibn Battuta Gate Stressed out and feeling beat up from strenuous activities at home and at work? It’s time to rest your mind and allow your body to relax and rejuvenate at the Safar Spa, Ibn Battuta Gate. The hotel in itself offers a calming feel, a feast for the eyes. As you reach the level where the spa, wellness and pool area are located, an inviting sense of tranquillity engulfed my psyche. Not long since I got there I was invited to the treatment room, passing by a hall of modern and cultural elements (white vertical lights on the wall, candle on the opposite side, abstract art piece and woven curtain). Once inside the room – which was very chic and modest in size - the therapist kindly instructed me to change into my treatment outfit and a few moments to get in tuned to the place. The therapy of choice was the Deep Tissue Massage which was a combination of shiatsu, Swedish massage and foot reflexology techniques. Generally, it is a remedial sports massage which focuses on big muscle groups and excellent for tired and overworked muscles. And address my tensed shoulders, back and soles it did. The pressure was hard enough to untangle the knots but not too hard for it to feel uncomfortable.

The scalp and foot massage were both worth noting as I rarely snooze during a review...

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For more information and bookings, call 04 444 00 01 or email at spa.ibnbattuta@moevenpick.com

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Top Tip:

This one’s perfect for hotel guests an d residents around the area.

Ask Genie

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Q:What is Aromatherapy and how do the oils used in it benefit us?

Genie answers...

Aromatherapy is a technique that uses the

Peppermint - Serves to relieve headaches,

body’s sense of smell to help boost your mood,

enlighten the mind matted. On the skin,

relieve stress, energise and encourage better

peppermint oil is used to relieve skin

health. It’s also used to treat certain emotional

irritation and itchiness and also helps to

and physical conditions. When you use these

reduce skin redness, where inflammation is

wonderful essential oils in the correct blend for

present. It gives a cooling effect. Further it

massages, baths, diffusers and even personal

nourishes dull skin and improves oily skin.

perfumes you will begin to benefit from the use

Eucalyptus - Eucalyptus helps to boost the

of aromatherapy.

immune system and relieve muscle tension.

Some of the famous Aromatherapy oil and

It reduces the itch from mosquito bites.

scents that boosts your health and mood are

During muscle and joint pains, massaging

Lemon - Lemon is used with a variety of

eucalyptus oil on the skin surface helps in

ailments, such as athlete’s foot, flu and colds,

getting relief from the pain. The volatile

as well as varicose veins and warts. It also helps

eucalyptus oil is analgesic and anti

in stomach acid balance and reduces cellulite.

inflammatory in nature. Therefore it is

It is astringent and detoxifying in nature, and

often recommended to patients suffering

rejuvenates dull skin. Its antiseptic properties

from rheumatism, lumbago, sprained

help in treating pimples and various skin

ligaments and tendons, stiff muscles,

disorders. Lemon is also

aches, fibrosis and even nerve pain.

recommended for

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s n o l a S

Don’t just feel... Be the beauty across the emirates!

These sizzling salon promotions will certainly make you leave the house this June!

Where: Angel’s Touch Beauty Salon, Dubai What: Summer Package Get this: For only AED 80, you will get a complete blowdry, manicure and pedicure package! Perfect when going to cocktails with friends, attending a five-star event with hubby or simply when taking a stroll in the mall with the whole family!

What: Sunny days and Mondays Get this: Angel’s Touch certainly won’t let you down! Avail any services to the value of over AED 50 and pay half the price! Why don’t you book for a mother-and-daughter pampering getaway – double the beauty at the price of one!

For more information and bookings, call 04 323 5505 or email info@moonsgroup.com

Where: Sangita’s Marvel Ladies Salon, Sharjah What: Body Treatment Package Get this: Look flawless as ever for less! Avail of their synergy hair spa treatment and full body wax

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and automatically get 20 percent discount!

For more information and reservations, call 06 559 0098/050 3020943 or email sangita_sharjah@yahoo.com

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book-worm me Tales from Shakespeare Mary & Charles Lamb

The younger generation and adults alike would find the siblings’ retelling of twenty of Shakespeare’s timeless especially for children, it actually captivates all ages with Hamlet, Macbeth, Romeo and Juliet, Taming of the Shrew, As You Like It and more...

Not that Shakespeare’s writing isn’t a masterpiece in every way, but Mary & Charles Lamb had simplified the plot and language whilst incorporating some of the original speeches. Some of the interpretations offer an interesting peek and reflection of the time when the two authors have collaborated in making such a wonderful compilation.

What is left when the puzzling rhymes of olden days and taxing requirement for comprehension? Twenty beautiful stories that will charm its way to your heart!

The Secret Letters of the Monk Who Sold His Ferrari Robin Sharma

We sure are old enough to be reminded of the basic values we as morally-upright beings should possess, or are we?

The story is about a man named Jonathan Laundry – an industrious automobile designer who couldn’t seem to strike the balance between his work and personal life. That was until his cousin Julian prodded him to travel around the world. In each stop, he was to collect talismans – each teaching him lessons that could make him save his family whilst being successful. And these talismans taught him the following: the power of authenticity, embrace your fears, live with kindness, make small daily progress, choose your influences well, life’s simplest pleasures are life’s greatest joys, the purpose of life is to love, stand for something bigger than yourself and to lead your best life, do your best work...

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classics. Although written

mama me-time The Indigo Children: Ten Years Later Lee Carroll and Jan Tober

An Indigo Celebration: More Messages, Stories and Insights from the Indigo Children Lee Carroll and Jan Tober

From the bestselling authors of

The authors aim to educate

The Indigo Children comes with

its readers about these Indigo

this follow-up book about these

Children. Over the years, what

“extraordinary children”. It is a

have become of the notion

good read for both a believer

of these kids are possessing

and a sceptic. For one, it opens

psychic abilities and dark blue

our minds to a new school of thought. That

auras. If this is what you think of

some kids may just be misunderstood when

them too... Well, this book is made especially

in fact they are “Indigos” – a generation of

for you. Now that some have grown to be

youngsters essentially coming from another

teenagers now, won’t you be curious to know

plane to emancipate mankind. Thus,

what have become of them? The book tackles

they find it hard to blend in or conform.

what approaches toward the Indigo Children

The book offers new ideas about them,

have worked, and what haven’t. Why not being

although not in the conventional order we

able to fully understand them may result into a

all have got used to. Parents whose children

dark future – that of violence and aggression.

share the same trait may now find a reason

And why, if given the proper attention and

behind their behaviours and will then find

consideration, they could serve their purpose to

this a very helpful tool in understanding

change the world for the better...

them. Perhaps they would want to share the same with their kids’ teachers too!

The Karma Handbook: Reincarnation and Healing Trutz Hardo

This handbook encourages its readers to understand the Karmic law and its effect in the present life. From this understanding, as the author believes, emits wonderful results – some of which will be experienced immediately. The Karma Handbook, first introduces the concept of reincarnation

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age...

Pisces February 19 March 20

Aries March 21 April 19

Shopping for your loved ones is such

It’s summer and you are sporting your

an irresistible thing, isn’t it? What

inner light – don’t think nobody notices!

with the upcoming Father’s Day and

Thanks to Pluto and Saturn which is giving

summer vacation of the kids – you just

you that positive energy. Things are going

can’t help but spoil them all! Good

smoothly, but with a lot of changes. Not to

thing is you’ve got budget for it, even

worry, though, as they are all in a good way.

with a little gift for yourself. Moving

Rest assured that they are all for the best.

to a more permanent place to live in

Some may not agree with the path you are

may also be part of your things to do

trekking. Consider their feeling but also trust

this June.

in your own discernment. Make sure your

Taurus

Gemini

April 20 May 20

May 21 June 21

You may be feeling the ‘heat’ more

It’s been some time since you’ve

than you think you could bear. The

started mapping out your future with

pressure at work or even at home

your hubby. And it seems that you

may be sucking the energy out of

will double this planning during the

you. You may well be able to keep

greater part of this month. Events

things slow until the 21st. Afterwards,

which had transpired have led you to

you will be feeling rejuvenated once

the choices you are to make now. Trust

again. Whatever duties that may come

in your capabilities and that of the ones

financially would be just right for you.

involved in the end product. Don’t

You are well prepared this month.

forget to have that ‘quiet time’ with him...

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family is right behind you on this.

horoscope

Cancer

Leo

June 22 July 22

July 23 August 22

June couldn’t get much better for you, Mummy! Romance in summer?

Achievements at work? Your wishes granted? Would be great to live for the moment! Towards the end of the month, it’s time to snap back and focus on to the future. Before you know it, you are reaching newer heights. If you want something so bad, the universe will conspire for you to

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get it... Believe!

The business you have been toiling away. The job you’ve been devoting yourself into. Or the mathematical process that you’ve been teaching your little one will be reaping its rewards before the month ends. Find a (or start finding) a time where you can take a break and escape from the busy life you are in. Set out for a peace and relaxation fest. Searching for ways to pay forward will be a good stress buster too!

Virgo

Libra

August 23 September 22

September 23 October 22

Busy bee, are you? Going to and fro

Perhaps you have just bided farewell

several places will be your life this June.

to the single life a few years back.

There is a lot of energy that you have

Now, your commitment to both your

been harnessing from within. Just make

marriage and motherhood is being

sure you take some stops from time to

renewed and made stronger. And it’s

time as any ‘battery’ needs recharging.

going to be a very wonderful feeling!

Catch your breath and enjoy quality time

Whilst at this state, you have to set your

with your hubby and kids. If you say “No

attention on budgeting and more ‘stuff’

can do...” well why don’t you try mixing

for the future, with your significant

business with pleasure?

other of course. Something to make things easier and lovelier, indeed!

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Scorpio

Sagittarius

October 23 November 21

November 22 December 21

You may be the big boss at work or in an

Don’t you miss those days when you

enterprise of your own. Organising ought

creativity reigned in your veins? Well

to be your strong suit thus month. With

who says you can’t go wild with your

so much to do (especially as the kids’

creative streak once in a while now

school year is about to end or already

that you’re a mum? Grab that stash of

have) and so little time, you have to

oil paints, or that guitar you’ve been

streamline your activities and delegate.

keeping away from your children’s

You need your energy for those tasks only

tiny hands. Also find a way so you can

you can do – say ‘mothering’? Sometimes

enjoy spending time at work, especially

a ‘We Time’ is much better than a ‘Me

because you will be in their a little

Time’.

longer by midmonth.

December 22 January 19

Aquarius January 20 February 18

Financial planning is what you are going

There are tasks you have to keep up

to be busy with for until around the 15th.

with. So you better fasten your seat

And it the most important thing you’ll

belt as things will happen in lightning

ever do for the month! School year has

speed this month! It is easy to lose

just ended and plotting your budget

your perspective given this situation

in time for the next should be done

but there’s no use with you getting all

now. Your savings may lead to better

frantic. So try as much as you can to

opportunities, like purchasing a property

tackle one matter at a time. Out with

here or back home. Security with money-

the old, in with the new – that’s what

matters also offers enough peace of mind

your home will be during the second

to keep the romance going.

half of the month.

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